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Angel Reese Catches the Culprit, The $5K Stay-at-Home Debate & Does Joy Taylor Actually Hate Men? · Two Personal with Joy Taylor

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  Speaker 1: The culprit was not getting out of the building. If
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  Speaker 1: you've seen the videos of him, he's an incredibly tall
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  Speaker 1: ginger man. He was not blending into anybody who's crowd
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  Speaker 1: or getting out of there without being caught. You want
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  Speaker 1: her to show up as she appears on her own
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  Speaker 1: with her own money, and that maintenance is expensive.
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  Speaker 2: Especially now. Do I want to go down this rabbit
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  Speaker 2: hole right now? This might not Hayley.
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  Speaker 1: I just said that I would make them dig their
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  Speaker 1: own death pit and then spar to kick these bitches
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  Speaker 1: in it. Hey, guys, welcome to Personal. I'm Joy Taylor
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  Speaker 1: alongside Halee. Were doing full names. Just Haley, just Haley.
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  Speaker 1: Do you know how to.
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  Speaker 2: Oh you don't know how to say it?
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  Speaker 1: How do people say it? Oh?
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  Speaker 2: Man, there's very variations. Wolffuck wolf fork, there's no R,
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  Speaker 2: there's no U.
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  Speaker 1: It's literally spelled woolfolk.
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  Speaker 2: I tell people it's a compound word.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna go with Hailey alongside Hailey, who's usually
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  Speaker 1: on the other side of the desk. Thanks for joining us.
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  Speaker 1: Play as well. What's going on this week?
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  Speaker 2: Well, first, I want to talk about Thursday's game, the
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  Speaker 2: Atlanta Dream. Last, Oh yeah, the dildo that was thrown
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  Speaker 2: onto the court. Yet once again, our girl Angel pointed
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  Speaker 2: out the culprit. You were at the game.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, I will say Angel did point out the culprit,
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  Speaker 1: But the culprit was not getting out of the building.
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  Speaker 1: If you've seen the videos of him, he's an incredibly
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  Speaker 1: tall ginger man. He was not blending into anybody's crowd
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  Speaker 1: or getting out of there without being caught. So what
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  Speaker 1: happened was me and my sister and her wife were
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  Speaker 1: enjoying the game. We see this green dildo like fly by.
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  Speaker 1: I turn around see him starting to run like he
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  Speaker 1: like kind of did like one of those like bouncy
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  Speaker 1: things like for a second, and then took off like
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  Speaker 1: he didn't like immediately see pick up running and so
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  Speaker 1: I stood up called him a bitch, bitch ass motherfucker,
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  Speaker 1: hoe ass whatever. Yeah, of course, Uh my sister gets
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  Speaker 1: up and is doing the same thing. He's like two
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  Speaker 1: rows away, so he's like just just out of reach,
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  Speaker 1: like just far enough away that I couldn't grab his
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  Speaker 1: shit if he was close.
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  Speaker 2: Can you imagine, yes.
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  Speaker 1: Of course, I imagine. We talked about it for the next
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  Speaker 1: fifteen minutes. How if he was closer, I would have
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  Speaker 1: got like three or four good womps on him, just
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  Speaker 1: like a good wamp womp, like right in the dick.
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  Speaker 1: I would have physically assaulted this man for sure, And
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  Speaker 1: I know my sister would have. And her wife was like, yo,
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  Speaker 1: chill to both of us. She's like, you guys are
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  Speaker 1: being so pits. We're greg now, it's so embarrassing. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: please sit down, we're gonna get kicked out. I was like,
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  Speaker 1: we're not getting kicked out of anywhere. Like he's a
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  Speaker 1: hoe and he needs to be called a bitch, so
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  Speaker 1: we're standing out wa wa wah wahp you a bitch?
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  Speaker 1: Lah lah lah. Yeah, he runs up the steps the security.
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  Speaker 2: I gotta say, were they in shape, because you know,
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  Speaker 2: sometimes he accept it right.
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  Speaker 1: Up heine whoop, right up there got him. Okay, the
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  Speaker 1: guy was not getting out of there. You saw it,
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  Speaker 1: Like he's probably like six' three or something and like full.
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  Speaker 1: Redbeard he was. Not he was not getting out of the.
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  Speaker 1: Arena but, yeah it was everyone started booing. Him it
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  Speaker 1: was really a. Scene and then of course we had
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  Speaker 1: to immediately start breaking down what just happened because it
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  Speaker 1: was just a crazy. Situation it's.
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  Speaker 2: Insane, Men why are they ruining? It just ruining everything.
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  Speaker 1: The same things men don't ruin much shorter. LIST i
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  Speaker 1: you know the thing about the whole dildo, situation and
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  Speaker 1: then again it happens again at The chicago sky, game
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  Speaker 1: and now you Have nis bitch Ass canter showing up
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  Speaker 1: at The chicago Sky game again and antagonizing the.
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  Speaker 2: PLAYERS i would have lost my shit on the.
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  Speaker 1: Core, well they did lose their. Shit he's there to antagonize.
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  Speaker 1: People at this, point this whole like dialed so Trans
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  Speaker 1: ennis And royce, conversation it's beyond. Silly at this. POINT
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  Speaker 1: i can't And i've been very angry about. IT i
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  Speaker 1: tried to avoid talking about it from the, jump and
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  Speaker 1: then no one would shut the fuck up about. It
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  Speaker 1: now it's just, LIKE i can't even take you guys.
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  Speaker 2: Seriously almost punched him in the, day so you have
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  Speaker 2: to talk about.
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  Speaker 1: It, well, YEAH i definitely would have punched. Him LIKE
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  Speaker 1: i know everyone Thinks i'm, joking BUT i believe in
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  Speaker 1: violence AND i would have definitely punched. Him the thing
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  Speaker 1: about this whole, conversation like this whole toxic bullshit is
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  Speaker 1: that it's my original point THAT i made on my.
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  Speaker 1: Video men are doing this claiming that they're trying to protect.
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  Speaker 1: Women how is throwing dildos at women at work protecting.
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  Speaker 1: Women how is showing up at their work and antagonizing
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  Speaker 1: them and trying to get them to argue with you protecting?
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  Speaker 1: Women not at? All how is this about PROTECTING.
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  Speaker 2: I don't get. IT i do not get. IT i
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  Speaker 2: cannot wrap my head around it because.
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  Speaker 1: There's nothing to, Get, like it's not a. Thing. One
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  Speaker 1: there are no trans people trying to play in THE.
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  Speaker 1: WVa i cannot say this enough BECAUSE i feel like
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  Speaker 1: that fact has to be stated to emphasize how fucking
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  Speaker 1: dumb this conversation. Is there are no trans people who
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  Speaker 1: are trying to play in THE. Wnba let's go through the, journey.
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  Speaker 1: Right there would have to be a transfer ah, un
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  Speaker 1: one trans person trying to play in THE WVa for
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  Speaker 1: this whole hullabaloo to even make, sense and there is not.
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  Speaker 1: One so they're, like, well we're worried about the, Future
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  Speaker 1: so you're worried about a person who has to be?
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  Speaker 1: Born then decide that they are trans, right go through
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  Speaker 1: harm and replacement and transition. Surgery play basketball in high,
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  Speaker 1: school play basketball in. College be big, Enough be a
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  Speaker 1: big enough man because for some, reason y'all all, think
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  Speaker 1: y'all six motherfucking four get the. Average be a big
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  Speaker 1: enough man to cause problems in THE. Wnba be a
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  Speaker 1: good enough basketball player because some motherfucking, reason y'all all
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  Speaker 1: think you're FUCKING wnba players.
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  Speaker 2: Crazy that's two decades from, then get.
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  Speaker 1: Drafted then THESE wnba teams that are owned by billionaires
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  Speaker 1: who tend to be conservative are gonna draft this imaginary. Person,
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  Speaker 1: meanwhile there's no fucking food to. Eat everything is. Recalled
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna shit your pants if you eat a fucking.
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  Speaker 1: Blueberry all the farms are shutting. Down, okay people don't have.
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  Speaker 1: Gary indiana has no fucking. Power you can't afford to
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  Speaker 1: buy a, house you can't afford. Gas your kids are
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  Speaker 1: getting taught by teachers that don't want to be. There
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  Speaker 1: what the fuck are you worried? About what are you
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  Speaker 1: worried about a trans person that doesn't? Exist for And
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  Speaker 1: i'm supposed to take this fucking. Seriously i'm supposed to
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  Speaker 1: act like y'all aren't fucking. Idiots you're. Dumb send them
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  Speaker 1: all to an. Island this is WHY i can't be in.
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  Speaker 2: CHARGE i mean with you have a point.
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  Speaker 1: Though the DAY i put in, charge mass executions. Mass Huh,
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  Speaker 1: Mass i'm making all of them dig an endless pit
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  Speaker 1: and Then i'm kicking all of them in. It Spec,
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  Speaker 1: sparta this Is, sparta, bitch pull up your social media.
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  Speaker 1: Pit they better not ever let me in. Charge what's
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  Speaker 1: the first thing you would do if they put you in?
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  Speaker 1: Charge because everyone's, like, OH i would find out about The?
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  Speaker 1: Aliens i'm digging a. Pit what WOULD i?
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  Speaker 2: Do the very first? THING i? THINK i definitely want
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  Speaker 2: to know about the alien all the conspiracy. THEORIES i
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  Speaker 2: need the.
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  Speaker 1: Truth you need the, book AND.
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  Speaker 2: I need to it's gonna. DO i want to go
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  Speaker 2: down this rabbit hole right. Now this might Not.
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  Speaker 1: KAYLEY i just said THAT i would make them dig
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  Speaker 1: their own death pit and Then sparta kick these bitches in.
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  Speaker 2: It, OKAY i would want IF i was in, CHARGE
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  Speaker 2: i need, well there's no there's this is. Impossible, actually
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  Speaker 2: WHAT i was gonna, SAY i need fucking proof with
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  Speaker 2: This bible shit BECAUSE i want who.
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  Speaker 1: Like what do you, mean, like, like is The bible? Real?
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  Speaker 1: Yes oh it's. NOT i solved it for. You it's.
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  Speaker 2: Not but LIKE i want like to you, know tangible.
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  Speaker 1: PROOF i have a book for. YOU i have a
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  Speaker 1: book for. You it's gonna it's gonna ruin your ability
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  Speaker 1: to take religion. Seriously but it's do you know about
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  Speaker 1: The book Of? Enoch? No do you know about The
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  Speaker 1: council OF? Crimea? No, Okay, yeah The bible is not.
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  Speaker 1: Real it's uh like is it a physical? Book, yes
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  Speaker 1: it's real in that, way but like a bunch of
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  Speaker 1: men got together and decided what was going into The.
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  Speaker 1: Bible and then the reason we have versions of The
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  Speaker 1: bible is because they go back and they're, like we
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  Speaker 1: don't really like how that's, written so we're gonna change
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  Speaker 1: it so we can justify oppressing this group of. People
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  Speaker 1: and that's how The bible.
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  Speaker 2: Work AND i need that to be like. Public everyone
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  Speaker 2: it is understands it it, is.
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  Speaker 1: But they just they Love jesus more than they love.
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  Speaker 2: REALITY i NEED i need.
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  Speaker 1: To well that. That that's that's the. BUNKED i don't
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  Speaker 1: get really mad at people BECAUSE i know it's they
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  Speaker 1: really you, know it's very important to. THEM i can
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  Speaker 1: give you those books if you. Want if you you
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  Speaker 1: read too, much it's not gonna it's gonna upset.
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  Speaker 2: YOU i don't upset If i'm ready for. That not
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  Speaker 2: on the birthday, week that's.
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  Speaker 1: True these birthdays only a few days. Away, specs what
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  Speaker 1: are you doing if you get if they put you in,
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  Speaker 1: charge what's the first thing you're? DOING i need all PROPER.
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  Speaker 2: I can. Probably, oh, oh that's very, Good spec.
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  Speaker 1: Said he wants all of the black inventions to be
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  Speaker 1: given their inventors to be given their proper. Credit that's very.
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  Speaker 1: Positive you are so much better of a person than.
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  Speaker 2: Us YEAH i.
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  Speaker 1: Am i'm killing off a, great like great large group
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  Speaker 1: of the population. IMMEDIATELY i will be known as a.
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  Speaker 1: Tyrant that's so much. Better, good good for, you you know.
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  Speaker 1: What we needed to end that conversation on a high.
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  Speaker 1: Note thank you for doing. That was very good of.
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  Speaker 1: You he wants all the black creators to get their proper.
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  Speaker 1: DUE i agree with. That it would not be the
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  Speaker 1: first THING i would, do, THOUGH i feel LIKE i
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  Speaker 1: would be counseled to do something positive after killing off
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  Speaker 1: all the.
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  Speaker 2: Idiots, yeah you'd have to do like ten positive.
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  Speaker 1: THINGS i, SUPPOSE i suppose i'd go on a positive
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  Speaker 1: run after the death, pit WHICH i still feel like
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  Speaker 1: IS i feel like it's that? Positive but, YEAH i
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  Speaker 1: guess people would disagree what else we got going?
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  Speaker 2: On so there's been some chatter. Online it's been a
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  Speaker 2: discussion about women, who if they are, home don't have to.
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  Speaker 2: Work their partner man in this particular, instance is taking
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  Speaker 2: care of all the bills and giving them set. Allowance,
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  Speaker 2: right what's the proper? Allowance? Right so our friends club
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  Speaker 2: five twenty shout.
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  Speaker 1: Out five, Twenty my episode is up this week and
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  Speaker 1: go check it.
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  Speaker 2: OUT i thought anything over FIVE, k and there was
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  Speaker 2: FIVE k was hard for them to. Swallow it was
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  Speaker 2: like outrageous shout out To. Barbie, yes Now i've done some,
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  Speaker 2: thinking and she's not. Wrong she's not wrong because first of,
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  Speaker 2: all just to do your basic shit that you're gonna do,
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  Speaker 2: anyways whether you're working or, not you're gonna find a
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  Speaker 2: way to get it. Done that's the. Allowance and then
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  Speaker 2: you want me to just sit here AND i can't
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  Speaker 2: put any money in. SAVINGS i don't have any money for.
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  Speaker 2: Myself what IF i want to buy you something with
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  Speaker 2: my money where's it coming?
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  Speaker 1: From, like so the conversation, was IF i pay all
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  Speaker 1: of your, bills like all of the bills, mortgage, car, gas, everything, internet, utilities,
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  Speaker 1: UTILITIES i will then give you five thousand dollars and
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  Speaker 1: you won't. Work, now let me first say that is,
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  Speaker 1: Doable like that is not an outrageous, number and if
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  Speaker 1: you're paying all the, bills you can make that. Work
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  Speaker 1: like five thousand dollars is a lot of money if
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  Speaker 1: you live a certain way and where you live and
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  Speaker 1: where you. Live, yes that being, said if someone said
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  Speaker 1: five thousand dollars is not enough money for me to
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  Speaker 1: stay home and not work even if my bills are,
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  Speaker 1: paid that's also. Understandable And i'm going to explain. Why
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  Speaker 1: Because haley AND i were talking about, this and very
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  Speaker 1: QUICKLY i came to the conclusion that that would not
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  Speaker 1: work for. Me because here's the. Thing you want it.
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  Speaker 1: All you want a. Batty you want her nails, done
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  Speaker 1: you want her hair. Done you want her to be,
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  Speaker 1: Fit you want her to look, good dress, good smell.
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  Speaker 1: Good you want her lashes to be. Done you want
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  Speaker 1: her to show up as as she appears on her
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  Speaker 1: own with her own. Money and that maintenance is expensive,
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  Speaker 1: though especially. Now this is not an. Accident, OKAY i
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  Speaker 1: don't know why they don't understand that this whole we
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  Speaker 1: just very quickly went through our monthly like maintenance Since,
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  Speaker 1: OKAY i have not even done all of the things
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  Speaker 1: THAT i do to preserve this body and this face
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  Speaker 1: and this hair seventeen hundred.
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  Speaker 2: Dollars, yeah it's, Wild LIKE i purposely will stagger some
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  Speaker 2: of my appointments Because i'm, like, ooh DO i really
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  Speaker 2: need to get my mails on every two? Weeks maybe
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  Speaker 2: like three and a, half, like because that's a.
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  Speaker 1: Lot then you have. To so what you're saying, is
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  Speaker 1: let's let's let's say me, okay AND i. AM i
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  Speaker 1: am not even as baddie AS i could. Be like
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  Speaker 1: if you're talking about some of these women In Beverly,
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  Speaker 1: hills or you're talking about these like these women that
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  Speaker 1: are suited and, boted Like i'm A i'm an aunty. Battie,
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  Speaker 1: Okay i'm not like a Certified every hair is laid.
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  Speaker 1: Batty so those women are on a whole nother level
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  Speaker 1: of like maintenance hair, Nails LIKE i don't even get
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  Speaker 1: designs on my. NAILS i get the same thing every single.
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  Speaker 1: Time i'm getting the absolute basic BECAUSE i want to
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  Speaker 1: get in and out of. There so let's just say
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  Speaker 1: me twenty five hundred dollars easy is what is a?
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  Speaker 1: Monthly like? Maintenance keep everything? Up? Keep, NOW i want
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  Speaker 1: to save money for myself Because i'm not, working SO
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  Speaker 1: i need to put money away every month so that
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  Speaker 1: if you decide to wake up and freak the fuck
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  Speaker 1: out and be a different, PERSON i need to have
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  Speaker 1: money so THAT i can start my life. Over so
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  Speaker 1: let's say we put away a thousand a. Month, Okay
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  Speaker 1: now we're at thirty five, hundred so REALLY i have
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  Speaker 1: fifteen hundred dollars for myself every, month.
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  Speaker 2: Which isn't for four. Weeks for four weeks the cost of. Food,
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  Speaker 2: now now the bills are, paid the food is.
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  Speaker 1: Paid, okay but that that is just my like spending
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  Speaker 1: money a month because you want me to look the
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  Speaker 1: same as when you met me and decided to wipe
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  Speaker 1: me up and make me stay a stay at home,
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  Speaker 1: woman a kept. Woman, right you want me to do,
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  Speaker 1: that SO i have to pay for that unless you're
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  Speaker 1: considering that to BE u, two in which case, cool,
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  Speaker 1: Right like if you are taking care of EVERYTHING i need.
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  Speaker 2: To do gym, pilates all that get to the.
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  Speaker 1: GYM i didn't even put the gym and plates in. There,
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  Speaker 1: SEE i didn't even do. THAT i didn't even get to.
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  Speaker 1: Eyebrows all. Right so the five thousand dollars is completely
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  Speaker 1: doable if you live a certain type of, way if
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  Speaker 1: you are a certain type of, woman if you're very,
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  Speaker 1: low very very very low, maintenance and that that man
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  Speaker 1: does not care about, that y'all can do. It you
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  Speaker 1: can absolutely do. It it is a reasonable. Number but
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  Speaker 1: if you are not including the maintenance of the woman
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  Speaker 1: in that, utilities five thousand dollars is. Crazy it's.
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  Speaker 2: Crazy that's not even if you want to go get
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  Speaker 2: some new. Clothes you're going, somewhere you need to dress a,
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  Speaker 2: shirt a pair of. Shoes, Nope And i'm not saying
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  Speaker 2: you got to be dressed In, gucci but like.
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  Speaker 1: No we're talking Fashion nova.
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  Speaker 2: Lux, yeah but that still adds up.
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  Speaker 1: Shoes.
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  Speaker 2: Absolutely it's at fifty, easy real quick for a little,
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  Speaker 2: outfit and then once you take some pictures in, it
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  Speaker 2: you probably aren't gonna want to wear it again for a.
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  Speaker 1: Minute but that's What i'm, Saying like everyone doesn't live like.
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  Speaker 1: That SO i do understand that five thousand dollars sounds
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  Speaker 1: completely doable depending on where you, live what your lifestyle,
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  Speaker 1: is how you move, around what your maintenance, Is, like
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  Speaker 1: it's absolutely. Doable but the whole idea that it's absurd
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  Speaker 1: that you can't pay what you need to get done
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  Speaker 1: on five thousand, Dollars, yeah it's stuff is. Expensive and
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  Speaker 1: if you want a, woman which you will be, like,
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  Speaker 1: Oh i've had her stay at, home she don't take
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  Speaker 1: care of herself no. More, well, yeah like it's. Expensive
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  Speaker 1: what if one MONTH i want to put three thousand
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  Speaker 1: dollars away BECAUSE i want to eventually invest in. Something,
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  Speaker 1: well guess, what we're not getting our nails done twice this? Month,
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  Speaker 1: Hello i'm on a, budget, Right so, YEAH i think
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  Speaker 1: the whole conversation as the internet. Does really it really,
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: depends BUT i think it depends like there is some
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: nuance to. It, sure there's definitely women that can handle.
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: That there's definitely cities you can live in and absolutely
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: make that. Work but don't come over here with.
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: That, yeah because there's THINGS i could take off the,
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: Table LIKE i could take hair off the. TABLE i
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: can dye my own. HAIR i can do my own.
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: HAIR i can make it, CURLY i can blow it.
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: OUT i could do that IF i wanted.
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: To i'm not doing. That i'm not in this conversation,
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: because LIKE i, Out i'm. NOT i am not a
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: candidate for this. Conversation. ONE i have extreme financial. Trauma
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: LIKE I it's very difficult for me to. Financially first of,
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: All i've never been financially dependent on a man LIKE i.
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: DON'T i don't live that. WAY i watched my mother
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: go through. It i've seen too many people go through.
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: IT i will never be under financial control with the
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: man That i'm. With if if he, would if he
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: had a billion, DOLLARS i would still have my own. Money.
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah way, So AND i believe that no matter who
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: you are or how much money your man, has you
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: should always have your own money because there is no
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: guarantee that that person is going to remain that person
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: and take care of you for the rest of your.
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: Life that's why this chadwife conversation is so. Annoying, yeah
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: because it's, like, oh you're not a conservative or traditional. Woman,
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: well a conservative or traditional man would make sure that
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: his wife has her own money as well as the family,
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: money make sure that his wife and family are taken
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: care of if he's not. Around men used to have multiple, families.
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: Y'all don't even take care of the one family where
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: the men that used to have multiple families and take
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: care of both of. Them bring them workers, Back, okay
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: run that. Back if you gonna have a whole separate,
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: family you got to make sure both these motherfuckers paid.
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: For.
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: So, yeah like that that is just a very it's
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: a very unintelligent way to live. Life like it's, very
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: very silly to me that the conversation is, like you
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: stay at, home you take care of. Ye, yeah of
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: course you. Do that's a family structure that you've agreed.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: To that is completely. Normal, however she still has to
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: have her own, money, yeah or access to. Money. Period
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: if you decide you're gonna leave her for a twenty
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: two year old and now your kids and your ex
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: wife are out on the street and she's never made
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: any money and she's never, worked and you don't give
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: a fuck about your family, anymore what the fuck is
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: she supposed to?
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: Do, yeah absolutely. Not we're not doing.
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: That i'm not doing any of. It but people be
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: pitching it real.
• 19:27
  Speaker 2: Hard, no absolutely.
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: Not, okay so, Sorry i'm on Teen barbie five thousand. Song.
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: Enough, okay so we got your take on. This does
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: this have anything to do with the fact that everyone
• 19:38
  Speaker 2: thinks you hate?
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: Men for?
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: SURE i need you to break this. DOWN i know
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: you don't hate, men you like you really don't in real.
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: LIFE i absolutely vehemently despise a certain type of, man.
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: A certain type emphasis on.
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: That and if you THINK i hate, men it's probably.
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: You what's the?
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: TYPE i HATE a bitch first of? All, OKAY i
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: hate a bitch ass.
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: MAN i hate a man just doing bitch. Shit you
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: know What i'm talking, About but they. Don't clearly we
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: need to school.
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: Them, yeah if you Think i'm talking about, you you
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: are a bitch What i'm talking. About the reason that
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: people who know me KNOW i don't hate men is because,
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: ONE i am around men all the. Time, YEA i have,
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: brothers i have, Friends i've got. Specs, Okay i've got
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: got met around me all the. TIME i talk to
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: men every single day THAT i am in no way
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: romantically involved. WITH i cannot stand bitch ass. SHIT i
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: can't seand bitch ass women. Either but it's very like
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: bitch ass women and nobody really fucks with bit jass.
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: Women they're, obnoxious they just disrupt. Everything bitch ass men
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: have an ability to blend, in you, know with non
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: bitch ass, men and then like they can hide. It
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: they can just like bounce, around they can jump behind
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: them and hide. IT a bitch ass man Is It's
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: it's the, Worst like nothing more repulsive to.
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: ME i, mean what are They Are they just? Disrespectful
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: are they?
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: Do they just? Weak low, life don't stand for. Shit
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: they do shit for the attention of other. Men, uh
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: they on the internet that they're on they're on the
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: internet talking about women's. Bodies they're they're defending people Like
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: ennis and it is a bitch Ass well he's a
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: bit chass woman, now but he was a bit jazz.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: Man now he's a bit jazz, woman so he actually
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: checks both boxes the type of people THAT i. Hate,
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: YEAH i JUST i ALSO i hate the. Patriarchy so very,
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: often even men who aren't necessarily fully developed bitches will
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: will take offense to WHAT i say because they benefit
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: from things THAT i don't like about the. Patriarchy, yeah,
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: so like this whole conversation that we just had about
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: women and budgets and all. That like so many men
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: complain about women wanting men to pay for. Things, well it's, like,
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: honey men invented that, system, Right, yeah men invented a
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: system where women did not have access to money so
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: that they could control. Women it was your fucking. Idea
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: we didn't come up with that. Idea it was your.
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: Idea it was men's. Idea why WOULDN'T i hate? That and,
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: also if you don't like paying for, women you should
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: hate it. Too read a fucking book like go to a,
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: library read a, book read a page of a book
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: like that patriarchal. Shit and there's so many layers to.
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: It how nobody cares about men's. Health y'all invented that
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: system where you have to be these stone cold soldiers
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: that follow along Whatever papa. Says that's your idea of
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: what being a strong man. Is an emotionally, intelligent, kind
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: loving person is weak to. You so when we don't
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: give a fuck about your, feelings because that's what you've
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: said for thousands of, years we're supposed to. Do now
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: you want to wine and cry that we don't we
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: don't care about men's. Health day what the fuck Is
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: Men's Mental Health? Day y'all Don't are we supposed to
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: Organize Men's Mental Health? Day are we supposed to do? That?
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: Probably what Pro but like we organize everything like we
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: organize everything.
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: Else so my thing, is LIKE i hate the patriarchy
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: more than, Anything like it's every element of it is
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: destructive and to both men and, women and men benefit
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: enough from it that they're not willing to tear down
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: so that they can actually live full. Lives and the
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: bitch ass men THAT i hate would be in the
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: pit the moment THAT i was put in. Power but like,
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: men real men do not get offended by ANYTHING i
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: say because they Know i'm not talking about.
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: Them, no maybe, Laughing they be laughing all.
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: Day they Know i'm not talking about. Them and, again
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: like people will watch this and get irritated and Think
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: i'm talking about, them AND i am absolutely talking about.
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: You i'm talking about.
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: YOU i just need everyone to understand joy does not
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: just wake up every day go walk around and be,
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: LIKE i fucking hate. Men where's a man right now
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: SO i can tell HIM i hate, Him, like that's
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: not what's. HAPPENING i need you to rap your head
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: around that, like this is.
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: Crazy the funny thing, Is i'm really like a lover.
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: Girl you, are are you really? Hilarious i'm really a lover,
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: girl AND i love like being sweet to a, man
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: LIKE i will do all of the. Things i'll rub
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: your head and rub your back and like say all
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: these sweet things to you and tell you how gorgeous
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: you are every, Day LIKE i am that, girl but
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: you have to create a space WHERE i can do.
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: That but you're also the girl that's like do you
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: remember growing up and it was like a few girls
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: in the neighborhood and it's like the cool as, fuck
• 24:55
  Speaker 2: like they cool with all the, Girls they cool with
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: all the, dudes like they just they just mad. Shit
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: they hello. Cool that's also.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: You, Well i'm homegirl for. Sure, yes homegirl for. Sure
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: which also is another thing that a lot of men
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: on the internet get mad about because they're, like you,
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: know everyone's just trying to fuck. You, no maybe you're
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: trying to fuck me and you. Can't. Period, unlikely no
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: one's sucking, you which is why because, again like, men
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: men don't care about. That, no they don't care about. That,
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: no it's it really is just like a certain certain
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: type of.
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: Man it's definitely a certain type of, man BUT i
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: need to make that very. Clear it's a specific, man
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: not all, men, okay.
• 25:38
  Speaker 1: But always a, man but always a. MAN i also
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: think like the gender war like concept that goes on
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: on the, internet like there is a gender, war it's
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: been going. On, yeah it's just that everyone is not
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: educated enough on how we got here to understand what
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: the conflict is and WHAT i will, say not on
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: behalf of men Because god forbid, it but we as
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: women need to adjust what these gender roles really. Mean
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: because if you are like this whole fifty to fifty, Thing,
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: yeah if you're in a, relation a long term, relationship
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: and the man is not the primary, provider you are
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: going fifty to.
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: Fifty like if he is the primary, provider then.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: You're having that.
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: Conversation it's not it's not a literally.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: People are having money, conversations like this whole concept of, like,
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: Oh i'm not gonna be with nobody if they don't
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: pay all my. Bills. OKAY i love that for.
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: You, YEAH i mean they're usually single the ones that say,
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: that BUT.
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: I love that for. You, like look for a man
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: that is a traditional man likely you will not find
• 26:59
  Speaker 1: someone who's going to pay all your, bills and you're
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: going to have to compromise and pay some bills because
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: that is what society demands based off of the. Economy
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: if we lived in a more traditional society or otherwise
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: known as a more oppressive to women's, society men would
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: be expected to go make the money and the women
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: would take care of the. House we had that women
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: didn't like. That that's why we fought back for, rights
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: because you could leave a woman and she would have
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: no money going back to if a man provided and
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: gave you five thousand dollars a, month, right. Right SO
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: i just think people don't understand how we got here
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: and women need to adjust these type of expectations or
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: live with the fact that you may not check that.
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: Box LIKE i don't look for a man to pay my, bills.
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: No AND i think if you're, LOOKING i look for.
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: A man that pays his own, bills and then if
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: we get, TOGETHER i will continue to pay my bills
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: and he will pay his, bills and then when we
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: go out, together SOMETIMES i will, pay sometimes he will.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: Pay if we're in a. Relationship, yeah but, like what
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: are we talking about.
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: Here it's really never been that deep to. ME i
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: have been in a long term relationship since the beginning of.
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: TIME i feel like at this point it's over half
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: my life.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: Essentially, yeah it.
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: Just sometimes he has, more SOMETIMES i have. More sometimes
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: we're the. Same sometimes we're in a mess. Up so
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: like it's been so many phases and it's just however
• 28:32
  Speaker 2: it lands.
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: Because it, landers like that's that's how it goes when your,
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: partners like you.
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: Figure it out as conversation about, it like, right and
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: when one of you is, up then we're all.
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: Up. Yeah but even, that LIKE i do feel like
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: the conversation about, like, oh well would you get with
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: a man that you need to build? With, No i'm
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: thirty nine years, Old.
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah are over at thirty? Five, No BUT i met
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: him WHEN i was, seventeen.
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: Correct and at, seventeen y'all don't have, shit so you
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: have to build. It but, no at thirty, NINE i
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: am not building someone's. Life the. FUCK i don't have
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: children for a. REASON i don't have to create another. Person.
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: No but WHEN i was twenty, Two, yeah we have
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: to build. Something we're building our. LIVES i have a
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: built life, Now so like all of these have to
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: be applied in the appropriate. Space LIKE i was in
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: an event once a couple of years, ago and this
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: young man came up to me and was talking to
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: me about the, podcast and he was, like so what
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: did he? Say he was, like, so IF i asked
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: you on a, date would you would? YOU i think
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: he said this was a while. Ago i'm trying To
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: i've told this story, before So i'm trying to tell it.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: Properly forgive me IF i am messing up some. Details
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: but he basically was, like would you pay fifty to
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: fifty or like would you go to cheesecake factory or
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: what like something like, That like basically like WOULD i
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: go to a restaurant with him that wasn't very? Expensive
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: AND i was, like let me ask you. Something how
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: old are? You and he was like twenty. THREE i was,
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: like you don't you shouldn't be worried about Nothing i'm.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: Doing maybe you should not be worried about Nothing i'm.
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: Doing and IT'S i am in my late. Thirties we
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: are not at the same place in. Life, okay WHAT
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: i expect from someone who asks for an evening of
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: my time is none of your. Business IF i was twenty. Three,
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: yeah we Goes Music, Factory like the FUCK i Expect? Mastros,
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: no BUT i take myself To, Mastros so why WOULD
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: i Be? Why, like what are you offering to me
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: as a twenty three year old besides, dick which is
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: in abundance that would make me want to do? That?
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: Like is it your? Personality that's?
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: Crazy he came up to you AND i asked you
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: that where were?
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: YOU i would had some branding event and he Was
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: we wasn't rude about. IT i wasn't mad at. HIM
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: i really like more wanted to explain to, him, like
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: you shouldn't be worried about what a grown ass woman is.
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: Doing he clearly. Is and The internet is because.
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: It flattens a lot of. Things, yeah and it's like
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: that's that doesn't make. Sense now if a man my
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: age is, like, hey let's go to this local you,
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: know taco, spot like this mom and pop shop THAT
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: i really love on a first. Date, great that might.
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: Be by the, way Cheesday factory is not. Cheap SO
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: i don't know where we, Got like it's a seventy dollars.
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: DINNER i love cheesecake. FACTORY i might get it tonight
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: now that are we talking about?
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: It we like the chicken. Pikata but the point, is
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: like there are things within that range that are completely
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: appropriate for a first. Date it's more about the principle
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: of going somewhere that is like a chain, restaurant which
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: IN la you have the option of going to a
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: million different places that are in that same price range
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: that are very. Cool there's always a cool new, restaurant
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: yeah that's. Opened but the bigger point of it is,
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: like be in u age, range be in your financial,
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: range be in your motivation. Range you shouldn't be dating
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: somebody who doesn't want the same things that you, want. Period,
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah and like THAT i think is a bigger.
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: Conversation people go after things they should have no business
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: going after in the first. Place prime example of this
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: poor twenty three year.
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: OLD i don't think he was asking me, out but
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: like he put a thought into. That he, Did BUT
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: i HOPE i educated, him like, genuinely, hey you take your.
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: Response he was cool about. It it was, Like, OKAY
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: i don't think he was asking me. OUT i think
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: he was just like asking about The Maybe i'm, WRONG
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: i don't, know BUT i don't think he was asking me.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: Out it sounds like, it but it wasn't the. Vibe
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: BUT i think more that that is the. Point like
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: when we have the conversations Like barbie on five twenty
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: about the five thousand, dollars there's nuance to. That, yeah
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: when you AND i were talking about talking about it
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: on the, show we were, like, yeah very, easily you'd
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: get to like twenty five hundred. Dollars if if we're
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: talking about like, this the maintenance of being a, woman
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: if you want me to maintain, now if you want,
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: me you, know barefoot from the earth, up LIKE i
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: don't even put in.
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: Waxing, yeah and if you ask if you're well lasering.
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: Hypothetic it's very, expensive but hypothetically then you wouldn't have
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: to do.
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: IT i mean, yeah then you just like.
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: Maintain, yeah so like, whatever search so many things that
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: you do as a woman's to maintain just to just appear. Natural,
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: Right so there's nuance to all of these internet conversations
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: except FOR i hate bitch ass. Men there's no nuance.
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: There if you feel offended by me saying that, You
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: i've got news for. You you were today years old when
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: you found.
• 33:47
  Speaker 2: OUT i mean if the shoe, fits.
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: If the, shoe if the glove.
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: Fits but the rest of you we.
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  Speaker 1: Have love for got love men KEEP i love so.
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  Speaker 2: MEN i fear a lot of men more than.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: SOME i love SOME.
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  Speaker 2: I.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: HAVE i have love for a lot of.
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: Men, yes, okay.
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: AND i do feel like men can provide things to
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: society in a very real. Way like the conversation THAT
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: i hope grows from THE wnba nonsense is that if
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: you AND i was sarcastic about, It but the truth,
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: is if you're really worried about the safety of, women
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: be worried about the. Safety we want you to be
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: worried about the safety of. Women we want. That we
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: want you to protect us from predatorial. Men we want
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: you to do. That we want you to stand up
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: for women that are around. You we want you to
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: tell your bitch ass homeboys they're being bitch ass, homeboys
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: that they're they're not taking care of their, families that
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: they're treating women, bad that that joke about, that that,
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: creepy weird rape joke is not. Okay don't say that
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: shit around. You we want you to do, that but
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: be consistent in. It don't just be mad because a
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: transgender person came up in the. Conversation be mad all
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: the time about all the crazy shit that is constantly
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: happening to. Women be mad how we are.
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: Mad people don't know how to do. That they don't
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: know how to.
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: Just because they don't. Care like my point, is you
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: don't actually care about the safety of. Women things that
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: you care, about you care. ABOUT specs cares about giving
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: black creators their proper, due which is why the first
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  Speaker 1: thing he said when he's got in charge is that
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: he would not kill off half the. Population he would
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: make sure that they get their. CREDIT i would do
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: it maybe in the opposite. Order you. Know, so like
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: what you care, about you care, about and it's consistent
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: in your. Character it's consistent in how you move around the.
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: World it's consistent and how you, talk how you treat,
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: people how you, read like the type of content you're.
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: Into LIKE i am a, psychopathic lunatic. Revolutionary everyone knows
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: that BECAUSE i everyone with reels all day long until
• 36:02
  Speaker 1: they're sick of me about how fucked up the world.
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: Is everyone knows that BECAUSE i care about. IT i
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: would like not to care about. IT i would like to,
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: say fuck all your. PEOPLE i don't need to worry about,
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: you BUT i. Can't if you care about, something you
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: consistently have that in your. Actions you, KNOW i know
• 36:18
  Speaker 1: Miss rachel cares about kids because she's risking her entire
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: career in everything that she's doing right. Now she is
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: our modern day Mister. Rogers AND i don't question if
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: she cares about kids because she's risking a lot to
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: talk about what she's been talking. About if you, are
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: if you are a principled, person and a principled, man
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: is so. Necessary we do not have enough of those.
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: Principles things you stand. On you don't give a fuck
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: if other men are making fun of, you you don't
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: give a. Fuck if people question what you where you
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: are principles that means you fundamentally believe in this. Shit
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: you care about, it then you will care about it
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: all the. Time not when somebody, says you, know the
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: W nba won't define a. Woman why the fuck do
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: you care about? That since when do you give A
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: you're the same bitch ass motherfuckers that was out here
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: talking about the W nba shu to be paid more. Money,
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: yeah this is too, much that's.
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: RIDICULOUS i cannot.
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: So you saying lame fucks are now arguing that you
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: want to protect. Women you know WHAT i want to,
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: do specs WHEN i get when they put me in,
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: CHARGE i want to get a slap, machine.
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: Not a slap. Machine, yeah he's gonna slap. Everybody like
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: if you get you got to get into que get in.
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: The, queue And i'll depending on the, offense you, know
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: you dial up the. Level we have to keep it well. Coundered,
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: yeah there's not enough people to slap all the people
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: that need to be. SLAPPED a lot of people need
• 37:50
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• 37:53
  Speaker 1: a black, creator the black convenor of the slap. Machine
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• 38:14
  Speaker 2: Should your partner be your best? Friend?
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: Hmm this is tough BECAUSE i BECAUSE i want to
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: SAY i don't think that there's a rule for, This
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: LIKE i would say, no BUT i also probably am
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: in the minority or not in the. Minority But I'm
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: i'm just one of those people that, LIKE i have
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: really really close, friends AND i enjoy my, friendships AND
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: i don't consider my partner to be my best, Friend
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: like they're my. Partner we have a relationship that is friend,
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: adjacent but because of all of the other elements of
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: what a partner, is they're not just my. Friend does
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: that make.
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: Sense, YEAH i feel like mine's Both, Okay LIKE i
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: don't think you should seek them out to be your best,
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: friend BUT i think over time they, So LIKE i
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: think my man is absolutely my best, friend BUT i
• 39:29
  Speaker 2: think it's just as important THAT i still have my
• 39:32
  Speaker 2: like your, own my separate best. Friends because for, instance
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: when we had our, kid all my friends kind of
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: like fell off distant they didn't have. Kids it was
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: a real. Adjustment our families are not. HERE i was very.
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: Alienated so he kind of became every role essentially like,
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: partner baby, daddy like, lightweight, hubby like best, friend all the,
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: things and it kind of forced me to like put
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: too much expectation on, him where it was, like it's
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: only Because i'm so alienated right now AND i have nobody. Else,
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: yeah so that was like another ADJUSTMENT i had to
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: like readjust out Of SO i think it can become
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: that they're your best. Friend BUT i wouldn't go into
• 40:14
  Speaker 2: it like this, person if they're not my best, friend
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: they can be my.
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: Partner, No, WELL i, LIKE i like having a relationship
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: that feels like friend adjacent When i'm, Dating, like IF
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: i don't feel that kind of comfortability around, you it's
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: really hard to get romantically attached to. Someone like you,
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: know when you meet, someone you're, Like i'm gonna be
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: friends with this. Person that is sort of WHAT i
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: want to feel WHEN i meet someone that is going
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: to be my. Partner, YEAH i. AGREE i understand what you're,
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: saying and that's probably WHY i would say, no because
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: when someone when your partner is also your best, friend
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: when they fall, short it really feels like there's a
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: big part of you that is collapsing and YOU i
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: think that you need other, relationships like other, friendships to sustain. You,
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: NOW i also feel that if you are in a serious,
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: relationship you there are things that you do not share
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: with other, people like not that whole like oh we
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: don't know nothing out the house, Bullshit but like you
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: have to be very careful who you vent, to how
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: often you vent to, them and what you what you,
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: like why are you sharing? It because some of that
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: stuff is for a, Therapist, yeah it's or your diary
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: like you AND, i as as someone who has a
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: lot of married, FRIENDS i do not repeat what my
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: married friends complain to me about if they, do BECAUSE
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: i just don't feel like that's my. Place AND i
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: WHEN i, ask it's a very general, like, so how
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: are you? Guys like what are you guys going on a?
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: Trip like da da? Da i'm not like UNLESS i
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: have already they've already established that they're comfortable talking about,
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: That i'm not getting in that conversation BECAUSE i just
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: think those kind of relationships require a sense of privacy
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: THAT i don't need to be in in and that's
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: hard to do when you like you have to really
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: that's a a balancing.
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: Act, well and then if you when you're in a serious,
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: relationship you are partners maybe somewhat really really good, friends
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: then your friends can also be like mutual, friends and
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: that creates like a whole other dynamic that can be, Tricky,
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: yeah because it's like if y'all beef in and we the,
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: friends it's, like, like what what DO i? Do, Like, Yes.
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: I've won a lot of friends. Breakups, yeah you need
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: your own, FRIENDS i would, THINK i would say, OVERALL
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: i get the concept of the, question AND i do
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: think your partner becomes like your best, friend BUT i
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: do think you still need relationships and friendships outside of your,
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: marriage partnership. Relationship, LIKE i just think life is about,
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: balance and when one person becomes just the center of
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: your entire universe without any kind of, balance it gets
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: really tricky to, maintain and the expectations you have for that,
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: person what that person needs to do for you to feel,
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: fulfilled is sometimes unfair to your. Partner so but also
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: Like i've gone through chapters of codependency WHICH i have
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: worked through and am no longer a codependent person and
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: do not date people that are. Codependent but codependency can
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: create a real like vacuum for people to exist, in
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: and it tends to get very toxic very, quickly because
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: everything about your life is completely interch and some people
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: like that and it works for, them at least appearance.
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: WISE i don't know how it works so much. Privately but,
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: YEAH i don't think the codependency is.
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: HEALTHY i don't think so, Either and LIKE i guess
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: this would fall in the line of, codependency like letting
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: the other person's moods and choices in the way they
• 43:58
  Speaker 2: choose to live affect your mood the way you choose to, live.
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: When you, KNOW i think that's like that's. Inevitable like
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: if your partner's going through something really hard and they're
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: treating you, differently or you, know the mood in the.
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: House is, down, yeah like that's, me that's Going but
• 44:13
  Speaker 2: then they get over their ship and Then i'm left
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: irritated because you made me irritated because you were. Irritated,
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: yeah and NOW i got to pull myself out the
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: irritation and you're doing jumping jacks in the corner like. Chilling,
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: yeah that's that is that's, YEAH i hate.
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: It that's. YEAH i, mean, yeah that's BUT i think
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: that's just relationships, Though LIKE i think everyone deals with,
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: That like when you have another person in your, world
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: like their mood disaffects, you and you, know hopefully they're not.
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: MOODY i could not as A, Capricorn, LIKE i cannot
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: deal with a moody. Person every day you're in a different.
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: Mood it's. Rough do you want to put me in an?
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: Asylum i'm supposed to just predict what kind of mood you're.
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: In absolutely. Not, No, OH i need, Consistency like the
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: person THAT i am requires so much consistency from anyone around,
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: Me like you have no times to be weird with?
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: Me but is it like close to? Perfection, yes you see.
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: Reasonable. DEMANDS i understand it's. Unreasonable it's, unreasonable but BUT
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: i am never. Wrong like my, Gut i'm. Not my
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: gut is Always do you have your wisdom? TEETH i,
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: don't right took them away from.
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: Him someone told me that people who have their wisdom,
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: teeth it's like connected to their third, eye which is like.
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: Intuition SO i was, like.
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: Oh SO i do think intuition is very, important AND i.
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: AM i have gone through a, lot SO i have
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: learned to doubt my intuition BECAUSE i so strongly trusted,
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: it and obviously people have ruined that for. Me BUT
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: i am rebuilding my. Intuition and when that little thing
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: is like.
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: It's like your first, mind your first little gut.
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: Feeling, yeah, like this isn't, just this isn't just they
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: didn't text me back WHEN i wanted them. To this
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: isn't just that they said the weird, thing and it
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: just it's always, that it's always that it's not.
• 46:17
  Speaker 2: Right so you still got to dial some of bit back.
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: THEN i probably, do BUT i expect. Perfection I'm herman.
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: Boone where would you? PARTNER i would want them to be,
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: one but like ONE a is my actual best. Friend
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: LIKE i want to be able to talk to my
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: partner about. ANYTHING i want to be able to like be.
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: MYSELF i want to have inside. JOKES i want, to you,
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: know be vulnerable with. THEM i want to CALL i
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: want them to be the first PERSON i call WHEN
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: i have some tea like. That that is WHAT i
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: want them to. BE i just don't want them to
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: be my only. Friend SO i guess that's. It LIKE
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: i don't mind that your your partner is your best.
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: FRIEND i just don't want them to be your only.
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: Friend like you should have another best. Friend you should
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: have another person that you can trust and confide in
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: and rely. On and you, know the relationship is different
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: obviously because it's not, romantic BUT i do think you
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: should have more than just your. One, sure so we
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: got to the bottom of it there we go have to,
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: yeah great questions becks and.
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: Send the stories not a bit as crazy. Stories, yeah
• 47:25
  Speaker 2: we need some. STORIES i love the, questions BUT i
• 47:28
  Speaker 2: need some crazy.
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: Or just give us give us the, question but give
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: us the.
• 47:31
  Speaker 2: Story, yeah like we need a little tea little.
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: Context, yeah thanks so much for joining. Us, heyley you're
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: great on the couch. Today.
• 47:37
  Speaker 2: Thanks it's comfy over.
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: Here, yeah it's good, Right this is WHY i keep
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: like by the end of the, Podcast i'm like down.
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