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Big Bachelor Energy · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with her radio. Hey guys, welcome to the Almost Famous Podcast.
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  Speaker 1: I think you're gonna get a lot of podcasts from
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  Speaker 1: us this week. We're having this big to do with
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  Speaker 1: a lot of Bachelor Nation in Carmel, California. UM so
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  Speaker 1: watch out for all those. But we couldn't leave you
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  Speaker 1: without a recap podcast of episode two of exact seasons.
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  Speaker 1: So here I am with my husband General. I'm feeling
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  Speaker 1: in for Ben. It's a story of my life. I
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  Speaker 1: feel like I'm b b minus Ben Higgins. You know
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  Speaker 1: what I mean. That's just because you feel like you
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  Speaker 1: would have been like the third choice on your season
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  Speaker 1: to become the Bachelor. Uh. Yeah, if they were ballsy
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  Speaker 1: enough to go with Nick, which I still so you
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  Speaker 1: think that you were the second place. I think you may.
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  Speaker 1: You may have been a toss up. You were perfect
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  Speaker 1: paradise lead material. Babe. Well, that's very sweet, and plus
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  Speaker 1: I would have been a terrible Bachelor, especially at that
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  Speaker 1: time in my life. You would have been way too Gilbert.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, it would have been good TV, but I
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  Speaker 1: would have been yet decisive, guilt ridden Uh. And I
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  Speaker 1: would definitely have not ended up with the girl I
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  Speaker 1: picked because I was waiting for you, exactly because bastelard
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  Speaker 1: Nation had it destined that we would be together. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and create Dawson having a birthday to our baby. We're
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  Speaker 1: recording this on January one year old. We cannot believe
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  Speaker 1: it's been a year. That's the fastest year of my life,
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  Speaker 1: hands down craziness. Um. Yeah, you know how people are like,
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  Speaker 1: the best year of your life. It definitely wasn't the
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  Speaker 1: best year of our lives. You're saying that most people
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  Speaker 1: think the first year of having I don't know that.
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  Speaker 1: They always say who says that? People say it in
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  Speaker 1: Instagram captions, that's Instagram captions. But you don't think it's
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  Speaker 1: ever true. I think no, I don't think that's true
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  Speaker 1: one ayota. I feel like every person because for the
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  Speaker 1: first few months, I mean, when you meet a parent
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  Speaker 1: who has four month old, that's the first thing you say,
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  Speaker 1: I know what, I'm tired when you meet them, not
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  Speaker 1: if you meet someone else who has a four year old. Yeah, exactly,
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  Speaker 1: are you're sleeping? How you doing? Because of course you know, like, hey,
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  Speaker 1: it's a struggle. No one says it's the best year
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  Speaker 1: of life. I love Dawson more than anything I would
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  Speaker 1: die for. Is our best He is our favorite part
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  Speaker 1: of our lives. Yeah, he's our favorite human in the world.
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  Speaker 1: But that doesn't mean that every moment with him is
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  Speaker 1: just rainbows and butterflies. Yet. Are you loving every minute? No?
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  Speaker 1: Of course not, and so no the first year. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but like we are. I mean I hate that I
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  Speaker 1: even have to like excuse it by saying, like, but
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  Speaker 1: we just let you know we're so in love and
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  Speaker 1: obsessed with him. No, we just got to do more
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  Speaker 1: things with him together. We've talked about that. I want
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  Speaker 1: to do that every day of our lives. I know
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  Speaker 1: it's just hard. I I will. I feel confident that
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  Speaker 1: this year will be a much better with Audrey slowing
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  Speaker 1: down a little bit in terms of hopefully not business wise,
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  Speaker 1: but with me having to be there so much. Hopefully
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  Speaker 1: I can take a step back and you and I
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  Speaker 1: can do more things together. And then also I can
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  Speaker 1: have some sanity in my own life. You can have
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  Speaker 1: sanity in your own life as well, So we have
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  Speaker 1: like this, we haven't no idea what to do with
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  Speaker 1: the kid at this age, So please send us things
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  Speaker 1: to do, because obviously in the summertime in r Island,
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  Speaker 1: plenty of things to do in the winter. What are
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  Speaker 1: you suppsed to do with a kid? I don't think
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  Speaker 1: there's anything you can with a one year old. You
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  Speaker 1: can only do something for like an hour and a
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  Speaker 1: half and then your days over. Yeah, but it's okay
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  Speaker 1: because it's the highlight of my day and I think
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  Speaker 1: it's the highlight of his day too. That's my point.
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  Speaker 1: We could do anything. What can we do that? Anything? Like,
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  Speaker 1: what tell me something we could I don't. I mean
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  Speaker 1: I could think of something if I looked at an itinerary.
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  Speaker 1: But we're in l A. We could go to the
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  Speaker 1: San Diego Zoo. We're in l A. There's plenty things
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  Speaker 1: to do in l A. Yes, it's all weather, depending
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  Speaker 1: on what exactly. That's what I'm saying. What can we
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  Speaker 1: do in a cold weather territory? In Boston Museum, I
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  Speaker 1: would love to go to the And what I'm saying
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  Speaker 1: is we could do that. But again, as a parent,
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  Speaker 1: especially if you're out there listening with kids, you know
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  Speaker 1: it's a ticking time bomb. So you like, okay, we'll
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  Speaker 1: have a good hour and hour and a half, you know,
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  Speaker 1: before they melt down. And see if we can get
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  Speaker 1: through the meltdown and you know, feed them and change
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  Speaker 1: them and you know, calm them down or get them
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  Speaker 1: a nap or you know, it's just all it's you
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  Speaker 1: get a good hour. Your dire day is revolving around
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  Speaker 1: their meltdowns, Like, Okay, how much time do we have
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  Speaker 1: before starts hitting the fan? Yeah, So for everyone out there,
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  Speaker 1: we've been pretty honest, like I don't love living in
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  Speaker 1: Rhode Island. So yeah, it's a big problem, guys. Problem
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  Speaker 1: at a problem. It's becoming more of a problem as
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  Speaker 1: time goes on. I think it's getting worse. And it's
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  Speaker 1: like encroaching on the two year point, which people say
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  Speaker 1: once you hit two years you actually know whether you
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  Speaker 1: can consider that place. I think, what the once the
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  Speaker 1: weather gets better, it will help. I just don't think
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  Speaker 1: that's the solve. That's not going to solve it. So
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  Speaker 1: we got to figure out a way to solve this.
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  Speaker 1: But this is obviously a conversation for another time. We
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  Speaker 1: did want to do a little host chat, but this
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  Speaker 1: is what I want to you guys. You guys, pressure
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  Speaker 1: Jared out there, because there's a couple of things that
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  Speaker 1: I want to do in the next I'm gonna say,
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna give us two months to do these things, okay,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm going to help. Is this annoying to have
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  Speaker 1: the audience accountable of having people pressure me into things?
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  Speaker 1: This is great? Can't wait? Okay. So what I want
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  Speaker 1: to do is I want to go to the Boston
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  Speaker 1: Aquarium because that is these links because I went there
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  Speaker 1: as a kid all the time, So like, I want
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  Speaker 1: the pictures of me and Dawson side by side at
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  Speaker 1: that age. And then I also want to go to
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  Speaker 1: the Cheers bar and put him up on your shoulders
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  Speaker 1: the way my dad and I should just do a
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  Speaker 1: Boston trip. It's a Boston trip, That's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: Boston trip, and then an ice skating date. And then
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  Speaker 1: I want to go to Titanic and theaters with you?
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  Speaker 1: Why with me? I thought you wanted to go see
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  Speaker 1: with Lauren. I don't think you're gonna be able to
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  Speaker 1: see with Lauren. That would mean like Lauren would have
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  Speaker 1: to go next week to Rhode Island. All right, we'll
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  Speaker 1: talk about that Titanic thing. If Superman the nineteen version
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  Speaker 1: came out, I would go see that with you in theaters.
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  Speaker 1: I don't even say that it's different. It's totally comparable
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  Speaker 1: because I enjoy the nineteen seventy eight Superman and Titanic
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  Speaker 1: is a great film, the film that your son is
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  Speaker 1: named after. Yeah, okay, this is true, all right, Um,
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  Speaker 1: we are just like everybody know that. Like this little
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  Speaker 1: banter back and forth. This is just Jared's natural enjoyment too.
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  Speaker 1: In life. He loves to be He just loves to
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  Speaker 1: kind of argue. You do, It's not not Aaron Sorkin
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  Speaker 1: is my favorite that we're just talking about, because a
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  Speaker 1: lot of his dialogue is back and forth and misunderstanding
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  Speaker 1: and disagreement and then confusion. I enjoy that type of talk.
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  Speaker 1: This is his way to communicate and connect is by
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  Speaker 1: just like going back and forth like a ping pong.
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  Speaker 1: I love that of my favorite things. I know. Say,
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  Speaker 1: a lot of people out there would probably interpret that
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  Speaker 1: as like, oh, they're always annoyed, they're always going back
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  Speaker 1: and forth. But like that's like kind of Jared's love language. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: someone who can keep up with me? Can I keep
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  Speaker 1: up with you? Though? Sometimes I feel like I'm a
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  Speaker 1: far worse arguer than you. Oh I am like you
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  Speaker 1: are a Mr. Lawyer you are a lawyer. You can
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  Speaker 1: make you can just talk your way into making a
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  Speaker 1: point so well, and you know that it's because you
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  Speaker 1: are You're so good at being contrarian that like you
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  Speaker 1: can truly argue a point that is not your own opinions.
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  Speaker 1: So well, yeah, of course, yeah, because I don't have
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  Speaker 1: opinions myself. You need to do I do, but I can.
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  Speaker 1: I see everybody's sides of things. And that's why you
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  Speaker 1: and Nick have a fun and also heated time together
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  Speaker 1: all the time, because you two will literally like you
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  Speaker 1: can you can just go back and forth fighting about
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  Speaker 1: something that you don't even believe in. You guys can
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  Speaker 1: like switch stances and just continue at it. It's fantastic.
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  Speaker 1: But what I was going to say is what I
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  Speaker 1: do in my argument, not arguments, but in my just
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  Speaker 1: everyday life is I don't try to prove my point,
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  Speaker 1: I try to disprove yours. That is so true. You
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  Speaker 1: definitely do. Do you do that intentionally? Like when you
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  Speaker 1: are arguing with me, You're like, no, I'm just going
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  Speaker 1: to flip this on her. I mean, I've definitely see
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  Speaker 1: my side of the street more so than yours. When
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  Speaker 1: I'm if I'm arguing a point. Most of the time
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  Speaker 1: I cave honestly, I mean most of the time it's
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  Speaker 1: like whether or not we remembered each other saying something.
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  Speaker 1: But again, yeah, I mean I very similar to being
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  Speaker 1: in a courtroom. I don't try to prove my point
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  Speaker 1: as much as just poke holes in yours. So there's
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  Speaker 1: you know, yeah, well that's that's like why you're so
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  Speaker 1: good and could be in the courtroom maybe anyway, do
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  Speaker 1: you have so many talents? Really could have pursued sound
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  Speaker 1: very tired right now, you are all he's tired, very mellow,
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  Speaker 1: very mellow. I know. I just I'm so over him
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  Speaker 1: being mellow guys, because he used to be like that's
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  Speaker 1: what you know, that that's why we got together because
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  Speaker 1: you had like so much passion. All we would talk
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  Speaker 1: about when first together would be Tom Brady, Rob Thomas
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  Speaker 1: sports and when we first got together, no, maybe the
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  Speaker 1: beginning of our friendship. But that's what I mean, that's
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  Speaker 1: what drew you so much to me, was that was like,
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  Speaker 1: what do you like? I can tell you I can
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  Speaker 1: talk about what I like all day and night. But
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  Speaker 1: now we just you know, I mean, how many times
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  Speaker 1: you want to here to hear me. But I really
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  Speaker 1: do think that, like you got a fine more excitement
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  Speaker 1: or something, because when you're mellow, you're not actually just mellow.
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  Speaker 1: It's always something is on your mind. Yeah, you live
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  Speaker 1: in Audrey's Land in your head. Well, that's true. Doesn't
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  Speaker 1: leave audrey Is when he's not there, He's still there
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  Speaker 1: in his head, of course. I mean, any business owner
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  Speaker 1: can tell you that it's tough. Uh you know. I
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  Speaker 1: mean Audrey's does a very good bit is this, but
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  Speaker 1: it's very expensive run, so it's not really making money.
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  Speaker 1: So it's just hard to I feel like, again, we
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  Speaker 1: got to get an episode, but fifteen more seconds on this. Uh. Certainly,
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  Speaker 1: I don't feel like a failure by any stretch, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm getting nervous. I'm getting scared nervous for us. He's
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  Speaker 1: such not a failure, like he's done such a good job,
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  Speaker 1: and the place is always busy. That's why it's hard
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  Speaker 1: to explain to people. It's not hard to explain. Any
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  Speaker 1: business can understand that there's just certain budgets and percentage
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  Speaker 1: you know, of spending that you need to do for
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  Speaker 1: labor and food and liquor, and we try to we
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  Speaker 1: keep those numbers and we try to keep them down
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  Speaker 1: as much as possible, but our overhead is very expensive.
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  Speaker 1: If you've been to our establishment, first of all, thank
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  Speaker 1: you for coming. But secondly, you can tell that it's
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  Speaker 1: a pretty beautiful space and so costs a lot to
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  Speaker 1: run and get gas and electricity, and prices are up
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  Speaker 1: and food prices are up, and you know, I try
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  Speaker 1: to pay my employees as much as I possibly can
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  Speaker 1: um because I've been on the other side and I
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  Speaker 1: want people to have a decent living wage and that
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  Speaker 1: matters to me a lot. So it's hard. It's hard
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  Speaker 1: to balance all those and also run a business that
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  Speaker 1: makes profit that you can keep your doors open. So
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  Speaker 1: it's it's a lot. But I think this year will
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  Speaker 1: be fine. We'll have we'll have more time, You'll be
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  Speaker 1: less mellow. I can't promise that, Jared, you're not a
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  Speaker 1: naturally mellow person. Not mellow man, mellow man. He's just
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  Speaker 1: like the phases of Jared. He went from my love
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  Speaker 1: man to what was paradise supposed to be? They didn't man,
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  Speaker 1: didn't air it, okay, and now he's mellow man. I
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  Speaker 1: was running around the streets and Providence from my intro
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  Speaker 1: package with a green shirt with a red heart that
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  Speaker 1: had the an a in it for a more manny Well,
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  Speaker 1: they did not go that direction with you because they
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  Speaker 1: hadn't make you look like the heartbroken Paradise. There was
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  Speaker 1: a couple of hearts that were broken this evening. So
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  Speaker 1: let's get to that right after this break and we're
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  Speaker 1: back to recap episode two of Zach season So Jared,
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  Speaker 1: where do we begin? Like? What even was the first scene?
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  Speaker 1: First scene? Let me ask you a broad question first,
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  Speaker 1: what do you and all the Bachelor seasons, you know,
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  Speaker 1: everyone is usually first night's limo night and then episode
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  Speaker 1: two blah blah blah blah. There's a formula. What do
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  Speaker 1: you think the worst episode is in general? Well, I
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  Speaker 1: think the most predictable and therefore sometimes the most boring
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  Speaker 1: can be Night one. But then I also think that
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  Speaker 1: so do you think, for example, you find more interest
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  Speaker 1: in episode two than you do episode one just because
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  Speaker 1: you're meeting Yes, I think so, yes, Typically I think
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  Speaker 1: I like two more. And then for some reason, if
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  Speaker 1: we're looking at patterns, I think three day down to
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  Speaker 1: boring again, and then for we maybe start like really
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  Speaker 1: no names and we really exceed connections and yeah, interesting,
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  Speaker 1: what do you think was boring? You thought it was
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  Speaker 1: super boring? No, I don't think it was super boring.
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  Speaker 1: I just I'm curious about, you know, the formula of
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  Speaker 1: the Bachelor and the Bachelor Rette. There is definitely obviously
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  Speaker 1: a formula, and so I always think about that. I
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  Speaker 1: wonder what people look forward to the most and then
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  Speaker 1: least look forward to. Does it look does it work
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  Speaker 1: well that there is a formula, or are we just
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  Speaker 1: hired of the formula it needs to be. I can't
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  Speaker 1: answer that question because I'm not the person that watches
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  Speaker 1: this season, you know, season after season after season. So
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  Speaker 1: there are people out there who have seen every season
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  Speaker 1: who are loyal Bachelor fans. And first of all, if
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  Speaker 1: you're listening to that podcast and you are that fan,
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  Speaker 1: thank you, because even though you may have said mean
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  Speaker 1: things about us in the past, we don't care because
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  Speaker 1: you're very supportive and loving and without you there'd be
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  Speaker 1: no Audrey's and no show and maybe no Dawson. Uh
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  Speaker 1: and that was very sincere, So thank you. Um. But
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  Speaker 1: moving forward from that, there are people who watched this
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  Speaker 1: show religiously like I've watched. It's tough also because we're
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  Speaker 1: part of it now, so I just kind of look
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  Speaker 1: at it in a different lens. But yeah, I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: it's it's yeah, of course it's hard because it's like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: I saw you know whoever say the exact same. It's
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  Speaker 1: just you know, it's different characters but pretty much the
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  Speaker 1: same premise. Okay, so I don't remember the first scene,
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  Speaker 1: but I do the first scene was them going into
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  Speaker 1: the yeah, moving in, and on TV it does seem silly,
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  Speaker 1: but but in real life it was real exciting. Well,
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  Speaker 1: of course it's excited you're moving into the Bachelor Mansion.
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  Speaker 1: It because it's such a yeah, it's iconic. It's the
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  Speaker 1: Bachelor Mansion. You know, you're moving in, you made it,
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  Speaker 1: You're there for at least a couple of nights, you
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  Speaker 1: made it past night one. That's very exciting. So they're
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  Speaker 1: moving in, all good things. Jesse Palmer comes in and
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  Speaker 1: does the awkwardness that the host always does, which they
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  Speaker 1: go around the room. How is your connection, how's your connection?
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  Speaker 1: Who do you know? Because in the it's just it's
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  Speaker 1: such a competition show. It's so weird because everybody's like,
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  Speaker 1: I think my connection is good. I think my connection
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  Speaker 1: is good. And then the course they focus on the girls,
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  Speaker 1: like oh, she said her connection is good, I don't
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  Speaker 1: think my connection is that's good, or like oh, I
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  Speaker 1: didn't even get to spend time with him. I didn't
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  Speaker 1: kss him that person kiss him. But anyway, so that
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  Speaker 1: was the first scene. Well that's basically that we have
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  Speaker 1: two people going through that in this episode, Gabby and Brianna.
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  Speaker 1: Gabby we see a little bit more towards the end
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  Speaker 1: of the episode, but she has that you know, she's
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  Speaker 1: just so concerned that they're not getting there yet. But
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  Speaker 1: it's a week two, week two. It's the second day, Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it's the second day. It's literally the first day after
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  Speaker 1: she met him, because when you move into the Bachelor
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  Speaker 1: mansion the day after night one, so literally the day
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  Speaker 1: after she met him. They're already to a slow start.
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  Speaker 1: And then Brianna, I think she's feeling um behind in
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  Speaker 1: a sense because America loved her enough to give her
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  Speaker 1: the first impression Rose, but she hasn't really she doesn't
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  Speaker 1: feel like she's gotten anything from Zach and in her
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  Speaker 1: first sit down conversation with him during the group date,
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  Speaker 1: she's like, I'm having a tough time right now, because
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  Speaker 1: what did she say? I think I understand where she's
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  Speaker 1: coming from, because she got America's Rose. Yeah, but it
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  Speaker 1: wasn't that the girls were hating on her, No, but
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  Speaker 1: she was probably secretly hoping that Zack would show her
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  Speaker 1: a little extra special attention on that one and he didn't.
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  Speaker 1: So she probably got let down and insecure after that. Granted,
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: we'll talk about her actions later on in the episode,
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: which were ridiculous. Ridiculously at the Rose Ceremony cocktail, she
• 16:43
  Speaker 1: was taken that out of Forget the blonde name. We'll
• 16:46
  Speaker 1: get that later later on. Yeah, there's a lot of
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: blonds this season. But but yeah, I mean I can
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: understand why Brian was feeling insecure at that moment, because
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: she probably felt pretty good going into night one. Hey
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: I got America's got a special rose dress, and then
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: Zact in her any extra attention, you know, didn't give her.
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: She's probably hoping like, oh, now I can get Zack's
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: first impression rose, and then she didn't get it, and
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: then she probably felt stupid because maybe she was expecting it.
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: She could not have expected a rose, was really hoping. Okay,
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: I don't think so, but I think she was really
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: hoping to have a hand up, and I feel like
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: she didn't actually feel a hand up. Yeah, that's what
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: I'm getting at. Okay, So the first moment that I
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: remember of this episode, it was jarring to me. We
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: have a Loto come and she has the song Big
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: d Energy, and that song I reserve for TikTok thirst traps.
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: You know that's what you expect to see. Let's be
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: more specific brow Joe Burrow first trap, but you don't
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: mind them. I don't mind Joe Burrow. It's funny. It
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: makes you feel young, like you said, it makes me
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: feel slow young, great. I honestly don't care. Is there
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: somebody that you would care? You think he's cool? And like,
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: what if I was like looking at somebody who was
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: like a somebody else that you didn't think was awesome.
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: If you were looking at someone very specific or very
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: um not popular, like Joe Burrow, it's like, oh, everybody
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: to Brady. But if you're like a niche, like everybody
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: loves Garoppolo. But if you're like, I don't know, I
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: can't even think of someone like a third string wide
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: receiver and making thirst traps thirst ttok traps about him, like, Okay,
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: that needs to settle down, because that's more obtainable. The
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: offense Joe Burrow is not obtainable. That's like I could
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: obtain anything I want. Okay, look what I did for you. Bad.
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: That's bad energy, bitch energy right there. My point being
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: if if I was making thirst trap TikTok about Margot Robbie,
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: I doubt you'd really care. Yeah, but I would also
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: think that you could get Are you know that My
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: biggest fear your mind, my big spear when we weren't together,
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: was that you were actually going to date Emma Stone
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: because I actually could see you guys very much together.
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, me too, not at all. That's very
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: sweet of you. That would be impossible. It would not
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: be impossible. You're gonna say, Tylor Swift, And I was like,
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: talk about unreachable. That might actually be the definition of it. Unattainable.
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: But you know what, you had a moment of Taylor
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: and I think that you're a cute. I think she
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: thought you were cute. That even if she did, which
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: I doubt, I that get that gives me still zero chance.
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: I don't know. We disagree on that. She probably finds
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: chihuah was cute. You know what I mean? Hurt? You
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: think you're way hotter than Joe Alwyn. I don't know
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: who that is. That's her boyfriend of five years and
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: he's like not an a lister. What is he even from?
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: You even know what he's from? Yes, we saw a
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: movie with We went to go see that movie. I
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: don't know where he's from, but he was in a
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: movie that we went to go see that was not
• 19:53
  Speaker 1: our cup of tea, but got nominated for a bunch
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: of awards with your parents the Favorite, the Favorite also
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: Emma Stone right, Yes, okay, anyway, we're off track right now.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: But what happened was I reserved this song for Joe
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: Burrow and then we saw Zach walk out on the
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: runway to Big D Energy. It was awkward as yes,
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: I've been saying Big D Energy and then I go
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: awkward as there, Um, I like Zack. It seems like
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: a nice guy, so so sweet, great guy when you
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: were out and about or like going on a dating
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: app and like meaning a guy, could you imagine you'd
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: go in on date with this guy? You match with
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: him on something? He's very sweet. Um, I think that
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: he handled himself very well in this episode in um
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: different situations which we'll talk about later. I just think
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: the problem with Zach is zero. It was like embodied
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: in that moment, we're he had the leather jacket on
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: and he busts out the door and it's like, no, dude,
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: you're just and it's not his fault because that was
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: what the scene called for, and they're like, oh, this
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: would be a cool moment, it would be great, and
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: it's it's really not anybody's fault, honestly, because I bet
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: production obviously production is trying to make him look super
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: cool swag and it's fun, and but like I just
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: it was like, oh, that's not that's not him. You know,
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: that's just not Zach, like you. I don't know, I
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: don't know what makes zactly cool, like what makes him unique,
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: But they just need to figure that out and do
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: that go that direction and keep making being like he
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: was in a band that makes him cool and unique.
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure you can find something else, you know
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: what he told me on a geek, A geek would
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: be attractive if I don't know what like, but if
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: he is a geek, you just haven't like me, and
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: he's a superhero fan, like do whatever. He doesn't like
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: put him in that situation, you know, not this because
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: this big D and it just didn't It didn't fit.
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: It was awkward to watch. Its qringe worthy were like
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: the girls are marching towards him, like, oh god, I
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: guess it maybe was meant to be cringeworthy. No, I
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: don't know. Now, is there any bachelor that you would
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: say has big D energy? Nick? Yeah, you think it's Nick? Yeah?
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: I thought so too, But I just want to hear
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: you say it. I would say Ben. I would honestly
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: say Ben too. Yeah. Ben on his season of course. Yeah,
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: And um, I mean there's I'm sure there's. I can't
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: who's also recently, I don't know. Matt James didn't really
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: pull off that that moment when I loved some man.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: If you guys remember Matt James prom had the biggest crush.
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: When I saw that, I was like this, yeah, because
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: Chris Harrison's out front and he's like, you've never been loved.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: I'm here to change that. And it was like what
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: a man? What it was like? It was it was
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: like a trailer for a movie. And I was like
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: this is exactly because of course Matt was the first
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: black Bachelor and so long, and they had this super
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: cool promo with what a Man, and like Harrison was
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: out front and he said that awesome line. It was
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: like you've never been in love, I'm here to change that.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: It was just like, that's exactly what the bachelor needs. Obviously,
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: I mean everything went off the rails after that. But um,
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: and then you know, since then obviously we have a
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: Clayton and Zach and I don't know my so anyway, Okay, yes,
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: great answer, great answer. Okay, So then so we're at
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: the fashion show. Victoria and Courtney were there there because
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: both of them honestly have that girl swag, which I'll
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: say is the bad bit energy. Right, they have a
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: girls swag. They're like borderline villainous on their seasons, but
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: they have like the similarity in which like they're super
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: hot and they have like twoed but they're also like girls.
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: They could be girls girls. It's really they're complicated but
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: overall well liked. Okay, I can't really speak too much
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: on the bad bitch energy. Something I would say that
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: they're both really good choices to demonstrate bad bitch energy. Now,
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: taj One is a little bit random there because I
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: always just think of Tajuan being hilarious and sweaty and paradise.
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: But she was definitely there because she had some sort
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: of interest in Zack. And yeah, so at the after party,
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: oh at first off, when they're when they're doing their
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: struts down the runway and they're trying to like prove
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: their bad bitch energy. I think everybody was fine, but
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: I would have been the most cringe ever on that
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: and I'm so glad I didn't have that date. Well,
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: I love you very much, but I'm not sexy like
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: you and I have are. You're very sexy, she says this,
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: And that's really nice. You know, you don't have bad
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: bitch energy. But that's not or I would maybe you do.
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: I had had bad bitch energy in the bad Lands
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: and that was it. Well, my point being, it's like
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: I don't have bad bitch energy, Like I'm not that
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: you have big dick energy. This is the clevent. I
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: don't know. I think i'm somewhat but I'm not like
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: you have swag. But that's like a whole other level
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: of carrying yourself. But it's not like, listen, I'm very
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: confident myself. But like if me and um, who's a guy,
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: I guess I don't know. I can't think of anybody
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: from Bachelor franchise. I guess Peter Cross because he's always
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: a very hottest he's one of the hottest him and
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: I walked into a room. Yeah, it's still comparison. Everybody's
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: looking at Peter and not me, Like, yeah, he's good looking,
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: but Jesus Christ, you know, but I'm fine with that.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: That's okay. But my point being is that listen, of course,
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: when you walk into everybody's looking at you, but like
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: if you're talking about like who gives off more in
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: my opinion, bad bitch energy, lack of better world. That
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: makes sense. Yeah, but that's what everybody loves you for
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: because you are he's incredibly beauty, beautiful and sexy and confident,
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: but also who will trip on hers and like laughing
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: cry at herself. It's miss congeant geniality exactly, thank you. Okay, So,
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: but I don't really remember any girl like standing out
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: there right, Like there's no girl that like dominated that competition.
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: What I remember is just a cat actually crawling like
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: a cat and then I remember somebody at the bar
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: doing the tequila shots and then kissing. Yeah, I remember,
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: and then then okay, so then fast forward to the
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: night of he has a really nice conversation with what
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: is her name? She got the rose? Yeah, Katherine, what
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: did you say? No one remembers anybody's names? How can
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: we actually has the cast list in front of her,
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: and it's just impossible. I'm trying to. I mean, we four,
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: you know, like the names of week four, and I
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: know Christina's name. Oh I thought was Christine though. Anyway,
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: so Katherine gets the rose. She has a nice conversation
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: with him about just like what she's looking for. She's like,
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: I don't want a best friend. I want I don't
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: just want a life partner, like I want a love. Right,
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: these are the conversations I see again. I'm just not
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: she wants a life partner, but she also wants more
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: than just that. She wants the love. I know. But
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: this is the moment that reminds me of why I
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: like The Bachelor's not. I love the show more than anything,
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: but like watching it with my negativity in my mind,
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh God, these people who are talking back
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: and forth and I probably had the same conversations with
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: you were the ultimate like that. It's hilarious is that
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: you're so jaded and cynical when you talk about it.
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: They know each other a little over day and they're like,
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: we have pretty much. They were like, we have so
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: much in common. We both want, you know, life partners,
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: and there's like cool, I know it's not deep, guys,
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: like they sound like the way that they say things
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: sounds so deep. And I know a lot of the
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: conversations cut out rightfully, so because guys, there's it's an
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: hour and twenty minutes each week, and these people talk
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: for a long time. So fortunately there's gonna be a
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: lot of conversation that's just left the side. So I'm
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: sure that there was more in depth conversation, more talking
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: about each other, learning about each other, figuring things out, flirting,
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: all that good stuff. But Babe, it's hilarious how you
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: are so cynical when you were like the most romantic,
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: like vulnerable man there. You were like the most romantic.
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: Do you remember this? Yeah, you were the mushiest man ever. Yes,
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: of course, I'm still when it gets like once we
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: start narrowing down and there's you know, not that there's
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: not really feelings now, but like real, like holy feelings. Yeah,
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: that's more fun and more mushy. I think where I
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: think I'm just so jaded from so I'm saying, you
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: stay together. That's what I need. I need more couples
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: to stay together. But babe, but when you were there,
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: you like leaned in fully, see, like, how do you
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: make fun of these people? Because that's our job right now?
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: We're not making fun you are. Yeah, we're poking fun. Yeah, oh,
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: I'm sure that in back in two thousand and fifteen
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: when we were on the show, there was nobody making
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: fun of us, nobody poking fun about how ridiculous, of course.
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: But I also think that sometimes people look back and
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: and you know, say, oh wow, this person for two
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: days and we're already saying like we had some You know,
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: I'm glad that you're looking for the same thing I am.
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: Of course, you guys were all looking for the same thing.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: You know. I would love the person to go on
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: the show and be like, I'm not looking for a husband.
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: They could be they'll lie, you know what I mean,
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: But like, no one's going to go on the show.
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: I don't think maybe there has been, and say, I'm
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: not I don't want to husband or a wife. You know,
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: I'm just kind of dating around. But you seem awesome
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: and I'd love to get to know any more. But like,
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: I don't know how serious of a relationship I want
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: to be in right now that let's move on to
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: ta Juan asking to stay. Yeah, Tajuan, she's so. She
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: wasn't her funniness. She wasn't her funniest. She was on Paradise. Baby.
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: You know that she's been on Paradise wise, no, I know,
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: but if she came back I wish they brought her
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: back on Paradise. That seems much more of a conducive
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: environment to her. Remember, she's too hot, she won't you
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: can give her, like give her the boom boom room
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: that we were in, give her a c you know,
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: I think that's pretty funny. They should like come up
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: with some contraction that she contraction that she wears in
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: her head with sands and make it really because here
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: I just felt it was out of place because it
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: felt forced because she came on and then she said, oh,
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: Zach is really cute and funny, and if he asked
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: me to stay, I wouldn't say no, and then fast
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: forward to the night portion she was like, I'm just
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: gonna ask him to stay. So okay, So you just
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: want to stay a because you want to pursue things
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: with Zach who you've known for two minutes, and of
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: course he's good looking. He's the Bachelor, the Bachelor, the Bachelor.
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: So it just felt like she was trying to get
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: on the season and uh, which is totally fine, Hey
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: go for it. But I just feel bad because I
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: just I don't want to see her shoot her shot
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: and get shot down and then her never be on
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor franchise again. So I would have rather seen
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: her make an appearance on Paradise and kind of data
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: around for a little while. But how funny is um
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: just the reaction that we always get during moments like
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: this from the girls who are sitting back ending like
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: we sacrificed so much to be here, and she is
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: taking thirty minutes of our time by trying to like
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: woo him. I know. Especially it's probably the person who's
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: saying that who has the little job title it says
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: content creator on there, like you sacrificed so much don't
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: make fun of our jobs. I'm not. I'm saying the
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: point is, you're not. If we got invited. If that's
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: a job for us, that's a job opportunity, not sacrificing anything.
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: But um, yeah, of course, it's just but it's you know,
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: it's that bachelor mindset where you're like, oh, we were,
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: It's it's the it's like the first kids at camp.
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: I don't know how to describe it. We're like, no, no, no,
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: this is our thing. This is not your thing. You
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: can't come late. This just doesn't belong to you. It's like, okay,
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: everyone relacks. Yeah, it's off, guys. If you don't remember correctly,
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: you have only been there for two days. So if
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: this girl enters right now, it's not like you've been
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: part of this club that's so exclusive. But we know
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: that that's the way it goes. We're making fun of it,
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: but that's just the way it goes, And when you're
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: actually there, it does seem like the most annoying thing
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: you could ever it's the end of the world. Oh yeah,
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: Jared had to deal with it with Nick. That the
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: most dramatic of all the middle of the season entrances
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: it's truly the middle of the season and he finished second. Unbelievable.
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: That guy. Okay, So then we go onto the one
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: on one with Christina. Christina is um. She looks like
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: so many famous people in one she looks like Lauren Conrad, Um,
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: Kelly Pickler, another American idol, Laurena Elena, and she also
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: looks like there's some other person that she looks like.
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: She looks a little bit like Christine Taylor. Anyway, she
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: looks like a lot of people. I don't know any
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: of those. These memes are like going around all over.
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: So I had to mention everybody knows that she's like
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: the utmost celebrity look like, she's very pray. Everyone knows everyone, Yeah,
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: everyone knows. Everyone knows. So she's twenty six, she has
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: a six year old, a kindergartener, and Bailey Bailey. Yeah. Um.
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: So the big thing about this day is that she's
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: going to have to reveal to him she has a daughter,
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: and it might shake him up. But I think she's
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: telling him so early. It's not like, you know, it's
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: no big deal. Yeah, unless he thinks it's a big deal,
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: I guess. But the first well, we'll talk about in
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: a second for you, Let's also say, of course it's
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: of course is a big deal. To have a child
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: and to be dating somebody with a child's a whole
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: differ because Okay, I'm not you. You know you also
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: have a daughter involved. I would have to be a stepfather.
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: Like you know, there's obviously have you quite hevy you know, uh,
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: circumstances there. What the big deal part is? Like, she
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: shouldn't even be nervous about telling him. Well, I know,
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: we understand she's doing the right thing. I think for
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: us when we said it's not a big deal, because
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: in our heads she's doing the right thing by telling
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: early on and not waiting until the suspense builds and
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, it's which people have done before.
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: People have done it before. Okay, So they go on
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: a helicopter to his childhood home, which is like an Anaheim,
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: so pretty close. It's probably like twenty minute of helicopter run,
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: fifteen minutes maybe, and they get to his doorstep and
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: he's like, look, this is my whole family, and my
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: whole family is here, and it's classic. Most memory liated
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: to this with Maddie and Peter and they always make
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: it to be like such a big deal, like it's
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: the most nerve wracking thing, like, oh my god, I
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: meaning a family already, of course the big deal. But
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: you were making fun of this last night. I was
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: making fun of it because, uh, you said that the
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: show makes family overrated. Of course they do, because anytime
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: because rape before hometowns, like, oh, is he like I
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: don't know if I'm ready to involve my family or
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: I don't know if like I'm ready for him to
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: meet my family, or I don't know if he's ready
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: to meet my family, and it's like this big thing,
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: and it's like I've I've always thought the whole family
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: aspect was overblown. I mean, I'm sure everybody has their
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: own dynamic and it could be circumstances which makes you
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: nervous about somebody bringing someone into your family, which of
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: course I understand, and you know, everybody has their own situation.
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: But I guess for you know, in my own experience
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: or the experience with my friends and family or people
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: that I know that have been the show most of
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: the you know, the time, when you're meeting someone, it's like,
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: of course, like a big deal. You want them to meet,
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: but like it's always been so overblown, Like I don't
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: know if I'm ready to bring my family into it.
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: Like we're talking about you've been on you've been hanging
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: out with this person for so long, if you are
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: close with your family, like what's just have them meet them?
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: I I don't understand. Kids are a different story, because
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: when you bring kids involved that then you're talking about
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: a parental figure, which changes the game. But in terms
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: of like meeting the parents or the cousins, Eiggs, I've
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: always thought the exact same thing, and I'm like, my
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: wacky for that. But then of course they must think
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: the Bachelor must think the exact same thing and just
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: overblow fantasy or whatever it's called, because on the first
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: one on one, they're like, Oh, we're just gonna Zack,
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: do you mind just bringing this girl who you've known
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: for one day, who you to meet your entire family? No,
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: of course not. I think that they think that people
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: in the audience are gonna be like, oh my god,
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: how terrifying it must be to meet somebody's family on
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: the first date. Actually, it's probably one of the least
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: ner racking dates you could have on The Bachelor because
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: you're like enter this like warm environment where there's so
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: many people and you're chatting with everyone for like five
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: minutes instead of having a sit down in the middle
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: of a silent room. Yeah right, And you and I
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: you only had one serious relationship and you were young
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: before me, and then like I never really had a
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: serious relationship, so it wasn't like I had to like
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: introduce my parents do a lot of people. But I
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: also don't think it would be like a big deal
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: have been like, oh, so and I was coming over tonight,
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: It's like, okay, Hi, Hi, nice to meet you. You know,
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: would have been like they're meeting the parents. I guess
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: like that sometimes happens if you live far away and
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: then you like bring so and so home for the
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: first time. But I just don't think it's like as
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: big of a deal as always presented to be. I
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: would agree, Okay, So Jared wants to move on. She
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: sits down and she tells him that she has a kid,
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: and he is like a little bit nervous blustered by it.
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: I guess, I don't know. They showed him kind of
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: getting up from the table and then coming back. I
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: don't know, but uh, he said that he wanted to
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: learn more about Yeah, I don't know. I think he
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: was just taking in the moment. He seemed a little nervous.
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: He probably just really liked her and was imagining the future,
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden it was like, oh crap,
• 38:31
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be a step down if I end up
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: with you. Yeah, talking about kids is so difficult. I
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: don't know, it's hard to I don't mean for parents
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: to do it. I just mean for us as outsiders
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: talking about you know, a single parent bringing up the
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: fact that they have a child, or someone being introduced
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: to really talk about this. Well, no, it's not a right,
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: but more it's just like for me, I always feel
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: awkward about it because you know, with parents or adults,
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: there's one thing you can poke fun it's meant to
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: be funny and laughter. But with kids, it's just there's
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: so much more um heaviness to the situation that I
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: always just feel so awkward even giving my opinion about it,
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: like what's right, what's wrong, how he handled himself, how
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: she handled herself, so on and so forth. I think,
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: you know, I mean, I think that everything went the
• 39:18
  Speaker 1: way it went, and I think it went well, and um,
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: it's all we have to say about it. No, I don't.
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: Then there's not like a lot of thoughts that I
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: have about this episode, you know, there's not like lots
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: of The last one was a group date we never
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: saw exactly made us feel super weird. We're like, wait,
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: do we miss something because it went to night portion. Yeah,
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, it's night And then you
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: saw online that they did chop out the daytime, so
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: it was probably just her timing reasons. Yeah, they just
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: couldn't fit in the episode. Yeah, and that's where we
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: see the Gabby sitch um good for Bachelor's but they
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: don't think it was good, not even good enough, but
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: just exactly they're gonn taking something out juicier and left
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: a group data and that no one cares about because
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: you know, we don't care a lot about the group
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: day activity. I don't really think the group day activity
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: during the day usually tells you much about somebody. No,
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: I mean, the only time the group tape is good
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: is when people are just like crying or fighting against
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: each other. You know, it's so much better with not
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: when it's like an athletic thing. The only time. It's
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: good when it's athletic is most of the time, because
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: it's it's I will say, watching the show, it is,
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: I like, I don't I think it's different right because women,
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess I'm just more okay seeing
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: men like tear each other down physically, dude, not physically,
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: like emotionally mentally, just being like you suck blah blah blah,
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: like accusatory and you know, because it's a guy, like whatever, Yeah,
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: you're like not taking their feelings seriously. I guess. So
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. It sounds not politically, I'm kidding, relaxed, Okay.
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: So Gabby is kind of the center point of this
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: group day evening portion because she just again feels like
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: she's left out, she's behind the game. She has this
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: moment with him where she feels super awkward. Anything to
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: say about that awkward moment, Like she just didn't feel
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: comfortable in her skin, right, Yeah, I didn't feel comfortable
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: in her skin, and then he didn't kiss her, which
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: she felt super insecure about. It's so funny how um
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: these girls are so open and talking about Zack in
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: some areas, but then want to be so closed off
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: in others, like the after credit scene, we see these
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: girls talking literally about sticking their tongue in Zack's mouth.
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: It's not Zack's mouth, babe, but no, they were talking
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: about Zach. Well, sure, how did you kiss with tongue there?
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: But I think it was more of a general conversation.
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: It was a gen conversation, but they were specifically they
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: were they were girls talking specific about Zach, multiple girls.
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: My point being is that like, yeah, you know, it's
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: like they're always like, oh, I don't I don't want
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: to hear him jealous. But then you know, did you
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: stick your tongue in his mouth? If you're curious, because
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: then that that makes you figure out where you are
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: in the competition, don't you think? Of course a little bit,
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: because if Zach didn't stick is tongue in my mouth,
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: I'd be like, dude, on don I'm not getting Rose
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: this week? Yeah I know, but that means he's probably
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: more into it. Yeah, I get it anyway. So okay,
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: so there was well, she got all flustered and then
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: what was her name again? Gabby? Gabby? But then she
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: redeemed herself wonderfully at the Rose ceremony. Yeah, but before
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: the rose ceremony she didn't get the rose and she
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: went off crying by herself and was very upset, and
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: I felt insecure once again. I just wanted to point
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: that out because it is so uh interesting to me
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: still to this day that the Bachelor and bachelorettes will
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: always have that moment before they hand out a group
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: date rose where they'll sit down and go through almost
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: everybody but not everybody, being like Ashley, we had a
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: really good time tonight. You know, we really opened up
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: and it was a great it was just a great conversation,
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: you know, and then it would be like, you know, Natalie,
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: it was just you know, you you showed me some
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: things tonight that just felt great and blah blah blahlah blah,
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: and it's like, whoever he doesn't talk about it is
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: gonna feel like a complete piece of crap. And it's
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: so weird that he's just going through all these women
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: and just explaining to each one in front of everybody
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: else how their moment was so special to him, which
• 43:40
  Speaker 1: is sweet one on one, but I don't know, I
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: always felt so weird about that because I'm like, bro,
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: you do know, that there's like, I get it's TV.
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: I'm like, bro, you do know that, like every you're
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: it doesn't make I don't know how it makes somebody
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: feel so special when literally the girls sitting next to him,
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: he makes them feel so special as well. And I
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: get it. It's the Bachelor, that's the show, but it's
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: just more prevalent in those moments. Okay, I got that.
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: So Gabby in the Rose ceremony was great. She really
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: kept her cool. I think totally redeemed herself and the
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: peanut butter cup thing was actually probably enough the bors
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: maneuver he loves Race's did a little lady in the
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: tramp thing and then it led to a kiss, but
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: she didn't like actually kiss him, which is why I
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: like that. Did he kiss her? They k like he
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: kissed her. It wasn't like she was like going to
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: use she She used the Ladian tramp thing as like
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: an entrance point, but didn't like go all the way
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: in and let him actually go all the way in,
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: which was really great and I'm happy for her. The
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: other moment during the cocktail hour was with Brianna and
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: his body language towards Brianna is wacky. Not into her.
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: His head was straightforward and he just didn't want to
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: turn his head left. It was weird Jared. He wasn't
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: making any eye contact. And then it wasn't even like
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: he showed disinterest in her, particularly in the earlier part
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: of the episode, like he kissed her on the group date.
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: I think it was probably when she was trying to
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: bring up, um, why do I want to call her
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: Lauren because she looks like Lauren Lena, but Christina. He
• 45:22
  Speaker 1: was so Christina the week prior, goes oh my god,
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: you know, something like about the America's roa, oh my god,
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: I hate you, which is literally what we all say.
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: And I would have taken that as a compliment because
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: it meant that she was jealous, but also in jelous
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: jealous and like a not so serious way, oh my god,
• 45:42
  Speaker 1: I hate you. How many times do we say oh
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: my god, I hate you in a way like that
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: in girl culture? You know, Oh yeah, I'm saying guy
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: culture like, yeah, exactly, but yeah, I I when she
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: when they flash, I'm glad they flashed back to it
• 45:57
  Speaker 1: because I feel like a lot of these times and yes,
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: it was this bachelor moment exactly, but we had evidence
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: right there. They wanted us to know that it was ridiculous. Yes,
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: I would agree, and she was just trying to create
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: herself to be a victim. Uh yeah, I mean it
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: definitely came off that way. Um. He had had nothing
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: that he wanted to say to her, though. He truly
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: was like, it's almost it almost felt like he saw
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: the comment like and he was like, there's no way
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: you're taking that seriously, And um, yeah, I felt bad.
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: What's her name, Christina, Christina, Christina? Where she felt she
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: was like, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. That was
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: she has a Southern accident, right, that was terrible. That
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: was so bad of me. What you're trying try doing
• 46:45
  Speaker 1: a Southern accidents? Just sorry, I'm sorry. Anyway, she kept
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: saying I'm sorry, and uh I felt really bad because
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, you know, maybe okay, Brianna. You know
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: I would have been like, oh my god. I was
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: like truly, you know, I said I hate you, like,
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: oh my god, I hate you, but at least take
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: it the wrong way. She sat her down, they talked
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: about it. It should have been over because it was like, hey,
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: I did not mean that. It was clear that she
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: didn't mean it that way. She apologized a million times.
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: It felt felt very genuine. So it's like, okay, let's
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: just all move on. It was taken out of context whatever,
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: who cares. But then Brianna was like, well, I need
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: to see actions, and it's like, okay, I don't agree
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: with that. And then she goes to Zach or Zach
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: and her sit down and then she wants so badly
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: to tell him about this moment. It's like, Brianna, why
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: do you feel so compelled? Do you think that she's
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: a bad seed? Do you think she's a bad person?
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: Do you think Zach shouldn't be with her? No? No, no no,
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: I guess I'm asking you. Does she think that? Christine? Yeah, Like,
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: why do you feel the need to tell Zack about
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: this moment? I mean, it's I don't know, it's just
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: and I understand that you feel a little insecure or
• 47:58
  Speaker 1: you're just feeling not you're a st right now. But unfortunately,
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: I that's just kind of the concept of the show.
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: You're surrounded by you know, we all felt this way.
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: You're surrounded by just beautiful people who are successful people.
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: You're competing for one person. It just brings out a
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: lot of insecurities, and it's really not, you know, the
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: most conducive for you to feel your utmost confident, at
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: least for me, so I can understand where Brown is
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: coming from. At the same time, like, don't try to
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: villainize someone else. I think Zach was like, this girl
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: for the second time this week is coming up to
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: me being like I'm not okay I think Zack yet,
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: And he's like, okay, I'm over. I want somebody at this.
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: If you're not okay right now, how are you going
• 48:38
  Speaker 1: to be in a couple of weeks. I think he
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: was just like, all right, I'm done with the Debbie
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: Downer tude. Yeah. I think he probably just thinking, like
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: a lot of us were thinking that, like listen, if
• 48:48
  Speaker 1: this is getting to you, if that type of thing
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: is getting to you, maybe this is not the best
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: environment for you, which is totally understandable because its not
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: the best environment for everybody. Um, but you know it
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: might be best if just you know, you'll leave, or
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: maybe it's actually sent her home. I don't really know.
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: All right, Well, too fast forward to the end the
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: Rose ceremony, Cat Victoria, Jay and Kimberly are the ones
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: that are going home. And I think the only person
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: that we kind of really remember from this group is
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: Cat because she gave off Ramona from the Housewives energy. Yeah,
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: she had some means. Yeah, she's just like a character
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: and you knew she kind of would be when she
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: was on after the Final Rose. But definitely not a
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: Zach girl, you know like that. No, he doesn't't even
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: think you like, do you think the leader of the
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: clubhouses right now? I think Christina and Catherine and then
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: Greer career was the first Impression Rose. So people who
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: are getting roses early, it's pretty predictable, but I think
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: that those are probably going to be your top three. Ish,
• 49:52
  Speaker 1: I'm right there with you. Yeah, I'm sure you know
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: exactly what I'm talking about. I mean, I knew who
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: they are. All right, Well, we have just a few
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: hot topic this week, one including Greer that you may
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: have already heard of. We will talk about that right
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: after this, all right, babe, did you know our first
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: headline that Greer the first Impression Rose Getter apologizes this
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: week for defending black face in the past. I did
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: see something like this, I didn't, Okay, So I'm going
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: to read this directly because I want to get the
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: facts you know perfectly out there. So it's less than
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: twenty four hours after that Monday Night episode that Greer
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: Blitzer Um apologized for past racism online. She says, the
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: journey to love is filled with lessons, and these lessons
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: are also made on our journey of growth. In my past,
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: I have made some uneducated, ignorant, and frankly wrong comments
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: on my social media counts. She's twenty four, by the way,
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: Um from Texas. In particular, I use misguided arguments on
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  Speaker 1: Twitter to defend a student who was dressed in black
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  Speaker 1: face as Tupac for Halloween. I am deeply sorry to
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  Speaker 1: those that have hurt, especially those within the black community,
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  Speaker 1: not because these screenshots have resurface, but because I ever
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  Speaker 1: shared these harmful opinions at all time and age. You
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  Speaker 1: do not excuse my actions. But this is not a
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  Speaker 1: reflection of who I am today. So basically, she was
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  Speaker 1: in a picture. She in the picture. Well, Reddit did
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: the finding, so Reddit users they found screenshots of her
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: supporting a fellow teenager who was under fire for wearing
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: black face and a Tupac shirt at a party. The
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: students involved didn't even know what black face was. So
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  Speaker 1: my point exactly, this wasn't intentionally racist act. This is
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  Speaker 1: what she said on Twitter a couple of years ago.
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  Speaker 1: Um she said she did not pain herself black because
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  Speaker 1: she felt superior to black people. Putting white powder on
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  Speaker 1: your face isn't okay either. That didn't make the news,
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  Speaker 1: did it. I apologize if this offended you, but you
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  Speaker 1: must understand it was not intentionally supposed to be perceived
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  Speaker 1: that way at all. And then this two past Tuesday,
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  Speaker 1: she said she in her statement that she um does
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  Speaker 1: not stand by or condone the damaging opinions and behaviors
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  Speaker 1: that I share at that stage of my life and
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: will forever regret making those offensive remarks. There we go.
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  Speaker 1: That's I was going to say, There we go. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: just let's not defend black face, she apologized. So what
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  Speaker 1: else are we gonna do? That's good, she apologized. So
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  Speaker 1: she did not do black face. She did not. She
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  Speaker 1: defended her friend who was at the party with her
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  Speaker 1: or I don't even know if she was at the
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: party he or she was. At the point is she
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  Speaker 1: was defending her friend online for people saying that, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: black face was wrong. Yeah, she did not participate in
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  Speaker 1: it herself. Okay, yeah, I mean just don't. But what
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  Speaker 1: are we doing if there's people online who were saying
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  Speaker 1: black face is bad? I mean, this is probably a
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  Speaker 1: couple of years ago to Yeah, I think it was
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  Speaker 1: two thousands. I can't. I don't want to give a year.
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  Speaker 1: It was during high school. It was during high school.
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  Speaker 1: Tick high school, and she's pretty young. But anyway, point is, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: point is obviously you should know that black face is bad,
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: and she apologized exactly. Um And the other big headline
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: this week, there's two of them. One is Christina, the
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: girl that we've been talking about all episode long, how
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: did cameo? And Taylor Swifts fifteen music video? That's super cool.
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: She wasn't really young because she's twenty six now, and
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: that song, that video came out when I was twenty one,
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: So what's the wow? Why I'm freaking old? It was
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  Speaker 1: like thirteen years ago. So the thirteen years ago, yeah,
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: she was well, I don't know, it was thirteen years ago.
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  Speaker 1: She's twenty six, so she could have been like thirteen,
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: that's I know. And the fifteen is obviously about your
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: high school life. So yeah, and our final headline is
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  Speaker 1: that Raven Gates and Adam Gotstock are expecting a second baby.
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: She's due in July, and we don't know how they're
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: gonna do it. Yeah, they're they're they're gonna be a
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: year and a half apart. She's over three months. She's
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: out of here. Yeah, yeah, she she found out in November.
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: I know they were definitely trying. They wanted this people.
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: They're probably incredible parents too. Raven. I just cannot get
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: over just like the sweetness she is. I could listen
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: to her talk all day long. Like she sends me
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: a voice memos sometimes and I'm like, can you just
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: like narrate my life. She's the sweetest voice and just
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: like you can tell, it's not just the voice, it's
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: like truly her insides. Yeah, Raven's a good one. Yeah. Alright, Well,
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  Speaker 1: congratulations to them. Congratulations, and we are going to sign
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  Speaker 1: off now. We love you guys, Thank you so much,
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: Thank you so much for listening, and stay tuned to
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