Latest / Apostle Lazarus Femi / GHEALEAD (Part 3)
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- 0:01Speaker 1: Apostle Family, Lazarus is a man raised by God to
- 0:05Speaker 1: demonstrate his wisdom and authority to the Last day Church.
- 0:10Speaker 1: He is the lead pastor of like nature, and God
- 0:13Speaker 1: told in years ago that a time will come where
- 0:16Speaker 1: my wisdom will be needed to navigate tough times in
- 0:20Speaker 1: the body of Christ. Then I will cause your voice
- 0:24Speaker 1: to be heard, and all who pay attention to my
- 0:27Speaker 1: word on your lips will not lack light and direction.
- 0:33Speaker 1: He is a man sent from God, sent to raise
- 0:37Speaker 1: kingdom minded, culture shapers.
- 0:39Speaker 2: And global leaders.
- 0:41Speaker 1: With Apostle Family Lazarus, every minute counts as you listen attentively.
- 0:50Speaker 2: Look chapter number four, verse eighteen.
- 0:57Speaker 3: Now this was Jesus speaking scriptures to read after.
- 1:06Speaker 2: The experience of the temptations.
- 1:08Speaker 3: So this is the next statement of Jesus, after what
- 1:12Speaker 3: we studied about bread and stones. So he piqued scriptures
- 1:18Speaker 3: to read the Bible. Said from verse seventeen that there
- 1:22Speaker 3: was lived on to him the book of prophet esiahs
- 1:25Speaker 3: there's another way to write Isaiah. And when he had
- 1:29Speaker 3: opened the book, he found the place where.
- 1:32Speaker 2: It was written.
- 1:34Speaker 3: The spirit of the Lord is upon me because he
- 1:37Speaker 3: has annointed me to preach the Gospel to the poor.
- 1:41Speaker 3: He had sent me to heal the broken atted, to
- 1:44Speaker 3: preach the deliverance to the captives, and recovery of sight
- 1:48Speaker 3: to the blind, to set them that to set at
- 1:54Speaker 3: liberty them that I was bruised. Now the verse nineteen
- 1:59Speaker 3: say is to preach the acceptable year of the Lord.
- 2:04Speaker 3: In other words, that's the year of jubilee. That's the
- 2:07Speaker 3: year that slaves are set free and any form of
- 2:11Speaker 3: bondage is loosed. Now I showed you the last time
- 2:15Speaker 3: when we started this series that same. Look for verse
- 2:19Speaker 3: eighteen in amplified rendition, and I want us to pay
- 2:24Speaker 3: attention to that. One of the disciplines we must have
- 2:27Speaker 3: is the discipline of.
- 2:28Speaker 2: Comparing scriptures with scriptures. Look for it.
- 2:32Speaker 3: In the spirit of the Lord is upon me, because
- 2:34Speaker 3: he has anointed me, the anointed one the Mesia, to
- 2:37Speaker 3: preach the good news, the gospel to the poor. He
- 2:40Speaker 3: has sent me to announce the release of captives and
- 2:42Speaker 3: recovery of sight to the blind. To send forth, as
- 2:45Speaker 3: the liverd said, to send forth as the liverd them
- 2:50Speaker 3: that are bruised, all right, as story, to send forth
- 2:54Speaker 3: us the livered those who are oppressed, that is, those
- 2:57Speaker 3: who are downtroden boost crushed and broken down by what calamity.
- 3:06Speaker 3: So calamity here doesn't necessarily mean in the context we
- 3:11Speaker 3: put it. There are many things that will fit rightly
- 3:15Speaker 3: into that world, and there are people whose spirit is broken.
- 3:19Speaker 3: There is a message in the Gospel that attends to that.
- 3:24Speaker 3: One of the confusions of the Pentecostal Church is the
- 3:30Speaker 3: assumption that because a dimension of teaching does not beat
- 3:39Speaker 3: people down and make them feel bad and make them
- 3:43Speaker 3: weep and make them feel like, oh, I have to
- 3:46Speaker 3: do so much forgot to accept me. And if you
- 3:50Speaker 3: are not preaching like that, then you must be a
- 3:51Speaker 3: motivational speaker. And sometimes I wonder that if Jesus were
- 3:59Speaker 3: to be in this generation who met the woman at
- 4:02Speaker 3: the well of sam Maria.
- 4:03Speaker 2: Who had obvious issues.
- 4:07Speaker 3: And didn't liver condemned, it would have been called a
- 4:10Speaker 3: motivational speaker. Or when they met the woman that was
- 4:15Speaker 3: caught in the very heart of adultery and now they
- 4:18Speaker 3: were going to stona to death.
- 4:20Speaker 2: You see, religion stinks and he kills.
- 4:24Speaker 3: And Jesus told the religious folks, if there's anyone here
- 4:28Speaker 3: ways without saying, let him be the first to cast
- 4:30Speaker 3: the stone, and one by one they drop their stones,
- 4:32Speaker 3: and the woman look onto Jesus according to Hebrews four fifteen,
- 4:36Speaker 3: for we have not an eye priest who cannot be
- 4:37Speaker 3: touched with the feelings of our informity is seeing that
- 4:40Speaker 3: it was in all point tempted like we are, and
- 4:42Speaker 3: they had without seeing. The only one qualified to stoneA
- 4:46Speaker 3: was the eye priest, and he said to her, I
- 4:48Speaker 3: condemned you neither. So I want to ask to understand
- 4:55Speaker 3: that this series might be deeper than the liver as
- 5:00Speaker 3: where you say, fold one by fire, because sometimes when
- 5:06Speaker 3: some of us stand here and teach, the assumption is
- 5:10Speaker 3: that there is no power. So maybe when you come
- 5:13Speaker 3: to church on Sunday and you've rolled on the floor,
- 5:16Speaker 3: then there is power.
- 5:16Speaker 2: What is power?
- 5:20Speaker 3: Power is not the ability for people to fall. It
- 5:23Speaker 3: is that which provokes change. That's power. Are you there?
- 5:28Speaker 3: That's really what power. Now, this morning is gonna be
- 5:31Speaker 3: a serious one. And if there's a morning where many
- 5:35Speaker 3: of you will be offended at meet, is this morning.
- 5:37Speaker 3: Because I won't go back. Are you ready for me?
- 5:40Speaker 3: All right, I'm gonna you don't know where I'm going.
- 5:43Speaker 3: I'm gonna get into issues. So we have been looking
- 5:48Speaker 3: at the subject gilliard and it's a way to twick
- 5:52Speaker 3: your word Gilliard and ealing. And we've been dealing with
- 5:58Speaker 3: the root cross of issues. I showed you I am
- 6:03Speaker 3: by eleven. From verse two, the babble says, for low
- 6:05Speaker 3: the wicked, bend their bowels from the arrows, that they
- 6:08Speaker 3: may privileged truth at your operating heart and investrate if
- 6:11Speaker 3: the foundations be destroyed and the writers do. I showed
- 6:13Speaker 3: you how that the devil wants to waken everyone's life
- 6:17Speaker 3: by attacking them from the foundation. And many of the
- 6:20Speaker 3: challenges many people are dealing with in their adult stage
- 6:23Speaker 3: began from the moment that they were young.
- 6:26Speaker 2: The family that had to.
- 6:27Speaker 3: Be a hope of incubation has become the primary source
- 6:29Speaker 3: of attack on many lives. So one thing the devil
- 6:34Speaker 3: has mastered and learned to do well is to make
- 6:37Speaker 3: sure that the family system is compromised. And if you
- 6:41Speaker 3: have a compromised family system, you are going to have
- 6:44Speaker 3: compromised products from the family system. If you have a
- 6:47Speaker 3: dysfunctional family system, you will have dysfunctional children from the families.
- 6:52Speaker 3: If you have dysfunctional children coming from the families, then
- 6:55Speaker 3: you will have a broken society coming from those families.
- 7:00Speaker 3: The family is the smallest unit of the society. When
- 7:06Speaker 3: we gather in church, we are first and foremost from families.
- 7:12Speaker 3: When we gather in schools, we are coming from families.
- 7:17Speaker 3: And when you teach in schools, then you will understand
- 7:19Speaker 3: the power and the impact of families on kids. You
- 7:24Speaker 3: will see children whose esteem have been broken down and
- 7:27Speaker 3: damaged because of the kind of whom they are coming from.
- 7:31Speaker 3: You will see the reflection of the decisions of the
- 7:34Speaker 3: parents and the kids. And many times these decisions affect
- 7:40Speaker 3: the children that even when they grow into adults, wood
- 7:42Speaker 3: they are still trapped in their childhood state. The Bible says,
- 7:48Speaker 3: straight up your child and the way it should grow,
- 7:50Speaker 3: and when it goes, it will not depart from it.
- 7:53Speaker 2: So there is.
- 7:53Speaker 3: Something about upbringing that forms a caste.
- 7:58Speaker 2: It is like a cast that when you merit works.
- 8:03Speaker 3: And put it into a cast, it takes the shape
- 8:07Speaker 3: of the cast. So the idea of family is not
- 8:11Speaker 3: that you marry someone who twinkle or we would tickles
- 8:14Speaker 3: your fancy. It is that you are coming together to
- 8:16Speaker 3: be a cast for the next generation. You cannot get
- 8:23Speaker 3: a leaking cast because you feel time is gone. You
- 8:28Speaker 3: cannot settle with someone who doesn't share your values because
- 8:32Speaker 3: you feel time is gone. You will be more than lovers.
- 8:36Speaker 3: You become an environment for the next yeareneration? Are you
- 8:41Speaker 3: feel what I'm saying there? So the idea of starting
- 8:45Speaker 3: the family is something that must.
- 8:47Speaker 2: Be well taught about.
- 8:49Speaker 3: Are you ready for the commitment of being a husband?
- 8:55Speaker 3: Are you ready for the commitment of being a wife?
- 9:00Speaker 3: Have you been taught what it means to be bought,
- 9:04Speaker 3: what it means to be a husband, and what it means.
- 9:06Speaker 2: To be a wife. Have you seen in scriptures?
- 9:12Speaker 3: Because you don't prepare in a battle, you prepare for it.
- 9:18Speaker 3: Have you learned what it means to be a father?
- 9:22Speaker 3: Have you learned what it means to be a mother?
- 9:27Speaker 3: These are very important foundational training because listen, you may
- 9:31Speaker 3: money your past and create what is worse than it.
- 9:36Speaker 2: And I'm saying this again.
- 9:37Speaker 3: And I believe I'm speaking in my prophetic office that
- 9:41Speaker 3: the next generation of fathers may be more of a
- 9:43Speaker 3: disaster than those they hated. Because we keep having a
- 9:48Speaker 3: generation of people who don't want to bow to responsibilities.
- 9:54Speaker 3: The major fucome of being parents is sacrificed that there
- 9:58Speaker 3: are decisions you are make, but when you think about
- 10:01Speaker 3: children who will face the consequence of your decision, you
- 10:05Speaker 3: hold back and put yourself on that.
- 10:12Speaker 2: Any man who.
- 10:13Speaker 3: Makes decisions in his room without thinking about his kid
- 10:15Speaker 3: is a bad father. From the moment you say I do,
- 10:24Speaker 3: you are no longer living for yourself. Never say I
- 10:28Speaker 3: do to someone that you can't take a bullet for.
- 10:33Speaker 3: That's that's the that's the idea of being the father
- 10:36Speaker 3: or being the husband is a protector. Okay, now, men,
- 10:43Speaker 3: you are quired. You know part of the accusations I
- 10:46Speaker 3: received online is that I always focus on the men.
- 10:52Speaker 3: I attack them and then I make women feel good.
- 10:55Speaker 3: I've come to attack men much more, you know why.
- 11:01Speaker 3: That's the foundation. Everything aries and falls on leadership, everything everything.
- 11:10Speaker 3: You can't be a man who is dragging space with
- 11:12Speaker 3: a woman and you've talked to me talk to her too.
- 11:14Speaker 2: That's not a man.
- 11:17Speaker 3: Unfortunately, not many homes have men who motile to the
- 11:20Speaker 3: boys are to be men. It is not age that
- 11:23Speaker 3: makes a boy change to be a man. It is
- 11:25Speaker 3: development gird you man up on the inside. It is
- 11:30Speaker 3: not your.
- 11:30Speaker 2: Age that change you from being a boy to being
- 11:33Speaker 2: a man.
- 11:33Speaker 3: You might be sixty and you are still a boy,
- 11:36Speaker 3: and you might be twenty and be a man. I
- 11:38Speaker 3: feel I'm saying there. It is not passage of time
- 11:41Speaker 3: that makes a boy become a man. You are trained
- 11:44Speaker 3: to become. You are taught to become. You are taught responsibility.
- 11:48Speaker 3: You can't be crying up and down and say I
- 11:50Speaker 3: know if your men are emotionally should cry cry where
- 11:53Speaker 3: you have to? Okay, look at what my wife doing.
- 11:55Speaker 3: There was a man that had an attack. He woke
- 12:00Speaker 3: up from his room and was crying, mommy, mommy, woman.
- 12:03Speaker 3: I know he was calling the wife. That's the covering.
- 12:09Speaker 3: Why should you go out in the storm and when
- 12:12Speaker 3: it is raining and carry an umbrella? That is bad.
- 12:15Speaker 3: You should not say I do to a man who
- 12:18Speaker 3: can't cover you. That's the reason why we have problems.
- 12:22Speaker 3: Many have married fine boys who are licking umbrellas they
- 12:27Speaker 3: can't cover. The guy won't pray. He won't even pray
- 12:31Speaker 3: for himself. He can't pray for his family. He doesn't
- 12:35Speaker 3: know what the enemy is planning. He has no word
- 12:37Speaker 3: about the children. He knows. Nothing is blank, And it
- 12:43Speaker 3: complains I'm the man in this house. Well, if you
- 12:45Speaker 3: have to announce it you are not. Anytime you are
- 12:49Speaker 3: to announce who you are.
- 12:51Speaker 2: You are not.
- 12:51Speaker 3: It should be of yours that you are by the
- 12:53Speaker 3: decisions that you make. Are you still with me or
- 12:56Speaker 3: you are tired? All right? We've got to have men
- 13:01Speaker 3: who teach the boys how to become men. It is
- 13:04Speaker 3: not passage of time that makes you one. You must
- 13:08Speaker 3: be ready for commitment. You must become a priest.
- 13:11Speaker 2: Are you there?
- 13:12Speaker 3: Let me show you scriptures Genesis chapter number two. Genesis
- 13:18Speaker 3: chapter number two. Now look at this. Let's start reading
- 13:22Speaker 3: from verse.
- 13:26Speaker 2: Seven.
- 13:27Speaker 3: And the Lord formed man of the dust of the ground,
- 13:30Speaker 3: and breted into his nose trills the breath of life,
- 13:33Speaker 3: and man became a living. So and the Lord God
- 13:36Speaker 3: planted a guardian east toward in Eden, and there he
- 13:40Speaker 3: put the man whom he had formed out of the
- 13:42Speaker 3: Out of the ground. The Lord made to grow every
- 13:45Speaker 3: tree that is pleasant to sight and good for food,
- 13:47Speaker 3: the tree of life also in the midst of the garden,
- 13:50Speaker 3: and the tree of knowledge of good and evil. All right,
- 13:52Speaker 3: permit me to jump a bit. Now look at it.
- 13:56Speaker 3: Verse sixteen. And the Lord God commanded the man, saying,
- 13:59Speaker 3: of every tree in the garden that mayors freely eat,
- 14:01Speaker 3: or of the tree of knowled of good and evil,
- 14:03Speaker 3: that shall not eat away from the day that I
- 14:04Speaker 3: shall eat, that shall surely die. And the Lord said,
- 14:07Speaker 3: it is not good that the man should be alone.
- 14:09Speaker 3: I will make him an upimit right then the lot
- 14:12Speaker 3: form that of every from the ground, different creatures and other.
- 14:15Speaker 3: God don't say it's not good for a man to
- 14:17Speaker 3: be alone. It is not good for the man, the
- 14:22Speaker 3: man who is in his presence, the man who has
- 14:25Speaker 3: found his assignment, the man who is doing it, the
- 14:27Speaker 3: man who has received instruction. Such a man needs help.
- 14:31Speaker 3: You can invite someone to join you in the vehic
- 14:33Speaker 3: who go into nowhere. And that's why I tell people,
- 14:38Speaker 3: if you don't know your purpose, don't propose.
- 14:41Speaker 2: Don't don't don't.
- 14:46Speaker 3: If you don't know where you are going, why bring
- 14:48Speaker 3: someone to join you on the journey of confusion.
- 14:52Speaker 2: Let's go, we find out where we'll go.
- 14:54Speaker 3: I know where we are going, and I see that
- 14:56Speaker 3: you are the one qualify to help me get there.
- 14:59Speaker 3: It is your opposed that chooses for you. It is
- 15:03Speaker 3: a purpose that shows you the kind of woman that
- 15:06Speaker 3: you need, not the of our breast. Purpose not like
- 15:12Speaker 3: I like the things purpose. Let's say it as it
- 15:18Speaker 3: is right in charch with package. So why do you
- 15:21Speaker 3: like this, sister? You know he's just full love you
- 15:23Speaker 3: Oliver with a lie. If the sister no, get all
- 15:27Speaker 3: those things the same, you will walk away. They say,
- 15:32Speaker 3: you know this is not just a purpose. Man, know
- 15:34Speaker 3: what you want.
- 15:34Speaker 2: You from the moment, you know where you are going.
- 15:43Speaker 3: You know those who can't move with from the moment
- 15:46Speaker 3: it becomes clear, it becomes clear, it becomes clear. Not
- 15:51Speaker 3: let me let me throw my net out, and that
- 15:53Speaker 3: six sisters the first to give me a yes, that's
- 15:56Speaker 3: a fool. And the sister to those though that is
- 16:00Speaker 3: part of many species that they are doing bittert and
- 16:04Speaker 3: just said, oh, I'm sorry, I'm going to dwell a
- 16:12Speaker 3: lot of masculinity today. I said something very painful last
- 16:17Speaker 3: week that now you see many girls online they're doing.
- 16:23Speaker 3: Tell us the bad things you have done? What was
- 16:25Speaker 3: your fantasy as the worst thing you've done it, I've
- 16:29Speaker 3: done it, they said with their food chairs, because they
- 16:42Speaker 3: know that because of the size of breast that they have,
- 16:48Speaker 3: and bumbum, No, let's say it as it is.
- 16:54Speaker 2: A man.
- 16:57Speaker 3: That that is his pursuit will put them in the house.
- 17:01Speaker 3: There's cassity of men. We have more boys. There's cascity
- 17:08Speaker 3: of men. If we want to repair our society less,
- 17:12Speaker 3: it is the men. The cassity of men. Boys post
- 17:16Speaker 3: you bomboom. Men pursue values, they say, they ask again,
- 17:23Speaker 3: doing to you, what do you bring to the table?
- 17:25Speaker 3: Say me, I may expect I bring my full self.
- 17:28Speaker 2: Who are you with one surgery? They remove the two
- 17:33Speaker 2: press what do you have more?
- 17:39Speaker 3: And people go to the hospital and the pump silicon
- 17:42Speaker 3: in the abum bum. They can't fly the seats on
- 17:47Speaker 3: the plane with alf bombom thee Because now this is.
- 17:52Speaker 2: The criteria to attract fools.
- 17:56Speaker 3: A real man wants to know what do you bring
- 17:59Speaker 3: to the table? Talk qualification? How can you arrange my children?
- 18:02Speaker 3: Can they be like you? That's how a man thinks.
- 18:08Speaker 3: That's how a man thinks. You have no business marrying
- 18:13Speaker 3: anyone whose mindset you don't want your children to have.
- 18:19Speaker 2: If this guy is my son.
- 18:21Speaker 3: Well I like him. That's what you look at. That's
- 18:26Speaker 3: what you look at. That's what you look at. When
- 18:30Speaker 3: people start thinking rightly, everybody will adjuse. A girl will
- 18:34Speaker 3: nowhere skin pick clothes and open the labs and say
- 18:37Speaker 3: now so they're will take see me. They do that
- 18:41Speaker 3: because they know that's what you are looking for. Are
- 18:45Speaker 3: you still there?
- 18:46Speaker 2: A real man?
- 18:47Speaker 3: Are thought, they are trained, they are erased. It is
- 18:52Speaker 3: not every man that should not be alone. There are
- 18:55Speaker 3: men that should be alone. And there are women and
- 19:00Speaker 3: that should be alone. There are girls you marry, you
- 19:07Speaker 3: have finished, you have finished. This girl can't think anything you.
- 19:17Speaker 2: Say, our daddy. That is how it should be.
- 19:22Speaker 3: You can't communicate on a level of mutual intelligence, bankthropt
- 19:29Speaker 3: or smartness.
- 19:31Speaker 2: But she carried from she carried back and you like
- 19:34Speaker 2: him like that.
- 19:40Speaker 3: Chwildren Primary Schools two Dren. Now she can't help with
- 19:43Speaker 3: the assignment because you know no, I'm we are making
- 19:48Speaker 3: a plan to move the business from Africa and an
- 19:51Speaker 3: Anti into ash okay, man, wait, tell the man beside
- 20:01Speaker 3: to wake up. When you start demanding for mom, people
- 20:07Speaker 3: will wake up. Are you still there? Are you still there?
- 20:19Speaker 3: Tell the man beside to wake up. Don't be a whim,
- 20:23Speaker 3: don't be a boy, don't be a child, be a man.
- 20:28Speaker 2: Man up. That's our men are raised.
- 20:34Speaker 3: Now. Listen, listen, listen, listen. Now Sometimes you see boys
- 20:48Speaker 3: boys boys. Now boys are interested in being girls. One
- 20:59Speaker 3: time they reported a boy to me and said this
- 21:05Speaker 3: boy is doing this and that. So I called him.
- 21:09Speaker 3: I said, boy, come here.
- 21:10Speaker 2: He came.
- 21:11Speaker 3: I said, why is your dad? He said, and the
- 21:12Speaker 3: dad left when he was bring up? Say him here now,
- 21:16Speaker 3: good day?
- 21:16Speaker 2: He went. I said, walk towards me. I said stop.
- 21:22Speaker 3: Stop now sat stout, straightening yourself. Now walk like a
- 21:30Speaker 3: man and come m ah. Someone should have straightened the
- 21:39Speaker 3: posture while you were growing and tell you are a boy,
- 21:43Speaker 3: you are not a girl.
- 21:44Speaker 2: Straightened up, my friend.
- 21:48Speaker 3: One time somebody was showing me the male Bible study
- 21:52Speaker 3: secretary they handed over to.
- 21:55Speaker 2: On campus. He's a full grown girl now with breasts.
- 22:07Speaker 2: The one we ended over to now wear bombshots and eels. Boy.
- 22:17Speaker 2: One time I finished services.
- 22:18Speaker 3: People went to a drag me online who came to
- 22:20Speaker 3: this church and said that post who is speaking against
- 22:23Speaker 3: boys who are sleeping with boys?
- 22:25Speaker 2: Is itful? Mh.
- 22:33Speaker 3: Really, I'm here to teach you how to be a man.
- 22:38Speaker 3: I'm here to help you. I'm not here to cut
- 22:41Speaker 3: you down or to hate you. If you're a boy
- 22:46Speaker 3: that when you see boys, you have erection. It's something
- 22:49Speaker 3: is wrong, and that thing began because there was no
- 22:58Speaker 3: real man around to let you know that it is wrong.
- 23:05Speaker 2: That's how we started.
- 23:07Speaker 3: Or you went to school, you were being touched by
- 23:09Speaker 3: boys and you were damaged, and there was no ill
- 23:15Speaker 3: man you could confide in. The problem of the next
- 23:23Speaker 3: generation is deeper than you can imagine.
- 23:30Speaker 2: I can't say with my full taste.
- 23:31Speaker 3: That we're in trouble because I know God will raise,
- 23:34Speaker 3: deliver assiony.
- 23:39Speaker 2: But if there's anything that.
- 23:41Speaker 3: Is en in it, it should not be forced on
- 23:45Speaker 3: the church, because the church has standards. Maybe a boy
- 23:52Speaker 3: want to wear open belly button and real worship, you're doink.
- 24:01Speaker 1: Old you?
- 24:06Speaker 2: I say a Kaim's bear.
- 24:15Speaker 3: Are their man here? That God is raising that because
- 24:19Speaker 3: of you, the next generation will be better? Are their
- 24:22Speaker 3: men here?
- 24:24Speaker 2: Now? Let me show you a few things. Are you
- 24:29Speaker 2: still here? The foundation.
- 24:34Speaker 3: Is what the devil wants to weaken, and I told
- 24:38Speaker 3: you that when it does that successfully, people become trapped
- 24:43Speaker 3: in their childhood state. The first sign of that is
- 24:47Speaker 3: timidity and fear. One of the things the role of
- 24:51Speaker 3: a father in life of a child is to embolden
- 24:54Speaker 3: the child and give the child a sense of identity.
- 25:00Speaker 2: Some of you have children who are satieve or.
- 25:03Speaker 3: You call them stubborn, and you talk courage out of them,
- 25:07Speaker 3: and you beat them up for standing their ground, and
- 25:11Speaker 3: now somebody's touching them outside.
- 25:14Speaker 2: They can't talk.
- 25:16Speaker 3: Because the children who should stand and say no, you
- 25:20Speaker 3: flogged courage out of them. I can't tell anybody not
- 25:28Speaker 3: to beat their children, but don't beat a sting.
- 25:32Speaker 2: Out of them.
- 25:34Speaker 3: Some of you went to schools that if the land
- 25:36Speaker 3: you conk on your head, and now you are struggling
- 25:43Speaker 3: to compete with those whose head they didn't knock. I
- 25:49Speaker 3: went to a kind of school that there's a boy
- 25:53Speaker 3: in our class. They call him Robina. Robina was selling
- 25:59Speaker 3: papers with his boss.
- 26:01Speaker 2: So when somebody makes noise in.
- 26:03Speaker 3: The class, the class teacher will say, opener, go and
- 26:08Speaker 3: slave the person.
- 26:10Speaker 2: And open.
- 26:11Speaker 3: I will tell you to address your face likely and
- 26:14Speaker 3: when you landsy. These are things that beats how to
- 26:18Speaker 3: esteem out of people. The curriculum and the structure of
- 26:24Speaker 3: education in Africa can never raise giants.
- 26:30Speaker 2: You can't.
- 26:32Speaker 3: Some of you are very intelligent people, or you did
- 26:35Speaker 3: curses that you have no business with. Somebody is going
- 26:38Speaker 3: to study psychology, also struggle with physics and chemistry. What's
- 26:41Speaker 3: that for? And you kept feeling that and the system
- 26:48Speaker 3: keeps you there. I see people here that will infiltrate
- 26:50Speaker 3: the education sector.
- 26:52Speaker 2: And change narratives.
- 26:54Speaker 3: I see people were raising structures. That is a radical departure.
- 26:58Speaker 2: From the norm.
- 27:00Speaker 3: H we are gonna build schools, universities, not universities and
- 27:09Speaker 3: change the narrative.
- 27:11Speaker 2: Help is not coming from the government. We have the government.
- 27:15Speaker 3: Oh yes, oh yes, Well, no political structure changing the
- 27:20Speaker 3: nation unless you're not reading. People were hyes, and collect
- 27:24Speaker 3: their government through thinking and change things.
- 27:28Speaker 2: Oh yes, oh yes, I.
- 27:30Speaker 3: See we're going into creativity and changing the narrative, or
- 27:39Speaker 3: we're not going to sit back and complain or change
- 27:42Speaker 3: things that they are aimen to that we change things
- 27:48Speaker 3: or change things now. Pay attention. Some are still scared.
- 27:58Speaker 3: Scared of being criticized, scared of not being loved, scared
- 28:01Speaker 3: of rejection, scared of being seen, scared of making mistakes,
- 28:06Speaker 3: scared of being the object of attention, Scared of being
- 28:08Speaker 3: seen by the crowd. They're scared of being the only
- 28:12Speaker 3: voice in the room. They're scared of on listening, unleashing
- 28:15Speaker 3: their potentials.
- 28:18Speaker 2: What are you afraid of?
- 28:20Speaker 3: Who are you afraid of If you walk out from
- 28:23Speaker 3: your seat and stand in the front, everyone looking at
- 28:27Speaker 3: you have their own challenges. Learn to own your moment
- 28:33Speaker 3: and don't be afraid. I shared my story with you.
- 28:38Speaker 3: I used to have low service. I went to the bank.
- 28:41Speaker 3: My dad sent me to the bank to go deposit
- 28:46Speaker 3: money for him, and it was customer. There's something customer
- 28:50Speaker 3: day or something like that. So I went there and
- 28:54Speaker 3: there was a cake and they said this customers. Why
- 29:00Speaker 3: I didn't caught because I felt well, not me. And
- 29:07Speaker 3: when I got back, he asked the kick there you
- 29:09Speaker 3: do take yours?
- 29:10Speaker 2: I said no. He said antarctica.
- 29:14Speaker 3: And he drove back to the bank and he stood
- 29:18Speaker 3: there and he said, this is my son. Go caught
- 29:21Speaker 3: your cake. And I was shaking. And I went there
- 29:26Speaker 3: and I caught my cake. Say enter back into the car.
- 29:29Speaker 3: He said, never be afraid of taking what is yours.
- 29:33Speaker 3: Never be afraid. Real men pay attention to their kids.
- 29:42Speaker 3: To pay attention. May feel maybe I'm hostile, but I'm not.
- 29:48Speaker 3: I love you too much to allow you continue like this.
- 29:53Speaker 3: The real man gives courage to their children. Number two
- 30:00Speaker 3: signs of that I said to you after fear people
- 30:03Speaker 3: pleasing culture child wants to please everyone, and some are
- 30:12Speaker 3: still there that displease themselves to make everyone happy and
- 30:21Speaker 3: try to hand people's approval. And I said to you,
- 30:24Speaker 3: when you live like that, people of maneapology, they will.
- 30:33Speaker 3: One of the things I need you to be able
- 30:35Speaker 3: to accept.
- 30:38Speaker 2: Is criticism.
- 30:42Speaker 3: That when people don't approve you, it doesn't count as anything.
- 30:47Speaker 2: It's their choice.
- 30:52Speaker 3: I don't like familars. Well it's your business. I'm not
- 30:57Speaker 3: going to change for anybody. This is who I am.
- 31:01Speaker 3: I wish you were like this. Well, get a clear
- 31:04Speaker 3: molded and make it like that. You band here based
- 31:08Speaker 3: on opinion, Then you ban the based on opinion. Then
- 31:11Speaker 3: you are not left. There's nothing left of you. You
- 31:18Speaker 3: have people see oh no people, but don't make anyone
- 31:21Speaker 3: your idol.
- 31:22Speaker 2: No people.
- 31:24Speaker 3: I love what you're doing. I celebrate you. I don't
- 31:28Speaker 3: know what you're doing. It's okay, do you and be fine. Okay,
- 31:35Speaker 3: do what you're gonna do. Leadership is the ability to
- 31:38Speaker 3: start first. Other as well learned. The spirit of leadership
- 31:46Speaker 3: doesn't wait for validation. You do it based on conviction.
- 31:51Speaker 3: You're a leader. You're a leader. Your decisions are valid.
- 31:56Speaker 3: You're a leader. Is that Okay, now you're a leader.
- 31:59Speaker 3: You are not ordinary. Don't wait for validation to do
- 32:03Speaker 3: what you have to do. Number three, I said trauma.
- 32:07Speaker 3: Number four if periority complex. Number five addictions. Now I've
- 32:15Speaker 3: thought extensively about addictions here. Really, in itself, addiction is
- 32:31Speaker 3: a mental issue in itself.
- 32:38Speaker 2: Okay, that's the physical part. But there is the other
- 32:43Speaker 2: part of it.
- 32:46Speaker 3: Where people are hooked on certain practices. At first it
- 32:51Speaker 3: gives pleasure, then later it doesn't give much.
- 32:56Speaker 2: Pressure pleasure as before. He now also the person bound.
- 33:02Speaker 3: Addictions, so different things might be a means to get away.
- 33:08Speaker 3: Some when pressure is getting too much, they get away
- 33:11Speaker 3: and get into a pornography.
- 33:14Speaker 2: It's like an escape.
- 33:17Speaker 3: Some get away and get into substance abuse, vapping, smoking
- 33:25Speaker 3: Maria Johanna and all that, cocaine, heroin.
- 33:31Speaker 2: And all that.
- 33:34Speaker 3: And at first it looks like it is given a
- 33:36Speaker 3: sense of pleasure. Then later it becomes the substance of
- 33:40Speaker 3: esteem that some don't feel among until they have smoked something.
- 33:49Speaker 2: Some can't confront the crowd until they drink something.
- 33:55Speaker 3: You say, man will get drunk and will fall on
- 34:00Speaker 3: the road into the gutter, and they will cry.
- 34:04Speaker 2: He wants to stop, but he can't.
- 34:08Speaker 3: There used to be a boy on our street.
- 34:14Speaker 2: Years back.
- 34:16Speaker 3: One today, first of December, he came out and we
- 34:24Speaker 3: met him on the road. He knelt down and was
- 34:30Speaker 3: crying Jesus this year. I don't want to do this again.
- 34:37Speaker 3: I don't want to drink again. I'm tired. It was
- 34:42Speaker 3: a chronic alcoholic. They will join them to say, man.
- 34:50Speaker 3: But even that they was praying, he was still drunk.
- 34:54Speaker 3: So first of January, first week he didn't drink. Second
- 34:58Speaker 3: week he looks like he was fine. Todd Wigi was
- 35:00Speaker 3: back and one time I asked of him and they said, oh,
- 35:08Speaker 3: you didn't hear.
- 35:09Speaker 2: I said no.
- 35:10Speaker 3: They said you went to drink and was coming back
- 35:15Speaker 3: and the girl knocked him over, So I said what
- 35:20Speaker 3: was said?
- 35:20Speaker 2: No?
- 35:21Speaker 3: When he was trying to get up, another car ran
- 35:24Speaker 3: over his head. To be addic deed is to be
- 35:34Speaker 3: in bondage that you are no longer in charge of
- 35:40Speaker 3: an aspect of your life.
- 35:42Speaker 2: That thing.
- 35:44Speaker 3: That you are hooked on determines what you do, and
- 35:49Speaker 3: most times the entry point of these things are vacuums
- 35:53Speaker 3: created by family structure.
- 36:00Speaker 2: From addicted to six can be an addiction.
- 36:07Speaker 3: A boy grew up from a family, or a girl
- 36:09Speaker 3: grew up from a family where either father or mother
- 36:12Speaker 3: will not present, and he started going to prostitute at
- 36:16Speaker 3: a young age. He will pay them and it will
- 36:20Speaker 3: sleep with them. Now he's trying to love God, but
- 36:24Speaker 3: that thing is still there. Don't accept it and look
- 36:29Speaker 3: for a way to justify it. Don't make it a
- 36:34Speaker 3: culture that you not start looking for a scripture that
- 36:37Speaker 3: then doses you when you come into Christ. Listen, the
- 36:42Speaker 3: Bible says you.
- 36:43Speaker 2: Are a new bin. All things are past the away.
- 36:48Speaker 3: Let me show you a scripture Roman's chapter number six,
- 36:51Speaker 3: verse six and Romans six, verse sixteen. I wanted to
- 36:54Speaker 3: see these scriptures. Pay attention with me here so you
- 36:58Speaker 3: can see how these work Romans sixty six. Knowing this
- 37:02Speaker 3: that our old man is crucified with him, that the
- 37:04Speaker 3: body of sin might be destroyed. That as fought, we
- 37:07Speaker 3: should not save Sein. So save scene is to be
- 37:13Speaker 3: a slave to sin. That once that thought comes you
- 37:17Speaker 3: can't help it. You can't control yourself. It moves you
- 37:20Speaker 3: to do what you don't want to do. That's been
- 37:21Speaker 3: a slave.
- 37:23Speaker 2: The old man is dead, crucified with Christ.
- 37:31Speaker 3: You are no longer to hold you and I'm gonna
- 37:33Speaker 3: show you how you ought to go about it.
- 37:34Speaker 2: Now that's the Romans, chapter verse six. Are you still there?
- 37:40Speaker 3: For he that is dead is freed from sin. Now
- 37:43Speaker 3: let me jump a bit so we can go to
- 37:49Speaker 3: verse nine ten to sixteen. Knowing that Christ is being
- 37:55Speaker 3: raised from the dead. Diet no more death, as no
- 37:59Speaker 3: more dominion over him. For in that it died, it
- 38:03Speaker 3: died onto sin ones. But in that deliverate. Deliverate on
- 38:07Speaker 3: too God. Likewise reckon that's the word there. Likewise reckon
- 38:13Speaker 3: ye yourselves, avail yourself to this reality, recony yourselves to
- 38:19Speaker 3: be dead, indeed to sin, but alive on to God
- 38:25Speaker 3: true Jesus Christ a lord, let not sin. Therefore herain
- 38:31Speaker 3: and your mortal body that you should obey the lostep
- 38:34Speaker 3: Now this is your responsibility that whatever can trigger that
- 38:39Speaker 3: actun don't give yourself to it. If being alone is
- 38:43Speaker 3: what threegasy, don't be alone. If what in certain movies
- 38:49Speaker 3: is what threegazzy. Don't watch the movies, because once a
- 38:53Speaker 3: decon colonizes you, it will take your.
- 38:55Speaker 2: Father and you want to go.
- 39:00Speaker 3: Some believe that with time I would stop, but nothing
- 39:04Speaker 3: stops with time. There was a meeting that was held
- 39:10Speaker 3: yes back and there was a meeting for clergies. A
- 39:19Speaker 3: man entered the restroom and we were in the sanitation
- 39:26Speaker 3: department and we expected him to.
- 39:28Speaker 2: Come out, so he didn't come out. We knocked.
- 39:35Speaker 3: He didn't come out, so we thought something had happened
- 39:40Speaker 3: because he had stayed too long.
- 39:42Speaker 2: So someone had to climb.
- 39:46Speaker 3: To check if it was still fine because he locked
- 39:48Speaker 3: the door, climbed through the roof and that was when
- 39:52Speaker 3: they saw him and old man.
- 39:56Speaker 2: He was plugged with headphone watching one.
- 40:03Speaker 3: It doesn't go with time, What then is the salvation
- 40:13Speaker 3: that you have received?
- 40:15Speaker 2: If you are not free? I'm sure you so you.
- 40:19Speaker 3: Don't believe around teaching that it doesn't matter what you do,
- 40:23Speaker 3: It matters what you do. Let me show you now
- 40:27Speaker 3: Romance starting about six. Let's start from verse sixteen. Romans six,
- 40:32Speaker 3: verse sixteen. Let's read this together. One two three, go No,
- 40:36Speaker 3: you're not that or womb you yield yourselves savants to
- 40:40Speaker 3: obey is servants here told me obey what I've seen
- 40:45Speaker 3: onto that of obedience onto righteousness. So it is wom
- 40:49Speaker 3: you you you you ye yourself?
- 40:57Speaker 2: Stop saying.
- 40:58Speaker 3: I started this because my first I was not available,
- 41:01Speaker 3: you can stop. How can you say you are raping
- 41:04Speaker 3: girls because someone raped you. That's not the way to
- 41:06Speaker 3: respond to rape. If you know the pain, you don't
- 41:10Speaker 3: want to hurt anyone. Addictions, it has erect many lives.
- 41:24Speaker 2: Many would have been more than times ten of what
- 41:27Speaker 2: they are.
- 41:29Speaker 3: But there's something eating up their time, It is eating
- 41:34Speaker 3: up their space, it is eating up their strength. I
- 41:42Speaker 3: know people who can't face people till they smoke. They
- 41:47Speaker 3: can't face people. And how do you believe what you
- 41:53Speaker 3: call a gospel that makes you feel convenient in seeing
- 42:00Speaker 3: how we continue in seeing that grace should abound.
- 42:06Speaker 2: God forbid.
- 42:13Speaker 3: Substance abuse, sex addiction, homophilic tendencies, prostitute engagement. It is
- 42:30Speaker 3: not normal for a man to drive out of his
- 42:34Speaker 3: house and go to a corner of a street by
- 42:42Speaker 3: some girls as this mutwar the night. It's not normal.
- 42:53Speaker 3: It's not a good life. You're a king, Your bride
- 42:59Speaker 3: is no on the street. You don't dispasse your honor.
- 43:06Speaker 3: That's not who you are. And you see people that
- 43:18Speaker 3: you know nothing about that in a moment, your life
- 43:24Speaker 3: can flash before your eyes and you say, let's go.
- 43:31Speaker 3: It doesn't matter when you started it stop because you
- 43:35Speaker 3: can two Christ that strengthens you. You can stop making
- 43:40Speaker 3: your background an excuse. And some get married and they
- 43:50Speaker 3: taught marriage will stop it. The appetite that is wild
- 43:56Speaker 3: before you found a woman. A woman can't take it.
- 44:05Speaker 3: I've said this again and again. If God speaks from
- 44:09Speaker 3: everyone today and say there's half time marriage, everybody half
- 44:16Speaker 3: time and you don't have to play second half with
- 44:21Speaker 3: the same thing.
- 44:28Speaker 2: There's a son from everyone now half time pause.
- 44:36Speaker 3: If you choose to come back to get a comeback.
- 44:38Speaker 3: If you don't approve it, mhm. That's when you know
- 44:47Speaker 3: that many of the picture you see online me and
- 44:49Speaker 3: my app is struggling and smiling because for some it
- 44:59Speaker 3: was until the a chat struck the water for the
- 45:03Speaker 3: new outdate the World War was.
- 45:10Speaker 2: What kind of pain will a woman go through.
- 45:15Speaker 3: Seeing the husband patronizing huk hops as a man? What
- 45:21Speaker 3: are you doing with dating apps where you are married
- 45:25Speaker 3: even for those who are not married, and you chat
- 45:35Speaker 3: erotic chat, send me the picture of your brast and
- 45:47Speaker 3: you do it in the dark and I yourself and
- 46:00Speaker 3: it makes you feel good. But if you have a
- 46:04Speaker 3: son like you, will you like it? Will you become old?
- 46:11Speaker 3: That God wants you to become doing that thing.
- 46:14Speaker 2: That's the question. Unpopular opinion.
- 46:26Speaker 3: There are male look up guys, and there are women
- 46:29Speaker 3: carrying them.
- 46:37Speaker 2: Yeah, God sir.
- 46:39Speaker 3: People cover many things include Yeah, God sir, Yeah, God sir.
- 46:50Speaker 3: There are problems you don't have capacity to solve.
- 46:53Speaker 2: Yeah, God sir.
- 46:58Speaker 3: In all it pays to serve good and to hear him.
- 47:05Speaker 3: Many had grown him who are not in him. Don't
- 47:08Speaker 3: copy their life. Don't copy their lives. Are you still there?
- 47:18Speaker 2: Yeah? God.
- 47:21Speaker 3: Let me show you a scripture, Proverbs, chapter number thirty one.
- 47:32Speaker 3: The assumption is that Proverbs that one is just for women. No,
- 47:38Speaker 3: we're gonna read in King James, verse one to three.
- 47:44Speaker 3: Then we're reading message translation quickly, the words of King Lagwell,
- 47:48Speaker 3: the prophecy that his mother taught him. Yes, what my son,
- 47:52Speaker 3: and what is the son of my womb? And what
- 47:54Speaker 3: the son of my vowels? Give not your strength to women?
- 47:58Speaker 3: Know your ways to that we destroy his kings. Now,
- 48:03Speaker 3: now give me a message the worlds of lamb Well,
- 48:05Speaker 3: the strong advice his mother gave him, strong advice.
- 48:08Speaker 2: Oh son of mine, what can you be talking of?
- 48:12Speaker 3: Child whom my boy, the son I dedicated to God,
- 48:18Speaker 3: don't dissipate your virility. Unfortune hunting women promis cause women.
- 48:25Speaker 2: Whose ship wreck leaders.
- 48:33Speaker 3: I don't want to believe the nonsense that men are
- 48:36Speaker 3: polygamous in nature, not a man in Christ. If it
- 48:45Speaker 3: is a struggle, try to God to help you and
- 48:48Speaker 3: be accountable.
- 48:52Speaker 2: You're accountable. Don't look for scriptures to justify it. The men.
- 49:03Speaker 3: Who have asked the wife's best friend out slept to
- 49:08Speaker 3: the house, gain the daughter's friends, the sister's friends. Anything
- 49:16Speaker 3: in skates is demonic, and once you start, it keeps
- 49:21Speaker 3: getting deeper. In case you are young and you've not
- 49:25Speaker 3: got to the accent, I'm telling that's.
- 49:26Speaker 2: Where you are going unless you stop. Now.
- 49:32Speaker 3: Let make sure your scripture so you don't think I'm
- 49:35Speaker 3: saying my words Proverbs chapter number five. And the girl
- 49:40Speaker 3: that they are not married to that is doing it.
- 49:42Speaker 3: They are doing it together. You are happy you came
- 49:48Speaker 3: to church from the house of a man you are
- 49:51Speaker 3: not married to. After service, they will drop you to
- 49:56Speaker 3: go and buy things in the market. You bite wife duties.
- 50:09Speaker 3: So I've seen church sisters doo. What do you mean
- 50:14Speaker 3: when the family are serving very good to be dropping sisters?
- 50:18Speaker 3: We thought it was from their walk, my God, and
- 50:26Speaker 3: we lived upoli hands.
- 50:30Speaker 2: Lid to wonder.
- 50:30Speaker 3: We don't see the presidence of God in many places
- 50:34Speaker 3: because the author is polluted. We must go back to
- 50:39Speaker 3: the old dog get across the world is in trouble.
- 50:42Speaker 3: You need to know that we are forcing a lifestyle
- 50:46Speaker 3: into Christianity. And many pastors can talk like this because
- 50:50Speaker 3: many girls and their parents too. My God, my God,
- 50:55Speaker 3: my God, my God. Out the devil, silence, giant, silence giants.
- 51:05Speaker 3: It gets light with their dm and they are talking already,
- 51:08Speaker 3: My God, my God. You will not be silenced. You
- 51:16Speaker 3: will not be silenced Proverbs five. If you're there, samen,
- 51:28Speaker 3: now let's start reading from verse.
- 51:36Speaker 2: Seven.
- 51:41Speaker 3: Hear me now there for all your children, the partner
- 51:43Speaker 3: from the words of my mouth. Yes, remove your way
- 51:46Speaker 3: far from her, and come not near the door of
- 51:48Speaker 3: our house. Yes, unless you give your own note towarders,
- 51:51Speaker 3: you know why you give your note toward us?
- 51:52Speaker 2: They start asking you, he would you?
- 51:56Speaker 4: Huh?
- 51:57Speaker 3: That's the worst question. They're asking you. How did you
- 52:01Speaker 3: get here? They now call an adult and a small
- 52:06Speaker 3: girl and say, explain what happened?
- 52:11Speaker 2: You are a king. You won't see shame.
- 52:15Speaker 3: I curse the root of immorality.
- 52:18Speaker 2: You are a king. You won't see shame. You won't
- 52:23Speaker 2: bring shame upon your children.
- 52:27Speaker 3: You don't see a seventy year old man sixty something.
- 52:32Speaker 3: They said he's a ripped a five year old girl.
- 52:36Speaker 3: Then I say, Grandpa, how did you get here? Shame
- 52:40Speaker 3: is not pleasant, But always say Johnny. There are people
- 52:47Speaker 3: who their attraction is towards children, my god. Fathers, mothers.
- 52:56Speaker 3: Don't just bring children into this world. Pay attention to them,
- 53:00Speaker 3: let them talk. There are teachers in.
- 53:04Speaker 2: Schoolho are eating your children's food.
- 53:10Speaker 3: Teacher, we open coolers of different children and ideal food,
- 53:20Speaker 3: and they will eat. Iimediate the children and beat them.
- 53:25Speaker 3: Maybe we need to erase the emotion that every school must
- 53:27Speaker 3: have citify cameras. There are male teachers who are more
- 53:36Speaker 3: lesting children, my God, and there are female teachers who
- 53:42Speaker 3: are more lessening to them. They will touch the genitors
- 53:44Speaker 3: of the boy as they say, smart thing.
- 53:49Speaker 2: I know you don't believe what I'm saying. Be present.
- 53:56Speaker 3: What makes you a father is not the ability to
- 53:59Speaker 3: impres need a woman be there in their lives.
- 54:03Speaker 2: Sit around the table with your children.
- 54:05Speaker 3: Don't be the madman of gadaher who will go to
- 54:08Speaker 3: the tomb where dead people are and caught himself with chains.
- 54:11Speaker 3: Be in your family house, Sit down with your wife,
- 54:14Speaker 3: Sit down with your tother, same movies together, park. They
- 54:19Speaker 3: miss you, they want you at home. Every time you
- 54:24Speaker 3: come back from work, your bath, put some perfume, is
- 54:28Speaker 3: going again till one again eleven or twelve. And the
- 54:39Speaker 3: children don't even know their father. No, that's not the
- 54:44Speaker 3: way God made family to function. One of the ways
- 54:50Speaker 3: to protect your spouse is to protect their emotions. Don't
- 54:55Speaker 3: make your wife face him of not knowing how many
- 54:59Speaker 3: women and she's sharing you with the serials matter? Are
- 55:06Speaker 3: you still in this church or you are tired of me?
- 55:09Speaker 3: It's quiet in this room. Let the man shout a luyah.
- 55:15Speaker 3: Oh I love you guys, Oh my, I know all
- 55:20Speaker 3: the things I'm saying. Doesn't happy because you are kings.
- 55:23Speaker 3: Let's give Jesus a bigger But don't be a king
- 55:32Speaker 3: whose crown is lost. The most way we'll finish this scripture,
- 55:38Speaker 3: I won't forget Proverbs five continue from war stuff unless
- 55:42Speaker 3: you give your honor toward us and your years towards
- 55:45Speaker 3: the crew. Lets strangers be filled with your world and
- 55:49Speaker 3: your labor being the house of a stranger. Yes, and
- 55:52Speaker 3: you mourn at last when your flesh and your body
- 55:56Speaker 3: is consumed. Now, let me tell you something in many
- 55:59Speaker 3: more years to what will matter to you is that
- 56:02Speaker 3: your children and your spouse love you, that your boys
- 56:11Speaker 3: can cry to God. I want to be like daddy.
- 56:16Speaker 3: There's no pleasure in the world that is compared to
- 56:20Speaker 3: mentoring your own son.
- 56:24Speaker 2: In integrity, in uprightness.
- 56:28Speaker 3: There's no pleasure in this world that is compared to
- 56:31Speaker 3: that will receive grace for that in this church, that
- 56:37Speaker 3: we have men who are king men here. I didn't
- 56:40Speaker 3: hear you mean to that. The king may king.
- 56:46Speaker 2: You're a king. Your head is correct, your head is correct,
- 56:51Speaker 2: Your head is correct. You're a king.
- 56:58Speaker 3: There's a night's life addiction, an addiction, my god, clubbing.
- 57:12Speaker 3: I don't know how we normalize clubbing and still think
- 57:17Speaker 3: all is well, my God. So I oppose you don't
- 57:22Speaker 3: know what's up. You know I used to be a dj.
- 57:32Speaker 2: E.
- 57:32Speaker 3: Don't mean that you think I don't know much. I
- 57:34Speaker 3: can't sell you. God saved us from something, and that's
- 57:41Speaker 3: why we are here. We didn't fall from this guy.
- 57:44Speaker 3: Now there is the next one. Tendency, or let's call
- 57:49Speaker 3: it violence. Violence. This is one of the manifestations that
- 58:04Speaker 3: comes with men from an abusive background. Some men don't
- 58:12Speaker 3: know how to talk to women because nobody has model did.
- 58:18Speaker 3: They don't know how to talk to their wife. Sit
- 58:22Speaker 3: down there, what do you mean? And some will beat
- 58:29Speaker 3: beat the woman and the slapper the way you talk.
- 58:37Speaker 2: To your spouse. You saw it from someone.
- 58:41Speaker 3: Everything done in your presence model is a possibility. Some
- 58:46Speaker 3: men hated the way their fathers beat their mothers, but
- 58:51Speaker 3: once the wife does something would say, well, this must
- 58:53Speaker 3: be the reason.
- 58:54Speaker 2: And there are women who are men beat us. Hold
- 58:58Speaker 2: on a minute.
- 59:00Speaker 3: One of the very important criteria you must do for
- 59:02Speaker 3: a man in a woman as a man is a
- 59:05Speaker 3: woman who is kind. There are women who are not kind.
- 59:11Speaker 3: There are women that God helps you. You are not sick.
- 59:13Speaker 3: Around them, they will kill you. I once saw a woman.
- 59:19Speaker 3: The husband was sick and she was trying to feed him,
- 59:24Speaker 3: and she will slap him and.
- 59:27Speaker 2: Say, eat your food.
- 59:30Speaker 3: And when the man is eating with tears and the
- 59:32Speaker 3: food drops from his mouth, she will pick it from
- 59:34Speaker 3: the ground and squeeze it in his mouth. And I
- 59:42Speaker 3: had to collect the food, and I say, can I help?
- 59:47Speaker 3: Said yes, And the man was eating and tears was
- 59:50Speaker 3: feeling his face. Will this woman still beloved with you
- 59:56Speaker 3: when they're not strong? There are women who are not scaring.
- 1:00:04Speaker 3: I want to pray for a man. He was paralyzed.
- 1:00:10Speaker 3: He had invited me to come pray for him, and
- 1:00:14Speaker 3: he was calling the wife, come join pastor, let's pray.
- 1:00:21Speaker 2: And the wife was there.
- 1:00:23Speaker 3: He called us every time she did answer, and I
- 1:00:26Speaker 3: saw him cry and said, when I was strong and
- 1:00:30Speaker 3: I was the bread winner of this house, I was
- 1:00:33Speaker 3: not treated like this.
- 1:00:39Speaker 2: If that man is not strong, hope you won't become violent.
- 1:00:47Speaker 2: Do you love him?
- 1:00:49Speaker 3: One of the questions men asked is in my old age,
- 1:00:54Speaker 3: when I'm not as strong as I am, now, will.
- 1:00:56Speaker 2: She be there?
- 1:00:59Speaker 3: Some women grew up in environment that were hash as
- 1:01:05Speaker 3: they are cooking. Everybody's collecting. It's food for people, know, yeah, food, food, eat,
- 1:01:17Speaker 3: eat and die.
- 1:01:23Speaker 2: You know when I teach.
- 1:01:25Speaker 3: Unfortunately, many of you feel what I'm saying is not possible,
- 1:01:29Speaker 3: but it is. Some of you came from very fantastic
- 1:01:33Speaker 3: places and it's okay.
- 1:01:35Speaker 2: But just know what I'm saying is what possible.
- 1:01:44Speaker 3: The way you talk to your wife the way you
- 1:01:46Speaker 3: talk to your husband, the way you correct your children,
- 1:01:48Speaker 3: the way you respond to issues.
- 1:01:50Speaker 2: You lent it from somewhere.
- 1:01:56Speaker 3: I've seen families where when there's a problem, they will
- 1:01:59Speaker 3: break boat on each other's head.
- 1:02:06Speaker 2: Uh.
- 1:02:07Speaker 3: The wife is telling the horseman, I'll go forget both
- 1:02:11Speaker 3: for your head, nanah.
- 1:02:18Speaker 2: And the man is shocked and she well, you suddenly
- 1:02:23Speaker 2: turned to this.
- 1:02:25Speaker 3: There was a lion on his side. You said you
- 1:02:27Speaker 3: liked the young, free and wild. I was watching the
- 1:02:31Speaker 3: video of a young boy who asked the girl out
- 1:02:37Speaker 3: and invited the girl to come see him, and he
- 1:02:41Speaker 3: had it in his plan to kill the girl for rituals.
- 1:02:48Speaker 3: And he killed the girl and caught off a body part,
- 1:02:54Speaker 3: and they went to use it for a ritual, and
- 1:02:56Speaker 3: he had the girls to call the girl's father and say,
- 1:03:00Speaker 3: I've kidnapped your daughter. The person who has capacity for that,
- 1:03:07Speaker 3: that capacity was built from something that was missing in
- 1:03:11Speaker 3: the family.
- 1:03:13Speaker 2: If we get families right, violens will drop.
- 1:03:21Speaker 3: That.
- 1:03:22Speaker 2: Someone can go rob a person.
- 1:03:29Speaker 3: And said your money or the phone, and while the
- 1:03:32Speaker 3: person is still thinking, we'll bring out a knife and
- 1:03:35Speaker 3: stop the person on the neck.
- 1:03:37Speaker 2: Hey, Steve Fellow is coming from a family.
- 1:03:42Speaker 3: It is either the father or absent throughout, or the
- 1:03:46Speaker 3: father to or a broken man, or even grew up
- 1:03:52Speaker 3: knowing that his father was in prison and it felt
- 1:03:56Speaker 3: pain going up and wants everyone in the society to
- 1:04:00Speaker 3: feel the pain. If we get family right, viol lens
- 1:04:06Speaker 3: wearydus vialoulens weardus viol ns wearduce, if we get family right.
- 1:04:17Speaker 3: The story of a girl that was returning from work
- 1:04:21Speaker 3: smart girl years back, were turning from work promising young
- 1:04:26Speaker 3: lady about to get married. A guy attacked her to
- 1:04:30Speaker 3: collect our laptop and stop.
- 1:04:33Speaker 2: Down the neck and the girl died.
- 1:04:38Speaker 3: Also in Legos, a story of a medical doctor coming
- 1:04:42Speaker 3: out of late night shift trying to move from his
- 1:04:44Speaker 3: hospital to his house nearby, and they attacked him for
- 1:04:48Speaker 3: his phone and stabbed him on his chest for a phone.
- 1:04:56Speaker 2: And you know people who do all these.
- 1:04:57Speaker 3: Things we've go on line to as an angilize bad
- 1:05:00Speaker 3: ninety eyes ad and you see people who break into
- 1:05:06Speaker 3: people's homes and rob them and kill them. There was
- 1:05:10Speaker 3: a story in a shoe stead a woman that herself
- 1:05:13Speaker 3: and her son agreed together to kill the girlfriend and
- 1:05:18Speaker 3: remove the heart of the girl, cooked it and add
- 1:05:21Speaker 3: it for it. Well, family structure. There are mothers encouraging
- 1:05:31Speaker 3: their children going to your who steal money, will give
- 1:05:34Speaker 3: your name to a pastors to will pray for you.
- 1:05:36Speaker 2: Families.
- 1:05:40Speaker 3: Once the family structure is compromised, it's over. You want
- 1:05:47Speaker 3: to get ninetier right, get your home right. Those who
- 1:05:57Speaker 3: are go into government and you someone didn't tell them
- 1:06:02Speaker 3: while they were growing up. That's still in this bad
- 1:06:08Speaker 3: Some of you still remember the home training you got
- 1:06:11Speaker 3: that if you'll steer or if you lie, if we
- 1:06:19Speaker 3: get family right, the grip of the devil will for.
- 1:06:25Speaker 2: Now. Yes, the research.
- 1:06:29Speaker 3: This is sich was done by Time magazine, but in
- 1:06:38Speaker 3: order to be concise, I'm just gonna read some of it.
- 1:06:44Speaker 3: Number one, the absence of the father is the single
- 1:06:48Speaker 3: most important.
- 1:06:49Speaker 2: Curse of crime.
- 1:06:54Speaker 3: That when fathers who ought to move their correctness, I'm
- 1:06:59Speaker 3: missing the question.
- 1:07:01Speaker 2: Children tend to become criminals.
- 1:07:04Speaker 3: Go to Chicago, go to environment where the blacks, black
- 1:07:08Speaker 3: Americans are way. A man can have five baby mammas
- 1:07:13Speaker 3: and all the children we grew up without him, they
- 1:07:15Speaker 3: become criminals. They were like jack cars. They will stab people.
- 1:07:19Speaker 3: They will shoot people at point blank range because they
- 1:07:24Speaker 3: are hurting and they wonder society to feel a bit
- 1:07:28Speaker 3: of their pain. The ability to impregnate a woman is
- 1:07:32Speaker 3: not what makes it Monday. Further, it is the one
- 1:07:36Speaker 3: who stays that is daddy. We're gonna make a vow
- 1:07:43Speaker 3: to God today that what you could already see from
- 1:07:48Speaker 3: your parents, you will give it to the next generation.
- 1:07:52Speaker 2: Because that's leadership.
- 1:07:54Speaker 3: You will not see back and say, you know, I'm
- 1:07:56Speaker 3: like this because nobody, nobody was there for me. Will
- 1:08:00Speaker 3: take responsibility. So although I did not receive it, I
- 1:08:04Speaker 3: wait to my children. I wait to them to give
- 1:08:06Speaker 3: them a father with a priest. I owe it to
- 1:08:09Speaker 3: them to give them a father with a mentor. I
- 1:08:11Speaker 3: way to them to give them a father with a
- 1:08:13Speaker 3: prayer man. I way to them to give them a
- 1:08:15Speaker 3: father with a provider. Don't sit down, I said, and
- 1:08:18Speaker 3: there's no work, and then we don't know what You're
- 1:08:21Speaker 3: gonna get something out for your next generation.
- 1:08:28Speaker 2: God trust you. That's why you are here.
- 1:08:32Speaker 4: He trusts you. He trusts you, and you won't fail.
- 1:08:38Speaker 4: I think you're you're a man again. You won't fail.
- 1:08:42Speaker 4: You won't fail.
- 1:08:44Speaker 3: We will not raise criminals through us as individuals. The
- 1:08:49Speaker 3: narrative will change. True you the pattern of dysfunctionality will end.
- 1:08:56Speaker 3: You will receive grace to hand it, to change, the narrative,
- 1:09:00Speaker 3: to hand the status school.
- 1:09:01Speaker 2: In the name of Jesus. In the areas you are weak,
- 1:09:04Speaker 2: receive strengths.
- 1:09:05Speaker 3: Now listen, listen, listen onto him who is able to
- 1:09:12Speaker 3: keep us from falling and present us spotless.
- 1:09:15Speaker 2: Listen.
- 1:09:16Speaker 3: I understand, and I say this under God, that many
- 1:09:20Speaker 3: of you love God. You want to serve him. You
- 1:09:25Speaker 3: want to give your children the opportunity you did have.
- 1:09:28Speaker 2: Or you are trying.
- 1:09:30Speaker 3: I tell you God sees you. It will help you
- 1:09:34Speaker 3: in the areas of your struggle. Listen, it will help you.
- 1:09:37Speaker 3: It will raise voices for you to help you. You
- 1:09:41Speaker 3: will not die trying. You will not feel halfway. You
- 1:09:45Speaker 3: will do your duties well. You will not become what
- 1:09:48Speaker 3: you eat. You'll finish strong. You'll be a compassionate father.
- 1:09:53Speaker 3: You'll be a kind mother. You be a priest and
- 1:09:56Speaker 3: a provider. You'll be an help and a strength. Now,
- 1:10:00Speaker 3: in the name of Jesus, Now let me say this
- 1:10:02Speaker 3: to you. Poverty won't catch up with you. Listen, listen, listen.
- 1:10:08Speaker 3: There not many men in this room but trying. I
- 1:10:11Speaker 3: want to provide. If I have opportunity. I will do better.
- 1:10:16Speaker 2: Ah.
- 1:10:17Speaker 3: There is the God who sees. There is the God
- 1:10:19Speaker 3: who sees it will open doors for you. Those attempts
- 1:10:25Speaker 3: will pay off. Those attemps. There are many who didn't
- 1:10:28Speaker 3: have the opportunity. Nobody to say this out to start,
- 1:10:31Speaker 3: nobody to say take this and start with it. You
- 1:10:34Speaker 3: are the one trying to dig, trying to struggle and
- 1:10:36Speaker 3: find your way through life. Ah, you will not die trying.
- 1:10:41Speaker 3: You will not die in the midst of that battle. Listen,
- 1:10:46Speaker 3: I stand here as a man called by God, and
- 1:10:48Speaker 3: I am pouring my heart to you that there is
- 1:10:51Speaker 3: no situation you have found yourself in that God will
- 1:10:54Speaker 3: not bring you out off.
- 1:10:57Speaker 2: It will help you. Maybe you are tired and you
- 1:11:00Speaker 2: look at it as a man.
- 1:11:01Speaker 3: I'm tired. I don't want to holt my wife again.
- 1:11:05Speaker 3: I don't want to hurt my children. When you begin
- 1:11:07Speaker 3: to argue, the children will be crying. They'll be crying,
- 1:11:11Speaker 3: and it's oughts you. You've told yourself, I don't want
- 1:11:14Speaker 3: them to see this kind of thing.
- 1:11:16Speaker 2: And every time it.
- 1:11:16Speaker 3: Happens, you go back and you are broken on the
- 1:11:19Speaker 3: east side, or you don't know how to express it. Ah,
- 1:11:22Speaker 3: God will help you. God will help you. It will
- 1:11:26Speaker 3: bless you with all that patterns to life and godliness.
- 1:11:30Speaker 3: In a name of Jesus, you will not be tool
- 1:11:32Speaker 3: of shame and reproach. In the name of Jesus, You'll
- 1:11:36Speaker 3: finish well. You will be better than your father. What
- 1:11:40Speaker 3: they couldn't accomplish. You will accomplish what they could not do.
- 1:11:44Speaker 3: You will do what they could not become. You will become.
- 1:11:48Speaker 3: You will not fail where they failed. You will not
- 1:11:50Speaker 3: stop where they stopped. In a name of Jesus, what
- 1:11:54Speaker 3: took them how, it will not take you out. In
- 1:11:56Speaker 3: a name of Jesus. If there is a pattern of
- 1:11:59Speaker 3: shorts of life, you will live long, you finish well.
- 1:12:03Speaker 2: I bless you from my heart in the name of
- 1:12:06Speaker 2: Jesus Christ.
- 1:12:07Speaker 3: Family structures have apeared, alms are balanced in the name
- 1:12:11Speaker 3: of Jesus.
- 1:12:12Speaker 2: Receive grace. Where you are weak, receive grace. Where are
- 1:12:16Speaker 2: you are weak? Receive grace? Where are you are weak?
- 1:12:18Speaker 2: Receive grace.
- 1:12:20Speaker 3: If there's anyone here, we is hurting. You are hurting
- 1:12:23Speaker 3: so bad, and you have questions, how did.
- 1:12:26Speaker 2: I get here? The bomb of Tdiard will heal you.
- 1:12:30Speaker 3: Families will be able to sit down together and have
- 1:12:33Speaker 3: important conversations in the name of Jesus. Don't conclude yet.
- 1:12:38Speaker 3: Lace Arous is not dead. Oh yes, they might bear
- 1:12:42Speaker 3: him for four days, but they will come back again.
- 1:12:44Speaker 3: That old may look like the case of Laceros. God
- 1:12:47Speaker 3: is able to make dry bones come alive, is able
- 1:12:50Speaker 3: to make dry bones come alive. Is able to make
- 1:12:53Speaker 3: dry bones come alive, is able to make dry bones
- 1:12:57Speaker 3: come alive. You are free with all that I hear now,
- 1:13:02Speaker 3: I then, still good men, Yes there are I didn't
- 1:13:05Speaker 3: still good women.
- 1:13:06Speaker 2: Yes, look around you. God has ms and he has daughters.
- 1:13:10Speaker 2: Don't be afraid.
- 1:13:12Speaker 3: Don't be afraid. He has gone ahead of you to
- 1:13:15Speaker 3: make the cook at Pats straight. There is the messy
- 1:13:19Speaker 3: that insists that message will speak over you. There is
- 1:13:22Speaker 3: the message that says, no, this one can't miss it.
- 1:13:25Speaker 3: That message will speak if it remains a minute to
- 1:13:29Speaker 3: marry your enemy it was scatter. Grace will preserve you.
- 1:13:35Speaker 3: Now listen, I don't teach about homes for the front
- 1:13:38Speaker 3: of it. I know that's where the devil is looking.
- 1:13:40Speaker 3: I'm not the married speaker or a relationship coach. We
- 1:13:44Speaker 3: are speaking deliverance to families. Your receive yours, your receivos.
- 1:13:50Speaker 3: It gives you strength. Now look at this. It gives
- 1:13:54Speaker 3: power to defend and to them that has no mighty
- 1:13:57Speaker 3: increase straights. Even though you shall beware of your young man.
- 1:14:00Speaker 3: A lotally follow. But there that'll wait upon the lot
- 1:14:02Speaker 3: Solomon in you the strength, the amount of of the
- 1:14:05Speaker 3: wings like egos, receiving wings like egos. Now here this
- 1:14:10Speaker 3: from today your eyes of understanding are enlightened. Because of you,
- 1:14:16Speaker 3: they'll say there are a good men in a Buddha.
- 1:14:18Speaker 3: They will said there are a good man in Legos,
- 1:14:20Speaker 3: in a badon in London, help mewhare.
- 1:14:24Speaker 2: Because of you, the narratives will change.
- 1:14:27Speaker 3: Receive Priest again, I pray at a dozen of provisional
- 1:14:31Speaker 3: view of pons.
- 1:14:32Speaker 2: Receive hell.
- 1:14:34Speaker 3: It is done from my heart. I bless you in
- 1:14:37Speaker 3: the name of Jesus. It is done, and Jesus might.
- 1:14:42Speaker 3: Let's give Jesus a big hand.
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