Latest / Andini Effendi / Suka Duka Berbagi Suami ft. Nia Dinata with Andini Effendi ep.111
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- 0:00Speaker 1: Inspiracy.
- 0:03Speaker 2: Yeah, ay ay, yeah, I made mistakes, so can.
- 0:15Speaker 1: Do. But the heart is colors what you then screening
- 0:25the man Ako can run young.
- 0:33Speaker 3: Polygamy, gad Manu part miss interprets young Muslim and digital
- 0:46media is let call not Muslim.
- 0:50Speaker 1: Jug and san hi and thank you so much for
- 1:04being here. Sabella's year.
- 1:16Speaker 3: And the cinematic parties money any the cinematic parties trus branch.
- 1:28Speaker 1: Truso occurs on uh man in and.
- 1:41Speaker 3: Tros debla ya your vers is Karen Karna uh issue,
- 1:54polygamy General trus Burg truc some more.
- 2:07Speaker 1: Everything about Ilana Siri you on your d j S
- 2:15last year. Then yeah, DNA journalism ju the rose.
- 2:30Speaker 3: Recept so I did my research the Kai then wow
- 2:37in a partisan makin normalissas polygamy it polygamo mantara Activisian
- 2:46lines book. Then young used to be some criminalis criminalis
- 3:00l g B t q Y did you call yet truth?
- 3:05Did the criminal Lisa?
- 3:07Speaker 1: I was thinking to yeah, the yeah young criminal Lisa
- 3:21did and not yeah and too did the warries did
- 3:29the young star and the sa then and the the
- 3:42the girl did the.
- 3:45Speaker 3: Paradox Yeah from paradox paradox, gim me in herku the
- 3:55gada young hayaku a gamma regaritrus prompt.
- 4:06Speaker 1: Yeah, prom call as judgement. Yeah, the young yead thinking
- 4:18what was your finding? The du youngstim not Muslim.
- 4:28Speaker 3: Can't scaliaa young you finding a cool but Instagram TikTok
- 4:37it the can are at your heart.
- 4:41Speaker 1: Then through through the.
- 4:46Speaker 3: Just clorkan on Muslim gito young and young and the
- 4:56social media. You did the digital and in.
- 5:03Speaker 1: Your hat.
- 5:04Speaker 3: You did your hat. You get your hat, the social
- 5:09media capada history youngs and social media get you get
- 5:19the big runda prefat burner round the public Manda young
- 5:27hearts get on there. I think I just start typing
- 5:34my screenplay, my script.
- 5:38Speaker 1: Truth. Yeah did, and it's going to be a Movie's
- 5:46a movie. It's it's a movie. You need to point
- 5:50trust rough comodian along the way. I start to polish
- 5:57it then like wow, okay, did mechanical about context? It's
- 6:09a movie that polygamy. Yeah yeah, you can.
- 6:15Speaker 3: Almost mostly normally it's a Muslim family. Yeah, normally Baja
- 6:21interpretasi and back up idola professor city.
- 6:29Speaker 1: La guru Karna as a back up to put yeah
- 6:45colony translate uh guarded man yad uh day miss.
- 6:57Speaker 3: Interpretasilak muslim cano digital media by a can this true?
- 7:11Young mullu maayan cluea in BANKSI not Muslim j gito.
- 7:18Speaker 1: It was a surprise for me. Guo, Okay, this is
- 7:21how ignorant I am. Then in Spira yeah a ya
- 7:31a ya.
- 7:35Speaker 3: Ithun columna sALS vilan.
- 7:43Speaker 1: So I was just turning twenty one. I mean, uh.
- 7:52Speaker 3: Mistake, So Jedd here ready Glas in school uhato Jedd
- 8:11max mun king uh in the blah, okay a this mistake,
- 8:24Jennifer man what I'm sorry your sister ho sister Meg?
- 8:35Then so thats in my black god napi uh brica
- 8:48ayak cycle bog and my parents already passed away in
- 9:00the open.
- 9:04Speaker 1: This my own half sister. Then your mom stayed in
- 9:13the marriage. Stay. Uh it's true my father and you
- 9:18my half sister.
- 9:23Speaker 3: Look up, Yeah, Smoth, I'm very disappointed, but still I
- 9:43keep my promise.
- 9:43Speaker 1: But I will appa get to know my half sister
- 9:48and love her. Okay, but colors you to yeah, maybe
- 10:03that what makes me more bladder genders.
- 10:08Speaker 3: It was a will journalism Bache Area Elective Elective all
- 10:19the American elective young with.
- 10:22Speaker 1: A better gender power relation throughst Islam and psychology to Canada,
- 10:31the compos young this I mean, I'm a nerd at
- 10:44heart your columns A and the Google colabuse, non film,
- 10:47Iran film, the campus. Yeah, Sambo got a good glad
- 10:55Germany Trust Library, Song Library a chari uh.
- 11:09Speaker 3: Irenian at the Eastern Middle Eastern actually Moxim mcmaba at
- 11:14the librarian.
- 11:16Speaker 1: Yeah, Gito, you have a sit Jerry. I I tried
- 11:23to get to know and of course by the Google.
- 11:29So where did I go? I went to the library
- 11:32woag g gole very library then and Tito you uh
- 11:58fodian a yah you get banker Yeah, then London films.
- 12:16Speaker 3: And even my momma media media block.
- 12:23Speaker 1: And I don't know. It's like my grandpa Young from
- 12:34my dad's side yea di.
- 12:46Speaker 2: Di di.
- 12:47Speaker 3: It was enticing on Kaya the higher trus philosophy. He
- 12:53do the culture did sinai Indonesia. I want to know
- 12:59relations ship and Laki and brom To and also I'm
- 13:03a history Buffia jan I love Cartini. Then the do
- 13:09oh yeah, the Adu samra is Rina and pri Ako
- 13:17rang Jeva so is Java it took Anomo Germans bloom
- 13:25dip in the blog and bless duel and bless develops
- 13:32members a Similian Cartini Rabang Young Rose Jerry and put
- 13:43rod the rapp call a parcud liked rang king or Bloomba.
- 14:02Speaker 1: And he does some cardiny to anti polyg value to bang.
- 14:21Speaker 4: It comes to you this is against my belief? Yes, yes, yes,
- 14:25yes absolutely. Then my first daughter.
- 14:29Speaker 1: Then then come.
- 14:32Speaker 4: Everything that a father does to the daughter tattoo in
- 14:38ourself so true, Bang. Have you ever had a chance
- 14:45to forgive him?
- 14:46Speaker 1: Of course of course.
- 14:49Speaker 3: At my health sister, Yeah, forgive him brombuk how to
- 15:03raise a daughter? And I'm the only daughter, young? Did
- 15:08you brother aco Gito okaya uh.
- 15:16Speaker 1: In the moham bill.
- 15:20Speaker 3: And they grew up in the Americaya Mohambia business at
- 15:25communication journalism.
- 15:29Speaker 1: Emailsa in a long week and called, look, come walk
- 15:38to the America.
- 15:40Speaker 3: We can you want to travel somewhere, Pappy Jams, it's
- 15:49the internet therea.
- 15:56Speaker 1: Budget flight did a long with I try to enjoy
- 16:02in my city, young Panjam Mama oh moning haw hal
- 16:11young there and.
- 16:27Speaker 3: It yeddy up my dad it to orange then Malan
- 16:45parents to dam Afka and parents yd too many Okay, okay,
- 16:54I'm trying to digest. I'm trying to forgive you my
- 16:58sisters sometimes the bitter.
- 17:05Speaker 1: Yeah. Then I just like like arican it. I just
- 17:17see Max, Okay, Tuppy, I just don't want to see
- 17:20you with the with that family. Yeah yeah to my
- 17:32dad by that and that, I just have to write
- 17:38this and at that time a cop.
- 17:48Speaker 3: Arizona Arisana also my personal story, my friendship with my gang,
- 17:56the was I to listen to.
- 18:01Speaker 1: I always start with writing script. I really enjoy that moment. Riah, Yeah, yeah,
- 18:11could you enjoy topic. I think you're one of the
- 18:16persons y neuroplastic and by to bring coping mechanism to
- 18:23endure grief or any experience not for not forgetting.
- 18:32Speaker 3: When when Chari sal yes, when Charry acknowledge the grief
- 18:39Bagan sometimes I celebrate the grief sensitivists miss ves crazy, but.
- 19:03Speaker 1: You dogfie.
- 19:10Speaker 3: A Tao caip in the America throws a pan. Yeah,
- 19:20of course a script then I mean and then per b.
- 19:31Speaker 1: Sponsor the pas or really any my husband first draft
- 19:45to the Guinea, you do you do? What did you
- 19:53do madag title, what is the in your face color?
- 20:02Speaker 3: Did you don make moving? I will change later, trust
- 20:07Dichu man Gilling, Gilling Palace and a talk tower, zail
- 20:12and yelling Palace. Doesn't discuss gill and Yelling Palace and
- 20:19look a tower. But I'm not gonna do something more
- 20:21to Aco uh malayim Villan. I love this field so much.
- 20:33Speaker 1: I love it. I love this better than puppy ye
- 20:39the color, I actually talk that. Congratulations man Gito.
- 20:44Speaker 2: Then the.
- 20:49Speaker 1: Screening the Mana, It's okay to to the polygamys inger
- 21:00Ako uh can uh run young a queen a queen
- 21:14polygamy Peter Madi to jug.
- 21:24Speaker 3: Young Yeah, trust Jaman get live interview radio Life call Yeah,
- 21:37what I'm Castriniapine what films partty in Guinea Carna from.
- 21:59Speaker 1: MHM radio in your bud yeah social just yeah against
- 22:17the mainstream in l G B t Q.
- 22:23Speaker 4: Certificate and but you're always there to speak it with
- 22:27your your art, all right? What was like the motivation
- 22:32to do it?
- 22:38Speaker 1: Work? Journalism? I love journalism.
- 22:43Speaker 3: Can belong to this king the club, the campos, so
- 22:46I watch films too Young.
- 22:50Speaker 1: Young film Film, the China.
- 22:55Speaker 3: Film film, Iran, Iran film film, Afghani stand film film,
- 23:01The Girl and the Girl Conflict Young Wow, Kila Bisayah
- 23:08became films in Gito. Then could you get Kilaya? Of
- 23:14course I was living in Sara.
- 23:18Speaker 1: Early nineties and Kali, the Dunesia Guito, the panting Rasa,
- 23:28sensitive Tika Rasa and film into.
- 23:38Speaker 3: Super Man not the sequel of Superman. Yeah, yah somewhere
- 23:44Hollywood block basters. Yeah, masokni bio. Wow, this is real film.
- 23:52G I want to make film that has this impact.
- 23:57Speaker 1: In the club.
- 23:58Speaker 3: I It's not don't get a discoos ce and the
- 24:02club students, students in e Run. I do need to
- 24:11heini to do very very global.
- 24:21Speaker 1: And patil you know. So that's that's what that was
- 24:27my first motivation. Okay. Then a champ Arizon, Oh yes,
- 24:40one day.
- 24:43Speaker 3: Mister Arisons true Arista a Midian and from a GiB
- 24:52Upi Lassia aim uh in Indonesian American sea. It just
- 25:06campus Sala Harry International Women's Day at Cardini Film can
- 25:16Digitalnaya and this life Ranyah, against against my against my
- 25:33art uh Ta Canapas is so much anger.
- 25:43Speaker 1: Film. Yeah, this film Magatti perspective persona or it's not
- 25:51gonna make sat country trus demo, trus uber empathy and
- 26:00ski yeah, okay, okay. Something completely beyond my knowledge is
- 26:12censorship diff okay, okay, what the alement okay.
- 26:19Speaker 3: In sensor trust uh a Panama see the rich Abc
- 26:27Okay yeah boo okay or really as Blom release in
- 26:40a coussor and producer Maga and sorga a marias thats
- 26:54all the facts?
- 26:55Speaker 1: Do you giv sial film can thirty five millimeters in
- 27:01the Metrosakian the acanda, I hear, yeah, a mechanism Malayati
- 27:15Alma Rubia making last man, then to a lost man Jerry.
- 27:26Speaker 3: Blah blah bro I head the Blastomai did the mechanism
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- 27:51Speaker 1: Character not on film, miss all the film a film
- 27:57then film miss film Hollywood check guit the ondi okay,
- 28:09recommend okay dona yeah yeah, uh y.
- 28:26Speaker 3: Please please take time to watch this garage you get
- 28:31Umsilado Young the Reports Foundation.
- 28:36Speaker 1: So it's a good book. So I red okay barriedli
- 28:50tuppy against co prom the young they can and I do,
- 29:04God bless her soul. Yes, I have to do this
- 29:14out there yea the film then.
- 29:20Speaker 3: It can?
- 29:21Speaker 1: Yeah? Did and try together? Tuppy ako to you did
- 29:35do against a propo for lucky you did? That's that
- 29:46filmy entertaining Tuppy and powery ye did?
- 29:58Speaker 2: Ye did?
- 29:58Speaker 1: I have to?
- 30:00Speaker 2: Ok?
- 30:02Speaker 3: You can cut together? Then there is no food, there's
- 30:06no l g B T. It's all about dialogue. Yeah yeah,
- 30:14alba pos back.
- 30:19Speaker 1: To tuna and here I can see baby the ending
- 30:29care it was moros Yeah yeah, did you get there?
- 30:45Lock the beat? Did the coping mechanism suthing trauma? Trauma
- 30:57because it's such a small thing given a name, but yeah,
- 31:05yeah it can. It's her own personal liberation. Yeah for
- 31:11me maxa to go have a cow in at Yeah
- 31:18yeah it his hand. Sorry ja what individual choices to
- 31:32the process like when you're in sorry professors, when a
- 31:40film to film? Yeah yeah yeah did you do? And
- 32:02m B the principle made their perspective of life?
- 32:07Speaker 2: Right?
- 32:08Speaker 1: You can?
- 32:08Speaker 4: Then it is in the areas every day struggling, yes, exactly,
- 32:12every and then.
- 32:15Speaker 1: Or minority or did you go to struggle and said sorry?
- 32:24Speaker 2: I do.
- 32:26Speaker 1: Ya said, just say but yeah, well in the every
- 32:38day Life and the Green, the Green and Yak song,
- 32:45Yeah huh, then needing and oh yeah the film Okay,
- 32:58I don't know that the timeline film part yeah, call
- 33:08young line and making film is somebody is sensitive to
- 33:15yeah uh cross then the party to g Yeah, I mean.
- 33:29Speaker 3: Milk part yeah, so Urga young a game Soran then
- 33:42but can't proma miss miss or a big young the
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- 34:05Speaker 1: And it also shows how the nations yea with issues.
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- 35:24Speaker 3: Did I still enjoy watching something big scream gittle or
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- 35:37Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Tapa. When you watch more more labor stars
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- 36:12first time producing. So I think it's amazing. Uh will
- 36:19we ever see the light of the private screaming only
- 36:26the okay, tuppy only scream Buka, then bang then to
- 36:38Kaya and throws shooting documentar throws stapy juga. Uh the.
- 36:56Speaker 3: Bang so soxa ya so ran young up across dresser
- 37:07the hero.
- 37:08Speaker 1: This responding pos it. Yeah, it was a lu uh
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- 37:51the girl say young misslebab.
- 37:58Speaker 1: Yeah. This kindness, this kind of kindness is what keeps
- 38:02us going here. The ant near politics than Economydians and
- 38:13the generational music a million so America, Wow, Indian Indian
- 38:34fueling our energy. Then l G B t Q. It's
- 38:41not the message kind of the dog. It's the message
- 38:44is like just love everyone and just let everyone contribute America.
- 38:56We can pang dregs show every Friday night and Saturday night.
- 39:01It o can it's an artik. Yeah, your costume Slaia
- 39:09Gala Machi then ran.
- 39:15Speaker 3: From all over the world, so yeah, yeah, it's just
- 39:20a form of art. Tito young Juga Madama Indonesia. Wow,
- 39:26the Maya Indonesia.
- 39:29Speaker 1: Is a lot cabad do the class I had at
- 39:32the ba and the Partamaya mostic traditional Blanya and the
- 39:38tarian traditional interprets INTERPRETSI pop culture.
- 39:43Speaker 3: Can you.
- 39:45Speaker 1: It's a gratist area. Yes, it's a public relation, free
- 39:52public relation for a peaceful Indonesia. Yes, for a diversity,
- 39:57a diversity very true out your finding them doing research
- 40:02on the documentary in Balmslanya is giving acceptance and visibility.
- 40:09Other the direct show the queens Ka of course.
- 40:19Speaker 3: Glare uh gay can call it the British born Sir
- 40:29Okay Elton John, but Sir Alta uh.
- 40:36Speaker 1: Ja and.
- 40:45Speaker 3: The provinci is gather provincials.
- 40:52Speaker 1: It's wow and.
- 40:56Speaker 3: Passing. It was the antara scala lagi its cab sultan
- 41:15a la scalamu clorgat.
- 41:19Speaker 1: A joke scala some mag you burn becha malo borro.
- 41:30Did you have about b B truth? There's not Don
- 41:47cabaret cantas mature yeah, economy did anatola?
- 41:58Speaker 5: Uh?
- 42:00Speaker 1: I mean, but didn't uh is mostly wow then Trinata
- 42:13so I mean that DM restaurant. We feel more, yeah,
- 42:20with the economy, but it didn't begin that.
- 42:29Speaker 3: Oh you know, yeah this through cabret in social entrepreneur. Ya,
- 42:39it's currently jaw through costume apo social entrepreneur just to
- 42:49run the economy. J Fiel talk Mac.
- 42:56Speaker 1: But I didn't know that yet, said and then yeah,
- 43:01yeah I can okay uh. And then anytime you feel
- 43:07like you're not comfortable, just let me know. I just
- 43:10want to tell you I'm very sorry. It's okay, I'm
- 43:15very sorry. How are you coping? Not easy? Not easy? Yeah?
- 43:21The expiring day? Yeah. How do you celebrate your grief?
- 43:31Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 43:32Speaker 1: The Canadi Master's degree can tapi ya kaburu galant uh
- 43:52like a mini library?
- 43:56Speaker 3: Did I celebrate my griefs found and pass October and
- 44:07lan we can be the library han Yeah, the q
- 44:13rate some comberd I d and the Landact t tat
- 44:25Bagan then yeah, uh yeah this el Hambi, the library
- 44:37book philosophy and years actually.
- 44:42Speaker 1: Parent, the land another, the brand Brandy, the Gamblan and
- 44:53the data and the skelt to other rock book philosophy,
- 45:06keep up Katie and Western philosophy and Western bull dog
- 45:20to see. And that's how to celebrate honest life. Yours
- 45:25all right, given name Klimber sang j kaya kaya.
- 45:36Speaker 3: Cherish our time, yet take things for granted, the empty
- 45:45rest and the day the America Gibran take things for
- 45:54granted a holiday, Hi, we miss you.
- 45:59Speaker 1: We can't parents and.
- 46:05Speaker 3: Brand hurricane, Hi, we missed you, Karna Mia Yap, then
- 46:19job and telephone can do Caelphoronia.
- 46:24Speaker 1: This is kind of cool to be trust uh.
- 46:31Speaker 3: Jo jay miss o work from jog ya and I
- 46:35can't do that, then bar he took it out. The
- 46:42skali Bisa vacationing together kind of jud smooth the bed
- 46:48there is the America okayafacation, the work work an a band, takar.
- 47:06Speaker 1: Mol vacation in towns. At least to a parent, you're
- 47:16losing a child that you jed my mom is a
- 47:19losing a child to walk to pass Aco and j
- 47:26d work to committing the Saudi Arabia to grow up,
- 47:31the ayacud, the city ban, the the uh to kum
- 47:38baby sitting and the co trust uh sing girl my
- 47:47nan kila chores trust them or if it would be
- 47:55sold but opening girl to blow the town and you did.
- 48:10I cannot imagine losing a child and can let griefing?
- 48:16Then did the gar and Tranta ross you that you smaller?
- 48:31Mammy is so brief and tough. How could you get
- 48:38trying to learn from my mom my mother in law?
- 48:43Could you? And the expiring did with that being so
- 48:56if cherish everyy moment, Yeah, there's the present, the present,
- 49:03even good money is a ticket for granted, we never know,
- 49:08we never do exactly, We never know. Guru, Yes, I
- 49:15feel that I honest. The ij this our challenge a
- 49:27man They did lak and onto oh the girl.
- 49:45Speaker 3: Victims scala scala dB You got hers.
- 49:52Speaker 1: For example, uh katang d d charan a top of
- 50:01your relationship dating it you guy like you're vulnerable. It's true.
- 50:07Speaker 3: It's only the world is changing, oh Apa the Yeah,
- 50:18the gun virtual dating a theater. Yeah, and at the
- 50:29back of our heads dating and clack up the guit
- 50:39in the back of our head, tuppy ka prolog the.
- 50:45Speaker 1: Judge victim. While upon in.
- 50:53Speaker 3: B C power relation to young people, your power from
- 51:09romantically over powering me? Okay, would you This is my
- 51:29own baby empathy.
- 51:38Speaker 1: Do you mess every single of course?
- 51:48Speaker 3: Trosa sal and he's also abusic my hobby.
- 51:56Speaker 1: Philosophy. The Ross lyrics did cosmic joke?
- 52:06Speaker 3: Mad the album the released on the Majors really cosmic
- 52:12joke calls cosmic joke. Her Man critic uh politics in
- 52:24in his lyrics, Wow mantro philosopher. Yeah, remember had the
- 52:31book signs from the Yeah signs.
- 52:40Speaker 1: The signs? Yeah did.
- 52:44Speaker 5: Uh?
- 52:45Speaker 1: Colo is true?
- 52:49Speaker 3: One of my girlfriends column King my friend from l
- 52:56a bleep Akuba. It's on my way to Jogjakra, I
- 53:04love train. Can it this signs as rainbow and butterfly. Yeah,
- 53:12the rose yoga jo Ja, Uh Guru Aku Guru, private yoga,
- 53:20Ako to rouse Sarah say yoga, Tiberio.
- 53:27Speaker 1: Rainbow like rain bag, red book, see yoga and some
- 53:43painting to sign your rainbow like rainbow. It's like the
- 53:57next day, my God, I thank you some shaped you
- 54:00so much. I can only do this with you. Yeah,
- 54:03I do line line, joy, ended ye and blessed. But
- 54:18it was so short.
- 54:20Speaker 3: Oh yeah Yeahleman on the surface, Yes, yes, yes, yes,
- 54:26I feel like I need to do this conversation with justice.
- 54:29Speaker 1: Yes he has been like a private yes, yes, like
- 54:32off the record conversation with you. Thank you so much
- 54:36for sharing. Thank you, Thank you.
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