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194 Why Does Dating Feel So Damn Hard?
Dating today is asking us to do something pretty extraordinary.
We’re trying to find someone we genuinely desire, who desires us, who shares our values, can build a life with us, and with whom we can create deep emotional intimacy and soul-shaking sex—without abandoning ourselves in the process.
And we’re trying to do it with dating apps, endless choices, disappearing cultural scripts, attachment patterns, and approximately 47 different kinds of flags to analyze. 😂 No wonder we’re in our heads.
In this episode, I explore why modern love asks so much of us, why you can’t think your way into…
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