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Episode 78: When Sleep Finally Stops Controlling Your Entire Day (Energy, Patience, Participation, and Feeling More Like Yourself Again) · The Total Knee Success Podcast: Your Essential Resource for Navigating Total Knee Replacement

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  she looked at the bigger pattern instead of one
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  night, and that kept her from overcorrecting,
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  second -guessing, or trying to recreate the day
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  like it was a formula. A rough night could still
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  happen, but it did not have the power to hijack
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  her next day. Are you ready to get back to what
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  you love after knee replacement? The Total Knee
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  Success Podcast is your trusted guide with practical
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  tips, evidence -based strategies, and no fluff.
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  It's not personal medical advice, just solid
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  education to help you manage pain, regain mobility,
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  and get back to living the life you love. Let's
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  dive in. Welcome back to the Total Knee Success
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  Podcast. I'm Michelle. If you've been with me
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  for episodes 75, 76, and 77, you know we've been
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  walking through sleep after knee replacement
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  from multiple angles. Episode 75 covered why
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  nights can feel so different after knee replacement.
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  Episode 76 was the ripple effect, why interrupted
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  sleep can change what your day feels like in
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  your body. Episode 77 was the practical side,
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  the way sleep starts to improve through positioning.
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  medication timing, routines and activity levels.
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  If you've not listened to those episodes yet
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  I suggest you go back and start there first because
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  today is the fourth part of this series and it
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  will make a little more sense once you have the
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  full foundation. By the end of this episode you'll
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  recognize the signs that sleep is no longer running
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  your day and you'll know what that change often
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  looks like in real life even before sleep is
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  perfect. There's a moment that a lot of people
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  describe and it's not usually dramatic. It's
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  not the first night you sleep eight hours straight.
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  It's more subtle than that in the sense that
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  it shows up in your morning and your afternoon
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  more than it shows up on a sleep app if you happen
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  to use one. You wake up and you're not immediately
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  doing the math. How many times did I wake up?
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  How much soreness and swelling am I going to
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  be dealing with today? Will I be able to function?
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  How many hours of sleep did I get? Instead, you
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  get out of bed and you move into the day without
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  your whole schedule being built around needing
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  a nap, just to make it through the afternoon.
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  That's the moment that we're talking about today.
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  Sleep after knee replacement rarely improves
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  like flipping a switch. You've heard me say that
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  in this series already, and I'm repeating it
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  here on purpose because it's the piece that keeps
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  the rest of this episode from sounding like a
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  fantasy. Most studies and clinical experience
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  line up on the same idea. Early sleep is often
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  more interrupted. And over time, it improves,
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  in steps, with a widespread of timelines across
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  people. That shows up in questionnaire studies,
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  wearable tracking, and overnight sleep studies
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  in joint replacement populations. So if your
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  nights are still unpredictable, you can still
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  be moving into the part of the story where sleep
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  stops controlling your day. Let's bring Claire
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  back. You met Claire in episodes 75 through 77.
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  In episode 76, she was waking over and over.
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  then starting the morning already behind. In
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  episode 77, she started noticing patterns, and
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  her nights began to change in small ways. A longer
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  first stretch, one less wake up, a little less
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  irritation building right before bedtime. Today,
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  Claire is a few weeks further down the road.
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  Her sleep is still interrupted some nights, but
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  the daytime experience is changing. Here's what
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  that looks like. First, her energy is no longer
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  the limiting factor in every part of the day.
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  She still gets tired, but she's not running on
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  fumes from breakfast to dinner. She can finish
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  a morning routine without needing to sit down
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  afterward. She can take a short walk and still
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  feel like she has something left. Second, she
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  has more patience again because she's not running
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  on exhaustion. When you're not sleep deprived,
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  your brain has more room for normal inconvenience.
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  A slow morning, a stiff first few steps, a delayed
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  appointment, a harder therapy session. All of
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  those things stop feeling like proof that something
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  went wrong. Third, she starts saying yes to more
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  of her life, a lunch with a friend, a quick outing,
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  sitting at a grandchild's game for a little longer.
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  These are not marathon days, they're normal days,
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  and that's the point. And she starts feeling
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  more like herself again, not because her knee
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  feels great all day, but because her attention
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  is not pinned to it every hour. This is why this
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  episode is called When Sleep Finally Stops Controlling
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  Your Entire Day. The point is that sleep does
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  not have to be perfect for it to stop running
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  your day. What changes first for a lot of people
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  is the grip it has on your schedule. You may
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  still wake up a bit tired, but you're not spending
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  the whole day bracing for the night or rebuilding
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  the day around fatigue. One way you can tell
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  you're turning a corner is how often sleep is
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  on your mind. Early on, sleep can take over your
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  whole day. You count wakeups. You watch the clock.
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  You plan your afternoon around whether you can
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  squeeze in a nap. When sleep starts improving,
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  you get longer stretches of the day where you're
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  not thinking about it. You're just living. You
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  may also notice it in your tolerance. A slightly
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  busier day and a longer guarantees a terrible
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  night. You can have a therapy day and still get
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  through dinner without feeling wiped out. You
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  can wake up with a little knee stiffness and
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  still get moving without feeling like the whole
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  day is already decided. There's a physical reason
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  this tends to happen. As swelling is less likely
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  to spike and your daily rhythm becomes more predictable,
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  sleep tends to get less fragmented. That does
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  not mean it becomes normal all at once. It means
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  your body is getting more of what actually restores
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  you. It also helps to keep your expectations
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  realistic in this window. Better sleep does not
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  erase every single ache. It does not stop swelling
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  completely. It does not make therapy effortless.
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  What it does is loosen the grip those things
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  can have on your day. Good sleep promotes healing,
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  which promotes good sleep. This is also where
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  you can tell something has changed because a
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  rough night no longer gets to write the whole
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  story for the next day. Claire still had nights
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  that felt rough, but she stopped treating the
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  morning like a verdict. She looked at the bigger
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  pattern instead of one night, and that kept her
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  from over -correcting, second -guessing, or trying
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  to recreate the day like it was a formula. A
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  rough night could still happen, but it did not
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  have the power to hijack her next day. That's
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  what I mean when I say sleep stops controlling
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  your day. One quick safety note. Call your provider
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  right away for fever, new drainage from your
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  incision, or new calf pain or one -sided swelling.
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  It's not typical for you. If you have chest pain
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  or trouble breathing, treat that as an emergency
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  and get urgent help right away. For other symptoms
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  that feel concerning or are getting worse instead
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  of better, reach out to your provider. And even
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  without those red flags, if you have several
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  nights in a row where you can barely sleep at
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  all, It is reasonable to reach out to your care
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  team to talk it through. You can see it in how
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  you plan your time. You can make decisions based
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  on what your knee can handle and what your life
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  needs, not based on panic about whether you will
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  sleep. You stop building the day around avoiding
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  discomfort at all costs. You start building the
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  day around what is reasonable and sustainable.
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  One more thing to expect. When sleep starts improving,
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  it often improves unevenly. You can have a few
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  better nights. and then one that feels rough
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  again. That can happen after a more active day,
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  a change in routine, or a day that simply asked
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  a little bit more of you. It doesn't mean you're
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  back at the start. It usually means your sleep
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  still has a little bit of sensitivity. Before
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  we wrap up, if you're listening and thinking,
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  yep, that's me, make sure you're signed up for
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  of healing and helps you know what to expect.
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  Click the link in the show notes or go to TotalKneeSuccess
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  .com. If you want extra support making sense
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  of pain after surgery, my new book, Making Sense
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  of Pain After Knee Replacement is on Amazon and
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  Kindle. It's a practical guide to learning about
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  swelling, stiffness, soreness, setbacks, movement
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  discomfort, and day -to -day symptom changes
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  after knee replacement. I'll link it in the show
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  notes. Let's check back in with Claire, the best
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  way to describe where she is now. is that she's
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  living again inside her days. She still has nights
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  that are not great. She still has evenings where
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  swelling builds a bit and she has to be smart
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  about what she does. But sleep is no longer the
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  headline of every morning. She has enough energy
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  to show up for her own life. She has more patience
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  in the messy middle. She participates without
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  rehearsing the consequences of every choice.
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  She's not waiting for every symptom to disappear
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  to feel like herself again. And if this is starting
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  to sound like your life again, that's worth noticing.
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  You kept going through a stretch that was genuinely
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  difficult on sleep and energy, and now the day
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  is opening back up. That's the win. In episode
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  79, we're starting a new short series on prehab.
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  We're going to talk about what helps before surgery
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  when your knee is stiff, when your quads feel
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  weak, when your stamina is low, and when your
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  brain is bouncing between worry and determination.
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  If you're getting ready for surgery, that series
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  will give you a clear place to start. Thanks
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  for joining me. I'm Michelle and this has been
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  the Total Knee Success podcast. This podcast
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  is for educational purposes only. Discover more
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  at TotalKneeSuccess .com and be sure to subscribe
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  closer to living the life you love.