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Sneak Peek: Aligned For Wealth Day 1 · Redefining Wealth with Patrice Washington

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Hey there.
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Over the last, uh, several months, we've been having a deep conversation on the Redefining Wealth podcast about alignment, and we've talked about what happens when your life looks successful on paper, but it doesn't quite feel aligned in your spirit.
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We've talked about relationships and vision and habits and grief and standards and identity, and the courage it takes to tell yourself the truth every time something feels misaligned.
But we haven't gotten really deep into the cost of it all and the static that it creates for the vision you say you have.
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So that's why I created Aligned for Wealth, because I don't believe that wealth is something you have to keep chasing.
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I believe it's something you create by becoming more aligned.
And you've heard me talk about Aligned for Wealth.
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I literally just got done hosting day one, and it honestly exceeded every expectation that I had.
The breakthroughs, the comments in the chat, the realizations going off in the app about people realizing what's really blocking them for the first time.
It wasn't just about money, it was about their alignment, all the parts of their lives that were impacting how they show up with their money.
So instead of simply telling you about Aligned for Wealth anymore, I wanted to let you experience some of it for yourself.
So what you're about to hear is just a portion of the day one training.
It's not the entire session by any means.
It's been edited for this format, but I think it's enough to give you a feel for the conversation, uh, the framework that I'm teaching from, and the questions that we are answering inside this experience.
And if you find yourself at any point nodding along, if anything feels familiar, if anything feels like a, a little gut punch, um, and you recognize that you are one of the people I'm talking to, you've been successful, but you still don't feel fully aligned and fulfilled, then this may be your invitation to go to alignedforwealth.com
and join us.
So take a listen and I'll meet you on the other side so I can tell you more about the experience You were never created to chase one of the things that I've noticed from coaching thousands of people at this point, whether one-on-one or in some type of program, is that the people who are almost always exhausted are not necessarily not successful already.
They're not the least successful among us.
You're already successful.
You've already done the things.
You've gotten the jobs, the careers, launched the families, launched the businesses.
You've done a lot of things.
It's not that you're not already successful.
But sometimes do you know that we've gotten successful at doing the wrong things? Do you know sometimes we have chased so much so quickly, so swiftly, that we have gotten up ladders and we didn't even really wanna be there Which is why so often what I hear when people come to me, and these are quotes, these are real things that I get in my DMs, these are real nuggets from my clients.
"I thought the problem was working for someone else, and then somehow the same problems followed me into entrepreneurship."
Have you ever been there? "I, I take care of everyone else consistently, and even though I'm always busy, somehow I still forget about myself."
Have you ever been there? I've done all the things.
I continue to do all the things, the right things.
I went to school, I got good grades, I got a job, I got married, I did this, I did that.
I followed society's prescription for success, and I still feel like when will it ever be enough? Have you ever been in the place where you're like, "I make good money.
I've made more money than I've ever made in my life.
I am literally in the type of salary that I prayed for, and I still can't save to save my life."
I am the one that made it.
Any and everyone around you will tell you, from my family around me, will tell you that I'm the one that made it.
I'm the one that people consider successful, and I'm still not fulfilled These are things that I hear from people every single day.
And these are from doctors, executives, attorneys, entrepreneurs, caregivers, people in ministry, people who are high achievers by every measure.
And yet they feel this way.
So it's not about lacking ambition.
We can take that off the table.
It's not about lacking discipline, because you have to be disciplined to do so many of these things, right? It's not about lacking the ability to set goals, because you know how to make things happen, right? It's not about a lack of intelligence or brilliance.
When you start to feel this way, even when it's quiet and subtle and under the radar, what it tells me is that you're lacking alignment.
And if your soul called you here today, it's because you needed to get a few words on alignment in your system, in your spirit.
Because for many of us, for twenty, thirty, forty, fifty, sixty years, we have followed other people's blueprint, and we have never taken time to honestly ask ourselves, "What is my blueprint? What was I really sent here to do? What feels most aligned and authentic to my soul?" We have never really asked that question.
And Aligned for Wealth is about that.
It is about giving you permission to ask the questions that are gonna get you to the alignment, the vision, the things that you say you desire I believe that We were designed to align desire with our decisions.
Most people walk around this world thinking that the answer is a better strategy, that it is going to be something else outside of them.
I need to be a better planner.
I need a better morning routine.
I need another certification.
When I get the next promotion, when I achieve this next goal.
How many of you, if you're radically honest, have continued to hit the things that you thought it would be this, and then it would be that, and then within days, within weeks, within months you drifted right back? I know I can't be the only one.
How many times have, "Oh, when I get this job everything will be good," and then you find yourself in that job with the salary thinking it was going to be the thing, and then somehow it didn't end up being the thing.
"Oh, when I get this relationship that's gonna be good," and then it just introduces something else.
Oh, okay.
Right? Have you ever noticed that you can deeply desire something though and then still be making decisions that move you further away from it? We can really desire something and still not make the decisions that allow us to hold that thing, that allow us to be with that thing.
Something that I talk about very often, many people here know, that I have a, a desire, a vision to live out of the country, in particular in Mexico or somewhere else in Central America potentially.
And one thing I'm very clear about are the decisions that I make today to live in that vision are not just about money because I have the money to just go live in Mexico right now.
It's how I wanna be It's how I wanna feel while I'm there.
It's what I want my countenance to be every day.
Do you understand that? Right? 'Cause some of us say we want the thing, and we get the thing, but we leave out some things.
We leave out the decisions that would allow us to truly hold it and receive it the way that we want to.
So some of us will say, "I desire peace," but then you still entertain chaos you might say, "I desire health," but then you still set your life up for depletion.
You might say, "I, I desire abundance," but then you don't make choices from the lens of abundance.
You make choices from the lens of fear and scarcity.
You might say, "I desire connection," and then every time we turn around, you're in the house 'cause you are choosing isolation.
You see how we can say certain things, but our decisions don't necessarily align with that desire? So the issue is not desire.
You have desires, you've had goals, you've had visions.
But the issue is sometimes the desire and the decisions that you have to make to truly hold that desire are disconnected There's a disconnect.
And what we're here today to do is figure out what is creating that gap, what is creating that disconnect.
I'll tell you that I've been teaching from the six pillars of wealth for quite some time now, nine years, but really before then, before I was calling them pillars.
And people would see them as these disconnected random things that they were doing.
I wanna submit to you that the pillars are important because they help inform your decisions.
The pillars are the things that protect your vision.
The reason that we have such great disconnect is because we don't have a container to help our minds figure out, what should I actually be doing in service of my vision? Most of us only think we should be thinking about work.
But I just told you, how many times have you done all the things you could do at work and you still felt unfulfilled? You still felt like you weren't being necessarily seen or respected or honoring your gifts.
You still ended up mismanaging your finances.
That should tell you that work and money are not the end-all be-all.
It is about how we align the decisions in our life, the everyday decisions we have to make, leveraging the pillars to help us not just get what we say we want, but enjoy it.
I want your life to feel as good as it looks to other people.
Because how many of you have had the experience where you even start to utter that you might be frustrated or disappointed or annoyed with something and someone says to you, "Well, at least you have a such and such"? At least you have this or that.
At least you have a spouse.
At least you have a job.
And this is not about not being grateful, but do you know that if a desire was put on your heart, it was inviting you to step into a next level? You're not ungrateful because you have a desire And you're not a bad person because you are ready to align your decisions to help you get to the desire That is what you're here to do.
That is what your soul came here to do.
Your soul came here to get curious and explore and figure out where you belong in this huge earth.
There's just something that you were called to do.
There's a reason that you have the desires you have, and I have the desires that I have, and they are not necessarily the same.
But now our job is to align our decisions with those desires.
But what gets in the way? Do I have any old school folks here? You remember when our TV sets used to look like this? Static on the screen Remember we used to say when the TV went off? I have a 18-year-old daughter now.
She could not imagine the TV going off.
What does that mean? Remember when the TV would go off.
You'd be in the middle of a show, and next thing you know, you get the snow, the static Do you remember that back in the day, television stations were constantly broadcasting signals through the air, right? And the picture and the sound were already there.
The TV was not creating the picture and sound.
It was just broadcasting.
It was basically receiving.
And you remember we had a antenna? We'd have the antenna, and the antenna's job was to capture the radio waves and deliver them to the television so it could translate a picture.
That was the whole thing.
And do you remember when people, when the antenna might break? and we would put a wire hanger.
We would put a wire hanger where that antenna used to go.
You better not throw that dry cleaning away.
We need that wire hanger.
You put some foil on it.
Oh, I see I have some old school folks in the chat with me.
Okay.
You put that foil on it.
And what we were trying to do was capture more of the broadcast signal.
The wire hanger wasn't creating the signal, it was trying to capture the signal.
It was trying to get the TV to receive what was already present The TV didn't create the picture.
The TV didn't create the sound.
It was already there but the point in the wire hanger, the antenna, was to help get the picture so that we could sit there and actually enjoy what we were seeing and not just look at snow So the picture would get staticky because the signal wasn't coming through, right? the station was still transmitting.
The signal hadn't disappeared.
It was there, but Something interfered with the reception.
It could have been weather conditions.
It could have been someone messed up the antenna.
It could have been that the antenna was just pointing in the wrong direction.
It could have been that buildings or mountains or something were blocking the signal.
There could have been electrical, interference from other devices So when we saw static, it wasn't because there was no broadcast.
It wasn't because the TV was broken, 'cause the TV was plugged in and it was working 'cause we could see the static.
It was because the receiver wasn't properly aligned with the frequency So I saw a few people say, you used to whack it on the side.
Uh-huh.
The youngest child always had to hold that doggone antenna.
I know I had to hold an antenna a time or two, back in my day And do you remember that sometimes when someone would hold the antenna to like slightly adjust it? Just a tiny adjustment could suddenly bring the signal into focus.
Why was that? Why was it that we could have a wire hanger that was not a part of the original design of the television, and if we put it in the right place and we gave it a tiny adjustment, suddenly it could bring the signal into focus Because the antenna became better aligned with the incoming frequency.
The frequency didn't change, it was always there, the receiver did And I want to submit to you that many of us assume that when we can't see the life that we desire, that something is wrong with us.
That maybe we didn't get the picture.
Maybe the vision that we think God gave us was not really for us.
Maybe there's something off.
Many people assume that when they can't see the life they desire, that that means that the opportunity isn't there.
Many of us assume, that that means that we didn't hear from God, that we made the wrong choice But I would like to submit to you that the vision that you've been given is broadcasting, but we have allowed interference with the receiver.
There's something off about the frequency.
We are saying that we want to see the picture that God is showing us.
We're saying we want to see it, but our daily decisions, they're not aligning.
And do you realize that if you would dedicate yourself to making some small tweaks and small shifts, we think that it has to be all of this huge overhaul.
We need to be clear about what the picture is we wanna see and what is getting in the way of us seeing it.
We need to be honest about that.
And with a few small shifts Your life could be barely recognizable before you know it.
But you have got to be willing to get on the same frequency.
You have got to be willing to align your life, your decisions, your relationships, your environments, your faith.
You have got to be willing to align some things to get to what you say you want.
There is no way that you will ever see the picture that God has shown you in your dreams, in your imagination, in your vision if you keep tolerating, a frequency that is beneath what you've been called to do.
And too many of us have normalized low frequency, low vibration, low energy, low effort, low conversations, poor treatment, limiting beliefs.
We have normalized it.
We have made it a part of who we are, and that's really not what we came here to do.
This is really not who we came here to be I wanna submit to you that there are patterns that we have entertained that have become paradigms in our life that function like interference.
Every limiting belief creates static between you and what you say you want.
Every inherited story that was not yours, that was passed down from someone who may have been well-meaning, but they were dealing with their own fear and trauma and triggers and all their own stuff, and we took on what they were saying, what they were doing, how they felt, as if we needed to live our lives that way.
That is not for us.
Every default thought, you're gonna learn about default thinking tonight, creates static.
Every habit that you have that contradicts what you say you want and what you say you wanna see for your life is creating static.
You did not lose the vision You lost clarity on the way to the vision because you've allowed all this static in.
You did not lose the assignment.
The assignment that was given to you is still yours.
You lost connection to the assignment because you refused to reject advice from people who are not aligned with what you are called to do.
You still keep entertaining people and language and all this stuff from people who don't even understand your assignment.
You don't lose the possibilities that God has already shown you.
what you have lost is alignment, and you have lost the ability to trust yourself.
To trust yourself, to trust the God that is in you that will literally guide you every step of the way because life is always speaking to you.
the picture is there.
The antenna's off.
What are you listening to? Who are you listening to? What are you entertaining? I do not care what is going on in this world, Listen, we are living in a shit show.
That I am very clear about.
I'm not saying that you should not be aware.
I'm saying that even in your awareness, you still have to choose alignment.
You still have to bring yourself to a frequency that allows you to do what you need to do so that you can be a part of the solution.
It is not enough to sit on the sidelines and act like you are not who you are, act like you do not carry what you carry.
This is what Align for Wealth is about I came to fight on behalf of your vision, and I'm gonna give you an opportunity for three days to borrow my belief I suggest you stick with me through this entire experience because why would you leave and not get the picture clear? If you feel like you are in a space right now where there are some things that feel disconnected, it feels fuzzy, you wanna have a vision, You wanna have something that literally compels you every day to show up as the best version of yourself, and it has been hard to define it.
By the time we get done with these three days, I want you to have that vision statement.
I want you to have something that you can read every day and it literally change something in you.
It change your behavior.
It change your speech.
It change how you allow people to interact with you.
It changes how you allow people to look at you, talk to you, be around you.
Anybody and everybody just can't be around me because my vision is too important and my screen is clear.
If your screen still has static, you have a job to do, and that's what you're here to do Alignment was never about creating the signal Alignment is here to restore the connection Wasn't that good? If you listened to that and found yourself taking notes or mm-hmm, nodding along, or maybe even feeling a little challenged, maybe you wanted to punch me a little bit.
I don't know.
I still want you to know, though, that what you just heard was only a small portion of day one.
Uh, day two and day three are going to be incredible.
And the reason that I felt so compelled to share this with you is because I believe we're just standing at a really powerful point in the year.
The first half of the year has already told us so much.
We have so much data, right? It's revealed where we're thriving.
It's highlighted what's working and what's not working, and if you're radically honest, it may have also revealed where you are out of alignment.
And far too many people wait until January to do a reset.
I don't believe in that.
I don't believe that you need a new year to create a new direction.
I believe that once you come into awareness, it is your responsibility to do something about it and get realigned.
You just need more clarity.
You need to remove the static so you can see what's next, and you need the courage to tell yourself the truth about what this season is really requiring of you, what your vision is really pulling you to do, and what it's pulling you to release.
That's what Aligned for Wealth is all about.
Inside of Aligned for Wealth, we'll walk through the six pillars of wealth together and we'll identify where alignment is already supporting your vision, but where misalignment can be creating some unnecessary friction.
And then I'll help you create a personal blueprint to get through it all.
So I want you to approach the second half of this year with more intention, more peace, more ease, more grace, more alignment.
You don't have to do this from pressure.
You don't have to live life from panic.
No matter what scarcity you may have been raised in, you don't have to live life from this idea or feeling that you're always behind You get to choose alignment.
You get to question what no longer works for you, and then you get to make decisions that align with your values and your vision and your daily actions, right? You get to do all of those things.
I want you to leave the Aligned for Wealth experience with greater clarity around what's next, with confidence and conviction about what you deserve, and the energy to actually put into those things.
And I want you to have a framework for making the second half of this year more intentional than the first.
And I just need to tell you, this is coming down on July 2nd, so if you're even hearing or seeing me say any of this, I would run, don't walk, because it will come down.
It will not be up forever.
So if today's conversation really did resonate with your soul, please don't ignore that nudge.
Head to alignforwealth.com
and register now.
As soon as you register, you'll see all of the replays.
Based on when you're listening to this, you'll see all of the replays listed.
You'll see a link to the action guide.
You'll see a link to, um, all the tools necessary to help you have a beautiful experience.
Use the second half of this year to recalibrate, realign, recommit, and redefine what you say you want.
Because there is something that only you can do, but you have to clear the path, clear the clutter to get there.
It's your season to align for wealth, and I hope that you'll do it with us.
Until next time, I want you to live your life's purpose, find fulfillment, and earn more without ever feeling like you have to chase.
You're here to align and attract.
I'll talk to you later