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The Sound of Thunder (Live from Palm Springs!) · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rat An iHeartRadio podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing it.
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  Speaker 1: Scrub dub dub in the air and be tub tub tub.
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  Speaker 1: That's right.
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  Speaker 2: If you heard that click clock and saw sound at
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  Speaker 2: the beginning of the episode, that was Tanya. That's the
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  Speaker 2: sound we've been hearing of her walking around in her
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  Speaker 2: shoes getting my way on over. She forgot her house slippers.
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  Speaker 2: And she does not walk barefoot in homes.
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  Speaker 1: No, not in my own home, not even in your
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  Speaker 1: own home.
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  Speaker 2: I just learned this about you. Yeah, on this trip.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like my bare feet on ground like tile, one, carpet, tile,
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  Speaker 1: anything like. I need them in a house slipper, I
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  Speaker 1: need them in a sock. I need them in like
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  Speaker 1: any form of based or texture. I honestly, I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I have no idea what neurosis it comes from, but like,
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  Speaker 1: obviously it's there, sure is. I don't know what it is, though.
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  Speaker 2: But let me tell you something. Eight o'clock this morning.
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  Speaker 2: First sound I hear click clacking on the tie hold.
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  Speaker 2: Tony got her heels on and going to the bathroom
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  Speaker 2: to start her day.
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  Speaker 1: Scoot moment. Yeah, Boots, Scoot and Tutin. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So we're at an Airbnb and Pump Springs and uh,
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  Speaker 2: there's three rooms.
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  Speaker 1: It's me.
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  Speaker 2: Well, Sam's here, but she's in.
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  Speaker 1: A hotel, which we can talk about later because I
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  Speaker 1: wired at a hotel. But I mean we do.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, there's a lot of beds in here. Easton and
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  Speaker 2: Alison got the honeymoon suite as they are the couple.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you for relinquishing that. He moves to us. We
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  Speaker 3: appreciate it.
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  Speaker 2: It just made sense, like putting all the room with
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  Speaker 2: double beds felt awkward and strange.
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  Speaker 3: I was wondering which of you were going to get
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  Speaker 3: the primary bedroom.
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  Speaker 1: Oh you thought we'd split up?
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  Speaker 3: I did.
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  Speaker 1: Interesting me too.
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  Speaker 3: I've had money down that it was gonna be Beca
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  Speaker 3: in the primary bedroom, Tanya in one of the other rooms,
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  Speaker 3: and then Alison and I in the other, and then
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  Speaker 3: we would have to share the bathroom.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's how it goes in these parts, you know.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So we got here and we realized, you know, there's
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  Speaker 2: two bedrooms. Both of them have two beds in them, yes,
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  Speaker 2: and Tnia's like, why wouldn't we share a room? And
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, well, because there's a whole other room. Why
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  Speaker 2: would we share a room?
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  Speaker 1: In hindsight, now, aren't you so happy that we shared
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  Speaker 1: a room?
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  Speaker 4: Last night?
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  Speaker 1: We stayed up till two am, chit chat and click clacken.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, no, it's fun. Yeah, But like I just
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  Speaker 2: in my mind, that's just not how my mind. I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: why would I not want to take the room? That's
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  Speaker 2: just my own room?
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  Speaker 1: So think about it. Well, now have you gone to bed?
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  Speaker 1: Had we all gone to bed last night? Whatever time
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  Speaker 1: we all said good night goodbye? Finished the podcast at
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  Speaker 1: like midnight? Oh no, it was like eleven. We were
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  Speaker 1: all going to bed. Had you gone into your room,
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  Speaker 1: closed your door, I went into my room, closed my door.
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  Speaker 1: We never would have had that beautiful conversation last night. Beautiful, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: just so sweet. And what did we talk about? I
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  Speaker 1: don't even know.
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  Speaker 2: We were laughing, we were giggling. But you know what,
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  Speaker 2: I think we had different experiences. Whereas you were the
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  Speaker 2: college girl who had the sleeping porch, loved the sleeping porch,
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  Speaker 2: miss that you missed the sleeping porch, and I never
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  Speaker 2: I shared room with my siblings the whole my whole life,
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  Speaker 2: So I craved alone, alone time space yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Like for my bachelorette, I want all of us in
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  Speaker 1: one room. We can cross.
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  Speaker 2: For that. But anyways, we recorded our Truth or Drink
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  Speaker 2: episode last night and.
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  Speaker 1: We were having second thoughts about it last night. So
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  Speaker 1: I am not good. After the hours of like seven
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  Speaker 1: forty five PM, I go into like hibernation mode, and
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  Speaker 1: so I felt very like my energy was very down,
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  Speaker 1: Like I felt like I had no energy, low energy.
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  Speaker 1: And Becca felt the same. And so we were like,
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  Speaker 1: we can't air that Truth or Drink episode. We're gonna
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  Speaker 1: have to do it again tomorrow. And that was really
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  Speaker 1: the basis of our conversation last night.
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  Speaker 2: Well, there were some other things, but yeah, we were
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  Speaker 2: just laying there like did you think the episode was good?
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  Speaker 2: You know, there's a lot of pressure when it comes
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  Speaker 2: to pump springs, like it gonna be is it gonna
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  Speaker 2: be fun, Is it gonna be energetic?
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  Speaker 1: Is it gonna be drunk? What is it gonna be? Right?
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  Speaker 1: And I felt like we were tired.
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  Speaker 2: And we were like sipping the tequila shot like I
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  Speaker 2: feel like when we've done Truth or Drink in the past,
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  Speaker 2: it's been like.
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  Speaker 1: A throwing shot back. Yeah, we did get some.
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  Speaker 2: Horrible to cue that may have burned a hole in
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  Speaker 2: my esophagus and stomach, but that's no excuse because when
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  Speaker 2: you come for truth or drink.
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  Speaker 1: Right, And we wanted it to be up to up
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  Speaker 1: to standards, right. But so we woke up and we said,
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  Speaker 1: guys were scrapping it, put it in the toilet bowl.
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  Speaker 1: It's not coming out. And it came out. Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: came out, he came out.
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  Speaker 2: We said, you know what for better for worse?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, well the truth is Crystal yeah listened to it
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  Speaker 1: and thought it was funny and said that we should
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  Speaker 1: release it.
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  Speaker 4: And so that's really all I needed to hear.
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  Speaker 2: But Sam Easton and Allison said it was funny, and yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Crystal would have said if it was terrible.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think because Sam Easton and Allison were
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  Speaker 1: in the room with us, so, but they didn't like
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  Speaker 1: they maybe felt energy that was here because we were
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  Speaker 1: like funny, like funny, having a good time. But like
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  Speaker 1: when you're listening to it, I didn't want it to
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  Speaker 1: sound like we were asleep.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I get what you're saying.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, those four years ago, we're different people. What do
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  Speaker 1: you mean four years ago?
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  Speaker 2: The last Pump Springs episode that was four years.
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  Speaker 1: Ago, wasn't it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it was August of twenty twenty.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's crazy, right, and we'd been cooped up for months,
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  Speaker 1: so we were like yeah, yeah, yeah, wow. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So anyways, that's a little bit about that. But we
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  Speaker 2: did lay in bed and we were talking about I
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  Speaker 2: don't even know how the conversation got started, the ingrown hair.
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  Speaker 1: Oh well, boy, strap strap strapp talking about.
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  Speaker 4: Something gross that we don't even need to get into.
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  Speaker 2: Oh I don't remember.
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  Speaker 1: It's something gross. I feel like that let us down
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  Speaker 1: that path. But I I'm like the godmother of like
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  Speaker 1: vaginal issues, so like a self named everybody comes to
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  Speaker 1: me when like something's going on, like if they have utiyes,
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  Speaker 1: Tanya help me, if they have ingrown hairs, Tanya help
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  Speaker 1: me if they have to Like you scram came to
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  Speaker 1: me with questions before I get DMS about ut I
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  Speaker 1: s up the ya. I am the go to gal
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  Speaker 1: for all things vagina. Yeah, yeah, I don't know how
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  Speaker 1: we got on the topic of it. Now you're throwing
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  Speaker 1: me off.
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  Speaker 2: I think we're talking about Oh well, were we talking
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  Speaker 2: about how obsessive we are about showering? Like, how are
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  Speaker 2: you We're saying, how like we are like obsessive about
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  Speaker 2: needing to feel clean and like stuff like that, and
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  Speaker 2: she was like, oh, yeah, the other day.
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  Speaker 1: So the other day, I was like getting I could
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  Speaker 1: feel an ingrown hair like coming down there, and I
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  Speaker 1: was I was rushed. I had worked late that afternoon
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  Speaker 1: podcast that day. Yeah, so I was later than normal
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  Speaker 1: for a Tuesday, and we had a double date that night,
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  Speaker 1: and I was like running around getting ready, and I
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  Speaker 1: put on my standing jeans that are not meant for sitting,
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  Speaker 1: and we were going out to dinner, so I was
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  Speaker 1: gonna be sitting the whole night, but didn't. I didn't
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  Speaker 1: clock it because I was in such a rush to
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  Speaker 1: get ready. So I'm putting on my jeans and putting
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  Speaker 1: on my outfit and we go to sit in the car,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like miserable because my standing jeans are so
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  Speaker 1: like slicing my vagina down.
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  Speaker 2: First of all, without an ingrown hair. Wearing standing jeans
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  Speaker 2: to a dinner.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, aggressive pain pain. Just imagine. I'm like fresh, we
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  Speaker 1: have a fresh ingrown coming, and I'm wearing my standing
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  Speaker 1: jeans to a dinner. So I'm like miserable. In the
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  Speaker 1: car ride to the like.
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  Speaker 2: Disassociated looking out the windows.
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  Speaker 1: It's like, are you okay? I'm like, I didn't really
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  Speaker 1: want to tell him because like, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: You don't talk about those things.
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  Speaker 1: I mean I do if it gets to the point
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  Speaker 1: where like I need to, Like I'm like, don't touch me,
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  Speaker 1: but like no, and so uh, then I had to
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  Speaker 1: tell him because I was just like so miserable. I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: I wear are I standing jeans?
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  Speaker 4: And it's slicing me down the middle and I'm.
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  Speaker 1: So uncomfortable and I don't know what to do about it.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't really know the point of that story.
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  Speaker 1: But I told Tobecca and she seemed to find it hilarious.
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  Speaker 2: Day if you know the pain of wearing really tight
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  Speaker 2: jeans and like putting them on because it's cute, and
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  Speaker 2: then you go and you sit down in the car,
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  Speaker 2: but you're already too late to go change the jeans,
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  Speaker 2: and you're like, I have worn the wrong pair of
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  Speaker 2: jeans for a sit down dinner.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, And then knowing the and then then I sit
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  Speaker 1: down and it's like five PM on a Tuesday, So
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, can I get a martini on the rocks
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  Speaker 1: with two olives? Two onions in a twist because I
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  Speaker 1: need to I gotta get out of it his body.
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  Speaker 1: Let's I need to mentally be away from what's going
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  Speaker 1: on here.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I hadn't heard that story. I thought it was
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  Speaker 2: a good one. Yeah, I found it really funny at
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  Speaker 2: like one am La, wasn't it?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah? You were giggling? But all as well, it did
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  Speaker 1: not develop, and actually it did not develop, did not
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  Speaker 1: develop in the direction I thought I was going to develop.
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  Speaker 1: So we're good. What is it development to? Well, you know,
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  Speaker 1: like a whole thing and grown hairs, just like fish
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  Speaker 1: them out, fuck them out. I just it just did
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  Speaker 1: its own thing. We learned something.
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  Speaker 5: Really interesting about Alison while.
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  Speaker 2: We've been here in Palm Springs.
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  Speaker 1: Are you gonna put your headphones in?
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  Speaker 3: My lovely wife Allison putting her ear plugs in.
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  Speaker 2: Well, we should take a break and then we'll tell
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  Speaker 2: you why if she's doing.
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  Speaker 3: That stick around.
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  Speaker 1: All right, we're bad.
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  Speaker 2: So, as we discussed earlier in the episode, there are
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  Speaker 2: two bathrooms in this airbnb. One is attached to the
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  Speaker 2: primary bedroom, which she said Alison are sharing, and the
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  Speaker 2: other ones in the general hallway that Tony and I
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  Speaker 2: are sharing. So after her drink last night and some
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  Speaker 2: of the absolute got awful tequila that we were sipping on,
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  Speaker 2: my stomach felt like it was bubbling. Yeah, And I
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  Speaker 2: was like, this is something that I can't like push
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  Speaker 2: it back, and it's it's do or die. Yeah, And
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  Speaker 2: so I'm kind of like I.
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  Speaker 1: Had to do.
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  Speaker 2: I did because I'm here and I'm kind of just waiting.
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  Speaker 2: I'm thinking like maybe everyone's gonna like leave. Oh, actually
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  Speaker 2: y'all did leave because y'all okay. So so Sam saying
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  Speaker 2: at a hotel so East and Allison drove her room.
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  Speaker 1: So I was like, this is my time.
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  Speaker 2: I gotta go while everyone's out because I was still here.
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  Speaker 2: Well you know, I gave you the warning. Tanya is
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  Speaker 2: just like showers and I'm like, I'm like, I gotta
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  Speaker 2: go to face some Haley. I'll like distract myself.
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  Speaker 1: I come in. She's still showering.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, she's doing like a full body shot.
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  Speaker 1: What's going on? She's shaving everything.
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  Speaker 2: She gets out, I'm like, hey, I really have to
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  Speaker 2: go to the rest, Like I have to go. I
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  Speaker 2: need you get out. And she's like, yeah, okay, I
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  Speaker 2: just need to brush my teeth real quick. I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 2: just brush your teeth. So she she when I say,
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  Speaker 2: she did the full two minutes, maybe more.
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  Speaker 1: Brush this night. And then I look over.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like shaking, I have to go, like I'm in
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  Speaker 2: it's bad, Like it's a serious situation at this point.
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  Speaker 2: And I look over as I'm swaying side to side
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  Speaker 2: and she's flossing each tooth thoroughly, and I'm like, get
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  Speaker 2: told me.
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  Speaker 1: That I can get I can take care of my teeth.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't take care. I did not go. I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to come back in there when it's smelly to
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  Speaker 1: do my teeth. Why do you have to be in
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  Speaker 1: the bathroom. Why can't you do it in another mirror
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  Speaker 1: to floss? Because you have to brush your teeth after
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  Speaker 1: youth Does anybody lost their teeth or you have to
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  Speaker 1: floss and then you brush your teeth.
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  Speaker 2: You brush your teeth, and then you were flossing.
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  Speaker 1: Because I needed to get my underwire, my permanent retainers.
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  Speaker 2: Anyways, there was no time for this. I said, brush
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  Speaker 2: your teeth. I have to get in here, okay, no respect.
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  Speaker 2: Like literally, I've never seen someone put the toothbrush away slower.
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  Speaker 2: There was because she fumbled it.
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  Speaker 1: You were stressing me out so bad. It's like she
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  Speaker 1: can try.
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  Speaker 6: Hold the bristles, are getting all this mud on it,
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  Speaker 6: so that Why are mud my my electric toothbrush thing
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  Speaker 6: the top of it. You didn't let me I you
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  Speaker 6: don't really wipe it off.
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  Speaker 1: And then I put it back in my hand. Why
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  Speaker 1: is there mud on your legs?
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  Speaker 7: Bread?
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  Speaker 1: It looks like mud. It's just like you know what
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  Speaker 1: I'm talking about. And you have an electric toothbrush. When
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  Speaker 1: you take the top off, there's like the metal underneath,
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  Speaker 1: and the metal gets a little soggy at times.
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  Speaker 3: Nobody knows what issue.
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  Speaker 1: Nobody know what that is. Oh my gosh, anyway, on
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  Speaker 1: brush enough my take care anyway. I didn't say take
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  Speaker 1: care of that's a brush your teeth.
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  Speaker 2: And then she's doing a full freaking routine as I'm
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  Speaker 2: like dying, and so I go and it's like I
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  Speaker 2: will say, if you're in the room around.
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  Speaker 1: In a thunderstorm, there.
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  Speaker 2: It's literally like a freaking it was bad. It was
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  Speaker 2: it was bad, And I don't normally.
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  Speaker 1: Want here to the door, like I was not trying
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  Speaker 1: to ease Drop is giving me some a little more
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  Speaker 1: space in her bedroom in bed. Look scrolling through Instagram,
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  Speaker 1: there's not much more peace. I can just turn your
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  Speaker 1: Instagram up a little bit loud. Okay, Anyways, it was
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  Speaker 1: it wasn't good.
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  Speaker 2: So then this morning, Tanya, it's Donya.
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  Speaker 1: She's like, I've got a good mind.
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  Speaker 2: You.
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  Speaker 1: Everybody's here at this point, so I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Like, uh yeah, So Tanya, she's like texting me and
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  Speaker 2: she's like, I can feel it, but I'm scared.
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  Speaker 1: I couldn't. I couldn't be free. I paka coach, you
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  Speaker 1: kind of let go, and my God, like there's nothing
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  Speaker 1: you can do. You just have to go.
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  Speaker 2: Like everyone will move on, right. So we thought so
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  Speaker 2: we thought no one would care. It's a safe space.
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  Speaker 2: We thought we were free to rehash it. Yeah, until
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  Speaker 2: this afternoon when we bring it up and Allison space
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  Speaker 2: goes just white white, I would say, she goes cross eyed.
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  Speaker 1: She's like, I can't.
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  Speaker 4: I don't do that.
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  Speaker 2: I don't do that, and we're like, what do you mean?
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  Speaker 2: It's like, we do not talk about this.
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  Speaker 1: She's like I might have to leave the room.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, wait, is this real? And asked
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  Speaker 2: Easton and he confirmed it's real.
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  Speaker 3: So I feel we I mean, I know she has
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  Speaker 3: her ear plugs in you can't hear. I feel we're
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  Speaker 3: talking bringing this up at all with her in this room. God,
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  Speaker 3: my marriage is on the leg. I need this. We okay.
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  Speaker 3: Allison is an angel sent from heaven to make everybody's
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  Speaker 3: life better. That she exists to improve everyone's experience on earth.
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  Speaker 3: She has one simple ask of me and everybody else
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  Speaker 3: that she knows. She's like, I do not like to
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  Speaker 3: talk about bodily functions. I do not like to talk
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  Speaker 3: about that. No allusions to it, no jokes about it. Nothing.
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  Speaker 3: It is we we And I said, I agree to that.
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  Speaker 3: That is fine. He's our wedding bouse. Yes, sa, I'm
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  Speaker 3: there in front of all of our friends and family,
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  Speaker 3: And I mean, just like any other guy. I think
• 16:47
  Speaker 3: get the blue button, Ray. I think she's funny. I
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  Speaker 3: think that I think farts are funny. But I respect
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  Speaker 3: her being uncomfortable about this, so we do not We
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  Speaker 3: don't talk about it. There's a we act like it
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  Speaker 3: never happens to either one of us. There are precautions
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  Speaker 3: we have to take to make sure that happens.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, what, like, what does that mean? Medicine?
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  Speaker 2: Is it?
• 17:10
  Speaker 3: It's just things I haven't spoken to anyone about exclusive
• 17:14
  Speaker 3: legitimately have now spoken to a soul about this because
• 17:16
  Speaker 3: of our agreement. I don't know, there's like, we have
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: two bathrooms in our house. Yeah, yeah, so it's each to.
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: Each their own.
• 17:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah, if that needs to happen. Uh, I don't know.
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: There's a lot of hotel lobby being used.
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: This is what I find interesting. So I asked her.
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: I was like, if you're in if you're on vacation together,
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: you're sharing a hotel room, small rooms, one bathroom, Yeah, what.
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: Do you do?
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: And she was like, I'll go I like, I'd rather
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: just go anywhere at like a public place. And I'm like, see,
• 17:48
  Speaker 2: I can't. I can't do that.
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: I mean I do the same thing.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: You find a public spot post Yeah, and you'd prefer
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: that breaking the valve, Yeah, yes I.
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: Would. And the only time it's a problem is like
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: sometimes I'll see a joke, like a meme or something
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: that like slightly references it and I've tried to show
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: it to her and she's like, no, no, no, no, no not,
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: we're not laughing about this, No jokes, these are not
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: this is not funny. And uh, and that's fine. Uh,
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: and it's it's not an issue like it really, Like
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: I was saying before we started, I I don't have
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: to like stop myself from talking about it. Or there
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: are there are times where like it's physically just uncomfortable, right,
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: But there's always a solution.
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there always is.
• 18:35
  Speaker 4: Yeah, well that let that be the last of this podcast.
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: There's always a solution. You may think that you are
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: in a situation that you can't get out of, there's
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: always a solution.
• 18:45
  Speaker 2: What was my solution the other night?
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: You let them god? Oh okay, yeah.
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 18:53
  Speaker 3: We have a cabin up in Idlewild, California, and it's
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: two It has two bathrooms, huh, one of which is
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: connected to our bedroom and one is like in the
• 19:00
  Speaker 3: living room upstairs. The bathroom is right above where we sleep,
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: so I will go up there. But then when you flush,
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: it's like so loud and you can eat, like you
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: can't hear anything besides the flushing. But I'm like, I
• 19:15
  Speaker 3: just realize, I just picture late in bed and just
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: hearing the you know, like I don't know, and that's
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: even that it makes me I feel like I've broken
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: the vow.
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: Oh meanwhile, Robbay's just trying to brush his teeth while
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: tong is in the bathroom.
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: Let go like going my god, wow.
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I just am fascinated in the sense that, like
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: I would rather go, I can't go in public.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: So I have just done that.
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: And Haley and I don't like we're not We don't
• 19:44
  Speaker 2: talk about it a lot at all.
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: But if there's a situation like dinner conversation, yeah, yeah,
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: pat either.
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, like we're I would say we talk about
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: it less than most people, but it's like it's acknowledged
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: because it's you know, human.
• 19:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah, what I've said now is the most I've ever
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: said in front of her.
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: Thank you for the vulnerability.
• 20:05
  Speaker 3: I've just been praying. She is not listening right now.
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: Rachel is playing really loud.
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: But but I've got like the greatest hits of like place,
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: you know, places with great public restrooms, like any of
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: the Carusoe properties, the Americana brand, the Grove Palistates Village does.
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: Of great rest What makes her a great restroom?
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: Well, I mean for that like a Florida ceiling door
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: on the saul, you know, dim lighting, Yeah, uh, you know,
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: things of that nature. But you know, again, you make
• 20:45
  Speaker 3: this is like the smallest compromise I think anyone's ever
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: asked in a mayor. In my opinion, I think there's
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: a lot of people that make much larger compromises for
• 20:53
  Speaker 3: their life. Yeah, and this is like the one thing
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: Alison has asked, and I agree to it.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: Respect I might incorporate this into my my relationship me too.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: What are you laughing just because I'm gonna do it? Okay,
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: report back.
• 21:13
  Speaker 4: Let's see how long it last?
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: Can you put the toothpaste back in the tube? Though,
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: like that has that door is already.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: Open, It's already opened, but you can always shut it.
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: Let that be another lesson of this podcast. You can
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: always shut the door, always shut the door.
• 21:25
  Speaker 4: You can always shut the door. You don't have to
• 21:28
  Speaker 4: leave any door open.
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: If you want, you can always leave the door open,
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: but you don't have to don't have to always shut
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: the door.
• 21:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, or in this case, at least crack a window.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, at least yeah. Wow.
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: Okay, Well thanks for sharing. I just was like it.
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: It was such an interesting turn when I when I
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: learned this.
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: I truly don't think it has a fact. Like we
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: were saying, like we're physically so intimate except for that,
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: and I really don't think I think that makes us more.
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: I think that makes our intimacy that much stronger because
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: there is.
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: A little well, there's some intimacy when like cook Man,
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: what what? I had a moment. This is not even
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: alcohol related. This was like I don't know what was
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: going on, but I was. It was I don't even
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: need to say, but it was like not not pleasant
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: situation in the bathroom and I like passed out, like
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: I fell on the floor and like, uh, Robbie was
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: like helping me. He was like literally and I'm like
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: naked from the waist down and like not like shaking,
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: you know. And there's like some intimacy that comes from
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: like somebody seeing you like that. That vulnerable you know
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: mm hmmm.
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: That happened early on in Yill's relationship.
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: I fail, didn't it no, This that one was. The
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: first one was alcohol related. I was like so like drunk.
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: That was like vulnerable. Yeah, also vulnerable, but like this one.
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: The second one was like something weird. I don't know.
• 22:54
  Speaker 4: It was like some sort of I had some sort
• 22:55
  Speaker 4: of like virus or something.
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, yeah, without getting graphic, you know.
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: Well, she said she doesn't want to watch anyone falls either.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: It's like everything though it's not just that she.
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: I've floss in front of her all the time. I
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: think she'd rather not, but I do it. That's something
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: that I keep doing.
• 23:15
  Speaker 2: Or she doesn't like to fass in front of people.
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's that's it.
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: It's giving missus Mazel does anybody? Nobody knows? Nobody I knows.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: I never watched it.
• 23:26
  Speaker 3: I watched the first two seasons.
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: Is this that? It's like when Midge masl like they
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: go to bed. She goes to bed to her husband.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: She has all her makeup on, her hair looks beautiful
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: that she lays her head on the pillow and then
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: she waits till he falls asleep, and then she gets
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: out of the bed. She goes to the bathroom, washes
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: off her makeup, puts her hair, and rollers gets back
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: in bed. Sleep sets her alarm so she can wake
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: up before him to put her face back on, spray
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: perfume on, and then gets back in bed so he
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: wakes up and she's like, gorgeous.
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: I used to do that when I first started dating Haley,
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: not like to that level, but like when we first
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: started dating and when we were saying at her place,
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: I'd like get up and go to the bathroom and
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: just like brush my teeth and like put like little
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: look gloss, you know, something on and like we splash
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: my face, tousle my hair so that she'd be like,
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: oh my god, this girl wakes up like Wow, I.
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: Wish I had that, Like, I wish I had that
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: chip in me. I don't have that chip in me.
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: I wake up looking like a gremlin. Click cluck and
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: clack into the bathroom. Robb's like, oh, there's my girl.
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: There she goes, there, she goes again.
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know that Haley would have cared.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: I just I cared, right, I know. That's what I'm saying.
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: I wish I had that chip. I do think that
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: you have a little bit like I wish I cared more,
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean? In general, I care a lot.
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: That's what Ali and I were talking about, Like how
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: like I will like sacrifice comfort for like even if
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: it's like sleeping later, I will sacrifice waking up earlier
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: to look to cuter.
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 25:05
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm the complete opposite.
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: It's like different strokes, folks. I know, but I wish
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: I cared more like sometimes I think about that, like,
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I wish I cared a little bit more,
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: But you care perfect.
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: You cared the perfect amount for yourself. That's what matters.
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: Let that be another lesson this podcast.
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: We've got lessons on lessons.
• 25:24
  Speaker 4: This is miss missus Rachel adjacent. Right, yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 25:30
  Speaker 4: learning so much today.
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna take a break. And what are we
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: doing when we come back?
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: So do you have any We have more drinks.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: We do have the good tequila though. Yeah, all right,
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: let's do more to their drink. We'll be right back.
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: All right, we are back. Took a weird break.
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: Tony unfortunately showed what's on her algorithm.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: But all that matters is we're back and that. Let
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: that be the lesson of this pot So happy to
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: be back, the lesson that you can go away and
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: you can always come back. This podcast is full of
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: so many life lessons. Who needs a Tony Robbins when
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: you have a scrubbing?
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: In part two.
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: Oh okay, we are going to do more truth or
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: drink and we have a fresh we have Uh I
• 26:41
  Speaker 2: don't like that, sorry, yeah, but that wasn't an accident.
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: I know, I know, I know it was a very
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: intentional thing.
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: Sorry, you touched my knee with your toe and I
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: don't like it.
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: Sorry, but you knew I would I like it. You
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: said sorry.
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: You said sorry before I even reacting, like you scraped
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: it away. He said sorry, I'm just tracted.
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: We're gonna throw it to Sam with some truth or
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: dream questions.
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: Let me pick up Sam, Sam, Sam, Becca.
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: Who will be your maid of honor?
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: Oh?
• 27:12
  Speaker 4: Already know who you're gonna make your sisters?
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: I'll probably do my sisters as like, uh, maids of honors?
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, maids and matrons.
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: Matrons, matron and maids.
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Okay, yeah, thanks with it.
• 27:31
  Speaker 4: It's good because it's your wedding and you can do
• 27:34
  Speaker 4: whatever you want.
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: Thank you. Will you have other bridesmaids? Yes?
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: Okay, Donya will be one, Okay.
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: How many will you have?
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: I don't know, as many as I want or as
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: little as I want.
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right, Yeah, you tell them. Will there be
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: even sets on each side?
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: I love that for the symmetry, Okay, But I also
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: if if we decided to do something where the people
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: the bridal parties weren't standing up there with us, then
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't need it to be even Yeah, yeah, thank
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: you so much for asking.
• 28:14
  Speaker 8: Have the Tanya, Yes, Sam, craziest place you've had sex?
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: Okay, so this might be shocking to everybody, but nowhere
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: that crazy, like on a floor of a bedroom. Like, No,
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: I've never had sex in like a I don't even
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: think in public spaces. No, I've done. I've given a
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: blowjob in a like a massage waiting room.
• 28:40
  Speaker 4: But I guess that's probably the weirdest one.
• 28:44
  Speaker 3: I'd say.
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: Okay, the waiting room, like you know, the like put couples,
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: oh like in the in the room to wait for
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: their couple's massage, the one that everyone goes into. Yeah,
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: but they were the weirdly they had like beds for
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: you to wait, and the beds had like the can
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: be bad so you could like close the things. That
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: is so risky. Whoa do what you do? That's pretty Yeah?
• 29:10
  Speaker 3: All the way it completed it?
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: Yes, all right? Was it like a close call.
• 29:16
  Speaker 4: I'll leave no job unfinished, you know what I'm saying.
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, let that be a lesson to everybody listening.
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: If you have a job, make sure you get it done.
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: Otherwise keep trying like did the messuse coming right after? Like, no,
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: we had so much time. We were just like in there,
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: we had time to kill just kept it going, honestly, Well, okay,
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: this was back in the day.
• 29:47
  Speaker 4: Your girl was young, foolish, free.
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: Hungry Becca. What is the last fight you and Tanya had?
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: Oh?
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: Take a drink? Okay?
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: Wow?
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: You so the rules of you drink You have to
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: do half of what that is.
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: And you didn't even bring a lime to chase it
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: down with.
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: Wow, you can just chase it with your beverage.
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: Okay, your tequila beverage, Tanya, What really happened with doctor
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: w Oh? This is a good one, I know, because
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: it's like, it's not my story to tell, do you
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: know what I mean? Well, no, I can tell. We
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: had different interests of what we just had different interests in.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna because I actually here's something. At the end
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: of the day, I like the guy, and like I
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: still keep in touch with him sporadically randomly, like, and
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: I don't think he's not a bad guy, and I
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: quite like him. It just was not a match. It
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: just was not a match. Okay, different, Yeah, but like
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: there's so much more to the story. But it's just
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: not my it's not my you know, it's not my
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: story to tell.
• 31:15
  Speaker 8: Okay, Yeah, that was not really what happened then, Becca, Yeah,
• 31:21
  Speaker 8: f Mary kill Bachelor host Edition, Chris Harrison, Jesse Palmer,
• 31:30
  Speaker 8: Caitlin Bristow.
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: Mm hmm.
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna marry Caitlyn. Oh, I'm gonna kiss Chris.
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna kill kiss f whatever. Oh kiss Chris.
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: Okay, And I'll kill Jesse just because I don't I
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: don't know him.
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Sol's easy.
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: I was just debating who who went in the other spots.
• 31:52
  Speaker 3: I love to scandalous, but we're killing somebody.
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: Well, I always, we always do.
• 31:59
  Speaker 2: I've always heard kids Mary kill, so I always just
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: whatever you want to say, we should.
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: Change it, like our scrubbing in addition should not be
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: kill like it should be get rid of, like put away,
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: kick or something.
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: Kick to the curb is when we came to the curb.
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it could be like Mary, Yeah, kiss kick to
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: the Because I like Jesse, I don't want to kill him, right,
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: and you just don't know him.
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: I don't have any attachment to him.
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I would be right there with you. Thank you
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: so much.
• 32:27
  Speaker 8: Okay, great, Tanya, what's the dirtiest thing Robbie's ever said
• 32:32
  Speaker 8: to you.
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: I just know this is gonna be I just a drink.
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, well yeah, I don't know either way.
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's gonna Oh my gosh, clutching my pearls, I'm
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: not the only dirty one.
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: You should probably finish it if we did half of
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: the other one.
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: As much as I could do right there, I'm so sorry. Okay,
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: you do not remind you that just hours ago I
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: was having my thunderstorm. So let's just let's be gentle
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: with thunderstorm, with everythine. Okay, gentle with ever thine?
• 33:15
  Speaker 7: Okay, Tanya, Yeah, reveal Whoston your butterfly was or Drake.
• 33:40
  Speaker 1: If I'm being totally honest right now, I can tell
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: you his first name was Jeff. I do not know
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: his last name anymore.
• 33:48
  Speaker 4: I want to say Propes, but that's the host.
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: So I'm like, that's like hand Bible right now? What
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: are you looking him up online? I think I could
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: find him on Instagram. Yeah, well, we don't have to
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: name last names. It was something easy though, But that's
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: crazy that I don't even remember.
• 34:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't, I don't know. I don't know if
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: I ever knew. Yeah, yeah, I have no idea.
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: He wasn't. He's not public. He's he did come to
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: your house, Yeah, but he's not like a public figure
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: or anything like that.
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, don't know, dog, you can't find him. I was
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: trying to find him on someone's Instagram. That does.
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: Wow, what a great That's a great place to be
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: where you like don't remember.
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: That's kind of weird a little bit to me really,
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: because you were like devastated over him. I was.
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: It just goes to show you I was devastated until
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: I wasn't until Robbie came in. That's what I meant
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: to be like.
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: For me, the people that I have been devastated over,
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: I know, at least.
• 34:47
  Speaker 4: Through I'm sure if I thought about it, I could
• 34:51
  Speaker 4: figure it out.
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: But I searched Senor Butterfly in my texts and the
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: description from when we did the friends thing in New York. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 34:59
  Speaker 3: we didn't have to on sendy your butterfly. Is he
• 35:01
  Speaker 3: Tinya's lobster?
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah? And he has not spoilerer It wasn't. But
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: it's so true. I feel like all of these guys
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: were such a like devastating heartbreak and then Robbie came
• 35:12
  Speaker 1: into the picture, and like he's literally like where it
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: started for me? Do you know what I mean? Like
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: I know like obviously dated people and like I've been
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: with other people and like they exist, but like he
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: is like, really where my story started for me? I
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: forgot that you existed. Yeah, I literally forgot that they
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: all existed, Like nobody. My love life didn't start until Robbie.
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: Well that's romantic. It's pretty powerful. I have moments. Did
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: I tell you that? Like it's pretty powerful. It's pretty powerful.
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: Like I had moments where we're like on vacation, our
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: last two vacations, where I just sit there and I
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: start crying out of nowhere and he's like are you okay?
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: And I'm like I don't think you understand. Like I
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: was like I spent like all my twenties just like working. No,
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: it's like so crazy, and I'm like now I'm like
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: finally like getting to enjoy like my life with somebody
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: that I love so much, and like it makes me
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: emotional crying now just took a turn. I'm also a
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: little drunk, but this is like legit, what's happened on
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: like our last two trips, and I'm like, I just
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: feel very grateful.
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: I feel very grateful for him too, for you.
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, it's weird because I feel like when
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: you meet the person, like I met him in my thirties,
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, wow, like what life would have been
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: like if I had met him in my twenties. But
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't think I would have been able
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: to like appreciate him or the relationship had I met
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: him in my twenties, you know what I mean, Right,
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: I was so head down.
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: I think all the other people too that you dated,
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: that you were like trying to force to be like
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: your puzzle.
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: Piece gave you the.
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: Perspective of what you were looking for when you finally
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: met the person, you know. Yeah, and I think you
• 36:51
  Speaker 2: knew that when you met Robbie. Yeah, because of those
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: people and experiences.
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah. So it's like it's it's weird because because like
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: you know, you have those thoughts of like, oh I
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: wish I would have met you sooner, you know, but
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: then it's like it just wouldn't have I wouldn't have
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: appreciated it. I don't think like this.
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree. I think we meet when we're supposed
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: to meet people. Yeah, yeah, you need a tissue.
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: No, I'm good. Okay, does it look bad? That looks scary?
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: Its tears streaming, thunderstorm. Now we've got the rainstorm.
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: This this actually, this episode has a musical aspect to it,
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: and it started from the beginning with the click clack
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: because Sam and I realized it's like the click clack.
• 37:38
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I know the song, but it's not ringing a
• 37:40
  Speaker 4: bell to me.
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: You'll know when you're hear it you've been doing.
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, geez wow.
• 37:49
  Speaker 8: Well, speaking of Becca, is ninety five P still the
• 37:55
  Speaker 8: number for Haley?
• 37:57
  Speaker 2: No?
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: I feel like one hundred P.
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: Whoa, that's the present we talked about like forever and
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: stuff like ninete my p was so crazy because we
• 38:09
  Speaker 2: we weren't out yet, we didn't live together.
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: There was like so.
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: Many elements that were going to make it challenging. But
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: I was so stressed in that moment of like, what's
• 38:16
  Speaker 2: not going to get me in trouble? I can't drink
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: because she's staring at me. She was like dead center
• 38:20
  Speaker 2: in this audience, like looking, what will she say?
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, such a gorgeous picture of her.
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: And then I was like I don't want to say
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: too low, but I mean, I don't know. I can't
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: say a hundred yet, so I feel confident saying a hundred. Yay, yeah,
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: thank you for the enthusiast yaya moment. I feel like
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: I just think it's funny that that's a surprise when
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: we talk about like all the things I've said about her,
• 38:56
  Speaker 2: and that's that's the big that's.
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: The big one. Don't get more hondo.
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: No. I was saying, you know how we used to
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: like reference the nicknames all the time, like the Palm
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: Springs episode. I'm like red Star. Yeah, so funny. We
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: all did that for a long time.
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, some red stars in my wedding. Huh, you don't
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: have to. I don't have butterflies there.
• 39:18
  Speaker 8: Yeah, that should be your gift little bags of red
• 39:21
  Speaker 8: star burst.
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: Oh in the gift bags like the welcome get welcome things.
• 39:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: I was gonna say, we're not doing gifts gifts, Okay,
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: we can do some both, okay.
• 39:36
  Speaker 8: Fmk or tick to the curb all too well. Champagne problems,
• 39:43
  Speaker 8: cruel Summer, Oh my.
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: God, that is the hardest one for me ever. I
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: think that was really directed towards me because those are
• 39:50
  Speaker 2: my top those are.
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: My top five.
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: I'll let you take it away, go ahead.
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: So it's all too well, Well, I would marry cruel summer,
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: I would f and champion problems like to the curb.
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: This is so hard, I can't do it.
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: I might have to drink on this. There are my fate.
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: Those are like my I would say, like my is
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: it l version?
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: Yes?
• 40:13
  Speaker 5: Yes, oh she's.
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: Every podcast must start with some sort of sound. I'm
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: gonna drink because I literally you can't answer that, like
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: this is so crazy to me, you want to get drunk. No,
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: that's what I gathered there.
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: Just I can't think of one that I would feel
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: fine never hearing again down the house.
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: I know, I will say, I question Alison's judgment after
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: her tequilote testing this morning, So we're gonna we're just
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: gonna keep that in the back burner. Okay, name someone
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: from Bachelor Nation. You do not like that. I do
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: not like Oh I know Wan Pablo, although I kind
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: of like him now because like he had the daughter
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: on American Idol. Yeah I was, Okay, so that doesn't count.
• 41:21
  Speaker 2: There's got to be someone from I mean, I don't know,
• 41:24
  Speaker 2: I can.
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: I answer this one.
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Nick Vayel, Wow, tell us more.
• 41:35
  Speaker 3: I don't want to go into detail. I strongly do
• 41:38
  Speaker 3: not like Nick Vayel personal experience.
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: Wow. Whoa, I'm gonna I'm gonna.
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: I think I've said this on the air before. Maybe,
• 41:47
  Speaker 3: well that's I was not asked this question, but that's
• 41:50
  Speaker 3: my answer, Nick Vayel, whoa.
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: I guess there was a guy on JoJo's season I
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: didn't like Chad Johnson.
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, he's like a villain.
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, and James H. Taylor Taylor, Yeah, James Taylor.
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: I imagine they were thinking about someone a little.
• 42:08
  Speaker 5: More juicy, like, name one quality you wish the other
• 42:18
  Speaker 5: person was able to release or shift a little because
• 42:22
  Speaker 5: you think you would make their lives easier or more
• 42:24
  Speaker 5: enjoyable in some way, and explain why I would.
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: Are we talking about each other? Yes, I was gonna say.
• 42:32
  Speaker 8: She was quick to They said, it's like a twist.
• 42:34
  Speaker 8: It's like a twist on asking about a weakness or
• 42:37
  Speaker 8: least favorite quality. It feels like a nicer way to
• 42:40
  Speaker 8: say that.
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: Oh but I like that because that really is what
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: a weakness, or at least like a quality is.
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: So rephrase the question for me, so I can understand.
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: It's like something you'd want me to change that would
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: make my life easier if it was if I had
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: a different personality, like it would make things easier for me.
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: Oh, okay, I know I would like for you to
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: not be a people pleaser.
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: That's fair. Yeah, I would like for you to like
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: go of control.
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: It's gonna make in that way.
• 43:10
  Speaker 2: Like feeling like you have like I feel like sometimes
• 43:14
  Speaker 2: you like to have control over situations, but that extend
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: sometimes into like wanting to control like the environment around
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: you that sometimes you just don't have control over because
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: people have like different personalities and interests.
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: And like ways of doing things. Because I think you
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: would relax more and have like peace peace. Yeah, it
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: does disrupture peace a little bit. Yeah, the lack of
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: being able to control everything.
• 43:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I have it too, you do, Yeah, but in
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: a different way. Explain like I have, I have less
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: than you, as in I have less of that than you.
• 43:54
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I have it in the high gear.
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: And like you have people please or mentality too, it's
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: just less than me.
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: I don't think I have people please their mentality care
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: to an extent you think, so, I would say I
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: wish I cared more. They know what you know?
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: Yeah I do, I'm saying as someone who does.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: You don't, Oh okay, I'm like, yeah I do. Sometimes
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: I go to work and I'm like, man, I should
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: have like taken just for me.
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: To be like, people please are big time with work.
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: That's where I actually find that you people please more
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: than anything.
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: So it's funny you see it as people pleasing. It's
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: less people pleasing and like more of this mentality of like.
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: And I think it's because of like the boss that
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: I had when I was hired, who made me feel
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: like I was small. That's where I got my imposter syndrome.
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: So I feel like everything that I do is like
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: I have to do it because I am. I am.
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: I should be grateful and I should be on my knee,
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: like grateful, begging on my knees to just do whatever
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: because I'm lucky to have to have the position that
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: I have. Does that make sense? Like it's not like
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: I shouldn't have the position that I have. So it's
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: less people pleasing and more like it comes from that
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: like imposter syndromesness inside me where I feel like I
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: can't speak up necessarily for myself or you know, like
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: I want to say, make demands, but just stand up
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: for myself in ways because I feel like I need
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: to still be small in some ways.
• 45:23
  Speaker 2: But that ultimately is pleasing people who make you feel small.
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: But it's not people pleasing. It's a different do get,
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: but it's a form.
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: It's like a form because you're trying to please other
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: people because they make you feel small.
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not pleasing. Care about that judgment or like
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: I care about what they think of me. It's like
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: I feel like I should be like I don't know.
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: It's like that thing about keep keepers keep a person
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: in their place so that they always feel like they're
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: like indebted to you. Do you know what I mean?
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: We can agree to disagree?
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: Does that make sense? I get what you're saying.
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: I'm just saying I find it to be a form
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: of people pleasing. But I get what you're saying. It's
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: different how people please. Yeah, but it's still people pleasing
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: that I.
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: Really don't that's okay? Agree? Does this agree? Does anybody
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: understand where I'm coming from?
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: I promise people understand where you're coming from.
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: Okay, they always do.
• 46:15
  Speaker 2: That's what we love about the Tots.
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: Love the Tots. Uh, most awkward interview you've ever had.
• 46:23
  Speaker 2: Doctor Drew. I'll never forget it almostly was like what
• 46:27
  Speaker 2: are we doing here? We gotta quit? He was so
• 46:32
  Speaker 2: short and snappy, remember the Yeah, we were so like
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: taken a back.
• 46:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like thank god we weren't filming the podcast back then,
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: because my faith my I was like, gobsmack, I don't
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: even remember you speaking. I think you just shut down
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: and I was left on my own. Yeah, you were
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: left on an island. Yeah, I was.
• 46:49
  Speaker 2: He was very intimidating, very short, very like snappy, and
• 46:53
  Speaker 2: I think if we had had him in person, it
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: would have been less a little less abrasive because it
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: it was just our the phone. Yeah, and I doubt
• 47:02
  Speaker 2: my questions were super intelligent, and he was like what
• 47:04
  Speaker 2: am I doing here? Right?
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: So it was our fall totally.
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: But it was I remember being like, oh what, I
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: don't want to do this anymore.
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, mine was busy, phillips. And what's so interesting is
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: like I do have a different perspective on it now
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: than I had. A part of that was no I
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: did it for the morning show. I was sent out.
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: It was like my first red carpet that I ever worked.
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: And this was like back in the day when like
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: salacious headlines were like what you wanted, you ask people
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: uncomfortable questions, which is like so sick. But I was
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: new and it was like my first red carpet and
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: they basically said you have one. Everybody everybody there had
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: one question to ask her. And I asked her about
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: like her best friend dating her other best friend. I
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: can't remember who it was at the time. Was it
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: Michelle somebody, some other guy she's or something. Were there
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: rumors that they were dating? They did date? Oh, they dated, Okay,
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: so it was probably It was definitely then about that.
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: And she shut me down so hard and like, look
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: me that I made me feel like a total piece
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: of shit. I can't remember now, like talk like why
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: would you ask me about something? Like yeah, something very
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: much like why would you ever ask me about that?
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: Like check yourself? And it was my first red carpet,
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: so it was like I was so upset and I
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: just felt like so like to me, I think also
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: because I'm on the other side of it, like as
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: an interviewer, as a journalist, on the other side, it's
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: like you can't hate on people and make them feel
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: bad for asking the question. It's their job. There's some
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: sometimes people, I know, certain outlets that like make you
• 48:40
  Speaker 1: ask certain questions like that wasn't the case for me.
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: Nobody made me ask that, But I know that there
• 48:44
  Speaker 1: are places that make you ask like those those kind
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: of questions, and it's like it's your job as the
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: person that's walking the red carpet to know how to
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: navigate those questions. Like people have asked me questions on
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: carpets and stuff about Ryan that I'm not comfortable with,
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: But I it's my job to navigate my answer to that,
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like it's yeah, she all
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: she had to say was even like you, Like people
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: would ask meself about you before you and Haley were out,
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: and it's like, yeah, they made me uncomfortable, But it's
• 49:10
  Speaker 1: on me to navigate those questions in a way that's
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: like comfortable for me, you know, Like I'm never going
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: to make the reporter or the journalists feel any type
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: of way. So I just remember vividly like not liking
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: her for a very long time because of it. But
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: I do have a different perspective on it now. I
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: don't know. Maybe because I'm older, she wants to just
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: protect her friends. But I still think the approach could
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: have been she.
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: Also didn't know, as you're first, right, you know, right?
• 49:36
  Speaker 2: Maybe I would like to think if she knew that,
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: she would have been like, oh, you know, let's let's skip.
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: That, right, yeah, in a nicer tone. Yeah, wow, heal
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: you ask me? Yeah? It was like very like gnarly.
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know why I asked you that.
• 49:55
  Speaker 8: Which celebrity would you give your partners a whole pass for?
• 49:59
  Speaker 2: No?
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: Never? And which celebrity would you want a hall pass
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: for none?
• 50:04
  Speaker 4: I don't want whole pass.
• 50:07
  Speaker 2: I would give Haley a Hall pass? Or so, are
• 50:11
  Speaker 2: you drinking?
• 50:11
  Speaker 1: No? I have. That's my answer.
• 50:13
  Speaker 2: That's a total fair answer, not an answer game.
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: That's not how you play this game. It's my truth.
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: You can't take my truth away from me, then drink.
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: That's my truthful answer. Just take a little sip. Oh
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: my gosh.
• 50:29
  Speaker 2: I could have played every question like my truth is
• 50:32
  Speaker 2: that I don't want to answer.
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: No. I didn't say I don't want to answer, but
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: my truth is I would not be comfortable giving Robbie
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: a Hall pass for anyone, and I don't want a
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: hall pass in my relationship.
• 50:43
  Speaker 3: That is the game though, that you have to be
• 50:44
  Speaker 3: uncomfortable with the answer kind of.
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: I think my I'd give him Jenna Ortega and I would.
• 50:51
  Speaker 3: Take wow, whoa, whoa?
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: Was that weird? I don't know if she's on of mine.
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: She's on top of my mine because she's on all
• 51:00
  Speaker 1: the sebrine.
• 51:01
  Speaker 2: You're saying you would just pick her for him, Yeah
• 51:04
  Speaker 2: he has sure.
• 51:05
  Speaker 4: No, No, I don't think so. Oh news to me.
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, give him Jenna Ortega. She young.
• 51:12
  Speaker 4: Actually it might being young.
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: That's why I think we were all just shook right there.
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: I was one, oh.
• 51:20
  Speaker 4: Yeah, well okay, sure, still feels a little weird, but
• 51:22
  Speaker 4: it was.
• 51:22
  Speaker 8: Just from you going from like no One, no one general,
• 51:26
  Speaker 8: like a fresh conversation.
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: She's fresh on my mind because I'm seeing all these
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: like things because she was in Sabrina Carpenter's video. I'm
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: just seeing Jenna or take on all my Okay, change
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: to Casey musk Graves. I'll give him Kasey musk Graves.
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: These were so like that everywhere, okay, because people thought
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: it was Casey musk Graves in the in the photo first, Oh,
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: Sabrina's posted like a teaser of the video, and I
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: don't that was Casey musk Graves.
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: Okay, so you'll give him Casey musk Graves and you'll
• 51:54
  Speaker 2: take Harry Styles.
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, she is hot. Whoa Okay, yeah, follow
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: that up. I'll give both me and Haley, Jennifer and Neiston.
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: That's not fair.
• 52:11
  Speaker 2: I'll give Haley.
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to think who Haley like, Like Sandra Bullock.
• 52:20
  Speaker 2: I don't know if she'd want that type like a
• 52:23
  Speaker 2: past all right, maybe like Margot Robbie.
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: That's Robbie's too, that's a cele.
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: She's everybody's I would love as well. And I would
• 52:34
  Speaker 2: take Chris Hemsworth. Great answer, Wow, Jenniferson, I'll take Jennifermeston.
• 52:43
  Speaker 1: Put your together, he gets too.
• 52:49
  Speaker 2: That was a friend's reference when he's like this or this,
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: he's like, put your hands together.
• 52:55
  Speaker 8: Yeah, your last Google search.
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: It was gonna be so boring.
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: I know mine too. It's gonna be like define.
• 53:03
  Speaker 2: Oh, Jason Stackhouse after because we're talking about Troublo and
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: I thought he was I remember watching it.
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: I thought he was so cute.
• 53:11
  Speaker 2: His name is Ryan Clantonton, So that's all right.
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: Mine is uh pinterest because Becca told me to get
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: pinterest to dot com because Becca told me to look
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: at pinterests of Mexico wedding bridesmaid dresses.
• 53:33
  Speaker 2: Because Tanya wants a black tie wedding but in Mexico
• 53:37
  Speaker 2: and she was thinking about wanting black bridesmaids dresses and
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: it's not gonna look weird. I was like, look on
• 53:42
  Speaker 2: pinters and see there's photos.
• 53:43
  Speaker 4: So she made me down that app and remember my password.
• 53:47
  Speaker 2: I think everyone will be shocked to know that you
• 53:49
  Speaker 2: didn't already have pinterest downloaded it.
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, no, did not remember your old pinchers. More than
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: we've discovered what's wrong with Google, Like why, like what's
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: wrong with Google? Why does everything have to be pincher.
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: It's like, why can't you just Google images of like
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: you can?
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: But pinterress has like a aesthetic that you can like
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: curate more than Google images.
• 54:09
  Speaker 3: I think we've realized that I just felt to Google
• 54:10
  Speaker 3: too for everything, and I saw that like more more
• 54:13
  Speaker 3: young people are using TikTok instead of like before Google,
• 54:17
  Speaker 3: like that's the top search engine.
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: That's how my Paulina looks up stuff. Like recommendations like
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: restaurants and stuff. She'll go to TikTok. Yeah, I do
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: that too.
• 54:26
  Speaker 2: I do that too, Yeah, because I like to see
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: like actual reviews from people.
• 54:31
  Speaker 3: See I tried that one. It is like how do
• 54:33
  Speaker 3: I get ketchup out of my jeans? And it's like,
• 54:35
  Speaker 3: you know, some person doing weird dance and pointing at
• 54:37
  Speaker 3: a thing. I like use vinegar Like, I was like,
• 54:41
  Speaker 3: I can just google this information.
• 54:45
  Speaker 8: Have you ever lied about where you've been to Haley
• 54:48
  Speaker 8: or Robbie?
• 54:49
  Speaker 2: Yes, because I was trying to surprise her. I used
• 54:53
  Speaker 2: to surprise her all the time when she was on tour,
• 54:55
  Speaker 2: and so I'd always have to lie.
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: Oh wow, Yeah, I don't think I have about where
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: I've been. We have life three sixty so we can
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: see where each other are at all times at the day,
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: when we're in the car, when we're walking. It's glorious.
• 55:11
  Speaker 2: I will never do that, but I'm happy for both
• 55:14
  Speaker 2: of you. I'm glad that you found someone that was
• 55:16
  Speaker 2: happy to do that with you.
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: Well, if it's if I'm being honest, it was not
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: to really share with me, it is to share with
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: the kids.
• 55:24
  Speaker 9: Just snuck it right in there and sharing each other
• 55:28
  Speaker 9: and now so like all four of us are in
• 55:30
  Speaker 9: a like a family one, so all of us can
• 55:33
  Speaker 9: like see where four of us are yet.
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: Great, Yeah it really worked out for me. Somebody gonna
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: met your freak?
• 55:39
  Speaker 2: Really?
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 55:42
  Speaker 8: Okay, so this will be the last one, and it's
• 55:45
  Speaker 8: make it good. Sam, it's the same but different. Becca,
• 55:48
  Speaker 8: you have to erase one memory meeting Haley or getting Phoebe.
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: Tanya, you have to erase.
• 55:57
  Speaker 8: One memory meeting Robbie or getting Sonny.
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: Let me grab my shot glass. I wouldn't even have
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: an answer to that. That's an impossible question. Go ahead
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: and finish that little ships there, she goes sad. The
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: sweet thing about Sonny is like.
• 56:25
  Speaker 4: That memory.
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: This was so crazy. We were at Jay Shetty's live show.
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: He'd went on tour. This was probably last year, and
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: he does like a very immersive experience where like ask
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: the audience to close your eyes and then picture yourself
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: in like your favorite memory of your life, Like what's
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: the one memory that you have in your head that
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: where you had ever Like it was like everybody, it
• 56:53
  Speaker 1: was like your happiest, most loving, fondest memory in your brain.
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: And so he starts you have to think about that.
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: And then he's asking all these questions about that, and
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: Robbie and I asked each other, like when we were
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: done with all the stuff that we had to do
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: through it, what that memory was. And I was like
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: convinced it was like when like I just did not
• 57:15
  Speaker 1: think that we had the same memory and both of
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: our same memory was when we got Sonny, Oh my gosh.
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: And it was because it really was kind of like
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: the first time where we really felt like a family
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: of four, you know what I mean, Like it was
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: like the first time that like I think Sonny because
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: the kids had been wanting a puppy for so long
• 57:36
  Speaker 1: and like they were begging their dad, and I think
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: they always thank me because they were like, he never
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: would have gotten a dog if you weren't in the picture.
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: And so there's this like bond that that whole experience
• 57:49
  Speaker 1: gave us, where like it really made us a family
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: for the first time. Like that whole weekend was just
• 57:54
  Speaker 1: like I don't know, it was the first time that
• 57:57
  Speaker 1: we really felt like a family, and like that is
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: like it was is such a beautiful thing that we had.
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: That's so sweet. I know, Yeah, it was like the
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: whole experience really just made us feel like and she
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: is that thing for all four of us because we
• 58:13
  Speaker 1: all love her so much, like she is like the
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: light of all of our lives, and so it's like
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: that thing that bonds us. Obviously we love each other.
• 58:21
  Speaker 2: She's the nucleus of the thing.
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: She really is the nucleus. Yeah, so sweet.
• 58:29
  Speaker 2: I'm a little drunk and I was precious and ready
• 58:33
  Speaker 2: to eat some chips.
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not to go away by the pool. So yeah, uh,
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: that's all for now. That's all from Palm Spring. You
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: never know, we might do one more. Yeah, if we're
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: feeling it in this airbnb on the we have plenty
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: of hours left. So you're still out.
• 58:53
  Speaker 2: The mics are hot, and they're out.
• 58:56
  Speaker 4: Exactly, exactly exactly.
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's good. End clicking all right.
• 59:06
  Speaker 3: Again, you'll be hearing the click.
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: Walking out to the further away.
• 59:11
  Speaker 2: Okay, hold on, we need a distant a distant clink.
• 59:16
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, there she goes. That's the end of the pond,
• 59:22
  Speaker 2: right there, folks. She's all shuffling and clicking the shuffle, click.
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: The old shovel and click. Al right, we'll have so
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: much