Latest / The Liminal Lounge Mediums / Liminal Lounge Mediums Podcast - episode 6 - with Guest Intuitive Tarot Reader, Medium & Mentor, Kisha K
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- 0:01Welcome to The Liminal Lounge everyone.
- 0:04We are so excited because we have an incredible guest for you today.
- 0:10Personally, one of my dear, dear friends.
- 0:13The incredible Miss Keisha k Keisha is an incredible psychic, medium intuitive tarot reader and a spiritual mentor.
- 0:21She has so much wisdom to share with us today, and we're super excited because it is St.
- 0:27Patrick's Day.
- 0:28We're gonna be definitely talking about ancestors.
- 0:31Loren and I probably Michelle too, who, who knows?
- 0:33All of us have probably Irish ancestors, so we have a lot to talk about.
- 0:38Welcome, Keisha.
- 0:39We're so excited to have you here.
- 0:40Yay.
- 0:41And talk to the our guest.
- 0:43You're our first guest.
- 0:44I just realized.
- 0:45Yeah, that's honored.
- 0:46Oh my gosh.
- 0:47I'm super excited.
- 0:47I'm super excited.
- 0:49My gosh, Keisha, I'm gonna dive right into being nosy.
- 0:53Now, personally, this is the thing.
- 0:54I know a lot about Keisha,'cause she's my friend.
- 0:56Yeah.
- 0:56However, I'm gonna be objective and ask her the questions that everyone's gonna wanna know.
- 1:01I wanna talk to you first about how you ended up doing this work.
- 1:05How did it start unfolding for you?
- 1:07I, I love the story and can't wait for everyone to hear it.
- 1:11So, it started from, I like to say it started from a non starting point, right?
- 1:16I wasn't looking for anything.
- 1:18I was.
- 1:19Minding my own good southern Christian business.
- 1:22Like I, I was just going on about it.
- 1:25Like you hear about people who are like, oh, I questioned about Jonah and the will, and I was like, no, a fish love and a man.
- 1:31Like, that's what happened.
- 1:32Like I didn't have any questions.
- 1:34And I remember listening to a podcast, a really good fun podcast, and the young lady was Dominican, Puerto Rican, and Haitian.
- 1:42And so she was talking about all of these African religions and I was like, what?
- 1:47They're not Christian like I thought everybody was Christian.
- 1:50I'm just living in a bubble of unaware.
- 1:52It's just, I'm just out here living.
- 1:54And so I started to look research because I am a nerd at heart above everything.
- 1:59I love to read, I love to study, and so as I started to research.
- 2:03I'm coming across people like Dr.
- 2:05Bart, the Airman, and I'm coming across Dr.
- 2:08Delbert Blair and I'm coming across Bobby ett and, and all of these people.
- 2:13And I'm going through these books and I'm like, what's happening?
- 2:16Like, the world is literally crumbling around me trying to figure out my footing and where I was going and what this meant.
- 2:25Getting information from different sources about ancestors and then being like, okay.
- 2:30I'm gonna take a pause'cause I don't really know what's right, what's going on.
- 2:34I went through a grief period because literally everything I had based my life on was no longer true.
- 2:41So now what do we do?
- 2:42How do we navigate?
- 2:44And I'd just come across the information of a generation and I was a little shaky at the time because coincidentally, I used to be scared of dead people.
- 2:54Um, so, so I was like, funny that, it's so weird.
- 3:01Yeah.
- 3:01And I was like, you know, there's one dead person I know I could trust and that would be my grandpa.
- 3:06So I was like, you know what, let me just put it out there.
- 3:08And I was just like.
- 3:10Driving home to go take care of my dad, who's now on the other side.
- 3:14And I was like, you know, Papa, if this is right, I need you to let me know'cause I don't really know what I'm doing.
- 3:20I don't know what's going on and I don't wanna spend and waste time if this is, you know, not where I'm going.
- 3:27Take a nap.
- 3:28I'm at my mother's house and.
- 3:30King knows this, but I wear glasses.
- 3:32I'm blind as a bat without these contacts or glasses.
- 3:35And so I didn't have glasses on, I didn't have contacts on.
- 3:39And I woke up and my grandfather was sitting in a chair across from my mom's bed, legs crossed, looking very pleasant.
- 3:45And he just nodded.
- 3:46He didn't say anything.
- 3:48And it was like that sense of understanding that he was saying, keep going, like this is the way you're supposed to go.
- 3:53And then after that I was like sitting at the red light on the way home.
- 3:58And I just remember I was bawling.
- 4:00'cause I was like, okay, no matter how much it hurts, no matter how uncomfortable it gets, I just wanna know what the truth is.
- 4:07So y'all gotta show me what the truth is and then here we are and everything has unfolded.
- 4:13So, yeah, that is incredible.
- 4:16That makes me go,'cause I know you, this is part of your study and I know what an incredible, we'll call you an OC cultist and an esoteric study or, and, and you're so knowledgeable.
- 4:27I'm gonna ask you a big question because someone, maybe it was one of the ancestors asked me this.
- 4:31So, you know, in your, in, in your history and, and with your roots and now the overlay of Christianity on top of that, do you believe that if people hadn't been uprooted and colonizers hadn't have come and done what they have done?
- 4:52Our, you know, my ancestors and so on.
- 4:55W and the, the full expression of the a TR religions and being able to express ancestor work, I can't even imagine how different the world would be if that had happened.
- 5:07You know what I'm saying?
- 5:08Yeah.
- 5:08So when it comes to like integrating in, so, so when you're working with students and they're first coming to you and they're going through exactly what you're talking about, how do you end up.
- 5:21Working them through that process.
- 5:23'cause I, I know what you do and how much magic and how much you help them deconstruct.
- 5:28Yeah.
- 5:29Can you chat about that?
- 5:30Sure.
- 5:31So a couple of things.
- 5:33'cause I like the way you posed the question, right?
- 5:34Like, what would've happened if, so, I'm, I'm very much a realist, right?
- 5:39And through my study of lit just humanity and how people.
- 5:43Act.
- 5:44It is.
- 5:44It is really my true belief that regardless, even though that was a horrific thing and it caused so much injury, and we got to be so creative in having to reconnect due to history, I'm very aware of the fact that even if we'd never been pulled from that land, there were still systems and ways in which humans choose to separate and segregate.
- 6:05Right?
- 6:06So there may have been parts of.
- 6:11The continent that chose Christianity like they do now.
- 6:14And understanding that it could come from all different sources and ways.
- 6:19So one of the ways that I like to pose to them is your soul will find its path regardless of the journey.
- 6:26So looking at how far away from where I am now than I was, I often try to explain to them that whatever you came back here to learn, you're gonna learn.
- 6:39It's gonna find you, it's gonna look for you, and you're gonna find you because there is no logical explanation as to why this southern girl from Texas is now talking to on a every basis and working with Kion.
- 6:56And, and none of this makes any sense.
- 6:58And I think the main thing with this is to throw away logic and embrace the feeling of it all and understanding that.
- 7:08Especially as African Americans, how they were separated and still found their way back through different practices like who do and things like that, where they had to cultivate and create a survival system.
- 7:20So I feel like whether you're from India or you're from Ireland, or you're from Africa, your soul will find its way to whatever your purpose of calling is.
- 7:31And so I'm just here to help them figure out.
- 7:34What their path is to their truth, so, yeah.
- 7:37Wow.
- 7:38Because Keisha works with, you know, all ethnicities, all e everybody from e every walk of life.
- 7:44Yeah.
- 7:45And I mean, and it's amazing to me also how the, I feel like the ancestors are, are just cheerleading, Keisha.
- 7:52They're like, go, go, go.
- 7:54Keep going.
- 7:55Yeah.
- 7:56You're doing amazing.
- 7:57I mean, you're really, it just so incredible.
- 7:59So.
- 8:00If I was, if we were talking to our, our audience today, if people are wanting to learn about what is ancestral generation,'cause a lot of people don't know what it is.
- 8:09And I would love to know, you know, then further how people can get started doing it and, and also the benefits.
- 8:17There's so much to unpack, so much, so much, so much to unpack, so much.
- 8:22I'm, I'm gonna take my time with this'cause it's such a, like, passion point for me so that I'm like.
- 8:27Run forward into, into the now, please.
- 8:29Um, I feel like when people find the subject, like it starts to show up for them, that's a signal that, okay, maybe I need to start reaching out, looking into this.
- 8:39Kind of like with ate, like if you're, if you're starting to see her name everywhere, if you're starting to get the, if you're doing the things, I'm like, girl, she's trying to reach out to you.
- 8:48So it's the, it's the same thing with like your ancestors.
- 8:52A lot of times people will come across information that they weren't previously pretty to a name, a, a heritage, all sorts of things.
- 9:01And it is the idea that when we pass on and we cross over to the other side, we don't stop.
- 9:07Right?
- 9:08Energy is neither created nor destroyed.
- 9:10It just changes form.
- 9:12One of the easiest ways to explain this is what I did for my daughter.
- 9:16She's five by the way.
- 9:17A very curious Gemini.
- 9:20Um, and so, um, when my dad died, it'll be two years ago in April she didn't get to say goodbye'cause he died of like COVID and asbestos and he was like in insecure room with all the things.
- 9:31And so she's been trying to figure out like, well, where's pop pop?
- 9:34Like I see him, he was in the casket, he looked asleep and she's like, so does he sleep forever?
- 9:38Like, how does this work?
- 9:40What's going on?
- 9:41And so having to take a very elementary understanding for her to understand.
- 9:47So I got a pot of water and I was like, you see there's water in the pot.
- 9:50She's like, yeah.
- 9:51So then I was like boiling the water and I was like, you see the steam that's going up?
- 9:55Like you could see it at first and then it disappears.
- 9:58And she's like, yeah.
- 9:59I said, but it's still in the air.
- 10:02And she's like, Uhhuh.
- 10:03I said, so that's kind of how popup is.
- 10:05Can't touch him, but he's always around.
- 10:09So she said, okay.
- 10:10And so now she's very comfortable with.
- 10:14Was in her little pendulum, she'll walk over to the altar and she'll be like, PopPop, his birthday just passed.
- 10:20And she's like, I think PopPop needs some cake.
- 10:23I said, I don't know how you got that, but we can make that happen.
- 10:26And so and so she'll put things on the altar.
- 10:29And so it's the idea to keep a very childlike approach to connecting with family.
- 10:36Your relationship is your relationship.
- 10:38If you were the baby, you'll always be their baby if you're their 9000th descendant.
- 10:44You're their great-great-great-great grandbaby, and they treat you as such, and it is such a loving and confirming practice because it helps you to self-identify with loving and venerating them.
- 10:57You're loving and venerating what makes up you.
- 11:00And so you're really learning that all these beautiful things about yourself, and it's really a self-love journey because the things that you may have previously criticized yourself about, you're like, you know what?
- 11:13Maybe that was great Aunt Hannah's issue.
- 11:16Maybe I need to love myself and her through that.
- 11:19Maybe this isn't such a bad thing.
- 11:21Maybe.
- 11:22Maybe my great-great-grandfather was an alcoholic because he was under so much pressure.
- 11:27Maybe I need to understand where these habits are coming from.
- 11:30And so it really does like pull in all the parts of you and it becomes a table for me.
- 11:38For all pathways of my practice.
- 11:41And through it, they're learning things from me too.
- 11:44I remember when I first, when I first started working with the Ian and I had an ancestors that was a, she's, you know, good Catholic Louisiana, Cajun woman, and I was burning a candle and my alter used to be in my kitchen and my husband was like, Keisha, come downstairs.
- 12:03And I was like, okay.
- 12:03I come downstairs.
- 12:05And there is a literal picture of a skull like turned back with like a black cape on looking fierce, like very angry.
- 12:12And my husband's like, I'm really pissed out.
- 12:14You piss somebody up.
- 12:17I was like, clearly, clearly.
- 12:19And I know who this is and I know what she's upset.
- 12:21So then having to like sit with that answers a word meal and people like, so I know this looks crazy.
- 12:27This isn't what you think it is.
- 12:29And now being like.
- 12:30Like blouse altars next to theirs and this was, and they're like, girl, just whatever.
- 12:34'cause we see you just doing things.
- 12:36And so before you even get to that, it's like super simple.
- 12:40You can put out a glass and a white candle and just call in your up uplifted, enlightened, and benevolent ancestors like, and I love to say the known and the unknown because the unknown is so vast.
- 12:54We come from so many different pathways.
- 12:58So many different life forms.
- 12:59And so you wanna call in all the help, you won't leave anything on the table.
- 13:04Exactly.
- 13:04That's Keisha.
- 13:05Benevolent, uplifted, enlightened.
- 13:07Like I literally make that an acronym when I tell people, yeah, okay, this is what Keisha taught me.
- 13:12Mm-hmm.
- 13:12That is so beautiful.
- 13:13And that makes me feel so emotional because it, it just reminds me of why would you turn away all this connection?
- 13:20I mean that it just it's, it's absolutely such an incredible thing.
- 13:25I just love it.
- 13:26Now, I, I was gonna say, Loren has a question.
- 13:28I can just see her.
- 13:29She can, she can feel like things I know.
- 13:31Alright, so let's pretend I know nothing about any of this.
- 13:37Okay.
- 13:37Other than people on the there.
- 13:40Okay.
- 13:40We got our relatives on the, I got, I have two totally separate questions.
- 13:43I'm gonna go with this one first though.
- 13:45Okay.
- 13:45Why?
- 13:48If someone's in spirit, are we so like, why did you bake your pop pop a cake?
- 13:55He can't eat the cake.
- 13:57Right?
- 13:57Put the cake out.
- 13:58Why are we, why are we doing physical offerings for people on the other side?
- 14:05Whether that's our relatives, whether those are deities.
- 14:09Why are we doing that?
- 14:10What is that connection and how does that benefit us?
- 14:13Or why, why would we, how does that make us closer to them?
- 14:16So everything is energy, right?
- 14:19And I like to tell people that there's the physical and there's what's mirrored on the energetic side.
- 14:25So we bake the cake clearly, daddy can't get to the cake.
- 14:29However, comma, what he can do it as a spirit is intake that energy, the energy of the love and the intention, and that it's your.
- 14:38It was your birthday and we're thinking about you, um, possibly getting in like the smells.
- 14:43There are like spiritual gifts where people have senses through olfactory.
- 14:47They'll smell us, their guard, they'll do this and so that's how they sense that their spirits around.
- 14:52And so even though they cannot physically get the things, it is a show and a, an image of your love of you taking the time to do this for someone.
- 15:02Who physically cannot be here.
- 15:05That's how much I love you.
- 15:06Even if you can't touch me, even if you can't hug me anymore, I'm gonna take the time to do these things for you as a symbol of the fact that that love is still going.
- 15:15And so it's a symbolic way of continuing that relationship and it benefits your life because spiritually speaking, there are a lot of things that we may not see coming.
- 15:29Or that we may not be aware of in our everyday physical life.
- 15:32And through dreams and signs and all sorts of things, they will get you the message ahead of time.
- 15:37So they save us a lot of, lot of headache and heartache.
- 15:40And even when the headache and the heartache hits, they give us the strength to get through that thing without losing it.
- 15:47So, yeah.
- 15:48Thank you.
- 15:48And do you feel, do you feel like the, the offering.
- 15:56Is more to benefit the spirit or us.
- 16:02I think it is maybe 50 50.
- 16:06And the way, the reason why I say that is for one, it's reminding us to consistently take care of ourselves, right?
- 16:13Like, stop, think, feed yourself.
- 16:16Allow yourself to sweet things, enjoy the things.
- 16:19It also makes you consciously remember who this person was.
- 16:24Or what they meant in your life, right?
- 16:27Even if they're ones that you've never met, you're building a relationship and with any type of relationship you have to reciprocate, right?
- 16:36So that, that feels part of it.
- 16:38And it definitely benefits the spirits because they always say like, you die twice when you really die.
- 16:44And then the last day someone says your name.
- 16:46And so it is the remembering like, you're not really gone to us.
- 16:53No matter how many generations down, even when we don't remember your name, your spirit's gonna be remembered.
- 16:58So I feel like that offering is just really that anchor to be like, come on over.
- 17:04You are welcome here.
- 17:06Wow.
- 17:06That was, oh, I, okay.
- 17:08That's a lot to sit with.
- 17:09Now.
- 17:09I'm gonna have to, I'm gonna mute myself and just sit back that, and I'll bring, I'll bring my other question here in a little bit.
- 17:15I'm, I have a feeling Michelle's got questions too.
- 17:17Yeah.
- 17:18Amazing.
- 17:19Yeah.
- 17:19This is so fascinating.
- 17:21Like.
- 17:21As a medium.
- 17:22I'm fully aware that even though our loved ones move into the spirit realm, they do want to connect with us.
- 17:29Those of us still here in embodiment, they want to bring us messages and help us with our life path and the whole like I know they do.
- 17:38I experienced that.
- 17:39And I also, I mean, you know, we, we talk about like when we're born into this physical embodiment, it's like there's this deliberate amnesia about certain things.
- 17:50Like we have all these questions, we can get glimpses into what the answers might be, but there's always some of it that will remains a mystery, right?
- 17:59Yeah.
- 18:00So, but I, I, I, I don't know.
- 18:03I feel like we're kind, we're on this journey to remember, right?
- 18:07To remember who we really are.
- 18:10Mm-hmm.
- 18:11What do you think, what is the main thing our ancestors want us to remember?
- 18:18What do they want us to remember?
- 18:19You know what I mean?
- 18:22I think for me, like the seed of, I'll say the collective ancestors, right?
- 18:29Because as a medium, we talk to everybody's focus.
- 18:31Right, right.
- 18:32And so, um, I feel like the overall overarching message is you're more powerful than you think.
- 18:42I think when they cross over and they were realizing I really could have done that.
- 18:50I could have had that experience.
- 18:52I could have taken that trip.
- 18:54I could have married that person.
- 18:56I could have, I could have.
- 18:58But I didn't think I was strong enough.
- 19:00I didn't think I was powerful enough.
- 19:01I was worthy enough.
- 19:03And so it's about recognize your power and then once you're tapping into knowing who's around, who's behind you, the power is now amplified.
- 19:15And so I feel like that's the thing that overarching from Fiji to Indian to to Chinese, to everybody's like, tell them that they can do this.
- 19:27They can absolutely do this because a lot of times in the physical things will look more difficult than they actually are.
- 19:35Right?
- 19:36And because they have a clear perspective, they can see the whole picture before the after the future, right?
- 19:42Yes.
- 19:43They can see the pathway through that we can't, and they're like, yes, you can.
- 19:48So beautiful.
- 19:48Yeah.
- 19:49Okay.
- 19:49Beautiful.
- 19:50I love that.
- 19:50Thank you.
- 19:51You are welcome.
- 19:52I have a, another burning question.
- 19:55You and I have chatted about this before, but being that you are a spiritual practitioner, so you work with a myriad of spirits and Keisha is an incredible encyclopedia and so knowledgeable about all the different types of spirits there are, so please, you know, make sure that you're following her everywhere and learning.
- 20:15'cause she teaches me things all the time.
- 20:18Can, and this is a big one, how, like when are the times when you're wanting to lean into your ancestors?
- 20:25And then talk to us also about your spiritual practice working with different spirits.
- 20:31And as someone who's starting out, what do you recommend?
- 20:34And okay, that's a good one.
- 20:36'cause I do work with quite a few.
- 20:38Um, yes, you do.
- 20:40So, so, um, I guess just to give, to give the listener like an idea, right?
- 20:44So, um.
- 20:47Love her down, like mama, whatever she needs, like she has helped so much, especially as a medium.
- 20:53She does so much with helping the other side of this side and cutting and clearing things.
- 20:59Of course, work with the Ian, work with, you know, work in that.
- 21:03All of these things.
- 21:05For someone who's just getting started, I say go slow.
- 21:10Start off with your ancestors, right?
- 21:12The reason why I say start with your ancestors.
- 21:14Is your family.
- 21:15They love you, they want the best for you.
- 21:18And what happens with them is they become what I like to call your spiritual advocacy team, right?
- 21:25So they're on the other side, they can see what's coming, they can see what shouldn't be coming.
- 21:30And so any energies or entities that you're not ready to work with, they'll keep it at bay, but she's not ready for that day.
- 21:37We're gonna start off over here and pay attention to what comes up for you.
- 21:42Ganesh was the first one that came to me.
- 21:45However, I was living in an apartment complex with like 95% Hindu occupation, and so, you know, they're having a Diwali festival across the hall from me, shoes all outside.
- 21:56I don't know what's going on, but I'm beginning my practice and then I'm starting to see stuff about Ganesh everywhere.
- 22:02So he chose to come where he was already being venerated and nurtured, and I was like, oh.
- 22:07So that's who that is.
- 22:08I've seen that little elephant man everywhere.
- 22:10I didn't know who that was.
- 22:12So look, they, they'll come to you and so don't rush it.
- 22:18Start with your people and then once you've started with your people, whomever starts to pique your interest, do your research.
- 22:26Remember, it's a relationship.
- 22:28You don't want to take somebody, go to someone's dinner party.
- 22:32This is a good thing.
- 22:34You don't wanna go to someone's dinner party and the host doesn't drink and you bring a bottle of work, like, what are we doing?
- 22:41Like, read the room, your homework, y'all Yes, read the room.
- 22:45We gonna, what do they like?
- 22:47What do they not like?
- 22:48So then that way when you're coming in, you're like, hi, my name is Keisha.
- 22:52I know you like these little candies, brought some little candies.
- 22:55And I just wanna get to know like, what do you do?
- 22:57What do I do?
- 22:58I'm just trying to get to know and just have a conversation and trust what you hear.
- 23:04Yeah, don't second use yourself.
- 23:06I don't care how crazy it sounds.
- 23:07'cause trust me, I heard the crazy.
- 23:09Just write it down and come back to it later.
- 23:12It'll make sense.
- 23:13I think as mediums, we say that all the time.
- 23:14We like teachers all four because all four of us teach.
- 23:18I think we said it, but just listen, the first thing that comes into your head is real.
- 23:22The second thing is you're talking yourself out of it.
- 23:24So that makes absolutely perfect sense.
- 23:25Yeah.
- 23:26Every time.
- 23:27I love when the ancestors are so clear too.
- 23:30Like as an example.
- 23:31Yeah.
- 23:31I've been having a lot of wonderful things in the last few weeks happened in my practice with them and yesterday, so I've been, I'm working on a money altar specifically, so I've got it all set.
- 23:41I was thinking I was gonna work right with one of like an archangel or somebody else was coming in.
- 23:47My ancestors were like, hello?
- 23:49Hello.
- 23:50Yeah, and the first thing I heard them say to me is, you need to put corn on the altar and mead.
- 23:55I don't know where I'm getting mead, Keisha.
- 23:57I don't know where that's coming from, but I was like, Mead, check out Etsy.
- 24:00We'd be finding weird stuff on et.
- 24:01We got what got what we need.
- 24:03But I was like, then I looked at, and then I Very specific, right, like you're saying, totally trust the process.
- 24:11And again, the earth element of the fact that they've walked on this earth and they have stepped in the places you've stepped is so powerful.
- 24:20When it makes things happen.
- 24:22And have you noticed a difference between just a little more sublime, say you're working with like one of the saints and then say you're working with one of your ancestors as far as how things may, may show up for you manifestation wise or how that might unfold?
- 24:39I think that's a really good question because now I'm like, so with like for one with Saint.
- 24:49Anytime I work with saints, it's always like an awesome, how did you do that type of situation?
- 24:55For me, especially with like St.
- 24:57Anthony in particular St.
- 24:59Expedite, I be like, how did you do this?
- 25:02And I mean like crazy, like the person got fired and then they called back and said.
- 25:07We made a mistake.
- 25:08Can we have you back?
- 25:09Like that type of, what the heck?
- 25:11Wow.
- 25:11Wow.
- 25:12Yeah.
- 25:12That's manifesting right now.
- 25:14That's a good one.
- 25:15Um, yeah, that was, that was crazy.
- 25:17My ancestors feel more normal stuff.
- 25:21Yeah.
- 25:21Like, you, you need, you need money for grocery.
- 25:24You check and then all of a sudden somebody's like, oh, well, you know, I've had grocery show up at the front door.
- 25:31Like they DoorDash to the wrong door or something, and then I called a return and they're like, you can't, you can't take it back.
- 25:36So things like that.
- 25:37It's more practical with them.
- 25:39Yeah.
- 25:40Than it is.
- 25:40And that's why I like that you said the corn and the meat.
- 25:42Yeah.
- 25:43Because my folks are like, put some rice, get some black eye peas.
- 25:46Yes.
- 25:46Put that up there.
- 25:47Put a little oil sit down somewhere, be still God, and do the thing.
- 25:53You know?
- 25:54I love that.
- 25:55And they've probably given you so many things over the years.
- 25:59So many like nuggets of connection and, and things that make things work.
- 26:03I had really quick story recently, one of my family members going through a tough time, one of my, you know, loved ones, um, not in my direct family, but in my circle, and my dad was an attorney and had connections like nobody's business.
- 26:20Specifically where this relative lives now.
- 26:23And I swear the things that have happened over the last month that could have just not like things working out, things that could have been more difficult unwinding.
- 26:33And I said to this person, oh yeah, my dad's working on that.
- 26:37He's making things happen.
- 26:38That probably would've never been able to happen because of his energy.
- 26:42His, this is his, this is his stomping ground, you know, phenomenal.
- 26:48Just actually.
- 26:49That point that you just said, Hey, this is my dad.
- 26:53That acknowledgement helps to fuel them as well.
- 26:56Wow.
- 26:57Because it's like I'm not just working over here and nobody's acknowledging my work.
- 27:01Like you physically name the one that you know that's handling it.
- 27:05'cause when like certain things pop up in my business, I'm like Uncle Larry, like I know who that is.
- 27:10I know who did that.
- 27:11And it helps to fuel their spirit to feel like, okay.
- 27:15They see me, they understand and giving them credit for that work.
- 27:18I think that's important.
- 27:20And you also, something I love about you so much besides a million other things, is the fact that you're so in your certainty about what you're getting.
- 27:29That you make it easy for your students to then go, oh, I did hear the corn.
- 27:34I did hear, I saw the, I saw the clover.
- 27:37And that actually worked.
- 27:38Like the fact that you lay that down with such faith is incredible.
- 27:42Really is incredible.
- 27:44I think part of helping them get to that is letting them know I was just as uncertain as you were.
- 27:50I would pull 17 cards for one question.
- 27:52I would, I would ask for 35 like signs.
- 27:55Like they'd be like, you've seen the blue bird.
- 27:57You've seen the blue bird.
- 27:59Like they were tired of me.
- 28:00So like to know that like, that's okay to be there.
- 28:04You'll get here eventually.
- 28:05And I think that's, that's a big part of it, like,'cause a lot of times when they'll see people like us that like teach your girl.
- 28:11You are on the socials, you're on YouTube, you're everywhere.
- 28:15And they're like, oh my gosh.
- 28:16I a young lady last Friday.
- 28:19And she was like, I can't believe I'm talking to you.
- 28:21And I'm like, girl, I'm a person.
- 28:23Like whatcha talking about?
- 28:24Hold on, I gotta make some chicken nuggets.
- 28:26I'll be right back.
- 28:29It's normal.
- 28:29It's normal over here.
- 28:30And I think normalizing these extraordinary gifts that we have, normalizing that this is not such fringe as it used to be.
- 28:41It helps them to be like, okay, I'm not crazy.
- 28:43This is normal.
- 28:44I can live a normal life and do this.
- 28:46Like, I think that's a big part of it too, that they don't feel like they have to be woo woo and all the time.
- 28:52Like go pour club glass of water and turn on Netflix.
- 28:55Like it's fine.
- 28:56You're okay?
- 28:57Yeah, I gotta read that.
- 28:59Please go for it.
- 29:00Okay.
- 29:01I'm gonna do another sharp left turn.
- 29:03We love them.
- 29:04I love those.
- 29:05What if you're adopted?
- 29:07What if you got someone adopted who says.
- 29:11I don't know my ancestors, I don't know my, I've got, who am I venerating?
- 29:17Who am I calling in if I know nothing about my ancestors?
- 29:23Then what?
- 29:23And then I got another question too.
- 29:25I wrote'em down though, so I don't forget.
- 29:26Good for you.
- 29:27I love it.
- 29:28So for all my adoptive babies,'cause I have a lot of those.
- 29:33You may not know them, but they know you, right?
- 29:36Even though someone in the bloodline made the decision.
- 29:40To divert you to another bloodline's care.
- 29:44That doesn't mean they all said you.
- 29:47They didn't want you there.
- 29:49They still very much feel like you're theirs.
- 29:52And I feel like those people are double blessed.
- 29:55'cause you're loved twice.
- 29:57You're loved by the ones you literally came through, and then there's a whole nother bloodline that you had nothing to do with that saw like how amazing your soul was and was like, we have to go get them.
- 30:09And Mup on them and take care of them.
- 30:11So you've got two sets that you can really pull on and really your adopted bloodline you can really tap in'cause those people went and looked for you and found you.
- 30:23And then the ones who you were originally from, they have a path of reclaiming reclamation that they're trying to do.
- 30:31So they will send you signs.
- 30:33You will literally had a young lady, she said, I've never had, I've never met my dad.
- 30:39This was about two years ago.
- 30:41She never met her dad.
- 30:41She didn't know who her daddy was.
- 30:43Mom had been lied about who her daddy was my whole life.
- 30:45She's 42 years old, right?
- 30:47All of a sudden, the grandmother who raised her, which is her adoptive grandmother, is now like in her early eighties.
- 30:55She's gone to go help her grandmother clean and her grand's like, well, you know, I guess it's time.
- 31:00I need to start giving you some stuff.
- 31:02She gives her a box.
- 31:03There's a picture of her dad, his name.
- 31:07Some rings that he had.
- 31:09She called me in tears.
- 31:10I didn't know that.
- 31:12I said, I told you he'd been listening the whole darn time.
- 31:15And he's like, I'm here now.
- 31:16I'm fully able to push my way through.
- 31:19So they'll find a way, but long story short, take care of'em both and they'll take care of me.
- 31:25Double protect.
- 31:25Wow.
- 31:26Double blessed.
- 31:26Yeah.
- 31:26That is incredible.
- 31:29Now what if.
- 31:34You have that ancestor.
- 31:37Okay.
- 31:37I'm gonna just say it to me.
- 31:38What if you've got a relative that, like my dad is on the other side, I don't wanna hear from him.
- 31:44Yes.
- 31:45I don't want because he was not a good person here in this lifetime.
- 31:48So how do I still, but then like that spiritualist side of me is like, oh, but I learned something from him.
- 31:54I've got, I've got the DNA running through me.
- 31:59It.
- 32:00How do you help people who have that going on where you still wanna, I'm not setting up an al, my dad's not even allowed to come through my stuff.
- 32:09He's definitely not getting an altar.
- 32:11Right.
- 32:11So how do you help people from an ancestral point of view and, and understanding?
- 32:17Or do you just have the, do those relatives, maybe those ancestors come in and, oh, okay.
- 32:23I'm answering my own question.
- 32:24Come in and help us in ways on the backend that we are not aware and, and teach us things that they should have done better.
- 32:31I, I dunno what, can you speak on that?
- 32:33Spiritual boundaries are real boundaries.
- 32:36If they weren't good to you over here, why the heck would you want'em to be bothered with'em over there?
- 32:41You have a right to be like, yeah, nah, buddy.
- 32:45We're not, we are not going, we we're not friends.
- 32:47We're not friends.
- 32:48We're not really friends.
- 32:49And, and on a more serious note, I think that brings up.
- 32:53The ideal of, that's why we say benevolent, uplifted, and enlightened because not everybody in the bloodline was good.
- 33:02There were people who harm children.
- 33:04There were all sorts of people that I'm like, yeah, no, there's a hard no.
- 33:09And that's where your guardian ancestors come in.
- 33:11When you ask the ones who were strong and are serious about you and your family's protection set of a boundary, we don't want them here.
- 33:21It's not my responsibility to help them on the other side, let them go through those life and soul cycles to come to that conclusion on their own.
- 33:28But no, you do not have to incorporate them.
- 33:31And I think again, that translates into your physical life when there are people that are not good to us here and we have that spiritual side that's like, well, maybe I should forget.
- 33:42No, absolutely not.
- 33:44It's not a good person.
- 33:46Keep keep it pushing.
- 33:47Right.
- 33:49That is so, I, I love the boundary.
- 33:52I love the, not the love and light, you know?
- 33:55Absolutely.
- 33:56That is not, and that's not happening here.
- 33:58This is so incredible.
- 33:59Mm-hmm.
- 33:59I know I have so many questions every time I think Michelle has a question.
- 34:02I do, I do.
- 34:04Okay.
- 34:04I have a, I have a question.
- 34:06So can you speak to how connecting with our ancestors can help, uh, heal generational patterns or trauma?
- 34:16Like how can we.
- 34:17Ask for help, you know?
- 34:19Good one.
- 34:20That's a real good one.
- 34:22I think it's a, it's paired with like shadow work.
- 34:25I see it as part of shadow work, right?
- 34:27Because you're talking about generational trauma.
- 34:30Mm-hmm.
- 34:30Generational things that are hidden for most of us, that's, you know, no one talks to Bruno.
- 34:36Like there are certain things we just Right.
- 34:38We don't bring up as family.
- 34:40And so, um, part of the shadow work with this is.
- 34:45You're coming across certain things that you notice have been repeating in your family.
- 34:50For some people it's imprisonment.
- 34:52Like every male for some day, everybody's going to jail.
- 34:56Well, that's a problem.
- 34:57Everybody should not be going to jail or it seems like nobody for generations can hold onto a dollar.
- 35:04That's a generational trauma.
- 35:06And so in those instances, that's where I start to employ.
- 35:12My energy's outside of my ancestors.
- 35:14Right?
- 35:15That's when I'm asking certain things, like I'll talk to that.
- 35:20She's an excellent with cutting cords on things, ending cycles, right?
- 35:25Life and death.
- 35:26And so asking her, Hey, there was a gambling problem, and I don't want that to continue.
- 35:32I don't, I don't want my daughter to be, you know, addicted to scratch offs, whatever it is, right?
- 35:37And ask her to end it with whomever was the last person that had that.
- 35:42Attachment.
- 35:43And so it is asking for that even if it's not, if people who aren't com you know, comfortable with like cycle water thing, you can talk to Archangel Rael, like psych, same energy.
- 35:55It's about ending those cycles.
- 35:57And then usually, and I do say usually'cause it's not all the time, but 90% of the time, the last person in the bloodline that was truly affected by that, whatever it was.
- 36:09Wants to be the last person.
- 36:11Yeah.
- 36:11'cause it did so much damage in their life.
- 36:14Right.
- 36:14And so speaking to them and being like, okay, we don't want this to continue forward.
- 36:19What advice do you have?
- 36:21And then, like Carrie was saying, listen, listen to what you hear.
- 36:26Are they telling you on every Wednesday you need to put up a, a cup of ginger tea?
- 36:33And then you go look up ginger and you realize, oh.
- 36:35That's going to, you know what I mean?
- 36:37Mm-hmm.
- 36:37And so they're going to help you because so much of their lives were ruined by whatever this was.
- 36:44They don't wanna see it happen, especially if you have kids, they're like, definitely don't want it to hit the babies.
- 36:50So what do I gotta do on this side to help stop it?
- 36:54So that's, that's definitely a way to, to handle that.
- 36:58Beautiful.
- 36:59Yeah.
- 36:59Thank you for, for talking about that.
- 37:02You know, I think even the families that on the surface it seems like everything's perfect.
- 37:08There's always something.
- 37:09Every family has something and your heart's just breaking for the people being affected by it.
- 37:15And it, you see the psych, the cyclical nature, nature of it, right?
- 37:20It just seems to perpetuate and perpetuate.
- 37:23So that, thank you personally, I find that very helpful.
- 37:27Yeah.
- 37:27That's great.
- 37:28That's beautiful.
- 37:29That part of what, when we were talking about that, that comes to mind.
- 37:33'cause I work with a lot of L-G-B-T-Q-I-A like tons, right?
- 37:38Yeah.
- 37:39And a lot of them have come through in this current lifecycle.
- 37:42Families who may not understand, may not support, may have thrown them out, may have caused a lack of trauma.
- 37:51And what I have found for a lot of them is I'm like, I promise you.
- 37:55You're not the first one.
- 37:56I guarantee you that.
- 37:58You got a auntie, a uncle that nobody talked about.
- 38:02That's right.
- 38:02Their friend, they just live with a friend child.
- 38:04They're just friend.
- 38:06Yep.
- 38:07And her friend Amanda, they were not friends.
- 38:09Yeah.
- 38:10So I'm like, if you, if you look and you ask them who was like me, who can help me live my life to the fullest expression, it'll come out.
- 38:21I have a student that's current.
- 38:23She was fighting that she was a lesbian all this time.
- 38:27The whole time we worked together.
- 38:28I'm like, that's why these relationships are work about you do not like men, but okay, here we go.
- 38:33And so come to find out, her grandmother wanted desired, was truly in love with women and could not express herself.
- 38:44Yeah, due to the time.
- 38:45Right now she's doing it.
- 38:47You know, I had a dream about my grandma and such and such, da, da da da, and I was like, mm-hmm.
- 38:51Now she's, now she's like, I'm on the apps and I'm dating and I'm like, have blast, have good time.
- 38:57'cause sometimes that type of trauma of just not being able to be seen.
- 39:03Right.
- 39:04Um, I'm going to end this point with, with this, about two weeks ago, client's ancestor came through and it was about not being seen.
- 39:15And he had been whispering his name to her every session to who is so and so who She kept bringing up his name, finally went into like a deep trance and saw a lot of things, and we were talking.
- 39:26He told her, he said, I wish you all could tell all of our descendants no matter who they are.
- 39:34Thank you for listening to our whispers when nobody listen to our screams.
- 39:39Wow.
- 39:40That just gives me the chills on.
- 39:42Oh man.
- 39:42Beautiful.
- 39:43I'm always like a volunteer because I think about the different times and how blessed we are to live at the time that we're living.
- 39:54Even though there's crazy stuff, there's always crazy stuff, but we have the most access to each other, to information, to freedom, to like, ugh.
- 40:04And it just breaks your heart to realize of what they didn't have access to.
- 40:08Gosh.
- 40:08And so now you're continuing on for them, their experiences through us.
- 40:13They didn't get a chance to experience, so Yeah.
- 40:17Yeah.
- 40:17I've I've had that conversation where Spirit kinda laid that at my doorstep with, you know, we're still learning through you.
- 40:24Right?
- 40:25Yeah.
- 40:25Yeah.
- 40:25That, that, that's one of the reasons they show up for us is not just for us, but for themselves as well, even in spirit, that they continue learning through us.
- 40:36So fascinating.
- 40:37Yeah.
- 40:38Yeah.
- 40:38So this has been so incredible and I, I have, we have, I have a final beautiful question for our listeners, and, and this has been amazing.
- 40:46We're gonna have you back on, I have, I mean, I have so many more questions.
- 40:50I got more questions when the question is like, then there's 20 more questions, that's not a good problem to have.
- 40:57So, but for those newbies, just circling back, and I love that you said this simple representation, but what would you.
- 41:05Suggest for those brand new folks who are wanting to start this process, what do you recommend?
- 41:11A glass of water, right?
- 41:14A white candle.
- 41:16If you're living with other people and they're in your business, right?
- 41:20You don't, you don't want them to know what you're doing.
- 41:23You can just leave a glass of water by your bedside light and white candle before you go to bed at night.
- 41:28Blow it out when you leave.
- 41:30Keep it simple.
- 41:31And the other thing I will suggest,'cause this is very safe, but it's very effective, is free writing.
- 41:38So it is my favorite thing to do is I'm like, get a pen and a piece of paper and just say to my uplifted, enlightened, and benevolent ancestors known and I know, I welcome you to write through me now and just start writing whatever's on your, your brain.
- 41:56I'm having my dogs for lunch.
- 41:58Worried about not paying my cell phone bill, whatever it is.
- 42:01Yeah.
- 42:02And just keep writing.
- 42:03And what happens is the most beautiful thing is suddenly your penmanship is going to change.
- 42:09You're just gonna start writing about some random thing that you didn't know anything about.
- 42:13When you go back and read it, the tone of voice is not gonna be your own.
- 42:18You may find some misspellings, and what happens is not only are you getting to experience them in real time, but it gives you a physical testimony.
- 42:27To come back to that.
- 42:29I'm not crazy.
- 42:30I really did hear this, and it's a month later and that happened.
- 42:34And that helps to build your confidence in what you're doing and that it's real and that they're really waiting to talk to you and to be in relationship with you and just allow yourself to take your time from.
- 42:47Put a glass water candle, a pen and a pad.
- 42:50That's it.
- 42:51That's all you need, so easy.
- 42:53Well, Keisha, the first thing I wanna say before we go is please let us know, first of all, how can people work with you.
- 43:01I, we're gonna put all your links in our show notes, so everybody, I know all your socials as well as all your links, but what are you, what are you working on mostly with your clients and students at the moment, Keisha?
- 43:15So, I just opened the House of Dominion and it is I love you so much.
- 43:23So it's a, it's a spiritual school that I've started and it's online, right?
- 43:29And so, um, it's a three year initiatory thing, so like.
- 43:33You come in at the base, right, where you're just starting to deprogram and you're trying to figure out what to do on a Sunday.
- 43:40'cause you used to go every Sunday to church.
- 43:42So now you're trying to figure out what the heck's going on.
- 43:44And then you go into the second year where you're learning more, and then the third year where you're kind of embodying things.
- 43:50Um, so anybody who's interested in joining me in the House of Dominion they can find the link for that in all my socials link.
- 43:59I'm on TikTok and Instagram at Big Craft Works and um, if they go to my Link tree, they can find the application for that.
- 44:07And like I said, I'm on TikTok and Instagram and if they're interested in actually readings I do general readings, I do ancestral readings.
- 44:14I do love readings.
- 44:16And I do them recorded mostly just so that they can go back and watch it 50 letter times to see what I said and if that worked or not.
- 44:24And I do live readings, and those are available@tarotoracle.com.
- 44:29So yeah, that's, that's what I'm, that's what I'm up to.
- 44:31Oh God.
- 44:32There's so much goodness.
- 44:34I can, yes.
- 44:36All the good grades.
- 44:38How mean are you joking with that?
- 44:41Terry's losing her mind?
- 44:42Yes.
- 44:43She's losing time off.
- 44:46I have to really say it.
- 44:47I do have a little bit of a love wi, well, I have a bigger love with Keisha's dad in the spirit world.
- 44:52That's such a love for him.
- 44:53And I feel like he's saying, he comes to me and says, can you tell her about this thing?
- 44:58Like it's related to, you know, supporting her in her work.
- 45:01'cause she's so incredible.
- 45:02But I've also, I just text her the other day.
- 45:04I was like, you have to do this other thing.
- 45:06I I, they're telling me.
- 45:08Yeah.
- 45:09And it's funny too that you brought up dad.
- 45:10'cause when you said she's an encyclopedia of spirits and I heard him literally be like.
- 45:15Well, at least all that money on those Britannica didn't go to waste, you know?
- 45:18So you did Britannica.
- 45:20Britannica.
- 45:21I love him.
- 45:22Yes.
- 45:23I was like, I get it, sir.
- 45:24I get it.
- 45:25But yeah.
- 45:25Oh my gosh.
- 45:26Well thank you so much being my friend, my sister.
- 45:29Thank you.
- 45:29Thank you.
- 45:30It's been awesome and it's been so wonderful, like hanging with you guys.
- 45:33I love being in spaces with women that are doing this work.
- 45:37It's just, it's very good.
- 45:39We're gonna have soul happy today, so.
- 45:41Oh my gosh.
- 45:42All right, well we wish you so much and I'll give my baby a hug too.
- 45:47I definitely will.
- 45:48I know.
- 45:48All right.
- 45:49Alright, bye.