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Hey Alix and Ashtin Earle! · Hey Jonas!

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  Speaker 1: Hey Jonas! Gentlemen!
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  Speaker 2: Yeah!
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  Speaker 1: What's up Nick? What a week it's been. Yeah. Another
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  Speaker 1: week of shenanigans and what have yous and what nots.
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  Speaker 1: All the things. You guys have your cue cards? I
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  Speaker 1: have paper. Yeah, I've got cue cards. Yeah, yeah. What
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  Speaker 1: do you want to know? I've got the official Hey
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  Speaker 1: Jonas cue cards, which will be available in our holiday
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  Speaker 1: pack coming to you in time for Christmas. Hanukkah, and
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  Speaker 1: what other holidays you may celebrate. This pack will include
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  Speaker 1: the Hey Jonas cue cards, the red solo cups where
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  Speaker 1: you can put your own name, Joe's soundboard, in addition
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  Speaker 1: to many other fun things. What it will not have
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  Speaker 1: in it is these paddles, which we will explain more
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  Speaker 1: once our guests arrive today, but it is two paddles
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  Speaker 1: that say Dis Earlgree or Earlgree. I feel like that
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  Speaker 1: gives it away. Earl Gray? Who could that possibly be?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Are we getting more Jersey in this podcast right now?
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  Speaker 1: It couldn't possibly be more Jersey than your guns out
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  Speaker 1: for no reason today, Kev. I was in the pool.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't want to... I'm literally in my swimming suit. Wow.
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  Speaker 1: Must be nice. I like it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Our guests today on the pod are from the great
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  Speaker 1: state of New Jersey, which we'll be talking a lot about.
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  Speaker 1: But their new show, Earl Meets World, is out now.
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  Speaker 4: It is.
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  Speaker 1: hilarious, fun family ride and Jersey stuff and all the
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  Speaker 1: things in between. I think we should get him out here.
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  Speaker 1: Let's do it. Alex Ashton, welcome to Hey Jonas, the pod.
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  Speaker 1: We're so glad to have you. Thanks for having us on. Yay,
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  Speaker 1: I'm so excited. He will be interrupting the entire interview
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  Speaker 1: with different sounds.
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  Speaker 4: I love it.
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  Speaker 1: They're good. I'm not going to interrupt. He's going to
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  Speaker 1: add to the conversation. Before we got going, I asked
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  Speaker 1: you how long you've been in town because I'm dying
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  Speaker 1: to know, do you Do you live in California now
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  Speaker 1: or are you still based in New Jersey?
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  Speaker 4: I don't actually really know exactly where I live. I
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  Speaker 4: kind of hop around between like LA, Miami, New York,
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  Speaker 4: but she's in New York. I'm in New York. And
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  Speaker 4: obviously Jersey is like very important to us, our roots.
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  Speaker 1: Let's talk about Jersey. Let's talk about it. I'm here
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  Speaker 1: right now.
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  Speaker 4: We're in Jersey.
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  Speaker 1: So we're up a little in the Northwest. Yeah. Me
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  Speaker 1: and the family, Danielle, my wife, and my two daughters
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  Speaker 1: are here. They're in the pool. That's why I dress
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  Speaker 1: the way I am. Do you believe that there's such
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  Speaker 1: a thing as like central Jersey or is it just northern?
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  Speaker 5: Yes, I do.
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  Speaker 4: I think we're from central Jersey.
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  Speaker 1: You are from central Jersey, right?
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  Speaker 4: Right. You believe in the central.
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  Speaker 1: It exists. Where are you from exactly? Don't you have
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  Speaker 1: to say exactly where, but what part? Like Monmouth County.
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  Speaker 1: Monmouth County. Okay, so that's kind of central. That is
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  Speaker 1: definitely central Jersey.
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  Speaker 4: What do you think central is?
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  Speaker 1: Oh, you don't believe in it? I just stopped keeping track.
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  Speaker 1: It's basically like northern Jersey and then all of a
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  Speaker 1: sudden it just becomes Philly. See, that's the problem, I think.
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  Speaker 4: People....
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  Speaker 1: I think people in Central.
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  Speaker 2: Jersey don't want to be North Jersey and don't want
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  Speaker 2: to be Philly.
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  Speaker 1: They're going to revolt. Yes. Central Jersey. They're going to
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  Speaker 1: start a revolution to be seen.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, but I have an important question for you guys.
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  Speaker 4: Do you say Taylor Ham or pork roll? It's going
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  Speaker 4: to be Taylor Ham. Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 1: You guys say pork roll?
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  Speaker 4: See, because you're North Jersey.
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  Speaker 1: I'm North Jersey. Do you judge people from North Jersey?
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  Speaker 4: I don't judge people, but I think you guys are
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  Speaker 4: really brutal. It depends person to person, but I think
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  Speaker 4: you guys are really brutal about the Taylor Ham and
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  Speaker 4: pork roll.
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  Speaker 1: How so?
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  Speaker 4: Because it's pork roll and you say Taylor Ham.
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  Speaker 1: I actually say pork roll. Yeah, Joe, you started doing
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  Speaker 1: that and that's not how you were raised. What do
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  Speaker 1: you mean I started doing it? That's what I said. Never.
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  Speaker 1: You've never said that.
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  Speaker 4: Do you guys eat pork roll or Taylor Ham or no?
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, 100%. But the problem is that Kevin always
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  Speaker 1: brings it before we go on a plane.
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  Speaker 4: Oh.
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  Speaker 1: And then you've got Basically 400 grams of sodium. It's
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  Speaker 1: a lot. Making your palms and your face blow up.
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  Speaker 1: But they're so good. They're so good.
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  Speaker 3: Alex, I believe I'm aware of your bagel order and
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, but I can't not get behind it.
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  Speaker 1: Kevin studies celebrity bagel orders.
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  Speaker 4: Have you had a pork roll and cream cheese?
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  Speaker 1: Criminal. That is just, I'm sorry. I won't judge your
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  Speaker 1: pork roll. Hold on, hold on, hold on. No, you
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  Speaker 1: can judge it. It's okay. I approve of your judging.
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  Speaker 1: Both of you are your orders for bagels i'm curious now.
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  Speaker 4: An egg bagel with pork roll and cream cheese and
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  Speaker 4: i have taken it on a plane before so now
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  Speaker 4: that you said that i feel really bad and i
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  Speaker 4: i'm aware it probably.
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  Speaker 5: No no no kevin have you tried it before before
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  Speaker 5: you know what i would be honest i have not
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  Speaker 5: so there you go can't judge until you tried it.
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  Speaker 1: True okay and ash what's your what's your order.
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  Speaker 2: I'll do an egg everything bagel with pork roll, egg,
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  Speaker 2: and cheese.
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  Speaker 1: Super basic. That's my order. My go-to order. Well, I'm
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  Speaker 1: going to go try it.
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  Speaker 5: There's a Goldberg's not far from where I am currently,
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  Speaker 5: and I might have to just go try it.
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  Speaker 1: But you're in New York currently, and the Hamptons bagel
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  Speaker 1: is not the same.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: First of all, Kevin Jonas. In your bathing suit.
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  Speaker 5: What I will say to you is that there's a
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  Speaker 5: Goldberg's down the street here in the Hamptons.
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  Speaker 1: Different Goldberg's. What do you mean different Goldberg? Different Goldberg.
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  Speaker 1: It's the commercial Goldberg. It's not like the real hometown. Now,
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  Speaker 1: we just recently did a thing that we file under
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  Speaker 1: weird collaborations we've done over the years. We did a couple.
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  Speaker 1: Papa Bagels. We did Papa Bagels. I just saw that.
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  Speaker 1: And I thought it was great. We had a great time.
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  Speaker 1: We popped up, no pun intended, into one of the
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  Speaker 1: places and saw some fans. It was great, but also
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  Speaker 1: kind of bizarre to be like handing out bagels. I've
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  Speaker 1: seen that you guys have had quite the summer together.
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  Speaker 1: traveling different places. You mentioned Miami. Joe's actually living in
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  Speaker 1: Miami these days. And I got to say, Miami has
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  Speaker 1: a lot of appeal for those of us living in
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  Speaker 1: California where you're just kind of worried each day about
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  Speaker 1: the heat. Lots of different factors, I won't say, because
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  Speaker 1: then it might happen. But things, you know, in California
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  Speaker 1: are intense. now miami seems like a good it is
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  Speaker 1: and you.
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  Speaker 4: Know living there is actually a lot more chill and
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  Speaker 4: relaxing and healthy than when you think of like vacationing
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  Speaker 4: in miami it's like when i'm there i'm just like
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  Speaker 4: on my routine it's nice weather all the time go
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  Speaker 4: outside walk my dog we.
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  Speaker 5: Love that it's beautiful we have a lot of mutual
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  Speaker 5: friends dave grubman's a good friend of ours as well
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  Speaker 5: yeah oh fun we love dave dave's so fun and
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  Speaker 5: yeah i know uh He is a part of the
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  Speaker 5: new show that you guys have launching.
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  Speaker 1: Congratulations. It's so exciting. Yeah. Please tell us about the show.
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  Speaker 4: Well, what do you want to know?
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  Speaker 1: All right.
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  Speaker 5: Well, I want to know that I want to know
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  Speaker 5: the tea. And obviously this has to do with your family.
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  Speaker 5: And I thought of both of you this morning because
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  Speaker 5: I saw a baby deer and then it made me think,
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  Speaker 5: wait a minute. These two had a pet deer, am
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  Speaker 5: I right?
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  Speaker 4: Yes, we did.
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  Speaker 1: You have a lot of pets.
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  Speaker 4: We do.
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  Speaker 1: You had a pet deer?
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  Speaker 4: We had a pet deer. The ending was a little tragic.
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  Speaker 4: And it's also, I think it's sort of.
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  Speaker 1: There's a movie about that.
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  Speaker 4: Well, I think it is illegal to... It's illegal, it
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  Speaker 4: might be.
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  Speaker 1: To domesticate a deer. Was this sort of like an official...
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  Speaker 1: matter of business? It had a collar.
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  Speaker 4: It was on the couch with us.
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  Speaker 1: It was a dog, essentially.
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  Speaker 4: It was lost from its mom and it came to
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  Speaker 4: our doorstep and we helped it. Fun fact about deers,
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  Speaker 4: once you touch them as a baby, the moms can
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  Speaker 4: sense it and the mom didn't want the baby back
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  Speaker 4: so we took her.
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  Speaker 1: She didn't die. We adopted a deer. That's pretty cool.
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  Speaker 1: You have a lot of pets as a family, am
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  Speaker 1: I right? Yes, we do. So can you walk through
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  Speaker 1: this list of pets? I'm very curious.
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  Speaker 2: Well, every time we come back to our dad's house
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  Speaker 2: in New Jersey, they have a new animal. So it's
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  Speaker 2: kind of hard to keep track. But we have two goats.
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  Speaker 1: Four goats. Four goats.
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  Speaker 4: Two pigs.
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  Speaker 1: Two pigs.
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  Speaker 4: A lot of like chickens, turkeys, roosters. I don't even
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  Speaker 4: know if that's true.
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  Speaker 1: Does your father live on a farm?
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  Speaker 4: They built a farm basically in the backyard. There's dogs, cats,
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  Speaker 4: a bearded dragon. There's a snake. There was a bunny?
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  Speaker 4: Or did I make that up?
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  Speaker 1: A guinea pig? It wasn't there.
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  Speaker 4: A guinea pig. There was a guinea pig. Oh, no,
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  Speaker 4: we had a bunny.
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  Speaker 1: A rabbit. My daughter just got a hamster. It's a big,
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  Speaker 1: big thing in our household right now.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, hamsters are fun.
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  Speaker 1: Now, we spoke to Millie Bobby Brown recently, who also
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  Speaker 1: informed us that she has... lots of pets yeah like
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  Speaker 1: 30 plus pets is it not and i don't i
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  Speaker 1: don't mean this this is probably a question to ask
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  Speaker 1: your dad because you said he lives in this property
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  Speaker 1: is it not a ton of work having a dog
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  Speaker 1: is like a full-time job right yes no it is
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  Speaker 1: 25 pets you know who actually.
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  Speaker 2: Loves to take care of all the animals is our
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  Speaker 2: little sister penelope she's 11 she goes out there three
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  Speaker 2: times a day Feeding them.
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  Speaker 4: She's on top of it. She's got the checklist. Our
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  Speaker 4: parents like put the little ones to work with taking
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  Speaker 4: care of them.
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  Speaker 2: She'll like remind my dad and my stepmom. She's like,
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  Speaker 2: we need to go feed the animals. She's like the
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  Speaker 2: one who runs the show.
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  Speaker 4: He is really good at the farm. And yeah, the
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  Speaker 4: little siblings kind of like Thomas's in the reptile area.
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  Speaker 4: Isabella's in the cats.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, the wiener dog and the cats.
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  Speaker 4: There's a wiener dog.
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  Speaker 1: Are we going to be able to get to see
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  Speaker 1: all of this on the show?
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  Speaker 4: Yes.
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  Speaker 5: Yes.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so you're going to see a home life with
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  Speaker 3: your family and your parents and, of course, your travels
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  Speaker 3: and your work as well.
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  Speaker 1: Is this kind of what the vibe is going? Yes.
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  Speaker 1: Our producer had a chance to watch a kind of
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  Speaker 1: pre-screener of the show and said it is going to
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  Speaker 1: be a massive hit. Very excited for you, first of all.
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  Speaker 2: Nice.
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  Speaker 1: Way to go.
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  Speaker 4: Cha-ching.
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  Speaker 1: Cha-ching. How are you? And weirdly, beyond the Jersey Connection,
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  Speaker 1: I do feel like we have a bunch of sort
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  Speaker 1: of mutual friends. We've heard great things about you guys
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  Speaker 1: as a family. But what we want to get into with,
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  Speaker 1: you know, with respect to the show and what we're
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  Speaker 1: going to see, is really the sibling dynamic.
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  Speaker 7: Right.
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  Speaker 1: We work together. We have for a very long time.
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  Speaker 1: We've had our fair share of situations we've had to navigate.
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  Speaker 1: What are we going to get to see if any
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  Speaker 1: sort of fights that are, you know, verbal or even potentially...
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  Speaker 1: Everyone knows siblings don't fight, so you obviously are going
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  Speaker 1: to have a lot of acting, I'm sure. Yeah, of course. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: of course. Kevin did a reality show. show so he
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  Speaker 1: knows the balance of some real and then some things
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  Speaker 1: you have to sort of make amplify but um beyond
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  Speaker 1: the show have you guys had any any sort of
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  Speaker 1: big family fights before of course all the time i.
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  Speaker 4: Mean yeah our family too like we it's an interesting
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  Speaker 4: dynamic because my parents had gotten divorced and, uh, then,
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  Speaker 4: you know, they are remarried or my mom's still dating,
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  Speaker 4: but like they all hang out now and things, things
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  Speaker 4: were a little rocky at first. It wasn't like things
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  Speaker 4: didn't go down the best that they could have, you know?
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  Speaker 4: So there was some unresolved, uh, feelings i think for
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  Speaker 4: a while between us and our stepmom my mom and
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  Speaker 4: my dad and stepmom and everyone so it took a
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  Speaker 4: while for us to like get to a really good
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  Speaker 4: place but of course there's still times where like yeah
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  Speaker 4: it just you know comes up we fight sisters fight
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  Speaker 4: like no other i'm sure you guys know it's just
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  Speaker 4: like yeah fighting with your family there's something nice to
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  Speaker 4: it though because i'm like you can scream and fight
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  Speaker 4: with each other and say the nastiest things but two
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  Speaker 4: seconds later you're like.
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  Speaker 5: Okay like let's go okay we're gonna go see the
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  Speaker 5: odyssey or spider-man We've always said that it's weird that,
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  Speaker 5: you know, when you're as siblings and, you know, I
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  Speaker 5: think this is reserved for sibling relationships.
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  Speaker 1: You can have a fight about a situation. It can
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  Speaker 1: get really intense. And then your friends who are not
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  Speaker 1: siblings or don't have siblings, they don't understand how you
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  Speaker 1: can just jump back to normal. Totally.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Like, I feel like there was a time when
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  Speaker 2: we first started hanging out around Jake and And we
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  Speaker 2: would like scream at each other and he would be
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  Speaker 2: so scared. And he was like, wait, guys, please calm down.
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  Speaker 1: And we're like, wait, no, we're fine. Like, don't worry.
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  Speaker 1: He's like, we're just having a conversation. We're like, oh.
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  Speaker 5: What's the longest the two of you have gone without
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  Speaker 5: speaking when you've had like a really big disagreement?
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  Speaker 1: You're like, okay.
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  Speaker 4: So let me tell you, there was a time where
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  Speaker 4: she was dating this, I don't know, this guy.
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  Speaker 5: And, um, I like it wisely there.
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  Speaker 4: I glanced at the publicist in the corner and said, wait,
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  Speaker 4: let me rephrase that person that she dated. And, um,
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  Speaker 4: We didn't get along. Like, the two of us kind.
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  Speaker 1: Of butt heads.
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  Speaker 2: Alex didn't like him.
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  Speaker 1: He didn't like her.
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  Speaker 4: And he would, like, talk about me to her. And
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  Speaker 4: it sort of just, like, dampened our relationship. It was, like,
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  Speaker 4: I feel like a year and a half, a year that, like,
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  Speaker 4: not that we didn't speak ever, but now we're best friends.
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  Speaker 4: We speak all day, every day.
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  Speaker 1: But that's a long time. About a year.
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  Speaker 4: We just, like, didn't really know what was going on
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  Speaker 4: in each other's lives.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. We were just, like.
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  Speaker 2: family you know we'd see each other on the holidays
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  Speaker 2: but we would.
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  Speaker 4: Not really really sad actually i.
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  Speaker 2: Know it does make me really sad but it was
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  Speaker 2: one of those situations where alex didn't like my boyfriend
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  Speaker 2: so she was like you have to break up with
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  Speaker 2: him he sucks and then i was like i hate
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  Speaker 2: you don't talk to me because i was in love
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  Speaker 2: it was my first boyfriend but these things yeah have
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  Speaker 2: you guys ever had a situation like that with like
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  Speaker 2: you don't like someone's significant.
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  Speaker 1: Other oh yeah.
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  Speaker 5: You don't have to give details but yeah you know
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  Speaker 5: there's been that moment where you're just like similar to
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  Speaker 5: the two of you like i've said my piece let's
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  Speaker 5: i'm gonna leave it with them and whatever i'll see
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  Speaker 5: you at christmas and it's just a good timing right
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  Speaker 5: cup wow this is the christmas episode i forgot to
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  Speaker 5: tell you guys yeah we've had moments where you know
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  Speaker 5: and then sometimes where it's gonna be brought to the
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  Speaker 5: family courtroom right sometimes and you know you just want
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  Speaker 5: to do what do you have to say mom you
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  Speaker 5: know she'll usually say what's on her mind.
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  Speaker 4: Too so out of you guys who's the one that's
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  Speaker 4: like a little bit more outspoken gonna be aggressive who's
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  Speaker 4: the one that's gonna like let things slide because.
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  Speaker 5: That's yeah you're sitting next to the guy that's not
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  Speaker 5: gonna let things slide yeah who me yeah you nick
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  Speaker 5: will just say if something's bothering nick he'll just go
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  Speaker 5: like this i just gotta i just gotta I got
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  Speaker 5: to tell you this or I have to get it
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  Speaker 5: off my chest.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Because he's not going to be able to hold it in.
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  Speaker 5: I think Kevin will probably be the last person to
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  Speaker 5: just say.
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  Speaker 1: What you're thinking. He'll hold it in, let it bottle
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  Speaker 1: up for years and then one day explode. That's me.
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  Speaker 1: I'm working on it. I'm working on it with my therapist.
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  Speaker 1: And Alex, what's your situation? What's your role in this?
• 14:14
  Speaker 1: She likes to control everyone and tell everyone what to do.
• 14:16
  Speaker 4: Okay, well, control is a harsh word. I would say
• 14:19
  Speaker 4: that's a harsh word. I am more outspoken. And I
• 14:23
  Speaker 4: think like growing up a lot of the times because
• 14:25
  Speaker 4: she was so quiet, like if there was ever a
• 14:28
  Speaker 4: problem she was having with like my family and what's
• 14:30
  Speaker 4: going on, I would speak for her because she wouldn't
• 14:33
  Speaker 4: say the problem. Like she would complain to me, but
• 14:35
  Speaker 4: she wouldn't say it to my parents. So I would
• 14:36
  Speaker 4: speak for like the both of us. So, you know,
• 14:40
  Speaker 4: now I'm working on like, Taking a moment, reeling it in,
• 14:44
  Speaker 4: thinking before I speak.
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: That's beautiful.
• 14:46
  Speaker 3: And Ashton, are you now speaking up for yourself a
• 14:48
  Speaker 3: little bit more, especially in the show?
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: I'm working on it.
• 14:51
  Speaker 4: I feel like she was like forced to speak, you know?
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: They're like, we'll tell us the issue. It kind of
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: puts you in that position for sure.
• 14:56
  Speaker 2: I was forced to talk a lot more than I'm
• 14:58
  Speaker 2: used to.
• 14:59
  Speaker 4: We actually learned a lot about her in the show.
• 15:01
  Speaker 4: I was like, oh my God, I'm watching it back.
• 15:02
  Speaker 4: I'm like, I don't even know these things.
• 15:03
  Speaker 1: Alex was like, I didn't know you had these thoughts.
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: And I was like, oh.
• 15:05
  Speaker 1: And you were in the room the whole time. You're
• 15:06
  Speaker 1: just like, wow, I didn't know you said that to me.
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: She's like, wasn't listening.
• 15:09
  Speaker 3: That happens to us on occasion where we're like, I
• 15:11
  Speaker 3: had no idea that that offended you. You're like, yeah,
• 15:14
  Speaker 3: it bothered me for days. And you're like, what?
• 15:17
  Speaker 5: One thing we've learned from working together, but also filming
• 15:20
  Speaker 5: together and doing some in our own version therapy on
• 15:24
  Speaker 5: camera where we're just talking about stuff is that we
• 15:27
  Speaker 5: have a different account for situations and how they went down.
• 15:30
  Speaker 5: Like 99% of the time, I'll say, for example, I'll
• 15:34
  Speaker 5: say like, oh yeah, when you said that.
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: To me, that really hurt my feelings.
• 15:38
  Speaker 5: And then I kind of held resentment towards you for
• 15:39
  Speaker 5: a couple of years. The other person was like, I
• 15:41
  Speaker 5: thought we had a great conversation. I thought that was great.
• 15:44
  Speaker 5: I thought that we were totally fine.
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: Everything was awesome.
• 15:47
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly.
• 15:48
  Speaker 5: Do you find that as well where your accounts of
• 15:50
  Speaker 5: storylines are a little different?
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 15:52
  Speaker 4: Or you just remember things different ways. I'm like, I,
• 15:55
  Speaker 4: I know that I'm right in this situation and I
• 15:57
  Speaker 4: remember it this way and she remembers it a different way.
• 16:00
  Speaker 4: And sometimes like we just have to agree to disagree
• 16:03
  Speaker 4: and keep on moving.
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: But there's definitely been times where like things have happened
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: and you're like, I didn't know that offended you. And
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: I'm like, no, it did.
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: And you're like, wait, what? You weren't joking. And I'm like, no,
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: but you know, we're siblings, so it's fine.
• 16:17
  Speaker 3: Well, I think that's actually a perfect segue for you
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: guys to help us with this little game we have
• 16:22
  Speaker 3: that we have to make sure that we are all
• 16:23
  Speaker 3: on the same page.
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: It's called Are We in Earl Greement? Ooh. I love it.
• 16:29
  Speaker 4: I like it.
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: I thought long and hard about this and ran it
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: through many different AI slots to come up with the
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: very best name.
• 16:36
  Speaker 5: Perfect.
• 16:37
  Speaker 4: Are We in Earl Greement? Do we get a soundboard
• 16:39
  Speaker 4: click for that?
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: We actually have paddles for you.
• 16:41
  Speaker 4: Oh.
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: Oh, wow.
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, there it is. Oh my gosh, you even made paddles?
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: There you go. We're all girl dads. And so our
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: producer is going to ask a series of questions, which
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: we will answer and figure out if we're in.
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: Or whatever the question is.
• 17:02
  Speaker 4: Good we like need these paddles in real life all
• 17:04
  Speaker 4: right it's.
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: Time for earl agreement or dis earl agreement kevin we'll.
• 17:06
  Speaker 4: Start with you your daughters want to wear something that
• 17:09
  Speaker 4: feels way too grown up for their age what.
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: Do you do.
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: Um, we, this just happened to us with my oldest daughter.
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: We went to, we were in California and we went
• 17:29
  Speaker 3: to Revice and she's obsessed.
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: With her denim.
• 17:32
  Speaker 4: Oh hell.
• 17:32
  Speaker 5: Oh hell.
• 17:32
  Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly.
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: So you know about Revice.
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: We walk into Revice and the, the girls all working
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: there are super sweet to her and they're like, we
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: got this, we got this. They pull, they're like, this
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: is a great pair, the whole outfit. She puts it
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: on and I look, look at the girl that gave
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: it to her. Mind you, she is 12. I go, yeah,
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: we are not buying that. What in the God's earth
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: do you think is happening right now? How do I
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: handle it? I say, uh, not when they're 12. I
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: think that I literally.
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: We are not buying that. Yeah.
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: But I actually said to her was go, go ask
• 18:03
  Speaker 3: your mother is what I said.
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: Honestly, I feel like that's great to be like, go
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: ask your mother. I'm in Earl agreement.
• 18:10
  Speaker 4: I was going to say I'm in Earl agreement as well.
• 18:13
  Speaker 4: And also like you're her dad. Obviously you're going to
• 18:15
  Speaker 4: be like, no, you know, but I think that's where
• 18:18
  Speaker 4: like we have little siblings, our younger sibling siblings, isabel's
• 18:22
  Speaker 4: 13 now and she's sort of starting to get into
• 18:25
  Speaker 4: this phase she wanted to go to like the fair
• 18:27
  Speaker 4: and my parents are like oh my god there's gonna
• 18:28
  Speaker 4: be boys there and like we're not like they're like
• 18:30
  Speaker 4: we want to walk her to the front door of
• 18:32
  Speaker 4: a party and like meet the parents and i was
• 18:34
  Speaker 4: like so that's where sisters we kind of step in
• 18:36
  Speaker 4: and i'm like okay well guys don't make her a
• 18:38
  Speaker 4: loser like let her go you know so like right
• 18:42
  Speaker 4: there's a good balance but i would say with that
• 18:44
  Speaker 4: like i'm in her agreement we would we would be.
• 18:46
  Speaker 8: In our agreement especially with the revised clothing yes Unanimous
• 18:50
  Speaker 8: Earl Freeman on that one.
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: Wow.
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: Uh, Joe, you're up next.
• 18:53
  Speaker 8: Your daughter's getting into a full on fight in the
• 18:55
  Speaker 8: middle of a restaurant. Are you separating them, letting them
• 18:58
  Speaker 8: work it out or getting everyone out of there?
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: Getting everyone out of there. That'd be interesting.
• 19:04
  Speaker 4: Clear the building.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: Um, I think he means you guys like you leave.
• 19:08
  Speaker 5: Oh, right.
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: Uh, I'm taking them out of there. I think, um,
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: the whole restaurant.
• 19:14
  Speaker 5: Yeah. I'm going to probably go with, you know, it's
• 19:18
  Speaker 5: a little, oh, It's a little bit of both. I
• 19:20
  Speaker 5: want to know what this context is, but I'm probably,
• 19:22
  Speaker 5: they're quite young. So I'm probably going to break up
• 19:24
  Speaker 5: this fight and we're just going to try to.
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: Talk it out.
• 19:28
  Speaker 5: But for the sake of the fun, I'm going to
• 19:30
  Speaker 5: clear every single person out of this restaurant. I'm going
• 19:33
  Speaker 5: to flip tables. I'm going to make a scene and
• 19:37
  Speaker 5: it's their problem.
• 19:38
  Speaker 4: Well, we would say Earl Greenman, if that could be filmed,
• 19:42
  Speaker 4: that would be great.
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: For the show.
• 19:44
  Speaker 4: Kick everyone out.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because we could film it for the show exactly
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: great content for the show I'll come on your show
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: and then I'll you should fight you flip.
• 19:52
  Speaker 4: Some tables we should have a collab.
• 19:54
  Speaker 5: Episode exactly and then I flip out to cover the
• 19:57
  Speaker 5: fight because somebody's filming you guys and you're like oh
• 19:59
  Speaker 5: no we don't want this on camera even though we're
• 20:00
  Speaker 5: filming for a reality.
• 20:01
  Speaker 4: Show right right turn the cameras off.
• 20:02
  Speaker 5: I can't do this I'll create a scene you know
• 20:05
  Speaker 5: distraction okay perfect I'm excited for this thank you for
• 20:08
  Speaker 5: agreeing with me two for.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: Two Two for two.
• 20:11
  Speaker 8: Let's see if we can go three for three. Nick,
• 20:13
  Speaker 8: your daughter asks you to keep a secret from mom.
• 20:16
  Speaker 8: Are you keeping it between you two? This one's tough.
• 20:19
  Speaker 4: You got a hard one.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: We have a rule in our house that there are
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: no secrets between mom and dad. That is a rule
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: because we don't want her to ever feel like she
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: can't talk to us about anything. However, I think there
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: are some little fun things that each parent can share
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: with their kid that are harmless. that are truly categorized
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: as fun. We're talking about like candy or whatever. I'm
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: going to let you watch two more minutes of this
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: episode of her favorite show, but it has to be
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: in the harmless category. I'm in her agreement. Okay.
• 20:54
  Speaker 4: Like I'm, I want to be in her agreement too,
• 20:56
  Speaker 4: but I'm like, is this then do we have no disagreement?
• 20:59
  Speaker 4: Should I just like fight for the sake of fighting?
• 21:01
  Speaker 4: I'll counter that I guess. Yeah.
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: Okay. Alex just wants the drama. Alex is like, It's
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: a gateway drug.
• 21:10
  Speaker 5: Here, here.
• 21:13
  Speaker 4: It's not even about the children at this point. It's
• 21:15
  Speaker 4: about your partner. How are you keeping secrets?
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: I'm going to throw in one. The two of you
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: have a dinner planned. Okay.
• 21:24
  Speaker 5: Alex, let's just say you pick the restaurant. Is this
• 21:27
  Speaker 5: something me and my brothers, we deal with a lot.
• 21:29
  Speaker 5: You pick the restaurant and you're like, all right, we're
• 21:31
  Speaker 5: going to go here.
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: Friday night. Perfect. I'm going to interrupt you already because
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: I know where this is going. He hasn't asked you
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: what kind of food you want or what, you know,
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: what kind of vibe is. He's just, he's taking it
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: upon himself. He's like, oh, this is where we're going
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: to dinner. And he's already pissed off that we are
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: going to be pissed about which place he picked. But
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: go ahead, Joe. We know where this is going. I
• 21:53
  Speaker 1: wasn't even finished yet. So then, you know, Nobody responds
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: to the group text. I'm like, all right. And everybody,
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: some people like it in the group text. All right.
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: So I assume this is, we're going to get it.
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: We're going to go. Friday comes in there. I'm like,
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: Hey guys.
• 22:05
  Speaker 5: So the reservation set for 8 PM. And then now
• 22:07
  Speaker 5: that you get the text, like, Oh, I'm like, what?
• 22:10
  Speaker 5: And they're like, Oh, just like. We didn't even get
• 22:13
  Speaker 5: a chance to pick a spot. But you guys never
• 22:14
  Speaker 5: even hit me up.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: Alex, are you in.
• 22:17
  Speaker 5: Agreement that you should stick to the plan here and
• 22:19
  Speaker 5: you go to this restaurant? He hasn't checked with us besides.
• 22:23
  Speaker 4: Telling us we're going here.
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: I just said, hey, guys, this place looks good. And
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: they're like, thumbs up. And they never said really. Now
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: you're changing the story. You just gaslit both of us.
• 22:35
  Speaker 4: I'm going to say if you guys liked the restaurant,
• 22:37
  Speaker 4: what's the problem?
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: No, no, no. We didn't like the restaurant. Let's back
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: it up one degree. See, Alex, be on my side here.
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: He said, I picked the place, booked the reservation. He's
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: basically saying, I did all this work, found the place.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: He hasn't actually asked for our opinion or like if
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: we were feeling that kind of vibe for dinner. And
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: so we've just said, oh, it would have been nice
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: if we could be involved.
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: But you liked it?
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: Then he gets upset because he did all this legwork.
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: As if it's hard for Joe Jonas to call a
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: restaurant and make a reservation.
• 23:04
  Speaker 6: Sorry.
• 23:05
  Speaker 4: Was there a like involved?
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you. Did you like it last time?
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: No, we never liked it. It was just like, hey guys,
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: I booked this spot for us on Friday. What do
• 23:12
  Speaker 3: you mean you never liked it? You liked it, Kevin.
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: Is that what happened? Yeah, you liked that text.
• 23:17
  Speaker 4: Here we go again, remembering things differently.
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: It's true. What would you do in this scenario, even
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: though it's very unclear what the scenario is? I'm a
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: little bit confused.
• 23:25
  Speaker 4: But it seems like you guys are just really picky
• 23:28
  Speaker 4: with your food.
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: It's true. Well, the most recent example, and maybe this
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: will help make it more clear, is that we were
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: trying to decide on a place to do an after
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: party for one of our shows. And Joe took it
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: upon himself to reach out to the owner of the place.
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: And it was really nice for him to do all
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: that work. And we ended up being very excited that
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: it was all set up by the end. But we
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: were like, hey, before you did that work to have
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: set it up, it would have been nice for us to. Okay.
• 23:52
  Speaker 4: See, that I agree with.
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: Cheat Earl Grease.
• 23:56
  Speaker 4: Alex.
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: Cheat Earl Grease.
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: Different scenarios. Dinner and after party are two different things.
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: He did, he did, um, you know, set up the
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: conversation to be better in his favor on that one
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: for sure.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: Well, kind of.
• 24:10
  Speaker 4: That is the thing though. Like when I'm telling a story,
• 24:12
  Speaker 4: I say all the points that are going to make
• 24:14
  Speaker 4: me sound right and better. And I leave out anything
• 24:17
  Speaker 4: that could be like, well, you know, and then if
• 24:19
  Speaker 4: she remembers, she remembers.
• 24:21
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: That's the best way to do it.
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: Leave out all the things that make you sound negative. Yeah.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: I mean, I guess. I could, I've sort of done
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: that too and say, I didn't even, Kevin liked the message.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: I didn't even respond, which is anyway.
• 24:36
  Speaker 4: And then what did you learn for next time? Did we,
• 24:38
  Speaker 4: did we settle on something moving forward?
• 24:40
  Speaker 5: We learned from next time is that the third place
• 24:43
  Speaker 5: that we, that Nick chose, I will say was, was
• 24:46
  Speaker 5: the best place of it was one of the better
• 24:48
  Speaker 5: spots so whoa but i but my spot was was
• 24:54
  Speaker 5: awesome too but nick had an outdoor space which was
• 24:57
  Speaker 5: and that makes a difference.
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: You know an outdoor space is nice should we go
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: on to our next bit which is uh we've got
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: some voicemails uh here from some of our oh our
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: listeners on the hey jumps podcast i've got some questions
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: for you Either for you or just general questions, kind
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: of asking advice on things that none of us are
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: really qualified to answer. Perfect.
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: Awesome.
• 25:14
  Speaker 4: Let's do it.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: Legal problems.
• 25:15
  Speaker 4: I'm horrible at advice.
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: Let's do it. Roofing issues, whatever it may be.
• 25:18
  Speaker 7: Hey, Jonas.
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 25:20
  Speaker 9: First of all, I love you guys so much and
• 25:23
  Speaker 9: I'm really loving this podcast.
• 25:25
  Speaker 7: So thank you guys for making it. This is awesome.
• 25:29
  Speaker 9: And I think that all the advice you guys have
• 25:30
  Speaker 9: been giving has been really awesome. So I thought I
• 25:34
  Speaker 9: would call in and see if maybe you could help me.
• 25:38
  Speaker 9: So my husband and I have been together for a
• 25:41
  Speaker 9: really long time. We've been married for six years and
• 25:45
  Speaker 9: lately we've just had like no intimacy like at all. Um, it's,
• 25:51
  Speaker 9: it's just been a minute and we just haven't been
• 25:56
  Speaker 9: intimate and I honestly don't know what to do.
• 26:01
  Speaker 7: I mean, I love him more than anything. I love
• 26:03
  Speaker 7: him so much. And I truly cannot imagine not being
• 26:08
  Speaker 7: with him.
• 26:08
  Speaker 9: But this is also like, you know, it's a big deal.
• 26:12
  Speaker 9: And I'm really not happy.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: So I.
• 26:17
  Speaker 7: Was just wondering if you think.
• 26:18
  Speaker 9: That this is something that as a couple is possible
• 26:22
  Speaker 9: to work through. Or do you think that lack of
• 26:24
  Speaker 9: intimacy sometimes is a sign that.
• 26:27
  Speaker 7: The relationship isn't working? Or I don't know. I would
• 26:31
  Speaker 7: love to hear what you guys think, though.
• 26:33
  Speaker 4: It's a great question.
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: It's a great question. Well, first of all, I'll be
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: a husband who doesn't listen to the nation's pocket.
• 26:38
  Speaker 4: I was thinking about.
• 26:39
  Speaker 5: That, too.
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: And knows your voice very well. Or, you know what?
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: Or they need to hear that. They need to hear
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: it out. Yeah, that's good. I'm curious, ladies, would you
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: like to start? Well, right.
• 26:50
  Speaker 4: We're not married. We're not married.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: But I think in any relationship.
• 26:55
  Speaker 4: I mean, I would say, though, maybe setting up something like,
• 27:00
  Speaker 4: A romantic night, a romantic date night together, like maybe
• 27:04
  Speaker 4: making some time for something.
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 27:08
  Speaker 4: I don't know. Like at least making, I don't know
• 27:11
  Speaker 4: what she's done, but like making the efforts to set
• 27:14
  Speaker 4: up something and put yourself in that sort of like
• 27:17
  Speaker 4: romantic scenario and see what happens.
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: If you're like stuck in a routine, trying to like
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: do something a little different and like.
• 27:28
  Speaker 4: Exciting like throw on a wig and be like hey a.
• 27:30
  Speaker 6: Wig i don't know i love a wig yeah all
• 27:35
  Speaker 6: right to that point there's like the there's a um
• 27:38
  Speaker 6: what's that place in new york where it's like you're
• 27:42
  Speaker 6: kind of cosplaying as someone.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: Wait, I don't know, but I don't know.
• 27:47
  Speaker 5: The box.
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: Please tell us. Oh, See No More, it's called. You
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: wear the mask. You go in the auditorium. Cosplaying as somebody.
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: You just wear a mask and go see a... No,
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: you obviously have not gone. Usually you play a character
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: while you're there. So there's a little bit of that.
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  Speaker 1: Spice it up.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: There's a new one of those that's the Phantom of
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: the Opera, but it's an immersive experience. I've heard this
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: Phantom of the Opera show is incredible. Ooh, that sounds fun.
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  Speaker 1: Do you play a character? You get to play the
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: Phantom of the Opera. No, you don't. So, yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I feel like this has to be a very common issue.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: Yes, definitely. For sure.
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  Speaker 4: Do you know any advice from your married friends?
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: Well, Kevin and I are also married, and I can
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: say that both... I think both of your advice is
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: great to... make a romantic gesture, change things up. It's
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: easy to fall into certain patterns, not just in the
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: romantic sense or intimate sense, but in general with your person.
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: That's both a good thing and at times can be
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: a roadblock if you're trying to keep things fun and light.
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: And as the pressures of adulting for anybody, either in
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: a serious committed relationship or not, mount up in life,
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: you can easily lose sight of that fun aspect that
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: keeps a relationship fresh and, you know, the whole point
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: is that you should be enjoying your time with the
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: person and, and it should be, uh, a great ride
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  Speaker 1: and spending life with them. So I, I think your
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: points are great. And then also I think sometimes it's
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  Speaker 1: as simple as, and, and, you know, this is, this
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: is something that anybody can access. It's as simple as
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: just sitting down and just thinking of new questions to
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: ask your person about life and about your romantic relationship
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: that like Change up the energy so you don't fall into,
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: how was your day? How was this? i think i
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: think those are.
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: Those are keys that's great advice for me i think
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  Speaker 3: it would need to start with communication between the two
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  Speaker 3: straight up be like these are the things that i'm
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: feeling these you may not be feeling them but it's
• 29:46
  Speaker 3: causing a hurdle for me to get over and i
• 29:50
  Speaker 3: think if we can talk about it it will at
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: least break the tension so we like stop like kind
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: of hiding around the elephant in the room kind of thing.
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  Speaker 3: I think that that's important. I think communication in that regard,
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: of course, is key. Everyone says that, but I like,
• 30:02
  Speaker 3: I truly mean like having a very upfront conversation. Like
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: I'm a little unhappy and I don't know if this
• 30:07
  Speaker 3: means that something's wrong, but we should talk about it.
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  Speaker 4: Excellent.
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: You guys are really good at giving advice. So you
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: can get back to the, I said, wear a wig. Exactly. Yeah.
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: Figure it out. Intimacy is very important. Any type of relationship. Okay.
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: We have bullet questions. We ask all our guests to
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: pull the question. They're totally random. They have nothing to
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: do with your life or career, your TikToks. They are
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: just purely random. What'd you get?
• 30:34
  Speaker 4: What's the food you'd still eat after it fell on
• 30:36
  Speaker 4: the floor? Probably anything.
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: Alex will eat anything.
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: I am not super, like... A pork roll and cream cheese.
• 30:43
  Speaker 4: Well, maybe not that, actually, because the cream cheese could, like,
• 30:46
  Speaker 4: stick to something on the floor. But, like, let's say, like,
• 30:49
  Speaker 4: a little pretzel, a little something. As long as it's not...
• 30:53
  Speaker 4: dicky in any regards like yeah i'm not super like
• 30:57
  Speaker 4: a germaphobe right.
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: She's the opposite of a germaphobe actually okay well i'm
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: not disgusting but.
• 31:08
  Speaker 4: I don't know i don't think it's the biggest deal
• 31:10
  Speaker 4: in the world.
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: I'm with you yeah i think it's like the five
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: to ten to fifteen.
• 31:13
  Speaker 4: Second rule i also am okay well this isn't gonna
• 31:17
  Speaker 4: help the non-disgust argument here but I also think sometimes
• 31:22
  Speaker 4: building up your immunity is good.
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: I agree. Totally. The people who are wiping.
• 31:26
  Speaker 4: Down every single little thing, I really never get sick.
• 31:30
  Speaker 4: I just came back from a trip. Everyone has the
• 31:32
  Speaker 4: flu after. I'm here.
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: I'm here. Knock on wood. By the way, I'm right
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: there with you. I'm right there with you. Everybody got
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: hit with something. Sometimes you got to rub some dirt
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: in it, is what my mom used to say. Four
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: boys growing up, she was like, they'll be fine. No, no, no.
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: The first.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: First child, you're like, ah. Second, you're like, they're fine. Yeah.
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: Fourth child, it's like... Who are you? Yeah, it's like,
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: he comes and goes. He'll be around maybe next week.
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: We'll see him by Christmas. Okay. Okay. Ash, what do
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: you got?
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: You have to convince an alien that you're important enough
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: to keep alive. What's your argument?
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: That's a great question. Is it good? My argument would be.
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: that I have so many good outfits that I haven't
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: gotten to wear and show the world yet, and I
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: would be doing a disservice to everyone if I didn't
• 32:22
  Speaker 2: get to do that.
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: That's fantastic. That's the right answer. That's a great answer.
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: Thank you. I love that.
• 32:29
  Speaker 5: You just haven't seen me with all my new fits
• 32:31
  Speaker 5: that I just put together.
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: You don't understand. I'm not done yet. I'm doing a disservice.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: They still have a tag on them.
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: I have a five-year plan of all my looks, and
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: we're building on it. Do you actually?
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: You can't cut it. No, but I might. That would
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: be incredible.
• 32:45
  Speaker 4: I might.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: You never know.
• 32:47
  Speaker 4: Don't doubt her.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: But we appreciate you both coming on. Congrats on your show.
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much for having us. We look
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: forward to meeting your big Jersey family at some point.
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: All your pets. Yeah, we should do that.
• 32:58
  Speaker 4: We'll do a big family outing.
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: That'd be great. We'll do it at Ken's house. Oh
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: my gosh.
• 33:05
  Speaker 4: I forgot to tell you guys. Fun fact, you were
• 33:07
  Speaker 4: my first concert I've ever.
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: Ever been to. That's how you end this?
• 33:12
  Speaker 4: PNC, you know it. And I was like 13 and
• 33:15
  Speaker 4: afraid to dance in front of my parents. So I
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: stood there like this the whole time, didn't move, didn't sing.
• 33:20
  Speaker 4: My parents were like, hello. And I was like, embarrassed
• 33:23
  Speaker 4: to dance in front of my dad, so I didn't
• 33:24
  Speaker 4: do anything, but I had the best time ever. Wow.
• 33:28
  Speaker 4: Next time we'll be dancing.
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Yeah, we'll have to come see
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: the next time. Well, thanks for having us on.
• 33:33
  Speaker 7: Thank you.
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: This was so fun. Thank you for joining us.
• 33:35
  Speaker 4: Nice meeting you guys.
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: Bye.
• 33:37
  Speaker 4: See you. Bye.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: Bye-bye.