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Lessons - Stop Trying to Sound Smart (It's Killing Your Career) · Success Story with Scott Clary

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Today we're going to talk about what I like to call the smart person trap and why your
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big words are making you less influential and you actually suck at communicating.
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Let me paint a picture for you.
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You just finished a presentation to senior leadership.
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Your slides were peppered with terms like paradigm shift and synergistic approach and
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holistic framework and you used leverage as a verb six times.
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Your sentences were architectural marvels of subordinate clauses and nobody remembered
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a single thing you said.
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It sounds familiar, congratulations.
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You've fallen into the smart person trap where your desperate attempts to sound intelligent
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actually make you less effective.
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I've fallen this trap a lot.
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Let me explain what it is, why you do it and how to communicate better.
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So let me know if you've ever gotten an email like this.
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We need to optimize our cross functional collaboration paradigm to leverage strategic
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synergies and facilitate enhanced user experiences through implementation of innovative methodologies.
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That makes sense?
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If you've ever gotten that email or if you've ever sent an email that sounds like that
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to someone, they got your email and they all went back to their desks, their tasks at
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hand and they did absolutely nothing.
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Why?
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Because no one had any idea what they were supposed to do.
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Now imagine if you got this email or if you wrote this email, our users are frustrated
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because our teams aren't talking to each other.
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Let's set up daily 15 minute check-ins between design and engineering to catch problems early.
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Same message, different impact.
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The first version made you sound smart, okay, but the second version made things happen.
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There's a high cost when you show off.
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Every time you choose a complex word over a simple one, you're making a trade.
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You are trading actual influence for the appearance of intelligence.
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You're swapping real impact for intellectual peacocking and it's costing you way more than
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you think.
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Studies show that people remember only 10% of a message after three days, but that number
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plummets to nearly zero when the message is clouded by jargon and complexity.
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So all of your brilliant insights, they're dying a slow death in the graveyard of impressive
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vocabulary.
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The most influential people in any field from tech titans to world class scientists share
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one surprising trade.
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They can explain complex ideas in simple terms.
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They're not trying to sound smart, they're trying to be understood, to be useful, to create
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value.
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And that's what people remember.
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So today I want to talk about how to break free from this smart person trap.
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You're going to learn why your brain is addicted to complexity, how to translate your expertise
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into language that actually moves people to action and counter intuitive reasons why
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simplifying your message takes more intelligence than complicating it.
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But first, I want to ask you something.
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If you are listening to this, are you ready to be remembered for what you helped people
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achieve rather the impressive words you use?
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Because that's what real influence looks like.
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And it starts with a simple choice, will you try to sound smart today or will you choose
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to be useful?
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Now picture a doctor telling a patient they have a cute myocardial infraction with
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ST elevation suggesting coronary artery occlusion instead of saying you're having a heart attack
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and we need to act fast.
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The first version might showcase years of medical training but the second version saves
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lives.
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Now why do we want to sound smart?
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So if we look at our brain, it's playing this incredible trick on you.
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It's one that's actually rooted in evolutionary science.
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When you use complex language, your dorsal lateral prefrontal cortex, that's complex language
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but it's the brain's status center.
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It gets a tiny head of dopamine.
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It's the same reward system that made our ancestors show off their fancy cave paintings
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and elaborate hunting techniques but here's a problem.
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This prehistoric programming is sabotaging our modern effectiveness while our brains
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reward us for displaying complexity.
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Remember that dopamine hit, this ancient wire creates three paradoxes in today's world.
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So just as our primitive craving for sugar once helped us survive, now it leads to health
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problems.
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So our instincts to demonstrate complexity is creating professional handicaps.
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So this is the evolutionary mismatch.
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So three paradoxes of complexity that it creates, the expertise paradox, the more you know
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about a subject, the harder it is to remember what it's like not to know it.
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This is a curse of knowledge, it creates an empathy gap between you and the audience.
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And the result is your expertise actually becomes a barrier to sharing your expertise.
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The second paradox is a credibility paradox.
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Studies from Princeton Psychology Department show that complex writing is often perceived
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as a sign of poor confidence or unclear thinking.
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So the more jargon you use, the more people suspect you're hiding something.
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Simple language is associated with mastery and complexity, it seems like you're compensating
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for something.
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And the memory paradox, human working memory can only hold four to seven pieces of information
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at once.
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And the complex language forces the brain to do two jobs, decode your words, and understand
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your message.
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When cognitive load increases, retention, plumage, this isn't just cognitive theory.
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It's costing organizations real money and measurable productivity.
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And these paradoxes are not just cognitive theory.
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It's costing companies, real money, and measurable productivity.
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And when we look into the hard data, the impact of this memory limitation becomes real
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clear.
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When we look into the hard data, the numbers, the impact of being too complex, of speaking
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at too high a level, of this memory limitation, it starts to become very clear.
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81% of readers prefer simple language and business communication.
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Complex messages require 156% more processing time.
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Clear communication can reduce follow-up questions by 73%, and companies with clear communication
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outperform their peers by 47% in employee retention.
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Yet, despite these numbers, we're seeing a 12% annual increase in business, jargon usage,
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64% of employees say they regularly pretend to understand complex workplace communication
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even though they don't, and $37,000 per head in annual loss productivity is due to poor
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communication.
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And for content creators, the cost of complexity hits even harder.
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So readers do prefer simple language and business communication.
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Complex messaging requires more processing time.
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Clear communication can reduce follow-up questions, and companies with clear communication
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outperform their peers by a significant amount, especially in employee retention.
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But even though these are stats, this is data.
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We have increases in business jargon being used.
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Employees are saying that they pretend to understand complex workplace communication
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when they don't.
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And there's money in annual money lost, and there's significant amounts of revenue per
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head in annual loss productivity due to poor communication.
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And for content creators, the cost of complexity, it also hits.
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When you create content that's too complex, or there's too much jargon, you see a drop
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in audience engagement.
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Readers will abandon articles within 20 seconds if they see complex language at the beginning.
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Content with simpler language sees way more social shares.
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Down these letters written at a 6-grade level have higher click-through rates, blog posts
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with shorter sentences and simpler words that get more backlinks, videos, explaining
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complex topics, and simple terms receive more shares in their complex counterparts, and
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clear simple marketing copy, converts at higher levels than jargon-filled alternatives.
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So the irony is we keep investing in better cameras, fancier graphics, more sophisticated
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platforms, more sophisticated tools.
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But we ignore the one thing that matters most, when we're communicating, we need to be
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understood.
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Now why is clarity so important outside of all the reasons I just mentioned?
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Well, Silicon Valley venture capitalist Mark Andreessen has a brilliant test for startup
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founders.
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Can they explain their complex technology to a smart 14-year-old?
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And those who can't often don't get funded.
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Now why?
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Because clarity isn't just about being understood, it's about being trusted.
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When you speak or write with unnecessary complexity, you trigger what psychologists
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call cognitive strain in your audience.
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And this is some subtle mental friction that activates skepticism, it reduces trust,
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it decreases likelihood of action, it impairs memory function at lowers emotional connection.
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Think about it like this.
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Every extra syllable, every piece of jargon, every complex sentence structure is a tiny
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withdrawal from your trust bank account.
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And like any account that's constantly being depleted, the hidden costs start to compound
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in ways you might not expect.
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So the price of complexity, it goes beyond just confusion.
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It creates decision paralysis.
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So complex communication delays decisions, team spend more time clarifying than doing.
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Projects stall while people decode instead of act, it creates innovation barriers.
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So great ideas get lost in translation.
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This functional collaboration, so collaboration between all the different teams in your business,
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it suffers an insane amount.
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Creative solutions die in complexity.
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It creates cultural toxicity.
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So jargon creates in groups and out groups.
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Complexity becomes a power play.
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Trust erodes across all the organizational levels in teams.
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And then there's a real financial impact.
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You get missed deadlines from unclear communication.
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You get increased training costs.
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You get higher error rates.
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You get lost opportunities from delayed decisions.
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It's sad because all complex communication is a status game at the end of the day.
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Like I mentioned before, this peacocking of your intelligence.
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And it's ironic because the very behavior that you're using to appear smart is making
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you look less competent to the people who matter most.
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In a world drowning in complexity, clarity is a new intellectual status symbol.
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So here's a couple examples, Warren Buffett.
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He writes his famous shareholder letters out of fourth grade reading level.
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Apples design philosophy is simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.
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Richard Feynman won a Nobel Prize in Physics but was famous for explaining quantum mechanics
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to freshmen.
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They understood something crucial.
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True power isn't just about showing what you know.
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It's about sharing what you know in a way that creates value for others.
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Now let's talk about some practical tools and techniques to really break free from this
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complexity trap.
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But first, take a moment to really count the cost.
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How many opportunities have you lost because you chose impressive words over actual impact?
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But the good news is you can start changing that today.
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We're going to talk about actual intelligence versus performative intelligence because
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when you have actual real intelligence, this is sort of the first step into communicating
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clearly.
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I want you to imagine for a second two physicists explaining black holes.
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The first dazzles you with terms like gravitational singularity and event horizon geodesics.
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And the second says think of space as a rubber sheet and a black hole as a heavy bowling
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ball creating a deep rip in that sheet.
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Now the first description shows what they know.
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The second description helps you know it too.
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That is real intelligence versus performative intelligence.
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Do I know it well enough so I can help someone else understand it.
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Now this is also where I mentioned before the Feynman technique, Feynman principle, Richard
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Feynman.
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So Richard Feynman is a Nobel laureate physicist.
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He had a radical approach to understanding complex ideas.
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He had to understand them first.
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He had a radical approach to understanding complex ideas.
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If he couldn't explain it to a freshman in simple terms, he didn't really understand
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the concept himself.
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This wasn't just humility.
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It was this profound insight into the nature of real intelligence, not just performative
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intelligence.
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So his method exposes what I call three distinct levels of expertise.
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It each reveals a different relationship with complexity.
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So there's three levels of understanding.
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There's surface understanding.
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There is functional understanding and then there is deep understanding.
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So what are these three levels?
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So surface level understanding, you memorize terminology.
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You repeat expert phrases.
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You can't really adapt an explanation to an audience and it really crumbles when you're
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questioned deeply.
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A functional understanding knows how things work.
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You can solve common problems.
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You can explain with some jargon.
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You have a limited ability to simplify it but then the deep understanding, the last level
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of mastery, you see the core principles, you create simple metaphors.
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You can adapt it to any audience and you welcome questions because you can use those questions
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to reinforce your own knowledge but also communicate clearly and make sure that whatever
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your teaching is understood.
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These three levels aren't just theoretical distinctions.
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They're actually reflected in how our brains actually process and store information.
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I want you to think of your brain like a master file compression system.
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The better you understand something, the smaller and clearer the file becomes.
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And neuroscience reinforces it.
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So neuroscience research reveals something incredible.
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When we truly understand a concept, our brain creates what scientists call compressed representation,
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simplified mental models that capture the essence without the complexity.
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This is why Einstein used thought experiments about trains and elevators to develop relativity.
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So this is why Einstein used thought experiments about trains and elevators to develop relativity.
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Warren Buffett explains complex financial concepts using lemonade stands.
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And Steve Jobs described the computer as a bicycle for the mind.
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They weren't dumbing things down.
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They were displaying the hallmark of true mastery, the ability to find the simple within
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the complex.
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So how do you know if you have real intelligence, performative intelligence?
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What level of intelligence do you have?
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This is a great exercise.
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Take the most complex idea in your field, in your business, in your life, and explain
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it three ways to appear using technical language, to a smart teenager using everyday analogies,
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and then to a child using stories and pictures.
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If you can only do the first one, you've got performative intelligence.
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If you can do all three, you've achieved real understanding.
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Now from a cognitive evolution standpoint, our brains are wired to preserve energy.
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So if I do not really understand a concept, I can't actually explain it or explain it
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simply.
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And this creates problems.
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Complex language creates what neuroscientists call cognitive load.
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It forces the brain to work harder than necessary.
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This triggers two primitive responses.
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The survival response where the brain identifies complexity as a potential threat, attention
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narrows, retention decreases, and trust diminishes, and the conservation response.
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Mental energy is diverted to decoding, less capacity for actual understanding, reduced
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ability to act on information, and lower likelihood of memory formation.
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And this is why simple explanations aren't just more effective, they're more evolved.
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To get those again, you have to have real understanding, real intelligence.
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So some of the experts, I mentioned a few examples, here's a few more, Charlie Munger.
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He's passed away, rest in peace, but how he used to explain incentive caused bias in
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financial markets, he used to say, show me the incentives, I'll show you the outcome.
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Very simple explanation, Richard Dawkins, who was an evolutionary biologist, the complex
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concept was natural selection, and his simple explanation was like a sculpture who chips
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away everything that doesn't look like the statue.
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Carl Sagan, an astrophysicist, he was trying to explain the scale of the universe, very
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complex concept, and his simple explanation was billions and billions of stars, making
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the cosmic scale graspable.
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But the obvious question, before we figure out what the answer is, is why do we have so
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much trouble being clear?
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Why do we love to be complex?
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Why don't we just learn more, get actual real intelligence, and then we can communicate
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more clearly?
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And outside of the fact that it takes more time and to master the subject, speaking simply
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requires intellectual courage.
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So when you strip away the protective armor of complex language, you really expose your
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ideas to real scrutiny.
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You'd start to risk being misunderstood initially, and you have to admit when you don't
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really understand something and there's nowhere to hide.
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But this vulnerability is exactly what makes simple communication so powerful.
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It shows confidence in your understanding, it shows respect for your audience, it shows
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commitment to actual impact, it shows intellectual honesty.
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So this is a beautiful part.
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This kind of naked honesty doesn't just feel better.
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If you can get there, it pays better too.
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Because there's an ROI to real intelligence, there's an ROI to clear communication.
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People that prioritize clear communication, there's measurable results, higher employee
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engagement, faster project completion, better customer satisfaction, higher profit margins.
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And if you're a creator, content creator, the numbers are incredible too.
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Higher audience retention, increased social sharing, better conversion rates, more backlinks,
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more citations.
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Why?
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Because real intelligence multiplies itself through understanding, while performative intelligence
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dies at the end of each impressive sentence.
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Now if you want to know if you're actually being clear or you're just playing this intellectual
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dress up, there's a very brutal but effective way to figure it out.
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I call it this intelligence strip down and it starts with the person who's never impressed
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by your fancy vocabulary, your grandmother.
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So you're going to go through the grandmother test, explain your idea to an elderly relative.
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If they get it, you're on track, if they don't simplify further.
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You can also do something called the metaphor method.
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So find everyday analogies for complex concepts, test them with different audiences.
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You refine them until they consistently create aha moments.
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There's also something called the clarity criteria.
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So can somebody actually act on your explanation?
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Does it generate good questions?
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Do people share it with others?
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Does it stick after 24 hours?
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Your goal isn't to make complex things simple, it's to make complex things understandable.
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And that's a huge difference.
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Now, if you're not so yet, I'm going to give you a few more ideas as to why usefulness
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trumps vocabulary.
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Let me tell you a story before we start.
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A young programmer once asked Linus Torvalds, the creator of Linux, about elegant code architecture.
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And Torvalds responded, show me the code.
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Not the theory, not the elegant design documents, the actual working code that solves real problems.
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This is the essence of value.
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You can do for others matters infinitely more than how impressively you can describe it.
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To understand how to think about communicating, again, a couple ideas that I think are very important.
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The first idea, how useful information sticks.
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Your brain is a ruthlessly efficient librarian.
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It doesn't file away information based on how impressive it sounds.
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It catalogs based on utility.
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This is why you can still remember your childhood phone number,
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but you forget yesterday's motivational speaker's elegant turn of phrase.
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Think about the last time somebody taught you something truly useful.
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Maybe it was a keyboard shortcut that saved you hours or a negotiation tactic that helped you close a deal.
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The information stuck because it had immediate practical value.
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And this utility doesn't just help you remember, it creates momentum.
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Second idea, the multiplier effect.
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Value spreads like a virus.
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When was the last time somebody forwarded you a jargon filled email?
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Probably not often, but how many times you received great practical tips,
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actionable insights from a friend, from a peer.
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If it creates value, it's shared because people want to be valuable.
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People want to be perceived as valuable.
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So when you create value, when you communicate clearly, when you solve real problems,
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that's when your message is shared.
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Third idea, trust.
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Every interaction is a transaction in the trust economy.
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When you share something useful, you make a deposit.
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When you waste somebody's time with empty eloquence, you make a withdrawal.
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And the math is very simple, but the impact is profound.
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Consider two types of experts.
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First expert says,
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our cutting edge methodologies leverage cross-functional synergies
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to optimize organizational efficiencies
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through strategic implementations of best practice paradigms.
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Second creator says,
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here's a five minute morning routine that will help your team catch problems
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before they become disasters.
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We tested it with 20 groups and a reduced emergency meetings by 70%.
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Who would you trust?
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Who would you remember?
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Who would you seek out when you're facing a real challenge?
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This trust becomes especially crucial in today's battle for attention
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because we're just inundated.
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You have to stand out, you have to be clear, you have to be useful.
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Fourth idea, the attention economy.
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In a world drowning in information,
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usefulness is the ultimate filter.
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Your audience, whether they're colleagues, clients, customers,
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they have finite amount of attention.
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They're constantly and unconsciously asking one question.
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And they're constantly, unconsciously asking one question.
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How is this relevant to my life?
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A Microsoft Sachin Nadella understood this
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when he transformed the company's culture with a simple shift.
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Focus on value creation over value capture.
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Instead of asking what can we sell,
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start asking what problem can we solve.
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And in the result, I mean, look at Microsoft stock price.
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And the last idea is the paradox of practice.
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Being useful often feels too simple to the expert.
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You spent years mastering your craft.
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You feel like you should definitely be able to demonstrate that expertise
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through this sophisticated language and all these complex frameworks.
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But remember, your expertise isn't measured by how well you can describe a problem.
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It's measured by how well you can solve it.
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When Jeff Bezos banned PowerPoint at Amazon
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or placing it with six-page narrative memos,
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he wasn't just changing a presentation format.
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He was declaring war on performative complexity,
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performative intelligence.
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The memo had to be useful enough
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that executives could make real decisions based on it.
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So how do you know if you're creating true value?
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How do you know if what you're teaching the world
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or what you're putting out into the world is useful?
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Is being received well?
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Is being received clearly?
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Just ask yourself questions.
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Everything's on the other side of a question.
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Do people immediately try to apply what you've shared?
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Does your advice get referenced in future conversations?
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Do people come back asking for more specific details?
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Does your information solve real problems?
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Do others share your insights unprompted?
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Those are the true metrics of value.
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Those are the true metrics of clear communication.
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Not the sophistication of your vocabulary
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or the complexity of your frameworks.
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So next time you're preparing to communicate,
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whether it's a presentation, an email or a conversation,
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try this mental exercise.
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Imagine your audience has to pay real money
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for every minute they spend processing your information.
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Would they consider it a good investment?
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Would they feel they got their money's worth?
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Would they come back for more?
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It isn't just a thought experiment
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and the attention economy time is literally money
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and people invest their attention
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where they get the best returns.
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The shift from impressive to useful
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isn't just about communication style.
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It's about fundamentally redefining success.
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Instead of asking how can I demonstrate my expertise
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as how can I make this maximally useful for others?
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Remember people don't remember what you say.
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They remember what they can use.
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Your vocabulary might impress them for a moment
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but your value can serve them for a lifetime.
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Now how do you break free from this complexity addiction?
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How do you actually create lasting value?
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Well let's turn everything we discussed into action.
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This is a practical guide
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to making the shift from complexity to clarity.
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Picture a master chef's kitchen.
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Everything has its place.
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Every movement is purposeful.
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There's no wasted effort.
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No unnecessary flourish.
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That's what your communication should look like.
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Let's start with something radical.
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For the next three days,
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just imagine every word you write or speak
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costs you $10.
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Watch how quickly you learn to say more with less.
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And for a daily practice,
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this can be a foundational habit
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just to get you into the routine.
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In the morning,
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before sending your first email of the day,
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ask yourself, could I explain this to my neighbor's teenager?
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If not, rewrite it.
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Around 2 p.m. in the afternoon,
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you can set an alarm.
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Look at that last email you sent
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or a piece of content you created
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and just ask yourself what's the simplest way to say this.
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And then at night when you're winding down,
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you're doing an audit of all your day's work,
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look at one piece of communication
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that you want to send out,
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don't send it yet,
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simplify it tomorrow morning.
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And at the end of the day,
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take a second before you send out your last email
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and think about how you could simplify it,
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make it a little bit more digestible
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for whoever's receiving it and sleep on it.
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And then I want you to write it in the morning.
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A set of fresh eyes when you give yourself a task
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is going to solve a lot of these.
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A set of fresh eyes in the morning
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usually allows you to understand how best to.
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And at the end of the day,
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I want you to take one last piece
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of communication that you're about to send
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and just say to yourself,
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I'm going to try and simplify this tomorrow.
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Think about it, sleep on it, wake up,
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your brain solves problems very well overnight
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and send it in the morning.
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And just see how you can take a look at
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what you were going to send last night
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versus what you were going to send in the morning
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and understand it with a little bit of energy
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and fresh perspective.
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You do a very good job of simplifying.
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Now corporate communication,
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there are four moments that really matter.
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Obviously all communication should be clear.
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But if you are taking on a project,
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if you're closing a deal,
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if you're trying to communicate anything critical to anyone,
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there are four main things
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that you have to be especially careful of.
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So the first touch,
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your initial communication really sets a tone
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so make it crystal clear.
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The decision point,
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so when action is required,
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clarity is crucial.
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There's going to be a confusion moment.
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So when somebody signals they don't understand,
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asks questions,
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resist the urge to add complexity.
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This is when you have the opportunity
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to push this in the right direction
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and lastly to hand off.
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So when you're passing information to others,
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clarity prevents costly misunderstandings.
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And if you want to measure
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how clear your communication is,
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it's very easy.
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You're going to start to ask questions,
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understand and if you want to track progress
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and you want to make sure
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that your communication is exceptionally clear,
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then you can start to ask yourself
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how quickly do people grasp your message?
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How often do people act correctly
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on your communication?
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How many follow-up questions do you receive?
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Let's turn everything we've discussed into action.
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Here is your practical guide
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to making the shift from complexity to clarity.
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I want you to picture a chef's kitchen.
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Everything has its place.
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Every movement is purposeful.
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There's no wasted effort.
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No unnecessary flourish.
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That's what your communication should look like.
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So your next 24 hours,
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you want to choose your highest stakes communication
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for tomorrow.
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I want you to write it
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like you normally would.
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I want you to step away for an hour
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and then I want you to return and ask
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what's the simplest way to say this.
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Re-write it completely.
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Test it with somebody who knows nothing about the topic.
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This is how you go through all your communications
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but start tomorrow with this six-step framework.
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Another idea that's going to help you out
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is the power of the pause.
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So I want you to build strategic pauses
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into your communication routine
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before hitting send on any email.
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Wait 30 seconds.
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Before speaking in any meetings,
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count to two or three.
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Before finalizing any document,
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step away for an hour.
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These pauses aren't delays.
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They're investments in clarity.
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And then if you want to measure
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whether or not you're doing things right,
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you can track how quickly people grasp
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the messages that you send.
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How often do people act correctly
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on your communication?
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How many follow-up questions do you receive?
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Are they the right follow-up questions?
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But at the end of each day,
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I want you to ask yourself,
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did I make something clearer today
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or did I add to the world's complexity?
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My business is complexity because here's the truth.
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Our world today is drowning in complexity.
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Clarity isn't just a communication skill.
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It's a superpower.
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Remember, your words can either be a wall
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or a window, choose to be a window.
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The world has enough complexity.
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It needs your clarity.
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And when you start to incorporate
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these best practices into your day,
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at the end of every day,
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you're going to start to ask yourself,
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did I make something clearer today
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or did I add to the world's complexity?
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Because the truth is,
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we're in a world that's drowning in complexity.
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Clarity isn't just a communication skill.
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It's a superpower.
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Because the world has enough complexity.
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What it needs is your value.
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What it needs is your usefulness.
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What it needs is your clarity.