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The REAL Downside to Being Such a Successful Single Lady Is This... · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  OK, giving it to you straight here, ladies.
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  It's going to sound like I'm joking, but I'm not.
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  All right? The only real downside to being
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  a smart, capable, amazing single lady is this.
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  Hang on, because you're such a badass lady who's accomplished
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  so much in your own life, You think that you can turn that
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  lemon, that dud into a stud and you cannot.
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  You think you can lead the dance, that your powers of
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  excellence and you have powers of excellence.
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  That's the problem. That you think your powers of
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  excellence are so great that you can make him smarter, make him
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  better, make him work harder, make him more interested, make
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  him more interested in you than he actually is.
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  And I just had a conversation today with a girl that went like
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  this. She's amazing in every way.
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  She's got a huge following. She's like, I mean killing it in
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  business, right? She's been dating this guy.
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  And as she's getting my advice and we're talking this through,
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  I begin to realize she's like, well, he was asking me out.
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  He was pursuing me, all these things, OK.
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  But then all the deep conversations that they were
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  having were led by her. She was leading the dance.
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  So I said to her, you're leading the dance.
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  Yeah, These guys will ask you out.
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  Of course they'll date you. They'll waste your time.
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  But unless you truly step back and let them lead, ladies, make
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  the effort. Have the conversation that they
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  want you to get off The dating apps.
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  Have the conversation that they want you to be their lady, them
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  leading in that way. Then all you're doing is
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  controlling them like a little puppet master, OK?
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  And they'll go along with it until finally the shit hits the
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  fan and you ask them that one question.
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  Are we getting off the apps or are we getting serious?
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  And then that's when they hit the brakes and they run off
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  because you were leading and you don't realize this.
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  I have these conversations all the time in my one-on-one
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  program with my ladies. Thank God I'm able to talk them
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  off the ledge. It's called the Dream Man
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  Accelerator. I don't know if I ever tell you
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  guys the name because I am all about helping you ladies that
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  are fantastic in every way do things differently because
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  you're going to keep getting the same results over and over if
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  you keep doing the same things over and over.
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  And I think your friends are just too damn nice, they don't
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  tell you what you're doing wrong, but I do.
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  All right. So if you want more info on how
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  to start doing things differently, not leading the
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  dance with these guys and the ending up, This is why you guys
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  keep ending up with these turds, these lumps of coal that will
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  never be diamonds. Because your superpowers of how
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  amazing and great you are do not transfer to the men you are
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  dating. It just does not work that way.
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  All right, you want my help? You want to get this, this kind
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  of Intel on the regular? Then join my Dream Man
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  accelerator program where we hit the gas.
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  It is not sitting on the sidelines.
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  You work with me one-on-one and I am your high performance
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  coach. It kicks you in the ass so that
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  you can get what you want. All right, DM me on IG with the
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  word love. If you want that info, though,
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  I'm getting the help you need. All right, hope it helps.