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- 0:04Speaker 1: M hm.
- 0:09Speaker 2: Hm. Yeah.
- 0:12Speaker 1: I had a last night. Last night, I had a
- 0:15Speaker 1: I had an interesting conversation with Kitty and we were
- 0:19Speaker 1: talking about the like the open marriages and like open marriages,
- 0:24Speaker 1: open relationships, right, And I told her in those situations,
- 0:28Speaker 1: the men always fuck up, but in the open relationship
- 0:33Speaker 1: explain Aaron something I told her. I was like, first,
- 0:38Speaker 1: you know, it go, it can go, it goes. It's
- 0:40Speaker 1: always it's always like the ego thing. It's like, oh,
- 0:42Speaker 1: you're gonna do that, like I'm gonna do me.
- 0:45Speaker 2: Then you do you.
- 0:45Speaker 1: Then it's like it's it's unfair like them, like the
- 0:48Speaker 1: running the Bold situation his his uh, his wife his wife.
- 0:53Speaker 1: He was like, they had an open relationship, but she
- 0:55Speaker 1: can only mess with women. Yeah, and she can only
- 0:58Speaker 1: mess with women, Okay. And I'm like, Yo, that's not
- 1:00Speaker 1: fair for you to ask her to do that because
- 1:02Speaker 1: now you're out here fucking bit. She's like, Yo, now
- 1:04Speaker 1: what is she just said? Oh, we can open this marriage,
- 1:07Speaker 1: but you can only fuck men. You feel what I'm saying,
- 1:11Speaker 1: Then this nigga be ready to fight.
- 1:13Speaker 2: But no, I mean if she's openly, if he knew
- 1:15Speaker 2: she was bisexual.
- 1:16Speaker 1: No, but that's what I'm saying. She remembers she said
- 1:18Speaker 1: she didn't even want to, like she ain't want door
- 1:19Speaker 1: like that, and now you know probably but but I mean,
- 1:27Speaker 1: you know it's like, you know, she probably found you know,
- 1:29Speaker 1: you know, she probably like found that you know, she enjoyed,
- 1:31Speaker 1: like she enjoys that for herself. But the reason why
- 1:33Speaker 1: I say most of the time the men fuck up
- 1:35Speaker 1: is because it's like, yo, you be having clear guidelines
- 1:39Speaker 1: as long as you open with it, you know, as
- 1:41Speaker 1: long as you're open with it. And then some people
- 1:43Speaker 1: are like, yo, don't bring nothing, you know, don't bring
- 1:45Speaker 1: that shit to the house type shit. But then you know,
- 1:48Speaker 1: here this nigga go overly excited and start sucking, like
- 1:52Speaker 1: start running trying and run game on what everybody and
- 1:54Speaker 1: like everything. Then you forget, you forget your initial agreement.
- 1:58Speaker 2: I think a lot of men, in terms not a
- 2:00Speaker 2: straight man, A lot of men in open relationships over
- 2:06Speaker 2: overestimate their poll or there they're perceived poll in these
- 2:13Speaker 2: situations when they open their relationships, because you always hear
- 2:16Speaker 2: about stories that the man might coerse the wife or
- 2:20Speaker 2: he may not force her but force her hand for
- 2:23Speaker 2: lack of a better.
- 2:24Speaker 1: Term, I'll make it, like, make it, make it very convincing, make.
- 2:27Speaker 2: A very convincing argument that she's reluctant to accept. But
- 2:30Speaker 2: then it always worked out because she's a woman and
- 2:32Speaker 2: she's attractive, or she she she may not be as attractive,
- 2:37Speaker 2: so on and so forth, but she gets in the gym,
- 2:41Speaker 2: or starts taking better care of herself, and she starts
- 2:43Speaker 2: going on more dates, more things, starts going out and
- 2:47Speaker 2: starts dealing with other people. And the one woman he
- 2:50Speaker 2: wanted to open up his relationship for, or he might
- 2:52Speaker 2: find one woman or two women that situation may fizzle
- 2:55Speaker 2: out and he wants to close it again. And she's like, no,
- 2:57Speaker 2: I'm I'm cool, cool now, all right, I'm you know,
- 3:00Speaker 2: we can't bring nothing to the house, but should I'm
- 3:02Speaker 2: living in sitting and relaxing and get my back cracked while,
- 3:05Speaker 2: you know.
- 3:06Speaker 1: And then the other side.
- 3:07Speaker 2: The one girl you wanted to fuck.
- 3:09Speaker 1: Then the other side that I saw, Yeah, the other
- 3:13Speaker 1: thing that I saw with that is you start neglecting home.
- 3:18Speaker 1: Some people you can't you can't like I mean, but
- 3:21Speaker 1: I'm saying that's what I mean, that's I mean, I
- 3:22Speaker 1: feel that's where a lot of men suck up because
- 3:24Speaker 1: it's like, yo, you out here, you out here gallivanting,
- 3:27Speaker 1: and then it's like yo, then you forget, then you
- 3:29Speaker 1: forget about home, and then it's like yo up. Then
- 3:32Speaker 1: she started getting to getting used to the idea or
- 3:34Speaker 1: getting on getting used to the idea just being alone,
- 3:37Speaker 1: and then she started sucking around, you know, start sucking
- 3:39Speaker 1: around with big dick tony. And then it's like, yep,
- 3:42Speaker 1: you can't now now you can't compare.
- 3:44Speaker 2: Idin't got used to you not being here? Why do
- 3:48Speaker 2: you want to come back now?
- 3:50Speaker 3: So I was watching a movie with a similar situation
- 3:53Speaker 3: in the couple head up.
- 3:56Speaker 4: The couple head of open marriage.
- 3:58Speaker 3: Their only rules were, I think they bought other women
- 4:05Speaker 3: into the relationship, and they were allowed to do things
- 4:11Speaker 3: outside of each other, but they were not allowed to
- 4:16Speaker 3: sleep with anybody that the other one knew, so it
- 4:19Speaker 3: couldn't be a friend or you know, something like that.
- 4:22Speaker 2: Right.
- 4:24Speaker 3: What happened was the husband only agreed to the open
- 4:27Speaker 3: marriage because that's what his wife wanted and he wanted
- 4:31Speaker 3: to be with her, so he agreed to the open marriage.
- 4:34Speaker 3: And one time they were supposed to be having a threesome,
- 4:37Speaker 3: and when he went in the room to get prepared
- 4:39Speaker 3: for the threesome. When the person shows up, it's a man,
- 4:43Speaker 3: and he like, what the fuck is this Like, He's like,
- 4:45Speaker 3: I'm not having no reason with no man, Like I'm
- 4:47Speaker 3: not doing it anyway. He went in to prepare for
- 4:50Speaker 3: the threesome and she ended up bringing another dude in
- 4:52Speaker 3: and he was like, Oh, no, doing this, I'm not
- 4:55Speaker 3: doing this.
- 4:56Speaker 4: Later on in the.
- 4:57Speaker 3: Movie, she ends up coming home and catching him with
- 5:07Speaker 3: a woman that they both knew, a woman that they
- 5:10Speaker 3: both knew, somebody that I think worked for the same
- 5:12Speaker 3: company as her or some shit. It was crazy and
- 5:14Speaker 3: she was upset and she like went off on him,
- 5:17Speaker 3: and he was like, I never even wanted to have
- 5:18Speaker 3: an open marriage. I did this because I wanted to
- 5:20Speaker 3: be with you, and I think I think they I
- 5:22Speaker 3: don't know if they ended up separating. No, I can't
- 5:24Speaker 3: remember how the movie ended up having set up. I
- 5:27Speaker 3: don't know if they ended up separating or closing the
- 5:32Speaker 3: marriage off of what. I can't remember exactly what happened,
- 5:34Speaker 3: And in the end of the movie, I can't think
- 5:36Speaker 3: of the name of it right now. I think it
- 5:38Speaker 3: was like married in ten dates or loved in ten
- 5:41Speaker 3: Dates or it was something. I just remember that Carrie
- 5:47Speaker 3: Hilson was in it. Christian Keys. I want to say,
- 5:55Speaker 3: what's it? Keisha Knight, Pullion, No, no, making Good. It
- 6:02Speaker 3: was making Good. It was Carrie Hilton, Keys and some
- 6:07Speaker 3: other some other well known people you would know that
- 6:11Speaker 3: was in it. I think it's something like that Loved
- 6:12Speaker 3: By the Tenth Date or it's something like that. But anyway,
- 6:15Speaker 3: I just happened to come across it and I started
- 6:17Speaker 3: watching it the other day. But that just goes to
- 6:20Speaker 3: show that I never personally understand whatever butters your grits, cheeses,
- 6:25Speaker 3: your crackup, whatever, but is your muffin. I never understood
- 6:29Speaker 3: why people go into marriages and want open marriages or
- 6:32Speaker 3: open relationships or anything like that, like just be single.
- 6:35Speaker 3: It never made sense to me, But it's not for
- 6:37Speaker 3: me to understand. I'm not young, and nobody's young. Whatever
- 6:40Speaker 3: you think works for you works for you, just like
- 6:41Speaker 3: I don't really understand Poley and all that other stuff.
- 6:43Speaker 4: But whatever works for you works for you.
- 6:45Speaker 3: But I personally have only heard horror story somebody gets jealous,
- 6:49Speaker 3: so what he is upset?
- 6:50Speaker 4: This person getting more intention than the other person. Somebody
- 6:54Speaker 4: for somebody else, because people people say that all the time.
- 7:00Speaker 2: Your wife put a little nigga with.
- 7:03Speaker 3: Take her down, baby, he put her through, He took
- 7:06Speaker 3: her through there, he put her do the mad tricks.
- 7:09Speaker 4: He do some things to her that you never did.
- 7:11Speaker 3: He touched the spot that she didn't even know it
- 7:12Speaker 3: was touchable because he got more interest in you. It's
- 7:15Speaker 3: some I don't think the situations like that. People just
- 7:20Speaker 3: act like they're happy and they not. But that's just
- 7:23Speaker 3: my opinion. Don't be in the comments being mad at me.
- 7:26Speaker 3: That's just how I feel. I just don't think. I
- 7:29Speaker 3: just don't understand it. I don't want to understand that.
- 7:31Speaker 3: I don't. That's not something that I will be comfortable with.
- 7:34Speaker 3: And why cheating, just just be single ahead, you'll roster them.
- 7:37Speaker 3: That's how I feel. That's how I feel. I'm maybe
- 7:41Speaker 3: I'm old school and I value marriage and what marriage
- 7:46Speaker 3: actually stands for. And that's just me. So all y'all
- 7:52Speaker 3: do your marriages. That's on y'all. E ain't gotta live it.
- 7:54Speaker 3: It don't make me lose no sleep at night. And
- 7:57Speaker 3: who y'all fucking don't make me come so.
- 8:00Speaker 1: I know I had I had a coworker when I
- 8:03Speaker 1: was in Georgia, like little young girl at that time.
- 8:06Speaker 1: She was about like eighteen.
- 8:09Speaker 2: Hey, y'all, welcome to this week's episode the podcast. I'm
- 8:15Speaker 2: your host Brandon scart and join by two of my
- 8:17Speaker 2: favorite people in the world. How y'a feeling this week?
- 8:20Speaker 2: Cool here?
- 8:21Speaker 4: Happy Black History Month, y'all.
- 8:23Speaker 2: Power to the people.
- 8:25Speaker 4: No justice, no peace.
- 8:28Speaker 2: Ain't we lucky?
- 8:29Speaker 1: We got them good at times?
- 8:33Speaker 2: But or as if you go back to the I
- 8:36Speaker 2: think it's the top of season two, season three. No,
- 8:42Speaker 2: it was top of season season two. I think, yeah, temps,
- 8:46Speaker 2: go back and check that out. We was foolish for
- 8:48Speaker 2: that one. But I'm sorry. Proceed I'm good too, by
- 8:50Speaker 2: the way, proceed.
- 8:51Speaker 4: No.
- 8:53Speaker 1: No, So basically, I had a home, had a young
- 8:55Speaker 1: I had a young co worker. She was like eighteen.
- 8:56Speaker 1: She was messing with the guy that was like that,
- 8:59Speaker 1: I mean, you know they eighteen, right, and she's on
- 9:02Speaker 1: tender and he was like, you know, he was like
- 9:04Speaker 1: you know, he gonna get on tender. And now I
- 9:07Speaker 1: put the one in out there, Hey, don't do it.
- 9:12Speaker 1: Don't you do it, and like, don't you do it?
- 9:15Speaker 1: Because at the same time it's like yo, she's a
- 9:16Speaker 1: woman or she females, she always gonna get Oh, she's
- 9:18Speaker 1: always gonna get that strike that that swipe uh with
- 9:22Speaker 1: it swipe right woman, yep, yeah. Like but you dude,
- 9:26Speaker 1: well you got you gotta work ten times as all.
- 9:28Speaker 1: You gotta work ten times harder like you, Yeah, you're
- 9:32Speaker 1: not you. You They see a bunch of you like ten,
- 9:37Speaker 1: like they see twenty niggas and like twenty niggas in
- 9:40Speaker 1: like ten minutes, and you know, she got swipes out there,
- 9:43Speaker 1: she got swipes out the ass and you you sitting
- 9:45Speaker 1: here mad because you only got one and then I
- 9:50Speaker 1: mean you had like get a little pro your little
- 9:51Speaker 1: notifications said you had too. Then what you got one remote?
- 9:55Speaker 1: So it's like you got that one swipe and it's
- 9:57Speaker 1: like there's nothing you know it leads you said no
- 10:00Speaker 1: where you're thinking that you're gonna hop on head you can,
- 10:02Speaker 1: you're gonna get and you're gonna knock everything down, and
- 10:04Speaker 1: it's like.
- 10:05Speaker 2: Nope, you're gonna knock down your comforting.
- 10:07Speaker 1: You feel me like you're getting humble real quick, bro,
- 10:10Speaker 1: Like you ain't it. And I think that's but I
- 10:13Speaker 1: think that's what happens in a lot of open relationships,
- 10:15Speaker 1: like the niggas when they when they're not thinking about it,
- 10:18Speaker 1: they're not thinking about like the actual reality of it.
- 10:21Speaker 1: All they thinking about is the amount of pussy that
- 10:23Speaker 1: they could get and not get in trouble for it,
- 10:27Speaker 1: Like you know.
- 10:28Speaker 3: Niggas knocked down her inbox like motheruing crazy and nobody
- 10:33Speaker 3: in yours and you sitting there like you said, like
- 10:35Speaker 3: I want to close the marriage. What nigga, I'm over
- 10:38Speaker 3: here winning. I'd have been wind dying, rubbed ubb from
- 10:43Speaker 3: the top of my temper up my motherfucking feet. I
- 10:49Speaker 3: didn't add some ship that I ain't never ate before
- 10:51Speaker 3: my motherfucking life me to some new stuff and you
- 10:55Speaker 3: want to do you.
- 10:57Speaker 2: Would remember I didn't want this, but you did, and
- 11:00Speaker 2: I agree. So no, I'm good now.
- 11:02Speaker 1: And now I'm enjoying. Now, I'm enjoying the fruit of
- 11:05Speaker 1: your label.
- 11:07Speaker 2: And that's the episode time and a.
- 11:13Speaker 1: Yeah mm hmm, all right, no puss the nigga, that's
- 11:18Speaker 1: what you wanted Q and a go in car, homegirl,
- 11:23Speaker 1: going go and call your homegirl, bitch ass nigga, And.
- 11:29Speaker 2: The song is optimistic by the sounds of black this.
- 11:36Speaker 4: Oh yeah, we are using songs.
- 11:37Speaker 2: It's okay, mm hmm. We use optimistic, did we we
- 11:41Speaker 2: can use we can pick another song. I just don't
- 11:43Speaker 2: want to keep re using fire by the Ohio players.
- 11:45Speaker 4: Like we said the ship.
- 11:49Speaker 2: About your colds.
- 11:51Speaker 4: That works?
- 11:53Speaker 2: I got who we might change that don't.
- 11:58Speaker 1: Different every day? Sure by Jazon Sullivan. Yeah, that's a
- 12:06Speaker 1: good one.
- 12:07Speaker 2: I did have on my Insecure hoody last episode you did.
- 12:11Speaker 4: I missed my show.
- 12:12Speaker 2: It's one of my favorite shows.
- 12:13Speaker 4: But my other show, miss Pat.
- 12:16Speaker 1: You know, Insecure kind of gave me like Mark gave
- 12:18Speaker 1: me like Martin vibes and.
- 12:19Speaker 4: The last season of the shows that I would.
- 12:22Speaker 2: Say to add my sense to this, this conversation about open,
- 12:26Speaker 2: open marriages. You know, I'm the only one of us
- 12:28Speaker 2: are being single and married, ain't me. You have to
- 12:33Speaker 2: know your capacity and what you can and can't handle, right.
- 12:37Speaker 2: I have had to have honest, like internal dialogue about
- 12:44Speaker 2: if an open relationship or monog not open relationship.
- 12:52Speaker 4: Fresh shack, Sorry, that's my that's my mom.
- 12:55Speaker 2: Fresh shaved. I didn't run, you know, because the thing
- 12:58Speaker 2: about being bald and wearing ever in the in the
- 13:00Speaker 2: in the winter is you gotta run the run. The
- 13:03Speaker 2: lin roller across your scout because you'll have pieces of
- 13:05Speaker 2: lynch all in your.
- 13:06Speaker 3: Head and get you some soilk lined beanies. Oohat in line.
- 13:13Speaker 2: Maybe I saw and do rags again.
- 13:15Speaker 3: You know what, wave his thoughts gonna be looking like
- 13:20Speaker 3: I'm a bigger security god to the country at a
- 13:23Speaker 3: country club.
- 13:25Speaker 1: Hey, y'all, remember to tell me he'll fig your cap show.
- 13:29Speaker 2: Back to what I was saying, waved my fucking thoughts. Nigga,
- 13:34Speaker 2: that was funny. I'm sorry, I was trying to keep
- 13:36Speaker 2: myself together. That was funny. Any way. He said, you
- 13:41Speaker 2: have to know your capacity or of what you can
- 13:44Speaker 2: and can't handle in those types of relationships. And I,
- 13:48Speaker 2: in my now few years of singleness have had to
- 13:51Speaker 2: way as I've gotten older. Is an open relationship or
- 13:55Speaker 2: a different style of relationship? Different relationship style something I
- 14:00Speaker 2: want to consider because for the longest I've been strictly
- 14:02Speaker 2: monogamous half the time I don't want to do with
- 14:05Speaker 2: the one that I'm in a relationship with blood or
- 14:08Speaker 2: the one thing I am messing fucking on. So why
- 14:10Speaker 2: would I want to add other people to that? Because
- 14:11Speaker 2: I don't want to be bothered? Agreed, And the answer
- 14:15Speaker 2: hasn't changed. I still don't have the capacity to engage
- 14:18Speaker 2: with people more than one person at a time while
- 14:21Speaker 2: I'm in a relationship. I actually took an online quiz
- 14:25Speaker 2: that went on Blue Sky. I think back around New
- 14:27Speaker 2: Year's folks were posting and I did online quiz and
- 14:30Speaker 2: my answer was literally monogamous, like, but some people can
- 14:34Speaker 2: operate in terms of like ethical non monogamy. Where we
- 14:37Speaker 2: are married, our marriage and our household is that there's
- 14:41Speaker 2: sanctity here, but we are ethically ethically non monogamous, meaning
- 14:46Speaker 2: I can go out and date other people, or I
- 14:50Speaker 2: can go out and just have sexual encounters with other
- 14:52Speaker 2: people or sexual keep on, keep open an open sexual relationship,
- 14:57Speaker 2: but it can't be romantic or emotion because that's not
- 15:01Speaker 2: what my you know, my main relationship allows. Some people
- 15:05Speaker 2: are built for that. I know several guys who I've
- 15:07Speaker 2: met who are attractive. We have you know, we've had
- 15:10Speaker 2: great conversations and have considered dating or like be on
- 15:13Speaker 2: the first day. It's like, oh, phenomenogamus. So you require
- 15:17Speaker 2: open relationships and that's not how I'm built.
- 15:21Speaker 1: I don't, you know, I've been count guys exclusivity.
- 15:25Speaker 2: I've met guys who initially want to they like the
- 15:27Speaker 2: first year two in a relationship, they were like, oh, yeah,
- 15:29Speaker 2: we'll be like in a monogamous relationship. But afterward we've
- 15:33Speaker 2: established for the first couple of years, we want to
- 15:35Speaker 2: I want to open a relationship like permanently, and you know,
- 15:38Speaker 2: we can come and go as we please. Home is home,
- 15:40Speaker 2: but what we do outside of the house a friend,
- 15:44Speaker 2: and I'm not.
- 15:44Speaker 1: Comfortable with that.
- 15:45Speaker 2: I have a friend I did, and that's why I
- 15:48Speaker 2: am That's why I'm still thinking.
- 15:50Speaker 4: He doesn't believe in monogamy.
- 15:51Speaker 3: He said, there's no benefits of monogamy for men.
- 15:57Speaker 4: He said, it's not natural for men to leave, he said.
- 16:00Speaker 3: And my first question to him was was he honest
- 16:03Speaker 3: with the women that he dealt with? And he was like,
- 16:05Speaker 3: in like a past relationship that he wasn't because he
- 16:08Speaker 3: was young and all of this, so he wasn't honest.
- 16:11Speaker 3: But in relationships after anybody he's dealt with, he always
- 16:14Speaker 3: is up front like, yeah, I don't believe in, you know,
- 16:17Speaker 3: traditional monogamy.
- 16:19Speaker 4: I don't believe in.
- 16:19Speaker 3: But he did tell me that he wants to eventually,
- 16:23Speaker 3: you know, settle down and get.
- 16:24Speaker 4: Married and all of the other stuff.
- 16:27Speaker 3: And I was like, I'm thinking, like why, Like, if
- 16:30Speaker 3: you don't believe in why do you want to commit
- 16:34Speaker 3: yourself to one person? But you know you're not going
- 16:36Speaker 3: to be monogamous to that person, You're not going to
- 16:38Speaker 3: be faithful.
- 16:38Speaker 2: But the question is what does again you have to quantify,
- 16:42Speaker 2: you have to not qualify. I guess the term is qualified.
- 16:47Speaker 2: What does no monogamy look like for you? Because again,
- 16:49Speaker 2: it could just be hey, we're in an open relationship
- 16:52Speaker 2: to where we can invirite people into the relationship, you
- 16:54Speaker 2: have more than one person in your actual relationship, or
- 16:57Speaker 2: it's just a sexual thing where you.
- 16:59Speaker 3: Know, understanding of it. I'm just my understanding of it
- 17:03Speaker 3: is that that's what it was, That it was just
- 17:06Speaker 3: a sexual thing. Other relationships and all this stuff like that,
- 17:10Speaker 3: it was just a sex thing. That was my understanding.
- 17:12Speaker 3: So then my next question was is it okay for
- 17:14Speaker 3: her to do the same thing? And he told me
- 17:16Speaker 3: that it was he don't believe in double standing.
- 17:19Speaker 4: Okay, that's what he said.
- 17:20Speaker 3: And I said, oh, well, you don't find many people
- 17:22Speaker 3: who Yeah, I'm not gonna be faithful, but you gotta
- 17:24Speaker 3: be faithful.
- 17:25Speaker 4: You need to be I said, you.
- 17:26Speaker 3: Know, I say, I can't put myself in a situation
- 17:30Speaker 3: like that, but I would prefer that somebody tell me
- 17:32Speaker 3: that from the get go and don't let me and
- 17:33Speaker 3: my feelings invested it and then be like I want
- 17:35Speaker 3: to be with you, but just this, this and this, because.
- 17:38Speaker 4: That that's not right. I don't like that.
- 17:40Speaker 3: And he was like, well, you know, we had the
- 17:42Speaker 3: women and men debating. It's like, well, most women say
- 17:45Speaker 3: they want honesty, but they don't want that. I said,
- 17:46Speaker 3: I can't speak for other women.
- 17:47Speaker 2: I can speak.
- 17:50Speaker 4: I I said, I can't speak for me.
- 17:52Speaker 3: I said, because at the end of the day, if
- 17:53Speaker 3: a man tell you from the get go you know
- 17:56Speaker 3: I don't believe in me, I'm not gonna be faithful.
- 17:58Speaker 3: And you choose to still pursue something with that person
- 18:00Speaker 3: thinking you can change them or know they feel that
- 18:03Speaker 3: way because they ain't had the right woman or the
- 18:05Speaker 3: right man, or this, that and the third you said,
- 18:07Speaker 3: at that point is at that point where all the.
- 18:09Speaker 4: Accountability is on you.
- 18:10Speaker 3: Now you can't be mad at them if they go
- 18:12Speaker 3: sleeping you fouind out they sleeping with other women, or
- 18:14Speaker 3: they doing this, or they're doing it because they told
- 18:16Speaker 3: you from the get go. And that's what that's where
- 18:19Speaker 3: accountability comes in on both ends. It's not one of
- 18:21Speaker 3: them people that make it seem like minut it's the
- 18:22Speaker 3: worst thing ever invented on earth.
- 18:24Speaker 4: And it's only men that cheat, and it's only men
- 18:26Speaker 4: that hurt you.
- 18:26Speaker 3: And it's only because I know some savage ass, fucking,
- 18:30Speaker 3: grimy ass women I do. I know women in the head,
- 18:33Speaker 3: good ass men, good men, and then broke down down,
- 18:38Speaker 3: taught them down to the point where this man, it's
- 18:39Speaker 3: like fuck love, fuck this, fuck that because of a
- 18:42Speaker 3: woman who they put their all into, who they gave
- 18:44Speaker 3: their heart.
- 18:45Speaker 4: And the woman did them dirty, and they did everything
- 18:46Speaker 4: for this woman.
- 18:47Speaker 3: Drink a damn bad for the damn they paid all
- 18:49Speaker 3: the bills, rubbed the feet, gave a dick when she
- 18:52Speaker 3: needed it, put money in the pockets, did all of that,
- 18:54Speaker 3: and they weren't satisfied. But some people like toxicity, Yeah,
- 18:59Speaker 3: some people like some people like that. They don't know,
- 19:01Speaker 3: they don't want to be happy. They don't want to
- 19:03Speaker 3: be happy, so they're going to sabotage it because I'm
- 19:07Speaker 3: gonna hurt you before.
- 19:08Speaker 4: You hurt me.
- 19:09Speaker 1: What ture ship.
- 19:12Speaker 2: You telling him? When the switch signs, you said, who
- 19:16Speaker 2: you said?
- 19:17Speaker 4: Switch side? I don't know what I can find out
- 19:19Speaker 4: for you?
- 19:20Speaker 2: Okay, report back, will do thanks.
- 19:22Speaker 1: Okay, Ship, Look, don't cheat.
- 19:30Speaker 2: I treat you right.
- 19:31Speaker 4: Listen, take care.
- 19:33Speaker 1: Look that nigga said.
- 19:34Speaker 4: Look, I was like, I want to be in my
- 19:36Speaker 4: what is it the soft girl as.
- 19:39Speaker 2: In my soft nigga?
- 19:41Speaker 3: I'm my man, y'all, sister death know how I like
- 19:44Speaker 3: to cook and take care of I will. That's why
- 19:46Speaker 3: I said, when I finally do get a mean he
- 19:48Speaker 3: he got to be a straight version of Brandy baby
- 19:50Speaker 3: or you in trouble. Brandy been spoiling us, especially the
- 19:54Speaker 3: women in It's like for years.
- 19:58Speaker 1: I like so, like I said, it's listening on. That
- 20:01Speaker 1: is a humbling give me take care and me I
- 20:04Speaker 1: take care.
- 20:05Speaker 2: That's exactly what it is.
- 20:06Speaker 4: That's all it is. It is equal around here for exchange.
- 20:08Speaker 4: Ain't no rivalry. Ain't what they say?
- 20:11Speaker 2: So collection plan a couple of dollars of points.
- 20:17Speaker 4: Ship, it's going to the building fund. Look is nuts.
- 20:25Speaker 4: And you put a door off on the church in
- 20:26Speaker 4: forty five years, been.
- 20:29Speaker 2: Trying to build the church past thirty.
- 20:31Speaker 4: Make no damnse I ain't been in person in a
- 20:33Speaker 4: long time. I ain't gonna hold you, but.
- 20:39Speaker 2: Center now. I actually it's interested speaking about church and pivoting,
- 20:43Speaker 2: because that was a hell of a pig that was.
- 20:45Speaker 4: That was a hard, hard, right hard pivot about the building.
- 20:50Speaker 2: Fund No. But actually it's funny enough you mentioned that
- 20:53Speaker 2: because earlier today, before I got here, I was on
- 20:56Speaker 2: threads of all all places.
- 20:59Speaker 4: Take me down a red.
- 21:00Speaker 2: A couple of people in over the past week or
- 21:02Speaker 2: two have been asking black folks, specifying black folks who
- 21:07Speaker 2: are new to the DC area where I live, have
- 21:09Speaker 2: been asking for like local church homes or like they're
- 21:12Speaker 2: looking for churches to attend. And I'm not sure if
- 21:15Speaker 2: you all are familiar with these folks who live in
- 21:17Speaker 2: the DC area are familiar with the church, but y'all
- 21:18Speaker 2: living up here in Baltimore may not be. But Alfred
- 21:22Speaker 2: Street Baptist Church is a historic church at Alexandria Alfred
- 21:28Speaker 2: I was if I can compare it, and I might
- 21:30Speaker 2: be wrong. If you've been there both let me know,
- 21:32Speaker 2: But I feel like Alfred Street Baptist is like the
- 21:36Speaker 2: Northern Virginia version of New Songs. It's a for all
- 21:39Speaker 2: intents and purposes, it's a megachurch, but the church they're
- 21:42Speaker 2: still they're still in their original building. I think it's
- 21:44Speaker 2: on King it's not on King Street, it's on whatever
- 21:47Speaker 2: street that is. And I think it's near Old Town Alexandria.
- 21:51Speaker 2: But they're in the original building. And you have to
- 21:52Speaker 2: get there for theven o'clock service like an hour to
- 21:54Speaker 2: an hour and a half early, because if you don't,
- 21:56Speaker 2: you're not gonna have nowhere to sit in there with
- 21:58Speaker 2: you in the basement, or they'll make you watch watch sir.
- 22:00Speaker 2: It's online. I've never been because Alfred Street is like
- 22:04Speaker 2: an hour away from me each way in traffic, and
- 22:06Speaker 2: I watch services online. First Baptist Church of Glenarden in
- 22:11Speaker 2: PG County. You have Union Temple. I think that's in DC.
- 22:15Speaker 2: There are a lot of like well known black churches
- 22:19Speaker 2: in the area. One church that I've honestly the only
- 22:22Speaker 2: church that I've really virtually attended services at since since
- 22:27Speaker 2: really the past five or six years, is Mount Eenion
- 22:29Speaker 2: Baptist Church down in Clinton, Maryland. And I've had to
- 22:34Speaker 2: one level of consideration that a lot of people don't
- 22:36Speaker 2: consider and but me as as a part of the
- 22:39Speaker 2: leg booty community, I have to I have to consider
- 22:44Speaker 2: a church's message on LGBTV.
- 22:47Speaker 4: Are you can you.
- 22:50Speaker 2: Can have a pastor who is well and good with
- 22:54Speaker 2: place the place of women in the church, because some
- 22:55Speaker 2: churches are super conservative and they don't believe that, you know,
- 22:58Speaker 2: women should wear pay to the sanctuary on pants at all,
- 23:01Speaker 2: and you have to be married to take part in
- 23:03Speaker 2: certain functions of the church. And some churches are uber conservative.
- 23:06Speaker 2: But you know, as as again a member of the
- 23:10Speaker 2: leg booty community, I have to be conscious or considerate
- 23:12Speaker 2: of when I'm looking for a church to attenderal service
- 23:15Speaker 2: to attend, what is the church's stance and what is
- 23:19Speaker 2: the pastor stance on women? What is the what is
- 23:23Speaker 2: the the pastor stance on LGBT people, What is the
- 23:26Speaker 2: pastor stances on like non traditional families and not even
- 23:30Speaker 2: talking about terms of like two gay men, two women?
- 23:32Speaker 2: What like non married non married family have children?
- 23:36Speaker 1: Right?
- 23:36Speaker 2: People who have children on the single mothers or like
- 23:39Speaker 2: widows and widowers grandparents who took their kids in Like
- 23:43Speaker 2: are they gonna damn your daughter who might have had
- 23:45Speaker 2: like mental health issues or a drug addiction. Are they
- 23:48Speaker 2: going to damn call your child in abomination or damn
- 23:51Speaker 2: your child to health because they left their child, because
- 23:53Speaker 2: they're dealing.
- 23:53Speaker 3: With because my son show was christened and men and
- 23:58Speaker 3: his father were not married. And some churches a strict myself,
- 24:02Speaker 3: I've been to several churches and over my life, but you.
- 24:05Speaker 2: Have to be caught. But you have to take all
- 24:08Speaker 2: of your all of your your totality and wigh it
- 24:12Speaker 2: up against the message of the places you are interested
- 24:15Speaker 2: in attending. Agree, I will say, and I will be
- 24:17Speaker 2: totally honest. I did research. One of my friends recommended
- 24:21Speaker 2: First Baptist Church of Glenarden. I did not care for
- 24:24Speaker 2: the pastor stance on LGBT people. Was a female past No,
- 24:29Speaker 2: it's a male pastor.
- 24:30Speaker 3: Okay, so a pastor that I followed for some time.
- 24:35Speaker 3: I don't really follow her too much. I've seen her
- 24:37Speaker 3: when I went to a revival type thing with my mom,
- 24:41Speaker 3: and I liked her, and she she's been at that
- 24:44Speaker 3: church a few times.
- 24:45Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't think she's still dead, but
- 24:47Speaker 4: passed the jays. I used to follow her.
- 24:49Speaker 3: She was kind of a real kind of hip kind
- 24:51Speaker 3: of past I liked her older lady.
- 24:53Speaker 1: Well, she's ap cat, not a hip kat.
- 24:55Speaker 4: And how old, are we?
- 24:59Speaker 3: Yeah? So, but I think I know which, I think
- 25:03Speaker 3: I know who that you said him pop up on
- 25:07Speaker 3: my don't.
- 25:08Speaker 2: He's a pretty well known pastor even up here in Baltimore.
- 25:11Speaker 2: But his stances on LGBT people, the lgbt Q community
- 25:16Speaker 2: was not to my liking. And I am you can
- 25:20Speaker 2: feel comforted, of course, I can say thankful, and I'm blessed,
- 25:24Speaker 2: you know, to come from a family that has not
- 25:26Speaker 2: you know, didn't cast me out, although that was one
- 25:28Speaker 2: of my raised when I did come to the center,
- 25:30Speaker 2: but not even right. And that's fucking stupid to say.
- 25:34Speaker 3: There's a lot of sinning going around. Okay, one is
- 25:38Speaker 3: not worse than the other.
- 25:39Speaker 2: Oh please, I had I had reads pre cocked if
- 25:42Speaker 2: any of my family.
- 25:45Speaker 1: That's like I said, I came in with.
- 25:48Speaker 3: But you couldn't do it until you called me or at
- 25:50Speaker 3: least put me on FaceTime so I would miss nothing
- 25:52Speaker 3: while I was on my way over there, and I'll
- 25:54Speaker 3: be sitting there like that.
- 25:55Speaker 2: The think the thing was like I have because when
- 25:58Speaker 2: you're grown and you learn all the family secrets, messing because.
- 26:01Speaker 4: You want to talk about let's let's have it.
- 26:04Speaker 2: Let's talk some ship have a conversation.
- 26:07Speaker 3: Let's talk about it, because you know your sister told
- 26:08Speaker 3: all your business. Yeah, what you want to talk about? Oh,
- 26:10Speaker 3: you worried about night drinks?
- 26:14Speaker 2: You know your sister told all your business. Let's have
- 26:16Speaker 2: a conversation.
- 26:17Speaker 4: You want what you want to talk about? You want
- 26:18Speaker 4: to talk to You worried about who I'm laying with
- 26:21Speaker 4: at night?
- 26:21Speaker 2: Let's talk people talk about mother.
- 26:29Speaker 4: Listen, we can talk about it.
- 26:31Speaker 2: I am blessed to not have come from a family
- 26:34Speaker 2: that was traumatic in that way. I wasn't treated differently
- 26:37Speaker 2: from anybody else, even though I did not come out
- 26:39Speaker 2: until I was fucking twenty three, damn twenty four years. Well,
- 26:42Speaker 2: it was right when I turned twenty three in two
- 26:44Speaker 2: thousand and nine.
- 26:45Speaker 4: Yeah, it was after it.
- 26:47Speaker 2: Yeah, because we don't have to we visit this story.
- 26:50Speaker 2: We ain't gonna tell the story again. But it was
- 26:52Speaker 2: comical for her, Yeah, it was comical. I was sweating out.
- 26:56Speaker 4: Simon drink and make some need you, all right, I was.
- 26:59Speaker 2: I was sweat, but no fucking coda one in twenty
- 27:01Speaker 2: degree with them.
- 27:01Speaker 4: Look, and I'm sitting in there like damn here.
- 27:03Speaker 2: We don't have to revisit it.
- 27:05Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, that's normal for you.
- 27:08Speaker 2: Shut up, bitch. The point I was trying to make
- 27:11Speaker 2: us I am blessed to come from a family where
- 27:15Speaker 2: I was not cast out or made to feel different
- 27:18Speaker 2: or made to feel any type of way about who
- 27:20Speaker 2: I sleep with. And even when I was younger and
- 27:24Speaker 2: we did go to a church, because my mother stopped
- 27:26Speaker 2: forcing us to go to church when I was fourteen,
- 27:28Speaker 2: and for that I didn't go back for over a
- 27:29Speaker 2: decade years. I wasn't brought up in churches where people
- 27:33Speaker 2: were talked of as abominations or people weren't castigated or
- 27:37Speaker 2: talked against any person. So in my adult life, when
- 27:40Speaker 2: I can choose the church I attend, I absolutely refuse
- 27:44Speaker 2: to introduce that level of trauma into my life to
- 27:47Speaker 2: your adult life, I refuse. And I've never had that experience.
- 27:50Speaker 2: And I even had questions about, like, you know, my
- 27:54Speaker 2: father's family's West Indian Naitian, and I would questioned about
- 27:57Speaker 2: like coming out to them or being more open and
- 28:00Speaker 2: with facets of my life and my personality around them,
- 28:02Speaker 2: even after my mother accepted who I was. And it's
- 28:06Speaker 2: never been that nobody's ever brought up an issue about it.
- 28:09Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure because people are people, and they'll talk
- 28:11Speaker 2: and have conversations about about it behind my back. They
- 28:13Speaker 2: would never say anything to my face because again I
- 28:16Speaker 2: know everybody's business can read accordingly, but.
- 28:19Speaker 4: It's not even.
- 28:20Speaker 2: It wouldn't even, it wouldn't even get to that point.
- 28:22Speaker 1: Said in other words, so he already he locked and
- 28:25Speaker 1: loaded shortly. Don want that he always got that on him.
- 28:29Speaker 1: Figuratively speaking, he always got no weapons.
- 28:32Speaker 2: Now they ain't legal up here. But you have to
- 28:38Speaker 2: weigh the church's message and the pastor's message against your
- 28:41Speaker 2: sensitivities and what you can and cannot tolerate. Because some
- 28:45Speaker 2: people and some religions and some groups and followings have
- 28:48Speaker 2: super strict or super conservative ideals and beliefs about certain things,
- 28:54Speaker 2: and there are certain we're gonna call it out and
- 28:57Speaker 2: say say what it is. For example, the Church of
- 29:00Speaker 2: God in Christ KOJC churches are super Pentecostal. They're super
- 29:04Speaker 2: super strict. They I've heard from several people who are
- 29:08Speaker 2: KOJAK and feel free to correct me if I'm wrong.
- 29:10Speaker 2: You know, they believe in hate the sin, not the sinner,
- 29:14Speaker 2: or the Bible says this is not right, or this,
- 29:16Speaker 2: this than this, But I still love you in spite
- 29:19Speaker 2: of that, and that while that may work, your religion
- 29:23Speaker 2: teaches you that I don't have to accept that as
- 29:25Speaker 2: a as a person, as a as a human being,
- 29:27Speaker 2: just like you, a human being, but beaten heart and
- 29:29Speaker 2: blood and lungs and eyes and body parts. But some people,
- 29:34Speaker 2: and especially if you grew up in that, in that
- 29:36Speaker 2: denomination and you still are a member of the church
- 29:38Speaker 2: now as an adult, some people are able to make
- 29:40Speaker 2: peace with that and overlook that facet of it. Or
- 29:42Speaker 2: some people may have pastors who are more accepting in
- 29:45Speaker 2: spite of what the religion tells you to feel right,
- 29:48Speaker 2: it just depends on your sensitivities in what you.
- 29:50Speaker 1: Can and can't handle.
- 29:51Speaker 2: But that, for me is a lad that I always
- 29:52Speaker 2: have to consider when looking at a church. And thankfully
- 29:56Speaker 2: Pastor dumb and Coats, I've listened to several of his sermons,
- 29:59Speaker 2: especially during COVID lockdowns when I would just like fire
- 30:01Speaker 2: it up on the iPad, when I would be at
- 30:02Speaker 2: home mil prepping or and there cleaning on Sundays or
- 30:05Speaker 2: watering plants, and I'm listening to.
- 30:06Speaker 1: You up when you when you when you fire it
- 30:09Speaker 1: up on the iPad?
- 30:10Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you.
- 30:11Speaker 4: Know, hold on do let's about ten.
- 30:19Speaker 1: Yeah, put me on the eye space. Let me plug
- 30:28Speaker 1: in my my pod. What's that thing?
- 30:32Speaker 4: I'll be on the the de grain on the thing.
- 30:35Speaker 2: What are my damn glasses at? Is this?
- 30:38Speaker 4: It? Is this the right thing?
- 30:40Speaker 2: All right? Watch nice service. That's that's a that's a
- 30:44Speaker 2: sin thing. We fight it up, fired up on the iPad.
- 30:47Speaker 2: All right, hold on, all right, let me let me go,
- 30:49Speaker 2: let me go a hold on, let me go soak
- 30:52Speaker 2: these let me soak these greens. Hold on, look, look,
- 30:56Speaker 2: hold on, hold on.
- 31:08Speaker 1: The whole time, the whole time. Next thy.
- 31:13Speaker 4: Goddamn of God, I don't even.
- 31:16Speaker 2: See the men. Yeah.
- 31:19Speaker 3: I haven't been doing much of that either, Like watching church,
- 31:21Speaker 3: and I haven't been keeping up.
- 31:24Speaker 4: I haven't.
- 31:25Speaker 3: And like I said, the church that I'm still technically
- 31:28Speaker 3: a member of, I haven't been there in a very
- 31:29Speaker 3: long time. But I did, you know, visit a friend
- 31:32Speaker 3: of mine's church. She her church is moree non non traditional,
- 31:39Speaker 3: non traditional type church, Union church if anybody's ever heard
- 31:43Speaker 3: of it. They have locations all over different places in
- 31:46Speaker 3: Maryland and things like that. I attended the main campus
- 31:50Speaker 3: out at they call it b W I and I
- 31:54Speaker 3: really enjoyed the pastor's way of preaching the way that
- 31:59Speaker 3: he bring things down and told you to understand it,
- 32:04Speaker 3: you know. So that was a church that I would
- 32:06Speaker 3: attend again.
- 32:07Speaker 4: Did enjoyment.
- 32:08Speaker 3: And they do different events and stuff to bring people together.
- 32:11Speaker 3: They do singles nights, they do a marry Night, they
- 32:13Speaker 3: do a men's night, they do a women's night, they.
- 32:15Speaker 1: Do different lords stuff.
- 32:19Speaker 2: Let me bring this up while some of my racists
- 32:21Speaker 2: right here. So I wanted I wanted to give a
- 32:22Speaker 2: shout out to one of my favorite TikTok creators. His
- 32:25Speaker 2: name is Mansfield M. D. Underscore n C. He is
- 32:28Speaker 2: a surgeon, Black surgeon, and he before he goes into surgery,
- 32:33Speaker 2: he literally comes out and does and does a prayer.
- 32:38Speaker 2: But that's so he posted literally in in O R
- 32:41Speaker 2: right right before he starts surgery. And somebody commented it
- 32:45Speaker 2: said that man's prayers make saintan nervous. And this is
- 32:48Speaker 2: the doctor I want to perform my surger.
- 32:51Speaker 4: I got some things I need to fix.
- 32:54Speaker 2: But it's Mansfield M A N S F I F
- 32:57Speaker 2: I E L D M D on to score and
- 33:00Speaker 2: ce I believe from North Carolina. And even if you're
- 33:03Speaker 2: not super religious, but you want to hear a word
- 33:05Speaker 2: at least that can inspire you. H that Right there,
- 33:09Speaker 2: I be in the like amen, double.
- 33:14Speaker 1: Tap, Like I thought about something, and like I said,
- 33:18Speaker 1: once you don't like once you'll rock with me, just
- 33:21Speaker 1: you know, he take that trip. When you know, when
- 33:25Speaker 1: we was younger, like when we were younger, they they
- 33:28Speaker 1: told us, they told us like, yo, we be the
- 33:30Speaker 1: ones to change the world and all that, and then
- 33:32Speaker 1: like on some world nah and like on some world
- 33:35Speaker 1: ship when you think about it, like yo, we didn't
- 33:38Speaker 1: like Millennials then like took all that ship. That's like
- 33:42Speaker 1: all the ship that we didn't, all the ship that
- 33:44Speaker 1: we didn't got from gen Z gen X and then
- 33:48Speaker 1: you know then what we wanted it to be and
- 33:50Speaker 1: like like now you see like most of the stuff
- 33:53Speaker 1: that's happened, like most of stuff just happened, and like
- 33:55Speaker 1: millennials and like changed like legit. Then took technology changed
- 33:59Speaker 1: it and then you know gen Z come in, you know,
- 34:01Speaker 1: make it a little bit better. But we you know,
- 34:03Speaker 1: we we was the grass roots, like were the grassroots
- 34:05Speaker 1: of the actual like you know, the changing of you know,
- 34:08Speaker 1: changing in the world and all the like all the
- 34:11Speaker 1: technology like shawn a new stove. That's that's all.
- 34:16Speaker 2: I think, air brol air fry, air, big air steam and.
- 34:21Speaker 1: Told her from the phone right right like like like fuck.
- 34:24Speaker 2: Around, brother, when you want to blow your house up.
- 34:27Speaker 4: I felt like I came up in the world.
- 34:29Speaker 2: Strange PlayStation at the corner. What is my house on
- 34:33Speaker 2: fire man? You started the app seven hours ago? You
- 34:38Speaker 2: snow gas down in west.
- 34:46Speaker 1: So she came on since she came out the back
- 34:48Speaker 1: way like oh s.
- 34:51Speaker 2: My wig that was on my dud, not flying through
- 34:54Speaker 2: the air by the chickens. Sorry you took it. Take
- 34:59Speaker 2: your wig.
- 35:00Speaker 3: Y'all's sad to go there, And I mean you don't
- 35:05Speaker 3: have it on today.
- 35:11Speaker 2: Like faithful like Jenny Jackson with that picture.
- 35:21Speaker 1: Oh man.
- 35:22Speaker 2: But anyway, I'm sorry, finish the point.
- 35:25Speaker 1: No, No, that's what I'm saying. I felt like, yeah,
- 35:26Speaker 1: I felt like like all the technology, like now niggas
- 35:30Speaker 1: got cameras and they refrigerators just so they can see
- 35:34Speaker 1: through you, just because you know they lazy asses don't.
- 35:39Speaker 4: Do what about conserving, sir? But I won't.
- 35:45Speaker 2: I will say that. One question I have for y'all.
- 35:47Speaker 2: With all the technological advances that are out today, with
- 35:51Speaker 2: the equipment and everything. What's one part of technology one
- 35:55Speaker 2: faster the technology that you do not rock with, have
- 35:57Speaker 2: no intention on and ingrading into your life.
- 36:01Speaker 4: I was about to say the same thing.
- 36:02Speaker 3: I don't like I don't like it because people people
- 36:06Speaker 3: using it for evil.
- 36:07Speaker 1: Yeah, it makes me nervous, but also also it's you know,
- 36:11Speaker 1: it's some pussy.
- 36:12Speaker 3: Pictures of me online and I'm trying to tell y'all
- 36:15Speaker 3: it's not me, and people like it is because I
- 36:16Speaker 3: remember when you took it.
- 36:18Speaker 4: I don't even know what you talking about. What they said.
- 36:24Speaker 2: Local the picture of Kim sitting.
- 36:29Speaker 4: Didn't even me.
- 36:30Speaker 1: But if I hit that body all No, But I think,
- 36:34Speaker 1: but also think that it makes people. I mean, it's
- 36:37Speaker 1: making people lazy because they're becoming they become a reliant
- 36:41Speaker 1: onto on the AI G B T.
- 36:44Speaker 3: I don't know nobody else, but I don't want no
- 36:46Speaker 3: damn doctor they to use ai uh to pass school.
- 36:51Speaker 4: Ain't here like all right now? One of these is
- 36:54Speaker 4: the long and one is the kidney.
- 36:58Speaker 2: Both just breathing at.
- 37:02Speaker 1: But yeah, it's taking Yeah, it's taking the work. I mean,
- 37:05Speaker 1: it's taking the work out of everything. Like you got
- 37:07Speaker 1: do you got people using AI to right right screen,
- 37:09Speaker 1: right screen, uh scripts and like.
- 37:12Speaker 4: A damn singer singers and ship putting out break.
- 37:19Speaker 2: My barber actually makes makes music using an AI, And
- 37:23Speaker 2: I'm like, do people understand the I hate to get
- 37:27Speaker 2: on my soapbox, but I will. This ship has an
- 37:30Speaker 2: environmental impact, Yeah, AI used. I think it was this
- 37:34Speaker 2: year in twenty twenty five, AI use, all of artificial
- 37:37Speaker 2: intelligence worldwide used more water than all of the bottle
- 37:41Speaker 2: water industry in the world. Yeah, clean water used to
- 37:45Speaker 2: keep servers and things clean to pump out you asking
- 37:48Speaker 2: if a tie is this or that? Yeah, that's crazy.
- 37:53Speaker 2: And it's not even just that. Of course there I've
- 37:55Speaker 2: seen things or I've seen post online where AI can
- 37:57Speaker 2: be used to predict cancer and used to further medical
- 38:01Speaker 2: research and all sorts of things that I'm for because
- 38:05Speaker 2: you know, if you can keep people alive for longer,
- 38:07Speaker 2: if you can make the world a better place using
- 38:10Speaker 2: AI or incorporating AI, then cool. But hey, chat GPT,
- 38:17Speaker 2: what time does the sun go down in Paraguay on
- 38:21Speaker 2: September twenty third, twenty twenty nine.
- 38:25Speaker 1: Well you can just open up a Britanica or or
- 38:30Speaker 1: what's the it's not an atlas.
- 38:32Speaker 2: Or people are making these these fake pictures of them,
- 38:35Speaker 2: super retouched pictures of you making fake people in apps
- 38:38Speaker 2: and like to me, yeah, I don't. I don't use chat, Gpe,
- 38:42Speaker 2: I don't use AI at all, and I do kind
- 38:45Speaker 2: of judge you if you do, because Google it. But
- 38:48Speaker 2: what's your mama used to say, Nigga, go to that
- 38:50Speaker 2: fucking Encyclopedia Britannica.
- 38:53Speaker 4: What you're looking for?
- 38:54Speaker 3: Okay, look eight A through ages right there. Get that
- 38:57Speaker 3: book on shots h is right they spent. She brought
- 39:07Speaker 3: it from the traveling salesman that came to the door
- 39:09Speaker 3: three years ago. The information might be a little out
- 39:11Speaker 3: of the baby, but ship, go ahead and use that
- 39:13Speaker 3: and then take your ass on there to the public library,
- 39:16Speaker 3: the library library.
- 39:17Speaker 2: Talk of that the Dewey decimal system, and get you
- 39:20Speaker 2: to bookshot to do your own fucking research. I'm using
- 39:22Speaker 2: an app for everything. God damn it, you ain't gonna
- 39:26Speaker 2: have clean water in your backyard. Water bills already hot shipped,
- 39:30Speaker 2: and ass fucking utility bills which all of us are
- 39:34Speaker 2: paying for.
- 39:36Speaker 3: My budget billing went up almost four hundreds three my
- 39:42Speaker 3: last budget billing bill, which budget building is supposed to
- 39:45Speaker 3: be cheaper, went up to My last bill was three
- 39:49Speaker 3: eighty eight.
- 39:51Speaker 2: My last one, My bill was over two hundred from
- 39:53Speaker 2: my place and you know my the thermostat and we
- 39:55Speaker 2: talked about this several times. We're gonna keep bringing it up.
- 39:58Speaker 2: Goddamn my last I don't have a bunch of bellion
- 40:01Speaker 2: in my condo. This whole winter, the thermostatic in my
- 40:04Speaker 2: house has not gone about sixty nine degrees. My last
- 40:06Speaker 2: BG bills was over well, yeah, speaking into existence.
- 40:12Speaker 1: No, I'm just saying that my last.
- 40:19Speaker 4: Only supply here and that they're getting over somebody.
- 40:22Speaker 2: My last bg E bill was over two hundred dollars
- 40:25Speaker 2: and I was like, you got one floor, I got
- 40:29Speaker 2: eight hundred square feet.
- 40:31Speaker 4: That's ridiculous.
- 40:32Speaker 2: No, I might. I might run the oven about five
- 40:34Speaker 2: six hours on Sunday when I be in the cooking
- 40:36Speaker 2: and meal prepp and everything. But that's one day.
- 40:38Speaker 4: You use it. Yeah, because you do mostly, you know,
- 40:42Speaker 4: you do your meal prep.
- 40:44Speaker 1: Is not so economically that makes sense.
- 40:47Speaker 2: And even still like they showed you at least on
- 40:49Speaker 2: bg E bills, they show pep Co where I live at,
- 40:53Speaker 2: because it's still all fucking Constellation Energy, which over runs
- 40:57Speaker 2: all the utilities in this area. They showed you your
- 40:59Speaker 2: use for the year, and I looked and said, what
- 41:02Speaker 2: the fuck is my usage down? I'm using less compared
- 41:05Speaker 2: to this same month last year, but I'm paying more
- 41:07Speaker 2: money because the rates all house. Stop using AI. Y'all
- 41:14Speaker 2: please stop using AI. I would say shit for anything
- 41:19Speaker 2: really that you don't need it for. Stop using it
- 41:21Speaker 2: to make prompts for you to degenerate stuff. Stop making
- 41:24Speaker 2: these fake ass photos, stop making music with them, stop
- 41:27Speaker 2: making movies, stop using them to create stuff, because all
- 41:29Speaker 2: that ship has an environmental cost. Yeah, and we're gonna
- 41:33Speaker 2: end up paying for it more than we are now. True.
- 41:37Speaker 2: I don't want the super flu going around two by
- 41:39Speaker 2: the way, I'm trying to I'm staying in the fucking house.
- 41:41Speaker 2: I don't want no part of that. That might have
- 41:44Speaker 2: been what I had, that AJ gave me that time
- 41:45Speaker 2: I got sick, and the infection around them.
- 41:48Speaker 4: This stuff a lot of ris whole.
- 41:50Speaker 1: Yeah, closed up said, we was living I saying a
- 41:52Speaker 1: guy say, I love my God's son. We were living
- 41:57Speaker 1: in the Golden Age and we didn't even know you.
- 42:00Speaker 2: But no kindsight is always twenty twenty.
- 42:01Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll go but our golden age was twenty five
- 42:04Speaker 1: of walmarts. Oh, the whole actual the actual dollar, the
- 42:09Speaker 1: actual dollar.
- 42:10Speaker 3: Dollar man, bring back the dollar menu, please do, because.
- 42:14Speaker 1: I'm five dollar was actually.
- 42:19Speaker 2: Because you can still find a file of it. Might
- 42:21Speaker 2: be on rentman dot com, but you can find a
- 42:23Speaker 2: filet Look, you feel me like it might be five
- 42:27Speaker 2: hours per hour, but.
- 42:29Speaker 1: You feel me like we were like yo, we like
- 42:33Speaker 1: man said, we had it. We just didn't. We just
- 42:35Speaker 1: didn't know. We just didn't know what it was. And
- 42:37Speaker 1: we know we didn't appreciate it.
- 42:40Speaker 2: And nothing better than going to Walmart at three in
- 42:42Speaker 2: the morning and walking around looking at crazy people, everybody
- 42:44Speaker 2: in the pajamas, just walking on and looking stupid because
- 42:45Speaker 2: you want to get the house because you couldn't sleep.
- 42:47Speaker 1: You know who fucked that up? All y'all, all your
- 42:50Speaker 1: content creators, that just that one, that one of the
- 42:52Speaker 1: pot pussy in the Walmart.
- 42:54Speaker 2: Planking on the shelf, remember planking.
- 43:00Speaker 1: Everybody's just sitting there just standing that door, you know,
- 43:03Speaker 1: like you like just laying there looking stupid.
- 43:07Speaker 2: What a time, y'all? What a time? Yeah? What the
- 43:09Speaker 2: time was? Had? Boy?
- 43:10Speaker 1: You leave the club three o'clock in the morning, go
- 43:12Speaker 1: to you can go to Walmart and get you get
- 43:14Speaker 1: you a live this nigga, said a live lobster, No questions,
- 43:18Speaker 1: asked a live los A live lobster, some crackers, a pageant,
- 43:28Speaker 1: and and.
- 43:29Speaker 2: Some goldfish crackers.
- 43:32Speaker 4: Right right, get you gracious.
- 43:34Speaker 1: Yep, that's what you said. Fire You can buy fire
- 43:36Speaker 1: arm three o'clock in the morning, firearm, live lobster and
- 43:40Speaker 1: some and then go.
- 43:41Speaker 2: Over the Walmart and get you, get you some fries
- 43:43Speaker 2: and the mcflur McDonald's kill my ass. I can't do it.
- 43:48Speaker 2: I want to filet fish, so damn baby, I have
- 43:50Speaker 2: had a Philip. I've had McDonald's period about sixteen years
- 43:53Speaker 2: at this point, but ship seventeen years, because's twenty sixteen. Anyway,
- 44:02Speaker 2: we say all that say I for one for two.
- 44:07Speaker 2: Religion is religion if it's for you. Religion is for everybody.
- 44:10Speaker 2: But find a source of inspiration that you can draw
- 44:13Speaker 2: from that makes your life better. Anything that makes your
- 44:17Speaker 2: life better. It doesn't it doesn't cost harm.
- 44:20Speaker 1: And then we ands millenniums. Keep changing the world. Please
- 44:25Speaker 1: keep changing for skin.
- 44:29Speaker 2: We might be taking care of each other.
- 44:32Speaker 1: Because them little niggas gonna die.
- 44:35Speaker 4: The ship and centnamon challenges, choking yourself, the Damn Death.
- 44:43Speaker 2: Challenge, Cinnamon Challenge was challenge that the.
- 44:53Speaker 1: Yeah, let's go specifically speakingly speaking in our question.
- 44:58Speaker 2: Of the Week segment of the show, good little because
- 45:00Speaker 2: we've been talking there for almost that Oh shit, that's lap.
- 45:02Speaker 2: Sorry y'all. I was like, that't right, have my own
- 45:05Speaker 2: voice for almost an hour talking about other stuff. But yeah,
- 45:08Speaker 2: let's go into question of the week.
- 45:10Speaker 1: It wasn't luxually profound though, yeah.
- 45:12Speaker 2: Sometimes sometimes, you know, we talked shit a lot of
- 45:15Speaker 2: the time, most of the time all the time, but
- 45:17Speaker 2: you know so much you need to have these insightful
- 45:19Speaker 2: and more deep bud.
- 45:19Speaker 1: And if y'all don't like it, fuck you. Okay, yes
- 45:23Speaker 1: that too, bitches.
- 45:25Speaker 2: Yeah, bitch, welcome to our Question of the Week segment
- 45:30Speaker 2: of the show. And I want our question of the
- 45:32Speaker 2: week segment of the show that I just said now,
- 45:34Speaker 2: I think for the third time, I scoured it into
- 45:36Speaker 2: webs bread, my TikTok, fbip pitch because where the hell
- 45:40Speaker 2: else would I look. I look up these posts and
- 45:43Speaker 2: pump prompts and ship put them in our group chat,
- 45:46Speaker 2: pull them out to read for all y'all. So you're
- 45:49Speaker 2: ready to get into this question of the week.
- 45:51Speaker 3: Yeah, well, Bob, we forgot that last episode.
- 46:03Speaker 1: Popular just talking about it.
- 46:04Speaker 2: Yeah that too, better do.
- 46:10Speaker 4: Not a good hurt.
- 46:12Speaker 2: New chairs coming soon, y'all, New chairs coming.
- 46:15Speaker 1: Soon, she said.
- 46:17Speaker 4: Because he was a little he looked at get my.
- 46:21Speaker 2: We can always go back she has, isn't it anyway?
- 46:25Speaker 1: He said? She said that Sala Tarzan was a little
- 46:29Speaker 1: too rough.
- 46:31Speaker 2: Speaking speaking, speaking speaking of Sala Tarsin that by popular
- 46:37Speaker 2: fucking demand, we are going back to last week's question
- 46:42Speaker 2: of the week. Last week's episode was entitled Living by Curiously.
- 46:48Speaker 2: HM to reiterate if you did not see last week's
- 46:54Speaker 2: question of the week, we're going. We still have more
- 46:56Speaker 2: responses to go, but we're gonna keep going. And the
- 47:00Speaker 2: question of the week for week two is I'm bored.
- 47:05Speaker 2: Tell me about the time you seriously misread social cues
- 47:08Speaker 2: and it made it weird. I'm not talking you too.
- 47:10Speaker 2: When the waiter said, enjoy your food, give me something
- 47:13Speaker 2: that keeps you up at night, hmm, I'm bored. Tell
- 47:18Speaker 2: me about a time you seriously misread social cues and
- 47:22Speaker 2: it made it weird. My aunt passed away and elders
- 47:25Speaker 2: were telling me, may she rest in peace, and I
- 47:28Speaker 2: accidentally said made you too haunts me to this day.
- 47:31Speaker 4: Oh man, oh man.
- 47:37Speaker 2: No, we ended on that.
- 47:41Speaker 1: Enjoyed it and enjoy your day. Enjoy your day. What
- 47:49Speaker 1: the like bit you trying to kill you?
- 47:52Speaker 2: Enjoy your days?
- 47:54Speaker 4: Oh man?
- 47:56Speaker 1: Oh coract mm hmm, this is what the fuck is doing.
- 48:00Speaker 1: It's like, what are you saying to me? Like you're
- 48:02Speaker 1: trying to kill me?
- 48:03Speaker 4: That was that was a eight. I like that.
- 48:06Speaker 2: I like that braiding.
- 48:09Speaker 1: Yeah, that was about eight.
- 48:11Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that was funny all day.
- 48:15Speaker 2: Next one by myself. I'm bored. Tell me about the
- 48:18Speaker 2: time you seriously mispread social cues and it made it weird.
- 48:21Speaker 2: Fifteen years ago, I spent half a semester writing show
- 48:24Speaker 2: show media in my notes for an Internet marketing class
- 48:27Speaker 2: because I did not realize my Chinese professor was saying social.
- 48:33Speaker 4: It's show showed media.
- 48:34Speaker 2: Yeah, what was it?
- 48:38Speaker 1: We're going to hell social media? You said, show show
- 48:43Speaker 1: show show oh.
- 48:45Speaker 4: Man, oh man, a baby.
- 48:48Speaker 1: You probably fail, y'all that it was fit to be tied.
- 48:52Speaker 1: You probably failed because that nigga thought you was talking
- 48:54Speaker 1: about them. Braden Bible, yeah, show media yeah, And he
- 49:05Speaker 1: wrote on everything around with him.
- 49:09Speaker 2: Somebody sitting there confused that what the fuck is show?
- 49:11Speaker 2: Show media?
- 49:13Speaker 4: Like that must be something new. You learn everything in college.
- 49:17Speaker 3: Next one, I got a co worker with a he
- 49:20Speaker 3: Jamaican actually, and he was saying stuff to me sometimes
- 49:24Speaker 3: and I was like, yeah, okay, I'll be like, what
- 49:26Speaker 3: the fuck he just said? I might have just agreed
- 49:28Speaker 3: to let this man make me his third wife or
- 49:31Speaker 3: some shit. I don't know what he just said.
- 49:33Speaker 4: Like most times, I can depend on what he said.
- 49:35Speaker 4: I can't understand what he's saying.
- 49:36Speaker 3: But sometimes, especially when he get excited and you get
- 49:38Speaker 3: to talking and that something was like and I said,
- 49:40Speaker 3: we're going and some drinking, and then he was going
- 49:42Speaker 3: real fast one day and I was like, I was like,
- 49:44Speaker 3: all right, he said what going? He said something about
- 49:46Speaker 3: the son. I caught that part, and he said something
- 49:50Speaker 3: about he.
- 49:50Speaker 4: Liked my shoes. That part I caught.
- 49:53Speaker 3: But sometimes it's like when he get excited, boy, I
- 49:55Speaker 3: was like, I have no idea.
- 49:57Speaker 1: He better stop playing because he's gonna play in your
- 49:59Speaker 1: poem poem.
- 50:00Speaker 2: Next one, No, No, I'm bored. You seriously misfriend socials
- 50:06Speaker 2: and made it weird. My god. The tables turned, the
- 50:10Speaker 2: table's turn. What goes around comes back around, He said.
- 50:15Speaker 4: To say, poo poom boom boom boom boom.
- 50:23Speaker 2: I meant to tell a customer, if you have any questions,
- 50:26Speaker 2: don't hesitate and it's no bother at the same time
- 50:29Speaker 2: and told her, if you have any questions, don't bother.
- 50:31Speaker 4: Oh ship, I'm like you, mad customer service.
- 50:37Speaker 1: Wait wait wait wait, that could also be used. That
- 50:40Speaker 1: could also be used as I used as flirting. Ain't
- 50:43Speaker 1: any question, don't bother? I got you. You are everything
- 50:46Speaker 1: canna be answered.
- 50:47Speaker 4: We find a way to change some ship into flirting.
- 50:50Speaker 1: Everything's gonna be answer to them and can we be
- 50:51Speaker 1: answered soon? Just listen my writing that that could be
- 50:58Speaker 1: smooth as yet. That's a us A seven.
- 51:01Speaker 2: Okay, I'm bored. Tell me by the time you seriously
- 51:03Speaker 2: misread social cues and it made it weird. I'm not
- 51:06Speaker 2: talking you too. When the way that says enjoy your food,
- 51:09Speaker 2: give me something that keeps you up at night. I
- 51:12Speaker 2: was once in the back of an ambulance and the
- 51:14Speaker 2: one and one of the paramedics was fine. He told
- 51:17Speaker 2: me to look at him, and as soon as I did,
- 51:19Speaker 2: the other emt said, try to relax. I saw your
- 51:22Speaker 2: heart rate spike. Thank you, sir.
- 51:25Speaker 4: You and my miss is what your hate name?
- 51:32Speaker 1: Wait wait wait I give that.
- 51:37Speaker 2: Work.
- 51:38Speaker 1: You see that right there? You just made my host
- 51:40Speaker 1: kip a beat.
- 51:42Speaker 4: See you always make me seeck.
- 51:48Speaker 1: But I mean that's your recovery though, like yeah, yeah, so,
- 51:52Speaker 1: I mean I know you just saved my life.
- 51:53Speaker 2: And no, but look at that. Look at that.
- 51:56Speaker 1: You're about to put me back.
- 51:56Speaker 3: Down rating that's a hate out of ten. I hate
- 52:03Speaker 3: it and put me on blade like that.
- 52:07Speaker 2: Next one. I'm bored. Tell me by the time, you
- 52:10Speaker 2: seriously misread social cues and it made it weird. One
- 52:13Speaker 2: time I tried to ask the best my best friend
- 52:16Speaker 2: if her grandpa was cremated. Makes more sense with the context,
- 52:19Speaker 2: but I forgot the word cremated and just very hesitantly said,
- 52:23Speaker 2: did you burn him?
- 52:27Speaker 3: Oh?
- 52:30Speaker 1: Yeah? Here on five? But then god damn cigarette.
- 52:44Speaker 4: But I told you I might have swung on you.
- 52:50Speaker 1: Did that, bitch? Yeah yeah, that's that's.
- 52:55Speaker 3: You.
- 52:56Speaker 4: Like you know I got to take ship.
- 53:01Speaker 1: Oh bit you tried it?
- 53:03Speaker 2: Nah?
- 53:04Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah you know, but that's why he like you.
- 53:06Speaker 4: Told me stay away from your raggedy ass. Some of them, bitch.
- 53:11Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's that's that'sn't not. We we well, probably
- 53:16Speaker 1: tussle because I over I might have overreacted. I apologized
- 53:20Speaker 1: for a punch you in your face after you asked me,
- 53:22Speaker 1: did we cremate them like that?
- 53:26Speaker 2: I'm bored. Tell me about the time you misread, seriously
- 53:30Speaker 2: misread social cues and it made it weird. Told the
- 53:33Speaker 2: cashier at the gas station to keep the change, and
- 53:35Speaker 2: then when I got into my car, I realized I
- 53:38Speaker 2: didn't give them the full amount of my total.
- 53:40Speaker 1: One nigga, I wasn't.
- 53:43Speaker 4: I wasn't happen. I had it happened.
- 53:45Speaker 3: I handed the money and I gave him the change
- 53:48Speaker 3: to go along with the money, and I realized. I
- 53:50Speaker 3: was like, I think it was like a dollar or
- 53:52Speaker 3: something show and she's standing there looking at me, and
- 53:54Speaker 3: I'm looking at her, looking at me, looking at her,
- 53:56Speaker 3: and I'm like, what's wrong? And she was like, I said,
- 53:58Speaker 3: I said it was twelve some something girl.
- 54:01Speaker 4: I'm sorry. I'm so damn tired.
- 54:03Speaker 1: I got the cash here looking at you like, bitch,
- 54:10Speaker 1: you broke just hey you brother, that was a that's
- 54:15Speaker 1: a small egg. Yeah, that's a small age. Well, hey,
- 54:23Speaker 1: cause that that that that could be escalated real quick.
- 54:27Speaker 2: I'm bored. Tell me, by the time you seriously mispread
- 54:29Speaker 2: social cues and it made it weird. I'm not talking
- 54:32Speaker 2: to you too. When the waiter says, enjoy your food,
- 54:35Speaker 2: give me something that keeps you up at night. Two
- 54:39Speaker 2: days ago, I complimented a girl's sweater. She said thanks,
- 54:43Speaker 2: I made it, but I heard thanks, I hate it,
- 54:45Speaker 2: so I loudly said, oh no, why.
- 54:50Speaker 1: That's that's on you bitch that that ain't do You
- 54:55Speaker 1: can't don't you can't.
- 54:57Speaker 4: Why did you mean? Why did you do that?
- 55:01Speaker 2: You mean why because I wanted to do it?
- 55:04Speaker 1: And then then but you just said you hate it,
- 55:07Speaker 1: like that's not what the fuck I said? You know
- 55:11Speaker 1: you embarrassed because you didn't listen, bitch.
- 55:13Speaker 2: Basically rating Fuck her. Next one, I'm bored, tell me
- 55:22Speaker 2: by the time you seriously misread social cues and it
- 55:24Speaker 2: made it weird. Went to a salon. They said to
- 55:27Speaker 2: drop my coat and they bring me my robe. I asked,
- 55:30Speaker 2: can I please keep my underwear on? She was shook
- 55:33Speaker 2: and said please keep all your clothes on and gave
- 55:35Speaker 2: me the typical.
- 55:36Speaker 1: Kep, wait, take off your coat. And bring your robe.
- 55:46Speaker 4: Lord, have mercy?
- 55:47Speaker 1: Can I keep my underwear on?
- 55:49Speaker 2: Bit?
- 55:54Speaker 4: Lord ha mercy?
- 55:55Speaker 2: Baby, this ain't that kind of establishment like what you
- 55:58Speaker 2: thought you thought you was fitting.
- 56:00Speaker 4: Get a happy ending, your nasty some of a bitch.
- 56:03Speaker 2: We don't do here, man. You signed done for one.
- 56:06Speaker 4: I don't want to see your cat. Don't do waxes here.
- 56:13Speaker 2: For one. H the plane got a land somewhere braiding.
- 56:20Speaker 1: I was funny, little piece of slice.
- 56:27Speaker 2: I'm bored. Tell me. By the time, you seriously misread
- 56:29Speaker 2: social cues and it made it weird. I was walking
- 56:32Speaker 2: out of the door at the barber shop and I
- 56:34Speaker 2: wanted to get my barber a peace sign, but at
- 56:36Speaker 2: the last moment I tried to change into a thumbs up,
- 56:39Speaker 2: so I ended up flipping him off by accident instead.
- 56:46Speaker 3: I got it.
- 56:47Speaker 1: I got it. Okay, look at.
- 56:53Speaker 4: You and your ball here it is mammy. I gotta stop.
- 56:56Speaker 2: That's why. That's why you need enhancement.
- 56:58Speaker 4: I can because my mama got it.
- 57:01Speaker 2: Ain't enough.
- 57:01Speaker 1: It ain't enough biging in the world to fix that ship.
- 57:03Speaker 2: Bitch.
- 57:04Speaker 1: Listen, matter of fact, I hope it rain on your
- 57:07Speaker 1: bitch ass.
- 57:08Speaker 2: Okay, don't you want me to melt.
- 57:13Speaker 4: Uh, you got a little something buy your face running
- 57:19Speaker 4: you You probably.
- 57:23Speaker 3: Shab should have put some gorilla glue.
- 57:28Speaker 2: On that man that's stick so that ship can stick
- 57:29Speaker 2: like the old girl Dad.
- 57:31Speaker 4: It ain't going nowhere.
- 57:33Speaker 2: A movie gorilla glue girl hair.
- 57:42Speaker 4: It was a very interesting.
- 57:44Speaker 2: My head is stuck. I don't know what to do
- 57:48Speaker 2: because my head is stuck on my head. I gotta
- 57:54Speaker 2: don't move. I got it like look at it, look
- 57:57Speaker 2: from New Orleans. In my head. It's stuck on my head.
- 58:00Speaker 4: Baby. If you watch, she plays herself in the movie.
- 58:02Speaker 2: I'm bored. No no, no, no no, tell me about
- 58:06Speaker 2: the Steepe movie review.
- 58:26Speaker 3: And look at it.
- 58:36Speaker 4: Send help, sat help. I feel for my life, he said,
- 58:52Speaker 4: I'm bored.
- 58:53Speaker 2: Gentlemen, we might have witnessed the last episode about the
- 58:57Speaker 2: time you see Mistress Social Cues and it made a win.
- 59:02Speaker 2: This one. I worked it. Yes, we're not watching that.
- 59:10Speaker 2: I'm not watching.
- 59:11Speaker 4: It's a team.
- 59:14Speaker 2: I'm putting.
- 59:16Speaker 4: You're putting this good for them?
- 59:22Speaker 2: Up, I worked at who this. Customers said he was
- 59:29Speaker 2: upset about a DV charge he has for hitting his
- 59:31Speaker 2: wife and aukle We said, up over it, but remember
- 59:37Speaker 2: the charge that that's a ten out of ten. That's
- 59:49Speaker 2: not that's not.
- 59:54Speaker 3: The scream that I would have screamped if I worked
- 59:57Speaker 3: there with them, and you said, then I'd know. Maybe
- 1:00:00Speaker 3: he should have beat his damn stuff up with a
- 1:00:02Speaker 3: stupid instead of puts, you should have whooped his own ass. Oh,
- 1:00:12Speaker 3: I need to watch that. Ain't say that long, daddy.
- 1:00:18Speaker 2: Next one, I'm bored. Tell me about the time you
- 1:00:22Speaker 2: seriously mispread social cues and it made it weird. One
- 1:00:26Speaker 2: time at the doctor's she asked if I had any
- 1:00:28Speaker 2: sexual partners, and I said yes, So she asked how many.
- 1:00:31Speaker 2: My immediate response was at a time She stared at
- 1:00:37Speaker 2: me and said, that was legit since your last visit,
- 1:00:42Speaker 2: that was a little question. Well, I mean I did
- 1:00:46Speaker 2: go to that Orgie last week. I mean, baby, I
- 1:00:48Speaker 2: got passed around like.
- 1:00:51Speaker 4: I passed around like a fucking bomb.
- 1:01:01Speaker 1: They told them about them. Mon't call me ladies, but
- 1:01:03Speaker 1: you can't have just one.
- 1:01:05Speaker 2: That's my nickname, Freedo La because she got a little smell.
- 1:01:10Speaker 4: Oh that's not a good smells like corn chip.
- 1:01:18Speaker 2: Oh my god, I could.
- 1:01:19Speaker 1: Go this bitch smelling night chili chili cheese dog corn chip.
- 1:01:24Speaker 2: Those chili cheese freeedos is golded.
- 1:01:27Speaker 4: I like the honey barbecue twisting.
- 1:01:30Speaker 2: The thing to do with the chili cheese fritos is spinach.
- 1:01:33Speaker 2: Excuse me, I had the chili cheese fritos with your
- 1:01:36Speaker 2: buffalo chicken dip.
- 1:01:39Speaker 1: Yeah, I got the I got. I got the cool
- 1:01:42Speaker 1: ranch to ritos for the okay to love that ships
- 1:01:47Speaker 1: and we only did you know, we only did the
- 1:01:49Speaker 1: cool branch because you said it's honey. I was like, well,
- 1:01:52Speaker 1: ban said cool ranch was like I tried.
- 1:01:54Speaker 2: And I wasn't when with it? Hell yeah, next one,
- 1:01:59Speaker 2: I'm bored. Tell me about the time you seriously missred
- 1:02:02Speaker 2: social cues and it made it weird. I told my
- 1:02:04Speaker 2: doctor I previously had it in autopsy instead of a biopsy.
- 1:02:08Speaker 2: He told me, I look up for a girl.
- 1:02:19Speaker 1: Will willia t scat Like damn? Mm hmm, I said,
- 1:02:25Speaker 1: he look up for what.
- 1:02:27Speaker 2: I know.
- 1:02:27Speaker 1: I'll be working, wasn't it?
- 1:02:32Speaker 2: That was next? God, damn, I still got questions to read.
- 1:02:37Speaker 2: Lips is getting a little dry, little chat, little chat.
- 1:02:40Speaker 1: You had the point in your lip chat mm hmmm mmm.
- 1:02:46Speaker 2: Lip chack, clip chap. Lips get a little dry. They're
- 1:02:49Speaker 2: trying to be all here looked like Aaron. I'm bored.
- 1:02:52Speaker 2: Tell me about the time you seriously misread social cues
- 1:02:54Speaker 2: and it made it weird. You're welcome talking about my lips.
- 1:03:03Speaker 1: You said you had to put out. That's one lord
- 1:03:05Speaker 1: you had. You know you had your lip chat.
- 1:03:09Speaker 2: N lips was dry.
- 1:03:11Speaker 5: We gonna stick my face and showing his drop. Oh
- 1:03:16Speaker 5: what I mean sho oh, okay, next ship that's coming out.
- 1:03:25Speaker 2: I'm bored. You seriously social cues and it made it weird.
- 1:03:31Speaker 2: This again. My aunt found a pair of shoes she
- 1:03:35Speaker 2: like and modeled them around the store. Another woman tapped
- 1:03:37Speaker 2: her on the shoulder and said they were hers. I'm
- 1:03:40Speaker 2: was ready to fight until the woman said, no, I
- 1:03:42Speaker 2: wore them into the store.
- 1:03:44Speaker 3: Oh, ship picked that later, damn shoes up. She was like, ma'am,
- 1:03:49Speaker 3: those are my shoes, the fair gang.
- 1:03:52Speaker 2: No, I wore those into the store.
- 1:03:56Speaker 4: Okay, I'm stupid.
- 1:03:57Speaker 2: Oh that's why they got a scuff mark on the side.
- 1:04:00Speaker 4: Yeah, I just knew I was about to give me
- 1:04:01Speaker 4: a discount.
- 1:04:02Speaker 2: I fell off the curb last.
- 1:04:03Speaker 4: Week in the shoes the you fall off, It's possible anything.
- 1:04:09Speaker 2: In the words of showing why, ask why.
- 1:04:13Speaker 1: You're right. You're absolutely right.
- 1:04:16Speaker 4: Anything is possible, impossible.
- 1:04:21Speaker 2: If you, if you believe word to your mother. I'm
- 1:04:30Speaker 2: trying to just look at my shoulder again.
- 1:04:31Speaker 4: Please don't.
- 1:04:33Speaker 2: I can't, I can't hear no more, no more injury.
- 1:04:35Speaker 3: I don't want to be no where in your urgent
- 1:04:36Speaker 3: care of not right now, not right now, hell no,
- 1:04:41Speaker 3: nothing ready. That was funny that I can imagine you
- 1:04:47Speaker 3: probably turned beef bread. She was like, oh, it would embarrassment.
- 1:04:50Speaker 3: I would have let meybody launch or something.
- 1:04:52Speaker 4: I'm so sorry.
- 1:04:55Speaker 2: That's why they were under the I'm tell me about
- 1:05:00Speaker 2: the time you seriously missred social cues and it made
- 1:05:03Speaker 2: it weird. One time I took a freshly misted bunch
- 1:05:07Speaker 2: of cilantro out and dusted it all over the face
- 1:05:09Speaker 2: of who I thought was my daughter. Turns out it
- 1:05:12Speaker 2: was just some random shopper. Oh shit, your nasty has
- 1:05:17Speaker 2: put them back to didn't because why the.
- 1:05:19Speaker 3: Fuck would you do that, even if it was your daughter.
- 1:05:22Speaker 3: I don't overstand Brodesia. Oh you ain't Rhodesia. No the fuck,
- 1:05:28Speaker 3: I'm not, bitch.
- 1:05:30Speaker 2: What did make Rdesia?
- 1:05:32Speaker 4: Why would you do that?
- 1:05:32Speaker 2: That sounded like a skin disease, Rhode Island, Joe Wocka
- 1:05:38Speaker 2: Team Walker Team I'm bored fucker wating for that. When
- 1:05:54Speaker 2: we move. Tell me about the time you seriously misred
- 1:05:59Speaker 2: social cues and it it weird. I was once helping
- 1:06:02Speaker 2: my mom with an assignment since she has learning how
- 1:06:04Speaker 2: to speak English. She assignment was about Martin Luther King,
- 1:06:07Speaker 2: which she had to read it out loud. She began with, Hi,
- 1:06:11Speaker 2: my name is. She then proceeded to say, Hi, my
- 1:06:15Speaker 2: name is Martin Luther King.
- 1:06:17Speaker 4: Oh my goodness, hey baby, we all got dreams.
- 1:06:21Speaker 1: Yeah, I might say, hold on, you can fix that
- 1:06:25Speaker 1: because you're reading it as Martin Luther King.
- 1:06:28Speaker 2: I'm Martin Luther King and I.
- 1:06:29Speaker 4: Had a dream right See there you go. Mm hmm.
- 1:06:34Speaker 1: Braden let Freedom Ring.
- 1:06:38Speaker 4: I'm the rating.
- 1:06:43Speaker 2: That was about to be a real stupid, a real
- 1:06:45Speaker 2: instant joke about letters from a Birmingham jail. That's kind
- 1:06:47Speaker 2: of insensitive in neck right now, but I'm gonna make it.
- 1:06:53Speaker 2: I think Aaron figured out I was was gonna go
- 1:06:55Speaker 2: with that, but my brain, with the current political climate,
- 1:06:57Speaker 2: I can't make that joke because it was funny. Though
- 1:07:02Speaker 2: it was fun I'm bored. Tell me a by the
- 1:07:06Speaker 2: time you seriously misresdt social cues and it made it
- 1:07:08Speaker 2: weird doing my mind's ulgy, I said she was up
- 1:07:11Speaker 2: in heaven with my uncle Bruce. The only thing was
- 1:07:14Speaker 2: my uncle Bruce was in the front brow Oh ship
- 1:07:16Speaker 2: I met my uncle Richard. Oh lord father comment, Oh
- 1:07:21Speaker 2: my god, I just thought your uncle Bruce looked at
- 1:07:23Speaker 2: you like what but you trying to kill me?
- 1:07:26Speaker 4: That uncle Richard junr and gone to glory.
- 1:07:30Speaker 1: Bruce, say bitch, why.
- 1:07:35Speaker 4: Birth said that. I always knew you ain't like me,
- 1:07:37Speaker 4: o evil demon. I am yet alive, yet alive. I
- 1:07:46Speaker 4: never did like you.
- 1:07:47Speaker 2: Was my least favorite niece Wench braiding.
- 1:07:51Speaker 4: That was fucked up.
- 1:07:56Speaker 2: That was fucked up. I'm bored.
- 1:07:58Speaker 1: Tell me.
- 1:07:59Speaker 2: By the time you sayous see misres social cues and
- 1:08:01Speaker 2: made it weird, I'm not talking you too. When the
- 1:08:03Speaker 2: waiter says, enjoy your food, give me something that keeps
- 1:08:06Speaker 2: you up at night. I'm a GX instructor. I was
- 1:08:10Speaker 2: showing my class a push up modification on our knees
- 1:08:12Speaker 2: and encourage them to not feel bad for taking the
- 1:08:14Speaker 2: modification by saying I do some of my best work
- 1:08:17Speaker 2: on my knee.
- 1:08:23Speaker 4: That's what I was saying, I'm the head off.
- 1:08:33Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm in the class.
- 1:08:35Speaker 4: I'm in the class with y'all niggas.
- 1:08:46Speaker 1: If I'm in the class with y'all niggas, I gotta
- 1:08:48Speaker 1: go like, nope, nope, you're not a reaction.
- 1:08:52Speaker 3: After she said it as a restaurant, she was like, oh,
- 1:08:55Speaker 3: we all get put out of class that day.
- 1:08:57Speaker 4: I got out of class for less.
- 1:08:59Speaker 1: So yeah, like my ex well teacher looking at me,
- 1:09:09Speaker 1: you know, you know your skills teacher looking at me.
- 1:09:14Speaker 2: I know, I'm out.
- 1:09:17Speaker 1: I thought you saw something cos that's that's on me.
- 1:09:22Speaker 1: Like Colmas Williams, I'm on the way, I.
- 1:09:25Speaker 2: Got skarned for a second. You might have seen something floating.
- 1:09:30Speaker 4: M hm. This was been a secretphone mm hmm.
- 1:09:33Speaker 2: That's when you live alone. You ain't got the hot ship,
- 1:09:36Speaker 2: ain't nobody know how to see it, but you. I
- 1:09:38Speaker 2: don't have thosehotos on my phone, so I don't have
- 1:09:40Speaker 2: nothing in my phone, just memes. I'm bored, yep, tell me.
- 1:09:44Speaker 2: And by the time you seriously mispread social cues and
- 1:09:47Speaker 2: it made it weird. My then husband and I were
- 1:09:51Speaker 2: out to eat. I was trying to decide if I
- 1:09:53Speaker 2: wanted a six or twelve ounce steak. I asked him
- 1:09:55Speaker 2: in front of the waitress, do you think the sixth
- 1:09:58Speaker 2: inch will fill me in?
- 1:10:00Speaker 1: Oh? Ma'am.
- 1:10:03Speaker 4: It all depends on your preferend.
- 1:10:07Speaker 1: I can't. I cannot the level of professionalism that I had.
- 1:10:13Speaker 4: Yeah, man, I'm gonna get you all some more rules.
- 1:10:15Speaker 4: I know.
- 1:10:15Speaker 2: I just set a bank.
- 1:10:16Speaker 4: Damn great bank. I lost it.
- 1:10:19Speaker 1: That's when we all go to this conversation like, why
- 1:10:21Speaker 1: why would you say that? Though? I mean, she's a woman.
- 1:10:24Speaker 1: I think she know I lost it.
- 1:10:26Speaker 2: I'm bored. Tell me about the time you seriously missed
- 1:10:29Speaker 2: her social cues and it made it weird. I worked
- 1:10:31Speaker 2: at a bank, and in certain situations I need fingerplans.
- 1:10:36Speaker 2: She was with her. I asked for a right index
- 1:10:39Speaker 2: finger and we locked as I realized he didn't have
- 1:10:41Speaker 2: a right arm.
- 1:10:43Speaker 1: Oh oh no, damn, oh no, damn, oh no, no,
- 1:10:49Speaker 1: no no no, that's funny.
- 1:10:53Speaker 2: That's I didn't have it right on.
- 1:10:55Speaker 4: That's paid. You didn't mean to go to bed.
- 1:11:00Speaker 2: Go to bed, go to bed. I'm bored. Tell me
- 1:11:05Speaker 2: about the time you seriously misread social cues and made
- 1:11:07Speaker 2: it weird. But it made it weird. I worked at
- 1:11:11Speaker 2: Nothing Butt Cakes and I was serving a lady and
- 1:11:14Speaker 2: she asked why there was such a little frosting and
- 1:11:16Speaker 2: I said, oh, there's actually a surprising amount of cream
- 1:11:19Speaker 2: in the butunthole.
- 1:11:30Speaker 1: I'm a fucking child, Yoh, I'm a fucking child.
- 1:11:34Speaker 3: Boy.
- 1:11:35Speaker 1: Listen, Oh man, the amount of ship you could say
- 1:11:42Speaker 1: that could be took, that could be took a different way,
- 1:11:44Speaker 1: because you know, you got people who have in mind
- 1:11:47Speaker 1: just just a dollabolla is yours, and you'd be like,
- 1:11:53Speaker 1: what the fuck is wrong with me? But it was
- 1:11:57Speaker 1: cream in a butnthole.
- 1:12:00Speaker 2: Three more and then we can move on to our
- 1:12:02Speaker 2: Q and A segment. I'm bored. I got some tell
- 1:12:07Speaker 2: me about the time you seriously misresd social cues and
- 1:12:09Speaker 2: it made it weird. I'm not talking you too. When
- 1:12:12Speaker 2: the way that says enjoy your food, give me something
- 1:12:14Speaker 2: that keeps you up at night. It was Halloween at
- 1:12:17Speaker 2: the nursing home and I worked that I worked at,
- 1:12:20Speaker 2: and I decorated with a huge cemetery scene. I didn't
- 1:12:23Speaker 2: realize it until the hospice nurse pointed it out.
- 1:12:26Speaker 4: Oh no, it's oh that's too dark, that's bad.
- 1:12:34Speaker 1: Oh no, it ain't dark enough. And I'm just saying
- 1:12:35Speaker 1: it's like, you know.
- 1:12:36Speaker 4: It ain't nothing dark enough for this a hole over here.
- 1:12:39Speaker 4: That's bad, everybody what you say, Yeah, there wasn't a
- 1:12:44Speaker 4: good idea. Up to you.
- 1:12:49Speaker 2: Was like, Beth, what is this? No, don't don't do that.
- 1:12:55Speaker 4: This not a good idea. Now go go go do
- 1:12:59Speaker 4: something else.
- 1:13:00Speaker 1: Go fine, go make you just go make your rounds.
- 1:13:03Speaker 4: We'll take care, but don't worry about it. Decorating.
- 1:13:07Speaker 2: You were no longer with the decoration com next one.
- 1:13:13Speaker 2: I'm bored. Tell me about the time you seriously misread
- 1:13:16Speaker 2: social cues and it made it weird. Customer had a lisp,
- 1:13:20Speaker 2: and I replied yes to his question with a lisp.
- 1:13:23Speaker 2: I don't have a lisp.
- 1:13:27Speaker 1: First of all, ye'll, y'all, y'all, this is speciful.
- 1:13:32Speaker 4: Yeah, I thought.
- 1:13:37Speaker 1: You want to throw us about that, and todo, yes,
- 1:13:45Speaker 1: I too.
- 1:13:46Speaker 2: Am getting tired of your broken promises. Promises numbers the numbers.
- 1:14:06Speaker 1: Episode for the episode for the episode.
- 1:14:18Speaker 3: Because anybody, come, nobody is gonna tell me all, you know, Chris,
- 1:14:23Speaker 3: let me talk to tell you how it is. I'm sorry,
- 1:14:28Speaker 3: I love you, Chris, but that was that was per comedy,
- 1:14:32Speaker 3: No way, he love you too, No you don't.
- 1:14:36Speaker 4: I'm a little too big for Chris.
- 1:14:38Speaker 2: Final one and I like to fight. Speaking of being
- 1:14:42Speaker 2: too big, this is the final one of the Q
- 1:14:44Speaker 2: and A segment I'm sorry to question a week segment
- 1:14:47Speaker 2: sim getting ship mixed up. I'm bored. Tell me about
- 1:14:51Speaker 2: the time you seriously misrest social cues and it made
- 1:14:53Speaker 2: it weird. I'm not talking you too. When the waiter said,
- 1:14:56Speaker 2: enjoy your food, give me something that keeps you up
- 1:14:59Speaker 2: at night. When I was seven months pregnant, I was
- 1:15:02Speaker 2: working bottle service and I had a client come in
- 1:15:04Speaker 2: that let me know he was seven months sober. I
- 1:15:06Speaker 2: was like, okay, twinsies. Luckily, he thought it was hilarious.
- 1:15:13Speaker 2: Why are you working bottle service at seven months pregnancy?
- 1:15:18Speaker 1: Because niggas like that ship. Yeah, Niggas like your pregnant woman,
- 1:15:25Speaker 1: you know, pregnant woman. That's a that's a that's a fetish.
- 1:15:28Speaker 1: Niggas is like in getting into this, like you know,
- 1:15:34Speaker 1: you know how every year it's like something like the
- 1:15:36Speaker 1: like the hit like the pick of the you know,
- 1:15:38Speaker 1: picking a month or whatever, flavor the week, that's what
- 1:15:41Speaker 1: that is. Flavor of the week, But you feel me like, Yeah,
- 1:15:45Speaker 1: the niggas like that shit. Niggas like to see the
- 1:15:47Speaker 1: pregnant bellity like a bad bitch with the pregnant belly.
- 1:15:51Speaker 2: And that concludes our question of the week. Second, pretty petty,
- 1:15:59Speaker 2: I do love me some Alista.
- 1:16:03Speaker 4: Forever forever. I just knew I wasn't gonna like her.
- 1:16:10Speaker 2: So what's going on next?
- 1:16:13Speaker 4: Sus We're gonna get into this Q and a segment
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- 1:18:53Speaker 4: Goddamn back Texas shooting.
- 1:18:59Speaker 2: We don't like the bim.
- 1:19:05Speaker 4: I'm gonna start out.
- 1:19:07Speaker 3: We are going to be on six Brown Chicks today
- 1:19:09Speaker 3: Brandon's favorite thread. No it's not, and I'm starting out.
- 1:19:13Speaker 3: I got not one, not two, but three updates the
- 1:19:16Speaker 3: previous questions.
- 1:19:19Speaker 4: So I'm just in case you don't remember what episode
- 1:19:21Speaker 4: it was on.
- 1:19:22Speaker 3: So I'm gonna reread the damn question and then I'm
- 1:19:23Speaker 3: gonna read you the update like the head there it go.
- 1:19:27Speaker 4: All right. First, one.
- 1:19:31Speaker 3: Couple next door are insufferably happy. I hate them, always
- 1:19:35Speaker 3: giggling and watching Netflix together. I watched the paper there
- 1:19:39Speaker 3: and I can hear them joking, making love, hosting parties,
- 1:19:42Speaker 3: et cetera. The woman invited me to their black jack
- 1:19:45Speaker 3: night and I had a great time. I felt bad
- 1:19:47Speaker 3: about my intention to break them up. She went out
- 1:19:49Speaker 3: to town for a few days. The morning she came back,
- 1:19:53Speaker 3: I knocked on their door and said I heard her
- 1:19:56Speaker 3: moaning all night her I wasn't here me. Maybe he
- 1:20:00Speaker 3: was watching poorn, but I know I heard two voices.
- 1:20:03Speaker 3: They argued that night, he smoked to his car, and
- 1:20:05Speaker 3: one day he forgot to close the window completely. I
- 1:20:08Speaker 3: filled the condom with lotion and throw it in the car.
- 1:20:11Speaker 3: She found the frozen car and they have been fighting
- 1:20:15Speaker 3: for day. When she went to her mom's house, I
- 1:20:19Speaker 3: slept with her. Man, he said, and he misses her.
- 1:20:22Speaker 3: So I told him that I saw her with another
- 1:20:24Speaker 3: tenant and he should move on to I'm running out
- 1:20:26Speaker 3: of eyeeas to keep them apart. And it felt like
- 1:20:28Speaker 3: he s gooes to me to get back with her.
- 1:20:30Speaker 3: What to do to keep him in mind? I'm gonna
- 1:20:33Speaker 3: keep him around? Advice.
- 1:20:35Speaker 4: Now. I don't know if y'all remember my previous reaction
- 1:20:38Speaker 4: to this, but girl, fuck you, that was the previous reaction.
- 1:20:40Speaker 3: Fuck you you miserable, lonely, desperate, that's the tube, broke
- 1:20:45Speaker 3: ass ball head, pitcheon toe.
- 1:20:55Speaker 4: She's poor and spirit She's the poor ass whole oh bitch.
- 1:20:59Speaker 4: Updates The couple reunited and he moved out the building.
- 1:21:04Speaker 4: Of course she still texts.
- 1:21:06Speaker 3: She's I'm still texting him, but he does a respond anyway,
- 1:21:10Speaker 3: Happy New Year is beloved. That's what you get you, lonely, rusty, dusty,
- 1:21:14Speaker 3: crusty firecrotch having as bitch.
- 1:21:16Speaker 4: Fuck you. That's what you get. So that's what you get.
- 1:21:21Speaker 3: Now you beg over there, lonely, listening for sounds through
- 1:21:25Speaker 3: paper thin windows.
- 1:21:27Speaker 4: Tramp alone time. Next update, I can't.
- 1:21:35Speaker 3: Again, I don't remember what episode it was, so I'm
- 1:21:37Speaker 3: going to reread the question and then read it up.
- 1:21:41Speaker 3: DAYD my boyfriend for a year.
- 1:21:43Speaker 4: Six.
- 1:21:43Speaker 3: This was recent, y'all. I think this was a twenty
- 1:21:45Speaker 3: twenty six. One dated my boyfriend four year.
- 1:21:48Speaker 4: No, I think this was what. This came out last month?
- 1:21:52Speaker 4: Who yeah, dated my boyfriend for a year.
- 1:21:55Speaker 3: His sixteen year old son moved in my house with him.
- 1:21:58Speaker 3: I told him to stop gaming and do his so
- 1:22:02Speaker 3: so he won't fail the class again. We don't have time,
- 1:22:07Speaker 3: and we don't waste.
- 1:22:09Speaker 4: Time in my house.
- 1:22:10Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I didn't know his online friends heard our convo.
- 1:22:14Speaker 3: He responded, you're wasting time right now. Don't worry about
- 1:22:17Speaker 3: my grades. Worry about while my dad is at my
- 1:22:19Speaker 3: mom's house spending your money on her. He's the shadiest
- 1:22:22Speaker 3: nigga ever, and you're funding.
- 1:22:24Speaker 4: His reunion with his wife.
- 1:22:26Speaker 3: I yanked the cord, shut the game down him. You
- 1:22:29Speaker 3: can't hurt me when I don't give a fuck. You
- 1:22:31Speaker 3: can't threaten me. We're leaving anyway. Our shit is already packed.
- 1:22:35Speaker 4: Sure enough.
- 1:22:35Speaker 3: My boyfriend has a bag pecked and hidden in the closet.
- 1:22:38Speaker 3: He promised he was leaving her. Why move in with
- 1:22:41Speaker 3: me when you're plan to go back to her? How
- 1:22:43Speaker 3: do I keep him here with me? I've invested too,
- 1:22:46Speaker 3: I've invested too much time, emotion and money to let
- 1:22:48Speaker 3: him walk away. His son can go though. Advice In
- 1:22:52Speaker 3: case you forgot what I said, Guly girl, go to hell.
- 1:22:57Speaker 3: Fuck you and a horseho rode in on. You got
- 1:23:00Speaker 3: like singa bitch. You got played like the game the
- 1:23:02Speaker 3: sun was playing. And now if you messed this game up,
- 1:23:06Speaker 3: Dad is just his daddy, just gonna use the money
- 1:23:08Speaker 3: that he's been fundling him from you back to.
- 1:23:10Speaker 4: His previous household and buy him a new one. M hm,
- 1:23:16Speaker 4: which is dumb ass.
- 1:23:20Speaker 2: What's the update, says ladies?
- 1:23:22Speaker 4: Hear me out. He stole my heart and my money.
- 1:23:25Speaker 3: I paid off his credit cards thirteen thousand and nine douys.
- 1:23:30Speaker 4: Did because I wanted him to go into the new
- 1:23:33Speaker 4: year with me debt free.
- 1:23:35Speaker 3: He got on one knee. I thought he was about
- 1:23:37Speaker 3: to propose, but he didn't. He got on one day
- 1:23:40Speaker 3: and said thank you. The next morning, he took his
- 1:23:44Speaker 3: son and went back to his raggedy wife. I rang
- 1:23:47Speaker 3: in the new year alone. We can't trust Dixon twenty
- 1:23:50Speaker 3: six spread the word bitch with just stupid ass. That
- 1:23:57Speaker 3: was your fault, thirteen thousand dollars if you had thirteen
- 1:24:00Speaker 3: thousand together.
- 1:24:01Speaker 4: Away, bitch.
- 1:24:02Speaker 3: I got a few bills over here, you compare ya.
- 1:24:05Speaker 3: I'm just saying I'm in need of a new trunk
- 1:24:07Speaker 3: a little bit.
- 1:24:07Speaker 1: You know what you need to get over you and
- 1:24:11Speaker 1: shorty who bought her baby for Alexis. Y'all, y'all niggas
- 1:24:15Speaker 1: need to get together. Y'all get together and be together,
- 1:24:18Speaker 1: be together like a week, and then you know, y'all
- 1:24:20Speaker 1: have a puppy.
- 1:24:23Speaker 4: Poor puppy. Don't puppy need to be in.
- 1:24:25Speaker 1: The dumb da dumb dizzy bitch got on one knee
- 1:24:29Speaker 1: and said, thank you. All right, before you get that bread,
- 1:24:36Speaker 1: get the breed.
- 1:24:37Speaker 4: But that's what he did to your dumb as.
- 1:24:39Speaker 2: He did.
- 1:24:40Speaker 4: He got the head, he put that bride, and he left.
- 1:24:44Speaker 2: He went back to his ragged ass recipes to be King.
- 1:24:49Speaker 4: Yes, indeed, that was one of my favorite being tricks.
- 1:24:54Speaker 1: They put that to the mattress.
- 1:24:56Speaker 3: Boyfriend of three years just told me of a cover
- 1:25:00Speaker 3: an alcoholic and drug addict two munchs clean.
- 1:25:02Speaker 4: Then money is tight, so we should buy some good heroin.
- 1:25:09Speaker 2: I'm sorry that would keep us high for a week
- 1:25:12Speaker 2: instead of spending our money on food.
- 1:25:14Speaker 4: His mother agrees. We live in a trailer on her property.
- 1:25:17Speaker 3: She says that staying high will cut down on our
- 1:25:20Speaker 3: living expenses because we won't be using electricity if we
- 1:25:23Speaker 3: know it. Nowaday, I'm trying to make any with this man,
- 1:25:28Speaker 3: and I must stay sober, but they won't listen to
- 1:25:31Speaker 3: me advice.
- 1:25:32Speaker 4: Again.
- 1:25:33Speaker 3: I don't remember what episode this was, but I'm almost
- 1:25:35Speaker 3: certain that my reaction was but I know, you fucking life.
- 1:25:40Speaker 4: Something.
- 1:25:41Speaker 2: She said, We're not gonna use electricity all day because.
- 1:25:48Speaker 4: Update his mama don't like us. She is like the
- 1:25:53Speaker 4: worst human I've ever met. She got us high.
- 1:25:56Speaker 3: We were sitting outside her trailer, and little by little,
- 1:25:59Speaker 3: the trailer was getting further and further away from us.
- 1:26:02Speaker 3: I thought, hey, she's driving away. She told us we
- 1:26:06Speaker 3: was just high. The trailer didn't move. The next morning,
- 1:26:17Speaker 3: the next morning the trailer. The trailer was gone. The
- 1:26:22Speaker 3: next morning, the trailer was gone. She left us sleeping
- 1:26:25Speaker 3: in the snow. We haven't seen her since. Oh shit,
- 1:26:32Speaker 3: you probably should go to a shelter and try to
- 1:26:36Speaker 3: go back to rehabit again.
- 1:26:37Speaker 1: How powerless are you old that you let them talk.
- 1:26:40Speaker 1: You wanted to get high and you were.
- 1:26:42Speaker 4: So got us high. No bam, you got yourself high.
- 1:26:46Speaker 1: No wait, no, no, she probably did get them high
- 1:26:50Speaker 1: and got them off her fucking property. Started burning that
- 1:26:56Speaker 1: ship and then putting that shit in the fence.
- 1:26:59Speaker 4: Few move.
- 1:27:03Speaker 3: My boss and my side hole cut my hours at
- 1:27:07Speaker 3: work because she caught me flirting with the new cash here.
- 1:27:10Speaker 3: Why is she playing with my money when you know
- 1:27:12Speaker 3: I got a wife and kids to support. I try
- 1:27:15Speaker 3: to apologizing, but she's vindictive. Advice keep your dick in
- 1:27:19Speaker 3: your pants, stupid.
- 1:27:20Speaker 2: I mean that's the best advice.
- 1:27:22Speaker 4: That's advice. Okay, so your stupid son of a bitch
- 1:27:25Speaker 4: s hold on, you nasty motherfucker.
- 1:27:28Speaker 1: Okay, Wow, why didn't know that she don't necessarily condom cheating?
- 1:27:33Speaker 1: That's you know what I'm saying. Yeah, there, dumb ass,
- 1:27:43Speaker 1: you never one one. You never do her to work,
- 1:27:47Speaker 1: keep eating, and then too, most importantly, not with somebody
- 1:27:53Speaker 1: that got power over you. By dude, you start flirting
- 1:27:58Speaker 1: with the new chick to come in, and that could
- 1:27:59Speaker 1: do and nigga. Not necessarily to be flirting, you could
- 1:28:02Speaker 1: just be man nice this bitch like, I don't.
- 1:28:04Speaker 2: Like you talking to that bitch.
- 1:28:06Speaker 1: No what, no, what, that's all right.
- 1:28:08Speaker 2: I'm gonna cut the name. We're gonna cut this nigga hours.
- 1:28:10Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, no, no, no, ten hours a week,
- 1:28:13Speaker 1: gonna get it, gonna get you, gonna get you right, and.
- 1:28:15Speaker 2: You gonna know better.
- 1:28:17Speaker 1: Mm hmmmmmmm. Nope, you fucked up. Yeah, your dumb ass,
- 1:28:22Speaker 1: you fucked up.
- 1:28:23Speaker 2: I have thathe tag.
- 1:28:26Speaker 4: Next one, oh bitch met my girlfriend at the gym.
- 1:28:30Speaker 4: She was spotting me. We bonded over protein shakes together.
- 1:28:33Speaker 4: For two years, I've been cheaked with randoms from the
- 1:28:36Speaker 4: club one weekends when she thinks I'm with the boy.
- 1:28:39Speaker 4: Got caught when.
- 1:28:39Speaker 3: One chick showed up at our door with a positive
- 1:28:41Speaker 3: pregnancy test, screaming my name. Girlfriend packed her bags, but
- 1:28:46Speaker 3: I can't learn her leave because I need her to
- 1:28:48Speaker 3: help raise and.
- 1:28:49Speaker 4: Pay for the baby expenses. How do I convince her
- 1:28:52Speaker 4: to stay and raise this baby together, or am I done?
- 1:28:56Speaker 1: Sir, nigga, it's either you. It's either you be done
- 1:28:58Speaker 1: or she's gonna snap your like a salary start.
- 1:29:02Speaker 4: Is it a president, It's a president. It has to be.
- 1:29:06Speaker 4: It's a president. Stay sailing on. Yep.
- 1:29:11Speaker 2: Yeah, you can't make those type of dick jones. That's
- 1:29:20Speaker 2: like you feel that phantom pain.
- 1:29:25Speaker 1: You you're fucking with a bit. You're fucking with a
- 1:29:29Speaker 1: bitch that work out with you. You already know her, boy,
- 1:29:32Speaker 1: and she was spotting you, nigga.
- 1:29:34Speaker 3: Boy, baby, she listens, she gonna act like everything is okay,
- 1:29:38Speaker 3: and she may or may not let go that wait
- 1:29:43Speaker 3: and let's land on your chest, and you may or
- 1:29:46Speaker 3: may not end up in a a uh final destination
- 1:29:50Speaker 3: type situation.
- 1:29:51Speaker 2: That happened the final in the final Destination, I believe no,
- 1:29:55Speaker 2: that was three they wait, fellow on his head.
- 1:29:57Speaker 1: No, yeah, lloy, I'm trying to stupid.
- 1:30:05Speaker 2: Go ahead, go ahead and try to convince her to
- 1:30:07Speaker 2: help you raise that baby and re pull back of it.
- 1:30:08Speaker 2: That's know how that went.
- 1:30:09Speaker 3: Yeah, let us know how it worked out for you, buddy. Uh,
- 1:30:19Speaker 3: next one and this might be the final one. It's
- 1:30:21Speaker 3: a little limity, so.
- 1:30:23Speaker 1: It might be the last one.
- 1:30:26Speaker 4: All right, y'all, My sex addiction doesne turned my whole
- 1:30:29Speaker 4: life into a straight up porn parody. And I can't
- 1:30:33Speaker 4: even make this up.
- 1:30:35Speaker 3: I'm twenty two, married with a whole toddler, and I'm
- 1:30:37Speaker 3: out here wilding like I ain't got no sense. I
- 1:30:40Speaker 3: met my husband at the library back when I was
- 1:30:42Speaker 3: in community college. He would say, quiet, wholesome, tight glasses,
- 1:30:46Speaker 3: always reading some deep book.
- 1:30:49Speaker 4: Do it.
- 1:30:49Speaker 3: I was a sweet church girl too. We got married
- 1:30:52Speaker 3: quick after I got pregnant. Been together three years now.
- 1:30:55Speaker 3: But Sis, I'm smashing anything that moves the UPA that's mean.
- 1:31:01Speaker 4: Pulled him in the driveway while the baby neck.
- 1:31:04Speaker 3: The pizza delivery dude gave him a fifty dollars tip
- 1:31:07Speaker 3: and slipped my panties right off with it. And don't
- 1:31:10Speaker 3: even get me started. The clown at my son's birthday party,
- 1:31:13Speaker 3: full makeup, red nose, honk and and everything. I took
- 1:31:17Speaker 3: him to the garage for a private show. I finally
- 1:31:22Speaker 3: got caught when I hopped on the Zoom parent teacher
- 1:31:25Speaker 3: conference supposed to be talking about my baby's preschool progress
- 1:31:28Speaker 3: while in the middle of a threesome with the neighbors
- 1:31:31Speaker 3: next door.
- 1:31:31Speaker 1: Why the fuck would you do that?
- 1:31:33Speaker 2: See see see.
- 1:31:38Speaker 4: Camera was on y'all.
- 1:31:39Speaker 3: Clown from last week's party was still in the group chat,
- 1:31:42Speaker 3: sending balloon animals animal emojis, and somehow a.
- 1:31:46Speaker 4: Hank slipped through the micro The principal.
- 1:31:49Speaker 3: Thought somebody was prenking the call, muted everybody and asked
- 1:31:52Speaker 3: if it was the Spirit week or something. Meanwhile, the
- 1:31:56Speaker 3: parent chat was blowing up. My husband saw the screenshot
- 1:32:01Speaker 3: before I even close my laptop. He's been sleeping in
- 1:32:04Speaker 3: the garage for two days straight. I blocked the clown,
- 1:32:07Speaker 3: but I already but I already d am the magician
- 1:32:10Speaker 3: who's coming to the next kid's party?
- 1:32:13Speaker 4: Like?
- 1:32:13Speaker 3: Why is staying faithful harder than just being celibant? I
- 1:32:17Speaker 3: love my husband, I swear I do, but the addiction
- 1:32:20Speaker 3: got me acting unwise. Send help before the whole circus
- 1:32:23Speaker 3: pull up to my host for real? What you need?
- 1:32:29Speaker 2: What this bitch is running? The Dangling Brothers in Bonham
- 1:32:33Speaker 2: and Bailey Fircus.
- 1:32:34Speaker 1: And her.
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- 1:33:03Speaker 4: Had she already learned her lessons? She don't really trying
- 1:33:12Speaker 4: to have a code with the motherfucking magicians for the
- 1:33:14Speaker 4: next party. Look what are you doing? Now? You see it?
- 1:33:20Speaker 2: Now you do?
- 1:33:21Speaker 1: And like, where was that my inhibitions?
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- 1:33:50Speaker 4: And we think the five thousand subscribers we just reached
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- 1:34:05Speaker 2: Pussy that give us a new meaning to the word
- 1:34:08Speaker 2: the bearded lady nigga.
- 1:34:13Speaker 6: And on that note, we love your episode Titlefore we go,
- 1:34:18Speaker 6: It's real quick, before we go, It's already, sir, it's already.
- 1:34:26Speaker 3: Is on a more serious somber notes, I meant to
- 1:34:30Speaker 3: do this last episode, but I asked that you keep
- 1:34:34Speaker 3: my family and your prayers. Unfortunately, we lost my brother
- 1:34:40Speaker 3: cousin is I like to call him because he's married
- 1:34:42Speaker 3: to my sister cousin. We lost him tragically in the
- 1:34:49Speaker 3: second week of January. He was taken from us by
- 1:34:56Speaker 3: a fucking coward, and it's still hard to understand. It's
- 1:35:03Speaker 3: still tough doing my best to try to be there
- 1:35:06Speaker 3: for my sister, but I don't have the words.
- 1:35:11Speaker 4: To comfort her.
- 1:35:14Speaker 3: So I'm just asking that you keep my family in prayers,
- 1:35:17Speaker 3: not just my sister, but you know, his brother, his father,
- 1:35:20Speaker 3: his other family members. He actually lost his mother last year,
- 1:35:23Speaker 3: so now he's back with his mom, his children, you know,
- 1:35:28Speaker 3: my god kids, my niece and nephew. Just just keep
- 1:35:33Speaker 3: my family in prayers. I really would appreciate it. You know,
- 1:35:36Speaker 3: he was a a good man, kept her self, minded
- 1:35:40Speaker 3: his business. So to lose him the way that we
- 1:35:42Speaker 3: did is been a tough pill to swallow. So love
- 1:35:47Speaker 3: on your family. Yeah, tell him you love him any
- 1:35:51Speaker 3: chance that you get, cause we know not the day
- 1:35:54Speaker 3: nor the hour, and nobody was expecting this second week
- 1:35:58Speaker 3: into the freaking new year.
- 1:36:00Speaker 4: So yeah, I appreciate that. I appreciate that, y'all.
- 1:36:05Speaker 3: You know, we laugh and joke a lot, but you know,
- 1:36:07Speaker 3: we we we love, we love our people, and you know,
- 1:36:12Speaker 3: we just recently, you know, had suffered a loss with
- 1:36:16Speaker 3: our original co host key in her family with you know,
- 1:36:21Speaker 3: Uncle Andy. And you know, right after a few weeks
- 1:36:24Speaker 3: after Day I, we lost my grandmother's sister, my great aunt,
- 1:36:27Speaker 3: my aunt Miley. Rust in peace to my aunt Milly
- 1:36:29Speaker 3: as well. She lived a long life though, you know,
- 1:36:33Speaker 3: but that that was a little more expected. You know,
- 1:36:36Speaker 3: she had been sick for a while, you know. And
- 1:36:39Speaker 3: but for to lose somebody like this in such a
- 1:36:42Speaker 3: way because somebody thought they had the right to take
- 1:36:44Speaker 3: them away, you know, it's it's tough.
- 1:36:48Speaker 4: So just keep my family family and prayer. And you know,
- 1:36:53Speaker 4: long lived my brother cousin, We love you, we miss.
- 1:36:56Speaker 2: You, and.
- 1:36:59Speaker 4: I got the family. That's it.
- 1:37:04Speaker 2: OK.
- 1:37:05Speaker 4: Thank y'all for tuning in. We appreciate y'all.
- 1:37:10Speaker 2: Yeah, And with that being said, we will see y'all
- 1:37:12Speaker 2: next week.
- 1:37:13Speaker 4: Bye bye, no titty shape. He knew I was.
- 1:37:22Speaker 1: Crazy that basically got beat up with this track.
- 1:37:29Speaker 4: God by Bye,