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- 0:00Good morning. So we have reached the topic of love. I feel like it's a topic that's often spoken of maybe even more than the others that we've already hit maybe more than hope joy or peace.
- 0:15But I feel that I'd probably venture to say that it's probably often even more misunderstood than some of those. And I think in the church, I think we tend to be a bit more focused, have a bit more of a proper view of it.
- 0:28But because of the surrounding culture, I think we can often have an improper view, get confused.
- 0:35So it's my goal this morning to help us have a good biblical view of love, to think through that well, and what that means for us during this Advent season.
- 0:44So if you will, go ahead and turn with me to 1 John. We're going to be looking at a very typical love passage in 1 John 4.
- 0:52So go ahead and turn with me there.
- 0:58So we'll be in a few other places this morning as well, but this will be our primary text.
- 1:03So in 1 John 4, I'd like to be looking at verses 7 through 11.
- 1:06So let's read it.
- 1:09It says,
- 1:36So I'd like to look first at the main point that this passage is communicating, and then we're going to get to some of those particulars that are within it.
- 1:51So to begin with, I think we can clearly see that John here is calling us to follow the Lord's model in love, calling us to follow his example.
- 2:00Note at the beginning down in verse, let's see, in verse 11 really, right?
- 2:05He tells us to,
- 2:07Beloved, let us love one another.
- 2:09And then he gets into a lot, excuse me, that was verse 7.
- 2:11Beloved, let us love one another.
- 2:12Then he gets into a lot of particulars about how the Lord modeled that love for us.
- 2:18And then down in verse 11, it's kind of bookended, right?
- 2:21It says,
- 2:21He reminds us that if God so loved us, we should follow in that same love.
- 2:26So it's bookended with an urging, right, to love one another.
- 2:31And so if we go even further down into this passage, past verse 11, he keeps going and keeps going with that theme of having us just remember to love one another.
- 2:40But for this morning, we'll stop here.
- 2:42And so with that, with that being the main point, right, of just seeing God's love for us and us to follow in that model, that's how I'd like to structure our study.
- 2:54So we're going to be really just looking at two points this morning.
- 2:56And the first one will be the Advent love that we have been shown.
- 3:02The Advent love that we have been shown.
- 3:05And secondly, that'll be the Advent love that we can show.
- 3:10The Advent love that we can show.
- 3:13So let's jump right into it.
- 3:14The Advent love that we have been shown.
- 3:16Like I said earlier, right at the beginning of our passage, in verse 7, it explains that love is from God.
- 3:22It goes on to say that anyone who does not show love must not know God because God himself is love.
- 3:29And then it goes on to explain how the Lord manifested his love or showed it to us or demonstrated his great love for us.
- 3:36It tells us that God sent his only son into the world that we might live through him.
- 3:41And then in verse 10, he goes on.
- 3:43I really, I think it's so important to see this point.
- 3:46He says that, oh no, the love that we show for each other, or even as he says here, the love that we have for God, that's not the ultimate love.
- 3:56That doesn't quite meet the standard.
- 3:58That's not the best showing.
- 4:00But instead, he notes the best showing, the best showing of love is the Lord's love for us.
- 4:05He says in verse 10, and this is love, that he loved us and sent his son to be the propitiation for our sins.
- 4:14So this driving point, this great love contrasted with the way we love is the ultimate display.
- 4:21Ours doesn't even come close.
- 4:24It's our Lord sending his son to be the propitiation for our sins.
- 4:27So let's spend some good time looking at that love because, right, it's cited as the ultimate display.
- 4:34So this act of our Lord becoming a man, dying for our sins is a prime example.
- 4:41And so how does that work?
- 4:42What makes this love so special, so different from all others, so different than our own love that we often show?
- 4:50And so let's look at a couple of passages that talk about that love.
- 4:53Turn with me to Romans 5.
- 4:55Romans 5.
- 4:56I can't remember if it was last Sunday or the Sunday before that that Reese read a big chunk of Romans 5 during the Lord's Supper.
- 5:08He described it as the ultimate Advent passage because it mentions, like, all of the themes.
- 5:15I'd like to look at a chunk of it this morning that does speak to love.
- 5:19So let's look at Romans 5.
- 5:20Let's look at verses 6 through 8.
- 5:22It says,
- 5:52At the right time, it says that Christ died for us and we're described as weak and as ungodly.
- 5:59Weak and ungodly.
- 6:02And let's pause on that for a minute.
- 6:05Weak and ungodly.
- 6:06Think about the kind of love that weak and ungodly people can show.
- 6:12So I think, just thinking about this season, I often hear people talking all about the different Christmas gatherings.
- 6:21They either, they tend to describe them as have to go to or get to go to.
- 6:26And it's so interesting to hear the different perspectives.
- 6:31You'll hear many that seem to be very excited to spend time with people that they very rarely get to see.
- 6:37Or many people that are very excited to see people that they see all the time.
- 6:41But you'll hear so many that are dreading it.
- 6:46They're not looking forward to spending time with family.
- 6:50They're upset about it.
- 6:52For some, it seems that they're overwhelmed with all the details.
- 6:55Maybe they're hosting something and they're stressed about it.
- 6:58Or they're overwhelmed with the number of gatherings they attend.
- 7:00Or they have long commutes to and from these gatherings.
- 7:04But for many others, I feel like there's a lot of past hurt.
- 7:08Maybe hurt that goes back a generation or two or three or more.
- 7:14Maybe some issues that have never been talked through.
- 7:18Or maybe personality or belief clashes that can be so hard around a holiday season.
- 7:24But why am I mentioning all of that right now?
- 7:27Because that's a very clear way that we can contrast the way we choose to love with the way our Lord has chosen to love.
- 7:39We can see even in that tiniest example that our love is not to the standard.
- 7:46Right?
- 7:46We, when people offend us, or when we're uncomfortable with people, right?
- 7:51We can sometimes choose to avoid, can choose to run away, or choose to just stress, dread.
- 7:58Right?
- 7:59But the Lord, his position so high above us, and we described as weak and ungodly.
- 8:06He still has chosen to love us to the ultimate extent.
- 8:11So let's get back to that weak and ungodly idea.
- 8:14Let's think about our situation as humans.
- 8:18Think about way back to the beginning.
- 8:19We were nothing.
- 8:20We were nothing at all.
- 8:21We were dust.
- 8:23And there was an eternal God, fully satisfied in himself.
- 8:27And he just, perfectly content, decided to create us.
- 8:32But our ancestors, Adam and Eve, in the garden, a perfect place.
- 8:36In a perfect place, and they had perfect jobs.
- 8:38They were to work and to keep the most beautiful area we can imagine.
- 8:41But in his foreknowledge and foresight, and also desire to show his great love, he gave us the ability to choose to do good or evil.
- 8:50To choose to obey or to disobey.
- 8:53And we know the story.
- 8:55We know that Adam and Eve chose to disobey God by doing the exact thing that he had told them not to do.
- 9:02By eating of the fruit of the tree.
- 9:03And they immediately felt the guilt.
- 9:07Right?
- 9:08And if we're honest with ourselves, we do something along these lines daily.
- 9:14We see ourselves choose something that we know is going against the will of the Lord.
- 9:20Every day we are disobeying.
- 9:22We are rebelling against a God who has given us such great opportunity, even now, to have eternal life through knowing him.
- 9:31We constantly rebel against our great God.
- 9:33But what does this passage that we just read say?
- 9:39It says that he made a way.
- 9:40He made a way for us who choose to disobey our holy God and are therefore deserving of eternal judgment, the wrath of God.
- 9:48Right?
- 9:49He made a way for us to be forgiven.
- 9:50It says, at the right time, Christ died for the weak, for the ungodly.
- 9:55Right?
- 9:56He chose to pay the debt that our sins earn us.
- 10:00He died the death and bore the wrath of God that we deserved.
- 10:07He who knew no sin became sin so that in him we could become the righteousness of God.
- 10:11Right?
- 10:12And how did he do this?
- 10:14As well as think about his sacrificial death on the cross.
- 10:17Taking the punishment of our sins.
- 10:20Right?
- 10:20And giving us his righteousness.
- 10:23The great exchange that we are saved from the wrath of God and welcomed it into his family.
- 10:28Okay.
- 10:29Let's look back at our first John passage.
- 10:33Back in our first John 4.
- 10:35In verse 9 and 10.
- 10:38It says,
- 10:39In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only son into the world so that we might live through him.
- 10:46And in this is love, not that we have loved God, but that he loved us and sent his son to be the propitiation for our sins.
- 10:52Note that it clearly states how God showed his love for us.
- 10:58Right?
- 10:59And that how is through sending his son to be the propitiation for our sins.
- 11:04So the word propitiation, I think, deserves some time for us to think about.
- 11:08What it means is just a super simple definition for us to think about.
- 11:12Is a sacrifice that bears God's wrath and turns it to favor.
- 11:17So a sacrifice that, excuse me.
- 11:20A sacrifice that bears God's wrath and turns it to favor.
- 11:25We must remember that our sin truly deserves death.
- 11:30Truly deserves the wrath of God.
- 11:32Because God is holy.
- 11:34He truly loves what is good and hates what is bad.
- 11:38He will punish them.
- 11:39And he will by no means clear the guilty.
- 11:42And therefore, because of his holiness, but also because of his love for us, he had to punish sin in some way.
- 11:49But desired to show his great love, forgiveness, and his mercy.
- 11:55And because of this, this is our season.
- 11:58The eternal king, the everlasting God, condescended to become a man.
- 12:03Was born as a man.
- 12:04The great king of the universe.
- 12:05As we sing, Mary's king is now Mary's child.
- 12:09The fully God and fully man experiencing all of our pains, our fears, our temptations.
- 12:14But yet, he did not sin.
- 12:18Condescended to become a man.
- 12:20But this king knew where he was headed.
- 12:23All of his life pointed to the cross.
- 12:27He had offended many.
- 12:28We can read all throughout the gospels how he offended people time and time again.
- 12:32Because they saw their sin because of his teaching.
- 12:38The religious leaders of that day were offended that he was getting attention, drawing away from them.
- 12:45Right?
- 12:45Because he had, he spoke with authority.
- 12:47Right?
- 12:47And they tried to accuse him.
- 12:50They tried to get rid of his ministry.
- 12:53But they could never find any faults.
- 12:55And we know why that was.
- 12:56Because he was without sin.
- 12:59But yet, his road continued to continue to continue to lead to the cross.
- 13:03Right?
- 13:03But the crucifixion was all part of the plan.
- 13:08All part of the plan that this eternal God had from the beginning of time.
- 13:15Thinking about the passage that we often talk about in Acts chapter 2.
- 13:20Where it says in verses 22 through 24.
- 13:22Men of Israel, hear these words.
- 13:24Jesus of Nazareth.
- 13:25A man attested to you by God with mighty works and wonders and signs that God did through him in your midst.
- 13:30As you yourselves know, this Jesus, delivered up according to the definite plan and foreknowledge of God.
- 13:37You crucified and killed by the hands of lawless men.
- 13:40But God raised him up, loosing the pangs of death.
- 13:43Because it was not possible for him to be held by it.
- 13:47A couple of things that are so important to our topic this morning we can note here.
- 13:50Yes, these people, they were guilty.
- 13:53They saw the signs and wonders and mighty works.
- 13:55They heard the teachings that Jesus had done right in front of them.
- 13:58They knew he wasn't guilty.
- 14:01But they chose to crucify him.
- 14:05And so, of course, yes, that was a sinful act.
- 14:07Choosing to kill someone who's an innocent man.
- 14:11But note something here that's so important.
- 14:15This was according to the definite plan and foreknowledge of God.
- 14:19So, if this was a definite plan, part of what God had ordained, his own son being killed, going through all of the troubles of this life, suffering all the temptations and struggles to the fullest extent,
- 14:33what is the purpose of this terrible death?
- 14:38And we can see just such beautiful as we move along in Acts a little bit, thinking a little bit forward to Acts 4 and the apostles just preaching there and explaining so much about it.
- 14:53And I'm going to read a little bit from Acts 4, verses 10 through 12.
- 14:57It says,
- 14:57Note something huge.
- 15:27Hugely important here.
- 15:29Salvation is being tied directly to Jesus.
- 15:34Our salvation, the only hope that we have.
- 15:37This is that propitiation that we were talking about.
- 15:41God had planned this definite plan to bring about the salvation of his people.
- 15:46He desired to show his great love and mercy to us by bringing us that salvation.
- 15:51But the how, right?
- 15:53Blood had to be shed.
- 15:54But to pay for our infinite offenses against God, there had to be an infinite debt paid.
- 16:01And now think about what our Lord did.
- 16:04The perfect God of the universe, right?
- 16:07Who became man, chose to take the guilt of our sins upon himself and suffer the punishment that we deserved.
- 16:14Sure, he suffered a brutal, physical, human death.
- 16:18But he experienced even worse than that.
- 16:20He experienced the wrath of God.
- 16:24The weight of our sin.
- 16:27The worst thing anyone could ever experience.
- 16:31And what all those found in Christ, not found in Christ, will experience.
- 16:34Now, I'm quite aware I've spent a lot of time explaining all of this, right?
- 16:42There are a couple reasons why.
- 16:43Firstly, that's foundational to our understanding of the gospel.
- 16:47We must trust in the shed blood of Christ to cover our sins.
- 16:51It's our only hope for salvation.
- 16:53And secondly, it's because this is the perfect display of love.
- 17:00I often think about love as a willingness to do anything for anyone.
- 17:07I was thinking back to, like, who do I see as someone who has consistently shown me love?
- 17:14And I always, for some reason, immediately think back to my granddad, who's, I mean, incredible.
- 17:20But I think of one particular instance of crashing my dirt bike into a swimming pool.
- 17:25And his 70-year-old self running down a hill from his house to help us pull it out.
- 17:33But seriously, there are people that show great love to us.
- 17:39A friend taking a phone call at 3 a.m. when we really need someone.
- 17:43Or someone really inconveniencing themselves to do something that we would enjoy or when we just need them.
- 17:51But even more so, think about this display of love that the Lord has shown us, right?
- 17:58Romans 5.
- 17:59Think back to where we were, right?
- 18:01You know, some might die for a good person.
- 18:02That's rare, right?
- 18:04But God demonstrated his love for us by dying for who?
- 18:08Right?
- 18:08A bunch of righteous Christians who always do the right thing.
- 18:11Or for the best people in the world who are really close to sinless.
- 18:14Or for those he knew would eventually follow him.
- 18:18No.
- 18:18None of that.
- 18:20Right?
- 18:20What does it say?
- 18:21He died for sinners.
- 18:22He died for the ungodly.
- 18:24He died for those who spat in his face.
- 18:26He died for those who reject him until he changes their desires.
- 18:30He died for us.
- 18:31We could never deserve this grace.
- 18:36But he has graciously shown us this greatest act of kindness.
- 18:40Even when we were dead in our trespasses and sins.
- 18:43He truly was willing to do whatever it took to save us.
- 18:48And it took such a great price.
- 18:50Note that the love candle is red.
- 18:53Right?
- 18:53It symbolizes the ultimate display of God's love for us.
- 18:57His blood shed on our behalf.
- 19:00Christ bore the wrath of God.
- 19:01Suffered the death and punishment that our sin deserves.
- 19:06So this is the great Advent love that we have been shown.
- 19:10Right?
- 19:10Our Lord's willingness to do whatever it took to ransom us.
- 19:14A people who could never deserve it.
- 19:16So, in light of that great Advent love that we have been shown.
- 19:22Let's think about our second point.
- 19:24And that's the Advent love that we can show.
- 19:28The Advent love that we can show.
- 19:30So let's get back to our original passage.
- 19:32So flip back to 1 John 4 if you're not already there.
- 19:40All throughout this passage, we can see that us demonstrating love
- 19:44is part of our evidencing that we know God.
- 19:47It speaks that if people are failing to demonstrate love,
- 19:51they must not truly know God because God is love.
- 19:54Right?
- 19:55It speaks that if we're found in Christ, we must display this love.
- 19:59And then the end urges us.
- 20:01Verse 11, right?
- 20:02It says,
- 20:02Beloved, if God so loved us, right?
- 20:04All we've just talked about.
- 20:06We also ought to love one another.
- 20:09Ask us to remember how God has loved us.
- 20:12And therefore, because we see that love, we should love each other well.
- 20:17We see so many of these same types of exhortations all through Scripture.
- 20:23Thinking back to Matthew 22, right?
- 20:26There's a lawyer that is seeking to test Jesus.
- 20:29And what he said was,
- 20:30Teacher, which is the great commandment in the law?
- 20:32And he said to him,
- 20:33You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.
- 20:38This is the great and first commandment.
- 20:41And a second is like it.
- 20:42You shall love your neighbor as yourself.
- 20:45On these two commandments depend all the law and the prophets.
- 20:49Jesus stresses here the need for great love.
- 20:51Firstly to him, right?
- 20:52The Lord.
- 20:53But then he ties us second, right?
- 20:54He states that we must love our neighbor as we love ourselves.
- 20:58In other words, he's assuming, right, that we love ourselves a lot.
- 21:02And we should treat others just as well, if not even better, than ourselves.
- 21:07In other words, right, how we see it elsewhere.
- 21:09To seek others' interests above our own.
- 21:11To count others more significant than ourselves, right?
- 21:14To seek to serve rather than to be served.
- 21:16And note the amount of weight he puts on this.
- 21:19He puts on loving God and loving others.
- 21:22He states that on these two commandments, right,
- 21:25depend all the law and the prophets.
- 21:26Remember that, as Nathan mentioned earlier,
- 21:29he didn't come to abolish the law,
- 21:31but rather to fulfill the law, right?
- 21:33So here he's stressing the importance, right,
- 21:35of our love for God and our love for others
- 21:38as the great high calling of the law and the prophets.
- 21:41And in another passage, if y'all will turn here, Colossians 3,
- 21:45we see something similar.
- 21:46And I think we could even see a slight,
- 21:49but even more intense part of it.
- 21:52So Colossians 3.
- 21:56I think way back, probably four or five years ago,
- 22:01when I was in college at North Georgia,
- 22:03this passage really struck me,
- 22:05and there's part of it that I think really shows us
- 22:09the high standard of the love that the Lord wants us to display.
- 22:13So verses 12 through 17 here in Colossians 3,
- 22:16it says,
- 22:16Put on then, as God's chosen ones,
- 22:18holy and beloved,
- 22:19compassionate hearts,
- 22:21kindness,
- 22:22humility,
- 22:23meekness,
- 22:23and patience,
- 22:25bearing with one another,
- 22:26and if one has a complaint against another,
- 22:28forgiving each other.
- 22:29As the Lord has forgiven you,
- 22:31so you also must forgive.
- 22:34And above all these,
- 22:35put on love,
- 22:35which binds everything together in perfect harmony.
- 22:39Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts,
- 22:40to which indeed you were called in one body,
- 22:42and be thankful.
- 22:43Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly,
- 22:46teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom,
- 22:48singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs,
- 22:51with thankfulness in your hearts to God.
- 22:54And whatever you do,
- 22:55in word or deed,
- 22:57do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus,
- 22:59giving thanks to God the Father through him.
- 23:03And in a somewhat parallel passage to this,
- 23:06over in Ephesians 5,
- 23:08Paul is giving some instruction to husbands.
- 23:10He says,
- 23:10Husbands,
- 23:11love your wives,
- 23:12as Christ loved the church,
- 23:13and gave himself for her.
- 23:15So note something similar happening in both the Colossians passage we just read,
- 23:19and in that verse in Ephesians.
- 23:21And what it is,
- 23:22is highlighted in verse 13 of Colossians 3.
- 23:27It says,
- 23:27Bearing with one another,
- 23:29and if one has a complaint against another,
- 23:32forgiving each other.
- 23:33And catch this,
- 23:33as the Lord has forgiven you,
- 23:36as the Lord has forgiven you,
- 23:39so you also must forgive.
- 23:41Catch that.
- 23:42Paul is calling us here to the same type of forgiveness
- 23:45that the Lord has demonstrated.
- 23:49That's massive.
- 23:50Because think about the forgiveness that the Lord has shown us.
- 23:53Remember that we have infinite offenses
- 23:56against his great holiness.
- 23:58And he was the one who bore the suffering for it.
- 24:04He bore the wrath of God.
- 24:06He took the full weight of what our sin,
- 24:08which was directly against him,
- 24:11was deserving of.
- 24:12And then because of his great love,
- 24:17our sin is now wiped clean.
- 24:19He doesn't just leave us alone at that point.
- 24:21He welcomes us into his family.
- 24:24Fully knowing,
- 24:25fully understanding even our present failings,
- 24:28our future failings.
- 24:30It's not a conditional forgiveness.
- 24:33It's not a conditional love.
- 24:36The love here in Ephesians that we just read about, right?
- 24:39It says even like giving our own selves up, right?
- 24:44The highest thing we could do to love another person.
- 24:49It's recalled to the same type of love,
- 24:51the same type of forgiveness that the Lord has demonstrated.
- 24:58Think about the realities that we experience at times
- 25:01of when we're maybe even legitimately trying to forgive someone.
- 25:06We often say we've forgiven someone,
- 25:10but then we see a similar circumstance
- 25:12or a similar struggle coming up,
- 25:14and we remind ourselves
- 25:16and sometimes even remind them
- 25:18to our shame of the past situation
- 25:20and hold it against them.
- 25:23Or we say we've forgiven someone
- 25:25and then simply choose to not be around them
- 25:29or avoid them.
- 25:31Or we say we've forgiven someone,
- 25:33but then we go and talk about them
- 25:36to others through gossip.
- 25:39Or even more subtle
- 25:41and possibly more dangerous because of it,
- 25:44we say we've forgiven someone,
- 25:46but we harbor some sort of memory
- 25:48or the unforgiveness
- 25:50or bitterness down deep in our hearts
- 25:53and hold on to it
- 25:55where it makes our hearts hard
- 25:57as it festers.
- 25:58This is not what we're called to.
- 26:03We're called to the same type
- 26:05of forgiveness and love
- 26:06that our Savior displayed.
- 26:09And remember that our Lord
- 26:11has not only chosen to do
- 26:13whatever it took to ransom us,
- 26:15but our debts are paid,
- 26:16our sins are no more, right?
- 26:18He doesn't remember them anymore.
- 26:20And then by the resurrection,
- 26:22we are given new life.
- 26:23We are reconciled to Him.
- 26:27And so because of that,
- 26:27we are called to display
- 26:29that same type
- 26:30of love and forgiveness.
- 26:32To even go to the extent
- 26:34to lay our own lives down
- 26:35for the sake of others.
- 26:38To truly reconcile
- 26:40so much as it depends on us.
- 26:42To demonstrate that same love
- 26:44that Christ has shown us.
- 26:47We have to remember
- 26:48that we're so undeserving.
- 26:50And so when those around us
- 26:52seem or are so undeserving,
- 26:55we must love well.
- 26:56Remember that we are
- 26:58the wretch that by God's
- 27:00marvelous love
- 27:00is now God's treasure.
- 27:03It's by His grace
- 27:04that we are part of His family.
- 27:05Nothing good that we have done.
- 27:07It's His wounds
- 27:08that have paid our ransom.
- 27:10And therefore,
- 27:10we should be willing
- 27:11to show that same grace,
- 27:12that same love,
- 27:13that same mercy
- 27:14to those around us
- 27:16who, yes,
- 27:17have wronged us.
- 27:17None of us deserve anything.
- 27:19Those who have hurt us so much
- 27:22are those that are
- 27:23incredibly inconvenient to love.
- 27:26And when those relationships
- 27:27are so hard,
- 27:28we can so often
- 27:30help each other
- 27:30by simply choosing
- 27:31to show grace,
- 27:32to show love,
- 27:33show undeserved kindness.
- 27:361 Peter 4.8 says,
- 27:37Above all,
- 27:39keep loving one another earnestly
- 27:40since love covers
- 27:42a multitude of sins.
- 27:44Right?
- 27:46At a time when Jesus
- 27:47was getting closer
- 27:47and closer to the cross,
- 27:49He made this statement
- 27:50in John chapter 13,
- 27:52verses 34 and 35.
- 27:55He said,
- 27:56A new commandment I give to you,
- 27:57that you love one another.
- 27:59Just as I have loved you,
- 28:00you also are to love one another.
- 28:03By this,
- 28:04all people will know
- 28:05that you are my disciples,
- 28:07if you have love
- 28:08for one another.
- 28:10Know that Jesus
- 28:11is just as firm
- 28:12in this statement
- 28:13as the passages
- 28:14that Paul wrote earlier,
- 28:16that, well,
- 28:16Paul wrote,
- 28:17that we read earlier.
- 28:19Just as He had loved
- 28:20the disciples
- 28:21and now just as He loved us,
- 28:22that is the same love
- 28:24that we are called to.
- 28:26To give out all of ourselves
- 28:27for the sake of others' souls.
- 28:31And after all of that,
- 28:32note something,
- 28:33I think,
- 28:34really convicting for me
- 28:36and for,
- 28:37I'm sure,
- 28:37many of us.
- 28:38Note that our Lord explains
- 28:39that this is how people
- 28:40will know
- 28:40that we are truly following Him.
- 28:41They will feel that
- 28:43they must truly be following Christ
- 28:44as they see our love
- 28:45for each other.
- 28:50And being real with ourselves,
- 28:52I know myself,
- 28:53and I feel like our
- 28:55CFC church culture
- 28:56and our church culture
- 28:57as a whole
- 28:57can often be really heavy
- 28:58in knowledge.
- 29:00We've heard Nathan's reference
- 29:01to babies with large heads
- 29:03time and time again, right?
- 29:06That's often us.
- 29:08So I'd like to try
- 29:11to land the sermon
- 29:11a little bit
- 29:12by looking at a passage
- 29:13that reminds us
- 29:15of all of the outworkings,
- 29:16the characteristics
- 29:17of love.
- 29:19So the typical love passage,
- 29:211 Corinthians 13.
- 29:23So turn there.
- 29:261 Corinthians 13.
- 29:27We're going to look at
- 29:34the first seven verses here.
- 29:40It says,
- 29:41If I speak in the tongues
- 29:42of men and of angels
- 29:43but have not love,
- 29:45I am a noisy gong
- 29:46or a clanging cymbal.
- 29:48If I have prophetic powers
- 29:50and understand all mysteries
- 29:51and all knowledge,
- 29:52and if I have all faith
- 29:53so as to remove mountains
- 29:55but have not love,
- 29:56I'm nothing.
- 29:58If I give away all I have
- 29:59and if I deliver up my body
- 30:01to be burned
- 30:01but have not love,
- 30:02I gain nothing.
- 30:04Love is patient
- 30:05and kind.
- 30:06Love does not envy
- 30:07or boast.
- 30:08It is not arrogant
- 30:09or rude.
- 30:10It does not insist
- 30:11on its own way.
- 30:12It is not irritable
- 30:14or resentful.
- 30:15It does not rejoice
- 30:16at wrongdoing
- 30:17but rejoices
- 30:17with the truth.
- 30:19Love bears all things,
- 30:20believes all things,
- 30:22hopes all things,
- 30:23endures all things.
- 30:27Ultimately,
- 30:28this describes
- 30:30the love that Christ
- 30:31has for us
- 30:32and we must be
- 30:34living out that love,
- 30:35that love that he has shown us,
- 30:36a love that continues
- 30:37to love
- 30:38no matter what.
- 30:42He has bestowed
- 30:43such great love
- 30:44upon us
- 30:44by paying the ultimate
- 30:45sacrifice of his blood
- 30:47which ultimately leads
- 30:48to our forgiveness
- 30:49and our reconciliation.
- 30:52Let's model the same
- 30:53for each other.
- 30:54This is
- 30:55not an easy thing.
- 30:58Thinking back to
- 30:59even this morning,
- 31:00Margaret and I
- 31:01had some conflict
- 31:02that was entirely
- 31:03my fault
- 31:04and I was astounded
- 31:07at when
- 31:07I started to
- 31:08remind myself
- 31:09and when we together
- 31:10were remembering
- 31:12the love
- 31:13that Christ
- 31:13had for us,
- 31:15how quickly
- 31:16we reconciled
- 31:18because we understand
- 31:19who we are,
- 31:21how undeserving
- 31:22of grace
- 31:23that we are
- 31:24in the scheme
- 31:26of looking
- 31:26at God's holiness
- 31:27and in light
- 31:29of that,
- 31:29how we can truly
- 31:30forgive each other
- 31:31no matter what
- 31:33the offense.
- 31:35And so it's hard.
- 31:36It's hard to show
- 31:37this love
- 31:38and I think
- 31:39the reason why
- 31:40is because
- 31:41we are humans,
- 31:42right?
- 31:43We are sinful.
- 31:44We make mistakes.
- 31:46We consistently
- 31:47go against
- 31:48our new nature.
- 31:51But this is the love
- 31:52that we're called to,
- 31:52the same love
- 31:53that Christ
- 31:54has shown us.
- 31:56Go ahead
- 31:56and grab your bulletins.
- 31:59There's a quote
- 32:00on it
- 32:00by Jonathan Edwards.
- 32:06I think it goes
- 32:07very well
- 32:07with this
- 32:07first Corinthians
- 32:08passage.
- 32:08It says,
- 32:10All of the fruits
- 32:11of the Spirit
- 32:11which we are
- 32:12to lay weight
- 32:12upon
- 32:13as evidential
- 32:14of grace
- 32:14are summed up
- 32:15in charity
- 32:16or Christian love
- 32:17because
- 32:18this is the sum
- 32:19of all grace.
- 32:22So this season,
- 32:22let's look well
- 32:23to Christ's
- 32:24perfect example
- 32:25of love
- 32:25and in doing that,
- 32:27looking to his example,
- 32:28show that same love
- 32:29for each other.
- 32:30So let's pray.