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- 0:00Please take out your copy of God's Word, which I hope you have with you, that it's well read and treasured in your heart this morning and turn with me to the book of Proverbs chapter 1.
- 0:14This morning we're taking a break from our verse by verse exposition of the sermon on the mount from Matthew chapter 5 through 7.
- 0:23We've been working up to Matthew 5, 17 through 20. We've began to talk about the law and the gospel.
- 0:33And I kind of charged into that whole thing, not really stopping to consider that today was Mother's Day.
- 0:40And so this week I went, you know, let's not talk about the law and gospel from Matthew 5, 17 through 20 and Exodus 20 this morning.
- 0:49But let's take a little time to consider all that it means to be a mother.
- 0:56It is my intention today to be an encouragement to the mothers of our congregation by reminding you of your high calling in Jesus Christ.
- 1:05You may find some challenge in God's Word to us this morning.
- 1:10But I want you to know that I believe that the mothers of our church work very hard to excel in their disciple making.
- 1:19And this does not go unnoticed.
- 1:22I am proud of each and every one of you.
- 1:26I know that your job as mothers can often seem mundane and unending and that it is always exhausting.
- 1:36And so I want to encourage you to persist by grace to train up your children as God will use you to yield fruit in their lives.
- 1:49So with that in mind, let's take a look at Proverbs 1, verses 7 through 9.
- 1:57Before I read, beloved, let me remind you that this is God's Word to us.
- 2:02It was written for His glory and our good.
- 2:06And we would all do well to listen to it in order to believe its promises and obey its commands.
- 2:14Proverbs 1, verse 7.
- 2:17The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge.
- 2:22Fools despise wisdom and instruction.
- 2:26Hear, my son, your father's instruction and forsake not your mother's teaching.
- 2:32For they are a graceful garland to your head and pendants for your neck.
- 2:40This morning I want to draw your attention to five observations from Proverbs 1, 7 through 9 in brief.
- 2:49At least that's my plan.
- 2:51I know sometimes I plan that and it doesn't go according to plan.
- 2:54But that is my plan both because I know most, at least many of us, have lots of afternoon things to take care of.
- 3:04But also, and I'll ask for prayer on your behalf, I just don't feel well this morning.
- 3:10I've had a morning where I thought I could go back to bed at any time here.
- 3:14So we'll see how this goes.
- 3:16You know how I get when I get into the points sometimes.
- 3:19So, in attempt, five observations from Proverbs 1, 7 through 9.
- 3:25Number one, God is the originator of the family.
- 3:32God created the family.
- 3:37Solomon is the book of Proverbs author.
- 3:40The wisdom that he speaks of throughout the book is a wisdom founded in the fear of the Lord.
- 3:59So, he leads his teaching out in chapter 1 with these words from verse 7.
- 4:04The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge.
- 4:09Which fools despise this knowledge, the wisdom and the instruction that will follow in the books.
- 4:17And he begins his instruction with a most important note concerning the source of wisdom.
- 4:27The family.
- 4:28He instructs his son to hear his father's instruction and to not abandon his mother's teaching.
- 4:39So, God in his loving kindness towards mankind created the family.
- 4:47We read in Genesis chapter 1 verses 27 and 28.
- 4:52So, God created man in his own image.
- 4:55In the image of God, he created him male and female.
- 4:58He created them.
- 5:00And God blessed them.
- 5:02And God said to them, be fruitful and multiply.
- 5:07Have children.
- 5:09And fill the earth.
- 5:11And subdue it.
- 5:12And have dominion over fish of the sea and birds of the air.
- 5:16And over the heavens.
- 5:17Every living thing that moves on the earth.
- 5:20God gives to them this multiplying mandate.
- 5:24And we come to further understand, as is noted for us in Genesis 2.24,
- 5:30that there's a unit that's created here.
- 5:34Right?
- 5:35Moses writes in Genesis 2.24,
- 5:37Therefore, a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife,
- 5:42and they shall become one flesh.
- 5:45And so, God created this institution of family,
- 5:49and we create, as we multiply and marry, families.
- 5:54Right?
- 5:54We continue to portion ourselves off and create families.
- 6:01The family was and is meant to be an institution itself with God-mandated responsibilities.
- 6:12So, second observation.
- 6:13So, first observation, God is the originator of the family.
- 6:17Secondly, the family was designed by God to be a school.
- 6:23The family was designed by God to be a school.
- 6:26Again, in verse 8.
- 6:29Hear, my son, your father's instruction, and forsake not, don't abandon, your mother's teaching.
- 6:37Beyond today's text,
- 6:39let's note together some other places in the Scripture
- 6:43where God instructs parents to instruct their children,
- 6:47like Deuteronomy 6, verses 4-7.
- 6:51Hear, O Israel, the Lord our God, the Lord is one.
- 6:58You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart,
- 7:00and with all your soul, and with all your might.
- 7:02And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart.
- 7:09You shall teach them diligently to your children,
- 7:12and shall talk of them when you sit in your house,
- 7:15and when you walk by the way,
- 7:17and when you lie down,
- 7:18and when you rise.
- 7:21Right?
- 7:21There's a fervency about the teaching,
- 7:23and there's an ongoing teaching about the ways of God to our children.
- 7:31Also, in Ephesians 6, verse 4,
- 7:35fathers, do not provoke your children to anger,
- 7:37but bring them up in the discipline,
- 7:40the training, and instruction of the Lord.
- 7:44Right here in Ephesians 6,
- 7:46Paul places the emphasis of raising children on fathers as the head of the household,
- 7:50but this does not exclude mothers as they are helpers of the fathers in this task.
- 7:57And the Bible instructs children to be students.
- 8:00So then it follows that the family, the home, is a school.
- 8:05Not only in today's text,
- 8:06but also in places like Proverbs 23, verse 22.
- 8:12Listen to your father who gave you life,
- 8:15and do not despise your mother when she is old.
- 8:19And Ephesians 6, verse 1.
- 8:22Children, obey your parents in the Lord,
- 8:25for this is right.
- 8:27Get your children to memorize that and repeat it back to you often.
- 8:31So, the family was designed by God to be a school,
- 8:37to be a place of instruction in the ways of God for our children.
- 8:44This is why many of us,
- 8:45I venture to say all of us,
- 8:47but I don't want to err in that way,
- 8:49but many of us in this church believe in the benefits of homeschooling, right?
- 8:54Because it creates such good opportunity for this very thing.
- 8:59But however our children receive their educations,
- 9:02the responsibility of teaching them
- 9:05to have a proper fear of the Lord
- 9:07falls to parents,
- 9:10and it is not a responsibility that can be given to anyone else.
- 9:17Third,
- 9:18the fear of the Lord is meant to be the theme of the family's curriculum.
- 9:25The fear of the Lord is meant to be the theme of the family's curriculum.
- 9:33And it's the reality that ties all things we teach our children together.
- 9:39Again, in verse 7,
- 9:40the fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge.
- 9:46It's the prerequisite course of knowledge, right?
- 9:50It should infiltrate everything our children learn
- 9:54so that they have a right and proper worldview.
- 10:00All education has,
- 10:02at its foundation,
- 10:04a worldview.
- 10:05We are teaching our children something about the world
- 10:08even by not talking about God.
- 10:13Our education these days,
- 10:15our public school education,
- 10:16I'm okay if you're a fan of public school education,
- 10:19I love our public school teachers
- 10:20that are part of our church
- 10:21and for the work that you're doing,
- 10:23but has at its foundation
- 10:24secular humanism, right?
- 10:26By not talking about God at all
- 10:28and by suggesting that education
- 10:30is the answer to all of your problems,
- 10:33you build a worldview for your children, right?
- 10:38All education has to sit on a base of something.
- 10:43The Christian family is to be sure
- 10:45that the fear of the Lord
- 10:48is set as the base
- 10:51for all other education.
- 10:55Now, this phrase, fear of the Lord,
- 10:56does not mean that we are working
- 10:57to send our children towering from God.
- 11:02It carries rather the idea
- 11:04of reverence and humility.
- 11:08A child that fears the Lord
- 11:09will recognize
- 11:10that they are a created being
- 11:14and they live in a created world
- 11:17and will, as such is true,
- 11:21desire to live in accord
- 11:23with the creator and sustainer
- 11:25of that created world.
- 11:27Right?
- 11:29They will see that it's all built upon
- 11:32the fact, the reality,
- 11:34that God created this world
- 11:36and intends to rule over it
- 11:38as its good king.
- 11:40They will see the world's goodness
- 11:43under God's rule
- 11:44and they will also see
- 11:46the world's brokenness
- 11:48in rejection of God
- 11:50as king.
- 11:52Let me show you the importance
- 11:54of such a theme
- 11:55from a couple of psalms.
- 11:58So, Psalm 31 and verse 19.
- 12:02The psalmist says,
- 12:03Oh, how abundant is your goodness,
- 12:06which you have stored up
- 12:08for those who fear you
- 12:09and work for those
- 12:11who take refuge in you.
- 12:15Psalm 112 and verse 1.
- 12:19The psalmist writes,
- 12:20Praise the Lord.
- 12:22Blessed is the man
- 12:23who fears the Lord.
- 12:25Blessed, doing well
- 12:27as the man who fears the Lord,
- 12:29who greatly delights
- 12:31in the Lord's commandments.
- 12:34And Psalm 115 and verse 13.
- 12:38The Lord will bless those
- 12:40who fear the Lord,
- 12:42both the small and the great.
- 12:47So, there is a promise
- 12:49of goodness and blessing
- 12:51from God to those who fear Him
- 12:55and want to follow in His ways.
- 12:58We want our children
- 13:00to be declared by God
- 13:02blessed.
- 13:05And building all that we do
- 13:08in instructing our children
- 13:09on this fear of the Lord,
- 13:12letting it be the foundation,
- 13:14ultimately,
- 13:15has its final good
- 13:17in the gospel of Jesus Christ.
- 13:21If our children are humbled
- 13:22because of their sin and parents,
- 13:24we have so many opportunities
- 13:26to teach them about their sin.
- 13:30And they are amazed
- 13:32at the magnificent holiness of God.
- 13:36They will want to know
- 13:37the good news of Jesus Christ.
- 13:41We create for them the problem.
- 13:44We don't create a problem.
- 13:46We create for them the problem.
- 13:47It is a problem that exists.
- 13:49They are born in sin.
- 13:52As Voddie Bauckham likes to say,
- 13:53do you know why babies are so small?
- 13:55It is because if they were any larger,
- 13:58they would kill you.
- 14:01We have seen the rage
- 14:03in our young ones.
- 14:05They are sinful from birth.
- 14:08Reject the good rule of God as king.
- 14:10If they did not,
- 14:11they would listen to the loving kind,
- 14:14help and instruction of their parents.
- 14:16If they do not,
- 14:18they transgress the fifth commandment
- 14:20from day one.
- 14:22We want to show them
- 14:24their great need
- 14:25of a Savior,
- 14:26Jesus Christ.
- 14:27They need to put on
- 14:27His righteousness
- 14:29before God.
- 14:32John Piper,
- 14:33in a sermon on this very text,
- 14:35said,
- 14:35the family isn't just a place
- 14:36where children learn
- 14:37to hold spoons
- 14:38and walk on two feet
- 14:39and say please
- 14:41and tie shoes
- 14:42and read
- 14:43and look both ways
- 14:44and cut grass
- 14:45and put on makeup
- 14:45and drive a car.
- 14:47The family is where
- 14:49all of this and more
- 14:50begins in God,
- 14:52is guided by God's Word
- 14:54and is shown to be
- 14:56for the glory of God.
- 14:58The fear of God,
- 15:00the reverencing of God,
- 15:02the standing in awe of God,
- 15:04the trusting of God
- 15:06is what families are for.
- 15:11So that was the third point.
- 15:12The fear of the Lord
- 15:13is meant to be the theme
- 15:14of the family's curriculum.
- 15:19Fourthly,
- 15:20both father and mother
- 15:23are responsible for teaching.
- 15:27Verse 8,
- 15:29the son is instructed
- 15:30to hear his father's instruction
- 15:33and to not abandon
- 15:34his mother's teaching.
- 15:38Solomon tells his son
- 15:39to heed the teaching
- 15:40of both his father
- 15:41and his mother.
- 15:42in the normative family,
- 15:46both exist.
- 15:48And both work
- 15:49to the great end
- 15:50of teaching children
- 15:52to fear the Lord.
- 15:56But in a world of death
- 15:57and severed relationship,
- 16:01not all families
- 16:03are normative.
- 16:06Some children are raised
- 16:07by single mothers
- 16:09and there is grace
- 16:10for this.
- 16:12Some children are raised
- 16:13by single fathers
- 16:14and there is grace.
- 16:16Probably extra measures
- 16:17of grace for this.
- 16:20Some children do not have
- 16:22God-fearing parents
- 16:23or one who is
- 16:24and one who is not.
- 16:27And there is grace
- 16:28for this.
- 16:31And most regularly,
- 16:32the means of said grace
- 16:34is the church
- 16:36called together
- 16:37as a faith family.
- 16:41God employs
- 16:42the efforts
- 16:42of the church
- 16:43to aid us
- 16:45in raising
- 16:46children.
- 16:49And I want to show you
- 16:49this manifold grace
- 16:51from the life
- 16:52of Timothy.
- 16:54Timothy's father
- 16:55was a Greek
- 16:56and not a follower
- 16:58of Jesus Christ
- 16:59by all that we can tell.
- 17:01Most likely.
- 17:03Maybe he converted
- 17:03at a later age.
- 17:05But the way Paul writes
- 17:06concerning Timothy's father
- 17:08doesn't appear
- 17:09that he was.
- 17:11But Paul tells us
- 17:12in 2 Timothy 1
- 17:13and verse 5
- 17:15as he's writing
- 17:16to Timothy,
- 17:17he says,
- 17:18I am reminded
- 17:19of your sincere faith.
- 17:21The faith
- 17:21that dwelt first
- 17:23in your grandmother Lois
- 17:25and your mother Eunice.
- 17:27And now,
- 17:28I am sure,
- 17:30dwells in you as well.
- 17:32And then further instructs
- 17:33Timothy in 2 Timothy 3
- 17:35verses 14 and 15.
- 17:37But as for you,
- 17:38continue in what you have learned
- 17:40and have firmly believed,
- 17:42knowing from whom
- 17:43you learned it.
- 17:45And how from childhood
- 17:47you have been acquainted
- 17:48with the sacred writings
- 17:50which are able
- 17:50to make you wise
- 17:51for salvation
- 17:52through faith
- 17:53in Jesus Christ.
- 17:55Timothy finding himself
- 17:57as a prominent Christian leader
- 18:00in the Ephesian church
- 18:03owes so much
- 18:05to God's grace
- 18:06to him
- 18:07through his grandmother
- 18:08and his mother.
- 18:11So God having great grace
- 18:12to Timothy
- 18:13and giving great grace
- 18:14to Lois and Eunice,
- 18:17God also gave great grace
- 18:19in giving Timothy
- 18:20a spiritual father.
- 18:22It would seem
- 18:24that his biological father
- 18:25was not this for him.
- 18:28But in 1 Timothy 1,
- 18:30the beginning of verse 2,
- 18:32Paul addresses his first letter
- 18:33to Timothy
- 18:34with these words.
- 18:36To Timothy,
- 18:38my true child
- 18:39in the faith.
- 18:41It would seem
- 18:42that there was
- 18:42some kind of
- 18:43spiritual adoption
- 18:45on Paul's mind here.
- 18:47He was willing
- 18:48to father Timothy
- 18:51in the faith.
- 18:52And Paul tells us
- 18:53that he instructed Timothy
- 18:55in the way of the Lord
- 18:56in 2 Timothy 3,
- 18:58verse 10,
- 18:59and the first part
- 19:00of verse 11,
- 19:02where he writes,
- 19:03You, however,
- 19:04have followed
- 19:05my teaching,
- 19:06my conduct,
- 19:07my aim in life,
- 19:09my faith,
- 19:10my patience,
- 19:11my love,
- 19:12my steadfastness,
- 19:13my persecutions,
- 19:15and sufferings.
- 19:17Doesn't that sound
- 19:18like Deuteronomy 6?
- 19:20This teaching,
- 19:21passing on diligently
- 19:23to your children
- 19:24these commands.
- 19:27Dwelling on these things
- 19:29and the rising
- 19:29and the sitting in the house
- 19:31and the walking along
- 19:33the way
- 19:34Paul had instructed
- 19:36Timothy
- 19:36as a spiritual father.
- 19:40So today,
- 19:41I want to exhort
- 19:43childless women
- 19:45to have
- 19:46spiritual children.
- 19:48children.
- 19:49And I want to exhort
- 19:50women with children
- 19:51to have
- 19:52spiritual children.
- 19:55Train those
- 19:56younger than you
- 19:58in the faith
- 19:58and impart
- 20:00a fear of the Lord
- 20:01to someone
- 20:03else.
- 20:05We are meant
- 20:06to be disciple makers
- 20:07both within the house
- 20:09and without
- 20:10of the house.
- 20:13Mothers,
- 20:13you provide
- 20:14many necessary
- 20:15things
- 20:16for your children.
- 20:18You keep them
- 20:19clothed
- 20:20and fed,
- 20:21some better than others,
- 20:23but they are surviving.
- 20:27But your children
- 20:28do not need
- 20:29a perfectly clean house
- 20:31or the most exciting meals.
- 20:34They do need you
- 20:36and they need
- 20:37your careful instruction
- 20:39in Scripture.
- 20:40Make that the priority
- 20:42of your efforts.
- 20:45On your bulletin
- 20:46this morning
- 20:46is a Charles Spurgeon
- 20:47quote,
- 20:48as I like to do.
- 20:51I keep awaiting
- 20:52the jokes
- 20:53made about my
- 20:54Spurgeon quotes.
- 20:56You'll be a clever one
- 20:57if you can come up
- 20:57with good jokes
- 20:58concerning that.
- 21:01He wrote this,
- 21:01Fathers and mothers
- 21:02are the most natural
- 21:03agents for God
- 21:04to use
- 21:05in the salvation
- 21:06of their children.
- 21:08I am sure
- 21:09that in my early years
- 21:10no teaching
- 21:11ever made
- 21:11such an impression
- 21:12upon my mind
- 21:14as the instruction
- 21:15of my mother.
- 21:18And today
- 21:19you get a bonus
- 21:20Spurgeon quote.
- 21:23Those who think
- 21:24that a woman
- 21:25detained
- 21:26at home
- 21:27by her little family,
- 21:29so let me just repeat that.
- 21:30Those who think
- 21:31that a woman
- 21:32detained
- 21:33at home,
- 21:34busy,
- 21:35so busy,
- 21:36at home
- 21:37by her little family
- 21:39is doing nothing.
- 21:41Think the reverse
- 21:42of what
- 21:43is true.
- 21:45There is so
- 21:47much
- 21:48value,
- 21:49ladies,
- 21:49in the hard work
- 21:50you do
- 21:51the day in
- 21:51and the day out
- 21:53with your little ones.
- 21:55Fifth,
- 21:57children who obey
- 21:58their parents,
- 22:00heed their parents'
- 22:02instruction,
- 22:03are promised
- 22:04a reward.
- 22:09Verse 9,
- 22:11for they,
- 22:12and what
- 22:13Solomon is referring to,
- 22:15for they,
- 22:16your father's instruction
- 22:17and your mother's teaching,
- 22:18right,
- 22:19are a graceful
- 22:20garland for your head
- 22:21and pendants
- 22:23for your neck.
- 22:26To the Israelites'
- 22:27mind,
- 22:28no signs
- 22:30or badges
- 22:31of joy
- 22:32or glory
- 22:32were higher
- 22:33in worth
- 22:34than the garland
- 22:36around the head
- 22:38or the gold chain
- 22:39around the neck.
- 22:41They were worn
- 22:42by kings
- 22:43and they were worn
- 22:44by the favorites
- 22:45of kings.
- 22:47They were doled out
- 22:48by kings
- 22:49to honor
- 22:50people.
- 22:52This is the promise
- 22:53of a parent's
- 22:54instruction
- 22:55themed by the fear
- 22:57of the Lord.
- 22:58We must make
- 22:58that caveat,
- 22:59right?
- 23:00Parental instruction
- 23:01themed,
- 23:01held together
- 23:02by the fear
- 23:04of the Lord.
- 23:05The promise
- 23:05is
- 23:06the favor
- 23:07of the Lord.
- 23:10The fifth commandment
- 23:11found in Exodus 20
- 23:12and verse 12
- 23:13says,
- 23:14Honor your father
- 23:14and mother
- 23:15that your days
- 23:16may be long
- 23:17in the land
- 23:18that the Lord
- 23:18your God
- 23:19is giving you.
- 23:22In Proverbs
- 23:22chapter 14
- 23:23verse 26 and 27
- 23:24says,
- 23:26In the fear
- 23:26of the Lord
- 23:26one has strong
- 23:27confidence
- 23:28and his children
- 23:29will have
- 23:29a refuge.
- 23:32The fear
- 23:32of the Lord
- 23:32is a fountain
- 23:33of life
- 23:34that one
- 23:34may turn away
- 23:35from the snares
- 23:37of death.
- 23:39And Proverbs
- 23:4019 and verse 23,
- 23:43The fear
- 23:44of the Lord
- 23:44leads to life
- 23:46and whoever
- 23:47has it
- 23:47rests
- 23:48satisfied.
- 23:49He will
- 23:50not be visited
- 23:51by harm.
- 23:52And this is not
- 23:54wisdom
- 23:55for the
- 23:56day to day
- 23:58of harm
- 23:59and avoiding
- 24:00death.
- 24:00This is talking
- 24:01about eternal
- 24:02favor found
- 24:04in God
- 24:04by faith
- 24:05in Jesus Christ.
- 24:07And the teaching
- 24:08of the good news
- 24:09of Jesus Christ
- 24:10has its start
- 24:12at the very
- 24:13foundation
- 24:13in understanding
- 24:15who we are
- 24:17and who
- 24:18God
- 24:19is.
- 24:20We will see
- 24:21the great
- 24:22chasm
- 24:23fixed
- 24:23between us
- 24:24and be
- 24:25desirous
- 24:26to cross
- 24:26that chasm
- 24:27when we cross
- 24:28it by faith
- 24:28in Jesus Christ.
- 24:30And we want
- 24:30our children,
- 24:31we desperately
- 24:31want our children
- 24:32to cross
- 24:33that chasm
- 24:34with us.
- 24:36And so
- 24:37we see
- 24:38in brief
- 24:40from Proverbs
- 24:40chapter 1
- 24:41verse 7
- 24:41through 9
- 24:42God is the
- 24:43originator
- 24:44of the family.
- 24:45The family
- 24:46was designed
- 24:46by God
- 24:47to be a school.
- 24:49The fear
- 24:50of the Lord
- 24:50is meant
- 24:51to be
- 24:51the theme
- 24:52of the
- 24:52family's
- 24:53curriculum.
- 24:55Both
- 24:56father and
- 24:56mother
- 24:56are responsible
- 24:57for teaching
- 24:59and children
- 25:00who obey
- 25:00their parents
- 25:01are promised
- 25:02a reward.
- 25:04And so
- 25:05beloved,
- 25:05let's take
- 25:06up the task
- 25:07of this
- 25:08great charge
- 25:09that's been
- 25:09given to us
- 25:11as those
- 25:11with kids
- 25:12and as
- 25:13part of
- 25:13a church
- 25:14that has
- 25:15children
- 25:16to preach
- 25:18the gospel
- 25:19well.
- 25:20To
- 25:20found
- 25:21everything
- 25:22that we
- 25:23do
- 25:23as
- 25:24families
- 25:24and
- 25:25with
- 25:25our
- 25:25children
- 25:26in
- 25:27the
- 25:27fear
- 25:27of the
- 25:27Lord.
- 25:28This
- 25:28reverence
- 25:28for who
- 25:29He is
- 25:29and how
- 25:30He intends
- 25:30for us
- 25:31to walk
- 25:32in the
- 25:32world.
- 25:33And let's
- 25:33do this
- 25:34from the
- 25:36joy of
- 25:36obedience
- 25:37and by
- 25:38grace.
- 25:39Let's pray
- 25:40together.