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Monday Mini: Childless Women Just Wanna Have Fun? · Stuff Mom Never Told You

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  Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha and all come with stuff.
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  Speaker 1: I never told you a protection of iHeartRadio.
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  Speaker 2: And today listen.
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  Speaker 1: I have just come back from Disney World and Universal
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  Speaker 1: and I am recovering. I have to go on a
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  Speaker 1: surprise work trip next week, and this has been.
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  Speaker 2: On my mind for a while.
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  Speaker 1: I know there's a lot of things going on, but
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  Speaker 1: I have been wanting to talk about this. So we're
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  Speaker 1: going to be talking about kind of the vitriol against
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  Speaker 1: single women, childless women who go to Disney World.
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  Speaker 2: It is a bit dated.
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  Speaker 1: I think this conversation is ongoing, but this particular post
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  Speaker 1: is a bit dated.
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  Speaker 2: But I bet a lot of you.
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  Speaker 1: Will remember it also with this, we're going to talk
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  Speaker 1: about this little at the end. But you know, every
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  Speaker 1: time we have a conversation like this, it's always worth
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  Speaker 1: acknowledging people who want to have kids and can't have
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  Speaker 1: kids for whatever reason. It's also worth acknowledging that Disney
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  Speaker 1: World is expensive. It is extremely expensive. And we calculated
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  Speaker 1: how many rides you would ride without a fast pass.
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  Speaker 1: It was like four or five. Oh no, And it's
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  Speaker 1: for the price of admission. That that's bonkers. I don't
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  Speaker 1: know if that's totally accurate, but that's what we calculated
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  Speaker 1: on this particular trip, so to put that out there
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  Speaker 1: also a content warning for language which will be believed,
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  Speaker 1: but it's pretty offensive. So just a note. But yeah,
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  Speaker 1: Samantha and I, You and I have talked about this previously,
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  Speaker 1: kind of just how angry people get about people enjoying themselves,
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  Speaker 1: especially if they're childless people at places like this, And
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  Speaker 1: a couple of years ago, there was a post on
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  Speaker 1: Facebook that went viral that kind of really spoke to
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  Speaker 1: this vitriol, and I'm going to read it.
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  Speaker 2: So here we go.
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  Speaker 1: It pisses me off to no end when I see
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  Speaker 1: childless couples without children at Disney World.
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  Speaker 2: Also, a lot of this is an all cast. I
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  Speaker 2: just have to stress.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Disney World is a family amusement park, three exclamation points.
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  Speaker 1: Yet these immature millennials throw away their money on useless crap.
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  Speaker 1: They have no idea the joy and happiness it is
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  Speaker 1: to mothers who buy their babies cheats and toys. Some
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  Speaker 1: and some very slutty shorts was buying on Mickey Pretzel
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  Speaker 1: and Aiden my son wanted one, but the line was
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  Speaker 1: very long, so I said later and it broke his
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  Speaker 1: poor little heart and he cried. And I wanted to
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  Speaker 1: take that pretzel from that tramp, like thanks, she made
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  Speaker 1: my son cry. I hate childless women with a burning passion.
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  Speaker 3: Wow, yeah, because I'm like, you know, this is this
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  Speaker 3: kid is the same kid who's never going to hear
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  Speaker 3: no for an answer and maybe a rapist. Right, that
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  Speaker 3: might be too strong, but let's just be honest, like
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  Speaker 3: saying that it's her fault that you said no is
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  Speaker 3: an odd reaction, not that it was the last pretzel,
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  Speaker 3: which still wouldn't give you any right, right, but that
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  Speaker 3: you just didn't want to stand in line, right.
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  Speaker 1: And here we've talked about this before. I have kind
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  Speaker 1: of like a running joke that you can, I perhaps
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  Speaker 1: callously count how many arguments I hear in Disney Magic
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  Speaker 1: Kingdom is number one.
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  Speaker 2: That's where most of them happen.
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  Speaker 1: But we have talked about before about the pressure that's
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  Speaker 1: put on women to plan these vacations and make them magical.
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  Speaker 2: As I said, it is so.
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  Speaker 1: Expensive, and I feel like that becomes a pressure where
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  Speaker 1: it's like, if you're not happy and having the best time,
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  Speaker 1: then what is this for?
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  Speaker 2: Which kids are kids?
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  Speaker 1: And maybe are tired of the heat, or don't want
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  Speaker 1: to wait in line because it's mostly waiting in lines.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody like, that's just what it is.
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  Speaker 1: And this year when I went, the number one argument
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  Speaker 1: I heard was mostly dads or I'm assuming mostly men,
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  Speaker 1: saying some version of like, I paid so much for this,
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  Speaker 1: you're going to enjoy it to their kids, which is like, not,
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  Speaker 1: that's not the best way to have a good time.
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  Speaker 1: I do get it, it's expensive, but also like their
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  Speaker 1: kids kids in the right butt it was so hot
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  Speaker 1: in October, I have summer like, and I don't bernie it.
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  Speaker 3: Oh wow, well mean again, this is we talked about
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  Speaker 3: this before. We talked about this conversation, had this whole
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  Speaker 3: conversation about the fact that going on vacation as a privilege. Yes,
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  Speaker 3: it's unfortunate that it's that type of privilege. Yes, my
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  Speaker 3: family could never I think I just recently joked with
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  Speaker 3: my mother because they were talking about going somewhere and
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  Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I'm proud of you, because we
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  Speaker 3: talked about the fact that every four years for two
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  Speaker 3: days one night. Actually I thought it was a whole
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  Speaker 3: like three day weekend. My aunt mom was like, no,
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  Speaker 3: it was one night, like she corrected me. Two days,
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  Speaker 3: one night we would go to the Smoky Mountains, go
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  Speaker 3: to Dollywood.
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  Speaker 2: Got nothing.
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  Speaker 3: We never got souvenirs. I think we ended up sharing
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  Speaker 3: a like a funnel cake. But we definitely had the
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  Speaker 3: like the five or five hamburgers for McDonald's, which I
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  Speaker 3: despised to this day, like I cannot stand that, and
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  Speaker 3: the laurel in buy one, get one free chips that
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  Speaker 3: was stashed, and then we had whatever sand which is
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  Speaker 3: my mother packed for the trip because we were not
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  Speaker 3: going out to eat. I think we went out to
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  Speaker 3: one time, so they budgeted in one time Dollywood, a
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  Speaker 3: really sad two bed motel where three kids would have
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  Speaker 3: to share with their parents, Like I think I definitely
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  Speaker 3: was on the floor, and a Blazer where I had
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  Speaker 3: to sit in the cubby in the back and not
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  Speaker 3: make that word when I get really carsick. So this
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  Speaker 3: was even more fun driving out to Tennessee, which was
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  Speaker 3: like a good four hour drive. That was our vacation
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  Speaker 3: until yeah, until I think we stopped going doing vacations
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  Speaker 3: and I started going with friends to vacations they would
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  Speaker 3: go on. They would let me go with them, so
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  Speaker 3: every all that had to pay for was food, but
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  Speaker 3: like that was our vacation and for my parents gonna lie,
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  Speaker 3: I don't have great memories. I'm so sorry I sound
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  Speaker 3: so ungrateful because we just fought the entire time. I
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  Speaker 3: don't know if my mom and dad would fight or
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  Speaker 3: my brother and I would fight. It was just fighting,
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  Speaker 3: and I just remember standing in line, being hot and
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  Speaker 3: crying and being miserable. My brother, I remember one year,
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  Speaker 3: got such bad sunburn that he had sunpoints nand we
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  Speaker 3: had to take him to the hospital like that on
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  Speaker 3: the level of vacations and again once every four years. Right,
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  Speaker 3: the memories that I have so doing a whole Disney thing,
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  Speaker 3: I couldn't imagine.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know if it would have been fun for.
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  Speaker 1: Me, honestly, because I've told this story before. I asked
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  Speaker 1: my parents to go when I was a kid, and
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  Speaker 1: they said never, And that's why I joined marching because
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  Speaker 1: the Margin band would. But like so one of the
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  Speaker 1: reasons this was on my mind was not only did
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  Speaker 1: I go recently and I heard these arguments, but also
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  Speaker 1: I was with my friends and we were all talking
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  Speaker 1: about like if we had gone as kids, would we
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  Speaker 1: have enjoyed it? Like, what is the age where it's
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  Speaker 1: like that magical thing right that they kind of commercialize
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  Speaker 1: to people, sell to people. And I just feel like
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  Speaker 1: for a lot of kids, it's a very small window,
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  Speaker 1: especially for that price. Like if it wasn't that expensive,
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  Speaker 1: then I don't know, then you could go in and
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  Speaker 1: like they want to see this character and ride this
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  Speaker 1: ride and then you can go back to the hotel.
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  Speaker 1: But because it's so expensive, you feel like you have
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  Speaker 1: to I've got to get the most out of this.
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  Speaker 1: We're only coming this one time, maybe, But we were
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  Speaker 1: talking about that, and we were saying, like, this is
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  Speaker 1: why it's so fun to go as a single like
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  Speaker 1: childless adults, where we can ride all the.
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  Speaker 2: Rides and we can eat the food and you know,
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  Speaker 2: like it. So it just started this conversation.
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  Speaker 1: Then when I read this comment, which I do remember
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  Speaker 1: when it happens, and I've heard this from people. I've
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  Speaker 1: heard this from people, not usually friends, but I've heard
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  Speaker 1: it from people who are basically their argument is it's
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  Speaker 1: child it's childish for you to go and you're making
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  Speaker 1: everything worse for kids, and it's for kids, and so
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  Speaker 1: like in this comment, I found it interesting that she
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  Speaker 1: says like the line like you have no idea the
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  Speaker 1: joy and happiness it is for mothers to buy their
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  Speaker 1: babies treats and toys like that, being of the mother
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  Speaker 1: and buying these things, that's the joy for her. It's
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  Speaker 1: not going to them to the parks. It is bringing
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  Speaker 1: her kids to the parks and then calling everyone floody.
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  Speaker 3: And there's so much like sexist commentary here on top
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  Speaker 3: of the fact, like it's the best part to me
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  Speaker 3: was the whole Like you bought a pretzel? He started crying.
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  Speaker 3: I said no, And now I'm mad, like why did
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  Speaker 3: you just buy him a pretzel?
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  Speaker 2: I don't.
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  Speaker 3: I don't understand.
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  Speaker 2: I know lines get long and Disney, but I promise.
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  Speaker 3: Like we might have been like, oh, I'm not going
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  Speaker 3: to that one, We'll go to this one.
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  Speaker 2: It's never been that long.
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  Speaker 3: I went with you as an adult, and if we
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  Speaker 3: didn't get a drink here, we got it over there, like.
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  Speaker 2: I got they want you to buy that, like they
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  Speaker 2: have one.
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  Speaker 3: Like every other corner. I don't know what is happening
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  Speaker 3: that this seems to be the one, the one odd
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  Speaker 3: thing like you could have complained about we wanted to
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  Speaker 3: get on the teapot, but these adults to go, but
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  Speaker 3: that would have made a lot more sense.
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  Speaker 1: I don't understand.
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  Speaker 2: I don't either, but I've heard it. I've heard it.
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  Speaker 1: I even like some celebrities are kind of famous for
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  Speaker 1: being like I hate Disney adults, and I think there's
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  Speaker 1: a difference between and I'm actually not here to comment
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  Speaker 1: on this, but I think there's a difference between like
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  Speaker 1: Disney adults and adults who go to Disney right.
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  Speaker 3: Also, I have friends who went all of their childhood
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  Speaker 3: and all of their adult life, and they because they
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  Speaker 3: they at like thirties, have enjoyed going with their parents
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  Speaker 3: to Disney World, and like they love and they neither
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  Speaker 3: one of them have children, the children and they love
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  Speaker 3: this as much. And I feel like, you know, at
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  Speaker 3: this point also again, unless you are very rich having
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  Speaker 3: those kids, you are not going.
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  Speaker 2: Right.
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  Speaker 1: And another thing that I was thinking about because I'm
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  Speaker 1: kind of the you know, I'm the person that's like,
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  Speaker 1: here's what we do, yes, but they changed their fast
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  Speaker 1: past system at Disney, and now you have to pay
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  Speaker 1: for it and you have to wake up at seven
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  Speaker 1: am every morning to do it, and you have to
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  Speaker 1: do it per person, so you know, I'm with friends
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  Speaker 1: who I have someone Marissa, thank you who helped me out.
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  Speaker 1: But I can't imagine, like you you'd have to a
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  Speaker 1: know that no clue and then pay for it and
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  Speaker 1: then wake up and do it for all of your kids.
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  Speaker 1: Like because we were all adults, like we all chipped in.
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  Speaker 1: That was okay, but like if you're taking your kids,
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  Speaker 1: they're not help and.
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  Speaker 3: If you're unfortunately in one of those relationships, the dude's
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  Speaker 3: not helping.
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  Speaker 2: Mm seven am.
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  Speaker 3: They're like trying to with you in a line to
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  Speaker 3: go to Star Wars stuff. And I was like, I
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  Speaker 3: hate this, Why am I here? I don't have we
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  Speaker 3: not had you know, a friend of the show, Holly
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  Speaker 3: tell us what to do, we wouldn't have done it.
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  Speaker 1: No, I had to ask her and she by the
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  Speaker 1: way she was there when I was, I saw that.
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  Speaker 3: I wondered if you had to see each other or something.
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  Speaker 1: We never ran it to each other. We had like
• 13:01
  Speaker 1: the opposite schedule, but it was.
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  Speaker 3: She had the QC Halloween, you had the Horror Lew.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, then they go to the hot houses
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  Speaker 1: and she's like, I'll go to Mickey's not so scary party.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, it was cool, but I mean she was.
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  Speaker 1: One of the reasons we were originally talking about this
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  Speaker 1: is because people feel very they feel very legitimized in
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  Speaker 1: criticizing I would say, especially women and childless women for
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  Speaker 1: like having fun and like spending their money where they
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  Speaker 1: can spend their money.
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  Speaker 3: And when I'm guarantee, I think I've talked about this before,
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  Speaker 3: most of these women never got to go as.
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  Speaker 1: Kids, exactly exactly, And like I said, you know, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know that I would have had as fun if
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  Speaker 1: I had went as a kid. And that feels strange
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  Speaker 1: to say, because Disney World does feel like a very
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  Speaker 1: kid's place, but just because of all the logistics of it,
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  Speaker 1: of the heat of it, of the like all the
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  Speaker 1: ins and outs of the family arguments like, I don't
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  Speaker 1: think I would have had as fun if I had
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  Speaker 1: gone as a kid. And now I have the money,
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  Speaker 1: I'm very fortunate and I like to go. I like
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  Speaker 1: to go with friends. I didn't get to go as
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  Speaker 1: a kid, and it's just odd to me that I
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  Speaker 1: feel like I'm a good I'm not messing up your experience.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not like I'm in line, but I'm like, what
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  Speaker 1: is one more person in line like I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: I just don't feel like I'm really And we were
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  Speaker 1: talking about this with my friends and we were talking
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  Speaker 1: about kind of it's I feel like it's natural to
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  Speaker 1: be jealous to see people like, oh, they just get
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  Speaker 1: to go and do this, Like I don't have to
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  Speaker 1: deal with these kids. These kids, they don't have to
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  Speaker 1: deal with kids. We were like hot and crying, Like
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: one day we were writing a Magic Kingdom, hadn't even
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  Speaker 1: gotten there. I was probably like eight thirty nine. One
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  Speaker 1: kid screaming crying, I haven't even gotten there. The three
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  Speaker 1: others miserable, looking like just not into it. And that's
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  Speaker 1: how the day started. No, they hadn't even gotten into
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  Speaker 1: the heat, which that day was hot.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, this is like the same thing to me about
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  Speaker 3: six Flags. I won't go because it's just standing in
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  Speaker 3: line for for rides that hurt me. Yeah, I'm old,
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  Speaker 3: y'all the previous happy Hour that I have to stand
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  Speaker 3: in line for three hours with. No, we're pretty from
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  Speaker 3: the heat because you feel like you have to stand
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  Speaker 3: just in the hot cot concrete. There's no trees because
• 15:37
  Speaker 3: they've tiken them all down for the rides. Going into
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  Speaker 3: a restaurant is costly, and you really have nowhere to
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  Speaker 3: except in the heat.
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  Speaker 2: They have nowhere to sit.
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  Speaker 1: I was thinking about that nowhere to sit, And yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I mean we so we were basically waiting for Haunted
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  Speaker 1: Mansion to open up, and so we wrote this right
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  Speaker 1: that I like, but it's kind of like eh, And
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  Speaker 1: it was an hour wait and I heard the people
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  Speaker 1: at the front of it like, could you.
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  Speaker 4: Imagine waiting an hour in this heat? It was so
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  Speaker 4: I can't stress it.
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  Speaker 3: It sounds horrible, but I know you had the best time.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm not gonna hate that I had a great time.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, I mean it comes down to that awful
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  Speaker 3: saying that I really hate it. It's true, don't yuck
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  Speaker 3: someone's yum, and that I get it. You may be
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  Speaker 3: frustrated and you just want to blame somebody, and so
• 16:48
  Speaker 3: you're gonna blame the single people who seem to be
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: joyously walking about drinking and not having to get those
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  Speaker 3: their kids in line, touching things, begging for things, doing things.
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  Speaker 3: But like it seems just to be like one of
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  Speaker 3: those things that you are gonna have to mentally prepare
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  Speaker 3: yourself to know you're gonna have some kind of fallout,
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  Speaker 3: like whether it's a child having a tantrum, being tired,
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  Speaker 3: being hot, like any of those things. Like kids are
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  Speaker 3: not able to function for that long, Like I get
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  Speaker 3: super cranky and sleepy just standing out in the sun
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  Speaker 3: for four hours. So going like an a trying to
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  Speaker 3: get cram everything in an eight hour day with kids
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  Speaker 3: who are used to naps and being able to sit
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  Speaker 3: and just play video games. You've got a whole thing.
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  Speaker 3: You've got to meant to prepare yourself. And it's not
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  Speaker 3: anybody's fault. It's not your fault as a parrot. You're
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  Speaker 3: not your fault as the kid is not everyone else's
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  Speaker 3: fault who has nothing to do with this, right, And
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  Speaker 3: it seems kind of odd that what you want to
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  Speaker 3: do is curse out somebody for.
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  Speaker 1: Being there, right, and definitely make it like a very
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  Speaker 1: moral like, Hey, I have kids, I'm.
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  Speaker 3: The one who belongs here in itself, and we know
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  Speaker 3: if nothing else, Like Disney's only about the money. So
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  Speaker 3: if they could make more money without you, they will.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's my thing. It's like they want you
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  Speaker 1: to buy that damn pretzel. I promise you that. And
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  Speaker 1: also I just felt like it was a strange. It
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: goes back to what we've talked about before, about that
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  Speaker 1: idea that the mother is always which defines her goodness,
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  Speaker 1: is sacrificing her happiness. So it's like, what makes her
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  Speaker 1: happy about going to the quote happiest place on earth
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  Speaker 1: is that she's buying something for her kids, right, that's
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  Speaker 1: making him happy. So that just kind of weirds me out.
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  Speaker 1: But also I did like there were some responses that
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: were very funny. Here's one, This is my new favorite
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  Speaker 1: wild mommy post. It's me the milanni old slut who
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: just goes to Disney World to make children cry. And
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: then here's another one. With great power comes great responsibility.
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  Speaker 1: You are now mandated to go up some Karen's day
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  Speaker 1: by existing.
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  Speaker 2: In Disney World. God speed you revel. I mean again,
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: it's like I feel like we're not annoying partoers.
• 19:25
  Speaker 3: I mean, if you're an adult who is an influencer
• 19:30
  Speaker 3: that purposely tries to mess up people's day, then yes,
• 19:34
  Speaker 3: if you're purposely like messing with the staff, yes you
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: are you. You are a problem, and you need to
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: leave because I've seen so many of those posts. But
• 19:47
  Speaker 3: like I think people who are just trying to love
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: their adult life by living out their childhood fantasies. Why
• 19:57
  Speaker 3: not go hang out with him? Those are the people's
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: perspective that you want.
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and again, like I think we should be asking
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: more questions about like it's expensive and a lot of
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: us couldn't afford to go until we got jobs.
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: Right, and honestly, the park is not set up for
• 20:15
  Speaker 3: most people. It's very ablest and very like like so
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: many things, is it. The parking itself is inaccessible, Yeah,
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: for people without money and people who have a disability.
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: So that's conversation that needs to really happen.
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And I had a note about that at the
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: end because I feel that I've heard a lot of
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: comments that are very ablest at the park and also
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: a lot of fat phobic comments at the park. So
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: we're talking about single women today specifically, but that is
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: not at all the extent of what people feel very
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: qualified to judge other people for these parks. It just
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: makes me question, like who who do we think can
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: have fun? Who do we think can and money? And
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: the judgment that it comes so quickly around that if
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: it gets in certain people's way.
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: Well, I'm glad you had a fun time any and
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: I hope you can fulfill by going to the other one.
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: I'm trying. I'm trying to go to Universal in LA.
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: We'll see.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: But yeah, I had a real I had a blast,
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: and I'm going to talk about that in my Happy
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: Hour upcoming. But yeah, this was just something on my
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: mind and that we all talked about while we were there.
• 21:34
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• 21:37
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• 21:41
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• 21:55
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• 21:58
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• 22:02
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