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- 0:07Suze: December 11th, 2025. Welcome everybody to the Women and Money
- 0:11Suze: podcast and what KT?
- 0:12KT: And everyone's smart enough to listen.
- 0:16Suze: And if they don't listen, does that mean they're not
- 0:18Suze: smart enough? Yes.
- 0:21Suze: This is the Ask KT and Suze Anything edition. If
- 0:26Suze: you have a question, write into Ask Suze, S U
- 0:29Suze: Z E podcast at gmail.com. And if KT chooses it, oh,
- 0:35Suze: we will answer it on this podcast. All right.
- 0:40Suze: Should we just get into it?
- 0:41KT: Let's get right into it. My first question is from Susan,
- 0:45KT: and she said, Hi, Suze and KT. My father, who
- 0:48KT: is 75, watches these people on Facebook, and they told
- 0:53KT: him that he could get a life insurance policy and
- 0:56KT: borrow against it.
- 0:57KT: That he can put the stocks into a trust and
- 1:01KT: borrow against them as well for a house. I think
- 1:04KT: it's a scam. What are your thoughts on this?
- 1:07Suze: It's not a scam, Susan. It's absolutely just stupid. How
- 1:10Suze: is it possible that your father at 75
- 1:14Suze: is not intelligent enough to know not to listen to
- 1:17Suze: somebody on Facebook that he knows nothing about. Why are
- 1:21Suze: they telling him this? It's just stupid. OK. First of all,
- 1:26Suze: when you see that you can borrow against something.
- 1:30Suze: What does that say to you? It says that you've
- 1:32Suze: put your money somewhere and now you're going to borrow
- 1:35Suze: against it, which means you're going to have to pay
- 1:37Suze: an interest rate to use your own money. Are you
- 1:40Suze: kidding me? It just makes no sense whatsoever. I'm very,
- 1:46Suze: very familiar with these policies, and my advice to your
- 1:50Suze: father would be stay away, stay away, stay away. Next,
- 1:55Suze: anybody can put money
- 1:57Suze: into an investment account, whether it's in trust or individual name,
- 2:01Suze: and qualify for something called margin, and margin is where
- 2:05Suze: you have these stocks, and you can borrow against them
- 2:09Suze: to do anything you want, but then once again, it's
- 2:12Suze: not free. You have to pay the brokerage firm the
- 2:15Suze: money to borrow against the stocks and
- 2:18Suze: if the stocks that you borrowed the money from start
- 2:21Suze: to go down significantly, there's something called a margin call.
- 2:25Suze: And if your father doesn't have the money to absolutely
- 2:28Suze: pay that call, what does that mean? They will liquidate
- 2:31Suze: the stocks that he has, and he could possibly lose
- 2:34Suze: most of his money, if not all of it. It's
- 2:38Suze: not a scam. It is stupidity, all right.
- 2:43KT: I think that's great. Not a scam. It's just stupid.
- 2:47Suze: Well, you know, all these people...
- 2:48KT: I think that was just all you had to say.
- 2:50Suze: Yeah, when you see the word
- 2:52Suze: borrow when you see the word that you can do
- 2:55Suze: something with your stocks and borrow against them twice now,
- 2:59Suze: twice in this email you read me the word borrow.
- 3:04Suze: Just think about what the word borrow means and if
- 3:07Suze: you have the money, why would you borrow your own money?
- 3:11Suze: All right. All right.
- 3:12KT: Next question is from Marie. She said, first...
- 3:16Suze: What a way to start off the morning.
- 3:17KT: I know. I'm sorry.
- 3:19Suze: You did that on purpose.
- 3:20KT: No, I didn't. I like to rile you up, but
- 3:22KT: it woke you up. That's for sure. OK. Next question
- 3:26KT: from Marie. She said, first, thank you so much for
- 3:29KT: an excellent podcast. I've learned so much from both of you.
- 3:33KT: She said first time question submitter, this situation is a
- 3:37KT: real conundrum. Sadly, my sister passed away recently. She named
- 3:43KT: my elderly father as the beneficiary for her quite large 403b.
- 3:49KT: What's the best way to handle the funds to avoid, ready?
- 3:54KT: Avoid ordinary income taxes.
- 3:58Suze: Listen, Marie.
- 4:01Suze: Sometimes, obviously, you want to avoid income taxes if you can.
- 4:05Suze: However, whenever it comes to a retirement account, there's only
- 4:10Suze: one way to avoid income taxes, which I have been
- 4:14Suze: preaching from the mountain top now for over like 20
- 4:17Suze: or 30 years, however long it's been really, and that
- 4:22Suze: is what? By doing a Roth IRA, a Roth 403B,
- 4:28Suze: a Roth 401k, a Roth TSP.
- 4:32Suze: That is why I've been saying it. Once your money
- 4:36Suze: is in a traditional 403B, meaning pre-tax account,
- 4:41Suze: and the owner, your sister, dies and it now goes
- 4:45Suze: to your father. It is now in an inherited retirement
- 4:50Suze: account and there is absolutely no way to avoid taxes
- 4:55Suze: on it. However, stop thinking about the taxes that he's
- 4:58Suze: going to owe. Start thinking about how much money is
- 5:03Suze: in there.
- 5:04Suze: And how he will take it out. I don't know
- 5:06Suze: how old he actually is, but he will either have
- 5:09Suze: to take it out according to how old your sister
- 5:12Suze: was when she died, all of that, but something is
- 5:15Suze: always better than nothing.
- 5:18Suze: And if you approach this as, I want to just
- 5:20Suze: give the money away so he doesn't have to pay taxes,
- 5:22Suze: what can I do? What can I do? You're gonna
- 5:24Suze: get yourself in trouble. And just know that it is
- 5:28Suze: possible that when your father dies, maybe you then get
- 5:33Suze: that money because he gets to name who
- 5:35Suze: he wants as a beneficiary on this inherited IRA. So
- 5:41Suze: stop worrying about taxes. There is no way around them.
- 5:45Suze: All right, go on.
- 5:46KT: OK, this is sweet. Suze from Rosie.
- 5:48Suze: However, I just have to say one thing. He's not
- 5:50Suze: going to take all of this money out at one time.
- 5:53Suze: So don't be freaked that all of a sudden he
- 5:55Suze: got a lot of money and he's gonna take it
- 5:56Suze: out at one time. He's not, OK. It's gonna take
- 6:00Suze: out little by little, but probably it's gonna have to
- 6:02Suze: be wiped clean within 10 years. It just depends on age.
- 6:07Suze: All right, go on.
- 6:08KT: Suze. This next...
- 6:08Suze: Are you sure I'm done with that question?
- 6:10KT: Yeah, 10 years, Suze. This, this next, this next question
- 6:15KT: is from Rosie, and it's very sweet.
- 6:17KT: She said, I was born in 1941, so currently I
- 6:22KT: am 84 years old.
- 6:23Suze: Me too. 10 years later.
- 6:26KT: I do not have a great deal of money. However,
- 6:29KT: in total, I have over $100,000 in savings and CDs.
- 6:35KT: I think that's a great deal of money, Rosie.
- 6:37Suze: That's a great deal of money for most people.
- 6:38KT: And then she said, Does it make sense for me
- 6:40KT: to convert any of the savings to a Roth?
- 6:44KT: And then Rosie gives you an explanation as why she's asking.
- 6:47KT: She said, my family is long lived with my mother
- 6:51KT: living to 101 years old.
- 6:54Suze: See, Rosie, here's the problem. If this money right now
- 6:57Suze: is just in a savings account, $100,000 in savings and CDs,
- 7:03Suze: you can't convert any of that to a savings Roth.
- 7:07Suze: Unless you are currently working and you have earned income
- 7:13Suze: and then you're not converting it, you're just opening up
- 7:16Suze: a contributory Roth and putting some of this money in it,
- 7:20Suze: but I got news for you. It really doesn't make
- 7:23Suze: any sense to do that if it's all in savings
- 7:26Suze: and chances are that you're living off of the interest
- 7:29Suze: on that savings and everything. No, it does not make
- 7:32Suze: sense for you to do that. And in fact you cannot, OK.
- 7:38Suze: KT, you can only convert you money.
- 7:41KT: If you are working.
- 7:41Suze: No, no, you can only convert money to a Roth
- 7:45Suze: if you have it in a traditional retirement account. Then
- 7:48Suze: you convert it. If it's not in a Roth to
- 7:51Suze: begin with, you're not converting anything. You're opening up a new,
- 7:55Suze: a new one, and you have to have earned income
- 7:58Suze: to do so. And at 84, for some reason, I
- 8:01Suze: have a feeling.
- 8:02Suze: She might not have income, but anyway, go on.
- 8:04KT: OK. Next is from James. We have a man smart
- 8:08KT: enough to listen. Yay, Suze, I know you want everybody
- 8:11KT: to have a Roth IRA account, including myself, and I
- 8:15KT: want one, but do you want us to take a
- 8:17KT: low-risk IRA out or an aggressive one?
- 8:22KT: I don't know the difference between the two.
- 8:24Suze: Well, one is investing your money, risky, maybe.
- 8:27KT: He said, I don't know what the best option should be.
- 8:29Suze: It's KT, low risk would be treasuries, CDs, money market accounts, maybe even...
- 8:36KT: Aggressive is higher.
- 8:38Suze: It's higher return and higher risk. James, can we just
- 8:43Suze: talk for a second? How do you expect me to
- 8:45Suze: answer that question? And I want everybody to listen to
- 8:48Suze: this answer.
- 8:50Suze: I know nothing about you. I don't know your age.
- 8:53Suze: I don't know how much we're really talking about. I
- 8:56Suze: don't know how secure your job is. I don't know
- 8:58Suze: your health. I don't know your emotion quotient, which means
- 9:02Suze: you put in $5,000 and you lose it. Are you're
- 9:04Suze: going to want to commit financial suicide? Some people can't
- 9:07Suze: afford and don't want to emotionally lose even $10. So
- 9:11Suze: how can I answer that question? I cannot. So therefore...
- 9:17Suze: I can't answer that question. Go on, KT.
- 9:21KT: But he is smart enough to listen.
- 9:23Suze: Smart enough to listen. But James, if you've been listening
- 9:26Suze: now for a while, you would know that, you know.
- 9:29Suze: But just assuming that you don't know a lot about
- 9:31Suze: the stock market because you must not even to ask
- 9:34Suze: that question.
- 9:35Suze: If you're still relatively young, you have at least 5, 10, 15,
- 9:40Suze: 20 years till you need the money and you don't
- 9:42Suze: know what to do. Why don't you just dollar cost
- 9:45Suze: average every month in a Roth IRA in a Standard
- 9:49Suze: and Poor's 500 index fund?
- 9:51KT: There you go, James.
- 9:53Suze: Actually an ETF. All right,
- 9:54KT: All right, there you go, James. This is from Sarah.
- 9:57KT: She said, My husband and I are 60 and 63.
- 10:00KT: He is retired, and I will be soon.
- 10:03KT: We are very well suited financially. We have always lived
- 10:08KT: within our means and continue to do so and enjoy
- 10:10KT: a retirement of purposeful travel, fitness, and continuing
- 10:15KT: education.
- 10:15Suze: Don't you find this is an interesting way to start
- 10:17Suze: a question? What, what, where's she going? Where's she going?
- 10:20KT: OK, ready. Here's where she's going. My husband loves cars.
- 10:25KT: Are you ready?
- 10:27KT: He'd like to purchase a car that I feel is
- 10:30KT: too expensive.
- 10:31KT: It will cost about $90,000.
- 10:34KT: Is that, um, is that one of those, um...
- 10:37Suze: I don't know what kind it is, KT.
- 10:39KT: Which I personally feel is ridiculous
- 10:41Suze: Don't become like James now.
- 10:43KT: All right, wait, so Sarah said, I feel, I personally
- 10:45KT: feel this is a ridiculous price to pay for a vehicle.
- 10:49KT: He's a car guy and ready, Suze? Her husband says
- 10:52KT: cars give him pleasure.
- 10:55Suze: Now how old is he?
- 10:57KT: Well, 60 and 63, so I think he's 60. She's
- 11:00KT: a little older and wiser. This is...
- 11:03KT: This is a big argument between us.
- 11:05Suze: Does it say he just turned 60 like he's in
- 11:07Suze: his sixties?
- 11:08KT: It says my husband and I are 60 and 63.
- 11:11KT: He's retired. He's retired.
- 11:14Suze: So he's 60, right? All right.
- 11:17KT: She's 63, a little wiser. Ready? It's a big argument
- 11:22KT: between us. At a minimum, I'd like him to buy
- 11:24KT: a car that is two or three years old.
- 11:27KT: She said, yes, I know we have the money for this,
- 11:30KT: but it doesn't fit with my values. So, is this
- 11:34KT: a money solution or a value solution? What do you think, Suze?
- 11:40Suze: Sarah, in my opinion, your husband is going through something
- 11:43Suze: that I call the dollar of the decades.
- 11:46Suze: It's almost as if men, not women, but when men
- 11:50Suze: turn a decade, 50, 60, 70, those ages, for some
- 11:57Suze: reason they wanna buy a boy toy. They wanna impress
- 12:01Suze: other people at a stop sign and say, look at
- 12:04Suze: what I have, especially if they have retired. It's a
- 12:09Suze: very fascinating thing.
- 12:12Suze: And I have a feeling that's what he's going through,
- 12:16Suze: and you say that he always loves cars.
- 12:19Suze: Well, think about that. KT and I are very, very
- 12:23Suze: wealthy women, and I love cars, but it would not
- 12:29Suze: matter how wealthy we are. No way would I ever
- 12:33Suze: spend $90,000 on a car.
- 12:35KT: Tell them what you drive.
- 12:37Suze: I drive a 2012 Mercedes convertible that's worth now maybe
- 12:42Suze: $10,000 or less at this point in time.
- 12:47Suze: We only have 50,000, 60,000 miles on it.
- 12:51KT: 53,000.
- 12:52Suze: All right, but it's, oh, now you know numbers.
- 12:54KT: Because I'm, I'm the driver.
- 12:56Suze: Anyway, but it's like what a waste of money in
- 13:00Suze: my opinion. However, it's something that he wants, and with
- 13:06Suze: KT before either of us spend a large sum of
- 13:10Suze: money or wanna buy something, both of us have to
- 13:14Suze: be in agreement because it's both of our money.
- 13:18Suze: And this is both of your money, and I always
- 13:21Suze: go with the one that doesn't want to do something.
- 13:24Suze: If KT doesn't wanna do it, and I really wanna
- 13:27Suze: do it, we do not do it, cause you are
- 13:31Suze: gonna be a little bit resentful the whole time. But
- 13:35Suze: here's how I would deal with it if I were you.
- 13:39Suze: You have to sit down with him and you have
- 13:42Suze: to say, can we just seriously figure out what this
- 13:46Suze: car is actually going to cost us because Sarah, it's
- 13:50Suze: not just $90,000. There's gonna be tax on it, there's
- 13:54Suze: gonna be all kinds of things on it, but just
- 13:56Suze: let's say it was $90,000 including tax.
- 14:01Suze: But that's not where it ends. When you own a
- 14:05Suze: $90,000 car, you have automobile insurance. So you're looking at,
- 14:12Suze: at least, depending on his record, everything else, even his
- 14:15Suze: FICO score, believe it or not, $4,000 to $6,000 a
- 14:19Suze: year in insurance. You're looking at maintenance on a car
- 14:22Suze: like that.
- 14:24Suze: And maintenance could easily be $2,500, $1,500 a year. You're
- 14:30Suze: looking at depreciation, by the way, of anywhere between $9,000
- 14:34Suze: and $12,000. Actually, it could be more like $18,000 the
- 14:39Suze: second he drives it off the lot. Just saying so,
- 14:41Suze: he lost that money right there. Fuel for the car.
- 14:46Suze: $90,000 cars unless it's electric, and I somehow I have
- 14:49Suze: a feeling it's not. It's gonna be at least, depending
- 14:53Suze: on price of fuel, $2,500 - $3,000 and then registration
- 14:58Suze: and all of these things. So you're looking at least
- 15:00Suze: besides the $90,000, $8,500 to $10,000 a year just to
- 15:08Suze: have that car, OK.
- 15:10Suze: Now let's do the math on the real cost of
- 15:13Suze: this car because he's just looking at $90,000. The way
- 15:17Suze: that I would do it is I would say, OK,
- 15:19Suze: what is $90,000 deposited into an account right now? Let's
- 15:25Suze: just say that's true, and you add $8,500 a year
- 15:30Suze: for five years. What is the cost of that car
- 15:34Suze: over five years? And let's just say that money was
- 15:37Suze: able to make a 7%
- 15:39Suze: annual average rate of return, you're looking at about $175,000
- 15:44Suze: for the cost of that car and and in five years,
- 15:47Suze: if he wanted to sell it.
- 15:49Suze: Good luck if he gets more than $38,000 to $45,000.
- 15:54Suze: So he now is making an investment as you are
- 15:57Suze: entering your retirement years, and he is no longer working,
- 16:01Suze: and he is looking at how much money you have,
- 16:03Suze: and he thinks that he can just do this. He
- 16:06Suze: has to understand the financial ramifications of making a purchase
- 16:12Suze: like this. You never look, everybody, at just what something
- 16:17Suze: costs you to buy.
- 16:18Suze: You have to look at what does it cost you
- 16:21Suze: to keep, right, KT?
- 16:24KT: Absolutely. You know what I would do?
- 16:26Suze: What would you do?
- 16:27KT: If I were her? I would, because they have all
- 16:29KT: of these very special like fancy car, you know, loan
- 16:33KT: places or renting places. I would rent one for a week,
- 16:37KT: see if he gets it out of his
- 16:38KT: system.
- 16:39Suze: Now, what I would do is rather than buying it
- 16:43Suze: right away.
- 16:44Suze: There's always going to be a $90,000 car that he
- 16:47Suze: can buy.
- 16:49Suze: And given that Sarah does not want to do it,
- 16:52Suze: it's going to cause problems between them. It just is.
- 16:55Suze: I just have to ask you this question. If it
- 16:57Suze: was me, what would you say?
- 17:01KT: Seriously, at your age and with the amount of money
- 17:06KT: you have, Suze, if that car makes you happy, buy it,
- 17:11KT: but I'm not gonna drive it.
- 17:14Suze: Oh, then I would never buy it.
- 17:17Suze: Yeah, it's at this time in your life, everything you
- 17:20Suze: do with money, both of you have to say yes,
- 17:24Suze: and if you don't,
- 17:26Suze: and it really upsets you. I'm sorry, I would just
- 17:30Suze: say no.
- 17:30Suze: Now, maybe he wants to buy a car that's two
- 17:34Suze: or three years old and you could compromise somehow like that.
- 17:38KT: Yeah, meet him in the middle.
- 17:38Suze: Meet him in the middle, but...
- 17:40KT: And say to him, let's sit down and look at
- 17:43KT: the expenses because Susie just laid it out for you
- 17:46KT: and Sarah say, Let's, let's meet in the middle. Let's
- 17:49KT: compromise because I want you to be happy, but I
- 17:52KT: also want you to respect my values.
- 17:55Suze: Yeah, but the truth is, I'm telling you, it's the
- 17:57Suze: dollar of the decades, 60, uh-huh, OK.
- 18:04Suze: I tell you, a car is such an... I, I
- 18:07Suze: know we're going on,
- 18:08KT: Yeah, because Suze's a car person, Sarah. I'm not at all.
- 18:12KT: I don't care what wheels you put under me, but
- 18:15KT: she loves cars. She likes to go. She likes to
- 18:19KT: go to the showrooms and walk around and look, and
- 18:22KT: she knows everything about cars.
- 18:25KT: She's been looking at me for probably the past six
- 18:28KT: years saying maybe we need to think about what our
- 18:31KT: next car will be since this one's so old, but
- 18:34KT: she loves this little Mercedes.
- 18:36Suze: I can't do it. I just can't waste money like that.
- 18:38Suze: I just can't do it. It goes against my own values.
- 18:44Suze: But KT, what I was gonna say to you and
- 18:46Suze: everybody else, please understand that a car is actually one
- 18:51Suze: of the most dangerous investments you can make.
- 18:55Suze: Because all it takes is somebody smashing into you, somebody
- 18:58Suze: cracking your windows, somebody stealing it. It is not an investment.
- 19:04Suze: It's simply a showoff toy for others if you ask me.
- 19:09KT: Well, that may be that kind of vehicle. Most cars
- 19:11KT: are for you to use to get to work, or travel.
- 19:15Suze: He's retired. He doesn't need a $90,000 car.
- 19:17Suze: But hey, what do I know? All right.
- 19:19KT: This next question is from Debbie. She said, Dear KT,
- 19:23KT: she said, I'm listing your name first, so you hopefully
- 19:25KT: you'll pick me, and I did, Debbie. You were right.
- 19:29KT: She said, Dear KT and Suze, if you are single,
- 19:32KT: should the primary beneficiary on an employer retirement account be
- 19:38KT: the same as the name of the trust, or is
- 19:41KT: it best to name a designated beneficiary instead?
- 19:45KT: She said, I'm desperate for an answer from you.
- 19:48Suze: If you're desperate, if you're desperate, Debbie,
- 19:51Suze: let me see if I can help you here. Oh
- 19:53Suze: my God, my desperate one. Here comes your financial lifesaver
- 19:57Suze: to rescue you.
- 19:59Suze: Just put it in your individual name since I don't
- 20:02Suze: know what kind of trust you have, and it has
- 20:04Suze: to be a see-through trust and everything like that, if
- 20:07Suze: it's a beneficiary of any retirement account, since you're single, right,
- 20:12Suze: the beneficiary should be the name of whoever you want
- 20:15Suze: to leave
- 20:17Suze: this too, all right. And if you're married, it should
- 20:21Suze: absolutely be the name of your spouse, by the way,
- 20:24Suze: for those of you who are married, the contingent beneficiary,
- 20:27Suze: if you know it's a see-through trust, can be a trust.
- 20:31Suze: All right.
- 20:32KT: OK. My next question is from Carla. I love this question.
- 20:35KT: She said, I'll be turning 65 in August of 2026.
- 20:41KT: I'm still working full time with no plans to retire
- 20:44KT: anytime soon.
- 20:45KT: I have good medical, dental, vision, and prescription drug benefits.
- 20:51KT: Do I still need to enroll in Medicare? If so,
- 20:55KT: what parts? I love this question.
- 20:58Suze: How old is she?
- 20:59KT: She's 64 today, but in August next year.
- 21:02Suze: Yes, I hear that. But...
- 21:03KT: She'll turn 65.
- 21:04Suze: But how long does she plan to work?
- 21:07KT: She plans to not retire anytime soon.
- 21:09Suze: She didn't give a time frame for that. All right, let,
- 21:13Suze: let me just see this for a second.
- 21:15KT: Can I just say something? I couldn't wait to turn 65
- 21:18KT: to get Medicare benefits.
- 21:19Suze: But you weren't working for a corporation that already gives
- 21:22Suze: you health insurance, Miss Travis.
- 21:25KT: OK.
- 21:26Suze: Right. So, I'm so glad we were happy to do so,
- 21:29Suze: but we didn't work for anybody but ourselves. So, my
- 21:33Suze: dear Carla, here's what it depends on two key facts,
- 21:36Suze: all right. Number one:
- 21:38Suze: How many employees does your employer have? KT's looking at me.
- 21:44KT: With question, like why?
- 21:45Suze: KT this question and answer is so critical. I can't
- 21:49Suze: even tell you because if her employer has 20 or
- 21:53Suze: more employees, then your employer plan, her employer plan has
- 21:58Suze: to remain as primary.
- 22:00Suze: And she does not need Medicare B or D at 65.
- 22:06Suze: She doesn't need those at all. She can and she
- 22:09Suze: should delay both with no penalty because it's B and
- 22:14Suze: D that can be expensive. However, if her employer KT
- 22:18Suze: has fewer than 20 employees, then Medicare becomes her primary.
- 22:25Suze: And her employer plan becomes secondary. So in this case,
- 22:29Suze: my dear Carla, you must enroll in Part A and
- 22:33Suze: Part B at 65 or you risk
- 22:37Suze: being able to have any claims that are absolutely approved,
- 22:41Suze: like all these kinds of things, so you have to
- 22:43Suze: first confirm your employer size, and I can tell you
- 22:48Suze: to do so just call your HR department and ask them.
- 22:51Suze: And the question becomes should she enroll in Medicare A
- 22:56Suze: at 65 and she enrolls only in Part A if
- 23:01Suze: it is free, and she has to figure that out.
- 23:05Suze: So if she's worked for 10 years, 40 quarters, da
- 23:08Suze: da da, she'll be able to do it. But if
- 23:11Suze: she has an HSA account, a health savings account, and
- 23:17Suze: she's contributing to it, if she enrolls in Medicare Part A,
- 23:21Suze: she won't be able to have a health savings account.
- 23:25Suze: So she has to know that because it will immediately
- 23:28Suze: disqualify her from it. So, Carla, if you are contributing
- 23:32Suze: to an HSA.
- 23:34Suze: Then delay Part A until you stop contributing. If no,
- 23:39Suze: enroll in Part A at 65, again, only if it's free.
- 23:44Suze: All right, so there you go. I just told her
- 23:47Suze: what she needs. That's it. It's not that simple, believe
- 23:51Suze: it or not. You thought that was a simple question, didn't you?
- 23:53KT: I did.
- 23:54Suze: What did you think I was gonna say?
- 23:58KT: Take it like I did. I couldn't because I, I
- 24:01KT: got so excited that I didn't have to pay all
- 24:03KT: those medical bills.
- 24:04Suze: Yeah, but I can tell you one thing. Always go
- 24:08Suze: for Medicare. Always, always, always be very, very careful of
- 24:14Suze: Medicare Advantage. Warning, warning...
- 24:17KT: warning, warning.
- 24:19Suze: All right,
- 24:20KT: Suze, my next question is from Janeth.
- 24:23Suze: What kind of name is that?
- 24:24KT: Janeth. It's Janeth. It's not Janice, it's Janeth.
- 24:29Suze: I'm wonder why they named her that.
- 24:31KT: Probably someone Jane and Beth - Janeth, like maybe two
- 24:36KT: names together.
- 24:37Suze: Only you would come up with that,
- 24:38KT: Janeth said, Suze, I'm 60 years old. I'd like to
- 24:41KT: know if it's a good idea to take money out
- 24:43KT: of my 401k and pay off the balance on the
- 24:47KT: apartment where I live. The HOA fees are high, and
- 24:51KT: I haven't been able to sell it. My mother lives
- 24:54KT: with me. She has dementia.
- 24:56KT: And I am on my own. My annual salary is $55,000. Hmm.
- 25:03KT: And she said, thank you. So she's asking...
- 25:05Suze: How old is she?
- 25:06KT: 60, and her...
- 25:07Suze: Do you think she's still working?
- 25:08Suze: Yeah, she said her annual salary is $55,000.
- 25:12Suze: I'm not listening very good this morning.
- 25:13KT: No.
- 25:14Suze: That's because I have water in my left ear.
- 25:16KT: You do?
- 25:17Suze: Wanna hear it squeak if I blow my nose?
- 25:19KT: No, it squeaks real loud when she does that I
- 25:23KT: don't like that.
- 25:24Suze: Does it irritate you?
- 25:26KT: Well, no, it seems like something's wrong that this water
- 25:29KT: is stuck in there.
- 25:30Suze: Well, who, who goes in the pool on the ocean
- 25:32Suze: all the time?
- 25:33KT: You do.
- 25:34Suze: All right, anyway, so Janeth, here's the thing, KT pop quizzy.
- 25:43KT: Should she, should she do what?
- 25:46Suze: What are you talking about? Should she do what? You
- 25:48Suze: just read this to me. See, she already went on to...
- 25:52KT: She said takes money out what she.
- 25:53KT: No, don't take money out of the 401k. First of all,
- 25:57KT: when she takes it out, number one, she has to
- 25:59KT: pay taxes on it. So if she's 60... wait, 59 and
- 26:02KT: a half, she doesn't have to pay...
- 26:04Suze: A penalty.
- 26:05KT: A penalty, but she still has to pay on it. Second, um,
- 26:10KT: that's her security blanket.
- 26:12KT: I think that she should just aggressively try to sell
- 26:15KT: the apartment and downsize or do something. Do not touch
- 26:19KT: the 401k. Yeah, no way. Don't touch it.
- 26:24Suze: But here's what I'd like you to think about.
- 26:27Suze: If you need to sell something, and you're desperate enough
- 26:30Suze: to think about taking money out of your 401k and
- 26:33Suze: you do not tell me how much you have in
- 26:37Suze: your 401k and what the balance is on your apartment,
- 26:42Suze: do you all get the idea, I
- 26:44Suze: cannot answer these questions for you if you don't give
- 26:47Suze: me the facts, and that doesn't mean it has to
- 26:49Suze: be a three page essay. It could have been, should
- 26:52Suze: I take money out of my 401k that has $500,000
- 26:56Suze: in it to pay off the balance on the apartment
- 26:59Suze: where I live? That's all it needed to be because
- 27:02Suze: you're saying since the HOA fees are high, that's kind
- 27:06Suze: of why you wanna sell. If you took the money
- 27:08Suze: out of your 401k,
- 27:10Suze: think about how much money you would lose in taxes,
- 27:14Suze: all right? Number one.
- 27:16Suze: Number two, since you're willing to lose that money in
- 27:20Suze: taxes from your 401k, why don't you reduce the price
- 27:24Suze: of your apartment by that amount of money, since you
- 27:27Suze: were willing to lose it anyway, to get somebody to
- 27:31Suze: buy it because you're lowering the price.
- 27:34Suze: Do you understand what I'm saying to you? If you
- 27:36Suze: can't sell it, it means it's priced too high. If
- 27:40Suze: you need to sell it and you're willing to take
- 27:42Suze: money out of a 401k, lower the price until somebody
- 27:46Suze: buys it, period. All right, KT.
- 27:49KT: Yeah, don't touch the 401. OK. This is from Catherine.
- 27:53KT: This is my final question. She said, my dad put
- 27:56KT: a million dollars in an IRA from me back in 1987.
- 28:03KT: Before he remarried, ready? In the last six years, my
- 28:08KT: brother said he took out my money and gave it
- 28:11KT: to him. My brother hasn't worked in six years and
- 28:14KT: has received at least $150,000 a year from my dad.
- 28:20KT: He's lost all of it.
- 28:22KT: My dad, who is 90 years old, said to us
- 28:26KT: that my brother and I will get nothing when he
- 28:28KT: dies because money doesn't create happiness. Hmm. Sounds a little sad, right?
- 28:35KT: He can do anything he wants with his money. He
- 28:38KT: worked hard for every cent, but I'd like to hear
- 28:41KT: an honest explanation as to why he took care of
- 28:44KT: one child and not the other.
- 28:47KT: So Catherine's feeling pretty sad over this. In 1987, you
- 28:52KT: would think that a million dollars would have really grown
- 28:55KT: a lot, and the brother only in the last six
- 29:00KT: years has been taking money out.
- 29:03Suze: So, the father probably opened up an IRA in the
- 29:07Suze: father's name. He did a transfer, $1 million.
- 29:11Suze: And made Catherine, the daughter, the beneficiary.
- 29:17Suze: Somewhere in there, however, it doesn't matter who the beneficiary is,
- 29:21Suze: that only comes to play upon death. For some reason,
- 29:26Suze: the father was taking out money every year or however
- 29:31Suze: many times he did it that Catherine may or may
- 29:34Suze: not even know about it until all the money was depleted.
- 29:39Suze: Now we don't know how the money was invested.
- 29:42Suze: And maybe even years later, it was only worth a
- 29:45Suze: million dollars. Maybe he just put it in an account
- 29:48Suze: that wasn't earning any interest, who knows? So, if you
- 29:51Suze: think about it, KT, OK.
- 29:54Suze: 150,000 a year over six years is like 900,000. So
- 30:00Suze: he may have used up all of it, who knows
- 30:02Suze: what happened to the rest of it, but...
- 30:05Suze: The only way to solve this is for Catherine, for
- 30:09Suze: you to stand in your truth.
- 30:11Suze: Not why did he favor one child over another.
- 30:17Suze: Why... not any of that. Just sit down with your
- 30:21Suze: dad and say, Dad, listen, I know it's your money.
- 30:24Suze: You worked hard for it, and you can do anything
- 30:26Suze: you want with it.
- 30:28Suze: But why? I just need to know why.
- 30:32Suze: You gave at least $900,000 to my brother.
- 30:37Suze: You told me that you were opening up this account
- 30:41Suze: for me, this $1 million IRA for me.
- 30:45Suze: And now you tell us neither of us are going
- 30:49Suze: to get anything even though my brother got 900,000 of
- 30:53Suze: what supposedly you told me was mine. I understand that
- 30:58Suze: money doesn't create happiness, but it sure does create security.
- 31:02Suze: So can you just tell me why, so I can
- 31:06Suze: understand this.
- 31:08KT: Also, the father's very wealthy, Suze.
- 31:12Suze: I know he has approximately $9 million.
- 31:15KT: And this is 40 years ago. It had to have
- 31:18KT: earned some money.
- 31:19Suze: We don't know. We don't know anything, but here's the point, Catherine.
- 31:25Suze: I have no idea. KT has no idea. You have
- 31:29Suze: no idea, but you do know that you have a need.
- 31:34Suze: To talk to your father about it and you say,
- 31:37Suze: is it my business, in this email. The reason that
- 31:41Suze: it's your business is because it's bothering you and when
- 31:45Suze: you hold something in, it's going to eat at you.
- 31:49Suze: It's going to eat at your relationship with your father.
- 31:52Suze: It's going to eat at your relationship with your brother.
- 31:55Suze: It's going to eat at you, especially if you're not
- 31:59Suze: doing well financially.
- 32:01Suze: So if I were you, you have absolutely nothing to
- 32:05Suze: lose and everything to gain and say, Dad, can we
- 32:09Suze: just sit down, the two of us and talk? I
- 32:12Suze: really need to talk to you. Could you please do
- 32:16Suze: that with me? And sit down in a not in
- 32:19Suze: an accusing way, in an attacking way, but speak to
- 32:23Suze: him directly from your heart and speak with such love
- 32:28Suze: for him.
- 32:30Suze: Speak with him with such respect for him.
- 32:35Suze: Speak with him with the intention of you truly understanding
- 32:40Suze: all of this, not that you're going to get a
- 32:42Suze: million dollars, but you just want the truth.
- 32:46Suze: And you'll come out fine.
- 32:48Suze: And after you've done that, can you just write me
- 32:50Suze: and let me tell, tell me what happened. All right, KT.
- 32:56KT: That's a wrap, Suze.
- 32:58Suze: What are we gonna do now?
- 33:00Suze: You have plans. I can tell you. I know what
- 33:02Suze: you want to do today. Tell them what you wanna
- 33:04Suze: do today.
- 33:05KT: This week, the only opportunity is this afternoon I can
- 33:08KT: try to catch some yellow eye or yellow tail.
- 33:12Suze: KT, believe it or not, everybody is out of fish.
- 33:16Suze: She has no fish to eat. I personally don't like
- 33:19Suze: eating fish. I'm like...
- 33:20KT: Suze's not a big fish lover.
- 33:22Suze: Yeah, baby, we don't have to eat fish. Yeah, baby!
- 33:25KT: It's the healthiest, most delicious food.
- 33:28KT: We can, we can catch.
- 33:30Suze: You can catch, right? Actually, KT, you know, when I
- 33:34Suze: woke up this morning, I looked out the window, I went, ugh.
- 33:37Suze: Why do you think I did that?
- 33:38KT: Because it was nice.
- 33:40Suze: It was nice. And as much as I love when
- 33:42Suze: she goes fishing, I love it so much more when
- 33:45Suze: you just stay around here.
- 33:46KT: I can stay with you today if you like.
- 33:49Suze: And not fish.
- 33:50KT: Yeah, if that's your wish, I will grant your wish.
- 33:54KT: What do you think, everyone? Should I try to catch
- 33:56KT: a fish or grant her wish?
- 33:58Suze: Now, here is a perfect example of two of us disagreeing,
- 34:01Suze: kind of.
- 34:02Suze: Right, on whatever, but I'm gonna switch my vote from
- 34:05Suze: no to yes because number one, doesn't really cost anything
- 34:09Suze: to do what you're gonna do. It's gonna save money
- 34:11Suze: eventually on fish because otherwise you're gonna end up having
- 34:14Suze: to buy it when we go back to Florida, um,
- 34:17Suze: and so go for it, girlfriend.
- 34:20KT: Yay, woohoo.
- 34:21Suze: All right, everybody, until next time there's only one thing
- 34:24Suze: we want them to remember, and it's what fish first.
- 34:27Suze: Fish first, then people, then money, then things, right KT?
- 34:32KT: And you stay safe.
- 34:34Suze: Talk to you soon. Bye bye.