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- 0:01Speaker 1: Welcome to Stuff you Should Know, a production of I
- 0:04Speaker 1: Heart Radio. Hey, and welcome to the podcast. I'm Josh Clark,
- 0:13Speaker 1: There's Charles W Chuck Bryant, and Jerry is literally right there,
- 0:18Speaker 1: and I'm Chuck. I want to start something. I'm going
- 0:21Speaker 1: to get I actually have a jar at my studio
- 0:24Speaker 1: at home kind of. But it's a use of the
- 0:28Speaker 1: word literally jar. I'm trying to break myself of that,
- 0:32Speaker 1: except when it really truly makes sense, when it literally
- 0:35Speaker 1: makes sense to use that word, like in this instance,
- 0:39Speaker 1: Jerry is literally sitting right here. So do you have
- 0:42Speaker 1: a problem with that, with misusing that word like so
- 0:45Speaker 1: many Yeah, no, not necessarily. It's overused. That's what bothers me.
- 0:49Speaker 1: What about Gimmy and she donating to the jar at all?
- 0:52Speaker 1: Or she just like this literally the dumbest idea. I
- 0:56Speaker 1: don't think she has an opinion on this one. Okay, Yeah,
- 0:59Speaker 1: she's just spend some money. Well, I keep the jar
- 1:03Speaker 1: at home. I'll get money out of it when I
- 1:06Speaker 1: need to. It's more just the ritual of like punishing myself,
- 1:09Speaker 1: calling out that's good, I'm doing something stupid. Once a Catholic,
- 1:13Speaker 1: always a Catholic. So um, oh yeah, this is stuff
- 1:17Speaker 1: you should know. And uh, we are talking Chuck today.
- 1:21Speaker 1: How are you doing, by the way, I'm great. Good,
- 1:24Speaker 1: we're in the same room. It's still a little weird,
- 1:27Speaker 1: getting used to it still. Yeah. I went to a
- 1:29Speaker 1: baseball game last night, Oh my god. And that was weird.
- 1:32Speaker 1: I mean it was great. Uh. And once we get
- 1:35Speaker 1: on our seats, we were actually i mean they're fully
- 1:37Speaker 1: just selling seats, but where we bought seats there just
- 1:40Speaker 1: happened to be no one kind of around us, which
- 1:42Speaker 1: was good. But yeah, I went to a Braves game.
- 1:45Speaker 1: But you know, they're supposed to be policing and saying,
- 1:49Speaker 1: you know, unless you're in your seats, eating and drinking,
- 1:51Speaker 1: you should be wearing a mash. And so we the
- 1:53Speaker 1: four of us, wore masks, you know, in and out
- 1:57Speaker 1: in the bathrooms and the food lines and all that stuff.
- 1:59Speaker 1: But no, buddy else was well, I mean Atlanta there's
- 2:03Speaker 1: a lot of jerks, yeah, and Atlanta. Yeah, it just
- 2:07Speaker 1: it is what it is. We took care of ourselves
- 2:08Speaker 1: and it's fine. Yeah, it was fun. Um, well, that's good.
- 2:13Speaker 1: I'm glad. Juddie good walk off, Homer. Oh yeah, the
- 2:16Speaker 1: bottom of the ninth man. I've only seen like one
- 2:18Speaker 1: of those in my life. It was amazing, great game. Yeah,
- 2:20Speaker 1: it was cool. Who we play? We played the Mets
- 2:23Speaker 1: in our star player Akunya blasted one in the bottom
- 2:27Speaker 1: of the ninth first pitch. It was just great. I
- 2:29Speaker 1: thought Freddie Freeman was our star player there. I mean
- 2:33Speaker 1: they're one and two on any given day. Yeah, I
- 2:37Speaker 1: wouldn't want to be number two, you know what I'm saying.
- 2:39Speaker 1: But yes, no, of course not. That's why I'm number two. No,
- 2:43Speaker 1: that's not true. You meet Jerry all tied for number one.
- 2:48Speaker 1: But anyway, it was a little just's it's just a
- 2:50Speaker 1: little jarring to be among a lot of people again.
- 2:53Speaker 1: And but it also comes back quickly like, oh wait,
- 2:56Speaker 1: I spent the first forty nine years of my life
- 2:59Speaker 1: among people. A took a year off, and I'm back
- 3:02Speaker 1: in this wing. That's good. That's good. I'm hoping to
- 3:04Speaker 1: get back there myself. At any rate. This is still
- 3:08Speaker 1: a little weird. So we're talking today about clefts, and
- 3:12Speaker 1: most people when they think about clefs, they think about
- 3:15Speaker 1: cleft lips. But there's a lot more to that, or
- 3:17Speaker 1: trouble cliffs. Sure, that's a little different. There's an extra
- 3:21Speaker 1: letter in this one that I'm talking about at the end.
- 3:24Speaker 1: How is that spelled? Is that just trouble cleft? No
- 3:27Speaker 1: cl ef Oh, there's no t trouble cliff cliff. I
- 3:31Speaker 1: didn't take piano. That's okay, right, Um, But no, that's
- 3:35Speaker 1: a cleft. This is a cleft. A cleft in this
- 3:38Speaker 1: case is um. It's a it's a division, it's a trench,
- 3:41Speaker 1: it's a void. I guess you could say and that
- 3:44Speaker 1: that that is what we're talking about. It is a
- 3:48Speaker 1: it is a very common, actually fairly common birth defect. Um.
- 3:52Speaker 1: It occurs in the embryonic stage and a child is
- 3:55Speaker 1: born with part of their lip and or part of
- 4:00Speaker 1: their palate the roof of their mouth is another way
- 4:02Speaker 1: to put it right missing, it's just not there, un joined.
- 4:07Speaker 1: And we should probably say right at the beginning, Uh,
- 4:10Speaker 1: this is a birth defect. But it is a visual difference,
- 4:14Speaker 1: is what we call things like this. It is not
- 4:16Speaker 1: a disability, although there are you know, many complications will
- 4:19Speaker 1: go over, but it's a visual difference. And it is
- 4:22Speaker 1: also the term hair lip is not something you should use.
- 4:26Speaker 1: It was used for many, many years, even by doctors
- 4:29Speaker 1: to describe this condition, but it is uh not a
- 4:33Speaker 1: good nice term, so just stop saying it. Yeah, I
- 4:36Speaker 1: don't know anybody who says that. I don't think so
- 4:37Speaker 1: any but you know, some people just may not know. Like, well,
- 4:40Speaker 1: I thought that's what it was called. Uh, And when
- 4:43Speaker 1: doctors use a term, you can sort of understand, you know,
- 4:46Speaker 1: like somebody falling into that trap. But it's not a
- 4:49Speaker 1: term that we use anymore now. And I think that
- 4:51Speaker 1: was a good thing to say. All right, So that's
- 4:52Speaker 1: the c I A is finished. So um, like we're saying,
- 4:55Speaker 1: it is, like you said, it is a birth effect,
- 4:57Speaker 1: but it is just a visible difference. And there's I mean,
- 4:59Speaker 1: that's that's it. I mean, it is tied in with
- 5:02Speaker 1: some syndromes, some genetic syndromes, but plenty of people, I
- 5:06Speaker 1: think in the United States somewhere between one and every
- 5:08Speaker 1: seven um comes with some sort of cleft, either a
- 5:12Speaker 1: cleft lip, a cleft palette, or both UM and there's
- 5:18Speaker 1: that's it. That can be it. That's the only thing
- 5:21Speaker 1: that is different about that child. There's no developmental problems,
- 5:25Speaker 1: there's no and like you said, it's not disability. There's
- 5:28Speaker 1: nothing else that's it. And what's fascinating to me, I
- 5:31Speaker 1: had no idea about this, but I never really thought
- 5:33Speaker 1: about it. Is that the the kid with the cleft
- 5:38Speaker 1: lip or the cleft palette there, their palette or their
- 5:42Speaker 1: lip just never finished forming. Yeah, they never You know,
- 5:46Speaker 1: there's a symmetry generally running down the center of your
- 5:50Speaker 1: nose and the two sides of the lip. You know,
- 5:55Speaker 1: the stuff forms when you're in the in the womb
- 5:59Speaker 1: very early on. It actually for both. I think the
- 6:01Speaker 1: lip is first and then the palette, but you know
- 6:03Speaker 1: they joined together, and in this case they just don't join. Yeah,
- 6:07Speaker 1: you know the little a little bit under your nose,
- 6:11Speaker 1: the bip joining the uh, the bottom of your nose
- 6:14Speaker 1: through top lip. Yeah, it's filtraum okay. And that is
- 6:18Speaker 1: where your lips joined together, your upper lip joins together, right,
- 6:23Speaker 1: and that is where your mustache can part. Yeah, yeah,
- 6:27Speaker 1: you got a little mustache part. I have a mustache
- 6:29Speaker 1: part because mine. But you know, some guys, do you
- 6:31Speaker 1: shave yours in just for looks or is it it
- 6:35Speaker 1: just kind of parts? Naturally? Your hair doesn't quite grow
- 6:37Speaker 1: right there. But you know, if you're like a Burt
- 6:39Speaker 1: Reynolds type or Wilfred Brimley, you can just grow it
- 6:43Speaker 1: over the whole. What's it called filtraum fil traum p
- 6:46Speaker 1: h I l t r U Hiltraum, which would be
- 6:49Speaker 1: a really great nerdy boy's name film. Yeah, yeah, and
- 6:54Speaker 1: his brother Baxter. On the second thought, though, don't name
- 6:56Speaker 1: your son filter so um. When you are in the embryonics,
- 7:01Speaker 1: like you said, very early on, the lip forms in
- 7:04Speaker 1: like the fourth to seventh week, and very frequently a
- 7:07Speaker 1: woman might not even know she's pregnant at that time,
- 7:09Speaker 1: and that lips forming, yes already. Um. I saw a
- 7:12Speaker 1: really cool bbc UM Documentaries sequence basically where they took
- 7:19Speaker 1: three D images of baby in utero and basically turned
- 7:24Speaker 1: it into a flipbook video showing the face forming. Your
- 7:29Speaker 1: nostrils are giant when you're when you're forming, and they're
- 7:33Speaker 1: like on the top of your forehead. They moved down
- 7:36Speaker 1: and each nostrils part of a tissue plate, and then
- 7:40Speaker 1: the bottom jaw and your bottom lip are part of
- 7:43Speaker 1: a third tissue place. So you have three forming and
- 7:46Speaker 1: coming together. And as they form, new cells form new skin,
- 7:50Speaker 1: and they just kind of move into place. If you
- 7:52Speaker 1: have a cleft, flip or a cleft palette. Again, that
- 7:55Speaker 1: that final meeting in the middle just never happened. Yeah,
- 7:59Speaker 1: So when you watch something thing like that, are you
- 8:00Speaker 1: amazed at the miracle of life or are you disgusted
- 8:05Speaker 1: amazed at the miracle? Okay, yeah for sure, because when
- 8:07Speaker 1: you think of nostrils on the top of the head,
- 8:10Speaker 1: it's nothing like that most it did. It's neat, actually
- 8:15Speaker 1: it is. Yeah, for sure. The miracle of life is
- 8:18Speaker 1: what I'm going with. So there are different ways this
- 8:21Speaker 1: can happen. Your your palette on the top of your
- 8:23Speaker 1: mouth is in a couple of sections. The one closer
- 8:26Speaker 1: to the front is the hard palette, and the rear
- 8:27Speaker 1: it's a soft pallet. And if you have a cleft palette,
- 8:30Speaker 1: it can be in the soft part the hard part.
- 8:34Speaker 1: It can split both. Yeah, because if you do don't mouth,
- 8:39Speaker 1: don't do that. The front part is is bony, that's
- 8:43Speaker 1: your hard palate. If you go further back, it's really
- 8:45Speaker 1: kind of tough to do, but you can go, well,
- 8:48Speaker 1: what you gotta stop. You don't like that, No, I
- 8:50Speaker 1: don't think anyone does. Um, I really you think some
- 8:53Speaker 1: people like hearing that. I think it's kind of pleasant.
- 8:55Speaker 1: Anybody who like that shout out. I want to hear you.
- 8:58Speaker 1: I think there's some kind of a pressure point in
- 9:00Speaker 1: your soft pallet too. For is it migraines or something
- 9:03Speaker 1: I remember hearing about, like pressing your thumb into your
- 9:06Speaker 1: soft pallet to do something that wasn't that it was
- 9:10Speaker 1: something else. Well, you can cure an ice cream maybe
- 9:15Speaker 1: multi functional. Anyway, In the very back, you have just
- 9:19Speaker 1: a muscle like your hard palate, bony with some skin
- 9:23Speaker 1: covering it. Further back, it's like muscle with skin covering,
- 9:26Speaker 1: and that's your soft palate. It's like a little rib
- 9:28Speaker 1: cage up there. And you can have this division, this
- 9:30Speaker 1: cleft in either part or both. Right, that's correct, That's
- 9:34Speaker 1: what I said. So, Uh, an incomplete cleft is missing.
- 9:38Speaker 1: It's a little notch and it's missing from the middle
- 9:41Speaker 1: of the upper left. A complete cleft is all the
- 9:44Speaker 1: way through into the nose. And then with the lip,
- 9:48Speaker 1: it's it's always the upper lip, but it's usually off
- 9:51Speaker 1: to one side or the other, I think because of
- 9:53Speaker 1: that symmetry and how it forms. Yes, uh, And it's
- 9:56Speaker 1: always the upper lip because it only affects the two
- 9:59Speaker 1: top plates of flesh that are forming that from your
- 10:02Speaker 1: upper lip in your face and those forehead nostrils that
- 10:05Speaker 1: come back down to your nostril area. That's right. God,
- 10:08Speaker 1: it's just like old times. Cherry's literally dropping food out
- 10:10Speaker 1: of her mouth onto the table. Is amazing. No, but
- 10:15Speaker 1: it's so funny. I don't know. I think there might
- 10:18Speaker 1: be a little all day and she chooses to eat
- 10:20Speaker 1: when she's in here. I think we should take a break.
- 10:23Speaker 1: I think so too. All right, that's a good opening, Uh, salvo,
- 10:28Speaker 1: So we'll be back after this. I think I might
- 10:52Speaker 1: have missed you salvo did I don't think so? Was
- 10:55Speaker 1: that right? Yeah? I associate that with like a timpani
- 10:59Speaker 1: or and in going off. Yeah, all right, I think you.
- 11:03Speaker 1: I think you used it correctly. A cleft that you
- 11:06Speaker 1: got wrong. Yeah, back to clefts. They are developmental defects,
- 11:10Speaker 1: like we said, very early, and what causes them, you know,
- 11:16Speaker 1: genetics can play a part. I think if you're a
- 11:19Speaker 1: parent you have with a cleft either a palette or lip,
- 11:23Speaker 1: you have it like a two to eight percent chance
- 11:25Speaker 1: that your kid may if you have a biological child,
- 11:28Speaker 1: and then that goes up if you have siblings and
- 11:31Speaker 1: or if you have your parents and it's sort of
- 11:33Speaker 1: passed down. I think that number can go up to like, yeah,
- 11:37Speaker 1: it can if you if your parent has a sibling
- 11:40Speaker 1: that has a cleft as well, the chance of your
- 11:43Speaker 1: your kid having ACT is definitely increased. And then um,
- 11:47Speaker 1: it can keep going up depending on whether or not
- 11:50Speaker 1: your parent has a genetic syndrome that they're passing along. Um.
- 11:54Speaker 1: I think there's something like three hundred to four hundred
- 11:57Speaker 1: different genetic syndromes are associated with cleft lip or cleft
- 12:02Speaker 1: palette um and together we should say they're both called
- 12:05Speaker 1: orofacial clefts. Oh yeah, we didn't say that to me.
- 12:07Speaker 1: And I've also known and I've also seen it abbreviated
- 12:10Speaker 1: as c l slash p lips slash pallet um. That
- 12:16Speaker 1: seems to be kind of like the shorthand for it,
- 12:18Speaker 1: because doctors don't like the right full words and their
- 12:21Speaker 1: handwriting is just terrible. Um. And then I've also seen
- 12:24Speaker 1: them called affectionately as cleft eas. Oh that's nice. So
- 12:28Speaker 1: and you know, we'll talk about the uh, you know,
- 12:31Speaker 1: acceptance of facial differences if you have a cleft or
- 12:35Speaker 1: have friends or family members, and that's a big, big
- 12:37Speaker 1: part of it. And I think something like cleft E's
- 12:39Speaker 1: might be a way of embracing that s. So there
- 12:42Speaker 1: are some other things that could be risk factors and
- 12:46Speaker 1: increase the risk of all kinds of birth effects, certainly
- 12:49Speaker 1: including clefts. And one of them is if you're smoking
- 12:52Speaker 1: and drinking booze while you're pregnant. UM. One of the
- 12:55Speaker 1: reasons alcohol effects UM, any kind of birth effect, is
- 13:00Speaker 1: because it disrupts the absorption of UH follic acid. And
- 13:05Speaker 1: that's another reason you might if you don't have enough
- 13:08Speaker 1: fallic acid. That's why pregnant women take extra It's a
- 13:11Speaker 1: natural form of B nine. It's a vitamin. And yeah,
- 13:15Speaker 1: I think. And then late nineties the FDA said you've
- 13:18Speaker 1: got to start putting extra folic acid in like all
- 13:21Speaker 1: kinds of common foods. Remember that store your recyclables starting, yeah,
- 13:27Speaker 1: and and just like put it in bread and pasta
- 13:29Speaker 1: and grains and cereals and things that people eat a
- 13:32Speaker 1: lot of. UH. It's naturally found in sunflower seeds and
- 13:36Speaker 1: fruits and beans and peanuts and stuff like that. So
- 13:40Speaker 1: you want the follic acid, I think if you're pregnant,
- 13:43Speaker 1: they recommend you take at least UH six hundred milligrams
- 13:48Speaker 1: per day. And and if you're just a regular non
- 13:51Speaker 1: pregnant humans a day, yeah, if you UM are in
- 13:55Speaker 1: your reproductive stage or age. Right, but you you need
- 14:00Speaker 1: folic acid anyway, right, why not just as a person? Sure? Yeah,
- 14:03Speaker 1: I get a lot of bread, I get a lot
- 14:05Speaker 1: of folic acid. Uh So smoking and drinking is one,
- 14:09Speaker 1: Diabetes is another. Right, Yeah, that's a really big risk factor.
- 14:12Speaker 1: Diabetes and obesity both seem to be correlated to increased
- 14:17Speaker 1: risk of clefts. I'm not sure what the incidences for
- 14:20Speaker 1: women with diabetes, but it is an increased risk UM.
- 14:24Speaker 1: And then there's also a couple of epilepsy medications that
- 14:27Speaker 1: increase your risk. UM. The thing about all this is
- 14:30Speaker 1: there is no UM definitive understanding your explanation of why
- 14:37Speaker 1: clefts form of what it is that causes some children's
- 14:43Speaker 1: um lips just not to join together or their palettes
- 14:46Speaker 1: that not fuse together at that last final stage. UM.
- 14:50Speaker 1: It seems to be multi factorial is what they call it,
- 14:52Speaker 1: where there's just a bunch of different factors. UM. And
- 14:55Speaker 1: also in addition to genetics, like your parents having one
- 14:58Speaker 1: of your parents having a sibling with one UM depending
- 15:02Speaker 1: on your race, actually your your risk is increased. Apparently,
- 15:06Speaker 1: it's far more common among Asian people, UM and Native Americans.
- 15:11Speaker 1: I think it's the highest among Native Americans, something like
- 15:13Speaker 1: three points six out of every uh thousand births. I
- 15:20Speaker 1: believe um to two among Asian people. It's the lowest
- 15:26Speaker 1: among African Americans. I think Chinese babies are more commonly diagnosed.
- 15:33Speaker 1: Is a diagnosis or just what do you even call that? No,
- 15:36Speaker 1: you're diagnosed, But I mean it's like very easy diagnosis.
- 15:39Speaker 1: It's like, okay, you're a child has a cleft flip. Right.
- 15:42Speaker 1: But what's what's interesting, Chuck, is with the cleft palette.
- 15:45Speaker 1: You can have a cleft palette, but it not be visible.
- 15:49Speaker 1: It can actually be hidden. That's called the submucosis cleft palette.
- 15:54Speaker 1: And they might they you might never be diagnosed with
- 15:57Speaker 1: it because there may be no problem with that or
- 16:00Speaker 1: that arise from it, like with other cluts, like we'll
- 16:03Speaker 1: talk about. Yeah, but um, that's kind of rare from
- 16:05Speaker 1: what I understand, right, And the palette is less visible
- 16:08Speaker 1: anyway as opposed to the lip. Uh. And you know,
- 16:12Speaker 1: if you see any kind of photo image of cleft palette,
- 16:14Speaker 1: is usually the doctor taking a picture of someone with
- 16:17Speaker 1: their mouth wide open, kind of tilting their head back
- 16:20Speaker 1: so you can get a good angle on it. Um
- 16:23Speaker 1: health problems that are associated with clefts are uh, they
- 16:28Speaker 1: can be numerous. It's it's not you know, it seems
- 16:31Speaker 1: like everything is something that can be overcome. But they
- 16:35Speaker 1: are challenges, nonetheless, and they are challenges that especially can
- 16:40Speaker 1: just make a kid when they're growing up field not
- 16:43Speaker 1: so great about themselves. So that that's a big, big
- 16:45Speaker 1: part of overcoming these challenges. But to be sure, there
- 16:49Speaker 1: are some physical things that happen, like it can interfere
- 16:53Speaker 1: with how your teeth are forming and growing in Uh.
- 16:56Speaker 1: Sometimes you might have to get bone graphs on the
- 16:59Speaker 1: upper portion of your gums, especially if you have a
- 17:02Speaker 1: cleft lip. Yeah, cleft lips, it seems like it's usually
- 17:05Speaker 1: where the teeth problems come from. Uh. And then one
- 17:07Speaker 1: of the first things you know, if you're nursing your baby,
- 17:11Speaker 1: then if your baby has a cleft lip or and
- 17:15Speaker 1: or a cleft pallet, they may have trouble latching on
- 17:18Speaker 1: and getting a good like a good suck is what
- 17:21Speaker 1: they call it. Yes, And if you luckily, there are
- 17:24Speaker 1: different um methods for improving that. There are certain types
- 17:28Speaker 1: of bottles which can help with that. So again that's
- 17:31Speaker 1: a problem that can be overcome pretty routinely. It's the
- 17:35Speaker 1: easiest to overcome and to nurse a child with a
- 17:38Speaker 1: cleft lip because you can set the baby up and
- 17:42Speaker 1: as usual chuck them in the air um, and you
- 17:48Speaker 1: can just after they latch on, you just kind of
- 17:51Speaker 1: put your finger over their cleft flip oh and just
- 17:54Speaker 1: like close the gap. Basically, it's it's easy as pie.
- 17:57Speaker 1: With a cleft palette, it can be much more difficult
- 18:00Speaker 1: because we use our palette to create suction, use your
- 18:03Speaker 1: tongue and your palate, your soft pallet in particular to
- 18:06Speaker 1: create suction. So there's specialized bottles for feeding babies with
- 18:11Speaker 1: cleft pallets. Uh. And in particular, if the baby is
- 18:15Speaker 1: just not able to latch on for breastfeeding, they still say, well,
- 18:19Speaker 1: just pump your breast milk and feed your baby the
- 18:22Speaker 1: bottle milk because unfortunately, because of that gap in their
- 18:26Speaker 1: their palette, uh, there there's basically a passage into their
- 18:30Speaker 1: nose and sometimes their ears, so breast milk can get
- 18:33Speaker 1: in there, and they found it's far less irritating breast
- 18:36Speaker 1: milk is than um formula when it does get in
- 18:39Speaker 1: the little baby's ears and nose. That's right. And because
- 18:43Speaker 1: of that same gap there, I think throughout you know,
- 18:47Speaker 1: we'll talk about the surgeries, but throughout childhood, babies and
- 18:50Speaker 1: children with cleft palets and lips have higher incidences of
- 18:54Speaker 1: ear infections, UM, sometimes chronic Sometimes they might have trouble
- 19:01Speaker 1: hearing and learning how to talk. But again, these are
- 19:04Speaker 1: all early challenges that it's such a common birth defect
- 19:08Speaker 1: that they really really know a lot about how to
- 19:10Speaker 1: overcome this stuff. That's exactly right. Fortunately, especially in the
- 19:14Speaker 1: developed world, there's a lot of services available that are
- 19:17Speaker 1: pretty routine. Yeah, and if you're fortunate enough to live
- 19:20Speaker 1: in a country with socialized medicine, you get it all
- 19:22Speaker 1: for free. And if you're not, you're gonna be dropping
- 19:25Speaker 1: some money on surgery. I think the statistic is two
- 19:29Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollar average for medical procedures over the course
- 19:33Speaker 1: of your life. Uh. And I don't know if that's
- 19:37Speaker 1: figuring in insurance. If that's a two d thousand dollars
- 19:40Speaker 1: sort of total and you pay a portion of that
- 19:42Speaker 1: if you're insured, I get that that's out of pocket.
- 19:45Speaker 1: Oh you think so. I think so interesting. So do
- 19:48Speaker 1: you want to talk specifically about some of the treatments
- 19:50Speaker 1: for class. Yeah. So, Um, the diagnosis of cleft often
- 19:57Speaker 1: happens um through ultrasounds. Uh, so you will know your
- 20:02Speaker 1: baby is going to be born with a cleft lip
- 20:04Speaker 1: especially is how you know. But a cleft palates probably
- 20:07Speaker 1: diagnosed after birth, but shortly after birth, usually upon the
- 20:10Speaker 1: first examination by the doctor and they'll say, okay, well
- 20:14Speaker 1: your your child has a cleft pallet. Um, don't panic.
- 20:18Speaker 1: There's a lot of stuff in place. We know exactly
- 20:20Speaker 1: what to do, we know exactly when to do it.
- 20:23Speaker 1: But it's gonna be really tough for you and your
- 20:25Speaker 1: family because your baby, before your baby turns one year old,
- 20:29Speaker 1: and as actually as early as maybe three months old, uh,
- 20:33Speaker 1: they might be they will undergo a surgery, like a
- 20:36Speaker 1: major surgery where they are given general anesthesia and um,
- 20:41Speaker 1: basically it's a form of cosmetic surgery to to repair
- 20:46Speaker 1: is what they call it, um their cleft lip or
- 20:48Speaker 1: the cleft palette or both. And it's it's basically the
- 20:51Speaker 1: first in a very long line of surgeries that will
- 20:54Speaker 1: take up their first eighteen years pretty easily. Yeah, it's
- 20:57Speaker 1: called the first one is called kylo plasty uh c
- 21:01Speaker 1: h e I l o plasty, and this is uh
- 21:06Speaker 1: it can be a few surgeries. Like I said about
- 21:08Speaker 1: the teeth, it can include bone graphs. And I think
- 21:12Speaker 1: the cleft palate surgery is a little bit later. That's
- 21:15Speaker 1: only for cleft lip and cleft pallet though, is still
- 21:17Speaker 1: before they're eighteen months old. And you know, even though
- 21:20Speaker 1: it's routine, it is like you said, it's it's stressful
- 21:22Speaker 1: for a parent too to see that little baby go
- 21:25Speaker 1: under general anesthesia and go under the knife. Yeah, and
- 21:28Speaker 1: when they come out, I mean, you know, they're in pain,
- 21:31Speaker 1: they're not very happy, they're pretty uncomfortable. It's no fun. Fortunately, um,
- 21:36Speaker 1: they've actually come up with a procedure called nasoalveolar molding
- 21:42Speaker 1: or any um, thank god uh where this reduces the
- 21:48Speaker 1: number of follow up surgeries because they don't always get
- 21:50Speaker 1: it on the first surgery. They might just kind of
- 21:52Speaker 1: be like, well, this is the first step, and we're
- 21:55Speaker 1: gonna let this heal and kind of fuse a little
- 21:57Speaker 1: more closer together, and then we're gonna try it again
- 21:59Speaker 1: and again, and we'll finally get there after a couple
- 22:01Speaker 1: of surgeries. Are a few Uh an a yum kind
- 22:05Speaker 1: of does that follow up surgery ahead of time by
- 22:08Speaker 1: molding the little baby's astoundingly malleable features ahead of time
- 22:14Speaker 1: before the surgery. Yeah, it almost sounded like braces for
- 22:19Speaker 1: your faces. That's right. Uh. It's a clear plastic retainer
- 22:25Speaker 1: inside the mouth, and like you said, it helps mold
- 22:27Speaker 1: it as they grow, and then like braces, they adjust
- 22:31Speaker 1: it as they grow and maybe like tighten it down.
- 22:34Speaker 1: I think for cleff lips um they add a little
- 22:37Speaker 1: if it's a small one, they add a little plastic
- 22:39Speaker 1: post that's up in the nose to lift that up
- 22:43Speaker 1: because it can also affect the shape of your nose
- 22:45Speaker 1: early on too. I'm not sure if we mentioned that.
- 22:48Speaker 1: So it's all sort of tied in together developmentally, and
- 22:51Speaker 1: it sounds like this nam retainer device sort of just limits,
- 22:56Speaker 1: like you said, what's going to happen in the future. Yeah,
- 22:58Speaker 1: And it just brings a head cliff closer together so
- 23:01Speaker 1: that when they actually do go in to do the surgery,
- 23:04Speaker 1: there's far less trauma and it's it's far more successful
- 23:10Speaker 1: bringing it together. Um. The palette surgery is called the palettoplasty,
- 23:15Speaker 1: and it actually because the especially if it's going through
- 23:18Speaker 1: the bony part of your hard pallet. Um. They may
- 23:22Speaker 1: use bone graphs to kind of fuse that, or they
- 23:25Speaker 1: may just basically cut the gums along the roof of
- 23:29Speaker 1: your mouth from the mouth and bring it together and
- 23:32Speaker 1: just basically cover it up. And for all intents and purposes, Um,
- 23:37Speaker 1: the palette has been fixed. There's not milk going in
- 23:40Speaker 1: their ear canal any longer rub their nose. Um, they're
- 23:44Speaker 1: going to be able to speak clearly because they'll have
- 23:47Speaker 1: that soft palette, which we use to basically make almost
- 23:50Speaker 1: every sound we make phonetically. We use our soft palette
- 23:54Speaker 1: to close the airway. I'm doing it right now, literally,
- 23:57Speaker 1: right now, I'm doing literally. Um. So if you could
- 24:01Speaker 1: just kind of cover that cleft palette with gum tissue,
- 24:05Speaker 1: I mean, you've fixed a lot of the issues that
- 24:08Speaker 1: arise from having a cleft pallet. Yeah. I mean, in
- 24:11Speaker 1: addition to that speech surgery, there may be speech therapy
- 24:15Speaker 1: that your kid might undergo early on. Um, they're rhino plastic.
- 24:20Speaker 1: Sometimes because I did mention the nose, sometimes the rhino
- 24:23Speaker 1: plastic comes into play. Uh. And then there's also worth
- 24:29Speaker 1: man or though Nathnick Nathic ornatic. That g's gotta be silent,
- 24:37Speaker 1: don't you think? I don't know? Man, all right, you
- 24:40Speaker 1: take a stab or thug natic? Yeah, I think that
- 24:43Speaker 1: was it, really yeah, I think so. All right, Well,
- 24:46Speaker 1: this is jaw alignment surgery, and this is uh, this
- 24:50Speaker 1: is something that happens later on because your jaw has
- 24:53Speaker 1: to stop growing. This is sort of similar, I think
- 24:55Speaker 1: to my issues with my crossbite, and it's all sort
- 24:59Speaker 1: of the Donic related in a way as well. Um,
- 25:02Speaker 1: and that that ridge that's at the like right behind
- 25:06Speaker 1: your teeth, that your adult teeth actually grow out of
- 25:09Speaker 1: that And if you have a cliff lip in particular,
- 25:12Speaker 1: like you were saying, um, you might need a bone graph.
- 25:14Speaker 1: That's another surgery that you were talking about implants, so
- 25:19Speaker 1: that like for your front teeth in particular. Um, So
- 25:23Speaker 1: that's a that's a pretty decent amount of surgeries and
- 25:25Speaker 1: that's not necessarily one and done for any of them.
- 25:28Speaker 1: Especially I think rhinoplastic can be uh can take multiple
- 25:33Speaker 1: surgeries to kind of get the nose back where you
- 25:35Speaker 1: wanted to. But again, like this is the doctors who
- 25:40Speaker 1: handle this stuff at children's hospitals around the country and
- 25:43Speaker 1: basically everywhere and the um the global North just know
- 25:48Speaker 1: exactly what they're doing and what to do and when
- 25:51Speaker 1: to do it, and it's the The outcome is usually
- 25:54Speaker 1: very good. The prognosis of a baby born with a
- 25:57Speaker 1: cleft lip um is you know, is pretty good. Yeah,
- 26:02Speaker 1: it's great. Um, there can be scarring obviously, especially that
- 26:05Speaker 1: first surgery. They're sort of a signature scar from a
- 26:08Speaker 1: cleft lips surgical procedure, and kids can be very self
- 26:12Speaker 1: conscious about that stuff. But I think you know, they
- 26:15Speaker 1: encourage parents to try and uh just be open about
- 26:19Speaker 1: that stuff and get them to to own that as
- 26:20Speaker 1: a as a facial difference and as a visible difference,
- 26:24Speaker 1: and and to really drive home to the kid like
- 26:27Speaker 1: this is not going to you know, you can still
- 26:29Speaker 1: be an athlete, you can still it doesn't affect any
- 26:32Speaker 1: kind of uh learning or anything like that in school. So, uh,
- 26:37Speaker 1: it's really up to the parents and then through the
- 26:39Speaker 1: help of like friends and family hopefully to to get
- 26:42Speaker 1: that kid on the right track. And that that's a
- 26:43Speaker 1: huge one to supposedly like parents who are given, especially
- 26:47Speaker 1: with an ultrasound a diagnosis of a child with a
- 26:50Speaker 1: cleft lip um, can they can take the news pretty hard. Yeah. Um,
- 26:55Speaker 1: I was reading Uh, I don't remember I read it,
- 26:57Speaker 1: but it was basically like a first person account of
- 26:59Speaker 1: having a child with a cleft lip. And the woman
- 27:03Speaker 1: was saying, she was really worried that she's gonna have
- 27:05Speaker 1: trouble bonding with her baby. Remember our cute episode in
- 27:09Speaker 1: the kinder kindIn Schema. Um, she was basically worried about that. Uh.
- 27:14Speaker 1: And then she said the moment she saw her baby,
- 27:16Speaker 1: she just fell totally in love and it was like
- 27:19Speaker 1: it was just like having any other baby. It was
- 27:22Speaker 1: her baby, so of course she loved it no matter
- 27:25Speaker 1: whether she had a cleft lip or not. But that
- 27:27Speaker 1: is that is a common concern among parents when their
- 27:30Speaker 1: first you know, getting their feet wet with this. Um.
- 27:34Speaker 1: But I was reading some studies and they found that
- 27:36Speaker 1: there are basically no bonding issues that that differentiate parents
- 27:45Speaker 1: and children of kids with cleft palates or lips um
- 27:50Speaker 1: from from kids without cleft lips. That that they basically
- 27:54Speaker 1: the outcome is the same. One of the things that
- 27:57Speaker 1: you do have to be careful with though, is it's
- 28:00Speaker 1: very easy for you to become an overprotective parent because
- 28:03Speaker 1: you're dealing with a baby that you're sending off for surgery.
- 28:08Speaker 1: You don't want any harm to come to it. You've
- 28:10Speaker 1: now seen your baby with like a heart monitor, like
- 28:13Speaker 1: i V tube sticking out of them, and that's just
- 28:16Speaker 1: not a sight you want to see. It can really
- 28:18Speaker 1: make you even more protective of your baby than before.
- 28:21Speaker 1: And then when they come home and they're being teased
- 28:23Speaker 1: because of their facial difference, which they cannot help and
- 28:27Speaker 1: they had. They're not guilty of anything. They don't deserve
- 28:30Speaker 1: any of that kind of bullying or teasing. I'm sure
- 28:32Speaker 1: it makes you want to go kill those little kids
- 28:34Speaker 1: who are doing that. UM, so you got you kind
- 28:36Speaker 1: of have to. It's a definite crucible for uh, for
- 28:42Speaker 1: parents that that you have. It's an additional challenge that
- 28:46Speaker 1: you would have to to take on. But parents do
- 28:48Speaker 1: it all the time and their kids turn out totally
- 28:50Speaker 1: normal all the time. All right, Well, take another break,
- 28:55Speaker 1: are another break, and we'll come back and finish up
- 28:58Speaker 1: right after this. See alright, so we should talk about
- 29:23Speaker 1: some of the great things that are going on around
- 29:25Speaker 1: the world, but we first have to talk about some
- 29:28Speaker 1: of the not so great things. Um. We've been talking
- 29:31Speaker 1: to this about this from the perspective of someone in
- 29:33Speaker 1: the United States, where it is very common and very
- 29:36Speaker 1: treatable and outcomes are great. Unfortunately, in developing countries there
- 29:41Speaker 1: are a lot more challenges. Of course. Uh. There is
- 29:44Speaker 1: a lot of stigma attached to this anywhere, but especially
- 29:48Speaker 1: in developing countries. You might come into a situation where
- 29:52Speaker 1: um uh, like a father might blame the mother and
- 29:56Speaker 1: say you were to blame because you didn't do whatever right,
- 30:00Speaker 1: that my child looks like this, and there can be
- 30:02Speaker 1: a lot of shame involved. I think there was a
- 30:04Speaker 1: study in Kenya where mothers of babies were blamed by
- 30:08Speaker 1: their husband and extended families for that. And they interviewed
- 30:12Speaker 1: some of these women and some had contemplated taking the
- 30:15Speaker 1: baby's life or their own life or both. Uh. And
- 30:18Speaker 1: that is just unspeakable, uh, unspeakably tragic, of course. Uh.
- 30:24Speaker 1: Their access to medical care is different. Obviously. The further
- 30:29Speaker 1: they are away from good care and the more expensive
- 30:32Speaker 1: it is, the harder it becomes to overcome these challenges.
- 30:35Speaker 1: But there is great news because there are some great organizations.
- 30:40Speaker 1: One's called Smile Train, one's called Operations Smile and what
- 30:43Speaker 1: they do instead of sending in doctors, they try and
- 30:46Speaker 1: go in and train up doctors in these places to
- 30:50Speaker 1: deal with this better, to teach them how to perform
- 30:52Speaker 1: these surgeries, and to help educate the public at large
- 30:56Speaker 1: about facial differences and that it's it's okay. Yeah, I
- 31:00Speaker 1: was looking at Charity Navigator. You ever go on there, man,
- 31:03Speaker 1: they're great. Um, it turns out Operations Smile has like
- 31:08Speaker 1: a seventy, which is fine, but Smile Train is a
- 31:13Speaker 1: Charity Navigator. No. No, they've been around for a while now.
- 31:17Speaker 1: That's amazing. Both of them have, like, um, they're spending
- 31:21Speaker 1: tens and tens of millions of dollars a year on
- 31:24Speaker 1: providing like these services for children around the world. So
- 31:28Speaker 1: seventy five or a hundred, hats off to both of
- 31:30Speaker 1: them for that. That's great. I think Operations Smile has
- 31:34Speaker 1: thirty one medical centers in sixteen countries and they have
- 31:39Speaker 1: these international medical missions every year, like over a hundred
- 31:41Speaker 1: of them that they where, Like I said, they just
- 31:44Speaker 1: go in they teach the doctors instead of bringing in doctors,
- 31:48Speaker 1: and I think the whole teacher person to fish thing
- 31:50Speaker 1: all right comes into play. Teach a person to fix
- 31:53Speaker 1: a cleft flip and they'll be doing it again and again.
- 31:56Speaker 1: That's the old thing. So uh, there are actually like
- 32:01Speaker 1: since it's I think one out of every seven fifty
- 32:04Speaker 1: berths in the United States alone, that might even be
- 32:06Speaker 1: like a European statistic too. Um, there's a lot of
- 32:11Speaker 1: famous people who have cleft flips because, like you said,
- 32:14Speaker 1: if you have a cleft lip or a cleft palette,
- 32:16Speaker 1: it doesn't prevent you from doing anything. Um, so you
- 32:19Speaker 1: could excel at say acting as maybe Mike Hamer if
- 32:25Speaker 1: you wanted to Stacy Kea. Yeah, is that you're talking about? Yeah,
- 32:29Speaker 1: Stacy Keach has that cleft palette or I guess cleft
- 32:32Speaker 1: lips surgery scar forward surgeries. Actually that Stacy Keach had
- 32:37Speaker 1: uh cheech marin sure. I guess he can still smoke
- 32:40Speaker 1: downs a weed. I was gonna say, he's got the
- 32:42Speaker 1: suction thing down maybe, So who else? Uh? Joaquin Phoenix
- 32:47Speaker 1: actually is widely considered to have a um like a
- 32:51Speaker 1: cleft scar. It has what looks like that cleft scar
- 32:55Speaker 1: like he had a cleft lip repair, a chilly a
- 32:59Speaker 1: kilo plastic um, but he doesn't. He has a microform
- 33:04Speaker 1: cleft that was It's it's looked like that since birth. Um.
- 33:08Speaker 1: And apparently Wendy Williams, the talk show host, got just
- 33:12Speaker 1: jumped all over last year because she was talking about
- 33:15Speaker 1: how cute she thought it was and then was like
- 33:18Speaker 1: basically pulling her Yeah, she didn't do it right at all.
- 33:22Speaker 1: She was ultimately trying to give him a compliment, but
- 33:25Speaker 1: she did not do it in the right way. Definitely
- 33:29Speaker 1: suffered for it. Um. And then Peyton Manning is another one. Yeah,
- 33:33Speaker 1: I think his was a palette, right, he had I
- 33:36Speaker 1: think a lip too. No, I guess it says palette.
- 33:41Speaker 1: I thought he had a cliff flip because I feel
- 33:43Speaker 1: like I've seen him he has a scar, like his
- 33:45Speaker 1: lip looks turned up a little bit. But maybe it
- 33:48Speaker 1: was just a cliff palette. So he had a couple
- 33:50Speaker 1: of surgeries, and he had I think he had braces
- 33:54Speaker 1: for like eleven years, from like age four. Yeah, man,
- 33:58Speaker 1: that's to four to fifteen having races. I mean I
- 34:00Speaker 1: had braces twice and that was bad. That's the Jolly
- 34:03Speaker 1: Rancher years. And Peyton Manning missed out on those. I
- 34:06Speaker 1: can assure you he did. Did you like the individual
- 34:09Speaker 1: candies or the sticks? The sticks? That was just too much, man,
- 34:13Speaker 1: it was over the top was it for me? I
- 34:16Speaker 1: kind of liked him because the more you uh licked
- 34:19Speaker 1: on him and sucked on him that you can make
- 34:21Speaker 1: him into a knife basically right, like a poop knife.
- 34:24Speaker 1: But it was very sharp. What was your flavor? I
- 34:28Speaker 1: was always green apple? Same here. I love those watermelon
- 34:31Speaker 1: are good too. It's okay, it's old fast. Don't come
- 34:34Speaker 1: at me with grape. I don't. I don't like the grape.
- 34:35Speaker 1: I don't. I had no problem with grapes. What about
- 34:37Speaker 1: the blue? I think blue raspberry one have been remember
- 34:41Speaker 1: that maybe? But boy, those green apple, yeah, they're good.
- 34:44Speaker 1: I haven't had one of those in forty years. I
- 34:46Speaker 1: think I still have. I haven't either. I still have
- 34:49Speaker 1: some stuff to my mole. Wow, Dennison never just couldn't
- 34:54Speaker 1: even get it out. They try, they try, and they fail,
- 34:58Speaker 1: every single one of them. So Peyton man Ing uh, he,
- 35:01Speaker 1: like I said, has done a lot with his money
- 35:04Speaker 1: over the years, in addition to throwing lots of touchdowns,
- 35:06Speaker 1: a lot of philanthropy, and I think even the St.
- 35:09Speaker 1: Vincent's Childrens Hospital in Indiana they renamed that Peyton Manning
- 35:13Speaker 1: Children's Hospital at St. Vincent because they have the leading
- 35:17Speaker 1: or one of the leading pediatric cranio facial centers in
- 35:21Speaker 1: the country, and he has shoveled a lot of money
- 35:23Speaker 1: their way. UM. There's also one other thing we're talking about,
- 35:26Speaker 1: how other kids and other countries don't have access to
- 35:30Speaker 1: a lot of the services UM. And apparently a lot
- 35:33Speaker 1: of people have said, I want to adopt a child
- 35:37Speaker 1: from a developing country, and I am going to just
- 35:40Speaker 1: basically go ahead and go right onto the canonization track
- 35:45Speaker 1: and adopt a child from a developing country who has
- 35:48Speaker 1: what's called an unrepaired cleft and like, you know this
- 35:51Speaker 1: going into it, Yes, you sign up for it. There's
- 35:53Speaker 1: actually a group by the way called Rainbow Kids UM
- 35:56Speaker 1: that connects people to adoptive parents to children with developmental
- 36:02Speaker 1: UM or other kinds of special needs UM and that
- 36:06Speaker 1: includes kids with cleff lips, cleff pallets, that kind of thing,
- 36:08Speaker 1: which I think is pretty great. That is great, and
- 36:10Speaker 1: then you know that's one of the stressors of the
- 36:13Speaker 1: many stressors of adopting a kid period. I can say
- 36:15Speaker 1: from experience and that you are oftentimes dealing with a
- 36:19Speaker 1: birth mother that may not have practiced great prenatal care.
- 36:22Speaker 1: Add access to it, UM, smoking and drugs and alcohol
- 36:26Speaker 1: could play a part. And you you sign up for this,
- 36:29Speaker 1: and you they ask you these questions beforehand. They're like,
- 36:32Speaker 1: what would you do if you are in the birth
- 36:35Speaker 1: room and the baby comes out with a cleff flip
- 36:38Speaker 1: or a cleft pallet? Like, what's your real They ask that. Yeah,
- 36:41Speaker 1: I mean it's just called your tolerance list, Like what
- 36:45Speaker 1: if this happens? What if this happens? What if you
- 36:47Speaker 1: go in there and the baby comes out that's an
- 36:49Speaker 1: unexpected race? And you're like, okay, well could that happen? Yeah,
- 36:54Speaker 1: They're like, well sure again, so how are you gonna
- 36:56Speaker 1: And then they you know, they tap on their on
- 36:59Speaker 1: the clipboard and look you and they're like what would
- 37:01Speaker 1: you do? So you just got to fill out all
- 37:02Speaker 1: this stuff, and uh, it's really interesting and it makes
- 37:06Speaker 1: you do two things. That makes you really take a
- 37:08Speaker 1: hard look at what matters and also take a hard
- 37:11Speaker 1: look at your own family and genetics, and eventually probably
- 37:15Speaker 1: end up saying like, hey, we're no prize either, so
- 37:19Speaker 1: let's just do this. That's fantastic. Yeah, it's real, it's
- 37:21Speaker 1: really do an adoption podcast. When I agree, I agree.
- 37:25Speaker 1: Jerry could even maybe say a few words. She just
- 37:27Speaker 1: thumbed up and then shook her head. She did. She's
- 37:30Speaker 1: a little sleep now. She just finished the lunch. We'll see. Uh,
- 37:35Speaker 1: so you got anything else? I got nothing else? Okay, Well,
- 37:37Speaker 1: if you want to know more about cleft lips and
- 37:39Speaker 1: cliff palettes and cranio facial clefts, then you can go
- 37:43Speaker 1: do some more research online. Since I say good, do
- 37:46Speaker 1: more research online, it's time for listener. Ma, I'm gonna
- 37:52Speaker 1: call this. Uh. I inadvertently said something and I didn't
- 37:57Speaker 1: even know what it meant. I don't think we did this,
- 38:00Speaker 1: and yet did we about Netflix and Chill? I don't so,
- 38:04Speaker 1: I said, Netflix and Chill have heard. It's an expression.
- 38:08Speaker 1: There's a been and Jerry's flavor that I love. What's it? Oh?
- 38:12Speaker 1: I can't even remember. It's just really good. It's got
- 38:15Speaker 1: a lot of good, delicious, crunchy sweet things going on.
- 38:19Speaker 1: It's one of my favorite flavors. I'll check it out.
- 38:22Speaker 1: But let me just read this welcome back stuff you
- 38:23Speaker 1: should know. Team listening to your appendix episode had a
- 38:26Speaker 1: good laugh During the podcast, Chuck said our immune system
- 38:29Speaker 1: is not good at Netflix and Chill and I really
- 38:32Speaker 1: started laughing. Did you know what this meant? Yes, why
- 38:36Speaker 1: didn't you say something when I said it? I don't know.
- 38:38Speaker 1: I must have been thinking of my next joke or something,
- 38:41Speaker 1: because I don't know how I missed that. Did you know, Jerry?
- 38:43Speaker 1: Do you know what that? Man? I'm an idiot. I
- 38:46Speaker 1: can listen if I snorted. Last week, my thirty year
- 38:49Speaker 1: old daughter was visiting. I said to her, let's Netflix
- 38:51Speaker 1: and Chill and she promptly told me, mom, that is
- 38:54Speaker 1: code for having sex. What who knew? Obviously? Stuff you
- 38:59Speaker 1: should know. Oh did not get the slang Dakota memo either,
- 39:02Speaker 1: and we should say Chuck did not. I'm absolving you
- 39:05Speaker 1: and Jerry, but thanks for making me laugh. And that's
- 39:08Speaker 1: from Rosie. And Rosie said that I could read this
- 39:10Speaker 1: and her daughter would get a good laugh about it.
- 39:12Speaker 1: But I feel like a rube. I had no idea that,
- 39:16Speaker 1: And it makes sense now, like I could see some
- 39:18Speaker 1: kid being like, what did you guys do last night? Well?
- 39:20Speaker 1: Just you know Netflix and Chill, when in fact they
- 39:22Speaker 1: were doing you know, unspeakable things. But now I know
- 39:26Speaker 1: Netflix and Chill. Yeah, I don't know how I let
- 39:29Speaker 1: that one passed. Maybe it was purposeful, that's right. Um, Well,
- 39:34Speaker 1: thanks for that one. Who was that again, Rosie? Rosie
- 39:38Speaker 1: appreciate that. Um, and I'll bet that was a really
- 39:40Speaker 1: great conversation you have with your mom. I'm glad we're
- 39:43Speaker 1: clearing this up though, because there's probably a lot of
- 39:45Speaker 1: people that were like, what is is Chuck that dumb? Right?
- 39:49Speaker 1: Or maybe they thought like you had just gotten bone
- 39:51Speaker 1: dry and your sense of humor and timing and delivery. Um. Well,
- 39:56Speaker 1: if you want to get in touch with this, like
- 39:58Speaker 1: Rosie did, we want to hear from you, you can
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