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The Farmington · Second Date Update

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  Speaker 1: All right, you guys, are you ready for second date update?
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  Speaker 1: Maybe we can make a love connection.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, let's do it. Absolutely. Second date update.
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  Speaker 1: If you go on a first day but you get
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  Speaker 1: ghosted and you want to know why, call us. Dustin
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  Speaker 1: is on the line to tell us about a great
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  Speaker 1: first day.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning, Dustin, Hey, good morning.
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  Speaker 3: How was it going guys?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, it's going well. So you're getting ghosted. Tell us
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  Speaker 1: about the first date you went on.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, So I went on a date with Abby and
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  Speaker 3: I thought we had a really great time. I took
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  Speaker 3: her kayaking down the Farmington and it was a beautiful
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  Speaker 3: day and I thought we had a great time. I
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  Speaker 3: go kayaking all the time, and I just want to
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  Speaker 3: show her a great time.
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  Speaker 1: I just went paddle boarding down the Farmington myself. It
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  Speaker 1: is like that would be the perfect date. Yeah, so
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  Speaker 1: you're out there, beautiful weather, Farmington water was great, You're
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  Speaker 1: doing your kayak thing. Okay, so you felt like she
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  Speaker 1: was having a good time and you guys were connecting.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought it was great. I mean that was
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  Speaker 3: basically for the and then I texted her for a
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  Speaker 3: second date and I have been completely ghosted.
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  Speaker 2: A Dusty, my buddy you weren't like splashing her with
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  Speaker 2: the water where you I know how women are when
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  Speaker 2: when women are around water, they're a different creature.
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  Speaker 3: Some No, No, we just we just had a nice
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  Speaker 3: kayak all right.
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  Speaker 2: Hmmm. I don't even know what it could be that. No,
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  Speaker 2: I mean it sounds it sounds like it was a
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  Speaker 2: great date. It sounds you know what it is.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe I think it sounds like it's something different, out
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  Speaker 1: of the ordinary. Yeah, maybe she's not used today. Did
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  Speaker 1: she seem like an outdoorsy kind of girl.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, she seemed down to go for go kayak
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  Speaker 3: thing and then I think she had a good time. Okay,
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  Speaker 3: but I know what's happening.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I do have a single girlfriend. I always
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  Speaker 1: ask her, do you want to go kayaking or paddle boarding?
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  Speaker 1: She's like, why would I do that? Yeah, but you
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  Speaker 1: know what I mean, she's the type is not outdoorsy.
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  Speaker 1: That's the only thing I can think of. This is
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  Speaker 1: what we're gonna.
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  Speaker 2: Do, Dustin.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna call up Abby and you're going to be
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  Speaker 1: listening in and we're just gonna ask her why she's
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  Speaker 1: ghosting you.
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  Speaker 2: If you're ready to get the answers, We're ready to
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  Speaker 2: call Abby.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm ready. I'd love to find out and see
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  Speaker 3: if there's a possibility for a second date.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, hold on. That just sounds like such a unique
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  Speaker 2: first date. Like yeah, no, I like that because I
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  Speaker 2: feel like the worst dates are when it's white trash.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, that's what Courtney and her friends do. Yef,
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  Speaker 2: I am not white trash. Do not say that to me.
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  Speaker 1: I am sorry, Abby, it is Courtney from Kiss in
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  Speaker 1: the Morning.
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  Speaker 2: Hey it's Walmart chef who just got yelled at. And
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  Speaker 2: hey it's Savannah. No, Walmart called me white trash, So
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  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna have that apologize.
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  Speaker 1: I will turn your mic off and kick you off
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  Speaker 1: all of this anyway, Abby, the reason we're calling, I
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  Speaker 1: know it's kind of shocking to answer the phone and
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  Speaker 1: we're fighting, but we have something that's called, hopefully you're
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  Speaker 1: familiar with it, second date Update. You go on a
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  Speaker 1: first date, you get ghosted, we get a phone call,
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  Speaker 1: and we try to get answers.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, you are.
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  Speaker 1: On second date Update and I will just filll you obviously.
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  Speaker 1: You know, we just want you to be honest. Dustin
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  Speaker 1: called us. Dustin said he took you on a first
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  Speaker 1: date kayaking, and that it was a beautiful day and
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  Speaker 1: it was great weather, and he thought you had a
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  Speaker 1: great time, and he's reached out to you for a
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  Speaker 1: second day, but you are totally ghosting him.
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  Speaker 4: That's true. No, I am ghosting him, Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Oh okay, that was honest.
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  Speaker 1: Honest, I respect that right up front. Why are you
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  Speaker 1: ghosting him after this date?
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  Speaker 4: Well, I mean it's kind of surprising to hear that
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  Speaker 4: he thought it was great and beautiful and everything, because
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  Speaker 4: I personally had the worst time, probably one of the
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  Speaker 4: worst things I'd ever been on, to be honest. Oh wow, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: we I mean he immediately wanted to go well, so
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  Speaker 4: the date we wanted to go, well, he wanted to
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  Speaker 4: go kayaking, okay, And I had told him I had
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  Speaker 4: never done that before, okay, but he just like completely
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  Speaker 4: disregarded that, like he just didn't hear it. And when
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  Speaker 4: we got onto the water, he just took off like
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  Speaker 4: he I don't I didn't know anybody could paddle that
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  Speaker 4: fast on a boat before. But I was like, whoa, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: he took off, and there I am like spinning in circles,
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  Speaker 4: not knowing how to handle these little tattle things or whatever. Okay,
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  Speaker 4: and I'm like fighting for my life out there and
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  Speaker 4: he's gone.
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  Speaker 3: That is oh my.
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  Speaker 1: God, all right, he's on the line, Dustin. That is frightening.
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  Speaker 1: She didn't even know how to kayak, and you just
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  Speaker 1: kind of put her in the kayak and sent her
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  Speaker 1: down the Farmington.
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  Speaker 3: Dude, Abby, I'm so sorry. I did not realize that
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  Speaker 3: you were so afraid, and I totally would have stayed
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  Speaker 3: with you and tried to help you more. I didn't
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  Speaker 3: even realize.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, he didn't like turn around and say like, hey,
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  Speaker 4: where is she?
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I'm just used to like going down with
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  Speaker 3: my buddies and we just kind of take off and
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  Speaker 3: go and then meet up at the end. So I
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  Speaker 3: guess that was my bad. I'm really sorry. I really
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  Speaker 3: didn't mean to leave you behind like that, did you really?
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  Speaker 2: He really?
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  Speaker 1: Did you really have no idea that Abby was struggling
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  Speaker 1: with her kayak and you had no idea?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like you didn't look back at all, like, hey,
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  Speaker 2: I wonder where she's at.
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  Speaker 3: I mean when I saw her, I thought she was okay.
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  Speaker 3: She seemed she sees she was a little farther behind,
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  Speaker 3: but I thought it was okay. So I guess I
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  Speaker 3: just didn't know.
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  Speaker 4: I was literally making my own little teacup ride, just
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  Speaker 4: spinning in circles there panicking.
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  Speaker 1: Oh no, I can picture it though, because I mean,
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  Speaker 1: you know I can kayak now, but when you're first learning,
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  Speaker 1: you're like which way to the do I paddle? And
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  Speaker 1: how do I go straight? And I get it, it
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  Speaker 1: can be frightening.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry. That was really not my intention. I really
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  Speaker 3: thought we were having a good time. I mean, could
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  Speaker 3: I maybe take you for a second date to make
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  Speaker 3: up for it?
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  Speaker 4: I would do as a second on the land.
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  Speaker 3: Yes.
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  Speaker 4: I was just going to say, as long as it's
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  Speaker 4: on land, both see it on the ground. No like
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  Speaker 4: water or anything.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, no water, no boats. I mean that that would
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  Speaker 3: be great.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, all right, I like this.
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  Speaker 1: You would have never known, you know what, you would
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  Speaker 1: have never known, Dustin if you hadn't called us.
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  Speaker 2: I'm glad you apologized.
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  Speaker 1: I mean I do think that you just weren't aware
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  Speaker 1: because typically men were just kind of into themselves and
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  Speaker 1: getting the kayak and go.
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  Speaker 2: I get it.
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  Speaker 1: But now that you know that's what happened, I am
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  Speaker 1: so glad you apologized. And you know what, Abby, I'm
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  Speaker 1: so glad you accepted the apology.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, this is a really cute way of doing it,
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  Speaker 4: and so how could I say no?
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  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.
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  Speaker 1: And you know what, the second this is what we're
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  Speaker 1: gonna do. We're gonna pay for the date. You go
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  Speaker 1: do whatever you want, maybe go to a nice dinner.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, and go mini golf. You can't lose
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  Speaker 1: each other on the mini golf course. You know, you
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  Speaker 1: could do something like that bowling That so fun. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: all right, listen, we're going to pick up the tab
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  Speaker 1: as long as you keep us posted. One of you
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  Speaker 1: has to call us after the second date.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, will do