Latest / The One Small Change Podcast / From Paramedic to Podcasting Innovator with Kyle Goodknight
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- 0:00Welcome to the small one small change. I'm out laughing already. So
- 0:04I am really thrilled to embark on this journey of exploration
- 0:08transformation with you. And I'm your host, Yvonne McCoy. And I
- 0:12bring almost 30 years of entrepreneurial experience and a passion
- 0:15for discovering growth through the power of seemingly small
- 0:19change. And I wanna thank you for joining me on this journey.
- 0:23And this week, we are talking with the
- 0:26amazing Kyle Goodnight, and I wanna say
- 0:29that we are in the same mastermind, and so
- 0:33we probably know more about each other than we should.
- 0:37That's alright. Except I've I've always said I've never met a stranger, so there it
- 0:41is. So, Kyle, tell us about what you
- 0:45do and why you do it. Wow. Boy, that's a that's a when someone
- 0:48asked me what do I do, it's like, okay. Which which one do I choose?
- 0:51Because I do so much stuff, and I'm not trying to be braggadocious, but,
- 0:55my full time job is I'm a paramedic and a first responder. I've come with
- 0:59almost 30 years of health care experience. I'm also a respiratory therapist,
- 1:03but I don't do respiratory therapy clinically now. But, so I'm a full
- 1:06time paramedic. I work every 3rd day as a 24 hour paramedic on a
- 1:10911 vehicle where I respond to emergencies. I'm a
- 1:14part of my education department where I go out and I train, the different
- 1:17things that we need to train on every month with my with my with my
- 1:21division. So that's my full time gig. So I'm also
- 1:24on the backside of that. I mentioned earlier that I only
- 1:28I work 24 hours a day. Right? But I only do one of those every
- 1:323rd day. So I have 2 days off. And if you've noticed a lot of
- 1:35first responders, they have secondary gigs. They have they have side gigs.
- 1:39Right? Well, I have a couple of side gigs. 1, I I was a I
- 1:42was a handyman for a while. That beat me up. I've started I've started to
- 1:46pull back from being a handyman. The second gig I did was I became
- 1:50a voice over actor about 8 years ago, and I started
- 1:54I've always been told that I had a good voice. I can do character voices.
- 1:58If you want me to talk to your kid like Elmo or Grover, please give
- 2:01me a call. I can just go right into character and talk to your kid
- 2:04about Grover or Elmo or many others. But, so I
- 2:08became a voice over actor. I've done some video games. I've done a lot of
- 2:11ebooks, a lot of elearning, for voice over. I've done a lot of
- 2:14narration, some commercials. I had one national commercial that went,
- 2:18that went for Yahoo Fantasy Sports that went national really early
- 2:22on. Those are few and far between for the voice over world, especially the way
- 2:26that I do it because I do it as a part time. Well, through that,
- 2:30I got asked to do intros and outros for
- 2:33someone's podcast. Well, that introduced me to the podcast world.
- 2:37And where I am now, I actually produce podcasts. I spent 6
- 2:41years producing other people's podcasts. And about 8 months ago, I decided to make my
- 2:45own podcast for some other things that I was doing on the first responder
- 2:48world, and I decided to start a podcast to get the
- 2:52word out of what I'm doing in the first responder world. Well, that spun into,
- 2:55hey. I know how to podcast. I know my workflow is nice and efficient, and
- 2:59I can actually help people that don't know it but want a podcast for their
- 3:02business in a better way. So now my side gig, which is becoming
- 3:06more and more, you know, more and more of my time is
- 3:10now spent, and I'm not I'm no longer doing handyman work anymore.
- 3:14I'm able to get on with people, and I was just actually on my, an
- 3:17onboarding session right before we started recording today on one of my new clients
- 3:21that's coming on board. And we went over the recording software, and I
- 3:25was able to coach and utilize my education background with, with
- 3:28that and my my technical background that I have through learning how to
- 3:32podcast the wrong way for 6 years. Up until about 8 months ago, I started
- 3:35learning how to podcast in a much more efficient way, and that's what I do
- 3:38now. I'm a podcast business strategist, and I help people grow their
- 3:42podcast, whether it's existing or just starting. And I,
- 3:46and and that's what I do as a as a side gig, and and it's
- 3:49hopefully gonna be something that I do in retirement and and from now on
- 3:53because I love it. It's so much fun meeting new people and, and
- 3:57coming on podcasts and having people come on podcasts. Well, not only is
- 4:00he really good at that, he's a fantastic cookie maker too, I've heard.
- 4:04I I keep begging him to send me cookies. But With with
- 4:08all due respect, I have to give those cookie props to my wife. It's her
- 4:12recipe, her family's recipe. I just am the one that makes the dough
- 4:15and chills it so when she comes home, we can make the cookies.
- 4:19So a man a man of many, many talents. But but, Kyle,
- 4:23you know, as you as you you know, I think we all do this. I
- 4:26mean, I started out at at some place totally different than I am now,
- 4:30but everything that you you find out from
- 4:34those things help make you unique, help make you the
- 4:37person that you are now. But there there was probably something that
- 4:41happened that made you decide, you know, to
- 4:45change the way you do business or change the business that you wanna do.
- 4:50Right. Well well, I
- 4:53mean, the one thing that wanted me to start doing
- 4:57more in the, you know, the digital world is the
- 5:00physical aspect of what handyman does. You know, of a first
- 5:04responder, it can be a physical job. I have been injured as a
- 5:08first responder. I fell in the back of my truck and busted up both my
- 5:11shoulders about 3 years ago, So I had to go through 2 years worth of
- 5:14shoulder reconstruction. Well, with that happening is I don't have full
- 5:18range of motion in my shoulders anymore. So to do handyman as a side
- 5:22gig don't get me wrong. I've been doing handyman stuff and and construction since I
- 5:25was old enough to swing a hammer with my dad. I've done everything from
- 5:29foundations to full blown roofs. I've done it all. Right? Plumbing,
- 5:33electric, I can I've I've I know a little bit about all of it. Right?
- 5:36And but, anymore, when I go out there to do a new
- 5:40floor or hang drywall, it's all I can do to reach up and do the
- 5:44drills properly over and over and over again all day for 8 hours.
- 5:47And I have this digital world that I have also
- 5:51learned through my downtime and through the times that I've wanted to sink
- 5:54my teeth into learning stuff about digital stuff, whether it be recording
- 5:58for voice over or podcasting for other people. And that's when
- 6:02I I once I started realizing that I could make a business out of the
- 6:05digital world that I knew, I could start pulling away from the physical world.
- 6:09So that's probably when the biggest change happens. When I became a voice over
- 6:13actor, I realized that there was something else there that I could do
- 6:16that if I focus my time on, I could get away from the physical
- 6:20side of the of the handyman work. I love doing it. I love the
- 6:24the the benefits of it. I love the creativity of handyman work. I love
- 6:28the the satisfaction when I'm done with a project and looking back and say, I
- 6:31did that with my own bare hands. I love that part, but I can do
- 6:34the same thing now with podcast. I can say, hey. Look. Look what I created
- 6:37digitally. I I was gonna say, you know, what part of what I'm
- 6:41taking away from what you're saying is, you
- 6:44know, is that we're not guaranteed or,
- 6:48you know, we're not guaranteed the the the abilities of our physical
- 6:52body, And we are all living longer. And so I think, you know,
- 6:56it used to be the the mantra was live longer, but I think the idea
- 7:00is that you wanna live longer and stronger. And as somebody
- 7:03who's significantly older than you are, you know, one of the things
- 7:07that I look at a lot is what is it that I'm creating or
- 7:11doing that I will be able to do 10 years from
- 7:14now? And that's where I think a podcast is an
- 7:18amazing thing. So
- 7:22if you were talking I mean, I had done talk black
- 7:25talk radio for, like, 3 years. Okay. I know about that. Yeah.
- 7:29I have some other I have some older clients that used to use that. Yeah.
- 7:33I'm an I'm an old Not old, but old clients
- 7:36that I have had in the past. That's the word I wanna use. Anyway, so
- 7:39what I'm gonna state to you is there are probably people out there that are
- 7:43saying to themselves, I can't do a
- 7:46podcast. What would I talk about? What would I do? What you know, it's
- 7:50too techie. It's too you know, especially if you are older and
- 7:53you're excuse me. Sorry. Not into the
- 7:57tech world. What would you say to people to think
- 8:01about why you should have a podcast and how it's
- 8:04much easier now than it used to be? Right. Well, you know, couple of
- 8:08things that, you know, that that is kind of what podcasts
- 8:12have done to the whole world, and we know that
- 8:16they're they're very powerful. But the old
- 8:19thought process and I call it old because I've changed my thought process on a
- 8:23podcast. Podcasts were always about how
- 8:27many listeners and how many downloads can I get? How many people
- 8:30can subscribe to my podcast and listen on a weekly basis.
- 8:34And I don't have that same philosophy at this point in time. I'm
- 8:38fairly new with my own personal podcasts, and I've
- 8:41switched I've flipped podcasting on its head, and I podcast
- 8:45my long game is the downloads and listeners. I understand that
- 8:49podcasts take time, but how do I monetize my podcast in the
- 8:53front end? Well, for me, my business is
- 8:57my podcast. I have actually I have 2 podcasts. One's a, like, come on kind
- 9:00of a passion project with the 1st responder mental health stuff, and then the other
- 9:04podcast is for entrepreneurs or people with small businesses. And what that
- 9:07podcast is about is having people come on and talk about their entrepreneurial
- 9:11path. How did they get to where they are as an entrepreneur? And we just
- 9:15you know, we we go off of that with questions. But what I do with
- 9:18that one is every single guest I have on, I meet, and now
- 9:22they're in my network. I can collaborate with them. They may
- 9:25need services that I can provide for them, like podcast
- 9:29production. I may need they they may have services that I
- 9:32need. You know, I've I've have, like, one of the things that I part
- 9:36one of my very first guests, I ended up buying his program, and
- 9:40it was something that changed me as a first responder and some
- 9:44things that I was struggling with. And that transformed into
- 9:47my business and what was struggling with my business and my personal,
- 9:51you know, anxieties and my my worries and my procrastination.
- 9:55I was able to utilize his program, and I bought it, and he was
- 9:59my guest. But I I got to know him. I got to talk to more
- 10:02about him, and I was like, you know what? Something? I wanna invest in this
- 10:05man because this man has made changes in other people's lives. He's proven it to
- 10:09me. He's disgusted, and I wanna take a chance on him. So I did,
- 10:13and I came back from a in a completely different way, both personally and business
- 10:17wise, and that's what I do podcasting for. Podcasting is to
- 10:20meet new people and see how we can collaborate. Well, I just I just had
- 10:24an interesting experience yesterday where, I published my
- 10:28podcast on Fridays. Right? Because I feel like people will have
- 10:32time to listen to them over the weekend. Right? I mean, that's
- 10:36kinda my thought whether it's Okay. Or not. But but I
- 10:39I had somebody that I I did a connection call with, and they
- 10:43said, I listened to the podcast that you put out this week, yada
- 10:47yada yada, and I really like this person. And I said, oh,
- 10:51well, they're having, you know, this event this coming week. And she's like, oh, I'm
- 10:54gonna go to that. So, yeah, I think, you know, podcasting
- 10:58is it is for a nugget of information.
- 11:02Yep. Right? But I think more than that, it's a way to
- 11:05get visibility both for yourself and for the person that's
- 11:09on the podcast. And as I'm telling this story, I
- 11:13realized that probably what somebody that I also had on my podcast
- 11:17was like, you know, your signature block should be huge. You
- 11:20should have not just call me, but, you know, all, you know, all these different
- 11:24links so that so people can click on. I'm thinking, I definitely need to
- 11:28put my podcast link in there, you know, so that people can look at it.
- 11:32They're getting ready to you know, if I send them an email and they're gonna
- 11:35be talking with me, they can go to the podcast and see what it's like.
- 11:38So, you know, the the phrase that we use in our world a lot is
- 11:42podcasting for partners. Yep. Who are the people who
- 11:45are, most likely to share the
- 11:49podcast that you do together with the people that you know?
- 11:52Yeah. That they know so that your world becomes a lot
- 11:56bigger. So tell me, I wanna go back to
- 12:00some of the objections or fears that people have. Yep. I was gonna get into
- 12:03that. Yep. Yeah. You know, about starting their own podcast. Yeah.
- 12:07And that's kinda the reason why I say what I said in the beginning
- 12:11to to describe what I use podcast for kinda helps
- 12:15in this next in this this next answer. So one thing
- 12:19I feel that the the conversational and the interview
- 12:22podcast is king because if, you know,
- 12:26people have that fear of what would I talk about? Well, everybody has wisdom.
- 12:30Everybody has a life experience. People have a passion discussion,
- 12:33and they can figure out what that is. And they work with they work with
- 12:36someone who you know, like, take for example, I had a gentleman that
- 12:40I was walking my dogs and lived in my neighborhood, and he comes up to
- 12:43me. He knows kinda what I do, and he was he kind of he kind
- 12:46of, asked me if I could if I had any ideas and
- 12:50to help his business out. And it's a brand new business, and it's an apparel
- 12:53business for golfing. And I'm like, instantly, I thought of podcasting. And he's
- 12:57like, well, how would a podcast work? How would a he got. He got
- 13:01all. How would a podcast work for selling my apparel?
- 13:05I'm like, well, let's this is why you need a coach. This is why
- 13:08people that want to podcast or think they want a podcast or
- 13:12they have something interesting, they get someone that has some creativity that
- 13:16can hear and meet them and find out what they do and then bring some
- 13:20new new out of the box ideas to the to the table. So with
- 13:23that gentleman, I said I said start a podcast. He's like, well, how does that
- 13:26work? And I said, think about it. You wanna sell golf apparel.
- 13:30How can you make it fun, make it funny, and still
- 13:34sell your golf apparel? He's like, yeah. And I'm like, let's make a podcast.
- 13:39It's called swing high. It's a the the
- 13:42apparel is a I mean, I don't know what your view is, and I'm not
- 13:46and I have my own view on on legalization of marijuana,
- 13:50but the logo is 2 golf clubs and a marijuana leaf, and it's
- 13:53called swing high. And, of course, when you're swinging, the word high is
- 13:57part of it's part of the catch. Right? So I said, let's have a
- 14:01podcast where your people you're the host, and you invite people to come
- 14:04on and tell about their funny stories of golfing when they were
- 14:08under the influence of whatever. Most of it be alcohol because because
- 14:12marijuana has not been legal for forever yet. You know, it's been a little it's
- 14:15a lot newer than alcohol. So So let's have funny stories about talking about
- 14:19intoxication and the golf game. And, you know, and we can have
- 14:23guests on that way. And then I'm like, and then sprinkle in
- 14:27the people that run events. Oh, you wanna talk about your event?
- 14:31I'll promote it on my podcast. Come on my podcast. Talk about your event. Oh,
- 14:33by the way, I have an apparel company. Can I use your can I use
- 14:36my apparel at your event? Can I put up a booth at your event? And
- 14:39it could start off locally, and then it could go nationally. And he was like,
- 14:43oh my god, Kyle. That's so smart. So I'm gonna actually have the perfect client
- 14:47come on my I my podcast. Yeah. The stories that you sprinkle in, that's
- 14:50that may not be your perfect client. Maybe eventually, maybe I wanna buy your onesies
- 14:54or twosies. But when it comes to putting something into someone's into
- 14:57someone's, like, pro shop, it's the or have it at an
- 15:01event every time. I'm like, I know at least 10 golfing events through the
- 15:051st responder world. Now swing high golf may not go
- 15:09well with that, but, nonetheless, you know, it's one of those things where you could
- 15:12have you could you could have your apparel be something
- 15:16that through discussing the golf outing with the individual that you bring on
- 15:20your podcast to help them, you're helping them. Your podcast is to help
- 15:24your your your, your guest. Your podcast,
- 15:28when it comes to an interview style podcast, it's all about the guest. You
- 15:31sprinkle a little bit of your knowledge in, but you really promote your guest because
- 15:35that's where they see value, and that's where you can give them value. And
- 15:38then through that value, they see that you're a trusted partner, and
- 15:42podcasting for partners is is what was born.
- 15:46So with that being said, when it comes to having the courage
- 15:49to step out and do a podcast, 1, you have to have a little bit
- 15:52of an idea or at least have something thrown on the wall that you'd wanna
- 15:55do. And then you talk to somebody that's been there before or someone that's creative
- 15:59on that side of things that can see that and create,
- 16:03you know, put put better ideas together about how you can utilize a
- 16:07podcast and whether it be your side gig business or your personal
- 16:10growth or what have you. So I always tell people if they wanna do a
- 16:14podcast, let's just book a call. Let's talk about it. Show me tell me
- 16:17your ideas. Give that information to me. Let me see what I can come up
- 16:21with, if there's any angles or any outside of the box thinking that could work,
- 16:25and then go from there. Whether I've got one person that does monologues and
- 16:28interviews, and it's a great combination. I've got people that do only
- 16:32interviews. Like me, I only do interviews. I don't ever get on and do a
- 16:35monologue. I just don't. I I can't hold my attention that long.
- 16:39The conversation is where it holds my attention. I'm I'm an extra
- 16:42extrovert, and I like the interaction. So so I I guess
- 16:46going back to what you're saying, look, the important thing is,
- 16:51first of all, is to see it as a way
- 16:55to stay visible consistently. And I think that's
- 16:59where most people make a mistake in their business is that it's it's like
- 17:02always throwing spaghetti on the wall. Let me try this. Let me try that. But
- 17:06if you have something you do do consistently, and you can decide if you wanna
- 17:09do a 20 minute podcast. I just went on somebody's show that does
- 17:13a 15 minute podcast. If you wanna do an hour podcast
- 17:17Yep. You get to decide the length of time and the topic and the
- 17:21format that you want it to be in. And you own it. So it so
- 17:24it it's and and that's what makes it, you know, yours is
- 17:28because of the way that the the way that you do it. And you can
- 17:32podcast, you know, just like, you know, I've come to the conclusion you can sell
- 17:36anything. There's a buyer for anything. Right. There's a
- 17:39podcast for for everybody. I mean, I I've been really,
- 17:43trying to nudge my husband to do one because been saying about
- 17:47that. Because one is he has this great love of
- 17:50kids, and he has this great love of music. And, you
- 17:54know, my kids have got the most eclectic,
- 17:58you know, variety of music. I mean, they're now adults. But
- 18:02because Oscar introduced them to all the kinds of musics that he
- 18:06liked. And I was thinking that would be a great podcast, you
- 18:09know. You know? Yeah. What about music? Would be. You know? And
- 18:13kids' stories. Yeah. You know? Or And from what I hear, he's got a great
- 18:16voice voice over too. Great voice. But you don't you don't have to
- 18:20have a great voice to podcast. No. You don't. And so, you
- 18:24know, if you're thinking about doing a podcast, I think
- 18:28don't think about what the technology part of it is. Just
- 18:31think about what do you what would you like to do and what's
- 18:35your intention for doing it? So, you know, as Kyle said,
- 18:39most podcasts, are not gonna get, you
- 18:43know, immediately the high you know, we're not going for the
- 18:46influencer model, you know, on social media. We're going for
- 18:50The interaction model. Yep. Right. The interaction that we get to know people, we
- 18:54get to expand, you know. And the ideal guest to me
- 18:57is somebody that I find interesting, that has
- 19:01interesting ideas, that I hope my audience will be interested
- 19:04in, but also somebody who will promote their
- 19:08episode to the to their audience. To their audience. Yep. So that their
- 19:12audience will expand. And I always find when I talk
- 19:15to somebody, I get better
- 19:19at my messaging, whether it's on a podcast or something
- 19:23else. I mean, I was on a summit, you know, recently, and I
- 19:27realized that my message now is you don't need to be fixed, you just need
- 19:30to be found. Right. Which is about client
- 19:34attraction. And it was, like, it was through just a, you know, a a a
- 19:37breakout room kinda conversation. It was like and it just popped
- 19:41out naturally. So, I mean, you you every week you or however you
- 19:45decide many times you put it out, you get a chance to talk about
- 19:48your view of whatever. Yeah. And what you find is the more
- 19:52people you talk to about it, the more you start to get
- 19:56clarification about what it is that you that you really love.
- 20:00So before we run out of time, let's
- 20:03let's kind of talk about the gift that you've got for people
- 20:07and Yep. 3 ways that entrepreneurs can, you know,
- 20:11really think about doing it doing podcasting. Right. Right. So the
- 20:14the the gift that I have that will be in the show notes, I take
- 20:17it, is a it's a PDF. It's a free ebook. And, basically,
- 20:21it kind of it dives a little bit deeper into the concept that I just
- 20:25spoke of, but it also gives you some hints on what you would what you
- 20:28it what you could need and debunks a few things. Like, a lot of people
- 20:31think that you need, like, this amazing microphone to podcast. Right? You
- 20:35don't. I do have it just because of my voice over background
- 20:39and that I've been podcasting for 6 years. Of course, I've grown. But I've
- 20:43had people podcast, and I've I've run a couple of
- 20:47podcasts where all they have is the AirPods in, and they run it off of
- 20:50their phone. They put their phone on a tripod. They open up Zoom or
- 20:54Riverside or whatever recording app is is compatible with a phone,
- 20:58and they boom. They they they do a podcast, through through
- 21:01that. So, you know, that that ebook
- 21:05actually will kind of talk about all of that stuff and
- 21:09and talk about podcasting for partners a little bit about how that
- 21:13works and how you can utilize that for whatever business that you're doing.
- 21:17I've actually approached a gal who has a a brick and mortar,
- 21:21and it's a very, it's all local artists in the
- 21:24side of her shop that are selling their their stuff, not just paintings, a
- 21:28lot of handmade stuff, everything. Well, I talked to her about doing a podcast
- 21:32where her local artists come on and promote their art, and then she can
- 21:36have this another thing that podcasts do is make you an authority in the
- 21:40space. So she can be authority in the space of
- 21:43local small small artists and promote them
- 21:47to get them more seen and have something to that her clients that come
- 21:51in and support her have something that they could, 1, tune into once a
- 21:54week, once a month, however long many shimes she wants to do it eventually once
- 21:58she decides, and they find out something new about her shop that they may not
- 22:02have known. So it's you can really think outside the box when it comes to
- 22:05podcasting, because remember, we are in a digital age that has
- 22:09got some amazing tools. Those amazing tools
- 22:13can give you exposure, and what I mean by that is we all know the
- 22:17word Google. Everybody knows Google. Go in and search something on
- 22:20Google. Most likely, one of the first things you'll see come up is a
- 22:24video short. That video short may have that
- 22:28keyword that you were looking for. More often than not, video shorts show
- 22:31up before websites now. So the software that I
- 22:35use, the the the the workflow that I teach
- 22:39builds in automatic shorts
- 22:43or reels, whatever you wanna call it. They my system calls it viral moments
- 22:47because they're not allowed to use the word short or real because that's patented by
- 22:50the by the YouTubes and the Facebooks of the world. But it generates
- 22:54these things that are TikTok esque, real esque. They're
- 22:57the vertical video that automatically splits up the 2 people, puts the
- 23:01words on the screen, and boom, you can push that out on your YouTube channel
- 23:05when you're doing a podcast because I highly recommend doing video podcasts
- 23:09because YouTube is the number one podcasting platform now
- 23:13above any other pa podcasting platform because of
- 23:16the video content and because of the stuff. So
- 23:20doing that, you get that exposure that brings people more
- 23:24into you, and utilize the tools that are available now that are much easier than
- 23:27the old way. I I will just add to this. Probably
- 23:31one of the if you're still, like, on the fence about what would I what
- 23:34would I do my podcast about, one of the things I would suggest
- 23:38you do is make yourself a list of 10 things or 10 topics
- 23:42that you could just riff on for 10 minutes without any notes because you're just,
- 23:46like, into it. And and and that is a way to
- 23:50take a look of, you know, start thinking about what I would do a podcast
- 23:53about. And the other thing that I would suggest is if you're just
- 23:57starting, and let's say you've got a full time job, you may wanna pick
- 24:01one of those things that is more in your hobby field or where
- 24:05you wanna go when you leave your job Yep. So that you can actually
- 24:08actually start building that. Okay. Yeah. So, you will
- 24:12find all of this great information in the notes.
- 24:16Kyle, you know, I love what you've done with podcasting. I love
- 24:20what you've done. And and and and I guess what I would say to you
- 24:23is you don't have to get stuck on, you know, the
- 24:27technology of it because there's lots of help for that. So alright. So before
- 24:31we run out of time, I wanna ask you, when was the
- 24:34last time you did something new for the first time?
- 24:41An ice cream moment. That's why we call it an EMS. Because when your
- 24:45first time you do something that is like, oh, the first time you deliver a
- 24:48baby, you have to provide ice cream to the whole crew. 1st time you do
- 24:51like, when you're a brand new EMS person, 1st time you do an IV stick,
- 24:56you I you know, ice cream. So we call those the ice cream moments. Man,
- 24:59the first time I've done something for the first the last time I did something
- 25:03for the first time oh, boy. That's a
- 25:07boy, you put me on the spot on that one. We may
- 25:10have to we may have to think a little bit. You have to splice this.
- 25:14I don't know because I do I I am so busy. We don't splice and
- 25:18dice. We don't splice. I oh my gosh. Because I do so many
- 25:22different things. It's a lot of stuff is not the first time,
- 25:25but, gosh.
- 25:29When was the last time you met somebody when was the last time you met
- 25:33somebody new and exciting? That would be something new for you. Well, you know what?
- 25:36Let me let me do this. So I'll tell you what. The last time I
- 25:39did something for the first time is
- 25:43deal with me.
- 25:47It's deep. I've never put myself first
- 25:51ever. Maybe when I was a kid.
- 25:55Kids put themselves first all the time. They're selfish. Right? When you become
- 25:59an adult, you become a first responder, and everything is about what you do and
- 26:02the community you serve, you tend to get into this pattern of not doing
- 26:06something for yourself, and then it's a problem 20 years down the road.
- 26:10Like, for me for me, I had a blind side at 26 years in. I
- 26:13came home from work one day, and I was lost. I had no clue what
- 26:17was going on. I wasn't suicidal, but I had a problem. I don't know what
- 26:21the problem was, and I raised my hand.
- 26:24And through that process and through the years of coming through that
- 26:28because I needed to unpack a lot of stuff, I realized that we
- 26:31need to do, it's a buzzword right now, self care.
- 26:35There's a lot of stuff on self care. Everybody feels like they don't need
- 26:39it. I don't need self care. 100%, you do.
- 26:42So the last time I did something for myself was actually
- 26:46do and and this goes back to the program that I one of my guests
- 26:50came on, and he had a self care program, if you will, the a generic
- 26:54that's a generic umbrella of what his program is at, way deeper than that. And
- 26:57through that process and through learning what he taught me, I am
- 27:01I can literally know for a fact that
- 27:05I can put the time into myself that makes me a better
- 27:09person for anyone watching me, for anybody tuning
- 27:12in, for my family, for my wife, for my dogs, for my
- 27:16community. I am a better person because I was able
- 27:19to really go ahead and understand what self care
- 27:23meant and do it. So I guess that's that's that's pretty deep,
- 27:27but that's that's a big one, though. That's a that's a big one. It is
- 27:30a huge one. It is a huge one. Alright. So before we
- 27:34probably run out of time, I need to put in the the the commercial.
- 27:37And so for all of you that are that are watching, I hope you will
- 27:41subscribe and share and encourage other people to share share this on
- 27:45social media. And what I the reason that I do this
- 27:49is I wanna help supercharge your business through connections. And
- 27:53it's my way of giving back to the community and fueling your quest for growth
- 27:56and impact. So I hope that you will join me for the One Small Change
- 28:00and continue coming in as we embark on this this journey
- 28:04of tiny shifts that yield monumental transformation.
- 28:08And if you haven't done it yet, you should listen to the first episode that
- 28:12I'm on and get a sense of what it's about and,
- 28:15you know, how it can help you. So, Kyle, you got, like,
- 28:19one minute to give us your quote, your words of wisdom before we
- 28:23leave. Don't be afraid to try new things
- 28:27and utilize what you've learned in the past on whatever new thing is.
- 28:31And if that new thing doesn't fit you, that's okay because you learned something
- 28:35in the process of doing that new thing. Absolutely.
- 28:38Absolutely. And so I always say, remember,
- 28:42change is simple, but it's not always easy. And it requires courage,
- 28:46resilience, and a willingness to step out of your comfort zone. And if
- 28:49you're feeling comfortable, then you need to push a little bit
- 28:53more. So join me next week for the one small change, and
- 28:56until the next time, stay curious. Thank you, Kyle.
- 29:00Thank you.