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Free Range Parenting - Could You Give Your Child This Much Freedom? · Other Peoples Parenting

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  Hey,
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  guys.
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  Welcome
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  to
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  other
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  people's
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  Parenting,
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  where
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  we
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  read
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  parenting
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  books
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  and
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  review
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  them
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  for
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  you.
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  I'm
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  Skylar
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  Hurwitz,
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  amateur
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  parent,
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  and
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  this
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  is
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  my
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  mom,
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  Karen
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  Quinn,
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  New
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  York
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  Times
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  best
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  selling
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  author
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  and
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  founder
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  of
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  Habit
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  Coach
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  and
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  Testing
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  Mom.
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  Hello,
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  mom.
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  Hello,
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  Skylar.
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  How
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  are
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  you
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  on
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  this
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  horrific
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  rainy
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  day?
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  I
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  am
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  fine.
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  I'm
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  wet,
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  but
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  I
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  am
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  ready
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  to
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  go.
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  Wet
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  and
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  ready
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  to
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  go.
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  So
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  today
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  we'll
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  be
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  reviewing
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  Lenore
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  Skanazi's
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  Free
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  Range
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  Kids,
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  which
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  I
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  liked,
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  but
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  also
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  took
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  issue
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  with.
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  Teen.
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  On
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  a
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  scale
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  of
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  readability,
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  how
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  readable
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  was
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  this
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  book
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  from
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  scientist
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  to
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  parent?
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  Well,
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  from
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  scientist
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  to
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  parent,
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  I
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  would
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  say
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  it's
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  incredibly
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  readable.
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  There
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  are
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  studies
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  cited,
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  but
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  there
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  are
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  no
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  graphs.
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  She
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  didn't
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  go
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  into
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  great
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  detail
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  on
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  the
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  studies.
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  So
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  I
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  would
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  say
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  it's
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  really
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  pretty
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  readable.
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  The
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  author
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  also
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  has
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  a
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  good
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  sense
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  of
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  humor.
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  She
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  makes
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  lots
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  of
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  jokes.
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  Lots
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  of
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  jokes.
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  Lenore
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  has
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  jokes.
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  She
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  does.
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  She
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  really
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  does.
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  So
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  there's.
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  So
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  there's
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  a
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  lot
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  of
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  humor
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  in
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  the
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  book
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  too,
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  which
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  is
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  kind
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  of
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  fun
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  and
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  kind
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  of
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  nice.
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  Yeah.
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  Yeah.
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  Especially
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  when
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  you're
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  talking
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  about
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  something
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  as
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  fraught
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  as
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  setting
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  your
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  children
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  free
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  into
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  the
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  world
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  to
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  do
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  as
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  they
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  please
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  and
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  not
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  monitor
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  them.
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  I
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  can
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  imagine
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  this
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  book
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  was
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  pretty
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  controversial
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  when
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  it
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  first
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  came
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  out.
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  How
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  old
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  is
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  this
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  book?
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  I
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  actually
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  didn't.
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  I
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  didn't.
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  I'm
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  not
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  sure.
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  I'm
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  gonna
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  just
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  give
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  it
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  a
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  good
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  guess.
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  I
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  would
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  say
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  2010.
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  Okay.
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  Or
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  much
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  more
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  recent.
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  Okay.
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  I
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  don't
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  know.
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  We
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  have
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  to.
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  Yeah,
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  we
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  don't
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  know.
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  I
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  could
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  look
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  right
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  now.
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  You
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  can
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  look
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  right
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  now.
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  I'll
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  allow
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  it.
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  Will
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  you
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  let
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  me
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  look?
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  Please
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  enter
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  the
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  date
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  into
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  evidence.
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  All
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  right.
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  The
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  date
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  of
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  this
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  book
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  is.
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  Wow.
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  Why
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  can't
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  I
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  find
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  it?
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  Well,
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  it
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  also
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  could
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  be
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  this
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  edition,
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  like
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  sometimes.
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  Oh,
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  yeah,
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  this
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  is
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  the
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  second
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  edition.
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  It's
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  not
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  the
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  first
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  edition.
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  Important
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  information.
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  This
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  is
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  the
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  second
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  edition.
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  It's
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  funny
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  though.
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  Usually
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  they
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  on
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  the
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  copyright
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  page.
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  Well,
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  copyright
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  2021.
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  Oh,
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  wow.
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  This
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  is
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  way
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  more
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  recent
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  than
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  I
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  expected.
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  All
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  right.
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  Ok.
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  Okay.
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  All
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  right.
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  Well,
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  good
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  for
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  you,
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  Lenore.
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  Go
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  off.
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  It's
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  newer.
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  Well,
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  the
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  second
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  edition
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  at
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  least.
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  Okay,
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  so
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  Tina,
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  in
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  general,
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  what
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  was,
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  like,
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  the
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  point
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  of
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  this
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  book?
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  Okay,
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  so
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  what?
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  This
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  book
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  is
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  about
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  the
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  author.
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  Her
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  name
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  is
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  Lenore
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  Skenazy
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  Skanazi.
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  I
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  just
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  said
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  like
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  Ashkenazi.
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  Okay,
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  good.
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  Yeah,
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  that's
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  good.
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  I
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  don't
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  know
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  how
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  she
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  pronounces
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  it.
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  Me
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  either.
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  But
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  Lenore,
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  way
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  in,
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  let
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  us
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  know.
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  Anyway,
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  she
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  talks
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  about
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  how
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  Our
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  culture
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  is
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  just
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  obsessed
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  with
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  what
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  she
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  calls
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  worst
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  first
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  thinking,
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  which
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  is
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  thinking
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  up
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  the
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  worst
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  case
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  scenario
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  first
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  and
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  proceeding
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  as
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  though
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  it's
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  going
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  to
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  happen,
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  which
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  I
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  totally
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  identified
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  with,
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  because
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  that's
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  me.
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  When
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  someone
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  is
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  late,
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  I
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  immediately
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  go
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  to,
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  they
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  must
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  have
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  died.
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  Something
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  terrible
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  just
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  happened,
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  you
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  know,
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  because
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  I
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  do
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  that.
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  So
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  I
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  really
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  do
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  understand
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  this,
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  and
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  especially
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  when
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  it
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  comes
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  to
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  our
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  kids.
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  And.
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  Yeah,
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  and
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  she
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  talks
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  about
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  how
• 3:05
  what
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  happened
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  was
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  she
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  wrote
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  a
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  column
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  and
• 3:09
  the
• 3:09
  column
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  was
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  about
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  how
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  she
• 3:11
  let
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  her
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  nine
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  year
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  old
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  go
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  on
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  the
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  subway
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  alone
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  to
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  go
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  somewhere.
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  And
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  that
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  he
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  did.
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  Okay.
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  And
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  then
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  suddenly
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  all
• 3:19
  these
• 3:19
  media
• 3:19
  outlets
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  started
• 3:21
  contacting
• 3:22
  her
• 3:22
  to
• 3:23
  be
• 3:23
  on
• 3:23
  the
• 3:23
  show
• 3:23
  to
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  talk
• 3:24
  about
• 3:24
  how
• 3:24
  she
• 3:24
  let
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  her
• 3:25
  nine
• 3:25
  year
• 3:25
  old
• 3:25
  ride
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  the
• 3:26
  subway
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  alone
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  like
• 3:28
  it
• 3:28
  was
• 3:28
  some
• 3:29
  horrible
• 3:29
  thing
• 3:30
  that
• 3:30
  she
• 3:31
  did.
• 3:31
  And
• 3:31
  she
• 3:32
  got
• 3:32
  dubbed
• 3:32
  the
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  world's
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  worst
• 3:33
  mom
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  throughout
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  media
• 3:35
  for
• 3:35
  doing
• 3:35
  that.
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  An
• 3:36
  icon
• 3:36
  and
• 3:36
  a
• 3:37
  legend.
• 3:37
  Right.
• 3:37
  And
• 3:38
  after
• 3:38
  that,
• 3:39
  she
• 3:39
  launched
• 3:39
  the
• 3:39
  free
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  range
• 3:40
  parenting
• 3:41
  movement
• 3:41
  to
• 3:42
  fight
• 3:42
  against
• 3:42
  helicopter
• 3:43
  parenting,
• 3:44
  which
• 3:44
  I
• 3:45
  didn't
• 3:45
  know
• 3:45
  needed
• 3:46
  fighting
• 3:46
  against.
• 3:46
  But
• 3:47
  now
• 3:47
  that
• 3:47
  I've
• 3:47
  read
• 3:47
  the
• 3:48
  book,
• 3:48
  I
• 3:48
  see
• 3:48
  that
• 3:49
  it
• 3:49
  probably
• 3:49
  does
• 3:50
  to
• 3:50
  a
• 3:50
  certain
• 3:51
  extent.
• 3:51
  Did
• 3:51
  you
• 3:51
  let
• 3:52
  me
• 3:52
  do
• 3:52
  things
• 3:52
  like.
• 3:52
  That
• 3:53
  as
• 3:53
  a
• 3:53
  kid?
• 3:53
  I
• 3:54
  mean,
• 3:54
  when
• 3:54
  did
• 3:54
  I
• 3:55
  take
• 3:55
  the
• 3:55
  subway
• 3:55
  alone
• 3:55
  for
• 3:56
  the
• 3:56
  first
• 3:56
  time?
• 3:56
  I
• 3:57
  don't
• 3:57
  remember
• 3:57
  when
• 3:57
  you
• 3:57
  took
• 3:58
  the
• 3:58
  subway
• 3:58
  alone,
• 3:59
  but
• 3:59
  I
• 3:59
  do
• 4:00
  remember
• 4:01
  when
• 4:01
  I
• 4:01
  put
• 4:01
  you
• 4:01
  on
• 4:01
  a
• 4:01
  city
• 4:02
  bus.
• 4:02
  A
• 4:03
  shout
• 4:03
  out
• 4:03
  to
• 4:03
  the
• 4:04
  M14D.
• 4:05
  Right.
• 4:06
  Do
• 4:06
  you
• 4:06
  remember
• 4:06
  that?
• 4:06
  I.
• 4:07
  Yes,
• 4:07
  I
• 4:07
  do.
• 4:08
  I
• 4:08
  loved
• 4:08
  the
• 4:08
  bus.
• 4:09
  You
• 4:09
  were
• 4:09
  going
• 4:09
  to
• 4:09
  school
• 4:10
  and
• 4:10
  I
• 4:10
  think
• 4:11
  I
• 4:11
  rode
• 4:12
  with
• 4:12
  you
• 4:13
  the
• 4:13
  first
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  couple
• 4:14
  of
• 4:14
  times
• 4:15
  we
• 4:15
  did
• 4:15
  it
• 4:15
  together.
• 4:16
  So
• 4:16
  you
• 4:16
  would
• 4:16
  remember
• 4:16
  where
• 4:17
  to
• 4:17
  get
• 4:17
  off.
• 4:17
  Yeah.
• 4:18
  And
• 4:18
  then
• 4:18
  me
• 4:18
  and
• 4:18
  all
• 4:18
  my
• 4:19
  Polish
• 4:19
  friends
• 4:19
  used
• 4:19
  to
• 4:19
  ride
• 4:20
  together.
• 4:20
  Yes,
• 4:21
  because
• 4:21
  they
• 4:21
  lived
• 4:21
  in
• 4:21
  the
• 4:21
  neighborhood.
• 4:22
  They
• 4:22
  were
• 4:22
  all
• 4:22
  neighbors.
• 4:23
  So
• 4:23
  they
• 4:23
  were
• 4:24
  on
• 4:24
  the
• 4:26
  bus
• 4:26
  with
• 4:26
  you?
• 4:27
  Yes,
• 4:27
  they
• 4:27
  were.
• 4:27
  Along
• 4:28
  with
• 4:28
  so
• 4:28
  many,
• 4:29
  so
• 4:29
  many
• 4:30
  others.
• 4:30
  What
• 4:30
  I
• 4:30
  love
• 4:30
  about
• 4:31
  city
• 4:31
  buses,
• 4:32
  at
• 4:32
  least
• 4:32
  when
• 4:32
  I
• 4:32
  lived
• 4:32
  in
• 4:33
  Brooklyn,
• 4:33
  there
• 4:33
  was
• 4:33
  this
• 4:33
  group
• 4:34
  of
• 4:34
  old
• 4:34
  ladies
• 4:34
  who,
• 4:34
  no
• 4:35
  matter
• 4:35
  what
• 4:35
  time
• 4:35
  of
• 4:36
  day
• 4:36
  I
• 4:36
  got
• 4:36
  on
• 4:36
  this
• 4:37
  bus,
• 4:37
  there
• 4:37
  they
• 4:38
  were
• 4:38
  in
• 4:38
  the
• 4:39
  front
• 4:39
  of
• 4:39
  the
• 4:39
  bus,
• 4:40
  hanging
• 4:40
  out.
• 4:41
  Do
• 4:41
  you
• 4:41
  think
• 4:41
  they
• 4:41
  just
• 4:41
  rode
• 4:42
  it
• 4:42
  all
• 4:42
  day
• 4:42
  long?
• 4:42
  I
• 4:43
  mean,
• 4:43
  maybe
• 4:43
  it's
• 4:43
  like,
• 4:44
  it's
• 4:44
  like
• 4:44
  a
• 4:44
  cheap
• 4:45
  activity
• 4:45
  to
• 4:46
  do
• 4:46
  with
• 4:46
  your.
• 4:46
  Friends,
• 4:47
  I
• 4:47
  guess,
• 4:47
  visit
• 4:48
  on
• 4:48
  the
• 4:48
  bus.
• 4:49
  I
• 4:49
  loved
• 4:49
  it.
• 4:50
  Sometimes
• 4:50
  they'd
• 4:50
  even
• 4:51
  have
• 4:51
  like
• 4:51
  potlucks.
• 4:52
  But
• 4:52
  I
• 4:52
  would
• 4:52
  let
• 4:53
  you
• 4:53
  ride
• 4:53
  the
• 4:53
  bus
• 4:54
  and
• 4:55
  I
• 4:55
  remember
• 4:55
  being
• 4:56
  really
• 4:56
  nervous
• 4:56
  about
• 4:57
  letting
• 4:57
  you
• 4:58
  do
• 4:58
  that.
• 4:58
  But
• 4:59
  at
• 4:59
  the
• 4:59
  same
• 5:00
  time,
• 5:00
  we
• 5:01
  were
• 5:01
  living
• 5:01
  in
• 5:01
  New
• 5:01
  York
• 5:01
  City,
• 5:02
  we
• 5:02
  didn't
• 5:02
  have
• 5:02
  a
• 5:02
  car,
• 5:04
  and
• 5:04
  otherwise
• 5:05
  you
• 5:05
  would.
• 5:05
  Have
• 5:05
  to
• 5:05
  schlep
• 5:06
  me
• 5:06
  to
• 5:06
  school.
• 5:06
  Exactly.
• 5:06
  And
• 5:07
  I
• 5:07
  was
• 5:07
  trying
• 5:07
  to
• 5:07
  avoid
• 5:08
  that.
• 5:08
  So
• 5:09
  I
• 5:09
  think
• 5:09
  you
• 5:09
  were
• 5:10
  in
• 5:10
  middle
• 5:10
  school
• 5:11
  at
• 5:11
  the
• 5:11
  time
• 5:11
  when
• 5:11
  I.
• 5:12
  Yeah.
• 5:12
  At
• 5:12
  sixth
• 5:13
  grade,
• 5:13
  I
• 5:14
  think
• 5:14
  so.
• 5:14
  12.
• 5:14
  11
• 5:15
  or
• 5:15
  12.
• 5:16
  Well,
• 5:16
  so
• 5:16
  anyway,
• 5:17
  this
• 5:17
  author
• 5:18
  then,
• 5:19
  she
• 5:19
  created
• 5:19
  something
• 5:20
  called
• 5:22
  the
• 5:22
  Let
• 5:22
  Grow
• 5:23
  Project,
• 5:24
  which
• 5:24
  is
• 5:24
  a
• 5:24
  homework
• 5:25
  assignment
• 5:25
  that.
• 5:27
  That
• 5:27
  schools
• 5:28
  are
• 5:28
  supposed
• 5:29
  to
• 5:29
  give
• 5:29
  their
• 5:29
  kids,
• 5:30
  which
• 5:30
  is
• 5:30
  to
• 5:30
  go
• 5:31
  home
• 5:31
  and
• 5:31
  do
• 5:31
  something
• 5:32
  you've
• 5:32
  never
• 5:33
  done
• 5:33
  before
• 5:34
  without
• 5:34
  your
• 5:35
  parents.
• 5:36
  And
• 5:36
  so
• 5:37
  it's
• 5:37
  really
• 5:37
  grown
• 5:38
  quite
• 5:38
  a
• 5:39
  bit.
• 5:39
  Schools
• 5:39
  all
• 5:39
  over
• 5:40
  the
• 5:40
  country
• 5:40
  are
• 5:40
  doing.
• 5:42
  Sounds
• 5:43
  like
• 5:43
  a
• 5:44
  good
• 5:44
  project.
• 5:44
  Kids
• 5:45
  are
• 5:45
  trying
• 5:45
  things
• 5:45
  they've
• 5:46
  never
• 5:46
  tried
• 5:46
  before,
• 5:47
  asserting
• 5:48
  their
• 5:48
  independence.
• 5:49
  I
• 5:49
  think
• 5:49
  it's
• 5:49
  really
• 5:50
  a
• 5:50
  great
• 5:50
  project
• 5:51
  to
• 5:51
  do.
• 5:53
  And
• 5:54
  she
• 5:54
  talks
• 5:54
  about
• 5:54
  the
• 5:55
  fact
• 5:55
  that
• 5:55
  she
• 5:55
  really
• 5:56
  cares
• 5:56
  a
• 5:56
  lot
• 5:56
  about
• 5:57
  childhood
• 5:58
  safety.
• 5:58
  It's
• 5:59
  not
• 5:59
  that
• 5:59
  she
• 5:59
  doesn't,
• 6:00
  but
• 6:01
  she
• 6:01
  also
• 6:02
  knows
• 6:02
  that
• 6:02
  you
• 6:02
  have
• 6:03
  to
• 6:03
  raise
• 6:03
  kids
• 6:04
  to
• 6:04
  be
• 6:04
  somewhat
• 6:04
  independent,
• 6:06
  not
• 6:06
  to
• 6:06
  depend
• 6:07
  on
• 6:07
  their
• 6:07
  parents
• 6:07
  all
• 6:07
  the
• 6:08
  time
• 6:08
  so
• 6:08
  they
• 6:08
  can
• 6:08
  go
• 6:08
  out
• 6:09
  of
• 6:09
  the
• 6:09
  nest
• 6:09
  and
• 6:09
  be
• 6:10
  competent
• 6:10
  adults.
• 6:11
  Yeah.
• 6:11
  And
• 6:11
  that's
• 6:12
  her
• 6:12
  thought.
• 6:12
  I
• 6:12
  agree.
• 6:13
  I
• 6:13
  agree
• 6:13
  with
• 6:14
  her.
• 6:14
  I
• 6:14
  think
• 6:14
  when
• 6:14
  you
• 6:14
  raise
• 6:15
  kids
• 6:15
  to
• 6:15
  be
• 6:16
  fearful
• 6:16
  of
• 6:16
  everything,
• 6:17
  how
• 6:17
  are
• 6:17
  they
• 6:18
  supposed
• 6:18
  to
• 6:18
  live
• 6:19
  as
• 6:19
  adults?
• 6:20
  Like,
• 6:20
  how
• 6:20
  do
• 6:20
  you
• 6:20
  get
• 6:20
  by
• 6:21
  in
• 6:21
  the
• 6:21
  world?
• 6:22
  I
• 6:22
  hope
• 6:23
  my
• 6:23
  daughter
• 6:25
  feels
• 6:25
  like
• 6:25
  she
• 6:25
  can
• 6:25
  go
• 6:26
  anywhere
• 6:26
  in
• 6:26
  the
• 6:26
  world.
• 6:26
  I
• 6:27
  wanted
• 6:27
  to
• 6:27
  learn
• 6:27
  how
• 6:27
  a
• 6:27
  subway
• 6:28
  system
• 6:28
  works.
• 6:28
  I
• 6:29
  want
• 6:29
  her
• 6:29
  to,
• 6:29
  like,
• 6:30
  feel
• 6:31
  like
• 6:31
  she
• 6:31
  can
• 6:31
  be
• 6:31
  independent.
• 6:32
  Right.
• 6:32
  You
• 6:32
  know,
• 6:33
  nothing
• 6:33
  should
• 6:33
  hold
• 6:33
  her
• 6:33
  back.
• 6:34
  If
• 6:34
  there's
• 6:34
  anywhere
• 6:34
  she
• 6:34
  wants
• 6:34
  to
• 6:35
  go,
• 6:35
  she
• 6:35
  shouldn't
• 6:35
  be
• 6:35
  fearful.
• 6:36
  Right.
• 6:36
  I
• 6:37
  agree
• 6:37
  with
• 6:37
  that.
• 6:37
  I
• 6:37
  agree
• 6:38
  with
• 6:38
  that.
• 6:39
  And
• 6:39
  I
• 6:39
  was
• 6:39
  gonna.
• 6:40
  The
• 6:40
  last
• 6:40
  thing
• 6:40
  I
• 6:40
  wanted
• 6:41
  to
• 6:41
  tell
• 6:41
  you
• 6:41
  about
• 6:41
  the
• 6:41
  author,
• 6:42
  though,
• 6:42
  is
• 6:42
  that
• 6:42
  she
• 6:43
  did
• 6:43
  have
• 6:43
  a
• 6:44
  TV
• 6:44
  show.
• 6:44
  It's
• 6:45
  not
• 6:45
  on
• 6:45
  now,
• 6:45
  but
• 6:46
  you
• 6:46
  can
• 6:46
  find
• 6:46
  it
• 6:47
  on
• 6:47
  YouTube,
• 6:47
  I
• 6:47
  think
• 6:48
  it's
• 6:48
  called
• 6:48
  World's
• 6:48
  Worst
• 6:49
  mom,
• 6:49
  where
• 6:50
  she
• 6:50
  goes
• 6:50
  into
• 6:51
  families
• 6:51
  and
• 6:53
  she
• 6:54
  finds
• 6:55
  overprotective
• 6:56
  mothers.
• 6:56
  Usually
• 6:57
  mothers,
• 6:57
  but
• 6:57
  maybe
• 6:58
  some
• 6:58
  are
• 6:58
  fathers.
• 6:59
  I
• 6:59
  didn't
• 6:59
  watch
• 6:59
  every
• 7:00
  episode,
• 7:00
  but
• 7:01
  she
• 7:02
  helps
• 7:03
  them
• 7:04
  let
• 7:04
  go
• 7:04
  and
• 7:05
  give
• 7:05
  their
• 7:05
  children
• 7:05
  more
• 7:06
  freedom.
• 7:06
  So
• 7:06
  we
• 7:07
  can
• 7:07
  talk
• 7:07
  more
• 7:07
  about
• 7:07
  that
• 7:08
  as
• 7:08
  well.
• 7:09
  So
• 7:10
  I
• 7:10
  feel
• 7:10
  like
• 7:10
  so
• 7:11
  much.
• 7:11
  It's
• 7:11
  so
• 7:11
  funny
• 7:11
  because
• 7:12
  I
• 7:12
  honestly
• 7:12
  thought
• 7:12
  this
• 7:13
  book
• 7:13
  was
• 7:13
  so
• 7:13
  much
• 7:13
  older
• 7:14
  than
• 7:14
  it
• 7:14
  is,
• 7:14
  maybe.
• 7:15
  What
• 7:15
  made
• 7:15
  you
• 7:15
  think
• 7:16
  that,
• 7:16
  I
• 7:16
  wonder.
• 7:17
  You
• 7:17
  know,
• 7:17
  I
• 7:17
  don't
• 7:17
  know.
• 7:18
  Her
• 7:18
  philosophy
• 7:19
  around
• 7:19
  parenting
• 7:20
  seems
• 7:21
  so
• 7:21
  permissive
• 7:22
  that
• 7:22
  it's
• 7:22
  almost
• 7:22
  out
• 7:23
  of
• 7:23
  line
• 7:23
  with
• 7:24
  what
• 7:24
  feels
• 7:24
  like
• 7:24
  2025
• 7:25
  post
• 7:26
  pandemic,
• 7:28
  post
• 7:29
  John
• 7:29
  Walsh's
• 7:30
  show.
• 7:31
  Right,
• 7:31
  right.
• 7:32
  Okay.
• 7:33
  Parenting.
• 7:33
  Right.
• 7:34
  Well,
• 7:34
  it's.
• 7:34
  That's.
• 7:35
  That's
• 7:35
  probably
• 7:35
  why
• 7:36
  they
• 7:36
  called
• 7:36
  her
• 7:36
  the
• 7:36
  world's
• 7:37
  worst
• 7:37
  mom.
• 7:37
  Yeah.
• 7:38
  Because
• 7:38
  she
• 7:38
  let
• 7:39
  her
• 7:39
  9
• 7:39
  year
• 7:39
  old
• 7:40
  take
• 7:40
  the
• 7:40
  subway
• 7:41
  alone.
• 7:41
  Yeah.
• 7:41
  And.
• 7:42
  But
• 7:43
  he
• 7:43
  lived
• 7:43
  to
• 7:43
  talk
• 7:43
  about
• 7:44
  it.
• 7:44
  Everything,
• 7:45
  you
• 7:45
  know.
• 7:45
  Thank
• 7:45
  God.
• 7:45
  Stunning.
• 7:46
  Yeah.
• 7:46
  Although
• 7:46
  we'll
• 7:47
  say
• 7:47
  the
• 7:47
  train
• 7:47
  now
• 7:47
  is
• 7:47
  way
• 7:48
  scarier
• 7:48
  than
• 7:49
  it
• 7:49
  was
• 7:49
  when
• 7:49
  I
• 7:49
  was
• 7:49
  a
• 7:49
  kid.
• 7:50
  It
• 7:50
  really
• 7:50
  is
• 7:51
  like.
• 7:51
  I
• 7:51
  don't
• 7:51
  know
• 7:51
  what's
• 7:51
  going
• 7:51
  on
• 7:52
  with
• 7:52
  the
• 7:52
  subway,
• 7:52
  but
• 7:52
  somebody
• 7:53
  needs
• 7:53
  to
• 7:53
  handle
• 7:54
  that.
• 7:55
  Yes.
• 7:56
  I
• 7:56
  feel
• 7:56
  like
• 7:56
  so
• 7:56
  many
• 7:56
  things
• 7:57
  about
• 7:57
  parenting
• 7:57
  have
• 7:58
  changed.
• 7:58
  Like,
• 7:58
  my
• 7:58
  husband
• 7:59
  and
• 7:59
  I
• 7:59
  talk
• 7:59
  all
• 7:59
  the
• 7:59
  time
• 8:00
  about
• 8:00
  how
• 8:01
  safe
• 8:01
  sleeping
• 8:02
  concepts
• 8:03
  have
• 8:03
  changed
• 8:04
  so
• 8:04
  much.
• 8:04
  Like,
• 8:05
  I
• 8:05
  look
• 8:05
  at
• 8:05
  photos
• 8:06
  of
• 8:06
  when
• 8:06
  I
• 8:06
  was
• 8:06
  a
• 8:07
  baby.
• 8:07
  Yeah.
• 8:07
  And
• 8:08
  in
• 8:08
  my
• 8:08
  crib,
• 8:08
  there's,
• 8:09
  like,
• 8:09
  35
• 8:10
  pillows.
• 8:11
  Bumpers.
• 8:11
  Yes.
• 8:12
  Stuffed
• 8:12
  animals,
• 8:13
  blankets.
• 8:14
  And
• 8:15
  now
• 8:15
  they
• 8:16
  say
• 8:16
  your
• 8:17
  child
• 8:17
  should
• 8:17
  be
• 8:17
  in
• 8:18
  an
• 8:18
  empty,
• 8:18
  flat
• 8:19
  crib,
• 8:19
  swaddled
• 8:20
  with
• 8:20
  nothing
• 8:21
  else,
• 8:21
  or
• 8:21
  they
• 8:22
  will
• 8:22
  suffocate.
• 8:23
  Exactly.
• 8:23
  Yeah.
• 8:24
  I
• 8:24
  remember
• 8:24
  getting
• 8:24
  bumpers
• 8:25
  for
• 8:25
  you,
• 8:26
  your
• 8:26
  crib,
• 8:27
  because
• 8:27
  they
• 8:27
  said
• 8:27
  kids
• 8:28
  had
• 8:28
  to
• 8:28
  have
• 8:28
  bumpers
• 8:29
  because
• 8:29
  what
• 8:30
  if
• 8:30
  you
• 8:30
  bumped
• 8:30
  your
• 8:31
  head
• 8:31
  against.
• 8:31
  God
• 8:32
  forbid.
• 8:32
  Yeah.
• 8:32
  So
• 8:33
  that
• 8:33
  was
• 8:33
  the
• 8:34
  reason.
• 8:34
  So
• 8:34
  I
• 8:34
  gave.
• 8:35
  I
• 8:35
  got
• 8:35
  you
• 8:35
  bumpers.
• 8:35
  I
• 8:36
  thought
• 8:36
  that
• 8:36
  was
• 8:36
  the
• 8:36
  right
• 8:36
  way,
• 8:37
  and
• 8:37
  I
• 8:37
  had
• 8:38
  to
• 8:38
  put
• 8:38
  you.
• 8:38
  I.
• 8:38
  I
• 8:39
  can't
• 8:39
  remember
• 8:39
  if
• 8:39
  I
• 8:39
  put
• 8:39
  you
• 8:40
  on
• 8:40
  your
• 8:40
  back
• 8:40
  or
• 8:40
  your
• 8:41
  stomach
• 8:41
  or
• 8:41
  what,
• 8:41
  but
• 8:42
  whatever
• 8:42
  they
• 8:42
  told
• 8:43
  me
• 8:43
  to
• 8:43
  do,
• 8:43
  that's
• 8:43
  what
• 8:43
  I
• 8:43
  did.
• 8:44
  Now
• 8:44
  it's
• 8:44
  your
• 8:44
  back.
• 8:44
  That
• 8:45
  was
• 8:45
  it.
• 8:45
  So.
• 8:46
  Well,
• 8:46
  the.
• 8:47
  With
• 8:47
  the
• 8:47
  book,
• 8:47
  the
• 8:47
  way
• 8:48
  it's
• 8:48
  organized.
• 8:48
  Just
• 8:49
  want
• 8:49
  to
• 8:49
  go.
• 8:49
  Go
• 8:50
  back
• 8:50
  to
• 8:50
  how
• 8:50
  she
• 8:50
  sort
• 8:51
  of
• 8:51
  set
• 8:51
  the
• 8:51
  whole
• 8:51
  thing
• 8:51
  up.
• 8:52
  She
• 8:52
  talks
• 8:53
  about
• 8:53
  there's
• 8:54
  18
• 8:54
  commandments
• 8:55
  that
• 8:55
  she
• 8:55
  gives
• 8:55
  you.
• 8:57
  And
• 8:57
  the
• 8:57
  first
• 8:57
  one,
• 8:58
  which
• 8:58
  I
• 8:58
  think
• 8:58
  is
• 8:58
  a
• 8:59
  really
• 8:59
  important
• 8:59
  one,
• 9:00
  is
• 9:00
  know
• 9:01
  when
• 9:01
  to
• 9:01
  worry.
• 9:03
  She
• 9:03
  says
• 9:03
  you
• 9:04
  have
• 9:04
  to
• 9:04
  distinguish
• 9:04
  between
• 9:05
  real
• 9:05
  risk
• 9:06
  and
• 9:06
  inflated
• 9:07
  risk.
• 9:08
  And
• 9:08
  that
• 9:08
  she
• 9:08
  talks
• 9:09
  about
• 9:09
  how
• 9:09
  crime
• 9:10
  really
• 9:10
  went
• 9:10
  up
• 9:10
  until
• 9:11
  1990,
• 9:12
  and
• 9:12
  it's
• 9:12
  been
• 9:12
  going
• 9:13
  steadily
• 9:13
  down.
• 9:15
  And
• 9:16
  that
• 9:16
  kids
• 9:17
  are
• 9:17
  much
• 9:17
  safer
• 9:18
  than
• 9:18
  we
• 9:19
  think,
• 9:20
  that
• 9:20
  the
• 9:21
  likelihood
• 9:21
  of
• 9:22
  someone
• 9:22
  safe,
• 9:22
  you
• 9:22
  know,
• 9:23
  kidnapping
• 9:23
  your
• 9:23
  child
• 9:24
  or
• 9:25
  some
• 9:25
  crazy
• 9:25
  person
• 9:26
  is
• 9:27
  very,
• 9:27
  very
• 9:28
  low.
• 9:28
  Specifically
• 9:29
  because
• 9:30
  one
• 9:30
  thing
• 9:31
  that
• 9:31
  news
• 9:32
  media
• 9:32
  does
• 9:32
  not
• 9:32
  tell
• 9:33
  you
• 9:33
  is
• 9:33
  that
• 9:33
  often
• 9:34
  when
• 9:34
  a
• 9:34
  child
• 9:34
  is
• 9:34
  abducted,
• 9:35
  it's
• 9:35
  by
• 9:36
  a
• 9:36
  parent
• 9:37
  or
• 9:37
  someone
• 9:37
  they
• 9:38
  know.
• 9:38
  Right.
• 9:39
  So
• 9:39
  rarely
• 9:40
  does
• 9:40
  a
• 9:40
  stranger
• 9:42
  actually
• 9:42
  abduct
• 9:43
  your
• 9:43
  child.
• 9:43
  Not
• 9:44
  that
• 9:44
  it
• 9:44
  doesn't
• 9:44
  happen.
• 9:44
  It
• 9:45
  has.
• 9:45
  And
• 9:45
  those
• 9:46
  cases
• 9:46
  get
• 9:46
  so
• 9:46
  much
• 9:47
  attention
• 9:47
  because
• 9:48
  they
• 9:48
  are
• 9:48
  rare
• 9:48
  and
• 9:49
  sensational.
• 9:50
  But
• 9:50
  this
• 9:51
  fear
• 9:51
  that
• 9:52
  your
• 9:52
  child's
• 9:52
  gonna
• 9:53
  walk
• 9:53
  into
• 9:53
  the
• 9:53
  world
• 9:53
  and
• 9:54
  that
• 9:54
  some
• 9:54
  random
• 9:55
  snatcher
• 9:56
  is
• 9:56
  gonna
• 9:56
  snatch
• 9:57
  them
• 9:57
  up
• 9:58
  is
• 9:58
  actually
• 9:58
  very
• 9:59
  unlikely.
• 10:00
  It
• 10:00
  is.
• 10:00
  And
• 10:01
  in
• 10:01
  fact,
• 10:01
  she
• 10:01
  brought
• 10:02
  up
• 10:03
  John
• 10:03
  Walsh
• 10:03
  and
• 10:04
  Adam
• 10:04
  Walsh,
• 10:05
  and
• 10:05
  I
• 10:05
  even
• 10:05
  remember
• 10:06
  when
• 10:06
  that
• 10:06
  happened.
• 10:07
  I
• 10:07
  mean,
• 10:07
  I
• 10:08
  was
• 10:08
  around
• 10:08
  at
• 10:08
  that
• 10:08
  time.
• 10:09
  I
• 10:10
  was
• 10:10
  around
• 10:10
  at
• 10:10
  that
• 10:10
  time,
• 10:11
  wasn't
• 10:11
  I?
• 10:12
  Well,
• 10:12
  it
• 10:13
  was
• 10:13
  when
• 10:13
  you
• 10:13
  were
• 10:13
  like
• 10:13
  a
• 10:14
  baby.
• 10:14
  I
• 10:14
  think
• 10:15
  you
• 10:15
  were
• 10:15
  really
• 10:15
  young.
• 10:15
  Also,
• 10:16
  side
• 10:16
  note,
• 10:17
  I
• 10:17
  was
• 10:18
  mere
• 10:19
  miles
• 10:19
  away
• 10:20
  from
• 10:20
  JonBenet
• 10:21
  Ramsey
• 10:22
  the
• 10:22
  night
• 10:22
  she
• 10:23
  was
• 10:23
  abducted
• 10:23
  or
• 10:24
  killed.
• 10:24
  She
• 10:24
  was
• 10:25
  killed.
• 10:25
  We.
• 10:25
  We.
• 10:26
  Yeah,
• 10:26
  we
• 10:27
  were
• 10:27
  in
• 10:27
  Boulder
• 10:27
  we
• 10:28
  were
• 10:28
  in
• 10:28
  Boulder.
• 10:28
  That's
• 10:28
  right.
• 10:28
  Could
• 10:29
  have
• 10:29
  been
• 10:30
  me.
• 10:30
  Well,
• 10:31
  no,
• 10:31
  it
• 10:31
  couldn't
• 10:31
  have
• 10:31
  been.
• 10:32
  Well,
• 10:32
  I
• 10:32
  mean,
• 10:32
  you
• 10:33
  were
• 10:33
  with
• 10:33
  us
• 10:34
  the
• 10:34
  whole
• 10:34
  time.
• 10:35
  I.
• 10:35
  I
• 10:35
  guess
• 10:35
  it
• 10:36
  could
• 10:36
  have
• 10:36
  been
• 10:36
  you.
• 10:36
  I
• 10:36
  could
• 10:37
  have
• 10:37
  been
• 10:37
  abducted.
• 10:38
  You
• 10:38
  could
• 10:38
  have
• 10:39
  been.
• 10:39
  And
• 10:39
  she
• 10:39
  actually
• 10:39
  talks
• 10:40
  about
• 10:40
  that.
• 10:40
  She
• 10:40
  talks
• 10:41
  about
• 10:41
  how
• 10:42
  people
• 10:42
  have
• 10:42
  close
• 10:43
  calls
• 10:43
  to
• 10:43
  abductions.
• 10:44
  Do
• 10:44
  they?
• 10:45
  Well,
• 10:45
  that
• 10:45
  people
• 10:46
  think
• 10:46
  they
• 10:46
  do.
• 10:47
  Actually,
• 10:47
  we
• 10:47
  had
• 10:48
  a
• 10:48
  close
• 10:48
  call
• 10:48
  for
• 10:48
  an
• 10:49
  abduct
• 10:49
  abduction
• 10:51
  when
• 10:52
  I
• 10:52
  was
• 10:52
  a
• 10:52
  little
• 10:52
  girl,
• 10:54
  me
• 10:54
  and
• 10:54
  your.
• 10:55
  And
• 10:55
  your
• 10:55
  Uncle
• 10:55
  Don,
• 10:56
  Donnie
• 10:57
  at
• 10:57
  that
• 10:57
  time,
• 10:58
  and
• 10:58
  my
• 10:59
  friend
• 10:59
  Melanie
• 10:59
  Califf.
• 11:00
  We.
• 11:00
  We
• 11:01
  had
• 11:01
  gone
• 11:01
  down
• 11:01
  to
• 11:01
  the
• 11:02
  Catholic
• 11:02
  school
• 11:02
  to
• 11:03
  play.
• 11:04
  And
• 11:05
  while
• 11:05
  we
• 11:05
  were
• 11:05
  there,
• 11:05
  I
• 11:06
  think
• 11:06
  Melanie
• 11:07
  and
• 11:07
  I
• 11:07
  got
• 11:07
  distracted.
• 11:08
  Don
• 11:08
  wandered
• 11:09
  off
• 11:10
  and
• 11:10
  we
• 11:11
  went
• 11:11
  looking
• 11:11
  for
• 11:11
  him,
• 11:12
  and
• 11:12
  he
• 11:12
  was
• 11:12
  being
• 11:12
  lured
• 11:13
  into
• 11:13
  a
• 11:14
  car
• 11:15
  by
• 11:15
  a
• 11:15
  man
• 11:15
  who
• 11:16
  promised
• 11:16
  he
• 11:16
  had
• 11:17
  a
• 11:17
  puppy
• 11:17
  in
• 11:17
  the
• 11:17
  car.
• 11:18
  And
• 11:19
  Melanie
• 11:19
  and
• 11:19
  I
• 11:20
  caught
• 11:20
  him
• 11:20
  and
• 11:20
  we
• 11:20
  said,
• 11:21
  stop,
• 11:21
  Stop,
• 11:22
  Donnie,
• 11:22
  you
• 11:23
  have
• 11:23
  to
• 11:23
  come
• 11:23
  back
• 11:23
  with
• 11:23
  us.
• 11:24
  No,
• 11:24
  no,
• 11:24
  don't
• 11:24
  get
• 11:24
  in
• 11:25
  the
• 11:25
  car.
• 11:25
  Literally,
• 11:26
  Don
• 11:26
  was
• 11:26
  about
• 11:26
  to
• 11:27
  get
• 11:27
  in
• 11:27
  the
• 11:27
  car
• 11:27
  with
• 11:27
  this
• 11:27
  guy.
• 11:28
  And
• 11:28
  so
• 11:29
  we
• 11:29
  grabbed
• 11:30
  Donnie
• 11:30
  and
• 11:30
  we
• 11:31
  got
• 11:31
  on
• 11:31
  our
• 11:31
  bikes
• 11:31
  and
• 11:32
  we
• 11:32
  rode
• 11:32
  very,
• 11:32
  very
• 11:32
  fast,
• 11:33
  ET
• 11:34
  Style,
• 11:34
  all
• 11:34
  the
• 11:35
  way
• 11:35
  home
• 11:36
  to
• 11:36
  tell
• 11:36
  our
• 11:36
  parents.
• 11:37
  Not
• 11:37
  ET
• 11:38
  Style.
• 11:38
  Well,
• 11:38
  you
• 11:38
  know,
• 11:39
  really
• 11:39
  fast
• 11:39
  and
• 11:40
  not
• 11:40
  in
• 11:40
  the
• 11:40
  air.
• 11:41
  But
• 11:41
  anyway,
• 11:42
  we
• 11:43
  rush
• 11:43
  home
• 11:44
  to
• 11:44
  tell
• 11:45
  our
• 11:45
  parents,
• 11:45
  who
• 11:45
  were
• 11:45
  at
• 11:46
  the
• 11:46
  time
• 11:46
  taking
• 11:46
  a
• 11:46
  nap.
• 11:47
  It
• 11:47
  was
• 11:47
  a
• 11:48
  Sunday,
• 11:49
  so
• 11:49
  my
• 11:49
  parents
• 11:49
  were
• 11:50
  napping,
• 11:51
  which,
• 11:51
  of
• 11:51
  course,
• 11:51
  was
• 11:52
  their
• 11:52
  euphemism
• 11:52
  for
• 11:52
  sex.
• 11:53
  We
• 11:53
  weren't
• 11:53
  allowed
• 11:53
  to.
• 11:54
  I
• 11:54
  didn't
• 11:54
  know
• 11:54
  that
• 11:55
  then.
• 11:55
  We
• 11:55
  weren't
• 11:56
  allowed
• 11:56
  to
• 11:56
  go
• 11:56
  in
• 11:56
  and
• 11:56
  wake
• 11:57
  them
• 11:57
  up.
• 11:58
  But
• 11:58
  anyway,
• 11:59
  so
• 11:59
  we
• 11:59
  went
• 11:59
  in
• 11:59
  the
• 11:59
  house,
• 12:00
  just
• 12:00
  waiting
• 12:00
  for
• 12:01
  them
• 12:01
  to
• 12:01
  wake
• 12:01
  up.
• 12:02
  And
• 12:02
  by
• 12:02
  the
• 12:02
  time
• 12:03
  they
• 12:03
  woke
• 12:04
  up
• 12:04
  and
• 12:04
  we
• 12:04
  told
• 12:04
  them
• 12:05
  what
• 12:05
  happened,
• 12:05
  it
• 12:05
  was
• 12:05
  too
• 12:06
  late.
• 12:06
  We
• 12:06
  called
• 12:06
  the
• 12:06
  police,
• 12:07
  but
• 12:07
  the
• 12:07
  man
• 12:07
  was
• 12:07
  gone.
• 12:08
  So
• 12:08
  I
• 12:09
  had
• 12:09
  an
• 12:09
  almost
• 12:09
  abduction
• 12:10
  in
• 12:10
  my
• 12:10
  life.
• 12:11
  Whoa.
• 12:11
  I
• 12:12
  know.
• 12:13
  Just
• 12:13
  like.
• 12:13
  I
• 12:14
  mean,
• 12:14
  mine
• 12:15
  probably
• 12:15
  didn't
• 12:15
  actually
• 12:16
  happen
• 12:16
  because
• 12:17
  everybody
• 12:17
  knows
• 12:17
  it
• 12:18
  was.
• 12:19
  But
• 12:20
  really?
• 12:20
  I
• 12:20
  think
• 12:20
  so.
• 12:21
  Did
• 12:21
  you
• 12:21
  not
• 12:21
  watch
• 12:21
  the
• 12:21
  recent
• 12:22
  documentary?
• 12:23
  No,
• 12:23
  I.
• 12:24
  It's
• 12:24
  a
• 12:24
  mess.
• 12:25
  It's
• 12:25
  a
• 12:25
  mess.
• 12:26
  Well,
• 12:26
  I.
• 12:26
  Anyway,
• 12:27
  maybe.
• 12:27
  Who
• 12:28
  knows
• 12:28
  who
• 12:28
  it
• 12:28
  was?
• 12:28
  Let's.
• 12:29
  Who
• 12:29
  knows?
• 12:30
  We
• 12:30
  should.
• 12:31
  Don't
• 12:31
  speculate.
• 12:32
  Don't
• 12:32
  speculate.
• 12:33
  That's
• 12:33
  gossip.
• 12:34
  I
• 12:34
  mean,
• 12:34
  gossip.
• 12:35
  Right.
• 12:35
  But
• 12:36
  God
• 12:36
  forbid.
• 12:37
  I
• 12:37
  know.
• 12:37
  But
• 12:38
  anyway,
• 12:38
  so,
• 12:39
  yeah,
• 12:40
  that
• 12:40
  was
• 12:40
  a
• 12:40
  terrible
• 12:41
  thing.
• 12:42
  But,
• 12:42
  you
• 12:42
  know,
• 12:43
  it's
• 12:43
  things
• 12:43
  like
• 12:43
  that
• 12:44
  that
• 12:44
  cause
• 12:45
  parents
• 12:45
  to
• 12:45
  worry
• 12:46
  so
• 12:46
  much.
• 12:46
  Let's
• 12:47
  face
• 12:47
  it,
• 12:47
  it's
• 12:47
  things
• 12:47
  like
• 12:48
  that.
• 12:48
  Yeah.
• 12:48
  In
• 12:49
  my
• 12:49
  own
• 12:49
  life,
• 12:49
  having
• 12:50
  had
• 12:50
  that
• 12:50
  incident
• 12:51
  with
• 12:51
  my
• 12:51
  brother,
• 12:52
  like,
• 12:52
  I
• 12:53
  know
• 12:53
  there
• 12:53
  are
• 12:53
  people
• 12:54
  who
• 12:54
  do
• 12:55
  try
• 12:55
  to
• 12:55
  lure
• 12:55
  kids
• 12:56
  into
• 12:56
  cars
• 12:56
  and.
• 12:57
  Yes.
• 12:58
  You
• 12:58
  know,
• 12:58
  so
• 12:59
  that
• 12:59
  was
• 12:59
  a
• 12:59
  close
• 12:59
  call.
• 12:59
  We
• 13:00
  stopped
• 13:00
  him,
• 13:02
  but
• 13:02
  you
• 13:02
  know,
• 13:02
  I
• 13:02
  mean,
• 13:03
  it's.
• 13:03
  It.
• 13:03
  It
• 13:03
  is
• 13:04
  a
• 13:04
  scary
• 13:04
  world.
• 13:04
  And
• 13:05
  so
• 13:05
  if
• 13:05
  you
• 13:05
  had.
• 13:05
  I
• 13:05
  feel
• 13:05
  like
• 13:06
  my
• 13:06
  Uncle
• 13:06
  Don
• 13:06
  was
• 13:06
  always
• 13:07
  getting
• 13:07
  into
• 13:07
  strange
• 13:07
  situations
• 13:08
  like
• 13:08
  that.
• 13:09
  Yeah.
• 13:09
  Not
• 13:09
  like
• 13:10
  with,
• 13:10
  like,
• 13:11
  Snatchers,
• 13:11
  but
• 13:12
  I
• 13:12
  mean,
• 13:12
  the
• 13:12
  trouble
• 13:13
  he
• 13:13
  got
• 13:13
  into
• 13:13
  was
• 13:14
  crazy.
• 13:14
  He
• 13:14
  got
• 13:14
  into
• 13:14
  a
• 13:15
  motorcycle
• 13:15
  accident
• 13:16
  when
• 13:16
  he
• 13:16
  was,
• 13:16
  like,
• 13:17
  13
• 13:17
  because
• 13:17
  an
• 13:18
  adult
• 13:18
  sold
• 13:19
  him
• 13:19
  a
• 13:19
  motorcycle
• 13:19
  and
• 13:20
  then
• 13:20
  sued
• 13:20
  him
• 13:21
  when
• 13:21
  he
• 13:21
  broke
• 13:21
  the
• 13:22
  bike.
• 13:22
  And
• 13:22
  then
• 13:23
  he
• 13:23
  was
• 13:23
  kidnapped
• 13:24
  by
• 13:24
  someone
• 13:24
  he
• 13:25
  did
• 13:25
  know.
• 13:25
  But
• 13:25
  he
• 13:25
  was
• 13:26
  returned
• 13:26
  ultimately.
• 13:27
  Yes,
• 13:27
  he
• 13:27
  was.
• 13:28
  He's
• 13:28
  had
• 13:28
  a
• 13:28
  very
• 13:28
  interesting
• 13:29
  life,
• 13:29
  your
• 13:29
  uncle.
• 13:30
  So
• 13:30
  let's
• 13:31
  not
• 13:31
  talk
• 13:31
  about
• 13:31
  Uncle
• 13:32
  Don.
• 13:32
  Yeah,
• 13:32
  I
• 13:33
  don't
• 13:33
  think
• 13:33
  he
• 13:33
  would
• 13:33
  like
• 13:33
  that.
• 13:34
  So
• 13:34
  it's
• 13:35
  like,
• 13:35
  okay,
• 13:36
  back
• 13:36
  to
• 13:36
  the
• 13:37
  book.
• 13:37
  Let's
• 13:37
  go
• 13:37
  back
• 13:38
  to
• 13:38
  the
• 13:38
  book.
• 13:39
  We'll
• 13:40
  have
• 13:40
  to
• 13:40
  call
• 13:40
  him
• 13:40
  and
• 13:40
  ask
• 13:41
  him
• 13:41
  if
• 13:41
  it's
• 13:41
  okay.
• 13:42
  But
• 13:42
  anyway.
• 13:43
  Okay.
• 13:44
  So
• 13:44
  the
• 13:44
  book
• 13:44
  says
• 13:45
  we
• 13:45
  should
• 13:45
  be
• 13:45
  turning
• 13:46
  off
• 13:46
  Law
• 13:46
  and
• 13:46
  Order
• 13:47
  because
• 13:48
  watching
• 13:48
  shows
• 13:49
  like
• 13:49
  that
• 13:50
  make
• 13:51
  us
• 13:51
  think
• 13:51
  that
• 13:52
  there
• 13:52
  are
• 13:52
  scary
• 13:53
  people
• 13:53
  everywhere
• 13:54
  ready
• 13:55
  to
• 13:55
  steal
• 13:55
  our
• 13:56
  children
• 13:57
  or
• 13:57
  do
• 13:58
  terrible
• 13:58
  things
• 13:58
  to
• 13:58
  them.
• 13:59
  And
• 13:59
  again,
• 13:59
  that's
• 14:00
  when
• 14:00
  she
• 14:00
  continues
• 14:01
  on
• 14:01
  the
• 14:01
  theme
• 14:02
  of
• 14:02
  how
• 14:03
  low
• 14:03
  the
• 14:04
  risk
• 14:04
  is
• 14:04
  of
• 14:05
  anybody
• 14:05
  doing
• 14:06
  something
• 14:06
  terrible
• 14:06
  to
• 14:07
  our
• 14:07
  child.
• 14:08
  To
• 14:08
  your
• 14:08
  child.
• 14:08
  I
• 14:08
  mean,
• 14:09
  it's.
• 14:09
  It's
• 14:09
  like,
• 14:09
  yes,
• 14:10
  of
• 14:10
  course
• 14:10
  the
• 14:10
  risk
• 14:10
  is
• 14:11
  out
• 14:11
  there,
• 14:11
  but
• 14:12
  it's.
• 14:13
  It's
• 14:13
  not
• 14:13
  as
• 14:13
  big
• 14:14
  as
• 14:14
  you
• 14:14
  think.
• 14:14
  Yeah,
• 14:14
  right.
• 14:15
  Yeah,
• 14:15
  I
• 14:15
  think
• 14:15
  it
• 14:15
  isn't
• 14:16
  as
• 14:16
  big
• 14:16
  as
• 14:16
  you
• 14:16
  think.
• 14:17
  At
• 14:17
  least
• 14:17
  that
• 14:17
  particular
• 14:18
  risk.
• 14:19
  Yeah.
• 14:19
  Apparently
• 14:20
  the
• 14:20
  leading
• 14:21
  cause
• 14:21
  of
• 14:21
  injury
• 14:22
  and
• 14:22
  death
• 14:22
  for
• 14:22
  kids
• 14:23
  is
• 14:23
  car
• 14:23
  accidents.
• 14:24
  So
• 14:24
  put
• 14:24
  your
• 14:25
  kids
• 14:25
  in
• 14:25
  those
• 14:25
  car
• 14:25
  seats,
• 14:26
  guys.
• 14:26
  Yeah,
• 14:27
  for
• 14:27
  sure.
• 14:27
  And.
• 14:28
  And
• 14:28
  it's
• 14:28
  like.
• 14:28
  And
• 14:28
  what
• 14:28
  she
• 14:29
  says
• 14:29
  is
• 14:29
  that,
• 14:29
  you
• 14:29
  know,
• 14:30
  we
• 14:30
  won't
• 14:30
  let
• 14:30
  our
• 14:30
  kids
• 14:31
  play
• 14:31
  in
• 14:31
  the
• 14:31
  backyard
• 14:32
  alone
• 14:32
  because
• 14:32
  we're
• 14:32
  afraid
• 14:33
  someone's
• 14:33
  going
• 14:33
  to
• 14:33
  snatch
• 14:34
  them.
• 14:34
  But
• 14:34
  we.
• 14:35
  Them
• 14:35
  in
• 14:35
  the
• 14:35
  car
• 14:36
  every
• 14:36
  day,
• 14:37
  or.
• 14:38
  I
• 14:38
  think.
• 14:38
  I
• 14:38
  think
• 14:38
  you're
• 14:39
  like
• 14:39
  400
• 14:40
  times
• 14:40
  more
• 14:40
  likely
• 14:40
  to
• 14:41
  be
• 14:41
  killed
• 14:41
  in
• 14:41
  a
• 14:41
  car
• 14:41
  accident
• 14:43
  than
• 14:43
  snatched
• 14:43
  by
• 14:44
  a
• 14:44
  stranger
• 14:44
  or
• 14:45
  50
• 14:45
  times
• 14:45
  more
• 14:46
  likely
• 14:46
  to
• 14:46
  be
• 14:46
  in
• 14:47
  a
• 14:47
  house
• 14:47
  fire
• 14:48
  than
• 14:48
  snatched
• 14:48
  by
• 14:49
  a
• 14:49
  stranger.
• 14:50
  So
• 14:50
  the
• 14:50
  odds
• 14:50
  are
• 14:51
  low
• 14:51
  you're
• 14:51
  going
• 14:51
  to
• 14:51
  be
• 14:52
  snatched.
• 14:52
  But
• 14:52
  there
• 14:53
  are
• 14:53
  other
• 14:53
  scary
• 14:53
  things
• 14:54
  out
• 14:54
  there,
• 14:55
  like
• 14:55
  cars
• 14:55
  and
• 14:56
  fires.
• 14:56
  Yes.
• 14:57
  Yeah,
• 14:57
  very
• 14:57
  scary.
• 14:58
  Very
• 14:58
  scary.
• 15:00
  Yeah.
• 15:00
  So
• 15:01
  anyway,
• 15:01
  another
• 15:01
  thing
• 15:02
  she
• 15:02
  talks
• 15:02
  about
• 15:03
  is
• 15:03
  that
• 15:03
  we
• 15:03
  should
• 15:04
  not
• 15:04
  be
• 15:04
  listening
• 15:04
  to
• 15:05
  the
• 15:05
  experts.
• 15:06
  Okay.
• 15:06
  Okay.
• 15:07
  And
• 15:07
  that
• 15:07
  experts
• 15:08
  make
• 15:08
  us
• 15:08
  think
• 15:09
  there
• 15:09
  is
• 15:09
  danger
• 15:10
  everywhere,
• 15:11
  and
• 15:11
  they
• 15:11
  undermine
• 15:12
  our
• 15:12
  belief
• 15:12
  that
• 15:13
  we
• 15:13
  can
• 15:13
  trust
• 15:13
  ourselves
• 15:14
  in
• 15:14
  terms
• 15:14
  of
• 15:15
  what
• 15:15
  we're
• 15:15
  doing.
• 15:15
  Yeah.
• 15:16
  Because
• 15:16
  there's
• 15:16
  the
• 15:16
  expert
• 15:17
  industrial
• 15:17
  complex,
• 15:18
  which
• 15:18
  means,
• 15:18
  like,
• 15:19
  these
• 15:19
  guys
• 15:19
  get
• 15:20
  paid,
• 15:20
  the
• 15:21
  more
• 15:21
  afraid
• 15:22
  you
• 15:22
  are
• 15:22
  because
• 15:22
  they're
• 15:23
  trying
• 15:23
  to
• 15:23
  sell
• 15:23
  you
• 15:23
  things
• 15:24
  to
• 15:24
  keep
• 15:24
  your
• 15:24
  children
• 15:24
  safe.
• 15:25
  Not
• 15:25
  to
• 15:25
  say
• 15:25
  there's
• 15:26
  no
• 15:26
  danger,
• 15:26
  but
• 15:27
  they
• 15:27
  Definitely
• 15:28
  overblow
• 15:28
  it
• 15:28
  in
• 15:28
  the
• 15:29
  interest
• 15:29
  of
• 15:29
  selling
• 15:29
  whatever
• 15:30
  it
• 15:30
  is
• 15:30
  that
• 15:30
  they're
• 15:30
  selling.
• 15:32
  Well,
• 15:32
  so
• 15:32
  did
• 15:33
  you
• 15:33
  baby
• 15:33
  proof
• 15:34
  your
• 15:34
  house?
• 15:35
  Well,
• 15:35
  my
• 15:35
  baby
• 15:36
  can't
• 15:37
  walk
• 15:37
  or
• 15:37
  do
• 15:38
  anything
• 15:38
  yet.
• 15:38
  Oh,
• 15:39
  well.
• 15:39
  So
• 15:39
  why
• 15:39
  are.
• 15:39
  Why
• 15:40
  are
• 15:40
  those
• 15:40
  baby
• 15:40
  proof
• 15:41
  things
• 15:41
  on
• 15:41
  the
• 15:41
  doors?
• 15:42
  Because
• 15:42
  I
• 15:43
  have
• 15:43
  a
• 15:43
  dog
• 15:44
  who,
• 15:45
  since
• 15:45
  she
• 15:45
  was
• 15:46
  six
• 15:46
  months
• 15:46
  old,
• 15:46
  she
• 15:46
  doesn't
• 15:47
  like
• 15:47
  closed
• 15:47
  doors.
• 15:48
  Okay.
• 15:49
  So
• 15:49
  we
• 15:49
  had
• 15:50
  to
• 15:50
  child
• 15:50
  proof,
• 15:51
  put
• 15:51
  child
• 15:52
  locks
• 15:52
  on
• 15:52
  all
• 15:52
  of
• 15:52
  our
• 15:53
  doors
• 15:53
  because
• 15:53
  Dolly
• 15:54
  opens
• 15:55
  all
• 15:55
  the
• 15:55
  doors.
• 15:56
  Oh,
• 15:56
  okay.
• 15:57
  I
• 15:57
  see.
• 15:57
  Yeah.
• 15:58
  Oh,
• 15:58
  yeah.
• 15:58
  She
• 15:58
  also
• 15:59
  watches
• 15:59
  Korean
• 16:00
  soap
• 16:00
  operas
• 16:01
  in
• 16:01
  the
• 16:01
  night.
• 16:02
  I
• 16:02
  don't
• 16:02
  really
• 16:02
  understand.
• 16:03
  She
• 16:03
  goes
• 16:03
  and
• 16:03
  she
• 16:03
  likes.
• 16:04
  She's
• 16:04
  hidden
• 16:05
  the
• 16:05
  remote.
• 16:05
  She
• 16:06
  turns
• 16:06
  on
• 16:06
  her
• 16:06
  shows
• 16:07
  and
• 16:07
  then
• 16:07
  she
• 16:08
  just.
• 16:08
  Yeah,
• 16:08
  she
• 16:08
  can
• 16:08
  escape
• 16:09
  anything.
• 16:09
  So
• 16:10
  you
• 16:10
  have
• 16:10
  to
• 16:10
  dog
• 16:10
  proof
• 16:11
  your
• 16:11
  house.
• 16:11
  But.
• 16:11
  But
• 16:12
  when.
• 16:12
  When
• 16:12
  your
• 16:12
  baby
• 16:13
  gets
• 16:13
  older,
• 16:13
  will
• 16:14
  you.
• 16:14
  Are
• 16:14
  you
• 16:14
  planning
• 16:15
  to.
• 16:15
  Yeah,
• 16:15
  absolutely.
• 16:15
  I
• 16:16
  mean,
• 16:16
  I'm
• 16:16
  gonna
• 16:16
  do
• 16:16
  things
• 16:16
  like
• 16:17
  I'm
• 16:18
  gonna
• 16:18
  move
• 16:18
  my
• 16:18
  cleaning
• 16:19
  products
• 16:19
  somewhere
• 16:19
  she
• 16:20
  can't
• 16:20
  reach.
• 16:21
  I'm
• 16:22
  probably.
• 16:22
  Apparently
• 16:23
  babies
• 16:23
  can
• 16:23
  drown
• 16:24
  in
• 16:24
  two
• 16:24
  inches
• 16:25
  of
• 16:25
  water.
• 16:26
  Yes,
• 16:26
  they
• 16:26
  can.
• 16:26
  No,
• 16:27
  don't
• 16:27
  laugh.
• 16:29
  That's
• 16:29
  just
• 16:29
  crazy.
• 16:29
  Yeah.
• 16:30
  I
• 16:30
  don't
• 16:30
  understand
• 16:30
  how
• 16:31
  that
• 16:31
  happens.
• 16:31
  So
• 16:31
  you
• 16:31
  have
• 16:31
  to
• 16:31
  get
• 16:32
  the
• 16:32
  things
• 16:32
  for
• 16:32
  your
• 16:32
  toilet
• 16:33
  seats.
• 16:34
  I
• 16:34
  have
• 16:35
  to.
• 16:36
  I'm
• 16:36
  going
• 16:36
  to
• 16:36
  get
• 16:36
  things
• 16:37
  for
• 16:37
  the
• 16:37
  doors
• 16:37
  so
• 16:37
  that
• 16:38
  they
• 16:38
  don't
• 16:38
  squish
• 16:38
  her
• 16:38
  fingers.
• 16:39
  Right.
• 16:39
  Like
• 16:39
  toddlers
• 16:40
  are
• 16:40
  just.
• 16:41
  Oh,
• 16:41
  yeah.
• 16:41
  Looking
• 16:42
  for
• 16:42
  ways.
• 16:42
  Oh,
• 16:43
  yeah.
• 16:43
  To
• 16:43
  hurt
• 16:43
  themselves.
• 16:44
  Yeah.
• 16:45
  No,
• 16:45
  I.
• 16:45
  I
• 16:45
  baby
• 16:46
  proof
• 16:46
  my
• 16:46
  house,
• 16:46
  too.
• 16:46
  I
• 16:47
  just
• 16:47
  wanted.
• 16:47
  What
• 16:47
  did
• 16:47
  you
• 16:47
  do
• 16:48
  for
• 16:48
  me?
• 16:48
  Well,
• 16:48
  same
• 16:49
  thing.
• 16:49
  I
• 16:49
  got
• 16:50
  all
• 16:50
  those.
• 16:50
  Those
• 16:51
  special
• 16:51
  things
• 16:52
  to
• 16:52
  make
• 16:52
  the
• 16:52
  cabinets
• 16:53
  not
• 16:53
  open
• 16:54
  easily.
• 16:55
  You
• 16:55
  know,
• 16:55
  the
• 16:55
  fridge.
• 16:56
  Yeah,
• 16:56
  yeah.
• 16:57
  We
• 16:57
  got
• 16:57
  furniture
• 16:59
  since
• 16:59
  we
• 16:59
  moved
• 17:00
  that's
• 17:00
  all
• 17:00
  round,
• 17:01
  like
• 17:01
  soft
• 17:02
  edges.
• 17:03
  Yeah,
• 17:04
  I
• 17:04
  did
• 17:04
  that
• 17:04
  too.
• 17:05
  Yeah,
• 17:05
  I
• 17:05
  know.
• 17:06
  You
• 17:06
  have
• 17:06
  to
• 17:06
  do
• 17:06
  those
• 17:07
  kinds
• 17:07
  of
• 17:07
  things.
• 17:08
  It
• 17:09
  was
• 17:09
  funny
• 17:09
  to
• 17:09
  me,
• 17:09
  though,
• 17:10
  that
• 17:10
  she's
• 17:10
  saying
• 17:10
  to
• 17:11
  everybody,
• 17:12
  don't
• 17:12
  listen
• 17:12
  to
• 17:12
  the
• 17:13
  experts.
• 17:13
  But
• 17:14
  when
• 17:14
  they.
• 17:14
  On
• 17:14
  her
• 17:15
  show,
• 17:15
  which
• 17:15
  I
• 17:15
  watched,
• 17:16
  they
• 17:16
  introduce
• 17:17
  her
• 17:17
  as
• 17:17
  parenting
• 17:18
  expert,
• 17:19
  author
• 17:19
  of
• 17:19
  five
• 17:20
  books
• 17:20
  and
• 17:20
  a
• 17:21
  blog.
• 17:22
  Not
• 17:23
  the
• 17:23
  blog.
• 17:23
  And
• 17:24
  her
• 17:24
  mission
• 17:24
  is
• 17:25
  to
• 17:25
  take
• 17:25
  the
• 17:25
  bubble
• 17:26
  wrap
• 17:26
  off
• 17:26
  of
• 17:26
  kids
• 17:27
  and
• 17:27
  rescue
• 17:28
  kids
• 17:28
  from
• 17:28
  overprotective
• 17:29
  parents.
• 17:30
  Which
• 17:30
  is
• 17:31
  a
• 17:31
  good
• 17:31
  mission.
• 17:32
  Yeah,
• 17:32
  I
• 17:32
  think
• 17:33
  so,
• 17:33
  too.
• 17:33
  I
• 17:34
  think
• 17:34
  so,
• 17:34
  too.
• 17:34
  I
• 17:34
  didn't
• 17:35
  feel
• 17:35
  particularly
• 17:36
  overprotected
• 17:36
  as
• 17:37
  a
• 17:37
  kid.
• 17:37
  I
• 17:37
  feel
• 17:37
  like
• 17:37
  you
• 17:38
  gave
• 17:38
  us
• 17:38
  a
• 17:38
  healthy
• 17:38
  amount
• 17:38
  of
• 17:39
  independence.
• 17:40
  I
• 17:40
  think
• 17:40
  we
• 17:41
  did.
• 17:41
  I
• 17:42
  don't
• 17:42
  think
• 17:42
  I
• 17:42
  did
• 17:43
  on
• 17:43
  purpose.
• 17:44
  I
• 17:44
  mean,
• 17:44
  I
• 17:44
  don't
• 17:44
  think
• 17:44
  I
• 17:44
  was
• 17:45
  thinking
• 17:45
  about
• 17:45
  this.
• 17:46
  You
• 17:46
  would
• 17:46
  have
• 17:46
  given
• 17:47
  me
• 17:47
  less
• 17:47
  had.
• 17:48
  You
• 17:48
  thought
• 17:48
  more
• 17:48
  about
• 17:49
  it.
• 17:49
  Maybe.
• 17:50
  You
• 17:50
  know,
• 17:50
  I
• 17:50
  think
• 17:51
  it
• 17:51
  was.
• 17:51
  I
• 17:51
  was
• 17:51
  tired.
• 17:52
  I
• 17:52
  was
• 17:52
  trying
• 17:53
  to
• 17:53
  work
• 17:53
  full
• 17:53
  time.
• 17:54
  I
• 17:54
  had
• 17:54
  two
• 17:55
  children.
• 17:56
  I
• 17:56
  was
• 17:56
  doing
• 17:56
  the
• 17:56
  best
• 17:57
  I
• 17:57
  Could.
• 17:57
  And
• 17:58
  I
• 17:58
  just.
• 17:58
  I
• 17:58
  was
• 17:59
  trying
• 17:59
  to
• 17:59
  watch
• 18:00
  you
• 18:00
  all
• 18:00
  the
• 18:00
  time.
• 18:01
  Be
• 18:02
  a
• 18:02
  good
• 18:02
  parent.
• 18:02
  I
• 18:03
  did.
• 18:04
  I
• 18:04
  think
• 18:04
  we've
• 18:05
  talked
• 18:05
  about
• 18:05
  this
• 18:05
  before
• 18:06
  where
• 18:07
  I
• 18:07
  did.
• 18:07
  When
• 18:07
  I
• 18:08
  gave
• 18:08
  you
• 18:08
  a
• 18:08
  cell
• 18:08
  phone,
• 18:09
  I
• 18:09
  gave
• 18:09
  you
• 18:10
  the
• 18:10
  only
• 18:10
  cell
• 18:10
  phone
• 18:11
  that
• 18:11
  tracked
• 18:11
  people.
• 18:12
  Yes.
• 18:13
  At
• 18:13
  the
• 18:13
  time,
• 18:14
  I
• 18:14
  was
• 18:14
  watching
• 18:15
  you
• 18:15
  to
• 18:16
  move
• 18:16
  around.
• 18:17
  All
• 18:17
  I
• 18:18
  did
• 18:18
  was
• 18:18
  like,
• 18:18
  go
• 18:18
  to
• 18:18
  the
• 18:19
  movies
• 18:19
  and
• 18:19
  Footlocker
• 18:20
  and
• 18:21
  Virgin
• 18:21
  Megastore.
• 18:22
  Right.
• 18:22
  But
• 18:23
  I.
• 18:23
  Those
• 18:23
  were
• 18:24
  all
• 18:24
  in
• 18:24
  our
• 18:24
  neighborhood,
• 18:24
  too.
• 18:25
  So
• 18:25
  you
• 18:25
  were
• 18:25
  like,
• 18:26
  you
• 18:26
  can
• 18:26
  go
• 18:26
  across
• 18:27
  any
• 18:27
  street,
• 18:27
  so
• 18:28
  you
• 18:28
  can
• 18:28
  go
• 18:28
  to
• 18:28
  Union
• 18:29
  Square
• 18:29
  park,
• 18:30
  you
• 18:30
  can
• 18:30
  go
• 18:30
  to
• 18:30
  Virgin
• 18:30
  Megastore,
• 18:31
  you
• 18:32
  can
• 18:32
  go
• 18:32
  to
• 18:32
  Best
• 18:32
  Buy.
• 18:33
  And
• 18:33
  then
• 18:33
  there
• 18:33
  was
• 18:34
  a
• 18:34
  candy
• 18:34
  store
• 18:35
  in
• 18:35
  our
• 18:35
  building
• 18:36
  and
• 18:36
  a
• 18:36
  dog.
• 18:37
  Oh,
• 18:37
  yeah,
• 18:37
  I
• 18:37
  remember
• 18:37
  that.
• 18:38
  Yeah.
• 18:38
  And
• 18:38
  they
• 18:38
  sold
• 18:38
  Beanie
• 18:39
  Babies
• 18:39
  and.
• 18:39
  Yeah,
• 18:40
  I
• 18:40
  love
• 18:40
  that
• 18:40
  store.
• 18:40
  Yeah,
• 18:41
  me
• 18:41
  too.
• 18:41
  That
• 18:41
  was.
• 18:41
  I
• 18:42
  can
• 18:42
  still
• 18:42
  smell
• 18:42
  that
• 18:43
  store
• 18:43
  in
• 18:44
  my
• 18:44
  mind's
• 18:44
  eye.
• 18:45
  Yeah,
• 18:45
  it
• 18:46
  was
• 18:46
  good.
• 18:46
  But
• 18:46
  anyway,
• 18:47
  so,
• 18:47
  yeah,
• 18:48
  I
• 18:48
  let
• 18:48
  you
• 18:48
  go
• 18:48
  to
• 18:48
  a
• 18:48
  lot
• 18:49
  of
• 18:49
  the
• 18:49
  places
• 18:49
  around,
• 18:51
  but
• 18:51
  it
• 18:51
  took
• 18:51
  a
• 18:52
  while.
• 18:52
  I
• 18:52
  will
• 18:52
  say.
• 18:52
  I
• 18:53
  can
• 18:53
  remember
• 18:54
  being
• 18:54
  at
• 18:55
  a
• 18:55
  parent
• 18:55
  meeting
• 18:55
  at
• 18:56
  your
• 18:56
  school
• 18:56
  and.
• 18:57
  And
• 18:57
  me
• 18:57
  raising
• 18:57
  my
• 18:58
  hand
• 18:58
  and
• 18:58
  asking,
• 18:59
  when
• 18:59
  do
• 18:59
  we
• 19:00
  know
• 19:00
  if
• 19:00
  it's
• 19:00
  okay
• 19:01
  to
• 19:01
  let
• 19:01
  our
• 19:01
  kids
• 19:02
  walk
• 19:03
  to
• 19:03
  the
• 19:03
  corner
• 19:03
  alone?
• 19:04
  Because
• 19:04
  I
• 19:04
  was
• 19:04
  really
• 19:05
  having
• 19:05
  a
• 19:05
  hard
• 19:05
  time
• 19:05
  with
• 19:06
  that.
• 19:06
  And
• 19:06
  you
• 19:07
  will,
• 19:07
  too.
• 19:07
  You'll
• 19:08
  see.
• 19:08
  I
• 19:08
  mean,
• 19:08
  yeah,
• 19:09
  you
• 19:09
  know,
• 19:09
  it's.
• 19:09
  It.
• 19:09
  To
• 19:10
  let
• 19:10
  your
• 19:10
  baby.
• 19:11
  Who.
• 19:11
  Or
• 19:12
  your.
• 19:12
  Who's.
• 19:12
  Even
• 19:12
  if
• 19:13
  they're.
• 19:13
  They've
• 19:13
  grown
• 19:13
  up.
• 19:14
  They're
• 19:14
  six,
• 19:14
  they're
• 19:15
  seven,
• 19:15
  they're
• 19:15
  eight,
• 19:16
  Go
• 19:16
  to
• 19:16
  the
• 19:17
  corner
• 19:17
  alone.
• 19:18
  Oh,
• 19:18
  my
• 19:18
  God.
• 19:18
  You
• 19:19
  know,
• 19:19
  it's
• 19:19
  scary.
• 19:19
  There
• 19:20
  are
• 19:20
  going
• 19:20
  to
• 19:20
  be
• 19:20
  air
• 19:20
  tags
• 19:21
  in
• 19:21
  all
• 19:21
  of
• 19:21
  her
• 19:21
  pockets.
• 19:22
  That's
• 19:22
  a
• 19:22
  great
• 19:22
  idea.
• 19:23
  See,
• 19:23
  now
• 19:23
  you
• 19:24
  can
• 19:24
  do
• 19:24
  that.
• 19:25
  That's
• 19:25
  such
• 19:25
  a
• 19:25
  good
• 19:25
  idea.
• 19:26
  Air
• 19:26
  tags
• 19:27
  in
• 19:27
  everything.
• 19:27
  She
• 19:28
  goes
• 19:28
  on
• 19:28
  a
• 19:28
  field
• 19:28
  trip.
• 19:29
  I
• 19:29
  saw
• 19:29
  one
• 19:29
  mom
• 19:30
  online
• 19:31
  put
• 19:31
  an
• 19:31
  air
• 19:31
  tag
• 19:32
  in
• 19:32
  her
• 19:32
  child's
• 19:33
  hairdo
• 19:34
  so
• 19:34
  that
• 19:34
  if
• 19:34
  she
• 19:35
  got
• 19:35
  separated
• 19:36
  or,
• 19:36
  God
• 19:36
  forbid,
• 19:37
  abducted.
• 19:37
  Yeah,
• 19:38
  we'd
• 19:38
  know.
• 19:39
  You'd
• 19:39
  know.
• 19:39
  You'd
• 19:39
  be
• 19:39
  able
• 19:40
  to
• 19:40
  find
• 19:40
  her.
• 19:40
  That's
• 19:40
  cool.
• 19:40
  So
• 19:40
  if
• 19:40
  they,
• 19:41
  like,
• 19:41
  got
• 19:41
  rid
• 19:41
  of
• 19:41
  her
• 19:41
  jacket
• 19:42
  or
• 19:42
  her
• 19:42
  backpack
• 19:43
  in
• 19:43
  her.
• 19:43
  Hair,
• 19:43
  you
• 19:44
  know.
• 19:50
  Sa.
• 20:35
  So
• 20:35
  if
• 20:35
  they,
• 20:35
  like,
• 20:35
  got
• 20:35
  river
• 20:36
  jacket
• 20:36
  or
• 20:36
  her
• 20:36
  backpack
• 20:37
  in
• 20:38
  her
• 20:38
  hair,
• 20:38
  you.
• 20:38
  Know,
• 20:38
  I
• 20:38
  have
• 20:39
  a
• 20:39
  feeling
• 20:39
  that
• 20:39
  they're
• 20:40
  going
• 20:40
  to
• 20:40
  invent
• 20:40
  something
• 20:40
  where
• 20:41
  you
• 20:41
  can
• 20:41
  just
• 20:41
  put
• 20:41
  a
• 20:42
  little,
• 20:43
  like,
• 20:43
  with
• 20:43
  a.
• 20:43
  With
• 20:43
  an
• 20:43
  injection
• 20:44
  kind
• 20:44
  of
• 20:45
  like
• 20:45
  a.
• 20:45
  Well,
• 20:46
  like
• 20:46
  we
• 20:46
  do
• 20:46
  with
• 20:46
  our
• 20:46
  dogs.
• 20:47
  Oh,
• 20:47
  like
• 20:47
  a
• 20:48
  microchip.
• 20:48
  Yeah.
• 20:49
  What
• 20:49
  about,
• 20:50
  like.
• 20:50
  It's
• 20:50
  crossing
• 20:51
  a
• 20:51
  line.
• 20:51
  I
• 20:51
  don't
• 20:51
  want
• 20:52
  to
• 20:52
  be
• 20:52
  microchipped.
• 20:53
  I
• 20:53
  know,
• 20:53
  but,
• 20:53
  you
• 20:54
  know,
• 20:54
  that's
• 20:54
  like.
• 20:54
  A
• 20:54
  Black
• 20:54
  Mirror
• 20:55
  episode.
• 20:55
  I.
• 20:56
  Well,
• 20:56
  I'm
• 20:57
  just
• 20:57
  wondering.
• 20:57
  I
• 20:57
  mean,
• 20:58
  yeah.
• 20:59
  You
• 21:00
  don't
• 21:00
  like
• 21:00
  that?
• 21:00
  No.
• 21:01
  Unnatural.
• 21:01
  I'm
• 21:02
  just
• 21:02
  saying,
• 21:02
  at
• 21:03
  least
• 21:03
  you'd
• 21:03
  always
• 21:03
  know
• 21:04
  where
• 21:04
  your
• 21:04
  child
• 21:04
  was.
• 21:05
  Air
• 21:05
  tags
• 21:06
  accomplish
• 21:06
  the
• 21:06
  same
• 21:06
  thing.
• 21:07
  Well,
• 21:07
  as
• 21:07
  long
• 21:07
  as
• 21:07
  you
• 21:07
  can
• 21:07
  hide
• 21:08
  them,
• 21:08
  you
• 21:08
  know?
• 21:09
  Yeah,
• 21:09
  yeah.
• 21:09
  So
• 21:09
  several
• 21:10
  air
• 21:10
  tags.
• 21:11
  Right.
• 21:11
  All
• 21:11
  over
• 21:12
  the
• 21:12
  body,
• 21:12
  sewing
• 21:13
  them
• 21:13
  into
• 21:13
  every
• 21:14
  piece
• 21:14
  of
• 21:14
  clothing
• 21:14
  that
• 21:15
  your
• 21:15
  child
• 21:15
  has.
• 21:15
  Okay.
• 21:16
  All
• 21:16
  right.
• 21:16
  I
• 21:17
  used
• 21:17
  to
• 21:17
  sew
• 21:17
  them
• 21:17
  into
• 21:17
  my
• 21:18
  coats
• 21:18
  when
• 21:18
  I,
• 21:18
  like,
• 21:18
  went
• 21:19
  out
• 21:19
  a
• 21:19
  lot
• 21:19
  in
• 21:19
  case
• 21:19
  I
• 21:20
  lost
• 21:20
  a
• 21:20
  coat
• 21:20
  or
• 21:20
  it
• 21:20
  got
• 21:20
  stolen.
• 21:21
  Where
• 21:21
  it
• 21:21
  was
• 21:22
  then
• 21:22
  I'd
• 21:22
  know
• 21:22
  it
• 21:22
  got
• 21:22
  stolen
• 21:23
  for
• 21:23
  sure.
• 21:23
  But
• 21:23
  I
• 21:24
  wasn't,
• 21:24
  like,
• 21:24
  gonna
• 21:24
  go
• 21:24
  confront
• 21:25
  the
• 21:25
  person
• 21:25
  who
• 21:25
  stole
• 21:26
  my
• 21:26
  coat.
• 21:26
  I
• 21:26
  want
• 21:26
  my
• 21:27
  coat
• 21:27
  back.
• 21:27
  Like,
• 21:27
  you
• 21:27
  can
• 21:28
  keep
• 21:28
  this.
• 21:28
  I
• 21:29
  just
• 21:29
  know
• 21:29
  where
• 21:29
  you
• 21:29
  live.
• 21:29
  I
• 21:29
  just
• 21:29
  know
• 21:30
  where
• 21:30
  you
• 21:31
  be
• 21:31
  careful.
• 21:32
  Well,
• 21:32
  the
• 21:32
  other.
• 21:33
  Another
• 21:33
  one
• 21:33
  of
• 21:33
  her
• 21:34
  rules
• 21:34
  is
• 21:34
  do
• 21:35
  not
• 21:35
  think
• 21:35
  like
• 21:35
  a
• 21:36
  lawyer.
• 21:36
  She
• 21:36
  talks
• 21:37
  about
• 21:37
  how,
• 21:39
  you
• 21:39
  know,
• 21:39
  what's
• 21:39
  happened
• 21:40
  is
• 21:40
  that
• 21:40
  schools
• 21:41
  every.
• 21:42
  You
• 21:42
  know,
• 21:42
  they've
• 21:43
  all
• 21:43
  cut
• 21:43
  back
• 21:44
  on
• 21:44
  things
• 21:44
  that
• 21:44
  are
• 21:44
  dangerous.
• 21:45
  Like
• 21:45
  there's
• 21:46
  no
• 21:46
  longer
• 21:46
  ropes.
• 21:47
  When
• 21:47
  I
• 21:47
  was
• 21:47
  growing
• 21:48
  up,
• 21:48
  there
• 21:48
  was
• 21:48
  always
• 21:48
  a
• 21:49
  rope
• 21:49
  in
• 21:49
  the
• 21:49
  gym,
• 21:50
  and
• 21:50
  you
• 21:50
  had
• 21:50
  to,
• 21:51
  like,
• 21:51
  climb
• 21:51
  to
• 21:51
  the
• 21:52
  top.
• 21:52
  It
• 21:52
  had
• 21:52
  knots
• 21:52
  in
• 21:53
  it.
• 21:53
  You
• 21:53
  had
• 21:53
  to
• 21:53
  climb
• 21:54
  to
• 21:54
  the
• 21:54
  top.
• 21:54
  And
• 21:55
  you
• 21:55
  were
• 21:55
  like,
• 21:56
  the.
• 21:57
  The
• 21:58
  kids
• 21:58
  who
• 21:58
  are
• 21:58
  in
• 21:58
  the
• 21:58
  best
• 21:58
  shape
• 21:59
  could
• 21:59
  make
• 21:59
  it
• 21:59
  to
• 21:59
  the
• 21:59
  top.
• 22:00
  I
• 22:00
  couldn't
• 22:00
  even
• 22:00
  get
• 22:00
  past
• 22:01
  the
• 22:01
  first
• 22:01
  knot.
• 22:02
  But
• 22:03
  anyway.
• 22:03
  But
• 22:03
  that
• 22:04
  was
• 22:04
  a
• 22:04
  thing
• 22:04
  that
• 22:04
  you
• 22:04
  had
• 22:05
  to
• 22:05
  do
• 22:05
  to
• 22:05
  show
• 22:05
  how
• 22:05
  in.
• 22:06
  In
• 22:06
  shape
• 22:07
  you
• 22:07
  were.
• 22:07
  I
• 22:07
  hate
• 22:07
  that.
• 22:08
  And
• 22:08
  they
• 22:08
  don't
• 22:08
  have
• 22:08
  them
• 22:08
  anymore
• 22:09
  because
• 22:09
  they're
• 22:09
  too
• 22:09
  dangerous.
• 22:10
  And
• 22:10
  things
• 22:11
  like
• 22:11
  dodgeball
• 22:12
  have
• 22:13
  been.
• 22:13
  And
• 22:13
  tag
• 22:14
  have
• 22:14
  been
• 22:15
  like,
• 22:15
  you
• 22:15
  can't
• 22:16
  play
• 22:16
  these
• 22:16
  games.
• 22:17
  Too
• 22:17
  dangerous.
• 22:18
  Tag.
• 22:19
  Well,
• 22:19
  some
• 22:19
  schools,
• 22:20
  because
• 22:20
  people
• 22:20
  are,
• 22:21
  you
• 22:21
  know,
• 22:21
  worried.
• 22:22
  Like,
• 22:22
  what
• 22:22
  are
• 22:22
  they,
• 22:23
  like,
• 22:23
  two
• 22:23
  hand
• 22:23
  shoving
• 22:24
  kids
• 22:24
  to
• 22:25
  the
• 22:25
  ground?
• 22:25
  I.
• 22:26
  I
• 22:26
  don't
• 22:26
  know.
• 22:26
  But
• 22:27
  they
• 22:27
  were
• 22:27
  talking
• 22:27
  about
• 22:27
  how
• 22:28
  kids
• 22:28
  were
• 22:28
  going
• 22:28
  on
• 22:29
  a.
• 22:29
  A
• 22:29
  sleepover
• 22:30
  and
• 22:31
  going
• 22:31
  camping.
• 22:32
  But
• 22:32
  they
• 22:32
  assured
• 22:33
  the
• 22:33
  parents
• 22:33
  that
• 22:34
  there
• 22:34
  would
• 22:34
  be
• 22:34
  some
• 22:34
  barrier
• 22:35
  between
• 22:35
  the
• 22:35
  campfire
• 22:36
  and
• 22:36
  the
• 22:36
  kids.
• 22:37
  Oh,
• 22:37
  yeah.
• 22:37
  That
• 22:37
  they'd
• 22:37
  be
• 22:37
  25ft
• 22:38
  away
• 22:38
  from
• 22:39
  the
• 22:39
  fire,
• 22:39
  which.
• 22:40
  How
• 22:40
  can
• 22:40
  you
• 22:41
  make
• 22:41
  some
• 22:41
  mores?
• 22:42
  You
• 22:43
  really
• 22:43
  long
• 22:44
  sticks.
• 22:44
  I
• 22:44
  guess.
• 22:45
  I.
• 22:45
  I
• 22:45
  don't
• 22:46
  know.
• 22:46
  I
• 22:46
  don't
• 22:47
  think
• 22:47
  you
• 22:47
  can.
• 22:47
  I
• 22:48
  know,
• 22:48
  but
• 22:48
  that
• 22:48
  seems
• 22:49
  pretty.
• 22:49
  But
• 22:49
  everyone
• 22:50
  is
• 22:50
  so
• 22:50
  afraid
• 22:51
  of.
• 22:51
  Of
• 22:51
  lawsuits.
• 22:52
  The
• 22:52
  kids
• 22:53
  can't
• 22:53
  do
• 22:53
  anything
• 22:53
  risky.
• 22:54
  I
• 22:54
  feel
• 22:54
  like
• 22:55
  you
• 22:55
  guys
• 22:55
  were
• 22:55
  afraid
• 22:55
  of
• 22:55
  getting
• 22:56
  sued,
• 22:56
  so,
• 22:56
  like,
• 22:57
  I
• 22:57
  had
• 22:57
  to
• 22:57
  go
• 22:57
  be
• 22:58
  mischievous
• 22:58
  at
• 22:59
  other
• 22:59
  people's
• 22:59
  houses.
• 23:00
  Yeah,
• 23:01
  we.
• 23:01
  We.
• 23:01
  Well,
• 23:01
  dad's
• 23:02
  a
• 23:02
  lawyer,
• 23:02
  so
• 23:03
  he
• 23:03
  was
• 23:03
  always
• 23:03
  afraid,
• 23:03
  do
• 23:04
  it
• 23:04
  elsewhere.
• 23:04
  We
• 23:04
  don't.
• 23:05
  Whatever
• 23:05
  you're
• 23:05
  gonna
• 23:05
  do,
• 23:06
  do
• 23:06
  it
• 23:06
  somewhere
• 23:06
  else.
• 23:07
  But.
• 23:08
  But
• 23:08
  she
• 23:08
  was
• 23:08
  talk.
• 23:10
  Ridiculous
• 23:11
  warnings
• 23:12
  are
• 23:12
  like,
• 23:13
  you
• 23:14
  know,
• 23:14
  clothes
• 23:15
  have.
• 23:15
  Have
• 23:16
  labels
• 23:16
  that
• 23:16
  Say,
• 23:16
  remove
• 23:17
  clothes.
• 23:17
  Be.
• 23:18
  Remove
• 23:18
  the
• 23:18
  clothes
• 23:19
  before
• 23:19
  you
• 23:19
  iron
• 23:19
  them.
• 23:21
  Or
• 23:22
  in.
• 23:22
  On
• 23:22
  a
• 23:22
  folding
• 23:24
  stroller,
• 23:25
  take
• 23:25
  the
• 23:25
  child
• 23:25
  out.
• 23:26
  Take
• 23:26
  the
• 23:26
  child
• 23:26
  out
• 23:27
  first
• 23:27
  and
• 23:27
  then
• 23:27
  on
• 23:28
  the
• 23:28
  scooter.
• 23:28
  This
• 23:29
  moves
• 23:29
  when
• 23:30
  in
• 23:30
  use.
• 23:31
  Right.
• 23:31
  So
• 23:31
  there's
• 23:32
  all
• 23:32
  kinds
• 23:32
  of.
• 23:32
  But
• 23:33
  what
• 23:33
  cracked
• 23:33
  me
• 23:33
  up
• 23:34
  is
• 23:34
  she's
• 23:34
  like,
• 23:34
  don't
• 23:35
  do
• 23:35
  this.
• 23:35
  Don't
• 23:35
  think
• 23:35
  like
• 23:36
  a
• 23:36
  lawyer.
• 23:36
  And
• 23:36
  then
• 23:37
  I
• 23:37
  went
• 23:37
  to
• 23:38
  watch
• 23:38
  her
• 23:38
  show,
• 23:38
  and
• 23:39
  I
• 23:39
  have
• 23:39
  to
• 23:39
  show
• 23:39
  you.
• 23:40
  When
• 23:40
  I
• 23:40
  watched
• 23:41
  her
• 23:41
  show,
• 23:41
  which
• 23:42
  is
• 23:42
  a
• 23:42
  good
• 23:42
  show.
• 23:43
  I'll
• 23:43
  talk.
• 23:43
  We
• 23:43
  can
• 23:44
  talk
• 23:44
  about
• 23:44
  it.
• 23:44
  But
• 23:44
  there's
• 23:45
  a
• 23:45
  big
• 23:46
  disclaimer
• 23:46
  that
• 23:46
  comes
• 23:47
  on
• 23:47
  at
• 23:47
  the
• 23:47
  beginning
• 23:47
  of
• 23:47
  her
• 23:48
  show.
• 23:48
  All
• 23:49
  children
• 23:49
  depicted
• 23:50
  in
• 23:50
  this
• 23:50
  program
• 23:51
  were
• 23:51
  at
• 23:51
  all
• 23:51
  times
• 23:52
  under
• 23:52
  the
• 23:52
  supervision
• 23:53
  of
• 23:53
  the
• 23:53
  production
• 23:54
  personnel.
• 23:54
  Should
• 23:55
  a
• 23:55
  viewer
• 23:55
  choose
• 23:56
  to
• 23:56
  have
• 23:56
  a
• 23:56
  child
• 23:56
  unattended
• 23:57
  or
• 23:58
  unsupervised,
• 23:59
  all
• 23:59
  consequences
• 24:00
  are
• 24:00
  the
• 24:00
  sole
• 24:01
  responsibility
• 24:02
  of
• 24:02
  the
• 24:02
  viewer.
• 24:03
  So,
• 24:03
  you
• 24:03
  know,
• 24:04
  I
• 24:04
  guess
• 24:04
  she
• 24:04
  feels.
• 24:04
  Like
• 24:05
  she
• 24:05
  has
• 24:05
  to
• 24:05
  because
• 24:05
  of
• 24:06
  her
• 24:06
  reputation.
• 24:07
  Right.
• 24:07
  I
• 24:07
  guess.
• 24:07
  To
• 24:08
  protect.
• 24:08
  I
• 24:08
  don't
• 24:09
  know.
• 24:09
  I'm
• 24:09
  sure
• 24:09
  the
• 24:09
  lawyers
• 24:10
  got
• 24:10
  involved
• 24:10
  and
• 24:11
  said,
• 24:11
  you
• 24:11
  have
• 24:11
  to
• 24:11
  do
• 24:11
  this
• 24:12
  if
• 24:12
  you.
• 24:12
  Because
• 24:12
  in
• 24:12
  the
• 24:13
  episodes
• 24:13
  the
• 24:14
  kids
• 24:14
  were
• 24:14
  left
• 24:14
  alone.
• 24:15
  Lawyers
• 24:15
  love
• 24:16
  an
• 24:16
  mou.
• 24:17
  They
• 24:17
  love
• 24:17
  a
• 24:17
  disclaimer.
• 24:19
  What's
• 24:19
  an
• 24:19
  mou?
• 24:20
  Memorandum
• 24:21
  of
• 24:21
  Understanding.
• 24:21
  Oh,
• 24:22
  I
• 24:22
  like
• 24:22
  that.
• 24:22
  It's
• 24:23
  a
• 24:23
  good
• 24:23
  one.
• 24:23
  I
• 24:23
  didn't
• 24:23
  know
• 24:23
  that.
• 24:24
  Yeah.
• 24:24
  And
• 24:25
  I'm
• 24:25
  a
• 24:25
  lawyer,
• 24:25
  so
• 24:26
  I
• 24:26
  don't
• 24:26
  even.
• 24:26
  I
• 24:26
  never
• 24:26
  heard
• 24:27
  that.
• 24:27
  But
• 24:27
  I
• 24:27
  like
• 24:27
  that
• 24:28
  they.
• 24:29
  I
• 24:29
  never
• 24:30
  heard
• 24:30
  what.
• 24:30
  That.
• 24:30
  It's
• 24:31
  a
• 24:31
  good
• 24:31
  one.
• 24:31
  Yeah.
• 24:31
  Okay.
• 24:32
  It's
• 24:32
  a
• 24:32
  good
• 24:32
  one.
• 24:32
  Whip
• 24:32
  it
• 24:32
  out.
• 24:33
  Very
• 24:33
  good.
• 24:34
  I
• 24:34
  will.
• 24:34
  M
• 24:35
  O
• 24:35
  M
• 24:35
  U
• 24:35
  M
• 24:36
  O
• 24:36
  U
• 24:36
  MO
• 24:36
  U.
• 24:37
  Memorandum
• 24:37
  of
• 24:38
  Understanding.
• 24:39
  So,
• 24:39
  like,
• 24:39
  I
• 24:40
  know
• 24:40
  what
• 24:40
  I'm
• 24:40
  getting
• 24:41
  myself
• 24:41
  into.
• 24:41
  Okay.
• 24:42
  Okay,
• 24:42
  good.
• 24:42
  Okay.
• 24:43
  Got
• 24:43
  it.
• 24:44
  Got
• 24:44
  it.
• 24:45
  Then
• 24:45
  she
• 24:45
  says,
• 24:46
  ignore
• 24:46
  the
• 24:46
  blamers.
• 24:47
  She
• 24:47
  talks
• 24:48
  a
• 24:48
  lot
• 24:48
  about
• 24:48
  situations
• 24:49
  that
• 24:49
  have
• 24:50
  happened
• 24:51
  where,
• 24:53
  let's
• 24:53
  say,
• 24:53
  some
• 24:54
  kid
• 24:54
  is
• 24:54
  walking
• 24:55
  alone
• 24:56
  and
• 24:56
  another
• 24:57
  parent
• 24:58
  sees
• 24:58
  the
• 24:58
  child
• 24:59
  and
• 24:59
  goes,
• 25:00
  oh,
• 25:00
  my
• 25:00
  God,
• 25:00
  that
• 25:00
  child
• 25:01
  is
• 25:01
  unaccompanied.
• 25:02
  And
• 25:02
  they
• 25:02
  call
• 25:02
  the
• 25:02
  police.
• 25:03
  And
• 25:03
  that
• 25:03
  has
• 25:04
  happened.
• 25:04
  People
• 25:04
  get
• 25:04
  the
• 25:05
  police
• 25:05
  called
• 25:05
  on
• 25:05
  them.
• 25:07
  And,
• 25:08
  you
• 25:08
  know,
• 25:09
  so
• 25:09
  she.
• 25:09
  And
• 25:09
  she
• 25:09
  tells
• 25:11
  different
• 25:11
  stories
• 25:12
  where
• 25:12
  parents
• 25:12
  get
• 25:13
  called
• 25:13
  out
• 25:13
  for
• 25:14
  trusting
• 25:15
  other
• 25:17
  adults.
• 25:18
  She
• 25:19
  talks
• 25:19
  about
• 25:19
  Halloween,
• 25:20
  how
• 25:20
  Halloween
• 25:21
  is
• 25:21
  sort
• 25:22
  of
• 25:22
  weirdly
• 25:22
  seen
• 25:23
  as
• 25:23
  like
• 25:23
  this
• 25:23
  kind
• 25:23
  of
• 25:23
  dangerous
• 25:24
  holiday
• 25:25
  where
• 25:25
  it's
• 25:25
  like
• 25:25
  everyone's
• 25:26
  dressed
• 25:26
  up
• 25:26
  in
• 25:27
  costumes
• 25:27
  and
• 25:27
  anybody
• 25:28
  can
• 25:28
  be
• 25:28
  a
• 25:29
  murderer.
• 25:29
  Yeah.
• 25:30
  Or
• 25:30
  a
• 25:30
  pedophile.
• 25:31
  And
• 25:31
  I
• 25:31
  remember
• 25:32
  we
• 25:32
  used
• 25:33
  to
• 25:33
  get
• 25:33
  let
• 25:33
  out
• 25:33
  of
• 25:33
  school
• 25:34
  early
• 25:34
  on
• 25:34
  Halloween
• 25:35
  because
• 25:35
  of
• 25:36
  gang
• 25:36
  initiations.
• 25:37
  Oh,
• 25:38
  really?
• 25:38
  I
• 25:39
  don't
• 25:39
  know.
• 25:39
  It
• 25:39
  was.
• 25:39
  It
• 25:40
  was
• 25:41
  ridiculous.
• 25:42
  The
• 25:42
  idea
• 25:42
  was
• 25:42
  that
• 25:42
  if
• 25:42
  you
• 25:43
  were
• 25:43
  gonna
• 25:43
  get
• 25:43
  on
• 25:43
  the
• 25:43
  subway,
• 25:43
  someone
• 25:44
  was
• 25:44
  gonna
• 25:44
  slash
• 25:44
  you
• 25:45
  to
• 25:45
  get
• 25:45
  initiated
• 25:46
  into
• 25:46
  a
• 25:46
  gang.
• 25:47
  Oh,
• 25:47
  I
• 25:47
  do
• 25:47
  remember
• 25:48
  that
• 25:48
  maybe
• 25:49
  it.
• 25:49
  Happened
• 25:49
  one
• 25:49
  time
• 25:50
  and
• 25:50
  then
• 25:50
  we
• 25:51
  all
• 25:51
  got
• 25:51
  out
• 25:51
  of
• 25:51
  school
• 25:51
  early
• 25:52
  because
• 25:52
  of
• 25:52
  it.
• 25:52
  Oh,
• 25:52
  well,
• 25:53
  until
• 25:53
  I'm
• 25:53
  sure.
• 25:53
  You
• 25:53
  love
• 25:54
  that.
• 25:54
  Yeah.
• 25:55
  Oh,
• 25:55
  yeah.
• 25:56
  I
• 25:56
  don't
• 25:56
  want
• 25:56
  to
• 25:56
  get.
• 25:57
  I
• 25:57
  don't
• 25:57
  want
• 25:57
  to
• 25:57
  be
• 25:57
  a
• 25:57
  victim
• 25:58
  of
• 25:58
  gang
• 25:58
  initiation.
• 25:59
  Of
• 25:59
  course
• 25:59
  not.
• 26:00
  No,
• 26:00
  no,
• 26:00
  no,
• 26:00
  that
• 26:01
  makes
• 26:01
  sense.
• 26:01
  Well,
• 26:02
  she
• 26:02
  says
• 26:02
  just
• 26:03
  ignore
• 26:03
  people
• 26:03
  like
• 26:04
  that.
• 26:04
  Who
• 26:04
  will
• 26:04
  call
• 26:05
  the
• 26:05
  police
• 26:05
  on
• 26:06
  you.
• 26:06
  Or
• 26:07
  what
• 26:07
  do
• 26:07
  you
• 26:08
  tell
• 26:08
  the
• 26:08
  police?
• 26:09
  Well,
• 26:09
  you
• 26:09
  know,
• 26:10
  you
• 26:12
  just
• 26:12
  say
• 26:12
  there's
• 26:12
  this
• 26:13
  child
• 26:13
  alone.
• 26:14
  Well,
• 26:14
  no,
• 26:14
  I
• 26:14
  mean,
• 26:15
  as
• 26:15
  the
• 26:15
  parent
• 26:15
  of
• 26:16
  the
• 26:16
  alone
• 26:16
  child,
• 26:16
  what
• 26:17
  do
• 26:17
  you
• 26:17
  tell
• 26:17
  the
• 26:17
  police?
• 26:17
  Oh,
• 26:18
  just
• 26:18
  that
• 26:18
  I
• 26:18
  trust
• 26:19
  my
• 26:19
  child.
• 26:20
  First
• 26:20
  of
• 26:20
  all,
• 26:20
  he's
• 26:21
  10
• 26:21
  years
• 26:21
  old.
• 26:22
  I
• 26:22
  told
• 26:22
  him
• 26:22
  he
• 26:22
  could
• 26:23
  ride
• 26:23
  the
• 26:23
  subway
• 26:23
  alone.
• 26:24
  A
• 26:24
  hundred
• 26:25
  years
• 26:25
  ago
• 26:25
  he
• 26:25
  could
• 26:25
  have
• 26:25
  been
• 26:26
  a
• 26:26
  welder.
• 26:27
  Right,
• 26:27
  exactly.
• 26:28
  But
• 26:28
  now
• 26:28
  he's
• 26:29
  just
• 26:29
  a
• 26:29
  kid.
• 26:29
  But
• 26:30
  people
• 26:30
  see
• 26:30
  that
• 26:31
  and
• 26:31
  they
• 26:31
  think.
• 26:31
  And
• 26:32
  I
• 26:32
  have
• 26:32
  to
• 26:32
  say,
• 26:32
  when
• 26:33
  I
• 26:33
  see
• 26:33
  a
• 26:33
  child
• 26:34
  alone,
• 26:34
  I'm
• 26:35
  always
• 26:35
  looking
• 26:35
  around
• 26:36
  to
• 26:36
  see
• 26:36
  are
• 26:36
  the
• 26:36
  parents
• 26:37
  there.
• 26:38
  I
• 26:38
  do
• 26:38
  that.
• 26:38
  Like
• 26:39
  how
• 26:39
  old?
• 26:39
  Well,
• 26:40
  a
• 26:40
  younger
• 26:40
  child.
• 26:41
  Like
• 26:41
  if
• 26:41
  I
• 26:41
  see
• 26:42
  a
• 26:42
  six
• 26:42
  or
• 26:42
  a
• 26:42
  second,
• 26:43
  a
• 26:43
  really
• 26:43
  young.
• 26:44
  Maybe
• 26:44
  up
• 26:44
  to
• 26:44
  about
• 26:45
  6
• 26:45
  or
• 26:45
  7.
• 26:46
  Okay.
• 26:46
  I
• 26:46
  should
• 26:46
  say.
• 26:46
  Cause
• 26:46
  I
• 26:47
  see
• 26:47
  packs
• 26:47
  of
• 26:47
  12
• 26:48
  year
• 26:48
  olds
• 26:48
  roaming
• 26:49
  the
• 26:49
  streets.
• 26:49
  Yeah,
• 26:50
  no,
• 26:50
  I
• 26:51
  think
• 26:51
  when
• 26:51
  they're
• 26:51
  older
• 26:51
  and
• 26:52
  I
• 26:52
  think
• 26:52
  if
• 26:52
  you're
• 26:52
  in
• 26:52
  a
• 26:52
  pack,
• 26:53
  you're
• 26:53
  safe
• 26:53
  anyway.
• 26:54
  Pack
• 26:54
  mentality,
• 26:55
  safety
• 26:56
  numbers.
• 26:56
  Well,
• 26:56
  it's
• 26:57
  safety
• 26:57
  in
• 26:57
  numbers.
• 26:58
  But
• 26:58
  also,
• 26:59
  you
• 26:59
  know,
• 26:59
  pack
• 27:00
  mentality
• 27:00
  can
• 27:00
  be
• 27:01
  also
• 27:01
  not
• 27:02
  good
• 27:02
  for
• 27:02
  the
• 27:02
  kid
• 27:02
  if
• 27:03
  everybody
• 27:03
  wants
• 27:04
  to
• 27:04
  do
• 27:04
  something
• 27:04
  dangerous.
• 27:05
  Peer
• 27:05
  pressure.
• 27:06
  But
• 27:06
  I
• 27:06
  feel
• 27:06
  like
• 27:06
  that's
• 27:07
  like
• 27:07
  kid
• 27:07
  on
• 27:08
  kid
• 27:08
  danger.
• 27:09
  Yeah.
• 27:09
  Not
• 27:09
  adult
• 27:10
  on
• 27:10
  kid
• 27:11
  danger.
• 27:12
  Right,
• 27:12
  okay,
• 27:13
  that's
• 27:13
  true.
• 27:14
  All
• 27:14
  right,
• 27:14
  well,
• 27:14
  anyway,
• 27:15
  she.
• 27:15
  So
• 27:16
  what?
• 27:16
  She.
• 27:16
  I
• 27:17
  like
• 27:17
  this
• 27:17
  quote.
• 27:17
  She
• 27:18
  says,
• 27:19
  you
• 27:19
  know,
• 27:19
  she
• 27:20
  says
• 27:20
  parents
• 27:20
  get
• 27:20
  judged
• 27:21
  for
• 27:21
  letting
• 27:21
  their
• 27:21
  kids
• 27:22
  just
• 27:22
  play
• 27:22
  outside,
• 27:23
  walk
• 27:23
  to
• 27:23
  school,
• 27:23
  whatever.
• 27:24
  And
• 27:24
  if
• 27:25
  you're
• 27:25
  always
• 27:25
  picturing
• 27:26
  the
• 27:26
  worst
• 27:26
  outcome
• 27:27
  of
• 27:27
  every
• 27:27
  scenario,
• 27:28
  you
• 27:28
  just
• 27:28
  can't
• 27:28
  enjoy
• 27:29
  your
• 27:29
  life.
• 27:30
  And
• 27:30
  she
• 27:30
  said,
• 27:30
  fear
• 27:31
  doesn't
• 27:31
  prevent
• 27:31
  death,
• 27:32
  it
• 27:32
  prevents
• 27:33
  life.
• 27:34
  That's
• 27:34
  a
• 27:34
  good
• 27:34
  quote.
• 27:35
  Right?
• 27:36
  That
• 27:36
  hits
• 27:36
  me.
• 27:36
  Hits
• 27:37
  me
• 27:37
  too.
• 27:38
  Hits
• 27:38
  me
• 27:38
  too.
• 27:39
  Yeah.
• 27:40
  And
• 27:40
  getting
• 27:41
  back
• 27:41
  to
• 27:41
  Halloween,
• 27:42
  I
• 27:42
  will
• 27:42
  say,
• 27:43
  you
• 27:43
  know,
• 27:43
  when
• 27:43
  I
• 27:43
  used
• 27:43
  to,
• 27:44
  when
• 27:44
  I
• 27:45
  was
• 27:45
  a
• 27:45
  kid,
• 27:45
  we
• 27:45
  could
• 27:46
  trick
• 27:47
  or
• 27:47
  treat
• 27:47
  alone
• 27:48
  in
• 27:48
  our
• 27:48
  neighborhoods.
• 27:50
  I
• 27:50
  don't
• 27:50
  remember
• 27:51
  my
• 27:51
  parents
• 27:51
  ever
• 27:52
  going
• 27:52
  with
• 27:52
  us.
• 27:54
  But
• 27:54
  now,
• 27:54
  when
• 27:55
  you
• 27:55
  guys
• 27:55
  were
• 27:55
  trick
• 27:56
  or
• 27:56
  treating
• 27:56
  when
• 27:56
  you
• 27:56
  were
• 27:57
  young,
• 27:57
  we
• 27:57
  always
• 27:58
  went
• 27:58
  with
• 27:58
  you.
• 27:59
  No,
• 27:59
  you
• 27:59
  didn't.
• 28:00
  When
• 28:00
  you
• 28:00
  were
• 28:00
  really
• 28:01
  young.
• 28:01
  We
• 28:01
  did.
• 28:02
  Later
• 28:03
  we
• 28:03
  did
• 28:03
  it.
• 28:03
  I
• 28:04
  don't
• 28:04
  remember
• 28:04
  that.
• 28:04
  Yeah,
• 28:05
  well,
• 28:05
  we
• 28:05
  were
• 28:05
  in
• 28:05
  a
• 28:05
  building
• 28:06
  that
• 28:06
  was
• 28:06
  very
• 28:06
  safe
• 28:07
  for
• 28:07
  people.
• 28:07
  There
• 28:08
  were
• 28:08
  four
• 28:08
  towers
• 28:09
  and
• 28:10
  30
• 28:10
  floors
• 28:10
  in
• 28:11
  each
• 28:11
  tower.
• 28:11
  And
• 28:12
  all
• 28:12
  the
• 28:12
  towers
• 28:12
  were
• 28:13
  connected
• 28:13
  by
• 28:13
  a
• 28:14
  lobby.
• 28:14
  And
• 28:14
  you
• 28:14
  could
• 28:15
  just
• 28:15
  go
• 28:15
  from
• 28:15
  tower
• 28:16
  to
• 28:16
  tower,
• 28:16
  up
• 28:16
  and
• 28:17
  down.
• 28:17
  I
• 28:18
  had
• 28:18
  suitcases
• 28:19
  full
• 28:19
  of
• 28:19
  candy.
• 28:19
  I
• 28:19
  know.
• 28:20
  I
• 28:20
  remember.
• 28:21
  But
• 28:21
  everyone
• 28:21
  came
• 28:22
  to
• 28:22
  our
• 28:22
  building
• 28:22
  to
• 28:23
  trick
• 28:23
  or
• 28:23
  treat.
• 28:23
  Did
• 28:24
  I
• 28:24
  check
• 28:24
  it
• 28:24
  for,
• 28:25
  like,
• 28:25
  razor
• 28:25
  blades
• 28:26
  and
• 28:26
  poisons
• 28:26
  and.
• 28:27
  Not
• 28:27
  that
• 28:27
  I
• 28:27
  remember.
• 28:28
  I
• 28:29
  think
• 28:29
  you
• 28:29
  just
• 28:29
  said,
• 28:29
  have
• 28:30
  at
• 28:30
  it.
• 28:30
  Did
• 28:30
  I?
• 28:31
  Yeah,
• 28:32
  probably.
• 28:32
  Maybe.
• 28:33
  I
• 28:33
  don't
• 28:33
  remember
• 28:34
  being
• 28:35
  very.
• 28:35
  I
• 28:36
  think
• 28:36
  the
• 28:36
  most
• 28:36
  dangerous
• 28:36
  thing
• 28:36
  that
• 28:37
  came
• 28:37
  from
• 28:37
  Halloween
• 28:37
  was
• 28:38
  cavities.
• 28:39
  Yeah,
• 28:39
  you're
• 28:39
  probably
• 28:39
  right.
• 28:40
  Yeah.
• 28:40
  But
• 28:40
  she
• 28:41
  says
• 28:41
  that.
• 28:41
  She
• 28:41
  says.
• 28:42
  Look,
• 28:42
  she
• 28:42
  says
• 28:43
  there's
• 28:43
  no
• 28:43
  real
• 28:44
  case
• 28:44
  of.
• 28:45
  Of
• 28:45
  a
• 28:46
  razor
• 28:46
  blade
• 28:47
  and
• 28:47
  an
• 28:47
  apple
• 28:47
  or
• 28:48
  anything.
• 28:48
  Yeah.
• 28:48
  Also
• 28:48
  that's
• 28:49
  giving
• 28:49
  out
• 28:49
  apples.
• 28:50
  Nobody
• 28:51
  anymore.
• 28:51
  Disgusting.
• 28:52
  Kids
• 28:52
  would
• 28:52
  be
• 28:52
  so
• 28:52
  mad
• 28:53
  if
• 28:53
  they
• 28:53
  got
• 28:53
  apples.
• 28:54
  So.
• 28:54
  But
• 28:55
  I
• 28:55
  guess
• 28:55
  in
• 28:55
  the
• 28:55
  olden
• 28:56
  days
• 28:56
  and.
• 28:57
  And
• 28:57
  poisons
• 28:57
  being
• 28:58
  injected
• 28:58
  into,
• 28:59
  you
• 28:59
  know,
• 28:59
  into
• 29:00
  candy.
• 29:00
  Who
• 29:00
  has
• 29:01
  the
• 29:01
  time?
• 29:01
  Well,
• 29:02
  bad
• 29:02
  people.
• 29:03
  But
• 29:03
  that's
• 29:03
  what.
• 29:03
  That's
• 29:04
  what
• 29:04
  people
• 29:04
  think,
• 29:05
  you
• 29:05
  know?
• 29:05
  But
• 29:05
  it's
• 29:06
  not
• 29:06
  true.
• 29:06
  She
• 29:06
  says
• 29:07
  it's
• 29:07
  just
• 29:07
  not
• 29:07
  true.
• 29:08
  And
• 29:09
  she
• 29:09
  does.
• 29:10
  Studying
• 29:11
  history.
• 29:12
  That
• 29:13
  Ben
• 29:13
  Franklin.
• 29:14
  Yes.
• 29:15
  Had
• 29:15
  a
• 29:15
  vocational
• 29:16
  trade
• 29:16
  up
• 29:17
  his
• 29:17
  ruffled.
• 29:17
  Sleeve
• 29:18
  at
• 29:18
  age,
• 29:19
  like
• 29:19
  10
• 29:19
  or
• 29:20
  something.
• 29:20
  Yeah,
• 29:20
  yeah.
• 29:21
  That.
• 29:21
  That.
• 29:22
  That
• 29:22
  kids
• 29:23
  used
• 29:23
  to
• 29:23
  have
• 29:23
  a
• 29:23
  lot
• 29:23
  of
• 29:24
  responsibility.
• 29:25
  So
• 29:25
  to
• 29:26
  think
• 29:26
  your
• 29:26
  child
• 29:27
  can't
• 29:27
  be
• 29:27
  responsible
• 29:28
  is
• 29:29
  just
• 29:29
  not
• 29:29
  true.
• 29:30
  Yeah.
• 29:30
  Because
• 29:30
  for
• 29:31
  so
• 29:31
  many
• 29:31
  years,
• 29:31
  kids
• 29:32
  have
• 29:32
  had
• 29:32
  lots
• 29:32
  of
• 29:33
  responses.
• 29:33
  Yeah,
• 29:33
  it's.
• 29:34
  I
• 29:34
  feel
• 29:34
  like
• 29:34
  the
• 29:34
  old
• 29:35
  tale
• 29:35
  was,
• 29:36
  I
• 29:36
  came
• 29:36
  to
• 29:36
  this
• 29:37
  country
• 29:37
  with
• 29:37
  14
• 29:38
  cents
• 29:38
  and
• 29:38
  a
• 29:38
  garlic
• 29:39
  knot,
• 29:39
  and
• 29:39
  now
• 29:40
  I'm
• 29:40
  president
• 29:40
  of
• 29:41
  the
• 29:41
  board.
• 29:41
  That's
• 29:41
  right.
• 29:42
  And
• 29:42
  now
• 29:42
  it's
• 29:42
  like
• 29:43
  kids
• 29:43
  can't
• 29:44
  do
• 29:44
  anything,
• 29:45
  God
• 29:45
  forbid,
• 29:45
  get
• 29:46
  a
• 29:46
  job.
• 29:48
  And
• 29:48
  he
• 29:48
  said.
• 29:49
  She
• 29:49
  was
• 29:49
  talking
• 29:49
  about
• 29:49
  the
• 29:50
  fact
• 29:50
  that
• 29:51
  kids
• 29:52
  used
• 29:52
  to
• 29:52
  be
• 29:52
  able
• 29:53
  to
• 29:53
  at
• 29:53
  least
• 29:53
  go
• 29:54
  be
• 29:54
  a
• 29:54
  paper
• 29:54
  boy
• 29:55
  or
• 29:55
  a
• 29:55
  paper
• 29:56
  girl,
• 29:56
  and
• 29:57
  now
• 29:57
  it's
• 29:57
  against
• 29:57
  the
• 29:58
  law
• 29:58
  that
• 29:58
  you
• 29:58
  can't
• 29:59
  be
• 29:59
  a
• 29:59
  paper
• 29:59
  boy
• 30:00
  or
• 30:00
  paper
• 30:00
  girl.
• 30:00
  That's
• 30:01
  probably
• 30:01
  for
• 30:01
  the
• 30:01
  best.
• 30:01
  Honestly,
• 30:02
  like
• 30:02
  kids
• 30:03
  biking
• 30:03
  around
• 30:03
  New
• 30:04
  York
• 30:04
  City,
• 30:05
  that
• 30:05
  stress
• 30:05
  is.
• 30:05
  Right.
• 30:06
  But
• 30:06
  in
• 30:06
  the
• 30:06
  suburbs,
• 30:06
  I
• 30:07
  don't.
• 30:07
  Okay,
• 30:07
  maybe
• 30:07
  in
• 30:08
  the
• 30:08
  suburbs
• 30:08
  I'll
• 30:09
  allow
• 30:09
  it.
• 30:09
  You
• 30:09
  know,
• 30:10
  by
• 30:10
  the
• 30:10
  way,
• 30:10
  I
• 30:10
  don't
• 30:11
  know
• 30:11
  if
• 30:11
  you
• 30:11
  know
• 30:11
  this,
• 30:11
  but
• 30:12
  I
• 30:12
  was
• 30:12
  a
• 30:12
  paper
• 30:12
  girl.
• 30:13
  Did
• 30:13
  you
• 30:13
  know
• 30:14
  that?
• 30:14
  No.
• 30:14
  I
• 30:15
  was.
• 30:15
  I
• 30:15
  was
• 30:15
  the
• 30:15
  first
• 30:16
  paper
• 30:16
  girl
• 30:16
  in
• 30:17
  San
• 30:17
  Antonio,
• 30:18
  Texas,
• 30:19
  for
• 30:20
  the
• 30:20
  San
• 30:20
  Antonio
• 30:21
  Light
• 30:22
  newspaper.
• 30:23
  I
• 30:23
  would
• 30:23
  get
• 30:24
  up
• 30:24
  early
• 30:24
  in
• 30:24
  the
• 30:24
  morning
• 30:25
  and
• 30:25
  I
• 30:25
  would.
• 30:26
  Or
• 30:26
  in
• 30:26
  the
• 30:27
  afternoons.
• 30:27
  It's
• 30:28
  actually
• 30:28
  my
• 30:28
  brother
• 30:28
  and
• 30:29
  I,
• 30:29
  Donnie,
• 30:29
  we
• 30:29
  would
• 30:30
  switch,
• 30:31
  but
• 30:31
  I
• 30:32
  was
• 30:32
  delivering
• 30:32
  papers
• 30:33
  either
• 30:33
  mornings
• 30:34
  or
• 30:34
  afternoons.
• 30:35
  And
• 30:35
  do
• 30:35
  you
• 30:36
  know
• 30:36
  why
• 30:36
  I
• 30:36
  had
• 30:36
  had
• 30:36
  to
• 30:36
  quit
• 30:37
  being
• 30:37
  a
• 30:37
  paper
• 30:37
  girl?
• 30:38
  Why?
• 30:39
  Because
• 30:40
  a
• 30:40
  man
• 30:40
  called
• 30:40
  me
• 30:41
  over
• 30:41
  to
• 30:41
  his
• 30:42
  car
• 30:42
  and
• 30:43
  exposed
• 30:44
  himself.
• 30:45
  And
• 30:45
  so
• 30:46
  when
• 30:46
  I
• 30:46
  told
• 30:46
  my
• 30:47
  mother
• 30:47
  about
• 30:47
  it,
• 30:48
  she
• 30:49
  made
• 30:49
  me
• 30:49
  quit
• 30:49
  the.
• 30:49
  Job,
• 30:50
  probably
• 30:50
  for
• 30:50
  the
• 30:51
  best.
• 30:51
  Yeah.
• 30:52
  You
• 30:52
  were
• 30:52
  so
• 30:53
  cute
• 30:53
  when
• 30:54
  you
• 30:54
  were
• 30:54
  little.
• 30:54
  Yeah,
• 30:55
  you're
• 30:55
  still
• 30:55
  so
• 30:55
  cute.
• 30:56
  But,
• 30:56
  oh,
• 30:57
  my
• 30:57
  God,
• 30:57
  you
• 30:57
  were
• 30:58
  so
• 30:58
  abducted.
• 30:59
  But
• 30:59
  I
• 30:59
  don't
• 30:59
  think
• 31:00
  people
• 31:01
  doing
• 31:01
  that,
• 31:02
  exposing
• 31:02
  themselves.
• 31:03
  I
• 31:03
  don't
• 31:03
  think
• 31:03
  it
• 31:03
  has
• 31:03
  anything
• 31:04
  to
• 31:04
  do
• 31:04
  with
• 31:04
  how
• 31:05
  cute
• 31:06
  or
• 31:06
  not
• 31:06
  cute
• 31:06
  or.
• 31:07
  Give
• 31:07
  yourself
• 31:07
  some
• 31:07
  credit.
• 31:08
  All
• 31:08
  right?
• 31:08
  It
• 31:09
  was
• 31:09
  because
• 31:09
  I
• 31:09
  was
• 31:09
  cute.
• 31:10
  I
• 31:10
  don't
• 31:10
  know.
• 31:10
  I
• 31:11
  guess
• 31:11
  he
• 31:11
  got.
• 31:12
  Whatever.
• 31:12
  Anyone
• 31:13
  think.
• 31:13
  We
• 31:13
  don't
• 31:13
  know
• 31:13
  this
• 31:14
  man.
• 31:14
  This
• 31:14
  is.
• 31:15
  But
• 31:15
  it
• 31:15
  was.
• 31:15
  It
• 31:15
  was
• 31:16
  very
• 31:16
  upsetting
• 31:17
  for
• 31:17
  me.
• 31:17
  But
• 31:18
  I.
• 31:18
  I
• 31:18
  almost.
• 31:18
  I
• 31:18
  was
• 31:19
  really
• 31:19
  mad
• 31:19
  because
• 31:19
  that
• 31:20
  I
• 31:20
  even
• 31:20
  told
• 31:20
  my
• 31:20
  mother
• 31:21
  because
• 31:21
  she
• 31:21
  made
• 31:21
  me
• 31:21
  quit
• 31:22
  the
• 31:22
  job.
• 31:23
  And
• 31:23
  she
• 31:24
  talks
• 31:24
  about
• 31:24
  that,
• 31:24
  too,
• 31:25
  how.
• 31:25
  Kids
• 31:26
  sometimes
• 31:26
  will
• 31:27
  keep
• 31:28
  bad
• 31:28
  things
• 31:28
  that
• 31:28
  happen
• 31:29
  when
• 31:29
  they're
• 31:29
  out
• 31:29
  being
• 31:30
  free
• 31:30
  from
• 31:30
  their
• 31:31
  parents
• 31:31
  because
• 31:31
  they
• 31:31
  don't
• 31:32
  want
• 31:32
  that
• 31:32
  freedom
• 31:32
  taken
• 31:32
  away.
• 31:33
  Which
• 31:33
  I
• 31:33
  can
• 31:33
  understand.
• 31:34
  Right.
• 31:34
  And
• 31:34
  you
• 31:34
  can
• 31:35
  understand.
• 31:35
  I
• 31:35
  can
• 31:35
  totally
• 31:36
  understand,
• 31:36
  because
• 31:36
  I.
• 31:38
  I
• 31:38
  was
• 31:38
  very
• 31:38
  upset
• 31:39
  that
• 31:39
  I
• 31:39
  had.
• 31:39
  I
• 31:39
  had
• 31:40
  gotten
• 31:40
  a
• 31:41
  dog
• 31:41
  without
• 31:41
  permission.
• 31:42
  I
• 31:42
  had
• 31:42
  gone
• 31:43
  out
• 31:43
  and
• 31:43
  bought
• 31:43
  a
• 31:43
  dog
• 31:43
  without
• 31:44
  permission.
• 31:45
  And
• 31:46
  again,
• 31:47
  I
• 31:47
  know
• 31:47
  I
• 31:47
  still
• 31:47
  do
• 31:48
  that.
• 31:48
  But
• 31:48
  anyway,
• 31:49
  the
• 31:49
  point
• 31:49
  is,
• 31:49
  I
• 31:49
  did
• 31:50
  that
• 31:50
  and
• 31:50
  I
• 31:50
  had
• 31:50
  to
• 31:51
  pay.
• 31:51
  I
• 31:51
  had
• 31:51
  to
• 31:51
  repay
• 31:52
  the
• 31:52
  person.
• 31:52
  I
• 31:52
  borrowed
• 31:53
  the
• 31:53
  money,
• 31:53
  so
• 31:54
  I
• 31:54
  owed.
• 31:54
  You
• 31:54
  were
• 31:55
  borrowing
• 31:55
  money
• 31:56
  as
• 31:56
  a
• 31:56
  child?
• 31:57
  $50
• 31:58
  to
• 31:58
  pay
• 31:58
  for
• 31:58
  a
• 31:59
  dog.
• 31:59
  It
• 31:59
  was
• 31:59
  a.
• 32:00
  It
• 32:00
  was.
• 32:00
  That's
• 32:00
  how
• 32:00
  much
• 32:00
  a
• 32:01
  dog
• 32:01
  cost
• 32:01
  me.
• 32:01
  Who
• 32:02
  did
• 32:02
  you
• 32:02
  borrow
• 32:02
  the
• 32:02
  money
• 32:02
  from,
• 32:03
  a
• 32:03
  loan
• 32:03
  shark?
• 32:04
  My
• 32:04
  father.
• 32:04
  Okay.
• 32:05
  But
• 32:05
  he
• 32:05
  didn't
• 32:06
  want
• 32:06
  my
• 32:06
  mother
• 32:06
  to
• 32:06
  know
• 32:07
  that
• 32:07
  he
• 32:07
  had
• 32:07
  lent
• 32:07
  me
• 32:08
  the
• 32:08
  money
• 32:08
  because
• 32:08
  she
• 32:09
  had
• 32:09
  forbidden
• 32:10
  all
• 32:10
  of
• 32:10
  us
• 32:10
  to
• 32:10
  get
• 32:10
  a
• 32:11
  dog.
• 32:11
  So.
• 32:12
  But
• 32:12
  I
• 32:12
  had
• 32:12
  to
• 32:12
  pay
• 32:13
  him
• 32:13
  back.
• 32:13
  I
• 32:13
  had
• 32:13
  the
• 32:13
  paper
• 32:14
  route
• 32:14
  to
• 32:14
  do
• 32:14
  it,
• 32:14
  my
• 32:15
  brother
• 32:15
  and
• 32:15
  I.
• 32:15
  But
• 32:15
  then
• 32:16
  suddenly
• 32:16
  we
• 32:16
  couldn't
• 32:16
  pay
• 32:17
  him
• 32:17
  back
• 32:17
  because
• 32:17
  I
• 32:18
  had
• 32:18
  to
• 32:18
  leave.
• 32:19
  No.
• 32:19
  Yeah.
• 32:20
  But
• 32:20
  anyway,
• 32:20
  so.
• 32:21
  But
• 32:21
  I.
• 32:21
  I
• 32:21
  was
• 32:21
  trying
• 32:22
  to
• 32:22
  be
• 32:22
  worldly,
• 32:22
  and
• 32:23
  you
• 32:23
  were
• 32:24
  worldly.
• 32:25
  But
• 32:25
  you
• 32:25
  know
• 32:26
  what?
• 32:26
  Sometimes
• 32:26
  you
• 32:26
  needed
• 32:27
  some
• 32:27
  protection.
• 32:28
  Yeah,
• 32:28
  It.
• 32:28
  Maybe
• 32:29
  it
• 32:29
  was
• 32:29
  better.
• 32:30
  I
• 32:30
  mean,
• 32:30
  if
• 32:31
  I
• 32:31
  had
• 32:31
  a
• 32:31
  child.
• 32:31
  And
• 32:32
  your
• 32:32
  mom
• 32:32
  did
• 32:32
  not
• 32:33
  play.
• 32:33
  No,
• 32:33
  she
• 32:34
  didn't.
• 32:35
  But
• 32:35
  I
• 32:35
  would
• 32:35
  do
• 32:35
  the
• 32:35
  same
• 32:35
  thing
• 32:36
  if
• 32:36
  that
• 32:36
  had
• 32:36
  happened
• 32:37
  to
• 32:37
  you.
• 32:37
  I
• 32:38
  wouldn't.
• 32:38
  Right.
• 32:38
  Move.
• 32:39
  Just.
• 32:39
  Yeah.
• 32:40
  By
• 32:40
  the
• 32:40
  way,
• 32:40
  it
• 32:41
  was
• 32:41
  the
• 32:41
  right
• 32:41
  move.
• 32:41
  Okay.
• 32:42
  And
• 32:42
  then
• 32:42
  she
• 32:43
  talks
• 32:43
  about
• 32:44
  how
• 32:45
  we
• 32:45
  need
• 32:45
  to
• 32:45
  be
• 32:45
  more
• 32:45
  worldly
• 32:46
  that
• 32:46
  around
• 32:47
  the
• 32:47
  world,
• 32:48
  kids
• 32:48
  are
• 32:48
  allowed
• 32:49
  to
• 32:49
  play
• 32:49
  in
• 32:49
  playgrounds
• 32:50
  where
• 32:50
  parents
• 32:51
  are
• 32:51
  not
• 32:52
  in
• 32:52
  Sweden,
• 32:53
  I
• 32:53
  think
• 32:54
  they
• 32:54
  live.
• 32:54
  They
• 32:55
  leave
• 32:55
  kids
• 32:56
  unsupervised,
• 32:57
  completely
• 32:57
  on
• 32:58
  field
• 32:58
  trips.
• 32:59
  There's
• 32:59
  a
• 32:59
  thing
• 32:59
  where
• 32:59
  they
• 32:59
  all
• 33:00
  go
• 33:00
  on
• 33:00
  a
• 33:00
  field
• 33:00
  trip
• 33:01
  and
• 33:01
  then
• 33:02
  they
• 33:02
  leave
• 33:02
  them
• 33:03
  in
• 33:03
  the
• 33:04
  wilderness.
• 33:04
  They're
• 33:04
  fjords.
• 33:05
  Yes.
• 33:06
  And
• 33:06
  they.
• 33:06
  I
• 33:06
  know.
• 33:06
  Those
• 33:06
  are
• 33:07
  Iceland.
• 33:07
  Well,
• 33:08
  yeah,
• 33:08
  maybe
• 33:08
  they're
• 33:08
  fjords
• 33:09
  in
• 33:09
  Sweden.
• 33:09
  I
• 33:10
  don't
• 33:10
  remember.
• 33:10
  But
• 33:11
  All
• 33:11
  I
• 33:11
  know
• 33:12
  is
• 33:12
  that
• 33:12
  they
• 33:12
  do
• 33:12
  leave
• 33:13
  their
• 33:13
  kids,
• 33:13
  like,
• 33:14
  to
• 33:14
  find
• 33:14
  their
• 33:14
  way
• 33:14
  back.
• 33:15
  It's
• 33:15
  a
• 33:15
  thing
• 33:16
  that
• 33:16
  they
• 33:16
  all
• 33:16
  do.
• 33:17
  And
• 33:17
  that,
• 33:17
  you
• 33:17
  know,
• 33:18
  again,
• 33:18
  it's
• 33:18
  to
• 33:18
  give
• 33:18
  them
• 33:19
  independence.
• 33:19
  It's
• 33:20
  to
• 33:20
  give
• 33:20
  them
• 33:21
  the
• 33:21
  ability
• 33:22
  to
• 33:22
  think
• 33:23
  for
• 33:23
  themselves
• 33:23
  in
• 33:23
  tough
• 33:24
  situations.
• 33:26
  And.
• 33:26
  Oh,
• 33:27
  and
• 33:27
  some
• 33:27
  parents
• 33:27
  leave
• 33:28
  their
• 33:28
  baby
• 33:28
  carriages
• 33:29
  with
• 33:29
  the
• 33:29
  babies
• 33:29
  outside
• 33:30
  at
• 33:30
  restaurants.
• 33:31
  My
• 33:31
  husband
• 33:31
  thought
• 33:31
  that
• 33:31
  was
• 33:32
  insane.
• 33:33
  Yeah,
• 33:33
  but
• 33:33
  they
• 33:33
  do
• 33:33
  it
• 33:33
  in.
• 33:34
  I
• 33:34
  don't.
• 33:35
  I
• 33:35
  think
• 33:35
  it's
• 33:35
  safe.
• 33:36
  If
• 33:36
  it's
• 33:36
  a
• 33:36
  cultural
• 33:36
  thing
• 33:37
  and
• 33:37
  it's
• 33:37
  normal,
• 33:37
  I
• 33:38
  think
• 33:38
  it's
• 33:38
  fine,
• 33:39
  you
• 33:39
  know?
• 33:40
  Although
• 33:40
  I
• 33:40
  wouldn't
• 33:40
  do
• 33:40
  it
• 33:41
  in
• 33:41
  New
• 33:41
  York
• 33:41
  City.
• 33:42
  No,
• 33:42
  I
• 33:42
  would.
• 33:42
  I
• 33:42
  have
• 33:43
  a
• 33:43
  particularly
• 33:43
  cute
• 33:44
  baby.
• 33:44
  You
• 33:45
  do.
• 33:45
  I'd
• 33:46
  be
• 33:46
  worried
• 33:46
  that
• 33:46
  someone
• 33:46
  would
• 33:47
  snatch.
• 33:47
  So
• 33:47
  would
• 33:47
  I.
• 33:48
  I
• 33:48
  know.
• 33:48
  So
• 33:48
  would
• 33:49
  I.
• 33:49
  Yeah.
• 33:50
  But
• 33:50
  anyway.
• 33:51
  And
• 33:51
  she
• 33:51
  says,
• 33:52
  stop
• 33:52
  trying
• 33:52
  to
• 33:53
  control
• 33:53
  everything.
• 33:54
  That.
• 33:54
  That
• 33:54
  you
• 33:55
  cannot
• 33:55
  control
• 33:55
  everything,
• 33:56
  and
• 33:56
  that
• 33:57
  you
• 33:57
  definitely
• 33:57
  should
• 33:58
  not
• 33:58
  be
• 33:58
  solving
• 33:58
  problems
• 33:59
  for
• 33:59
  your
• 34:00
  kids,
• 34:01
  which
• 34:01
  I
• 34:01
  would
• 34:02
  agree
• 34:02
  with,
• 34:02
  is
• 34:03
  that
• 34:03
  you
• 34:03
  have
• 34:03
  to
• 34:03
  let
• 34:03
  your
• 34:03
  kids,
• 34:04
  as
• 34:04
  they
• 34:04
  get
• 34:04
  older,
• 34:05
  solve
• 34:05
  their
• 34:05
  own
• 34:05
  problems.
• 34:06
  Did
• 34:06
  you
• 34:06
  let
• 34:06
  me
• 34:06
  solve
• 34:07
  my
• 34:07
  own
• 34:07
  problems?
• 34:08
  Did
• 34:09
  I
• 34:09
  have
• 34:09
  a
• 34:09
  lot
• 34:09
  of
• 34:09
  problems?
• 34:10
  Well,
• 34:10
  do
• 34:10
  you?
• 34:11
  You
• 34:11
  tell
• 34:12
  me.
• 34:12
  Did
• 34:12
  I?
• 34:12
  I
• 34:13
  feel
• 34:13
  like,
• 34:13
  you
• 34:13
  know,
• 34:14
  when
• 34:14
  I
• 34:14
  would
• 34:14
  get
• 34:14
  in
• 34:14
  trouble
• 34:14
  in
• 34:15
  school,
• 34:16
  you.
• 34:17
  And
• 34:17
  occasionally
• 34:18
  dad
• 34:19
  would
• 34:19
  come
• 34:20
  to
• 34:20
  my
• 34:20
  aid,
• 34:21
  because
• 34:21
  dealing
• 34:22
  with
• 34:22
  teachers
• 34:23
  wasn't
• 34:24
  super
• 34:24
  easy
• 34:25
  for
• 34:25
  me.
• 34:26
  But
• 34:26
  when
• 34:27
  it
• 34:27
  came
• 34:27
  to,
• 34:27
  like,
• 34:27
  other
• 34:28
  kids,
• 34:29
  I
• 34:29
  feel
• 34:29
  like
• 34:30
  I
• 34:30
  was
• 34:30
  an
• 34:30
  enforcer.
• 34:32
  Right?
• 34:32
  Like,
• 34:32
  I
• 34:33
  did
• 34:33
  not
• 34:34
  mess
• 34:34
  around.
• 34:35
  I
• 34:35
  don't
• 34:36
  remember
• 34:36
  stepping
• 34:36
  into
• 34:37
  arguments
• 34:38
  you
• 34:38
  were
• 34:38
  ever
• 34:38
  having
• 34:38
  with
• 34:39
  kids
• 34:39
  or
• 34:40
  when
• 34:41
  you
• 34:41
  got
• 34:41
  into
• 34:41
  any
• 34:42
  trouble.
• 34:42
  I
• 34:42
  don't
• 34:42
  remember
• 34:43
  stepping
• 34:43
  in
• 34:43
  to
• 34:44
  try
• 34:44
  to
• 34:45
  resolve
• 34:45
  it
• 34:46
  for
• 34:46
  you.
• 34:48
  You
• 34:48
  were
• 34:49
  tough.
• 34:49
  You.
• 34:49
  You
• 34:50
  were
• 34:50
  a
• 34:50
  pretty
• 34:50
  tough
• 34:50
  kid.
• 34:51
  And.
• 34:52
  Yeah,
• 34:53
  I
• 34:53
  mean,
• 34:53
  I
• 34:53
  remember
• 34:54
  one
• 34:54
  time
• 34:54
  I.
• 34:55
  I
• 34:56
  noticed
• 34:56
  that
• 34:56
  you.
• 34:57
  You
• 34:58
  were
• 34:58
  taking
• 34:58
  your
• 34:59
  hockey
• 34:59
  stick
• 34:59
  to
• 35:00
  school,
• 35:01
  and
• 35:02
  I
• 35:02
  was
• 35:02
  wondering
• 35:03
  why,
• 35:03
  like,
• 35:03
  were
• 35:04
  you
• 35:04
  playing
• 35:04
  hockey?
• 35:04
  Did
• 35:05
  I
• 35:05
  not
• 35:05
  know
• 35:05
  what
• 35:06
  was
• 35:06
  going
• 35:06
  on?
• 35:06
  And
• 35:07
  then
• 35:07
  that
• 35:07
  one
• 35:08
  day
• 35:08
  I
• 35:08
  was
• 35:08
  read
• 35:09
  in
• 35:09
  your
• 35:09
  room,
• 35:09
  and
• 35:10
  you
• 35:10
  left
• 35:10
  your
• 35:10
  diary
• 35:10
  open,
• 35:11
  maybe
• 35:11
  on
• 35:11
  purpose,
• 35:12
  I
• 35:12
  don't
• 35:12
  know,
• 35:12
  but
• 35:13
  probably
• 35:13
  not.
• 35:14
  You
• 35:14
  were
• 35:14
  snooping.
• 35:14
  I
• 35:15
  was
• 35:15
  snooping.
• 35:15
  And
• 35:16
  I
• 35:16
  read
• 35:17
  that
• 35:17
  the
• 35:17
  kids
• 35:18
  at
• 35:18
  school
• 35:18
  were
• 35:18
  ganging
• 35:19
  up
• 35:19
  on
• 35:19
  you
• 35:19
  and
• 35:20
  that
• 35:20
  they
• 35:20
  were
• 35:20
  gonna
• 35:20
  beat
• 35:21
  you
• 35:21
  up
• 35:21
  after
• 35:21
  school,
• 35:23
  and
• 35:23
  that
• 35:23
  was
• 35:23
  why
• 35:24
  you
• 35:24
  were
• 35:24
  bringing
• 35:24
  your
• 35:24
  hockey
• 35:25
  stick.
• 35:25
  And
• 35:25
  then
• 35:26
  that's
• 35:26
  when
• 35:26
  I
• 35:26
  did
• 35:27
  step
• 35:27
  in.
• 35:28
  And
• 35:28
  I
• 35:28
  said,
• 35:29
  is
• 35:29
  this
• 35:29
  true?
• 35:30
  Do
• 35:30
  you
• 35:30
  remember
• 35:30
  that?
• 35:31
  Vaguely.
• 35:32
  Yeah.
• 35:34
  I
• 35:34
  wonder
• 35:34
  why
• 35:34
  they
• 35:35
  were
• 35:35
  gonna
• 35:35
  beat
• 35:35
  me
• 35:35
  up.
• 35:36
  I
• 35:36
  can't
• 35:36
  remember.
• 35:37
  It
• 35:37
  was.
• 35:37
  It
• 35:37
  was
• 35:38
  at
• 35:39
  Nest.
• 35:40
  Nest.
• 35:41
  Remember
• 35:41
  the
• 35:42
  school?
• 35:42
  Everyone
• 35:42
  wants
• 35:43
  their
• 35:43
  kids.
• 35:44
  Everyone
• 35:44
  in
• 35:44
  New
• 35:44
  York.
• 35:46
  Because
• 35:46
  I
• 35:46
  went
• 35:46
  there,
• 35:47
  and
• 35:47
  I'll
• 35:47
  tell
• 35:47
  you.
• 35:47
  I
• 35:48
  mean,
• 35:48
  I
• 35:49
  don't
• 35:49
  know
• 35:49
  what
• 35:49
  was
• 35:49
  so
• 35:49
  special
• 35:50
  about
• 35:50
  it.
• 35:50
  Well,
• 35:51
  it
• 35:51
  Was.
• 35:52
  That's
• 35:52
  for
• 35:53
  them
• 35:53
  to
• 35:53
  figure
• 35:54
  out.
• 35:54
  Right,
• 35:55
  right.
• 35:55
  But.
• 35:55
  But
• 35:56
  the
• 35:56
  idea
• 35:56
  is
• 35:56
  don't
• 35:57
  try
• 35:57
  to
• 35:57
  control
• 35:57
  everything
• 35:58
  with.
• 35:59
  Because
• 35:59
  you
• 35:59
  can't,
• 36:00
  is
• 36:00
  what
• 36:01
  she's
• 36:01
  essentially
• 36:01
  saying.
• 36:02
  And
• 36:02
  what
• 36:02
  you
• 36:02
  want
• 36:03
  to
• 36:03
  do
• 36:03
  is.
• 36:03
  And
• 36:04
  I.
• 36:04
  Problem
• 36:04
  solved.
• 36:05
  I
• 36:05
  brought
• 36:05
  a
• 36:05
  hobby.
• 36:06
  Solved.
• 36:06
  In
• 36:06
  case
• 36:06
  you
• 36:07
  were.
• 36:07
  You
• 36:07
  were
• 36:07
  problem
• 36:08
  solving
• 36:08
  on
• 36:08
  your
• 36:09
  own,
• 36:09
  which
• 36:09
  I
• 36:09
  thought
• 36:09
  was.
• 36:10
  Which
• 36:10
  was
• 36:10
  good.
• 36:10
  Yeah.
• 36:11
  But
• 36:12
  anyway,
• 36:12
  the
• 36:12
  goal
• 36:12
  is
• 36:13
  we
• 36:13
  want
• 36:13
  to
• 36:13
  raise
• 36:13
  kids
• 36:14
  who
• 36:14
  can
• 36:14
  function
• 36:14
  on
• 36:15
  their
• 36:15
  own
• 36:15
  and
• 36:15
  solve
• 36:16
  their
• 36:16
  own
• 36:16
  problems.
• 36:17
  Right?
• 36:17
  Yes.
• 36:19
  Okay.
• 36:19
  And
• 36:19
  then
• 36:20
  her
• 36:20
  next
• 36:22
  commandment.
• 36:22
  Commandment
• 36:23
  relax.
• 36:25
  You
• 36:25
  have
• 36:25
  less
• 36:25
  impact
• 36:26
  on
• 36:26
  your
• 36:26
  kid
• 36:26
  than
• 36:26
  you
• 36:27
  think,
• 36:28
  which
• 36:28
  is
• 36:28
  really
• 36:28
  sad.
• 36:29
  Sad.
• 36:29
  Right.
• 36:31
  Most
• 36:31
  of
• 36:31
  the
• 36:31
  things
• 36:31
  you
• 36:31
  worry
• 36:32
  about
• 36:32
  aren't
• 36:33
  gonna
• 36:33
  make
• 36:33
  any
• 36:33
  difference
• 36:34
  at
• 36:34
  all.
• 36:35
  There's
• 36:35
  no
• 36:35
  one
• 36:36
  right
• 36:36
  way
• 36:36
  to
• 36:36
  raise
• 36:37
  your
• 36:37
  child.
• 36:38
  So
• 36:38
  if
• 36:38
  you
• 36:38
  do
• 36:38
  this,
• 36:39
  there
• 36:39
  are
• 36:39
  many
• 36:40
  wrong
• 36:40
  ways.
• 36:40
  Well,
• 36:41
  probably,
• 36:41
  yes.
• 36:42
  Right,
• 36:42
  Right,
• 36:42
  right.
• 36:44
  It's
• 36:44
  like.
• 36:45
  But
• 36:45
  I
• 36:45
  was
• 36:46
  as
• 36:46
  a
• 36:46
  worrier
• 36:47
  myself.
• 36:48
  I
• 36:48
  can't
• 36:49
  even
• 36:49
  imagine
• 36:49
  relaxing
• 36:50
  when
• 36:50
  it
• 36:50
  comes
• 36:50
  to.
• 36:51
  To
• 36:51
  raising
• 36:51
  my
• 36:52
  kids.
• 36:52
  Yeah,
• 36:52
  no,
• 36:53
  you
• 36:53
  were
• 36:53
  not
• 36:53
  relaxed.
• 36:54
  You
• 36:54
  were
• 36:54
  not
• 36:54
  chill.
• 36:55
  Uh,
• 36:55
  I
• 36:55
  worry
• 36:56
  about
• 36:56
  everything,
• 36:56
  and
• 36:56
  I
• 36:57
  am
• 36:57
  just
• 36:57
  a
• 36:57
  worrier.
• 36:58
  And
• 36:58
  I
• 36:58
  think
• 36:58
  a
• 36:58
  lot
• 36:58
  of
• 36:58
  it
• 36:58
  has
• 36:59
  to
• 36:59
  do
• 36:59
  with
• 36:59
  who
• 36:59
  you
• 36:59
  are
• 37:00
  as
• 37:00
  a
• 37:00
  parent.
• 37:01
  If
• 37:01
  you
• 37:01
  are
• 37:01
  a
• 37:02
  worrier.
• 37:03
  You
• 37:03
  know
• 37:04
  what
• 37:04
  she
• 37:04
  is
• 37:05
  saying
• 37:05
  is
• 37:05
  let
• 37:06
  it
• 37:06
  go.
• 37:07
  Like,
• 37:07
  you
• 37:07
  know,
• 37:07
  just.
• 37:08
  Just
• 37:08
  let
• 37:08
  it
• 37:08
  go.
• 37:08
  You
• 37:09
  don't
• 37:09
  have
• 37:09
  to
• 37:09
  obsess
• 37:09
  about
• 37:10
  everything.
• 37:11
  Your
• 37:11
  child
• 37:11
  is
• 37:12
  gonna
• 37:12
  be
• 37:12
  okay
• 37:13
  no
• 37:13
  matter
• 37:13
  what.
• 37:14
  Even
• 37:14
  we
• 37:15
  do
• 37:15
  obsess
• 37:15
  about
• 37:16
  so
• 37:16
  many
• 37:16
  things.
• 37:16
  Yeah.
• 37:17
  Oh,
• 37:17
  for
• 37:17
  sure.
• 37:18
  I
• 37:18
  mean,
• 37:18
  I
• 37:18
  feel
• 37:18
  like
• 37:18
  everybody
• 37:19
  is
• 37:19
  obsessed.
• 37:19
  Obsessed
• 37:20
  with
• 37:20
  getting
• 37:20
  their
• 37:20
  child
• 37:21
  on
• 37:21
  the
• 37:21
  right
• 37:21
  path,
• 37:22
  which
• 37:22
  is
• 37:22
  why
• 37:22
  they
• 37:22
  just.
• 37:23
  When
• 37:23
  they're
• 37:23
  so
• 37:23
  little,
• 37:24
  they
• 37:25
  just
• 37:25
  wanted
• 37:25
  to.
• 37:25
  They
• 37:25
  want
• 37:26
  to
• 37:26
  do
• 37:26
  everything
• 37:26
  they
• 37:27
  want
• 37:27
  to
• 37:27
  do
• 37:27
  so
• 37:28
  much.
• 37:28
  Because
• 37:28
  there's
• 37:28
  this
• 37:29
  idea
• 37:29
  that,
• 37:29
  like,
• 37:30
  if
• 37:30
  your
• 37:30
  child
• 37:30
  takes
• 37:31
  one
• 37:31
  wrong
• 37:31
  turn
• 37:32
  when
• 37:32
  they're
• 37:32
  five
• 37:33
  years
• 37:33
  old,
• 37:33
  they're
• 37:34
  off
• 37:34
  track
• 37:34
  for
• 37:34
  the
• 37:34
  rest
• 37:35
  of
• 37:35
  their
• 37:35
  life.
• 37:35
  And
• 37:35
  that's
• 37:36
  not
• 37:36
  true.
• 37:37
  No.
• 37:37
  That
• 37:37
  you
• 37:38
  can
• 37:38
  course
• 37:38
  correct.
• 37:38
  It
• 37:39
  can.
• 37:39
  There's
• 37:39
  lots
• 37:40
  of
• 37:40
  course
• 37:40
  correct
• 37:41
  corrections
• 37:42
  you
• 37:42
  can
• 37:42
  make.
• 37:42
  Absolutely.
• 37:43
  For
• 37:44
  sure.
• 37:45
  Like
• 37:45
  getting
• 37:46
  your
• 37:46
  child
• 37:46
  into
• 37:46
  the
• 37:46
  right
• 37:47
  school
• 37:47
  starting
• 37:48
  at
• 37:48
  such
• 37:48
  an
• 37:49
  early
• 37:49
  age.
• 37:49
  Yeah.
• 37:52
  And
• 37:52
  I
• 37:52
  guess
• 37:52
  it
• 37:53
  sort
• 37:53
  of
• 37:53
  depends
• 37:53
  what
• 37:53
  are
• 37:54
  your
• 37:54
  goals
• 37:54
  for
• 37:54
  your
• 37:54
  child?
• 37:55
  But
• 37:55
  then
• 37:55
  you
• 37:56
  have
• 37:56
  to
• 37:56
  get
• 37:56
  to
• 37:56
  know
• 37:56
  your
• 37:56
  child
• 37:57
  and
• 37:57
  see,
• 37:58
  are
• 37:58
  my
• 37:58
  goals
• 37:59
  for
• 37:59
  my
• 37:59
  child
• 37:59
  realistic?
• 38:01
  Right.
• 38:01
  Exactly.
• 38:02
  And
• 38:02
  do
• 38:02
  I
• 38:02
  want
• 38:03
  for
• 38:03
  them
• 38:03
  what
• 38:03
  they
• 38:03
  want
• 38:04
  for
• 38:04
  themselves,
• 38:05
  especially
• 38:05
  as
• 38:05
  they
• 38:05
  start
• 38:06
  to
• 38:06
  get
• 38:06
  older?
• 38:07
  Like,
• 38:07
  you
• 38:07
  didn't
• 38:08
  probably
• 38:08
  want
• 38:08
  me
• 38:09
  to
• 38:09
  go
• 38:09
  to
• 38:09
  the
• 38:09
  circus,
• 38:10
  but
• 38:10
  to
• 38:10
  the
• 38:10
  circus
• 38:10
  I
• 38:11
  went.
• 38:11
  That's
• 38:11
  true.
• 38:12
  I
• 38:12
  did
• 38:12
  not
• 38:13
  want
• 38:13
  you.
• 38:13
  I
• 38:13
  was
• 38:14
  afraid.
• 38:14
  And
• 38:15
  they
• 38:15
  made
• 38:15
  you
• 38:15
  perform
• 38:16
  without
• 38:16
  a
• 38:16
  net,
• 38:17
  which
• 38:18
  scared
• 38:18
  the
• 38:18
  heck
• 38:19
  out
• 38:19
  of
• 38:19
  me.
• 38:19
  When
• 38:20
  you
• 38:20
  were
• 38:20
  doing
• 38:20
  that
• 38:20
  you
• 38:21
  were.
• 38:21
  You
• 38:21
  were
• 38:21
  doing.
• 38:22
  I
• 38:22
  think
• 38:22
  I
• 38:23
  couldn't
• 38:23
  get
• 38:23
  special
• 38:23
  treatment.
• 38:24
  That's
• 38:24
  right.
• 38:24
  In
• 38:25
  the
• 38:25
  circus.
• 38:25
  Right.
• 38:26
  You
• 38:26
  were
• 38:26
  doing
• 38:26
  that
• 38:26
  thing
• 38:27
  that
• 38:27
  pink
• 38:27
  does.
• 38:27
  What
• 38:28
  do
• 38:28
  you
• 38:28
  call
• 38:28
  those?
• 38:28
  Silks.
• 38:29
  Yes.
• 38:29
  And
• 38:29
  you
• 38:29
  were.
• 38:30
  You
• 38:30
  were
• 38:31
  way
• 38:31
  up
• 38:31
  in
• 38:31
  the
• 38:31
  air.
• 38:32
  There
• 38:32
  was
• 38:32
  nothing
• 38:33
  to
• 38:33
  catch
• 38:33
  you.
• 38:34
  I'm
• 38:34
  like,
• 38:34
  what?
• 38:35
  You
• 38:35
  know,
• 38:35
  there's
• 38:36
  a
• 38:36
  concrete
• 38:36
  floor,
• 38:37
  but
• 38:37
  there
• 38:37
  you
• 38:37
  were.
• 38:38
  I
• 38:38
  mean,
• 38:38
  that's
• 38:38
  showbiz,
• 38:39
  baby.
• 38:39
  Yeah.
• 38:40
  But
• 38:40
  I
• 38:40
  did
• 38:41
  let
• 38:41
  you
• 38:41
  do
• 38:41
  it,
• 38:42
  didn't
• 38:42
  I?
• 38:42
  Yeah.
• 38:43
  And
• 38:43
  I
• 38:43
  didn't
• 38:43
  get
• 38:43
  a.
• 38:44
  No,
• 38:44
  you
• 38:45
  didn't.
• 38:45
  That
• 38:45
  was
• 38:45
  true.
• 38:46
  I.
• 38:46
  We
• 38:46
  did
• 38:47
  it.
• 38:47
  It
• 38:47
  was
• 38:47
  okay.
• 38:47
  That
• 38:48
  was
• 38:48
  like
• 38:48
  the
• 38:48
  reverse
• 38:48
  of
• 38:49
  a
• 38:49
  close
• 38:49
  call.
• 38:50
  Yeah.
• 38:50
  It
• 38:50
  was
• 38:50
  like
• 38:51
  you
• 38:52
  were
• 38:52
  expecting
• 38:52
  me
• 38:52
  to
• 38:53
  fall
• 38:53
  40ft
• 38:53
  to
• 38:54
  my
• 38:54
  death.
• 38:54
  And
• 38:54
  I
• 38:54
  did
• 38:55
  not.
• 38:55
  So
• 38:56
  that
• 38:56
  was
• 38:56
  good.
• 38:56
  That
• 38:56
  was
• 38:57
  good.
• 38:57
  Okay.
• 38:58
  She
• 38:58
  says,
• 38:59
  let
• 38:59
  your
• 38:59
  child
• 38:59
  fail
• 39:00
  because
• 39:01
  kids
• 39:01
  learn
• 39:01
  from
• 39:01
  failure.
• 39:02
  And
• 39:03
  teach
• 39:03
  your
• 39:03
  child
• 39:04
  the
• 39:04
  growth
• 39:05
  mindset
• 39:05
  from
• 39:06
  Carol
• 39:06
  Dweck.
• 39:07
  She.
• 39:07
  Which.
• 39:08
  That's
• 39:09
  so
• 39:09
  big
• 39:09
  now
• 39:09
  is.
• 39:10
  Which
• 39:10
  is.
• 39:10
  It
• 39:10
  should
• 39:11
  be.
• 39:11
  You
• 39:12
  know,
• 39:12
  teach
• 39:12
  your
• 39:12
  child
• 39:13
  that.
• 39:13
  You
• 39:13
  know,
• 39:14
  it's
• 39:14
  okay
• 39:15
  if
• 39:15
  you
• 39:15
  can't
• 39:16
  do
• 39:16
  something.
• 39:16
  Well,
• 39:17
  that's
• 39:17
  fine.
• 39:18
  Keep
• 39:18
  at
• 39:18
  it.
• 39:19
  You'll
• 39:19
  get
• 39:19
  better
• 39:19
  at
• 39:19
  it.
• 39:20
  Or
• 39:21
  know
• 39:21
  when
• 39:21
  to
• 39:21
  quit
• 39:22
  and
• 39:22
  find
• 39:23
  something
• 39:23
  you're
• 39:23
  better
• 39:23
  at.
• 39:24
  That's
• 39:24
  true.
• 39:24
  Work
• 39:25
  smart,
• 39:25
  not
• 39:25
  hard.
• 39:26
  Or
• 39:26
  both.
• 39:27
  Yeah.
• 39:28
  Yeah.
• 39:28
  No,
• 39:28
  I
• 39:28
  think
• 39:29
  it's
• 39:29
  okay
• 39:29
  to
• 39:29
  let
• 39:30
  a
• 39:30
  child
• 39:30
  quit
• 39:30
  something
• 39:31
  if
• 39:31
  you
• 39:32
  really
• 39:32
  don't
• 39:32
  like
• 39:32
  it.
• 39:33
  Yeah.
• 39:34
  Yeah.
• 39:34
  Like,
• 39:35
  lots
• 39:35
  of
• 39:35
  parents
• 39:35
  are
• 39:36
  like,
• 39:36
  well,
• 39:36
  if
• 39:36
  you,
• 39:36
  you
• 39:37
  know,
• 39:37
  signed
• 39:37
  up
• 39:37
  for
• 39:37
  it,
• 39:38
  stay
• 39:38
  with
• 39:38
  it.
• 39:39
  But,
• 39:39
  you
• 39:39
  know,
• 39:39
  even
• 39:39
  if
• 39:40
  you
• 39:40
  hate
• 39:40
  it.
• 39:40
  But
• 39:41
  I
• 39:41
  don't
• 39:41
  think
• 39:41
  that's
• 39:41
  necessarily
• 39:42
  true.
• 39:42
  Me
• 39:43
  either.
• 39:43
  I
• 39:43
  think
• 39:43
  it's,
• 39:43
  like,
• 39:44
  a
• 39:44
  waste
• 39:44
  of.
• 39:46
  Right.
• 39:46
  Although,
• 39:47
  if
• 39:47
  you.
• 39:47
  If,
• 39:47
  as
• 39:48
  a
• 39:48
  parent,
• 39:48
  I've
• 39:48
  spent
• 39:48
  a
• 39:49
  lot
• 39:49
  of
• 39:49
  money
• 39:49
  for
• 39:49
  you
• 39:50
  to
• 39:50
  take
• 39:50
  a
• 39:50
  class
• 39:51
  because
• 39:51
  you
• 39:52
  begged
• 39:52
  me
• 39:52
  to
• 39:53
  let
• 39:53
  you
• 39:53
  take
• 39:53
  that
• 39:53
  class,
• 39:54
  and
• 39:54
  then
• 39:54
  you're
• 39:54
  ready
• 39:55
  to
• 39:55
  quit
• 39:55
  after
• 39:55
  three
• 39:56
  times.
• 39:56
  I
• 39:56
  probably
• 39:57
  would
• 39:57
  not
• 39:57
  let
• 39:57
  you
• 39:57
  do
• 39:58
  that.
• 39:58
  Yeah.
• 39:59
  Have
• 39:59
  more
• 40:00
  respect
• 40:00
  for
• 40:00
  the
• 40:01
  money
• 40:01
  I
• 40:01
  earned
• 40:01
  to
• 40:02
  send
• 40:02
  you
• 40:02
  to
• 40:02
  this
• 40:02
  thing.
• 40:03
  Yeah.
• 40:03
  Because
• 40:03
  kids
• 40:04
  have
• 40:04
  such
• 40:04
  a
• 40:04
  strong
• 40:04
  understanding
• 40:05
  of
• 40:05
  money.
• 40:06
  Right.
• 40:06
  Exactly.
• 40:08
  Right.
• 40:10
  Okay.
• 40:11
  Oh,
• 40:11
  okay.
• 40:12
  Another
• 40:12
  big
• 40:13
  commandment.
• 40:14
  Make
• 40:14
  your
• 40:14
  kids
• 40:15
  play.
• 40:16
  And
• 40:17
  which
• 40:17
  is
• 40:18
  Absolutely.
• 40:18
  I'm
• 40:18
  100%
• 40:19
  behind
• 40:19
  this.
• 40:20
  Kids.
• 40:21
  Play
• 40:21
  is
• 40:21
  so
• 40:21
  important
• 40:22
  for
• 40:22
  children.
• 40:23
  It
• 40:23
  builds
• 40:24
  their
• 40:24
  creativity.
• 40:25
  It
• 40:25
  builds
• 40:25
  their
• 40:25
  confidence,
• 40:27
  cognitive
• 40:28
  skills,
• 40:28
  leadership.
• 40:29
  It
• 40:29
  builds
• 40:30
  so
• 40:30
  much.
• 40:30
  And
• 40:31
  just
• 40:31
  stay
• 40:31
  out
• 40:31
  of
• 40:32
  it
• 40:32
  as
• 40:32
  adults.
• 40:32
  Just
• 40:33
  let
• 40:33
  them
• 40:33
  play
• 40:34
  and
• 40:34
  do
• 40:34
  whatever
• 40:35
  they
• 40:35
  want
• 40:35
  to
• 40:35
  do,
• 40:36
  which
• 40:36
  is
• 40:36
  great,
• 40:36
  because
• 40:37
  then
• 40:37
  it
• 40:37
  gives
• 40:37
  you
• 40:37
  more
• 40:37
  time
• 40:38
  to
• 40:38
  do
• 40:38
  something
• 40:38
  for
• 40:38
  yourself.
• 40:39
  Dare
• 40:40
  to
• 40:40
  dream.
• 40:41
  Exactly.
• 40:42
  I
• 40:42
  can't
• 40:42
  take
• 40:42
  a
• 40:42
  shower
• 40:43
  without
• 40:43
  getting
• 40:43
  interrupted
• 40:44
  these
• 40:44
  days.
• 40:45
  I
• 40:45
  know.
• 40:46
  I
• 40:46
  know,
• 40:46
  but.
• 40:46
  And
• 40:47
  believe
• 40:47
  me,
• 40:47
  that'll.
• 40:48
  It'll
• 40:48
  be
• 40:48
  a
• 40:48
  while.
• 40:48
  Before
• 40:48
  you
• 40:49
  can.
• 40:49
  But
• 40:50
  anyway,
• 40:51
  so.
• 40:52
  But
• 40:52
  yeah,
• 40:52
  let
• 40:52
  them
• 40:53
  play.
• 40:53
  And
• 40:53
  then
• 40:54
  listen
• 40:54
  to
• 40:54
  your
• 40:54
  kids
• 40:55
  when
• 40:55
  they
• 40:55
  do
• 40:55
  ask
• 40:56
  for
• 40:56
  independence.
• 40:57
  When
• 40:57
  they're
• 40:57
  asking
• 40:58
  you,
• 40:58
  can
• 40:58
  I
• 40:58
  go
• 40:58
  to
• 40:59
  the
• 40:59
  corner?
• 41:00
  Rather
• 41:00
  than
• 41:00
  being
• 41:01
  instilling
• 41:02
  fear
• 41:02
  in
• 41:02
  them,
• 41:03
  you
• 41:03
  know,
• 41:03
  and
• 41:04
  saying,
• 41:04
  oh,
• 41:04
  no,
• 41:04
  you
• 41:04
  can't,
• 41:05
  because
• 41:05
  you're
• 41:05
  going
• 41:05
  to
• 41:05
  be
• 41:05
  snatched.
• 41:06
  It's
• 41:06
  too
• 41:07
  dangerous.
• 41:07
  Don't
• 41:07
  get
• 41:08
  snatched.
• 41:08
  I
• 41:08
  don't
• 41:08
  want
• 41:08
  you
• 41:09
  to
• 41:09
  get
• 41:09
  snatched.
• 41:09
  And
• 41:10
  by
• 41:10
  the
• 41:10
  way,
• 41:10
  she
• 41:10
  says,
• 41:11
  never
• 41:11
  give
• 41:11
  kids
• 41:12
  advice
• 41:12
  like.
• 41:13
  Like
• 41:13
  don't
• 41:13
  talk
• 41:14
  to
• 41:14
  a
• 41:14
  stranger,
• 41:15
  which
• 41:15
  I
• 41:15
  think
• 41:15
  will
• 41:16
  actually,
• 41:16
  she's
• 41:17
  saying
• 41:17
  that's
• 41:17
  not
• 41:17
  the
• 41:18
  advice
• 41:18
  to
• 41:18
  give.
• 41:19
  The
• 41:19
  advice
• 41:20
  to
• 41:20
  give
• 41:20
  is
• 41:20
  don't
• 41:21
  go
• 41:21
  off
• 41:21
  with
• 41:21
  a
• 41:21
  stranger.
• 41:22
  Yeah.
• 41:22
  It's
• 41:23
  teaching
• 41:23
  kids
• 41:23
  that
• 41:23
  they
• 41:24
  don't
• 41:24
  need
• 41:24
  to
• 41:24
  fear
• 41:25
  every
• 41:25
  adult
• 41:25
  everywhere.
• 41:26
  You
• 41:27
  know,
• 41:27
  that
• 41:27
  actually,
• 41:28
  in
• 41:28
  a
• 41:28
  situation
• 41:28
  where
• 41:29
  something
• 41:29
  bad
• 41:29
  is
• 41:29
  going
• 41:30
  on,
• 41:30
  it's
• 41:30
  important
• 41:31
  to
• 41:31
  understand
• 41:32
  you
• 41:32
  can
• 41:33
  go
• 41:33
  to
• 41:33
  other
• 41:33
  adults
• 41:34
  for
• 41:34
  help
• 41:36
  and
• 41:36
  your
• 41:36
  first.
• 41:36
  Choice
• 41:37
  is
• 41:37
  another
• 41:37
  mother.
• 41:38
  If
• 41:38
  you
• 41:38
  see
• 41:38
  a
• 41:38
  mother
• 41:39
  with
• 41:39
  kids,
• 41:40
  most
• 41:41
  likely
• 41:41
  that
• 41:41
  person
• 41:42
  is
• 41:42
  the
• 41:42
  person
• 41:42
  who's
• 41:43
  gonna
• 41:43
  help
• 41:43
  you.
• 41:43
  Yeah.
• 41:44
  Also,
• 41:44
  ye.
• 41:45
  Again,
• 41:45
  because
• 41:45
  a
• 41:45
  mother.
• 41:46
  Least
• 41:46
  threatening
• 41:47
  presence,
• 41:47
  Especially
• 41:48
  if
• 41:48
  they're
• 41:48
  with
• 41:48
  kids.
• 41:49
  Yeah.
• 41:50
  Not
• 41:50
  that
• 41:50
  you
• 41:50
  would
• 41:50
  know
• 41:50
  necessarily
• 41:51
  that
• 41:51
  someone
• 41:51
  was
• 41:52
  a
• 41:52
  mother
• 41:53
  to
• 41:53
  have
• 41:53
  their
• 41:53
  kids
• 41:54
  with
• 41:54
  them.
• 41:54
  Although
• 41:55
  some
• 41:55
  people,
• 41:55
  I
• 41:55
  feel
• 41:55
  like
• 41:56
  you.
• 41:56
  Can
• 41:56
  assume
• 41:56
  mother
• 41:57
  vibes.
• 41:57
  Mother
• 41:58
  vibes.
• 41:58
  Yeah.
• 41:58
  You
• 41:59
  know,
• 42:00
  I
• 42:00
  get
• 42:00
  that.
• 42:00
  I
• 42:01
  get
• 42:01
  that.
• 42:01
  Yeah.
• 42:02
  Okay.
• 42:03
  Let
• 42:03
  your
• 42:03
  kids
• 42:04
  do
• 42:04
  what
• 42:05
  they
• 42:05
  love.
• 42:06
  If.
• 42:07
  If
• 42:07
  they're,
• 42:07
  like,
• 42:08
  doing
• 42:08
  something
• 42:08
  that
• 42:09
  you
• 42:09
  don't
• 42:09
  think
• 42:09
  is
• 42:09
  good
• 42:10
  for
• 42:10
  them
• 42:10
  because
• 42:10
  they're
• 42:10
  not,
• 42:11
  like,
• 42:11
  working
• 42:11
  on
• 42:11
  their
• 42:12
  academics
• 42:12
  or
• 42:13
  working
• 42:13
  on
• 42:14
  their
• 42:14
  hobby
• 42:14
  that
• 42:15
  they
• 42:15
  hope.
• 42:15
  That
• 42:15
  you
• 42:16
  hope
• 42:16
  gets
• 42:16
  them
• 42:16
  a
• 42:17
  scholarship
• 42:17
  someday
• 42:18
  to
• 42:18
  college.
• 42:19
  But
• 42:19
  if
• 42:19
  there's
• 42:20
  something
• 42:20
  they
• 42:20
  really
• 42:20
  love.
• 42:21
  Butterfly
• 42:21
  collecting.
• 42:22
  I
• 42:22
  don't
• 42:22
  know.
• 42:23
  I
• 42:23
  don't
• 42:24
  know.
• 42:24
  What
• 42:24
  do
• 42:24
  kids.
• 42:26
  Well,
• 42:26
  I
• 42:26
  don't
• 42:26
  know.
• 42:27
  There's
• 42:27
  something
• 42:28
  they
• 42:28
  really
• 42:28
  love
• 42:28
  doing.
• 42:29
  Just
• 42:29
  let
• 42:29
  them
• 42:29
  do
• 42:30
  it.
• 42:30
  Because
• 42:31
  what
• 42:31
  she
• 42:31
  says
• 42:32
  is
• 42:32
  so
• 42:32
  often
• 42:32
  what
• 42:33
  you
• 42:33
  love
• 42:33
  as
• 42:33
  a
• 42:34
  child
• 42:34
  turns
• 42:35
  into
• 42:35
  the
• 42:35
  kernel
• 42:36
  of
• 42:36
  what
• 42:36
  you
• 42:36
  end
• 42:36
  up
• 42:37
  doing
• 42:37
  as
• 42:37
  an
• 42:37
  adult.
• 42:38
  Would
• 42:39
  you
• 42:39
  say
• 42:39
  that's
• 42:39
  true?
• 42:40
  Yeah,
• 42:40
  absolutely.
• 42:41
  I
• 42:41
  mean,
• 42:41
  I
• 42:41
  liked
• 42:42
  performing
• 42:43
  as
• 42:43
  a
• 42:43
  kid,
• 42:44
  and
• 42:45
  I
• 42:45
  think
• 42:46
  conservatory
• 42:47
  felt
• 42:47
  like
• 42:47
  the
• 42:47
  natural
• 42:48
  next
• 42:48
  step
• 42:48
  for
• 42:48
  me
• 42:49
  when
• 42:49
  I
• 42:49
  graduated
• 42:50
  high
• 42:50
  school.
• 42:51
  By
• 42:51
  the
• 42:51
  skin
• 42:52
  of
• 42:52
  my
• 42:52
  teeth.
• 42:53
  That's
• 42:53
  right.
• 42:53
  It
• 42:54
  really
• 42:54
  was.
• 42:55
  It
• 42:55
  was.
• 42:55
  I
• 42:55
  barely
• 42:56
  graduated
• 42:57
  if
• 42:57
  it
• 42:57
  was
• 42:57
  like,
• 42:58
  I
• 42:58
  was
• 42:58
  like
• 42:59
  1%
• 42:59
  away.
• 43:00
  But
• 43:00
  I
• 43:00
  think
• 43:00
  it
• 43:00
  came
• 43:00
  down
• 43:01
  to
• 43:01
  the
• 43:01
  school
• 43:01
  just
• 43:01
  not
• 43:02
  wanting
• 43:02
  to
• 43:02
  see
• 43:02
  me
• 43:02
  ever
• 43:02
  again.
• 43:03
  So
• 43:03
  we're
• 43:03
  gonna
• 43:04
  pass
• 43:04
  you
• 43:04
  so
• 43:04
  that
• 43:04
  you
• 43:04
  go
• 43:05
  away
• 43:05
  from
• 43:05
  it.
• 43:05
  You
• 43:05
  can
• 43:05
  leave.
• 43:06
  Right.
• 43:06
  Although
• 43:07
  you
• 43:07
  can
• 43:07
  leave.
• 43:08
  I
• 43:09
  used
• 43:09
  to
• 43:09
  wonder.
• 43:09
  Yeah.
• 43:10
  Cause,
• 43:10
  you
• 43:10
  know,
• 43:10
  you
• 43:10
  had
• 43:11
  a
• 43:11
  lot
• 43:11
  of
• 43:11
  learning
• 43:11
  issues
• 43:12
  and
• 43:12
  you
• 43:13
  struggled
• 43:13
  a
• 43:13
  lot.
• 43:13
  I
• 43:14
  still
• 43:14
  do.
• 43:14
  Well,
• 43:15
  you
• 43:16
  and
• 43:16
  yet
• 43:16
  it's
• 43:17
  not
• 43:17
  holding
• 43:17
  you
• 43:17
  back
• 43:17
  in
• 43:18
  life.
• 43:19
  That's
• 43:19
  the
• 43:19
  thing.
• 43:19
  It's
• 43:20
  interesting.
• 43:20
  I
• 43:20
  mean,
• 43:21
  that's
• 43:21
  not
• 43:21
  what
• 43:22
  this
• 43:22
  book
• 43:22
  exactly
• 43:23
  is
• 43:23
  about.
• 43:23
  But
• 43:23
  it's
• 43:24
  like
• 43:24
  when
• 43:24
  she
• 43:24
  talks
• 43:25
  about
• 43:25
  how
• 43:25
  you
• 43:26
  worry
• 43:26
  about
• 43:27
  so
• 43:27
  many
• 43:27
  things.
• 43:27
  I
• 43:28
  mean,
• 43:28
  I
• 43:28
  used
• 43:28
  to
• 43:28
  worry
• 43:29
  so
• 43:29
  much.
• 43:29
  Will
• 43:30
  this
• 43:30
  child
• 43:30
  ever
• 43:30
  get
• 43:31
  out
• 43:31
  of
• 43:31
  high
• 43:31
  school?
• 43:32
  How
• 43:32
  am
• 43:32
  I
• 43:33
  gonna
• 43:33
  get
• 43:33
  her
• 43:33
  out
• 43:33
  of
• 43:33
  high
• 43:33
  school?
• 43:34
  And
• 43:35
  I
• 43:35
  was
• 43:35
  doing
• 43:36
  everything
• 43:36
  I
• 43:36
  could
• 43:37
  to
• 43:37
  get
• 43:37
  you
• 43:37
  through
• 43:37
  school.
• 43:37
  I
• 43:38
  felt
• 43:38
  like
• 43:38
  once
• 43:39
  I
• 43:39
  get
• 43:40
  you
• 43:40
  through
• 43:40
  school,
• 43:40
  I
• 43:40
  could
• 43:40
  launch
• 43:41
  you
• 43:41
  and
• 43:42
  you'd
• 43:42
  be
• 43:42
  okay.
• 43:43
  And
• 43:43
  I
• 43:43
  think
• 43:44
  that's
• 43:44
  what,
• 43:44
  what
• 43:44
  I
• 43:44
  hoped
• 43:45
  and
• 43:45
  believed.
• 43:45
  And
• 43:46
  eventually
• 43:48
  we
• 43:48
  got
• 43:49
  you
• 43:49
  out
• 43:49
  of
• 43:49
  school
• 43:49
  and
• 43:50
  you
• 43:50
  did.
• 43:50
  You
• 43:50
  were
• 43:50
  fine.
• 43:51
  You
• 43:51
  went
• 43:51
  off
• 43:52
  doing
• 43:52
  things
• 43:52
  you
• 43:53
  wanted
• 43:53
  to
• 43:53
  do.
• 43:53
  Yeah.
• 43:54
  And
• 43:54
  I
• 43:54
  think
• 43:54
  that
• 43:55
  was
• 43:55
  the
• 43:55
  key.
• 43:55
  I
• 43:55
  also
• 43:55
  have
• 43:56
  adhd
• 43:56
  and
• 43:56
  I
• 43:56
  think
• 43:57
  for
• 43:57
  kids
• 43:57
  with
• 43:57
  adhd,
• 43:58
  it's
• 43:59
  much
• 43:59
  harder
• 44:00
  to
• 44:01
  do
• 44:01
  anything
• 44:02
  you
• 44:02
  don't
• 44:02
  want
• 44:03
  to
• 44:03
  do.
• 44:03
  Like
• 44:03
  there
• 44:03
  is
• 44:04
  like
• 44:04
  garden
• 44:04
  variety
• 44:05
  boredom
• 44:05
  for
• 44:06
  kids
• 44:06
  and
• 44:06
  then
• 44:06
  there's
• 44:07
  boredom
• 44:08
  for
• 44:08
  kids
• 44:09
  with
• 44:09
  adhd,
• 44:10
  which
• 44:10
  feels
• 44:11
  like
• 44:11
  you
• 44:11
  are
• 44:11
  literally
• 44:11
  drowning.
• 44:12
  Like
• 44:12
  it's,
• 44:13
  it's
• 44:14
  horrible.
• 44:14
  Yeah,
• 44:15
  well,
• 44:15
  and,
• 44:16
  and
• 44:16
  you
• 44:16
  didn't
• 44:16
  like
• 44:16
  school.
• 44:17
  And
• 44:17
  so
• 44:18
  that
• 44:18
  made
• 44:18
  school
• 44:19
  so
• 44:19
  excruciating.
• 44:20
  And
• 44:20
  unfortunately
• 44:21
  you,
• 44:22
  you
• 44:22
  know,
• 44:22
  kids
• 44:22
  have
• 44:23
  to
• 44:23
  go
• 44:23
  to
• 44:23
  school.
• 44:24
  18
• 44:24
  years
• 44:24
  or
• 44:25
  16
• 44:25
  years,
• 44:25
  whatever
• 44:26
  it
• 44:26
  is.
• 44:26
  3,000
• 44:27
  years.
• 44:27
  It
• 44:28
  felt
• 44:28
  like
• 44:28
  3,000
• 44:29
  years
• 44:29
  of
• 44:29
  school.
• 44:30
  And
• 44:31
  which
• 44:31
  I
• 44:31
  always
• 44:31
  felt
• 44:32
  there
• 44:32
  should
• 44:32
  be
• 44:32
  different
• 44:33
  kinds
• 44:33
  of
• 44:33
  schools
• 44:34
  for
• 44:34
  kids
• 44:35
  who
• 44:36
  just
• 44:36
  don't
• 44:37
  fit
• 44:37
  the
• 44:37
  mold
• 44:37
  and
• 44:37
  there
• 44:38
  really
• 44:38
  aren't.
• 44:39
  Yeah,
• 44:39
  it's
• 44:40
  very
• 44:40
  hard
• 44:40
  to
• 44:40
  find
• 44:40
  a
• 44:41
  school
• 44:41
  like
• 44:41
  that.
• 44:41
  Yeah,
• 44:42
  totally.
• 44:42
  And
• 44:42
  honestly,
• 44:43
  even
• 44:43
  the
• 44:43
  performing
• 44:43
  arts
• 44:44
  schools
• 44:44
  that
• 44:44
  there
• 44:44
  were,
• 44:45
  they
• 44:45
  still
• 44:45
  had
• 44:45
  pretty
• 44:46
  rigorous
• 44:46
  academics
• 44:47
  that
• 44:47
  I
• 44:48
  would
• 44:48
  have
• 44:49
  not
• 44:49
  succeeded
• 44:50
  at.
• 44:50
  Yeah,
• 44:51
  yeah.
• 44:51
  No,
• 44:52
  I,
• 44:52
  I.
• 44:52
  When
• 44:52
  you
• 44:52
  graduated,
• 44:53
  I
• 44:53
  was
• 44:53
  like,
• 44:53
  this
• 44:54
  child
• 44:54
  should
• 44:54
  never
• 44:54
  have
• 44:55
  to
• 44:55
  take
• 44:55
  another
• 44:55
  math
• 44:56
  class
• 44:56
  in
• 44:56
  her
• 44:56
  life.
• 44:56
  No,
• 44:57
  I
• 44:57
  still
• 44:57
  have
• 44:57
  nightmares
• 44:58
  about
• 44:59
  failing
• 45:00
  math.
• 45:00
  Yeah.
• 45:01
  Oh
• 45:01
  my
• 45:01
  God.
• 45:01
  Do
• 45:02
  you
• 45:02
  remember
• 45:02
  Kumon?
• 45:03
  Yes.
• 45:03
  Uh
• 45:04
  huh.
• 45:04
  I
• 45:04
  sent
• 45:04
  you
• 45:05
  to
• 45:05
  Kumon
• 45:05
  because
• 45:05
  you
• 45:06
  were
• 45:06
  struggling
• 45:06
  with
• 45:06
  math.
• 45:07
  Oh
• 45:07
  man.
• 45:08
  Oh
• 45:08
  man.
• 45:08
  And
• 45:09
  Kumon
• 45:09
  was
• 45:09
  crazy.
• 45:10
  I
• 45:10
  went,
• 45:10
  Kumon
• 45:11
  in
• 45:11
  the
• 45:11
  basement
• 45:11
  of
• 45:11
  a
• 45:11
  Ukrainian
• 45:12
  church.
• 45:12
  And
• 45:12
  the
• 45:13
  man
• 45:13
  who
• 45:13
  was
• 45:13
  operating
• 45:14
  it
• 45:14
  was
• 45:15
  40
• 45:15
  million
• 45:16
  years
• 45:16
  old.
• 45:17
  And
• 45:17
  all
• 45:17
  the
• 45:17
  other
• 45:17
  parents
• 45:18
  would
• 45:18
  drop
• 45:18
  their
• 45:19
  kids
• 45:19
  off
• 45:19
  and
• 45:20
  leave,
• 45:20
  but
• 45:21
  our
• 45:21
  nanny
• 45:21
  would
• 45:22
  stay
• 45:22
  because
• 45:22
  she's
• 45:23
  like,
• 45:23
  there
• 45:23
  is
• 45:23
  something
• 45:23
  weird
• 45:24
  about
• 45:24
  that
• 45:25
  man.
• 45:25
  She
• 45:25
  might
• 45:25
  have,
• 45:26
  who
• 45:26
  knows?
• 45:26
  She
• 45:26
  had
• 45:27
  good
• 45:27
  instincts.
• 45:27
  She
• 45:28
  did.
• 45:28
  She
• 45:28
  really,
• 45:28
  she's
• 45:29
  like,
• 45:29
  I'm
• 45:29
  not
• 45:29
  leaving
• 45:29
  you
• 45:29
  alone
• 45:30
  with
• 45:30
  that
• 45:30
  person.
• 45:31
  Well,
• 45:31
  and
• 45:31
  that
• 45:31
  gets
• 45:32
  us
• 45:32
  to
• 45:32
  the
• 45:32
  next
• 45:32
  topics.
• 45:33
  Trust
• 45:33
  strangers.
• 45:35
  So
• 45:35
  that
• 45:35
  what
• 45:35
  that
• 45:36
  is
• 45:36
  her
• 45:36
  next
• 45:36
  topic.
• 45:37
  Like
• 45:37
  tell
• 45:38
  it
• 45:38
  in
• 45:38
  which
• 45:38
  we
• 45:38
  talked
• 45:39
  a
• 45:39
  little
• 45:39
  bit
• 45:39
  about
• 45:39
  in
• 45:40
  that,
• 45:40
  you
• 45:40
  know,
• 45:40
  just
• 45:41
  tell,
• 45:41
  tell
• 45:42
  K
• 45:42
  to
• 45:42
  Go
• 45:42
  with
• 45:43
  strangers
• 45:44
  that
• 45:44
  they.
• 45:44
  There
• 45:44
  are
• 45:45
  many
• 45:45
  safe
• 45:45
  people
• 45:46
  out
• 45:46
  there.
• 45:46
  You
• 45:46
  can
• 45:46
  talk
• 45:47
  to
• 45:47
  strangers,
• 45:48
  but
• 45:48
  just
• 45:48
  don't
• 45:48
  go
• 45:48
  off
• 45:49
  with
• 45:49
  them.
• 45:49
  Feel
• 45:49
  the
• 45:49
  vibes
• 45:50
  though.
• 45:50
  Like,
• 45:51
  feel
• 45:51
  the
• 45:51
  vibes.
• 45:52
  Right.
• 45:52
  And,
• 45:52
  but
• 45:52
  teach
• 45:53
  your
• 45:53
  child
• 45:53
  if
• 45:53
  an
• 45:54
  adult
• 45:54
  stranger
• 45:55
  is
• 45:55
  bothering
• 45:55
  you,
• 45:56
  you
• 45:56
  should
• 45:56
  make
• 45:56
  a
• 45:56
  scene.
• 45:57
  Make
• 45:57
  a
• 45:58
  scene.
• 45:58
  Teach
• 45:58
  that.
• 45:59
  You
• 45:59
  used
• 45:59
  to
• 45:59
  do
• 45:59
  that.
• 46:00
  Although
• 46:00
  not
• 46:00
  because
• 46:01
  adult
• 46:01
  strangers
• 46:02
  were
• 46:02
  bothering
• 46:03
  you.
• 46:03
  You
• 46:03
  were,
• 46:03
  you
• 46:03
  used
• 46:04
  to
• 46:04
  do
• 46:04
  it
• 46:04
  to
• 46:04
  try
• 46:04
  to
• 46:04
  get
• 46:05
  out
• 46:05
  of
• 46:05
  things,
• 46:05
  remember?
• 46:06
  Oh
• 46:06
  yeah,
• 46:06
  totally.
• 46:07
  Do
• 46:07
  you
• 46:07
  remember
• 46:07
  you
• 46:07
  used
• 46:07
  to
• 46:07
  have
• 46:08
  panic
• 46:08
  attacks,
• 46:09
  fake
• 46:09
  panic
• 46:09
  attacks
• 46:10
  at
• 46:10
  school.
• 46:11
  Yeah.
• 46:11
  And
• 46:12
  ambulances
• 46:12
  were
• 46:13
  called.
• 46:13
  I
• 46:13
  know.
• 46:13
  Yeah,
• 46:14
  I
• 46:14
  remember
• 46:14
  you.
• 46:15
  I
• 46:15
  had
• 46:15
  a
• 46:15
  hard
• 46:15
  time.
• 46:16
  You,
• 46:16
  you
• 46:16
  know,
• 46:16
  for
• 46:17
  those
• 46:17
  of
• 46:17
  you
• 46:18
  who
• 46:18
  are
• 46:19
  parenting
• 46:19
  tough
• 46:20
  kids,
• 46:20
  I
• 46:20
  had
• 46:21
  two
• 46:21
  tough
• 46:21
  kids.
• 46:22
  I
• 46:22
  really
• 46:22
  did.
• 46:22
  And
• 46:22
  you
• 46:23
  were.
• 46:23
  I
• 46:23
  deserved
• 46:24
  a
• 46:24
  BAFTA
• 46:25
  for
• 46:25
  that
• 46:25
  performance,
• 46:26
  remember?
• 46:26
  Okay,
• 46:27
  yeah.
• 46:27
  You.
• 46:28
  I
• 46:28
  don't
• 46:28
  know
• 46:28
  what
• 46:28
  test
• 46:29
  you
• 46:29
  were
• 46:29
  trying
• 46:29
  to
• 46:29
  get
• 46:29
  out
• 46:29
  of.
• 46:30
  It
• 46:30
  was
• 46:30
  a
• 46:30
  big
• 46:30
  one
• 46:31
  and
• 46:31
  I
• 46:31
  knew,
• 46:31
  I
• 46:31
  was
• 46:32
  like,
• 46:32
  I
• 46:32
  really
• 46:32
  got
• 46:32
  to
• 46:32
  pull
• 46:33
  the
• 46:33
  Hail
• 46:33
  Mary
• 46:33
  here
• 46:34
  because
• 46:34
  otherwise
• 46:35
  I'm
• 46:35
  going
• 46:35
  put
• 46:35
  to
• 46:35
  fail
• 46:35
  this
• 46:35
  class.
• 46:36
  So
• 46:36
  unless
• 46:37
  I
• 46:37
  have
• 46:37
  a
• 46:37
  full
• 46:37
  on
• 46:38
  nervous
• 46:38
  breakdown,
• 46:39
  I
• 46:39
  cannot
• 46:39
  justify
• 46:40
  not
• 46:40
  taking
• 46:41
  this
• 46:41
  test.
• 46:42
  So
• 46:42
  full
• 46:42
  on
• 46:43
  nervous
• 46:43
  breakdown
• 46:44
  I
• 46:44
  had.
• 46:44
  I
• 46:45
  know.
• 46:45
  And
• 46:45
  they
• 46:45
  called
• 46:46
  an
• 46:46
  ambulance
• 46:46
  and
• 46:47
  dad.
• 46:47
  And
• 46:47
  then
• 46:47
  dad
• 46:48
  came
• 46:48
  to
• 46:48
  get
• 46:48
  me
• 46:48
  and
• 46:48
  he
• 46:49
  took
• 46:49
  me
• 46:49
  to
• 46:49
  Panera
• 46:49
  Bread
• 46:50
  and
• 46:50
  I
• 46:50
  was
• 46:50
  fine.
• 46:51
  Oh,
• 46:51
  good.
• 46:51
  Okay.
• 46:52
  Well,
• 46:53
  thank
• 46:53
  God
• 46:53
  those
• 46:54
  days
• 46:54
  are
• 46:54
  over.
• 46:55
  Okay.
• 46:56
  Give
• 46:56
  your
• 46:56
  child
• 46:57
  more
• 46:57
  independence.
• 46:58
  That's
• 46:59
  another
• 46:59
  one
• 46:59
  of
• 47:00
  her
• 47:01
  commandments.
• 47:02
  Give
• 47:02
  them
• 47:02
  more
• 47:02
  independence,
• 47:04
  encourage
• 47:05
  them
• 47:05
  to,
• 47:06
  you
• 47:07
  know,
• 47:07
  have.
• 47:07
  Be
• 47:07
  uncomfortable
• 47:09
  and
• 47:09
  to
• 47:09
  not
• 47:09
  look
• 47:10
  to
• 47:10
  you
• 47:10
  to
• 47:10
  solve
• 47:10
  the
• 47:11
  problem.
• 47:11
  She
• 47:12
  said
• 47:12
  you
• 47:12
  should
• 47:12
  actually
• 47:14
  put
• 47:15
  them
• 47:15
  into
• 47:15
  situations
• 47:16
  where
• 47:16
  they're
• 47:16
  going
• 47:17
  to
• 47:17
  not
• 47:17
  know
• 47:17
  what
• 47:18
  to
• 47:18
  do.
• 47:18
  And
• 47:18
  don't
• 47:19
  give
• 47:19
  them
• 47:19
  a
• 47:19
  cell
• 47:20
  phone
• 47:20
  so
• 47:20
  they
• 47:20
  can
• 47:21
  call
• 47:21
  you
• 47:21
  to
• 47:22
  for
• 47:22
  help
• 47:22
  because
• 47:23
  she
• 47:23
  doesn't
• 47:24
  want
• 47:24
  the
• 47:24
  parent
• 47:25
  helping
• 47:25
  the
• 47:25
  child
• 47:25
  out
• 47:26
  of
• 47:26
  the
• 47:26
  jam.
• 47:27
  I'm
• 47:28
  not
• 47:28
  so
• 47:28
  sure
• 47:28
  I'm
• 47:28
  comfortable
• 47:29
  with
• 47:29
  that
• 47:29
  myself.
• 47:30
  You
• 47:30
  know,
• 47:30
  to
• 47:31
  purposefully.
• 47:31
  I
• 47:32
  feel
• 47:32
  like
• 47:32
  it
• 47:32
  depend
• 47:33
  the
• 47:33
  situation.
• 47:33
  If
• 47:33
  it's
• 47:33
  like
• 47:34
  a
• 47:34
  low
• 47:34
  stakes
• 47:34
  situation
• 47:35
  where
• 47:35
  the
• 47:35
  outcome
• 47:36
  doesn't
• 47:36
  really
• 47:36
  matter,
• 47:37
  then
• 47:37
  fine.
• 47:37
  But
• 47:38
  if
• 47:38
  it's
• 47:38
  like
• 47:38
  a
• 47:38
  perilous
• 47:39
  situation,
• 47:40
  I
• 47:40
  don't
• 47:40
  know
• 47:40
  that
• 47:41
  I
• 47:41
  would
• 47:41
  do
• 47:41
  that.
• 47:41
  Yeah,
• 47:43
  well,
• 47:44
  you
• 47:44
  know,
• 47:44
  she,
• 47:44
  she
• 47:45
  says
• 47:45
  that
• 47:46
  we
• 47:46
  treat
• 47:46
  children
• 47:47
  now
• 47:48
  the
• 47:49
  way
• 47:49
  that
• 47:50
  housewives
• 47:51
  were
• 47:51
  treated
• 47:51
  in
• 47:52
  the
• 47:52
  50s.
• 47:53
  That,
• 47:53
  that
• 47:54
  you
• 47:54
  know,
• 47:54
  you
• 47:54
  can't
• 47:55
  do.
• 47:55
  Anything
• 47:55
  and
• 47:56
  you're,
• 47:57
  you're
• 47:57
  fragile
• 47:58
  and
• 47:58
  you're
• 47:59
  delicate
• 48:00
  and
• 48:00
  the
• 48:00
  world
• 48:00
  is
• 48:01
  too
• 48:01
  scary
• 48:01
  and
• 48:01
  dangerous
• 48:02
  for
• 48:02
  you
• 48:03
  and
• 48:03
  that's
• 48:03
  not
• 48:03
  a
• 48:03
  good.
• 48:04
  You,
• 48:04
  you're
• 48:05
  just
• 48:05
  a
• 48:05
  woman.
• 48:06
  That's
• 48:06
  what
• 48:06
  they
• 48:07
  did.
• 48:07
  Yeah.
• 48:08
  And
• 48:09
  you
• 48:09
  know,
• 48:09
  and
• 48:09
  that
• 48:09
  we
• 48:10
  should
• 48:10
  not
• 48:10
  be
• 48:10
  doing
• 48:10
  that
• 48:10
  with
• 48:11
  our
• 48:11
  children.
• 48:11
  Yeah.
• 48:13
  She's
• 48:13
  also
• 48:14
  Fine
• 48:14
  with
• 48:15
  some
• 48:15
  technology.
• 48:16
  She's
• 48:16
  actually
• 48:17
  a
• 48:17
  big
• 48:17
  supporter
• 48:18
  of
• 48:21
  Jonathan
• 48:21
  Haight,
• 48:22
  who
• 48:22
  wrote
• 48:22
  the
• 48:22
  Anxious
• 48:23
  Generation.
• 48:24
  I
• 48:24
  don't
• 48:24
  know
• 48:24
  if
• 48:24
  it's
• 48:24
  height
• 48:24
  or
• 48:25
  hate.
• 48:25
  I've
• 48:25
  heard
• 48:25
  it
• 48:25
  pronounced
• 48:26
  so
• 48:26
  many
• 48:27
  ways.
• 48:27
  Hate.
• 48:28
  Haight
• 48:28
  or
• 48:28
  height,
• 48:29
  who
• 48:29
  wrote
• 48:29
  the
• 48:29
  Anxious
• 48:29
  Generation,
• 48:30
  who
• 48:30
  talks
• 48:30
  about
• 48:31
  some
• 48:31
  of
• 48:31
  the
• 48:32
  issues.
• 48:32
  And
• 48:32
  I,
• 48:32
  I,
• 48:32
  we
• 48:33
  recommend
• 48:33
  reading
• 48:33
  that
• 48:33
  book.
• 48:34
  It's
• 48:34
  a
• 48:34
  very
• 48:34
  good
• 48:34
  book.
• 48:36
  And
• 48:36
  he,
• 48:36
  he,
• 48:37
  she
• 48:37
  recommends
• 48:38
  the
• 48:39
  wait
• 48:39
  until
• 48:39
  8th
• 48:39
  grade
• 48:40
  pledge,
• 48:40
  which
• 48:40
  is
• 48:41
  to
• 48:41
  wait
• 48:41
  until
• 48:41
  8th
• 48:42
  grade
• 48:42
  before
• 48:42
  you
• 48:43
  give
• 48:43
  your
• 48:43
  child
• 48:44
  a,
• 48:44
  a
• 48:44
  smartphone,
• 48:46
  which
• 48:46
  I,
• 48:46
  I
• 48:47
  would
• 48:47
  agree
• 48:47
  with.
• 48:47
  That
• 48:48
  makes
• 48:48
  all
• 48:48
  the
• 48:48
  sense
• 48:48
  in
• 48:49
  the
• 48:49
  world.
• 48:49
  And
• 48:49
  especially
• 48:50
  not
• 48:50
  to
• 48:50
  let
• 48:50
  them
• 48:50
  have
• 48:51
  social
• 48:51
  media
• 48:51
  until,
• 48:52
  yeah,
• 48:52
  eighth
• 48:53
  grade.
• 48:53
  Because
• 48:53
  nobody
• 48:54
  should
• 48:54
  have
• 48:54
  social
• 48:54
  media.
• 48:55
  Well,
• 48:55
  even
• 48:55
  adults
• 48:56
  detrimental
• 48:57
  to
• 48:58
  our
• 48:58
  mental
• 48:58
  health.
• 48:59
  Right,
• 48:59
  but,
• 49:00
  but
• 49:00
  especially
• 49:01
  young
• 49:01
  children
• 49:01
  who
• 49:02
  really
• 49:02
  can'
• 49:03
  handle
• 49:04
  what,
• 49:04
  what
• 49:04
  it's
• 49:04
  doing
• 49:04
  to
• 49:05
  their
• 49:05
  brains
• 49:05
  if
• 49:06
  it
• 49:06
  happens,
• 49:06
  if
• 49:07
  they
• 49:07
  get
• 49:07
  them
• 49:07
  at
• 49:07
  a
• 49:07
  young
• 49:08
  age
• 49:08
  and
• 49:08
  if
• 49:08
  they're
• 49:08
  on
• 49:09
  social
• 49:09
  media
• 49:09
  early
• 49:10
  on.
• 49:11
  She's
• 49:12
  calling
• 49:13
  for
• 49:14
  schools
• 49:15
  to
• 49:15
  extend
• 49:15
  recess
• 49:16
  time,
• 49:18
  to
• 49:18
  have
• 49:18
  clubs
• 49:19
  for
• 49:19
  after
• 49:19
  school
• 49:20
  where
• 49:21
  teachers
• 49:21
  don't
• 49:22
  intervene
• 49:22
  and
• 49:23
  children
• 49:23
  of
• 49:23
  many
• 49:23
  ages
• 49:24
  can
• 49:24
  play
• 49:24
  together.
• 49:25
  That's
• 49:26
  cool.
• 49:26
  That's
• 49:26
  nice.
• 49:26
  I
• 49:27
  would
• 49:27
  have
• 49:27
  loved
• 49:27
  that.
• 49:28
  Yeah,
• 49:28
  I
• 49:28
  think
• 49:28
  that
• 49:28
  sounds
• 49:29
  like
• 49:29
  a.
• 49:29
  And
• 49:29
  it's
• 49:30
  easier
• 49:30
  for
• 49:30
  schools
• 49:31
  anyway
• 49:32
  to
• 49:32
  do
• 49:32
  that.
• 49:32
  You
• 49:32
  just,
• 49:33
  you
• 49:33
  know,
• 49:33
  teacher
• 49:34
  just
• 49:34
  has
• 49:34
  to
• 49:34
  kind
• 49:34
  of
• 49:34
  make
• 49:35
  sure
• 49:35
  nobody's
• 49:36
  doing
• 49:36
  anything
• 49:36
  too
• 49:37
  dangerous.
• 49:37
  But
• 49:38
  as
• 49:38
  long
• 49:38
  as
• 49:38
  they
• 49:39
  aren't,
• 49:39
  they
• 49:39
  stay
• 49:39
  out
• 49:40
  of
• 49:40
  it.
• 49:40
  Yeah,
• 49:41
  yeah.
• 49:41
  Do
• 49:41
  like
• 49:42
  the
• 49:42
  European
• 49:42
  moms
• 49:43
  do.
• 49:44
  Smoke
• 49:44
  your
• 49:44
  cigarette
• 49:45
  from
• 49:46
  a
• 49:46
  distance.
• 49:47
  Watch,
• 49:47
  watch.
• 49:48
  But
• 49:48
  don't
• 49:48
  intervene.
• 49:49
  That's
• 49:49
  right.
• 49:50
  You
• 49:50
  know,
• 49:50
  I
• 49:50
  remember
• 49:51
  growing
• 49:51
  up
• 49:52
  when,
• 49:52
  when
• 49:52
  you
• 49:52
  guys
• 49:52
  were
• 49:53
  growing
• 49:53
  up,
• 49:53
  there
• 49:53
  was
• 49:53
  one
• 49:54
  mom
• 49:54
  at
• 49:54
  school,
• 49:55
  she
• 49:55
  had
• 49:55
  like
• 49:56
  three
• 49:56
  sons,
• 49:57
  and
• 49:57
  they
• 49:57
  used
• 49:57
  to
• 49:58
  just
• 49:58
  beat
• 49:58
  each
• 49:59
  other
• 49:59
  up
• 49:59
  and
• 49:59
  fight
• 50:00
  all
• 50:00
  the
• 50:00
  time.
• 50:01
  And
• 50:01
  I
• 50:01
  noticed
• 50:02
  she,
• 50:02
  she
• 50:02
  would
• 50:02
  just
• 50:02
  stand
• 50:02
  there
• 50:03
  and
• 50:03
  would
• 50:03
  never
• 50:03
  intervene.
• 50:04
  And
• 50:04
  I
• 50:05
  thought,
• 50:05
  and
• 50:05
  I
• 50:05
  would
• 50:06
  say,
• 50:06
  what?
• 50:06
  Don't
• 50:07
  you
• 50:07
  think
• 50:07
  you
• 50:07
  should
• 50:07
  go
• 50:07
  over?
• 50:07
  And
• 50:08
  she's
• 50:08
  like,
• 50:08
  no,
• 50:08
  no,
• 50:08
  they'll
• 50:09
  work
• 50:09
  it
• 50:09
  out.
• 50:09
  And
• 50:10
  that
• 50:10
  was
• 50:10
  her
• 50:10
  attitude.
• 50:11
  And
• 50:11
  I
• 50:11
  remember
• 50:12
  thinking,
• 50:13
  wow,
• 50:14
  I
• 50:14
  could
• 50:15
  never
• 50:15
  jump
• 50:15
  in.
• 50:15
  How
• 50:15
  evolved.
• 50:16
  I
• 50:17
  could
• 50:17
  never
• 50:17
  not
• 50:17
  jump
• 50:18
  in,
• 50:18
  in
• 50:18
  that
• 50:18
  situation,
• 50:19
  you
• 50:19
  know?
• 50:20
  Well,
• 50:21
  I
• 50:21
  wonder
• 50:22
  what
• 50:22
  happened
• 50:22
  to
• 50:22
  those
• 50:22
  boys
• 50:23
  today.
• 50:24
  They're
• 50:24
  fine.
• 50:25
  I'm
• 50:25
  sure
• 50:25
  they're
• 50:25
  fine.
• 50:26
  Yeah,
• 50:26
  I'm
• 50:27
  sure
• 50:27
  they
• 50:27
  are.
• 50:27
  The
• 50:27
  youngest
• 50:28
  probably
• 50:28
  has,
• 50:28
  has
• 50:29
  some
• 50:29
  long
• 50:29
  standing
• 50:30
  issues.
• 50:30
  Funny
• 50:31
  you
• 50:31
  should
• 50:31
  say
• 50:31
  that.
• 50:32
  He
• 50:32
  actually
• 50:32
  grew
• 50:32
  up
• 50:32
  to
• 50:32
  be
• 50:33
  much
• 50:33
  bigger
• 50:33
  than
• 50:33
  his
• 50:34
  brother.
• 50:34
  Brothers.
• 50:35
  And
• 50:35
  I
• 50:35
  think
• 50:35
  they,
• 50:36
  they
• 50:36
  probably
• 50:36
  got
• 50:37
  it
• 50:37
  back
• 50:37
  later.
• 50:37
  Vengeance.
• 50:39
  But
• 50:39
  I
• 50:39
  remember
• 50:40
  that
• 50:40
  family
• 50:41
  very
• 50:41
  well.
• 50:41
  That's
• 50:42
  really
• 50:42
  funny.
• 50:42
  I
• 50:43
  don't
• 50:43
  remember
• 50:43
  them
• 50:43
  at
• 50:43
  all.
• 50:44
  You'll
• 50:44
  have
• 50:44
  to
• 50:44
  tell
• 50:45
  me
• 50:45
  who
• 50:45
  they
• 50:45
  are.
• 50:45
  I'll
• 50:46
  tell.
• 50:46
  You
• 50:47
  know
• 50:47
  who
• 50:47
  they
• 50:48
  are.
• 50:48
  That's
• 50:48
  so
• 50:48
  funny.
• 50:48
  So
• 50:49
  as
• 50:49
  far
• 50:49
  as
• 50:51
  re.
• 50:51
  Would
• 50:52
  you
• 50:52
  recommend
• 50:53
  this
• 50:53
  book
• 50:53
  to
• 50:54
  parents?
• 50:56
  I
• 50:57
  would
• 50:57
  say
• 50:59
  yes
• 51:00
  and
• 51:00
  no.
• 51:00
  I
• 51:00
  mean,
• 51:01
  first
• 51:02
  of
• 51:02
  all,
• 51:02
  I
• 51:02
  have
• 51:02
  to
• 51:02
  say
• 51:03
  that
• 51:03
  she
• 51:03
  is
• 51:04
  funny.
• 51:04
  The
• 51:04
  author's
• 51:05
  very
• 51:05
  funny.
• 51:06
  But
• 51:06
  as
• 51:06
  I
• 51:06
  was
• 51:06
  reading
• 51:07
  it,
• 51:08
  I
• 51:08
  kind
• 51:08
  of
• 51:08
  felt
• 51:08
  like
• 51:09
  I
• 51:09
  was
• 51:09
  getting
• 51:09
  scolded
• 51:10
  a
• 51:10
  lot
• 51:11
  because
• 51:11
  I
• 51:11
  am
• 51:12
  that
• 51:13
  worrying
• 51:13
  parent.
• 51:14
  And
• 51:15
  I
• 51:15
  felt
• 51:16
  like
• 51:16
  she
• 51:16
  was
• 51:16
  almost
• 51:17
  making
• 51:18
  light
• 51:18
  too
• 51:19
  much
• 51:19
  or
• 51:19
  making
• 51:20
  fun
• 51:20
  too
• 51:20
  much
• 51:21
  of
• 51:21
  people
• 51:22
  like
• 51:22
  me
• 51:22
  who
• 51:22
  worry
• 51:23
  constantly
• 51:23
  that
• 51:24
  something
• 51:24
  horrible
• 51:25
  is
• 51:25
  gonna
• 51:25
  happen.
• 51:26
  So
• 51:26
  I
• 51:26
  felt
• 51:27
  a
• 51:27
  little
• 51:27
  chastised
• 51:28
  and
• 51:28
  scolded
• 51:29
  about
• 51:29
  who
• 51:29
  I
• 51:30
  am.
• 51:30
  But
• 51:31
  at
• 51:31
  the
• 51:31
  same
• 51:31
  time,
• 51:32
  I
• 51:32
  also
• 51:33
  felt
• 51:33
  that
• 51:34
  this
• 51:35
  is
• 51:35
  good
• 51:35
  information.
• 51:36
  It
• 51:37
  puts
• 51:37
  things
• 51:37
  in
• 51:37
  better
• 51:38
  perspective.
• 51:39
  We
• 51:39
  should
• 51:40
  be
• 51:41
  not
• 51:41
  so
• 51:42
  overprotective
• 51:43
  of
• 51:43
  our
• 51:43
  children.
• 51:44
  Risks
• 51:45
  are
• 51:45
  good
• 51:46
  as
• 51:46
  long
• 51:46
  as
• 51:47
  they're.
• 51:47
  They're
• 51:48
  smart.
• 51:48
  Risks,
• 51:49
  and
• 51:49
  you
• 51:49
  know
• 51:50
  what
• 51:50
  I
• 51:50
  mean?
• 51:50
  And
• 51:50
  I
• 51:51
  think
• 51:51
  she's
• 51:51
  calculated
• 51:52
  risk.
• 51:52
  Yeah.
• 51:53
  And
• 51:53
  I
• 51:53
  think
• 51:53
  she's
• 51:54
  kind
• 51:54
  of.
• 51:54
  That's
• 51:54
  what
• 51:54
  she
• 51:55
  does,
• 51:55
  too.
• 51:57
  She's
• 51:57
  probably
• 51:58
  more
• 51:58
  permissive
• 51:58
  than
• 51:58
  I
• 51:59
  ever
• 51:59
  would
• 51:59
  be.
• 51:59
  Although
• 52:00
  maybe
• 52:00
  not.
• 52:00
  Maybe
• 52:01
  I
• 52:01
  was
• 52:01
  a
• 52:01
  permissive.
• 52:02
  I
• 52:02
  felt
• 52:02
  pretty
• 52:02
  permissed
• 52:03
  upon.
• 52:04
  You
• 52:04
  did.
• 52:04
  Oh,
• 52:05
  God.
• 52:05
  Maybe
• 52:05
  I
• 52:05
  am
• 52:06
  a
• 52:06
  more
• 52:06
  permissive
• 52:06
  parent.
• 52:07
  I
• 52:07
  honestly
• 52:07
  felt
• 52:07
  like
• 52:08
  I
• 52:08
  could.
• 52:09
  I
• 52:09
  didn't
• 52:09
  want
• 52:09
  to
• 52:09
  do
• 52:09
  anything
• 52:10
  that
• 52:10
  crazy
• 52:10
  as
• 52:10
  a
• 52:11
  kid.
• 52:11
  And
• 52:11
  I
• 52:11
  felt
• 52:12
  like
• 52:12
  when
• 52:12
  I
• 52:12
  wanted
• 52:12
  to
• 52:13
  do
• 52:13
  things,
• 52:14
  whether
• 52:14
  you
• 52:15
  really
• 52:15
  specifically
• 52:16
  allowed
• 52:16
  it
• 52:16
  or
• 52:16
  not,
• 52:16
  I
• 52:17
  found
• 52:17
  a
• 52:17
  way,
• 52:18
  and
• 52:18
  I
• 52:18
  turned
• 52:18
  out
• 52:18
  fine.
• 52:19
  I
• 52:19
  survived.
• 52:19
  Yeah.
• 52:20
  And
• 52:20
  I
• 52:20
  think
• 52:20
  most
• 52:20
  kids
• 52:21
  will
• 52:21
  do
• 52:21
  that
• 52:21
  no
• 52:22
  matter
• 52:22
  what
• 52:22
  their
• 52:22
  parents
• 52:23
  try
• 52:24
  to
• 52:24
  do
• 52:24
  and
• 52:24
  try
• 52:25
  to
• 52:25
  control.
• 52:26
  As
• 52:27
  she
• 52:27
  said,
• 52:27
  you
• 52:27
  can't
• 52:28
  control
• 52:29
  everything
• 52:29
  your
• 52:29
  child
• 52:29
  does.
• 52:30
  Yeah.
• 52:30
  So
• 52:31
  it
• 52:31
  is
• 52:31
  a
• 52:31
  good
• 52:31
  book.
• 52:31
  It
• 52:32
  is
• 52:32
  a
• 52:32
  good
• 52:32
  message.
• 52:34
  It's
• 52:34
  an
• 52:34
  easy
• 52:35
  read.
• 52:35
  Yeah,
• 52:36
  it
• 52:36
  is
• 52:36
  a
• 52:36
  very
• 52:36
  easy
• 52:37
  read.
• 52:37
  As
• 52:37
  far
• 52:37
  as
• 52:37
  readability,
• 52:38
  it
• 52:38
  was.
• 52:38
  It
• 52:39
  was
• 52:39
  pretty
• 52:39
  good.
• 52:40
  But
• 52:40
  I
• 52:40
  swear,
• 52:41
  every
• 52:41
  third
• 52:42
  line
• 52:42
  was
• 52:43
  a
• 52:43
  joke.
• 52:43
  Lots
• 52:44
  of
• 52:44
  jokes.
• 52:44
  I
• 52:44
  felt
• 52:45
  like
• 52:45
  I
• 52:45
  need,
• 52:45
  like,
• 52:46
  a
• 52:46
  BDM
• 52:46
  CH
• 52:47
  track
• 52:48
  because
• 52:48
  I'm
• 52:48
  like,
• 52:49
  lenore,
• 52:50
  come
• 52:50
  on.
• 52:50
  We
• 52:50
  get
• 52:50
  it.
• 52:51
  You're
• 52:51
  funny.
• 52:51
  She
• 52:52
  is
• 52:52
  funny.
• 52:53
  She
• 52:53
  is
• 52:53
  funny.
• 52:53
  And
• 52:54
  I
• 52:54
  recommend
• 52:54
  watching
• 52:54
  her
• 52:55
  show.
• 52:55
  I
• 52:56
  mean,
• 52:56
  I
• 52:56
  think,
• 52:56
  go
• 52:56
  on
• 52:57
  YouTube,
• 52:57
  watch
• 52:57
  her
• 52:58
  show.
• 52:58
  It's
• 52:58
  funny.
• 52:59
  I
• 52:59
  mean,
• 52:59
  it's
• 53:00
  not
• 53:00
  funny.
• 53:01
  She
• 53:01
  is
• 53:01
  funny.
• 53:02
  She
• 53:02
  is
• 53:02
  funny.
• 53:03
  But
• 53:03
  she's
• 53:04
  actually.
• 53:05
  She's
• 53:05
  good
• 53:05
  on
• 53:05
  the
• 53:06
  show.
• 53:06
  She's
• 53:06
  very
• 53:06
  good.
• 53:07
  All
• 53:07
  right,
• 53:07
  I
• 53:07
  will
• 53:07
  check
• 53:07
  it
• 53:07
  out.
• 53:07
  And,
• 53:08
  you
• 53:09
  know,
• 53:09
  she
• 53:09
  gets
• 53:09
  the
• 53:10
  kids.
• 53:10
  Kids
• 53:10
  start.
• 53:10
  You
• 53:10
  know,
• 53:11
  she
• 53:11
  starts
• 53:11
  them
• 53:11
  out
• 53:12
  with
• 53:12
  a
• 53:12
  little
• 53:13
  small
• 53:13
  assignment
• 53:14
  with.
• 53:15
  Of
• 53:15
  independence,
• 53:16
  and.
• 53:16
  And
• 53:16
  then
• 53:16
  they
• 53:17
  get
• 53:17
  bigger
• 53:17
  and
• 53:17
  bigger.
• 53:18
  So.
• 53:19
  And
• 53:19
  you
• 53:19
  do
• 53:19
  see
• 53:19
  parents,
• 53:20
  and
• 53:20
  you
• 53:20
  go,
• 53:20
  come
• 53:21
  on,
• 53:21
  Mom.
• 53:21
  You
• 53:22
  can.
• 53:22
  You
• 53:22
  can
• 53:22
  give
• 53:22
  them
• 53:23
  a
• 53:23
  little
• 53:23
  latitude
• 53:23
  that,
• 53:24
  like,
• 53:24
  you
• 53:24
  know,
• 53:25
  mothers
• 53:25
  cutting
• 53:26
  their
• 53:26
  10
• 53:27
  year
• 53:27
  old
• 53:27
  or
• 53:27
  13
• 53:27
  year
• 53:28
  old's
• 53:28
  meat.
• 53:28
  It's
• 53:29
  like,
• 53:29
  enough
• 53:29
  already.
• 53:30
  Do
• 53:30
  not
• 53:30
  cut
• 53:30
  your
• 53:31
  child's
• 53:31
  meat.
• 53:31
  Like,
• 53:32
  give
• 53:32
  them
• 53:32
  the
• 53:32
  independence
• 53:33
  of
• 53:33
  holding
• 53:34
  a
• 53:34
  knife.
• 53:34
  Yeah.
• 53:35
  That
• 53:35
  child
• 53:35
  would
• 53:35
  have
• 53:35
  been
• 53:35
  a
• 53:36
  blacksmith
• 53:36
  150
• 53:37
  years
• 53:37
  ago.
• 53:38
  So.
• 53:38
  Supporting
• 53:39
  a
• 53:39
  family.
• 53:39
  Exactly.
• 53:40
  To
• 53:41
  live.
• 53:41
  Yeah,
• 53:42
  I
• 53:42
  agree.
• 53:43
  That's
• 53:43
  my
• 53:43
  opinion.
• 53:43
  What
• 53:44
  about
• 53:44
  your
• 53:44
  opinion
• 53:44
  on
• 53:44
  the
• 53:45
  book?
• 53:45
  I
• 53:45
  enjoyed
• 53:45
  it.
• 53:45
  Honestly,
• 53:46
  I
• 53:46
  enjoyed
• 53:46
  it.
• 53:46
  It
• 53:47
  was
• 53:47
  one
• 53:47
  of
• 53:47
  the
• 53:47
  more
• 53:47
  readable
• 53:48
  books.
• 53:48
  Some
• 53:49
  parenting
• 53:49
  books
• 53:49
  can
• 53:49
  be
• 53:50
  really
• 53:50
  dense
• 53:50
  and,
• 53:51
  I
• 53:52
  mean,
• 53:52
  frankly
• 53:52
  boring.
• 53:53
  And
• 53:54
  this
• 53:54
  was
• 53:54
  not
• 53:54
  that,
• 53:54
  you
• 53:55
  know,
• 53:55
  I
• 53:55
  was.
• 53:55
  I
• 53:55
  was
• 53:56
  not.
• 53:56
  I
• 53:56
  was
• 53:57
  definitely
• 53:57
  entertained.
• 53:59
  It
• 53:59
  gave
• 53:59
  me
• 54:00
  some
• 54:00
  ideas
• 54:00
  as
• 54:01
  far
• 54:01
  as,
• 54:01
  like,
• 54:02
  depending
• 54:02
  on
• 54:02
  where
• 54:02
  I
• 54:03
  raised
• 54:03
  my
• 54:03
  daughter,
• 54:03
  ultimately
• 54:04
  the
• 54:05
  freedoms
• 54:05
  I
• 54:05
  might
• 54:05
  want
• 54:06
  to
• 54:06
  give
• 54:06
  her.
• 54:06
  I
• 54:07
  think
• 54:07
  my
• 54:07
  husband
• 54:07
  will
• 54:07
  have
• 54:07
  a
• 54:07
  harder
• 54:08
  time
• 54:08
  with
• 54:08
  it
• 54:08
  because
• 54:09
  he.
• 54:09
  I
• 54:10
  mean,
• 54:10
  he
• 54:10
  grew
• 54:10
  up
• 54:10
  in
• 54:10
  an
• 54:10
  idyllic
• 54:11
  suburb.
• 54:12
  He
• 54:12
  could
• 54:13
  do
• 54:13
  anything
• 54:13
  and
• 54:13
  everything
• 54:14
  that
• 54:14
  was
• 54:14
  super
• 54:15
  safe.
• 54:16
  And,
• 54:17
  you
• 54:17
  know,
• 54:17
  I
• 54:17
  grew
• 54:18
  up
• 54:18
  here.
• 54:18
  So.
• 54:19
  Weirdly
• 54:20
  though,
• 54:20
  I
• 54:20
  think
• 54:20
  he.
• 54:21
  Depending
• 54:22
  on
• 54:22
  how
• 54:22
  long
• 54:22
  we
• 54:22
  stay
• 54:22
  in
• 54:23
  the
• 54:23
  city,
• 54:24
  I
• 54:24
  don't
• 54:25
  know,
• 54:25
  I
• 54:25
  think
• 54:25
  he
• 54:25
  might
• 54:25
  have
• 54:26
  a
• 54:26
  harder
• 54:26
  time
• 54:26
  if
• 54:26
  we
• 54:26
  stay
• 54:26
  in
• 54:27
  the
• 54:27
  city,
• 54:27
  letting
• 54:27
  her
• 54:28
  go
• 54:28
  off
• 54:28
  on
• 54:28
  her
• 54:28
  own.
• 54:29
  Oh,
• 54:29
  yeah,
• 54:29
  I
• 54:30
  think
• 54:30
  he'll
• 54:30
  be
• 54:30
  really.
• 54:30
  But
• 54:31
  if
• 54:31
  we
• 54:31
  live
• 54:31
  in
• 54:31
  a
• 54:31
  suburb,
• 54:32
  he'll
• 54:32
  be
• 54:32
  like,
• 54:32
  here's
• 54:32
  a
• 54:32
  golf
• 54:33
  cart.
• 54:33
  Have
• 54:33
  at
• 54:33
  it.
• 54:34
  Go
• 54:34
  for
• 54:34
  it.
• 54:34
  Yeah.
• 54:35
  I
• 54:35
  don't
• 54:35
  know,
• 54:35
  but
• 54:35
  I
• 54:35
  enjoyed
• 54:36
  it.
• 54:36
  I
• 54:36
  liked
• 54:37
  it.
• 54:37
  Good.
• 54:38
  Well,
• 54:38
  thank
• 54:38
  you
• 54:38
  guys
• 54:38
  for
• 54:39
  joining
• 54:39
  us
• 54:39
  for
• 54:39
  today's
• 54:40
  episode
• 54:40
  of
• 54:41
  Other
• 54:41
  People's
• 54:41
  Parents
• 54:42
  Parenting.
• 54:42
  Please
• 54:43
  join
• 54:43
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• 54:43
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  week.