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- 0:00Hello, and welcome to maintaining frame number ninety eight. What's scary about population
- 0:06collapse? I'm your host, Alison, and with me is the very intrepid
- 0:12and determined Brian, who's who's still with us and still attempting to stay in
- 0:20the game despite having a bit of an a laryngeal technical difficulty ongoing. Yeah,
- 0:28all right, yeah, so I have not given up. I'm going
- 0:32to keep going. No, he's going to keep he's going to keep going.
- 0:35He's going to make sure that we get these streams out. But I
- 0:38will attempt to talk twice as much so that you don't think it's necessary.
- 0:49No, it is just an eventuality. It's not necessary, you know.
- 0:54And now that you have a now that you have a handicap, I'm going
- 0:57to take advantage, do uh and do even more of the talking. All
- 1:02right, So this is a video that has was requested by the Great Indoors
- 1:11in exchange for essentially supporting the fundraiser, which you know, if you guys
- 1:15want to do that, just message me on discord if you're part of the
- 1:19discord and we can we can arrange something and h yeah, this is tell
- 1:25me about this this individual who is being interviewed here, Brian because Louise Perry,
- 1:32so I kind of had like she's basically been making the rounds recently,
- 1:38making a lot of making a lot of appearances talking about her book, but
- 1:46also like the her strong feelings about the the consequences of the sexual revolution.
- 1:56Also, she doesn't call it the second wave feminist movement. Maybe she thinks
- 2:00they're separate things. I'm not sure. I think they were intertwined, but
- 2:07she is. She used to be a feminist. I have a little bit
- 2:12of our early life thing. So Louise Perry graduated from University of London's Sas
- 2:20with a bachelor's degree in anthropology, reported to have included women's studies. At
- 2:24this time, she is said to have conformed with the views of her peers
- 2:30that you know, basically she was a sex positive feminist, believe that porn
- 2:35is great, BDSM is fun, sex work is real work, etc.
- 2:39However, her views changed after university and she wrote a book called The Case
- 2:46Against Sexual Revolution that was published in twenty twenty two. And she's been making
- 2:52the rounds, appearing on The Lotus Eaters and Chris Williamson's Modern Wisdom and now
- 2:59today on triggered Nometry. I think she may have been on there before as
- 3:02well. And I mean, yeah, that's basically short version of it.
- 3:08She's she's okay, Like there's something that she says that I like, I
- 3:15think that she's afraid to sort of name you know, name names. Yeah.
- 3:23Yeah, I mean it's a normal thing. But but I mean she
- 3:27is like identifying the issues. And I watched this video. I did watch
- 3:32the whole thing, and I'm glad it's broken up into sections. And I
- 3:38will say that it was a bit of a roller coaster because there were things
- 3:40that I was like, yes, I agree with that. I think that's
- 3:45solid, and then there were things that made me want to, like,
- 3:47you know, pull my hair out, but not in a shocking way.
- 3:52Like it's again where it's frustrating because everybody needs a little bit more time and
- 4:00they'll get there, you know. Yeah, so let her cook. Yeah,
- 4:05yeah, right exactly. But yeah, and I think the Triggerometry guys
- 4:11honestly were more frustrating than she was because they really wanted to like figure out
- 4:16how to blame men some more, you know. So I mean I'm not
- 4:21saying we men shouldn't, you know, take the blame for something. But
- 4:27it's kind of retarded that we're still doing that because it's like, you know,
- 4:31here's a here's an algebraic formula X plus two equals why And now it's
- 4:38like, all I want to do is solve for why. You know,
- 4:41that's what they're doing. It's like, we can't solve the problem that way.
- 4:45So yeah, exactly, I mean it's if indeed women have responsibility,
- 4:53you can't get anywhere by continuing to blame men. This is yeah, simple
- 4:58factor. And the thing is that it's really difficult for men to invent what
- 5:02women are going to select from them. Does that make sense? Like,
- 5:09you know they and it's it's also there's this huge elephant in the room that
- 5:15people don't want to acknowledge, and that is that women place significant selection pressure
- 5:21on men. Now, because we are more of a pair bonding species,
- 5:26there's also a selection pressure that's placed on women. But for the most part,
- 5:30the evolutionary selective pressure is placed on women on men, by women on
- 5:34men. Okay, and and and that's just the simple way of putting it.
- 5:39You know, why does the peacock have such an elaborate tale Because it's
- 5:43been selected for by the p hen and so it's it's it. And this
- 5:48is something that we don't we seem to really struggle with in our society,
- 5:53that women have the power of selection. They select the men who end up
- 6:00having children, and over time that exerts a significant force social force and evolutionary
- 6:08force if you step back far enough, it exerts a significant evolutionary force.
- 6:14When we're dealing with a situation that the problem is what women are selecting for
- 6:18in men is counterproductive to a functioning society, then it is extremely difficult for
- 6:28men to decide what women are going to select for in them. See what
- 6:33I'm saying, Like, it's it's I don't think that there is a society
- 6:38in which men have made that. And part of the reason why is because,
- 6:44I mean, there's a certain aspect of male psychology that they want to
- 6:47be held to a standard. And if they're inventing the standard that they're held
- 6:50to, it feels really fake. It's like that whole guy smiley self affirmation
- 6:56stuff. I'm awesome because I have lived up to the standard that I've invented
- 7:00for myself, and it feels fake, like someone was saying in the comments,
- 7:04I think it was quicksilver tongue. Getting approval from yourself or getting approval
- 7:10from someone else is like finding, you know, twenty bucks on the ground.
- 7:15Getting approval from yourself is like finding out your money is counterfeit in your
- 7:19wallet. So it's just it's just it doesn't have the same kind of emotional
- 7:30worse to it. So and so that's that's sort of like a little bit
- 7:34of my spiel. It's why we seem to really struggle with some a basic
- 7:38fact of biology, which is the female tends to put selective pressure on the
- 7:43male, and human beings are no less part of biology when it comes to
- 7:47that. And that not saying that that isn't an ought to be, I'm
- 7:51just saying it's an is. Yeah, And if we if we deny it,
- 7:57then we get into these endless kind of problems with assigning blame because if
- 8:05we if we essentially say, well, it's men who construct all of society
- 8:09and all of the social pressures and and this this this selective pressure that women
- 8:13place on men is purely socialized, then again it just goes back to,
- 8:18well, men have decided to put this pressure on them from women arbitrarily,
- 8:26and well, what do we do then I guess men have to stop doing
- 8:31that. Yeah, could It seems like that's gonna be that's gonna be difficult,
- 8:37that's yeah. Yeah, guys, just just stop making women put selective
- 8:41pressure on you, you know, stop making women not choose you. To
- 8:48stop that, that's all you need to do. Just just just figure out
- 8:52how to you know, just just stop doing that. Yeah. So anyway,
- 8:56let's uh, let's get bit. So let's get into it first,
- 8:58and one, tell you what sections you want to do the things, and
- 9:01I'll tell you what sections there are and you can decide which one, you
- 9:07know, piece your interest the most. Oh oh, you're going to present
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- 10:24slash just the tip. All right, let's get into it. Let's get
- 10:26all right in. So Louise Perry on this interview, by the ways,
- 10:33is quite pregnant, so she is promoting natalism. And let's see, there
- 10:41is a section called the Signal of Luxury Beliefs, which is where I think
- 10:50it sort of reflects what we have talked about. How you know, we
- 10:52live in this very comfortable society and so these we live in a time of
- 11:00beliefs that are you know, only possible when everything is doing so well,
- 11:05and it actually kind of creates a problem. But here's one that I thought
- 11:09was interesting. It's called it's called why Society Shame's single mothers, which just
- 11:15raises my eyebrows a lot. So do you want to go with that one?
- 11:20Okay, So let me just take a look at this, And there's
- 11:24society's view of unfaithful men? Is monogamy best for women? Are people having
- 11:30less sex? The issues coming from medication, So they're talking about the pill
- 11:37and ssriyes, and the effects of that. Why natalism is so controversial?
- 11:43Yeah it is. It's considered right wing. Okay, And I said,
- 11:48basically, we'd cover the first half because there's a lot. Yeah, okay,
- 11:52let me think let's or we can just go to a relationship between the
- 11:56sexes as one of the first ones I want to go. Let's let's do
- 12:00this in a little reverse order, just to shake it up. Let's go
- 12:03to why is natalism so controversial? And then we'll get back into the Yeah.
- 12:09Let's let's all right. Let's let's say there we're going to place some
- 12:13of that. Let me switch scenes here so that you guys can see what
- 12:16we're looking at, and here we go. This is fascinating to me because
- 12:20if you look into it for about three seconds, you instantly get like you
- 12:24can be showing one graph and you suddenly like get everything right. They're talking
- 12:28about the replacement rates and the birth rates. So it's pretty you know,
- 12:33it's pretty bad. Yeah, you know that thing that when I was on
- 12:37Wick they told me wasn't happening, and that I was like blowing out a
- 12:39proportion. It's not a big deal. Yeah, that thing. Well,
- 12:43it's not even the replacement rate. Well, if you mean by replacement of
- 12:46people actually having children to replace themselves, yeah, because they'll get into Oh
- 12:52this is the great No, it isn't the great replacement. No. I
- 12:56mean I mean people in a given country having children, like Japanese people making
- 13:03Japanese babies, not a bunch of people who are not Japanese moving into Japan.
- 13:09Because but that doesn't solve the problem long No. In fact, it
- 13:13actually just makes Japan disappear. I mean you'll still have people, but you
- 13:18won't have Japan anymore, Okay. I mean even if you bring in people
- 13:22from I believe that they're going for Nigerians to go into Japan. When the
- 13:30Nigerians get into Japan, they become naturalized in some cases and for the most
- 13:37part, and they have the same problem within a couple generations that they stop
- 13:43having children. So even when you import people, you're not even gonna end
- 13:48up replacing anyone. Like this is what's happening. This is what you see.
- 13:52People are going to these other countries, so they're importing immigrants, but
- 13:58the immigrants stop having kids. So I mean it's if you're worried about the
- 14:03immigrants replacing the native populations, that actually probably won't happen because as soon as
- 14:09they naturalize any degree, they stop having kids. So it's just you're gonna
- 14:15have to keep importing immigrants, and they naturalize, they stop having kids.
- 14:20They're not gonna be replacing anyone because they have the same they're they're adopting the
- 14:24same problem that we have. So it's ultimately immigration is no solution. I
- 14:30mean, it's in the short term it might buoy up your economy, but
- 14:35in the long term you're just gonna have to keep bringing more people in.
- 14:39And what happens is that you what seems to be happening is that culturally it
- 14:45gets to be more and more difference on each successive way of immigration, and
- 14:50then you also end up bringing in people from countries that don't agree and or
- 14:58have inherent conflicts with between those two countries, and they bring those those conflicts
- 15:03in. So's it's destabilizing, it's destructive, and it's ultimately not solving the
- 15:09problem because the problem is in some aspect of Western culture, and it's you
- 15:15know, as soon as the immigrants come in and they naturalize, they have
- 15:18the same problem, so they're not actually solving it. Immigration isn't solving it.
- 15:22And I don't think that immigration is actually going to lead to the replacement
- 15:26of native populations because, like I said, as soon as the new people
- 15:31come into the country, they naturalize to the degree where they stop having children.
- 15:35So we need to solve this because there is no solution, because that's
- 15:39what the people on Wick were say. The men on Wick, we're saying,
- 15:41oh, we'll just we'll we'll just bring people in. And then when
- 15:46I said, but that doesn't solve it because they naturalize and then have the
- 15:50same problem of not having children. They either iron I don't know if they
- 15:54were ironically suggesting it, but they said, well, you know, we'll
- 15:56just turn Africa into a breeding colony. Can you remember that? Yeah,
- 16:00I think they were joking, but I mean it's because they didn't really want
- 16:04to look at this question seriously and so instead they were like, well,
- 16:11you know, we'll just do that. But my point is it doesn't really
- 16:15contradict yours, is that it's using Japan as an example. Not only are
- 16:21you not solving the problem by bringing in people from another country, because they
- 16:25also are going to end up adapting, you know, a lot of that
- 16:29mentality, and they're gonna stop reproducing as well, or at least they're gonna
- 16:33stagnate in the same way. But you're also going to erase what is Japan,
- 16:38which is the culture and the people. And on top of that,
- 16:42you know, of the ones that do adopt that that national identity, they
- 16:48will also be you know, disappear, and so what will be left is
- 16:52the people who did not naturalize that decided to keep having babies. So you're
- 16:56still gonna change the country completely. And I use Japan as an example because
- 17:03when I mean, I didn't bring it up with the Whig people because of
- 17:06my voice but I think that if I did it that way, it would
- 17:10be harder for them to make a defense of then if I said the United
- 17:14States, because it's okay to say that about the United States, but I
- 17:17can't say that about some you know, foreign country that has a rich culture
- 17:22that everyone loves. And I'm like, well, what if it disappeared?
- 17:25Like what if Italy was just gone? You know, would you miss it?
- 17:30So destroying the Like the other thing is that in this equation when they
- 17:36talk about the replacement theory, and like I said, I think that what
- 17:38we're talking about is more much more nuanced than that, But you're also destroying
- 17:42the places that you're importing from. Especially Yeah, you are solve the problem.
- 17:49Yeah it's no, it's double damage and joking. But although honestly,
- 17:52if they don't engage with the concept, then how is it joking or just
- 17:56like right, no, I don't If you import from Africa, like you're
- 18:02taking the best from that culture, You're bringing them in and they stop breeding,
- 18:08and then what happens to Africa? Right, you know? And and
- 18:11what in what happens? Yeah, it goes both ways. It's very destructive
- 18:17both ways. You know that there isn't the the people who could provide the
- 18:22greatest solutions for their cultures in Africa aren't there or in certain areas of Africa,
- 18:29and you know, and and they aren't continuing their culture. They're just
- 18:33coming here and you know, losing their culture. We're losing. It's it's
- 18:37it's not it's not a solution. It's not a long term solution because it
- 18:41doesn't deal with the problem of people breeding. And ultimately, if it's all
- 18:47across the world, which is what's happening, I mean, look at the
- 18:48numbers from I think it's the Sudan like or uh, the Democrat the Democratic
- 18:56Republican, Yeah, those those Africa nations. If you look at the statistics
- 19:03on births over the last few years, in the last few years, for
- 19:10using the Democratic Republic of Congo, they've gone from over six babies per two
- 19:15six and that's only in like three years, so they've gone from like six
- 19:18point twenty five to six, so they're going down two and it's increasing.
- 19:25So we're already below replacement in a lot of countries around the world, and
- 19:30even the countries that are above replacement are headed down. So this is an
- 19:36issue all around the world. So even bringing in people is not going to
- 19:41solve that. What happens when the d d RC is below replacement. You
- 19:47can't be bringing babies from Africa if the African people are no longer having babies
- 19:53too, like they they and once they get even lower, once they get
- 20:00below like four babies per woman, they can no longer send immigrants, like
- 20:07they can no longer shore up other cultures flagging population. I mean they need
- 20:12to actually keep What I'm getting at is they need to actually keep more than
- 20:15a replacement, right, because then they need to have children to send to
- 20:18other countries so that they can keep a replacement. Right. It's ridicus,
- 20:23It's something that we need to solve, and it's just simply women are not
- 20:30the average woman is not attracted to the average man in the system, in
- 20:37the like the modern economic system. Yeah, and that is a problem that
- 20:45is not something you can put on men, because men don't choose the selective
- 20:49pressure that women put on them. Okay, they just don't. So this
- 20:55is a situation like how do we get to the plates where the average woman
- 21:00is attracted to the average man again and they want to have children? Like,
- 21:06how do we get there? What do we need to do right otherwise
- 21:10we're basically this is this is gonna be the end of the human race.
- 21:14And for those of you who are like, oh you live long, die
- 21:15out, well, the unraveling of our technology and our civilization at this point
- 21:26that's going to be a species like an earthwide holocaust. Like we can't afford
- 21:33that at this point. We're we're we're for the stars or bust at this
- 21:38point. But it so we can't. We cannot just be like, ah,
- 21:42you know, let's just let's just let the human race die out.
- 21:47The Earth is now basically a cyborg and we constitute part of their side at
- 21:52cyborg parts, and if you get rid of them, well, I mean,
- 21:56it will probably survive in the long term, like you know, it
- 21:59survived the ash droid impact, but we're going to be looking at some serious
- 22:03environmental degradation or deterar destruction and a lot of loss of species. So you
- 22:10know, it's not so don't be so bluse about Live long, die out.
- 22:12Yeah, that's don't be so bluse about that. It doesn't bill have
- 22:18significant consequences. Well, I don't know, we should watch the video,
- 22:25so let's get into this talk matches, but not just in western countries.
- 22:30It's just way below replacement. Uh. And you know, Francis was we
- 22:36were having lunch and he was talking about the fact that teachers are getting fired
- 22:40from schools now because there's not enough kids and restructuring. Yeah. Yeah,
- 22:45particularly in central London there's schools closing down. So you've got that going on.
- 22:49And yet whenever I see any politician who who's like, maybe like Miriam
- 22:53Kate, you know, whatever you think about the rest of her politics or
- 22:56whatever, she just says we need we need to talk about babies, and
- 23:00suddenly, like the swarm of rage descends upon them. The same with Look,
- 23:04I don't know much about Victor Orban. I read bad things about him
- 23:07in the papers. Okay, let's assume that they're all true. But still
- 23:11like, why why is this such a like a controversial subject to say,
- 23:17hey, we were not having enough children and maybe we should think about ways
- 23:21of encouraging peoples because blaming moment. Yeah, I mean I think so,
- 23:30I think, uh it is it is like, well, I think the
- 23:37ants like when when he says that this woman said, hey, we should
- 23:41probably start having babies, and he said there was a wave of rage.
- 23:45He didn't get specific, but I'm willing to bet it was mostly, if
- 23:48not entirely, women that did it or the men who you know simp to
- 23:55them, kind of like when we were talking about AI girlfriends and I said,
- 24:00well, you know, men would probably rather have a real woman,
- 24:03and they were like, no, no, women are free now and they
- 24:04can choose, and you know, they they're just they just have good they
- 24:07just have standards, and men aren't meeting those standards. You know. It
- 24:11was like this whole please don't please, don't do there. It's too sensitive,
- 24:15and I'm just like, well, you know, and I think that's
- 24:18what happened here too. It is verboten to bring this up. So there
- 24:23was something there is at Okay, there's a couple things. First of all,
- 24:27a commentator said, you should really lean into the Godfather voice. Oh
- 24:33okay, Well, I don't know. I can't. The sound of my
- 24:37own voice is aggravating. I don't know. It's just yeah, like I'm
- 24:42trying to just talk low like this. You're just you come to me on
- 24:48the day of my daughter's wedding. I'm going to give you an offer you
- 24:53can refuse. The other thing is I wanted to, like the wicks panels
- 25:00really interesting because I got the feeling like a lot of the a lot of
- 25:07the impetus behind that is if if women aren't held to a standard, then
- 25:11men aren't either, so that we can just live a life of pure indulgence,
- 25:17you know, as the beautiful people in in in the mouse utopia.
- 25:21And so the the idea that we we don't we don't actually look at the
- 25:29fact that men are selected for by women, So women establish this standard we
- 25:34don't actually look at. That means that for the most part, men don't
- 25:41have to uphold or live up to a standard. And I think that that
- 25:45might be attractive to certain types of men. I don't want to and you
- 25:52know, and I can get it, like society has asked so much of
- 25:59men that maybe they deserve a vacation just walk off, you know, and
- 26:04just have you know. However, I don't think the type of guy who
- 26:11is interested in that kind of or having that or recognizing that as a break
- 26:18for men really really is interested in I think that they tend to be very
- 26:26female focused for whatever reason, if that makes sense. Yeah, Like they're
- 26:30they're like, oh, you can't put any pressure on women. You can't
- 26:33blame women. You can't put women any kind of expectations on women. You
- 26:37know that any kind of external standard that you hold women up to is misogyny,
- 26:42dread, misogyny, all of that, et cetera, et cetera,
- 26:45et cetera. And I just find that really interesting that there's that that conflation.
- 26:53Like these guys who seem to want to not be held to a standard
- 26:59also are very ginocentric in a way, and they use that yeah, yeah,
- 27:04well they want to hold they want to hold o their meant to standards
- 27:08though there's no there's They have all the courage in the world when it comes
- 27:12to that, when it comes to like saying we need any men to step
- 27:17up, is you know, it's so stunning and brave, and it's it's
- 27:22stunning and radical, very radical. Albert Nita Retro gave us two dollars Canadian
- 27:26and said, you sound a little better today, Brian. I can't really
- 27:30tell. It's like every morning I get up and I talk to Jojo because
- 27:33he's the only guy that's up with me, and I hear myself and I,
- 27:37oh, I think I'm getting better, and then like within an hour,
- 27:41I sound like this again, So I don't know. Anyway, let's
- 27:45place some more of this to reproduce the society in which they live. Why
- 27:49do people think it's inherently fascist? Yeah, I mean it's worth saying that.
- 27:55Basically every it's it's because they're anti human. Ultimately, there seem to
- 28:02be a push for anti natalism and breaking fighting men and women since before the
- 28:10nineteen sixties, but it really picked up steam around that time, and I
- 28:14don't think it's slowing down. And they will use any narrative to promote it.
- 28:18I mean they'll say, you know, if you have kids, it's
- 28:21bad for the environment. Why would you want to bring up children in this
- 28:22crazy world? And they'll make the world crazy, and then they'll tell you
- 28:27shouldn't have kids in it. I mean, there is a significant and overt
- 28:33push to keep men and women apart from each other, suspicious of each other,
- 28:40hating each other, fighting with each other, and not making babies with
- 28:42each other in competition with each other. It's in every aspect and in many
- 28:48ways, women embrace that. They like the idea of like Beeing and Girl
- 28:52Boss. It appeals to them. There is not really an opposite or a
- 28:56mirror of that for men that men find appealing enough to they go along with
- 29:02it. So I mean, Lori Penn. I mean there's a Louise Perry.
- 29:06Sorry, and I'm gonna get her name wrong. She does say that
- 29:10she thinks this is anti human at the end of the day, but that's
- 29:15later on in this show. This is like towards the end that she says
- 29:17that country cares about this. Up until five minutes ago, there used to
- 29:21be this line in Australia encouraging people to have more children. That it was
- 29:26you have one form and one for dad and one for Australia encouraging people to
- 29:29have three kids. So it's it's it's definitely not. I mean, it's
- 29:32also the case like Nazi Germany and Soviet Russia, and so one encourages high
- 29:36fertility. That doesn't mean that that certain group. Yeah, that doesn't mean
- 29:42that natalism is unique to authoritone regimes by any means. It's basically, well,
- 29:48it's super obvious that that is not Like Nazi Germany and the Soviet Union
- 29:53wanted babies because they needed soldiers, that's you know, and they probably wanted
- 30:00to be a majority. But that doesn't have anything to do with like human
- 30:04beings existing is not. It should not be political, but again, the
- 30:11feminist left makes it political for whatever reason. So Nerd Tard, he's on
- 30:19our our, our vertical, so he's not like a normal higher nerds tard.
- 30:25I'm only high letting your comment because I saw that you're on the shorts
- 30:29version of this show, and he says, why don't you have Rachel Wilson
- 30:33on. I've I've emailed her many times. I was talking to her last
- 30:37year. I talked about her book. She was willing to come on.
- 30:42She hasn't replied to me in a while. Maybe she's gotten really busy.
- 30:47I've I sent her an email the other day. Actually that was kind of
- 30:49a poke, like, hey, you know, if you want to come
- 30:52on, but I haven't heard from her, so thank you for asking.
- 30:56I know who she is. I've read her book, but yeah, I
- 31:00haven't heard from her. So yeah, it's ultimately up to the individual in
- 31:04question if they want to respond. Yeah. Yeah, we reach out to
- 31:08people all the time and sometimes they get back to us. Usually what happens
- 31:15is though they come on the show and then they blow up after and then
- 31:18we never hear from them again. Like Blair White and you know Sidney Watson
- 31:25and Lauren Chan when she was called roaming millennial like these. You know,
- 31:29there's lots of people who have made an appearance and then they just they just
- 31:33go oh, Aid and Paladin. You know, I discovered her winter channel
- 31:36is kind of small. But she hasn't disappeared. No, I mean I
- 31:41haven't, yeah, as I haven't talked to her in a bit. But
- 31:42but I'm just saying that's the way that it tends to go. So if
- 31:45you want the Midas touch, make an appearance on any Batman and we'll send
- 31:52you through the stratosphere and wave from you know, the planets, Yeah,
- 31:57from the depths. I have a great time. All right. Anyway,
- 32:02let's let's keep going in normal position for governments up until very recently, and
- 32:10yeah, I mean people, I mean because not least like the geopolitical implications
- 32:15are just so blindingly obvious. Yes, like if you if your if your
- 32:19country has a shrinking population, you don't have enough young men to form an
- 32:23army, obviously you're incredibly vulnerable. I mean this just seems sort of Oh
- 32:29I remember this, there was a comment. Yeah, the comment, Oh,
- 32:34the comment was, well, look at the somebody said, well,
- 32:36look, yeah, she's right, look at the what happened with the Ukraine.
- 32:38And then another person was like, well, I think it was Russia.
- 32:40That was the like, uh, the way that they put it was
- 32:47Russia. No, if you solved Russia's militarism, and I'm like, yes,
- 32:55but how are you going to do that? If you have an aggressive
- 33:00state, what are you going to do? Like it's the same thing that
- 33:04they have with criminals. It's like, well, what women wouldn't have to
- 33:07be afraid of men if you just got where you know, criminal men just
- 33:12chose. And it's like what but criminal men are not going to choose that,
- 33:15Yeah, they're not. Like maybe at some point you could intervene in
- 33:20the process of creating a criminal man, after you know, you identify maybe
- 33:24genetic factors related to impulse control and being abused, like you might might be
- 33:30able to develop therapies to intervene at some point, but they're still going to
- 33:36make the choices that they make, okay, and we have no control over
- 33:40that. It's like NATO doesn't have any control over Russia's decisions. Yeah,
- 33:47ultimately, well maybe maybe Russia. I mean I don't know, because we
- 33:52don't know what go ahead, go ahead, Let's not get into the weeds
- 33:57on it. I'm just using it as an example of there is there are
- 34:00states that are aggressive, and the states that are not aggressive have no control
- 34:07over the aggressive states except having an army. Yeah. Oh yeah, So
- 34:14we have no control over criminals except having a justice system and police. Right,
- 34:21it's unless you want to go in and stop single women from having children,
- 34:25you know, that's right. Well, what I was going to add
- 34:30to that is not I don't know anything about Russia's like, you know,
- 34:34policy or how the government's run. That doesn't matter. What I'm saying is
- 34:37is that maybe the men in some countries have a good incentives to want to,
- 34:46you know, potentially fight and die for that country. I mean,
- 34:52the United States used to have that right when it was necessary. There were
- 34:57men and there still are men who have there's a patriotic spirit in them,
- 35:02but there are the incentives for them to do the right thing or good things
- 35:08are diminishing, and incentives for women to be badly are growing. And so
- 35:15whatever kind of behavior you reward, you will get. And so when if
- 35:22our population is dwindling, then that's the reward we're gonna get and you have
- 35:28to ask why is that happening? Who is being incentivized to not have families,
- 35:35to not start families, or where's this coming from? And I mean
- 35:37this is again it's gonna point you in the same direction. You're gonna be
- 35:42like, well, wait a minute, who decides when they get pregnant?
- 35:46It's women Like this, there is no way around that, but they can't
- 35:52they can't talk about it. I mean, Luis Perry is she is not
- 35:54being dishonest when she says a country without an army is vulnerable, right,
- 36:01and we can't have an army of women. It just wouldn't work. So
- 36:07the biological truth of it is that if we want a country that can defend
- 36:14itself, at least there has to be men, and they have to be
- 36:17good men who want to do that, because otherwise they're going to end up
- 36:22with the situation now where you know, there's like all these like foreign wars
- 36:28that Americans don't want to be in, and at the same time, we
- 36:31have like a global propaganda campaign that is anti mail, right, and then
- 36:37we're also asking those men to fight in those wars, and they're like why,
- 36:42like I have nothing, I can't get a good job. I can't
- 36:45find a woman worth anything. You're taking away my entertainment is crap. My
- 36:52video game suck, like my education sucks, my job sucks. Everything costs
- 36:55too much. No one considers my point of view worthwhile. And yet you
- 37:00want me to go to the Middle East, or you want me to go
- 37:02to Eastern Europe. I fight in your wars. So of course they're not
- 37:06going to do it, and they shouldn't. And now they're like, well,
- 37:09why did that happen? You know, we only disincentivize any reason for
- 37:16men to do anything for their country. And so now you're like, well,
- 37:21and again, these people aren't putting that together. I don't think they're
- 37:23not seeing, you know, like how like they're just connecting the well.
- 37:30They want to have a predominant ideology that shames men for their participation in the
- 37:36culture as oppressive, but the same time compels men to sacrifice for the very
- 37:43culture that they're shamed for having created. And it's yeah, okay, did
- 37:47you can continue to try to fit that much fuck into young men's brains or
- 37:52you could stop, you know, like, and the thing is that what's
- 37:57really happening is young men are just shutting down. And of course they're shutting
- 38:00down. When you abuse people, they shut down. Yeah the end.
- 38:06All right, I mean you're lucky that that's all they're doing. Okay,
- 38:08yes, oh yes, I mean Mary, I mean I love Mariam,
- 38:10but yeah, she stands up and talks about natalism, and people just people
- 38:15on the left loose their minds. Well, why is that, Louis,
- 38:16Why is the idea that because natalism is like a clever word, like intellectual
- 38:22use, but like the idea that people in a country or to replenish the
- 38:28population by having children, Yeah, the family is a good bay. Yeah,
- 38:31Like why why is this code that like we have this? By the
- 38:35way, this is another thing that pisses me off, which is like I'm
- 38:37gonna pause it there for a second. I don't even think that like it's
- 38:43a duty that people have. I mean, I think it is to some
- 38:46degree a duty to get married and have kids. But I think that it's
- 38:51just like it's already in us to do that, Like we pair, bond,
- 38:55we reproduce, that's what we do. So it's not that our natural
- 39:00instincts are being like overridden by a demand to reproduce. It's that our natural
- 39:08instincts are actually being suppressed by something that's telling us not to do it.
- 39:14Like they're telling women don't have kids, you know, focus on career,
- 39:17don't be a slave to a man, et cetera. You see this everywhere.
- 39:22Even supposed conservative women are like, you know, freaking out about this
- 39:28Handmaid's tailed narrative that like, because our population is shrinking, you know,
- 39:34the government's gonna start enslaving women and turning them into surrogatece or something. And
- 39:37it's like, no, if you just had kids, you'd be fine.
- 39:42I think most men want that and most women want that. So why are
- 39:45people being told at that that they shouldn't. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
- 39:50We all we got to do. We don't. We can just eliminate
- 39:52the obstacles and we can provide like some perks like tax breaks to people who
- 40:00have kids, which is how it's always been done. It's not even like
- 40:04a new thing. Okay. I think what we'll do is we'll let them
- 40:07finish their thought and then I want to get back into the time codes we
- 40:10were sent. All right, we have this term now something is coded as
- 40:15right wing, which basically means it's not right wing. It's just a bunch
- 40:17of dickheads in the media think that you shouldn't talk about this issue. It
- 40:21gives right wing vibes, right, yeah, which, like, so why
- 40:23is this coded as right wing? Yeah, I mean it's really fascinating question,
- 40:29like why would why would the most affluent people and comfortable people who have
- 40:35ever lived in the history of the world the sizes that actually having babies is
- 40:39bad and is onerous and it's okay. So she sort of deflected the question.
- 40:46I'm not sure sure if she actually answers it, because I'm pretty sure
- 40:50that she just goes into we have an affluent culture, just doesn't want to
- 40:53have children something like that. Yeah, maybe because she avoids the question.
- 41:00I think because the affulence comes from a particular attitude of self interest. You
- 41:06know, get your bag and try to get his bag too, you know,
- 41:09keep your bag, get his bag kind of thing. But to answer
- 41:14their question, so why is natalism seen as far right? Because family is
- 41:21seen as conservative? Astoundingly, I mean, at this point you would have
- 41:24to say, wait, wait, wait, wait wait wait. So having
- 41:27families now is seen as a political position, and I think that it's I
- 41:31think it's because in many ways. Both the left and the right are now
- 41:37more about masculine and feminine in some ways, Like the left is really about
- 41:43the party of the single women. So it's not really masculine and feminine,
- 41:47but it's a particular kind of feminine that isn't that's sort of like a i
- 41:52don't know, like a petrep Han kind of feminism, or a feminine that
- 41:57a feminine that doesn't want to grow up to be of service to anything,
- 42:02exchanges nurturing for virtue signaling over monolithic infant classes, that kind of thing.
- 42:10So you got this kind of i would say, even infant infantile feminine that
- 42:16has grasped the political reins. And because of that, because you now have
- 42:24a political party that is deeply invested in manufacturing a particular kind of outlook,
- 42:34and literally that outlook is the outlook of single women. Like so the outlook
- 42:39of I'm in it for myself. I'm going to keep my bag and get
- 42:43his bag. I'm not interested. I'm interested only in me, time,
- 42:46sex, and the city. That kind of thing, that kind of very
- 42:51hedonistic, achievement focused lifestyle without a sense of responsibility to community, without sense
- 43:00of responsibility to family, replacing those kinds of urgentes. I think that women
- 43:04do have a sense of responsibility to community. I mean a lot of the
- 43:08surge in women in STEM was because of government initiatives to frame going into maths
- 43:16and sciences as a part of patriotism of serving serving the country. And then
- 43:22women responded to that. They responded a hell of a lot better to that
- 43:25than whatever feminism constructed round the victim narrative around STEM. So I mean there
- 43:31is that quality of you know, women do want to serve the greater community.
- 43:36But the Democratic Party creates this kind of intersectionalism which allows women to do
- 43:43that without really impacting their personal life or their personal pursuit of self interest,
- 43:49so that they can virtue signal about the monolithic infant classes without having to change
- 43:53you know, shitty diapers, you know, without actually having to go and
- 43:59help poor people overcome issues or go and dig a well, without actually having
- 44:06to do anything personal in order to feel like a virtuous savior and someone who's
- 44:10serving the community. You know. So it's it's it's again, it's this
- 44:14kind of this. What has happened, in essence is this we now have
- 44:22a political party which is in many ways, the only political party which is
- 44:28constructed and serves a particular form of feminine consciousness, which is very very juvenile,
- 44:36very infantile, very self focused, and isn't interested in serving anything but
- 44:40themselves out outside of the most evacuous and self interested virtue signaling. And that's
- 44:47a lot, you know, Like I'm sure that we're gonna that's gonna hit
- 44:51the misogyny filter because I'm spouting a lot of misogyny there or whatever. But
- 44:59it's the the honest to god truth is that, why would we say,
- 45:02why would we assume that women grow up by virtue of being women? Why
- 45:08would we assume that? Why would we assume that if we construct a society
- 45:15around indulging women's most base instincts, which you know, like you can have
- 45:21sex whenever you want, you don't have to worry about getting pregnant. If
- 45:24you get pregnant, you can have an abortion. And I'm not exactly against
- 45:28birth control or abortion, but you know, and if you if you just
- 45:30want to for whatever impulse you want to have a child, then we'll pay
- 45:37for that too, Like there's no point are women expected to endure the consequences
- 45:44of their own choices? They aren't even when they're criminals to the same degree
- 45:46men are. So we constantly give women less accountability than men. We constantly
- 45:54construct this kind of fantasy world in which women's choices don't matter and they don't
- 46:01have an effect, a knock down, a knock on effect on society,
- 46:06on community, on their own children, on men. We just pretend that
- 46:08that doesn't exist, and it's constructing, basically a fantasy land for women.
- 46:14And then we have a political position Democrats the left that is all about continuing
- 46:21the fantasy land for the psychology. And so I would say that the reason
- 46:27why having family has become right wing is because the left is invested in keeping
- 46:32women single. Yeah. Well, although when the left says something is coded
- 46:37right or is right wing, what they're really saying is it is evil because
- 46:42it is not what we believe it is. So they're trying to That's why
- 46:46when people say, well, how is that right, they're just putting everything
- 46:49they don't like in one box, calling it right wing and then saying that
- 46:52you're evil for support. Why why wouldn't they wouldn't lend they like family?
- 46:57Well, that's why that is. No, you're right, I'm just adding
- 47:00to what you said. I think there's a there's a base like reason,
- 47:06but then there's like a reason behind that. And ultimately, single motherhood is
- 47:10essentially a state sponsored family unit. That's what because the state is involved.
- 47:17And this is another aspect of it not being right wing, it is it
- 47:21is in fact a product of statism, which is leftism. And so there
- 47:25you go. That's what that's what single motherhood is, and that's what they
- 47:29want to perpetuate. And that's why single moms always vote Democrat because the Democrat
- 47:34Party says, look, we are basically the husband, your husband and the
- 47:38father of your kids. And if you want to keep getting like your house
- 47:43paid for and your food and all that, you got to vote for us.
- 47:45And that's that's what it is. It's and you know, it's like
- 47:50people talk about how we're like getting getting to the point where harems are being
- 47:54formed. There already is one. It is all of these single moms and
- 47:59the state. That's what it is. So anyway, I got a superchow,
- 48:05and I got a super chow, so I should read that, and
- 48:07okay, I'll superchat. Yeah, go ahead. Ros So mister stupid gives
- 48:13us five dollars and says, I'm confused. At times, Karen is ranting
- 48:16over the fact that there's eight frickin' billion people stumbling over each other. At
- 48:21other times, Alison loses her cool over women's material desires that require four planets
- 48:25worths of resources. Now you're most concerned about to decline in birth rates at
- 48:30a global stale. Didn't the guys at Wick have a point when they said,
- 48:32if the Earth's population is reproducing at replacement level, why won't immigration solve
- 48:37the numbers problems in the first world? Okay, let's let me just summarize.
- 48:40First of all, me and Karen are different people. Clara, like
- 48:45me and Brian are different people. We have different opinions about things. I
- 48:50cannot answer to what she said about the eight billion people in the world because
- 48:54first of all, I don't remember her saying it, and second of all,
- 48:58I don't know what she was getting at. So because I'm not her,
- 49:00I don't have access to her thinking. Now I can answer to my
- 49:02statements. I have lost my cool over women's material desires that would require four
- 49:08planets worth of resources. You don't need four planets worth of resources to have
- 49:14children. Said that, I think you just said it was two earths though
- 49:20too earthly. Yeah, to earth to be clear. Yeah, this is
- 49:22and also women's material desires generally. So if if men earned enough to get
- 49:30married, since basically what's happening is men need to earn twice as much on
- 49:36average to get married, then we would need that much more resources to fulfill
- 49:40the material goods that that would purchase. Of course, there'd probably be a
- 49:44lot of inflation, but so it wouldn't be quite But you know that's so
- 49:47that's where that comes from. But that's not about having children at all.
- 49:52In fact, the women who seem to want this may never have children.
- 49:54They're not asking for this to have children, right, because you don't need
- 50:00all this to have children. They're probably asking for it because they don't want
- 50:04to feel like they're losing out, and they want to compete successfully with the
- 50:07women who are married for their friends, who are their friends' expectations and that
- 50:12kind of thing. So a lot of this is I think female female competition.
- 50:16Didn't the guys at Wick have a point when they said that the Earth's
- 50:19population is reproducing, but it's not reproducing at replace. Yeah, when they
- 50:23said that, but they're wrong. It's like most. In most countries it
- 50:28is below replacement level, and some countries in Africa it is like slightly above.
- 50:32But it's starting to level out. Yeah, it's starting to plateau,
- 50:37as it were. And we're also bear in mind that we're talking about like
- 50:42a time in history where there's a large number of old people will be dying
- 50:47soon. So these numbers look good maybe, but they won't be for very
- 50:53long. And also, eight billion people in the context of the entire planet
- 50:59really isn't that many. I don't think that we're overpopulated. I don't think
- 51:02we're close to it. Okay, So just to conclude with I think I
- 51:07have been explaining what the problem is. We're not at a replacement level.
- 51:13If we import people, they won't be at replacement level. So let's say
- 51:19we import half the children of Africa. Okay, the people who are left
- 51:27cannot well will well. First of all, they will be reducing in the
- 51:30amount of children that they have, because this is a worldwide phenomenon. But
- 51:34also you are going to be reducing their population by half and then taking the
- 51:38product of that reduced population because as they come into our culture, they stop
- 51:45breeding, they stop having children. So let's say you have a population of
- 51:50Africa ten people, right, ten couples having children, and you take the
- 51:55children, like half the children of those ten couples. Then in the next
- 52:00generation you have five couples having children in Africa, right, How is that
- 52:06sustainable? If you are taking the population that's having children bringing them into the
- 52:13countries that are not having children, they become naturalized and stop having children.
- 52:19Like basically, what you're saying is Africa has to have a replacement rate for
- 52:22Africa plus a replacement rate for the rest of the world, and they are
- 52:28going down at some point that's not going to be tenable. We have to
- 52:32solve this problem. Okay, So that's the explanation for all of this.
- 52:37And the thing about like multiple earths is has more to do with women's materialism,
- 52:44yes, rather than like our ability to sustain that, because maybe if
- 52:47women stopped asking for so much shit, then we'd probably be better off.
- 52:52But this is another thing. It's like the people who are concerned about climate
- 52:54would rather that we just kill more human beings than have women less crap,
- 53:01you know, I mean that would be that would like, like I swear
- 53:05to God, it would fix the problem. And so it's the issue is
- 53:07not that we're at replacement level. Fine, replacement level is a good thing
- 53:10to aim for, because we're going all below it. Yes, okay,
- 53:15I wanted to go to the next thing I wanted to do was to go
- 53:19to just give me a second. We're having less sex? Okay, so
- 53:24eighteen nineteen h right here? Why are people having less sex? Yes?
- 53:32Okay, all right, I got a super chatm for realally quick. Well,
- 53:36while we got this kind of sounds like what Muhammad Ali said about Vietnam.
- 53:42When I want equality, you're my oppressor, and when I want to
- 53:45practice my faith, you're my oppressor. For five dollars Canadian thank you,
- 53:49Albert. Okay, I'm gonna go into the sources now and let's let's try.
- 53:55We're talking. We seem to be talking about sex more than ever.
- 53:59Colnogra fee is literally the click of the click of a button away at the
- 54:02tap of a screen away dating apps. You can go on there and you
- 54:07can get potentially whatever it is that you like, and you to a very
- 54:13fine degree. But we're having less section ever before. Yeah, it's funny,
- 54:17isn't it. The sexual session? Yeah? Yeah, I mean my
- 54:21theory although I don't really have any proof for it. It's just it's just
- 54:22vibed. Is that it's that those things might be linked. It might be
- 54:27that when you have this sort of copious availability of sexual stimuli, you don't
- 54:30feel the need to go out and actually do the hard work of building a
- 54:35relationship with a real person, that maybe sex has less mystique. I mean,
- 54:39I think that different opinion. Let's see where are we at. About
- 54:45halfway through that clip, there's like like a all right, well you want
- 54:52to let's let's have a re false it. I just wanted to pause for
- 54:55the you know, to make sure that we don't get hit with the carp
- 54:59That's cool, That's definitely. I think it's definitely the case that when men
- 55:04are not allowed to have sex before marriage, and when they can only get
- 55:07married when they have done various adult things like you've got a job, you've
- 55:13got a house, you earn x amount, whatever, they are going to
- 55:15be extremely motivated to do those things. Whereas if men can get sex just
- 55:22by being good looking or even not, like, why that motivation is removed.
- 55:28So I think there's definitely I think sexual frustration. I think good societies
- 55:34know how to harness sexual frustration to productive ends. All right, I'm going
- 55:39to come at this from a completely different angle instead of again, notice how
- 55:46this has been reframed in terms of men's will, shall we say, instead
- 55:52of like it's the same thing with the elephant that I spoke about earlier.
- 55:55How we seem to have this big issue with recognizing this selective pressure that women
- 56:00exert on men, and now suddenly we're talking about this sexlessness as if men
- 56:05chose it just be hot, bro, Just be hot bro. Yeah,
- 56:10I don't think that's what's happening. First of all, again, it is
- 56:15I think women are in many cases the ones who are sort of choosing whether
- 56:19or not sex happens. Yes, sometimes even without the man's consent. Okay,
- 56:25so this is this is first, This is this is what I would
- 56:29want to point out. The other thing is that if there's a situation where
- 56:34men are not going out like they're they're preferring porn or sex spots or whatever
- 56:39to going out and trying to get in a relationship with a woman, if
- 56:44that's happening, perhaps it's not happening because it's easier, which, incidentally,
- 56:51why should it be so hard for men to get a relationship with a woman.
- 56:55Like at the core of this is this idea that men need to work
- 57:00for it, and of course also that in the process of compelling men to
- 57:04work for it, that they get on a hamster wheel, and the hamster
- 57:07wheel runs society. In other words, so to have I don't think that
- 57:13that's actually what motivates men to work. I think it's children, yes,
- 57:17family and children, and what's happening now is more and more that doesn't seem
- 57:22to be on the table for women. So when you talk about, oh,
- 57:27we're not having sex, I think part of it is that many men
- 57:32would rather forego all of the antics or all of the effort it takes to
- 57:38date women. They'd rather forgo it if they don't think that, for one,
- 57:45family and children are going to be there at the end of the day,
- 57:47so they don't think that they're actually dating now appears to be an endless
- 57:53treadmill with no goal. It's just you know, you give women money,
- 58:00you maybe get sex. It's it's it's it is like going to a whorehouse,
- 58:07except you're also playing the lottery at the same time. You know,
- 58:12let's say, you know, put put your money down, maybe you'll you'll
- 58:15get to go into go sleep with I don't know, one of the prostitutes.
- 58:22You know. Yeah, it's like a slot machine. Pull the lever,
- 58:27maybe maybe you'll get a key to one of the rooms, you know,
- 58:30that kind of thing. It's like, it's prostitution, except prostitution with
- 58:34gambling attached. Right, So a lot of guys are probably not going into
- 58:38that or not interested in that because again, it does not appear to be
- 58:43that there's family formation and children at the end of that. So what's the
- 58:46point. Like a lot of men, that's what motivates them. They want
- 58:52to date because they want to have a family, you know. And and
- 58:55a lot of a lot of the stuff that I see coming out popular stuff
- 59:00for women is that dating has nothing to do with forming a relationship. It
- 59:05has to do with getting free meals. It has to do with having sex
- 59:09with no strings attached, you know, it has to do with having getting
- 59:14like entertainment, feeling feeling good about yourself. It has nothing to do with
- 59:20eventually finding a partner and then the other thing. Again, why should men
- 59:23have to get on this treadmill if we're if we're looking at a post natal
- 59:29society, a society with no children, where women are not expected to have
- 59:32children, they have no responsibility to family. Then what is it that men
- 59:38what is it that they want from men? Well, presumably at this point
- 59:43it's like nothing, right, but what about companionship? Like if you if
- 59:47you have all these expectations on men but no children at the end of the
- 59:51day, no form family formation at the end of the day, then what
- 59:54these women are presenting is this idea that they're extremely expensive whorers with no determined
- 1:00:04outcome. Basically, yeah, like that, it's just like you play the
- 1:00:07slots, maybe you'll get a salute, all right, Like that's basically it.
- 1:00:13And then the other thing is that more and more women don't present the
- 1:00:16idea that men can be loved, that women can love men, And that's
- 1:00:22I'm sure turning off a lot of men because we don't even have to look
- 1:00:25at the sexlessness, because that's probably irrelevant. Let's look at the number of
- 1:00:30men who are even willing to start attempt at dating. Is going down leaps
- 1:00:36and bounds, And I would honestly argue that one it doesn't look like there's
- 1:00:43family on the table, Like at the end of this dating treadmill, are
- 1:00:46you going to get kids and family? Probably not? And two, are
- 1:00:51you even going to get companionship at the end of the day, Like even
- 1:00:54if you're gonna be one of those eternal honeymooners, Like, are you gonna
- 1:00:59get a woman that you think can desire you socially as a friend, sexually
- 1:01:06as a lover? Are you even gonna get a companion Because from what I've
- 1:01:09been seeing, women don't give the impression that they will ever love men.
- 1:01:15There's a lot of women out there, the loudest voices get the very strong
- 1:01:21impression that women are incapable of loving men, or alternatively, if you want
- 1:01:25to frame it in a way that won't be flagged as misogynist, that women
- 1:01:30our men are completely incapable of becoming lovable to women. And so now we're
- 1:01:37seeing the numbers and men who are willing to interact with women at all go
- 1:01:43down and down and down. And we don't have to worry about the sex
- 1:01:45because, let's face it, genital hand shapes do not make a civilization.
- 1:01:52Treating sex as entertainment does not create a future for the human race. Right,
- 1:01:57So there you go, men not engaging because they don't see families at
- 1:02:02the end of the road. You know, why would why would they engage
- 1:02:07in all of this dating behavior, all of this courtship behavior, which incidentally
- 1:02:10arose because it's a huge part of human beings para bonding and forming families.
- 1:02:16Why would they do this when family is not on the table. And why
- 1:02:21would they do this if even if family is not on the table, why
- 1:02:23would they do this if companionship isn't even on the table? Like, women
- 1:02:29need to need to need to figure this shit out. They need to learn
- 1:02:35to appreciate men as companions, right, they need to. And And the
- 1:02:42reason why I say they need to learn this is because I'm pretty sure from
- 1:02:45my experience of all of this, what I'm seeing that the reason why they
- 1:02:50don't appreciate men as companions is because their girlfriends whisper in their ears, he's
- 1:02:54not getting enough for you, he's not doing enough for you. You could
- 1:02:59get so much better. And instead of just saying this is mine, this
- 1:03:05is the guy that I'm going to share my life with, my sorrows and
- 1:03:07hopes, this is the man that I'm going to turn to for comfort and
- 1:03:12hopefully be able to comfort him, this is my partner, Instead they play
- 1:03:16endless games of compare and contrast with their girlfriends, which destabilizes and destroys their
- 1:03:23relationships, and then they do TikTok challenges and all of this other crap,
- 1:03:28and in the back of their mind they're always like, well, what if
- 1:03:30he's getting something more out of this than me. I gotta make sure I
- 1:03:34get my bag, you know. And all of this noise makes it impossible
- 1:03:38for women to clear their minds and simply enjoy the fact that another human being
- 1:03:45has chosen to be with them and there's nothing more valuable in the world than
- 1:03:52that. All. Okay, what's the next section? Should tell it to?
- 1:03:59Well, I mean that was the end of that section. Was there
- 1:04:01something that Great Indoors wanted us to look at specifically? Well, he gave
- 1:04:05a bunch of time codes, and I'm looking through them to find the ones
- 1:04:09that are really good. Let's go back to seventeen oh six, the danger
- 1:04:15of a less peaceful society with a surplus of single men, because that's something
- 1:04:18I also want to deal with. Like, there's a lot, like it's
- 1:04:21it is an over hour video, so there is a lot in it.
- 1:04:25Yeah, I know there's that I want to before I get into the overarching
- 1:04:30stuff, which is society that's wealthy. He equals a society that has fewer
- 1:04:34children. I just wanted to deal with all of the all of the things
- 1:04:39that piss me off. Yeah, sure, that way, Okay, all
- 1:04:43right, let's go. Well, you can say that at an individual level
- 1:04:46that might be fine, and that for some people that might be fine,
- 1:04:50but having it as the norm, yeah, is bad. Right, coming
- 1:04:55back to a conversation about children growing up without fathers, if there's one hundred
- 1:05:00children with one father, it's probably going to struggle to give them you know,
- 1:05:04that's certainly true. Yeah, that's certainly true. And I think also
- 1:05:09it's probably bad for society to have lots of men without mates. Yes,
- 1:05:13yeah, because we do know that fatherhood kind of tames men in terms of
- 1:05:17men commit less crime. And you know that they're just societies with lots of
- 1:05:23sexually frustrated men are more less peaceful societies. And also I know you can
- 1:05:29you can end up you can go from that to be like, oh,
- 1:05:30well, in that case, we need to be apportioning women to all of
- 1:05:33the insults. And you know, there's there's a very just I said,
- 1:05:39sexually frustrated men are necessary for the functioning of society, but don't have too
- 1:05:44many of them. It's destructive. Well, I guess, I guess you
- 1:05:46could say they're like gasoline, Like the exploding the gasoline inside it an engine
- 1:05:53is good, but exploding it outside is bad. But the but the thing
- 1:05:57is that men are not destructive because they're sexually frustrated, right, That's not
- 1:06:09that's not how it works. Destructive men are a very specific subcategory, and
- 1:06:15we really shouldn't even refer to them as men because women are very like destructive
- 1:06:18women are basically the same. Criminal people are a very specific subcategory, right,
- 1:06:28that of people who have genetic abnormalities that lead to poor impulse control combined
- 1:06:32with extremely destructive upbringings. So to say, oh, it's sexual frustration that
- 1:06:40makes men dangerous, that is nonsense. And in fact, it feels like
- 1:06:45it's taking off this whole kind of genetic sin, that of rape, you
- 1:06:49know what I mean, Like it's oh men are rape y, Oh oh
- 1:06:54oh bullshit, that's it. I just I wanted to say that. And
- 1:06:59also men, societies with more men are generally more peaceful, apparently as long
- 1:07:06as you're not shitting on them. The whole time. Yeah, I mean
- 1:07:10like shitting on them the whole time, you know, and you're like treating
- 1:07:13them like human beings and educating contributions. Yeah, exactly, like encouraging them
- 1:07:19to be you know, good men and productive and stuff. But like we're
- 1:07:24not doing we're doing the opposite of that, and where you know, and
- 1:07:30basically we're putting men in a spot where they're lonely. They can't have friend
- 1:07:35groups because that gets broken up, they can't find mates, there's no incentive
- 1:07:41for them to excel at anything. And now we're like, oh my god,
- 1:07:45what happens if there's too many of them, Well, probably do something
- 1:07:48about that, Like, but you can't go and you know, start like
- 1:07:54clutching your pearls after all of this damage has been done. Frankly, you
- 1:07:59should be prize that it's not a lot worse that men are just kind of
- 1:08:03you know, checking out. Yeah, well, I mean they they have.
- 1:08:10First of all, again, it's only going to be a minority of
- 1:08:13people who engage in any kind of criminal violence unless you start creating a narrative
- 1:08:20in which it's justified. Like I mean, soldiers will do this, but
- 1:08:25they believe that they're upholding the principles of their culture. So you know,
- 1:08:30you can create narratives that justify violence. But that's not really what's going on
- 1:08:34here. She's basically just saying, you know, frustrated male equal danger.
- 1:08:39Bullshit. All right, Let's let's go to the next next and play the
- 1:08:45rest of this or is there another another time code? Let's go to fifteen
- 1:08:49fifty three. It's just a little bit before. I know we're going backwards.
- 1:08:54But it's because I wanted to get into why natalism is is seen as
- 1:09:01right wing, which it's simply it's because the Democratic Party is now the party
- 1:09:06of single women, and the cultivate that particular mentality, which means that you
- 1:09:15know, you can't have family, like a woman with a family is not
- 1:09:17a single woman. Therefore family must be condemned. Let's go erosion of monogamy.
- 1:09:26I'm gonna guess this isn't good for women. No, I don't think
- 1:09:30so. I mean there would be some So someone like Dana Fleischmann you've had
- 1:09:32on the part of you. She's friend of mine, she's Polly. I'm
- 1:09:38sure you know she's very open about this, and she would say that there's
- 1:09:42like there's a threshold in terms of how attractive a man is, where women
- 1:09:47are willing to tolerate not being the only woman. Like, if he's so
- 1:09:51attractive and the condition of being with him is that you're part of a harem,
- 1:09:57there's a point where women will be like, Okay, some women,
- 1:10:00yeah, so it will be more of use than others, but like yeah,
- 1:10:03and I guess she'd say, well, it's up to them, you
- 1:10:08know. That's if the women are willing to tolerate not being the only one.
- 1:10:11It's obviously different if if they're being lied to. But if he's being
- 1:10:15open about what's going on, then I suppose you could say they're adults,
- 1:10:19they can make the decision. I think you a pause, Yeah, Well,
- 1:10:29I mean this is like actually happening. There are guys that are so
- 1:10:33high status that women are willing to share him and they're okay with it.
- 1:10:40And I mean they don't even have to really be She's saying, you know,
- 1:10:43as long as he's being honest. But I think that even if the
- 1:10:46conversation has never taken place where he's just like, you know, like he's
- 1:10:51never committed to anybody or anything, and he's just like banking whoever, the
- 1:10:56women will but they I think what often happens is they join the harem and
- 1:11:01what they do is they try to become the number one woman. So you
- 1:11:05know, there's still some intra intersexual competition between the women this guy is with.
- 1:11:13And then they complain about his behavior as if it references all. Yeah,
- 1:11:17of course, and they'll say, well, this is what all men
- 1:11:19are like. But you know it's to go to the home math thing that
- 1:11:25she's only looking at that guy and all the other men don't exist as men.
- 1:11:30This is I think again something that you could look at in terms of
- 1:11:32women's competition with each other and also social proof, because a man who has
- 1:11:38lots of women has a lot of social proof, so because of that he
- 1:11:43becomes more attractive. But again, like what I was talking about was understanding
- 1:11:49and appreciating companionship, right, because this is a purely sexual thing. The
- 1:11:56guys who have these women, who's okay with this is just purely interested in
- 1:12:01the sexuality the guy. Yeah, like he's he's he is, there's nothing
- 1:12:09else there. Or alternatively, she's part of more conservative culture and maybe the
- 1:12:15emphasis is on her relationship with the other wives, right. I mean that
- 1:12:19could work too, but for the most part. It is like it is,
- 1:12:26it's a situation where the value of men's companionship is quite low. So
- 1:12:30it becomes about, oh, does he have social proof from other women?
- 1:12:35You know, can I engage in caddie one upmanship with other women because that
- 1:12:40could be the attraction too, to indulge your competition with other women over this
- 1:12:46one guy who's very valuable and made even more valuable by all that competition that
- 1:12:51you get to indulge in. And what dies along the way is this idea
- 1:12:56of just simply having a companion, opinion, and because that's not what you're
- 1:13:02getting from this. So, I mean, there's that, and that is
- 1:13:06something that women I think have to deal with in themselves of themselves, because
- 1:13:12I think a lot of some of the issue with being able to have a
- 1:13:15companion or pursue companionship is you have to sort of be comfortable with yourself.
- 1:13:21I know a lot of people go in about all the codependence and all this
- 1:13:26stuff, and people who can't survive without a relationship. Honestly, the people
- 1:13:31who have the worst relationship with themselves tend to be unable to keep a relationship
- 1:13:39with someone else. Apologies, lay it out there they talk at big talk
- 1:13:43about codependence, But codependent people probably are more comfortable with themselves than a single
- 1:13:50woman who's talking about how I don't need no man but wants men to hear
- 1:13:57that or say that, you know, oh yeah, constantly can't exist without
- 1:14:04thumbing her nose at the very men she says she don't need. Well,
- 1:14:09you seem to need he of them for something, for some aspect of your
- 1:14:13psychological health. Otherwise you just be trucking along your own way and not talking
- 1:14:17about it publicly, not making TikTok Like I'm just thinking about that one TikTok
- 1:14:24video where the woman is in her house and she's just doing things and she's
- 1:14:28got the h I don't you have to compete with me being alone? You
- 1:14:35know you got you men. You don't compete with other men. You just
- 1:14:41compete with me being all by myself, just with me. And I'm like,
- 1:14:46oh, good lord, Like, you obviously need something from men if
- 1:14:50you're even making this video to make men feel bad that you're not choosing them,
- 1:14:58and just just as a soul, as a completely shallow a side,
- 1:15:01what is with this freaking bulk or fry Like, I mean, it's gone
- 1:15:08from just emphasizing things to just being like your personality. It's it's your whole
- 1:15:15personality and you're so done with the world. Right, Yeah, is a
- 1:15:20nightmare. I could just say it normal life is a nightmare. Okay,
- 1:15:28okay, okay, okay, I can't take it. Okay. I think
- 1:15:32there's a few more seconds than this one, so it's been all right,
- 1:15:35we'll play the rest of this, I think. So that having I think
- 1:15:40it's totally possible, and in fact, there are loads of cases where this
- 1:15:43is the case, where you can say that at an individual level that might
- 1:15:45be fine, and that for some people that might be fine, but having
- 1:15:49it as the norm is bad. Right, coming back to a conversation about
- 1:15:56children growing up without fathers, if there's one hundred chill with one father,
- 1:16:00it's probably going to struggle to give them, you know. That's te Yeah,
- 1:16:04that's true. That happens. That happens in low income urban areas all
- 1:16:12the time. A lot of the single moms, and they're single moms,
- 1:16:15so this benefits the state too, But they usually are all sleeping with like
- 1:16:20a small subset of men who are in the same community, and those men
- 1:16:26are not necessarily high status in that they're like CEOs, but they might be
- 1:16:31gang leaders or drug dealers or you know whatever in like or part of organized
- 1:16:38crime groups in that area. I know, I lived in Humble Park,
- 1:16:42Chicago, and it's you it's all over the city, the south side,
- 1:16:46the west side, whatever, and in these women will know they're sharing the
- 1:16:50same dude right in a lot of cases, and they're okay with it.
- 1:16:56Sometimes it becomes violent between those women. There's lots of like you know,
- 1:17:00street fights with women, Black women and Latina women in these like in the
- 1:17:09projects, and they're fighting over a man and the man's not even there,
- 1:17:13you know, and their kids are involved in everything, and it's like,
- 1:17:16I mean, we can talk about like why that man should be taking responsibility
- 1:17:21or something, but it's kind of stupid because ultimately, it's like even if
- 1:17:27he said I will do my best and he's got one hundred kids, it's
- 1:17:30an unworkable situation. So you got to ask, why, ladies are you
- 1:17:35all knowingly getting pregnant with this same dude. Well, first of all,
- 1:17:41because the government's got to pay for it anyway. So you're like, well
- 1:17:44why not. I knew women who had like four kids, five kids,
- 1:17:48and they would have them from different fathers, specifically because they would get more
- 1:17:53money, either from child support or from the state. And on top of
- 1:17:58that, they got the biggest tax returns somehow. So we're incentivizing this and
- 1:18:03it's what we're gonna get. M Well, what I was going to say
- 1:18:08is, yeah, like, how are you going to get enough money to
- 1:18:14cover one hundred kids from one man? Yeah? And then the only person
- 1:18:19we're trying to hold accountable is the man. It's like, what are you
- 1:18:23going to do about that guy? Like, you can't you can't stop the
- 1:18:27one dude, the pimp that's getting like, you know, twenty women pregnant
- 1:18:31all the time, You can't stop him, but you can probably stop them
- 1:18:36from making these stupid decisions. Yeah, I'm not paying them to do it,
- 1:18:43but yeah, it's like and then, like I remember we talked about
- 1:18:46this when I think it was Musk retweeted the one of the Republican nominees.
- 1:18:53He was talking about how he would make it so that if you find the
- 1:18:57father that he was one hundred percent responsible for the for child support with no
- 1:19:02opt out. Yeah, it's like, well, but in many cases,
- 1:19:05how are you going to get that guided support his hundred kids. Like,
- 1:19:11I mean, if the dude is probably already a criminal, do you really
- 1:19:14think that, Like this is what I'm saying. It's such a it's almost
- 1:19:16like it's a virtue signal to say that because what you're doing, see this
- 1:19:20is what this is what they're doing when these politicians do that. And yeah,
- 1:19:27it doesn't matter what the party is, they're pandering to women still.
- 1:19:31Either they're pandering to women and by promising them free shit, or they're pannering
- 1:19:34to women by promising to make the men pay. But they're pandering to women
- 1:19:40at the end of the day, and that's what has to stop. I
- 1:19:43mean, it's like we have to look, the system that we are now
- 1:19:48using to incentivize bad behavior in single motherhood is unsustainable objectively. And so either
- 1:19:57women are going to be told they have to change their ways, they have
- 1:20:00to like reconsider their habits, they have to change something about their life,
- 1:20:05or the system is going to collapse and there's just not gonna be any money.
- 1:20:10And and like the men they're just gonna be like, you know,
- 1:20:14doing their own thing. Oh, they're just gonna stop fucking around with these
- 1:20:18women. And that's gonna be it. So it's it's it doesn't matter like
- 1:20:24how we get there or who feels blamed it, that doesn't matter because the
- 1:20:30devil will have his due eventually no matter what. So you might as well
- 1:20:34like try to do something now. Yeah. Yeah, I just think it's
- 1:20:42ridiculous because if if women all choose the same guy, they're just not going
- 1:20:45to be able to make him accountable. Yeah, let's let's go to because
- 1:20:50this is this is relevant to how much longer? How much longer are we
- 1:20:57going? By the way, Yeah, because you've always we're that And I
- 1:21:00got to do a patre show too, what are we at? Go to?
- 1:21:02Ten fifty five? Ten fifty Right? Here we go? That might
- 1:21:13be fine and that for some kids and now born outside of wedlock. I
- 1:21:15think we crossed that threshold a couple of years ago, and in some groups
- 1:21:20it's even higher. Do you think there will be some kind of snap back
- 1:21:26against it? Or is it a single parenthood all the way down? I
- 1:21:30don't know. I mean, I suppose it might be that we're just reverting
- 1:21:32to the human mating norm is polygynous, no where you have no, it
- 1:21:46is not? Is that like some mass except don shit. Okay, you
- 1:21:50get rid of yeah, it's exit down. Shit. You get rid of
- 1:21:55the welfare state, and you go back to a system in which are cooperating
- 1:22:00to gain the resources in order to support children. And you will see how
- 1:22:06quickly we go back to monogamous marriages without the one guy bothering one hundred children.
- 1:22:14You'll see how quickly we go back, and it will be rapid.
- 1:22:20I mean, okay, let's let's hear the rest. Well, you have
- 1:22:24one male having multiple female partners, and some portion of men not having any
- 1:22:30right. The monogamous system that we that prevails until recently in the West is
- 1:22:36quite unusual. I think it's twenty percent of society to have a monogamous system,
- 1:22:41which most of the most of the societies that have polygamy are mostly like
- 1:22:48the most of the relationships in those societies are monogamous. And also the cultures
- 1:22:55that have strict monogamy are the most successful. Yeah the end, so well,
- 1:23:04peasants had lots of kids. Yeah, so okay, let's uh are
- 1:23:11we do we get to? Okay, so just a few more four seconds
- 1:23:14of that, okay, and we have about like three or four time codes
- 1:23:18left. So all right, Well, if you need to rest your voice,
- 1:23:23then just I'll take it. I'll take it away. But pretty close.
- 1:23:29The rest of this, of course include some of the most like successful
- 1:23:32civilizations term ever existed, including Christendom and Roman, you know, Romand and
- 1:23:36Christiandom. But it's still not polygynous. Oh I think she's saying she's referring
- 1:23:44to monogamous. Oh I think so. Yeah, the Romans very monogamous.
- 1:23:50Yeah, go back a little bit. Yeah, yeah, she was referring
- 1:23:53to monogamy. But I say some portion of men not having any right.
- 1:23:58The monogamous system that we we that prevails until recently in the West is quite
- 1:24:03unusual. I think it's twenty percent of societies that have a monogamous system,
- 1:24:06which as of course include some of the most like successful civilizations to ever existed,
- 1:24:13including Christendom and Roman, you know Roman. Okay, fair enough,
- 1:24:16so we're gonna move. We're gonna move to a different time code. We
- 1:24:20are not polygamous as a polygynis species. If we were, there would be
- 1:24:29certain features, anatomical features that would be quite different. For example, men
- 1:24:34and women's ca. Nine teeth are there's almost no sexual dimorphism between men and
- 1:24:41women's canine teeth. If we were polygamous maters, men's ca nine teeth would
- 1:24:46probably be They would probably be about an inch long if we judge based on
- 1:24:56like what the difference between male and female chips. So could you imagine that
- 1:25:01right there? Ye'd be pretty cool. Yeah, I'd be preaking. I
- 1:25:04wish, I wish I had canines. That'd be cool. We'd have huge
- 1:25:09like men would have huge ass canines. They would also have significantly different skulls,
- 1:25:15Like if you look at if you compare the skulls of chimpanzees versus male
- 1:25:21versus female, how you compare the skulls of their promiscuous mats. You compare
- 1:25:28the skulls of gorillas male versus female. So men would essentially look like orcs.
- 1:25:34They would probably be about two to three feet taller than women, a
- 1:25:40couple hundred pounds heavier. They would have gigantic canines, Their faces would slope
- 1:25:45out like this, and they'd have huge brows and sagital cresses in order to
- 1:25:51support a bite force. That's not what human men look like. I mean,
- 1:25:57maybe it would be cool if they did, but it's sounds like a
- 1:26:01subgenre of Hen's itemy though. Yeah, well but but like there's real significant
- 1:26:06anatomical differences when you're dealing with a polygamous species and also pairing with their gigantic
- 1:26:14orc like appearance. They would have balls the size of grapes and a penis
- 1:26:18the size of a thimble. Yeah, that's not as fun. Okay,
- 1:26:27So no, human men are not They don't reflect their basic anatomy of humans
- 1:26:33does not reflect the anatomy that you would expect of a polygynous species, like
- 1:26:39an inherently polygynis species, not one that's flexible enough to include polygyny sometimes,
- 1:26:45because that's we're flexing. Our mating system is basically monogamous, but we have
- 1:26:53some flexibility so we can include some polygyny and some polyandry and then also some
- 1:26:59polygamy period like multiple people having relationships. This doesn't make us a polygnous species.
- 1:27:06There would be biological markers if we were, and we're not, which
- 1:27:13is not We're probably we're much closer to a monogamous model and you know,
- 1:27:21maybe a little bit of promiscuity. But honestly, compared to other mammals that
- 1:27:27are social pair bonders like beavers, there's a low level of non paternity,
- 1:27:35like humans actually have a very high level of a co like a correspondence between
- 1:27:43social paternity, which is the father that's raising the children, and genetic paternity,
- 1:27:48which is the father that fathered the children. Other mammals, including other
- 1:27:53bird species, that's not as high as as it is in humans. In
- 1:27:57humans, it's probably about ninety five percent the social father is the biological father.
- 1:28:02Now, having said that, that five percent is abhorrent, like every
- 1:28:08single woman who engages in paternity fraud is basically a rapist as far as I'm
- 1:28:13concerned. So don't get me wrong, I'm not saying it's justified. I'm
- 1:28:16just saying it's not very high compared to animals, where with beavers, only
- 1:28:24thirty percent of the genetic fathers are the social fathers are also genetic fathers with
- 1:28:30supposedly pair bonding birds. Like the rate of genetic the rate of genetic monogamy
- 1:28:36can sometimes be, as you know, only about seventy percent fifty seventy percent.
- 1:28:43Like humans are very monogamous, it's just the way we are. That
- 1:28:47doesn't mean again that people don't cheat. It doesn't mean that you can't have
- 1:28:50polygyny. It doesn't mean that you can't have polyandry. It doesn't mean that
- 1:28:55you know you There aren't failures, There aren't women who cuckold men. But
- 1:28:59the idea that cuckolding is wrong would only come about in a species with our
- 1:29:05high level of genetic monogamy, I'll be honest, Like, just like the
- 1:29:10idea that rape being wrong would only come about in a species that very much
- 1:29:15values sexual consent. Right, So there you go. That's my answer for
- 1:29:21this. We should probably go to the next time code I will tell yeah,
- 1:29:27five thirty three, Okay, So, yeah, it's the shaming of
- 1:29:35single mothers versus the shaming of dead beat dads quote unquote dead beat dads.
- 1:29:40Why don't we call single women mothers like deadbeat moms? It's yeah, I
- 1:29:48mean it's not quite right. It's more like women who deny uh father's access
- 1:29:56to their kids, I guess, or make poor choices in the men that
- 1:30:01they choose to braid with one of them about these women must know that when
- 1:30:08they become woman number twenty seven in in that Yeah, in those instances,
- 1:30:15it is not going to live up to any of his responsibility so called responsibilities.
- 1:30:19Yeah, you must know that. And I guess I'm trying to find
- 1:30:24a term that fits because there's a number of reasons. One is that one
- 1:30:28is, you know, maybe they're not getting pregnant with like of like the
- 1:30:33the guy that the the high SETUS guy in the area. But maybe it's
- 1:30:40you know, for other reasons, like they're they're they just figure that their
- 1:30:45choices don't matter, because I think there is like this idea that they have
- 1:30:49no control over their life. And then it's kind of like, oh,
- 1:30:53I got pregnant. Oh well, even though we have all this birth control
- 1:30:56and all these options, but they choose to like they maybe anyway, and
- 1:31:00they push the men out of their life, you know, purposefully, or
- 1:31:05they reproduce with the guy that's unfit to be a dad because you know,
- 1:31:12he's a criminal, ends up in jail, he ends up with lots of
- 1:31:14other women. So it's almost like a deadbeat mom is not quite the right
- 1:31:20way to put it, but it's something else like unfit mother basically, or
- 1:31:26remember we used to call we used to have a line in the nineties when
- 1:31:30teenage girls would get pregnant. We used to have like a way of shaming
- 1:31:32them. All the babies having babies wed mothers, onwed mothers, unwed mothers.
- 1:31:39Yeah, that's we go back to that, unwed mothers or mothers who
- 1:31:44have chosen not to have fathers in their children's lives. Because it's honestly like
- 1:31:48this, mothers who deny fathers basically or their children fathers uh fatherless child hars
- 1:32:00Yeah. Yeah, but yeah, it's like, here's the thing, like
- 1:32:02we used to hold women accountable. Okay, we used to have a stigma
- 1:32:08around that, for sure, we used to have a stigma around that,
- 1:32:10and then suddenly we get away with get get rid of the stigma. But
- 1:32:14the stigma on men is still there. Stigma on men is definitely still there.
- 1:32:18We still we give we give mothers like Mother's Day and Father's Day.
- 1:32:26Yeah, we just give men instead of stigmatizing single women. We just give
- 1:32:30them Father's Day. But we still stigmatize men. Of course, this the
- 1:32:33argument here is going to be that we don't but we do. Yeah,
- 1:32:38And so what has happened this is increased, the number of women single moms
- 1:32:43is increased. Maybe it is not because of the choices of men. Well,
- 1:32:48I was gonna say, like we've been we've been using the term dead
- 1:32:53beat dad for decades and the dead beat dad phenomena continues. It's almost like,
- 1:33:00like I said before, those guys they don't care what you think of
- 1:33:03them. So maybe they were probably not like they were probably not a good
- 1:33:10choice for a dad, but they were chosen for the sex. He was
- 1:33:14willing. She was willing, She knew what she was getting into. We
- 1:33:17don't have anything to say, Like, it comes down to women are the
- 1:33:21gatekeepers of sex, and they are they have to be complicit if a baby
- 1:33:27is going to happen, right, And they are choosing the kind of men,
- 1:33:30the caliber of men to reproduce with, and those are the men that
- 1:33:34get elevated because those are the men who are sexually successful. So other men
- 1:33:41who are not sexually successful might even look at those men and say, oh,
- 1:33:45so that's what I gotta do to get laid. And so you almost
- 1:33:47like, I mean, not that most men would do that, because I'm
- 1:33:49sure that only a few would, but you're creating the standard. Like what
- 1:33:55women choose in terms of who they want to reproduce with, who they want
- 1:33:59to lay down with, that creates the standard that other men will look at
- 1:34:02and they'll be like, well, I want to be like that. So
- 1:34:05essentially, what welfare has done is it's freed women to select men based on
- 1:34:11other factors than responsibility, discipline, providership, et cetera. And the other
- 1:34:18factors that they choose are very different from that. But that's the thing.
- 1:34:26The women are the ones choosing this, They are the ones driving this.
- 1:34:30Government is the one facilitating this choice. Okay, let let's listen to what
- 1:34:33she has to say. I got a rumble, rant I gotta read it
- 1:34:36really quick, as we don't forget. Nova Fan twenty one gives us two
- 1:34:40bucks and says, notice how society struggles labeling women even when women do harm
- 1:34:45while they casually insult men for any reason. Is as if the very idea
- 1:34:48of holding women accountable is seen as slavery. Yeah, well, and obviously,
- 1:34:53like activists will not put up with it, but it's true. It's
- 1:34:58like they can't even and find the words to make the case. And this
- 1:35:02is like an issue of the language. Okay, So want to play the
- 1:35:05rest of this sound bite. People would probably be forced to reckon with reality
- 1:35:12a lot more in I don't know, something like something like single motherhoods.
- 1:35:17You know, in it's absolutely true, you know, the feminist critique of
- 1:35:23the shaming of single mothers that the shaming of single mothers causes a lot of
- 1:35:26harm to women and their children. It's also the case of single motherhood is
- 1:35:30its self catastrophic. Particularly, it's way more harmful. Actually, like shaming
- 1:35:36women, it probably hurts their feelings, but women who are single moms are
- 1:35:42bringing like damaged kids into the world who then grow up and they become single
- 1:35:47mothers or they become criminals, and that spreads. It's way, way,
- 1:35:53way, way more impactful than hurting the feelings of a single mom. And
- 1:35:59you know, so you know who normally would have done that in the past,
- 1:36:02her father, her mother would have stepped in and said, you know,
- 1:36:08you probably shouldn't sleep with that guy. He's bad news. Right.
- 1:36:12But now, like you have, how many generations into single motherhood are we
- 1:36:17like three? So we were like three generations in to single motherhood, So
- 1:36:25you have multiple generations removed from a standard. So a girl, for example,
- 1:36:30that's hitting puberty and becoming sexually active today, her mother was herself sexually
- 1:36:38active as a teenager and also made the same mistakes, and she is probably
- 1:36:44not internalized the fact that it was her decisions that made that. So instead
- 1:36:49she continues to perpetuate that same like behavior, she's gonna repeat it, or
- 1:36:57at least as a high chance of it. Let me put it this way.
- 1:37:00You know, we say that it's like that it's a negative behavior.
- 1:37:02But what the government has done is he they the government has actually made being
- 1:37:10a single mother a sensible choice, like a choice like a lot of the
- 1:37:17girls talk about who can engage in this, They say, well, it
- 1:37:20gives them status, they get money, they get their own home. Like
- 1:37:26that makes it a on a purely mercenary level, a choice that makes sense.
- 1:37:34That's what we've done. And then women choose this, and we are
- 1:37:40basically incentivizing social decay. And incidentally, single motherhood is not actually it's not.
- 1:37:47It doesn't actually create a very high degree of fertility. It actually lowers
- 1:37:53fertility overall. Like they do have children, but overall there's actually fewer children.
- 1:38:00So if you compared a neighborhood that had lots of single mothers to a
- 1:38:04neighborhood that has a father and a mother and kids, the neighborhood with a
- 1:38:10father and mother and kids overall will have a higher birth rate than single mother
- 1:38:15Yeah, so the very best and most fertile that humans are is when we're
- 1:38:21paired up and we're having children. And one of the reasons why is because
- 1:38:28those children become more successful so they can actually form families themselves. Because there's
- 1:38:32there's actually sort of a what's interesting to me is they're in the in the
- 1:38:39correct me if I'm wrong, because you've had experience of this in these communities.
- 1:38:43There are the men who are visible, the gang leaders, the drug
- 1:38:45pushers, right, and they are getting the women. But then there seems
- 1:38:49to be this underclass of men who just disappear completely. They're just gone,
- 1:38:58and I mean a lot of them I think just end up, you know,
- 1:39:00living in a room in their mom's house or in the basement. Yeah,
- 1:39:04just just or disappearing into drugs. They just erode themselves, like they
- 1:39:11just get into like you said, they get into addictions and get into a
- 1:39:15malaise of like existing if they're if they get like, you know, an
- 1:39:20honest job or whatever, but they don't really have prospects. They don't know
- 1:39:25how to navigate the world. They don't they don't have anything to model there
- 1:39:30there themselves after except their peer group and a lot of those guys also don't
- 1:39:35have a father to model themselves after, So the learning about what it means
- 1:39:41to be a man from other men who don't know what it means to be
- 1:39:44a man. Yeah, so they just sort of get lost. And then
- 1:39:46I imagine there's a lot of women, girls who get lost to and maybe
- 1:39:49don't even want to be part of this whole process. Overall reproductive rate is
- 1:39:55quite low, whereas with the healthy community with family formation, the overall reproductive
- 1:40:00rate is higher. But let's let's get into this more, all right,
- 1:40:05all right, we'll play more of the video in ears. When there isn't
- 1:40:10a safety net, you know, like you really are, it's never been
- 1:40:12very difficult choices and that's okay. First of all, this is this is
- 1:40:15not actually true. Before our era, the church had the safety net.
- 1:40:23The church was actually better at getting compliance to child support in the fifteen hundreds
- 1:40:30than the state is today for whatever reason. But that's like, they had
- 1:40:34child support in the fifteen hundreds and the state was responsible for collecting it,
- 1:40:39and they were actually pretty good at it. But I presume the church also
- 1:40:42would hold yes like a standard as well, and the government incentivizes the opposite.
- 1:40:47Yes, Okay. So yeah, okay, judicial norms around not hooking
- 1:40:54up with some random guy exists because that's a catastrophic outcome for the mother,
- 1:41:00her children, for her family, et cetera. I guess the welfare state
- 1:41:03exists. The welfare state can now cushion that blow at a very high cost.
- 1:41:10You know, it's still really rough being a single mother dependent on welfare.
- 1:41:14It's also true that it probably like removes some of that immediate feedback to
- 1:41:21bad norms and therefore allows us to continue thinking that these norms are okay.
- 1:41:28And also particularly when, of course, the people who are expressing luxury beliefs,
- 1:41:30they're not really worried about their daughters becoming teenager. Okay, so yeah,
- 1:41:36so she's basically talking about people who are affulent. They're not worried about
- 1:41:41this issue. Well, they support it because that doesn't affect them. It's
- 1:41:44like, you know, the anti natalist people, they usually have kids,
- 1:41:47they're usually married. You know, the feminists, they're usually married if they're
- 1:41:53not political. Lesbians two men and they have kids with them. Actually,
- 1:41:57I think that was even a very famous lesbian femine is that married a man
- 1:42:00and two I can't remember who it was wasn't working, and that would have
- 1:42:04been because I think anyway, No, there was one of the triggeronometry guys
- 1:42:11was the guy on the on the left. He shamed deadbeat dads. He
- 1:42:16said, he got really upset about it. Okay, I think that we're
- 1:42:19getting to that we're getting Oh okay, okay, should I keep playing this
- 1:42:23that keep playing single moms or whatever? Right? Because it's her class based
- 1:42:28So I agree with you. I also think as well, when it comes
- 1:42:33to talking about single moms, we talk about single mums a lot. We
- 1:42:36don't talk about the men who know that they have children and have walked away
- 1:42:42from their responsibilities. And as someone who used to be a teacher, you
- 1:42:45can all drink now I've said it. That used to make me so angry,
- 1:42:51except except that we do all the time everyone like, I mean,
- 1:42:58it's I don't know where you get this. Why don't we talk about the
- 1:43:00men though, because it literally is everywhere, Like almost every commentator that discusses
- 1:43:10problems in society that gets it right that there is an issue with single motherhood
- 1:43:15that gets it right. Of all of the potential consequences of single motherhood,
- 1:43:20what could happen to those children? That gets it right in terms of like
- 1:43:25the removal from your own you're sort of like familial ancestry, Like you don't
- 1:43:31know your father, but you also don't know your grandfather or your grandmother and
- 1:43:35your father's side, or your aunts and uncles, and you don't know where
- 1:43:39you come from and all of that. They can get all of those things
- 1:43:42right and still think of what we need is to hold men responsible. No,
- 1:43:47what you don't understand is the men that these women are choosing, nine
- 1:43:51times out of ten have no interest in being responsible, and the women know
- 1:43:57it and they do it anyway. So it's the women who are being irresponsible.
- 1:44:01They're being irresponsible with their vaginas and that's what they have to choose men
- 1:44:08who are going to stick around. Yeah, but here's the other thing,
- 1:44:12Okay, and this is maybe what we're seeing in Canada with like drug use.
- 1:44:16We take away all the stigma, we make it easy, we pay
- 1:44:20for the drugs, and it proliferates. But it's is it there was like,
- 1:44:27at what point does government become complicit when it constructs the situation where making
- 1:44:33bad choices become sensible Because you're saying women's irresponsibility with their vaginas. But when
- 1:44:42you look at the situation that these individuals, these women are in, and
- 1:44:45you look at their options, it actually makes sense why they're choosing welfare,
- 1:44:53why they're choosing this particular man. So we have constructed a situation where this
- 1:45:00is a sensible choice, is what's happening. And we can talk about irresponsibility,
- 1:45:05but we've also constructed a situation where the irresponsible choice is become sensible,
- 1:45:14all right, And that's I think the big problem. And honestly, as
- 1:45:19long as selecting the irresponsible father who's gonna walk away becomes the sensible choice because
- 1:45:29somebody else will pay for it, then that's what you're gonna get. And
- 1:45:34blaming the dad is ridiculous. Blaming the father is ridiculous because he I guess,
- 1:45:45well, first of all, like you were talking about earlier, these
- 1:45:47are often criminals. They're not going to give a crap about what your expectations
- 1:45:54are as a as a doe, white boy guy. Women are selecting them
- 1:46:00because of their criminal status because it's like no in those in those environments where
- 1:46:06that happens. So you know, it's like, well, there was no
- 1:46:10who went on one of these channels and said who am I going to choose,
- 1:46:15Like, I'm going to choose a man who I feel like can protect
- 1:46:18me, even though he probably won't bother you. Probably you know, you're
- 1:46:21like number baby Mama, number twenty seven, so he doesn't give a crap.
- 1:46:25But I would choose a man who feel like he's gonna protect me because
- 1:46:29I live in a dangerous environment and you live in a dangerous environment because the
- 1:46:32local economy is destroyed, because there is no opportunities for young men because the
- 1:46:39government moved in and basically out competed them, so they no longer these young
- 1:46:45men no longer have to construct an economy in cooperation with each other, or
- 1:46:49no longer have the ability to do so. Right. So, but the
- 1:46:54thing is that she's choosing this man because in the absence of a productive economy
- 1:47:00where young men are gaining a pro social status, it makes sense to choose
- 1:47:06the criminal. I mean, he's the guy with a freaking income. He's
- 1:47:10the guy who offers something, even if it's just protection. Well, yeah,
- 1:47:15he'll protect her kids potentially with violence. Right. So what's astounding to
- 1:47:20me is that when we're looking at that situation, you've constructed a situation in
- 1:47:26which every single choice that woman is making a sensible and that is the problem.
- 1:47:30Well, let's let's finish what he has to say about shaming deadbeat dads.
- 1:47:33Let's shame government. Doesn't government shaming? How about that? About that
- 1:47:39make me so angry because I could see the damage it did to these kids
- 1:47:43having an absent father, or actually even worse, having a dad who one
- 1:47:47day wanted to play dad and then for a couple of months couldn't be bothered.
- 1:47:51Yeah, I'm just that's usually a walk on dad, and that's usually
- 1:47:56like a situationship with a guy who's just playing add for a couple of months.
- 1:48:00Yeah. I mean, it's really easy to just blame the men though,
- 1:48:04isn't it. Yes, it is. Well, that's the easiest thing
- 1:48:08to do. That's why we keep doing it over and over again to doom.
- 1:48:11Okay, let's finish this secon segment. It's just a few which is
- 1:48:14actually worse than the effects of Yeah it's true, and hey, I mean
- 1:48:18the fact that single moms get shamed more than dead beat dads, which I
- 1:48:20think generally they do. No drefully does as the ones who hung around that,
- 1:48:28No they don't. Oh the wait, the women. What about the
- 1:48:30ones who throw their baby in a dumpster? I would imagine of the ones
- 1:48:34that allowed their baby to live. Yes, they hung around because they had
- 1:48:39to, but there was there's also, like Yujah sant Alison, incentives for
- 1:48:44them. Okay, here's the difference. The government pays single single mothers to
- 1:48:50exist and it criminalizes deadbeat dads. Let's be honest, like it is you
- 1:48:59to be a father is a criminal offense in our penal code. You cannot
- 1:49:05tell me in that context that dead be are men who men who are not
- 1:49:14in the household with their children are not stigmatized more. Okay, it is
- 1:49:20not a criminal offense to be a single mother. And what I mean by
- 1:49:24it is a criminal offense to be a single father is that the government will
- 1:49:30fine you if you are a single father. They will find you well,
- 1:49:35they will take money from you, right because you're a single father, and
- 1:49:43they will uphold none of your rights to your child, so they'll take money
- 1:49:46from you. That is I mean, before we had justice systems, before
- 1:49:50we had prisons, finds were how a society applied a criminal punishment to people
- 1:49:58it considered to be wrongdoers. So we treat single fathers like wrongdoers, right.
- 1:50:04I mean there's even cases where men who have the children have to pay
- 1:50:09regardless. So we treat that as like a class of wrongdoers. We treat
- 1:50:13them like criminals. And then we take that money and we add to it
- 1:50:17and we give it to the women. So we are treating the women single
- 1:50:23mothers like paid government employees and single fathers like criminals. And somehow that is
- 1:50:29not stigma enough or that for whatever reason, we're stigmatizing the thing that we
- 1:50:36don't regard as criminal, which is being a single mom, and we're not
- 1:50:41stigmatizing the thing that we do regard which is criminal, which is being a
- 1:50:45father who does not take responsibility financial responsibility for his children's Let's be honest,
- 1:50:49that is considered a crime. That is considered a crime, and yet we
- 1:50:57don't stigmatize it enough. Right, Okay, that's ridiculous. But the other
- 1:51:02thing is that we are paying for this, we're paying for single mothers to
- 1:51:11exist. Who knows what would happen if we stop paying. Maybe they'd leave
- 1:51:15their kids to the father. But but it's it's like this this let's let's
- 1:51:20not like, let's get away from single mom shaming. And single dad shaming.
- 1:51:25Let's just shame the government for constructing this whole shit shitty scenario in the
- 1:51:29first place. M hm, let's just shame the idiots and government. All
- 1:51:34right, let's uh just well, the other thing I was going to say
- 1:51:40is that judging from the statistics, there may be a heck of a lot
- 1:51:43of men who didn't even have any choice in the conception of the child too.
- 1:51:47Yeah, like what about them? Oh yeah, men have no choice.
- 1:51:54So if they get raped then and they don't want to pay for the
- 1:51:58resultant baby because it was a race baby, that doesn't matter, They're going
- 1:52:02to be criminals because of that. Like a guy can be a criminal because
- 1:52:06he got raped. This is freaking astounding to me. Could be treated like
- 1:52:11a criminal because he got raped. But men also don't have any option to
- 1:52:15walk away from children they don't want. Women do. So every child survived
- 1:52:23their mother saying well I could have an abortion or came about because a woman
- 1:52:28said, well, I'm not going to avail myself with the affair of the
- 1:52:30entire buffet of reproduct or contraceptive options that are available to me that are reversible,
- 1:52:36right, you know. That's so that child was wanted on some level
- 1:52:41by the woman. Can't say the same about the man. Okay, And
- 1:52:45that's what's really funny about this whole conversation about forced natalism, Like we already
- 1:52:50do it to men. True, all right, what's the next uree?
- 1:53:00Is this the last one? Yep? The last one? What's wrong?
- 1:53:10I don't know, it's I got to refresh. Oh boy, And then
- 1:53:13we're going to get an ad. Yeah no, no, no, we
- 1:53:16didn't get an ad. Just fine. Well, you know what, I
- 1:53:20could probably just say what it is, No, I got it, I
- 1:53:23got it. Really, I've maybe become there were certain things that I waived
- 1:53:29on in the book, so, you know, to summarize very briefly,
- 1:53:31like the argument of the book is that sexual revolution, is often presented by
- 1:53:35progressives, has been unambiguously good for women. My argument is, actually there's
- 1:53:39been costs to women and to men in lots of important ways, and that
- 1:53:44there's wisdom in some old sexual norms which we've thrown out the window post sexual
- 1:53:48revolution, and actually, like there's a lot to be said for resurrecting them.
- 1:53:53So marriage is one example that actually marriage is really good for protecting the
- 1:53:58interest of women and children. A lot of ways, And Okay, is
- 1:54:03that it? Yeah, that's it. So that's basically where we started with
- 1:54:06all of that. And I think we went through all of the issues,
- 1:54:11all of the things that are annoying to me in this. Yeah. I
- 1:54:16don't know where people get off thinking that single like fathers who don't pay for
- 1:54:20their kids aren't subject to more stigma than single moms. They certainly are,
- 1:54:27even though in many cases they had absolutely no say in the production of the
- 1:54:31child. And I mean no say as in yeah, flat out raped.
- 1:54:39Yeah, you know, and and then also like what what were the other
- 1:54:45things that they were talking about? It's just you know what, we go
- 1:54:47we went through it. Let's not go through it again. I think that's
- 1:54:50good. We can do a part two. They talk about Rome and talk
- 1:54:55about Rome later on, so you might go to, yah, you might
- 1:54:58better get your fix your fix of Rome. They mentioned Rome briefly, so
- 1:55:03there's that, Yeah, but they go to a little bit more later.
- 1:55:06So, Okay, I think I've talked a lot. I think I did
- 1:55:10most of the talking. But that's what we were aiming for, right,
- 1:55:12Okay, so we're hoping for let's do the things. We got a super
- 1:55:15chat, we got a super childhood. Oh you should read it? Yeah,
- 1:55:19okay, okay, all right. Richard Beer gives us five dollars,
- 1:55:23says and says. So Allison says that we would need four additional earths to
- 1:55:27be able to supply the resource demands of women. Perhaps we can order one
- 1:55:30from Amazon, one from Ali Baba, one from ten Mu, which,
- 1:55:33depending on their promotion, might be free, and one from Ikea, which
- 1:55:36would be delivered in a flat pack that would have to be assembled by the
- 1:55:40recipient. Recipient. It will come with a lot of screws and several specially
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- 1:55:51of course the men will have to put that one together. Yeah. Then
- 1:55:55the thing is the men will have to put it all together, but get
- 1:55:58no credit for it and won't be considered more attractive by the women. No
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