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Britney Pregnant, Only Fans Killing, JLo Engaged and Billionaire Matchmaker · Juicy Scoop with Heather McDonald

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  Speaker 1: Christmas shopping has already started in our house. My daughter
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  Speaker 3: Heather MacDonald has got the Juicy Scoop.
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  Speaker 2: Heather MacDonald.
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  Speaker 5: Hello and welcome to Juicy Scoop. I have a great
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  Speaker 5: guys some really great tips since we get into some
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  Speaker 5: juicy conversation. Now let's just get into the hot topics.
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  Speaker 5: I first want to say thank you to Tempe Improv,
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  Speaker 5: everyone there in the Phoenix, Scottsdale area that came to
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  Speaker 5: my show. I had a much better weekend than the
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  Speaker 5: last time I was there. Um, One of my lovely
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  Speaker 5: meet and greets, Patreon, was the doctor that jumped up
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  Speaker 5: on stage and helped me. It was great to meet
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  Speaker 5: her in person and also a nurse. It was really
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  Speaker 5: fun shows. And I wore my tennis shoes and my helmet.
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  Speaker 5: And it was just perfect. I had a great, great time.
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  Speaker 5: So thank you for that, everybody. So now let's get
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  Speaker 5: into the other exciting news besides my triumphant return to stage.
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  Speaker 5: which at one time, me falling on stage as a
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  Speaker 5: stand-up comedian was the most viral moment on stage until
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  Speaker 5: Chris Rock stole my thunder. But I'm okay to pass
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  Speaker 5: on that crown.
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  Speaker 2: Breaking news!
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  Speaker 5: According to Britney Spears' Instagram account, she declared she is pregnant.
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  Speaker 5: She posted a beautiful photo by Andrea McClain, a photographer,
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  Speaker 5: of a pink teacup, which appears to be coffee in it,
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  Speaker 5: And some pink carnations. It's also the flower of the
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  Speaker 5: National Sorority Gamma Phi Beta.
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  Speaker 2: Which I'm part of. And she said, I lost so
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  Speaker 2: much weight to go on my Maui trip only to
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  Speaker 2: gain it back.
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  Speaker 5: A bunch of emojis with hands up. I thought, geez,
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  Speaker 5: what happened to my stomach? My husband, who is her fiancé, Sam,
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  Speaker 5: they are not officially married.
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  Speaker 2: It's what we know, they're not married. But she calls
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  Speaker 2: him husband.
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  Speaker 5: Said, no, you're food pregnant, silly. So I got a
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  Speaker 5: pregnancy test and, oh, well, I'm having a baby. Four
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  Speaker 5: days later, I got a little more food pregnant.
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  Speaker 2: It's growing. If two are in there, I might just
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  Speaker 2: lose it. Emoji faces.
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  Speaker 5: Obviously won't be going out as much due to the
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  Speaker 5: paps getting their money shot of me like they unfortunately
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  Speaker 5: already have. It's hard because when I was pregnant, I
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  Speaker 5: had perinatal depression.
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  Speaker 2: I have to say it's absolutely horrible. Women don't talk
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  Speaker 2: about it.
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  Speaker 5: Some people considered it dangerous if a woman complained like
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  Speaker 5: that with a baby inside her, but now women talk
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  Speaker 5: about it every day. Thank Jesus we don't have to
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  Speaker 5: keep the pain a reserved proper secret. This time I'll
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  Speaker 5: be doing yoga every day, spreading lots of joy and
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  Speaker 5: love to hearts. Everyone's going crazy. Literally every news outlet
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  Speaker 5: is reporting this, um, Some people saying, is this just
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  Speaker 5: one of her kind of quirky posts?
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  Speaker 2: Just kidding, y'all. It was just a food baby. I
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  Speaker 2: don't know why y'all take my Instagram posts so seriously.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: We know that she wants to have a baby. We
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  Speaker 5: know that she'd love to have a little girl. Hope
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  Speaker 5: if she has a little boy, she'll be just as happy.
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  Speaker 5: And we haven't heard from Sam. So we'll see. But
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  Speaker 5: I had to break in right now and get this
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  Speaker 5: in there that she has announced, according to Instagram, that
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  Speaker 5: she is pregnant. Also in Britney Spears news, Chris was
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  Speaker 5: on the show last week and he said he thought
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  Speaker 5: he spotted a pet poo in the back of one
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  Speaker 5: of her fashion shows in which her stomach looked very flat.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 5: The post right before this one, she's wearing low rider
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  Speaker 5: jeans and her stomach looks very flat. So I don't
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  Speaker 5: know why she thinks it's not. Anyway, she has a
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  Speaker 5: new assistant. named Vicki, who responded and said, that's not
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  Speaker 5: a dog poop under my post of us talking about it.
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  Speaker 5: I took this video and it's part of the plant
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  Speaker 5: that the puppy and the cat were playing with. Well,
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  Speaker 5: thanks Vicki for cleaning that up, but clearing it up.
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  Speaker 5: But I'd also say if you're going to do a
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  Speaker 5: dancing video or a fashion video, if there is a
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  Speaker 5: weird leaf that your cat and dog are playing with,
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  Speaker 5: maybe pick it up.
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  Speaker 2: Just, you know. if you're the assistant who's doing the video.
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  Speaker 5: And if you're the assistant that helped put this Instagram
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  Speaker 5: post together, congrats on Brittany's pregnancy. And the other big
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  Speaker 5: news that came was Jen and Ben got engaged. Jen
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  Speaker 5: has this very unique lime green diamond. Now this is
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  Speaker 5: the sixth engagement ring she has received and the second
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  Speaker 5: from Ben Affleck. The first one was a light pink
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  Speaker 5: diamond which was very unique at the time.
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  Speaker 2: So this is even more unique. We've never seen anything
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  Speaker 2: like it.
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  Speaker 5: And the way she announced it is she went on
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  Speaker 5: Twitter and her other social media.
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  Speaker 2: And said, I have some big news.
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  Speaker 5: Please go to onthejlo.com and join my email list.
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  Speaker 2: I'll tell you the news. And I just kind of
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  Speaker 2: was like, wow, this chick just never stops.
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  Speaker 5: I mean, she's collecting email addresses to get the scoop out.
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  Speaker 2: Well, of course, everyone got the scoop out that she
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  Speaker 2: got this ring.
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  Speaker 5: Now, I want to say it. It's not my favorite.
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  Speaker 5: I love a colored stone. Lime green is not for me.
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  Speaker 5: But if it was my sixth engagement ring, maybe I'd
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  Speaker 5: be like, you know what? Let's do a lime green.
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  Speaker 5: Let's do a fluorescent lime green. Let's do a deep purple.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean, she literally has six rings.
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  Speaker 5: Because she was married first to the first guy who
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  Speaker 5: was like a waiter, like they were struggling. Then she married, um,
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  Speaker 5: Chris Judd, the dancer, choreographer. Then she married, uh, what's
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  Speaker 5: his name? Um, oh my God, what is his name?
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  Speaker 5: The one that she had children with. Anyway, the singer.
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  Speaker 5: Then she got in, um, oh, in between Chris Judd
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  Speaker 5: and the singer, um, she got engaged to Ben Affleck
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  Speaker 5: and she married the singer, which I'll have his name
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  Speaker 5: in a second. And then, uh, she got engaged to A-Rod.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know if she gave back that ring.
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  Speaker 2: She shouldn't have.
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  Speaker 5: And then she got back together with Ben Affleck. And
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  Speaker 5: let's remember who we need to thank for the fact
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  Speaker 5: that they are getting married again, engaged again. And that
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  Speaker 5: is Southern Charm cast, okay? Because it was Madison LaCroix
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  Speaker 5: who was supposedly, allegedly talking to A-Rod in which Craig,
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  Speaker 5: the pillow guy, screamed it out at a reunion. That
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  Speaker 5: all became common knowledge to the world in which J-Lo
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  Speaker 5: then dumped A-Rod, leaving it open for Ben to reenter
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  Speaker 5: her life.
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  Speaker 2: And now they're in love.
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  Speaker 5: I don't think Jennifer Garner cares. She's got her capital
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  Speaker 5: one card. She can go on a shopping spree and
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  Speaker 5: be like good riddance.
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  Speaker 2: So, um, what was his name? Mark Anthony. Okay.
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  Speaker 5: So, um, but I had said on my, just skip obsessed.
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  Speaker 5: I'm not in love with the green ring. So face
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  Speaker 5: reality 16, a great Instagram account. She got all the
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  Speaker 5: deets on this. So, um, It is a 8.5-carat natural
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  Speaker 5: green cushion-modified brilliant cut diamond. It is very, very, very rare,
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  Speaker 5: and it synchronizes with nature and tranquility and represents life, health,
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  Speaker 5: and associates.
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  Speaker 2: It's a big deal. So I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: I think it kind of looks like a Jolly Rancher.
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  Speaker 5: That's just my opinion, but happy they're getting married. Apparently,
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  Speaker 5: the $ 50 million estate that they were going to get
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  Speaker 5: In Bel Air, the deal fell through. I'm not worried
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  Speaker 5: that they can find another house. Even in this crazy market,
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  Speaker 5: I'm going to guess that their offer would prevail. Okay,
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  Speaker 5: let's talk about the latest on Will Smith. A Woman's
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  Speaker 5: Soul is a great Facebook account, and there's been so
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  Speaker 5: much that has happened. She put it together really great,
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  Speaker 5: so I just want to tell you everything that has
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  Speaker 5: transpired since the slap so you know where we're at.
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  Speaker 5: So he's banned from 10 years of the Oscar ceremony, okay?
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  Speaker 5: So he cannot go back to the event for 10 years,
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  Speaker 5: though they did not take his Oscar away. One of
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  Speaker 5: his films was canceled, and Bad Boys 4 was also canceled.
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  Speaker 5: Fast and Loose movie he was shooting for Netflix has
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  Speaker 5: been canceled. The movie I Am Legend 2 no longer
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  Speaker 5: wants it, and they offered it to Michael B.
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  Speaker 2: For the role. He was expelled from the Academy of
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  Speaker 2: Sciences and Cinematic Arts. He didn't resign. He was fired.
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  Speaker 5: So that's a different thing. Jada, his wife, didn't mack
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  Speaker 5: him up in an interview for American Weekly.
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  Speaker 2: That's Us Weekly.
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  Speaker 5: And she declared she didn't ask to be defended. Chris
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  Speaker 5: Rock's brothers are looking for him. They publicly said, we're
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  Speaker 5: going to tear you apart. Because one of them I
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  Speaker 5: know is a stand-up, and I think he said that
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  Speaker 5: in his interview.
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  Speaker 2: Show.
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  Speaker 5: No producer wants to really work with him, it appears.
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  Speaker 5: And their dramatic series, Bel-Air, reboot of Bel-Air Prince, is
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  Speaker 5: being not well-received by critics. And at this moment, he's
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  Speaker 5: in some rehab to control his depression and temper. Also,
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  Speaker 5: Jada went on the red carpet last night for some
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  Speaker 5: event with Shonda Rhimes. And I don't know when she's
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  Speaker 5: coming back to the Red Table Talk. But, yes, it
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  Speaker 5: was interesting. She was stopped. I believe it was Us Weekly.
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  Speaker 5: And she said, you know, I don't need anyone defending me. Meanwhile, August,
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  Speaker 5: the guy that she had the entanglement with, he has
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  Speaker 5: dropped a song with the words entanglement in it. And
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  Speaker 5: apparently is maybe going to get a book deal. I
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  Speaker 5: heard that allegedly to tell his story. So he, you know, for, hey,
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  Speaker 5: on the bright side, his life might be on the upswing,
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  Speaker 5: but nobody else is really in this scenario as far
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  Speaker 5: as the Jada and Will and their family. So there
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  Speaker 5: we go with that. Jesse Smollett, he also released a song.
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  Speaker 5: Claiming innocence weeks after him leaving jail. I have not
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  Speaker 5: heard the song. I just thought that was interesting. As
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  Speaker 5: you know, he was convicted. He went to jail. They
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  Speaker 5: did the appeal and they said, we believe he should
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  Speaker 5: be released while we examine the appeal.
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  Speaker 2: So there you go with that.
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  Speaker 5: Now, Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, the trailer came out
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  Speaker 5: and I can honestly say I'm one of the many
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  Speaker 5: people that got chills, tingles down there, the whole thing.
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  Speaker 5: It's going to be really good. At least what they
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  Speaker 5: showed us looks to be very good. And in one
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  Speaker 5: of the scenes, Erica says two things. Erica Jane, as
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  Speaker 5: you know, I described in the last episode that now,
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  Speaker 5: you know, her trouble are still there with the Tom
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  Speaker 5: Girardi case. She's been named in the $ 50 million lawsuit,
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  Speaker 5: specifically herself. At one point, she's talking to the girls
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  Speaker 5: and she says, I don't care about anybody else but me.
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  Speaker 5: in this scenario. So everyone's like, what do you mean
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  Speaker 5: you don't care about the victims being Tom Girardi's victims
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  Speaker 5: who are already victimized? He then represented them. They won
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  Speaker 5: their money that they deserved and then he took it.
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  Speaker 5: And then she allegedly went dancing and patted her puss
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  Speaker 5: with it.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 5: So at one point in this one scene, they're dressed up,
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  Speaker 5: I think doing like a 70s type of party.
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  Speaker 2: And She said, you're not going to make me look bad, Garcelle.
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  Speaker 5: And Garcelle says, you don't need me to do that.
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  Speaker 5: You're doing it quite well on your own. People loved
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  Speaker 5: this little tiny part of the trailer. But you know
• 12:45
  Speaker 5: who didn't love it? Erika Jayne. And apparently a bunch
• 12:49
  Speaker 5: of them have stopped following each other. And the thing is,
• 12:53
  Speaker 5: is that if you are no longer friends with someone
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  Speaker 5: or they're pissing you off and you don't want to
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  Speaker 5: see them having a good time this weekend, you can
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  Speaker 5: just mute them. So when I think celebrities specifically unfollow people,
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  Speaker 5: they want that person to know, but they also want
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  Speaker 5: the fans to know that we are in a beef.
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  Speaker 5: It's a big, it's a whole something page six actually
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  Speaker 5: writes articles about. So, but she in her trash can,
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  Speaker 5: pretty mess. This is from her Insta story over the weekend.
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  Speaker 5: She wrote at Garcelle, even though you unfollowed me, I'm
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  Speaker 5: sure you'll see this with a little lip emoji. And
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  Speaker 5: in this trash bag, is Garcelle's latest book that is
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  Speaker 5: the paperback, which is what you give to people before
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  Speaker 5: it's available to everybody else, which is her life story.
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  Speaker 5: So I guess she gave it to all the girls and,
• 13:43
  Speaker 5: you know, Erica threw it in the trash. Also disturbing
• 13:46
  Speaker 5: what's in this trash is it looks to be a
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  Speaker 5: black trash can, not a blue. Blue is what we
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  Speaker 5: do here in LA for recyclables.
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  Speaker 2: She's got a Red Bull can in there, a plastic bottle,
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  Speaker 2: and then she's got like an old telephone. And I
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  Speaker 2: just want to say, you know, gosh, it's too.
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  Speaker 5: Bad that Erica didn't go to Crespi High School this
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  Speaker 5: weekend because they were accepting all old electronics that you
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  Speaker 5: could have.
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  Speaker 2: Recycled the proper way. So anyway, they're in a beef.
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  Speaker 2: Then meanwhile, there's a great scene with Kathy Hilton in
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  Speaker 2: which Lisa Rinna, by the way, I'm using her lip stuff.
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  Speaker 2: I really do like Lisa Rinna's beauty. Rinna beauty is
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  Speaker 2: actually really great. Okay.
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  Speaker 5: But She's sitting there and she's like, oof, you're so angry.
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  Speaker 5: And Kyle is crying and she says something to Kathy.
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  Speaker 5: Why do you treat your sister like this? I am
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  Speaker 5: going to make up my business. And then Kyle's like, Kathy,
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  Speaker 5: I feel like you hate me. So we are like,
• 14:46
  Speaker 5: what's going on? Because we know that Kathy kind of
• 14:49
  Speaker 5: exited the show halfway through and wasn't in like lots
• 14:52
  Speaker 5: of the last events.
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  Speaker 2: While they were filming. So it is going to be juicy.
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  Speaker 5: Then there's this new girl named Diane Jenkins, who's this
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  Speaker 5: really pretty blonde, who's this very wealthy socialite. And she says,
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  Speaker 5: you're looking for a new villain?
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  Speaker 2: Well, here I am.
• 15:07
  Speaker 5: Well, the stuff that came out about her in the
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  Speaker 5: last two days by some of my favorite Instagram blogger
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  Speaker 5: type people is so explosive that I'm too terrified to
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  Speaker 5: even talk about it.
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  Speaker 2: Start looking it up. See what you come up on
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  Speaker 2: your own.
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  Speaker 5: I'm literally too, I'm not comfortable saying what some people
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  Speaker 5: are finding and what they believe she might be involved in.
• 15:33
  Speaker 5: If it is in fact true, it is by far
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  Speaker 5: the worst crime that any celebrity from Bravo has ever done.
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  Speaker 2: But I literally won't even touch it.
• 15:43
  Speaker 5: So if that's the case, it makes me wonder, my God,
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  Speaker 5: is Bravo seriously, are they looking for people because they
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  Speaker 5: know that that's what makes a great season is a
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  Speaker 5: criminal charge?
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  Speaker 2: What is this?
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  Speaker 5: Or is this just, you know, misinformation that's coming out
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  Speaker 5: because it's been a boring season in other franchises?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. JoJo Siwa heard me. My prayers have
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  Speaker 2: been answered.
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  Speaker 5: She first got rid of the pony, which I just
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  Speaker 5: am like wanted to just give her a head, like
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  Speaker 5: a head scalp massage for years. Got rid of the bows.
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  Speaker 5: and cut her hair in a really short, cute, sassy
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  Speaker 5: way and seemed very happy about it and posted it
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  Speaker 5: on Instagram and people reported on it. However, she did
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  Speaker 5: come forth and let people know that it was not
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  Speaker 5: her choice, that she was not at the Nickelodeon Kid
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  Speaker 5: Choice Awards this weekend in which she had appeared for
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  Speaker 5: many years.
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  Speaker 2: She said she wasn't invited. Now, I really don't know.
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  Speaker 5: Why she wasn't invited or if she should have been invited.
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  Speaker 5: Is she necessarily in the kids' choice world anymore? Did
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  Speaker 5: the kids want her to be there? Has she kind
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  Speaker 5: of graduated to more mature audiences because she is not
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  Speaker 5: a teenager anymore? She's at least like 19 or 20 now.
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  Speaker 5: Or was it because she is an out lesbian now
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  Speaker 5: and she wasn't wearing her bows anymore? So there's a
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  Speaker 5: lot of interpretation there.
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  Speaker 2: We don't know the truth right now. But anyway... She's happy.
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  Speaker 2: Her head is free. Good for her.
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  Speaker 5: There's a very sad crime that happened, came out over
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  Speaker 5: the weekend. An alleged OnlyFans girl, I mean a killer,
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  Speaker 5: they're calling her a killer.
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  Speaker 2: But it's a big story because this couple is very attractive.
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  Speaker 5: The guy is a professional type of guy. He's a
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  Speaker 5: good-looking black man strapping. This is his girlfriend of like,
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  Speaker 5: I think at least like a year. She is an
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  Speaker 5: OnlyFans model with a big OnlyFans account, social media following,
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  Speaker 5: she's on TikTok, all this stuff. She is a very
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  Speaker 5: attractive bikini type, uh, blonde girl. And the police were
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  Speaker 5: called when she said she stabbed her boyfriend. Um, it
• 18:08
  Speaker 5: was one stab room, but it caught, it's like in
• 18:11
  Speaker 5: the middle of his chest. And by the time he
• 18:13
  Speaker 5: got to the hospital, he was dead. She said she
• 18:15
  Speaker 5: stabbed him in self-defense. Um, But she was arrested for
• 18:20
  Speaker 5: the crime, but now I'm not sure if she was arrested.
• 18:26
  Speaker 5: They're still figuring it out because they're believing that is
• 18:30
  Speaker 5: it self-defense, is it not? Her mother said that she
• 18:34
  Speaker 5: went and tried to help her daughter through situations. People
• 18:38
  Speaker 5: are saying it was a very tumultuous relationship. There's people
• 18:41
  Speaker 5: on his side saying that she was the aggressor. There's
• 18:43
  Speaker 5: people on her side. saying that she had told them
• 18:47
  Speaker 5: that they were fighting and things were happening and that
• 18:49
  Speaker 5: she didn't feel safe in the apartment that they shared
• 18:51
  Speaker 5: together in Miami. Meanwhile, she's out after the death of
• 18:57
  Speaker 5: her boyfriend at a hotel and people know who she
• 19:00
  Speaker 5: is and are like, why are you enjoying yourself having
• 19:02
  Speaker 5: a drink here? They're following her around. So people are
• 19:05
  Speaker 5: very invested in this crime. There was also a TikTok
• 19:08
  Speaker 5: that she did at one time that someone did the
• 19:12
  Speaker 5: duet of or inserted themselves in there in which they
• 19:15
  Speaker 5: predicted that this relationship would end badly. So there's just
• 19:18
  Speaker 5: been a lot on social media about this. Very, very
• 19:21
  Speaker 5: sad for this young man's family. But we'll see what
• 19:27
  Speaker 5: evidence comes out. Also, another really sad juicy crime update.
• 19:31
  Speaker 5: You remember the horrible story of the man and his
• 19:35
  Speaker 5: wife from Santa Barbara, California. They had two little kids,
• 19:39
  Speaker 5: like a four-year-old and maybe a 10-month-old. And he took
• 19:44
  Speaker 5: the kids and he killed them in a very horrible way. with,
• 19:49
  Speaker 5: I don't even want to say how that was, but
• 19:52
  Speaker 5: they found out that he was like, you know, losing
• 19:55
  Speaker 5: his mind. And it was a lot of QAnon kind
• 19:57
  Speaker 5: of talk. And he thought that they had some type
• 20:00
  Speaker 5: of demon inside of them, whatever. Of course, everybody just
• 20:04
  Speaker 5: immediately felt for the woman. They weren't separated. They weren't fighting.
• 20:08
  Speaker 5: It was like, what is going on? Did she know how? Well, now,
• 20:12
  Speaker 5: according to People magazine, they found text exchanges between Matthew
• 20:17
  Speaker 5: Coleman and his wife on the morning of the kids' murders.
• 20:20
  Speaker 5: And they're very disturbing in the fact that she is,
• 20:25
  Speaker 5: I'm here for you. We're in this together. And all
• 20:28
  Speaker 5: this kind of like weird rhetoric is like, was she
• 20:32
  Speaker 5: on the same page thinking about this, but not aware
• 20:35
  Speaker 5: that he had any plans to kill their children? Or
• 20:38
  Speaker 5: was she in fact part of it somehow? It's very
• 20:42
  Speaker 5: disturbing and, um, something that nobody thought would be the
• 20:46
  Speaker 5: case when we.
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: First heard about this horrific crime.
• 20:49
  Speaker 5: Um, This was also, you know, a trial with the
• 20:54
  Speaker 5: Parkland shooter, which I can't believe this jury, this is
• 20:58
  Speaker 5: finally happening now.
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: But the Parkland, okay, it's a horrible, you know, that
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: is horrible.
• 21:05
  Speaker 5: But there was one kind of light moment in the
• 21:08
  Speaker 5: jury picking. This woman, you know, is being questioned by
• 21:12
  Speaker 5: the judge, who, by the way, the judge in this
• 21:14
  Speaker 5: case looks like she's like a supermodel. And she's interviewing
• 21:18
  Speaker 5: this woman about, okay, well, what days might be issues
• 21:22
  Speaker 5: for you? She's like, oh, I've got a birthday here.
• 21:23
  Speaker 5: I've got a birthday there. Well, I don't really think
• 21:25
  Speaker 5: that gets you out of jury duty. And then she says,
• 21:28
  Speaker 5: and I have to see my sugar daddy every day.
• 21:30
  Speaker 5: The judge is like, excuse me? And she's like, yeah,
• 21:33
  Speaker 5: I have to see my sugar daddy every day. So
• 21:34
  Speaker 5: I don't think this jury, you know, being on jury
• 21:37
  Speaker 5: duty every day is going to be very upsetting to
• 21:38
  Speaker 5: my sugar daddy.
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: This went viral.
• 21:42
  Speaker 5: So I'm guessing she did not get picked for the
• 21:46
  Speaker 5: jury and gets to spend extra time with her sugar daddy.
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: This season.
• 21:54
  Speaker 5: Anyway, you guys, now for my very juicy interview with Gina,
• 21:58
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• 22:37
  Speaker 4: I'm Darman, and this is What Happens Next. Each week
• 22:40
  Speaker 4: on the show, I sit down with extraordinary people who
• 22:44
  Speaker 4: have faced tremendous setbacks, and yet somehow have found a
• 22:48
  Speaker 4: way to turn them into their greatest strengths.
• 22:51
  Speaker 6: Life is one long lesson of chaos.
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: I'm heading to the Emmys, and I have police complaints
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: filed against me.
• 22:57
  Speaker 6: When your free will was about to be taken from you,
• 22:59
  Speaker 6: what would you do if it was given back?
• 23:02
  Speaker 4: Where did that need come from, where you thought that
• 23:05
  Speaker 4: you had to succeed in order to feel loved?
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: He said, I have a work dad.
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: I need a home dad.
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: What happens next? When I came in, he started crying.
• 23:12
  Speaker 4: Everybody in life encounters hardships. What defines them is not
• 23:16
  Speaker 4: those hard moments that they go through. It's about what
• 23:19
  Speaker 4: happens next.
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: I decided to risk it all. I realized how valuable
• 23:23
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• 23:26
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• 23:28
  Speaker 2: even if it's shaped.
• 23:29
  Speaker 4: The stories are different, but the impact is the same.
• 23:32
  Speaker 4: Only one question matters. What happens next?
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: Hello and welcome to Juicy Scoop.
• 23:46
  Speaker 5: Well, my Juicy Scoopers have been asking for an episode
• 23:50
  Speaker 5: like this. As you know, I'm happily married for many,
• 23:54
  Speaker 5: many years, but I'm obsessed with dating and I've got
• 23:57
  Speaker 5: a dating expert, Gina Hendricks, who has a book here,
• 24:00
  Speaker 5: The Great Manhunt. I found you on TikTok and you
• 24:05
  Speaker 5: are the secrets of the billionaire matchmaker.
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: And I came across your TikTok. Welcome. Thank you.
• 24:11
  Speaker 5: One of your TikToks that I thought was really good as,
• 24:15
  Speaker 5: you know, there's so many documentaries, so many stories about
• 24:17
  Speaker 5: these Dirty John, these fake guys that, you know, oh
• 24:20
  Speaker 5: my God, he said he was a trust. He had
• 24:22
  Speaker 5: money coming from his aunt and he was a Navy SEAL.
• 24:26
  Speaker 5: And he's like, they all seem to glop onto the same.
• 24:30
  Speaker 5: And well, he couldn't have social media because of this,
• 24:33
  Speaker 5: because he's in the CIA. And because, and you said
• 24:36
  Speaker 5: something like, That's bullshit. Like, you know, what are some
• 24:39
  Speaker 5: signs of, like, don't believe this person.
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: Type of thing?
• 24:44
  Speaker 7: So I have some clients that are on social media
• 24:47
  Speaker 7: and some that aren't on social media. But I think, though,
• 24:50
  Speaker 7: what I was talking about specifically in that scenario, and
• 24:52
  Speaker 7: then I'll answer, is that, like, if a guy is
• 24:54
  Speaker 7: on social media and he's private, that part to me
• 24:58
  Speaker 7: is a little, for a guy... I feel like sometimes
• 25:02
  Speaker 7: they're up to something and usually it involves multiple ladies.
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean?
• 25:06
  Speaker 7: That's usually men want to argue like on that TikTok
• 25:09
  Speaker 7: and say, oh, well, we don't want to show off.
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: That's not I mean, I'm not talking about showing off.
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: I think more than likely if a guy has his
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: Instagram private, he's just up to something. He's up to something.
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: He doesn't want other ladies to know. Okay, so ask
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: me that question again. Sorry.
• 25:23
  Speaker 5: The question was, you know, what are some things to
• 25:27
  Speaker 5: look out for to say, you know, is this guy
• 25:30
  Speaker 5: really rich? And I'm just not used to dating such
• 25:32
  Speaker 5: a rich person, so I shouldn't pry. Or are these
• 25:35
  Speaker 5: the red flags that, like, chances are this guy is
• 25:38
  Speaker 5: probably not being truthful?
• 25:40
  Speaker 7: Well, I think when I talk to a lot of ladies, they're,
• 25:43
  Speaker 7: I mean, God, this one woman sent me an email
• 25:46
  Speaker 7: and this thing went on with this man and she
• 25:48
  Speaker 7: thought he was so rich. for like two years or something.
• 25:51
  Speaker 7: And he never met her in person. Like he always
• 25:53
  Speaker 7: made excuses. He even, she even ended up buying her
• 25:56
  Speaker 7: own ticket to, cause she wanted to crack the case,
• 25:59
  Speaker 7: you know?
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: And she went to Texas and she wanted to meet him.
• 26:02
  Speaker 7: And then this man showed up at the airport that
• 26:04
  Speaker 7: was huge and overweight and like looked nothing like who
• 26:08
  Speaker 7: she was expecting. And she faked her way through it
• 26:11
  Speaker 7: and was polite. And then this guy ended up texting
• 26:14
  Speaker 7: her saying, oh, that was my bodyguard, we were texting you.
• 26:18
  Speaker 7: It's like, I mean, testing you where we're testing you.
• 26:20
  Speaker 7: It's like, the thing is, if it feels like bullshit,
• 26:24
  Speaker 7: it is bullshit. I mean, there is no, you know,
• 26:26
  Speaker 7: I think as, you know, we're raised on these fantasies,
• 26:29
  Speaker 7: these books where, you know, the frog actually turns into
• 26:34
  Speaker 7: a prince, you know? And so there's deeply rooted in
• 26:37
  Speaker 7: us where we really want to believe that, you know,
• 26:40
  Speaker 7: pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, even
• 26:42
  Speaker 7: if it doesn't sound right or make sense. But the
• 26:46
  Speaker 7: truth is, if it doesn't sound right, if it doesn't
• 26:48
  Speaker 7: make sense, that's because it's not going to ever make sense.
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean? Yeah.
• 26:54
  Speaker 7: So I just think, I think we just, the signs
• 26:56
  Speaker 7: are obvious. I think we just tend to overlook them.
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
• 26:58
  Speaker 7: Like he should be, you want a guy who's going
• 27:01
  Speaker 7: to be transparent about who he is, about his life.
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: He can get together with you. He's available. He's not
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: totally unavailable and it's all shrouded in this mystery. That's weird.
• 27:11
  Speaker 5: I also just think women fall into it because they
• 27:15
  Speaker 5: come on so strong and they love bombing you and
• 27:17
  Speaker 5: they say you're the greatest thing on earth.
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: And why wouldn't you want to believe that? Of course.
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: I don't blame anybody. Finally, somebody gets me. I know.
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: I've always known I was fabulous.
• 27:27
  Speaker 5: Finally, at 45, I met the guy who really thinks
• 27:30
  Speaker 5: I'm this fabulous.
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: Right. And it's like... But then even when you hear
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: the flattering things, you can't let that become your rose-colored
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: glasses so that you don't really... Yeah.
• 27:40
  Speaker 7: So that you don't see and hear the other things
• 27:43
  Speaker 7: that just aren't adding up, you know?
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: Yes. Because they are right there.
• 27:46
  Speaker 7: And it's like a man who is legit will, and
• 27:50
  Speaker 7: if he's truly hot for you, and I've said this
• 27:52
  Speaker 7: in my TikToks, they want to get together with you.
• 27:55
  Speaker 7: They're going to make time to see you. They're going
• 27:57
  Speaker 7: to get to you any way they possibly can. They're
• 27:59
  Speaker 7: not going to put you off. They're not going to
• 28:02
  Speaker 7: prolong it or, you know what I mean? And so
• 28:05
  Speaker 7: this is what I hear from ladies a lot that
• 28:07
  Speaker 7: ends up getting them frustrated and upset and you know,
• 28:11
  Speaker 7: and taken for a ride, you know, because they, they
• 28:14
  Speaker 7: knew things didn't, but they were hoping they wanted to
• 28:16
  Speaker 7: believe because the other side of that coin is that
• 28:18
  Speaker 7: then you're cynical and jaded, which perhaps I am, but
• 28:21
  Speaker 7: I know too much, you know?
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: Um, but, uh, there's a.
• 28:24
  Speaker 5: Little bit of like, you know, he's just not that
• 28:26
  Speaker 5: into you. And then when you, just when you think
• 28:30
  Speaker 5: it's dead and he's ghosted you, then they reappear.
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: And then you're like, oh my God, I've wasted so
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: much time. Maybe he really was busy.
• 28:37
  Speaker 5: I'm not seeing anybody else and I don't want to
• 28:39
  Speaker 5: have a completely empty slate. I want to have a
• 28:42
  Speaker 5: little something spark to look forward to. You know, so
• 28:46
  Speaker 5: it's like kind of a hard, I understand why some
• 28:47
  Speaker 5: women have a hard time really like cutting it off.
• 28:50
  Speaker 2: I understand that too.
• 28:51
  Speaker 7: But I think that, you know, and so I have
• 28:54
  Speaker 7: a private Facebook group for women called Badass and Brilliant Women.
• 28:57
  Speaker 7: And boy, they are coming in in droves from TikTok now.
• 29:00
  Speaker 7: And they are, Asking the questions. And it's kind of fun.
• 29:03
  Speaker 7: We're having all these interesting conversations. I'm like, this is
• 29:05
  Speaker 7: not just about dating, ladies.
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: It's about everything. But they're talking about dating.
• 29:08
  Speaker 7: And a lot of them are talking about scenarios where,
• 29:12
  Speaker 7: you know, a guy did string them along for too long.
• 29:16
  Speaker 7: And how do I notice the signs and all this stuff?
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: And I understand. I mean, it's flattering. But then you
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: just have to be careful. If it doesn't add up,
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: it doesn't add up.
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Do you watch any Real Housewives? No, never have. Well,
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: there is a scenario. But I read the gossips pages
• 29:34
  Speaker 2: and stuff. So there's a scenario with this girl. She's
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: one of the most popular ones. Her name's Teresa.
• 29:39
  Speaker 6: Okay.
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: She's a female. or whatever? Yes. Okay, yeah.
• 29:41
  Speaker 5: So she's divorced her husband. She did a year in jail.
• 29:44
  Speaker 5: He did four years in jail.
• 29:46
  Speaker 2: He lives in Italy. She's got four girls that are
• 29:48
  Speaker 2: like teenage to 20. I didn't know she had four,
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: but yeah, okay.
• 29:51
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: And she falls in love with this guy named Louis. Okay.
• 29:55
  Speaker 5: And, you know, aesthetically they match. Like, he's fit, she's fit,
• 29:59
  Speaker 5: he's cute enough. But there's all this shady stuff about him.
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah.
• 30:05
  Speaker 5: But he presents her with money. He's done a private jet. Like,
• 30:09
  Speaker 5: he wins her over. But he has two ex-fiances that
• 30:12
  Speaker 5: have spoken poorly about him and said that, you know, he.
• 30:18
  Speaker 5: You know, there were some accusations of not treating them right.
• 30:22
  Speaker 5: And Teresa's like, I don't want to hear about his past.
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: I don't care.
• 30:25
  Speaker 5: You know, it's about the future, about the present. And
• 30:28
  Speaker 5: now there's like a couple lawsuits that are happening with
• 30:31
  Speaker 5: businesses where he like owes one person $ 144, 000, another $ 144, 000.
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: He's a loser. There's another thing. Yeah.
• 30:40
  Speaker 5: And she's like, I don't know if I'm going to
• 30:41
  Speaker 5: get a prenup, but I'm going to get married anyway.
• 30:44
  Speaker 5: And it's like her personality and everything, she's just– So
• 30:48
  Speaker 5: happy to have, because he was a total love bomber.
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: Did she come off as a dingbat a little bit?
• 30:53
  Speaker 4: Yes.
• 30:53
  Speaker 7: I saw her on Celebrity Apprentice years ago. She was
• 30:56
  Speaker 7: on there, but she didn't seem like a total dingbat.
• 30:58
  Speaker 7: But the way you're imitating her makes her seem like
• 30:59
  Speaker 7: a dingbat.
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: I mean, I think that they have great sex.
• 31:02
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 31:03
  Speaker 5: And I think she's physically very attracted to him. And
• 31:05
  Speaker 5: I think after being with the husband for over 20 years.
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 31:09
  Speaker 5: And I don't think– I think he cheated on her.
• 31:11
  Speaker 5: There's evidence that he cheated on her, the ex, and
• 31:13
  Speaker 5: then wasn't nice to her. And I think she has
• 31:16
  Speaker 5: a lot of resentment that he's the reason why she
• 31:19
  Speaker 5: went to prison and why she missed the last year
• 31:22
  Speaker 5: of her mother's life because then the mom died when
• 31:24
  Speaker 5: she got out. So I think she– so that ended.
• 31:26
  Speaker 5: So this guy comes in and it's just like he
• 31:28
  Speaker 5: can't keep her hands off of her.
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: How did she meet him? Do you know?
• 31:32
  Speaker 5: She said she was walking down the street. And with
• 31:35
  Speaker 5: her friend, and he drove up and stopped the car
• 31:38
  Speaker 5: and started talking to her. And, of course, he said,
• 31:40
  Speaker 5: I never heard of Real Housewives of New Jersey. I
• 31:43
  Speaker 5: never knew who you were, which a lot of my
• 31:45
  Speaker 5: famous friends, when they would get with someone, they would
• 31:48
  Speaker 5: be like, and he had never even seen the show.
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh, really? But he dated these three
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: other actresses before. So you don't think he knew who
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: you were.
• 31:56
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 31:57
  Speaker 7: You know, I'm glad you brought this topic up, actually,
• 31:59
  Speaker 7: because I was thinking about doing a TikTok about this.
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: So many of celebrity, so many celebrity women. Yes. Settle
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: for these losers. And then their publicists make them sound
• 32:09
  Speaker 2: like this dream guy.
• 32:10
  Speaker 7: And it's like they married a dude that that, you know,
• 32:14
  Speaker 7: maybe presented well. And they talked themselves into wanting to
• 32:18
  Speaker 7: be in a relationship so badly. But, you know, he's
• 32:21
  Speaker 7: usually usually it'll come out later. I don't know however
• 32:23
  Speaker 7: long they end up staying married that. you know, spent
• 32:25
  Speaker 7: time in jail or owes these back taxes or, you know,
• 32:28
  Speaker 7: whatever his financial troubles are. And I just, I hate
• 32:31
  Speaker 7: to see that, but it happens over and over and
• 32:34
  Speaker 7: over again. I mean, I think she lays in bed
• 32:37
  Speaker 7: at night And knows that, shit, there's a lot of
• 32:41
  Speaker 7: red flags. But I don't want to prove to the
• 32:45
  Speaker 7: world that they were right and I was wrong.
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: I can see that.
• 32:48
  Speaker 5: How am I ever going to find a guy that
• 32:50
  Speaker 5: is this cute that I'm not attracted to, that treats
• 32:52
  Speaker 5: me this nice, that doesn't have this?
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: I don't want to cut my losses. I want to keep.
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: This fantasy going. Yeah. I don't want it to end.
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: She wants that lemon to turn into lemonade. Yes, yes.
• 33:05
  Speaker 5: And I think she, you know, and then being on
• 33:07
  Speaker 5: the show, this gives her a whole nother season of
• 33:09
  Speaker 5: planning the wedding and everything.
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: I see. So she gets something out of it too, though.
• 33:13
  Speaker 7: Yes.
• 33:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah, for sure.
• 33:13
  Speaker 5: But I mean, I think I'm fine with her marrying him.
• 33:16
  Speaker 5: I just think she has to... really have a prenup
• 33:20
  Speaker 5: and keep her finances and keep it all separate.
• 33:22
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 33:23
  Speaker 5: So when he, if he does get in trouble or something,
• 33:25
  Speaker 5: it'll never affect where she lives.
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: Or, you know, have her own home that he's not
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: on title of.
• 33:30
  Speaker 5: Like, that's what if she was my friend, I'd be like,
• 33:33
  Speaker 5: you want to be in love, go get married, get fine,
• 33:35
  Speaker 5: but do not mess your money.
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: Don't get involved in the businesses. They all should do that.
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: Because you're not, he's, he's obviously, Not the ideal businessman.
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: I don't even think, I mean, I don't know. I
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: don't think she should marry him at all.
• 33:46
  Speaker 5: But I'm saying if that is your goal, if like
• 33:48
  Speaker 5: your goal is I just want a man in my bed.
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: Right. And this guy like goes down on me and
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: is cute to be with. Warm dick and a hot body. Yes.
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: And I just want to me, that's it. That's it.
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: But then just know that like. Manage your expectations.
• 34:01
  Speaker 5: Like if there's three different lawsuits going on with your businesses,
• 34:05
  Speaker 5: that shows you that there's a common denominator going on.
• 34:08
  Speaker 5: That however you do your business. is problematic, let's just
• 34:13
  Speaker 5: say that. It's problematic if it's happening this often.
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: Yes, fair enough. I do.
• 34:17
  Speaker 7: I think too many of these ladies settle, and maybe
• 34:21
  Speaker 7: it's convenient, it works out, but, you know, sure enough,
• 34:24
  Speaker 7: you'll hear down the road, you know, and it's just like,
• 34:27
  Speaker 7: I don't know. I think Jennifer Aniston did it right.
• 34:29
  Speaker 7: You know, they never legally got married.
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: I knew that.
• 34:33
  Speaker 5: I knew that, Justin Theroux. Yeah, Justin Theroux, right. I
• 34:35
  Speaker 5: said that, and I... Do you know if Jennifer... Gwyneth
• 34:39
  Speaker 5: Paltrow is really married to her second husband.
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: Oh, that's a good question. Probably not. I bet you not. Yeah.
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, they had their thing. And then
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: I was like, this is the easiest break I've ever
• 34:48
  Speaker 2: heard of. Yeah, right.
• 34:49
  Speaker 5: There's no way they were actually really married, but they
• 34:51
  Speaker 5: wanted to have, she wanted the world to know and
• 34:54
  Speaker 5: the people to know that we are committed and this
• 34:57
  Speaker 5: is our love together. But kind of a smart thing
• 35:00
  Speaker 5: to do, especially when you both are worth that kind
• 35:02
  Speaker 5: of money.
• 35:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree. And it's like, Oh, yeah. She did
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: it the right way.
• 35:06
  Speaker 5: And I almost think I was too bad that Teresa
• 35:08
  Speaker 5: like can't do that. But all these Bravo like Internet
• 35:11
  Speaker 5: will know that she didn't actually have a marriage license.
• 35:14
  Speaker 5: But like, but really, I think that's what she wants.
• 35:16
  Speaker 5: I think she wants the world to know I got
• 35:18
  Speaker 5: a man.
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: Right. She's from that old school Italian. Yeah. She doesn't
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: want to be 50.
• 35:23
  Speaker 5: And single or not married, but actually what she should do.
• 35:27
  Speaker 5: is just have him be your boyfriend.
• 35:29
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: And never marry him. Absolutely. And then let him deal
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: with his finances and all that stuff. That's exactly what
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: she should do. Yeah.
• 35:34
  Speaker 7: But I think that comes from, there's definitely insecurities going
• 35:38
  Speaker 7: on there that, you know, because if you care about
• 35:40
  Speaker 7: what people think, and you know, celebrities a lot, you know,
• 35:43
  Speaker 7: you buy into it. It's part of what you get
• 35:44
  Speaker 7: on that train, you know. You buy into what people
• 35:49
  Speaker 7: are saying online about you and everything and you feel
• 35:51
  Speaker 7: this pressure. And I think she feels the insecurity and
• 35:54
  Speaker 7: she needs to be validated and You know, yeah, it sucks, though, honestly,
• 35:58
  Speaker 7: because I think a lot of these women get into
• 36:00
  Speaker 7: relationships where they secretly know, you know, oh, I may
• 36:04
  Speaker 7: have to foot the bill or I may have because
• 36:06
  Speaker 7: I know I know this ridiculously gorgeous woman and she's
• 36:09
  Speaker 7: so wealthy and everything. And she presents her younger, good
• 36:13
  Speaker 7: looking husband. They've been married a number of years now.
• 36:15
  Speaker 7: Like he's got money, too. And, you know, when they
• 36:17
  Speaker 7: in all these pictures. But then I know somebody that
• 36:19
  Speaker 7: knows them and says, no, she's footing the bill for
• 36:22
  Speaker 7: everything behind the scenes, you know.
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: Because that's, again, that's embarrassing. And it really shouldn't be
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: at this point. Right. Like, it really shouldn't be.
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: If that's what you want.
• 36:31
  Speaker 5: If you're that wealthy as a woman, it's probably going
• 36:33
  Speaker 5: to be hard to find someone exactly at your level.
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: It is, yes. That provides.
• 36:38
  Speaker 5: And why can't you be like the rich man that
• 36:40
  Speaker 5: has a really pretty wife that maybe doesn't make a
• 36:43
  Speaker 5: million dollars a year, but she's a great decorator.
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: She's a great entertainer. You like to work out. Like,
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: you love her for her. Because there's the stigma. It's
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: the stigma.
• 36:50
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: And it's like, and then you have to prove to
• 36:52
  Speaker 2: the world or you have to.
• 36:54
  Speaker 5: Your publicists have to make him sound like– Yes, or
• 36:56
  Speaker 5: like try to get his own business going, which then–
• 36:59
  Speaker 5: now that's muddy waters for you.
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: I agree.
• 37:03
  Speaker 5: Because then it's like– it is hard. So when you're
• 37:06
  Speaker 5: dealing with these– with the billionaire guys– Yes. And you
• 37:10
  Speaker 5: have one that's like good-looking and nice and everything.
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: They're all good-looking.
• 37:15
  Speaker 5: What is their complaint? Why is it that they– Have
• 37:18
  Speaker 5: been unsuccessful? Or what are they hoping that you will
• 37:21
  Speaker 5: bring to them that they are unable to get on
• 37:23
  Speaker 5: their own?
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: Well, it's a tall order. But I act more as
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: gatekeeper for my guys. Do you know what I mean?
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: Like my guys don't have any problem meeting ladies. And
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: the ladies like them. But my guys are ridiculously picky. So,
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: so picky, you know?
• 37:39
  Speaker 7: And because, listen, and I try to tell these ladies
• 37:44
  Speaker 7: out there that like these guys will date them. You know,
• 37:46
  Speaker 7: they think that's everything, but it's not. It's like when
• 37:49
  Speaker 7: it comes time for these guys to get married, you know,
• 37:51
  Speaker 7: if you look at, I mean, there's exceptions, but for
• 37:54
  Speaker 7: the most part, if you look at like big celebrities, like,
• 37:57
  Speaker 7: you know, well, like Kanye, he wanted a woman, you know,
• 38:00
  Speaker 7: remember that song, she ain't a gold digger, whatever.
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: He really wanted a woman. who had her own money.
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: They all do. They want their own money. They want a.
• 38:08
  Speaker 7: Woman who is successful and accomplished, and that's who they
• 38:11
  Speaker 7: really want to end up marrying.
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: I mean, Jay-Z.
• 38:14
  Speaker 7: I mean, I'm giving music examples, but even Elon Musk,
• 38:17
  Speaker 7: like the couple of the Grimes, she has her own
• 38:20
  Speaker 7: thing going on, maybe not as successful. They don't necessarily
• 38:23
  Speaker 7: care that you're as successful, but they definitely want somebody
• 38:26
  Speaker 7: who definitely has it going on and isn't somebody who
• 38:31
  Speaker 7: necessarily needs them.
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: You know?
• 38:33
  Speaker 7: And so I'm, I'm tasked to find everything on the list.
• 38:38
  Speaker 7: Like she has to, you know, listen, the perfect prototype
• 38:41
  Speaker 7: is the supermodel with the master's degree who visits the
• 38:44
  Speaker 7: orphan children in this, in Sudan or, you know what
• 38:46
  Speaker 7: I mean?
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: Like that's like, but then here's the thing.
• 38:50
  Speaker 7: So we're searching a lot of times on Instagram, my
• 38:52
  Speaker 7: scouts and myself, but then the celebrities are dropping into
• 38:56
  Speaker 7: these women DM, like they're getting DM by Chris Pine
• 38:59
  Speaker 7: and Kanye. And, And the Lakers and the Dodgers. So
• 39:02
  Speaker 7: those guys are my competition for these ladies. Like it's
• 39:05
  Speaker 7: a race to the finish line because they get snatched
• 39:07
  Speaker 7: up right off the market so soon.
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: These fabulous girls. Yeah, the fabulous girls. I mean, yeah,
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: they're not on the market long. Yeah.
• 39:15
  Speaker 4: Gone.
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: Right. Gina, I just started seeing somebody, but I'll let
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: you know if I'm single again.
• 39:20
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 39:20
  Speaker 2: And the next thing you know, you read that they
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: got married to that celebrity guy or whatever. Right. Having
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: a baby. Yeah. So welcome to my world. Do you
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: get frustrated when you have.
• 39:30
  Speaker 5: the billionaire client and you and, you know, he starts
• 39:33
  Speaker 5: dating a girl that you found and he seems happy?
• 39:36
  Speaker 5: Then does it get to like a counseling session where
• 39:39
  Speaker 5: he's just.
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: Like, but I don't like this. Sure. Yeah, we have
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: those conversations. But I have those conversations with the ladies, too.
• 39:46
  Speaker 7: So it's like even though the women aren't my clients,
• 39:49
  Speaker 7: I care very much about them as well, which also
• 39:51
  Speaker 7: makes me different than most matchmakers. You know, I care
• 39:54
  Speaker 7: about my ladies. And so I want them to be
• 39:57
  Speaker 7: able to talk to me and everything. And it's kind
• 39:59
  Speaker 7: of cool because I do get to see both sides behind.
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: The curtain, you know, his perspective, hers. And it is
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: a unique perspective.
• 40:06
  Speaker 7: And so I will talk them through it like, well, okay,
• 40:10
  Speaker 7: I'll tell you a good example that kind of it's
• 40:12
  Speaker 7: a good thing I'm here. Because a lot of times,
• 40:15
  Speaker 7: in the real world when people are dating, if a guy,
• 40:18
  Speaker 7: let's say, isn't feeling it or isn't sure, usually he's
• 40:21
  Speaker 7: never going to.
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: Turn around. It's never going to change for him.
• 40:24
  Speaker 7: But what they'll do is they may still keep, and
• 40:28
  Speaker 7: women tend to do this sometimes too, they'll keep them
• 40:30
  Speaker 7: on the hook just because, well, she's nice, but they
• 40:33
  Speaker 7: know she's not the one. Well, that's when I step
• 40:36
  Speaker 7: in and I say, we got to call it. We can't,
• 40:38
  Speaker 7: I'm not going to keep her on the hook thinking
• 40:41
  Speaker 7: there's something happening if there's no potential. So then I
• 40:44
  Speaker 7: kind of step in and I say, let's make a decision.
• 40:46
  Speaker 7: And then they have to make a decision and we
• 40:48
  Speaker 7: call it. And, you know, and just the, I believe
• 40:50
  Speaker 7: in honesty and So there's things like that.
• 40:53
  Speaker 2: I feel like that calling it is like a doctor. No,
• 40:55
  Speaker 2: I was going to say, yeah. We have to make
• 40:58
  Speaker 2: a decision. I'm calling it 12, 14 on this day. Yes, exactly.
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: The death of the dating. The death of dating. So
• 41:06
  Speaker 2: things like that.
• 41:06
  Speaker 7: I've also had couples, they ended up getting married, but
• 41:09
  Speaker 7: there's always going to be that first speed bump in
• 41:11
  Speaker 7: the road that a couple hits. And if they're smart,
• 41:16
  Speaker 7: they keep in touch with me because... Then I get
• 41:18
  Speaker 7: to see both sides' perspective. And I've talked quite a
• 41:20
  Speaker 7: few down from the ledge when they were going to like.
• 41:23
  Speaker 2: Oh, it's it. This is over. And it's usually just
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: a miscommunication. It's never been anything where anybody was like
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: cheating or anything was like that.
• 41:31
  Speaker 7: It's just more of really communication issues. And then I'll
• 41:35
  Speaker 7: step in. I'll say, well, here's what she told me
• 41:37
  Speaker 7: and how she feels. And then he hears it through me,
• 41:40
  Speaker 7: her perspective. And then I'll share his perspective. And then
• 41:44
  Speaker 7: somehow they've gotten back on course.
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. What about when you find a girl, how
• 41:49
  Speaker 2: much research do you do on the girl? Like, what
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: if she has an OnlyFans? What if she's been a
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: sugar baby? I usually rule them out. I usually rule
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: them out, if I know that. Okay. That, yes. Or
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: even if on Instagram, like, just all ass, hi, here's
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: my ass, my ass, and my ass, and my ass.
• 42:04
  Speaker 7: It's like, yeah, no. That's not going to work for me.
• 42:06
  Speaker 7: Or when a woman fills out a profile, and she literally,
• 42:09
  Speaker 7: for the guy, because, you know, you answer about yourself
• 42:11
  Speaker 7: and then about the kind of guy.
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: A profile for you, yeah. Any, any, any, any. For guys, like, any,
• 42:16
  Speaker 2: don't care, any age, any height, any, that's a red
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: flag for me.
• 42:19
  Speaker 6: You know what I mean?
• 42:20
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? She'll take any old dude.
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: So it's like, while on the one hand, these women
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: that are so particular, they put me through hell, you know,
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: I respect that more than the, because then I know
• 42:32
  Speaker 2: that she's, she legitimately cares about who she's going to
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: partner with versus somebody who shows up and says, just
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: give me anybody, any rich old dude. You know what
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: I mean? And it's like, I'm not in that business.
• 42:41
  Speaker 7: You know, I've had a girl who, She was fantastic
• 42:44
  Speaker 7: in every way. Six foot tall, blonde, blue eyed, like
• 42:46
  Speaker 7: looks like Victoria's Secret model, Danish even, you know, which
• 42:51
  Speaker 7: is always a bonus for some reason. And so I
• 42:54
  Speaker 7: met with her. I interviewed her and she's very sweet.
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: She's like 25 or something.
• 42:58
  Speaker 7: And then afterwards she called me and she said, you know, Gina,
• 43:01
  Speaker 7: I just want to be honest with you, which I'm
• 43:02
  Speaker 7: so glad about. She said, I just want to be
• 43:04
  Speaker 7: honest with you. You know, I really just want someone
• 43:06
  Speaker 7: to pay my bills. And I said, I always thank
• 43:09
  Speaker 7: them for their honesty because I'm grateful. And I'm like,
• 43:12
  Speaker 7: thanks for the honesty, but I'm just, I'm not in
• 43:13
  Speaker 7: that business, you know?
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: And then I heard later, but I was like, why
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: do you even, you're so gorgeous. And you could like
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: be on runways. Like, why do you, you know, I've
• 43:23
  Speaker 2: got a lot of bills. I don't know, whatever. A
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: lot of people, not to sound like Kim Kardashian, but
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: a lot of people don't want to work. No, right.
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: And it's just, it's a very interesting thing.
• 43:31
  Speaker 5: And I joke about it because it's like, I came
• 43:34
  Speaker 5: from the generation where my mom was like, you know,
• 43:37
  Speaker 5: so excited that I, that women could do whatever they
• 43:40
  Speaker 5: want and make your own money and don't depend on
• 43:42
  Speaker 5: a man and all that. And then there's these younger
• 43:44
  Speaker 5: girls that just want to do a blowjob for a
• 43:47
  Speaker 5: Chanel bag.
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 43:48
  Speaker 2: And they brag about it on Instagram and all the
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: other hoes are like, go girl, you get your bag.
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, wow, where are you going to be
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: at 30?
• 43:56
  Speaker 5: And I also, also think like, I always thought a
• 43:59
  Speaker 5: funny romantic comedy movie would be something that was, you know,
• 44:03
  Speaker 5: a girl is a sugar baby, and then she falls
• 44:06
  Speaker 5: in love with the guy of her dreams, and she
• 44:08
  Speaker 5: meets his family, and his uncle is her former sugar baby.
• 44:12
  Speaker 2: Oh, that's funny.
• 44:14
  Speaker 5: Could that guy still marry her, knowing that she didn't
• 44:18
  Speaker 5: want to work? She didn't want to buy her own
• 44:20
  Speaker 5: Chanel bag.
• 44:21
  Speaker 2: What does that say about somebody? They usually won't marry
• 44:23
  Speaker 2: those women.
• 44:24
  Speaker 6: Right.
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: They usually won't. You know, and I did an Instagram.
• 44:27
  Speaker 7: tiktok about that and uh set set the tiktok on
• 44:31
  Speaker 7: fire where i said you know if you really want
• 44:32
  Speaker 7: to stand out be a woman that cannot be bought
• 44:36
  Speaker 7: yeah no they went up in arms about that yeah
• 44:38
  Speaker 7: because they.
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: Want to be bought they want to be bought it's
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: like it's like it's like a cyclical thing like it
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: was so like yeah and that's their form of feminism
• 44:47
  Speaker 2: like you know and that can be that can be
• 44:49
  Speaker 2: true too but i just think i knew a stripper
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: back in the day And in the 90s.
• 44:53
  Speaker 7: And I love, she was awesome. And she was like,
• 44:55
  Speaker 7: not your typical stripper. Skinny, skinny from Canada. She traveled
• 44:58
  Speaker 7: all around, was the guest star. And she loved, she said, Gina,
• 45:02
  Speaker 7: I have, and she would read Anis Nin or, you know,
• 45:05
  Speaker 7: what is it? Or Anne Rand and all.
• 45:07
  Speaker 2: She was very smart.
• 45:08
  Speaker 7: But she just loved taking advantage of the men and
• 45:12
  Speaker 7: stripping and getting their money and She felt empowered by that.
• 45:15
  Speaker 7: And so I say– but in her case, I think
• 45:19
  Speaker 7: she was actually saving her money. She was getting dollars.
• 45:22
  Speaker 7: These women are just getting items and I don't know
• 45:24
  Speaker 7: if it's smart.
• 45:25
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I think stripping honestly is– Different than like being
• 45:29
  Speaker 5: a sugar baby.
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: Oh, I do too. Because I'm like, you're straight up
• 45:32
  Speaker 2: boning for money.
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: And doing stuff for money. Right. I always, I call
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: it hook or light, but it's still. Hook or light.
• 45:39
  Speaker 2: I was like, wait, what'd she just say? You're still,
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: you're still, you are. That's what it's still. Yes, fair enough.
• 45:44
  Speaker 5: And hey, you know, it's like, they won't call themselves
• 45:48
  Speaker 5: a sex worker, but like, it's just become very normalized.
• 45:51
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 45:52
  Speaker 2: And almost like celebrated. Right.
• 45:54
  Speaker 5: Because we're such a society about showing off that you
• 45:57
  Speaker 5: have a designer bag or whatever.
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: And people are like, well, and then if you.
• 46:00
  Speaker 5: Criticize that person, then the comments are like, oh, you're
• 46:04
  Speaker 5: too ugly to get someone to buy you a bag.
• 46:06
  Speaker 5: And I mean, that's like the comments that go back
• 46:08
  Speaker 5: and forth. And it's like, all right, to each his own.
• 46:10
  Speaker 5: But I do think what I'm trying to say is like.
• 46:13
  Speaker 2: If you really see your life, I'm saying like, if
• 46:16
  Speaker 2: you're a young girl and you really see your life.
• 46:18
  Speaker 5: Like, I want to have a lifelong husband. I want
• 46:22
  Speaker 5: to experience life together. I want to raise children together.
• 46:25
  Speaker 5: I want to babysit our grandchildren together. That's what I
• 46:28
  Speaker 5: want eventually. At 25, I don't mind giving up a
• 46:32
  Speaker 5: blowjob for a Chanel bag.
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: But by doing that. I do believe you're jeopardizing the
• 46:38
  Speaker 2: end goal. Well, it'll come back to haunt you at
• 46:40
  Speaker 2: some point.
• 46:40
  Speaker 5: In fact, I just had a conversation with a client yesterday,
• 46:43
  Speaker 5: and I had to tell him, I'm not 100% sure
• 46:45
  Speaker 5: it's true.
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: You just don't know if anything's true.
• 46:47
  Speaker 7: But he said, this one girl I had set him
• 46:50
  Speaker 7: up with, and she sells real estate.
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: She's beautiful. They're both young. And he says, yeah, I
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: was with a guy friend, and we ran into her
• 46:57
  Speaker 2: at a bar. And he said, you know, man, she's
• 46:59
  Speaker 2: been like, you know, prostitute. That's a well-known fact.
• 47:02
  Speaker 7: And he And I had to tell my client, I'm like, well,
• 47:06
  Speaker 7: just because this guy says it does not make it true.
• 47:09
  Speaker 7: You know, I mean, you also have to keep that
• 47:11
  Speaker 7: in mind. I mean, like, did he pay her for
• 47:13
  Speaker 7: sex or he said, oh, it's.
• 47:14
  Speaker 2: A well-known thing. By who?
• 47:16
  Speaker 7: One guy that maybe got mad she didn't like who
• 47:18
  Speaker 7: started a rumor. I mean, I get mad about that stuff, too,
• 47:21
  Speaker 7: because we don't know what's true, you know, unless you're
• 47:23
  Speaker 7: the guy who actually paid her.
• 47:25
  Speaker 5: And how do we know you paid? Or that guy
• 47:28
  Speaker 5: friend is not a guy. He's not a friend and
• 47:30
  Speaker 5: he's jealous. And he's like trying to kill it.
• 47:33
  Speaker 4: Exactly.
• 47:33
  Speaker 2: Because he doesn't want his friend to fall in love.
• 47:35
  Speaker 2: They already dated and it didn't work out. Yeah, whatever.
• 47:38
  Speaker 7: This was like a couple years ago. But I just,
• 47:40
  Speaker 7: I don't know. That whole, it's murky waters. But yes,
• 47:43
  Speaker 7: a lot of the girls.
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: Are prostitutes, unfortunately. Sex workers is the correct, TikTok says
• 47:47
  Speaker 2: it's the correct term. But I knew a model. I know.
• 47:53
  Speaker 2: They correct you on everything. This is Monica.
• 47:56
  Speaker 5: She looks very cute, and she writes she's a recruiting
• 48:00
  Speaker 5: marketing manager.
• 48:01
  Speaker 2: Good job. She went to Indiana University. She's Catholic.
• 48:05
  Speaker 5: She's moderate politically. And, you know, she's pretty and fit
• 48:11
  Speaker 5: and all that.
• 48:12
  Speaker 7: So many people get caught up with, like, look at
• 48:14
  Speaker 7: this gorgeous scenery behind.
• 48:15
  Speaker 2: Me, the ocean. Right. Oh, sorry. I guess that's when
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: she was in Honolulu.
• 48:19
  Speaker 7: But a guy– you have to ask yourself, is a
• 48:21
  Speaker 7: guy going to say, oh, I've got to date her
• 48:23
  Speaker 7: because– Because she went on a hike? Because she went
• 48:25
  Speaker 7: on a great location?
• 48:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah. No, no, no. Like, I think she's almost like...
• 48:29
  Speaker 2: I think there's something that... I think there was advice before, like,
• 48:34
  Speaker 2: you know, don't be in a bikini. Actually, be in.
• 48:36
  Speaker 5: Like, an athletic outfit so you look like you're athletic
• 48:39
  Speaker 5: and you're on a hike.
• 48:40
  Speaker 2: I also heard that women who... A guy who has
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: a dog in his profile does well, but men don't
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: like to see dogs in women's profiles because they think
• 48:51
  Speaker 2: they're going to be all about the dog... And they're
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: not going to be as focused on the boyfriend.
• 48:57
  Speaker 5: I mean, I think it's valuable real estate that you
• 49:01
  Speaker 5: don't want to compromise by not having the very best photos,
• 49:06
  Speaker 5: not having it all about you.
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
• 49:08
  Speaker 7: Because it's a very limited time. People are, you know,
• 49:11
  Speaker 7: it's highly competitive. I say it's like the dating Olympics,
• 49:14
  Speaker 7: you know? You wouldn't show up to compete in the
• 49:16
  Speaker 7: Olympics like haphazard or 10-ish. you know, you'd train and
• 49:21
  Speaker 7: you'd show up with the right equipment, but nobody does
• 49:22
  Speaker 7: it on the dating apps and they want the very best.
• 49:25
  Speaker 7: And I guarantee you, she wants like, cause every woman
• 49:27
  Speaker 7: does and every man wants, everybody wants the best. I
• 49:30
  Speaker 7: think her stuff also, because she probably, I can guarantee you,
• 49:34
  Speaker 7: I can guarantee you if I spoke to her, she's
• 49:36
  Speaker 7: going to tell me, Because there's a prototype of the
• 49:39
  Speaker 7: same guy every woman wants. She wants a guy who's
• 49:41
  Speaker 7: smart and successful and at her level and da-da-da. And
• 49:44
  Speaker 7: she's going to tell me, if she was here, she
• 49:45
  Speaker 7: would say, oh, I just meet these average guys.
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: They just want to play around. They're not at my level.
• 49:50
  Speaker 5: La-da-da.
• 49:51
  Speaker 2: Okay? But that's because her profile, while it's not hideous,
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: believe me, I've seen a lot of hideous ones. It's
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: not hideous. But it is not. It is nowhere near hideous.
• 50:00
  Speaker 7: Like, really elevated to a level, like, what I like
• 50:02
  Speaker 7: to call a rock star level. And I think her
• 50:05
  Speaker 7: job and, you.
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: Know, education. I know that this girl's a winner. First
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: of all, because she's a juicy scooper. I can tell
• 50:10
  Speaker 2: that she is, but she's not elevating herself here. I
• 50:12
  Speaker 2: totally agree. To make it stand out like, oh, I've
• 50:15
  Speaker 2: got to have this. You know, so it's just some
• 50:17
  Speaker 2: fine-tuning that needs to happen.
• 50:18
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 50:19
  Speaker 2: Like everybody.
• 50:20
  Speaker 7: And her prompts, you know, they're not digging deep. I
• 50:23
  Speaker 7: tell the ladies when I'm working with them to, because
• 50:26
  Speaker 7: I do, you know, I do coaching as well.
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 50:29
  Speaker 7: Because my matchmaking is so I can only match a few,
• 50:32
  Speaker 7: I have this other side of the business where I
• 50:33
  Speaker 7: coach the ladies because they need the help, you know,
• 50:36
  Speaker 7: whether they think they do or not.
• 50:37
  Speaker 2: They do.
• 50:39
  Speaker 7: And so she's not out of the gate even, like,
• 50:42
  Speaker 7: showing off, like, how smart and great she is. There's
• 50:45
  Speaker 7: fluff here, you know what I mean? And I would
• 50:48
  Speaker 7: like to see more substantial... uh, prompts like, you know,
• 50:51
  Speaker 7: I'm blah, blah, blah. Like I want to, it's interesting.
• 50:54
  Speaker 7: Here's what's interesting. A lot of times men tend to
• 50:57
  Speaker 7: over amp up, they amp up and they brag and
• 51:00
  Speaker 7: they brag about things that aren't even true.
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: They, they, you know what I mean? They inflate what they're,
• 51:04
  Speaker 2: how great they are. And it's usually not the truth.
• 51:07
  Speaker 2: Whereas women, they never really, they're uncomfortable playing up their greatness.
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: They just are.
• 51:13
  Speaker 7: Like I had a woman fill out a profile for
• 51:15
  Speaker 7: me and she was fantastic. But like I knew she
• 51:17
  Speaker 7: had achieved all this success at her company and all
• 51:19
  Speaker 7: this stuff. And she just skated, like made it like, oh,
• 51:22
  Speaker 7: I'm marketing. I'm in charge of marketing or whatever. No,
• 51:24
  Speaker 7: she was like big time. I was like, hey, you
• 51:26
  Speaker 7: need to really like ramp up because my guys care
• 51:29
  Speaker 7: about it.
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: A man who's substantial... And looking for a real relationship.
• 51:32
  Speaker 2: And looking for a real partner. Uh-huh. He cares about
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: that stuff. Like, what can you bring to the table?
• 51:36
  Speaker 7: Yeah, he cares about that stuff. But these women are
• 51:38
  Speaker 7: so used to dating losers. They're like, well, I've never
• 51:40
  Speaker 7: met a guy who cared about that. That is because
• 51:43
  Speaker 7: he either didn't.
• 51:44
  Speaker 2: See you for a real relationship, for whatever reason, or
• 51:47
  Speaker 2: he wasn't looking for one, or he wasn't substantial himself.
• 51:49
  Speaker 7: Because if they are, that's what they want. So I said,
• 51:52
  Speaker 7: you need to really ramp it up. And she was like,
• 51:54
  Speaker 7: why should I try to impress a man... With my,
• 51:58
  Speaker 7: you know, accomplishments. Okay, baby, you are on Instagram trying
• 52:03
  Speaker 7: to impress these men with your tight little dress. But
• 52:06
  Speaker 7: we've been conditioned to do it that way.
• 52:09
  Speaker 6: Yes, so true.
• 52:10
  Speaker 2: You know, we need a little of both, right? Yeah.
• 52:11
  Speaker 7: So, you know, yes, hot and sexy is great. But
• 52:15
  Speaker 7: for a real substantial next level guy, you've got to
• 52:18
  Speaker 7: ramp up the info as well.
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: Need to turn them off. This is Justin. He's 33. Okay.
• 52:22
  Speaker 2: It says news producer at NBC. Yes.
• 52:25
  Speaker 5: And he went to this university, lives in San Francisco.
• 52:28
  Speaker 5: And then about me, are you vaccinated? Do you like
• 52:31
  Speaker 5: to laugh? Do you like to cuddle? If you've answered
• 52:34
  Speaker 5: yes to these three questions and find my picture appealing,
• 52:37
  Speaker 5: please swipe right. I'm looking for friends and dates.
• 52:40
  Speaker 2: I will have your back. Do we know if.
• 52:42
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 52:43
  Speaker 2: And he has a shirt on that says bike curious.
• 52:46
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 52:46
  Speaker 2: That's pretty clever. Yeah. Now, but he does have sunglasses on.
• 52:50
  Speaker 2: I know. That's a problem, right? I think he's dumbing
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: down his stuff, too. Yeah, like, why isn't he wearing, like,
• 52:55
  Speaker 2: a suit or something? Right, that's exactly. Like, he needs
• 52:57
  Speaker 2: to look a little sexy. Okay, moving on. Yeah. Okay,
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: this is... Okay, class act. What is this? Why is
• 53:03
  Speaker 2: she raising the middle finger? Okay, anyway, so... She's got
• 53:06
  Speaker 2: a bunch of photos. And she's a cute girl. She's
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: a really cute.
• 53:09
  Speaker 5: Drink milk from my mom's boob? No, it says, one
• 53:12
  Speaker 5: thing I'd never do again. No, I know, but still.
• 53:14
  Speaker 5: Drink milk from my mom's boob.
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: But still. Weird and not that funny. And here is
• 53:19
  Speaker 2: the thing. So she's 5'7. She's in Scottsdale. She's young.
• 53:24
  Speaker 2: She's 23. Yes.
• 53:27
  Speaker 7: So we'll give her a pass on that. But the
• 53:30
  Speaker 7: only photo that's actually... decent is though is that her
• 53:34
  Speaker 7: first one which is absolutely adorable she should just stop
• 53:38
  Speaker 7: there that's her graduation if she stopped there and what
• 53:42
  Speaker 7: you can't you have to have a certain amount of
• 53:43
  Speaker 7: pictures uh on the dating apps unfortunately but if she
• 53:46
  Speaker 7: stopped there and then put like you know uh like
• 53:50
  Speaker 7: amped it up with you know i don't know fully
• 53:52
  Speaker 7: what she does for a living is she out of
• 53:54
  Speaker 7: school she.
• 53:54
  Speaker 2: Must be out of school she is out of school
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: she has a good job no i met her but
• 53:59
  Speaker 2: she She what? She's a beer rep, but, like, a
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: marketing rep. Like, she's a real job. I'm a marketing rep.
• 54:05
  Speaker 7: You know, whatever her goals are, blah, blah, blah. She
• 54:07
  Speaker 7: just needs to amp it up with that picture and, like,
• 54:09
  Speaker 7: an amped up, like, bio of sounding substantial.
• 54:13
  Speaker 2: Yes. She is that girl in that picture that, like,
• 54:16
  Speaker 2: every guy wants to take home to mom. You know
• 54:19
  Speaker 2: what I mean? Right, but then the rest of it
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: is not awful. Oh, the rest is garbage. Yeah, the
• 54:22
  Speaker 2: rest is garbage. So, it's like, here she looks cute
• 54:23
  Speaker 2: with her grandma or whoever that is. Okay, here she's
• 54:26
  Speaker 2: doing a shot. I know, I know. I just never
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: have that. I can't even.
• 54:29
  Speaker 5: Then she's... making a joke me in the wild and
• 54:31
  Speaker 5: it's her like emptying her trash and I guess she
• 54:34
  Speaker 5: thought it was funny that there was trash everywhere yeah
• 54:36
  Speaker 5: no I know she's just young you know okay and
• 54:39
  Speaker 5: then you should not go out with me and then
• 54:41
  Speaker 5: her answer is if you walk slow it's kind of
• 54:44
  Speaker 5: bitchy actually Yeah.
• 54:46
  Speaker 2: Well, I mean, and yet she's with an old lady.
• 54:48
  Speaker 2: So I, and the old lady's holding a Corona. She
• 54:50
  Speaker 2: likes to party. She goes, um, me and my grandma
• 54:53
  Speaker 2: likes to party. Me and my best friend, obviously your
• 54:55
  Speaker 2: best friend's your grandma, but I also don't think that's
• 54:57
  Speaker 2: appealing to a guy. Of course it's not. No, no, no.
• 54:59
  Speaker 5: Nobody wants to, no one wants, that to me would
• 55:02
  Speaker 5: make me go, are we going to have to visit
• 55:04
  Speaker 5: grandma like every Sunday?
• 55:06
  Speaker 2: Is this grandma going to move in with us? This
• 55:08
  Speaker 2: is a, this is a profile. This is a, this
• 55:10
  Speaker 2: and drink beer and drink all my beer. Um, This
• 55:14
  Speaker 2: is a profile. Is Granny going to guzzle my Coronas? And,
• 55:20
  Speaker 2: you know, this is a profile that's just going to
• 55:21
  Speaker 2: attract all these low-end dudes. She's literally got, like, the bullhorn,
• 55:26
  Speaker 2: come in, you losers, right here. Yeah, all are welcome.
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: Every low-end loser. And then this bikini shot is awful.
• 55:33
  Speaker 2: And then you know what she's going to say? She's
• 55:36
  Speaker 2: going to say, I hate the dating apps. There's no
• 55:38
  Speaker 2: good guys. Well, hello, this is because this is what
• 55:41
  Speaker 2: you're using to attract them. I mean, listen, I've met
• 55:44
  Speaker 2: this girl.
• 55:44
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 55:45
  Speaker 2: And I bet she's, does she look like that picture? Yes.
• 55:47
  Speaker 2: She's gorgeous. Yes. She's funny. Right. She's cool. And then
• 55:52
  Speaker 2: she's in a green bikini. You can see she has
• 55:54
  Speaker 2: a nice flat stomach. She has a nice body. Yeah.
• 55:56
  Speaker 5: She has no makeup on and she's flipping off the camera.
• 56:00
  Speaker 2: Oh, I know. So you can't even like really see
• 56:02
  Speaker 2: the body. Loser party dudes. That's who she's going to attract. Yeah. So,
• 56:07
  Speaker 2: and then a social cause I care about, a... A
• 56:12
  Speaker 2: four-day work week. Well, I mean, so she's smart. She's funny.
• 56:16
  Speaker 2: It's kind of funny. But here's the thing.
• 56:18
  Speaker 7: I think what happens a lot of times, people sometimes
• 56:22
  Speaker 7: I think they think they're so smart that they can
• 56:24
  Speaker 7: get away with this stuff.
• 56:25
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 56:25
  Speaker 2: You see what I mean?
• 56:26
  Speaker 7: Because she knows. I think probably she knows that in
• 56:28
  Speaker 7: the real world, she... like, is probably quite popular, I
• 56:32
  Speaker 7: would imagine. Like, when a guy meets her, he probably
• 56:34
  Speaker 7: really likes her.
• 56:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 56:36
  Speaker 7: But she's not going to call that guy in using
• 56:38
  Speaker 7: this profile. Now, maybe in the real world, and she
• 56:40
  Speaker 7: was popular at school, and I have no doubt when
• 56:42
  Speaker 7: he meets her, he's probably, like, blown away how much
• 56:45
  Speaker 7: better she is. But she's never going to get him
• 56:47
  Speaker 7: through the door.
• 56:47
  Speaker 2: Not with this. No, that's... Okay. Now we have Allie,
• 56:51
  Speaker 2: who's 41.
• 56:52
  Speaker 5: She writes, straight woman, lives in Nashville, less than a
• 56:55
  Speaker 5: mile away, about me, new to Nashville, show me around, entrepreneur...
• 57:01
  Speaker 5: Podcast host, plant-based, speaker, author, karaoke queen. I actually think
• 57:06
  Speaker 5: karaoke queen is kind of a negative thing, but whatever.
• 57:08
  Speaker 5: Maybe not every Nashville. Smart, sassy, kind, happy, drama-free, feed
• 57:14
  Speaker 5: me wine, make me smile. And then lived in, yeah,
• 57:19
  Speaker 5: then just a couple other things. Then no kids, just
• 57:21
  Speaker 5: a beagle, looking for a relationship. And her passions are travel, plant-based, karaoke.
• 57:26
  Speaker 2: I mean, I guess we got to keep karaoke.
• 57:28
  Speaker 5: Dog lover and wine lover.
• 57:30
  Speaker 2: And then there's photos. Oh, I know. Gelato drinking.
• 57:33
  Speaker 5: So there's two photos with a wine glass. There's one
• 57:37
  Speaker 5: photo with the dog. She's very pretty. She has a
• 57:41
  Speaker 5: sense of style.
• 57:43
  Speaker 2: Well, I mean, here's the thing. So, I mean, at first,
• 57:46
  Speaker 2: this picture, it's not good of the dog or her.
• 57:49
  Speaker 5: Oh, she has a picture with a dog and a
• 57:51
  Speaker 5: wine glass.
• 57:51
  Speaker 2: You can't see her.
• 57:53
  Speaker 5: I mean, it's a great shot of the wine glass,
• 57:55
  Speaker 5: if that's what we're trying to show off. And maybe
• 57:58
  Speaker 5: she liked her outfit and her boobs in that picture.
• 58:01
  Speaker 5: But you can't see her face. And you can't even
• 58:03
  Speaker 5: see the dog's face. So it literally does nothing. That's
• 58:05
  Speaker 5: like a big X. X. Is he a gay guy?
• 58:09
  Speaker 2: He is. This is Felipe O. He's 33. He's self-employed.
• 58:13
  Speaker 5: And it says, Italian-American, open to all types of connections,
• 58:17
  Speaker 5: open mind, open heart, traveling, cooking, nights out, family, friends.
• 58:24
  Speaker 5: I mean— Cher and my Yorkie. Oh, you like Cher
• 58:26
  Speaker 5: and my Yorkie.
• 58:27
  Speaker 7: I can't—I mean, I think his— I think for what he's
• 58:29
  Speaker 7: looking for, because he says open to anything, you know
• 58:32
  Speaker 7: what I mean?
• 58:32
  Speaker 2: Like, he's looking for a little uh-uh-uh and a whatever,
• 58:34
  Speaker 2: and you know what I mean? I think his photos
• 58:36
  Speaker 2: are good. Yeah, I do, too. His photos are good.
• 58:38
  Speaker 2: I have no feedback for him. You can tell he's good-looking. Yeah,
• 58:40
  Speaker 2: he shows his body. Yeah. You know?
• 58:42
  Speaker 5: And if it really is he just looking for anything, fine.
• 58:44
  Speaker 5: But if he's really looking for something more specific, then
• 58:47
  Speaker 5: I do think he should— Ask for something more specific.
• 58:50
  Speaker 2: Oh, well, absolutely. I mean, just like in the— I
• 58:52
  Speaker 2: think sometimes people just say that because they're like, I
• 58:54
  Speaker 2: just want to get all the matches and then let
• 58:56
  Speaker 2: me sift through them. That's the biggest mistake.
• 58:57
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 58:57
  Speaker 2: And I think that is a mistake.
• 58:58
  Speaker 4: It is.
• 58:59
  Speaker 7: So I say to everybody, you don't want to attract
• 59:01
  Speaker 7: everybody because how can you possibly filter through them, you know?
• 59:05
  Speaker 7: you need to be as specific as you possibly like
• 59:08
  Speaker 7: the women. I tell the women to always say, you know,
• 59:10
  Speaker 7: especially if they're successful or whatever, or if they're looking
• 59:12
  Speaker 7: to have a baby or they look, put it in
• 59:14
  Speaker 7: the profile. You know, I, I've created a great career.
• 59:17
  Speaker 7: I have a wonderful life. I'm looking for a man
• 59:19
  Speaker 7: who meets me at my level, who is also successful
• 59:22
  Speaker 7: and looking for a real relationship and wants to have children.
• 59:25
  Speaker 7: I mean, I know that freaks women out when I
• 59:28
  Speaker 7: tell them that because we're so conditioned to, like.
• 59:30
  Speaker 2: Want to attract everybody. We don't want to offend anybody. Hell,
• 59:33
  Speaker 2: offend them.
• 59:34
  Speaker 7: You need to turn as many off as possible because
• 59:36
  Speaker 7: then you're left with the ones who really want what
• 59:38
  Speaker 7: you want.
• 59:39
  Speaker 2: Right. It's so much more efficient. Anyway. But, yeah, his
• 59:43
  Speaker 2: looks good. And we got the last one. This is Carly.
• 59:46
  Speaker 5: She's 23. She's a Pilates instructor. Her questions were, I
• 59:50
  Speaker 5: get way too excited about Cats, the musical, and the animal.
• 59:55
  Speaker 2: Do you know her? yes oh okay.
• 59:58
  Speaker 5: She's annie's roommate but we can be honest she's cute
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 5: she's very petite yep in real life i don't know
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 5: if you can tell that oh it says five two
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 5: here yeah she's active she has an undergraduate degree she's
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 5: let me see into exploring new cities and tennis concerts
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 5: so since you're.
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 2: Here what's her complaint about the dating apps what um
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 2: she never gets taken to dinner oh she never gets
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 2: taken to dinner yeah i can tell you why can't
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 2: you heather Well, she does say, if I could eat
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 2: one meal for the rest of my life, it would
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 2: be pasta. I made her add that because she didn't
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 2: have it. Because you were trying to get her fed?
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 2: I was trying to get her fed.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 7: But the reason is because she kind of comes off
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 7: like a party girl. Like, you know, like sticking her
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 7: tongue out in the first photo.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 2: I thought that was awful. And then the girls, what
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 2: was that thing that girls get wild? What was that
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 2: video back in the day? Girls Gone Wild. Girls Gone
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 2: Wild photo here. And, you know, it's like, of course. Oh,
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 2: and again, she's got a girl on her back. That's
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 2: what I'm saying. A whole other person is featured.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: And then she's got the two other girls. She definitely
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 7: needs an elevated profile. Now, I get that she is
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 7: showing her body in the one from behind. And her
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 7: hair is gorgeous in that photo. But it also looks,
• 1:01:07
  Speaker 7: it just is a little, like, high look at my ass.
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 7: Which is not very classy, in my opinion.
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  Speaker 5: Do you know what I mean? Okay, I want to
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 5: ask a couple more questions before you go. What should
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 5: you wear on a first date?
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  Speaker 2: Let's see here. I mean, I think that.
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 7: it definitely, I mean, I've known women that I've set
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 7: up with my guys before and like they thought it
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 7: would be cool to like act like they didn't like
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 7: one girl rolled up and she was like casual and, and,
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 7: and she liked him, but he didn't like her because
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 7: she didn't put any effort into herself.
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 2: Right. Like you don't care.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah. That's not a good move.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 7: Um, I think you don't want to ever dress on
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 7: a first date too sexy. I like classy, sexy. I
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 7: like looks, especially like as a stylist, which I was,
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 7: you know, before this and, I like looks that are
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 7: a bit timeless, you know? So you never want to, like,
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 7: if you're going to make, choose, are you showing your
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 7: boobs or your legs?
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 2: But don't show both. You know what I mean? That's
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 2: a lot.
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 7: And I think if you, I think classy, sexy, make
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 7: them wonder and want more. Now, one tip I also
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 7: need to give is that one thing I know the
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 7: men are thinking when you go on dates, because I
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 7: do this when I'm interviewing my women, when the women
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 7: show up and they're all layered up, You know, part
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 7: of my job is not only to interview them, you know,
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 7: and ask them about their profile, but I'm there to
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 7: check them out. I'm there to see their body for
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 7: my guys, you know? And so, you know, and I
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 7: feel awkward.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 2: I don't say anything. I should.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 7: But, you know, they're all layered up and you can't
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 7: really see what's going on. And then I usually don't
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 7: even end up setting them up because it was a wash.
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 7: I don't even know what they fully look like. So
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 7: what I'm saying is that if you're going to wear layers,
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 7: if it's cold, then at some point you have to
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 7: make sure that you take your layer off. and you
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 7: make an excuse like, oh, I'm getting a little warm.
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 2: I'm going to go to the bathroom.
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 7: I'll be right back. And then let them see your body, right?
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 7: Let them check you out and then come back and
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 7: you can put your coat on or whatever you want.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 7: But that's what they're sitting there thinking the whole time.
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 5: Besides showing up as like a casual slob at the date,
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 5: what are some other worst date mistakes?
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 2: Oh, let's see here.
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 7: I think, you know, certainly when people show up and
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 7: Either they go one of two ways. They either like
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 7: quiz the person and it's so unsexy. In fact, I
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 7: was coaching this one girl. She went out with this
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 7: guy and she said, it's just like an interview. But
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 7: so many people make that mistake.
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 2: So tell me. And do you want kids? And do
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 2: you want blah, blah, blah.
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 7: And they just drill the person. And it's not fun
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 7: and playful at all. And then I think the other
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 7: end is that sometimes, especially if people drink too much,
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 7: they start opening up too soon. You know, like they
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 7: want to tell people, you know, about their psycho ex
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 7: or all the, you know, losers they've dated or whatever
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 7: the drama is. And, you know, people need to or,
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 7: you know, like here's an interesting story. I've talked to
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 7: a woman just the other day that I'm helping her
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 7: with her profile, and she has a special needs child.
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 7: I don't know that anybody even needs to know that
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 7: until like even like maybe date three.
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 2: Because date three is.
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 7: Where it's like, okay, now this thing might actually be
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 7: turned into something, date three. But you need to make
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 7: people earn the right before you tell them.
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 2: Everything. Deep, dark secrets or personal things. They have to
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 2: earn the right for that. And we tell people too
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 2: many things. It's none of their business to know. I
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 2: agree with that.
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 7: So I think keeping the phone out is another big one.
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 2: You mean put it away? Yeah, put it away somewhere.
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 2: You don't need it out on the table. You know
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 2: what I mean?
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 7: And, you know, a lot of times my guys, one
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 7: of their pet peeves is that a lot of these women,
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 7: of course, because we're in L.A., they're bragging about, you know, Oh,
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 7: I know Elon Musk, and I know this guy, and
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 7: I know, and they're bragging about all the famous people
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 7: they know.
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 2: A guy does this or a girl? No, the girl
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 2: they went out with did that, and it was a
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 2: big turnoff to him, you know? Yeah. Yeah, obviously. Name-dropping. Name-dropping. Yeah,
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 2: just the same way girls get turned off by it, too.
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 7: Well, if you go out with a guy and he's
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 7: going to say, oh, yeah, my ex, she was so hot.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 7: She was like a playboy playmate at one point. You know,
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 7: it's like nobody wants to hear that.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 2: You know?
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 7: I'm here with you now. Can we just talk about, like,
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 7: what we might have in common? I want to know,
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 7: are we going to have any fun together?
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah. You know, that's what people want to know.
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 5: I saw this thing where this guy was saying, like,
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 5: you know, hey, it goes up to this motivational speaker
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 5: or something. And he's like, I just want to say
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 5: thank you so much because I just got out of
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 5: a horrible four-year relationship.
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 2: And he goes, I'm going to stop you right there. Right.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 5: Change the way you talk about your past and your
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 5: life because moving forward. What if you said, well, for
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 5: the last four years, I really got to know more
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 5: about myself. And now that I'm single, I know exactly
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 5: what I want. And I'm going to be, you know,
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 5: and what works for me.
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 2: And I'm just so, like, excited about the future. You
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 2: have to frame it differently. I'm not saying it perfectly.
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 2: I know what you're saying. Framing it differently. People are
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 2: stuck on their stories. They're so married to their stories.
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 7: And that's when, like, when you know people, I've known
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 7: a lot of people who, like, continue to struggle financially
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 7: or they're never meet anybody good it's because they're stuck
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 7: on this story about always being broke or or not
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 7: not meeting the right you know what I mean you
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 7: have to reframe your story and I have had people
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 7: ask me like you know when I say like don't
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 7: go into hardcore details and keep it light so you
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 7: know if somebody wants to like pry because some people
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 7: do oh so well why did your last relationship end
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 7: really you know what happened And you don't really want
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 7: to go into that. You know, the best way to
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 7: say is, you know what? It just sort of ran
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 7: its course. They're a great person, but, you know, enjoyed
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 7: our time together. It just didn't work out. And then
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 7: move the conversation along. Change the subject.
• 1:06:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah. That's how you handle that.
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 5: Now, in this crazy world of politics and are you
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 5: vaxxed or are you not?
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 2: COVID and this and that.
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 5: Is that something that you need to make sure that
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 5: these people are probably should be aligned with?
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 7: Because yes, I mean, in my world, I was more
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 7: conscious of it. Certainly when there was a lockdown, cause
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 7: I was still setting clients up all during the lockdown
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 7: and everything. Some were afraid to date, some weren't, and
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 7: some really wanted to make sure they were vaccinated and
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 7: all this stuff. But, um, but if you're on the
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 7: apps and actually we just had this conversation in my group, um,
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 7: The woman was saying that she lives in a place
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 7: where it's really conservative and she's on the dating apps
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 7: and she puts it she's liberal. But yet these men
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 7: are matching with her, even though they're conservative. And she's like,
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 7: you know, I don't want to come off as like
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 7: a crazy liberal, but I want to know, like, are
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 7: they even reading what I wrote?
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 7: And I said, well, the first message you should probably
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 7: send them should say, you know, oh, it's so great
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 7: to connect with somebody. Who is also open minded to
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 7: liberals like you need to reiterate so that, you know
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 7: what I mean? Because a lot of times people aren't
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 7: even reading the information. Another thing I do want.
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 2: To mention before, because I know we're going to wrap
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 2: up here shortly. So, yes.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 7: But but to round that out, I will say I
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 7: do think if somebody is like anti-Trump or, you know,
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 7: that kind of whole thing, that whole thing.
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 2: Or anti-vax. Yeah, that's very specific. And they should be
• 1:08:04
  Speaker 2: with their own people. You know what I mean? For sure.
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 7: If you're vegan, probably you don't have to date a vegan,
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 7: but it'd be better because you can go to the
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 7: same restaurants. The more you can have in common, the
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 7: more potential for a relationship. Now, one other thing I
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 7: was going to say that I did a TikTok about
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 7: this is that, you know, a lot of times, because
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 7: so many women will say, I did this thing on Clubhouse,
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 7: and these women were like, this woman was like, I
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 7: keep dating these men and, you know, I'm meeting them
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 7: on the apps and they're married.
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 2: And I was like, married? Married?
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 7: Because I know there are some people that want to
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 7: say like there's married men on the apps, but there's
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 7: not many fully married men. Yes, there may be, you know,
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 7: maybe there's got to be some, of course, but, but
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 7: it's like, that's risky for them to be on the
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 7: apps and showing themselves anyway.
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah. But so I thought that that was odd. I'm
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 2: like married as so many on the apps.
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 7: And I said, do you mean like married or maybe
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 7: not legally divorced?
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 2: And she said, yeah, they're not legally divorced. That's what
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 2: she meant.
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 7: And I said, so then what you need to do
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 7: is this is what I always do when I'm talking
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 7: to somebody. I always, whether it's, you know, as a
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 7: prospective client or whatever it is, if they say they're divorced,
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 7: I repeat back to them. I say, so, how long
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 7: have you been legally divorced?
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean?
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 7: Like, you need to say those words and have them,
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 7: because that's when they usually will say, oh, well, we're
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 7: not legally divorced.
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we're still, it's probably going to be wrapped up
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 2: in the next couple months.
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 7: You know, but if you don't actually say those words,
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 7: you won't, you might end up dating somebody and then
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 7: find out after a few dates that they're really just separated.
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 2: And if that doesn't work for you, then that's not
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 2: going to be good. So always are you legally divorced?
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 5: I want to just jam through a couple of these
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 5: before you have to go. Where to go in a
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 5: city to find the most eligible men?
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 2: I think high-end restaurants. Mm-hmm.
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 7: I think that you can even go to, let's say
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 7: you don't live in like a high-end area. Well, make
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 7: a day where you get yourself fixed up and you
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 7: go to the grocery store in the high-end areas and
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 7: you walk your dog in the, you know, you need
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 7: to go where affluent men live and make it maybe
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 7: your Saturday thing. Maybe every Saturday you go and you
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 7: hit the park with your dog in an affluent area
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 7: or you go to lunch at a particular place where
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 7: it's near a building where all the like network, you know,
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 7: the like executives, you know what I mean?
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 2: You just go to those areas. So that's one way.
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 7: And then another way I've said is like, you'd have
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 7: to do your research, but you know, there's a lot
• 1:10:29
  Speaker 7: of like private, uh, private, private groups you can get into.
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 2: There's, you know, private events.
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 7: There's, there's a lot of like where people speak for
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 7: Bitcoin tech, you know, and then look at who's speaking
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 7: on the panel. Like what I did back in the
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 7: day when I started my business, right. I Googled eligible
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 7: bachelors and then I Google, you know, you do some
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 7: research and like if, if there's like an eligible bachelor
• 1:10:53
  Speaker 7: or two and they're speaking on a panel in your town,
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 7: then go.
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Go where I also just
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 2: think like Richmond, like steak, And good steak places. Steak
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 2: houses are great. Sure. Steak houses. I think catch them
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 2: after work is good too. Right.
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 5: Like go to the steak house at like five 30
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 5: on a Friday or Thursday or whatever.
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah. And with a girlfriend.
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: Yep.
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 2: And good luck.
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 7: And even hit like the high end, the high end market. So,
• 1:11:21
  Speaker 7: you know, you can go to an affluent area and
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 7: like if you went like to Venice beach, for example,
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 7: and that's high end and low end, it's mixed over there.
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 2: Cause I was living over there.
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 7: And, uh, But if you went specifically to the highest,
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 7: the most expensive grocery store, which is Air One, as
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 7: opposed to Ralph's.
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 2: Ralph's, you'd meet every dirt bag in Venice.
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 7: But if you went to Air One, you'd meet all
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 7: the hot eligible men that are there.
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 2: And the women.
• 1:11:48
  Speaker 7: I mean, men go to scope out the women at
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 7: Air One. So just do some research about where the
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 7: most expensive restaurant. And maybe you don't do dinner there
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 7: if you can't afford it. But you can do lunch.
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 7: You can do a drink at the bar.
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Yeah. You could even go
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 2: into Erewhon and just get a, you know, $ 10 coffee
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 2: or whatever. You know what I mean?
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 5: Now Juicy Scoopers are just going to be at Erewhon's
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 5: for like five hours straight.
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 2: It's like hanging out. But certainly Erewhon is the spot. Yeah. Yeah. Oh,
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 2: that's a good question.
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 5: So Annie asked us, do you look like a prostitute
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 5: if you're by yourself?
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 2: At the Mastro's bar. Let's call it a sex worker.
• 1:12:25
  Speaker 2: Let's be PC. Yeah. Like you look like, you know.
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 6: Right.
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 2: So I know that's the concern. But I mean, the good.
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 7: But here's the thing. Like if I was sitting at
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 7: a bar, look at me like and I know I'm right.
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 7: I'm in my 50s, but there's there's some old hookers, too.
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 7: I mean, sex workers anyway. But but I even when
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 7: I was younger. If I'm dressed like this or, well,
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 7: I do have on leather pants, but I don't think
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 7: anybody's going to think.
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 2: So it's like it's what you wear. It's how you
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 2: carry yourself.
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 5: You know, you're not like looking at all the men
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 5: in a low cut top, you know. And if you're
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 5: just a cute girl at a bar, you can also
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 5: these days have your phone out. You can have a
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 5: little laptop with you and you'd be doing work.
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 7: And no, I think that, you know, if you don't
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 7: show up looking like a sex worker or acting like
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 7: a sex worker, then I don't think they're going to
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 7: take you for one.
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 2: But the other thing is with the phone, which I
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 2: think is kind of hard.
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 5: It's so great because it's so awkward when you're waiting
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 5: for a friend or whatever and you're like, thank God
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 5: I have my phone.
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 2: Yes, I agree.
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 5: But if you actually are like trolling for fresh dick
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 5: and you're like looking for a guy.
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 2: I think it's Well, I'm going to tell you how
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 2: to do it. You could end up sitting there for two.
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 5: Hours and you could be like completely looking on your
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 5: phone and no one's going to approach you because they're
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 5: going to be thinking they're interrupting you.
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 2: Yes and no. If they think you're cute enough, believe me.
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 7: If it was Heidi Klum sitting there on her phone,
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 7: you think the guy's not going to approach her?
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 2: No. So there's that.
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 7: But then the other thing I think like what I
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 7: do is like if I'm on my iPad or my
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 7: phone or whatever– Um, I'm listening and looking.
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 2: So you can't just be like on your, like seriously
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 2: on your phone and not conscious about what's going on
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 2: around you.
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 7: You've got to be like a little bit, you gotta
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 7: be almost like faking it or, you know, just whatever,
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 7: using it as a prop. But then what I do,
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 7: of course I'm talkative, but, um, I know you didn't notice, but, um,
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 7: but like if I hear an interesting conversation, I'll chime
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 7: in like, Oh really?
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 2: London, huh? You know, and just, you just insert yourself
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 2: into the conversation.
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 7: And who cares what they think? Like, you know, if
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 7: they're interested in you, they'll be glad that you did.
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 7: And if they're not, eh, who cares?
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 2: You can just go back to your phone. You know
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 2: what I mean?
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 7: But don't be afraid. I think don't be afraid to, like, say, oh,
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 7: I love those shoes. Where did you get them? You know,
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 7: if you like his shoes. Or great watch. Or I've
• 1:14:36
  Speaker 7: never eaten here. Like, I'm trying to think what to get.
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 7: What's good on the menu? You know, just you would
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 7: need to kind of get a little chatty. If you
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 7: want to meet men in the real world, I tell people,
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 7: You got to get friendly because people sit next to
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 7: each other all the time and they don't know if
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 7: you're in a relationship. Even when you go to events,
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 7: you go to events and then I can remember going
• 1:14:59
  Speaker 7: to so many events and we leave and we never
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 7: talk to anybody in the whole place.
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 2: Right. You got to get friendly, you know, and sometimes
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 2: when you're by yourself, it forces you to talk to
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 2: more people. Okay.
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 5: Should you text a man after the first date or
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 5: wait for him to text you?
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 2: What do you think I'm going to say? I think
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 2: wait for him to text you. Nope.
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 4: Nope.
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm going to say?
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 7: I say it's always a classy move just to say
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 7: thank you for the meal.
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 2: Yes, that is a classy move. And I mean, some
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 2: will say, well, I thanked him in person.
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 7: Yeah, but, you know, I just think it's just, I
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 7: don't know, polite. Whether I like them or not, I
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 7: always say, thanks so much. It was great meeting you.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 7: I enjoyed my dinner or whatever.
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah. And I do it just because I think it's
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 2: just a classy move. All right. And let's pretend for
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 2: a second that you don't like the guy. Yes. So
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 2: now what happens? So then you say thanks for the dinner.
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 7: You seem like a great guy, but, you know, and
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 7: I would say this because it helps the ego. Maybe
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 7: you felt the same way, but I don't think we're
• 1:15:53
  Speaker 7: the right match. You see, and you've said maybe you
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 7: feel the same way, which is now going to definitely
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 7: soften the punch.
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 2: Got it. And you say that.
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 5: And you do think you should say that right off
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 5: the bat if you never want to go out with
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 5: him again and.
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 2: You did enjoy your dinner. Well, listen, if it was
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 2: a horror show. Yes. Then no, you walk away and
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 2: that's the end of the story.
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah. But if the person was nice and
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 7: you had good conversation and you think that they might
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 7: be interested, why not?
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 2: It's a classy move. Yeah. You know?
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 7: And then let's say you don't thank them, but then
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 7: they do follow up with you anyway and they like
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 7: you or whatever. That's when you should at least just respond.
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 7: I know nobody wants to do this, but it's good
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 7: practice for the soul. It's the right thing to do. And,
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 7: you know, not that I do it every time. But
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 7: is this the right thing to do? Just to say,
• 1:16:39
  Speaker 7: you know, you're very nice. I just don't think we're
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 7: in match. You probably feel the same way.
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 5: And I mean, I have to say, you know, when
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 5: I was dating, texting didn't exist. And texting is the
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 5: greatest gift from God or whoever created it. Because you
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 5: really can do these things and it's not, there's nothing scary.
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 6: Right.
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 2: Like you're not on the phone. You're not shaking. Plus
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 2: you can block people if they get weird. Right. I mean,
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 2: it's the greatest thing. Couldn't do that before. So why not?
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 2: You know, if you're questioning it, why not just do it? Right.
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 2: And like, yeah, that's good.
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 7: I think too many people mislead. They don't want to,
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 7: they say, oh, I don't want to be mean.
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 2: Well, it's more.
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 5: Unkind to leave people with false hope. Pete and Kim.
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 5: I saw him at Soho House. I was like, he
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 5: looks like an opportunist.
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 2: Anyway.
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 4: Who? A-Rod.
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, yeah. He's just not my bag. Anyway. So, okay.
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 2: Pete and Kim, I did a TikTok about this. I
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 2: don't think it's real. I don't think it's real. Even
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 2: though he got tattoos and got her name branded? He's
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 2: got so many tattoos. When you have that many tattoos,
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 2: what does another tattoo mean? Nothing. Absolutely nothing. That's what
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 2: I didn't think, but then the branding I thought was
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 2: kind of... I don't know. I didn't see the branding.
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 2: What's the branding he got? Just Kim. You know, listen.
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 7: I guess if it gets you a new TV show, because,
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 7: you know, he just got a new TV show. He
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 7: just inked a new deal since this whole thing.
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 2: Oh, did that just happen today?
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: No, no, no.
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 7: That was like within the last maybe... Well, it's been since...
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 7: I don't know, but he... Yep, but look it up.
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 2: Google it. Google it. Yep.
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 5: Well, I think he loves the fame, and I said, look.
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 5: But he is not her type. She is not his type.
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 5: But I think they are boning, and I think they're
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 5: enjoying each other. I don't know how long it'll last,
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 5: but he is one of those types of industry people
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 5: that acts like he doesn't care about being famous.
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 2: Right, but you get caught up in it. But he
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 2: totally does. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 5: And he would love to be Dave Chappelle. So it's like,
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 5: how do I get to, like, arena-style stand-up? And it's becoming,
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 5: he's never been more famous since dating her.
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 7: Well, I mean, listen, actually it's worked well, and I know, like,
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 7: the controversy about Kanye and, like, not performing at Coachella
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 7: or whatever, but.
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 2: No, he's not performing at the Grammys. Okay, the Grammys, right.
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 7: But what does he care? As long as they're in
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 7: the news and people are talking about the new record.
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 7: So it works for everybody.
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 7: It's really the way to turn the lemons into lemonade.
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 7: And Kris Jenner, who knows if she's behind it, but
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 7: she's very smart, that woman.
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 2: Joe Jonas and Sofia... That's.
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 7: An interesting couple. They're expecting a second baby or a baby, right?
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 2: So they never get married? They get married?
• 1:19:08
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 2: Oh, they are married.
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 2: Oh, well, then I think they're solid.
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 2: I think they're solid. She's on second baby. I don't
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 2: know what I could tell you about them.
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 5: And then Megan Fox and Machine Gun Kelly.
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 2: I mean, it'll run its course.
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 5: It's not, I don't, they're not going to be like,
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 5: you know, they're engaged. Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward, like
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 5: to the death, you know what I mean? But it's,
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 5: but yeah, they're engaged, but I don't think they'll get married.
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 2: No, I don't.
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 5: It's going to run its course. Also the fame, the
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 5: fame will end once they get married.
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 2: So the novelty of, yeah. Once you're married, who cares?
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 2: You're right. You're right. I don't think they'll ever, I
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 2: don't think they're going to get married.
• 1:19:44
  Speaker 7: I have to say, I am shocked about Brian Austin
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 7: Green getting together with that other girl because I felt
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 7: like he was so hung up on, on, uh, Well,
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 7: I think she moved on and then the.
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 2: Girl he was with got pregnant. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 2: just sort of happened. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, that's it.
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 2: And then there you are. There I am. And how
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 2: long have you been married? I've been married 21 years. Wow.
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 2: 22 in May. How'd you meet him?
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 5: So I met him because a mutual friend of ours,
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 5: he was my friend, and he was like, I think
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 5: I have a guy for you.
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 2: Oh, okay. So I always tell people it was an.
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 5: Actual blind date. I didn't have a photo of him, nothing.
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 5: He was just described to me. And then- And what
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 5: made you like him so much? Right away, he was like,
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 5: it was a birthday party at El Cholo Restaurant in
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 5: Santa Monica that I was going there and a guy
• 1:20:36
  Speaker 5: I was dating was going to be there too. And
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 5: he wanted to pick me up and take me there,
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 5: but I knew that the Peter guy was going to
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 5: be there. So I said, just in case I like
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 5: him because the other guy was one of these types
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 5: that I thought it would be over.
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 2: And then he called me a week later.
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 5: I was like, I'll just drive my own car. And
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 5: then the minute I walked in, he was just like, hi,
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 5: I'm Peter. I can't believe we're finally meeting. And it
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 5: was just, he was just very much like on me,
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 5: you know? And like, I think also being like a
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 5: sales guy. And I think also maybe knowing that there
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 5: might be this other guy that is there. I think
• 1:21:08
  Speaker 5: the challenge was there a little bit. And then right away,
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 5: like made a date, Called me.
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 6: Right.
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 2: Came to my house like within days for the next date.
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 7: Well, like what I said, when they're interested, there's follow through.
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 7: You don't ever have to question it.
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 2: So I mean, all that. Yeah.
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 5: And then it was just, and then it was just
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 5: the simple thing of like, we just really clicked and
• 1:21:27
  Speaker 5: got along and like physically he was my type and
• 1:21:30
  Speaker 5: then just really easy and fun to talk to. And
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 5: so that was, it was just one of those things
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 5: I was saying with my sister, I was like, how
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 5: do you know your husband's the one? Cause they've been
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 5: married even longer than I have. And I just remember
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 5: she goes, it's just easy.
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 2: Like I just. Right. You know, when you look back,
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 2: there's so many times you're, you know, you're having conferences
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 2: with your girlfriends. You're trying to figure this thing out.
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 2: You always want to crack the case. It shouldn't be.
• 1:21:56
  Speaker 7: Listen, if it gets to the point where you're just
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 7: dating somebody and you have to like spy on their
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 7: Instagram or feel like you got to crack the case
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 7: or talk for hours with your girlfriends about this is
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 7: not a relationship that's like meant to be.
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah. You got to pull the plug and move on.
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 2: But I've been that woman. I've been that girl. And
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 2: we all have.
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 2: We all have.
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 5: But then when you're in one that's not like that,
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 5: then you're like, oh, you know.
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 2: I don't have to wonder if we're doing something this weekend. Right.
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 2: Of course we are.
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 2: You know, like, yes. Let me see.
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 2: Well, go ahead. Strong women looking. Oh, yeah. Let me ask.
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 2: So what about what? Okay. Well, fine. We'll end on this.
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 2: All right. And what is the difficulty about what you're
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 2: like strong? Why don't I work with female clients?
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 5: Yes.
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 2: For example. So, yes.
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 7: So I've made a decision where I generally speaking, I mean,
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 7: maybe once in a rare while I'll take on a
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 7: female client, but usually I don't because what I find
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 7: most of the time is that, um, the women who
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 7: could afford like the, at the level I'm at, right.
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 7: A private matchmaker at my level and my fee substantial, um,
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 7: They've achieved a lot. And usually they definitely want a
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 7: man who's their equal. Well, the problem is a lot
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 7: of times with these ladies, they're energetically, they're a lot.
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 2: They're just, they're, they're, they're energies a lot. They're a
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 2: little demanding. They're a little pushy.
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 7: They're, they're very assertive because they've had to be to,
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 7: to accomplish most everything they've gotten.
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 2: And, and, the type of men they want don't want that.
• 1:23:27
  Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean? Yeah.
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 7: So they, you know, they want a man who's their equal,
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 7: but those men usually, uh, just find that to be
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 7: too much, you know? And so for that reason, it
• 1:23:37
  Speaker 7: just becomes very complicated. So like when I've taught, you know,
• 1:23:40
  Speaker 7: there was a woman who was married to a billionaire and,
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 7: And she is now back on the market. And just
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 7: having a conversation with her, I knew what her problem
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 7: was right away. She was just a lot. That's the
• 1:23:52
  Speaker 7: best way I can describe it, you know. And that's
• 1:23:53
  Speaker 7: what men, that's the words they would choose as well,
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 7: a lot. Meaning just she doesn't show up as like,
• 1:24:00
  Speaker 7: you know, necessarily inner feminine, soft, you know. And flirty,
• 1:24:06
  Speaker 7: it's just like we start having to run the show.
• 1:24:08
  Speaker 7: As we get older, we just start doing that. I mean,
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 7: that's just kind of what we do.
• 1:24:11
  Speaker 2: I don't know. Do you do that, Heather, in your relationship?
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know.
• 1:24:15
  Speaker 5: I mean, I think it would be very hard for
• 1:24:17
  Speaker 5: me to date for those same reasons.
• 1:24:18
  Speaker 1: Same reasons.
• 1:24:19
  Speaker 2: Right, exactly. As we get older. I'm just used to
• 1:24:21
  Speaker 2: our dynamic. And, yeah, like I definitely think. So it's
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 2: a lot. Yeah.
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 7: And so then when women want their equal after a
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 7: certain point in life, it gets very hard to find
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 7: that dynamic.
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 2: And it's challenging. Yeah. So, yeah. Well, thank you so much.
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 5: Sure.
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 2: Gina, tell everybody where they can follow you. Oh, let's see.
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 7: You can find me on TikTok, Matchmaker Gina Hendricks. Instagram,
• 1:24:43
  Speaker 7: Matchmaker Gina Hendricks. Or my website, GinaHendricks.com. Or TheGreatManHunt.com.
• 1:24:50
  Speaker 2: Yes.
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 7: Which is where I do all my coaching for my ladies.
• 1:24:53
  Speaker 7: Or my Facebook group, which is for women, Badass and
• 1:24:56
  Speaker 7: Brilliant Ladies. No, Badass and Brilliant Women. What's my group called?
• 1:24:59
  Speaker 2: I love it. Thank you. Yeah, thanks. This was fun.
• 1:25:03
  Speaker 2: Thank you. Well, that was really juicy, Gina.
• 1:25:06
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