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He Built Multiple Companies by Avoiding This One Thing · The Hannah Hammond Show

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For those of you who don't have the pleasure of knowing my
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friend Karen Jones, he is literally the definition of
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transformation. I was living in my car for 2 1/2
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years, sleeping in abandoned buildings, sleeping on bubble
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wrap and I'm just like, there's no possible way that I was put
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on this earth as a miracle to pay bills and die to pass that
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on to my kids. When a child does not honor what
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is naturally in their spirit, they will find unhealthy ways to
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express and that's what turns into porn, drugs, over
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sexualizing, alcohol, you name it.
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All of those are forms of expression, but they're
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unhealthy because the the point of origin of your natural
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expression isn't getting met. Not honoring what's naturally
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inside of me and everyone telling me to shut up because I
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always wanted to sing. Well, then that turned into me
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sleeping around with all these women and me doing all these
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things, breaking into cars. But they're all forms of
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unhealthy expression. And that's what led me
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ultimately to crash and burn over and over and over.
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And now we're here. And the same person that was
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passionate about singing sings as loud as he wants every day.
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Because no one. I will never give someone else
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outside of me permission take away something that God has put
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inside of me. Welcome back to the Hannah
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Hammond Show. I'm sitting here today with one
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of the most, I don't want to say the most because I don't want to
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leave anyone out, but probably the most beautiful human I have
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ever met in my entire life. Like you were just such an
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incredible soul. And you have this energy that is
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the most grounded, connected, loving, abundant.
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You exemplify what I am striving to accomplish in the world.
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And you give out what I want to give out in the world.
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And you just bring up the energy and the connection and the joy
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and the love of everybody that you encounter.
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So First off, I want to just say thank you for all of that and
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for being such a beautiful human inside and out.
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I'm just I need about 3 seconds to receive the words from
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someone that I admire, that I'm inspired by that constantly
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gives constantly, serves, constantly, wants to learn and
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grow, and is a badass. So like, kudos and Ditto to you,
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my friend. Thank you.
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Yeah, thank you. Yeah.
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So for for those of you who don't have the pleasure of
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knowing my friend Karen Jones, he is literally the definition
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of transformation. And he is the definition of
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relentless and the definition of turning pain into purpose and
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impact. And I mean, I want you to Share
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your story. And I know it's long, but we can
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we can share pieces of it. And some of those rock bottom
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moments are those trans informative events.
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But I mean, from the time you were born, you could say that
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your cards were not laid out well for you.
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No, not at all. Not even.
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I probably could have written a best selling book by the time I
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was five years old on transformation and what me and
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my family, especially me, had to adapt to.
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And I would say my earliest memory is being four years old.
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There's commotions in the house. You know, when you're a little
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kid, there's a lot of stuff you don't remember, but you remember
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things that impact you. And my mom saying pick which
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parent you want to go with. I don't want to choose, choose
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out of the unit. I don't want to choose.
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And I remember making a decision to go with my dad because he was
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the easier of the parent. And then something rose up
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inside of my belly. What I now know is my intuition
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said, stop the car, go with your mom, go with your mom, go with
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your mom. And then I ended up we we drove
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back to my mom. A few years later, the house
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that I would have been in my father was murdered.
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Oh my God, you know what I'm saying?
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So it's like there's that story and then being the same age 4,
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and there's a grown man that says, hey, you want to go to
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Disneyland? And I'm like, yeah, Because when
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you're a little kid and you see what you see on TV, it's the
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land of make believe. It's like if you get into that
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dryer, which was a community dryer, you'll go to Disneyland.
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And I remember saying to myself at four, that doesn't make
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sense, but it's the land of make believe.
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So I'm just going to believe I'm going to Disneyland and maybe
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this is the route I'm 4. So this grown man picks up a 4
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year old child, puts him in the community dryer and tries to
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kill him. Thank God someone saved my life.
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And so my life has been many. It's not even a few, many times
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where it seemed like I wasn't supposed to live or I wasn't
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supposed to make it. My cars weren't dealt.
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My family doesn't come from money.
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People didn't know how to make money.
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It was all fear based and it was like there's no entrepreneurs as
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far as the eye could see. But I was the one that was
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always getting kicked out of school.
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Thank God I got kicked out of school because I didn't get
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indoctrinated by those white walls and those those lights
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that that that the same lights that are in hospitals, same
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lights that are in prisons inside of school.
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And all I would do is look out the window and say, I feel like
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I'm supposed to be out there. And you know, I could be on here
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talking about how much trouble I got.
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I got in trouble, kicked out of public school, in and out of
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juvenile, in and out of jail. Or I could talk about all of
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those are forms of expression, because the origin of my
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expression, a little kid who wanted to sing loud where
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everyone told him to shut up, stuffed down his artist, stuffed
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down what he always wanted to do, and then started to live a
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life based off of what everybody else wanted him to do.
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So I could talk about me going in and out of prison or I can go
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straight to the point. When a child does not honor what
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is naturally in their spirit, they will find unhealthy ways to
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to express. And that's what turns into porn,
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drugs, over sexualizing, alcohol, you name it.
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Physical abuse, rape, all of those are forms of expression,
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but they're unhealthy because the the point of origin of your
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natural expression isn't getting met.
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So that was me. And so you Fast forward to when
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you think about ABC's that turn into sentences, paragraphs,
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essays, books. Well, the ABC's of not honoring
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what's naturally inside of me and everyone telling me to shut
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up because I always wanted to sing.
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Well, OK, Well, then that turned into me sleeping around with all
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these women and me doing all these things, breaking into
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cars. But they're all forms of
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unhealthy expression. And that's what led me
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ultimately to crash and burn over and over and over to the
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point where 2011 as I closed this part of my story out, I was
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$250,000 in debt, ex convict, couldn't take care of my own
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daughter because I didn't know I even know how to take care of
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myself. Mom dying in the hospital.
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I was living in my car for 2 1/2 years, sleeping in abandoned
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buildings, sleeping and on bubble wrap.
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And I'm just like, there's no possible way that I was put on
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this earth as a miracle to pay bills and die and to pass that
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on to my kids. So it was 2011 at 3:43 in the
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morning, and that's when it all came.
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That was the rock bottom of my rock bottom of my rock bottom.
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And I was like, OK, I'm tired of fighting.
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I don't want to fight anymore. I want to be healthy.
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I want to be happy. I want to be surrounded by
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nothing but positive people. I just want to inspire people.
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And I want to make a bunch of money, but I want the money to
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represent something that I passionately believe in that I
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would do for free. Just show me a sign.
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Show me a sign. Peak state.
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One week later I meet a homeless person at a gas station that
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asked me for money. I said you have more money than
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me. And he said change your mindset,
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change your life. And that it was that statement
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right there that created a conscious interrupt that then
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said, well maybe my whole life has been a lie based off of how
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I've been thinking. So what if I start doing the
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opposite of everything that I wouldn't normally do in areas of
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my life where I wasn't happy? I wasn't happy with my weight,
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my health, my friends, my relationships, who I was as a
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person, who I was as a son, as a father.
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So every area of my life, I literally started doing the
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opposite. So leadership seminars,
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masterminds, reading books, stop watching TV, stop listening to
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the radio. And like literally investing
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into forging myself into the future as the highest and
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fullest expression of myself literally created the inverse of
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who I was back when I was a Walking Dead person.
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And now we're here and the same person that was passionate about
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singing sings as loud as he wants every day because no one.
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I will never give someone else outside of me permission to take
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away something that God has put inside of me.
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No idea that that was going to take me to 97 countries,
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speaking to over 2.7 million people, earning millions of
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dollars in three different companies.
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I mean, and it feels effortless. Why?
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Because I paid the price and all I've got to do is bring my
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fullest and highest expression and then teach other people how
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to do that and not live as a limitation, not even for a
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fragment of themselves. And that's what has me sitting
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in this chair right now, filled with humility and grace and
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poise. Very clear and very certain and
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very, very, very grounded. Because I know what the other
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side looks and feels like. That's so beautiful.
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And I think it's something that so many people don't even
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realize how detached they are from their inner child and how
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detached they are from who they even are.
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And that we based on our environment and based on what we
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get rewarded for or punished for as a little baby or a child or
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through our even early adulthood, we learn more into
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the things that people reward us for.
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That's energy. That's like a flower.
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If a flower is next to the window, it's not leaning towards
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the shade, it's leaning to what's giving it energy.
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So when a child, a flower is not being recognized here, they will
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literally I feel I feel like the first abandonment and doesn't
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come from mom or dad. It's when the child abandons
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themselves, the truest part of themselves when they abandoned
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that to then go to where the energy is.
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There are people that will sell their whole souls because
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something feels safe in an energy that they don't actually
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even agree with. I see it all the time.
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And so that child, when you see, when you feel like mommy cares,
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like mommy acts and matter of fact, mommy is going to expose
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you to the thing that you're naturally showing.
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When you give that to even when you're an adult and you give
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that to your inner child. Oh, the level of healing that
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can happen within 30 minutes is, I mean, it's insurmountable
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because that's what the child is craving connection from
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yourself. How do you get reconnected to
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yourself? How do you find yourself?
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And you know, people, I think it's such a abstract idea of
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like they have this idea of who they are because that's the ego
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and that's what they built over some years.
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But like, how do they get that awareness?
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Then that intuition that something's off here?
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I, I don't know, like something feels wrong.
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I'm angry, I'm sad, I'm frustrated, I'm blaming
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everything around me and even get that awareness.
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And then what steps did you take to like really change?
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Well, one, we all know, everybody knows.
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Now if you want to do something about it, that's another thing.
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But everybody knows when something's off.
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You know when you're dating that guy, you know you don't want to
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be in that relationship, but y'all invested all this time.
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Next thing you know you're walking down the aisle in a
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marriage you know you don't want to be in.
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And then five years later all these blow UPS happen.
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You're like, I don't know what happened.
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Yeah, you lied in the beginning, so we all know now the question
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is, why is the number one fear in the world public speaking?
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That's even more than death. You got to be kidding me.
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Well, public speaking doesn't come from the throat.
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It comes from the confidence that's even in your sacral
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chakra, your belly, your confidence.
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This is why there's a Me Too movement, because all of those
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women didn't feel safe enough to actually speak up.
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And there's so many men that don't tell the truth, but so
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they'll just like weasel around and say a fragment of it.
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That's the real conversation. So we all know it's like, are
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you avoiding like? But when you look in the mirror,
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nobody's around and the truth shows up.
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That person knows. Now if you want to look at it or
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not, that's on you. Now what I do, and I'll tell
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you, I have a client because I 94% of my clientele is powerful,
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driven women. They're all like killing it in
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life, which we should just call it living it and a client and
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she's worth about $150 million and she came to me.
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She's like, Garen, I have everything.
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I have the cars, I have the money, I have the husband, I
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have the kid kids and something is missing.
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I said, what did you used to love to do as a child that
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brought you the most joy? And she had to think about it.
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She's like, I used to dance. And instantly her whole, her
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whole energy changed just in the thought about what she used to
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do that brought her the most joy.
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The people don't ask these questions.
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I used to dance. I was like, when was the last
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time that you gave yourself full permission to dance like you did
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when you were a little kid? She was like, I watched her body
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go like this 20 years ago and I said, you have kids, right?
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She said, yes. I said, if your daughter comes
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up to you or your son and goes mom, mom, mom, mom, mom, mom,
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listen to me and you never acknowledge that child for 20
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years, what do you think the relationship is going to be
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like? She said it wouldn't be 1.
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I said right is there's no emotional closure, closure.
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Let's just play a game of thinking all possibilities.
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Let's just imagine that your inner child and the thing that
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you used to love is that every time you see somebody doing it,
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there's like a little thing that happens inside.
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Like I remember I used to love that.
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Imagine that, that inner child going mom, mom, well, but you
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ignored that child for 20 years. What do you think the
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relationship was going to be like?
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That's where the disconnect is. It's from the physical and the
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spiritual self. But the moment you become
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aligned, that's why birds can fly.
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Bird's flight is the bird's version of abundance and not
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just in money. I know so many, so many
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outwardly wealthy people. I have 5 minute conversation.
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I can, I can share every area in their life where they're broke
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and poor and where they're overcompensating and masking.
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And I'm like, that is actually deteriorating your age because
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of the masking and overcompensating.
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So what I would say and what I said to my client, I said she
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used to love dancing. She was like, yeah, I was like,
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sign up for a dancing class once a week, but how am I going to
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scale? Fuck the scaling.
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This is your heart. Scale your heart.
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The highest frequency of the EKG's literally comes from the
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heart. Doesn't come for your business.
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And I said give 30 minutes, at least 30 minutes once a week.
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But you don't take the adult. Take the little kid who just
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loves dancing. No rhyme, no rhythm, it doesn't
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matter. And just allow yourself in the
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possibility of play that will create a sense of trust and
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connection with the body because you're giving yourself
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permission. And most people haven't given
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themselves permission to be who that is.
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Because I'm too old or because my dad wants this or my mom
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wants this. So you find one thing that used
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to love. If you don't remember, ask
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somebody from when you were a little kid, what did I used to
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naturally love when I was a little kid?
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Oh, you used to love Barbies and, and, and creating the
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houses. Had another client.
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She was like, but I don't understand.
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By the way, she's a world class realtor said.
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What do you love about real estate?
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She was like, I love just seeing the people's faces when I get
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the houses using real estate development.
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When I doll up all the houses, I say, you know the words you just
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used when I doll up all the houses.
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So you're literally living in your Dharma.
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That's why you're so happy. It's because you were doing this
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when you were a little kid. It's just fully, fully realized.
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That's what I would do. And that's very simple, 30
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minutes a week. And you give yourself the
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opportunity to have an inner child date.
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Don't take the adult and just say I give myself full
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permission to play. And you're going to start
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remembering things and feeling things that you haven't felt in
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a long time. Do you think that is enough to
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change the course of someone's life?
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100% we think about it, someone could be the most extraordinary
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human perceived by all. They could say F you on live TV
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to the wrong person and that one act and literally alter the
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course of his life and how he's perceived and all those
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different things. So any slight variation, this is
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how powerful we are as beings. Any slight variation that's out
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of your normal habitual behavior in a direction that's connected
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to the elevation of the human spirit will 100% cause change.
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But you got to understand, we're not looking for the giant well
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in the ocean. We're looking for the little
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seahorse that goes because that seahorse is the same thing as an
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acorn that has the power to grow into a giant oak tree.
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Most people looking for the big things don't realize the small
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things are actually the real big things.
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It's the subtleties of life. So 100% that in itself, if it's
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not something you do, you're like, I don't have enough time
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for yourself. Yeah, that makes sense why
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you're unhappy in specific areas because you don't make time for
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you. Well, I'm in a relationship, but
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I just feel like they don't see me.
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But you don't see yourself because you don't make time for
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you. Well, I just feel like he's this
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or she is this. When was the last time you said
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I love you to yourself? Oh, about two months ago.
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If they went in the if you hear I love you every day.
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And then all of a sudden you don't hear it for two months.
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What would happen? Oh, I would question.
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We wouldn't even be in a relationship.
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I said, there's your answer right there.
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Everything is going to come right back to you.
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So the moment you realize everything you're looking for is
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inside my role in this world, teach people how to look inside
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because you'll give your power away out there.
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And that's that's that doesn't create healthy evolution.
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Yeah, that was what I had to learn too.
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I think I same thing I was that that flower growing to what gave
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me energy in all the wrong places and engaged to a drug
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addict, became a drug addict, also engaged to a drug dealer,
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was engaged twice and had that those feelings, you know, always
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high performing, but also high if I wasn't performing and just
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whatever gave me that attention or whatever I thought I had to
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look like, whatever I thought I had to act like, whatever I
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thought I had to talk like. And I was so miserable and like,
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what? What is this buzz inside of me
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that won't go away? And I'm so anxious and I'm
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depressed and I want to kill myself and I have no friends and
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I have nobody I can talk to or trust except this attention from
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this horrible human that shows me some sort of love to, you
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know, whatever all these things. And then I had to realize I had
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to get to rock bottom where I wanted to take my life and
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realize that was that intuition like, but I had never felt
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right, so I didn't know it existed.
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And that was that hopelessness of like, why am I here?
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What is the point of it all? Because this is painful.
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And now that I truly like absolutely love every single
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day. And I of course I have my
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challenges and my struggles and I now embrace them with every
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fiber of my being because that's life like that's that's growing,
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that's learning, that's impacting.
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And but it was no, it was changing my mindset to instead
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of this is all, why is this happening to me?
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Why me? Why do I look this way?
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Why do I have this family? Why do I attract these men?
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Why can't I have a rich, you know, mentor like family or
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somebody like instead of being the victim and starting to
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think, OK, what can I do differently?
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And who am I really? Because clearly I'm not living
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in integrity with who I really AM.
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And the thing that helped me was an energetic intelligence coach
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that even taught me about energy.
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I didn't even know what that meant.
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And then learning that somebody that vibrates at the highest
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frequency, and we were just talking about this brings up
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like someone that's fully actualized, a fully realized
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self and up near self actualization or as high as a as
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connected as they could possibly be to their highest potential,
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their highest form of expression, as you say, that
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brings up everything around them, like hundreds of people
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around them. And so that's where I became
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obsessed with once I realized I can create whatever I want in
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the world. Like the world is my blank
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canvas, and I could create whatever I want, and I can think
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as big and abundant as I want and I can create literally any.
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Like if human existence can exist, we can create anything.
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It's infinite, right? Yeah.
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It's so beautiful. And being able to help like
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people. I have such a soft spot for
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people that are so miserable and anxious and depressed and
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disconnected and scarcity mindset and bad relationships
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and addicted behavior behaviors. But I was that person for the
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1st 25 years in my life. You could argue even longer than
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that. But yeah, I I just went on a
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long tangent, but ultimately, I don't think you know until you
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know different. And so for people like you who
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try to teach this when it's not something that's very conceptual
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or logical because you only know the suffering that you're
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currently in. I love that your first idea is
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play and like feed that inner child and what what do you do
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after that like. So yeah, so basically context is
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everything. You know it, there's there.
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If you give somebody context and a point of relatability,
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everything, all of the patterns and sequences start making
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sense. And so if you feel better, it
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affects how you work, it affects your health, effects how you
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think, how you think effects how you speak, how you speak affects
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your actions, and that your actions affect the outcome.
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So what I do is teach people how to notice what's typically
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unnoticed. And it's just the subtle changes
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that are out of your ordinary rhythm that simultaneously
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happen the moment you change your energy.
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So it's teaching people how to catch the rhythm of nature and
26:20
how they can see certain things that they, you know, it's you,
26:24
you, you, you, you want to becomes like a you, you tap into
26:29
this level of you. You don't you want a blue car.
26:33
You never thought about a blue car.
26:35
Then all of a sudden you're like, I'm going to get a blue
26:36
car. You see a blue car in every
26:38
block. You're like, I'm seeing blue
26:39
cars everywhere. So there's a place that happens
26:43
in your brain. It's always, always there, but
26:46
awareness and context and a point of relatability is what
26:50
makes that even the fractals of your life make so much sense.
26:55
Sense because you can't see the picture while you're in the
26:57
frame. I teach people what's in the
26:59
frame and then I'm like, do you see that?
27:03
It's all about comprehension. It's the same thing that
27:05
happened in elementary school. You have comprehension tests to
27:08
see if you comprehend what you're being taught.
27:11
Most people learn in theory, but they don't learn in the in the
27:15
body. So the next place I go is the
27:17
body. It's like I know a bunch of
27:19
smart people. Smart and intelligence in in the
27:24
especially in the Western culture, is associated with
27:28
somebody who has a lot of knowledge.
27:31
But knowledge doesn't equate to wisdom.
27:33
Knowledge is somebody with that's continuous study and they
27:37
have a really good memory. That's not true intelligence.
27:40
True intelligence is found in the wisdom in the body.
27:43
It's like you get a cut and then all of a sudden it grow.
27:45
You're like, yo, it healed. That's intelligence.
27:49
You know, my when we were fortunate enough to have two
27:52
babies in our home, home births, they said Blair push.
27:58
She was like, I don't have to. Something's already pushing.
28:00
That's intelligence. So the moment we get to play, it
28:05
brings up a vibration in your body of safety.
28:09
Have so many women as well. I've worked with so many women.
28:12
I wouldn't set out to do that, but they're like, I've never
28:14
felt this safe in the presence of another masculine man who
28:18
doesn't want anything from me. Play brings safety to the
28:22
nervous system. The safer you feel, the easier
28:26
it is to heal, the easier it is to transform, the easier it is
28:29
to have a new a new sense of awareness.
28:34
But you just sometimes people play to escape and I talk about
28:37
playing escape or working out to escape.
28:40
It's playing to remember. And those are two different
28:43
contexts, two different results. So I give these contexts play is
28:48
going to open up the body once we get to the body and you can
28:52
feel the vibration. Oh, now this is where I do my
28:57
real work is because that's where the ancient and ancestral
29:00
work, that's with the, the, the inherent intelligence is, but
29:06
you've got to understand how frequency and vibration works.
29:09
But frequency is, is the only, it's the point of contact.
29:13
Anything after the point of contact is called resonance.
29:17
And that's what you're speaking to is that one person that rises
29:22
can lift up all those people. So one person in resonance, like
29:28
when they are in the right field, that field will then
29:34
harmonize with everybody's whatever, what everybody's
29:37
walls, and it'll just lift them up.
29:38
One of my greatest gifts is to teach on resonance.
29:41
And I can teach it very practically.
29:44
But we've got to get you in the body first, not the head.
29:47
The head is analytical. It's like speaking two different
29:51
languages. We got to get you in the wisdom
29:54
of the body through the play is the access point.
29:58
And then once you are open and available and it's like, oh, I
30:04
feel this joy now. We start talking about things
30:09
that you held onto and certain things from your past, but
30:14
you've got this inherent resonance that supporting the
30:17
safety in the body. Then we go to the body.
30:20
Once we go to the body, then we start extracting all the stuff
30:24
that most people don't even know that's there.
30:28
You don't even know that it's there.
30:30
I did, I did 15 years of work to learn about what's there and how
30:35
to do it. And I love puzzle pieces and
30:38
everything. And then once that is, is, is is
30:42
open, then I'm like, OK, so your body is needing soft power, not
30:51
hard power. Hard power is going against your
30:53
resonance, which is going against your safety.
30:56
And the moment you don't feel safe, now you're on guard.
30:58
Now you're back to the, the automatic.
31:01
And so it's different with different people.
31:03
But like at my retreats, the field of resonance transforms
31:07
every single person in the room because I speak into all those
31:10
different places. It's.
31:13
Do you obviously know Gabramante, Dr. Yeah, I was at
31:17
one of his workshops, and he said his gravestone will say
31:21
that was a lot more work than I anticipated.
31:25
But I've been doing the work, too, and realizing I didn't know
31:30
I had, you know, trauma. I didn't know what that was.
31:33
And I knew that everything was not perfect all the time.
31:38
And I suffered a lot of pain, mostly internally, but I didn't
31:43
know anything about the work or what healing was or that I even
31:46
had problems. I just thought life equals pain
31:50
and for some reason I'm miserable.
31:52
And that was all I really knew. I didn't know that there was
31:54
like another option out there. But then as I started to explore
31:59
the work and study Doctor Gaber Mate and listen to people like
32:02
you who are transforming the world and transforming
32:05
themselves and doing therapy. And I did plant medicine
32:09
journeys and those were massive. But it was during a plant
32:13
medicine journey that I was doing with a shaman that I felt
32:17
for the first time, I had nothing to distract me, no
32:21
addiction to distract me, No work, no money, no attention, no
32:24
food, like none of my addictions, which I'm a very,
32:27
you know, addicted. I've always been a disconnected
32:30
person seeking dopamine to fill whatever hole or numbness I had
32:35
inside of me. And it was in this journey where
32:38
I was laying there with myself for five hours with a mask on in
32:43
one spot with nothing other than ceremonial music.
32:47
And I just felt the pain inside my whole body and the tightness
32:55
like of my shoulders and my back.
32:57
And I always had back and neck problems.
32:59
And I thought it was my scoliosis.
33:01
But I felt all this tightness. And through a series of other
33:06
work and ceremonies and journeys, at one point, I saw
33:11
the pain that my, my brother had that, you know, the people that
33:15
had hurt me, I saw their pain for the first time and I had
33:18
only ever seen my pain. And through this work, I felt
33:24
all this resentment release from my body.
33:27
And I literally felt like a new human.
33:29
Like once my body was, I was connected again.
33:32
It was almost like I would have been disconnected my whole life.
33:35
And then I was reconnected and it felt like everything in my
33:38
body changed. And I walked into my hairdresser
33:42
and she's like, your energy is way different.
33:45
Like what is something happened or like you're just a new
33:48
person. And I didn't even know that I
33:51
was giving off that energy and that I was always like this.
33:54
And, and I still have it. And that's why I want to ask for
33:57
your help because I do a lot of this work and I consider myself
34:02
to be a very connected person now, but I still get back into
34:07
my old habits or get, you know, I also want to build a billion
34:09
dollar company and I have like, I want to impact the whole world
34:12
and I have all these big dreams because I, I feel like my cup is
34:16
filled from impact and I want to impact others.
34:19
And the goal is just a, a means to create that impact.
34:23
But I still pick my nails nonstop.
34:26
You probably see me over here picking my nails.
34:27
I still impulsively eat. I still feel the buzz inside of
34:32
me, even though it's not like that constant crippling.
34:35
So I'm like, how do I remove the brick from my head that creating
34:40
something massive and great and high impact and change the world
34:44
one person at a time? How do I have that vision
34:48
without the belief that I'm going to have to sacrifice
34:51
connection and play and joy and all these things and not feel so
35:01
like I want to get rid of the buzz a little bit, you know?
35:03
I get you. I got you.
35:04
OK. Had a friend in the music
35:07
industry who had it all. So I thought, and I was
35:12
patterning, one day I'm going to live like that.
35:14
And then he put a bullet into his brain and I was like, wait a
35:18
second, that's who I'm following.
35:22
He killed himself. He had all the stuff he didn't
35:28
have himself. And that's when I went on this
35:31
journey of creating my version of success, but it could not
35:38
mirror what somebody else deems success was.
35:43
And my version of success was when I look in the mirror and
35:47
the truth shows up, I'm genuinely happy with what I see
35:51
and when it before I go to bed at night, there's no voices in
35:54
my head. So I literally started striving
35:58
for whatever would create that I had no idea would come with all
36:02
these companies and patents. And I mean, I've, I've had
36:08
people that are investors, they're like Gary and you're the
36:10
luckiest person alive. Like, how are you 15 for 15 when
36:15
it comes to investments that hit every single time because I
36:18
don't invest in people or products.
36:21
There's a resonance. And every time my body feels
36:24
truth, I just will invest in that resonance.
36:29
And it tends to just do cool shit.
36:33
So my advice to you is if there's anywhere in your life
36:40
where you are avoiding feeling, yeah, anywhere, that's your
36:51
bottleneck. Because the thing about it is
36:54
you can have this billion dollar company, you can have all those
36:58
things. It will never solve the problem
37:03
of someone who's avoiding they're beyond billion dollar
37:08
self. And if you could get that, you
37:11
are actually all of it. You're not separate from none of
37:15
it. People's Oh my God, the moon and
37:18
the stars and they're like, wow, the eclipse is crazy and they
37:21
look in the mirror and see something different.
37:24
That's the bottleneck. Now if you could wow the shit
37:28
out of yourself in even the most avoidable parts, wow, look at
37:35
that. Wow, look at your hands when you
37:38
feel nervous and wow and you look in the mirror and you do
37:41
that, you'll start recoding your body.
37:43
Because all of that is all of this.
37:47
And I had to learn the hard way, but I manifested my way out of a
37:51
12 year prison sentence in 2 1/2 years.
37:53
Once I realized the power of all of this, I'm like, oh, there's
38:00
another world beyond this linear physical world.
38:05
The other day was like, I don't, I can't.
38:07
Why do you always talk about multi dimensional?
38:10
I don't believe in. I was like, you ever had a dream
38:12
before? Fuck.
38:14
Do you think that comes from just picking your nails and all
38:17
of a sudden you have a dream at night about ancient Greek, Roman
38:21
time or something like that. You're had an intuition or a hit
38:24
and all of a sudden it happens there's another world.
38:29
We're multi dimensional beings living a linear life and the
38:33
more that you operate from, from the facet of being linear,
38:40
you'll take away from the full spectrum spectrum of who you
38:44
really are. Beyond the world of thought,
38:47
beyond the world of image, beyond the world of even money.
38:51
That's a money's a piece of paper with preconceived value.
38:54
They can literally take right now.
38:57
Right now, 500 million, say it's $0.25 tomorrow and everybody
39:02
would go fucking crazy. That's what they make their God.
39:06
Anything that has power over you becomes your God.
39:09
So once you strip away all the layers and you give the power
39:15
back to this multi dimensional self, the way you sit in your
39:20
body will be grounded. So then you'll pull from all of
39:26
the dimensions and it'll house it into this one vessel.
39:30
It's almost like you know a secret that nobody knows, but
39:33
those who know, know who knows. And you don't have to say you
39:36
know. It's just a way of being.
39:39
It's in the being, it's not in the doing.
39:42
So if I were you, I would work harder on yourself and the and
39:47
not the easier areas, the areas you're like, fuck, I don't want
39:51
to look at that. And you find somebody that can
39:55
pull out of you what you can't pull out of yourself.
39:58
Because I get it, you're a High Roller.
40:00
You get it. You get shit done.
40:02
I can, I can already tell. Like I've been leading and
40:05
developing leaders for over 15 years.
40:07
So all I do is stare, study, character analysis all day long.
40:13
You got the whole thing. So any part that you're
40:16
avoiding, you're like, but if this is a little bit better than
40:21
other people around me or if it's just better than I don't
40:24
have to look at this thing. The thing that you don't want to
40:27
look at is where your bottleneck is.
40:29
And the moment you walk through that bottleneck and say, I
40:34
accept all of me, I love every part of me, the shameful, the
40:40
guilty, the ugly, the shadows, everything.
40:43
I love this part of me. And you just give yourself soft
40:47
power, that hard power. You got that unlocked.
40:51
You were born into it soft power and embrace yourself in that
40:57
way. It will start recoding the
41:01
nervousness and the things like that because all it is, it's a
41:04
it's a it's a it's an avoiding. It's that that's a that's a it's
41:09
an overcompensating antic of avoidance.
41:13
But the moment you're like, I receive all of me and I'm going
41:19
to do whatever that's the work I'm going to do.
41:21
You find somebody that can pull that out of you shit billion
41:26
dollars that it's going to feel effortless.
41:31
There will be no try in that, because now you'll be operating
41:34
from all cylinders and not the linear one.
41:37
The linear one will have you the the human.
41:41
It's it's the, it's the the most limited version of your true
41:45
self is to operate in the 3D in this linear world when we have
41:51
all these other dimensions going at the same time.
41:54
Yeah, Do you know William Lamb? I'm familiar of the name.
41:58
I think he spoke at Genius at one point, but I had dinner with
42:02
him last night I think, and he was talking about the multi
42:05
dimensions and creating from the quantum realm and all, you know,
42:10
all these things that I'm just now learning about and studying
42:13
and these different ideas and perceptions.
42:16
Yeah, don't go down the rabbit hole.
42:18
Find a way to because it's it's an end.
42:21
It doesn't end. Don't go down the rabbit hole.
42:24
Find practicality in the quantum.
42:29
This is why I work with the little kid, because the little
42:33
kid is the quantum. So I just make it easy for
42:38
people. I can speak into my level of
42:41
education, but I probably reach 2% of the world's population.
42:47
I'd rather speak into what what people can apply right now.
42:54
The child inside of you, the one that feels seen, heard,
42:58
mattered, safe, acknowledged, celebrated and celebrates
43:04
themselves is the human realized version of the quantum.
43:13
So if you tap into it, another level, another level.
43:18
So when you were in prison, yeah, in a French prison, yeah,
43:24
sentenced to 12 1/2 years. How did you get through that
43:29
mentally? The first two years were really,
43:33
really, really difficult. You ever just was waiting for
43:37
something to happen and then you look at a clock and you watch
43:41
the time go. It goes by really slow.
43:43
I was watching the clock for two years in a 12 year sentence, so
43:51
I'm not getting out. I was busted for smuggling
43:54
freaking 6.2 kilos of heroin from one country to the next.
43:58
I didn't know I was smuggling heroin.
44:00
I just knew I was doing something bad in a vehicle that
44:04
I know didn't belong to me. It turns out it was like stolen
44:09
luxury vehicle and all these other things.
44:11
Mind you, to this day, I've never had a sip of alcohol.
44:14
I was like the cleanest person that you could ever, ever come
44:18
across. And I'm in prison busted for
44:21
drugs. So it didn't make sense to
44:23
nobody. But everybody has a shadow self
44:27
that that ego, I let it get the best of me.
44:29
I'm like, ah, greed, greed, money.
44:31
More, more, more, more will never be enough.
44:34
And I learned that the hard way. So I'm in prison never thinking
44:37
I'm going to get out. Then all of a sudden this we
44:41
were able to watch movies once a month.
44:44
Shawshank Redemption is a movie that's based out of prison.
44:47
And Tim Robbins, which was the lead actor, he said they can
44:51
take anything they want away from me, but they can't take
44:54
away my mind. This is back in 2002.
44:57
And instantly I was like, Oh my God, I know why I'm in prison
45:03
because when I was free, I used to say I feel like I'm so far
45:07
away from where I'm supposed to be.
45:09
I feel like I'm in prison inside of my own body, and more was
45:13
never enough. More.
45:14
No, next, next. Give me the next big thing.
45:16
Next, next, next, next. Oh, that's an endless well that
45:19
nobody will ever fulfill because what you're ultimately saying is
45:23
I'm not worthy of being enough. It's ultimately what that is.
45:28
So in that moment when I know I manifested my way in prison by
45:35
saying I'm in prison far away in France, I said, well, in that
45:40
case I'm a free man. And then I said, what would a
45:43
freeman do? And a voice inside.
45:45
I need y'all to really pay attention to this.
45:51
Everything you used to love to do as a kid that made you the
45:54
most happy. And I literally had to jog my
46:00
memory. What did I used?
46:01
I used to love to sing, but I stopped because everybody told
46:04
me to shut up. I used to love to run, but I
46:08
stopped because it got too hard and and I wasn't I I wouldn't
46:11
train because I was chasing women.
46:15
And I used to love to motivate people even when I was like 5
46:19
and 6. But I was not AI was afraid to
46:24
speak from the heat, the the stuff that was inside that was
46:28
saying do this even when I was a little kid.
46:30
So I stopped doing everything that I used to love to do.
46:33
So I'm in prison in France, thousands of miles away, serving
46:40
a 12 year sentence. And in that moment I became a
46:44
free man. So I was like, I wasn't doing
46:49
that when when I was free. So I realized there's two
46:52
different versions of freedom. So outside freedom, and there's
46:56
the power to possess your own mind.
46:59
There's inside freedom. Must work, must work harder on
47:02
yourself than you do on your job.
47:05
And I learned to forgive, forgave the two men who murdered
47:11
my father. Letting go of all this
47:14
resentment. I'm like writing letters.
47:16
I'm like letting go of everything.
47:18
Every little lie that I told, I'm like, I lied about this.
47:22
I lied about this. I'm from elementary all the way
47:24
up. And I was like, man.
47:27
And I started feeling this energy.
47:30
It's like my brain started calming down.
47:32
I started painting portraits of other people's family members.
47:36
And they were like, inmates. Killers were like, happy, thank
47:40
you so much. And they're like, can I get you
47:42
anything? In my head?
47:43
I'm like, no, I just want you to be happy.
47:46
So I just kept overflowing from what I was giving myself.
47:50
First. I need everybody to hear this.
47:53
Everyone outside of me benefited from my overflow that I gave to
47:58
myself. First they didn't get from my
48:01
exhaust. Now I couldn't see that this is
48:04
as I connect the dots looking backwards of my life.
48:08
But I was in the fullest expression, a little Garen who
48:16
was just doing everything he loved to do.
48:18
That made him the most happy when I felt free.
48:23
Everybody please listen to this. Not when I was fighting for
48:27
freedom. You can't fight for something
48:30
that only you can give to yourself in prison.
48:36
That's when I became free. Listen to the irony in losing my
48:42
freedom. I discovered my freedom.
48:46
And when I felt free. It's about 2 1/2 years and they
48:50
magically called me into the office.
48:54
They had no reason. They already tested the drugs. 3
48:56
* 6.2 kilos of heroin and all of a sudden I'm in a completely
49:00
different field, completely different state, frequency,
49:03
vibration. I'm resonating around the entire
49:07
prison. Jones.
49:09
We retested the drugs and for the amount that was real, you've
49:13
already done the time. 90% was fake.
49:17
You're free to go home. Oh my God.
49:21
So since 2005, I traveled all over the world and invested and
49:27
studied under some of the greatest minds, the greatest
49:30
spiritual teachers trying to figure out what was that
49:34
powerful that it can override anything that a human can set in
49:41
stone. Kept coming back to energy,
49:44
frequency vibration. So I found a palpable way to
49:52
teach it through the inner child.
49:56
So the resonance that you feel is the field that I play in on a
50:03
daily basis. And it just allows me to be in
50:08
the world and experience myself. And it's true.
50:14
There's no and any anytime weeds want to come up.
50:18
I, I have the right people in my life that hold me high.
50:22
I do not surround myself around yes people.
50:26
I have the accountability group. I have the right coaches.
50:31
I keep outgrowing my coaches. But like, fuck it, that's a
50:34
you'll know you need to get a new one.
50:36
So, but it, but it's, it's, it is what it is.
50:40
And so when it's time to grow, it's time to find the right
50:44
teachers. And I always find the right
50:47
teachers because they just like show up when my soul is is is
50:51
requesting. How have you maintained this
50:56
state of connection and play and inner child while still building
51:03
big companies? Because I.
51:05
Community, but I also built my also build companies around the
51:11
inner child. Yeah, like literally built a
51:14
company called Artist Power that teaches on every level you can
51:19
possibly think of ways to tap in to your original state and then
51:25
thrive from that power. And so everything I do must
51:30
contain everything that I am. I'm no longer going to
51:34
sacrifice. There's no I got a couple of
51:38
patents and a couple of things coming out, but it was little
51:42
Garen who created them. And what do I do?
51:45
Surround myself by other people who are in that vibration.
51:51
That is the quickest way to rise, to compress timeframes to
51:58
be held and hold the frequency over a long period of time.
52:01
When you're not the only one, you're not the most powerful
52:04
person in the room when there's other, when you're surrounded by
52:06
The Avengers of consciousness and you're like, oh shit, we can
52:09
all learn from each other and we're all rising together
52:12
because that shared economy. I, I mean, I took it from when I
52:15
first started investing five years ago and I was investing in
52:20
this toy company and I was like, I just love how I feel when I'm
52:24
playing with the toy and then I'm in Austin.
52:26
Then all of a sudden I looked under the deck and I saw all the
52:28
people. I was like, wait, these are all
52:30
my friends. It's like, wait a second.
52:32
They're all investing into everybody's everything and
52:35
everybody's rising simultaneously.
52:38
And I was like, oh, I like this lesson.
52:41
I want to create community communities where everybody's
52:44
investing in everybody's, everything.
52:47
So everybody transforms together.
52:49
And that's how I do it. Everything that I create has the
52:55
seed of everything that I'm talking about.
52:58
Even if it's like a leadership, something talking about
53:01
business, it's not the analytical part of the business,
53:06
it's the leadership. Lead yourself into a vibration
53:10
and discover your soul and reimagine your soul in a way
53:15
that you couldn't even fathom because you can't see the soul.
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Well, my role is every soul has a map and every map needs a
53:24
guide and teach people how to turn on the flashlight to their
53:28
soul. And I'll be like this right
53:29
here. This is the pattern that's
53:31
showing up in your life and this.
53:34
So even in that high level leadership I work with like high
53:38
founders and CFOs, they only get they only get that part, the
53:43
soul reimagined program, that's only it's like people doing big
53:48
shit. They only get that.
53:49
I don't do that for somebody who's just learning.
53:52
I think what's mindset, they won't get that version of me
53:56
because this version of me is it's, it's, it's designed for
54:00
very high caliber people. So we can meet the rhythm of
54:05
your high caliber, but also have you to understand your system,
54:10
your system and how you operate like you understand your
54:12
business's system. But when both of them are being
54:17
held by the same resonance, now you're not in conflict.
54:23
It actually becomes part of the same vibrational unit.
54:27
And that's how I do it. I'm not separate on any occasion
54:32
to anything that I create. That's why I can do 15 things
54:35
like, but you never get tired though.
54:37
There's more power in the ocean than there are the river.
54:41
So why don't I just focus on the deep well that feeds all the
54:46
rivers? Yeah, that's amazing.
54:48
You're just amazing. I, I want to continue to grow in
54:53
that space of, you know, connection, abundance, vibrance,
54:58
creation, play, all these things.
55:00
And I feel so good when I'm really connected to my inner
55:04
self. Yeah.
55:06
And then there's level 10 EOS meetings with KPIs and metrics
55:09
and this and that. And, you know, you kind of, you
55:12
know, are we hitting our goal? Are we on track?
55:13
What is our lead flow? What's our dollar, what's our
55:15
expenses, all these things. And so you know.
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What I'm doing that? What?
55:21
It's the power of delegation and I will train somebody and I will
55:27
shadow. I will have somebody shadow me.
55:30
I was like, now watch how I do it.
55:32
Like yes, I'm fun and play and everything, but my high level
55:36
ticket sells 94%. It's unheard of.
55:39
Even with ticket like 100. And I mean $40,000.
55:43
You want to work with me? 12 sessions, $140,000, boom.
55:48
They're like how did you do like five of those?
55:50
And like I was like, because it's not the dollar, it's the
55:53
resonance. But I'm also the CFO and I mean
55:59
CEO and founder of like two different companies.
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So it's like KPI was like, Nope, I need somebody to do that, but
56:05
I need somebody who gets life from it.
56:09
So I will hire somebody that that's their GI can do it and I
56:13
can do it very well, but it drains me.
56:15
So I will put the money into the person that that part gives them
56:21
life. And all of a sudden I have
56:23
spaciousness. Oh shit, a new invention just
56:25
came about. Oh wait, what do I do with this?
56:28
I want to spend more time with my family.
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OK, so let's I'm doing too much here.
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That's draining me. Who can hold the resonance?
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So now it's all about finding the right resonance.
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It's not the best person for the job.
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You look at their paper. It's no who can hold the
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resonance of what you teach them and maintain that vibration.
56:55
And that's something that people don't because I've I coach
56:57
founders all day long. And the moment they crack this
57:00
code with finding the person that can hold the resonance,
57:04
they're like, fuck Garrett that only took a month.
57:07
I've been doing this for 15 years.
57:09
And I mean, these are like, I have a client that's worth $950
57:13
million and I shared this with him.
57:15
He was like, bro, one month everything and more time with my
57:18
family, more of this and I can work out again.
57:20
And I don't have to do that. But they're, they were looking
57:24
for the right person, but they didn't know about the residents
57:29
conversation. So if the person that you're
57:32
looking for, you always feel it, it's kind of like right now you
57:36
and I are talking and it's that the magnetation just grows.
57:39
It's natural. You know, you have to, you
57:41
didn't have to try it. So when there's a resonance
57:44
there, that's what you trust, that's what you invest in.
57:52
That's exactly the energy of people is exactly how I grow my
57:56
team. It's, it's not necessarily their
57:59
resume or their skill set or I mean, obviously there has to be
58:01
skills and some sort of knowledge, but the energy is
58:05
what you is a lot harder to teach like somebody to be
58:09
connected and positive and vibrate at a high frequency.
58:12
And, and, but I find it, it's beautiful.
58:15
I'm so grateful for social media because as I've recently started
58:19
to just share my journey that I'm currently in and always will
58:23
be on with others on social media, It's attracted people
58:27
that resonate with me to me versus before I had that I was
58:33
like, how do I find these people?
58:35
Because you and I both know not everybody out there is, you
58:38
know, on self actualized and vibrating at a high frequency.
58:42
And so how do you find those people at scale throughout your
58:47
organization? So here's a there's a guy named
58:49
Wafik. He's our community manager.
58:53
I did everything. I was like, oh, hired this
58:56
person, went through LinkedIn and everything.
58:58
I'm doing all this other stuff, the bells and whistles.
59:00
I'm like, that's not it. Meanwhile, I have a retreat and
59:05
there's this random dude that posts every single day.
59:10
Nobody asked him good morning everybody and hyping people up.
59:14
And all of a sudden he was like 10 days to the retreat, got to
59:18
get ready. And everybody's like, Oh my God,
59:20
thank you, Wafik. And I was just like.
59:26
You. Hidden in plain sight is person
59:31
that just needed someone to see them in something that was
59:35
already natural for them. So I said, Wafik, how would you
59:40
like to be the community manager at Artist Power?
59:44
He starts crying. Oh my God, thank you so much.
59:47
He was like, what would I need to do?
59:49
Everything you're already doing, it's my job to spot.
59:55
So if I'm looking around like there might be somebody
59:58
sweeping. But every time they come into a
1:00:02
room, they got the best energy. Maybe this would be the person
1:00:07
that opens up the calls every time, because every time they
1:00:10
come into a room, the energy elevates.
1:00:13
Sometimes people don't even know what their genius is.
1:00:16
So as a genius spotter, my job is to recognize something that
1:00:21
people are naturally doing in my everyday life.
1:00:25
They're not trying to do it. You always know.
1:00:28
It's like, oh, I'm getting more money now, watch me work.
1:00:31
I'm like, yo, your genius can be paid for.
1:00:34
My genius can't be. My programs can be paid for.
1:00:36
But my genius, I will freely give it out all day long because
1:00:40
it's natural to me. So I watch.
1:00:44
And just like Pat or Phil Jackson, Kobe Bryant and Michael
1:00:49
Jordan. So it's clear that he has an eye
1:00:53
for noticing certain characters about people.
1:00:56
So Starbucks, anywhere I start noticing somebody's like, yo,
1:01:01
they like a really good attitude.
1:01:04
How would you like an opportunity to bop, bop, bop,
1:01:07
bop to do what you give them? They get more money they've ever
1:01:11
made before. They get somebody to that
1:01:14
actually celebrates and acknowledges their genius.
1:01:17
They're surrounded by an organization that pride
1:01:20
themselves on making people feel better about themselves.
1:01:25
And so that's what I do. I make it a mission to pay
1:01:30
attention to how people do what they naturally do without having
1:01:36
the carrot in front of them. So yeah, I can do that.
1:01:41
No, you can't. But this person who's already
1:01:43
doing it, it's like, man, every time.
1:01:47
Every, every single time. I was at a retreat one time
1:01:52
facilitating something and there was a cook chopping watermelon.
1:01:58
I'm like, there's something about this dude that I can't.
1:02:01
There's like this powerful attraction.
1:02:05
There's a magnetic energy, some of it, but it's just, you know,
1:02:08
I was just nothing. It got like really the trauma
1:02:13
overflowed and it was crazy. We actually needed more
1:02:15
guardians, which is like facilitate Co facilitators.
1:02:19
And all of a sudden I was like feel this heat behind me and all
1:02:21
of a sudden I turn around and the cook has a drum in his hand
1:02:26
and he's gritting the entire room as I'm doing it.
1:02:30
And I walked up to him afterwards.
1:02:31
I said bro you ain't no cook bro, you're so much more.
1:02:38
He was like, and I said, I want you to come be one of the
1:02:42
guardians. I will play with you any any
1:02:45
day, any day in any Galaxy. Come be one of the guardians at
1:02:50
our next retreat. And he's been with us ever
1:02:53
since. And this dude, but his whole
1:02:55
life has transformed from that one moment.
1:03:00
That's how you do it. It's like I make it a mission to
1:03:04
see the unseen, hear the unheard, feel the unfelt.
1:03:07
And then I'll say something. And the moment I say something,
1:03:12
there's a oh, wow, wait, you see me this way.
1:03:16
But you're the one that's like, on all TV's and in movies and
1:03:20
stuff. Yeah, I see you.
1:03:23
And I want to put you in a position so that you can thrive
1:03:29
and not just do shit for money. So good I got to stay to energy.
1:03:37
Yeah, yeah. And the more you I what I found,
1:03:40
I know we have to wrap up here, but the more you step into your
1:03:44
highest expression of yourself, the more you magnetize that.
1:03:49
Yeah, and the more the this galactic plane will will reveal
1:03:55
itself to you. And so you'll have access to
1:04:00
more insights and awareness is the deeper you go in yourself
1:04:05
because as above, so below, as within, so without.
1:04:09
And so all of a sudden you start seeing a world that you saw last
1:04:13
week. But everybody's different.
1:04:16
No, you're different. Life's not happening to you.
1:04:18
It's responding to you. It's beautiful.
1:04:21
It's so beautiful what you can create and in order for the
1:04:24
doors to open and the opportunities in the future that
1:04:27
you want and the present that you want to be yours, you have
1:04:31
to step into the highest expression of yourself and into
1:04:35
your your power artist power baby.
1:04:39
You got the whole thing. It is that.
1:04:41
It is that little kid in their fullest expression, but taking
1:04:47
that energy and channeling it inside of whatever you do,
1:04:52
that's where the strata, that's where the stratospheres happen
1:04:57
and whatever that means to you. Yeah, people sometimes tell me
1:05:01
they're like, oh, you, just you, you, you, you have too much,
1:05:04
like fun in your business. Like you're too big of a
1:05:07
dreamer. Or I've heard that a couple
1:05:09
times, like you're like a little bit childish sometimes my tone
1:05:13
or my playfulness or things like that.
1:05:15
And I'm like, I want to build this.
1:05:17
And they're like. Freaking stay there, my friend.
1:05:20
That's the little kid that said I want to be a superhero.
1:05:23
Yeah, when I get older. Yeah, get a real life, but you
1:05:27
know, I want to be stronger than the average man, have ABS like
1:05:31
an action figure, save and change lives all all over the
1:05:34
world. Interesting how I've travelled
1:05:36
to 97 countries, spoke to millions of people, saving and
1:05:41
changing lives all over the world.
1:05:42
Oh my goodness, the dreamer, it happened.
1:05:47
So when you're doing that, yo, you stay in that pocket,
1:05:50
surround yourself around other. If they're saying find some
1:05:53
other people that'll be like you go girl that will champion that,
1:05:56
because with the little kids running, you say, oh, go Johnny,
1:06:00
he runs faster. So the person that's calibrated
1:06:04
enough to catch those moments and then champion you is only
1:06:08
going to have you be more of who you already are.
1:06:13
Thank you. So to wrap up, if you could go
1:06:17
back to little Garen. He's here, but yeah, let's do
1:06:21
it. Well, if you could go back when
1:06:23
you were little Garen, what would you tell him?
1:06:27
I'm the one in the future that has been whispering secrets this
1:06:37
entire time. Keep going, I got your back.
1:06:45
You're amazing.