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Do You Believe In the Rule "Never Go to Bed Angry"? · On Air with Ryan Seacrest

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  Speaker 1: Tanya said, do you believe in the rule with your partner,
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  Speaker 1: solve it before you crash? Yes, don't go to bed angry.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not so sure that's such a smart thing to do,
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  Speaker 1: and I may have pivoted on my stance, But why
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  Speaker 1: do you bring it up.
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  Speaker 2: Because Travis Barker. That's so interesting that you say that.
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  Speaker 3: Travis Barker is opening up about the one rule that
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  Speaker 3: keeps his marriage to Courtney Kardashian Barker healthy and alive.
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  Speaker 3: He says that he and Courtney make sure that they
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  Speaker 3: hash out any disagreements before bed, no matter how small.
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  Speaker 3: He said, we try not to ever fall asleep mad
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  Speaker 3: at each other. And he's not just talking about any
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  Speaker 3: big fights that they have. He means even little stuff too,
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  Speaker 3: like if she doesn't text him back about lunch plans
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  Speaker 3: and he's left wondering what's going on. He says, it's
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  Speaker 3: as simple as owning it. Oh babe, I take accountability.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry I didn't see your text right away. So
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  Speaker 3: just resolving anything so you don't go to bed not
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  Speaker 3: feeling connected. That's the keyword, going to bed, not feeling connected.
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  Speaker 1: I okay, fine. I used to think you can't go
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  Speaker 1: to bed angry. Now, I know you can because the
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  Speaker 1: next day things are so much better. Time this too
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  Speaker 1: shall pass. Time corrects so much. That seems so intense
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  Speaker 1: in the moment. And I know in relationships I have
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  Speaker 1: been I've always said recently, let's just sleep on it
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  Speaker 1: and see if we have a different perspective tomorrow. You
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  Speaker 1: just need to. It's not a it's not an abandon
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  Speaker 1: it's a pause.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, sleep time isn't even real time. What do you
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  Speaker 3: mean it's not real time you're sleeping.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but things seem not so bad exactly. So my
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  Speaker 1: advice to you, Tanya, as a newbie in the relationship
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  Speaker 1: category is don't try and solve the crime before you
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  Speaker 1: go to sleep. Sleep on it. You'll have a clear
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  Speaker 1: perspective and understanding of your position and their position the
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  Speaker 1: next morning.
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  Speaker 2: I agree. No, I cannot go to sleep like that.
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  Speaker 2: I cannot. I wouldn't be asleep.
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  Speaker 1: Your your your shoulders are already carrying tension just by
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  Speaker 1: saying that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, the thought of going to sleep in a fight
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  Speaker 2: makes me anxious.
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  Speaker 1: Can you do this?
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  Speaker 2: Huh?
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  Speaker 1: You feel better? That's how you're supposed to breathe get
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  Speaker 1: rid of who are you?
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  Speaker 2: I kept, Oh my gosh, you're right right.
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  Speaker 1: It goes away, shoulders just an instantly, get a tingle.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah's working for me.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah you're not highing right? Wow, I know I'm almost lightheaded.
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  Speaker 2: That's my favorite thing we've ever done.
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  Speaker 1: There was never a problem that could defeat Sunrise or Hope.
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  Speaker 1: You know, guys injured