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- 0:01Yeah, you gotta work. You gotta work, cry Son. It's mine
- 0:13gotta show. Everybody is my sign you gotta work, cry Son. Another
- 0:18mile Saga, Dogs day Line, Don't tell you gotta work. Welcome to
- 0:24Let's Talk with Carl Lee, where sports, culture and community intersect. Joined
- 0:28Carl and frequent co host Hollis Lewis as they dive into engaging conversations with guests
- 0:33from all walks of life. Let's Talk is probably presented by Attorney Frank Walker.
- 0:38Real Talk, Real experience, Real results, Frank Walker Law dot Com.
- 0:43Let the conversation begin on Let's Talk. Welcome ladies and gentlemen too,
- 0:48Let's Talk with Carl Lee. And today we are going to have a very
- 0:53interesting, interesting show. It's going to be a two part show. And
- 1:00Hollis, yes, sir, I am. I am looking forward to to
- 1:03to this show. I have for a couple of reasons, and I'm gonna
- 1:08I'm gonna I gotta still do a little bit more of the intro. But
- 1:11I wanted I wanted to let you know, like when you sent me all
- 1:15the information, I was like, huh, this could be interesting and and
- 1:21and one of the things that I liked about it, and I don't know
- 1:23if you were purposely trying to do it. Is it's it is sports that
- 1:26are outside of what people would like to say are the major sports, but
- 1:34but they are really really growing, Yeah, growing in important sports. I
- 1:38think to our I agree new lexicon of what we consider those mainstream sports,
- 1:44right, I I totally agree. Let's Talk is sponsored by Attorney Frank Walker.
- 1:49Real Talk, real experience, real results. You can visit Frank Walker
- 1:55Law dot com. You can also you can check you can check our show
- 2:04out on wchsnetwork dot com and you can also go on Facebook and you can
- 2:12catch Let's Talk every Sunday at one pm and every Thursday at seven pm on
- 2:17five eighty WCHS. All Right, so today's show my co host and I
- 2:25hollis that we are honored. We are honored to have a like I said
- 2:31a couple of different folks on the show. But the first guest is going
- 2:36to be Candice Moores, who is at an early age, had a huge
- 2:42passion for exercise, therefore motivated her into running. She now run track at
- 2:50Capitol High School, West Virginia, our record holder and West Virginia record holder.
- 2:57Now, and here's the here's the interesting thing, because you know I
- 3:00was I thought I was a track guy, right, I ain't never break
- 3:04no records. Okay, let me say that. I thought, you know,
- 3:07and I really thought I was pretty good, you know, but again,
- 3:10I ain't break no records, you know. And this young lady Candace
- 3:16has broken the record, the state record and attends West Virginia State which West
- 3:25Virginia State Track is kind of like redoed there, you know. And and
- 3:34and in part I'm going to make the case that this generation is what's bringing
- 3:40it back. Am I wrong? Yeah? I would say that. So
- 3:44in candas, so you said you had an early passion for exercise. Now
- 3:49what in the world anybody early age? I mean, I love sports,
- 3:54but I ain't love exercising. So where did that come from? Well,
- 3:59when I was younger, I used to run around the kitchen and circles and
- 4:02circles and circles and circles. So my mom she had signed up for the
- 4:06Capital City Striters, and my first day of practice, I just cried the
- 4:12whole time. I was like, this is hard. I want to go
- 4:15home. I can't do this. So I think maybe a year or two
- 4:17later, my mom took me back and I started running. And then ever
- 4:23since then, I've been running. Yeah, and that's a really tough program.
- 4:26I mean, if you talk about coaches who are passionate, dedicated,
- 4:30uh, just an organization that's really really good, it's Capital City Strids is
- 4:34one of those organizations. There's there's no there's no question about it. What
- 4:41okay? So typically when when when people say like they like exercise, you
- 4:46know, and and they run, usually that's more on the distance side then
- 4:51than it is that's true good more than like like I'll go out now,
- 4:57you know, and I used to could I used to could run again,
- 4:59But like I said, I ain't break no records, but I used to.
- 5:01I used to run. I used to run track. But like now
- 5:05I like, I'll go out and jog and and go some distance to kind
- 5:12of just for exercise. That's totally different. And again age has a whole
- 5:17lot to do with this too. But what what was it When did you
- 5:23figure out like you could you were into the sprints and and that you could
- 5:27be good at it. I like to win that money. I didn't like
- 5:34to lose, and whenever I would lose, I would try as hard as
- 5:38possible to win the next time. So when you first started out and you
- 5:43started running, so you had some bumps. Then then you you you weren't
- 5:47winning. You didn't start out necessarily winning and having success like started like right
- 5:56from the beginning. Oh I won, I won, I want to one.
- 5:58But you had some losses which then in turn made you have to work
- 6:01hard. Yeah. I think I had a teammate that I used to run
- 6:05with for the striders and we would go neck and neck, so she motivated
- 6:10me at practice to run harder and to beat her. Yeah, I sharpers
- 6:15are And what events do you run? What are your events? Well?
- 6:19I used to be a one, two four runner and then I stopped running
- 6:24the four hundred, so now I just run the one, the two in
- 6:28the four by one. But I think this upcoming season, my track coach
- 6:31is going to have me running the four hundred. Okay, And you say
- 6:34track coas and you, as we mentioned earlier, you are a track athlete
- 6:38at West Virginia State University. Now that is an upstart again. Track at
- 6:43West Virginia State is kind of it's there one year, gone the next,
- 6:46so you are on the revitalization of it. What made you choose. I
- 6:50mean, being a record holder in high school? What made you choose?
- 6:54Hey, I'm going to go to West Virginia State to excuse me continue my
- 6:58career. We'll see. At first, I wanted to go to out of
- 7:01state school, but then my senior year, I had got injured and I
- 7:06wasn't able to run as well as I thought I was going to run.
- 7:10Can we ask what the injury was. I sprained my ankle and peeled my
- 7:14hamstring. Oh okay, yeah, so I had that problem. And then
- 7:17the track coach at State he had called me and was like telling me about
- 7:23the program, and I was like, okay, this sounds good. So
- 7:26I committed. I was the first person to commit to the track program.
- 7:30And then after that a whole bunch of people started to commit. And then
- 7:33I got down there and I really enjoyed it, and I learned a lot
- 7:36more about track. Whatever. I gone to college, and you guys had
- 7:40an excellent year. I mean, like I said, to be a first
- 7:44year program. I mean, like I said, I watched you guys throughout
- 7:46social media. I don't know if you wanted the conference, but I think
- 7:50you competed for conference titles and various track meet you, we actually came out
- 7:56on top. So how was that experience? Like I said, just being
- 8:00being new on campus and you know, actually actually being pretty good. It
- 8:03was amazing. I started off the season very nervous, but then as it
- 8:09went on, I started a game work confidence and I started to enjoy it
- 8:13a lot. And I learned, like I said, a lot about Tchack
- 8:16that I didn't know in middle school or high school or from AAU sports.
- 8:20So the the comment that you made about being confident, you started to gain
- 8:28confidence. That is That is and and Hollis. We've talked about the reasoning
- 8:37or the purpose for confidence, and some people can can take it even as
- 8:41arrogant sometimes, but there's a confidence that tells you that you that something inside
- 8:50of you tells you that you can be something that tells you that like,
- 8:52okay, I can do that. When you have that, sometimes people people
- 8:58look at it or or it sounds they don't like the way you walk,
- 9:01the way you act or whatever. But when you took that, when you
- 9:07when you started thinking and I think I can do this, and I think
- 9:11I can be pretty good. That confidence when you when you when you walk
- 9:20on the track, what are you thinking? Like, are you are you?
- 9:24Are you? Are you thinking about being the absolute best? What is
- 9:31what is that mindset? Being in that mind of already thinking okay, I'm
- 9:37want to be good. I think I'm pretty good. Where does that take
- 9:41you in the track meet or when you walk out on the track. Well,
- 9:46track is a very mental sport, its individual so it's all on you.
- 9:52If you go on the track with the mindset, if you're not going
- 9:54to do good or you're nervous, then that's how you're going to do.
- 9:58So I I just had to change my mindset and tell myself whenever I get
- 10:03on the track, I'm going to do well. Regardless of what's going on
- 10:07or regardless of what's going on with the team, I have to do well
- 10:09on my own. And there was a little bit of an added pressure.
- 10:13Like I said, we mentioned that again, this is a new sport at
- 10:16West Virginia State University, and you were, for lack of better words,
- 10:20the lottery pick. You are the at least one of the premier athletes on
- 10:24the team, So that was an extra Was that an added pressure? Did
- 10:26you feel that I was dealing with that? Well, first, I was
- 10:31the only person on the team from West Virginia. Oh okay, So I
- 10:35had that pressure on me. And you know, like when a lot of
- 10:39people think of West Virginia, they think of hillbilly's and they don't think good
- 10:45things. Right, So whenever I first got there, I guess I don't
- 10:48know, maybe some people didn't like me or they are like just they assume
- 10:54things just because I was from West Virginia. Yeah, we know that,
- 11:00we know that. We don't how that worked. I didn't like that.
- 11:03I did not like that at all. Like the first few months was rough.
- 11:07I was like, dang, like these I want a team full of
- 11:09people, none of them are from here. They're not even trying to talk
- 11:11to me because I'm from West Virginia. So I feel like I had to
- 11:16like break that. And after I broke that again, more confidence and I
- 11:20started to do better. And I think those folks also kind of looked at
- 11:26you and are looking at you totally different now. And how does it feel
- 11:33now? You know? And I can you know, and Hollis you can
- 11:35probably relate to this too. There's a place when you walk out on the
- 11:39field, walk out on the track, walk out on the court. There
- 11:45is a place when you walk out there like like, you know, you
- 11:48belong out here and everybody else y'all need to figure out, you know,
- 11:54what y'all gonna do. But I already know that I belong out here?
- 11:58Is is it? That? Is that where you are now as a as
- 12:03an athlete? Yeah, I feel that way now, but I still have
- 12:07a lot of work to do. So and mentioning that, like I said,
- 12:11you you were the freshman of the year in the conference, and you
- 12:13actually we did really well in a couple of big meets. I know Marshall
- 12:18probably had the biggest meat this year. Correct, And not only did you
- 12:20do well, but I think the team did actually pretty will in that meat.
- 12:24So how was that experience competing because I know in several of our meets
- 12:28we were competing against D one athletes and we were beating D one athletes,
- 12:33So how was that feeling? Well? At the Marshall meet? If I'm
- 12:35being honest, I just wanted to beat Marshall. There you go, see,
- 12:46what what what? What? I what? I like? What I
- 12:50like about what I'm hearing is even though that was that may have even been
- 12:54a little tough to say, you said it, and I think, you
- 13:00know, I go back my mom, my mom and my dad. They
- 13:03were They were adamant about saying what you want, saying what what you believe,
- 13:09and when you say it now, it puts you in a spot where
- 13:13you have to do you got to go do it. And when you're thinking
- 13:20about going to do it, I'm gonna make the case you're probably never going
- 13:22to put yourself in a situation where you're out of shape, whether it's in
- 13:26season out of season, should be worried. I want to run today.
- 13:33Actually, And I think and and and and folks who are listening, we're
- 13:41talking about someone who is enjoying what they do, the process, the process,
- 13:48and they love the challenge of people wanting to be faster than them.
- 13:52But the goal is to be the best. And they're working out. They're
- 13:58not sitting at home talking about how good I am. They're out doing the
- 14:05work. And I think that that is what we miss. I think that's
- 14:09the hardest piece to get into somebody's mind, is the work that it's required.
- 14:16We've had thousands of conversations about this, and having you on the show
- 14:20and having you say that just clarifies it. I mean to be good,
- 14:24to be great. The work you have to put in work, in the
- 14:28work and let's switch gears. So you said you got into track because you
- 14:33were kind of a rambunctious kid, is what I'm gathering. What did you
- 14:37grow up watching the Olympics? Because we have the Olympics coming up this years
- 14:41in Paris, Chicai Richards and we got some great Olympic athletes. I mean
- 14:45some of the preliminary events have been just great. So did that have like
- 14:48an influence on you growing up? Yes? And who did you watch?
- 14:52I think growing up one of my favorite track athletes was Alison Felix. Yes,
- 14:58yes, yeah, So when you watch it, when you watch it
- 15:03today, when you're watching the Olympic all the Olympic trials and all that kind
- 15:07of stuff, when you look at it, what do you what are you
- 15:11seeing? What do you what are you getting from it? Is there something
- 15:15that you're watching because it's not just entertainment, it's it's you, Like you're
- 15:20seeing yourself and you're watching this start, you're watching this person. Finish,
- 15:24tell me a little bit about what that what that is for you, because
- 15:28everybody knows that it's got to be different when you're looking at it versus me
- 15:33looking at it, you know, because you're you're you're getting something from it.
- 15:37Well, it's making me happy that track and field is becoming more marketable.
- 15:41M h yeah, because like professional track athletes don't make a lot of
- 15:46money, but track athletes like nil Deal's and stuff like that, Like track
- 15:50athletes are becoming more marketable and that makes me really happy. Now, is
- 15:56the Olympics a goal for you? Is that something you aspire to do or
- 16:00like Diamond League track or anything like that. Yes, I do want to
- 16:03go to the Olympics. The next Olympics is in la I think Yepeen and
- 16:10it was we just had a I think she ran. I want to say
- 16:11that eight hundred a young lady from Ironton, Ohio, which is, you
- 16:17know, right across the river. She just now made the Olympic track team.
- 16:19So that's close to home. So that's somebody you know, it can
- 16:22be done, It can definitely be done. And it was some d two
- 16:26athletes and athletes that made the Olympic team. Have you have you done some
- 16:34research to see what it what your times are going to need to be.
- 16:41Have you done that kind of work and when you looked at the times that
- 16:45you're gonna need to, let's say, qualify. Do you see that within
- 16:51your reach and have you started that track toward that Olympics already or are you
- 16:59still kind of like you still got a little bit of time and you're just
- 17:02kind of working at the state to just be the best athletes you can be
- 17:06there. I've been training towards it. My track coach told me that if
- 17:11I keep up the work that I'm having now that I could go maybe pro
- 17:15in a couple of years. I just have to make trials in three years,
- 17:22four years. So I think I think I can do it and give
- 17:26it in West Virginia State University track coach what's his name, Yeah, we
- 17:30gotta give him some you know, job, and he's doing an excellent job.
- 17:36And what I like about when you talked about the nil deal, when
- 17:38you talked about exposure, what I loved about him and what he was doing
- 17:42on social media. I thought he did an excellent job presenting you guys on
- 17:47social media. I mean, you guys were all over the place, whether
- 17:49it was an IG, whether it was Facebook or Twitter or whatever. And
- 17:53I think the way he presented it, it was like, man, this
- 17:56is this is something big that's going on, and so I love what's going
- 18:00on down there. And let me let me give a shout out to Attorney
- 18:06frank Walker. Real talk, real experience, real results, Frankie Walker dot
- 18:11com. Just so that we get a shout out to our buddy Frankie Walker.
- 18:15We want to make sure Attorney Walker, Yeah, we have. We
- 18:19need to actually get him on the show. We got to get him on
- 18:22the show. So so he's not in town though, is he He's West
- 18:26Virginia, Pennsylvania. So he has a law practice in both states. All
- 18:29right, we gotta you know, Frank we gotta get you on the show
- 18:32man. All right, So when you from from this point on, from
- 18:38State to the Olympics, who is the challenging person that you see? That's
- 18:47that's whether it's somebody at another school, somebody at at State. Who's the
- 18:52who's the one that you gotta beat? Not saying that you haven't beat them,
- 18:56but who's the is there a challenge out there that you want to conquer?
- 19:02But we've already done, Marshall, so that we get off, we're
- 19:06gonna he's liking that for Bill, Okay, he's digging that me. So,
- 19:11yeah, who is there a school. Is there a person, is
- 19:15there something, what's the what's the goal? Who's the Who's that person that
- 19:19you're like, Okay, I want to run against that person because I want
- 19:22to show that I can beat that person. There's this girl from Leonora Ryan.
- 19:30She's a no, she's going to be a junior this year. I'm
- 19:33going to be a sophomore. I think she won nationals with a ten ninety
- 19:38six. Is a sophomore that's really good. I want to be able to
- 19:45run against her, I know, run against her during indoor season. So
- 19:48I think if my indoor season turns out the way I think it will,
- 19:52I think I'll be close to her. Okay, So how's that? How's
- 19:56that indoor? How are you thinking that indoor is going to go? I
- 19:59think it's going to be go amazing? Okay, Okay, how you going
- 20:02to hear it? And when does indoors start? The first track meets in
- 20:07the beginning of December okay, okay? And what do you and what do
- 20:10you before we go? What are you majoring in the state? What's your
- 20:12major social work on of minor psychology? Nice? Where? Okay? So
- 20:18when is that? When is when is that first meet the indoor meet well,
- 20:22because we're gonna have We're gonna we're gonna have to we got we gotta
- 20:26check it out because I want to see you. I want to see you
- 20:29run well. Last year it was in Kentucky at this new complex near the
- 20:36Muhammad Ali neighborhood somewhere around there, and it's nice, Like I ran against
- 20:42people from Stanford and Texas Longhorn. I'm like, these people were fast.
- 20:48I want to get up there and run third times. And that's what I
- 20:52love about track because track is one of those sports where you compete against everybody,
- 20:56you know what I mean. It's not necessarily not just pigeonhole to your
- 20:59conference or even your division. You compete it, you get to see,
- 21:02you get a taste the way. It is kind of really like a national
- 21:06kind of a thing because whatever your time is is the time. It's the
- 21:11times the time, and it's competing against anybody else that's in that time,
- 21:15that in that age, bracket or class or whatever you've got to you've got
- 21:22to compete in that, which to me, I think I think the confidence
- 21:27has to be there, like yeah, yeah, you you can't solve on
- 21:30you, Yeah you can't there's there's no there's no see. I can always
- 21:34say, well, hey, if a couple of guys up front, do
- 21:37a little something that will help me, you have a safety come in my
- 21:41back. You ain't got that. You don't have none of that. It's
- 21:44just you and the cart, you know. And and and like I said,
- 21:48I loved I loved track, you know. And and and I'll say
- 21:55this my track coach and Marshall. I ran track my senior years just to
- 22:00get ready for you know, professional football. And he tried to get me
- 22:07to run the four hundred, and I was running the hundred and the two
- 22:12hundred. The two hundred was like killing me. And I'm thinking, man,
- 22:18I can't, I can't. I can't do it. I can't,
- 22:21I can't. I don't want to do it. Fast forward two years and
- 22:26now I'm I'm playing professional football. My training is four hundreds. I'm running
- 22:33four four hundreds. I put them at State as a test. Four four
- 22:38hundreds, four to two hundreds, four to one tens. Okay, all
- 22:42on the clock and recovery time. Recovery time. You had recovery time like
- 22:48you might have had like about a minute in between once you came through the
- 22:55line you got, you had about a minute to recover and then you right
- 22:57back on the clock. I would and again, in hindsight, I so
- 23:04wish I would have ran the quarter because that that is the run that that
- 23:12helps the hunter, that helps the two hundred and as as terrible as it
- 23:18is, I would if if I would have that opportunity again, I would
- 23:22have run. I would have definitely run the court. And what is in
- 23:26speaking of that, like, what is your off season training looking like?
- 23:30Are you lifting weights? Are you strictly running? Like? What does that
- 23:33look like whatever you did this morning? What does that look like for you
- 23:34as far as or is it technique? Like what are you working on as
- 23:37a premiere UH collegiate track athlete during the off season? I've been doing technical
- 23:45things happen to good people seriously injured in a car accident, trucking accident,
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- 24:06a friend for zero friend zero one, visit online attorney. You got to
- 24:11run that like full till like you can't get ninety five and start to slow
- 24:18down because somebody's gonna get you. Yeah, And I don't think that they
- 24:23understand the reality of where that endurance running comes from and why it's important and
- 24:30and and being like a female athlete, being a woman athlete. How are
- 24:37you when we look at sports today, there's an emphasis on female sports now.
- 24:44It's kind of in the line like whether you're talking about tracks, Kari
- 24:45Richards, whether you're talking about basketball or whole hosts of other sports. So
- 24:49how is that like, coming up in this air and having the spotlight on
- 24:53women's sport? I like it, Like think of it that much, though,
- 25:00I just I guess maybe we think about it more because it just wasn't
- 25:04like that. I mean, obviously track and field is something we always brought
- 25:07an attention to when it came around. But I think we're paying off season
- 25:11and like I said, it's just an emphasis one and and I would if
- 25:17I would again, I'll just say this, I think trying to be part
- 25:23of that, Like I would want to be part of that new thing,
- 25:30you know. And again, if you if you keep going on at the
- 25:33pace that you're going, you're gonna be in that. You're gonna be in
- 25:37that conversation. I mean, you're here because we know about you, and
- 25:42that's gonna that's only gonna keep growing, and it's going to put you in
- 25:47that in that limelight to potentially be that person. And trust me, you
- 25:56there's no reason why you shouldn't enjoy the idea of the possible that being you,
- 26:00you know, because if why not you? I mean at this point,
- 26:07like I mean, you're out. I mean, you're the one out
- 26:08there. You know what I'm saying. You're the one that's out there.
- 26:11You are the one that we're talking about. Yeah. So so before we
- 26:17wrap it up, you have anything else you want to say? Give up
- 26:18your I g give you you know, your social media information, anything else
- 26:22you want to say to the people else I have to say. Okay,
- 26:27Well, like I said, we wish you the best best of luck this
- 26:30season, like continue to grow, and we want to see you an Olympics.
- 26:33So we want to see we want to say we was the first interview.
- 26:37Yes you say that, and yes and and and we're gonna come and
- 26:41hollers. So I have to tap me on the shoulder and say, hey,
- 26:42we're coming to it. We're coming to a meet Yeah, okay,
- 26:45And and and we'll watch you because we're gonna support you all the way through.
- 26:51All Right, we appreciate it. Thank you. All right, ladies
- 26:53and gentlemen, We'll be right back. Let's Talk with Carl Lee is presented
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- 27:51This is let's talk with carl Lee. Now back to the conversation. Hollis
- 27:56uh, Cannice, I think is one of those kinds of young ladies that
- 28:03I think is going to be actually like great. I think it's just special.
- 28:10I mean, coming from a place where you are the premier, the
- 28:12top track athlete in the state, and you go to a new program and
- 28:18then you have similar success at that level at a new program at a different
- 28:22level. Competing it not only against D two athletes, but you're competing against
- 28:26D one athletes is a special thing. And again, like you said,
- 28:29with a new program just starting started and like literally months before she gets right
- 28:37right, all right. So one of one of the interesting components that I
- 28:45think in sports today is the growth of a host of different sports, and
- 28:53one is definitely soccer. Soccer has become the go to sports. It has
- 29:03become the go to even in our youth football league and our team we had
- 29:10a we have a couple of kids who are not gonna play football this year
- 29:14that were pretty good in football and you're gonna play soccer, you know,
- 29:18and again it's kind of hard, it's kind of hard to compete against it.
- 29:23Or to say something like, oh, no, you should play football
- 29:27not soccer. It's that that and it's hard and we'll get into it,
- 29:32but it's hard to compete on a lot of different levels, a lot of
- 29:37We're gonna get right into it. We'll get into that. But but but
- 29:41you're right right. So I want to introduce our second half of the show,
- 29:48our new guest, Chris Kessel, west Side Soccer Association. Yeah,
- 29:57and I'm gonna I'm gonna stop right there here because Hollis, if you if
- 30:03you say to me west Side in sports, I'm automatically thinking football. Yeah,
- 30:15And I want to I want to make the case from Chris. You
- 30:22you you grew this program from fifteen players to two hundred and seventy five in
- 30:30six years. Yeah, about six years and what ages? So uh in
- 30:34the spring we go everywhere from four year old through their senior year in high
- 30:38school. But you know obviously in the fall when scholastic soccer is going on
- 30:41at you four through U twelve And we had two hundred and seventy five kids
- 30:45this spring. Wow. And former president Canall Valley Soccer League huh, the
- 30:52largest, the largest huge soccer league in West Virginia. Yeah. Hey,
- 30:57when I was president, we had about three thousand kids that's in that's covering
- 31:02the county and on Putnam County, on Putnam County. And you hold a
- 31:06multiple coaching license in the United States Soccer Federation. Uh huh. You do
- 31:14camps, yeah, clinics, even pick up soccer. Yeah, so all
- 31:21this is all on the all this is all west Side, yeah or everything.
- 31:26So west Side Soccer basically covers the East End and the West Side.
- 31:30Right. We play at Cato Park up on the west Side Hill, And
- 31:36so all of our kids, with the vast majority of our kids end up
- 31:40going to Capital. We got a sister program, can All City Use Soccer
- 31:44that all their kids end up at Capital too, that we work hand in
- 31:47hand with not as like we compete on the field, but we like collaborate
- 31:51off the field so that everybody works together. But yeah, we're pretty much
- 31:56Piedmont Elementary through the West Side. So let me start by saying this,
- 32:01like, because I know which is a youth football is a subject, a
- 32:06sore subject for me and I hate talking about it. Coach, I can
- 32:08tell you that. So when we've seen like at least in this area and
- 32:12maybe some other areas who people from other jurisdictions that are listening when we see
- 32:15the decline, is kind of what happened to you football? Maybe in basketball,
- 32:20baseball, some iterations. How were you able to not only grow this
- 32:25league but sustain it over these past several years. So there's been quite a
- 32:32few things that we've done, so just to kind of touch on this,
- 32:37like I've been a youth sports coach for over twenty years. Okay, okay,
- 32:40hold that not right there, because when you say that, tell me
- 32:45what what youth sports? Because I'm curious about where that all is and how
- 32:51that So one of my mentors was Paul Gilmer at Midwestern. I coached at
- 32:57Midwestern Youth Football with Mike Ferrell, and Paul was one of my mentors in
- 33:02youth sports. Right. He showed me the proper way to run an organization.
- 33:07Y'all were talking with Canvas about stritters, you know. He was an
- 33:09integral part of making Striders what it is and what it was. So he
- 33:13helped show me how you run an organization, how you treat your volunteers,
- 33:17how you recruit people, and like I've taken those lessons one word, you
- 33:23know, to soccer, which soccer was always my passion. I started playing.
- 33:28I'm forty eight. I started playing when I was five, So I
- 33:30still play now two three days a week. You know, it's a lifelong
- 33:34sport, so I continue to do that. So I took those things that
- 33:37I learned from football, which I didn't know anything about football when I started
- 33:42coaching. I played one year. I was terrible. I didn't like getting
- 33:44tackled and I didn't like tackling people. So football wasn't for me, right,
- 33:47But like to coach, I felt like I needed to be the best
- 33:50coach that I could be, So I went to coaching clinics. I befriended
- 33:54Capitals coaches, UC's coaches, State whatever, so that I could learn and
- 33:59absorb of how I could be the best teacher of the game that I could
- 34:01be. Right, So I had this experience of I didn't know anything,
- 34:07and I didn't know how to coach or the actual like intricacies of the game.
- 34:10Right when you watch football on TV, it's one thing, but when
- 34:14you're trying to teach a kid who doesn't know anything, it's a totally different
- 34:17thing, totally different. So I could take that experience also and go Okay,
- 34:22Hollis is going to be a new coach for me. I know he
- 34:24was a college quarterback. I can now frame the game of soccer in a
- 34:29way that he can teach children that he doesn't need to know as much about
- 34:34it as me. He just needs to know more than the kids that he's
- 34:37coaching, right. So when we do all of our coaching education through our
- 34:40program, it's we try to set it up in a way that we help
- 34:46parents, volunteer coaches like understand the game as it relates to a child,
- 34:52to whatever age group they're doing. Instead of going, okay, well I
- 34:58need you to know as much as you know the Manchester City coach or anything,
- 35:01right, So what is the education piece? How does that? How
- 35:06do you facilitate them? So there's a couple of things that we do which
- 35:10before every season, after every season, and every summer and every winter,
- 35:16we offer coaching education to every volunteer in the program. So a lot of
- 35:22our coaches participate in it. They want to come, they want to learn
- 35:24because like a lot of volunteers, they want to be good, right,
- 35:29Like you just have to help engage them in this learning process. So we
- 35:35come out, we give them coaching plans. We show them what the activities
- 35:38look like, We show them the coaching points that they could they should do,
- 35:43because just going out and like running a drill is just running a drill.
- 35:46If you don't know how to correct the mistakes that your children are making,
- 35:50and if you don't know what mistakes to look for right, you don't
- 35:54actually know how to coach them, you're just actually running an activity. See,
- 35:59I'm and I'm going to I'm gonna take you back to I'm not going
- 36:02to ask you the question, but I'm gonna I'm gonna put it out there
- 36:06and maybe holler, so answer it when you go. When you start talking
- 36:10about youth football, I think the lack of understanding, the lack of actually
- 36:17knowing the game. I mean, everybody has watched football, and everybody kind
- 36:22of has played it a little bit, but that doesn't necessarily. Let's face,
- 36:28bad things happen to coach, seriously, wrongfully arrested happens when it happens
- 36:37to you, you will mean aggressive representation. That's when you call it zero
- 36:43four zero one letting him to a friend three zero four zero one seven visit
- 36:54attorneys to talk maybe with youth football is that there is no there's a lack
- 37:00of structure. Yes, you're not actually sending these coaches again volunteers, you
- 37:06know, doing the Lord's work, but you're not actually sending them to be
- 37:10schooled and educated about what they're doing. And don't I don't but to I
- 37:15agree, and I'm trying to make that same point. But I think that
- 37:19a lot of those coaches I think that they do. Now. Yeah,
- 37:22I mean, but you you don't have a choice of You've never like been
- 37:25taught anything else. You see what I'm saying. Okay, so you're gonna
- 37:28have to You're gonna have to know, Like if I don't have any other
- 37:31like education, then I just I kind of just go with I gotta go
- 37:36with it. So one of the things that I think that we tried really
- 37:39hard to do was to create a culture of learning amongst the volunteers. So
- 37:44even though we have these very structured coaching education activities that we do, we
- 37:51also have like a Facebook group chat with all the coaches, and we have
- 37:55like all these other times when we can pay like well, what are like
- 38:00my kids are struggling with X, Y and Z, Like what can I
- 38:05do to help that? Right? So it's okay. We've made it okay
- 38:08for people to ask questions. We've made it okay for people to admit that
- 38:14they're not the best that there is or that they're an expert in everything.
- 38:17Right, we're all still learning. Like I still go and participate in coaching
- 38:22education at every opportunity, right, Like I'm not coaching. I don't have
- 38:27aspirations to be a college coach or anything like that. I just I love
- 38:30coaching kids from the neighborhood that I live in, you know what I mean.
- 38:32Right, But I still want to go out and be the best coach
- 38:36that I can be, so that when I coach my coaches or when I'm
- 38:39coaching the kids, that they get the best version of me that I can
- 38:43be. Right, And we try to facilitate that culture amongst our coaches as
- 38:49well. And you talk about culture, and you when we were talking Saturday
- 38:53night, you mentioned a phrase a philosophy if you will to me that it's
- 39:00and you can talk about to not keep a score. You can put that
- 39:02in there because you said to me, it's about participation over winning. Yes,
- 39:09participation over winning, which was hints why you have three thousand kids playing
- 39:15in the two counties. So where did that philosophy come from and how has
- 39:20that manifested in the success of this organ because it is not that is not
- 39:24the typical no concept when it comes to youth sports at all. So there's
- 39:30a couple pieces of it. So like the league, the Knall Valley Soccer
- 39:35League has been around since nineteen seventy nine or something, nineteen seventy eight,
- 39:38something like that. It's the same league that I played in with his kid.
- 39:40It's never like there hasn't been all of the youth football drama of the
- 39:45league collapsing in. In other words, it's like been the same thing,
- 39:49and it's been a similar way I think the whole time. I don't really
- 39:52remember what it was like when I was like five, But it's we try
- 39:58to make everything players right, because what you want is to make all of
- 40:04the decisions around how your team exists, how your club exists, and how
- 40:08the game exists for the betterment of the child and not the betterment of the
- 40:13adult, right. So that's that we've really made that Now. Obviously,
- 40:19when you have three thousand kids in the league, we have hundreds of coaches.
- 40:22Everybody is not going to be great but in our club, we try
- 40:24really really hard to hammer this home right that when we are playing these games,
- 40:30and when a lot of people hear that we don't keep scoring the games,
- 40:35they're like, oh, you don't want them to compete. No,
- 40:36trust me, the kids know the score of the game, right, But
- 40:38we don't have standings and we don't keep a record, so that when coach
- 40:43Chris is coaching the game, and I have to make sure that everybody gets
- 40:45fifty percent playing time in every game, because that's the rule that we abide
- 40:50by. Right, I can substitute a kid in because we don't have standings.
- 40:55You know, when it's time for kids to play more than one position,
- 41:00instead of trying to hide, you know, this little girl over here
- 41:02where I think that she's not going to hurt the team, I can play
- 41:05her at center midfield for ten or fifteen minutes because that's what's the best thing
- 41:10for her and her development as a player. So might hurt the team today,
- 41:15but I want everybody. Frankly, we have a goal with Westside Soccer
- 41:22to help Capitol High School win state championships. Right. It's not to win
- 41:25a bunch of U ten championships like nobody cares. Like, my daughter just
- 41:30graduated from Capital this last year, and I asked her the other day.
- 41:35I was like, how many tournaments did you win as a kid? And
- 41:37she could literally only name one and she probably won about fifteen. Like,
- 41:43we put too much emphasis quite often as parents into like results when children are
- 41:50little, when we should be worried about the process. Right, And I
- 41:54heard you mentioned that earlier, and I wanted to touch on that because that's
- 41:58something that I'm I'm really big in, right. I talk about this at
- 42:01almost every session, no matter the age group. I want these kids to
- 42:06think of being the best version of themselves that they can be. Right,
- 42:10whether you know when you were talking to Cannons earlier, Candons earlier, you
- 42:15know, you know you were talking about being the best version of herself that
- 42:19she could be. That's what I want these boys and girls to think about.
- 42:22That's what I try to get my coaches to think about, and that's
- 42:24what I try to get them to express on the kids. Also, if
- 42:28you're not out here working on your own, you're not going to be the
- 42:30best player you can be. You know, if you're not serious about getting
- 42:34sleep, eating right, working out, taking care of your body, getting
- 42:38good grades, all of these things that we have an opportunity to to to
- 42:44to talk to kids about in this setting. Right, You're not their parent.
- 42:47You know they're going to listen to you. Like I know that my
- 42:51son who plays for Capitol right now, listens to coach Freeze way more than
- 42:55he listens to me about his grades and stuff. Right, Like, his
- 42:59grades shot up because he had a leader at Capitol High school boy soccer that
- 43:05like focuses on their development as people. Right, So let's just back up
- 43:10for one second, because I think you you dropped a couple of gems in
- 43:14there, and I don't want them to get lost in this. And the
- 43:16fact that when you focus number one, I think from what I'm hearing,
- 43:21correct me if I'm wrong, the focus is organizationally about how this organization is
- 43:29structured in order to develop kids. And I think in comparison and in contrast
- 43:35to other sports, I mean, I think I would compare this most likely
- 43:39to baseball, how they go through like a T ball coach, pitch and
- 43:43all that sort of system. But when you talk about maybe youth football,
- 43:46youth basketball, it seems to be a lot more adult centered, soation driven
- 43:55how do you how does that happen? Like, how do you how do
- 44:00you keep the focus to where the focus should be. So the very first
- 44:05day you do some stuff that I'd like you to touch them so well,
- 44:08the very stuff the very first day that I took the program over, right,
- 44:14I was asked to take it over the west Side Soccer falling on some
- 44:19some hard times. It was down to around fifteen players that were going to
- 44:22return the next year. I met with the existing board and I kind of
- 44:27went over goals. I was like, the first one, I want this
- 44:30program to look like our community. Right, soccer generally is thought of as
- 44:36upper class white kids playing soccer out in the suburbs, you know, or
- 44:40always travel whatever. We have probably I don't I don't know the exact numbers,
- 44:45but we're around sixty percent minority participation in west Side soccer, right,
- 44:51Hollis to Senate. Right, we have teams. The U twelve girls team
- 44:53that I coached this season, literally it was every it was seventeen little black
- 44:59girls. I had zero. I mean, that's just the way it happened.
- 45:00But like so, I wanted the program to look like the community.
- 45:05I wanted the board to look like her community, right, So I make
- 45:08sure that I purposely find board members that are from the West Side, the
- 45:14East End that look like the kids that play, you know, and I
- 45:19wanted our coaches to look like the community. And it's a lot harder when
- 45:23basically all white people have been playing soccer, right, So to find you
- 45:30know, black men and women to come and be coaches. And luckily,
- 45:32you know, I found some magnificent Okay. And that's what education, and
- 45:37the education piece comes into play, right. So when you sat down and
- 45:40you say, hey, we're going to be about the kids that are from
- 45:45our neighborhood, that look like our neighborhood, and our coaches and our board
- 45:50are going to be from our neighborhood, everybody's focused on one thing, the
- 45:53kids, right, And that's that's exactly what we set down to do from
- 45:57the beginning, and see and and all. That's kind of to your point
- 46:00or to the even to your question. When you talk about football and you
- 46:06talk about basketball, and you talk about the coaches, you talk about a
- 46:10host of some of the parents, it's it's not the development, it's it's
- 46:16it's my kid, Like it's the attention is on that kid and or just
- 46:22winning and for the most part, that coach can't handle it if he if
- 46:30he doesn't win. And and we've had we've had this conversation, and I've
- 46:35said it a thousand times, like you know, I, you know,
- 46:37losing at Marshall. You know, I won maybe seven, eight, nine,
- 46:40maybe max ten games in four years. But I wasn't gonna leave because
- 46:46of the people, because of the coaches that were there that I felt were
- 46:52invested in me and gives you and it'll give you prop and I and I
- 46:57and I've said that I think those experiences are better then if you go youth,
- 47:08middle school, high school, college and you're overly successful, your teams
- 47:14are overly successful because at some point in time in your life, something is
- 47:17going to go bad, something is going to go something's gonna go south,
- 47:22And do can you and do you know how to handle that? And and
- 47:29I want to get back to because I think, in addition to like I
- 47:32said, just being able to handle that adversity, getting kids outside the comfort
- 47:37zone, right, because if I'm the goalie and that's my thing and then
- 47:40you pit me as a defender or at striker, then I'm outside of my
- 47:45comfort zone. So I have to learn to be adapt and even that is
- 47:47kind of building adversity within the confines of the organization in the structure. But
- 47:53what I want to place emphasis on is that number one, there is an
- 47:59organization and a structure, and you guys do have a like an end of
- 48:04the season tournament where you need is competitive, keep scoring, you gotta win
- 48:07thing. But what I noticed, and I went to that tournament this year,
- 48:12and you do, and there's something very special that you or I don't
- 48:16know, maybe Inmphasimus at this point that you guys do with the parents that
- 48:21come to you guys games and what they're allowed to do and not do.
- 48:24What is that? Yeah? So I mean for west Side, we have
- 48:29a parent meeting before the season where you don't your kid, you don't know
- 48:32which team your kid plays on until you come to the parent meeting. Then
- 48:37we announce it and at that we give out like a handout. It's seven
- 48:39pages long, and it's like what we expect from you as a parent.
- 48:44It's like sideline decorum. It's like how you handle the ride home from the
- 48:49games. It's what you talk to your kid about, how you ask them,
- 48:53and it's just things that are common sense when you hear them, it's
- 48:57like, well, what's the sideline decorum? Please expe bound on that.
- 49:00Okay, So some of the things are like we want you to be a
- 49:04reactive cheer. Like the worst thing that you can do is you know what,
- 49:07you get, pass it, shoot it whatever, Like you're making the
- 49:09decisions for him. You don't go into math class and tell them what the
- 49:13answer is. We need them to make the decision out there, right,
- 49:16So great shot, great pass? You know, way to hustle? Right,
- 49:22So we want you to be reactive and you're cheering not proactive, right,
- 49:24We don't want you to tell them what to do, right, don't
- 49:28yell at the referee, right, like the what we don't we If you
- 49:31yell at the referee, you get kicked out. That's that's zero like no
- 49:37tolerance. Like I've kicked people out. People have not left, We've had
- 49:42you know, we've had to have people removed. It's zero tolerance, right,
- 49:45because a a lot of the referees for soccer teenagers. Right, you
- 49:51can start refereeing when you're fourteen, and so you you really out here as
- 49:54an adult yelling at a fourteen year old over an eight year old soccer game.
- 49:59That's what you think is appropriate. Well, we don't think that's appropriate.
- 50:02It's sound for you to go okay, So so just just entertain me
- 50:07on this, because I guess maybe a purist or traditionalist in some sentiment would
- 50:13think that this is some new wage pooh pooh. When trying to hold their
- 50:19hands, you're not letting the kids be exposed. They may there has to
- 50:23be pushed back on this philosophy that you guys have implemented. Hold on let
- 50:30and I want to I want to kind of respond to that. I don't
- 50:32have his answer, okay, but to your question what we are doing now,
- 50:40we clearly know what's wrong. Yeah, I mean yeah, yeah.
- 50:45And if you're a parent and you're hearing this and you're and if you're even
- 50:51remotely offended or like, oh, I would never do that, you you're
- 50:57wrong. But but I don't see. I don't think so, because when
- 51:00you're used to doing it, like for him to tell me this, for
- 51:04Chris to tell me what he's telling me, I have never even remotely heard
- 51:09of me anything like that, man, So you can't say that they're wrong.
- 51:13When we grew up, this is how we grew up and this is
- 51:15this is our tradition and how we do this. So I'm saying, like,
- 51:21how do you come back that the pushback like, what's just a response?
- 51:23So what we've done by doing this and making that the expectation is it's
- 51:30sort of empowered the parents to police themselves on the sideline. Like it's a
- 51:36whole lot of hey, chill out house, like you know, you know,
- 51:39we're not supposed to be doing that over here, you know, And
- 51:43it's just created a better sideline dynamic, right, It's allowed people to also
- 51:49understand that like, hey, you're probably embarrassing your kid yelling at the referee,
- 51:54like when you hear somebody say that, Like not like when you're mad
- 51:59and yelling, but like just in a setting where we're just sitting around talking,
- 52:01because this is really the kind of atmosphere it is. It makes you
- 52:05go, you know what, it probably is embarrassing. I mean because when
- 52:07I went to the game, Bro, when I went to the game,
- 52:10it was quiet, yeah, and there was some criticism of the refs,
- 52:16but it wasn't like it was like the ref missed that call. Like parents
- 52:22talking, It wasn't like yelling and ejecting it wasn't like and for me,
- 52:27it's it kind of is a lot just because I'm used to the energy being
- 52:31a little different. You see what I'm saying. Have we have we just
- 52:37not thought to do that? In basketball? Have we not thought to do
- 52:42that? In football? You have not thought to do that? I'm going
- 52:45to be real honest. It's hard at the beginning, right, you have
- 52:49to be willing as an adult administrator to go and tell people they got to
- 52:53stop, right, And that's hard, you know, And like, luckily,
- 52:59you know, the people around the program respected me and respected what we
- 53:04were doing and they listened. You know, our problems aren't from the parents
- 53:08that play for West Side. Our problems are always from the parents from the
- 53:12other clubs, right, who aren't used to what we're trying to do.
- 53:15And you know it, it was hard, But after a few years it
- 53:20becomes a culture. Like I keep touching on that, the culture around the
- 53:23program, the culture around the club. Yes, that's the problem when you
- 53:30start talking about I'm already aware. I'm I'm I'm I'm coming in with my
- 53:36visiting team and we're coming to your place and we're playing, and I'm already
- 53:40aware of how this structure works there. I know how this is gonna go.
- 53:46Now I go, I can go play Hollis and it's a it's a
- 53:51whole nother thing. But I know when I'm coming to the West Side that
- 53:53there's a structure there that our parents need to understand, our coaches need to
- 53:58understand, and our kids need to That's powerful. Yeah, and see,
- 54:01and this is why, like I wanted to have you on it, and
- 54:07really we got to bring you back because we need you for like a whole
- 54:08segment because no, because what I think is that when we talk about because
- 54:13nobody talks about this, part of what we struggle with with youth basketball,
- 54:16youth football in this area and probably state, is that we have a bad
- 54:22culture associated with those sports, even baseball to a degree what I see,
- 54:27But I think again baseball is different because you go through a whole maturation process.
- 54:31But I think, particularly when you're talking about basketball and football, we
- 54:35have a bad culture and the culture of it needs to change. Where it
- 54:39is development over wins, is participation over saying. You know, the funny
- 54:45thing about that is right, like we preach that and that's how we've structured
- 54:50the whole program. Right, But the thing is is when you develop players,
- 54:52the byproduct or that is you win. You win a lot. Like
- 54:57frankly, like, we focus on this as our number one goal, and
- 55:01we win a lot of end of season tournaments. And as the kids get
- 55:07older and play, you know, and you know, obviously once they get
- 55:09to be fourteen sixteen, we're playing like tournament games in league and whatever all
- 55:14the time. And you know, we win a lot because of it,
- 55:19because we focus when they're five to ten to twelve years old with development,
- 55:22Like, the byproduct is winning. And that's what I'm saying. Football basketball,
- 55:27there's very little development. It's very little development, and it is a
- 55:30It is a whole lot of yelling and streaming at the officials, at the
- 55:37coach, at your kid, telling your kid what he's supposed to do,
- 55:40she's supposed to do. That is that is a complete norm for basketball and
- 55:47football. And I don't even know. I don't even know how that groundwork
- 55:55could even start. I think you would. I think how it starts,
- 56:00is it has to start? Yeah, I don't, I don't. I
- 56:04don't think. It ain't gotta be no big thing. And the thing,
- 56:07like I said, I think that because I know that I coached one year
- 56:10at the youth level. I've coached like middle school and high school and even
- 56:14college, but I coached one year at the youth level, and at the
- 56:16end of the season we went to like our little conference championship. We was
- 56:20a game away from like the big championship. And I look back on the
- 56:23season as a complete failure because I failed to develop the kids. I got
- 56:30so obsessed with the winning part of it, yep, that I think I
- 56:35lost the program, because even if we were less successful, I think that
- 56:38it would have been more successful had it been a developmental piece as opposed to
- 56:44me focusing solely on winning. Because to your point, coach, what happens
- 56:47is that you just pit the ball in the fastest kids hands, he runs
- 56:51around the corner, and if you can do that twenty times a game,
- 56:53you'll do that just to win against the game, instead of having that kid
- 56:58run the ball, throw the ball, block, play defense, do all
- 57:00the things to see A couple to see exactly, because I know when we
- 57:07was coming up playing for a Western Generals, you had to play you line
- 57:10your first year or tight end if you were good. Mostly you're not coming
- 57:15in playing running back your first year on whatever team you're on, it goes
- 57:19towards that development, and I think we've lost that piece, and particularly with
- 57:22football, yes, support them around the most. It's all it's just become
- 57:27about winning. It's about nothing else. It totally is. And we're getting
- 57:31we're getting ready to we got to kind of wind it down, but it
- 57:36is. It is. It is a shame that sports has come specific sports
- 57:40have become solely about winning and they're missing this teaching, this culture that you
- 57:51guys have on the West Side. And and I'm I'm super happy and proud
- 57:57that the fact that you know the kids that it is to can absolutely use
- 58:02it and need it well. And yes, okay, question so how can
- 58:08other sports or organization mimic this? So, I mean I think that creating
- 58:15like we keep harping on it, but just creating a positive culture around everything,
- 58:20right and putting the players at the middle of everything you do. Right.
- 58:23I just like when we talk about participation, it's more than it's more
- 58:29than just like in these games in the club, right when you when coach
- 58:34mentioned to pick up like every Friday night all winter. We used to do
- 58:38it all the time, but like it was just it got to be too
- 58:40much for me. But we do free pick up like indoor soccer at the
- 58:44King Center. We got a partnership, remember right, we got we had
- 58:46forty fifty people come from all ages, college play at current college players to
- 58:51little kids. We all play together Saturday mornings at Cato Park. We had
- 58:55over sixty people would pick up this week, including current college players, adult
- 59:00kids. We all play together. Right, Participation in soccer is different than
- 59:05participation in football. It pretty much ends at high school for everybody with football.
- 59:09Like I said, I'm forty eight, I still play every week,
- 59:12like a couple of times a week. Like we're trying to create soccer players
- 59:16for the rest of their life. Right, Like if you are you know
- 59:20a track a track coach, or you tennis or baseball, softball, all
- 59:24these things that you can keep playing for a long time. A lot of
- 59:28this need you need to remember that you're trying to create healthy, active adults
- 59:32also, right, And like if I can continue, I've been trying to
- 59:37get House to come and play pick up with us for a while because I
- 59:39think he would love soccer if he played once. But you know, how
- 59:44about this, I'm about to see you all on a Saturday morning, I'm
- 59:47gonna text both y'all right, like it's about being healthy, active adults.
- 59:52Also, when these kids are ten years older than they are right now,
- 59:54are thirty years older than they are right now. If it wasn't for the
- 59:58coaches that made me love the game when I was little, I wouldn't be
- 1:00:01playing now. All right, Well, we got to get out here,
- 1:00:06so Chris, I appreciate it, and man, what a great, great,
- 1:00:09great thing that you're doing. And again, I think that's one of
- 1:00:13those kind of things that we we got to get out of the studio and
- 1:00:16I want to actually get eyes on it myself. So all right, I'm
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