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Why Not You? – Embrace Your Next Level. · Motivation Mindset Podcast

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Speaker 1: And my personal question to you is why not you?
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Speaker 1: We all ask why we should work this hard? Why
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Speaker 1: take that many classes? Why go to school that many years?
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Speaker 2: You know?
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Speaker 1: Why take the notes? Why read the books? Why work
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Speaker 1: that hard? Why put yourself through the pushups and the disciplines?
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Speaker 3: Why?
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Speaker 4: Good question?
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Speaker 5: Why?
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Speaker 1: The best answer to why, I think is the second question?
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Speaker 6: Why not?
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Speaker 1: Why not see how many books you can read, how
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Speaker 1: many classes you can take, how many skills you can develop?
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Speaker 1: Why not see how valuable you can become to the
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Speaker 1: marketplace and to your friends and to your family. Why
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Speaker 1: not see what you can make of yourself? Why not
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Speaker 1: see how far you can go, how much you can see,
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Speaker 1: how much you can earn, how much you can share?
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Speaker 4: Why not?
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Speaker 1: That's the heritage all of us have to see what
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Speaker 1: we can make out of our lives, now that we've
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Speaker 1: been given this extraordinary opportunity.
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Speaker 2: Myself, why do we fall so the weird?
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Speaker 7: Look to pick ourselves up?
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Speaker 8: Yeah, we all are great. We all should think that
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Speaker 8: we're great. There's no reason for you to not think
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Speaker 8: that you're great. If you don't think you're great, ask yourself,
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Speaker 8: why why don't you think the highest of yourself? When
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Speaker 8: you do people have no have no choice but the
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Speaker 8: follow suit.
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Speaker 9: Because delusion is only delusion when you don't accomplish the
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Speaker 9: goal of making your delusions of reality and impossible is
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Speaker 9: nothing to somebody that tries, everything that the one said
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Speaker 9: was impossible is happening.
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Speaker 10: You got a choice, you got talent, you got a chance.
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Speaker 10: And I want to hear about your environment. What your
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Speaker 10: mama didn't give you and the white man won't give
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Speaker 10: you no shot. You got a chance, you.
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Speaker 11: Said, while you're still alive, you don't know what death is.
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Speaker 2: Make a decision, how yo, mister McCall me. Why not you?
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Speaker 2: But why me? Let's find not together.
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Speaker 12: When you're suffering, you give up on the very things
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Speaker 12: that you wanted the most.
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Speaker 4: When I was going through Pair.
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Speaker 7: Of Rescue, I wanted to be a pair of Rescue
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Speaker 7: and so bad, but.
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Speaker 4: That water haunted me. So when the suffering got too much.
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Speaker 7: My dream died.
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Speaker 1: No one can save you, but you.
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Speaker 13: You have to put the mind into what you want
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Speaker 13: to put the mind into.
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Speaker 4: If you believe in something, you can achieve it.
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Speaker 14: If everybody who's like at the bottom and feels like
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Speaker 14: they have nothing going for them, reframe that as I
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Speaker 14: have nothing going for me, which also means that I
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Speaker 14: have nothing to lose. By taking action, it makes you
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Speaker 14: a much more dangerous person. And I think that was
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Speaker 14: the flip that I've had repeatedly shown to me in
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Speaker 14: my life that allowed me.
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Speaker 15: To take the step that I was afraid to take.
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Speaker 16: They say, the true holly is one of the person
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Speaker 16: that you are, me to the person you could have been.
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Speaker 7: Everything you do.
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Speaker 12: You may have some support, you may not, but it's
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Speaker 12: on you. You have to make the decision whether you
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Speaker 12: want to be a badass or whether you just want
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Speaker 12: to be mediocre.
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Speaker 6: And everything's okay, but being a badass hurts.
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Speaker 9: And it's not all a bit it is to.
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Speaker 4: Show what we truly are. It is all choices.
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Speaker 6: A lot of people sit back and they dream about
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Speaker 6: being or dream about being a seal, or dream about
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Speaker 6: being an astronaut, and all it is is a motherfucking dream.
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Speaker 6: They don't put the work behind the dream. That dream
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Speaker 6: has become their master. When you become the master of
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Speaker 6: your dream is when you say I want to go
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Speaker 6: be a Navy seal and you say, okay, I'm gonna
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Speaker 6: lose one hundred and six pounds less than three months.
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Speaker 6: The dream was the one thing I thought about, and
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Speaker 6: the dream was now gone. Now what comes in the
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Speaker 6: dream goes away and the blondry.
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Speaker 4: List of details and tasks come up.
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Speaker 15: Got you, this got you, this, got you, this got
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Speaker 15: you this.
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Speaker 6: That's when you become the master of your dream.
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Speaker 17: You walk out of this room. You owe yourself. I
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Speaker 17: didn't get here making excuses. So what my father was
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Speaker 17: in my life? The truth of the matter is, he
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Speaker 17: ain't never come in in my life. So what i'ma
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Speaker 17: wait for the rest of my life for my man
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Speaker 17: to come. He ain't coming. I live in America. I'm
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Speaker 17: an African American male. They don't treat us the same.
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Speaker 17: It's something called racism. I ain't gonna cry about it.
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Speaker 17: But I'm not gonna cry about it. I'm still gonna
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Speaker 17: be a millionaire. I'm still gonna be one of the
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Speaker 17: top motivational speakers in the world. But I'm still gonna
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Speaker 17: be successful. I'm still gonna get you where they are.
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Speaker 17: Why Because I owe it to myself and can't nobody
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Speaker 17: stop me put me? And you need to get rid
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Speaker 17: of them excuses. And you need to stop pulling fingers
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Speaker 17: at people, and you need to start pointing fingers at yourself,
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Speaker 17: what did you not do?
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Speaker 18: Talent?
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Speaker 4: I don't believe in talent.
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Speaker 2: Well, some people they have talent.
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Speaker 4: It's good.
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Speaker 2: It helps when you have talent.
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Speaker 8: As long as you have a lot of determination and willpower,
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Speaker 8: that's all you need.
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Speaker 2: And you have to have the will to win.
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Speaker 18: If you want to be great, you have to be
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Speaker 18: willing to prepare, prepare, and prepare. And when a cat
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Speaker 18: has talent, they think they can just walk out there
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Speaker 18: and do what they do with their talent until they
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Speaker 18: meet a cat that's prepared.
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Speaker 2: You'd be that warrior in that garden.
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Speaker 15: And you stand strong.
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Speaker 19: You be a strong man, you be a good man,
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Speaker 19: and you just let the world rage around you.
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Speaker 20: Five or six years, I went every single day without
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Speaker 20: missing a single day.
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Speaker 15: I never got sick.
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Speaker 20: I was in the water on Christmas, Birthday, holidays, everything,
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Speaker 20: it didn't matter. The sky is a limit. I believe
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Speaker 20: that whatever I put my mind to, and if I
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Speaker 20: was willing to make sacrifices and I was dedicated, that
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Speaker 20: I could achieve absolutely anything. There was probably one hundred
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Speaker 20: days where I didn't want to do anything. I wanted
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Speaker 20: to stay in the poor, stay in my in my
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Speaker 20: bed and not get out. But those were the days
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Speaker 20: where you have to you have to get up and
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Speaker 20: do something, because I think that's really what separates the
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Speaker 20: good from the great in any walk of life. The
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Speaker 20: greats do things when they don't always want to. That's
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Speaker 20: what separates good from great.
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Speaker 7: I need to say something. Listen to me.
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Speaker 21: I hope every one of you behind the screens on
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Speaker 21: this arena can feel this level of happiness just one
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Speaker 21: time in your life. I hope all of you can't
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Speaker 21: feel how happy I am just one time in your life.
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Speaker 21: But guess what, you never feel this level of happiness
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Speaker 21: if you don't go for something in your own life
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Speaker 21: when they knocked you down where they try and they
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Speaker 21: trying to put their put on your neck, If you
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Speaker 21: stay down, you will never ever and feel this level
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Speaker 21: of happiness.
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Speaker 2: That's your rise.
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Speaker 6: Once you change one thing your mindset, you can attack everything.
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Speaker 18: A lot of people say they want to be great,
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Speaker 18: but they're not willing to make the sacrifices necessary to
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Speaker 18: achieve greatness. They have other concerns, whether important or not.
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Speaker 18: They spread themselves out, and that's totally fine. After all,
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Speaker 18: greatness is not for everybody.
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Speaker 2: What I'm saying is Greatness isn't easy to achieve.
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Speaker 18: It requires a lot of time and a lot of sacrifices.
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Speaker 15: It requires a lot of tough choices.
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Speaker 18: It requires your loved ones to sacrifice, So you have
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Speaker 18: to have an understanding circle of family and friends. People
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Speaker 18: don't always understand just how much effort from how many
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Speaker 18: people goes into one person chasing a dream to be great.
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Speaker 2: It's an obsession.
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Speaker 18: Respect to those who do it, to you greatness, and
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Speaker 18: respect to those who are chasing that elusive feeling.
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Speaker 22: I've learned over time is that almost all like truly
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Speaker 22: exceptional and mentally strong people have been through hell. It's
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Speaker 22: very few that put themselves through hell when life is great.
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Speaker 22: It's just not usually the case.
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Speaker 23: I don't believe in talent. I'm here because I worked
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Speaker 23: hard my whole life. Without that work, no one in
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Speaker 23: this room would know who I am except my family.
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Speaker 23: So to all the kids around the world watching, paying
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Speaker 23: attention and inspiring to be like one of us, or
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Speaker 23: even on the stage someday, put the work in and
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Speaker 23: watch the magical ride you go on.
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Speaker 2: Why do you do it? Why why get up?
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Speaker 24: Why do people fight it?
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Speaker 4: You must be able to see it, mister Anderson.
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Speaker 25: You must know it by now when it's pointless to
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Speaker 25: keep fighting.
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Speaker 4: Why mister Anderson, why why do you persist.
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Speaker 15: Because I choose to.
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Speaker 4: I got a life too. Don't you think I had
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Speaker 4: dreams and hopes?
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Speaker 7: What about my life? What about me?
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Speaker 1: I was hoping that circumstances outside would change. Then here's
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Speaker 1: what I found out.
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Speaker 4: It isn't going to change.
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Speaker 1: So then my question was, if it isn't going to change,
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Speaker 1: how will my life ever change? When you change, everything
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Speaker 1: will change for you. When you get better, everything will
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Speaker 1: get better for you. And that's where I picked up
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Speaker 1: that phrase for things to change, you've got to change.
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Speaker 1: You don't have to change circumstances out there. All you've
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Speaker 1: got to do is look within and see if you
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Speaker 1: can change yourself for the better. And as you change,
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Speaker 1: things will start to change for you.
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Speaker 6: Is I know that there's really no one out there
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Speaker 6: grinding might me?
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Speaker 4: If I know about you, I'll make sure.
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Speaker 6: That my gang.
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Speaker 4: That's what the mentality is all about. My whole thing
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Speaker 4: is a mentality thing.
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Speaker 6: Like I told you the last I was on the show,
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Speaker 6: I view myself as the weakest person on the planet Earth.
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Speaker 6: My goal in life was to be in my mind.
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Speaker 6: Believe I'm the hardest man alive. And that's why the
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Speaker 6: whole thing is. Can't hurt me.
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Speaker 4: That's what it's about.
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Speaker 2: It's about whatever you think you are. You have to
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Speaker 2: make that dream of reality.
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Speaker 4: But that's where the hard part is.
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Speaker 26: Someone's opinion if you does not have to become your reality.
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Speaker 26: And he taught me three things. He said that if
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Speaker 26: you want to become successful in life, young man, he said,
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Speaker 26: Number one, you've got to change your mindset. He said,
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Speaker 26: you don't get in life what you want. You get
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Speaker 26: in life what you are.
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Speaker 6: This is when I realized that the human mind, once
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Speaker 6: everything gets connected, Once the mind knows you're not going
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Speaker 6: to quit something, it's gonna try to find more.
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Speaker 4: It's gonna try to give you more.
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Speaker 6: Once it realizes you're not gonna take the path of
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Speaker 6: least resistance, you're gonna.
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Speaker 4: Stay here until it's done.
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Speaker 6: My mind and my body and my spirit became one
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Speaker 6: for the first time ever, for the first time ever,
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Speaker 6: became one, and I went to a level that I
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Speaker 6: never thought was humanly possible for myself or anybody else.
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Speaker 16: Well, if regrets are inevitable, if they're going to happen
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Speaker 16: no matter what. An easy way to look at the
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Speaker 16: decision is rather than which do I want to do?
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Speaker 16: Which regrets could I live with?
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Speaker 15: My name is Kobe Bryant.
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Speaker 2: I'm seventeen years old.
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Speaker 3: I wasn't invited to parties or friendly gatherings on the weekend.
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Speaker 2: It's on Fridays and Saturdays.
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Speaker 3: I would go in my red room with my basketball
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Speaker 3: and basically dribbled myself to sleep. And I think that
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Speaker 3: that was the best thing that could ever happened to
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Speaker 3: because during those lonely hours and the reference, I discovered
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Speaker 3: the hunger, the motivation, and a desire to be the
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Speaker 3: best possible basketball player that I could be.
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Speaker 6: When your mind knows is not going to quit, your
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Speaker 6: body will adapt to.
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Speaker 2: Whatever is in front of it.
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Speaker 4: I ended up running twenty more miles.
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Speaker 6: I did one hundred and more miles in nineteen hours
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Speaker 6: and six minutes.
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Speaker 12: And that one day change that one nineteen hours.
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Speaker 27: It wasn't silk training, it wasn't range to school, it
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Speaker 27: wasn't don't the force going in that crap I went through.
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Speaker 4: It was just nineteen hours and six minutes that forever
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Speaker 4: changed my life to know that we as.
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Speaker 6: Human beings are capable of anything, and we don't need.
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Speaker 4: Any special kind of parents or tools to get there.
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Speaker 4: So I'll end you with this. Don't stop when you're tired,
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Speaker 4: stop when you're done.
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Speaker 2: Thank you very much.
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Speaker 28: Never ever give up. Don't give up. Don't allow it
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Speaker 28: to happen. If there's a concrete wall in front of you,
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Speaker 28: go through it, go over it, go around it. But
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Speaker 28: get to the other side of that wall.
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Speaker 2: And how you get to that point in life?
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Speaker 12: And I figured out it's so noisy right now.
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Speaker 7: This world is so noisy.
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Speaker 12: We all walk around these phonees, computers, The world is
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Speaker 12: so fast, we're not.
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Speaker 7: Able to think.
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Speaker 12: The most powerful weapon in the world we walk around
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Speaker 12: with it so mind so brain. You have to be
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Speaker 12: able to go into a very dark place in your
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Speaker 12: mind and figure who you are, go back to what
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Speaker 12: you want to do, what's your purpose. We can't figure
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Speaker 12: our purpose out, or why we're here, or why we're
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Speaker 12: even born or whatever because.
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Speaker 7: It's so loud in our mind.
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Speaker 12: We don't have any quiet time with ourselves to sit
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Speaker 12: back and say what do I really want?
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Speaker 7: There's so many different dialogues in.
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Speaker 4: Our head that we can't think. So my biggest thing
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Speaker 4: is you have to be alone in a.
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Speaker 6: Very dark place in your mind, think about what is
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Speaker 6: important to you right now.
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Speaker 29: The biggest advice that anybody could give you eighty five
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Speaker 29: to ninety percent of life is just showing up.
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Speaker 2: Show up.
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Speaker 4: If you show up, there's a chance something could happen.
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Speaker 25: If you can teach people to stand up in the
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Speaker 25: face of the things they're afraid of, they get stronger.
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Speaker 25: And you don't know what the upper limits to that are,
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Speaker 25: because you might ask yourself, like, if for ten years,
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Speaker 25: if you didn't avoid doing what you knew you needed
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Speaker 25: to do by your own definitions, right within the value
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Speaker 25: structure that you've created, to the degree that you've done that,
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Speaker 25: what would you be like? Well, you know, there are
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Speaker 25: remarkable people who come into the world from time to time,
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Speaker 25: and there are people who do find out over decades
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Speaker 25: long periods, what they could be like if they were
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Speaker 25: who they were, if they said if they spoke there
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Speaker 25: being forward, and they'd get stronger and stronger and stronger.
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Speaker 4: And we don't know the limits to that.
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Speaker 25: We do not know the limits to that. And so
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Speaker 25: you could say, well, in part, perhaps the reason that
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Speaker 25: you're suffering unbearably can be left at your feet because
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Speaker 25: you're not everything you could be, and you know it.
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Speaker 16: If you can be in a bad mood for no reason,
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Speaker 16: you might as well be in a good mood for
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Speaker 16: no reason. If it's not going to change your life,
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Speaker 16: it shouldn't change your mood. If the cost is peace
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Speaker 16: of mind, don't buy it.
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Speaker 14: Yeah, if you can be in a bad mood for
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Speaker 14: no reason, then you can be in a good mood
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Speaker 14: for no reason, which means that if you can do
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Speaker 14: something that's amazing and still have a shit day, it
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Speaker 14: means you can do something that sucks and have a
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Speaker 14: good day, which means the entire excuse around, I don't
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Speaker 14: want to do all these hard things because as a
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Speaker 14: proxy it makes my mood sad. Is ridiculous, because it
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Speaker 14: means that we are ultimately in control of how we
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Speaker 14: want to perceive the work that we do. And so
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Speaker 14: I think that is ultimately the most frank thing that
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Speaker 14: you can do in terms of how you can equip
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Speaker 14: yourself to get through those harder periods.
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Speaker 30: We will not man, and we will not break. We
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Speaker 30: will not yield. We will never give in. We will
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Speaker 30: never give up, and we will never back down. We
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Speaker 30: will never ever surrender.
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Speaker 20: You know, if you want to do something and you
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Speaker 20: want it that bad, you'll make sacrifices.
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Speaker 15: And you know, growing up, for.
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Speaker 20: Me as a kid, I made a lot of sacrifices
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Speaker 20: that I didn't seem that they were a big deal.
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Speaker 19: And I don't seem there.
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Speaker 20: Like I don't, I don't think of them as being
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Speaker 20: a big deal right now. You know, there were saturdays
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Speaker 20: or Fridays where you know, I'd give up going to
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Speaker 20: a dance or hanging out with my friends because.
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Speaker 2: I had work out the next day.
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Speaker 20: But those things that I gave up, you know, were
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Speaker 20: things that I wanted to to help me get to
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Speaker 20: my goal. And and there were times where I've put
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Speaker 20: you know, I've been put in uncomfortable situations, but I've
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Speaker 20: used my mental power, my mental strength to push through it.
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Speaker 20: You know, some of the best athletes, are the greatest
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Speaker 20: athletes in the world, do things when they're uncomfortable. You know,
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Speaker 20: everybody can compete when they're feeling good, happy, excited, rested,
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Speaker 20: but it's the best people who can overcome when they're tired, sore,
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Speaker 20: not in the great mind you know, not in the
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Speaker 20: best mindset.
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Speaker 4: And I think mental power.
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Speaker 20: That the greatest athletes have can push.
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Speaker 2: All the pain aside.
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Speaker 20: But you know, I said to myself, I'm going to
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Speaker 20: do this and no one's going to stop me. And
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Speaker 20: I think that's the biggest thing, is how strong you
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Speaker 20: can be mentally. I think that really shows who the
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Speaker 20: person is. So I think that's one thing that separates
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Speaker 20: the good from the greatest.
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Speaker 31: You were born to do something great with your life
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Speaker 31: in big ways and small ways.
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Speaker 2: Just like that person who helped my dad. They thought
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Speaker 2: that was a small thing.
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Speaker 31: It may not be on Instagram, it may not get
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Speaker 31: twenty million likes or views, but you were born to
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Speaker 31: do something great.
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Speaker 2: I'm gonna say that to you again.
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Speaker 31: You you were born to do something great with your life.
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Speaker 2: You are not average and ordinary.
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Speaker 31: And the third thing is this, there's a to doing
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Speaker 31: one more, and if you'll do one more, your one decision,
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Speaker 31: one relationship, one meeting, one encounter, one thought, one podcast interview,
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Speaker 31: one book away from a completely different life.
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Speaker 2: You don't lack vision, you lack death perception.
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Speaker 31: You think you're further than you are, and you keep
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Speaker 31: keeping it in that distance because you think it's so
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Speaker 31: far away.
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Speaker 2: Did you read this quote?
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Speaker 32: I have not yet This is the quote that I've
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Speaker 32: lived my whole life out because you might as well
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Speaker 32: be dead. Seriously, if you always put limits on what
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Speaker 32: you can do, physical or anything else, it'll spread over
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Speaker 32: into the rest of your life. There are no limits,
18:32
Speaker 32: there are only plateaus. A man must constantly exceed his level.
18:36
Speaker 32: If you want to get up every day and try
18:37
Speaker 32: to be better than you worry yesterday and business and
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Speaker 32: life and everything.
18:41
Speaker 18: Oftentimes, if it doesn't go our way, we don't see
18:46
Speaker 18: it as a blessing. Right if something happens and experience,
18:50
Speaker 18: if it doesn't go the way we want it to go,
18:51
Speaker 18: oftentimes we don't consider that to be a blessing. But
18:55
Speaker 18: some of the greatest blessings in our lives are things
18:58
Speaker 18: that didn't turn out or work out the way that
18:59
Speaker 18: we want it too. And so if we can put
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Speaker 18: our perspective in our perception in such a place that
19:05
Speaker 18: when it doesn't go our way, because we know what
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Speaker 18: to do when it goes our way, but when it
19:08
Speaker 18: doesn't go our way, not only what is the lesson
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Speaker 18: in it, like, what's the blessing in it?
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Speaker 33: The way I look at it with them myself? Why
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Speaker 33: not why can't I be the MVP of the league.
19:19
Speaker 33: Why can't I be the best player in the league.
19:22
Speaker 33: I don't see why. Why why can't I do that?
19:26
Speaker 7: But the game is to be better?
19:28
Speaker 13: How do I be better than what I was? Because
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Speaker 13: if I do that, ooh for me, I just beat me. Yeah,
19:35
Speaker 13: it ain't about nobody else. I don't give a fuck
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Speaker 13: about nobody else.
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Speaker 4: I just beat me.
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Speaker 8: If I can keep beating myself, if I can keep
19:43
Speaker 8: doing that, then that means that I'm in a battle with.
19:48
Speaker 4: The only person that can make sense.
19:51
Speaker 8: I'm in a battle with the only person that I
19:55
Speaker 8: really want to be, and that's me.
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Speaker 34: Visualize where you want to be and what you want
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Speaker 34: to accomplish, and you kind of get lost in the
20:03
Speaker 34: process of day to day, you know, grinding it out
20:05
Speaker 34: and working, pulling on eys if you have to. You
20:09
Speaker 34: know that it's it's just about not losing vision and
20:13
Speaker 34: not losing sight of what you're what you're trying to accomplish,
20:15
Speaker 34: no matter what hurts you have to go through. So
20:18
Speaker 34: I think that kind of relates to whatever you're doing,
20:22
Speaker 34: whatever you know, major you're chosen, or what you're interested in.
20:27
Speaker 34: So for me in basketball, and it's about you know,
20:31
Speaker 34: visualizing whether you write it down, put it on the wall,
20:33
Speaker 34: do something, what what what your goals are and get
20:36
Speaker 34: lost in the process of day to day, grind, day
20:38
Speaker 34: to day, getting better every single day, asking questions, aligning
20:43
Speaker 34: yourself with people that have been through it before, that
20:45
Speaker 34: are that are experienced and leaning on that advice, and uh,
20:50
Speaker 34: just trying to outwork the next person.
20:52
Speaker 2: And that's the.
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Speaker 15: Biggest thing great And that's that's one of.
20:55
Speaker 35: The principles that don't complain, don't learn the don't talk negative.
21:01
Speaker 35: That's our average people talk normal. Average people talk problem
21:06
Speaker 35: The greats talk solutions. Average people use their time to
21:10
Speaker 35: why it can play. Average people say it's their boss fart,
21:14
Speaker 35: it's their mother's fat.
21:15
Speaker 4: Here's their average people.
21:17
Speaker 2: I used to be average.
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Speaker 35: I used to say, when is my daddy coming to
21:20
Speaker 35: get me? When is my biological father gonna come in
21:23
Speaker 35: my life? And when I would talk like that, I
21:26
Speaker 35: ended up getting kicked out of school. And while I
21:27
Speaker 35: talk like that, I end up being homeless. And why
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Speaker 35: I talk like that?
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Speaker 4: I was broke.
21:32
Speaker 35: And then one day I woke up and said, Eric,
21:34
Speaker 35: nobody's coming to save you.
21:38
Speaker 36: The truth is whatever game you're playing life sometimes you're
21:41
Speaker 36: going to lose a point, a match, a season, a job.
21:47
Speaker 36: It's a roller coaster with many ups and downs, and
21:49
Speaker 36: it's natural when you're down to doubt yourself and to
21:52
Speaker 36: feel sorry for yourself. You want to become a master
21:56
Speaker 36: at overcoming hard moments. That is to me of a champion,
22:01
Speaker 36: the best in the world, and not the best because
22:03
Speaker 36: they win every point. It's because they know they lose
22:06
Speaker 36: again and again. And I've learned how to deal with it.
22:09
Speaker 36: You accept it, cry it out if you need to.
22:12
Speaker 15: And then force a smile.
22:14
Speaker 2: Just taking more stuff of it.
22:15
Speaker 37: There's blessed in this environment right here to figure out
22:18
Speaker 37: who you are that some elevate some plateau, some don't
22:20
Speaker 37: get better, find your niche well, believe in what you got,
22:24
Speaker 37: push yourself, You challenge yourself.
22:26
Speaker 6: What are you willing to give up? What are you
22:29
Speaker 6: going to sacrifice? What are you willing to forego? Because
22:35
Speaker 6: a lot of people like this guy can't even One time,
22:37
Speaker 6: I was a trainer and he goes, man, I can
22:40
Speaker 6: stop doing anything but my frappuccinos.
22:43
Speaker 4: I go leave because I'm looking for that person like me.
22:49
Speaker 6: People it's hard for people to understand how I lost
22:51
Speaker 6: herndred six pounds in less than three months. I sat
22:55
Speaker 6: down at the table and I said to myself, what
22:58
Speaker 6: are you willing to give up everything? And when people
23:03
Speaker 6: come to me with that kind of mindset, I can
23:05
Speaker 6: work with you. When you are willing to strip yourself
23:09
Speaker 6: down to nothing and get everything, That's who I want
23:14
Speaker 6: to work with, because now I can mold you into
23:18
Speaker 6: exactly who you want to be.
23:21
Speaker 18: You think you got so much time, man, Like you
23:26
Speaker 18: think you got so much time.
23:29
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
23:29
Speaker 18: Just in life, I woke up knowing that man can
23:33
Speaker 18: change pretty quick.
23:34
Speaker 15: Like you can wake up on top of the world.
23:36
Speaker 18: You can go to sleep and wake up the world
23:38
Speaker 18: can be on top of your ass, and you can
23:39
Speaker 18: have no.
23:39
Speaker 4: Control over right, Like, That's just how life works.
23:43
Speaker 18: And so we think as if we have time.
23:45
Speaker 2: Like the will to not lose is more important than
23:48
Speaker 2: the will is to win.
23:49
Speaker 18: Yes, right, yep, you know the cold thing about life
23:53
Speaker 18: both And I tell I tell teams this all the time.
23:57
Speaker 18: I tell my children this. When I win and a
24:00
Speaker 18: loser first show up, they both got the exact same goal.
24:04
Speaker 18: Like when a winn and a loser show up, both
24:05
Speaker 18: of them along the victory yep. But somewhere along the process,
24:09
Speaker 18: when adversity, opposition, change uncertainty is present, somebody focuses on
24:14
Speaker 18: the outcome, and somebody focuses on the systems and the
24:17
Speaker 18: processes that drive the outcome.
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Speaker 16: The world is there for the taking for anyone who
24:23
Speaker 16: can learn from their mistakes, do what they say they
24:25
Speaker 16: were going to do, and stick with it, even if
24:28
Speaker 16: it's not sexy. What used to make them unacceptable now
24:31
Speaker 16: makes you extraordinary. The bath winning has never been so.
24:35
Speaker 18: Low where somebody looks at hey, man, this is going
24:38
Speaker 18: to drive victory. Let's stay true, let's stay calm, let's
24:41
Speaker 18: stay together, let's stay positive, keep our perspective in order,
24:45
Speaker 18: and we'll get to where we're trying to go. Somebody
24:48
Speaker 18: else in the midst of the adversity opposition change challenge.
24:51
Speaker 2: Man is his fault. Man, it's her fault.
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Speaker 38: Man.
24:55
Speaker 2: If we were to did this, we'll be here.
24:57
Speaker 18: And it takes your focus off the goal out of
25:00
Speaker 18: it takes your focus off of what's important and what
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Speaker 18: you're trying to accomplish. Right, and so stay locked in
25:06
Speaker 18: and stay focused.
25:06
Speaker 2: Many figure out how.
25:08
Speaker 6: To get around it, through it, above it, climb over it,
25:13
Speaker 6: so those limits, I'm always, as I said, I taught
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Speaker 6: myself how to fail.
25:18
Speaker 4: I'm always curtain on that like limit.
25:21
Speaker 6: Of like hey, I'm there, I'm there, I'm there, I'm there. Okay,
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Speaker 6: I failed, but I was right there?
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Speaker 2: Would I miss? Did I miss? Oh?
25:30
Speaker 15: That's what I missed?
25:32
Speaker 39: And then it happens, maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow,
25:37
Speaker 39: and maybe not the next month.
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Speaker 7: Better, only one thing is through. I will be jumping
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Speaker 7: one day, I promise. I promise.
25:46
Speaker 14: You can accept that the work that you have done
25:49
Speaker 14: has created the outcome that you've created, but you do
25:51
Speaker 14: not need to accept that the outcome that you've created
25:54
Speaker 14: is the end all, be all, in.
25:55
Speaker 15: The last outcome that you need to need to have.
25:57
Speaker 14: And so for me, like the only version of acceptance
26:00
Speaker 14: that I have is that I accept that the version
26:03
Speaker 14: of myself that I want to be is so far
26:06
Speaker 14: from who I am that I have this massive discrepancy
26:09
Speaker 14: that I have to overcome, and then just breaking that
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Speaker 14: down one step at a time and thinking I don't
26:16
Speaker 14: deserve to be that man, but I can still do
26:19
Speaker 14: the things that can create it. And that also means
26:22
Speaker 14: that I have to go through the circumstances that that
26:24
Speaker 14: would create that man, which means that if I have unbelievable,
26:27
Speaker 14: big dreams and big goals, then I have to go
26:29
Speaker 14: through hard times.
26:30
Speaker 15: It's like hate. The hard times are a requisite for success.
26:35
Speaker 14: And so if you're going through hard times right now,
26:37
Speaker 14: it means that you're on the path to success. And
26:39
Speaker 14: it's not that you're on the wrong path, it's the
26:41
Speaker 14: feeling of being on the right path.
26:44
Speaker 40: One of the most important things never ever quit. Never quit.
26:49
Speaker 40: I've watched some of the most incredible, brilliant students and
26:53
Speaker 40: they didn't make it like other people made it because
26:57
Speaker 40: they didn't have that drive.
26:58
Speaker 4: They didn't have that.
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Speaker 40: Never give up ability. I don't know if it's an
27:04
Speaker 40: ability or if you have it just you can't quit.
27:09
Speaker 2: Maybe I can be that.
27:12
Speaker 6: And after becoming this guy, that is the biggest thing
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Speaker 6: I can ever do in my life is I became
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Speaker 6: that guy that I once looked at.
27:22
Speaker 4: All these guys now look at myself like.
27:24
Speaker 2: Who the fuck do that?
27:26
Speaker 3: I can?
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Speaker 6: But what it takes is a discipline that no one
27:31
Speaker 6: can ever even they don't understand it.
27:36
Speaker 2: Is that your success.
27:37
Speaker 32: It's like a spotlight shining down on their misopportunities.
27:40
Speaker 15: Success.
27:41
Speaker 2: Many will love you for it.
27:43
Speaker 32: The majority will hate you because your success makes them
27:48
Speaker 32: feel insufficient in.
27:50
Speaker 2: Their current endeavor, reminds them of.
27:52
Speaker 32: Where they could have done it, but they came up short,
27:53
Speaker 32: and how they didn't revisit it.
27:55
Speaker 4: Where they went at.
27:56
Speaker 1: And failed and fail you is what stood and never
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Speaker 1: revisited it again.
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Speaker 8: After a certain point, you gotta prioritize accordingly. When you
28:07
Speaker 8: get to a certain point where the decisions that can
28:09
Speaker 8: be made are a little more controlled and you have
28:13
Speaker 8: the ability to maneuver differently because of the success that
28:15
Speaker 8: you've obtained, make those adjustments.
28:19
Speaker 4: I didn't make those adjustments. I was still hustle. Hustle hustling.
28:23
Speaker 19: Feelings has nothing to do with it. This is my dream.
28:28
Speaker 19: This is what I'm going to do, and I'm going
28:31
Speaker 19: to do the things that I don't feel like doing.
28:34
Speaker 19: I'm gonna do the things I don't want to do.
28:36
Speaker 19: I'm gonna do the things that don't come easy to me,
28:39
Speaker 19: that do not come natural to me.
28:42
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get up and do it.
28:45
Speaker 19: You can't live your life on feelings. You're gonna have feelings, okay,
28:50
Speaker 19: but you cannot let your feelings dictate what you are
28:54
Speaker 19: or are not going to do.
28:57
Speaker 2: The truth comes out.
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Speaker 7: The truth is powerful as it's real, it's tangible.
29:05
Speaker 6: I feel it, it comes out of my brain as
29:08
Speaker 6: I speak about it. I'm reliving every single dark moment
29:12
Speaker 6: of my life.
29:14
Speaker 7: To be here.
29:16
Speaker 14: I think most people have the potential to be exceptional,
29:19
Speaker 14: because most people are peculiar in their own way. They
29:21
Speaker 14: just stifle that because they want to be accepted by
29:25
Speaker 14: most people, but in so doing never accomplish what they
29:28
Speaker 14: want to do because they conform.
29:31
Speaker 2: We see you as a real confident guy. You'll take
29:33
Speaker 2: every last shot.
29:35
Speaker 4: You'll go out and you'll take fifty shots. What doubts
29:38
Speaker 4: do you have about yourself internally?
29:41
Speaker 38: You know, go be times when you succeed. There are
29:43
Speaker 38: times that you feel so wasting your time. Doubting whether
29:48
Speaker 38: you're going to be successful or not is pointless. It
29:51
Speaker 38: is you just put one foot in front of the other.
29:53
Speaker 38: You control what you can't control, and then you see what.
29:56
Speaker 2: The outcome is.
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Speaker 30: Right.
29:58
Speaker 38: If you win, great, You're going to have the wake
30:00
Speaker 38: up the next day and do the journey over again.
30:02
Speaker 38: If you lose, sucks, but you gonna have to wake
30:04
Speaker 38: up the next day and do the journey all over again.
30:05
Speaker 2: Anyway.
30:06
Speaker 38: Right, So it's really pointless to sit here in debate
30:09
Speaker 38: or have doubt or this, that and the other. You
30:11
Speaker 38: train as hard as you can, and you step out
30:13
Speaker 38: there and you let it flow.
30:15
Speaker 1: Why not you with good self esteem? Why not you
30:19
Speaker 1: starting to change and setting goals? Why not you starting
30:23
Speaker 1: to make progress toward financial independence. If I can do it,
30:27
Speaker 1: you can do it. If we can read, you can read.
30:30
Speaker 1: If we can change, you can change. If we can
30:33
Speaker 1: figure it out, you can figure it out. If we
30:34
Speaker 1: can turn it around, you can turn it around. There
30:37
Speaker 1: isn't anything you can accomplish. That's what those testimonials would say.
30:41
Speaker 1: And so I want to say it to you personally.
30:43
Speaker 1: Why not you.
30:45
Speaker 2: You've got your life ahead of you, You've got the future.
30:47
Speaker 1: You can do it. If anybody can do it, you
30:49
Speaker 1: can do it. If one of us can do it, hey,
30:51
Speaker 1: we all can do.
30:51
Speaker 2: It, says I noticed. Transformation is painful.
30:56
Speaker 18: You're not falling apart, You're falling into something different, with
31:00
Speaker 18: a new capacity.
31:02
Speaker 2: To be beautiful.
31:03
Speaker 18: Always think man in terms of capacity. You could take
31:07
Speaker 18: a cat that's talented, skillful, gifted with the wrong perspective,
31:13
Speaker 18: taking an individual that's not as talented not as gifted,
31:17
Speaker 18: not as skillful with the correct perspective, and the cat
31:21
Speaker 18: with the correct perspective and less talent will annihilate the
31:24
Speaker 18: cat with the high talent that whin the wrong perspective
31:27
Speaker 18: every day of the week because their perspective about what
31:30
Speaker 18: they're doing is different.
31:33
Speaker 13: You had that potential when you see somebody doing something
31:38
Speaker 13: and it makes you feel like, oh, I can do that.
31:40
Speaker 2: I could be that guy.
31:42
Speaker 41: You know, greatness is not meant for a few chosen people.
31:45
Speaker 41: It's meant for those who persistently pursue their dreams every
31:48
Speaker 41: day and make that choice when they wake up.
31:50
Speaker 2: So just a mentality.
31:53
Speaker 41: Really aspirations come from people that do amazing things, but
31:57
Speaker 41: they're really ordinary people, just waking up very day doing it,
32:01
Speaker 41: doing a little things that other people aren't doing.
32:03
Speaker 11: So mean, I could be something that wasn't blown over
32:07
Speaker 11: by the first four foot wave. You grow in proportion
32:12
Speaker 11: to the weight you take on voluntarily. And it's also
32:15
Speaker 11: true that we have no idea what the upper limit
32:17
Speaker 11: to that is. People can do remarkable things, and there
32:20
Speaker 11: are inevitably people who took on remarkable burdens, and because
32:25
Speaker 11: they did that, their development was forced by necessity. They
32:29
Speaker 11: were forced by necessity to grow beyond what they were,
32:34
Speaker 11: and who knows what the limit to that is.
32:38
Speaker 38: You know the best way to predict the future, it's
32:43
Speaker 38: the creator.
32:45
Speaker 16: This is probably one of the heaviest hamma blows I
32:48
Speaker 16: think today, this next one. You've already achieved goals you
32:52
Speaker 16: said would make you happy. You've already achieved goals you
32:58
Speaker 16: said would make you happy. How can you presume that
33:03
Speaker 16: your happiness sits on the next side of the next
33:06
Speaker 16: set of goals, given that right now you are on
33:09
Speaker 16: the other side of your last set of goals.
33:11
Speaker 13: No matter how much emotion and feeling you may have,
33:14
Speaker 13: or how much hurt you may have, life has to
33:15
Speaker 13: go on.
33:16
Speaker 4: Life doesn't stop anybody.
33:17
Speaker 13: So if you don't process that and understand that you're
33:20
Speaker 13: stuck in whatever time period you got hurt forever forever, sir, Yes, sir, yes,
33:25
Speaker 13: so grudges and anger and negativity. I don't have time
33:29
Speaker 13: for it because I'm living to do so much positive
33:33
Speaker 13: thing right that's positive outlook on everything else is coming
33:37
Speaker 13: in the future.
33:38
Speaker 2: I can't.
33:39
Speaker 4: I can't stand in the past and bathe in what
33:42
Speaker 4: was wrong.
33:42
Speaker 2: You have to become obsessed. You have to become obsessed.
33:46
Speaker 2: This has to become an obsession of yours. You know,
33:48
Speaker 2: our obsessions become our possessions.
33:50
Speaker 31: And the truth of the matter is that most of
33:52
Speaker 31: you don't understand the effort, the time, the focus, the
33:54
Speaker 31: obsessiveness that's required to do something great with your life.
33:57
Speaker 2: You want to do something great, and you better be
33:59
Speaker 2: great at it.
34:00
Speaker 31: Greatness rises, but you have to get great, and you
34:03
Speaker 31: have to be intentional.
34:04
Speaker 42: You have to be obsessive, find the things that you
34:06
Speaker 42: can enjoy. Be curious. You don't have to have all
34:09
Speaker 42: the answers. I'm a hardcore believer that everybody has something
34:15
Speaker 42: that they're really, really, really good at that could be
34:19
Speaker 42: world class great every single human being on this planet,
34:22
Speaker 42: and the hard part is just finding what that is
34:24
Speaker 42: and in some places having resources to enable it. But
34:30
Speaker 42: be curious so you can find it what it is.
34:32
Speaker 43: If you can get a mental image of the person
34:34
Speaker 43: you would most like to become, begin now to act
34:37
Speaker 43: as that person would act, and everything you do gradually, imperceptibly,
34:41
Speaker 43: you will actually become that person. It goes back to
34:44
Speaker 43: what the great German poet and philosopher Gerta once said,
34:48
Speaker 43: before you can do something. You must first be something
34:52
Speaker 43: before you can do what you would most like to do,
34:54
Speaker 43: you must first become the person who can do.
34:56
Speaker 27: It, or one decision away from changing your life, and
35:00
Speaker 27: you have to accept that you're one new meeting, one
35:02
Speaker 27: new relationship, one new contact, one new action, one new
35:07
Speaker 27: decision away from shifting your life from where it is
35:10
Speaker 27: right now to a totally different place. So what's the
35:13
Speaker 27: decision you already know? I could go backstage now, there's
35:16
Speaker 27: something you've been hesitating on. There's a contact you need
35:20
Speaker 27: to make, isn't there there's a job you need to quit,
35:22
Speaker 27: There's a relationship you need to engage in. Maybe there's
35:24
Speaker 27: a relationship you need to leave. I don't know what
35:27
Speaker 27: it is, but I know there's a decision that you
35:29
Speaker 27: need to make to take you to the next level,
35:32
Speaker 27: just like I know that's true for me, because decisions
35:35
Speaker 27: shape our destiny when they're backed up by some massive action.
35:39
Speaker 14: One of my most powerful motivational frames is thinking about
35:42
Speaker 14: the person that I want to become as the destination
35:45
Speaker 14: and thinking like I want to be bulletproof.
35:49
Speaker 15: I want to be bulletproof in these ways.
35:50
Speaker 14: I want to be bulletproof in my marriage, I want
35:53
Speaker 14: to be bulletproof in my business, etc. And I think
35:56
Speaker 14: about that man, whoever I want him to be. Like
35:58
Speaker 14: we said, hell is when you look at whom you
36:00
Speaker 14: could have been and realize that you're not that person.
36:03
Speaker 14: And then I think, if I were to make that man,
36:06
Speaker 14: what would I put that man through to make him
36:09
Speaker 14: who he is?
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Speaker 22: Like?
36:11
Speaker 14: It wouldn't be easy times. It wouldn't be quick wins.
36:14
Speaker 14: It wouldn't even be easy wins. It would be the
36:18
Speaker 14: toil and the struggle of achieving and reaching for things
36:24
Speaker 14: that are right out of grasp, that are right above
36:27
Speaker 14: my threshold, and continuing to do that, to like lift
36:30
Speaker 14: the weight, to build the muscle, to break it down
36:31
Speaker 14: and do it over and over again, because that's what
36:33
Speaker 14: creates the character traits that are the man that I
36:35
Speaker 14: want to be. And so when I'm going through there
36:38
Speaker 14: was like really harder times. I like to think of
36:42
Speaker 14: looking in my mental mirror of like I'm making you.
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Speaker 14: I'm not there yet, but I'm making you, and say,
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Speaker 14: where are you going to go to college? What are
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Speaker 14: you going to do for the rest of your life?
36:53
Speaker 44: Get used to having the need to self govern yourself,
36:59
Speaker 44: you know, to be able to employ self discipline or not,
37:04
Speaker 44: or you realize, oh my god, I are you that
37:08
Speaker 44: type of person or are you a type of person
37:10
Speaker 44: that wants more freedom in your life.
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Speaker 5: The man's greatest burden is unfulfilled potential. Okay, I mean
37:18
Speaker 5: we have so much more within us. Listen more, get
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Speaker 5: off your debt as to take you know, most people
37:24
Speaker 5: are living quiet lives of desperation. I hate to tell you,
37:28
Speaker 5: or as the bread say, I don't like to tell you,
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Speaker 5: but that's the truth.
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Speaker 2: And if you think any different, you're fooling yourself. Basically,
37:36
Speaker 2: you gotta trust the process.
37:38
Speaker 45: Trusting the process meaning you have to trust that whatever
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Speaker 45: you're trying to overcome or get through, or the person
37:44
Speaker 45: you're trying to become or be, you have to trust
37:49
Speaker 45: the process of you getting there, Trust that you're going
37:52
Speaker 45: to get through it and you're gonna become that person
37:54
Speaker 45: that you need or wanting to become.
37:57
Speaker 4: She's pretty much telling me, you ain't get what it
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Speaker 4: takes versus taking what.
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Speaker 39: He said, all the negativity he's putting on me because
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Speaker 39: he can't he can't imagine himself doing what I'm about
38:08
Speaker 39: to do. So most people who can't imagine it, they
38:13
Speaker 39: reflect it's like a mirror.
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Speaker 4: They put that right on you.
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Speaker 7: If they can't see themselves doing it.
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Speaker 12: I can't see you doing it. I take that mirror
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Speaker 12: and I totally discard it.
38:23
Speaker 46: I say, what if Danzel said to me a few
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Speaker 46: minutes ago, he said, at your highest moment, be careful.
38:30
Speaker 2: That's when the devil comes for you.
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Speaker 4: The greatest version of you.
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Speaker 47: It's not the I can do anything version of you,
38:41
Speaker 47: the greatest version of you. It's the disciplined version of you,
38:46
Speaker 47: the greatest version of you.
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Speaker 4: It's the version that has parameters.
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Speaker 48: No, I don't do that. I don't drink that. I
38:51
Speaker 48: don't go there with these people. I'm focused. I have
38:55
Speaker 48: a prize that's in front of me. I know what
38:57
Speaker 48: I'm supposed to do, and that ain't it. You have
39:00
Speaker 48: to stay right here. It's the version of you that
39:03
Speaker 48: has parameters.
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Speaker 8: You.
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Speaker 49: Eventually you are going to have to jump. You cannot
39:12
Speaker 49: just exist in this life. You have got to try
39:16
Speaker 49: to live. If you are waking up thinking that it's
39:20
Speaker 49: got to be more to your life than it is, man,
39:23
Speaker 49: believe that it is. Believe in your heart or hearts
39:26
Speaker 49: that it is. But to get to that life, you're
39:30
Speaker 49: gonna have to jump.
39:32
Speaker 4: You've got the brains.
39:34
Speaker 1: You can make decisions, you can study the plan. You
39:38
Speaker 1: can change your life. You can grow immensely in the
39:42
Speaker 1: next few years. You can make your dreams come true.
39:45
Speaker 1: You can build a financial wall around your family nothing
39:48
Speaker 1: can get through. You can become healthy, You can become powerful.
39:52
Speaker 1: Why not you?
39:54
Speaker 4: Why not you be the.
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Speaker 50: One to make it, to start that business?
39:59
Speaker 3: To do?
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Speaker 2: Are they are possible to deal with?
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Speaker 35: People don't even think that anybody could do?
40:06
Speaker 4: Why can't it be you?
40:08
Speaker 15: Minute?
40:08
Speaker 51: If you can see it here and you have the
40:11
Speaker 51: courage enough to speak it, it will happen.
40:15
Speaker 52: So intentionally act like the person you want to become.
40:19
Speaker 52: Because when you intentionally act like the person you want
40:22
Speaker 52: to become, your brain sees you taking those actions. So
40:26
Speaker 52: your brain starts to change the way it relates to you.
40:30
Speaker 52: When your brain sees you high fiving yourself in the mirror,
40:34
Speaker 52: it starts to go, oh, wait a minute, Stephen loves himself.
40:41
Speaker 4: Steven's hearing for himself. We don't beat Stephen up.
40:44
Speaker 2: You need to just keep living.
40:46
Speaker 4: Listen to the pain. It's both history teaching what you tell.
40:51
Speaker 4: Pain teaches us who we all wait.
40:55
Speaker 24: Sometimes it's so bad and you feel like, wait, diet, Well,
40:59
Speaker 24: we can't really live till we diet a little, Kim.
41:02
Speaker 53: There's no worldly possessions that should come between you and
41:07
Speaker 53: your expression human beings. Where a blip in existence death
41:15
Speaker 53: is promised.
41:17
Speaker 16: There's a quote that I've fallen in love with. The
41:19
Speaker 16: magic you are looking for is in the work you're
41:22
Speaker 16: avoiding to hear. The magic you are looking for is
41:25
Speaker 16: in the work you're avoiding it.
41:27
Speaker 51: A lot of times people believe in certain things, but
41:29
Speaker 51: they keep to themselves.
41:31
Speaker 15: They don't put it out there.
41:33
Speaker 4: You truly believe in it.
41:34
Speaker 2: If you become.
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Speaker 51: Vocal with it, you are creating that law of attraction
41:39
Speaker 51: and it will become reality.
41:41
Speaker 16: The more I listen to this, the better my life gets.
41:45
Speaker 16: If they don't have what you want, don't listen to
41:47
Speaker 16: what they say. There's no greater waste of time than
41:52
Speaker 16: justifying your actions to people who have a life you
41:55
Speaker 16: don't want.
41:57
Speaker 12: If the what if I can pull off a miracle?
42:01
Speaker 12: What if I can become someone that no one thinks
42:04
Speaker 12: I can be? And just me talking about that, I
42:08
Speaker 12: have the hair going up on my arms because it
42:10
Speaker 12: makes me just like.
42:11
Speaker 4: What if I can be that guy that.
42:14
Speaker 12: People who call this and that, And now I'm speaking
42:18
Speaker 12: at Tom Faerbie's event.
42:23
Speaker 1: Why not you? Why not you with good self esteem?
42:28
Speaker 1: Why not you starting to change and setting goals? Why
42:31
Speaker 1: not you starting to make progress toward financial independence?
42:36
Speaker 2: Now, if I can do it, you can do it.
42:38
Speaker 54: If there is something that you feel is good, something
42:41
Speaker 54: you want to do, something that needs something to you,
42:46
Speaker 54: try to do it. Because I think you can only
42:50
Speaker 54: do your best work if you're doing what you want
42:54
Speaker 54: to do, and if you're doing it the way you
42:57
Speaker 54: think it should be done, and if you can take
43:00
Speaker 54: pride in and if they have done it, no matter
43:02
Speaker 54: what it is.
43:04
Speaker 29: In life, folks, you cannot change your life unless.
43:09
Speaker 2: You change something.
43:13
Speaker 29: If you always do what you always did, you'll always
43:16
Speaker 29: get what you always got, no matter what it is.
43:21
Speaker 29: Many times you set yourself, I gotta lose weight, I
43:23
Speaker 29: gotta lose weight.
43:23
Speaker 2: I'm too fair, And.
43:25
Speaker 29: Then you know what, during the day you eat, you
43:28
Speaker 29: eat at night, and the next day you get married
43:30
Speaker 29: at yourself.
43:30
Speaker 4: Well, what do you want?
43:33
Speaker 2: What do you want?
43:33
Speaker 4: You gotta change something.
43:35
Speaker 51: I truly believe we are all equal as human beings.
43:38
Speaker 51: If we are obsessed with something and we truly pursue
43:41
Speaker 51: our passion with everything we have, regardless of any anything else.
43:46
Speaker 51: If you are obsessed, work hard, put in the time,
43:49
Speaker 51: you will succeed.
43:49
Speaker 6: I don't be afraid to fail big, to dream big.
43:55
Speaker 4: But remember, dreams without goals.
44:01
Speaker 2: Are just dreams.
44:04
Speaker 16: The real pain in life is getting to the end
44:06
Speaker 16: of it and realizing that you like something on the table.
44:08
Speaker 16: I think that I had unfulfilled potential. I could have
44:11
Speaker 16: done more undidentical right.
44:13
Speaker 6: If you want to be great, you want to be
44:16
Speaker 6: best ever at which you do, You're gonna be misunderstood
44:20
Speaker 6: of everybody because you're gonna be so obsessed and so
44:24
Speaker 6: driven to get there.
44:25
Speaker 15: That's what it takes. That's true.
44:26
Speaker 6: It takes you every second of your If anybody says balance, yeah,
44:30
Speaker 6: balance is supportant for a lot of people.
44:32
Speaker 2: It is.
44:33
Speaker 4: But if you want to go to.
44:34
Speaker 12: That edge where people do not like you, you don't understand,
44:37
Speaker 12: you question everything you do.
44:39
Speaker 2: But you've arrived when you.
44:41
Speaker 6: Are misunderstood to the point where people think you're psycho,
44:44
Speaker 6: you're nuts, and you're this and that.
44:46
Speaker 4: Why are you in the gym at one o'clock in
44:48
Speaker 4: the good morning.
44:49
Speaker 6: You's got to doing an op for thirteen fourteen hours
44:53
Speaker 6: after Ranger school Man at the.
44:55
Speaker 2: Gym is raw.
44:57
Speaker 4: You will never understand which is wrong with you.
45:00
Speaker 2: Do you actually want to do this or not? Do
45:03
Speaker 2: you actually want to do this or not? Because if
45:06
Speaker 2: you actually want to do it, what's going to stop you? Nothing?
45:09
Speaker 2: And if you don't really want to do it, what's
45:12
Speaker 2: going to stop you? Just about anything that comes up.
45:15
Speaker 54: If you have an idea that you senduine when you
45:20
Speaker 54: think it's good, don't let something in and talk.
45:23
Speaker 43: You're wide at it.
45:26
Speaker 2: It's time to stay focused.
45:28
Speaker 55: It's time to decide clubs, party and trying to fit
45:33
Speaker 55: in and socialize. Rub elbows with everybody so people can
45:38
Speaker 55: stop calling you weird. Why are you so anti social
45:43
Speaker 55: because I'm trying to get it? Why are you staying
45:45
Speaker 55: on the basketball court so much because I'm trying to
45:48
Speaker 55: get it? Why are you out there practicing in the
45:51
Speaker 55: hot sun when ain't nobody else out there because I'm
45:54
Speaker 55: trying to get it?
45:55
Speaker 2: Why are you not clubbing?
45:56
Speaker 55: Like every time I text you and invite you to
45:58
Speaker 55: go do some fun cool, you always study it because
46:02
Speaker 55: I'm trying to get it.
46:04
Speaker 16: It's most socially acceptable to be our own biggest critic
46:07
Speaker 16: than it is to be our own biggest cheerleader.
46:10
Speaker 1: Why we all ask why you should work this hard?
46:14
Speaker 1: Why take that many classes?
46:17
Speaker 2: Why go to school at many years? You know?
46:19
Speaker 1: Why take the notes?
46:21
Speaker 2: Why read the books? Why work that hard?
46:24
Speaker 1: Why put yourself to the pushups and the disciplines?
46:27
Speaker 2: Why?
46:27
Speaker 4: Good question?
46:28
Speaker 5: Mark?
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Speaker 1: The best answer to why, I think is the second not?
46:33
Speaker 15: Why not?
46:35
Speaker 1: Why not see how many books you can read, how
46:37
Speaker 1: many classes you can take, how many schools you can
46:39
Speaker 1: get them? Why not see how valuable you can become
46:42
Speaker 1: to the marketplace, to your friends, to your family. Why
46:46
Speaker 1: not see what you can make you yourself? Why not
46:48
Speaker 1: see how far you can go, how much you can see,
46:51
Speaker 1: how much you can earn, how much you can share?
46:54
Speaker 2: Why not?
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Speaker 1: That's the characage all of us have in America, especially
46:59
Speaker 1: as to see what we can make out of our
47:00
Speaker 1: lives now that we've been given us extraordinary opportunity.
47:05
Speaker 56: Let me tell you something, homey, these women ain't going nowhere,
47:09
Speaker 56: These clubs, these parties, all this going nowhere. The more
47:14
Speaker 56: weird you are is a reflection of how committed you
47:19
Speaker 56: are to focusing on your molding and shaping and developing
47:23
Speaker 56: your ideas and your crab so that when it's time
47:26
Speaker 56: for you to make your rounds, you're gonna fly.
47:29
Speaker 26: If you want to become successful in life, young man,
47:32
Speaker 26: he said. Number one, you've got to change your mind set.
47:36
Speaker 26: He said, you don't get in life what you want.
47:38
Speaker 26: You get in life what you are.
47:40
Speaker 16: You're not afraid of failing. You're afraid of what other
47:42
Speaker 16: people will think of you if you fail. But if
47:45
Speaker 16: you're afraid of that, imagine what they think of you
47:48
Speaker 16: when you want to even trying me. Oh yeah, they aren't.
47:51
Speaker 4: The quote goes like this one day or.
47:57
Speaker 2: Day one greatness.
48:00
Speaker 46: It's something that truly exists and all of us. It's
48:04
Speaker 46: very simple. This is what I believe, and I'm willing
48:11
Speaker 46: to die for you.
48:13
Speaker 43: Peer.
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Speaker 1: Then I'll tell you what changed my whole life when
48:15
Speaker 1: I finally discovered it's all risky.
48:21
Speaker 4: The minute you were born, at that risky.
48:24
Speaker 7: If you think.
48:24
Speaker 1: Trying is risky, wait till they hand you the bill
48:27
Speaker 1: for not trying. If you think investing is risky, wait
48:32
Speaker 1: till you get the tab we're not investing. See, it's
48:34
Speaker 1: all risky. Getting married is risky, having children is risky.
48:37
Speaker 1: Going into business is risky. Investing your money is risky.
48:40
Speaker 2: It's all risky. I'll tell you how risky life is.
48:45
Speaker 4: You're not going to get out alive.
48:49
Speaker 57: The first step before anybody else in the world believes
48:53
Speaker 57: it is you have to believe it.
48:55
Speaker 46: There's no reason to have a plan be because it
48:57
Speaker 46: distracts from plan A.
48:59
Speaker 1: Starting tomorrow, Oh, what are you going to do that'll
49:02
Speaker 1: make a change in your life's direction? Good question. What
49:07
Speaker 1: are you going to do starting tomorrow that'll make a
49:09
Speaker 1: different Now, see if you don't do something starting tomorrow
49:13
Speaker 1: that'll make a difference.
49:14
Speaker 4: Guess what.
49:16
Speaker 1: It's gonna be the same and see that way you
49:19
Speaker 1: can guess what the next five years are going to
49:21
Speaker 1: be like. Look at the last five, because the next
49:24
Speaker 1: five are going to be like the last five unless
49:26
Speaker 1: you made your key tomorrow, change it all or change
49:30
Speaker 1: a little, or change something or don't change. It's choice time.
49:34
Speaker 1: You can do whatever you want. But it's nice to
49:37
Speaker 1: know any day you wish you could change your whole life.
49:40
Speaker 16: Stop complaining about the results you didn't get from the
49:43
Speaker 16: work you didn't put in. The only way to become
49:46
Speaker 16: most successful than most people is to be willing to
49:48
Speaker 16: do something most people aren't willing to do.
49:52
Speaker 8: So.
49:53
Speaker 58: I want to ask you a question, what are you
49:56
Speaker 58: afraid of? What are you scared of? Because we all
50:01
Speaker 58: have fears, don't we. We all have something that's blocking us,
50:05
Speaker 58: that's holding us back.
50:08
Speaker 24: And as we begin to look at life, what we
50:12
Speaker 24: realize is that the reason that most people are not
50:16
Speaker 24: living out their true potential and not doing all of.
50:20
Speaker 4: The things that they would really like to do, it
50:23
Speaker 4: just because of fear.
50:25
Speaker 1: The big question is what am I becoming here? Because
50:29
Speaker 1: true happiness is not contained and what you get happiness
50:34
Speaker 1: is contained and what you've become here's the big challenge
50:38
Speaker 1: of life. You can have more than you've got because
50:41
Speaker 1: you can become more than you are.
50:43
Speaker 15: That's the gentleman.
50:44
Speaker 1: And of course the other side of the coin reads,
50:46
Speaker 1: unless you change how you are, you'll always have what
50:49
Speaker 1: you got.
50:50
Speaker 15: How don't what you ever tell me is something that
50:52
Speaker 15: you can't do.
50:54
Speaker 16: The heaviest things in life on't iron and gold, but
50:57
Speaker 16: unmade decisions. The reason you are stressed is that you
51:00
Speaker 16: have decisions to make and you're not making them.
51:04
Speaker 57: I think that there's a certain delusional quality that all
51:11
Speaker 57: successful people have to have.
51:15
Speaker 4: You have to believe that something different can happen.
51:18
Speaker 46: Confucius said, he who says he can and he who
51:23
Speaker 46: says he.
51:23
Speaker 2: Can't are both usually right.
51:26
Speaker 16: If you fake bravery when you're terrified, that is bravery.
51:31
Speaker 16: And I kind of feel like motivation is the same thing.
51:35
Speaker 16: If you do the thing when you're feeling unmotivated, that
51:37
Speaker 16: is motivation.
51:38
Speaker 2: That's it.
51:39
Speaker 57: Being realistic is the most commonly travel road to mediocrity.
51:44
Speaker 2: Why would you be realistic?
51:47
Speaker 4: Sometimes life can.
51:48
Speaker 2: Really hijack your mind.
51:50
Speaker 6: When that happens to you, you're off your goals, you're ambitious,
51:54
Speaker 6: everything is out the window in life. We all go
51:57
Speaker 6: through different things. Sometimes your girl from a boyfriend breaks
52:00
Speaker 6: up with you. Guess what, Get the over it? They
52:02
Speaker 6: no longer wants you. Maybe you fell a test in school,
52:05
Speaker 6: You work yourself. Guess what you feel at the test.
52:08
Speaker 6: Get over it, move past it. Learn to not let
52:11
Speaker 6: life hijack your brain. At work, you can work us
52:14
Speaker 6: off that new promotion. You don't get it, someone else does.
52:17
Speaker 6: Maybe it gets better than you do.
52:19
Speaker 2: Guess what. Get over it.
52:21
Speaker 4: Life will hijack your mind if you let it.
52:23
Speaker 2: Don't allow all these.
52:25
Speaker 4: Things to make you a lesser person. You must own
52:28
Speaker 4: your mind. Don't let life own yours.
52:31
Speaker 50: You love this game, I mean love it with your
52:34
Speaker 50: whole heart, because if you don't, let's not even bother.
52:41
Speaker 50: Let's not open that door. They're just gonna slam it
52:43
Speaker 50: right in our face. I love this game. I live
52:47
Speaker 50: this game. There's a thousand other guys waiting in the
52:51
Speaker 50: wings who are obsessed with this game. Obsession is gonna
52:57
Speaker 50: be talent every time, all the talent in the world.
53:01
Speaker 2: But are you obsessed? Is it all you ever think about?
53:05
Speaker 4: Let's face it, it's you against you out there.
53:09
Speaker 50: When you walk on that court, you have to think
53:12
Speaker 50: I am the best guy out there.
53:14
Speaker 18: You're always afraid to take the first step because all
53:16
Speaker 18: you see is every negative thing ten miles down the road.
53:20
Speaker 2: But you can do anything you want. You are bound
53:22
Speaker 2: by nothing. You know.
53:24
Speaker 16: When you're on the way up, everyone roots for you
53:26
Speaker 16: because you remind them of that dreams. And when you're
53:29
Speaker 16: at the top, everyone tries to tell you down because
53:31
Speaker 16: you remind them of what they gave up on.
53:33
Speaker 22: The unfulfilled potential is the story of most people's lives.
53:37
Speaker 4: It is, it is, and it could have been the
53:40
Speaker 4: story of mine.
53:41
Speaker 6: And I tell a lot of people who people go,
53:42
Speaker 6: what's your biggest fear in life? And my biggest fear,
53:47
Speaker 6: honestly was, let's say this. Let's say I don't care
53:50
Speaker 6: if you believe in God or not.
53:51
Speaker 2: I don't care.
53:52
Speaker 6: So let is play a game with me. Let's say
53:54
Speaker 6: let's say you're God. And we have a big, long
53:57
Speaker 6: line of people. And I made the heavy twenty five
54:00
Speaker 6: years old, three hundred pounds I made to heaven.
54:02
Speaker 4: I worked for equal ab my entire life, spring for cockroaches.
54:05
Speaker 2: That's what I did. But I'm dead.
54:07
Speaker 4: I'm in heaven now and you are at your you're
54:10
Speaker 4: judging us all now. So we're in line. We're all
54:13
Speaker 4: sitting there in lying. You have Adam Brown.
54:17
Speaker 6: He has a big board up and you're talking to
54:19
Speaker 6: Adam Brown about his life and you rip it down.
54:22
Speaker 6: And I'm next in line, David Goggins. I see my name,
54:26
Speaker 6: I see all this. God goes hey, you say read
54:29
Speaker 6: this man, Now, I'm reading this list and I'm seeing
54:32
Speaker 6: one hundred and eighty two pounds Navy Seal Ranger, school
54:38
Speaker 6: motivational speaker, changing lives. Okay, man, pull up record all
54:43
Speaker 6: this and I'm like, that's not me. Man, and God
54:48
Speaker 6: looks at me and says, that's who you were supposed
54:50
Speaker 6: to be.
54:51
Speaker 59: Let me tell you about a voice, not this voice,
54:55
Speaker 59: but the one in the side, the one that whispers.
55:02
Speaker 59: He tells me what's right and what's not, when to
55:06
Speaker 59: leave and where to go. It's not Shakespeare. It does
55:11
Speaker 59: not speak in memorable lines. My inner voice always gives
55:15
Speaker 59: it to me straight, tells me who my real friends are,
55:19
Speaker 59: when to say yes, when to say no, whether the
55:23
Speaker 59: person sitting next to me is the one I'll be
55:25
Speaker 59: spending the rest of my life with.
55:28
Speaker 2: Or not.
55:32
Speaker 59: Sometimes that voice is crystal clear, go, stay right wrong.
55:39
Speaker 59: Sometimes it merely whispers. Don't let it drown in a
55:44
Speaker 59: noisy world, because in the end, no man, woman, or
55:48
Speaker 59: algorithm knows what's right for you. Always trust your inner voice.
55:55
Speaker 59: Everybody has one. You listen to it.
55:59
Speaker 16: You know, when you're on the way up, everyone roots
56:01
Speaker 16: for you because you remind them of that dreams I'm
56:03
Speaker 16: When you're at the top, everyone tries to tell you
56:06
Speaker 16: down because you remind them of what they gave up on.
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Speaker 1: So then my question was, if it isn't going to change,
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Speaker 1: how will my life ever change? When you change, everything
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Speaker 1: will change for you When you get better, everything will
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Speaker 1: get better for you.
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Speaker 60: One half twenty mile week, two thousand pull ups, four thousand.
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Speaker 4: Push ups, and hundreds of reps at the gym.
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Speaker 7: You're not heavy button, you're afraid of the effort.
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Speaker 60: When I was in the military recording the destructor that
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Speaker 60: runs most of the time, we knew the starting endpoint.
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Speaker 7: So on the way back, I start seeing people.
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Speaker 4: Getting happiness because the end was near.
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Speaker 60: When there were some instructors, they would hear the happiness
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Speaker 60: and go.
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Speaker 7: Right on past the endpoint.
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Speaker 60: When that happened, everybody stopped talking, heads to stop dropping,
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Speaker 60: and I start taking souls.
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Speaker 7: At that time, I knew what happened.
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Speaker 4: In their minds.
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Speaker 60: They were living off the hope factor. They hoped thegus
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Speaker 60: structures will stop running.
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Speaker 7: They hope the water was never cold. They hope the
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Speaker 7: weather was good. I don't live out that hope. I
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Speaker 7: wish the water was cold. I wished up. I gotta stretches,
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Speaker 7: keep off running. I wish for grain. When the ending
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Speaker 7: is unknown and the distance is unknown.
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Speaker 61: That's what you know who look you are so through
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Speaker 61: all these things in life, man, to be your best person,
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Speaker 61: you have to find your best self and to do
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Speaker 61: that you can't stay in the coastable world.
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Speaker 2: Like when you're running.
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Speaker 7: I know you eat running, but you do it and
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Speaker 7: you do it very well.
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Speaker 4: Right.
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Speaker 2: Is it something you tell yourself in your hand. It's
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Speaker 2: kind of like a mantra that you keep telling yourself.
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Speaker 7: You had to keep doing it well.
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Speaker 62: Someone tell myself daily. So I make sure I do
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Speaker 62: at least one thing every day that selcks. It could
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Speaker 62: be for an hour, it could be for two, two hours,
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Speaker 62: sometimes for ten hours, but every day I do something
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Speaker 62: to strengthen the mind. We're all looking for this great
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Speaker 62: mythical mental toughness. Mental toughness doesn't come from sitting on
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Speaker 62: the couch. It doesn't come from wishing it will come true.
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Speaker 62: It comes from putting in the work, and you have
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Speaker 62: to start developing your mindset.
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Speaker 4: Mindset is not developed by wishing. Mindset is developed by
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Speaker 4: doing and actually putting into practice. The mind wants to have.
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Speaker 6: Control over you. You need to have control over your
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Speaker 6: own mind. So that's all about the mental health. Your
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Speaker 6: mind's going to always guide you in a spot that
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Speaker 6: wants to make you feel comfortable and nice and secure.
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Speaker 6: And it's in those spots that there's no growth without friction,
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Speaker 6: there's no growth. Judge yourself against no one but yourself,
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Speaker 6: there is no You're racing against no one but yourself.
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Speaker 12: And when you continuously think that you're when you compare
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Speaker 12: yourself to other people, you are losing the race racist
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Speaker 12: you against you man. So don't get caught up in
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Speaker 12: all this here in the social media. And this is
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Speaker 12: what I'm man, this is what I'm doing, and this
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Speaker 12: is how great I am. Leave all that behind, man,
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Speaker 12: worry about yourself.
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Speaker 2: Where about what you're
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Speaker 6: Doing, and where about where you're going, and only where
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Speaker 6: you're going to be your best self