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Married to Medicine: Miss Quad - Before, During & After · Reality with The King

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  Speaker 1: And I think once something is out there and it's
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  Speaker 1: not refuted at that moment, it's easy for people to
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  Speaker 1: kind of hang their hats on that hook.
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  Speaker 2: Stay tuned, we'll get into this conversation right after these
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  Speaker 2: quick ass Hey rain Drops of Today's Reality with the
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  Speaker 2: King podcast, I am joined by one of the stars
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  Speaker 2: of Marriage to Medicine, Yes.
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  Speaker 3: Honey, the whimsic called missus Quad.
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  Speaker 2: On this episode, we get into why I think Quad
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  Speaker 2: is one of the most underrated stars on Bravo.
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  Speaker 3: Do you all agree?
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  Speaker 2: We also talk about whether or not she is sleeping with.
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  Speaker 3: The merried man sinshy'all love to spread that rumor.
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  Speaker 2: In addition to that, we talk about her relationships with
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  Speaker 2: the other cast members, and last but not least, I
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  Speaker 2: give Quad are her flowers and I want you to
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  Speaker 2: hear why without further ado, here is my conversation with Quad.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, Miss Quad, what the people doing? Miss Quad? Child?
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  Speaker 1: The people are always very busy, Honna, but just not
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  Speaker 1: busier than me.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, how are you, Carlos? How were you baby?
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  Speaker 3: I'm good, I'm good.
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  Speaker 2: Look let's just get right into it. So rain Drops, Look,
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  Speaker 2: I love me some, Miss Quad. I've known Miss Quad
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  Speaker 2: for years, and let me tell the people, she has
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  Speaker 2: always been this way. I have friends who went to
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  Speaker 2: high school with Miss Quad, and when I first saw
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  Speaker 2: Married to Medicine.
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  Speaker 3: Because she was the breakout star, I was like, who
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  Speaker 3: is this bitch?
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  Speaker 2: And they said, we went to school with her, and
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  Speaker 2: she has always been that way.
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  Speaker 3: You are an icon.
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  Speaker 2: And listen, I don't say shit to gas the girls
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  Speaker 2: up people not keep it real ms Quad.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, you're an icon.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: I appreciate your legend and reality television. You are a
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  Speaker 2: formidable player. You are everything into the world of not
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  Speaker 2: just reality television, not just Marriage to Medicine, but in the.
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  Speaker 3: World of pop culture. And I feel like Miss.
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  Speaker 2: Quad, you may be the most underrated star on Bravos.
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  Speaker 1: Oh honey, ya honey, Yeah, around the bass, honey for
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  Speaker 1: the king and get into it the fall face first first,
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  Speaker 1: and foremost. I do want to say thank you, so
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  Speaker 1: so very much for even acknowledging that often when on
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  Speaker 1: whatever scale we excel on or excel in, we often
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  Speaker 1: don't even hear someone say you know what, I see you,
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  Speaker 1: and we most certainly don't get our peers to celebrate us.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm truly grateful for hearing that. I know you've
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  Speaker 1: been in this business for a number of years, and
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  Speaker 1: of course we met upteen years ago.
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  Speaker 4: Baby down to the South Atlanta.
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  Speaker 1: You came over to my home, and you know you
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  Speaker 1: just gave me a different outlook on producers. Let me
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  Speaker 1: start there, but to see how you have grown over
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  Speaker 1: your career and to see where you are now, I
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  Speaker 1: have to stop and say I am grateful to hear
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  Speaker 1: those words from you, because you've seen a lot of
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  Speaker 1: talent come and go.
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  Speaker 4: I am also.
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  Speaker 1: Extremely proud and immensely happy for your accomplishments.
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  Speaker 4: So hats off to you too.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you, Miss Quad. No and listen.
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  Speaker 2: This podcast is an opportunity for my listeners to get
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  Speaker 2: to know my friends, and I talk to people who
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  Speaker 2: I may have met for the first time on this podcast,
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  Speaker 2: but the majority of my guests have been my friends.
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  Speaker 2: And I remember years ago, guys, me and Miss Quad
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  Speaker 2: Bitch had a nice key key at the W Hotel
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  Speaker 2: in Los Angeles. And I want to say this show
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  Speaker 2: was on maybe for two seasons, but ms Quad was
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  Speaker 2: the breakout star of maritime medicine, and I know that
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  Speaker 2: made a few girls mad.
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  Speaker 3: And we'll get into that later.
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  Speaker 2: However, do you feel that if you weren't on Bravo,
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  Speaker 2: do you think you would be the face of another
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  Speaker 2: network with the personality, the characteristics and the success you had.
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  Speaker 2: Because one thing that I've learned from talking to a
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  Speaker 2: lot of maritime medicine stars, all of them have said
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  Speaker 2: they feel like the step children of the Real Housewives
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  Speaker 2: of Atlanta. And I sometimes wonder if you were on
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  Speaker 2: another network, would you be the face of that network?
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  Speaker 4: I most certainly do think so.
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  Speaker 1: I think that, you know, listen, Bravo is a huge machine.
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  Speaker 1: Bravo has birth a lot of reality shows have had
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  Speaker 1: tremendous success in the franchise of the Housewives, and I
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  Speaker 1: do think because it is a huge franchise. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: you have Potomic, you have Atlanta, you have Beverly Hills,
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  Speaker 1: you have New York, you have New Jersey and so
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  Speaker 1: forth and so on. I think that with us being
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  Speaker 1: a standalone show, we kind of get pushed to the back,
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  Speaker 1: right because you gotta just let's just be real. If
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  Speaker 1: I'm talking to you about New York, I still may
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  Speaker 1: think of New Jersey. If I'm talking to you about Miami,
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  Speaker 1: I still may think of Atlanta because it is a
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  Speaker 1: larger It's a larger Adam, should I say something that
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  Speaker 1: takes up space? Okay, so that's kind of how.
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  Speaker 4: I see it.
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  Speaker 2: No, And look, I'm went on the record saying this,
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  Speaker 2: and I will say this because I like to keep
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  Speaker 2: it real. Marathon Medicine is the best show on Bravo period,
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  Speaker 2: and it's the best show on Bravo that I feel
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  Speaker 2: like you guys aren't giving enough time and attition in
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  Speaker 2: terms of watching it. It has an all star, stellar cast.
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  Speaker 2: I believe the friendships. I believe the relationships even when
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  Speaker 2: they're fractured and their shade. You guys hang out off camera.
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  Speaker 2: I know all of the girls. The only one I
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  Speaker 2: haven't met is doctor Simone. Outside of her, I'm friends
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  Speaker 2: with all the girls and they hang out off camera.
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  Speaker 2: When when I watched this past season. By the way, congratulations,
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  Speaker 2: it was a great season.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you.
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  Speaker 2: Last season was weird for me. I'm just being honest
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  Speaker 2: because ms Quad miss Quad was not a full time
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  Speaker 2: cast member, and I don't think there's a Meriti Medicine
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  Speaker 2: without Quad. Toya Hemily and I think is just like
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  Speaker 2: the mainstay who keeps things grounded. What happened to where
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  Speaker 2: you weren't a full time cast member last season.
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  Speaker 4: That's a really great question.
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  Speaker 1: So when we're speaking about season eight, you all, so,
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  Speaker 1: I don't want you to get it confused with season
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  Speaker 1: nine because they came back and had to check right
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  Speaker 1: early on season nine.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, so.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know season eight, You know, it was a
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  Speaker 1: lot of going back and forward. It was a lot
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  Speaker 1: of trying to work out the minutia of the deal
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  Speaker 1: and you know, hey, it didn't come across. You know,
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  Speaker 1: we couldn't agree on a number, and so guess what.
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  Speaker 1: They filmed two weeks I mean, I'm sorry, two months
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  Speaker 1: into the season and then they had to come back
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  Speaker 1: to the doll and say, hold on, ma'am, ma'am wait
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  Speaker 1: a minute, ma'am, man, we gonna need.
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  Speaker 4: You to come back.
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  Speaker 1: But for me, you know, where I saw that some
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  Speaker 1: of my castmates may have cheered that on or rallied
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  Speaker 1: behind it and was very happy, like, oh the.
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  Speaker 4: Bitches go on. That bitch is God, She's out of here.
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  Speaker 4: You know. Honestly, for me, it actually was a.
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  Speaker 1: Setback for set up because it allowed people to see
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  Speaker 1: my value. It allowed people at the networks and the
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  Speaker 1: executives of our production company to say, hold on, now,
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  Speaker 1: did we make the right decision here?
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  Speaker 4: Who couldn't get who could get the numbers right?
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  Speaker 3: Who was it?
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  Speaker 1: And so you know, and so for me, I accepted
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  Speaker 1: that just fine, and it worked out in my favor
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  Speaker 1: because we saw how it was without me, and then
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  Speaker 1: we see how it is with me. If you go
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  Speaker 1: back to episode one of this season of Married to
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  Speaker 1: Medicine Reunion, I got to tell you a one hour
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  Speaker 1: show is only really forty five minutes. You got fifteen
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  Speaker 1: minutes you correct me if I'm wrong, callers yet fifteen
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  Speaker 1: minutes of ads and promo, and you know the.
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  Speaker 4: Bills are being paid well. After Andy's pleasantry, so hey,
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  Speaker 4: how you doing today? And how are you doctor Jack?
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  Speaker 4: And miss Quad? What is it given today? And did
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  Speaker 4: Mason give you some type of advice today? And oh
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  Speaker 4: I like your shoes?
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  Speaker 1: And after all the pleasantries was over, it immediately went
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  Speaker 1: in on Miss Quad and it stayed there for a
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  Speaker 1: good twenty minutes, twenty.
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  Speaker 4: Minutes seriously, and then they gave me a little break.
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  Speaker 1: They went over there to Aniela Hunter and let her
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  Speaker 1: fuss and all you with the children, And after the
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  Speaker 1: ten minutes happened, they got right back on me, and
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  Speaker 1: then it was me going up against.
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  Speaker 4: Heavenly and me going up against Toy.
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  Speaker 1: So I got to tell you, probably like thirty two
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  Speaker 1: minutes of the first episode of the reunion was really
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  Speaker 1: kind of around me. So we got me with thirty
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  Speaker 1: two minutes, Aniela with ten minutes. We're now at forty
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  Speaker 1: two minutes, and so we got three minutes to promote
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  Speaker 1: watch what Happens Live.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, I'm just saying we got so So now we
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  Speaker 4: have three minutes to promote Watch what Happens Live and
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  Speaker 4: then give a little caveat to the next part two
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  Speaker 4: of the reunion, and then the show was over. So
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  Speaker 4: for those of you who are wondering, why is miss
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  Speaker 4: Quiet still here?
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  Speaker 1: She ain't even married, she ain't even know doctor, she
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  Speaker 1: ain't married to no doctause, she can't find a mask.
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  Speaker 4: She need to go. Do you really want me to go?
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  Speaker 3: No?
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  Speaker 1: And for those on my on my cast who who
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  Speaker 1: was rallying for that, because there were some, I just
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  Speaker 1: want them to understand that, baby, I helped the merry
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  Speaker 1: go round go around, and so that means I'm helping
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  Speaker 1: to put coins in your pocket. So you might not
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  Speaker 1: like me but think about yourself when you're trying to
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  Speaker 1: shade and push me off the show.
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  Speaker 2: May I ask you were all the cast members except
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  Speaker 2: heavenly happy that you weren't back the first two months
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  Speaker 2: of filming?
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  Speaker 4: And I don't think it was all of them. No, No,
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  Speaker 4: it was not. It was not. It was one in particular.
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  Speaker 4: And then I think, well, maybe how you know all
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  Speaker 4: the teeth? Baby?
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  Speaker 1: Can't baby heck reality TV.
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  Speaker 4: Comos you know all the tea?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, if it was most certainly her, it was most
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  Speaker 1: certainly her. She had a fit when they said, oh
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  Speaker 1: my god, we got to go back, we gotta get
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  Speaker 1: miss Squad and honey, she just had a She damn
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  Speaker 1: and had a stroke. She damned the stroke down. Baby
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  Speaker 1: had to bring a back. Baby, Come on, bababy, it's okay.
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  Speaker 1: I'm help you get some coins too.
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  Speaker 3: Not changing face. A stroke, struck you up and struck
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  Speaker 3: you down?
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  Speaker 4: Stroke you up? Do you minify s talk you up?
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  Speaker 3: I don't mind.
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  Speaker 4: Manified struck you down.
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  Speaker 3: I don't mind.
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  Speaker 4: You're gonna get me acting the food out to day.
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  Speaker 4: I promise you're not gonna get me act the fool.
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  Speaker 2: But after Toya was resuscitated this season listeners, if you're
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  Speaker 2: not watching Marton Medisine, you would think I created the show.
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  Speaker 2: It's the best show on Bravo, hands down, you must
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  Speaker 2: watch it. Quad is the Tom Brady of that show. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: she keeps it going and it's just a.
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  Speaker 4: Really withate though.
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  Speaker 2: Without that, but about that now, she she she she,
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  Speaker 2: Everything is bouncy and bounceable. So when we saw this season,
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  Speaker 2: there were tons of allegations throwing your way. A lot
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  Speaker 2: of people said that you slept with a contractor who's
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  Speaker 2: a married man in order to.
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  Speaker 3: Afford your home.
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  Speaker 2: They said that you have a reputation of sleeping with
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  Speaker 2: married men. And look, I'm gonna be very honest. I
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  Speaker 2: live in Atlanta. I've known Quad for over a decade.
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  Speaker 2: I have my ears to the streets, as Quad knows.
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  Speaker 2: I have never ever heard Quad sleeping with a married man.
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  Speaker 2: I me and Quad hanging go on in the same circles.
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  Speaker 2: Were indeed very close to Sara Whitfield. We go to
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  Speaker 2: her party to the Chateau and just dinners, Me and
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  Speaker 2: Klobs at a concert recently with timar Bracton and Timmy Campbell,
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  Speaker 2: you know, and Coops with her girl Lena Huggs who's
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  Speaker 2: married to are olt. I've never seen quad with a
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  Speaker 2: man a married man. Why are these allegations coming your way?
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  Speaker 1: Well, you know, first and foremost, I think they are
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  Speaker 1: coming my way because initially many years ago, uh, someone
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  Speaker 1: who is no longer a part of the show anymore
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  Speaker 1: at any capacity, basically put that out there. And I think,
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  Speaker 1: once something is out there and it's not refuted at
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  Speaker 1: that moment, it's easy for people to kind of hang
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  Speaker 1: their hats on that hook.
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  Speaker 4: And that's what I think.
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  Speaker 1: But did you see the You did get a chance
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  Speaker 1: to see the uh, the polygraph results?
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  Speaker 4: You did.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, But there was a third question on there, and
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  Speaker 1: for whatever reason, I don't understand why Bravo negated to
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  Speaker 1: put that third question out there. Actually that third question
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  Speaker 1: was number one because it went back.
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  Speaker 4: To saying, did you hold the line? Here? See the
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  Speaker 4: people don't have time to play with the children.
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  Speaker 3: It's just all the line.
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  Speaker 2: So for my lessons who are visually watching this, as
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  Speaker 2: quiet as going through her phone, honey, to get what
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  Speaker 2: we call the receipts, the receipts, and it's.
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  Speaker 1: It's very important because I think you know, once something
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  Speaker 1: something is said about you, then if there is nothing
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  Speaker 1: brought forward to say, hold on, wait a minute, this
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  Speaker 1: person is wrong. Then it's kind of easy for someone
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  Speaker 1: to say, oh, well it could have happened.
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  Speaker 4: Maybe it did happen.
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  Speaker 1: Well, remember when such and such did it say that
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  Speaker 1: about her? Or remember when such and such did it
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  Speaker 1: say that about him? So yeah, you know, and so
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  Speaker 1: everything it was wrong when that person said it.
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  Speaker 4: It was not true. It was wrong when it was
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  Speaker 4: said about me this time. And you know, I gave
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  Speaker 4: the girls a bonus question as well that the union.
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  Speaker 4: I told the girls, I said, go ahead and asked
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  Speaker 4: me and had the man down to the polygraph test.
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  Speaker 1: I said, well, ask me and have I slew with
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  Speaker 1: any other men on the on the on the cast.
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  Speaker 1: You know, that's just a bonus in case the girls
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  Speaker 1: want to come for me in the future, then we'll
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  Speaker 1: just go ahead and.
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  Speaker 4: Put that out there. And all of it was no deception,
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  Speaker 4: detective period.
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  Speaker 2: Well, you could have just called me because I know
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  Speaker 2: you personally and and I hang out with you sometimes,
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  Speaker 2: and again the same circles I've I've never seen you
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  Speaker 2: out with the man because you are very private, extremely
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  Speaker 2: and and that's what I know about you. So were
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  Speaker 2: these accusations just shade to make a good show that
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  Speaker 2: these girls were throwing or do they or do they
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  Speaker 2: really believe it?
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  Speaker 4: No?
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  Speaker 1: No, because I've had conversations with almost all of the
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  Speaker 1: girls outside of the camera, I think, and they told me,
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  Speaker 1: why we know better. We know that you didn't do
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  Speaker 1: those things. We knew it back then. We knew it
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  Speaker 1: back then when the first person said it about you,
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  Speaker 1: because that person turned around and had their whole entire
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  Speaker 1: family wedding.
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  Speaker 4: So we knew it even then that it wasn't true.
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  Speaker 4: It didn't make sense.
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  Speaker 1: But I think sometimes when certain people probably don't have
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  Speaker 1: as much going on in their lives, or they're not
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  Speaker 1: found to be as fascinating or as entertaining, it's kind of.
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  Speaker 4: Like, well, if all of us.
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  Speaker 1: Fails, I can just attach myself to this and then
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  Speaker 1: make it work. Whether I believe it or not, it's
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  Speaker 1: already been said. I'm just learned to do it for
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  Speaker 1: entertainment purposes. The problem is when you do something for
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  Speaker 1: entertainment purposes, there is a real person that's connected to that,
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  Speaker 1: and you're hurting them as well.
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  Speaker 4: You understand what I'm saying, So.
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  Speaker 1: It might be a key key in a leg slap
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  Speaker 1: till you think, and it's fine if you feel like
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  Speaker 1: you know, maybe once or twice you did it. But
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  Speaker 1: once I come and talk to you and say, hold on,
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  Speaker 1: you need to lay up on that.
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  Speaker 4: You need to lay off on that because.
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  Speaker 1: This is actually is an assassination to my character and
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  Speaker 1: I don't find it funny. So we can keyke in
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  Speaker 1: legs slap all the time or whenever, but we won't
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  Speaker 1: do it about that because see, if I choose to
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  Speaker 1: handle you like how you're trying to handle me, you
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  Speaker 1: won't be able to bounce back.
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  Speaker 4: Baby.
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  Speaker 2: I hatre interrupt, but stay tuned for more. We'll be
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  Speaker 2: right back after these quick ads. This is reality with
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  Speaker 2: the King, and I'm Carlos King. Let's get back into
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  Speaker 2: the show. You intimated that there's something real going on
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  Speaker 2: between Toya and Eugene. You like to referred to him
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  Speaker 2: sometimes as Eugenie as Ugina. When it comes to Toya,
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  Speaker 2: there's also accusations that she is really the one who
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  Speaker 2: is having an affair and sleeping around. Is that something
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  Speaker 2: you've heard? Is that something that was put on you
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  Speaker 2: to try to deflect from them?
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  Speaker 3: What do you gather from that?
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  Speaker 1: Well, listen I think that so initially I never even
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  Speaker 1: said that it came to me. I don't know, I listened.
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  Speaker 1: I don't sleep with the people.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not in the bed with her or you know
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  Speaker 4: you Jine and no people, I'm not.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not in the bed with them, and I truly
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: don't want to be.
• 18:20
  Speaker 4: No. But so I can't say.
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: All I can say is that information did come to
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: me alone, with it coming to a ton of other people, right.
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: I do think when it was said about her, I
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: think that Simone swooped in to kind of say, okay,
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: well let's just throw it back onto Quad and let's
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: just say.
• 18:44
  Speaker 4: You know, to kind of save face for Toya.
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: And Simon has told me I had an opportunity to
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: sit down with her a couple of weeks.
• 18:51
  Speaker 4: Actually, it was the week of spell House.
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: Homecoming and we had a great dinner and all of that,
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: and you know, things have kind of been off between
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: Simon and I for a number of years. Avinnost to me,
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: I don't know what happened to us, And so for me,
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: I came with an open heart, an open mind, and
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: I said to her, I said, I want you to
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: take a moment, and I really want you to think
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: about this. I said, you don't have to answer in
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: a haste, there's no rushing.
• 19:18
  Speaker 4: We're here for a while.
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: I want you to go all the way back over
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: the nine years that this show has.
• 19:25
  Speaker 4: Been on air. I need you to go back.
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: I need you to tell me exactly what have I
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: done to you?
• 19:35
  Speaker 4: What have I done to you?
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: And she looked at me square in the eyes, and
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: she said, You've not done.
• 19:42
  Speaker 4: Anything to me.
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: You don't do anything to me, quiet, nothing, And I said,
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: wait a minute, wait a minute. I want you to
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: really think back, be sure of that. She says, Now,
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: I'm sure you've not done anything to me.
• 19:54
  Speaker 4: Quiet.
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: She says, I deliberately go up and I'm paraphrasing her words,
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: but ultimately she says, I go up against you because
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: I don't want Toya to be mad at me. What
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: So I go up against you for that reason. All
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: I'm going to go against you for that reason. And
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: she says, I have to protect my couch. Now, this
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: is a couch that is set up in a space
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: of the reunion. We're not even on television, and so
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: my thought process was like, Wow, really you gave someone
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: this much power that you can't even be the intelligent
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: woman that I know you to be if you're going
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: to fall into the trap and be like, oh.
• 20:34
  Speaker 4: I'm just I'm just going up against you because if
• 20:37
  Speaker 4: I don't, she gonna be mad. I'm like, what type
• 20:39
  Speaker 4: of brainwash power is this? I'm confused.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: And it was very disappointing for me to hear that,
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: because I'm like, I'm not trying to break up you
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: and Toya.
• 20:51
  Speaker 4: I would never in my life try to break up
• 20:53
  Speaker 4: someone and Toya. In fact, I'm happy.
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: That they were able to get over their hurdle when
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: Toya was trying to be the ass back in the
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: day down to the reunion in New York, and I
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: was a person there who was calming Toya down and
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: speaking life into Toya. But okay, let's just forget I've
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: done that, because these people seem to think that I've
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: never been for a toy and that's not true. However,
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: and I think Simone actually sometimes she's she's brought that up.
• 21:17
  Speaker 4: You know, she was trying to hit me and you
• 21:19
  Speaker 4: and you sat there and you do nothing. I'm like
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: I was, I was trying to hold her and I
• 21:24
  Speaker 4: was talking, okay, girl, whatever.
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: So for me to hear Simone say that, I was
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: just like, Wow, I'm not trying to break you in
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: your friendship.
• 21:33
  Speaker 4: Up, but why can't you just stand on the truth.
• 21:37
  Speaker 4: What happened is standing on the truth. You don't have
• 21:39
  Speaker 4: to be for me. Damn that. Please don't be.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: For quad because we know that you won't be, But
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: let's just be for the truth. What happened to that
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: piece of integrity there, I don't understand, and so I
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: was very disappointed and hearing that, and I stomached through
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: the dinner and we still had a great time together.
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: But it was by my choice because I decided not
• 22:02
  Speaker 1: to really go in on her about that. But deep inside,
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: I was very disappointed and I was very hurt. This
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: woman has went against me for years and said, I
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: don't really have a reason. I'm just doing it because
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 22:17
  Speaker 4: Toya be mad at me.
• 22:18
  Speaker 3: That's so crazy.
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: And listen, one thing I know as a reality TV
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: executive is on some reality shows that's a female ensemble.
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: There tends to be an alliance. And what I want
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: my listeners to know is sometimes on some shows, a
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: cast member feels like I need to go against this
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: person in order for that person to be on my side.
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: So when Quad says Simone said allegedly that she had
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: to protect her couch, look at the reunion.
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: So each each couch.
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: Represents a cast member that normally for Mary to medicine,
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: and I would say, has the same people on the
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: same coulch throughout the all the seasons of the life
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: of the show. So on Simon's couch is always Toya,
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: it's Contessa at one point, I think it was Mariah
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: when she was on, and on Doctor Jackie's couch is
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: Heavenly and it's miss Quad, and that that goes to
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: show you how sometimes it does run that deep. So
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: when people say things about you, Quad, like oh, Quad
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: is over the top, she's unlikable, she's doing the most.
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: What do you have to say about that?
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: Well, I may be unlikable to a person who really
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: can't stand my flare. Everybody doesn't life Primetime deyone Sanders.
• 23:43
  Speaker 4: But he has a flare. Right, I am not for everyone,
• 23:47
  Speaker 4: and they are.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: They are truly, truly, truly entitled to their opinion. But
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: don't expect me to dim my lights or you can shine.
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: You gotta step your you gotta step it up. You
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: just got to step your game up. I don't know
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: if you need a new light bulbs. I don't know
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: what you need. But I'm most certainly not gonna deal
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: in my life to see to it that you shot.
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: But it's perfectly fine for them to have their opinion.
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: This is who I've always been. I'm forty one years
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: old now. There is no way in the world on
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: God's green earth am I going to change for anybody.
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: I'm not appeasing anyone. I'm not doing it. I'm either
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: for you or not, and I'm okay with not being
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: for you. I can still be pleasant, I can still
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: be courteous, and we don't have to rock with one another.
• 24:30
  Speaker 4: That's okay with me.
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: And one thing about you, you are a woman with
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: a good heart. You are a and listen, you a
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: bad chick. If y'all ever saw a quiet in person,
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: clip Body is a stallion and she's petite, and she
• 24:47
  Speaker 2: has a million dollar smile. And one thing that we
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: loved about the show too, was you know, a lot
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: of people were rooting for you and your ex husband
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: to make it, and we were all surprised to see
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: that relationship dissolved, especially because as someone who knows you,
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: and I want the world to know this. I saw
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: the pain in your eyes when he made a mockery
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: when there was this scene a couple of seasons ago
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: where he was pretending to be foaming at the mouth,
• 25:17
  Speaker 2: and I saw the paint in your eyes. And when
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: I was working on the Real Housewives of Atlanta, we
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: shot a scene because Phedra and Doctor G obviously are friends,
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: and we came over their house. Miss Quad was so
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: marry Miss Quad. Y'all don't know this about mis Quad.
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: This is off camera. We're there to set up. Miss
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: Quad was truly a housewife. She let us in, she
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: prepared food for the crew, She made sure Doctor G
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: was ready to film, and Miss Quad was not even
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: on camera.
• 25:50
  Speaker 3: This was a scene between Doctor.
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: G and and.
• 25:54
  Speaker 3: I saw the domestic side of you. No cameras. You
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: were a housewife.
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: Yes, So when people say she was with him for
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: his money, she got the fame and divorced this man.
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: As someone who knows you, I know that not to
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: be true, but did it hurt your feelings when people
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: made these again accusations that you were only with this
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: man for his money and clout?
• 26:20
  Speaker 4: Well, you know, here's the thing.
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: People grasp for straws when they don't know something, or
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: they don't understand something completely. They're grasping for straws. And
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: the interesting thing about that is it could have been
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: because my ex husband, you know, he.
• 26:35
  Speaker 4: Was more of the very square, preppy type.
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: Me.
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: I'm more, you know, full out and colorful with the
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: way I express myself and the way I talk and
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: the way I dress, and so I don't think that
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: people understood the connection. And not only that I was
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: thirteen years his junior. Now he has someone who is
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: actually even much younger than even I am.
• 27:01
  Speaker 4: I think there's a twenty year spread there. I'm not sure.
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: Don't call me, but I do know that there's a
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: difference there. And I just wonder is it a societal
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: thing when they see a younger woman with an older guy,
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: they automatically equate that with being a gold digger. That
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: is definitely not the case, Honey. My husband did not
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: have this. My ex husband did not have this world
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: renowned name. Okay, he was I'm sorry, not doctor oz
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: or not one of the doctors that was already on television, honey,
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: and very famous and bringing in millions of dollars.
• 27:36
  Speaker 4: That was not our story.
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: My ex husband and I both grew together, and I
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: most certainly was a driving force behind him and pushing
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: him to his potential. And I'm happy to see that
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: he has flourished in that arena of having his own practice.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: And I'm actually very pleased that I can say that
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: I had.
• 27:57
  Speaker 4: A hand in that.
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: Oh and you did haven't handed it?
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: And I think a lot of women need to give
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: more respect on their name for being the force behind
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: their husbands. I created a show called Bell Collective, and
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: I hosted the reunion, and I at the reunion, I
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: did this speech that came deep from my heart and
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: soul about men who are successful and sometimes when they
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: get married to a woman who's a housewife, they believe
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: that this is the woman who needs to be this
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: way for the rest of my life, and that if
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: a woman dared to dream is sometimes is at the
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: expense of her marriage. And you liked the post, and
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: you did this beautiful comment that I pinned, and you
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: shared your own personal connection to my speech. Was your success,
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: in your opinion, driving a wedge between your husband and
• 28:58
  Speaker 2: you at the time.
• 29:01
  Speaker 4: You know, here's the thing.
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: I will start with first of all saying, I have
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: never been a person who will just sit back and
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: do absolutely nothing and use my looks and use my
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: physique or whatever to gardener things for men. For me,
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: I despise that. Now for the girls who are doing
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: a honey, do it girl, do it, do it, do
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: it to a.
• 29:20
  Speaker 3: Do at, and.
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna sit on the sideline and applaud you for
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: doing what you do.
• 29:25
  Speaker 4: But that's not my story.
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: My father has always taught me to work extremely hard
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: for what I want to be able to sustain myself
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: with or without a man, because I remember him saying,
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: one day a man could just wake up and say,
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: you know what.
• 29:39
  Speaker 4: I want this anymore.
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: And if you're solely dependent on that man and he
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: says he doesn't want it anymore, then your shit out
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: of luck. It's a done deal for you. And so
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: that has never been me. My father will say, it's
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: a lot of pretty women with four and five different
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: kids and four and five different baby daddies. You make
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: sure you do something with this. And so I came
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: up with that attitude. I came up being very domesticated.
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: You know, A spring cleaning in our household was completely
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: different honey, you're talking about, Oh, we're just gonna change
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: the bed spreads and we're gonna go ahead and dust this. No,
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: it was scrubbing the the the grout in between the
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: toil with a toothbrush.
• 30:18
  Speaker 4: It was wiping down the base boards, it.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: Was going into the covers and the cabinets and the
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: pantry and wiping down the can goods.
• 30:26
  Speaker 4: That's how I was raised. So let's fast forward.
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: You say, your next question to me was, do you
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: feel that your husband may have gotten your success may
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: have driven a wed a wedge between you and your
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: ex husband. I don't necessarily say that it was probably
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: my success. I wouldn't say that. I think I remember
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: him saying, Wow, you're just so confident, you know. I
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: do remember him saying to me, like, you're never embarrassed
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: about anything You're You're always like you're just you're always
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: just like ready to face whatever you're you're not, You're fearless.
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: And I do remember that being something that that definitely
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: stuck out in my head, like he felt like that's
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: an area maybe he needed some more improvement in, but
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: I had it and it came very natural to me.
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: And sometimes what I've learned is that and not just
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: speaking of him, but overall, when when someone perceives something
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: that to come so natural for you, but they have
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: to work so hard for it and they still don't
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: have it like you, Maybe they're big mad.
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: It's a different type of envy that comes with that.
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: I e.
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: This is probably why the people say, oh, she's up
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: with her contractor to get a house, and I'm trying
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: to realize, how how do you sleep with the contractor
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: to get the house?
• 31:49
  Speaker 4: How the contractor helping you get that house?
• 31:51
  Speaker 3: That's hustling backwards.
• 31:54
  Speaker 4: I don't understand how the contractor is helping you to
• 31:57
  Speaker 4: get the house.
• 31:58
  Speaker 3: I don't.
• 31:58
  Speaker 4: I don't really get that. I don't don't understand that.
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: I don't.
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: I do know, miss Fyco score, if you wanna, if
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: you want to, if you want to snuggle up to anybody.
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: Miss uncle Sam. I'm just trying to tell that who
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: you with, Hondie No.
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: And that's why when they made those accusations, I I
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: honestly was like, Okay, that's a reach.
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: Reach.
• 32:24
  Speaker 2: The other thing is the girls are saying, you're dating
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: an African?
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: Are you? Are you Wakanda forever? What's t sus baby.
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: Let me give you the people say updating in the
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: African honey way, where what do you look like? The
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: people need to tell me so I can get on
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: that same program.
• 32:43
  Speaker 4: But I will tell you this. I am not dating Africa.
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: But I will be down to portion in Simon's Wait, Yes, God, Honey,
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: I'm going.
• 32:51
  Speaker 4: St Yes, We're gonna find man. Honey, it is and
• 32:57
  Speaker 4: is honey, A few good win and you good men,
• 33:01
  Speaker 4: and the wood out the movie. The movie is Carlos
• 33:06
  Speaker 4: the movie Girl.
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: We want the wood, we want the furnace, we want
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: the fire, we want the heat.
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: And the deep pockets ain't bad either.
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: Say no, that helps out, That helps out.
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: But I'm simply saying so people want to know, and
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: I don't understand they're so fascinated with like who is
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: she dating?
• 33:26
  Speaker 4: She gotta be dating somebody and this person. At first,
• 33:29
  Speaker 4: I was like, really, am I dating all of these people?
• 33:31
  Speaker 5: Y'all feel me in what do they look like? When
• 33:35
  Speaker 5: did we hang out? Where did we meet? Because I
• 33:38
  Speaker 5: need to just get on your program. I just want
• 33:40
  Speaker 5: to be on the same page, you know, And I
• 33:44
  Speaker 5: am dating.
• 33:45
  Speaker 4: I do date.
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: There's no one in particular, but I do go on dates.
• 33:51
  Speaker 4: I enjoyed dating.
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: Would you ever bring if you were in a relationship
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: or when you get into one things to existence? When
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: you meet that fine chocolate man, honey, who is successful,
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: has eight figures ten inches and a lot of money.
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: Baby speak to me, I'm going down to the color
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: purple one.
• 34:20
  Speaker 3: Sely honey. Yeah, okay, baby, I'm going down.
• 34:24
  Speaker 4: I'm going down there like sugar, gaver babies.
• 34:28
  Speaker 3: Or just a breath my sugar. So yes, this quad.
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: When you meet that man, would you bring him on
• 34:35
  Speaker 3: Marria to medicine.
• 34:37
  Speaker 4: This is the thing I don't really agree with women.
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: And we've seen this happen over and over and over
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: and over again, where production like puts so much pressure
• 34:47
  Speaker 1: on these women to.
• 34:48
  Speaker 4: Bring a man, Bring a man, Bring a man, bring
• 34:50
  Speaker 4: a man, it doesn't matter if he's this or that.
• 34:52
  Speaker 4: I don't think that that works.
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: I think that often if there's no chemistry there, it
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: reads fake. I think we've seen where it has blown
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: up in certain women's faces when they just go and
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: pick a man out the bush, chout and be like okay,
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: come on, come on on a show. I don't agree
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: with that. I think that for me, I need to know,
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: what are your motives? What are your motives? And I
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: need to have a personal connection with you. I need
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: it to be real, you know. And I just don't
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: agree with just pulling anyone you know off the shelf
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: said Okay, come on be on this show because I
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: got production down my throat and they're mad and I
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: need to just bring somebody on the show.
• 35:34
  Speaker 4: I don't think it reads well.
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: I don't think it reads well at all, and I
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: think it comes across fake.
• 35:40
  Speaker 3: It does.
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: And I worked on shows where people are brought on
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: boyfriends because they felt the pressures to bring a man
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: to the show, and it never it never felt real,
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: It never came across real. It allays came across fake.
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: And listen, you are such a force multiplier on that show.
• 35:57
  Speaker 3: You don't need a man to make you successful. You don't, no, Carlos.
• 36:01
  Speaker 4: I appreciate you saying it, but it's an absolute truth.
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: In fact, I'm probably living better than most women with husbands.
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: And a lot of times people are married and they
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: don't even like their spouse and they got asked to
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: do this, head on a swivel, looking at everything, so
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: I don't want to put on it was a huge
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: step for me to make the decision to move on
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: from my ex husband.
• 36:30
  Speaker 4: I was not happy.
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: I don't think that if we would have kept going,
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: I don't think that happiness would have re entered our marriage.
• 36:38
  Speaker 4: I don't.
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: I think things were so far gone, and I thought
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: that he deserved happiness. I for sure, I most certainly
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: I deserve happiness, And so I made the decision to
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: choose happiness. It wasn't me choosing a show. It wasn't
• 36:55
  Speaker 1: me choosing a title. Oh he's a doctor, so oh
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: my god, you know that's my that's my that's my
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: right to passage. Oh that's my identity. If I if
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: I divorced a doctor, then who would I be? Miss
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: quad baby? Before, during, and after. See that's a different
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: type of confidence, you understand. And so for me, I
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: never married the man for the title. I never married
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: for money. It wasn't like that we had a When
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: I met my ex husband, I lived right around the
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: corner from him, and he lived in a town home
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: and it wasn't even as nice as the town.
• 37:31
  Speaker 4: Home that I previously had.
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: While we were going through the divorce, I say that
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: to say not to focus on things, but I'm saying
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: that to dispel the whole rumor or whatever it is,
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: that Quad was with him for money. We didn't have
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: a lavish lifestyle. We had a very comfortable middle class lifestyle,
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: but we didn't have a very lavish lifestyle. There was
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: no Rolls Royce's in the ridway. There was no marble floors.
• 38:03
  Speaker 4: In our home.
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: And let go back, you girls who have said that,
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: go back and watch one, two, three four uh at
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: one two and three at least one two and three
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: uh parts of the season Mary's Medicine. There was not
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: h you know, these lavish trips on on yachts and
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: you know, you know, going over shopping in Paris and
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: all of that.
• 38:26
  Speaker 4: We didn't have that. We didn't have it.
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: So when I when I think about gold digging, I'm
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: thinking about real digging or or baby, you can't say
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: you gold digging. You girls got you got a meal.
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: That's not gold digging. Baby, you understand what I'm saying. Okay,
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: you you guys went to the Bahamas. That's not gold digging.
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: Baby.
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: I'm talking about trips to the south of France, and
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: you know, the trips to Dubai, living and and and
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: and really seeing life through a different a different lens.
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: We didn't have a private plane. I'm still trying to
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: find out what goal they talking about, and.
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: It's showing the goal that the contractor was digging up
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: Dirk to build the household. Let's just feel that before
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: I let you go. The most asked question I got
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: is there ever a world ever.
• 39:21
  Speaker 3: To where you and Mariah can at.
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: Least coexist in the same space on marriat to medicine
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: or in real life to where listen. I think too
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: much has been done for y'all to get back to
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: where you were seasons one and before that.
• 39:38
  Speaker 3: So no one's stupid. But when you think about this show.
• 39:45
  Speaker 2: Is there a world where you can sit back and say,
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: just like how the girls have to admit, at the
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: end of the day, Quale is good for the show?
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: Do you see that at the end of the day
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: she was good for the show and in the perfect world,
• 39:57
  Speaker 2: would you like to see her back?
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: I don't make those decisions, so I can't say who goes,
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: who stays, who's part time.
• 40:06
  Speaker 4: I can't say. What I will say is that her
• 40:09
  Speaker 4: and I were very good together.
• 40:12
  Speaker 1: We were very good together, and we understood one another.
• 40:15
  Speaker 4: You know, we could just easily, I mean.
• 40:18
  Speaker 1: Effortlessly just bounce off of each other. You see how man,
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: you do you know how we and I think her
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: and I had the same thing. We were very much
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: so in tune with one another, and we were good together.
• 40:30
  Speaker 4: I will say that for sure.
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: When you see those clips that's sometimes online and it's
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: like you and her at the reunion with the with
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: the snow white would carry will you when you see
• 40:41
  Speaker 2: those moments, doesn't make you like, like you said, like
• 40:44
  Speaker 2: at the end of the day, we were good together.
• 40:47
  Speaker 4: Yeah. So it's interesting because I remember I had those
• 40:49
  Speaker 4: little thing, babe. Let me tell you something.
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: I remember I was down to the garage, honey, and
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: I was making those little thick bubbles. I went down
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: to the Michaels, you know, at the what is it
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: the Michaels what are they called, Michael's, uh, Jonathan, you know.
• 41:05
  Speaker 4: Craft store.
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: So I went down to Michael's Arts and Craft store
• 41:09
  Speaker 1: and I found these little think bobbles, and I found like,
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: you know, the spray paint, and I found like these words,
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, this is.
• 41:16
  Speaker 4: Gonna be good. And that's just my originality, you know what.
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: I mean, and so UH to go back and see
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: you know that I was able to put that type
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: of thought into making the reunion and that particular reunion
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: UH stand out more and then she was able to
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: kind of read what was there and kind of bounce
• 41:35
  Speaker 1: off of it. It was great, It was great. It
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: was no one you've never you had never seen that before.
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: And so I think of those moments to be moments
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: that I think Bravo, UH, as a network, prevar as
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: a pop as a production company, and even cast members
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: should should should find value in those things because those
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: are the things that has have helped us along the
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: way to be where we are today.
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: Absolutely, and it's the reason why again you are the
• 42:07
  Speaker 2: most underrated star and Bravo, I wish you nothing but
• 42:11
  Speaker 2: the best success.
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: And and I feel like.
• 42:13
  Speaker 2: Miss thing, the world hasn't seen the fullness, the fullness
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: of you. They have not, And I'm happy you joined
• 42:22
  Speaker 2: the podcast finally.
• 42:24
  Speaker 4: Yeah now, honey, I'm so happy to be on the podcast.
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah, hold on, this was long overdue.
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: We had we had a few roadblocks to get here.
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: But God is good all the time, all the time.
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: God is good.
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: So missus Quad, where can't the listeners, Honey, the girls,
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: the guys and everyone find you, follow you and support you,
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: my love.
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: Yes, please well, first and foremost, we are off the
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: cuff of Thanksgiving. I hope you all Enjoygiaselves, Goba, all
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: the turkeys. But I want to be to prepare you
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: all for Christmas.
• 42:59
  Speaker 4: We are upon the holiday season.
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: And if you don't have my book Cooking with Miss
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: Quad Honey, get into it. You gotta go ahead and
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: order this book today. Get ready for Christmas. We actually
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: have one hundred recipes here in the book. The book
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: is found and sold everywhere. Five books are sold. You
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: can go to Amazon, you can go to Barnes and
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: Noble Books a million, it's there.
• 43:21
  Speaker 4: But one thing that I'm extremely proud of. It's my
• 43:25
  Speaker 4: new All Purpose Season, Glenn, Honey, let me tell you something, sad, Yes,
• 43:30
  Speaker 4: get into her.
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: If you don't have it, please please, please, by all
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: means go ahead to go to sas by Miss Quad
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: right now and order your All Purpose Season and blend.
• 43:42
  Speaker 4: Baby, I put this on everything.
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you something that I made some scallops
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: the other day, baby. It was good books out to
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: the floor child. Then the other day, I mean good honey.
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: Then the other day I did old rotests with chicken.
• 43:52
  Speaker 4: Honey.
• 43:53
  Speaker 5: I said, let's rink a little little sass.
• 43:55
  Speaker 4: On it, honey. It was awesome. We did a little
• 43:57
  Speaker 4: bee stood the other day, child and it was good
• 43:59
  Speaker 4: as well. So this can go on anything. I'm so
• 44:02
  Speaker 4: proud of it. I really am.
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: It is gluten free, low and sodium no MSG.
• 44:10
  Speaker 4: It is just a really great I mean listen, if
• 44:13
  Speaker 4: you use it, you don't need anything else.
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: So you can also find me on all social media
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: platforms at absolutely quad and that's how you can find me.
• 44:22
  Speaker 4: Yeah, absolutely quid.
• 44:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's it. Love.
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: I love you Quad, I love you too, baby, Yes,
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: frame drops, what's not a good episode? I love me
• 44:38
  Speaker 2: some miss Quad. Don't you guys love that I spilled
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: the tea for her, because.
• 44:42
  Speaker 3: You know, usually they spilled the teeth for me.
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: But no, all dump aside, I help you all got
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: a chance to really understand.
• 44:54
  Speaker 3: The real Quad, because.
• 44:56
  Speaker 2: She is someone who I've known for so many years
• 44:59
  Speaker 2: and I don't think that show really shows.
• 45:00
  Speaker 3: The full side of her.
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: And this podcast definitely is an opportunity to get to
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: know your favorite reality stars in a much deeper and
• 45:11
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• 45:16
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• 45:55
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• 46:02
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