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A hot guy chased Abby down on Bayshore!! · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's best music is jadge nine.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Scotty and Abby Unfiltered. If
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  Speaker 2: you did not catch up on the last episode, you're
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  Speaker 2: gonna want to go ahead and do that because it's
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  Speaker 2: going to really carry over to what the heck is
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  Speaker 2: happening right now. I'm so lean to Nabby.
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  Speaker 1: This is the sequel.
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  Speaker 2: This is literally the sequel because yesterday, without giving everything away,
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  Speaker 2: we had an adventurous night, not me, Abby and she
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  Speaker 2: took us along for the journey.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, I texted you at three am. You could you
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  Speaker 1: could have definitely embarked on a journey as well.
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  Speaker 2: How late did you all stay out in general, or
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  Speaker 2: like stay up? Because at three am, if I would
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  Speaker 2: have come out, y'all would have been passed out. There
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  Speaker 2: ain't no way you would have survived past three am.
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  Speaker 1: So we finally went home, and this is how late
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  Speaker 1: we were out. So when me and Taylor got back
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  Speaker 1: to my room, the preset alarm that I have to
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  Speaker 1: wake up for Magic Mornings was going off.
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  Speaker 2: So that's easily like in four ams five am, it.
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  Speaker 1: Was five am.
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  Speaker 2: That's insane.
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  Speaker 1: It was five am when we came home.
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  Speaker 2: That's I can only do that, like once a year,
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  Speaker 2: you get that one time out of me. That is wild.
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  Speaker 1: Listen, when I'm having a good time, I'm having a
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  Speaker 1: good time.
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  Speaker 2: That is true. Especially with the right people, you could
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  Speaker 2: just be out all night long. Like that's how my
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  Speaker 2: date was. Like we were out to the sun Rose.
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  Speaker 2: I know that was sweet.
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  Speaker 1: Dan Taylor have party stamina when it's the right kind
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  Speaker 1: of night. If it's a bad night, like no, I
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  Speaker 1: want to go home.
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  Speaker 2: Honestly, it's impressive. Of Like, if I'm even having drinks
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  Speaker 2: that late, I don't think my body could handle it.
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  Speaker 2: Like you all must have been properly hydrating through maybe
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  Speaker 2: having a couple of snacks here and there.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we were hydrating while we were dehydrating.
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  Speaker 2: Did you go to like get anything to eat in
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  Speaker 2: the middle of it or just kept raging?
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  Speaker 1: We were eating, but we weren't eating. Oh like you.
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  Speaker 2: This lingo. Well, yesterday we left off with how there's
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  Speaker 2: this man that we call Morgan, that's his name. I
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  Speaker 2: think we think. See that's the thing we don't even
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  Speaker 2: know we think so on Happy's Adventurous Night Part one,
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  Speaker 2: was this guy Morgan. He sounds like he was really cute.
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  Speaker 1: He probably sucks. Like I hung out with him for
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  Speaker 1: like two hours and I was drunk off vodka. And
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  Speaker 1: this dude probably has like several STDs, has cheated on
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  Speaker 1: all those girls, Like you know what I mean, Like
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  Speaker 1: you just have note when it comes to strangers, you
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  Speaker 1: truly have no idea.
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  Speaker 2: That's what stresses me out, honestly, side tangent because I've
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  Speaker 2: had a lot of friends, especially when I was like
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  Speaker 2: in the beat, like when I was dating. That's the
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  Speaker 2: biggest stress. Like what you're gonna make out of some
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  Speaker 2: bar with some random person, come back home have an
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  Speaker 2: STD Like.
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  Speaker 1: Ah, that's scary.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't keep yourself protected up in these streets.
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  Speaker 1: Well, there's these things called condoms. Scott good point Vallid
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  Speaker 1: Scott an Abbey. That is our PSA for the day. Yep.
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  Speaker 2: But after we left good night, John Boy, as in
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  Speaker 2: we Abbey and the story caught up yesterday, there was
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  Speaker 2: another stop that you hit before you closed out the night.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so yesterday's episode, if you want to go back
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  Speaker 1: and listen, just to summarize it, Taylor and I were
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  Speaker 1: having a really fun night with these two guys. One
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  Speaker 1: of them I was really into. But because I am anxious.
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  Speaker 1: I don't really think I was putting out the right dealers,
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  Speaker 1: and so long story short, we it just the bag
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  Speaker 1: was fumbled us.
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  Speaker 2: I'm gonna say this, I think, well, I don't think
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  Speaker 2: Abby fumbled the bag.
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  Speaker 1: Now, I was trying not to fumble the bag. That's
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  Speaker 1: what's so infuriating. It was literally the I was about
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  Speaker 1: to confess that I thought he was super cute and
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  Speaker 1: I was into him when his friend cock blocked insane.
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  Speaker 2: But you have to hear what he did to Abby
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  Speaker 2: right before the cock block happened. That that's the part
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  Speaker 2: that I'm like, jaw hit the floor. So it catch
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  Speaker 2: up on that episode because once that moment, like literally
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  Speaker 2: it felt like a romantic movie where it's build up,
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  Speaker 2: build up, build up, finally go the night could have
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  Speaker 2: been over right there. Yeah, so you guys they went
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  Speaker 2: out to go smoke a cigarette. You guys stayed in
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  Speaker 2: and danced, and then you decided there's no way they're
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  Speaker 2: going to come back in, so you decided to go
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  Speaker 2: ahead and what change the night, change up the scene.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. So I was kind of in a low mood
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  Speaker 1: because I was like, dang, like I know, I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I was like I was a kind of hell's fun
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  Speaker 1: to have a little cross fun, and it was reciprocated.
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  Speaker 1: That's what it was. Like, It's one thing to have
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  Speaker 1: a crush, that's another thing for Bele, Like, oh, I
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  Speaker 1: think he's I think he's also into this as well.
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  Speaker 1: And then it just yeah, it just didn't work out.
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  Speaker 1: So anyway, we're good night. John Boy got super crowded
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  Speaker 1: and I was kind of just in a low mood
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  Speaker 1: to where I was like, you know what, let's go
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  Speaker 1: see if we can have one more fun bar and
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  Speaker 1: then if not, let's just go home. Because at this
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  Speaker 1: point it's literally like two am. So we we leave,
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  Speaker 1: We leave good night, john Boy, and I take her
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  Speaker 1: to a bar that Scotty took me to. That again,
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  Speaker 1: we've been on the hod for country music this whole weekend,
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  Speaker 1: so we decided to go to one night stand, which
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  Speaker 1: is this dive bar.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a dive bar. It's got a mechanical bowl inside. Usually,
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  Speaker 2: I mean you get pretty down in there.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Now, when I took Abby out the first time, god
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  Speaker 2: darn it, Like they were not playing the country music
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  Speaker 2: that I thought they would be. It's a nice bar, divy, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: they're playing all pop. It was like we walked in,
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  Speaker 2: it was like Katy Perry was playing Lady. I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: where the heck is the country? Sometimes they have bands
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  Speaker 2: up on the stage. Nothing yes on like a Saturday night.
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  Speaker 2: Were they playing country when you walked in?
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  Speaker 1: They were playing country. I can't remember what they were
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  Speaker 1: playing when we walked in because I was so like,
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  Speaker 1: I was so bummed that I was kind of like
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to be here. I was like, I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna go to the bathroom and then I'll just dance
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  Speaker 1: for a little bit and I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Gonna go home dance with a frown on my feet.
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  Speaker 1: No. Literally, it's what I'm thinking, because I'm just I
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  Speaker 1: was just pissed because I was like, it's one thing
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  Speaker 1: if you just like don't meet anybody out that night.
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  Speaker 1: It's another thing to meet someone and be like, no, gone,
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  Speaker 1: I never see this person again, So which is fine.
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  Speaker 1: He probably is like eight SuDS. It's whatever. He's probably
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  Speaker 1: that's what I have to do, you know, when you
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  Speaker 1: like have to you give yourself the ech. I was like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know this guy, Like again, he could be
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  Speaker 1: a literal He probably is an ex girl friend that
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  Speaker 1: hates him.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, he's probably in a relationship. Yeah, yuncke guy.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. So anyway, I go to the bathroom, I come back,
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  Speaker 1: and then Taylor and I think are dancing to a
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  Speaker 1: country song. And then this is how fast it happened
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  Speaker 1: that I actually don't remember much other than I went
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  Speaker 1: to the bathroom, I came back, we were dancing, and
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  Speaker 1: then immediately, like all of a sudden, some guy in
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  Speaker 1: my face and he goes, you're beautiful, and I go, oh, okay,
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  Speaker 1: holy moly, and I just kind of like look up
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  Speaker 1: at him, and I was like, I don't know how
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  Speaker 1: to respond to that because that never happens. And I go,
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  Speaker 1: I can't really remember what happened other than he said
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  Speaker 1: you're beautiful. And the next thing I remember is he's like,
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  Speaker 1: let's can I go get you a drink? So then
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  Speaker 1: he walks me over to the bar, buys me a drink,
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  Speaker 1: and we're chatting and I'm like, Okay, this dude seems nice,
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  Speaker 1: blah blah blah. And then I think at some point
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  Speaker 1: he reveals that he's younger than me, and I go, oh,
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  Speaker 1: how old are you? And he goes, oh, I'm twenty six,
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  Speaker 1: and I go okay. And then I was like, are
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  Speaker 1: you sure you're twenty six? And he goes, no, I'm
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  Speaker 1: actually twenty five okay, And I go, okay, is you're
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  Speaker 1: twenty five?
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  Speaker 2: I got you? Sure you are twenty five?
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm turning twenty nine this week, Like it
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  Speaker 1: is not really sure that I'm down for this. That's
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  Speaker 1: a very large.
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  Speaker 2: Gap in Oh wait, it's not that large.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, well, guys date differently, Like for you to date
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  Speaker 1: a twenty five year old girl is different than me
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  Speaker 1: dating a twenty five year old guy.
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  Speaker 2: That is very true. It definitely depends on the guy. Like, literally,
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  Speaker 2: what's happening in my life right now is I am
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  Speaker 2: the younger one in my relationship relationship. So my whole
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  Speaker 2: entire algorithm is like why you should date a guy younger?
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  Speaker 2: So I'm loving that because I'm like, oh, yeah, look
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  Speaker 2: at us young dudes.
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  Speaker 1: What so give me the pros? Why should I date younger?
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  Speaker 2: I honestly, I was just tooting my own horn. It's
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  Speaker 2: just every literally, I don't.
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  Speaker 1: Know, like what is the internet saying?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know that we're more sweet, we're more caring,
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  Speaker 2: we don't want this? What do you mean you don't
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  Speaker 2: want somebody's sweet and caring.
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  Speaker 1: Oh have you heard me?
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  Speaker 2: I think it depends on where they are, Like I'm younger,
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  Speaker 2: but I'm also like established. But yes, it would depend
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  Speaker 2: on if he's twenty five. And it's like, all right, sir,
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  Speaker 2: this is a very weird time for men, like you're
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  Speaker 2: either twenty five and like still fumbling the bag, falling
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  Speaker 2: all over yourself, don't have a clue of what you're
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  Speaker 2: doing in life, or you're twenty five and you're kicking ass. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: you already know what you want in life, you're going
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  Speaker 2: after it, and you also want to enhance somebody else's life.
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  Speaker 2: Very different because when I was twenty five, holy crap,
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  Speaker 2: I could not do this right now. I think I
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  Speaker 2: was still like I was in my first contract in radio.
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  Speaker 2: I wasn't making anything. There was no way I could
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  Speaker 2: have supported someone like I want to support right now.
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  Speaker 1: So let's get into that. So he reveals that he's
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  Speaker 1: twenty five, and I'm kind of like, again, let's also
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  Speaker 1: take into account where I'm coming from. I'm already kind
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  Speaker 1: of in a low mood because I've had this crush
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  Speaker 1: on the I was crushing on the guy at the
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  Speaker 1: last bar, he's gone. Now I'm at this other bar,
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  Speaker 1: and now I had this other guy in front of
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  Speaker 1: me who really truly like if I had met him
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  Speaker 1: five hours before, I probably would have been like, oh yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but I'm sorry. I'm like, I don't want to talk
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  Speaker 1: to you, like, I just want to go home.
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  Speaker 2: Could we get you? Don't have to, I just need
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  Speaker 2: a mental picture. What does he look like?
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  Speaker 1: He's five ten, brunette and tan. Oh wow, mid size build.
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  Speaker 2: Nice? Okay, I'm trying to like, does he got the
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  Speaker 2: bicep van?
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  Speaker 1: Uh? Can I be honest? It was like two am
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  Speaker 1: when really thinking he's not like a small dude. Though
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  Speaker 1: I would assume that he works out. Oh nice, but
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  Speaker 1: not so glaringly obvious that I'm like, oh yeah, like
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  Speaker 1: I like hat.
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  Speaker 2: On or no hat?
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  Speaker 1: No hat?
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  Speaker 2: Wow? Good good hair?
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  Speaker 1: I think so yeah, I like, Well, I don't really,
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  Speaker 1: I don't really like. It wasn't of note. I remember thinking, oh,
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  Speaker 1: he is hair, I'll talk to him. If I remember
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  Speaker 1: thinking he was, I'll put it. I'll put this out there.
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  Speaker 1: I remember thinking he was an attractive guy.
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  Speaker 2: There you go. I don't think you would be wasting
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  Speaker 2: your time if he was not attracted, but.
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  Speaker 1: I'm also trying to paint the picture of I'm also
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  Speaker 1: just sort of like and also I'm like, oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: anger twenty five. I'm just kind of I'm just kind
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  Speaker 1: of like not, I'm not really in the mood if
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  Speaker 1: I'm just being honest, and.
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  Speaker 2: It's super late, Like there's a lot of factors that
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  Speaker 2: are against this situation. All right, one already didn't like
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  Speaker 2: weird situation. Now we got this new guy.
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  Speaker 1: Now.
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  Speaker 2: And from what I've learned from Abby is you always
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  Speaker 2: say you don't do vodka. You were doing vodka this night.
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  Speaker 1: I know that's I'm telling you. A portal opens when
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  Speaker 1: I drink vodka. Crazy like serious. I actually, you know what,
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  Speaker 1: it's so funny that I'm mentioning this because I think
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  Speaker 1: the last time I had vodka. No, I was drinking
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  Speaker 1: wine that night too. But Taylor and I will have
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  Speaker 1: like like I said on the last episode, we'll have
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  Speaker 1: one good night and we chase that high for the
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  Speaker 1: rest of the year. I think I was drinking wine
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  Speaker 1: the last night though, so maybe it's not the vodka.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, I typically don't drink vodka because it makes
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  Speaker 1: me act uncharacteristically, which maybe so far. Maybe it's a
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  Speaker 1: good thing.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe talking vodka is in the wor right now.
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  Speaker 1: You really should be drinking vodka more often, right, Like
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  Speaker 1: I need to get rid of it of my normal characteristics.
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  Speaker 1: I don't become somebody else.
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  Speaker 2: That you're meant to be.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I was meant to be a night gremlin. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: because typically wine makes me so tired that I usually
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  Speaker 1: want to go home by midnight. But I, specifically that night,
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  Speaker 1: decided to drink vodka because I knew this was mean
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  Speaker 1: Taylor's one big night and I didn't want to be
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  Speaker 1: that girl that went home at midnight. So I decided, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I would rather drink tequila. But they only have really
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  Speaker 1: maly have vodka seltzers.
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  Speaker 2: We thought about, so that's the only thing that's out there,
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  Speaker 2: especially that late in the night.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so I decided to stick to neutrals. So anyway,
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  Speaker 1: back to the back to the point.
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  Speaker 2: Of the crystal story, mid build man.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so I'm like, this guy's attractive, but I'm also
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  Speaker 1: like kind of bummed about the last guy. This guy's
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  Speaker 1: twenty five, you know, and admittedly this guy is like
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  Speaker 1: I know, this is this is toxic, but he's really,
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  Speaker 1: really into me, and I like a little bit of friction,
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  Speaker 1: as I've mentioned before, like a little bit of like
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  Speaker 1: banter friction. And this guy is like kind of not
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  Speaker 1: Google Gaga over me, but he's like he's very again,
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  Speaker 1: approach me. Oh my god, you're beautiful. Can I buy
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  Speaker 1: you a drink? Blah blah blah. And so we're dancing,
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  Speaker 1: we're having a good time, and I'm just like, for
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  Speaker 1: whatever reason, I'm just I'm just not into it. I
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  Speaker 1: can't really put my finger on it because I don't
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  Speaker 1: really remember much of it because you know, two am,
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  Speaker 1: it's late. But I do remember thinking he's cute. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'll hang out with him and my friend. He had
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  Speaker 1: a friend from my friend.
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  Speaker 2: Oh perfect, okay, yeah, and they.
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  Speaker 1: Were having a good time. So I was like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: i'll play a long. So we're having fun to the
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  Speaker 1: point where we do shut down the bar. So it's
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  Speaker 1: three am. This is when I text Scott. I go, Scott,
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  Speaker 1: where are you?
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god? So this is what was happening before.
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  Speaker 2: I was sleeping by the way, hardcore in Dreamland, not
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  Speaker 2: over at one night Stand.
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  Speaker 1: So we're leaving One night Stand. We've shut down the
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  Speaker 1: bar and I still have energy, and it never happens.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm like, you know, I'm like, let's go to
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  Speaker 1: another bar. Where should we go, you guy? Or what
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  Speaker 1: do we do? And you know, it's three am, so
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  Speaker 1: nothing's open.
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  Speaker 2: I was gonna say, what the hell is opened past three?
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  Speaker 1: And of course we're with two twenty five year old guys,
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  Speaker 1: and they go, well, would you come back to replace?
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  Speaker 1: And I look at them, I was like, I'm not
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  Speaker 1: coming home with you guys, like your frontal lobes just developed.
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  Speaker 1: And they're like, we'll get pizza. We'll get pizza. I'm like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: whatever pizza's code words. I know, I know what pizza means.
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  Speaker 1: I know what I means, like we're ready to eat,
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  Speaker 1: like I know you're Oh God. So my guy calls
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  Speaker 1: the uber and he's like, I feel like you hate me.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like you hate me. I'm like, I don't
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  Speaker 1: hate you. I just don't just don't really know how
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  Speaker 1: I feel about this situation, you know what I mean,
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  Speaker 1: Like I'm already feeling some type of a way about
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  Speaker 1: the fact that I'm getting one year old or not
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  Speaker 1: that I think twenty nine is some crazy old age.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm like, you know, I'm twenty nine, dude, you're
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  Speaker 1: twenty five, and he's like, no, no, I love older.
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  Speaker 2: Oh boy, don't say that.
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  Speaker 1: Oh oh my god, God, I have this weird complex
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  Speaker 1: that I'm like, no, I'm the older woman.
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  Speaker 2: It is a weird moment right now where you're like
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  Speaker 2: noticing And we do this all the time with work,
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  Speaker 2: when you're going out to bars and you're like, I'm
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  Speaker 2: the older one in the bar.
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  Speaker 1: I'm on the old one here.
• 13:03
  Speaker 2: That's it's a freaky, weird feeling that I know a
• 13:06
  Speaker 2: lot of people can relate to because it happens everybody.
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: It happens everybody.
• 13:09
  Speaker 2: You know. We were on twenty one year olds that
• 13:10
  Speaker 2: are listening. They're like, oh my goodol, you are going
• 13:12
  Speaker 2: to blink.
• 13:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Tampatarians thought Sunset Rodeo was for the old fogies,
• 13:16
  Speaker 1: And I walked in being like, I am the old
• 13:18
  Speaker 1: fogy here.
• 13:19
  Speaker 2: He's gonna blink and he's gonna be our age too,
• 13:21
  Speaker 2: and be like, oh got it. But it is a
• 13:23
  Speaker 2: weird feeling. I get that one. It's like, oh, I
• 13:26
  Speaker 2: guess I'm now the older person in the bar exactly.
• 13:28
  Speaker 1: So anyway, let's back on track to the story. So
• 13:31
  Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what, I don't for I just
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: really wasn't in the mood to go home now because
• 13:35
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I've had all this alcohol, I'm drunk. I
• 13:37
  Speaker 1: want to do something fine, m hm. So we do
• 13:40
  Speaker 1: go back to his frid house.
• 13:45
  Speaker 2: Ladies, I was drinking water?
• 13:47
  Speaker 1: Why no, not his friend house. Like it's you know,
• 13:48
  Speaker 1: it's like a dude house. It's a house that he
• 13:50
  Speaker 1: clearly shares with like two or three other dudes. Oh
• 13:53
  Speaker 1: my god, you walk in, there's a tin can of
• 13:56
  Speaker 1: something on the counter. They're popping zins in their mouth,
• 13:59
  Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh my god, I thought I outgrew this, y'all, Like.
• 14:02
  Speaker 2: I love this for the plot.
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: Oh my, I'm here for the plot at this point, honestly.
• 14:06
  Speaker 1: And Taylor, I know, I like want her to have
• 14:09
  Speaker 1: a good time. So I'm like, well, if she's having
• 14:11
  Speaker 1: a good time with her dude, then I'm not gonna
• 14:13
  Speaker 1: like bounce you know what. Good.
• 14:15
  Speaker 2: Well, there's two thoughts.
• 14:16
  Speaker 1: I really hope that's coming across. And I told Scott
• 14:18
  Speaker 1: this morning because we posted the episode that we recorded
• 14:21
  Speaker 1: yesterday today, I'm like, I really hope it's coming across that,
• 14:23
  Speaker 1: Like I'm really trying to be conscientious of being a
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: good friend.
• 14:27
  Speaker 2: It's amazing, I know. I think I give you all
• 14:29
  Speaker 2: the applause because to be that thoughtful of how your
• 14:31
  Speaker 2: friend's doing, of how they're having fun, to make sure
• 14:33
  Speaker 2: that they're still included. Yeah, that's admirable.
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: And she's doing the same thing for me. I'm just
• 14:38
  Speaker 1: more uptight. Yeah, I have a stick up my ass.
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: She's a little bit more loosey goosey than I am.
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: And so anyway, homeboy gets me a BEV and he goes,
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: you want to go outside, and I was like, okay,
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: So I pull up this lawn chair and then I
• 14:54
  Speaker 1: start feeling just a little weird. I'm like, what am
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: I doing here? I'm at this dude's house. He's like
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: begging me to date him, begging me to not begging me.
• 15:04
  Speaker 1: But he's just like I just keep saying, you're so young,
• 15:08
  Speaker 1: Like I don't I'm so old, Like I don't want
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: to just I just don't really feel like this is
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: going to go somewhere, Like I'm not really I don't
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: really do casual that well. I'm too up tight. I'm
• 15:15
  Speaker 1: too uptight to be like lax about things. Yeah, you
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: know what I mean. And I'm just like this is
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: I'm just sitting here. I'm like, there's nothing about this
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: that's gonna work.
• 15:23
  Speaker 2: How is the conversation with this dude.
• 15:27
  Speaker 1: So here's the thing, Like we're not even having like
• 15:28
  Speaker 1: incredible chemistry or like an amazing conversation. It's not like
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: I'm getting into my head where I'm like, well, I
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: really like this guy, but he's just so young. It's
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: just kind of like I don't know. I'm just sort
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: of like he's here's where I'm at. He's a really handsome,
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: straightforward guy, which I like. But at the same time,
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: I'm like, like logistically, like this is not something that
• 15:48
  Speaker 1: I know is like really makes sense.
• 15:50
  Speaker 2: And I think that's something we could all recognize. It's like,
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: you know, there's a feeling, you know, and I wish.
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: People would Here's what bothered me because I do feel
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: like sometimes he will push you, like mom, be so
• 16:01
  Speaker 1: cute and he really likes you, and but I'm like
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: that makes me feel a little bit disrespected because then
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: it feels like I feel a little infantilized by it,
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: like you think I can't trust my own instincts. The
• 16:11
  Speaker 1: twenty eight year old. I was just hanging out with
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: a good night John boy who I was having a
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: little friction with. I'm like, that's my instinct. I something's here.
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you could tell the difference of how you acted, Like, yes,
• 16:21
  Speaker 2: I understand.
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: There's a difference, there's a switch that's flipped. Whereas with
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: this guy, in my mind, I can go he's a
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: handsome guy. He seems like a really good dude. But
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: there's just like my intuition is like, there's not I
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: don't know.
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: Ni yeah, yeah, Like especially if you wanted to take
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: things even to another level, it's like, well, it's not
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: even there. I kind of I'd be forcing it. And
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: that's how I like when I was in the dating scene,
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: I was like it was so interesting, especially like where
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: I'm at right now, I can now recognize that where
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: it's like going on other dates, I'm like, I'm kind
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: of forcing these dates to see if anything happens, Whereas
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: with this person, I'm like, oh, yes, it's just easy
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: boom immediately like oh that's the feeling.
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: And so that's I think. I'm very black and white
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: in the sense that like I kind of want that
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: or nothing. And so when people are like, what do
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: you mean You've never been in a relationship. And I
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: think it's because for me, I'm like, I kind of
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: I just want that, Like I don't want to feel
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: like I have to convince myself to think that this
• 17:15
  Speaker 1: is right. I just want it to feel right. Which again,
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: I know people have criticisms over it's fine, blah blah
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: blah blah.
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: What you know, I used to be someone that probably
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: would have said that until what I've just experienced.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: But that's what I'm trying to say, is I tell
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: people that over and over again that there's a difference.
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: There is there's a difference, and you know when that
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: difference is and when people are like you just need
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: to give people. I give people chances. But at the
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: same time, you start to, I think, disrespect yourself a
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: little bit when you're constantly like putting yourself in a
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: position where you kind of know it's not. And let
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: me also make this very clear, because I'm sure you'll
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: listen at some point, somebody will listen at some point. Yeah,
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: it's not that this guy's a bad dude. And I
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: told him this, I said, listen, if we had if
• 17:55
  Speaker 1: I was twenty five, I would be more comfortable with
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: this because we would be in the same phase of life.
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: I am so far past dating someone who is who's
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: going back to school for a degree, who isn't established
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: in their career, Like I'm I'm dating people in their
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: thirties their late twenties, and I'm ready for a relationship
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: with someone who's established in their life.
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: I think that is so respectable to say there's nothing
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: wrong with that. Especially what I've learned is as I'm
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: again the wise age of twenty nine, but you do
• 18:25
  Speaker 2: recognize and this is the first time I ever saw
• 18:27
  Speaker 2: this in myself, was like, wait, I don't want to
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: waste any more time, huh. Like if I was like,
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: what am I doing going on dates with people that
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: I don't think have any future? Yes, that is wasting
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: both of our times. Where it's like where you're twenty
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: four to twenty five, you literally like that's what it's for.
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: It's like you're supposed to kind of go out and
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: just kind of you're literally finding yourself along that journey
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: going on multiple dates with somebody that maybe doesn't have
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: a future. Like I dated people that I'm so happy
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: I dated, but I think we could have recognized that
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: it wasn't going to go the distance. We don't have
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: that time anymore, should Well, I don't want to give
• 18:59
  Speaker 2: that time anymore.
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: That's what I mean. Is like, and you know what,
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: maybe I should loosen up and just have a fling,
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, maybe maybe I should
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: just have a fling if you want. But I think
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: also part of like catching feelings for a girl is
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: a sense of safety and for not that I think
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: there's anything unsafe about this guy, but I do think
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: a guy who is established gives you a sense of Oh,
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: I feel I feel comfortable, like catching feelings for this guy,
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: rather than someone who's still building their life. And that's
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: what I told them. I said, listen, it's not that
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: I think you're immature or I don't think you're emotion
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: It's not that I think you're emotionally mature or can't
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: handle a relationship with someone who's older. We're just in
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: two different phases.
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: Correct, You're looking for two different things. And also I
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: think it's understandable as a man now, I want to
• 19:47
  Speaker 2: be able to provide that for my partner.
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: That's what I mean.
• 19:50
  Speaker 2: But that's stability because I know, like especially like you
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: should want to provide that for your partner, especially a woman,
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: to make sure that you're stable, that you got your
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: stuff together, that you're able to sport and provide if
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: that's what you want to do. And it's also understandable
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: to say when I was twenty five, and that's why
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: I said that earlier. When I was twenty five, I
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: could not do that. Uh huh. There's no way in
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: hell I could have supported and provided and been stable
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: the way that I am now for the person in
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: my life.
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: That's what I mean. And so I'm like just quite frankly,
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: like I've aged out of that, Like I've done my time.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: I've dated the guys who pops ins and you know,
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: are in school, and I have no doubt that this
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: guy is going to be a good, successful human. But
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: like that, it's just to me that feels like a
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: sincere incompatibility. But admittedly I'm enjoying the attention. He's handsome,
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: he's very straightforward. We were dancing, like I was having
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: a good time, and so I'm sitting there and I
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: just kind of have to take a look at myself
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: and I'm like abby, Like this is selfish of you.
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: To just sit here and continually tell this guy over
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: and over again that you're not compatible, stand on business,
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: and just leave. So after like an hour of me
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: going dude, like this is not gonna work out.
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: Holy, I go, I wanna leave.
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: You know what?
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: That's that's understandable. And also on him, I'm sure he's
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: a great guy. Yeah, bro, sometimes you gotta read it quicker.
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: That's also part of being twenty five.
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: Well, that's what I kept telling him. I looked at him,
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: I was like, this is why I stayed as long
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: as I did, because I was trying to understand where
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: he was coming from, because he was so persistent. He's
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: just like I just really, I just really catch a
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: good vibe from you, Like I really really I think.
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: I'm like, you don't know anything about me. I'm like,
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: we barely even had good conversation. Please explain to me
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: this persistence. Like I'm trying to understand where you're coming from.
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: Like if you can tell me why you you are
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: so hell bent on dating me, then maybe I'll be convinced.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: And He's just like I just think you I just
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: get such a good vibe. Just all not bullshit. But
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: I'm like Okay, that really tells me nothing.
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so I sounds like four AM conversation.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, And he's like, I know you're you know,
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: we're not. I'm not like just trying to look up
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: with your whatever. I'm like, O, yeah, I don't know.
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: So anyway, I leave, I go home. Taylor of course,
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: is like, well, iwd you date it?
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: Man?
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, it's like, do you want to do
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: this twenty five year old? I don't you know what
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: I mean? And it's not like twenty five with a job,
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: not that there's anything wrong with going back to school,
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: Like I'm not again, like I think this guy's gonna
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: be very successful. He's gonna make someone very very happy
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: with day. But we're not in the same phase of life.
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: Like I'm ready to find a dude, not settled doung
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: because I'm not trying to like, you know, get married
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: and have kids like next year, but like I'm ready
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: to find someone who's like who's who's living their life
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: and not building their life. So I go home. We're
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: hanging out the rest of the day, and then literally
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: the next afternoon bing, I get a text message from
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: him and he goes I woke up this morning and
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: I turned thirties. So I think we can go on
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: a date.
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: Now, Oh my god.
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: And because I'm like, maybe if I just go out
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: with this dude, he'll just get the like he'll be
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: convinced that I'm like just some other I'm just some
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: random blonde bitch. I'm like, I promise you you'll find
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: seven other girls who look just like but.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: It's not you abby. You have the spunk and the
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: spice and everything nice but also kind of mean. Sometimes
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: you have it all.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: But I was just thinking, like, you don't really know
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: anything about me. Like we danced around for like an
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: hour at a bar, like there's nothing to there's. We
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: didn't do anything that you're like, Oh my god, like
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: this she's my wife.
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah you know what I mean, Yes I do.
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: So he texted me that, and I was like, I
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: will go out with him once and then we will.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: I will put this to bed. I will let myself
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: have some romance in my life. He'll be I think
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: he's a great guy. I don't think he's going to
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: be some like weird skeezy dude. So I'll go out.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: I'll go out for a drink, you know, what I mean.
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: I like it, well, I do, honestly. I like the
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: opportunity of like just saying yes to life and just
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: like okay, fine, we'll get it. Because even if it's
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: just the connection friend, like, that's cool too. But I
• 23:44
  Speaker 2: also I definitely recognize now it's like if I don't
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: have a spark, I'm not going to force the wood
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: together to just make a spark. Like you will feel it,
• 23:52
  Speaker 2: the conversation will flow.
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: It's there, all your marks, Yes.
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: That's you know what. And I could understand where he's
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: at too, where it's like, well, no, I feel something.
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: I want to dance. It's fun. I'm also drunk and
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: I want to I've definitely been there, yeah, way more
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: than a time or two.
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: But here's the thing. I will give him some props.
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: I mean, he knew what he wanted. He saw me,
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: and I will give him a round of applause for that.
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: He saw me at the bar, thought I was cute,
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: had the balls to say that girl's cute. I went
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: to talk to her so to an extent, I think
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: that's where I was also kind of like on the
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: fence of like, oh, isn't this what every girl wants?
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: Ever is to have a guy go I think you're hot.
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: Can we hang out?
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Yes? And when you said that,
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: I gave him a lot of props because that's like,
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: you don't see that a lot right now. A lot
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: of guys won't go up and approach, a lot of
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: guys are scared. It's very nerve wracking. And that's something
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: we've talked about many times here. It's like when a
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: guy does it's cool to just even if you're not
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: into them, you know, you don't make them feel stupid
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: for it, because that's what makes us not ever want
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: to do it again.
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: I do feel bad because I do think he broke
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: that rule of mine on Sunday. So on Sunday we
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: went and we went, we went to Fergus to go
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: watch I know it's sorry.
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: Wait a second, what the hell? We've had this other
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: man at the dance bar and now we got a
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: country man. Now we're going to another man.
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: This is this is just a short anecdote and it
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: rains at poor y'all. No literally, it's like I go
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: from getting no action to all of a sudden like
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: fighting these mental matter. I really I wish I had
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: taken a photo of how I look that night, because
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: I would have liked to have asked you, what about
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: this specific fit made me irresistible to the to the
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: male gaze?
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: Actually, you know what do you want me to explain? Yes,
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: there's a thing that we appreciate when a woman is
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: just free, because I'm sure when you're out with Taylor, yes,
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: and you're just flowing and having fun and you guys
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: are just expressing yourselves, it's a whole psychological thing where
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: we're like, I'm attracted to that, especially like a masculine
• 25:37
  Speaker 2: and then a feminine it's irresistible. And the small example
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: is like my lady when I like even like goofy,
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: like dancing, but like I got to see her with
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: your best friend and just flowing together, it's like one
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: of the most attractive things cause it's just your free.
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: All I want to do as a male is allow
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: you to just be free and expressive.
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: That's beautiful and I.
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: Think is happening because when you're just out allowing yourself
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: to just be open, fun, free, and your natural energy's flowing,
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: it is impossible for dudes to not be like, oh
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: my god, I need to be next to her, because
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: that that is the kind of woman does that one?
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: Because I did get there because there was another guy too.
• 26:18
  Speaker 1: There's another guy too that followed. I think he may
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: have followed us to one night stand because I saw
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: him a good night John Boy. And then I saw
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: him again at one night stand and he came up
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: to me. He's like, where'd you just a good night
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: John Again? I think I think I broke my roll
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: twice because I think I was so again. I was
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: in such a bad mood after leaving good Night John
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: Boy that when he came up to me, I was like, yeah,
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: I was there.
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: Oh my god.
• 26:38
  Speaker 1: You know me, I stand on business that when a
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: man approaches me, I always want to make him feel welcome.
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: So that's that was maybe the one. There were there
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: were two moments, and that that moment, I wasn't my
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: best self, and so I apologize to that man. If
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: you listen to this podcast.
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: At this point, honestly, he probably does.
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: Sorry to this man. And then at Fergs on Sunday,
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: I was sitting at the bar with Taylor and the
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: guy next to me goes, so are you married or
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: are those one of are or is that one of
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: your like tracking devices. Especially, He's talking about my or ring.
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: That's kind of bad.
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: So I wear my or ring on my right ring finger.
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: And so I look at him and I hold up
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: my left hand and I go, I'm not married.
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: Oh, and he.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: Goes, so what did he say? He goes, oh, do
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: you normally wear your wedding ring on your left hand?
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: And I was like, yeah, everybody does, and he goes,
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: since when, I'm like, since the beginning of time? I
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: don't know. And so I was so like taken off guard,
• 27:33
  Speaker 1: but I'm like I was like, okay, this what all right? Bye?
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: This is a man at Fergs.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he was sitting next to me. At first, It's
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: like midday is like two pm in the afternoon.
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: Good lord, y'all. I would be, how did you even
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: get out of bed on Sunday morning?
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: Like?
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: What the heck? Taylor?
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: Listen? Taylor was in her flight was until six and
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not going to make you sit
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: in this house. I will take you to Fergs.
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: Well, you guys hungover?
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: I was. I was still drunk when I woke up.
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: I woke up at nine am. I was like, I'm unwell.
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: Taylor as a trooper it sounds like Taylor loves to go.
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: She and you know it's great. I had a fun,
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: super fun time on Saturday, so it's not a complaint.
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: But Sunday was was pretty brutal.
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: You need more these girls' nights out, I.
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: Know, I really do. I'm excited to go back to
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: downtown Saint Pete now that I know what bars I enjoy.
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like there's actually I came getting. If you go
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: further down Central, there's even more.
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: Oh really yeah, because I love to dance. Like literally,
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: from the second we walked into good Night John Boyd
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: to the second.
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: We left, I had a good time. Have you been
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: to my Rich Uncle whatever that is called. It's on
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: the second floor over in Central. It's like right above
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: Welcome to the Farm. Okay, that's another big dance spot
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: that and good Night John.
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: I love to dance. See That's the thing is like
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: I probably look very free and fun and feminine when
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: I'm dancing.
• 28:40
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, when you got to dance and shoes on.
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: Because but that's why barsing to start playing songs with
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: lyrics again.
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: Okay, would you be down? How country do you want
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: to get? Because I think I've mentioned the Dallas Bowl before.
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: I like radio country, okay, because they do radio country too,
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: but it's like, do you do like line dancing and stuff.
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: I'll do a little line dance because that's like they
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: got the whole ass dance hall where people were like
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: spinning and stepping. It's honestly like I grew up, you know,
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: with a lot of Southern country friends.
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: I have it in my blood.
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: I hear it but every morning.
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: But that's like, that's where it crosses the line for
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: me because people will start doing the whole two step thing,
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, I, we didn't do that in my household. No,
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: I have no idea.
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: I think it's fun to try and learn it. It's
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: not like what I'm searching for. I like to hear
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: a song that I love and I like to hear
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: it come loud over the speakers, and I want to
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: be able to dance to it.
• 29:27
  Speaker 2: We're gonna do a night over at the Dallas Bowl, then, okay,
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: we're gonna do it. I'm gonna do it my lady
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: and her friends and we're gonna go to the Dallas Bowl.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: So fun.
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: I love that that's gonna be a fun night out
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: because that's a whole different scene, like, holy crap, you
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: going like inWORD in Tampa, My goodness noted.
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: So there was no.
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: Chance with this guy at FIRGS.
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: Oh no, no, no, no no. But I brought that up
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: because I wanted to after just going on a rant
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: about how much I don't want to date this guy
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: that I'm going out with. Is that I did. I
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: do just do want to give him props because I
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: think I've dated a lot of losers in the that
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: I feel bad that I'm giving this guy a hard
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: time because I think objectively he's not a loser.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe it's not even his fault. Maybe it's because
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: the other losers that you're like, yeah, I guess it
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: gets exhausting.
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: I think it got exhausting. Then I was like, damn, well,
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: here's actually why I got exhausting. And here's one of
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: the things that it triggered in me. Is a guy
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: that I really caught feelings for, like the last time
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: I caught like last time I had reciprocal feelings for someone,
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: like the last time I liked someone and they liked me.
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: He was again, he was my age, but in a
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: different phase of life, and I could tell was not
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: gonna get a shit together, and that really frustrated me,
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: being so angry that I could feel this way about somebody,
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: but knowing like I know nothing about this is gonna
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: work out. So I'm sitting there, you know, on this
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: guy's back patio in his lawn chair and thinking, why
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: does every time I find someone like cute or whatever,
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: someone who's really into me and making it known it's
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: a life circle stance that I'm like, I'm not really
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: and let me make it clear. Like if I was
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: really into this guy, like like personality wise or like whatever,
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: we could look over that. But there's just too many
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: things that aren't adding up other than the fact that
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: he's a hot guy and he's paying attention to me.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: Yes, it's like if you could look past all that
• 31:16
  Speaker 2: on a drunk Saturday night or Sunday morning, Yeah you realize,
• 31:19
  Speaker 2: Wait a second, I'm just really liking this moment. It
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: doesn't need to live past this. What does the date
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: set up already? Like this is actually.
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: It's on Thursday.
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: Oh it's already set yeah wow.
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: But I don't know where I'm going. I don't really
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: know what we're doing. I just know that he's very persistent.
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: I gotta give him credit for that.
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: I need just go dancing more.
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: Maybe just go to drinking more. I'm shoking.
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: Just said I'd be drinking a lot this week. I
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: need I need opportunities to dance. I just wanted to dance.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: By the way, what's Emma Stone meme said's damn, let's dance.
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, no no. What's funny is are people trying
• 31:58
  Speaker 2: to find this man that you were dancing with earlier?
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: Oh, good night john boy boy?
• 32:02
  Speaker 2: Yes, because we talked.
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: Oh, we really should just call him john boy instead
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: of his actual name. I know, we put this man
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: on blast so many times. We're using his full government name.
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we have his last name of Social Security and
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: his credit No.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: I admittedly I went home. I'm like, let me see,
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: I can google him. And I think everyone else thought
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: the same thing, because they've all been sending me the
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: same uh, the same girl or the same not girl.
• 32:22
  Speaker 2: The same guy.
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: Because I'm like, yeah, if I was really, really, really drunk,
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: I might think that's him. But I don't think that's him.
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: You don't think it's him.
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: It's a good it's a good guess because he fits
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: the description of what I described, but the LinkedIn profile.
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: They're sending me is not Oh they found his LinkedIn.
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: No, no, they found a LinkedIn profile. It's not him, but
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: like understandably, I could see why you think it's him.
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: That's it's very impressive that people have already started, because
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: all we literally have done is say a bar and
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: a name.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: I would love for them to find him so that.
• 32:50
  Speaker 2: I can get the eck.
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: That would be nice, so I can just because I
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: know there's got to be something.
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: Maybe unless he's perfect and he's tall and has great hair.
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, do you remember, like they came over and they
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: and even look us in the eye when they started
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: to do it too.
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: That's what's so frustrated. It's like if these two, like
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: the two men could combine into one and have the
• 33:08
  Speaker 2: perfect balance, damn it, the stars would be aligned.
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: No, I know, but that's just classic, Like it's all
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: it would be too good to be true. Yeah, well
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: it would be it that I'd be getting married.
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: Oh that's true. Then we'd be at a wedding next weekend.
• 33:20
  Speaker 2: Now when you're talking to this guy, John Boy, like,
• 33:23
  Speaker 2: how is the conversation with him? Because it seemed like
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: it took a while. Esp if you listen to the
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: other podcast, you're gonna hear for them to even like
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: get flowing with y'all. Like, so your conversation was good though,
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: like did you get.
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: A We obviously weren't having like full on conversations, I think,
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: and maybe this makes me a little bit like the
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: guy that I'm texting right now, where it's just kind
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: of like you catch a vibe from someone and you're like, Ooh,
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: I think we're on the same wavelength. Does that make sense?
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: And so maybe this guy that I'm texting thinks we're
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: on the same wavelength and that's why he's very persistent.
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: Oh, and you think you're on the same wavelength.
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: I don't feel on the same wavelength as John. So
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: maybe I'm I'm the toxic one in the situation. He
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: was like, you don't even know Probably listening to you're like,
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: you don't even know me. I'm like, yeah, but you
• 34:02
  Speaker 1: made one really like spicy joke and I thought it
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: was Grandpa his hot he was. He was just very
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: like we were having fun. I don't know, there's just
• 34:10
  Speaker 1: a vibe. There was just a vibe, and maybe that
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: the vibe was neutral. The alcohol I think it's.
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: Something to lean into. Though I don't know how else
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: you would find him. You didn't get a job, you
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: didn't get anything he does in Saint Pete.
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: I only have his name because Taylor got his name.
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: That's why it's really good. Though he had like this
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: button down on he like kept like undoing the buttons.
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: It was very like, it was sexy.
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: He was hot. What else did he do that was sexy?
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: I mean because based off of the last podcast, he
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: had a couple of good moves that was really Oh
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: my god. Okay, well, now I'm curious if if you
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: do find listen to the other podcast and find anybody
• 34:40
  Speaker 2: that's remotely similar, obviously send it over. It does seem creepy,
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: and if he's listening, they know it's so I'm sorry. Well,
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: you know what, this is what we do. Not only
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: are we radio hosts, but we're investigators. We might as
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: well just be in the CIA.
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: Just find him so I can get the it and
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: move on.
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: That's right. We don't even like this guy.
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I probably wouldn't. That's the thing. It is like,
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, we had one really fun couple hours, and.
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: He probably has like talents for toes.
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: He probably does no, never mind, maybe he is a
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: bad job.
• 35:07
  Speaker 2: Oh no, he's probably making a ton of money so successful,
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: drives a great car. Let's watch look nice gosh, damn it. No,
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: watch his face and.
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: His co and his coworkers from England. You know it's
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: like a big finance company.
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: Damn it. That's perfect for Abby too of finance.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: He's perfect.
• 35:23
  Speaker 2: Bless America. All right, Well, tomorrow we're gonna be celebrating.
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: I don't know where. Are we releasing this on your birthday? Yeah?
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, this is my birthday. Wish me happy birthday.
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: But you're listening to this on Wednesday, Happy birthday.
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: I'm a birthday. You're gonna hear that for the guests
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: of the rest of the week. Anyway, maybe the birthday
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: gods will come together and maybe somebody will be at
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: the raise game that we're going to.
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: Oh, we also saw another really hot guy on Friday.
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: Can I tell you about this too? Or should I
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: tell you about it tomorrow? Now?
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: Tell me about the hot guy.
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: I'm leaned in so Taylor and I feel like one
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: of the girls. Now you know what, Really, there's was
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: something in the air this weekend. On Friday, I was
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: filming bays on Bishore and I literally was like, that's
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: my husband.
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: I do love. I used to think those moments for
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: fake m or something to it.
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: So Taylor and I were walking Bay Shore and God,
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: I can't believe we have so many good stories this week.
• 36:12
  Speaker 1: Should I say it? No, because we'll talk about.
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we got a ton of stuff. Is gonna happen
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: on your birthday.
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about the Lightning game norrow. Okay, So
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: this is so dumb. We're walking Bea Shore and literally
• 36:27
  Speaker 1: we're walking towards David Silence. We're gonna go back home,
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: we're gonna get ready to go to dinner. And this guy who
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: is literally my perfect type to a tea like tall, muscular,
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: baseball build, brunette hair, he starts walking towards He's like
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: walking the other way. We're walking towards David Silence. He's
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: walking towards South Tampa. I guess it'd be. And I'm like, oh,
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna say hi to this guy. Like I'm literally
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: gonna say hi to this guy.
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: You get so bold.
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: I love it well because I was like, that's my husband,
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: Like I literally saw him I was like, I'm gonna
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: marry him. So I see him and I'm like trying
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: to make eye contact with him, but he like is
• 37:00
  Speaker 1: looking my direction, and so he walks by, and Taylor
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: and I literally go nonverbal and just turn around and go.
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: We were so flabbergasted by this man's beauty. So he
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: walks away, and I'm like, oh my god, I'm so upset.
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: I'm never going to see this man again. And he's
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: literally perfect, Like I love him. I know nothing about
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: this man.
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: All we've seen is literally his bare chest. Was he shirtless?
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're shirtless obviously obviously, but he was like I
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: was like thinking, I was looking at him. I was like,
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: oh my god, we look so good together. So we're
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: walking away, and then this is where things got interesting.
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: So I stopped to film Base on Bay Shore with
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: Taylor and then we keep walking towards Davis Islands and
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: then all of a sudden rape from right behind us.
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: And this maybe was five minutes later. And you know
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: how long Bayshore is.
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: It goes like ten miles.
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: Bay Shore goes like ten miles, So all of a
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: sudden coming behind us and then running in front of
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: us is my husband. No, husband's back, and me and
• 37:53
  Speaker 1: Taylor go, didn't he just walk by us the other direction?
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: And then we go, that's interesting. It's almost as if
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: you turn around and then here's and then here's where
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: things got even weirder.
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: Oh boy.
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: So then he ran for like another quarter mile and
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: then he stopped and then he turned back around again.
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: Okay, sir, what is that? What are we doing?
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: And I was like, this is my I know it's
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: it's crazy because beshre so long. So he turns back
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: around again. He turns back around again, and I'm like,
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: this is it. I'm going to say something. So I'm
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: like me, I'm literally staring into this man's soul. I'm
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: burning holes into his pectorials because I'm like, I'm not
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: letting this moment pass. No, He's got his earbuds in
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: and then he's just looking down and I'm like, okay me,
• 38:36
  Speaker 1: look at me, look at me, look at me, look
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: at me, because I'm gonna say hi. He doesn't look
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: at me, and he walks away again, and Taylor and
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: I go, what the actual.
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: Spot wrong with this man? There's two women that are.
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: Like, right there, we're literally giving him were literally looking
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: at him. We're like, say hi to a sadow us,
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: sayadow us. And if he looked at me, even in
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: the general direction, I would have been like, hi, good,
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: good dog, just say hello. And I almost thought about
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: stopping him to say, hey, are you single? Can I
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: film you?
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: For my would have been the line abba.
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: But here's the thing. He wouldn't look at me, and
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: so I just kind of like got nervous.
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: Throw something at him, throw your shoe with the man.
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: But yeah, when he turned back around, me and Taylor
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: were like, I wonder if he came back around because
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: Bay Shore is so long. When you're running Bay short,
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: you're not like running for five minutes and then turning around.
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, this whole suckers along the water. You're supposed to
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: be gone for like an hour.
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: You're supposed to you're supposed to run five miles that
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: way and five miles.
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: Yes, was this man doing low point point five turns
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: right now?
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: But I'm thinking about just camping out on Bayshore until
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: I find him.
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: Because oh my god, you know what, as crazy as
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: it sounds, why the hell not?
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: Why the hell not?
• 39:40
  Speaker 2: I mean, because it sounds extremely creepy, and if you
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: ever heard that. He would probably never want to talk
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: to you unless he thinks it's obsessedim. And maybe he
• 39:44
  Speaker 2: was early.
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: Maybe he thinks I'm his wife, though that might be it.
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: Maybe he was so nervous because he was just starstruck.
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: He's like, oh my god, that's Bai. Why would literally.
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: I'm hoping he sees my Basil Beay short video and goes,
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: oh my god, that's her. I should follow her. Ah.
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: I mean, there's so many people. I'm sure you could
• 40:01
  Speaker 2: find eighteen men that look just like him on.
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: Being Oh, I've never seen anyone who that was.
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: Your husband was him unless you hear his voice and
• 40:07
  Speaker 2: like his voice gives.
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: You from Scuskatchatune. Anyway, that was my last I had
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: to get that last thing off my chest. Now that
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: you guys have all known my three romantic prospects that
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: happened in one weekend.
• 40:18
  Speaker 2: Isn't that wild? Though?
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: It is so wild. I don't know what was in
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: the air. Maybe it was because I got my hair done.
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: Oh the universe was like, oh yeah, you did get
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: your hair done' get my hair done?
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: Now? Do you want to talk about that? Because I
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: know that was a stressful moment.
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: Dude, I was in the chair for five hours.
• 40:33
  Speaker 2: That's what blows my mind, especially because I hear this
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: from women all the time, the amount of time that
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: you sit in that damn chair.
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: But normally, and this is not like me complaining about
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: it at all, because I think she did a gret job.
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: Shout out home girl, I love you, Thank you for
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: doing a good job in my hair. Normally I had
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: I had some meetings scheduled for like five pm that day,
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: and she's like, do you have anywhere to be I'm like,
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: oh no, not really something I'm going to be done
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: in like three three four hours. That's like the latest
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: my hair will ever take. And Jacksonville my hair about
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: two and a half hours. In Atlanta, my hair would
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: take around three and a half hours. So I'm like,
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: there's no ways is going longer than four hours. Four
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: thirty comes around and I go, what the fuck am
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: I getting out of this chair?
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: Holy crap, I.
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: Was there until about four fifty.
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: I don't see that. This is where I don't understan
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: where it works, Like, what the hell are you doing
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: that time? Is it like just your hair's getting colored.
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: It's a lot of like hurry up and waiting. So
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: when you get your hair colored, obviously it takes a
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: long time to place the foils. You obviously want to
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: get that right, and then you have to sit there
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: with the foils in your head for a certain amount
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: of time, and then you have to tone the foils,
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: so then you have to sit there for a certain
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: amount of time. So it's a lot of just like
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: waiting around.
• 41:34
  Speaker 2: What are you doing while it's just sitting Are you
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: just scrolling on your phone?
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: We're going on my phone, You're making small talk.
• 41:40
  Speaker 2: There's only so much small talk. I think, like my
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: haircut person who I'm going to seat later today, Like
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: it's awesome. We sit there and talk for like thirty minutes,
• 41:46
  Speaker 2: But that's all I got.
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: That's when I never know what to do. I'm like,
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: I'm like, does she need to focus?
• 41:51
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't, am I distracting her?
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: I was like, I don't necessarily want to gab for
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: five hours.
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: I definitely don't.
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: Taylor was here for three days and there were moments
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: where I was like, girl, I'm just sitting here. I can't.
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: I want it to be like uber where I could
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: just put up a little sign that's like I'm not
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: feeling like talking, like I don't mind catching up, and
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: she's super nice, so it's never her. It's mostly just
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: me where I'm like, I like to just have time
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: where I could just sit in like zone.
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: Honestly, I feel the same way, And so I thought
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: like we had a good balance to where we were
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: talking and then not talking. But when we go through
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: that period where you're like not talking, you go should
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: I be talking? Should I be listening? Her a question?
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: Am I an ass whole for not asking her more questions?
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: What questions can I ask her? I've already asked her?
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: Is she dating anybody?
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: We've already gone through that.
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: We've already gone through that.
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: An interviewer in the chair for Base on Baeshre. No, literally,
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: oh gosh, I just I want it to be more
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: socially acceptable to be like, I am not in a
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: talking mood. It's not you, it's me.
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: But it probably they probably would be fine with.
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: That is but just I play it out in my
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: head like I'm going today, and if I was like,
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: oh my god, a little quick two minute catch up
• 42:49
  Speaker 2: and is it cool? I'm actually wait, that doesn't sound
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: that bad? Is it cool? Could I just sit here
• 42:53
  Speaker 2: in silence for a little bit, because life has been
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: heavy recently. So I'm like, I would like to just
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: be like, this is zone for a little bit. I
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: guess it so comes off rude. Well, that's amazing. I'm
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: very impressed. I hope any of these prospects lead to
• 43:06
  Speaker 2: more or I'm very curious on how Thursday goes.
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: I feel like, busy week. What a busy week, you guys?
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: Oh my god, thank god.
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: I really needed something. Life has been heavy recently too.
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: You know, it's been a lot, so I needed my
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: three uh needed my three romantic options.
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: Hey, waiting this weekend? Maybe three more. I don't know.
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: Are you in town?
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: No, I'm going to Charleston.
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: Maybe in Charleston, who knows. I don't know.
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: I don't really like Charleston.
• 43:30
  Speaker 2: That's the batchlor what's happened to Charleston.
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: It's just my birthday?
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: You're going, yeah, Oh well then maybe no Charleston.
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: Guys aren't really my tight.
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: Not yet till you meet. I don't know.
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: Charleston. Going to Miami, I don't know. I'm going to
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: meet Peter Palmer.
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: His family's been there for eighteen generations. They've been there
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: a long time. They got a bar in Charleston. All Right,
• 43:54
  Speaker 2: Abby went just social media so people could wish you
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: a happy birthday at the Abby Murphy.
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: Feel free you to send any guys do you think
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: match the description of many of the men I just
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: talked about.
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: Mine is at Scott Tavlin and at Magic ninety four
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: nine for the rest. Also, if you are in the
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: Tampa Bay area and you want to see more of
• 44:10
  Speaker 2: these situations that are going down, we are throwing a
• 44:13
  Speaker 2: massive pool party. It's going down single to my weekend
• 44:15
  Speaker 2: May third, over the Maxia Hotel. Just let us know.
• 44:18
  Speaker 2: I say this on the podcast because we are allowed
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: to bring a certain amount of people. So if you
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: want to go and you're part of our podcast fam,
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: just message us dm us and we'll see we'll get
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: you on the list as well. All right, let's see
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: what other dates Abby goes on. And then next week