Latest / Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge / The REAL Ugly Truth
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- 0:02Speaker 1: Two teas in a pod with Teddy Melon can'ts and
- 0:05Speaker 1: camera edge. What is with some hooker nails? Oh? They're
- 0:17Speaker 1: so bad? The hooker nails are So I went off
- 0:22Speaker 1: to Hailey Beaver and spo and it came out wrong,
- 0:25Speaker 1: but it had already taken so long, and I'm so
- 0:28Speaker 1: do I'm over three weeks doo, and my girl that
- 0:31Speaker 1: comes through my nails was out of town, so I
- 0:34Speaker 1: was only home one day in between the retreat. So
- 0:37Speaker 1: now I'm just stuck here in this situation. Okay, here's
- 0:40Speaker 1: something mind blowing. I have not had my nails done
- 0:44Speaker 1: since Bravo. Con Hold on, what, by the way, I
- 0:48Speaker 1: have your freaking shoes here because I don't have any
- 0:50Speaker 1: other shoes to wear tonight. Well that's all right, I
- 0:53Speaker 1: have your shoes here too, your White's sus. But I
- 0:56Speaker 1: actually bought you a brand new pair because I've been
- 1:00Speaker 1: I've warned them a couple of times, and I think
- 1:01Speaker 1: I might have scratched them, so I bought you. I
- 1:03Speaker 1: wouldn't have cared you did not need to buy but
- 1:05Speaker 1: that's okay. I love them, and I also bought them
- 1:08Speaker 1: in silver, So are they not that so comfy to
- 1:11Speaker 1: wear all night. Well, why sales across the board are
- 1:13Speaker 1: so comfortable and you laugh at my tributes that I've
- 1:16Speaker 1: had for seven years. But I can get back that
- 1:19Speaker 1: I have to wear those your tributes that I'm gonna
- 1:23Speaker 1: be wearing tonight. I already am embarrassed because my entire family.
- 1:27Speaker 1: Just to give you a backstory, thoullon dollars, you shouldn't
- 1:30Speaker 1: be embarrassed. You're no the ones I have our shoots.
- 1:35Speaker 1: Oh no, those aren't tributes. Yeah right, you're wearing those tonight.
- 1:39Speaker 1: I don't have another option because I'm doing no, not
- 1:44Speaker 1: with the color suit I'm wearing tonight. They're they're there.
- 1:48Speaker 1: I like them because they're they kind of go with everything,
- 1:50Speaker 1: but their their platform for a short girls and they're comfortable.
- 1:55Speaker 1: So you know, would I have to get into the
- 1:57Speaker 1: marriage retreat after, But we need to first discuss with
- 1:59Speaker 1: that since I've got to be your okay. First of all,
- 2:02Speaker 1: I feel like I have not seen you, well I
- 2:05Speaker 1: haven't in a while, but I feel like I feel
- 2:07Speaker 1: like a free woman since filming stopped. It's like I
- 2:11Speaker 1: feel like I'm actually living my life now. And well,
- 2:15Speaker 1: I I can tell because all of a sudden, You're
- 2:18Speaker 1: back on the group text and I'm on I'm on
- 2:21Speaker 1: the gram too, I'm on the ground and I haven't
- 2:25Speaker 1: been on the ground and probably three months. I mean
- 2:27Speaker 1: every once in a while and shoot something out there.
- 2:28Speaker 1: But now I'm like, Okay, let's go, let's live life,
- 2:31Speaker 1: let's go to target, Let's do all the things that
- 2:34Speaker 1: I haven't been able to do for the past three
- 2:36Speaker 1: and a half months. Like we're no makeup. I feel
- 2:40Speaker 1: a whole new pep in your stack. Oh I am.
- 2:43Speaker 1: I am very happy to not be filming right now.
- 2:46Speaker 1: Very happy. I can't even tell you. I mean all
- 2:49Speaker 1: the things I'm doing, not wearing makeup, wearing sweats every day,
- 2:53Speaker 1: working out every day, making dinner, going to target, like
- 2:56Speaker 1: all those things are just like like I am in,
- 3:00Speaker 1: haven't I'm like, oh not. Every minute of my day
- 3:03Speaker 1: needs to be completely scheduled out. I mean, I can
- 3:07Speaker 1: imagine what my family feels because every minute of my
- 3:09Speaker 1: day is about me. Yeah, well, this will get up
- 3:14Speaker 1: the fact that you Okay, before we even get to
- 3:16Speaker 1: New York, we have to talk a little bit about
- 3:18Speaker 1: this marriage, marriage or tweet retreat situation because we tweet. Okay,
- 3:24Speaker 1: you tell me about it because you didn't give me
- 3:25Speaker 1: any information. Just okay, going on this marriage retreat, I
- 3:28Speaker 1: don't know anything about it. Tell me all the details, Okay,
- 3:32Speaker 1: So I don't know. I mean, I feel like you
- 3:33Speaker 1: and I have talked about this a little bit. But
- 3:35Speaker 1: I feel like when me and Edwin originally started on
- 3:40Speaker 1: the show, I we had gone through something pretty difficult
- 3:45Speaker 1: and I just shut it down any any thought of
- 3:52Speaker 1: processing through it anything, because I just wanted to give
- 3:56Speaker 1: the illusion that our life was perfect and every thing
- 4:00Speaker 1: was perfect, and everything was good and it is good.
- 4:03Speaker 1: We're great parents, we have fun together, all of it.
- 4:06Speaker 1: Like it doesn't mean that it's bad. We just never
- 4:08Speaker 1: put in the work to fix what was going on
- 4:11Speaker 1: in our past. And it's one of my biggest regrets
- 4:14Speaker 1: because especially something reparable, something it's something reparable, but it
- 4:19Speaker 1: was something that was changing me as a human being,
- 4:24Speaker 1: Like it was constantly weighing on me, and I think
- 4:27Speaker 1: the kind of we we scheduled the marriage treat a
- 4:31Speaker 1: long time ago, but kind of the final right before
- 4:34Speaker 1: we left for the marriage treat, we went to the
- 4:37Speaker 1: patron event and the patron event was great, and then
- 4:40Speaker 1: at the end of the event, we got in this
- 4:42Speaker 1: huge fight and like, you know me, I'm not I
- 4:44Speaker 1: will negotiate, but I'm not really a fighter. Like I
- 4:47Speaker 1: like that's how i am. And in my mind, not
- 4:50Speaker 1: in on the show, but in my marriage, I'm not
- 4:53Speaker 1: the fighter. I'm the more of it. I shut down
- 4:58Speaker 1: and like I'm also like in my mind, I'm always justifying,
- 5:02Speaker 1: like I'm going through cancer stuff, I'm dealing with this,
- 5:04Speaker 1: I'm having with this hard time and you know now
- 5:07Speaker 1: you're yelling him. It was at the end of the
- 5:09Speaker 1: patron event. We were both drunk, for sure, both drunk,
- 5:13Speaker 1: but like I couldn't find our room, my room key
- 5:15Speaker 1: and blab and he just like kind of started coming
- 5:18Speaker 1: at me. And it was to the point I even
- 5:20Speaker 1: called my dad in the middle of our argument, and
- 5:23Speaker 1: it was like one thirty in the morning, and I
- 5:24Speaker 1: was like, I cannot deal with this. I'm shutting down, blahblah.
- 5:28Speaker 1: I really thought we were going to wake up the
- 5:29Speaker 1: next morning and we were not going to go on
- 5:31Speaker 1: the wedding. But that's the level of how bad the
- 5:35Speaker 1: argument was. Calling Okay, so you called your dad, Did
- 5:37Speaker 1: your dad give you good advice? Does your dad's side
- 5:39Speaker 1: with you? What do you what do you do? Because
- 5:41Speaker 1: if I called my mom to be like you just
- 5:43Speaker 1: get out, you get out, he gets on like we
- 5:49Speaker 1: were on speaker phone, and my Dad's like, what the
- 5:51Speaker 1: hell are you two doing? This is craziness. You both
- 5:56Speaker 1: you drank too much at an event and now you
- 5:58Speaker 1: are trying to fight about things that happened eight years ago,
- 6:02Speaker 1: Like stop it. Get in your rooms to Edwin looking
- 6:06Speaker 1: her purse, do you see the room? Like treating us
- 6:09Speaker 1: like we were children children because we were acting like children.
- 6:11Speaker 1: But if you haven't dealt with something that happened eight
- 6:13Speaker 1: years ago, it will come up in situations when you drink, especially. Yeah,
- 6:20Speaker 1: So then we went on. You know. Then the next
- 6:23Speaker 1: day was like brutal because we both kind of woke
- 6:26Speaker 1: up not add percent on like what the night entailed.
- 6:29Speaker 1: But then I went to my my call history and
- 6:31Speaker 1: I was like on the phone with the Coogs for
- 6:34Speaker 1: twenty four minutes at one thirty in the morning. I
- 6:36Speaker 1: was like, no, this isn't gonna be good. And then
- 6:39Speaker 1: I saw my text to Kyle and Jen and I
- 6:41Speaker 1: was like, uh so, and Edone just kind of like
- 6:46Speaker 1: looked at me and he's like, well, we're gonna go home,
- 6:49Speaker 1: and you know, like we just said we're mad at
- 6:51Speaker 1: each other, like we're just mad. And then we went
- 6:55Speaker 1: on this wedding retreat. I mean just sorry, we went
- 6:57Speaker 1: on this marriage retreat and as you do all these
- 7:00Speaker 1: quizzes and tests and these things, and like pretty much
- 7:04Speaker 1: and I don't know, I want you to take it
- 7:05Speaker 1: to like just for us, but like my entire like
- 7:11Speaker 1: disposition and everything about me is in the low blue circle,
- 7:15Speaker 1: which means I'm a complete introvert. And like self acceptance
- 7:20Speaker 1: is like this huge thing for me. I mean, this
- 7:21Speaker 1: is I can I can tell you that that's one
- 7:25Speaker 1: of your things. Self acceptance is very important to you. Yeah,
- 7:29Speaker 1: it is, and it's not. I mean there was forty
- 7:33Speaker 1: of us in the room and I had the lowest
- 7:36Speaker 1: of anybody insecurity, and I was like, holy crap, I've
- 7:40Speaker 1: done all this work on myself, and do you feel
- 7:44Speaker 1: like you're insecure? Well, that's why I asked the guy.
- 7:48Speaker 1: I said, listen, I he goes, there's a difference between
- 7:51Speaker 1: being confident and having insecurities. He's like, you're confident, Like
- 7:56Speaker 1: if you believe in what you're saying, you are confident.
- 7:59Speaker 1: You're He's like and you say no to a lot,
- 8:03Speaker 1: but you also want to please people, and that's including
- 8:05Speaker 1: your husband. And you always want to pretend that everything's okay,
- 8:08Speaker 1: and you always want to pretend that life is great
- 8:11Speaker 1: and that is not reality. And he's like, and just
- 8:13Speaker 1: because you will show some vulnerability, that doesn't mean that
- 8:16Speaker 1: you're showing vulnerability to your spouse. And that's where Edwin
- 8:20Speaker 1: and I had like a true breakthrough where he looked
- 8:22Speaker 1: at me and he's like, is there something I'm doing
- 8:24Speaker 1: where I'm not giving you what you need? And I'm
- 8:27Speaker 1: like a million percent, like I need like kindness and
- 8:31Speaker 1: warmth and love from you. And he's like, I would
- 8:35Speaker 1: have no idea you needed those things. He's like, you
- 8:37Speaker 1: don't understand. You're on autopilot. Yeah, I have. You're a
- 8:42Speaker 1: busy girl. He's like I had. He's like, I am
- 8:45Speaker 1: constantly giving everything to everybody else because I don't think
- 8:50Speaker 1: you need it. He's like, now I'm looking at your
- 8:52Speaker 1: scores and I'm shocked and and then his he doesn't
- 8:56Speaker 1: need that. Isn't it crazy that you've been married to
- 8:58Speaker 1: somebody and they don't really know what you need? Yeah,
- 9:02Speaker 1: Because we become this type of people that were married
- 9:04Speaker 1: to that. You should be able to read my mind
- 9:07Speaker 1: and if you can't, then you're an asshole. Why was
- 9:11Speaker 1: and I know this is this is bringing up past stuff,
- 9:14Speaker 1: but I was watching a clip, um because someone in
- 9:18Speaker 1: our group chat was telling me, Teddy, you need to
- 9:20Speaker 1: go back and watch old Orange Counties before you start
- 9:24Speaker 1: recapping them since Tim will be on with you. And
- 9:26Speaker 1: I said, I don't think I ever want to watch
- 9:27Speaker 1: before before Eddie comes into the mix, and he said,
- 9:31Speaker 1: you need to watch the limo scene. He's like you're
- 9:33Speaker 1: gonna get chills and watching like the rawness of you
- 9:40Speaker 1: saying like I want to get a divorce and like
- 9:44Speaker 1: how long had you been feeling that way? Do you
- 9:47Speaker 1: ever have those moments with Eddie? And like what did
- 9:52Speaker 1: it take you to get there? Okay? With Simon, it
- 9:56Speaker 1: was a long time coming. We I mean people were
- 9:58Speaker 1: taking bats at our wedding how and would be married?
- 10:01Speaker 1: And of course I was pregnant with Sydney when we
- 10:03Speaker 1: got married. Um, he was the safe butt for me.
- 10:07Speaker 1: I was a single mom for many many years and
- 10:09Speaker 1: I thought like this is a guy that he was
- 10:10Speaker 1: very structured and controlled, and he controlled me and I
- 10:14Speaker 1: felt like that's what I needed to be. I was
- 10:16Speaker 1: this free spirit that was just not making any sense
- 10:18Speaker 1: in this world anymore. And I had a child that
- 10:21Speaker 1: I was raising, and I felt like I needed to
- 10:22Speaker 1: be structured. So, you know, I I got married to him,
- 10:28Speaker 1: and things were bad. A lot of the times they
- 10:31Speaker 1: were they were bad, and they were good, they were bad.
- 10:33Speaker 1: There was times in our marriage that I actually went
- 10:34Speaker 1: on anti dupressant's because it's the only way I could
- 10:37Speaker 1: I could stay married to him. And he would tell
- 10:40Speaker 1: me things like, you need to stay on those because
- 10:42Speaker 1: when you're on them, then you're good, You're nice to me.
- 10:46Speaker 1: So I always thought I had to stay on him,
- 10:48Speaker 1: and I go off and I go back on and
- 10:50Speaker 1: and when we um signed up for the show, I
- 10:54Speaker 1: never thought he would do it because he's such a
- 10:56Speaker 1: control freak and he also wanted to be a star.
- 11:01Speaker 1: So we got on the show and things just went
- 11:03Speaker 1: downhill because I was very much expected to be at
- 11:08Speaker 1: home and when you know, when you get on the
- 11:10Speaker 1: show and all of a sudden, you're going on trips.
- 11:13Speaker 1: My first trip was in San Diego with the girls.
- 11:16Speaker 1: I had never been on a girls trip ever in
- 11:18Speaker 1: my life. And then it, people got attention started coming
- 11:21Speaker 1: to me, and you know, social media wasn't as big
- 11:22Speaker 1: back then as is now, but still like we'd be
- 11:25Speaker 1: out and people be like, oh my god, it's camera
- 11:27Speaker 1: and he didn't like it, and it just got It
- 11:30Speaker 1: was where our our foundation was rocky, and it had
- 11:33Speaker 1: been rocky for years. So we were doom for divorce.
- 11:37Speaker 1: It was going to happen. And the last season that
- 11:39Speaker 1: we were on together, we kind of knew we were
- 11:41Speaker 1: going to get a divorce, but we didn't want to
- 11:43Speaker 1: play it out on TV. And it was crazy because
- 11:47Speaker 1: it was actually my daughter, Sydney that kept saying to me, Mom,
- 11:50Speaker 1: let's move out, Mom, let's move out. And I do
- 11:56Speaker 1: think that's where a lot of for trauma comes from,
- 12:00Speaker 1: because she saw the fighting and arguing and all that stuff.
- 12:03Speaker 1: And I eventually took her her and I went and
- 12:05Speaker 1: looked at apartments and places and we found a place
- 12:08Speaker 1: and and I loved him. You know, it was it
- 12:11Speaker 1: was difficult, but it was the worst situation in a
- 12:14Speaker 1: marriage you can ever imagine. I mean, I'm sure there's worse.
- 12:16Speaker 1: You know, he wasn't beating the ship out of me
- 12:18Speaker 1: or anything like that, but it was a bad marriage. Bad.
- 12:22Speaker 1: So the marriage I have with Eddie is polar opposite.
- 12:27Speaker 1: We and and sometimes I worry about what would you
- 12:29Speaker 1: say it was perfect our marriage? Yeah? But no, I
- 12:33Speaker 1: don't think it's perfect. I fear sometimes because we don't argue,
- 12:38Speaker 1: We don't, we hardly ever argue. And then I then
- 12:40Speaker 1: I get in my head going is this normal? Is
- 12:43Speaker 1: this okay? Are we supposed to at least you know,
- 12:46Speaker 1: you know it's as far as marriages go that I mean,
- 12:50Speaker 1: this is my third marriage. This is about as perfect
- 12:52Speaker 1: as it comes. We get along, we don't fight, we're
- 12:54Speaker 1: best friends, you know, But it took me three times
- 12:57Speaker 1: to get to where I'm at um. I can't see
- 12:59Speaker 1: we never we disagree. Eddie will blow up about once
- 13:04Speaker 1: a year. He's one that kind of keeps things in,
- 13:06Speaker 1: keeps things in, but he'll blow up about once a year.
- 13:10Speaker 1: I'm not a mean fighter when it comes to marriage.
- 13:12Speaker 1: Because I was with with Simon, I would yell and scream,
- 13:15Speaker 1: I hope you die. I don't want to be married
- 13:17Speaker 1: to you. I hate you, and my mom would say,
- 13:20Speaker 1: don't say those things, and he would do the same
- 13:22Speaker 1: to me. So we got into a habit of doing
- 13:24Speaker 1: that and went you into a habit of saying things
- 13:26Speaker 1: like that. There's no returning. You can't take your words back.
- 13:29Speaker 1: Those words hurt. So with Eddie and I, I will
- 13:32Speaker 1: not say mean things. I never say mean things. He
- 13:39Speaker 1: will more than I will if we get into a fight.
- 13:41Speaker 1: He's like once a year he'll blow up for everything
- 13:44Speaker 1: that's bothered him in the whole year. That's how Edwin
- 13:46Speaker 1: is too, So he holds it in because he doesn't
- 13:49Speaker 1: want to have any controversy, whereas like, I'm okay to
- 13:52Speaker 1: just have a conversation and not turn into a fight,
- 13:55Speaker 1: Like let's just and and something they said to me
- 13:58Speaker 1: when we were on the retreat it was like, listen,
- 14:00Speaker 1: if you go into every conversation in your marriage and
- 14:03Speaker 1: it's a fight and there's one person that's gonna win,
- 14:06Speaker 1: that means there's always a loser. Yeah, And you don't
- 14:10Speaker 1: want your person, if you love them, you don't want
- 14:12Speaker 1: your person to lose. You want your person to win.
- 14:14Speaker 1: So like, ultimately it's just about sharing what it is
- 14:17Speaker 1: that you need. But this kind of brought me, brought
- 14:20Speaker 1: me back because I had a couple of women from
- 14:25Speaker 1: the show that you know, I still talked to, but
- 14:27Speaker 1: not as much as like Kyle or whatever, text me
- 14:30Speaker 1: are you and Edwin okay? Because I did that post
- 14:35Speaker 1: and those kind of questions like of course it comes
- 14:38Speaker 1: from the heart, and I know that it's with good intention,
- 14:42Speaker 1: but it's also you're so scared to be vulnerable on
- 14:47Speaker 1: the show sometimes because the other women will use your
- 14:51Speaker 1: vulnerability as weakness. And I really wish if I could
- 14:56Speaker 1: go back, I could have just let it all play
- 14:58Speaker 1: out and not try to like not try to like
- 15:02Speaker 1: keep up with the Jones is at this level of
- 15:04Speaker 1: perfection that we do because the second that I posted that,
- 15:07Speaker 1: I was getting hundreds and hundreds of ms like I
- 15:10Speaker 1: needed to hear this today. It doesn't mean my marriages
- 15:13Speaker 1: do exactly. And that's when it comes to the show.
- 15:16Speaker 1: That's what makes you know. A good housewife, a one
- 15:19Speaker 1: that sticks around for a long time, is one that
- 15:21Speaker 1: is very open with what is going on in their
- 15:23Speaker 1: life because there's so many people out there that relate.
- 15:26Speaker 1: I actually this season do talk about we do talk
- 15:29Speaker 1: about our marriage and a little bump in our marriage,
- 15:32Speaker 1: and it's not anything horrible. It's something that a lot
- 15:35Speaker 1: of people relate to. But I didn't have to do that.
- 15:38Speaker 1: But I you know, for me, like to a fault,
- 15:41Speaker 1: I'm almost too open, where Eddie tends to be a
- 15:44Speaker 1: little bit you know, he was raised, you know, don't
- 15:47Speaker 1: admit to anything and don't talk about your life and
- 15:49Speaker 1: everything is private and you know, totally different in me,
- 15:52Speaker 1: I'm just kind of like diarrhea of the mouth. Yeah,
- 15:56Speaker 1: I mean, so a long story shot from both of
- 15:58Speaker 1: us in regards to the marriage or treat In regards
- 16:00Speaker 1: to TAM's marriage with Eddie, I think it's okay and
- 16:05Speaker 1: it doesn't mean that we're doomed. If there's a bump
- 16:08Speaker 1: in the round. It's part of I As I started
- 16:13Speaker 1: to open up more, the more I hear the same
- 16:16Speaker 1: thing happened to me, or this is what's going on
- 16:18Speaker 1: in you know, like people just want to remember we're
- 16:20Speaker 1: not alone and these are you know, did you get
- 16:24Speaker 1: a lot out of the retreat? I did. I mean
- 16:27Speaker 1: mainly it was there was something that I wanted questions.
- 16:31Speaker 1: I wanted to ask questions on and I never felt
- 16:33Speaker 1: like I could. And every day that we were there,
- 16:38Speaker 1: like doing the work, doing the work. I mean I
- 16:40Speaker 1: never even got in the ocean where in my copa
- 16:42Speaker 1: like I there was like it was just so much.
- 16:45Speaker 1: And then also learning from other couples, there was another
- 16:47Speaker 1: woman there that had gone through cancer, like just so much,
- 16:50Speaker 1: like it was so beneficial. The final day, like we
- 16:53Speaker 1: were completely done, like we just had our plane was
- 16:56Speaker 1: delayed so we had longer time. This was with nobody
- 16:59Speaker 1: else there. Finally, like I don't just opened up and
- 17:02Speaker 1: answered all my questions, like he was just like I've
- 17:08Speaker 1: been hearing you. I wasn't ready to hear it because
- 17:12Speaker 1: then I feel pain because of some of the pain
- 17:14Speaker 1: that I caused. You. Let's talk about it and you
- 17:18Speaker 1: can ask me anything and the fact and I honestly
- 17:21Speaker 1: like I probab. Right now, I feel like a thousand
- 17:23Speaker 1: pounds have been lifted off because I've been wanting to
- 17:25Speaker 1: know the answer, you know what I mean, Like I'm
- 17:27Speaker 1: been wanting to know the answer to this, afraid to ask,
- 17:31Speaker 1: afraid for the reaction, afraid for the truth. Maybe yeah,
- 17:36Speaker 1: And then now that we're here and like you were
- 17:39Speaker 1: with me the last time we were in New York
- 17:40Speaker 1: and there was tension between him and I, and today
- 17:45Speaker 1: I wake up, he's caused me. It's like, good morning,
- 17:47Speaker 1: I love you, I miss you. Kicks the masks today,
- 17:49Speaker 1: you know, like it's just completely We told each other
- 17:52Speaker 1: what we needed and then we gave it to each other.
- 17:55Speaker 1: And I think so often, like especially me being a
- 17:58Speaker 1: no at all, Like I want to be right all
- 18:02Speaker 1: the time, and I'm not right. It's okay at least
- 18:06Speaker 1: you admit it and you acknowledge it. So for me
- 18:09Speaker 1: and Eddie, Eddie is the one that's extremely loving and
- 18:12Speaker 1: caring and like, for instance, I have things on my
- 18:15Speaker 1: mind and I knew I had to do this podcast
- 18:18Speaker 1: and today, and I wanted to make sure that I
- 18:20Speaker 1: was reading everything. And he his back hurt, so he
- 18:23Speaker 1: laid in bed longer than normal. I'm up super early,
- 18:25Speaker 1: like you. And then I go back into the room.
- 18:27Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, good morning like that, and he's sitting
- 18:30Speaker 1: on the edge of the bed and I'm talking, I
- 18:31Speaker 1: gotta do this, i gotta do that, do that, Okay,
- 18:32Speaker 1: I'm gonna go do the pot And he looked at
- 18:34Speaker 1: me and he goes, no, hug no, nothing, like you're
- 18:37Speaker 1: not gonna hug me and tell me you love me.
- 18:39Speaker 1: And I'm like, I'm not mushy like that. He's very
- 18:44Speaker 1: Eddie's very affectionate and very loving. And very wants to
- 18:48Speaker 1: hold me all the time and touch me, like if
- 18:51Speaker 1: we sleep, either his foot's gotta be on me, his hands,
- 18:54Speaker 1: I mean. And I'm like, just me, you know what
- 18:57Speaker 1: I mean. And so I'm not a very like. My
- 19:00Speaker 1: kids aren't like that either. My kids are just like me, like,
- 19:03Speaker 1: don't don't touch me. You don't need to touch me.
- 19:05Speaker 1: I don't know. I think that's just how I was
- 19:06Speaker 1: raised and how I raised my children. And so he's
- 19:10Speaker 1: just so affectionate. And he's always like, are you sure
- 19:13Speaker 1: you love me? And I'm like, yeah, Like do I
- 19:16Speaker 1: have to say it all the time? I don't know.
- 19:19Speaker 1: People do like Edwin. Edwin's biggest thing that was about
- 19:23Speaker 1: like he wants to feel validated. Mine is more just
- 19:27Speaker 1: I want to feel like I don't. I want to
- 19:30Speaker 1: feel the love. Yeah. And I was telling my dad
- 19:34Speaker 1: last night and it was funny. I was talking about
- 19:37Speaker 1: it because he was like, tell me about the trade.
- 19:38Speaker 1: When did you know? Like he's so like and like,
- 19:43Speaker 1: why do you Why do you got to give up
- 19:45Speaker 1: about everything? Teddy? Why why? And I was like, you
- 19:49Speaker 1: don't think that you do, but you do? You are me.
- 19:52Speaker 1: We are very similar. We hold on to ship for
- 19:55Speaker 1: a very long time. But it does. When you do
- 19:58Speaker 1: hold on to negative feelings, you know, it comes out
- 20:01Speaker 1: in other ways, if it's a sickness or cancer or whatever.
- 20:04Speaker 1: It really does. Ultimately, what did you take What did
- 20:10Speaker 1: you take away from the retreat? I took away. I
- 20:12Speaker 1: just need to be more open. When I need something,
- 20:15Speaker 1: I have to ask for it. I mean, I think
- 20:17Speaker 1: because you know that we keep everything severn when it
- 20:19Speaker 1: comes to financials and this, and like we're like two
- 20:23Speaker 1: well oiled machines and in order to like and we
- 20:26Speaker 1: have sex and we do all those things. But like,
- 20:28Speaker 1: in order to build intimacy, you have to like share
- 20:31Speaker 1: your highs and your loves. Like the guy asked that
- 20:33Speaker 1: when he goes, when was the last time you told
- 20:35Speaker 1: Teddy when you had a bad day at work? And
- 20:37Speaker 1: he's like, I don't want to burden her with that.
- 20:39Speaker 1: And he's like, Teddy, do you think that that's a burden.
- 20:42Speaker 1: I'm like, no, I would love to hear that, because
- 20:44Speaker 1: I'm always thinking if he's in a bad mood, it's
- 20:46Speaker 1: because of me. Yeah, Eddie actually came home from visiting
- 20:49Speaker 1: his grandmother who is not doing well. She's nine. I
- 20:53Speaker 1: thought she's ninety six, but he said she's ninety eight,
- 20:55Speaker 1: and he went to go see her and she basically
- 20:59Speaker 1: raised him. And she came home yesterday and he was
- 21:02Speaker 1: very snippy with me, just very snappy, and I thought
- 21:06Speaker 1: he said he's sad, So I just gave him a
- 21:10Speaker 1: space and walked away. Didn't ask him any questions. I
- 21:12Speaker 1: just said, house grandma. He's like, oh, she's okay, But
- 21:15Speaker 1: the truth is she she's at the end of her life.
- 21:18Speaker 1: And and he hasn't had anybody pass away, especially somebody
- 21:22Speaker 1: as close as his grandma, ever in his life. So
- 21:26Speaker 1: he's not one when he's super sad about something that
- 21:29Speaker 1: will come up to me and say, this is really
- 21:32Speaker 1: bothering me. I know someone's bothering him when he's snippy
- 21:35Speaker 1: and angry. Yeah, so that's not communicating. Yeah, so it's either.
- 21:40Speaker 1: But also it's like finding that had like I really
- 21:43Speaker 1: it's so silly. But like one of the things that
- 21:45Speaker 1: Edwin and I love doing most on this trip was
- 21:48Speaker 1: there was like an hour downtime and we started playing tennis. Yeah,
- 21:52Speaker 1: like just because like I don't really like to work
- 21:54Speaker 1: out like four in the afternoon, it's like not for me.
- 21:56Speaker 1: We had this downtime between our morning side and then dinner,
- 22:01Speaker 1: and he's like, do you want to work out? And
- 22:02Speaker 1: like the thought of like going to the gym right now,
- 22:05Speaker 1: and like I'm going to try to amp myself up. Yeah,
- 22:07Speaker 1: I can't work out later in the day. It's not
- 22:09Speaker 1: for me. But like it was a way for us
- 22:11Speaker 1: to just effortlessly communicate. I mean, either us are good terrible,
- 22:15Speaker 1: but yeah, but it's a way for you guys to reconnect.
- 22:17Speaker 1: And that reminds me, Like, you know, filming in the
- 22:20Speaker 1: past three and a half months, it's been all about me,
- 22:22Speaker 1: and I've been super busy, even like my daughter said, Mom,
- 22:25Speaker 1: you're on the phone all the time. Are you're filming,
- 22:27Speaker 1: are you're doing this? Or you're talking about housewives? And
- 22:29Speaker 1: and I have to be mindful, like now that we
- 22:31Speaker 1: stopped filming, I gotta let that go. But Eddy, I
- 22:33Speaker 1: really hadn't done much in the past three and a
- 22:35Speaker 1: half months together. So I told him, I said, let's go.
- 22:39Speaker 1: He had bought me a new dirt bike six months ago,
- 22:41Speaker 1: but it was offesome. I thought you looking hot, So
- 22:44Speaker 1: I said, let's go. Let's go for a day trip.
- 22:47Speaker 1: And he loves riding the dirt bike. So we went
- 22:49Speaker 1: out to started Wells out by Barstow and just for
- 22:52Speaker 1: a day, went out for a couple of hours, rode
- 22:54Speaker 1: the bike and then turn around and came back home.
- 22:56Speaker 1: But I definitely felt during filming like a disconnect each
- 23:00Speaker 1: tween us, for sure. But also if you're surrounding yourself,
- 23:04Speaker 1: you know, with unhealthy and I'm not saying I don't know,
- 23:09Speaker 1: but if you're surrounding yourself with people that are also
- 23:13Speaker 1: in unhealthy marriages and they're doing the same thing, it's
- 23:16Speaker 1: hard to kind of go all right, I gotta check myself, yeah,
- 23:20Speaker 1: and remind myself I am making this all about me
- 23:23Speaker 1: and vice versa. It's hard not to be about you.
- 23:25Speaker 1: It's like, you know, you're busy all day long, and
- 23:28Speaker 1: then you're filming in your hair and makeup and this
- 23:30Speaker 1: and that, you know, and it's plus we're raging narcissus
- 23:37Speaker 1: and now it's all about Thanksgiving and Christmas. I get
- 23:42Speaker 1: through New York right now, Yeah, Okay, I talk about
- 23:44Speaker 1: New York. Okay, So I just got to New York
- 23:47Speaker 1: and I'm dying, because dying it's an extreme term. But
- 23:50Speaker 1: I get to the hotel and my dad has an
- 23:53Speaker 1: apartment here, so I knew he wasn't staying here, but
- 23:56Speaker 1: there's obviously two rooms and I not at the Games
- 24:00Speaker 1: of different There was a request because I wanted to
- 24:04Speaker 1: be near where my dad stays. Okay, so I did
- 24:06Speaker 1: here and I'm like, Hi, how are you um checking in?
- 24:09Speaker 1: And I see the room that they had me checking
- 24:11Speaker 1: into and I'm like, uh doch. But to be douchy,
- 24:16Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm pretty sure I got the upgrade and
- 24:18Speaker 1: they're like, no, there's already another meloncamp in the upgrade.
- 24:22Speaker 1: And I'm like and I'm like, oh there is Okay.
- 24:27Speaker 1: So I'm like maybe he had a you know, I
- 24:29Speaker 1: go to all these places. Maybe there's a flood, maybe
- 24:32Speaker 1: they're you know, like whatever. So I go into my
- 24:33Speaker 1: shoe box that I'm in right now with this is
- 24:36Speaker 1: my closet, which is just that little thing right there
- 24:39Speaker 1: with my seven thousand clothes, and then I get the
- 24:42Speaker 1: text for my dad like come to the apartment. You know,
- 24:44Speaker 1: like we are very much like now, why did you
- 24:46Speaker 1: stay at the apartment. It's it's like a studio, like
- 24:49Speaker 1: it's a huge loss, but like I'm not gonna like
- 24:52Speaker 1: lay on the couch by like him and his profriend.
- 24:54Speaker 1: I'm goodfriend with him. Yes, we're all here together. I
- 24:59Speaker 1: worked out with this morning. But I get there and
- 25:04Speaker 1: still trying to like figure out the whole room situation.
- 25:07Speaker 1: I just put my bag down, went to his room
- 25:09Speaker 1: and then had my brother comes over too, and we
- 25:12Speaker 1: all are sitting around my dad's table like it's so weird.
- 25:15Speaker 1: They wouldn't give me an up They didn't give me
- 25:18Speaker 1: my upgrade they promised me because they said another mollen
- 25:22Speaker 1: Camp took it. And Hud looks at me, He's like, oh,
- 25:26Speaker 1: is that your sweet? It's like he just came here
- 25:32Speaker 1: to have fun. But in his suite there's a guitar,
- 25:35Speaker 1: there's all kinds of ship like it's so did they
- 25:38Speaker 1: think it was They thought it was your dad? My dad?
- 25:42Speaker 1: So I am dead. So now all day long all
- 25:45Speaker 1: we do is text like I'm like, oh, down here,
- 25:46Speaker 1: can't get the hot water to work. It's like do
- 25:48Speaker 1: you want to come up to the suite, Like but
- 25:51Speaker 1: I've been together, and they're like it's festive holiday. So
- 25:56Speaker 1: I send a text to like the person that's managing
- 25:59Speaker 1: is the week and I'm like, hey, can someone pick
- 26:01Speaker 1: up my suit? I don't realize HUDs on the horn
- 26:05Speaker 1: and he was like, hey, I just saw that your
- 26:06Speaker 1: suits velvet green. I just got a red velvet. Can
- 26:10Speaker 1: I walk the red carpet with you? I'm like, so, wait,
- 26:15Speaker 1: when are you on Watch The Heavens Life tomorrow? We
- 26:19Speaker 1: thought it was tonight. Okay, so pre take go in.
- 26:23Speaker 1: It's not live this week. No, it's not live. We
- 26:26Speaker 1: pre tap. It's at three thirty. Yeah. Yeah, I hear
- 26:29Speaker 1: Andy pre tapes. So now he has two kids at home.
- 26:32Speaker 1: He pre tapes a lot of his shows. I actually
- 26:35Speaker 1: like it rather than at ten o'clock. Um thing, But
- 26:39Speaker 1: did you I've been getting a lot of messages about
- 26:44Speaker 1: it because everyone's like, the the amount of responses about
- 26:51Speaker 1: your watch what happens live blah blah blah blah blah blah.
- 26:54Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't even care. I just want to
- 26:56Speaker 1: survive on Twitter, yeah, because yeah, yeah, they're like, you're
- 27:01Speaker 1: engagingly tirer than the fans. Like, my engagements are high
- 27:04Speaker 1: because people want to hate on it. That's because you
- 27:06Speaker 1: pissed people off for some strange reason. I don't get
- 27:09Speaker 1: it myself, but you tend to piss people off. But
- 27:13Speaker 1: I guess you know, I'd rather piss people off. And
- 27:16Speaker 1: I mean, hey, at least they're talking. I don't know
- 27:19Speaker 1: what they're talking. People can't just let things go. I
- 27:21Speaker 1: just don't even know why you piss them off. So,
- 27:26Speaker 1: I mean, guys, we've gotten a little you know. We
- 27:28Speaker 1: we haven't seen each other for a while, so we
- 27:30Speaker 1: wanted to catch up. And we think that maybe the
- 27:33Speaker 1: rest of this episode will do some of the listener questions. Yeah,
- 27:38Speaker 1: and I have to recap. Yeah, I have some that
- 27:43Speaker 1: I just printed out. I didn't even put it in
- 27:45Speaker 1: the lineup, So some really good questions. Have you watched
- 27:58Speaker 1: Buying Beverly Hills and what are your opinions. I haven't
- 28:02Speaker 1: watched all of Buying Beverly Hills, but I have watched
- 28:05Speaker 1: some and I think it's it's good, it's glossy, it's houseborn. Yes, yeah,
- 28:12Speaker 1: so as a somebody has a real estate license and
- 28:15Speaker 1: loves interior decorating, I love watching anything house related. So, um,
- 28:20Speaker 1: any house show that's out there, I watch it and
- 28:23Speaker 1: I thought it was great. I thought it was amazing.
- 28:26Speaker 1: I am blown away how Alexeia sounds exactly like her
- 28:29Speaker 1: mom and when she is glammed up. Um. She looks
- 28:33Speaker 1: a lot like her mom, and fair is absolutely beautiful.
- 28:36Speaker 1: But I love how she's just so you can you
- 28:42Speaker 1: can see the difference in the personality. She's still it stoetics,
- 28:47Speaker 1: stoetic still, but it's here's the thing. All of those
- 28:52Speaker 1: girls are so warm and loving and like the second
- 28:57Speaker 1: I went to the premiere, Oh I can't I got
- 28:59Speaker 1: it today the story about did I tell you about
- 29:01Speaker 1: to read at the premiere? Oh? Please tell give it away?
- 29:06Speaker 1: So we go to the premiere and it's at this
- 29:09Speaker 1: house and I'm trying to leave with the Readdred always
- 29:12Speaker 1: says the same driver and you know, I'm trying to
- 29:16Speaker 1: get her to go and getting to read. I'm like
- 29:18Speaker 1: an Irish goodbyeer. So like when I'm done, we just
- 29:22Speaker 1: did that on a wedding. We just did that. And
- 29:23Speaker 1: he goes, I have never done this before because he
- 29:25Speaker 1: is such a loving Kring's gotta hug everybody, say goodbye.
- 29:28Speaker 1: It was so cold. WI into the bathroom, like let's go.
- 29:30Speaker 1: He's like, I've never done this before. I'd just like
- 29:34Speaker 1: to go. Like I already talked to everybody. I gave everybody,
- 29:37Speaker 1: you know, their accolades. I gave love. Now I'm done.
- 29:40Speaker 1: I don't want to have this this awkward goodbye for me.
- 29:43Speaker 1: Goodbyes are awkward. Not to Read is happy to put
- 29:47Speaker 1: in the time, like there was somebody, Yeah, so there
- 29:51Speaker 1: was someone that saying it at the premiere, so like
- 29:53Speaker 1: all these things are happening and to Read and I
- 29:55Speaker 1: are like think that we're investigators, like walking around trying
- 29:57Speaker 1: to figure out what happened. But and it's time for
- 30:00Speaker 1: us to go. I'm talking God knows who by the
- 30:04Speaker 1: front door because I'm just trying to leave, like I'm
- 30:06Speaker 1: like Doret now and she's like, I'm just gonna go
- 30:09Speaker 1: to the restroom. And there's a security guard that doesn't
- 30:11Speaker 1: know who Dread is and he says, no, there's a
- 30:15Speaker 1: v I P that needs to go. So then comes
- 30:21Speaker 1: out all wrapped up. We need to find the guy,
- 30:24Speaker 1: We need to find who the v I P is.
- 30:26Speaker 1: So then we spent another thirty minutes searching for who
- 30:29Speaker 1: wouldn't let Durt go to the bathroom. Then we find
- 30:32Speaker 1: the security guard. We had to get the producers and well,
- 30:34Speaker 1: I mean this is like I was like, really, this
- 30:38Speaker 1: this is actually the story, And I'm like did you
- 30:42Speaker 1: actually pee though? And she's like, no, I didn't know.
- 30:46Speaker 1: I did not tinkle. But she really, she really does
- 30:51Speaker 1: have a good heart and always one thousand candies in
- 30:54Speaker 1: her car, so I was happy. She's very sweet. Yeah,
- 30:57Speaker 1: so it was definitely. But all the all the girls
- 31:02Speaker 1: are so amazing and so supportive of each other, and
- 31:04Speaker 1: that kind of the show is great. It's on Netflix.
- 31:07Speaker 1: It's a must watch. It's eight episodes. I'm dying for
- 31:11Speaker 1: a second season. Yeah, I think so too, And I
- 31:14Speaker 1: think it'll just start to more become more organic as
- 31:17Speaker 1: they go. Yeah, it's good, Teddy. The next question is
- 31:25Speaker 1: what do you guys think about Leah not being included
- 31:28Speaker 1: in the Legacy cast. Don't have a problem with it.
- 31:31Speaker 1: I don't think that she was on the show long
- 31:34Speaker 1: enough to be in the Legacy. How many how many
- 31:37Speaker 1: seasons did she do in New York? A couple? I
- 31:39Speaker 1: don't I don't mind her not being in the Legacy,
- 31:41Speaker 1: But I mean, how long has Kelly ben Simona on?
- 31:44Speaker 1: I didn't watch, but she's from the beginning, so I
- 31:46Speaker 1: don't know. I feel like people in Legacy should be
- 31:48Speaker 1: from the beginning that been on for a hot second.
- 31:51Speaker 1: Um I'm not happy that Ramona is not on it.
- 31:54Speaker 1: I feel like Ramona is New York. Um. You know,
- 31:59Speaker 1: she actually text me and told me that life is
- 32:03Speaker 1: so easy and simple now and she's really loving life
- 32:06Speaker 1: without the cameras, and I can see that. I felt
- 32:08Speaker 1: like that for a long time. I'm sorry, I mean, Okay,
- 32:12Speaker 1: I hear her, she says. Ramona tells page six, I
- 32:16Speaker 1: do not want the show any longer. She told us
- 32:18Speaker 1: Friday it's not for me at this time, but sources
- 32:21Speaker 1: tell us that Bravo didn't offer the longest serving member
- 32:23Speaker 1: of the cast an opportunity to return the revamp lineup.
- 32:27Speaker 1: Then on her Rhett On her interview with Carlos King,
- 32:30Speaker 1: she says, um Ramona agreed to do the show to
- 32:34Speaker 1: promote her business, but she was worried she'd be boring,
- 32:37Speaker 1: but the producers told her, Ramona, You're nothing but boring, right.
- 32:41Speaker 1: She she thinks Real House Lives in New York put
- 32:43Speaker 1: Bravo in the map because of big time advertising. Exect
- 32:46Speaker 1: told her, so, okay, enough of that. Just because something
- 32:50Speaker 1: is politically correct doesn't mean it's right or good for
- 32:54Speaker 1: viewers or add money. I just I don't want to
- 32:56Speaker 1: hear the ship from Ramona, I just don't. And then
- 33:00Speaker 1: Carlos tells Ramona about his interview with Ebony and how
- 33:03Speaker 1: politics need to be kept off these shows. We can
- 33:07Speaker 1: watch the view for that, and she says Ebony felt
- 33:09Speaker 1: she was a cast to discuss current as she was
- 33:11Speaker 1: regarding race. Ramona says she wasn't cast for that, and
- 33:14Speaker 1: Ebony test tape to Bluelanne first and was a totally
- 33:17Speaker 1: different person to what we saw. She said. At the time,
- 33:20Speaker 1: Ebony was engaged for a Jewish man was about to
- 33:23Speaker 1: become Jewish, but the relationship ended, so maybe the only
- 33:25Speaker 1: thing she had to fall back on was the talk
- 33:27Speaker 1: about her struggle for race. I don't watch you and
- 33:31Speaker 1: I want Yeah, I don't watch Housewives shows to talk about,
- 33:34Speaker 1: you know, politics or things like that, are religion, race
- 33:39Speaker 1: and all that. It's just it's hard to um put
- 33:43Speaker 1: those into a show that's all about arguing and yelling
- 33:47Speaker 1: and screaming and all those things. I just I don't
- 33:49Speaker 1: want to see it. But I don't also find taking
- 33:52Speaker 1: a little break from Ramona. I'm I'm, I'm. We had
- 33:56Speaker 1: a little bit a little bit, yeah, but Legacy, I
- 33:58Speaker 1: think it's for the The O G S Legacies for
- 34:02Speaker 1: the O G S, I think, which which leads me
- 34:06Speaker 1: to one of my questions. If you both end up
- 34:09Speaker 1: back on your original shows, would you continue the podcast?
- 34:13Speaker 1: I would say, I think that hearing camera's point of
- 34:18Speaker 1: view on Beverly Hills without me on the pod and
- 34:21Speaker 1: me giving you know one, we'll both have guests, which
- 34:24Speaker 1: I think changes it up, but I think it gives
- 34:27Speaker 1: a different inside view that you would not be able
- 34:30Speaker 1: to get anywhere else. Yeah. Um, which leads to me
- 34:33Speaker 1: my other question was why can't Tamera recap O see
- 34:37Speaker 1: there's so many other housewives out there that recap their shows. Um.
- 34:43Speaker 1: I would say. Our response to this is we are
- 34:47Speaker 1: the only Housewives podcast that is aligned with Bravo. We
- 34:50Speaker 1: were the only ones at Bravo Con. We were able
- 34:53Speaker 1: to put out so much incredible content that you guys
- 34:55Speaker 1: were listening to listening to. So we need to abide
- 34:58Speaker 1: by some rules. We know we can. We know we
- 35:01Speaker 1: are great together, but we can also crush it alone
- 35:05Speaker 1: with other guests coming in, So like, why don't we
- 35:08Speaker 1: just play by the world. I do know one of
- 35:11Speaker 1: my cast members did complain about our podcast from Provo
- 35:15Speaker 1: Con and I'm just gonna leave it out that yeah, jealousy.
- 35:20Speaker 1: I had a feeling that what's going to happen? I mean, yeah, yeah,
- 35:27Speaker 1: But you know what, I'm happy to say. I don't
- 35:29Speaker 1: want to recap Orange County. I don't want to. It's
- 35:33Speaker 1: hard to not live. I lived it and I'm gonna
- 35:36Speaker 1: see it and I just don't want to. And and
- 35:40Speaker 1: that's just something like, even if I'm asked to, I
- 35:43Speaker 1: don't want to because then I be here. Do you
- 35:46Speaker 1: think there's anything that you are going to have done
- 35:48Speaker 1: during oh see that I'm going to fully disagree with
- 35:53Speaker 1: what you did, and then you're gonna be mad at me.
- 35:55Speaker 1: I won't be mad at you, because I'm already mad
- 35:57Speaker 1: at myself. There's definitely things, you know, alcohol driven conversations
- 36:03Speaker 1: that happened that you know me, I get explosive and
- 36:07Speaker 1: I look back and I'm like, oh god, that it's
- 36:09Speaker 1: not my best look. But that's me. And I give
- 36:11Speaker 1: you my all and I don't hold back in anything,
- 36:13Speaker 1: and I'm I judge me. I don't care. I don't care.
- 36:17Speaker 1: You know what is a friend for if you can't say?
- 36:19Speaker 1: You know what? Time when you're acting like an asshole,
- 36:20Speaker 1: or you were out of line or whatever I've expected.
- 36:23Speaker 1: The hard part for me is I won't be able
- 36:25Speaker 1: to say it to your face. I'll have to be
- 36:27Speaker 1: saying it. Essentially, it's a confessional podcast is a confessional
- 36:31Speaker 1: on crack because it's like, you know, a full hour
- 36:34Speaker 1: dedicated to recapping what you saw. And but I feel
- 36:40Speaker 1: like as we go on, we're both able to like, yeah,
- 36:43Speaker 1: you know, we I don't really, I don't. I don't
- 36:45Speaker 1: have a lot of feelings, so I don't. I don't
- 36:47Speaker 1: get my feelings hurt so bad. But I would say
- 36:50Speaker 1: that more people to this day come up to me
- 36:53Speaker 1: and talk about our podcast, then they talk about real house.
- 37:00Speaker 1: I know, it's crazy. I can go anywhere the grocery store,
- 37:02Speaker 1: Turcker Treaters came up and mothers were talking about twats
- 37:05Speaker 1: and all that. It was just insane. And by the way,
- 37:08Speaker 1: cheers to two point five million downloads last months months
- 37:14Speaker 1: of October, two point five million downlards like I think, oh,
- 37:19Speaker 1: by the way, our producers just sent it's a message
- 37:21Speaker 1: that said, actually it's over two point five millions. Because
- 37:25Speaker 1: I go mone of us talked about it, because that's
- 37:28Speaker 1: just how we are. We got a hard on, so
- 37:29Speaker 1: we got to admit it, and then we got so
- 37:33Speaker 1: many more downloads. And this is a moment for us
- 37:35Speaker 1: to thank our team at my heart because Tam and
- 37:40Speaker 1: I are huge ship talkers and do all that we
- 37:43Speaker 1: can disture it and all the way, but they do
- 37:44Speaker 1: so much for us. It is really a group like
- 37:47Speaker 1: they give us an outline. Of course we get to
- 37:49Speaker 1: say what we want to say and get to take
- 37:51Speaker 1: out what we want to take out. And of course
- 37:52Speaker 1: we have attorneys at Takeout Stuck as well, but they
- 37:56Speaker 1: are an amazing team to work with and we are
- 37:59Speaker 1: very blessed and thankful off We are beyond um this
- 38:03Speaker 1: one I keep getting. I sent it over on the thing. Teddy,
- 38:06Speaker 1: would you consider returning to Real Housewives of Beverly Hills
- 38:09Speaker 1: with a huge offer? Okay, listen that for one, it
- 38:13Speaker 1: doesn't exist. You get a huge offer after you've been fired.
- 38:16Speaker 1: You're gonna get whatever offered is that you left on.
- 38:19Speaker 1: You're gonna get that next season offer. For me, it's
- 38:22Speaker 1: not about that um as you know, like a year ago,
- 38:26Speaker 1: I would have said a percent, know all, I wanted
- 38:28Speaker 1: girls trips and my dad as like my dad likes
- 38:33Speaker 1: to say this, close your legs, Teddy, close your legs.
- 38:36Speaker 1: Don't tell anybody like He's like, no, you need to
- 38:39Speaker 1: play hard to get and all the things, and I'm like, listen,
- 38:42Speaker 1: here's what I saw when it came to Beverly Hills.
- 38:45Speaker 1: At the reunion. We saw so much of a storyline
- 38:49Speaker 1: that happened off camera, that happened between these relationships. And
- 38:53Speaker 1: I saw a lot of people pandering to Twitter and
- 38:55Speaker 1: what they think fans think. If I was to return,
- 38:58Speaker 1: it wouldn't be about the huge offer. It would be
- 39:00Speaker 1: a season four housewife offered the same way that everybody
- 39:04Speaker 1: come back. Of course you would take it, but of course,
- 39:08Speaker 1: but mainly because there are things like which I couldn't
- 39:12Speaker 1: really say before Now I would change. But you're a
- 39:16Speaker 1: different person now, And I think that people can actually
- 39:19Speaker 1: see that on the podcast and they listen like, you're
- 39:22Speaker 1: more open about life. But I mean, I think that's
- 39:25Speaker 1: part of the conversation we had earlier. When I started
- 39:28Speaker 1: the show, I was a shell of a human being
- 39:30Speaker 1: because of what was going on with me and that
- 39:32Speaker 1: one and I was and then I went into a
- 39:35Speaker 1: group of women who you guys know, they are very
- 39:39Speaker 1: like if you show a sign of weakness, They're going
- 39:41Speaker 1: to attack you. It's pathetic and I wish I would
- 39:45Speaker 1: have shown my weaknesses instead of trying to measure up
- 39:48Speaker 1: to their strength. Yeah, what I mean, I think it's
- 39:52Speaker 1: very different. So I don't know. I have I there's
- 39:56Speaker 1: been no offer that's since slipped under my door in
- 39:58Speaker 1: my closet since I've been Yeah, who knows. You never know.
- 40:02Speaker 1: Now this question comes from England. Did you realize that
- 40:06Speaker 1: twats means idiot in England? I'm like tracks. I'm like, well,
- 40:11Speaker 1: twats means a lot worse in the States, but we
- 40:15Speaker 1: spell it different. Okay, okay, well it tracks. Yeah, And
- 40:19Speaker 1: people want to know if I saw. I'm still selling
- 40:21Speaker 1: real estate. I still have my real estate license. I
- 40:23Speaker 1: renew it every four years. I will never let that go. Yes,
- 40:26Speaker 1: I sell a few houses here and there, but don't
- 40:28Speaker 1: really have the time for it. But you know what,
- 40:30Speaker 1: it's always a good fallback. Um. The next one is
- 40:36Speaker 1: which housewives are most supportive of our friendship and the podcast? Um.
- 40:43Speaker 1: For me, I would say I could probably get like
- 40:47Speaker 1: eight percent of the housewives on all the franchise franchises
- 40:51Speaker 1: on the phone right now, like I did before this
- 40:53Speaker 1: podcast and talk about something that was just late. Um,
- 40:57Speaker 1: I think most people are supported, unless you're someone that
- 41:01Speaker 1: like takes yourself too seriously, because they're gonna be time
- 41:04Speaker 1: where Tamra is gonna be pros somebody and I'm gonna
- 41:07Speaker 1: be pro somebody. That's just what it is. But um,
- 41:10Speaker 1: unless I mean even we came around with reasonably shady
- 41:14Speaker 1: because we all support each other, we want each other
- 41:16Speaker 1: to do well. Of course, of course, I feel like
- 41:19Speaker 1: I'm I can pretty much contact any housewife. Yeah, and
- 41:23Speaker 1: they'll talk to me. I mean unless they hate me.
- 41:26Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, I have a question for you, Teddy.
- 41:29Speaker 1: It says, why does Teddy always say she had no
- 41:32Speaker 1: money when her daddy obviously is so very wealthy. Um,
- 41:38Speaker 1: and I think you're just a trust fund baby that
- 41:41Speaker 1: just lives on your dad's coattails. So when my parents
- 41:45Speaker 1: got a divorce, I was in the third grade. My
- 41:47Speaker 1: mom got a significant amount of money, but she was
- 41:50Speaker 1: a young girl. She married my dad when she was eighteen,
- 41:53Speaker 1: so we moved to a completely different state, new place. Whatever.
- 41:57Speaker 1: She got a like a lump sum and then would
- 42:00Speaker 1: get child support. Um, she didn't know how to manage
- 42:03Speaker 1: her money, and she By the time I was in
- 42:05Speaker 1: high school, we didn't have any money. And then my
- 42:10Speaker 1: woo with my dad was that if I wanted to
- 42:12Speaker 1: move to California UM and not go to college, I
- 42:17Speaker 1: had to support myself. So I don't have I mean,
- 42:20Speaker 1: I have no trust fund. There was no trust fund. Crazy.
- 42:23Speaker 1: That's crazy because you think, like, of course you feel
- 42:26Speaker 1: I mean people, viewers, whatever, listeners think oh, he's got
- 42:29Speaker 1: more money than God. He's John Mellencamp. In fact, Eddie
- 42:33Speaker 1: had a truck on his whatever Spotify John Mellencamp and
- 42:38Speaker 1: he's like, oh, oh my god, I didn't know that
- 42:42Speaker 1: was Teddy's dad. That's Teddy. I go, yeah, he goes
- 42:46Speaker 1: I grew up with these songs. I'm like, yeah, theybe
- 42:48Speaker 1: I know, I know. So people just think that you have,
- 42:52Speaker 1: you know, unlimited money because your dad's rich. And that's
- 42:55Speaker 1: like saying like, we have money. Does that mean like
- 42:57Speaker 1: Ryan my son, Ryan's rich? Oh yeah no, And I
- 43:02Speaker 1: don't say it because listen any chance that I can,
- 43:05Speaker 1: I mean, hello, I'm here doing watch What Happens Live
- 43:08Speaker 1: with my dad because we are capitalizing on the joke
- 43:11Speaker 1: of me living in his shadow. And all of those things,
- 43:14Speaker 1: but financially I never had his back. Actually, when I
- 43:17Speaker 1: was fifteen years old, we got into an argument and
- 43:19Speaker 1: we didn't talk for three years over money. And we always,
- 43:25Speaker 1: because we you know, want to pretend that we have
- 43:27Speaker 1: no feelings, we will say things like the best three
- 43:30Speaker 1: years of my life, you know, like we make those jokes.
- 43:33Speaker 1: So he like tough love, like like a tough love
- 43:36Speaker 1: type of guy, Like if you got to somewhere and
- 43:39Speaker 1: do this for school, I'm not paying for it. Yeah,
- 43:42Speaker 1: he's very um with with the girls, with my sisters,
- 43:46Speaker 1: and I um, but here, here's where he will and
- 43:50Speaker 1: I will. I will always say here's where he will
- 43:54Speaker 1: give us money. If he wants us to come home
- 43:56Speaker 1: for Thanksgiving, he will fly us all everybody but Black
- 44:03Speaker 1: stop it, everyone but Edwin, well the significant others. He
- 44:07Speaker 1: doesn't fly the significant others, but he'll fly. Oh is
- 44:10Speaker 1: that extra tickets gonna kill him? Yeah? So that like
- 44:13Speaker 1: if he says come home for Thanksgiving and I'm like no,
- 44:16Speaker 1: we already have plans in l A. And He's like,
- 44:17Speaker 1: I'll get your plane tickets, Like that's his thing for
- 44:20Speaker 1: you and the kids, but not not for Edwin. That
- 44:25Speaker 1: is classic, But same with my sister. It's just like
- 44:29Speaker 1: how it does. It's like the husband's Does your sister
- 44:31Speaker 1: live close to him? No, she lives in South Carolina.
- 44:34Speaker 1: She lives where I grew up, and he lives in Indiana, Indiana,
- 44:38Speaker 1: but he has a house me or where she is
- 44:40Speaker 1: now too. But like my sister and I are very
- 44:42Speaker 1: very similar. Everybody thinks that we grew up with the
- 44:45Speaker 1: silver spoon in our mouth, but we grew up with
- 44:46Speaker 1: my mom who you know. So, but your dad's new girlfriend,
- 44:53Speaker 1: is it new? Yes, because the last time was for
- 44:56Speaker 1: a while. He's dating Meg Ryan, right, Well yeah, um,
- 45:00Speaker 1: I mean she's not. I mean she's new ish. Do
- 45:03Speaker 1: I know who she is? I mean she used to
- 45:06Speaker 1: be my best friend? Stop it? She used to be
- 45:10Speaker 1: your best friend. Uh huh, she used to be one
- 45:14Speaker 1: of your best friends. M hm, So she's your right.
- 45:18Speaker 1: She's a couple of years older, buddy, I I still like,
- 45:24Speaker 1: I mean, you could probably do the real He's very private,
- 45:27Speaker 1: so I'm not even gonna say her name, but I'm
- 45:28Speaker 1: sure if you go through my Instagram you can figure
- 45:30Speaker 1: it out. And it's not. Is it weird? Is it weird? No?
- 45:34Speaker 1: Except when they're like talking, like my dad is very
- 45:37Speaker 1: like straightforward, and so is she. She's Puerto Rican, so
- 45:41Speaker 1: she's just so they both Okay, I'm gonna look for
- 45:43Speaker 1: the Puerto Rican girl on your Instagram. So I actually
- 45:49Speaker 1: met her through Edwin. So when I first met Edwin,
- 45:52Speaker 1: she was one of the first girl, like she was
- 45:54Speaker 1: like his road dog. And how long they six months
- 45:58Speaker 1: or something? But they met ten years ago through me
- 46:02Speaker 1: at a concert. She came as mine and adwas when
- 46:05Speaker 1: she was a teenager. She's four five years old or something.
- 46:10Speaker 1: How seven, he's the same age as my mom. Oh
- 46:15Speaker 1: my god. Um. Normally I would never even talk about
- 46:19Speaker 1: it at all, but like he's been figuring with her
- 46:20Speaker 1: a couple of times now, so I'm like, all right,
- 46:22Speaker 1: I must be in the I'm sure we watched her
- 46:24Speaker 1: happens five have the flash tour in the sobody somebody
- 46:30Speaker 1: somebody asked me, how does Tarma deal with hot flashes? Well,
- 46:34Speaker 1: for the record, I've never had a hot flash in
- 46:35Speaker 1: my life, so there's that I don't know. Um. I
- 46:40Speaker 1: got this multiple times and debated if I was even
- 46:42Speaker 1: gonna bring it up because I don't remember to bring
- 46:44Speaker 1: this girl's name up. But there was multiple questions asking
- 46:47Speaker 1: thoughts on Heathery're hanging out with Gretchen? Um, don't care,
- 46:51Speaker 1: no opinion, do not care, haven't seen the girl in
- 46:55Speaker 1: over ten years, have no relationship, friendship whatsoever with her?
- 47:00Speaker 1: And how there's a grown as woman if that's who
- 47:01Speaker 1: she wants to hang out with, and so be it?
- 47:04Speaker 1: Did you notice? Okay, I don't know if you follow
- 47:06Speaker 1: Heather right now? I do not? Okay, Well I do? Um.
- 47:11Speaker 1: So I was looking through her carousel of photos from
- 47:14Speaker 1: this baby shower? Which is the girl? Correct? Oh, Heather?
- 47:18Speaker 1: It was Heather baby shower. Yeah, Heather. I don't know
- 47:22Speaker 1: her name, but I don't watch that show. But I
- 47:24Speaker 1: was telling Sunset, it's a great show, uh with that
- 47:28Speaker 1: guy with me? To us anyways? Not true? Well, her
- 47:31Speaker 1: boss was a douche to us. Just how they're actually
- 47:34Speaker 1: work for him? Yeah? Or does she work in the
- 47:37Speaker 1: one in I see? Um, he owns both of them,
- 47:40Speaker 1: so it doesn't really matter any who. When I was
- 47:44Speaker 1: going through Heather's post of the baby shower, I remember
- 47:50Speaker 1: having a conversation with Heather where she says she does
- 47:52Speaker 1: not use filters and and and every photo I believe
- 48:01Speaker 1: except the first one and the one of her angregion.
- 48:04Speaker 1: There is no filters took the picture and I'm curious,
- 48:10Speaker 1: digretgien Curate because we all learned group photos and all
- 48:14Speaker 1: of a sudden you're like, oh, he looks like how
- 48:16Speaker 1: why did that one make that? I'm wondering, did Gretchen
- 48:19Speaker 1: take the photo? Filter them? Bow know how that's like
- 48:21Speaker 1: a completely different and how there doesn't use filters. She doesn't,
- 48:27Speaker 1: she really doesn't. Like. When we were on the plane,
- 48:29Speaker 1: I was like, let me put on subtle filter. She said,
- 48:32Speaker 1: Now I'd rather people be surprised in a good way
- 48:35Speaker 1: when they see me. And I was like, you know what,
- 48:36Speaker 1: I like that? Yeah, You're like anyways, to move on,
- 48:40Speaker 1: pitch Um. People have been asked me about what I
- 48:44Speaker 1: posted the other day about when I've frown on my skin.
- 48:46Speaker 1: I do this on off season normally about every three months.
- 48:51Speaker 1: It's skin suticles. It is retinal. I used the point
- 48:54Speaker 1: five because it's very strong. Well, I put it on
- 48:57Speaker 1: for three days in a row because I knew that
- 48:59Speaker 1: I had thing going on and I'm going on a
- 49:03Speaker 1: trip this week and I'd be out camping, not wearing
- 49:05Speaker 1: the makeup. Well, I got a call. I have to
- 49:08Speaker 1: do an interview today for my confessional. My skin is
- 49:12Speaker 1: flaking so bad. I can feel like this and the
- 49:16Speaker 1: skin will come off of me. Um, it's dry under
- 49:20Speaker 1: my eyes, so I have all this dry wrinkled. I'm like,
- 49:22Speaker 1: you guys, really, They're like, oh, it's gonna be fine,
- 49:25Speaker 1: we can fix it and post. I'm like, okay, oh yeah,
- 49:28Speaker 1: I'm sure they'll take the time to make sure. I'm
- 49:30Speaker 1: sure they will. So when you see that interview when
- 49:33Speaker 1: my skins falling off my face and creepy under my eyes,
- 49:36Speaker 1: it's because I was using that. But it's a great product,
- 49:39Speaker 1: telling you it takes away everything on your skin. This
- 49:51Speaker 1: wasn't another good one. Would you guys discuss housewives for fun?
- 49:54Speaker 1: If not on the pot? The one time that we
- 49:56Speaker 1: hung out before doing the pot, other than when we
- 49:59Speaker 1: were at church, tam we went on like a It
- 50:03Speaker 1: was me Edwin, Edwin and Eddie and Tamma and I
- 50:08Speaker 1: were on such a big discussion about housewives. Yeah. Well,
- 50:13Speaker 1: our husbands were like, we're leaving now, but you're like,
- 50:15Speaker 1: come on. They did, but they were like, guys, we're done.
- 50:19Speaker 1: Like they had to tear us apart because they're like
- 50:21Speaker 1: conversation stop. Hence why the podcast was made, which I
- 50:25Speaker 1: read something about like because we were in the top whatever.
- 50:30Speaker 1: There was some article about what makes the best podcast
- 50:32Speaker 1: and it was something wrong, you have to be able
- 50:35Speaker 1: to have something that somebody else can't say that you
- 50:38Speaker 1: guys can say. And I was like, we truly, whether
- 50:41Speaker 1: we were on this podcast or not, we couldn't help ourselves.
- 50:44Speaker 1: We would dissect every single thing. Um. One last question
- 50:49Speaker 1: of mine is when are you guys gonna go live
- 50:52Speaker 1: live shows? I know we have talked about that. I mean,
- 50:57Speaker 1: you didn't have to deal with it as much, but
- 50:59Speaker 1: I can tell you Bravo con and there and us
- 51:03Speaker 1: having to play those out was the next level of exhausting.
- 51:09Speaker 1: But I'm talking about on a stage like at the Improv,
- 51:12Speaker 1: seeing on stage and doing a whole show. Okay, Well,
- 51:16Speaker 1: if you could have your dream, where would it be? First?
- 51:19Speaker 1: I see, No, I honestly think I'd rather go out
- 51:23Speaker 1: of state. I'd rather go like, oh see, like I'm
- 51:26Speaker 1: I'm a nobody here and I have you know, post traumatics, distress,
- 51:33Speaker 1: synder whatever it's called from the Improv and Irvine because
- 51:36Speaker 1: that's where I got sued. So, um, that's not a
- 51:39Speaker 1: place I ever want to go unless some money's right.
- 51:42Speaker 1: But I mean, I would love to go out of
- 51:44Speaker 1: state to states that I haven't visited and people that
- 51:48Speaker 1: I haven't seen, and I just think it would be
- 51:50Speaker 1: fun to do that. I think, which leads me to
- 51:53Speaker 1: my final question is when we ever do a show
- 51:56Speaker 1: like that's not a podcast, and I think it's Teddy
- 51:58Speaker 1: and Tamra road show would be pretty hilarious. Um, alright,
- 52:03Speaker 1: so before we end this episode, we should do Houselive
- 52:06Speaker 1: headlines so that our next spot we can just be
- 52:08Speaker 1: recapping Potomac and Salt Lake because where we find and guys,
- 52:12Speaker 1: there's no scandal between. Why were we sign we're only
- 52:15Speaker 1: a week behind? Because I went on the Week's couple
- 52:18Speaker 1: retreat and I just I just wanted a week off.
- 52:21Speaker 1: They I heard asked me, do you want to do
- 52:23Speaker 1: a podcast, you know with somebody else? And I said,
- 52:25Speaker 1: I would really love a week off, which I needed.
- 52:28Speaker 1: I finally feel human now. Um, okay, so the first
- 52:32Speaker 1: one is actually Darby and Luke from Summer House are
- 52:36Speaker 1: getting to know each other, including a weekend long day
- 52:39Speaker 1: d C. Okay, I don't know about I don't really
- 52:42Speaker 1: know who Luke is. He seemed really nice when we
- 52:43Speaker 1: met him at Bramo Con. But what I did see
- 52:46Speaker 1: is actually doing a TikTok in his apartment. I could
- 52:50Speaker 1: see the same painting, even though whatever, I'm sure she
- 52:53Speaker 1: did that on purpose. But that's my thing, Like, if
- 52:56Speaker 1: you're gonna don't play coy with me, I don't just
- 53:00Speaker 1: tell me we're hooking up, Like, I don't need to
- 53:03Speaker 1: see the TikTok and try to decipher it all. Just
- 53:06Speaker 1: give it to me. We're boning down, that's what I
- 53:09Speaker 1: want to come, boning down. We're boning down. It ain't
- 53:12Speaker 1: gonna last, but this is where we are. But I mean, well,
- 53:15Speaker 1: good for her. I mean, like it was said in
- 53:18Speaker 1: one of the episodes, she does not deserve saggy balls.
- 53:22Speaker 1: I mean he deserves some balls, you know what the
- 53:27Speaker 1: thought of saggy balls is. Bring me back to the
- 53:29Speaker 1: bottlip scene of Meredith and I feel when she kept
- 53:32Speaker 1: making that face where she's like and he's like and
- 53:37Speaker 1: talk from talking, and that that little girl voice, no,
- 53:44Speaker 1: like there's an give sexy voice. I'm one of them, Meredith,
- 53:49Speaker 1: one of them. Stop stop stop stop stop, And I
- 53:53Speaker 1: don't need to see that speaking. Actually, she is rumored
- 53:57Speaker 1: for Real house Lives and Girls Trip season four. Do
- 53:59Speaker 1: you want to get the cast that we're getting right here? Yeah? So,
- 54:02Speaker 1: according to Bravos and Cocktails because they have all the
- 54:05Speaker 1: dirt to Laura's Margaret, Robin Ashley, Garcela's Sutton, Emily Gina
- 54:10Speaker 1: are part of season four Real Housewife Ultimate Girls Trip.
- 54:13Speaker 1: The season will take place in Hong Kong and will
- 54:15Speaker 1: film for one week in January. I don't know that
- 54:18Speaker 1: there's any truth to that, but one of my good
- 54:21Speaker 1: friends reached out to one of the girls on this
- 54:24Speaker 1: cast supposed cast, and they said there was absolutely zero
- 54:29Speaker 1: truth to it. However, I will tell you this, when
- 54:32Speaker 1: you do get asked, you are not allowed to say
- 54:36Speaker 1: anything UM. And this is supposedly called Dynamic Duos. I
- 54:42Speaker 1: know for a fact that season four is cast. I
- 54:47Speaker 1: am not on it, but you guys know. But I
- 54:50Speaker 1: do know for a fact that it is cast. Do
- 54:51Speaker 1: I know that this is the cast? There's also another
- 54:55Speaker 1: rumor that's going around that has been um sent to
- 54:58Speaker 1: me that they're gonna redo season two, which I was
- 55:03Speaker 1: on the X Wives Club because from what I hear,
- 55:05Speaker 1: the ratings were through the roof and they were going
- 55:09Speaker 1: to send them to UM Australia and everybody was coming
- 55:14Speaker 1: back except for me and Taylor because we're on we're
- 55:17Speaker 1: no longer X wives, so UM, I don't know there's
- 55:20Speaker 1: any truth to that either. No, I mean I would
- 55:22Speaker 1: have known. Vicky would have said something, Brandy would have
- 55:24Speaker 1: said something to me. Nobody has said anything, but but
- 55:27Speaker 1: they're not a lot to say anything either. But that
- 55:29Speaker 1: being said, I would probably rather go to Australia than
- 55:32Speaker 1: Hong Kong's have been to Hong Kong already. I haven't
- 55:35Speaker 1: been to Hong Kong. I have been to Australia, to
- 55:37Speaker 1: be honest with you. So so nobody really knows. Lots
- 55:40Speaker 1: of rumors out there. Bravo and Cocktails loves to put
- 55:43Speaker 1: a story out there. Okay. The next one is Tom
- 55:46Speaker 1: Girardi Sperms c fo embeziled ten millions, spent thousands on
- 55:51Speaker 1: esport and real estate, the chief financial officer of Tom
- 55:54Speaker 1: Girardi's law firm and best at least ten millions from
- 55:57Speaker 1: bank accounts, and he's stolen funds to renovates sans was
- 56:00Speaker 1: home purchase the Caribbean mansion and shower and escort with
- 56:03Speaker 1: a monthly stipend and gifts, including a hundred and twenty
- 56:06Speaker 1: dollar first a federal prosecutor setting court. Thursday, government lawyers
- 56:10Speaker 1: disclosed allegations against for Majority and Keys CFO Christopher kmone
- 56:15Speaker 1: Camon don't know how to say it and not obviously
- 56:18Speaker 1: the sport he was hiring. Um and yeah, I mean.
- 56:24Speaker 1: And then Erica posted something about it. What did she post?
- 56:30Speaker 1: She just posted that it happened. I think just her
- 56:32Speaker 1: posting that it happened was once again her saying I
- 56:36Speaker 1: had no idea this was going down. Well, it sounds
- 56:40Speaker 1: like the entire from this point, let's say, let's say
- 56:45Speaker 1: how to add in real quart. Hey babe, I'm podcasting
- 56:48Speaker 1: right now with sam Hi Edwin. I love you too.
- 56:54Speaker 1: I have one question, because we were just talking about
- 56:56Speaker 1: the couple's retreat. What would you you're on speaker, what
- 57:00Speaker 1: would you say? I pretty much said that we were
- 57:02Speaker 1: going through tough times, We've gone through highs and lows,
- 57:05Speaker 1: and our one takeaway from the trip I gave mine.
- 57:08Speaker 1: What would you say? Your one takeaway was I think
- 57:14Speaker 1: that many today. That's kind of what you said. It's
- 57:28Speaker 1: the same thing. Oh, my god, did you guys rehearse this?
- 57:33Speaker 1: We didn't. Um. I love you so much. I'll call
- 57:35Speaker 1: you when we finish. Okay, let me too. But that's
- 57:39Speaker 1: so sweet, guys. So Erica's captain was actually h for
- 57:47Speaker 1: the ten millions for the ten outsorry. Erica's captain actually
- 57:50Speaker 1: was this ship gets crazier and crazier. Wow, it is crazier.
- 57:56Speaker 1: Compare her to jin Shaw maybe Innanna's there's no comparison.
- 58:03Speaker 1: And to say I'm biased because I say that is
- 58:06Speaker 1: one person. Even people have also compared to Teresa, and
- 58:12Speaker 1: I'm like, no, Teresa, have no idea, what's going on?
- 58:14Speaker 1: How many times have I signed tax papers or whatever
- 58:17Speaker 1: with my to Teresa, I'm like, no, no comparison whatsoever.
- 58:23Speaker 1: Speaking of Teresa, Teresa praises Caroline Manzo for not outing
- 58:27Speaker 1: family feud shades Melissa and Joe Gorga over disgrace on
- 58:31Speaker 1: her NOMA State a Bitches podcast. Teresa complimented Caroline as
- 58:35Speaker 1: well as Dina and Jacqueline. They've never aired their dirty
- 58:38Speaker 1: laundry out there, said Teresa of the three former castmates.
- 58:41Speaker 1: Like I know stuff of course behind the scenes. She
- 58:44Speaker 1: went on to say that's why I like, I knew
- 58:46Speaker 1: what was going on, and I was like, lots of likes,
- 58:50Speaker 1: lots of likes. Look, they never aired their dirty laundry
- 58:53Speaker 1: on National TV, you see, for everyone to know that,
- 58:56Speaker 1: they kept it private. And I have to say, she added,
- 58:58Speaker 1: I compliment them for that. Teresa indicated that her own
- 59:01Speaker 1: family isn't nearly as so private. She also claimed that
- 59:05Speaker 1: before this family fame thing, her family had none of this,
- 59:09Speaker 1: perhaps alluding to their dirty laundry. So Teresa is very
- 59:14Speaker 1: much um. She keeps things in. She's very very like families.
- 59:19Speaker 1: Everything private. You don't talk about things like. It's very mafia.
- 59:25Speaker 1: So if you are to guess, would you think who
- 59:28Speaker 1: do you think the bigger problem is Joe or Melissa?
- 59:32Speaker 1: I think Joe is very you know he and I
- 59:34Speaker 1: love Joe, but I feel like he he's outspoken. He
- 59:38Speaker 1: says how he feels and he puts it out there.
- 59:40Speaker 1: I don't hear Melissa. He's on like a comedy tour
- 59:45Speaker 1: right now or something. I mean I saw on Melissa's story,
- 59:50Speaker 1: Joe Gorga calls out crazy Jennifer Aiden for lies of
- 59:53Speaker 1: a Brookon Drama, Joe Gorga is clearing up the alleged
- 59:57Speaker 1: lies about Jennifer's now infamous drink throwing incident. Everything that
- 1:00:00Speaker 1: you heard is a lie, Grega said on The Chicks
- 1:00:02Speaker 1: and the Office podcast on Friday. Aiden's social media assistant Erica,
- 1:00:06Speaker 1: said a video shared TikTok that Gorga called her effing
- 1:00:09Speaker 1: dirty b I t h However, Gorga maintains that Aiden
- 1:00:13Speaker 1: was the instigator of the altercation. The story is out
- 1:00:16Speaker 1: there that she threw a drink on me and I
- 1:00:19Speaker 1: was saying these vulgar things to her. No, first of all,
- 1:00:21Speaker 1: I was fifty feet away with my wife. Jennifer likes
- 1:00:24Speaker 1: to dig a lot, and she gets involved with my
- 1:00:27Speaker 1: family business. Grega then admitted that his wife, Georga, did
- 1:00:31Speaker 1: say something to of course co star that may have
- 1:00:33Speaker 1: ticked her off. However, he said he expected the women
- 1:00:36Speaker 1: to not get into a verbal argument as how euselid
- 1:00:39Speaker 1: to do. But he noted that Aiden is not like that.
- 1:00:42Speaker 1: If you watched her on the TV show through the year,
- 1:00:44Speaker 1: she drinks a lot, she's violent, she throws things, she
- 1:00:46Speaker 1: breaks glasses, she wants to stab you with it, she
- 1:00:48Speaker 1: throws knives throughout it. I mean, this is who she is.
- 1:00:51Speaker 1: She's crazy. That's the whole career, and that's the whole cast.
- 1:00:54Speaker 1: They drink, they throw their Italian, they do all the things. Um.
- 1:00:59Speaker 1: All I know is the night after that happened, we
- 1:01:03Speaker 1: got our food delivered to our room and the girl
- 1:01:05Speaker 1: that delivered the food had all the dirt on it. Yeah,
- 1:01:09Speaker 1: and we we we didn't know anything about it, so
- 1:01:11Speaker 1: it was a big deal. Who knows what happened. It
- 1:01:14Speaker 1: was kind of it was dramatic, dramatic and embarrassing. Yeah.
- 1:01:26Speaker 1: Bethany response to Carol and Luanne for podcast bashing. Okay,
- 1:01:31Speaker 1: you guys know how we feel about the podcast bashing.
- 1:01:34Speaker 1: But Bethany Frankel says she can't apologize for being successful. Okay,
- 1:01:40Speaker 1: right there, Yeah yeah sorry. Interview for Access Hollywood House
- 1:01:47Speaker 1: Life Nightcap with Lauren Hubert, Bethany reacted to Carol Luan's
- 1:01:51Speaker 1: negative comments about her new Rewives podcast. I'm sorry they
- 1:01:55Speaker 1: are having a hard time with this. It makes sense.
- 1:01:57Speaker 1: It's already very successful. It's an incredible I yeah, it's
- 1:02:00Speaker 1: got buzz. It's interesting, said Bethany. I can't apologize and
- 1:02:04Speaker 1: I can't apologize for having great ideas for being successful.
- 1:02:07Speaker 1: To start, added, I've tried to do that for so
- 1:02:09Speaker 1: many years. Part of the reason I left your house
- 1:02:11Speaker 1: I was in New York was having to do with
- 1:02:13Speaker 1: feeling self conscious about my success and the great opportunities
- 1:02:16Speaker 1: that I have had first and that other people have
- 1:02:18Speaker 1: been inspired and done them themselves. She said. Her co
- 1:02:21Speaker 1: stars negative comments were predictable, and Bethany hopes they feel
- 1:02:25Speaker 1: better soon. Whatever your preconceived notion and an expectation are
- 1:02:28Speaker 1: of this podcast, it's not that it's not the run
- 1:02:31Speaker 1: of the mill. It's giving everything that you want. You
- 1:02:33Speaker 1: just didn't realize, she shared. It's so much information that
- 1:02:37Speaker 1: I didn't even realize. I have just for my ability
- 1:02:39Speaker 1: to break down the genre. It's sort of how it started.
- 1:02:43Speaker 1: I said, I think her podcast is probably great. I'm
- 1:02:47Speaker 1: sure it is, I said. I started to watch it
- 1:02:50Speaker 1: on my I listened to it on my in my
- 1:02:52Speaker 1: car on my way to Trader Joe's the other day,
- 1:02:54Speaker 1: which is another amazing thing I got to do. I've
- 1:02:56Speaker 1: been a Trader jose in four months. But anyways, um,
- 1:02:59Speaker 1: I ordered to get into it, and then I had
- 1:03:01Speaker 1: to go into the store. I haven't watched listen to
- 1:03:03Speaker 1: the rest, but truthfully, everything Bethany does. She pretty much
- 1:03:06Speaker 1: blows it up. She does, it's gonna be great. I
- 1:03:09Speaker 1: mean the fact that people like watching her wash her
- 1:03:12Speaker 1: face and talk about her drug store. Well, here's the thing.
- 1:03:17Speaker 1: I think that it is gonna be a great show.
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: The only part that I had issue with in regards
- 1:03:22Speaker 1: to this was her repeatedly saying, you know, I'm above Housewives.
- 1:03:26Speaker 1: I've moved on. They are not a lot of people women.
- 1:03:31Speaker 1: A lot of people have said that, and that is
- 1:03:34Speaker 1: that's the part that bothers me. Like, here's the thing,
- 1:03:37Speaker 1: you know what, just say it, be authentic about it
- 1:03:40Speaker 1: the way we are and say, hey, listen, people want
- 1:03:43Speaker 1: to hear us talk sh it on on Housewives. We're
- 1:03:46Speaker 1: gonna get paid to do it. Let's go for it.
- 1:03:48Speaker 1: I think that people's biggest problem is that she's talked
- 1:03:51Speaker 1: down on Housewives and said so many horrible things about
- 1:03:54Speaker 1: you know, the show and her cast mates. That now
- 1:03:57Speaker 1: she's doing this, which is a great idea. Yeah, and
- 1:04:00Speaker 1: I hope, I hope she gets a lot of success.
- 1:04:02Speaker 1: We did get one tweet that made me laugh because
- 1:04:05Speaker 1: I am having a feeling that you don't know what
- 1:04:06Speaker 1: this word means either, but I'm taking it as a compliment.
- 1:04:09Speaker 1: Having listened to be first episode, I can say Teddy
- 1:04:12Speaker 1: Mellencamp and tam Ra Judge OC do it better and
- 1:04:14Speaker 1: without supercilious undertones. Everyone listened to two teas in a pot.
- 1:04:19Speaker 1: What is super supercilious? I would say, like funny, but mean.
- 1:04:28Speaker 1: I have absolutely no idea what I mean. I saw this.
- 1:04:31Speaker 1: I was dying, so I'm like, there's no way that
- 1:04:33Speaker 1: tam Google's Alexa. There's gotta be ask. Can't you ask? Alexa?
- 1:04:40Speaker 1: She's right there? I see her behind your back, Alexa.
- 1:04:44Speaker 1: Oh she's not plugged in. Sorry I had to. I
- 1:04:46Speaker 1: had to unplug her. Supercilious behaving or looking as though
- 1:04:51Speaker 1: one thinks one is superior to others. So I was.
- 1:04:56Speaker 1: I was absolutely wrong behaving or looking as the one
- 1:04:59Speaker 1: thing inks one is superior to others. Now we know
- 1:05:03Speaker 1: we're just as bad as everybody else. Supercilious people think
- 1:05:06Speaker 1: very highly of themselves, more highly than others. If your
- 1:05:10Speaker 1: sister tends to act snobby and superior, you can describe
- 1:05:13Speaker 1: her as supercilious. Well we add that to our vocab. No,
- 1:05:18Speaker 1: I don't know. You know, I was thinking about that
- 1:05:19Speaker 1: because my vocab is you know, I barely made it
- 1:05:21Speaker 1: through high school, didn't go to college, however, But I
- 1:05:24Speaker 1: thought if i'd feel superior to you because I made
- 1:05:28Speaker 1: it to eleventh grade UM and then had to take
- 1:05:30Speaker 1: an EXEAS and my junior year. Yeah, but I seriously
- 1:05:34Speaker 1: feel like I grew up with a learned disability. My
- 1:05:37Speaker 1: dad has one, and I know I have one, so
- 1:05:39Speaker 1: it's very hard for me to retain anything. So um
- 1:05:43Speaker 1: I thought about like taking a class online class or
- 1:05:46Speaker 1: something to expand my vocabulary. But then I'm like, I'm
- 1:05:50Speaker 1: fifty five years old, doesn't really matter anymore. No, we're
- 1:05:53Speaker 1: not going to know what supercilious means. I also can't
- 1:05:55Speaker 1: do my son's second grade math. It is what it is.
- 1:05:59Speaker 1: Um Uh. The next second, the next of those Real
- 1:06:06Speaker 1: Housewives of Salt Lake City star jin Shaw blowout in
- 1:06:09Speaker 1: public argument family drama on video full TMZ link here.
- 1:06:13Speaker 1: Jen Sauce jin Shaw sentencing and her fraud case isn't
- 1:06:18Speaker 1: the only thing she's on the edge about these days.
- 1:06:20Speaker 1: The Real Housewives absolutely lost it during an explosive argument,
- 1:06:25Speaker 1: screaming and cutting on the streets of Salt Lake City.
- 1:06:27Speaker 1: TMZ obtained the intense footage of jin and four other
- 1:06:30Speaker 1: people having a blowout downtown Salt Lake City, and you
- 1:06:34Speaker 1: hear Jim screen, and you hear Jen screen several times.
- 1:06:37Speaker 1: F you were told this heated showdown happened around nine
- 1:06:42Speaker 1: pm on November five, as they say, Saturday nights all
- 1:06:45Speaker 1: right for fighting. It's unclear what sparked the dispute or
- 1:06:49Speaker 1: who the other combatants are, but there are some clear
- 1:06:53Speaker 1: chatter about this about someone's husband. There's also one person,
- 1:06:56Speaker 1: not Jen, who hurls a homophobics or a few times.
- 1:07:01Speaker 1: I didn't hear that. I didn't, did you hear? I
- 1:07:03Speaker 1: didn't hear. I didn't hear that either, Um, but I did.
- 1:07:06Speaker 1: I thought the person and the video was um Angie,
- 1:07:11Speaker 1: not Angie Harrington, the other Angie, And it's not it's
- 1:07:15Speaker 1: not it's not her. Was that was that Heather gay
- 1:07:18Speaker 1: with her or not? It's very hard to make out
- 1:07:21Speaker 1: who's in that video or not. I mean, there are
- 1:07:24Speaker 1: so many rumors. I mean, there are even rumors that
- 1:07:26Speaker 1: this fight is happening between gen Shaw and her child.
- 1:07:29Speaker 1: But well they said family drama, So family drama. Somebody
- 1:07:34Speaker 1: saying it's her oldest son. I don't want to report
- 1:07:37Speaker 1: on that as knowing, because we do not know. I
- 1:07:40Speaker 1: do know that if you are in a situation where
- 1:07:43Speaker 1: you could potentially be spending fifty plus years in jail,
- 1:07:47Speaker 1: leading quit fighting on the freaking streets, yeah, where you
- 1:07:51Speaker 1: can be recorded. Like I really start to wonder now
- 1:07:54Speaker 1: at this point if all these fights and all this
- 1:07:57Speaker 1: curated drama is not just like an attention and grab
- 1:08:01Speaker 1: all the time, no matter if it's her family, friends,
- 1:08:04Speaker 1: whoever it is. I don't know who's in that video,
- 1:08:06Speaker 1: but like, make it stop or if you can't, you
- 1:08:10Speaker 1: much don't leave your house. Yeah, but we got a
- 1:08:13Speaker 1: little tasty gnshaw when she came into our hotel room.
- 1:08:19Speaker 1: It's just crazy. Um. And then the final headline and
- 1:08:24Speaker 1: you can go for that one, um. Andy Cohen in
- 1:08:27Speaker 1: Serious XM three year d O renewer expands daily radio
- 1:08:31Speaker 1: show three more deal, contract extension, Way to Go Andy,
- 1:08:35Speaker 1: Um continues on and on. But guys, we are at
- 1:08:38Speaker 1: our capacity for today and I look forward to seeing
- 1:08:42Speaker 1: you tomorrow. Damn. If you were to guess, what do
- 1:08:44Speaker 1: you think? The hardest question, and he's gonna ask me, is,
- 1:08:47Speaker 1: oh my god, why did you do a podcast with
- 1:08:49Speaker 1: Tara Judge? What were you thinking? Do you want to
- 1:08:55Speaker 1: ruin your career. I'm gonna say I needed somebody that's
- 1:09:00Speaker 1: um what Okay? So maybe maybe it's at Lisa vanner
- 1:09:05Speaker 1: Pump question. Maybe it's where you left off your last season.
- 1:09:11Speaker 1: That wasn't my last season, Banner Pump, but already left
- 1:09:13Speaker 1: it wasn't your last season, that's right. So I think
- 1:09:15Speaker 1: I'm going to get a lot of this season questions
- 1:09:17Speaker 1: with my guests. You might be surprised. Did you look
- 1:09:21Speaker 1: at the tweets that were sent to Andy? Do you
- 1:09:23Speaker 1: have any idea? Yeah? And was that where you said
- 1:09:29Speaker 1: you wanted off yourself U? But then people are like
- 1:09:36Speaker 1: I was like, damn, um, yeah. So the problem isn't
- 1:09:41Speaker 1: gonna be me answering any of these questions. I'm fine.
- 1:09:43Speaker 1: If I was there with you sitting on those two chairs, fine,
- 1:09:47Speaker 1: I could go as bananas as I want. You don't
- 1:09:49Speaker 1: have to remember, my dad's going to be in my
- 1:09:51Speaker 1: other chair. And if you think I'm gredgy to know
- 1:09:54Speaker 1: it all, I Daddy Mellencamp to the rescue. Like, my
- 1:10:01Speaker 1: question is who's getting first chair? Oh my gosh, Well
- 1:10:05Speaker 1: I went back and looked, and I always had first
- 1:10:09Speaker 1: chair except for my last season, which makes sense. Well,
- 1:10:13Speaker 1: it also depends on who the guest is. If it's
- 1:10:15Speaker 1: like an A lister, like of course they're always going
- 1:10:18Speaker 1: to get first season actually airless, No, it's the one.
- 1:10:22Speaker 1: But one time I was second chair. I mean she
- 1:10:25Speaker 1: was great, she was like a comedian, but like it
- 1:10:27Speaker 1: wasn't a a I think only whatever I was in
- 1:10:31Speaker 1: at that moment. M M. I never know how they picked.
- 1:10:34Speaker 1: I really don't. I don't know how they picked. But
- 1:10:37Speaker 1: I just I really looked at my dad. I'm like, Dad, please,
- 1:10:41Speaker 1: because you don't understand if you want to talk about intimidating.
- 1:10:45Speaker 1: I was like, I need you to please just go
- 1:10:49Speaker 1: into this, this show a little bit of like I
- 1:10:53Speaker 1: want fun, fun, cougs fun. His responses, what does he drink? No? No,
- 1:11:01Speaker 1: and I won't be able to drink either. He looks
- 1:11:03Speaker 1: at me and he goes, why Andy Cohen can't fire me?
- 1:11:07Speaker 1: Oh he's a hardass. I'm scared of him. I'm scared, scared.
- 1:11:13Speaker 1: I'm scared for tomorrow. All right, Well, you guys you're
- 1:11:15Speaker 1: gonna be fine. Thank you for listening. Please tune in
- 1:11:18Speaker 1: to watch What Happens five and we will be doing
- 1:11:20Speaker 1: a recap episode next So we will have multiple ups
- 1:11:23Speaker 1: this week. Thanks for tuning in. Bye