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- 0:14Speaker 2: Nothing was out of the ordinary except mom was doing
- 0:18Speaker 2: out the mouth and chest compressions on a little boy,
- 0:21Speaker 2: her son, who had a pose aim was breathing.
- 0:41Speaker 1: Welcome to the Knife. I'm Patia Eaton. Hannah is currently
- 0:44Speaker 1: on leave, but we were able to record this interview
- 0:47Speaker 1: before she left, so you'll still hear her voice here
- 0:49Speaker 1: and there throughout the interview. Today we're speaking with Tony Collins.
- 0:53Speaker 1: Tony was twenty six years old working as a paramedic
- 0:55Speaker 1: when a pediatric response call came in over the radio.
- 0:58Speaker 1: The two year old boy was breathing. What began as
- 1:01Speaker 1: a series of unexplained medical emergencies slowly grew into a
- 1:05Speaker 1: disturbing child abuse investigation, raising unsettling questions about how far
- 1:09Speaker 1: one mother would go to control a narrative and what
- 1:12Speaker 1: else she might be hiding. Let's get into the interview. Hi, Tony,
- 1:21Speaker 1: thank you so much for taking the time to speak
- 1:24Speaker 1: with us today. So great to meet you.
- 1:26Speaker 2: Thank to meet you.
- 1:26Speaker 1: Guys, too, So, Tony, I reached out to you because
- 1:30Speaker 1: I found your name in an article about one case
- 1:33Speaker 1: in particular that you're going to speak with us about.
- 1:36Speaker 1: But could you first just introduce yourself to our audience.
- 1:40Speaker 2: Sure, my name's Tony Collins. I'm a retired paramedic in Iowa.
- 1:45Speaker 2: I retired after a forty year career. It spanned from
- 1:49Speaker 2: seventy eight to eighteen. I started when I was a
- 1:52Speaker 2: senior in high school, working nights on an ambulance at
- 1:55Speaker 2: the hospital, and I retired in twenty eighteen from the
- 1:58Speaker 2: fire department with the rank of Assistant chief and fire Marshall.
- 2:03Speaker 1: You've seen it all, yeah.
- 2:05Speaker 2: And just when you think you've seen it all, you
- 2:08Speaker 2: see something new.
- 2:10Speaker 1: Iowa is over seventy percent crop land. It's the largest
- 2:14Speaker 1: corn producing state in the US. Des Moines is the
- 2:17Speaker 1: state's capital, and just outside of Des Moines is a
- 2:20Speaker 1: quiet suburb called Urbandale. For Tony, That's where this story begins,
- 2:25Speaker 1: all the way back in nineteen eighty seven. At the time,
- 2:29Speaker 1: Urbandale was even quieter than it is now. Little neighborhoods
- 2:32Speaker 1: separated by open fields. There were parks home to Little
- 2:36Speaker 1: League games, churches, kids riding their bikes. Tony was twenty
- 2:40Speaker 1: six years old working as an EMT when a call
- 2:42Speaker 1: came in over the radio.
- 2:44Speaker 2: It was just a normal day at work. I've been
- 2:47Speaker 2: a paramedic for four years at that time. That particular
- 2:51Speaker 2: call at the address was only a matter of minutes away.
- 2:55Speaker 2: I was at the base and when I arrived, it's
- 2:58Speaker 2: like a town home type.
- 3:00Speaker 1: Before you get into the scene. I'm actually curious what
- 3:03Speaker 1: you were told on the call. On the dispatcher nine
- 3:06Speaker 1: one one call, what was said to you.
- 3:09Speaker 2: I think when the call came out, I think we're
- 3:11Speaker 2: dispatched as a difficulty breathing or a seizure type call.
- 3:15Speaker 2: Either way, it was a pediatric response. I do know
- 3:18Speaker 2: that child seizing or child not breathing. I respond solo
- 3:23Speaker 2: in a little SUV, a paramedic responder, and the local
- 3:27Speaker 2: fire department is the ones who sent the ambulance, so
- 3:31Speaker 2: I'm staffed. They were volunteer, so I naturally had a
- 3:34Speaker 2: quicker response time out the door. Plus I was only
- 3:38Speaker 2: minutes away, and so I had a pretty quick response
- 3:41Speaker 2: time and arriving.
- 3:42Speaker 1: A woman named Tanya Reid had called nine one one
- 3:45Speaker 1: to report that her two year old son was not
- 3:47Speaker 1: breathing that he possibly had a seizure. Tony, being first
- 3:51Speaker 1: on the scene, rushed to the door of the town home.
- 3:54Speaker 1: A screen door was closed, but the front door was open.
- 3:57Speaker 1: Tony yelled through the door paramedic medic, but there was
- 4:01Speaker 1: no response. He quickly just let himself in and then I.
- 4:05Speaker 2: Heard a voice coming from an upstairs bedroom and that's
- 4:09Speaker 2: where I went and found the mom, this woman on
- 4:14Speaker 2: the opposite side of the bed in the master bedroom,
- 4:18Speaker 2: and she was doing mountain mouth and chest compressions on
- 4:23Speaker 2: a young boy, which was her son, and I tried
- 4:26Speaker 2: to get her to move so I could assess the
- 4:28Speaker 2: child first, and she wouldn't move. She just kept saying,
- 4:31Speaker 2: come on, baby, breathe, breathe, come on, baby, and I
- 4:34Speaker 2: physically with my arm, had to get her out of
- 4:37Speaker 2: my way so I could look at him. And I
- 4:39Speaker 2: mean I was polite initially, and then I had to
- 4:42Speaker 2: get a little more firm in my commands to move
- 4:44Speaker 2: so I can look at him. And he was breathing
- 4:48Speaker 2: like thirty two times a minute.
- 4:49Speaker 1: Wait, he was breathing.
- 4:51Speaker 2: He was breathing. He was groggy, almost like you are
- 4:55Speaker 2: after a seizure or low blood sugar. He was just
- 4:58Speaker 2: kind of his eyes were to kind of looking straight ahead,
- 5:01Speaker 2: and he had a pulse and he had respiration. And
- 5:05Speaker 2: so immediately, as we're not doing a CPR, mounth to
- 5:09Speaker 2: mouth anymore.
- 5:10Speaker 1: You know, did it strike you as odd that she
- 5:12Speaker 1: wasn't immediately sort of I don't know, thrusting her child
- 5:16Speaker 1: into your arms, like if I'm just picturing if I
- 5:19Speaker 1: was concerned about my child's breathing enough to call nine
- 5:22Speaker 1: when one and then a paramedic arrives, it's like, okay,
- 5:25Speaker 1: now you take over.
- 5:27Speaker 2: You're absolutely right, that is kind of unusual. I mean,
- 5:32Speaker 2: all circumstances are same, and you evaluate them based on
- 5:35Speaker 2: their own merit. But many times I've had parents made
- 5:39Speaker 2: us at the curb when you roll up bringing a
- 5:41Speaker 2: limp child out and you're at the curb and they
- 5:44Speaker 2: just hand that baby to you. So that's not an
- 5:47Speaker 2: uncommon thing to happen, you know.
- 5:50Speaker 1: I think it's interesting, especially you having responded to different
- 5:54Speaker 1: calls of especially a child having medical need, and how
- 5:58Speaker 1: scary that is for every one. You know, her response
- 6:02Speaker 1: seems to be unusual for a parent, but also could
- 6:05Speaker 1: it have been she was so panicked that her kid
- 6:10Speaker 1: wasn't breathing, that she wasn't like in her right mind.
- 6:13Speaker 1: Like have you seen that type of thing before?
- 6:15Speaker 2: Oh? Yeah, especially with a mother or any parent, they're bloways,
- 6:19Speaker 2: visually distraught when something's wrong with their child. They're in panic.
- 6:23Speaker 2: Oh that's why they typically will meet you at the
- 6:25Speaker 2: door or sometimes the curb carrying their child. They want
- 6:29Speaker 2: to get it to the ambulance and you get to
- 6:31Speaker 2: the hospital as soon as possible. That's kind of what
- 6:33Speaker 2: the norm is. Occasionally you get the anomaly of a
- 6:37Speaker 2: citizen that learned SAPR at their employer or whatever, took
- 6:41Speaker 2: a CPR class, or were a lifeguard at a pool
- 6:44Speaker 2: at some point, so they'll act. Those are the type
- 6:47Speaker 2: of people that will act in an emergency, and that
- 6:50Speaker 2: was the case with her. She was doing chest compressions
- 6:53Speaker 2: and mount to mouse. She wasn't just doing mount to mouse,
- 6:56Speaker 2: she was pressing on his chest as well.
- 6:58Speaker 1: So that combination of things does seem unusual, Like she
- 7:02Speaker 1: was a panicked parent, but she clearly knew how to
- 7:04Speaker 1: do CPR right.
- 7:06Speaker 2: But again, medically trained people. I could speak for myself
- 7:10Speaker 2: if I had one of my kids when they were
- 7:13Speaker 2: little something happened, I'd probably be doing CPR on them
- 7:15Speaker 2: too immediately. Well, yeah, so's it's anything speculation or presumption
- 7:22Speaker 2: in that regard obviously later, but then the appearance of
- 7:26Speaker 2: the room started pinging things. Here we have a two
- 7:30Speaker 2: and a half year old in the master bed or
- 7:33Speaker 2: not a kid's room, and the bed was just like
- 7:38Speaker 2: I remember this vividly, like if you check into a motel,
- 7:41Speaker 2: you could bounce a quarter off the mattress, you know,
- 7:43Speaker 2: the bedspread in a bed that's made and tight and firm.
- 7:47Speaker 2: That's what the bed looked like, except right where he was,
- 7:52Speaker 2: where he was and where she was doing the mouth
- 7:55Speaker 2: to mouth on him. He was on top of the covers,
- 7:58Speaker 2: except the covers pulled back from the pillow, and the
- 8:00Speaker 2: pillow was the only thing not covered. And that struck
- 8:05Speaker 2: me as odd.
- 8:06Speaker 1: Can I ask was it weird because she was supposedly
- 8:11Speaker 1: taking a nap when she found him or something?
- 8:14Speaker 2: Well, if I recall, right, who tried saying something along
- 8:18Speaker 2: those lines and she found him not breathing, So it
- 8:22Speaker 2: just metal notes you make. You know, if she says
- 8:25Speaker 2: he's sleeping, I'm going to look because it look like
- 8:27Speaker 2: a kid's sleeping. And why is he sleeping in mom
- 8:29Speaker 2: and Dad's room and not his own room because he
- 8:31Speaker 2: had his own room.
- 8:33Speaker 1: In nineteen eighty seven, Tanya Reid was a stay at
- 8:36Speaker 1: home mom to her two children, Matthew and his older sister, Kimberly,
- 8:41Speaker 1: but she'd previously worked as a nurse. She certainly knew
- 8:44Speaker 1: how to give CPR. Tony recalled Tanya saying that her son, Matthew,
- 8:48Speaker 1: had been asleep taking a nap in her room when
- 8:51Speaker 1: she found him there, not breathing, a terrifying scenario for
- 8:54Speaker 1: any parent. Something about the scene, though, felt off, but
- 8:58Speaker 1: Tony's primary focus was on Matthew. The ambulance had arrived,
- 9:02Speaker 1: and Tony and the other first responders felt it was
- 9:04Speaker 1: best that Matthew be taken to a hospital for further evaluation,
- 9:08Speaker 1: But first they needed Tanya's consent.
- 9:11Speaker 2: He's a minor, and we can't transport anybody without the
- 9:15Speaker 2: consent of the parents. So we always get the consent.
- 9:18Speaker 2: Because I asked her, what hospital do you want us
- 9:21Speaker 2: to take him to? There's kind of a trick way
- 9:23Speaker 2: of asking questions. Sometimes you don't ask do you want
- 9:26Speaker 2: him to go to the hospital to get checked out?
- 9:29Speaker 2: It's what hospital do you want us to take him to?
- 9:32Speaker 2: And she said Iowa Methodist. There's my consent. She wanted
- 9:35Speaker 2: us to take him to Iowa Methodists. Per mom's direction,
- 9:38Speaker 2: we transported him to the hospital.
- 9:41Speaker 1: I mean, this sounds like, besides the unusual response of
- 9:45Speaker 1: the mom when you get there, which you know, who
- 9:48Speaker 1: knows why she's that way, and the sort of odd
- 9:51Speaker 1: look of the bedroom, it seems like this call ends
- 9:55Speaker 1: up going well and feels like more positive than maybe
- 9:59Speaker 1: some outcomes of calls you've had of kids struggling to breathe,
- 10:02Speaker 1: And so at the end when you sort of see
- 10:05Speaker 1: him lead for the hospital, how are you feeling about it?
- 10:09Speaker 1: Did it feel like, okay, great, we did a good job,
- 10:11Speaker 1: He's going to be okay, or were you worried about him?
- 10:13Speaker 1: Like what was your sort of mental state at that time?
- 10:16Speaker 2: You know, I'm not in charge of his care. I've
- 10:18Speaker 2: transferred that authority to the emergency room staff, the nurses,
- 10:22Speaker 2: and the doctors. And then all of a sudden, it's
- 10:25Speaker 2: like now it's just something wasn't right in the back
- 10:28Speaker 2: of my head, and that bedroom scenario is what I
- 10:30Speaker 2: kept going back to because I'm trying to figure out.
- 10:32Speaker 2: He didn't have any more seizure. He didn't have seizures
- 10:34Speaker 2: for me. He didn't quit breathing for me. He didn't
- 10:36Speaker 2: do anything that would trigger a kid to not breathing
- 10:39Speaker 2: if he's holding his breath. When you hold your breast
- 10:42Speaker 2: so long, you start breathing again, you know, automatically, this
- 10:45Speaker 2: is the body's response. So you know, I'm reviewing the scene.
- 10:49Speaker 2: Nothing was out of the ordinary except mom was doing
- 10:53Speaker 2: mouthed them out and chest compressions on it little boy,
- 10:56Speaker 2: her son who had of polls and was breathing. That
- 11:01Speaker 2: stood out. It just it stood out. It didn't make sense.
- 11:04Speaker 2: So I shared that with the emergency room staff. I
- 11:07Speaker 2: said she was doing CPR when I got there, but
- 11:11Speaker 2: when I got her out of the way, I had
- 11:13Speaker 2: to move her because she wouldn't stop at first. She
- 11:15Speaker 2: just kept pressing on his chest and giving him a breath,
- 11:18Speaker 2: and I physically had to get her to move to
- 11:20Speaker 2: the side, just with my forearms gently moved her. And
- 11:23Speaker 2: you know, any kids breathing. So I relayed all that
- 11:27Speaker 2: to the staff so they were aware we did not
- 11:29Speaker 2: have a child that was not breathing under our care.
- 11:32Speaker 2: He was breathing the whole time, So I'm sharing with
- 11:35Speaker 2: him how the room was perfect when I'm relaying when
- 11:38Speaker 2: they asked those questions about the scene. Mom and Dad's
- 11:41Speaker 2: the master bedroom, and the bed was made. It was
- 11:43Speaker 2: perfectly neat except for where he was laying. And then
- 11:47Speaker 2: I started thinking him backwards, and I'm like, that pillow
- 11:51Speaker 2: was above his head, that cover was pulled off the pillow,
- 11:54Speaker 2: and the pillow had been moved, and the only thing
- 11:56Speaker 2: distirred on the intake because the kid was on top
- 12:00Speaker 2: of the covers. You know. Also, it just it didn't
- 12:03Speaker 2: make sense, but I didn't dwell on it.
- 12:07Speaker 1: Tony shared what he saw with the hospital staff. But
- 12:10Speaker 1: now Matthew's care was out of his hands and in
- 12:13Speaker 1: the hands of emergency room doctors at Iowa Methodist Medical Center,
- 12:17Speaker 1: and these doctors had never seen Matthew before. The reads
- 12:21Speaker 1: had only recently moved to Urbandale. Tanya informed the doctors
- 12:25Speaker 1: that Matthew had a history of seizures, and it's true
- 12:28Speaker 1: that seizures can sometimes disrupt the part of the brain
- 12:31Speaker 1: that controls breathing, but even after a thorough evaluation, doctors
- 12:35Speaker 1: couldn't determine what might be causing the seizures or breathing
- 12:38Speaker 1: problems for Matthew. So once he was stabilized, he returned home.
- 12:43Speaker 1: But three months later, another nine to one to one
- 12:45Speaker 1: call came in from Tanya read do you remember when
- 12:50Speaker 1: you got that next call? And thinking like, wait, I
- 12:54Speaker 1: know this place, Like, can you take us to that
- 12:57Speaker 1: memory if you have it?
- 12:59Speaker 2: I was personally again, which happens a lot. So I
- 13:02Speaker 2: had a friend that lived in that same complex. I
- 13:05Speaker 2: knew where the ice arena was, and so I went,
- 13:08Speaker 2: I've been here before, you know. It was the same
- 13:10Speaker 2: type of call. It was the same place, and sure
- 13:13Speaker 2: enough rolled up, Yep, this is where I was before,
- 13:15Speaker 2: you know, for the same kid. So all right, I'm
- 13:18Speaker 2: thinking this kid's got some underlying medical problem. Coming back
- 13:23Speaker 2: a second time, Yeah, that's the feeling you get when
- 13:27Speaker 2: you hear familiar address.
- 13:35Speaker 1: The second call that came in from Tanya Reid was
- 13:37Speaker 1: similar to the first, some version of Matthew not breathing,
- 13:41Speaker 1: perhaps the result of a seizure, and this would not
- 13:44Speaker 1: be Tanya's last call. The calls kept coming, and each
- 13:47Speaker 1: time Matthew was stabilized, transported to Iowa Methodist, evaluated, and
- 13:52Speaker 1: returned home. But on this second call, while Tony was
- 13:56Speaker 1: working on Matthew. He remembers vividly that Tanya would not
- 14:00Speaker 1: stop talking. She was oddly nonchalant, but despite her chattiness,
- 14:05Speaker 1: she wasn't offering any useful information that might help them
- 14:08Speaker 1: determine what was going on with Matthew.
- 14:12Speaker 2: I mean, you got a mom backing in your ear
- 14:14Speaker 2: all the time, and you're trying to listen to her,
- 14:17Speaker 2: but you're going to see assessing the child and investigating
- 14:21Speaker 2: why she called you. You don't see what it is
- 14:24Speaker 2: and what you can do for it. That's for your focus.
- 14:26Speaker 2: So it's like background noise, you know sometimes, but you
- 14:30Speaker 2: listen for key things and then when you're comfortable after
- 14:33Speaker 2: assessing and all right, we're not in a critical situation.
- 14:36Speaker 2: I'm not in a baiting m I'm not diving in
- 14:39Speaker 2: with drugs or invasive care, you know, picking him up
- 14:43Speaker 2: to rush to the ambulance, I'm like, all right, we're good.
- 14:45Speaker 2: I'm waiting on the ambulance. Then I'll turn my focus
- 14:48Speaker 2: to all right, tell me again, what was he doing?
- 14:51Speaker 2: What'd you witness? She had an answer for everything and anything.
- 14:55Speaker 2: After a while, Like I said, it becomes background noise
- 14:58Speaker 2: when you're repeating the same things that don't make sense,
- 15:01Speaker 2: or if they're irrelevant or nonpertinent, you filter it out.
- 15:05Speaker 2: I'm looking for give me some meat on the bone,
- 15:07Speaker 2: you know.
- 15:08Speaker 1: I guess I'm just trying to get an idea, because
- 15:10Speaker 1: the first time you said the scene of he seemed
- 15:13Speaker 1: to not be breathing, that was her explanation, he's not breathing,
- 15:16Speaker 1: I'm giving him CPR. You pull her off, You realize
- 15:19Speaker 1: that's not the case. Is it the same every time
- 15:22Speaker 1: where she says he wasn't breathing or he passed out,
- 15:24Speaker 1: or what was the story?
- 15:26Speaker 2: It's time it was different. Sometimes she'd say he had
- 15:28Speaker 2: a seizure. You know, I wasn't really to breathing and
- 15:31Speaker 2: it was a seizure, and she never mentioned not breathing. Well,
- 15:35Speaker 2: I mean, so it was kind of all over the
- 15:37Speaker 2: board in what she would say that the general reason
- 15:41Speaker 2: we were there was either seizures, difficulty breathing, or not breathing.
- 15:46Speaker 1: Were these calls all during the day or were they
- 15:50Speaker 1: at different times of day or what time of day
- 15:52Speaker 1: do you recall them coming in.
- 15:54Speaker 2: All in the evening around five o'clock, except I think
- 15:58Speaker 2: there was an anomaly one around eight o'clock one day. Again,
- 16:03Speaker 2: I'd have to go back and look at the totalists
- 16:05Speaker 2: of calls, but most of them were all on Tuesdays
- 16:09Speaker 2: and Fridays around five o'clock, with the exception of one
- 16:12Speaker 2: or two.
- 16:13Speaker 1: And how is Matthew's father acting or what was his demeanor?
- 16:18Speaker 2: He was never present? And I raised that question at
- 16:22Speaker 2: one point to the ambulance group from the fire. How
- 16:25Speaker 2: come the dad's never hear?
- 16:27Speaker 1: Was she always the only adult present when these calls
- 16:30Speaker 1: would come in?
- 16:31Speaker 2: Yeah, she was the only adult, okay. And sometimes there
- 16:34Speaker 2: were other kids there and other times I don't wasn't
- 16:38Speaker 2: any on that first one, And I can't tell you
- 16:40Speaker 2: who I was there for all of them, but she
- 16:43Speaker 2: was the only adult each time. There was always it
- 16:47Speaker 2: seemed like there were some other activities going on in
- 16:50Speaker 2: the house at the time when his events happened, separate
- 16:54Speaker 2: from what the activity was. He wasn't going to participate.
- 16:58Speaker 1: Now, you mean, what like I among the children.
- 17:02Speaker 2: His kids are watching a movie, kids were playing tag.
- 17:07Speaker 2: He wasn't playing tag, you know what I mean.
- 17:10Speaker 1: I'm curious, what did Tanya tell you about herself that
- 17:15Speaker 1: you remember in her experience as a nurse or did
- 17:18Speaker 1: she offer that information to you or was that something
- 17:20Speaker 1: you learned later?
- 17:22Speaker 2: Only at some point I remember her saying, I'm a nurse.
- 17:26Speaker 2: Either I am a nurse or was a nurse. I
- 17:29Speaker 2: didn't get into her resume. Okay, mom's a nurse. And
- 17:33Speaker 2: she was more calm that second time, and she remained
- 17:36Speaker 2: calm for a while till the very last call. Then
- 17:39Speaker 2: it was totally different.
- 17:41Speaker 1: There would be many more calls before that last call
- 17:45Speaker 1: that Tony's referring to. Sometimes these calls would be only
- 17:48Speaker 1: a week apart, and when paramedics would arrive on these calls,
- 17:52Speaker 1: Tanya seemed to frequently be displaying her ability to perform
- 17:55Speaker 1: CPR and mouth to mouth resuscitation. Sometimes you'd tell paramedics
- 18:00Speaker 1: she'd been able to get Matthew breathing again while they
- 18:03Speaker 1: were on the way over, but her demeanor was eerily calm.
- 18:07Speaker 1: During yet another emergency trip to Iowa Methodist Medical Center,
- 18:11Speaker 1: a nurse noticed scratch marks on Matthew's cheeks, as if
- 18:14Speaker 1: he'd been trying to remove something covering his mouth. On
- 18:17Speaker 1: the same visit, Tanya stopped one of the nurses working
- 18:19Speaker 1: on Matthew to point out a small scratch on her finger.
- 18:23Speaker 1: It seemed odd. How can a mother whose son so
- 18:26Speaker 1: often was found not breathing bring herself to care about
- 18:29Speaker 1: a small scratch on her own finger. Suspicion was mounting
- 18:33Speaker 1: at the hospital and elsewhere. The paramedics in the fire department.
- 18:37Speaker 1: They worked in the same building, and the more calls
- 18:39Speaker 1: that came in from Tanya read, the more her name
- 18:42Speaker 1: came up among Tony and his fellow first responders.
- 18:46Speaker 2: You know, you make little cynical remarks sometimes you just
- 18:49Speaker 2: do you know, when you go the same place and
- 18:51Speaker 2: it's like much is you cry and wolf? This lady
- 18:53Speaker 2: crying wolf for something? Because the kid's fine every time
- 18:56Speaker 2: we get him. You know, why do we keep coming
- 18:59Speaker 2: Was that.
- 18:59Speaker 1: Kind of feeling after several calls, was that the kid
- 19:04Speaker 1: is fine and she's overreacting.
- 19:08Speaker 2: Yeah, so you're always looking for answers while you're doing
- 19:11Speaker 2: what you're doing. My question was why do we keep
- 19:14Speaker 2: coming back? Why isn't Dad at every home? Why is
- 19:18Speaker 2: it always the same time of day? You know, little
- 19:21Speaker 2: things like that. So somebody had repeated, you know, yeah,
- 19:24Speaker 2: why don't we keep going to this house? And you
- 19:27Speaker 2: know the police always respond to calls you know, a
- 19:29Speaker 2: police officer patrol car responds. Back then, they always responded
- 19:33Speaker 2: on every ambulance call too, just to have the cruise
- 19:36Speaker 2: back just in case they were needed. Most of the
- 19:38Speaker 2: time they're like, you need me here, now you can go.
- 19:41Speaker 2: We got this, and they take off. You know, you
- 19:43Speaker 2: never knew what their involvement level is going to be.
- 19:45Speaker 2: You know, could have been a drunk a fight, a shooting, ansault,
- 19:49Speaker 2: or you know, a kid.
- 19:50Speaker 1: I guess where is sort of spreading around the firehouse
- 19:53Speaker 1: that there's something unusual about these calls, or that she's
- 19:57Speaker 1: crying wolf, or maybe it's just kind of like frustrating
- 20:00Speaker 1: because you're called to a scene where a kid is fine,
- 20:04Speaker 1: not once but twice.
- 20:06Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, yeah. I think there were fire or five,
- 20:09Speaker 2: six seven calls totally. I can't remember how many. It
- 20:13Speaker 2: spanned over several months. I mean, they weren't not to
- 20:17Speaker 2: back calls. They were always spanned over several months. But
- 20:20Speaker 2: we kept coming back. One thing I remember, they could
- 20:23Speaker 2: never find anything wrong with it. You know, she keeps calling.
- 20:28Speaker 1: Some people never call line on one that many times in.
- 20:30Speaker 2: Their life, right, and the fire guys are no different
- 20:34Speaker 2: than me. At the time. You know, oh my got
- 20:36Speaker 2: that address again, you know, and because they're leaving what
- 20:39Speaker 2: they're doing, have to respond to the fire station and
- 20:42Speaker 2: gear up and then get out the door and respond.
- 20:45Speaker 2: You know, they're getting familiar with that address. Even the dispatchers.
- 20:49Speaker 2: You know, you got same dispatcher, works that same ship.
- 20:51Speaker 2: They guess what you know this address again. So now
- 20:56Speaker 2: people are like, what's going on. I'm not the only
- 20:59Speaker 2: one curiosity questions. You know, other people in their town
- 21:04Speaker 2: are having lost questions.
- 21:06Speaker 1: The chatter at the fire station was not happening in isolation.
- 21:10Speaker 1: Tanya Reid had called nine to one one so many times,
- 21:13Speaker 1: sending her toddler to the hospital so his seizures and
- 21:15Speaker 1: breathing could be evaluated, only for doctors to continually find
- 21:19Speaker 1: no indication of seizures or what could be causing any
- 21:23Speaker 1: breathing issues. And the first responders and hospital staff they
- 21:27Speaker 1: never saw Matthew have a seizure. And soon someone else
- 21:31Speaker 1: would walk into Tony's office who had questions of their own.
- 21:35Speaker 2: So anyway, I got a visit from a detective that
- 21:39Speaker 2: came to my base one day and was asking me questions.
- 21:43Speaker 2: And now I said, I'm explaining all the things that
- 21:46Speaker 2: aren't passing the smell test. To me, Now, I'm not stupid.
- 21:50Speaker 2: I don't when a cop walks in. He's not just
- 21:52Speaker 2: randomly there to check on my day and say hey,
- 21:55Speaker 2: how you doing, especially on you may not know. Well,
- 21:58Speaker 2: he's there for a reason, like oh, they're looking into this,
- 22:01Speaker 2: you know. And so I explained to him all my
- 22:05Speaker 2: details and he was listening intently. And we keep a
- 22:09Speaker 2: log book. We were a volunteer paramedic unit. I was
- 22:12Speaker 2: the only paid person director operations, so I was there
- 22:16Speaker 2: most days, and so I showed him our lot. You
- 22:19Speaker 2: wanted to know about other calls to that address? Okay,
- 22:24Speaker 2: well I'm compelled to share that with you because I
- 22:27Speaker 2: have questions myself. So one of our other paramedics had
- 22:32Speaker 2: responded to called that I wasn't on. She went there,
- 22:37Speaker 2: and our log book was just for ship to ship
- 22:40Speaker 2: communications documenting. He went up to Durbandale twice last night
- 22:44Speaker 2: and five once in out to Dallas County yesterday, just
- 22:48Speaker 2: so you knew what Paul's that happened the previous shift.
- 22:52Speaker 2: So anyway, when this other paramedic, she responded and she
- 22:57Speaker 2: wrote in their trip to this Canterbury and she goes.
- 23:00Speaker 2: Guess who Tony she goes, same kid she goes, apparently
- 23:06Speaker 2: has some kind of breath holding disorder that makes him
- 23:10Speaker 2: quit breathing or go into seizures. And when I read that,
- 23:13Speaker 2: having been there multiple times myself, I wrote above it
- 23:18Speaker 2: in the book, I wrote bullshit with exclamation marks and underling,
- 23:22Speaker 2: because I'm like, breath holding disorder. That's new to me,
- 23:27Speaker 2: and forty years later, it's still new to me, a
- 23:30Speaker 2: breath holding disorder other than a temper tantrum.
- 23:35Speaker 1: What is the detective's reaction to this log book where
- 23:40Speaker 1: it's pretty clear that the paramedics are also pretty sure
- 23:44Speaker 1: something is up right.
- 23:46Speaker 2: He honed in on that when I showed him that
- 23:48Speaker 2: when I was going through each of the calls, because
- 23:50Speaker 2: he wanted to know exactly what time each call was
- 23:53Speaker 2: and who was on it. Me again again, I hope
- 23:57Speaker 2: Janis went on this one.
- 23:58Speaker 1: Did he share with you anything more specific about his
- 24:01Speaker 1: interest in this mother and the son who was supposedly
- 24:07Speaker 1: having these health issues?
- 24:09Speaker 2: Good detective doesn't share anything when he's digging. If he
- 24:13Speaker 2: finds a gold nugget, he's not telling you he found
- 24:15Speaker 2: a gold nugget.
- 24:16Speaker 1: What was his response to seeing the words bullshit and
- 24:20Speaker 1: the log.
- 24:22Speaker 2: Why'd you write that? He goes, what was bullshit about it?
- 24:25Speaker 2: And then he dunk deeper after that, and we're in
- 24:28Speaker 2: any deeper conversation on what it wasn't passing the smell test,
- 24:33Speaker 2: and we're back to my very first call. Because he
- 24:37Speaker 2: was curious tell me about that first call, you know,
- 24:40Speaker 2: and he's not telling me why he's asking that. He's
- 24:44Speaker 2: asking it because he wants to know. He already knows
- 24:46Speaker 2: something and he wants to know more. So after that,
- 24:51Speaker 2: going on, after our conversation, he all of a sudden
- 24:55Speaker 2: showed up on all subsequent calls after that, and this
- 24:57Speaker 2: was after the third or fourth call. They gave specific
- 25:01Speaker 2: instructions to dispatch that if we ever get a call
- 25:04Speaker 2: to this address, that address was flagged in the system,
- 25:07Speaker 2: he is automatically to be paged out for it. On call.
- 25:17Speaker 1: A detective had visited Tony at work with questions about
- 25:21Speaker 1: Tanya read and why Tony had written bullshit in their
- 25:24Speaker 1: log book. By this time, Tanya had called nine one
- 25:27Speaker 1: one three or four times since moving to Urbandale less
- 25:30Speaker 1: than a year earlier, so if she called again, a
- 25:33Speaker 1: detective would now arrive on the scene along with paramedics,
- 25:37Speaker 1: and sure enough, Tanya made another nine one one call.
- 25:41Speaker 2: After that, All of a sudden, here we got an
- 25:43Speaker 2: unmarked detective car showing up at our calls to that address.
- 25:48Speaker 2: All he did was observed. He didn't take over, He
- 25:50Speaker 2: didn't ask well, he asked us questions, is this normal,
- 25:53Speaker 2: is that or whatever? He was observing and making notes
- 25:58Speaker 2: and was just there because he was watching a mom.
- 26:03Speaker 1: I'm curious if you know anything about Tanya's reaction to
- 26:06Speaker 1: his presence.
- 26:08Speaker 2: Yeah, her Spidey senses were picking up. Not the first
- 26:11Speaker 2: one I remember the first time he was there. She
- 26:14Speaker 2: was curious. She noticed him, but there wasn't any change
- 26:17Speaker 2: or why the hell's a cop here? There wasn't anything
- 26:20Speaker 2: like that. But she wasn't a stupid woman. She was
- 26:25Speaker 2: a nurse, said you know at some point, so she's
- 26:27Speaker 2: not dumb, but she noticed something was off about the response.
- 26:32Speaker 2: All the firefighters PM. We weren't asking as many questions
- 26:35Speaker 2: as we used to. We were there to pick up
- 26:38Speaker 2: the kid and get him out of there and get
- 26:40Speaker 2: him to the hospital. And we were always going to
- 26:42Speaker 2: Iowa Methodist. And I was aware because I also flew
- 26:47Speaker 2: on the helicopter at that particular hospital. So I worked
- 26:50Speaker 2: there too at that time, so I knew people in
- 26:53Speaker 2: the er, so i'd see those people when I was
- 26:56Speaker 2: in the emergency room at work, you know, so, hey,
- 26:59Speaker 2: you brought that in again the other day, or we
- 27:01Speaker 2: had or they tell me if somebody else brought him
- 27:03Speaker 2: in and I wasn't on the call, Hey we had
- 27:05Speaker 2: your kid in again, and you know, and talking about it.
- 27:09Speaker 2: So they're asking question, because why this can keep coming
- 27:12Speaker 2: back to It's like a boomerang or a bad penny
- 27:14Speaker 2: to the er. And there's never anything wrong with him,
- 27:17Speaker 2: with this mom who's supposedly a nurse. I can't answer that.
- 27:21Speaker 2: It's weird. And in all the discussions, like I told
- 27:24Speaker 2: the detective, was there always the same days of the week.
- 27:28Speaker 2: Tuesdays was a common day, and Friday was a common
- 27:30Speaker 2: day for the calls, and the time of day was
- 27:32Speaker 2: a common time for the calls.
- 27:34Speaker 1: I just had a question. You know, it's interesting that
- 27:36Speaker 1: this detective is catching on and has come and told
- 27:40Speaker 1: you all anytime there's a call, I'm going to be there.
- 27:43Speaker 1: He shows up the first time, Tanya is like, Oh,
- 27:46Speaker 1: who's this guy? It's not that unusual for a police
- 27:48Speaker 1: officer to show up to it an I'm on one call,
- 27:50Speaker 1: but then the same guy comes back again and again,
- 27:52Speaker 1: and it's interesting that she keeps calling and this guy
- 27:55Speaker 1: keeps showing up. Does her behavior change in a noticeable
- 28:00Speaker 1: way once the same detective is coming around your recall?
- 28:04Speaker 2: Is everybody's behavior changed? Because now everybody's what's Doug doing here?
- 28:11Speaker 2: You know? I was a guy with a suit and
- 28:12Speaker 2: a badge on his belt, you know, on a call. Well,
- 28:16Speaker 2: everybody knew that they were watching, you know, if we
- 28:19Speaker 2: ever go there, that he's going to be there. Cops
- 28:21Speaker 2: and firefighter agencies are usually pretty tight knit anyway. But
- 28:26Speaker 2: it was the last call that was a significant change
- 28:29Speaker 2: because I said, you want to go to Methodist again?
- 28:32Speaker 2: You know? And this one I think was more of
- 28:35Speaker 2: a later evening call, and all of a sudden, she
- 28:38Speaker 2: wanted to go to Mercy Hospital. She didn't want to
- 28:41Speaker 2: go to Iowa Methodists. She wanted to go to the
- 28:43Speaker 2: different the other big hospital in Des Moines switched up
- 28:46Speaker 2: on us after all these trips going to Methodist.
- 28:49Speaker 1: Did she offer a reason for that?
- 28:52Speaker 2: No, she didn't like she was accusing them. You know,
- 28:55Speaker 2: they don't care. They can't figure out what's wrong with him.
- 28:57Speaker 2: I keep taking him there and they can't figure out
- 28:59Speaker 2: what's wrong with him, and on and on.
- 29:02Speaker 1: In a nineteen ninety five interview with NBC Seattle, author
- 29:06Speaker 1: Greg Olsen, who had written a book about this case, Mockingbird,
- 29:09Speaker 1: A Mother, A Child, A Tragedy, said that hospital staff
- 29:13Speaker 1: began to notice that Tanya's young son did not want
- 29:16Speaker 1: to be left alone with her. He didn't scream, In fact,
- 29:19Speaker 1: he hardly spoke, but if it ever appeared to him
- 29:22Speaker 1: that he and his mother, Tanya were about to be
- 29:24Speaker 1: alone together, he would sit up in bed with a
- 29:26Speaker 1: frightened look on his face. Maybe Tanya knew Iowa Methodist
- 29:31Speaker 1: wasn't buying her story anymore. Maybe that's why on that
- 29:34Speaker 1: very last call, Tanya demanded Matthew be taken to a
- 29:37Speaker 1: new hospital.
- 29:39Speaker 2: So she immediately blaming them for the reason she's going
- 29:43Speaker 2: to a different places.
- 29:44Speaker 1: What it was was that the only unusual thing about
- 29:47Speaker 1: that last call? Or was there anything else? What was
- 29:51Speaker 1: different about it?
- 29:51Speaker 2: Well, I recall as we were getting out to the ambulance,
- 29:54Speaker 2: the detective now is he's not just stand and watch
- 29:57Speaker 2: and he's asking questions. I want to say he confronted her,
- 30:01Speaker 2: but I think it's the equivalent of that. You know,
- 30:05Speaker 2: he's now asking the mom questions and stuff out of
- 30:08Speaker 2: the realm that we're asking. I can't hear the responses.
- 30:11Speaker 2: I just know she got really defensive with the detective
- 30:15Speaker 2: at that time. I do recall that. And then all
- 30:17Speaker 2: of a sudden, we're switching hospitals. That whole trip to
- 30:21Speaker 2: the hospital to Mercy that now I'm giving a report
- 30:24Speaker 2: to a different hospital who knows nothing about what's been
- 30:27Speaker 2: going on for the last eight months. You know, of
- 30:31Speaker 2: us responding to this address with his kid.
- 30:34Speaker 1: And over that approximately eight months or whatever it is,
- 30:37Speaker 1: when you'd come, you know, there'd been whatever six seven,
- 30:40Speaker 1: eight calls. Did he seem sicker, did he seem different,
- 30:43Speaker 1: or did he still seem like he was fine?
- 30:45Speaker 2: He wasn't as active as a two and a half
- 30:50Speaker 2: three year old should be by the end, he just
- 30:52Speaker 2: didn't meet normal standards in his demeanor, his affect. He
- 30:57Speaker 2: was really quiet. He was unusually usually three year old's
- 30:59Speaker 2: got a lot to say. They're trying to say if
- 31:01Speaker 2: they know what they want to say, but you can't.
- 31:03Speaker 2: They're trying to say it, you know, or they want
- 31:05Speaker 2: their mom, or they're reaching out for mom or dad
- 31:09Speaker 2: or whatever. And there was none of that. He was
- 31:12Speaker 2: just chill. He was almost too chill. The rearview mirror
- 31:17Speaker 2: is always crystal clear, so I look at it as
- 31:19Speaker 2: he was in submission at that point, you know, looks
- 31:22Speaker 2: like I'm going to the hospital again. Strangers are picking
- 31:25Speaker 2: me up and putting me on a bed and giving
- 31:27Speaker 2: me a ride. And he had no input, didn't care,
- 31:30Speaker 2: pay any attention. It's just, you know, real flat affict
- 31:33Speaker 2: and not a typical response.
- 31:35Speaker 1: It's heartbreaking, Yeah, it is. I'm wondering, you know, before
- 31:40Speaker 1: we get into sort of what the whole aftermath of
- 31:44Speaker 1: these money calls from her home in Ermannil, Iowa. You know,
- 31:48Speaker 1: when you hear that there's been nine on one calls
- 31:50Speaker 1: on a toddler not breathing, having seizures, there's some suspicion
- 31:56Speaker 1: or talk of the mother part way into these calls.
- 31:59Speaker 1: Why is the child still in that mother's care? Can
- 32:02Speaker 1: you speak to that at all? Like, when that happens,
- 32:04Speaker 1: why is the child not like immediately sort of taken.
- 32:08Speaker 2: Oh, that's what eventually ended up happening in this particular case,
- 32:13Speaker 2: And I am not the authority to answer why they
- 32:16Speaker 2: do a lot of what they do or don't do. Yeah,
- 32:19Speaker 2: you know, it's what you think they should do, you know,
- 32:22Speaker 2: when you're a witness it. But this thing, I think,
- 32:24Speaker 2: just a lot of times with police involvement this case,
- 32:29Speaker 2: keep in mind, they got to be careful. They slow
- 32:31Speaker 2: walk a lot of stuff because they're building a case
- 32:34Speaker 2: and they need evidence and they need something to stick
- 32:37Speaker 2: before a county attorney will take it to court charge it.
- 32:41Speaker 2: And I think that's why they were doing that in
- 32:44Speaker 2: this particular case, because the kid didn't show real signs
- 32:49Speaker 2: of physical abuse. I mean, he wasn't bruised up much
- 32:53Speaker 2: or anything. I think he ended up having some bruises
- 32:57Speaker 2: on his neck or something at some point, And I
- 33:00Speaker 2: don't recall if it was my call or somebody else's.
- 33:03Speaker 2: If he did have him, it would have been in
- 33:04Speaker 2: my report. But I remember in an investigation after it
- 33:07Speaker 2: all things came out to the hospital and the emergency department,
- 33:11Speaker 2: a nurse noted, he's got a scratch on his cheek
- 33:16Speaker 2: and a bruise on his either upper shoulder or neck
- 33:19Speaker 2: or something like that. But I had never really documented
- 33:23Speaker 2: child abuse physical child abuse.
- 33:26Speaker 1: At what point do the calls stop and what do
- 33:30Speaker 1: you hear about the case after that happens?
- 33:34Speaker 2: For that last call, we never got called back there again.
- 33:38Speaker 2: Call and not knowing I was going to be the
- 33:41Speaker 2: final call, but after switching to a different hospital for
- 33:44Speaker 2: the last call and then never going back there, plus
- 33:47Speaker 2: you know, scuttle but rumors taking it for what it's worth.
- 33:52Speaker 2: The oneman found out that she was charged in this
- 33:56Speaker 2: case was when detectives showed up with a subpoena at
- 34:00Speaker 2: paramedic base. I still remember that day welcome in and
- 34:05Speaker 2: Supina and showed it to me as at a we
- 34:07Speaker 2: need your log book.
- 34:09Speaker 1: In August of nineteen eighty eight, Tanya Reid was arrested
- 34:12Speaker 1: in Pope County, Iowa and charged with felony child endangerment.
- 34:16Speaker 1: She had called nine one one reporting instances of Matthew
- 34:19Speaker 1: having a seizure or not breathing nine times. But these
- 34:23Speaker 1: nine one one calls, they didn't start in Iowa. They
- 34:26Speaker 1: started when Matthew was just a baby and the family
- 34:29Speaker 1: was still living in Texas, and they continued when the
- 34:32Speaker 1: family moved briefly to Illinois and back to Texas before
- 34:36Speaker 1: eventually moving to Urbandale, and over the course of that time,
- 34:39Speaker 1: Matthew was hospitalized on at least eighteen different occasions. Neighbors
- 34:44Speaker 1: in Urbandale reported that when the children were out playing
- 34:46Speaker 1: and Tanya would come pick them up, Matthew would run
- 34:49Speaker 1: from her. Tanya's arrest and the trial that followed was
- 34:52Speaker 1: all over the news and in the papers. Pope County
- 34:55Speaker 1: Prosecutor Melanie Haynes argued that Tanya Reid suffered from Munchausen
- 34:59Speaker 1: by proxy mental illness and form of child abuse were
- 35:02Speaker 1: a parent or caretaker faked symptoms of illness and a
- 35:04Speaker 1: child hoping to garner sympathy or attention. And Toni was
- 35:08Speaker 1: called to testify to explain what he'd seen on those
- 35:11Speaker 1: calls at Tanya Reid's house and why he'd written the
- 35:14Speaker 1: word bullshit in that log book. Do you remember seeing
- 35:19Speaker 1: Tanya when you were testifying, like she was sitting there
- 35:22Speaker 1: in court, and do you remember anything about what she
- 35:25Speaker 1: looked like or her demeanor.
- 35:27Speaker 2: She she was well quiet, but I mean she had
- 35:30Speaker 2: these pretty distinct big glasses.
- 35:33Speaker 1: Tanya maintained her innocence even in light of a shocking
- 35:37Speaker 1: and tragic discovery. Pote County prosecutors had traced Tanya's life
- 35:42Speaker 1: all the way back to Texas and found that she
- 35:44Speaker 1: and Ray had lost a daughter back in February of
- 35:47Speaker 1: nineteen eighty four. That baby girl's name was Morgan Reed.
- 35:51Speaker 1: She died at only eight months old. Her death was
- 35:53Speaker 1: thought to have been caused by cardio respiratory arrest of
- 35:56Speaker 1: unknown origin, but now armed with the understanding that Tanya
- 36:00Speaker 1: had been intentionally harming Matthew, Morgan's death was reinvestigated, and
- 36:05Speaker 1: underneath Morgan's cause of death was another finding, a cute
- 36:08Speaker 1: subdural hematoma brain swelling that contains blood. Iowa's medical examiner
- 36:13Speaker 1: concluded that Morgan's death was not a tragic health event,
- 36:16Speaker 1: but murder. Morgan was born in nineteen eighty three while
- 36:20Speaker 1: the family was living in Illinois, and Tanya repeatedly brought
- 36:23Speaker 1: Morgan to the doctor while they were living there, and
- 36:26Speaker 1: one of those doctors found Tanya's behavior and claims about
- 36:29Speaker 1: Morgan highly suspicious, and he confronted her about it. He
- 36:33Speaker 1: accused her of harming Morgan. But shortly after that confrontation,
- 36:37Speaker 1: the Reed family moved back to Texas for raised job,
- 36:40Speaker 1: and by February of nineteen eighty four, Morgan was.
- 36:43Speaker 2: Dead and in relation to the death of her childhood Texas.
- 36:48Speaker 2: Our state medical examiner here in Iowa, whom I knew.
- 36:52Speaker 2: He was a modern day quincyt medic in those days
- 36:55Speaker 2: and just tenacious as they come. He worked with the
- 37:00Speaker 2: officials or authorities in Texas, so they were jointly. They
- 37:04Speaker 2: exhumed the body for another autopsy in the death of
- 37:08Speaker 2: that child, and she was subsequently charged for the death
- 37:12Speaker 2: of a child in Texas, which superseded her child endangerment
- 37:16Speaker 2: charges in Iowa. So she was extradited to Texas and
- 37:20Speaker 2: jailed down there on that m That's what I remember
- 37:24Speaker 2: how that progess.
- 37:26Speaker 1: The investigation into Morgan Read's death told a new story.
- 37:31Speaker 1: Morgan had died as a result of shaking baby syndrome.
- 37:34Speaker 1: Investigators suspected that Tanya had smothered Morgan, hoping once again
- 37:38Speaker 1: for recognition, having performed CPR and revived her baby, and
- 37:42Speaker 1: when Morgan didn't immediately start breathing again, Tanya shook her,
- 37:45Speaker 1: causing a fatal brain bleed. What did you learn about
- 37:49Speaker 1: her life back in Texas?
- 37:52Speaker 2: I learned that they had moved up here from Texas
- 37:55Speaker 2: and her husband was working at one of the firestone
- 37:58Speaker 2: rubber plants up here, and that she had been a nurse.
- 38:02Speaker 2: But the big thing this came out in court. She
- 38:05Speaker 2: didn't know they knew it. They found an old newspaper
- 38:07Speaker 2: clipping where she received this good Neighbor award because she
- 38:12Speaker 2: did CPR on a kid in her care and saved
- 38:16Speaker 2: him and she got all his recognition. You know, she
- 38:19Speaker 2: was a hero, and you know, everybody just saw it
- 38:22Speaker 2: was awesome. So and then then all of a sudden,
- 38:25Speaker 2: her husband transfers up to Iowa and they've moved the
- 38:28Speaker 2: family up here, and he's working and she can't find where.
- 38:31Speaker 2: She's stuck home with the kids, and so you start
- 38:34Speaker 2: piecing this all together, and it became more They suspected
- 38:38Speaker 2: that it was psychological.
- 38:40Speaker 1: First responders who were present at Tanya Reed's house also
- 38:44Speaker 1: said she seemed giddy when it was time for Matthew
- 38:46Speaker 1: to be taken to the hospital. Hospital staff noted that
- 38:50Speaker 1: she showed very little softness or compassion for him while
- 38:53Speaker 1: he was there. You might picture a mother by her
- 38:55Speaker 1: small child's bedside after they'd just lost consciousness or stopped breathing,
- 39:00Speaker 1: basking an immense relief and gratitude that their child was alive,
- 39:04Speaker 1: but not Tanya. She'd slam her hand down on the
- 39:07Speaker 1: table and raise her voice if she thought Matthew was
- 39:09Speaker 1: misbehaving in some way, because remember, he wasn't sick. Have
- 39:14Speaker 1: you ever asked a toddler to hold still, to be
- 39:16Speaker 1: confined to a small space or bed for hours while
- 39:19Speaker 1: doctors poke and prodded them. Morgan Reed had been murdered,
- 39:23Speaker 1: but Matthew he lived. He was removed from his mother's
- 39:27Speaker 1: care and sent to live with a family member in Texas.
- 39:30Speaker 1: I reached out to him for the story, but didn't
- 39:32Speaker 1: hear back.
- 39:33Speaker 2: He never had any problems again once he was away
- 39:36Speaker 2: from the mom. Dang, fine and healthy. Curious where he
- 39:39Speaker 2: is today? Oh, I hope he's doing well.
- 39:42Speaker 1: I just was curious about the father, if he was
- 39:47Speaker 1: questioned at all in the case, or if you remember
- 39:50Speaker 1: hearing anything about what his stance was like? Was he
- 39:53Speaker 1: charged or was he saying like I had no idea
- 39:57Speaker 1: what was going on with him?
- 40:00Speaker 2: An answer? Because I never interacted with the man. I
- 40:03Speaker 2: couldn't even tell you what his demeanor was like because
- 40:05Speaker 2: I never met it. He was on any of the
- 40:07Speaker 2: calls that I was on that I never met the guy.
- 40:11Speaker 1: After the interview, we dug into this. Raymond Reid was
- 40:14Speaker 1: never charged with the crime, and eventually his kids were
- 40:17Speaker 1: returned to his custody, where, just like Tony said, Matthew
- 40:20Speaker 1: had no further issues with seizures or not breathing. They
- 40:25Speaker 1: moved away from Urbandale after the trial and eventually redivorced
- 40:28Speaker 1: to Tanya. Following her conviction in Iowa, Tanya was extradited
- 40:33Speaker 1: to Texas and convicted of murdering Morgan Reid. That was
- 40:36Speaker 1: on December thirteenth, nineteen ninety three, and she was sentenced
- 40:40Speaker 1: to sixty two years, but that conviction was later overturned
- 40:44Speaker 1: on appeal. Then, in June of nineteen ninety six, Reid
- 40:48Speaker 1: was retried in Lubbock, Texas and convicted yet again of murder.
- 40:52Speaker 1: She received a forty year sentence and was released around
- 40:55Speaker 1: two thousand and eight. With Tanya Reid's case, the talk
- 41:00Speaker 1: was that she had something called Munchausen by proxy, which
- 41:03Speaker 1: I think by now most of us have heard of.
- 41:05Speaker 1: At the time, was that something you had heard of
- 41:08Speaker 1: or had any familiarity with.
- 41:11Speaker 2: I learned about it along with the rest of the
- 41:13Speaker 2: world because of this case. I might have heard about
- 41:15Speaker 2: it a little bit earlier because it was presented in court,
- 41:19Speaker 2: and you learn a lot about it afterwards. And like
- 41:22Speaker 2: I said, those investigators did a fabulous job of peace
- 41:26Speaker 2: and it all together to make it make sense. Because
- 41:29Speaker 2: nothing made sense, they made it make sense. You learn, basically,
- 41:35Speaker 2: things are not always as they seem, and as an investigator,
- 41:39Speaker 2: you got to be analytical, and so you don't just
- 41:42Speaker 2: take everything at face value. There's an answer for everything.
- 41:45Speaker 2: So I'm that guy. If I ask you a question
- 41:47Speaker 2: and you answer it, so your answer, does it triggers
- 41:51Speaker 2: another question, so you dig deeper, and you dig deeper,
- 41:54Speaker 2: then I'll take your word for now. But I got
- 41:58Speaker 2: to verify it totally.
- 42:00Speaker 1: And I mean, it was so important that you were
- 42:01Speaker 1: so observant that day, even in the midst of being
- 42:03Speaker 1: told this child was unbreathing, because even though he was
- 42:07Speaker 1: thinking that he isn't could easily have been your only focus.
- 42:14Speaker 1: Thank you so much to Tony for speaking with us
- 42:17Speaker 1: about this case all of these years later. He said
- 42:20Speaker 1: that he does still obviously get asked about it because
- 42:24Speaker 1: it was something that made headlines all over the country
- 42:27Speaker 1: and the world. Munchhausen biproxy wasn't something that was spoken
- 42:30Speaker 1: about or really even known about in the early nineties
- 42:33Speaker 1: as much as it is now, And frankly, I didn't
- 42:36Speaker 1: really know that much about it other than what I've
- 42:39Speaker 1: seen in sort of pop culture, and of course we've
- 42:42Speaker 1: all heard of the case with gypsy. But Munchausen syndrome
- 42:46Speaker 1: biproxy is a form of medical child abuse, and today
- 42:52Speaker 1: I guess it's more formally called factitious disorder imposed on another.
- 42:56Speaker 1: So it occurs when a mother or caregif exaggerates or
- 43:01Speaker 1: induces his illness on someone in their care, which is
- 43:04Speaker 1: usually a child, and the goal is not typically money
- 43:08Speaker 1: or any external reward. And we touched on this in
- 43:11Speaker 1: the interview, but Tanya read when she was a teenager
- 43:15Speaker 1: was babysitting a child and she said that they stopped breathing,
- 43:19Speaker 1: and she performed CPR, called on on one and ultimately
- 43:23Speaker 1: the child was okay, and she received this good Neighbor award.
- 43:27Speaker 1: Her picture was in the local newspaper, and it's possible
- 43:32Speaker 1: that this is sort of the domino that started this
- 43:36Speaker 1: for her, because it looked like it had a profound effect.
- 43:39Speaker 1: She then went into nursing. She seemed to really enjoy
- 43:42Speaker 1: the attention from giving CPR, and I think when this
- 43:46Speaker 1: was all said and done, there was a lot of
- 43:48Speaker 1: speculation that she was really lonely and she was home
- 43:51Speaker 1: with these kids. She had left this nursing career and
- 43:55Speaker 1: she was looking for attention and unfortunately went about getting
- 44:02Speaker 1: it in the most just nefarious and unthinkable way. So
- 44:07Speaker 1: that's our interview for today. Thanks for listening, and we'll
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