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90 Day Fiancé Season 12 Episode 2 “Trusting the Process” Part 1 of 2 · Vanity Farah with Chris Farah

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Speaker 1: Hello, sweet cheeks, Welcome back to Vanity Farah. My name
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Speaker 1: is Chris Farrah because you know my last name is Farah.
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Speaker 1: So that's what I call the podcast Vanity Farah, and
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Speaker 1: that's what's happening here. So get in, strap your selves,
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Speaker 1: buckle up, be safe because we have to talk a
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Speaker 1: long time, probably about ninety day fiance. This is the OG.
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Speaker 1: It's season twelve, it's episode two. It's trusting the process,
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Speaker 1: and that is what we do when we put our
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Speaker 1: lives into Sharp Entertainment's hands and watch this show.
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Speaker 2: We have to trust the process.
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Speaker 1: Sometimes sometimes things can get a little messy, but at
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Speaker 1: the same time, the ends always justify the means. It's
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Speaker 1: a very important lesson to learn. You guys, can you
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Speaker 1: believe the cast of characters we have? Can you believe
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Speaker 1: how Banana ramas this show is, I mean, and this
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Speaker 1: is what we wait for. Just a bunch of brand
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Speaker 1: new faces, same stories, but at the same time, you know,
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Speaker 1: weird twists, and we definitely have some you know, crazy
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Speaker 1: situations happening. Okay, let's get in. Let's start with Shae. Now,
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Speaker 1: Shae has a lot of years on God's Green Earth
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Speaker 1: and he was born a man, and so I feel
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Speaker 1: like the Internet has not come for the things that
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Speaker 1: he said, whereas someone like Katie, who is a female,
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Speaker 1: has gotten and definitely like magnetized to her the ire
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Speaker 1: of the ninety day Fiance republique. And I'm on a
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Speaker 1: text chain with a bunch of podcasters, all the ones
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Speaker 1: you listen to, and they brought up some great points,
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Speaker 1: which is that it's really diabolical for people to get
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Speaker 1: so mad at Katie, who obviously has admitted to some
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Speaker 1: issues in her life, and at the same time somewhat
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Speaker 1: crucify her for getting drunk and hooking up with people
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Speaker 1: when that's what Shaye does. And you know, the difference
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Speaker 1: is Shaye's way older and a man and isn't open
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Speaker 1: about having any sort of issues. So I really want
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Speaker 1: to put that in your head when you're reading the
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Speaker 1: Reddit forums or if you go up there or on Instagram,
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Speaker 1: or if you hear a lot of people talking about
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Speaker 1: Katie and Shay's names not in their mouth. And I
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Speaker 1: want you, especially if you're a female, or especially if
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Speaker 1: you have sympathy for the female experience, to understand that
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Speaker 1: what you see is a reaction to the very sexist
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Speaker 1: and patriarchal world we live in, how we hold women
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Speaker 1: to a certain standard of like either being perfect or whatnot,
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Speaker 1: and allow men to do whatever they want. What are
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Speaker 1: the they want, whatever the fuck they want?
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Speaker 2: Okay.
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Speaker 1: Also I should say that one of Shay's younger female
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Speaker 1: friends that was in the fair scene, we learned also
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Speaker 1: that she was a completely tragic and horrifying, horrifyingly.
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Speaker 2: You know, violent.
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Speaker 1: Victim of domestic violence, and she's no longer on God's
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Speaker 1: green Earth because.
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Speaker 2: Her ex shot her.
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Speaker 1: And I really want to hold space for the victims
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Speaker 1: of domestic violence in this world, the silent ones, the
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Speaker 1: ones that have overcome, the ones that are dealing with
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Speaker 1: something right now.
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Speaker 2: So, if you.
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Speaker 1: In your life have someone that is violent and aggressive
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Speaker 1: towards you, get the f out, like, please call a
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Speaker 1: one hundred number. Please know you don't deserve anything. Please
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Speaker 1: know it's not love, and please, if you can document
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Speaker 1: everything possible and get whoever's tormenting you fucking put away.
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Speaker 2: Please.
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Speaker 1: I mean it's really obviously it's hard to deal with,
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Speaker 1: it's hard to talk about, but it needs to be said.
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Speaker 1: It needs it needs to be said that this world
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Speaker 1: isn't always kind and it's definitely horrifying in some ways,
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Speaker 1: like I said, and we have to help each other
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Speaker 1: and love one another and ourselves so that we can
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Speaker 1: persevere and like know what we deserve, which is like
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Speaker 1: a beautiful life. So God bless her and her family.
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Speaker 1: And I hope her exes, you know, killed put in
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Speaker 1: way behind bars and just made a sort of like
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Speaker 1: dick puppet for people in showers, you know what I'm saying.
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Speaker 2: That's what I mean.
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Speaker 1: I don't mean to start on like a negative note,
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Speaker 1: but my heart hurts for that woman. And you know,
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Speaker 1: a lot of women watch this show, Like the demographics
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Speaker 1: are skewed toward women, which is why I opened this
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Speaker 1: episode talking about what I did, which is that I
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Speaker 1: see a lot of hate towards females on the show,
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Speaker 1: and at the same time, women are the ones watching
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Speaker 1: the show, and I certainly haven't been seeing the same
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Speaker 1: arguments against some of the male cast members. And Shay
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Speaker 1: obviously is an alcoholic, right he just wouldn't call himself that,
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Speaker 1: but we've seen him literally like as an old ass
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Speaker 1: man with gray hair using different kinds of beer beer
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Speaker 1: drinking devices. I'm sorry, I don't know the words for that.
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Speaker 1: Like weird funnels and shit like what, so be cognizant
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Speaker 1: of that. And if you have like engaged in any
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Speaker 1: snark tour, Katie, all I'm saying is like, take a
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Speaker 1: look at yourself and understand that we contribute to the
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Speaker 1: society that we're in, and you can change your energy
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Speaker 1: and you can also like stand up for people, and
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Speaker 1: you can also like write the perception because people get
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Speaker 1: off track and then people are afraid to say things,
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Speaker 1: and then we get shitty presidents. Okay, hi guys, I'm
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Speaker 1: super excited to talk about this show. Don't even worry
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Speaker 1: about it, and it might be a long episode. So
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Speaker 1: before I even get started, I consider giving this podcast
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Speaker 1: five stars wherever you listen to podcasts and a helpful review.
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Speaker 1: Who are my true peeps who just give me five
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Speaker 1: and they get everything asap, fresh out of the oven
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Speaker 1: with no commercials. So if you are watching this, you
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Speaker 1: know I have brown hair. Now I'm also wearing a
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Speaker 1: raspberry lip, and I somewhat overline my lips, and I
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Speaker 1: am thinking twice about it. Probably wasn't a good move. Okay,
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Speaker 1: Shay starts honey, and he is talking to his two
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Speaker 1: big ass dogs. They're oh, German shepherds, maybe you tell me,
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Speaker 1: And he is saying how he has to pick up
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Speaker 1: because mommy bell is coming, which of course is Anna Belle.
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Speaker 1: He just used them bird mommy in front of it,
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Speaker 1: which is sort of low key what I used to do.
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Speaker 1: I used to call like every female my life mommy
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Speaker 1: for like the past twenty years, and then I realized
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Speaker 1: that it was probably contributing to codependent relationships. And then
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Speaker 1: I realized, fuck that. Okay, I'm my own mommy.
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Speaker 2: Now.
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Speaker 1: Okay, so there's dog hare everywhere, I mean all over
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Speaker 1: the place. Now, I will say his house doesn't look
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Speaker 1: super dirty, but at the same time, we can't see
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Speaker 1: dust on screen. I mean it's very hard to we
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Speaker 1: don't get up close. And he's using one of those
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Speaker 1: sticky kind of rollers to pick up all of the
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Speaker 1: dog hair on the couch, and the minute that he
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Speaker 1: does it, the dogs just jump back on.
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Speaker 2: He's like, no, don't do that. She doesn't want that.
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Speaker 1: It's so funny sometimes I see dog owners like lightly
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Speaker 1: discipline their dogs. It's not discipline, it's just to tell
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Speaker 1: them not to do something. But it's always like in
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Speaker 1: a voice that you know the dog is interpreting as like,
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Speaker 1: good job. Because the truth of the matter is, if
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Speaker 1: you didn't want your dog on the couch, like you'd
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Speaker 1: have to like have done something as a puppy, or
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Speaker 1: like you know, right when he got there, or like
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Speaker 1: use some sort of means to make that not happen.
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Speaker 1: But dog owners, you know, pretend that they don't want
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Speaker 1: something to be done by their dog, and it feels
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Speaker 1: like you can tell when it's actually low key fine
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Speaker 1: with them, with how black of daysical they are with
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Speaker 1: the rules. So he says that Annabelle is a clean freak.
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Speaker 1: Now we've been knowing this because we've been knowing that
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Speaker 1: she will scrub every inch of someone she just met
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Speaker 1: before she touches him. At the same time, he also
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Speaker 1: says that she told him that she's allergic to dog hair,
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Speaker 1: but like maybe not super allergic, she doesn't really like it,
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Speaker 1: which is annoying to me because I found out that
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Speaker 1: I'm allergic to dogs and cats, I think I told you,
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Speaker 1: and feathers, and like.
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Speaker 2: I really love dogs, cats and feathers.
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Speaker 1: I love down, which is maybe not PC, but like
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Speaker 1: I love down duvets, and I love down pillows, and
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Speaker 1: I love specifically dogs cats. Can you know I can
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Speaker 1: take or leave cats, But oh my god, to like
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Speaker 1: just pet a loving animal, I feel so bad for myself.
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Speaker 1: Don't even worry about I'm going to get like a
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Speaker 1: bunch of allergy shots. But why that's annoying to me
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Speaker 1: is because do we know that she's not allergic.
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Speaker 2: I kind of feel like she.
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Speaker 1: Would say that just to have some boundary, because sometimes
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Speaker 1: people and are dogs, they have no boundaries, so you
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Speaker 1: have to like say something so they get the point,
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Speaker 1: which is, I mean, I can't just like make out
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Speaker 1: with your dog and your dog's aliva all over the place.
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Speaker 2: And also.
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Speaker 1: Having a dog sleep in your bed if you're not
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Speaker 1: used to sleeping with a dog in your bed is
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Speaker 1: a whole different world.
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Speaker 2: It's a whole different world of.
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Speaker 1: Like hair and what's on the dog's feet, and like
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Speaker 1: what's on the dog's butt that's also now on your
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Speaker 1: pillowcase and all that stuff. Like you really have to
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Speaker 1: think about that.
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Speaker 2: Now.
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Speaker 1: He, however, is incredibly excited for her to come, and
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Speaker 1: so are we.
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Speaker 2: He says that he cannot wait for her to scrub him.
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Speaker 1: Honey, I get it, Honey, I get I don't know
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Speaker 1: if there's a lot of of Korean spas in Kentucky
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Speaker 1: where he's from, but I've been craving a good scrub
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Speaker 1: down and he gets it. I just, yeah, I there
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Speaker 1: is something incredibly nurturing about someone brushing you down, just
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Speaker 1: top to bottom, like making sure that you are clean.
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Speaker 1: And how nice to not have to do it yourself.
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Speaker 1: You have to lay there and let someone print you.
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Speaker 1: It's like getting I mean, I think that's like kind
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Speaker 1: of like getting your hair and makeup done every day,
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Speaker 1: except you know, if you're like a Shay, You're not
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Speaker 1: gonna get your hair makeup done. You're just going to
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Speaker 1: have someone you know, clean your toenails. He also drops
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Speaker 1: this piece of information. He says when he's in the
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Speaker 1: car that he's nervous because obviously you met his ex Nicole,
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Speaker 1: and Nicole said that she just cannot wait Honey to
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Speaker 1: get her moment with Annabelle and tell Annabelle all the
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Speaker 1: things that he does and he's hinted there's things he
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Speaker 1: drops in this moment that he doesn't consider kissing cheating.
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Speaker 1: It's having a good time. Sometimes when you're drinking, you
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Speaker 1: just want to have a good time. Now, Shaye feels
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Speaker 1: absolutely no remorse with kissing someone doesn't even think it's
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Speaker 1: a problem.
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Speaker 2: Meanwhile, Katie knows it's a problem. She at least feels
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Speaker 2: bad about it.
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Speaker 1: She can understand right from wrong, whether she'll change her behavior,
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Speaker 1: that's one thing. But just pointing out the vast differences
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Speaker 1: in these in these people except also some similarities and
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Speaker 1: how they're moving about it. Okay, Yeah, Like there is
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Speaker 1: a crazy quality of a lot of people to just
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Speaker 1: wash their hands of any sort of responsibility or guilt
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Speaker 1: in certain in situations, and other people will like flagellate
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Speaker 1: themselves on such a thing. I mean at the same time,
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Speaker 1: whether they're self sabotaging or feeling like they're not worthy
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Speaker 1: or they are guilty or insecure and continue the weird behavior.
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Speaker 2: That's one thing. But he doesn't think it's a problem.
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Speaker 1: I would love to if I was like hosting the
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Speaker 1: tell all have this moment and then write down. Okay,
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Speaker 1: so Shae, if she kisses someone else besides you.
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Speaker 2: That's not cheating then.
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Speaker 1: Because I feel like he'd be like, yeah, is Yeah,
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Speaker 1: there's a gross discrepancy sometimes in the way people act
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Speaker 1: and what they think they deserve. Okay, it's a lot
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Speaker 1: like I, you know, And I'm not saying Shaye's a
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Speaker 1: bad person, but I I just want to point this out.
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Speaker 1: So she, you know, is coming obviously internationally, and the
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Speaker 1: nearest airport is in Saint Louis, and meet me in
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Speaker 1: Saint Louis what she said. And he's like, okay, the
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Speaker 1: airport and he has to drive hours to get there,
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Speaker 1: and she comes out, honey, and it's a beautiful airport reunion,
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Speaker 1: the kind of airport reunion we want, which is that
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Speaker 1: two people are happy to see each other.
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Speaker 2: They cry, they hug, they kiss, and.
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Speaker 1: He's really tender with like her, you know, and she
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Speaker 1: is crying, and she also drops this little nugget. She's like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: he looks different than the last time I saw him.
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Speaker 1: He's gotten fatter. I think she uses the word fatter
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Speaker 1: or bigger, you know, god bless, but we know what
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Speaker 1: that means. And then she says that they need to
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Speaker 1: walk and do zumba. The idea of Shay doing some
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Speaker 1: sort of grapevine and like a clap or a snap
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Speaker 1: at the end and then going to the other side
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Speaker 1: for like a forty five minute class is lol. Also,
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Speaker 1: I feel like, would his daughter get mad? Also, it's
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Speaker 1: funny because remember how his daughter is like, we do
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Speaker 1: everything together.
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Speaker 2: We drink together, we go to the.
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Speaker 1: Lake together, we see like bars, we go to bars
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Speaker 1: and see shows together. I wonder if they ever do
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Speaker 1: anything athletic together, Like I wonder if he ever, like,
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Speaker 1: you know, played baseball.
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Speaker 2: Trying to think what do they do football? She?
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Speaker 1: You know, Like, I wonder if they like if they
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Speaker 1: go on walks around their property.
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Speaker 2: He has those dogs. Do those dogs ever go on walks?
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Speaker 1: Or does he just open the door and then just
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Speaker 1: run out and then he just hopes they'll come back
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Speaker 1: someday because those are two big ass dogs, Like they
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Speaker 1: need to be like ran you know, I mean something
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Speaker 1: to get them off the sofa, my love. Okay, So obviously,
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Speaker 1: as I said, he lives far away from the hotel, sorry,
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Speaker 1: from the airport, and so he decides to take her
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Speaker 1: to Gothic Heights in not before again more talking about
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Speaker 1: the scrubbing of what she's going to do many times.
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Speaker 2: In many times, I mean twice in.
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Speaker 1: This episode, she just grabs his junk in the confessional
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Speaker 1: and she's like, I can't wait to scrub this dick,
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Speaker 1: and then I also can't wait to use this dick later,
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Speaker 1: Like I'm gonna scrub these balls, I'm gonna put in
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Speaker 1: my mouth, I'm gonna make sure they're clean. And this
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Speaker 1: is where they are there right here. She's like, yeah,
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Speaker 1: she's touchy feeling. She goes right for the for the goods, honey.
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Speaker 1: So let's talk about Gothic Heights In. It is obviously
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Speaker 1: an inn, like I said, it's in an old Methodist church.
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Speaker 1: It's really beautiful. There's like stained glass windows, and there's
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Speaker 1: themed sweets. There is something so charming about an inn
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Speaker 1: with themed sweets like Madonna in. You know, they have
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Speaker 1: those rock showers they get to have they get to
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Speaker 1: have the Botana Garden Suite. Now I know that Shaye
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Speaker 1: called Gothic Heights In and was like, give me the
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Speaker 1: sweet with the sunken extra large tub, that's what Daddy needs.
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Speaker 1: And they're like, good, it's the Botanic Garden Suite, probably
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Speaker 1: like one sixty nine a night and they book it.
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Speaker 2: Oh my god, a.
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Speaker 1: Bathtub is anything better than a bathtub? I think a
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Speaker 1: bathtub is decadent. I think it's luxurious. I feel like
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Speaker 1: a bathtub invites sensuality. It's like hard to take a
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Speaker 1: bath in like fluorescent bright lighting, like you almost need
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Speaker 1: to turn off the lights and almost you need to
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Speaker 1: put on a candle, like you need to add magnesium.
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Speaker 2: Salts or like some sort of bubble situation.
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Speaker 1: I just I find it, like, so I really love
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Speaker 1: I really love baths, and I feel bad about that
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Speaker 1: because you know, it means that I'm using water, but
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Speaker 1: I don't take them all the time, and they really
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Speaker 1: calm my nervous system.
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Speaker 2: So you know, what can I do?
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Speaker 1: I would I we need to like make sure that
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Speaker 1: we have enough water in this world so I can
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Speaker 1: take baths unapologetically.
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Speaker 2: I just apologize just now, you know. Anyway, I also like.
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Speaker 1: To think that if I lived in a place with
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Speaker 1: a lake, like a freshwater lake, I could just do that.
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Speaker 1: But I don't, you know, I live in Los Angeles.
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Speaker 1: I know we have the ocean, but I can't get
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Speaker 1: naked there or can I Also, salt waters are kind
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Speaker 1: of intense and it's also kind of intense when you
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Speaker 1: just have like critters everywhere in your water, you know,
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Speaker 1: I know, there's just yeah, there's so many fishies and
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Speaker 1: like you know, algae situations and you walk and then
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Speaker 1: it's like slimy on the ground. God, the sensory moments
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Speaker 1: of oceans are not always the best for me, unless
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Speaker 1: I'm in Hawaiian then it's great.
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Speaker 2: Honey.
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Speaker 1: She gets she gets him in that bathtub, like he
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Speaker 1: just traveled all that way, you know. She just like
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Speaker 1: she doesn't trust him. She does not trust him to
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Speaker 1: clean himself, and he gives her no reason to, you know.
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Speaker 1: And in their conversations, he's like, yeah, she always wants
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Speaker 1: me to like wipe my butt, you know, with like
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Speaker 1: a wet wipe or something after I poop, But we
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Speaker 1: just don't do that.
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Speaker 2: We use dry ass paper towels. And she's like, that's no.
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Speaker 1: You don't wash your dishes with a dry paper towel, right,
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Speaker 1: You wouldn't just like eat spaghetti and then like take
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Speaker 1: your pan and then like with a bounty, select a size,
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Speaker 1: wipe it down once and be like done. They'd be
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Speaker 1: like leftover residue. So that's how she feels about butts
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Speaker 1: and other things. You know, he has lived his life
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Speaker 1: already on this earth so long that he like won't
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Speaker 1: be changed. He can't teach an old dog new tricks.
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Speaker 1: He definitely can't teach an old dog to use it
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Speaker 1: a day. And she knows that. So she knows that
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Speaker 1: every time. Now that she's with him, and she knows
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Speaker 1: that he's pooped, she has to get that man in
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Speaker 1: the bath.
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Speaker 2: As soon as possible.
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Speaker 1: I have him spread his legs, bust it open, and
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Speaker 1: then get a wash cloth and go up and down,
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Speaker 1: up and down with one of those like badge cleaners from.
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Speaker 2: Like honest, you know, honest honey pot.
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Speaker 1: Anyway, so she does bathe him, and she gets in there, honey,
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Speaker 1: she like, you know she and he's so happy. He's
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Speaker 1: just like, this is when I fell in love with you,
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Speaker 1: When you wiped me down like a full service person
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Speaker 1: at a gas station and I was the windshield. Honey,
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Speaker 1: she just got a squeegee and she just went over.
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Speaker 1: She got all my bird poop off me. You know,
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Speaker 1: you're just like, oh my god, Shay. Yeah, Like it
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Speaker 1: must feel like he's a baby again. It must feel
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Speaker 1: like an ultimate kind of care. He's like Nicole never
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Speaker 1: wiped me down. Nicole only had sex with me until
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Speaker 1: I broke up with her four weeks later after marrying her.
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Speaker 1: You know, he feels definitely cared for and taken care
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Speaker 1: of by her. And I think all of her kind
21:12
Speaker 1: of like nagging questions on like what are you doing
21:15
Speaker 1: and how many drinks have you had? And like what
21:18
Speaker 1: have you eaten? You know, like makes him feel like
21:20
Speaker 1: someone cares. And maybe for him, who feels like when
21:25
Speaker 1: he's around women in his hometown, he has to be
21:29
Speaker 1: the one to do the things, like he has to
21:30
Speaker 1: be the one that's like, hey, younger women, come to
21:34
Speaker 1: my boat on the lake, and then I will supply
21:37
Speaker 1: you with alcohol, you know, and then that's how I
21:39
Speaker 1: get you around me. And also like or come to
21:42
Speaker 1: you know, hear this band play at the local dive bar,
21:46
Speaker 1: and I'll pay for your drinks.
21:47
Speaker 2: It's on my tab.
21:48
Speaker 1: But I think that maybe with Annabelle, she's like in
21:52
Speaker 1: her words, wanting to take care of him, and I
21:56
Speaker 1: think that he finds it incredibly endearing and like realizes
22:00
Speaker 1: that like it's a form of love and a form
22:04
Speaker 1: of care that he you know needs in his life. Great,
22:10
Speaker 1: So after that they get into bed, and I will
22:14
Speaker 1: say this, Annabelle looks like she's wearing the same raspberry
22:19
Speaker 1: lip that we saw her at the airport with which
22:22
Speaker 1: A means it has staying power.
22:23
Speaker 2: But also B did she get to take a shower?
22:26
Speaker 2: Because I think that.
22:27
Speaker 1: She would have had to, Like there's no way that
22:28
Speaker 1: you are so militant about his bathing and you would
22:35
Speaker 1: go like on an international like long ass plane trip
22:38
Speaker 1: and not be like, oh and me, where's mine?
22:40
Speaker 2: You know.
22:41
Speaker 1: But they get in bed and they do the thing
22:43
Speaker 1: that none of the fiance does all the time, which
22:45
Speaker 1: I think is stump, which is that we're supposed to
22:49
Speaker 1: believe with all the lights on that they're just gonna bone,
22:52
Speaker 1: like you know, and the way they do it is like, yeah,
22:55
Speaker 1: let's by the way, do you know the kids are
22:58
Speaker 1: now saying corract like instead of like fucking, like I
23:03
Speaker 1: got fucked or you know whatever, like I got cracked.
23:07
Speaker 1: And I will tell you this, that's bananas, but I
23:11
Speaker 1: want you to know it too, so that like you
23:14
Speaker 1: when you hear it, you're like, oh, yeah, I'm hip
23:15
Speaker 1: or whatever, and you can just like thank me later
23:17
Speaker 1: for it. But there was some influencer that was like
23:20
Speaker 1: blah blahah Blue I got cracked dah da da dah.
23:22
Speaker 1: And when I first read it, I was like, Oh,
23:23
Speaker 1: this person mean they went to a chiropractor and they
23:26
Speaker 1: got like their back adjusted, and that's not what that
23:29
Speaker 1: person meant. Anyway, she gets cracked hahaha, but doesn't happen
23:34
Speaker 1: on camera. So I don't need this kind of like
23:36
Speaker 1: foe we're about to do it on camera kind of thing,
23:38
Speaker 1: because I know this isn't love after lock up or
23:41
Speaker 1: love during lockup, which means we're not going to show it.
23:43
Speaker 1: So you know, you don't need to like go into
23:47
Speaker 1: the sheets and like pretend it's happening where the cameras
23:50
Speaker 1: are just gonna like show themselves out.
23:54
Speaker 2: You know, we know what's happening.
23:55
Speaker 1: Tom Anyway, they have champagne, and I'm like happy for
23:59
Speaker 1: the champagne.
24:02
Speaker 2: I don't know how if.
24:03
Speaker 1: It's like VC or if it's crystal, or if it's
24:06
Speaker 1: one of like the superclubs, you know, uh, meaning good
24:09
Speaker 1: champagne like small batch kind of situation superclub. But at
24:14
Speaker 1: the same time, how lovely the Gothic heights in looks
24:18
Speaker 1: Gothic heights in. I think it's fun and kit chee
24:24
Speaker 1: to stay at like bed and break bed and sorry,
24:26
Speaker 1: bed and breakfasts?
24:28
Speaker 2: Why can I talk bed and breakfasts? Is that hard
24:30
Speaker 2: to say? Or just me? Yeah? No, I think it's
24:32
Speaker 2: just me and ends.
24:34
Speaker 1: Surely there's like a moment to stay everywhere, you know,
24:37
Speaker 1: like it's fun to stay at all inclusive place and
24:39
Speaker 1: it's fun to stay at a luxurious place, and it's
24:41
Speaker 1: fun to stay you know, like a it's never really
24:45
Speaker 1: fun to stay at like at a Marriott or Hilton,
24:47
Speaker 1: like convention center kind of hotel that like, you know,
24:50
Speaker 1: it was just like a business place. But I will
24:52
Speaker 1: say that like share tins are kind of fun. Share
24:55
Speaker 1: tins used to have really great beds and would give
24:57
Speaker 1: you a cookie. I don't know if they still do
24:59
Speaker 1: the cookie. I hope that, like they didn't, you know,
25:02
Speaker 1: cut the cookie for recession. Anyway, Do you like staying
25:07
Speaker 1: at inns and bed and breakfast? They just have charm, right,
25:11
Speaker 1: I like a little charm. I like a little culture.
25:13
Speaker 1: I like knowing I'm somewhere that feels indicative of the
25:17
Speaker 1: exact place I'm in and I wouldn't be able to
25:19
Speaker 1: have this experience anywhere else, which is why I guess
25:22
Speaker 1: I'm talking shit about Marriott's.
25:25
Speaker 2: Okay, so.
25:27
Speaker 1: Listen. I want the best for Annabelle. And she looks
25:30
Speaker 1: great even and they both say they're fifty four. You know,
25:33
Speaker 1: I believe it for her, but he, I don't know,
25:36
Speaker 1: he looks a little harder than fifty four. But I yeah,
25:40
Speaker 1: I wonder if she's going to be upset about who
25:47
Speaker 1: he is in real life, which is like a partying philanderer,
25:53
Speaker 1: alcoholic and cheater and you know, always smelling and doesn't
26:01
Speaker 1: give a fuck about the dogs, like, or if she's
26:06
Speaker 1: going to be able to like lay down the law
26:08
Speaker 1: in her way because you know, he what feels like,
26:15
Speaker 1: really loves her. And I think there's a part of
26:17
Speaker 1: him that also understands that no one would ever care for.
26:20
Speaker 2: Him the way that she does.
26:21
Speaker 1: And I mean like literal care, you know, like the
26:25
Speaker 1: taking care of someone, because I just, yeah, I don't
26:29
Speaker 1: think Nicole was going to like get on all fours
26:32
Speaker 1: and like clean his crack, his neck, his back, his
26:39
Speaker 1: bussy and his crack, you know. And I think, yeah,
26:44
Speaker 1: I think there's a part of him that like knows
26:46
Speaker 1: that intrinsically, So I wonder how much of him would
26:48
Speaker 1: change He definitely seems to love having a popular kind
26:58
Speaker 1: of reputation around him, and at the same time.
27:04
Speaker 2: He's it's like a small ass town.
27:07
Speaker 1: Yeah, is Annabelle already on Facebook because he's, you know,
27:10
Speaker 1: worried about the town folk going and posting statuses that
27:14
Speaker 1: reveal his thing.
27:16
Speaker 2: It's so interesting. I don't remember what it's like to
27:20
Speaker 2: have Facebook be like a gossip mill for my life.
27:24
Speaker 1: I feel like in yeah, the late two thousands and
27:30
Speaker 1: maybe the early yachts, like you would get information from Facebook,
27:33
Speaker 1: but I just don't. I mean, none of the people
27:36
Speaker 1: in my life post to Facebook in any sort of
27:38
Speaker 1: like meaningful way, and everyone who in my life who
27:43
Speaker 1: like used Facebook in a weird way, which is like
27:47
Speaker 1: either the kind of people that post like vague status
27:50
Speaker 1: updates where your people are supposed to be like what's happening?
27:54
Speaker 2: What do you mean by that?
27:55
Speaker 3: Uh?
27:56
Speaker 2: Tell us more? Or that kind of thing. I always
27:59
Speaker 2: feel like.
28:01
Speaker 1: That is a weird Internet way for me to realize
28:04
Speaker 1: that person is bananas, you know. And I don't know
28:08
Speaker 1: if I just unfollowed all those people or blocked all
28:10
Speaker 1: those people, but like Facebook now is just pictures of
28:14
Speaker 1: family or like for me, regurgitated Instagram posts or does
28:19
Speaker 1: people asking for things if they really need like a
28:21
Speaker 1: recommendation or something, or of course posting about you know,
28:26
Speaker 1: work related items.
28:28
Speaker 2: So anyway, having said that, does she have Facebook?
28:30
Speaker 1: And is she already friends with anyone from Paducah and
28:33
Speaker 1: has she seen anything? And also I would love to
28:35
Speaker 1: know like what a paduca person's Facebook feed looks like
28:38
Speaker 1: if it really is all of like God country dogs
28:42
Speaker 1: and then people being like I saw this person at
28:45
Speaker 1: the bar yesterday.
28:45
Speaker 2: Blah blah blah blah.
28:46
Speaker 1: Blah blah, and then people commenting like, yeah, I saw
28:48
Speaker 1: them too, making out with this person Like I just
28:51
Speaker 1: I do find it like it tickles me. Also, are
28:54
Speaker 1: they on Facebook or are some of his friends on
28:56
Speaker 1: truth Social?
28:57
Speaker 2: I don't know. Can I say truth social?
29:00
Speaker 1: That's also hard to say truth social, truth social, truth social? Anyway, Okay,
29:07
Speaker 1: right from Shade to Katie because it's you know, let's
29:11
Speaker 1: talk about it.
29:12
Speaker 2: So, yeah, Katie.
29:15
Speaker 1: Feels like there's other things I have a foot, not
29:17
Speaker 1: just the OCD she is.
29:22
Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't know.
29:23
Speaker 1: Also how much she's aware of what she has going
29:28
Speaker 1: on upstairs and also what she's doing to help her
29:34
Speaker 1: through it, and remedy some of the like negative consequences
29:40
Speaker 1: of her life.
29:43
Speaker 2: I wonder if she gives.
29:46
Speaker 1: Such information and the producers and editors just don't put
29:49
Speaker 1: it in, or if the producers or editors just never
29:53
Speaker 1: ask her, like, oh, you have OCD, what's your therapy schedules?
29:57
Speaker 1: A schedule like or like how how often do you
30:00
Speaker 1: see your psychologist or a psychiatrist? You can't be like
30:03
Speaker 1: what meds are you on? But I wonder if there
30:07
Speaker 1: was a low key way of being like showing her
30:12
Speaker 1: like you know, filling a prescription at the local CBS,
30:17
Speaker 1: just you know, like to let us know what steps
30:21
Speaker 1: she takes in her daily life. You know, if this
30:23
Speaker 1: is like a docu series, then like getting medication is part.
30:27
Speaker 2: Of people's lives.
30:28
Speaker 1: If they take medication, like you know, they doesn't just
30:30
Speaker 1: pop out of like nowhere. You have to like again,
30:33
Speaker 1: get something filled, go to the drug store, wait in line,
30:37
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. It would be great to like
30:39
Speaker 1: know how she's taking care of herself, if there is
30:43
Speaker 1: such a thing. The other thing that also is interesting, yeah,
30:48
Speaker 1: because if she's been this nomadic person that like has
30:50
Speaker 1: lived abroad, has she been able to get different medications
30:55
Speaker 1: all the time in all those places, you know, because
31:03
Speaker 1: I don't see a world in which you know, you
31:05
Speaker 1: have obsessive compulsive disorder and you know how it manifests
31:09
Speaker 1: for you, which is intrusive thoughts.
31:10
Speaker 2: She knows that.
31:11
Speaker 1: She's had this since being like a little kid in school,
31:15
Speaker 1: so I have to assume she's on some sort of
31:18
Speaker 1: like school Joel of remedy for it, right, Okay, So
31:26
Speaker 1: we start, and she, of course is in the car
31:29
Speaker 1: with Josh, who she has just picked up from the
31:31
Speaker 1: airport and you know, gave him a hat, and he's
31:34
Speaker 1: literally holding one of the cake pops that she made
31:36
Speaker 1: for him. We're just going to assume it's the one
31:38
Speaker 1: that fell on the floor because she didn't throw it away,
31:41
Speaker 1: and he's holding it like he knows it's been on
31:43
Speaker 1: the floor because he's not putting it in his mouth.
31:44
Speaker 1: It almost looks like like a blowpop or like a
31:47
Speaker 1: Tootsie pop.
31:49
Speaker 2: It's just he's just holding it.
31:50
Speaker 1: And I thought that was weird also because it's a
31:52
Speaker 1: cake pop, so like if you were going to eat
31:54
Speaker 1: a cake pop, you just can't hold it for that long,
31:57
Speaker 1: like you're holding it and then you eat it and
31:59
Speaker 1: then it's gone. So like to hold it for like
32:02
Speaker 1: what looks like five minutes is just a weird move, right,
32:05
Speaker 1: I'm not going to be like I'm gonna eat this.
32:06
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna hold it, warm up the stick, think
32:09
Speaker 1: about it, and then you know, nibble on a corner
32:11
Speaker 1: like you know, it's like, you know, you deep throw it.
32:14
Speaker 1: It's gone. Like I like cake Pops. I think they're great.
32:17
Speaker 1: You know who Katie Katie also likes Kate Pops. It's
32:19
Speaker 1: not even the first cake Pop batch. You we're going
32:21
Speaker 1: to see she's gonna make a whole other batch. I
32:23
Speaker 1: don't know she had extra gredients, but we'll talk about it.
32:26
Speaker 1: So she's like, do you want to sing the national anthem?
32:28
Speaker 1: And he's like, of America. She's like, oh, say can
32:32
Speaker 1: you and gets into it.
32:34
Speaker 2: Now.
32:34
Speaker 1: At first I was like, oh, we get all the
32:35
Speaker 1: words to it, and then I'm like, oh, it's because
32:36
Speaker 1: it's royalty free. There's only a couple songs you can sing,
32:39
Speaker 1: you know, on TV without.
32:42
Speaker 2: People paying for it. It's like that, it's like.
32:46
Speaker 1: Amazing Grace, maybe that Green Sleeve song, like any song
32:50
Speaker 1: you know pre nineteen boobooy bloops.
32:54
Speaker 2: So you know, he doesn't know all the words.
32:56
Speaker 1: He starts strong, and then he trails out, and then she,
32:59
Speaker 1: you know, realizes that she's gonna have to sing a
33:02
Speaker 1: whole song by herself. So she starts to drop out,
33:04
Speaker 1: and she's like, I got bored, but also like, girl,
33:07
Speaker 1: do you know all the words? Now she's eating Cheetos okay,
33:11
Speaker 1: which makes sense. She's in a car. And then he
33:15
Speaker 1: says that they smell bad, the Cheetos smell bad. That
33:22
Speaker 1: doesn't make any sense. Cheeto smells good, Cheeto smell great.
33:27
Speaker 1: Cheetos unabashedly, is a good smelling food. You know what
33:31
Speaker 1: smells good, chee it's Cheetos. You know what smells weird?
33:35
Speaker 1: Salt vinegar. Chips smell really weird. I mean, people love them,
33:42
Speaker 1: but there's vinegar, you know, so they smell like a
33:44
Speaker 1: certain way. I'm not saying that smell like horrible. I
33:47
Speaker 1: wouldn't call it out, but like, I think it's weird
33:50
Speaker 1: that he doesn't like the smell of Cheetos. Now she
33:52
Speaker 1: takes great offense. I mean, she snaps back so fucking hard.
33:56
Speaker 1: She's like, don't you fucking talk about my cheetos? You
33:58
Speaker 1: know what smells bad? You're math your mouth smells really bad.
34:04
Speaker 2: First of all, woo.
34:05
Speaker 1: Second thing is the same mouth that you were like,
34:07
Speaker 1: let's make out four minutes. That same mouth smells bad
34:12
Speaker 1: because you kissed it and then said we make up
34:13
Speaker 1: of four minutes, I would have been like, let's make out,
34:17
Speaker 1: let's get hold you home. I'm gonna fucking annabelle your mouth, honey,
34:21
Speaker 1: with some listerine and like some cocoa flass. Let's get
34:25
Speaker 1: in there now. I will tell you that of everything
34:29
Speaker 1: I said, I would make out with a bag of
34:31
Speaker 1: Cheetos for like forty five minutes if I could, I
34:35
Speaker 1: get all of the orange flavorings, like all over my mouth,
34:38
Speaker 1: please yum yum and please. Actually no, truly, cheese its
34:41
Speaker 1: are my thing, always been my thing. I wish I
34:43
Speaker 1: wasn't my thing, but I love cheese its. I love
34:45
Speaker 1: the extra baked ones. How great.
34:47
Speaker 2: So he you know, he's a little hurt, but he
34:50
Speaker 2: also is like, that's my girl. She's blunt. She's Emily blunt.
34:54
Speaker 1: You know, she's also a Tasmanian devil, which is funny.
35:00
Speaker 1: And he's like, I but you know what, I just
35:02
Speaker 1: love her because she'll be super fucking mean to me.
35:05
Speaker 1: But then she'll go around and then she'll like start,
35:07
Speaker 1: you know, decorating me, and I love being decorated like
35:09
Speaker 1: a Christmas tree.
35:10
Speaker 2: She also decorates rooms.
35:12
Speaker 1: It's interesting how men feel love, right, like, yeah, no,
35:17
Speaker 1: Shae feels loved by you know, the Korean scrub that
35:20
Speaker 1: he gets, even though I know that Annabel's from the Philippines.
35:22
Speaker 1: So please know that I know that she's not Korean.
35:24
Speaker 1: I know, I keep saying Korean scrub because you know,
35:27
Speaker 1: I'm used to a Korean spot.
35:28
Speaker 2: That she's from the Philippines. I know that.
35:30
Speaker 1: So anyway, this is where he also like brings up
35:34
Speaker 1: the fact that you know, she keeps kissing other people
35:36
Speaker 1: and it's a problem, you know, unlike Shay who thinks
35:38
Speaker 1: it's no problem.
35:39
Speaker 2: And he's like, and I know.
35:40
Speaker 1: Why she does it because she's told me that she
35:42
Speaker 1: gets insecure and also she tells me that she is
35:45
Speaker 1: incredibly impulsive. And these two things together, these two eyewords
35:49
Speaker 1: make her forget about me. See what I did there,
35:52
Speaker 1: these two eyewords forget about me?
35:53
Speaker 2: No, I don't know. That was an awkward wordy kind
35:57
Speaker 2: of dumb wit pump pun.
36:00
Speaker 1: Anyway, so she's like, at this time kind of like
36:07
Speaker 1: churning it on him where she's like, you know, the
36:09
Speaker 1: thing is, I want to feel wanted. And if we
36:13
Speaker 1: aren't having sex, if you're not making me cracked, or
36:18
Speaker 1: if you're not cracking me or one of the hell
36:20
Speaker 1: the kids say now, then I get insecure. And that's
36:24
Speaker 1: when I need to feel wanted by someone. And if
36:27
Speaker 1: you aren't doing it for me, and if it's it's
36:29
Speaker 1: not your mouth or your fingers or your d I'm
36:32
Speaker 1: going to find the nearest pair of lips, d or
36:36
Speaker 1: whatnot to get down on and not just D. We'll
36:39
Speaker 1: find out later. I think she's bye anyway, God bless.
36:43
Speaker 1: So they go to bed and the next morning we
36:47
Speaker 1: find out that they had sex. They had sex in
36:49
Speaker 1: the morning, morning sex, you know, so it was like
36:53
Speaker 1: he thought that breath was bad then like morning sex breath.
36:56
Speaker 1: Maybe he like, you know, got a little like strip
36:59
Speaker 1: in his mouth forehand. Do you like morning sex?
37:03
Speaker 2: It depends. I like middle of the night sex. I
37:09
Speaker 2: don't know. Morning sex is kind of like I'm too tired.
37:11
Speaker 1: I'm tired in the morning, and then like if I'm
37:15
Speaker 1: not tired for any reason, I sort of get amtsy
37:17
Speaker 1: and then have to like jump out of bed.
37:18
Speaker 2: Also, most of the time I have to like.
37:20
Speaker 1: Use the bathroom right after I wake up, So like
37:23
Speaker 1: morning sex is kind of weird. I don't mind like
37:25
Speaker 1: getting out of bed and then coming back in.
37:27
Speaker 2: But here we are.
37:29
Speaker 1: So then they go on a little walk, honey, and
37:31
Speaker 1: they have some donuts and they get some coffee, and
37:33
Speaker 1: you know, we're like enjoying Portland life. He's like, I
37:36
Speaker 1: fucking love Portland. It's wild, honey. There's just some goats
37:39
Speaker 1: right there, and she's like, yeah, like there's goats. She
37:44
Speaker 1: tries to get the goat to like care about her,
37:47
Speaker 1: you know, and like kiss her hand, but just like Josh,
37:50
Speaker 1: that goat is uninterested, not into it. A goat's like,
37:54
Speaker 1: unless you're giving me donuts, unless you're going to feed
37:57
Speaker 1: me right now, don't expect me to come back and
37:59
Speaker 1: be all huge for you behind this gate. It costs something,
38:04
Speaker 1: it's donut. She's like no. So then she's like, guess
38:09
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna throw you a surprise party. It's not
38:12
Speaker 1: really surprise, I'm telling you right now. It's just a
38:14
Speaker 1: welcome party.
38:15
Speaker 2: You know.
38:15
Speaker 1: It's a welcome party, and you are going to be
38:18
Speaker 1: welcome by the run Club that I run with and
38:23
Speaker 1: have also I've ran through them.
38:27
Speaker 2: I've ran through that run club.
38:28
Speaker 1: Honey, I've made out with ninety percent of the run club.
38:33
Speaker 2: We're like, is that really true? But the answer is yes.
38:36
Speaker 1: Man. Woman, she just like, you know, she gets a
38:40
Speaker 1: runners high and then she you know, goes down on them.
38:45
Speaker 1: I don't know, but she's like, yeah, specifically, this guy
38:49
Speaker 1: named Mark will be there. I've told you about Mark.
38:51
Speaker 1: How do you feel about meeting Mark? And you know,
38:52
Speaker 1: now we're like, oh.
38:53
Speaker 2: My god, Mark.
38:54
Speaker 1: But also there's like a bella, there's like another Josh
38:56
Speaker 1: maybe like she just you know, god bless. I find
38:59
Speaker 1: this so interesting because I don't physically exert myself like
39:01
Speaker 1: in co ed situations, except for like maybe going to
39:05
Speaker 1: like Equinox, but then I don't really talk to anyone.
39:07
Speaker 2: But it's like, I know people do like co ed sports.
39:09
Speaker 1: There's kickball, there's pickleball, there's all the things. There's tennis. Anyway,
39:15
Speaker 1: I guess yeah, like I think this is a part
39:17
Speaker 1: of humanity and culture. I have an experience which is
39:20
Speaker 1: just like, yeah, physical exertion with a group of people
39:24
Speaker 1: that I become acquaintances with and then afterward we.
39:27
Speaker 2: All hang out.
39:29
Speaker 1: We all like talks ourselves up after like doing something healthy,
39:32
Speaker 1: and then the endorphins and whatnot, like make it so
39:36
Speaker 1: that we just all hook up with each other. And
39:38
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is I'm going to have to do that.
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to like I can't. I guess I
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Speaker 1: can play kickball, but I really dislike running like I
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Speaker 1: can't run for a bunch of reasons.
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Speaker 2: Two reasons.
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Speaker 1: Big reasons is that like I you know, I'm carrying
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Speaker 1: thirty four fs around thirty four or failed tests. No,
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Speaker 1: I'm a big breasted lady, and even with the two
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Speaker 1: sports bras that I wear to do a normal workout,
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Speaker 1: there's just not a chance in hell that I want
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Speaker 1: to just like bedunk the dunk a dunk step after
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Speaker 1: a step for like miles. I also feel like running
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Speaker 1: is hard on your knees, harden your joints, and also
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Speaker 1: like it like makes your skin move up and down,
40:27
Speaker 1: and I feel like, you know, it can make your
40:29
Speaker 1: skin and sort of just like.
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Speaker 2: Droopy. That's what I hear.
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Speaker 1: And also my skin is already droopy, so I don't
40:37
Speaker 1: want to like add to it. Also, you know, I'm hypermobile,
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Speaker 1: so I can't like be fucking up my joints.
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Speaker 2: I also feel like.
40:43
Speaker 1: There's like a cortisol situation to it. I know, there's
40:46
Speaker 1: like a thing where people love like pushing themselves and
40:49
Speaker 1: working out, but like I got to the age where
40:51
Speaker 1: I don't like to stress myself out about it so much.
40:55
Speaker 1: I don't need to like get myself in a frenzy.
41:00
Speaker 1: I think you have to have like an elevated heart rate,
41:02
Speaker 1: and it's good to like, you know, physically exert yourself.
41:05
Speaker 1: I just don't like the idea of a high stress
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Speaker 1: situation to do so. So anyway, they go to this
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Speaker 1: like Portland bar and it's called My oh My, and
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Speaker 1: there's like pool there and there's darts there, and you know,
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Speaker 1: at first he comes in and everyone's like clapping for
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Speaker 1: British Josh.
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Speaker 2: They're like British Josh.
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Speaker 1: And that also was funny because I was like, okay,
41:26
Speaker 1: but there's another Josh in the run club, but also
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Speaker 1: makes me feel like that's just what they call the
41:31
Speaker 1: flavor of her month this month, British Josh. And like,
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Speaker 1: you know, there used to be like German Joe and
41:37
Speaker 1: there was like you know, Boston Brian, she just I
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Speaker 1: don't know.
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Speaker 2: This is where she brings more cake pops.
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Speaker 1: She's known for her cake pops and also like the
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Speaker 1: making out.
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Speaker 2: I love cake pops already said already, but like they
41:55
Speaker 2: are so good.
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Speaker 1: They're just like especially if you do them right, which
41:57
Speaker 1: is that they're like moist they have you know, barely
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Speaker 1: any cake but a lot of frosting.
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Speaker 2: So she has said that.
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Speaker 1: The way that she's going to maneuver around the drinking
42:16
Speaker 1: and making out with him is that she is going
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Speaker 1: to let him know what kind of headspace she's in
42:24
Speaker 1: when she starts drinking, so he can prepare himself. Now,
42:27
Speaker 1: she's already told us that she will make out with anyone,
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Speaker 1: and the reasons why it could be because she feels
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Speaker 1: really good and like she just wants to have fun
42:35
Speaker 1: and be in the moment and just share the love
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Speaker 1: that she has in her heart and happiness with everyone
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Speaker 1: through her mouth and tom Also, conversely, she can feel
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Speaker 1: really shitty, really bad about herself, and therefore she needs
42:47
Speaker 1: to make herself feel better by having the company of
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Speaker 1: someone to commiserate with with her mouth.
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Speaker 2: You know. So I don't know.
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Speaker 1: If she's expect acting just be like, Hey, Josh, I'm
43:01
Speaker 1: mid I'm meh right now, so you don't have to
43:04
Speaker 1: worry about it.
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Speaker 2: Again.
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Speaker 1: I will say, Josh hasn't been like, hey, girl, maybe
43:11
Speaker 1: don't drink. You drove here, you drove us here, so
43:13
Speaker 1: why don't you not drink? That's not a question. It's
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Speaker 1: not it's not a statement that he makes, not a question.
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Speaker 1: It's not even you know, not even brought up. And
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Speaker 1: surely she hasn't brought up like maybe I shouldn't drink
43:24
Speaker 1: or maybe not the first night or anything. She like
43:26
Speaker 1: can't wait to drink, and you know she can't wait
43:29
Speaker 1: to drink because one of the first things we hear
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Speaker 1: is her being like, Hey, if you buy me a
43:35
Speaker 1: shot of tequila, I'll drink it to someone not Josh.
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Speaker 2: Maybe it's Josh.
43:41
Speaker 1: But what's interesting about that It doesn't feel like it's
43:43
Speaker 1: a Josh. It feels like it's to one of her friends.
43:46
Speaker 1: I think that's so funny because that's like being like, Hey,
43:51
Speaker 1: if you buy me a car, I'll drive it. Hey,
43:56
Speaker 1: if you take me out to dinner, I'll eat it. Hey,
43:59
Speaker 1: if you buy me lady to your bag, I'll use it.
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Speaker 1: It's like, hey, if you do this nice thing for me.
44:07
Speaker 1: I'll take it. It's just like an interesting thing. Also,
44:12
Speaker 1: Katie has the kind of face and the kind of
44:14
Speaker 1: like you know, like I don't know, personality and or
44:18
Speaker 1: like height that allows her to get away with things
44:25
Speaker 1: either because it's adorable or it's quirky or it's just Katie.
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Speaker 2: And I will tell you that there are none of the.
44:33
Speaker 1: Things that Chris Farrah has ever been able to like
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Speaker 1: get away with.
44:38
Speaker 3: I give off some sort of like Diva earth Mother
44:44
Speaker 3: vibe in social situations so that no one's like doing
44:50
Speaker 3: me any favors. No one's like, ah, we can just
44:54
Speaker 3: do that with Chris, or like let's just you know,
44:56
Speaker 3: like take care of her, you know, like I give
44:58
Speaker 3: off the kind of vibe, but I'm going to take care.
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Speaker 2: Of everyone like and I hate that for myself.
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Speaker 1: I have just never been able to like be like cutesy,
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Speaker 1: demure like kind of like you know, they just I
45:14
Speaker 1: I'm not saying I want that vibe all the time,
45:16
Speaker 1: but I would love people to be like, yeah, let's
45:18
Speaker 1: make sure Chris is okay, let's buy all of Chris's drinks.
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Speaker 1: Let's like, you know, like, oh, Chris is just being Chris,
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Speaker 1: and we're okay with it, you know, like I just
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Speaker 1: don't get it.
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Speaker 2: I don't know how you do it.
45:30
Speaker 1: I think there's just different types of like divine energy
45:33
Speaker 1: in this world and maybe like feminine energy or the
45:36
Speaker 1: archetypes where the fuck it is. But I just I'm
45:38
Speaker 1: not a katie. People don't do that kind of stuff
45:41
Speaker 1: for me. People would laugh in my face. But I
45:43
Speaker 1: was like, hey, if you buy me a French seventy five,
45:45
Speaker 1: I'll drink it. They'd be like, I'll get one for you.
45:49
Speaker 1: Where's your credit card? You know, I don't know. Okay,
45:51
Speaker 1: But then after the Teaqula shot, we don't see her take.
45:54
Speaker 1: She does sort of like have this blue drink the
45:56
Speaker 1: whole time, like it's blue currc curruk cow crasso cerr curros.
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Speaker 2: See. See you are a c see you are a CEO.
46:08
Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know. You know what I'm talking about.
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Speaker 2: It's a blue drink. Oh my phone being like no,
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Speaker 2: I'm in the middle of a podcast.
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Speaker 1: I don't like unnaturally colored drinks. You surely can have
46:28
Speaker 1: a screwdriver and then it's orange and if you put
46:30
Speaker 1: a bunch of rum in it and grenadine, it's like
46:32
Speaker 1: a sunset, and if you have a myetie, there's like
46:34
Speaker 1: three different RUMs like brown and yellow and gold hal gorgeous.
46:38
Speaker 1: But a blue drink or a green drink means that
46:41
Speaker 1: they're shit in it. That's not normal, like maduri or
46:44
Speaker 1: blue curse cursew maybe that's how you say it. She
46:51
Speaker 1: thinks she can drink anyone under the table, but she can't.
46:53
Speaker 1: And I'm just surprised that, like her drink of choice
46:56
Speaker 1: is this blue one for someone who drinks as much
47:00
Speaker 1: as she does, and that, you know, I'm taking this
47:02
Speaker 1: from the fact that in a lot of her pictures
47:06
Speaker 1: that are on the show, like the snapshot, she always
47:09
Speaker 1: has some kind of drink and they're always different, like
47:11
Speaker 1: glasses of wine or just like big jugs of something. Yeah,
47:16
Speaker 1: maybe it's just like whatever kind of alcohol or maybe
47:18
Speaker 1: like that blue drink was like three different drinks in
47:20
Speaker 1: the bar, she just poured into one. So at this point,
47:25
Speaker 1: Josh decides to talk to Mark and a bunch of
47:27
Speaker 1: dudes by themselves, and Mark's like, you know what, when
47:32
Speaker 1: Katie is drinking, she's a lioness on the prow and
47:36
Speaker 1: she hooks up with anyone you know, and her friend
47:39
Speaker 1: Bella's like me, me, Like, there's all these people that
47:42
Speaker 1: are like, I did it.
47:42
Speaker 2: I did it.
47:43
Speaker 1: People are like, yeah, you're just talking to Katie and
47:45
Speaker 1: suddenly she's shoving her tongue in your mouth. Now, I
47:50
Speaker 1: think that when you're talking to someone and they're drunk,
47:51
Speaker 1: you can sort of like feel when they're getting closer
47:53
Speaker 1: and closer to your face. You know, it's like hard
47:57
Speaker 1: to like shove your tongue in someone's mouth if you're
47:59
Speaker 1: like in appropriate distance away. At one point, they're like
48:05
Speaker 1: playing darts and Mark tells Josh that Katie is a
48:08
Speaker 1: loose cannon, and Josh is like, what's that, Josh? You
48:15
Speaker 1: speak English, That's what they speak in England. You know
48:17
Speaker 1: what a loose cannon is. That's like a totally normal phrase.
48:21
Speaker 1: People say it all the type loose cannon, you know.
48:24
Speaker 1: And then Marcus like, you know, she's loose, which is
48:29
Speaker 1: like it was weird because at first, like loose cannon
48:33
Speaker 1: means like unpredictable, and if not unpredictable, like can fly
48:39
Speaker 1: off the rails or you kind of like can't know
48:41
Speaker 1: where that person's going to go, but you can assume
48:43
Speaker 1: that if things get hated this person's going to pop
48:46
Speaker 1: off and then loose just means honey, that she you know,
48:49
Speaker 1: is tipsy drunk and also just like into hooking up
48:53
Speaker 1: with whoever.
48:54
Speaker 2: So Josh has to hear that.
48:58
Speaker 1: And also so after this conversation, Katie's like, how is
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Speaker 1: it talking to Mark and every other dude I've like
49:05
Speaker 1: hooked up with?
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Speaker 2: And He's like, it was fine. Why would it be weird?
49:08
Speaker 1: She's like, well, does you know it's weird to talk
49:10
Speaker 1: to people that you know, like your girlfriend fucked? And
49:14
Speaker 1: then we realize, yeah, like she doesn't just kiss these people.
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Speaker 1: She kisses them like at the bar, and then like
49:21
Speaker 1: you know, other things happen later. She gets cracked all
49:25
Speaker 1: the time. Honey, you know these runners run then they crack. Okay,
49:30
Speaker 1: almost stop saying it. Don't worry, I'm mad about it too,
49:32
Speaker 1: but just it has happening. And then she's like, I'm
49:35
Speaker 1: as happy you're not insecure, and it's a little bit baiting,
49:43
Speaker 1: Like you know, I wonder if she also wants him
49:46
Speaker 1: to either not like be insecure, but I wonder if
49:48
Speaker 1: she would like him to display jealousy of some kind,
49:54
Speaker 1: Like if she would think that Josh having like a
49:59
Speaker 1: somewhat tru with a masculine display of jealousy would indicate
50:04
Speaker 1: to her that he really cares about her and or
50:08
Speaker 1: wants her sexual like sex to be only for him,
50:13
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying.
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Speaker 2: But Josh is fine.
50:19
Speaker 1: Josh just takes things in and rarely gives things out.
50:22
Speaker 1: Josh is like a sponge. Also, Josh met her the
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Speaker 1: night that she came to the bar on a date
50:32
Speaker 1: with his friend and then hooked up with his other
50:34
Speaker 1: friend and then hooked up or tried to hook up
50:37
Speaker 1: with another best friend, and then Josh saw all this
50:40
Speaker 1: and what did he do? Hook up with her? So
50:45
Speaker 1: sometimes I'm like, well, hey, Josh has no leg to
50:49
Speaker 1: stand on, you know, Like that's how it is. And
50:52
Speaker 1: also side note is if the genders were reversed and
50:58
Speaker 1: you had a girlfriend that person was Josh and they
51:01
Speaker 1: met a guy and that guy had hooked up with
51:04
Speaker 1: all of her friends and came to a bar with
51:06
Speaker 1: one of her other friends and she left with him,
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Speaker 1: you would be like, well, girl, that's how you got him,
51:11
Speaker 1: and you know, you can't expect him to change. And
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Speaker 1: that's how I feel for Josh. What can you really expect?
51:19
Speaker 1: Like he's been knowing who she is. She's been very
51:21
Speaker 1: open about it. Also, do you think Josh is a
51:25
Speaker 1: little bit of a cook? In the word is see
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Speaker 1: see you c k even though it's I sort of
51:31
Speaker 1: said it like cook cock not cock cook cuckold, But
51:36
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, like he or is he
51:39
Speaker 1: Polly or something? I mean, he doesn't seem like it
51:42
Speaker 1: affects him that much. He's like in his confessionals. I
51:46
Speaker 1: can see it being a problem if she, you know,
51:48
Speaker 1: disrespects me, and I would be so upset for like
51:52
Speaker 1: wasting all this time and money and energy.
51:54
Speaker 2: And I'm like, that's not even the answer.
51:55
Speaker 1: I should say, you met her and she was doing
51:57
Speaker 1: whatever she did, and like, what does disrespect you mean?
51:59
Speaker 2: Because she is.
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Speaker 1: If it's hooking up with people while you're together, you
52:03
Speaker 1: know she's she's already done it. She's already told you
52:05
Speaker 1: you're still here. You came knowing that she already did that.
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Speaker 2: What is happening?
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Speaker 1: Okay, my loves I can already tell that I'm gonna
52:13
Speaker 1: be talking for like two hours, So I'm gonna stop
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Speaker 1: here and say I'm going to do a part two
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Speaker 1: of this episode and go ahead and go right to it.
52:22
Speaker 1: It'll be uploaded soon. If not, it's already there. I
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Speaker 1: love you guys so much, and thank you so much
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Speaker 1: for listening. And on to Part two.