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THE AWAKENING: Why you see narcissists everywhere now. 🛡️ · The Mental Healness Podcast

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  So you spent years thinking you just had a difficult or hard
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  partner, right? Just a difficult relationship.
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  Then you found the word narcissist and everything just
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  seemed to click. You might have found Lee
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  Hammond, who knows, right? You might have seen my videos
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  and hear the word narcissist and everything just started to make
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  sense. Everything started to click.
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  But then once you woke up, something terrible, terrifying
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  started to happen. You looked at your mom, you
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  looked at your dad, you looked at your best friend of 10/15/20
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  years, you looked at your coworker, you looked at your
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  boss. And then you realize they're all
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  doing the same thing that you're a toxic narcissistic partner or
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  ex does. As someone that's diagnosed with
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  narcissistic personality disorder, y'all, we're talking
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  about the awakening today. Today we're talking about the
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  awakening. When you wake up to see that you
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  are not crazy, you just you. You finally started to learn the
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  language of narcissistic abuse and you started to see the
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  narcissism. And now once you see it, you
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  can't Unsee it. Once you wake up in the Matrix,
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  you can't go back to the Matrix. Y'all don't remember Cipher from
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  the movie The Matrix? When he tried to go back into
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  the Matrix, his ass got cooked and he was no more.
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  Right. Let's get it, y'all.
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  Welcome to the welcome to the live chat.
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  Welcome, welcome, welcome. I'm an introvert, so I'm more
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  prone to them. It happens.
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  It can happen, right? It can definitely happen.
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  What is going on, Ladonna? Tammy, what up?
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  What up? What up?
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  What's going on, y'all? Hope you're having a great day.
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  Today. We're talking about awakening,
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  waking up. Like once you've been in a toxic
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  relationship with a narcissist or a toxic person, you start to
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  see it everywhere. Everywhere you start to see you
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  started to notice, hey, you know what my best friend kind of
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  horrible. You know what my sister kind of
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  toxic. You know what my boss is
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  manipulate. My boss tried to gas like me and
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  is not taking accountability for what they did.
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  You start to see it everywhere you do and it messes.
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  It can mail, it can mess with your head if you really mess
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  with your head once you once you've been in a touch
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  relationship with a narcissist, it can make you hyper vigilant,
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  right, Right. It's like you take the blindfold
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  off and all this stuff starts. Stuff started to happen and a
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  lot of times you start to realize that you had a
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  narcissistic parent and you realize that narcissism started
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  at home, right? It started at home.
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  Most people don't just stumble into a narcissistic
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  relationship. You don't just trip and fall
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  into a toxic relationship right? Not most people.
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  You are likely pre programmed for it.
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  If you grew up in a toxic household with a narcissistic
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  parent or parents, you were trained to ignore your own
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  boundaries to keep the peace. When and when.
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  Yeah, when you ignore your own boundaries in your childhood,
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  guess what you grow up doing? You ignore your boundaries in
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  your adulthood. And guess what?
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  When you met your narcissistic partner, their toxicity felt
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  like home. It felt warm and cozy.
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  It felt like a Snuggie. You felt like you were
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  underneath a blanket at home in your childhood bedroom, right?
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  That's why I it felt familiar. It felt like home.
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  That's why you stayed so long. That's why you might still be in
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  there right now when you want to leave, right?
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  You thought love was supposed to feel like a struggle for
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  approval. That's what ain't happening.
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  You really, truly thought that love was supposed to struggle.
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  Love was real struggle. Love is the best love.
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  That's what you were conditioned to think while you were at home
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  growing up in a toxic relationship dynamic.
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  This happens to so many people. What's going on, y'all?
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  What's going on? Drop a comment and say, hey,
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  y'all in the comments section if you're here for real.
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  Not everybody in. Yeah, when you, when you see it
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  at first, I'm telling you, you start to see it everywhere.
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  Yeah. Is everybody a narcissist?
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  Probably not, right? But you start to see the
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  narcissistic traits. You start to recognize
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  gaslighting. You start to recognize
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  manipulation, stonewalling, the silent treatment.
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  You see right here Sam said Me getting together with my father
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  in other men because I couldn't fix that.
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  Yep, you will date your part. You're you're date a lot of
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  times you're in a Natasha relationship.
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  You're dating one of your parents.
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  Not like that right? I know some people to get right
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  there. Not like that.
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  Your first live what we're going on on net over to the first
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  live. It's called being more self
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  aware. Yeah, self aware.
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  So I'm the self aware narcissist, right?
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  So self aware doesn't just work for narcissist.
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  It works for everybody. You know what I mean?
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  I think somebody just said every, no, no, no, this or
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  everywhere. Where'd it go?
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  Right there. See, I think now she said for
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  real, everybody a narc now, everybody at narcissist now,
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  right? That's how it says.
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  That's what it seems like that everybody is somehow some way,
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  shape or form a narcissist right now, right?
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  And that's can also be referred to as the frequency illusion,
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  right? You start once you see one
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  thing, you start to see it more like once you see something,
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  once you saw, once you see a red Prius, you might start seeing
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  red Priuses everywhere. Once you see a blue Chevy, blue
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  Chevy is everywhere. Them a blue Chevy.
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  You know what I'm saying? Once you see that Pennsylvania
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  license plate, you see them everywhere where you're not even
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  in Pennsylvania. Like that's what ends up
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  happening is the the frequency illusion.
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  So people do ask me all the time, like Lee, is everyone in
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  narcissist now? And I say I am never.
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  Not everyone is a narcissist. Me.
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  Yeah, no, not everybody's a narcissist.
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  But once you know what a red flag looks like, you stop
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  calling it like a personality quirk.
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  You stop calling it just an attachment style, right?
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  You start singing it you, you'll start seeing them everywhere
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  because you stop making excuses for people.
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  Once you stop making excuses for people's actions and behaviors
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  like you might have been conditioned to in your childhood
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  or in your previous relationship.
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  Once you stop making excuses for people, you'll start seeing the
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  narcissism or the toxicity everywhere.
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  You start noticing manipulation fast.
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  So like, are you trying to gas like me, right.
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  It really is like buying a new car and suddenly you see that
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  same car everywhere. Like I said, like I was just
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  saying, you start seeing that same car, the same make and
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  model everywhere and you see it as a sign, right?
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  You like, well, it might be a sign that I need to go back.
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  Well, it might be a sign that I need this car, right?
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  What you realize is the narcissist that you just
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  realized was narcissistic. They were always there.
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  You just didn't have the eyes for them until right now.
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  You didn't have the ability to spot them out to right now.
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  You didn't have the the world with all to see them until right
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  now. It's kind of like this right
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  here. You take your it was like you
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  put your glass. I can't see you put your glasses
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  on. Oh, damn.
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  No, I see it everywhere. It's there everywhere.
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  Now you start seeing it literally everywhere because
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  your eyesight has gotten better. You have, you put some eye drops
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  in, you got some, some Claritin or whatever, right?
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  You see better because you notice them more.
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  You see, like once you get that vision, once you get the
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  spectacles, you will really start to understand who you're
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  dealing with. I think they open their eyes to
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  toxic waves of people. Yeah, absolutely.
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  That's one thing. That's one that's kind of like a
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  residual thing. When you leave in a toxic
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  relationship with a narcissist, you will see the narcissism
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  everywhere. It's not, it's like it's
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  something something's going to sneak up on you.
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  You'll see it everywhere. And This is why sometimes when
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  you leave a toxic relationship, you might end up in another one,
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  right? Y'all don't understand how many
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  people I've talked to that have left one narcissist and ended up
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  with another one. Like damn Lee, I just can't win
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  for losing. Damn, I can't win for losing and
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  whatnot. And they end up with another
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  types of relationship and it sucks for them because then they
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  started to blame themselves. Like maybe it's me, maybe my ex
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  was right. That's what happens right here,
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  y'all? It is.
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  So I think somebody else earlier said my circle became smaller.
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  Who said that? Somebody else dropped it in the
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  chat earlier said it's circle, small as hell.
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  Now that's what happens, man, that really is a piece of what
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  happens. Like because you start to notice
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  it, you're you, you're you're going to start losing friends
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  and family. Like as you heal, your circle is
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  probably going to shrink y'all. It makes sense because
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  narcissistic friends don't like the healed version of you.
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  So sometimes they'll get away from you because they see you.
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  They they will notice that you start setting boundaries with
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  them. Like they will notice this.
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  So he like they hate and you know, narcissists hate
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  boundaries. So your parents, your friends
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  and family members, whoever the narcissistic people that are in
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  your life, like you have boundaries.
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  So they don't want to be around you anymore.
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  Like you say the word no, they don't want to be around you
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  anymore. When you start standing up for
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  yourself, the narcissistic people that are already in your
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  life will absolutely call you difficult.
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  They'll call you mean they'll call you selfish and guess what?
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  You it's what you need to do. Let them that really is let them
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  leave. Don't fight for to keep somebody
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  in your life that's going to be abusing you, that's going to not
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  trust you that like I said, that's going to take advantage
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  of it and things like that. Don't fight to keep abuse in
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  your life. There's so, so many people do
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  that I talk to under my one on ones and stuff.
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  That's what people talk about. That's what people do.
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  They let people, they let they fight to keep the toxicity in
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  their life and that serves no one but the narcissist.
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  When you're fighting to keep the toxic person in your life, that
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  only serves the toxic person in your life, they only serve the
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  narcissist in your life, right? So the solution to this right
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  here, y'all, once you wake up, it's going to be painful.
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  It's going to, it's going to suck.
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  Let's keep it, let's keep it hiding ready like a little
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  Caesar pizza. Once you wake up, it's going to
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  suck. Like if you've had this
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  awakening moment, just drop a thumbs up in the chat and see
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  how many thumbs up I can get in the chat and what not.
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  If you had that awakening moment, just hit the thumbs up
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  in the chat and whatnot, right? It's going to like when you wake
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  up to narcissistic abuse and you start seeing narcissist and
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  toxicity all around you, it's going to be painful because it's
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  going to feel like your entire world, your entire existence was
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  built on a lie, right? But this is where your like,
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  this is actually where the power begins.
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  This is where your power starts in this situation.
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  Because now that you see the patterns, you can stop them.
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  Now that you see the red flags earlier, you can get out of it
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  earlier. Like now that you see this
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  person being abusive, you can get away from them a lot faster
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  than what you might have been accustomed to get away from
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  them, right? You have boundaries now.
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  You are the gatekeeper of your peace.
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  You can gatekeep your own peace. Damn, that's so powerful.
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  Like you don't have to let people in your life because they
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  be like you don't have to keep people in your life because
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  they've been there for a long time.
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  Like this space is the space for good people in your life is not
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  it is it's limited, right? You got you got you got to have
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  a special passcode. You have to have a special
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  access code to get access to me or get access to you in a
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  situation right here, right? Like you don't have to let
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  people in your life because they've been there for a long
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  time. Like family, friends, whoever it
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  is, coworkers, your work, wife, work husband.
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  Like if they steal your peace, they don't get to experience
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  your presence. They don't get to be in your
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  life if they take peace from you.
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  If it comes at the cost of your peace, it's not worth it.
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  Oh, that was fire. Have you ever heard it before?
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  If it cost me my peace, it's not worth it.
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  If it cost me my peace, wait a minute.
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  If it somebody said if it cost you your piece, it's too
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  expensive. OK, that's a different I like.
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  I've never heard it like that before.
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  And don't y'all take them out of trademark.
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  That right there, Carly, What's going on, girl?
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  Baby on the way. I see car.
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  See Carly got a baby on the way. What's going on, girl?
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  Congrats. Congratulations.
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  Happy for you. That's cool.
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  That's super cool. But yeah, yeah, if it cost you
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  your piece, it costs too much. It costs too much.
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  So yeah, if y'all had your awakening, make sure you drop a
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  a thumbs up in the comment section.
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  You're not alone in this battle. That's what I'm here for.
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  You can check out my previous video about rewriting history.
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  If you're on YouTube. It's in the comment section.
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  I mean, it's in the description and whatnot.
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  Make sure you hit the subscribe button and that time for a few
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  questions, few questions. Drop the questions in the chat.
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  Y'all drop a few questions in the chat.
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  That's the exact thing happened to me.
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  You're welcome, girl. Happy New Year.
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  Seriously. One of my narc abusers passed
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  away on Valentine's Day. Oh goodness.
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  Did you celebrate? Did you have a nice nice.
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  You had some kombucha, some chocolate?
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  Appreciate it, Tammy said. I recently reconnected with my
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  cousins and friends. He isolated me from it.
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  Feels so nice. Yay, yay.
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  Good for you, good for you. I've not seen Tell me lies on
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  Hulu. Actually one of my one of my
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  friends on, you know, Instagram actually just sent me that the
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  other day. She was like, you need to watch
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  it. Tell me lies.
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  She's a psychologist. It's cool.
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  I had so many awakenings. When you have one, you have me.
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  Yep, once you wake up, you going to have once you wake up and see
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  it, you're going to keep seeing it.
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  Once I woke up, I realized I was surrounded by narcissist.
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  Absolutely true. That does happen.
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  I saw my narcissist in court for the first time after months.
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  I didn't recognize him. I think I saw the real hymn for
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  the first time. Look, I see the monster emoji.
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  She put the monster emoji up there.
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  It could be monsters right here. Y'all, you know, drop 2
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  questions here. Boo Boo.
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  No judgement if you celebrate it.
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  Yeah, no judgement here. I'm not celebrating, she said.
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  I'm not celebrating, but I feel like the weight of the world is
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  gone yeah, you can stand up now the weight is off your back.
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  He can't hurt you anymore. Yes.
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  Have you felt like have you felt the impact you have had on many
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  lives you helped change mind included?
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  I I do a lot of one on ones and stuff over zoom and I have a
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  support group right and people tell me that I change the lives
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  all the time. I I enjoy I I really like
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  helping people y'all. That's why I'm so impactful
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  because I've been doing this for what, 2021?
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  This will be 5 years full time doing one on ones and stuff like
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  that. So I've been doing one on ones
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  and stuff like that for five years.
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  You know, man, I've helped so many people.
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  I've had my support group for over a year now.
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  I literally enjoy helping people.
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  That's my, that's, that's my rides.
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  I help people. I love it.
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  I'm about to start doing my workshops and stuff like that
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  here pretty soon as well. I'm going to start moving back
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  around. Think I'm being new.
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  I'm being New York's, my New York folks.
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  Not about doing like a little meet and greet or whatever in
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  New York City March 4th for the 5th.
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  It kind of depends y'all. If y'all in New York, I'll be in
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  New York City March 4th for the fifth five years.
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  Good job. I just got one yesterday.
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  Got one what? What did you get?
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  What did I miss? Yep, they look different when
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  you know. Yep, they absolutely do.
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  I got a Hoover last week from a toxic, toxic narc XI broke up
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  with over 20 years ago. How did Hoover?
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  I'm just curious what did he did he send you a hey big head
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  message? What did he say?
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  I'm just curious what he said like hey, big head an issue, Liz
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  said. Is there any way to steal their
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  flying monkeys? Sometimes flying monkeys just
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  have to realize the truth on their own or realize how how
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  dumb they look right. They have to realize they
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  sometimes they have to be embarrassed.
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  What not you really have to embarrass them sometimes for
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  them to see as I I saw somebody asked a question about the one
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  on ones every You can find everything here.
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  Y'all mental illness.net everything here.
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  If y'all have, where is it at? If y'all have kids with a
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  narcissistic partner and you're wondering how to talk to your
• 16:18
  kids about toxic relationships and dealing with narcissism and
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  what the whatever, right? I have a kids book.
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  It's called Remember It's not your fault.
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  It's on Amazon. This book is a good conversation
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  starter to have with your parents or to have with your
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  children about narcissistic relationship.
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  Is it just opens the door, y'all?
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  It really just opens the door for for conversations with kids
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  and helps them understand that nothing that's happening to them
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  is their fault. So I just dropped the link.
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  Yeah, the link looks like this like a bunch of words, but this
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  is the link to my kids. But remember, it's not your
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  fault. So make sure you check that out
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  on Amazon. That cut fresh.
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  I just got to cut downtown clean.
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  Clean cuts in Hillsborough, Clean cuts in Hillsborough, NC,
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  Clean cuts Hillsborough, NC. That's where I got my hair cut
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  at a couple days ago. I got the book a while back.
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  It's an excellent book. Yay, she said.
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  It's an excellent book for children.
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  Love that, love it, love it. Is it a different process when
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  you're an ex abuse you physically, It's the the healing
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  process is going to be different for everybody.
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  But once it crosses the threshold and the physical
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  abuse, it can get deeper sometimes, right, physical,
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  emotional, mental, it can get a lot deeper.
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  You know what I'm saying? So I think that's important to
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  recognize as well and sit down and talk to a therapist because
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  again, the healing's going to take time.
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  Healing absolutely, absolutely going to take time.
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  Liz, I love your children's, but appreciate it, dude, Dude, I
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  don't blame you for not answering.
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  I can't wait till I'm sure I'm going to.
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  What did I did? I miss.
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  I'm rebuilding too. Yay.
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  My daughter is in Kannapolis. Yeah.
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  My my brother lives in is Charlotte.
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  He lives in Charlotte. You ever go to Morehead City,
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  NC? My sister-in-law lives in
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  Morehead City. My, my wife is from in morale.
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  So we're we're down there not quite a bit.
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  We don't know. At least once twice a year.
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  That book is beautifully written.
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  Appreciate it. You get narcissism a lot from
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  helping us. I don't think you know.
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  Yeah, I love helping people. Y'all Police officers can also
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  be narcs. One of them injured me when I
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  was screaming. He kept.
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  Oh, God. Yeah.
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  Just being real. You get a lot of that, that
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  that's what you refer to as a communal narcissist.
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  Y'all, when you get people that have these good jobs and what?
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  Whatever, Right. Communal narcissist or police
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  officers, firefighters, pastors, people that have jobs like the
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  doctors, people that help the public, the community, that help
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  the community. Communal narcissist, right?
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  That's what police officer, a police officer that's a
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  narcissist tends to be a communal narcissist and they can
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  just say, Hey, look, I helped the community.
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  So what do you get hurt? Do you get many narcs commenting
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  on your stuff here in Facebook? I used to get, honestly, I used
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  to get more narcissists that commented on my stuff.
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  But now I've been around for so long, that thing they, they just
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  like, well, we, we didn't comment on this shit for years
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  and he ain't going nowhere. So let's just, you know, let's
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  take our battle elsewhere there Lee Hammock is here.
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  They, they know that I'm here to stay.
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  So they know I'm not going anywhere, right?
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  They know that's what's going on, what's happening.
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  They know I'm good, I'm Gucci, I'm not going anywhere.
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  Police officers, judges, any career that offers power they
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  will look for. Yeah, absolutely correct.
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  Some of them are called successful nor successful
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  sociopaths, Psychopaths. And read today.
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  Yeah, Is it possible to be friends with the after a year of
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  no contact in awakening? I wouldn't break no contact if
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  you don't have to, right, Because there's a reason you
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  would be no contact. I wouldn't try to be friends
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  with somebody that hurt you in a relationship.
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  You know, that's just my perspective.
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  I wouldn't try to be friends with somebody that was abusive
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  towards you because they can be abusive in friendship as well.
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  It's not like this with this lives of waking up and realizing
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  that some of your friends are abusive, manipulative
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  narcissists as well, right? I wouldn't.
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  They aren't going to change. No, it's just they, the, the
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  abuse would just change to a different form of abuse because
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  your friends at your friends as opposed to lovers and most of
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  them don't respect that boundary of friendship.
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  They'll still try to sleep with you or whatever case may be,
• 20:33
  would you walk away from church? Where two of the would you walk
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  away from church where two of the three pastors are
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  narcissistic me. Hell yeah.
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  Don't do what I don't, don't do what I do, though.
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  Hell yeah, 'cause this is, this is just blasphemy.
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  That's that's like going to church full of blasphemy if the
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  pastors are relying and being manipulative and sleeping with
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  some of the parishioners and sleeping with sleeping with the
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  congregation, man, hell, hey, I would not set foot in that
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  church. You going that church can go to
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  church going to set a blaze, right?
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  That church going to catch on fire.
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  That's what that's what I would do, right?
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  That's what I would do. They don't want to be a friend.
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  They want something to play with.
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  They just want access to you. I wouldn't be their friend.
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  You know, that's just me. Again, y'all don't y'all going
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  to do what y'all want to do, but that's just me, y'all.
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  But yeah, I do have AI have a phone call I have to do here in
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  the next few minutes I need to get ready for.
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  Again, I do phone calls, I do Zoom calls.
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  I have a course on there as well.
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  Two courses, Finding your Why and Understanding Narcissistic
• 21:32
  Abuse. They're both both my courses are
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  available right here at mentalillness.net.
• 21:37
  Check it out. Check out the support group and
• 21:40
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• 21:42
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• 21:44
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  Peace. It hurts.