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Healing Your Sexual Energy to Grow Your Business with Baljit Rayat · Reclaiming Consciousness

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SPEAKER_01: Let's put it this way a lot of people look at sexual energy as the side dish versus the main dish.
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SPEAKER_01: But really, it should be part of our main dish to look at because when we connect with it, we're really able to tap into our creative gifts.
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SPEAKER_01: We're able to call in money.
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SPEAKER_01: We're able to really set some really healthy, strong, good boundaries with people.
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SPEAKER_01: When we access our truth, we are then stepping into our power.
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SPEAKER_01: We yield this energy that creates power.
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SPEAKER_01: When there's stored trauma in the genitals, it does reflect in our business.
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SPEAKER_01: There's just been this theme of a constant programming of specifically women of not giving themselves, and I've played it too, of not giving myself permission to receive more connection orgasms.
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SPEAKER_01: There's societal programming.
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SPEAKER_01: Think about what we were taught in school.
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SPEAKER_01: I didn't get much talk around connection.
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SPEAKER_01: It was just like, here's a maxapad, here's a condom, don't get pregnant.
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SPEAKER_01: That's it.
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SPEAKER_01: Healing your sexual energy, what's not only connecting to your power of like being able to express yourself, that draws in a magnetism of attracting money because you're vocalizing, like you're saying, I'm ready.
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SPEAKER_01: With women, we have over 15 plus different kinds of orgasms.
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SPEAKER_02: Welcome to Reclaiming Consciousness.
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SPEAKER_02: My name is Elise Bassine, spiritual mentor, breathwork practitioner, and owner and CEO of Elise Breeds.
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SPEAKER_02: For many years, our consciousness has been hijacked by societal and cultural programming, religion, the media, and familial and ancestral trauma.
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SPEAKER_02: Right now, during this epic time in history, people are waking up, realizing who they really are, and reclaiming the pieces of their consciousness that they unknowingly gave away.
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SPEAKER_02: This podcast is an exploration of how so many spectacular humans are leading the way in exiting the matrix and reclaiming who they really are and what they're capable of.
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SPEAKER_02: In this show, you'll meet exceptional people who are paving the way in raising consciousness and creating a new way of living on this earth.
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SPEAKER_02: Get ready to go deep.
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SPEAKER_02: Now let's dive in.
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SPEAKER_02: Hi everyone, welcome back to the show.
2:20
SPEAKER_02: I am so excited about today's guest, Belgi.
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SPEAKER_02: I have known for about three years now, and she's an incredibly talented healer.
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SPEAKER_02: She's a DJ, and among many other things, you'll get to know her in the episode, but we talk about the power of healing your sexual energy in order to grow your business and your income.
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SPEAKER_02: And this conversation is quite profound.
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SPEAKER_02: I know you're gonna get a lot out of it.
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SPEAKER_02: So please enjoy.
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SPEAKER_02: Please go give Balgit a follow.
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SPEAKER_02: She's truly amazing and definitely somebody you'll want to be connected with.
2:55
SPEAKER_02: Just a couple announcements.
2:57
SPEAKER_02: So, as you guys all know, I just got back from Costa Rica.
3:01
SPEAKER_02: I had so many downloads and so much clarity about where I want to go with my work and just really what I meant to be doing.
3:10
SPEAKER_02: One of the biggest downloads I got was the 5D Freedom Embodiment Codes.
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SPEAKER_02: And this is about the true nature of the energy of freedom and what that truly means to embody it.
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SPEAKER_02: And it has nothing to do with anything outside of you, nothing to do with how much money you make, your business, where you're able to travel.
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SPEAKER_02: It's really a frequency that you hold within you.
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SPEAKER_02: And when you hold that frequency of freedom, then everything around you starts to mirror back to you the energy of freedom.
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SPEAKER_02: I am hosting a two-day live event where I'm going to transmit these codes to you so that you can begin living in this new paradigm of freedom, of these 5D freedom codes.
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SPEAKER_02: It just feels so right.
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SPEAKER_02: And I'm so pumped to do this for everyone.
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SPEAKER_02: So this is the first time ever that I will be leading live guided breath work outside of my paid containers.
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SPEAKER_02: So on the first day of the event, I'm going to transmit the codes.
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SPEAKER_02: I'm going to do energy healing, and I'm going to talk about the download that I received around freedom.
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SPEAKER_02: And then on the second day, I'm going to lead you through a live guided breathwork session to help you release any old paradigm matrix programming around the old ideas of freedom and allow you to step through a portal into this new energy of freedom.
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SPEAKER_02: This is going to be a profound spiritual experience.
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SPEAKER_02: You will not be the same afterwards.
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SPEAKER_02: So be prepared.
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SPEAKER_02: It is completely free.
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SPEAKER_02: And I'm so excited about it.
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SPEAKER_02: So we'll link it below so you can sign up.
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SPEAKER_02: There's going to be a Facebook group where you will be able to see the recordings and where we can support each other.
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SPEAKER_02: So it's going to be April 27th and 28th at 3:30 p.m.
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SPEAKER_02: Eastern time.
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SPEAKER_02: There is going to be a really awesome giveaway as well, which I'm super excited about.
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SPEAKER_02: There's going to be a pop-up Facebook group where the recordings will be housed and where we will build sacred community, and you'll be able to connect with other high vibe women who are doing the same thing as you.
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SPEAKER_02: And then there's going to be a giveaway, which I'm so excited about.
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SPEAKER_02: I'm going to be giving away one week of Voxer with me, two Akashic Business Soul Alignment sessions, and three spaces for 30% off one of my programs.
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SPEAKER_02: So you don't want to miss this.
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SPEAKER_02: The giveaway is going to be amazing, and the event itself is going to be life-changing.
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SPEAKER_02: So I'm going to link it below.
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SPEAKER_02: You can sign up and I can't wait to see you there.
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SPEAKER_02: Enjoy the episode.
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SPEAKER_02: Hi everyone.
5:57
SPEAKER_02: Welcome back to the show.
5:58
SPEAKER_02: I am so excited for today's guest.
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SPEAKER_02: I feel like I should have had her on like so long ago.
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SPEAKER_02: So today we have Balgit Riot on the show, who is a certified sexologist, authentic tantra practitioner, Akashic Records consultant and teacher, intuitive mentor, sacred geometry soul artist, DJ, and producer.
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SPEAKER_02: Welcome to the show, Balgit.
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SPEAKER_02: Hi, thanks for having me.
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SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I'm so excited you're here.
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SPEAKER_02: And I want to like dive into all of the many amazing things that you do, along with whatever else comes up for us to talk about.
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SPEAKER_02: Let's just dive right in.
6:39
SPEAKER_02: I just love to hear a little bit of your story.
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SPEAKER_02: What were some pivotal points for you that kind of propelled you on the path that you're on now?
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SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_01: Well, I my background used to be in architecture.
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SPEAKER_01: I spent seven years in the architectural industry.
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SPEAKER_01: And so that was between 2003 to 2009.
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SPEAKER_01: And it was around 2003 to 2005, I had a panic disorder and was going through depression and was experiencing anxiety attacks, panic attacks.
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SPEAKER_01: Wasn't too sure if I should be on the planet, kind of feeling.
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SPEAKER_01: And I didn't really understand where all this fear was coming from.
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SPEAKER_01: And I didn't even realize what panic attacks were until I started to experience it.
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SPEAKER_01: And I didn't even realize I was depressed.
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SPEAKER_01: My background, I was raised in a very strict East Indian upbringing.
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SPEAKER_01: So I was a certified people pleaser, which I'm sure you understand and can relate to.
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SPEAKER_01: Oh my God, same.
7:44
SPEAKER_01: Yes.
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SPEAKER_01: Working in the corporate industry, wanting to not only please family and friends, but also the workplace.
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SPEAKER_01: So I was working overtime.
7:54
SPEAKER_01: Um and I was living in Toronto, so just living the sex in the city life.
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SPEAKER_01: Um, but I was deep down just completely lost and miserable.
8:03
SPEAKER_01: And and the panic attacks were so intense that just mentally I was like, do I want to live?
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SPEAKER_01: Like this is horrible.
8:11
SPEAKER_01: And so I had this epiphany.
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SPEAKER_01: I just sat out on my balcony one day, and it was like my first conscious letter to the universe, God, whatever you want to call it.
8:21
SPEAKER_01: And I was just like, okay, I just said God, you know, and I was like, show me what to do.
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SPEAKER_01: Like, I surrender.
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SPEAKER_01: Do you want me to leave the planet or do you want me to stay?
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SPEAKER_01: Uh, show me what I need to do.
8:34
SPEAKER_01: Because I just couldn't handle the panic attacks or just the feeling of being lost.
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SPEAKER_01: And due to that surrender piece, something inside of me just like released, and I woke up the next day actually like auditorily hearing my own intuition.
8:51
SPEAKER_01: And I heard look up energy medicine.
8:54
SPEAKER_01: And then I was like, okay.
8:56
SPEAKER_01: So I at the time Google didn't exist it.
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SPEAKER_01: It was like Yahoo.
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SPEAKER_01: So I looked up through Yahoo, searched uh energy medicine, and I found a homeopathic doctor.
9:06
SPEAKER_01: I didn't even understood, like I didn't understand what a homeopathic doctor does.
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SPEAKER_01: I just knew intuitively I needed to go that route.
9:14
SPEAKER_01: And so this homeopathic doctor really helped me to, I was on antidepressants as well.
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SPEAKER_01: So helped me wean off of that and also worked with the naturopathic doctor as well.
9:25
SPEAKER_01: And then I came across uh our mutual friend and mentor, uh Jennifer Longmore, and she did an Akashic record reading on me.
9:32
SPEAKER_01: And then I was like, What is this?
9:34
SPEAKER_01: Because I was, I at the time I was going to a lot of psychics to tell me my future, but I was always attached to that outcome, not realizing that I needed to make the shifts within side of myself to make a change.
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SPEAKER_01: And that was like a game changer for me.
9:51
SPEAKER_01: So just like experiencing getting Akashic record readings and feeling the deep healing on such a cellular level, I started to understand energy.
10:01
SPEAKER_01: And I was like, oh, we're made up of energy.
10:04
SPEAKER_01: Our emotions start off as energy, our traumas, as you know, start off as energy and then goes into our system, our nervous system.
10:13
SPEAKER_01: And physically we develop things as well as a result of that as a byproduct.
10:19
SPEAKER_01: And so I started to get to the root of the anxiety and the panic.
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SPEAKER_01: And since then, I haven't had any actual, I was actually able to heal myself from an anxiety disorder, a panic disorder, and haven't taken any antidepressants, not even like other kind of meds, not even aspirin or anything.
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SPEAKER_01: Like I've gone fully natural because I really understood the the concept around energy.
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SPEAKER_01: And uh that's when I learned to become uh an Akashic Record consultant, uh, moved out west.
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SPEAKER_01: And by the time it was 2009, I decided to leave the architectural industry and go full-time into coaching, into being an intuitive mentor.
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SPEAKER_01: And then within that part, there was more stuff around clients, around sexuality.
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SPEAKER_01: And I was also still clearing some stuff on the oppression with women in our culture and society and culturally and religiously, like not only just in the Indian culture, but many cultures and religions that people go through with this oppression of our sexual energy and how that relates to our business, how that relates to just how we show up in our world.
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SPEAKER_01: So I really started to infuse that into the work that I I do now.
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SPEAKER_01: As a result of that, too, I started to DJ and make music.
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SPEAKER_02: So which is so cool.
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SPEAKER_02: So the first thing I really would love to dive into is the connection between business and our sexuality and sexual energy.
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SPEAKER_02: Like, can you talk about that?
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SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I guess.
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SPEAKER_01: Well, most of the times, like with the people that I work with, like it doesn't matter what gender they can male, female, or whatever.
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SPEAKER_01: It's it's this embodiment.
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SPEAKER_01: And what I've noticed is someone can be running a business, someone can even be in a six or seven-figure business as well.
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SPEAKER_01: But the missing piece is that they've noticed something is missing in their relationships or missing just in general with their life.
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SPEAKER_01: They're not fulfilled, they're not happy, they're not on mission.
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SPEAKER_01: And this goes back to the depression and the anxiety that I was feeling.
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SPEAKER_01: It was this piece around being absent in my sacral and my sexual energy.
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SPEAKER_01: I wasn't owning my sexual power.
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SPEAKER_01: And let's put it this way: a lot of people look at sexual energy as the side dish versus the main dish.
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SPEAKER_01: But really, it should be part of our main dish to look at because when we connect with it, we're really able to tap into our creative gifts, we're able to call in money, we're able to really set some really healthy, strong, like good boundaries with people.
13:08
SPEAKER_01: And when we are loosely goosey with our sexual energy or we deflect it, we don't, you know, even connect with it, we become somewhat absent with our creativity or just really connecting in that energy and feeling confident.
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SPEAKER_01: And so, as a byproduct, it does show up in business.
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SPEAKER_01: People can sense it, they can feel it just with your presence.
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SPEAKER_01: No matter how much money you make, you can just tell.
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SPEAKER_02: Absolutely.
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SPEAKER_02: And like, how is our sexual energy connected to our power?
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SPEAKER_02: Because like I know that that is a huge piece of like how we connect with our power, but can you talk a little more about that too?
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SPEAKER_01: Well, first of all, is defining what power is.
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SPEAKER_01: And so a lot of people may have a misconception around power and be like, I don't want to be power because I was controlled by my dad.
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SPEAKER_01: So if I connect with power, then this is what it means.
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SPEAKER_01: But that's not power, that's control, right?
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SPEAKER_01: So control or manipulation.
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SPEAKER_01: So power to me, the way that I defined it is truth.
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SPEAKER_01: It's like when we access our truth, we are then stepping into our power.
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SPEAKER_01: We yield this energy that creates power, creates this embodiment.
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SPEAKER_01: With healing our sexual energy, let's just say you don't have healthy boundaries, and and even sexually, like your energy is just leaking.
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SPEAKER_01: You'll notice that you lack being in your truth because there's some sort of misconception or belief system that you're not, you know, perhaps lovable enough or that you're not worthy enough to be receiving something.
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SPEAKER_01: And so, in again, you're giving away your power versus accessing it and embodying it.
14:57
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that makes a lot of sense.
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SPEAKER_02: So, say somebody is coming up against a certain ceiling in their growth, right?
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SPEAKER_02: And just to put it in business terms, so I feel like that's very easy, quantifiable like thing to do.
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SPEAKER_02: How would they be able to tell that it might be an opportunity for them to lean more into doing some healing around their sexual energy?
15:19
SPEAKER_02: Like, what would be some signs of that?
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SPEAKER_01: There's a ton of signs, I'm sure.
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SPEAKER_01: Recently, uh, someone just signed on the package, and you know, she's doing really well in her business and what she does.
15:31
SPEAKER_01: And we just did a cash record reading, and at the end, she's like, you know, I've never actually experienced an orgasm before.
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SPEAKER_01: And I'm this age and whatnot, and have kids.
15:44
SPEAKER_01: And I was like, okay, well, are you ready to can you see how that relates to business?
15:51
SPEAKER_01: And she knew it because she knew she was ready to up level.
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SPEAKER_01: Again, it's like whatever happens in bed in the bedroom happens in business.
16:00
SPEAKER_01: So it's kind of like you wanna, and this takes a while.
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SPEAKER_01: For some people, it's easy to like be so triggered or or just like avoid the topic or just want to dance around it.
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SPEAKER_01: So if you catch yourself doing that when it comes to sexuality or sexual energy, then you know, take a deep breath and be like, okay, what's what's my resistance in this?
16:23
SPEAKER_01: What is it that I'm not looking at here?
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SPEAKER_01: And how does that relate to, and this this is when you're working with a mentor to be able to go deeper and see your blind spot.
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SPEAKER_01: How does that reflect with how with me being able to uplevel to this next step in my business?
16:42
SPEAKER_01: A lot of times it has to do with visibility, the fear of being threatened.
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SPEAKER_01: I had that programming, like that was like one of my biggest up leveling, especially just being certified as a sexologist.
16:55
SPEAKER_01: I it was fascinating to see people's reaction, but because I knew I was stepping into this whole new energy and having to do some deeper clearing of like, well, what's that programming and what's that belief?
17:09
SPEAKER_01: And it was like, oh, I've got this belief that I'm a threat to others.
17:13
SPEAKER_01: And so the byproduct is that that's something that I would experience, right?
17:18
SPEAKER_01: And so I'm bringing this up because I've noticed this energetic of feeling like you're a threat when you're making lots of money, when you're in your power, and like a lot of other people may seem it like feel like it's a threat.
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SPEAKER_01: So, how do you work through that?
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SPEAKER_01: And what's the belief, what's behind that as well?
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SPEAKER_01: And how can you heal it?
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SPEAKER_02: So yeah, I mean, I totally and my my audience has heard me share so much because my own journey was my own relationship as I've grown my business, has been a complete reflection.
17:52
SPEAKER_02: And I just did a whole podcast episode about how when I decided I was gonna step into 50k months, I was basically taken on this six-month journey of like having to heal my relationship.
18:04
SPEAKER_02: And we're still working on it, right?
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SPEAKER_02: But the sexual part is a huge part of it, which is something that, you know, after 13 years of being together, we're finally being really intentional with wanting to grow and focus on that part of our relationship.
18:20
SPEAKER_02: Um, because I think people have like a misconception that it's just somehow gonna like work itself out if we don't put focus on it.
18:29
SPEAKER_02: And it's the same thing with a relationship in general.
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SPEAKER_02: Like I was talking to a friend the other day who's not really into personal growth too much.
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SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
18:38
SPEAKER_02: And I was telling her, I'm like, you got, you know, you need to go to counseling with your husband.
18:42
SPEAKER_02: She's like, yeah, but I should be able to like fix this on my own.
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SPEAKER_02: Like, I'm really tuned in, I know what's going on.
18:47
SPEAKER_02: And I'm like, no, like you have to like, it's not just gonna like magically happen.
18:53
SPEAKER_02: Like you have to be really intentional with it.
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SPEAKER_02: And I think that's something that people sometimes don't realize when it comes to sex, or they just don't want to talk about it because it's uncomfortable.
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SPEAKER_02: And that's the other thing I wanted to ask you about is what are some of the most common, you know, because I know we've all kind of been programmed heavily around sexuality, but what are some of the most common levels of programming or ways that we've been programmed that people come up against when they are healing or growing their sexuality or sexual energy?
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SPEAKER_01: Yeah, that's such a great question.
19:27
SPEAKER_01: I would say, and how that also relates to business is settling.
19:31
SPEAKER_01: Like I hear so many stories, especially with women that I've worked with, not particularly men, but with women that, you know, I experience pain, but that's okay.
19:42
SPEAKER_01: And some of them are aware that it's a religious programming where they were taught to just please their their partner and just shag through it or whatever.
19:51
SPEAKER_01: But then of course you're ignoring your own response, especially if you have some trauma, like that's pretty huge because when there's stored trauma in the genitals, it does reflect in our business because any kind of point of intimacy that we have, just with a client to go deeper, receive more money or whatever, we come up to that same point on an intimate level.
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SPEAKER_01: So a lot of the times I've just noticed that there's this pattern around settling, like being aware of knowing what's going on in your sex life, but being like, oh, well, I'm okay with it though.
20:32
SPEAKER_01: And it's like, really?
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SPEAKER_01: Are you really okay with it?
20:35
SPEAKER_01: Because then, and this is like a way of deflecting it.
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SPEAKER_01: It's like, you know, I know this is happening, but I'm okay with it.
20:42
SPEAKER_01: I'm not interested in expanding it, or I would like to, but just don't have time because of kids or you know, husband's traveling or whatever.
20:51
SPEAKER_01: And the thing is, is like we really got to create time for ourselves first.
20:57
SPEAKER_01: Like, like before you even do it with your partner, the safety has to come in with yourself first.
21:02
SPEAKER_01: So when I work with the the people, uh, because again, it's men, women, all genders, is that it's feeling safe in your body, feeling safe to connect with your genitals before you even connect with someone else and seeing how that even creates a ripple effect in your business.
21:20
SPEAKER_02: Oh my God, absolutely.
21:21
SPEAKER_02: I had like a really similar experience to what you're talking about just in my own journey, because I feel like not even just sexually, but in so many ways, but also sexually, I wasn't really allowing myself to even acknowledge what I truly desired, you know, and that goes on so many levels.
21:40
SPEAKER_02: And I actually just did a whole program around this because it was called trust.
21:45
SPEAKER_02: It was about like trusting your desires.
21:48
SPEAKER_02: Because what I realized for myself in my own journey was that there was a level to which I wasn't even allowing myself to access my desires.
21:57
SPEAKER_02: And I think that that is something that.
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SPEAKER_02: A lot of people are doing, but they don't even realize.
22:03
SPEAKER_02: And then it was like, okay.
22:05
SPEAKER_02: And even just to look at my business journey, I was like, okay, well, I allowed myself to access my desires on a certain level.
22:12
SPEAKER_02: And then I trusted them and I took action on them.
22:15
SPEAKER_02: And as I did that, it opened up a deeper level of desire.
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SPEAKER_02: Right.
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SPEAKER_02: And it's just been this journey that now that I've taken this journey not only in my business, but in my relationship with my husband, now we're on like a whole new level of, oh, this is something I actually desire.
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SPEAKER_02: Like, oh, I actually desire to be intimate in this way or actually desire to connect with you in this way that I wasn't even allowing myself to access.
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SPEAKER_02: You know, and I think that like because of some of the programming that we have, we don't even think that certain things are available to us.
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SPEAKER_02: So we don't even allow ourselves to access that desire.
22:54
SPEAKER_02: So I think that is a huge piece of it too.
22:56
SPEAKER_02: And that comes up in business too.
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SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
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SPEAKER_02: Because it's like you have to allow yourself to open up to that.
23:03
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, totally.
23:05
SPEAKER_01: Like giving ourselves permission.
23:07
SPEAKER_01: It's totally what it is.
23:08
SPEAKER_01: It's there's just been this theme of a constant programming of um, specifically women, of not giving themselves, and I've played it too, of not giving myself permission to receive more connection orgasms, but also to receive more in business too, like just seeing the parallel and then on an intimate level with your partner, noticing the sensations and how that's even expanded as well.
23:34
SPEAKER_01: Like you start to really see how everything just like works together.
23:39
SPEAKER_02: Oh my God, totally.
23:40
SPEAKER_02: Like I've been able to open up so much more in the last year than I have in all 13 years that we've been together.
23:48
SPEAKER_02: And really, it was like the business that was the thing that was like the catalyst to open us up to this whole new level.
23:56
SPEAKER_02: And just the other thing, too, that I think is important is just to actually be able to ask for what you desire.
24:02
SPEAKER_02: Cause it's one thing to like, okay, I acknowledge this, but then to be able to actually voice that.
24:07
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
24:08
SPEAKER_02: There's something so powerful in that too, that I feel like directly relates to the business.
24:14
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
24:15
SPEAKER_02: Because sometimes people can't read your minds.
24:19
SPEAKER_02: Exactly.
24:20
SPEAKER_02: But I think because I think we're afraid to ask for what we desire because we don't want to be rejected.
24:27
SPEAKER_02: We then want the other person to read our mind, or we get mad that they can't read our mind, or something like that.
24:33
SPEAKER_01: We make up this story and it's like, well, did you ask for it or did you communicate it?
24:38
SPEAKER_01: No.
24:39
SPEAKER_01: And that's like I've seen clients just go into spiral.
24:41
SPEAKER_01: And I was like, well, maybe you should just communicate and just say, Hey, can we have a chat?
24:46
SPEAKER_02: Oh my God, I know.
24:48
SPEAKER_01: But you know, that kind of goes back to the the trauma response.
24:51
SPEAKER_01: And I know you work with trauma too, is just the fear of being able to speak your truth.
24:57
SPEAKER_01: And what I've noticed that the more that people have healed their sexual energy and they start to really tap into that power, it's safer for them to express their truth.
25:07
SPEAKER_01: They feel safe to do it.
25:09
SPEAKER_01: There's not this belief that it's not safe or that they're gonna get rejected or persecuted or whatever.
25:16
SPEAKER_01: So it is a process to really connect to that power when it comes to stepping into that.
25:23
SPEAKER_01: And I actually listened to your podcast the other night too, and when we were you talking about 50K and going higher, and I was like, yeah, I could hear it in your voice.
25:32
SPEAKER_01: I felt that energy from you, and I still feel it from you.
25:35
SPEAKER_01: It's that business that the way that you up-leveled, I can tell, like I feel it just in your whole energy.
25:43
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
25:44
SPEAKER_02: And it's definitely like that's why I always say it's an initiation.
25:47
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
25:48
SPEAKER_02: Because I literally had to become a different version of myself and show up completely differently in the relationship.
25:56
SPEAKER_02: And it's just, and it's so crazy how our relationships are such a mirror and such a reflection.
26:03
SPEAKER_02: Like, you know, I always say this to clients because I'm like, well, you're getting a lot of really good information here.
26:08
SPEAKER_02: Like when people are dating and stuff and they're like, oh, this guy, blah, blah, blah.
26:13
SPEAKER_02: And I'm like, well, this is great information.
26:15
SPEAKER_02: Like, we can use this.
26:17
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
26:19
SPEAKER_02: And they're just like, oh, I'm going crazy.
26:22
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
26:24
SPEAKER_02: And then I also wanted to kind of dive into too, like, so the work that you're doing as a sexologist, like, what does that look like as far as just how you work with people and what are people coming to you for?
26:35
SPEAKER_02: And all of that.
26:36
SPEAKER_02: Like, what does that look like?
26:38
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
26:38
SPEAKER_01: So I really recently became a board-certified sexologist and authentic Tantra practitioner.
26:45
SPEAKER_01: And authentic Tantra is a trauma for uh healing holistic modality rooted in the five elements.
26:52
SPEAKER_01: So it's through the Tibetan lineage.
26:55
SPEAKER_01: And it's a combination of Tantra and also somatic healing practices to help one become super embodied with themselves.
27:06
SPEAKER_01: And you know, I've been working in the Akashic Records for so long and just doing a lot of energy work to help people.
27:14
SPEAKER_01: One of the biggest pieces that I felt like was so important is the embodiment piece.
27:21
SPEAKER_01: And I was like, I need something tangible to provide for people to be able to tangibly connect to their sexual energy and know how that feels like physically when they're touching their genitals and seeing how that reflects to their business, their creations.
27:40
SPEAKER_01: And it really varies from client to client.
27:43
SPEAKER_01: For some clients, we're not ready to do the hands-on practices.
27:48
SPEAKER_01: So obviously, we're on Zoom, and I'll have like a model if we have to do any like physical practices.
27:54
SPEAKER_01: But before we even go there, if there's a lot of stored trauma, we do some breath.
28:01
SPEAKER_01: Uh, there's a thing called ocean breath, and it's part of the authentic tantra.
28:05
SPEAKER_01: Well, it's by Kalartara and given permission to also share that in the authentic tantra practice.
28:11
SPEAKER_01: So it's a form of breath sound and touch and awareness where you're able to really connect back to your body before you even connect to the genitals.
28:21
SPEAKER_01: So it really depends on the person with where they're at.
28:25
SPEAKER_01: I usually am doing a lot of clearing first before we get to the physical practice or we intertwine it as well.
28:35
SPEAKER_01: So it really varies.
28:36
SPEAKER_01: And then for each session, something comes up, or there's something that they want to bring forward.
28:42
SPEAKER_01: And the byproduct of that is I've noticed people being like, their website's up finally.
28:48
SPEAKER_01: They're able to write about themselves because they feel safe to be seen.
28:52
SPEAKER_01: You can hear their power, like meaning, like they're able at the starting of their session, they may have talked like this and they were super quiet.
28:59
SPEAKER_01: And now they're loud and be like, you know what, pal?
29:02
SPEAKER_01: Like they're just so loud.
29:04
SPEAKER_01: Like you can hear it in their voice of how embodied they become.
29:08
SPEAKER_01: So it's very much medicinal in a way that for each person, whatever they need, whatever it's required for them to take it to the next level.
29:18
SPEAKER_01: And the purpose of that, too, of connecting to their sexual power is not only to bring pleasure, but to bring pleasure into business and really connect to that mission, that purpose, and be able to express your gifts as well.
29:34
SPEAKER_01: So I like to bridge those pieces for them to really acknowledge, like, oh, like this is how I'm connecting the dots here.
29:42
SPEAKER_01: It's pretty cool.
29:43
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I love that.
29:44
SPEAKER_02: And then like back up a little bit.
29:46
SPEAKER_02: I'm curious to know too, when did you start to have this awareness about the sexual component of all of this?
29:53
SPEAKER_02: What was that process for you?
29:55
SPEAKER_01: How did it happen?
29:56
SPEAKER_01: Yes.
29:57
SPEAKER_01: You know, I would say like back in 2008 and nine, I was like really curious about Tantra in general.
30:05
SPEAKER_01: Like I was curious about white Tantra, red Tantra.
30:09
SPEAKER_01: I was super curious on understanding relationships, sexuality.
30:14
SPEAKER_01: I've always had this curiosity.
30:18
SPEAKER_01: And I would say probably around 2010 and 11, all of a sudden, a lot of my clients that were just coming in for like a cashic record sessions or had coaching packages with me, they were like, I want to know my purpose, but I've got like an ovarian cyst, like something completely different.
30:37
SPEAKER_01: But it had to do with their sexual energy.
30:39
SPEAKER_01: It had to do with something that was actually physically going on for them with their sexual reproductive organs or something to do with their relationship and them giving their power away.
30:50
SPEAKER_01: And I was like, oh, we need to connect these two because this is really important.
30:55
SPEAKER_01: And on a deeper level, when I was doing a lot of clearings, it wasn't just stuff that we're clearing in this lifetime.
31:03
SPEAKER_01: It was like we're clearing transgenerational programming, like what our mom taught us, our mom mom, through the lineage of what we were taught about our sexual energy and how that impacts us now.
31:14
SPEAKER_01: Cultural programming, which is another factor, religious programming.
31:18
SPEAKER_01: Even if you're not raised in religion, it could be your ancestors that have passed it down and it's just legit in your DNA that you can shift.
31:28
SPEAKER_01: There's societal programming.
31:30
SPEAKER_01: Think about what we were taught in school.
31:32
SPEAKER_01: I don't know about you, but I didn't get much talk around connection.
31:36
SPEAKER_01: It was just like, here's a maxapad, here's a condom, don't get pregnant.
31:40
SPEAKER_01: That's it.
31:41
SPEAKER_01: It wasn't like so.
31:43
SPEAKER_01: There was so much fear around it.
31:45
SPEAKER_01: And even like my mom, I joke about this because she sat me down and she's like, you know, there's AIDS out there.
31:52
SPEAKER_01: Like it wasn't even a sex talk.
31:53
SPEAKER_01: There's just so much fear, protection.
31:56
SPEAKER_03: Yeah.
31:56
SPEAKER_01: And so it comes from different parts that we don't even recognize that we've taken on and bottled up inside.
32:04
SPEAKER_01: Then I was like, okay, I gotta create a program, you know.
32:08
SPEAKER_01: So I really focused on at the time I called it uh sex and sensuality.
32:13
SPEAKER_01: And so it was healing guilt, healing shame.
32:16
SPEAKER_01: We went into the cultural programming, uh, transgenerational, religious, can be governmental, it could be all kinds of programming that really limits the sexual energy.
32:27
SPEAKER_01: So for me, it's very deep.
32:29
SPEAKER_01: It runs even beyond what we don't even recognize because we just didn't really think about it, right?
32:36
SPEAKER_01: And then we also have to think about like what did our mom go through when she had us at birth?
32:42
SPEAKER_01: And like when, you know, when she's going into perimenopause or menopause, how did that get projected onto us, even perhaps?
32:49
SPEAKER_01: And as we're walking through life, how does that impact us?
32:54
SPEAKER_01: So there is so much wisdom that was coming through and still is coming through, that I was like, okay, this is pretty obvious that I need to talk about this.
33:04
SPEAKER_01: And and it just kept coming forward.
33:06
SPEAKER_01: And that's why I thought it was important.
33:08
SPEAKER_01: Okay, I need to understand a physical genitalia perspective of we know what's going on for the male and the female genitals, and also how that connects to our nervous system, how that works with trauma, and then also doing the energy work combined to it.
33:27
SPEAKER_01: So it's been a journey where I'm always learning and I'm always connecting to this deeper wisdom.
33:33
SPEAKER_01: But yeah, it all really got activated around 2008 or nine.
33:37
SPEAKER_01: And then by 2010, 11, I started creating programs.
33:40
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
33:41
SPEAKER_02: I mean, obviously it's something you're meant to do.
33:43
SPEAKER_02: Because, you know, we're whenever we're drawn to something, it's just because we're meant to do it.
33:47
SPEAKER_02: And I'm curious to know too, and I know you kind of touched on this, but well, two things.
33:52
SPEAKER_02: One, the ancestral piece of it, right?
33:55
SPEAKER_02: Because I think so much of what we're doing is just clearing ancestral trauma, not even just the programming, but also, you know, we've all had in our lineage sexual trauma.
34:07
SPEAKER_02: And then if that is the lighter end, and then a lot of people have had their own sexual trauma, you know, like I remember when I first started doing my breath work trainings back in the early 2000s.
34:19
SPEAKER_02: I was only like 19, 20 years old.
34:21
SPEAKER_02: And I was shocked that I think in the group that I was in, the first group I was in, I think I might have been the only one in the group out of like 25 people that didn't have sexual trauma or some kind of sexual abuse in their past.
34:36
SPEAKER_02: And I was like, holy shit, so many people have been through something.
34:41
SPEAKER_02: Obviously, I'm sure that factors in, and I'm sure that's a huge piece of the work.
34:46
SPEAKER_01: It really is.
34:47
SPEAKER_01: As of late, I've been really tracking, especially with people of color, with their ancestors and the trauma that they went through, just either living in America or even Canada and immigrating, and before even immigrating, wherever they were from, it's been because it's innate.
35:09
SPEAKER_01: I mean, my parents are from India.
35:11
SPEAKER_01: My mom was raised in England, but I've noticed some things on an ancestral level that I've been clearing personally as a result of how I've been showing up here in Canada, though I was born and raised here, right?
35:25
SPEAKER_01: And for many people that have been born and raised in the US and Canada, but come from different backgrounds, it's really good to, even if you don't go in and do the healing, like it's kind of cool to know your history, your ancestry, to understand the stories, because that itself will allow you to heal on some level and connect the dots.
35:49
SPEAKER_01: And depending on your willingness to not repeat certain things as well, if you're open to doing the work on a deeper level.
35:58
SPEAKER_01: And maybe what our ancestors did back then worked for them at that time, but it definitely doesn't work right now, especially with the role with a lot of women in particular.
36:08
SPEAKER_01: Like again, this goes back to that energetic of having to settle and not being able to communicate.
36:14
SPEAKER_01: And what does it look like to really step into our power and feel safe?
36:19
SPEAKER_01: So the ancestral programming is really huge.
36:22
SPEAKER_01: And some of it is also in this lifetime where it's like, how was it when you got your period?
36:28
SPEAKER_01: Like a lot of people don't obviously talk about it, right?
36:31
SPEAKER_01: Mine was pretty traumatic, so I didn't, I don't normally don't share it openly, but I saw how that impacted how I showed up.
36:39
SPEAKER_01: And so we can go through micro or macro sexual trauma and not even recognize that's trauma.
36:46
SPEAKER_00: Yeah.
36:47
SPEAKER_01: And it creates some form of numbness in our genitals, but it also creates a numbness as well in our business, which obviously also directly relates to money.
36:57
unknown: Yeah.
36:59
SPEAKER_02: And I know obviously, like the connection with sexuality and business is also related to money, but is there anything else that you can share specifically just around the connection of our sexual energy and our money or just like ability to bring in money?
37:15
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
37:16
SPEAKER_01: So healing your sexual energy, you know, it's not only connecting to your power of like being able to express yourself, that draws in a magnetism of attracting money because you're vocalizing, like you're saying, I'm ready.
37:30
SPEAKER_01: But it's also one of the biggest things that I've noticed is actually creating healthy boundaries because you're more discerning around how you're choosing to share your sexual energy, meaning not just on a sexual level, but just how you're creating, how you're choosing to collaborate, how you're choosing to show up and create in your business that's going to magnetize and allow more money to flow in because you're creating this container.
37:58
SPEAKER_01: What I've noticed with people that are, let's just say, leaky with their sexual energy or they don't have strong boundaries with that, they may even be able to attract a lot of money, but they can't keep it because it's just not, there's no container.
38:12
SPEAKER_01: So when you learn to harness your sexual energy and really stand truth in your power, be able to speak your truth, that's also part of your sexual energy.
38:22
SPEAKER_01: You're able to create from that and you'll notice it just the byproduct is that it calls in more money.
38:29
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I a hundred percent agree.
38:31
SPEAKER_02: And it's obviously all related.
38:33
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
38:34
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
38:36
SPEAKER_02: Like, yeah.
38:37
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, it totally is.
38:39
SPEAKER_02: And just realizing, I think, the power that we actually hold if we can harness that energy, right?
38:46
SPEAKER_02: And it's not that hard to do, but I think it's just having the awareness around it too.
38:50
SPEAKER_02: And oh, and the other thing I wanted to say is I do think so many women without even realizing it, because I know for me, I felt this way too, where it's almost like we're kind of like subliminally taught that we're not supposed to experience pleasure or that's like secondary or something.
39:07
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
39:08
SPEAKER_01: Is that what you find too?
39:10
SPEAKER_01: I started to think about when I was listening to your podcast, how you shared how you got that role as Dorothy and how your mom said to not celebrate that.
39:19
SPEAKER_01: Yes.
39:20
SPEAKER_01: Like that's what it reminds me of.
39:21
SPEAKER_01: Like it's it's this thing we've been taught through either our parents, through culture, through through so many things to not be able to celebrate ourselves and receive pleasure, know what that's like.
39:36
SPEAKER_01: And so that does limit how we're able to receive in general.
39:42
SPEAKER_01: And it's not just money, it's just everything.
39:44
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
39:45
SPEAKER_01: It's like someone can give you a compliment and be like, oh, you look so beautiful, and you're like, thanks, you know, like you're just not, or you're like, oh, it's so sunny outside, like you're completely deflecting.
39:56
SPEAKER_01: So it's allowing yourself to receive.
39:58
SPEAKER_01: And and again, it goes back to feeling safe.
40:01
SPEAKER_01: And what does it mean if you, for example, when you talked about the Dorothy bit, I was just like, Oh, that's such a good point.
40:09
SPEAKER_01: Cause I had that too.
40:10
SPEAKER_01: It was very similar.
40:11
SPEAKER_01: Our parents were like, Don't brag about your wins kind of thing.
40:14
SPEAKER_01: And I was like, What?
40:16
SPEAKER_01: So I never really shared it because they were like, you don't want to, in a way, brag about it.
40:21
SPEAKER_01: And in their mind, it was more of like because you'll be shown as greedy, right?
40:26
SPEAKER_01: Uh, like you're showing you're showing off.
40:29
SPEAKER_01: Right.
40:29
SPEAKER_01: And so that was ingrained, but then that can also reflect in the bedroom or wherever you choose to, you know, cultivate your sexual energy.
40:39
SPEAKER_01: But it's like if you feel that way, that'll happen on a sexual level.
40:44
SPEAKER_01: You actually won't give yourself permission to take it to the next level because it's like, no, no, I can't, I can't make a sound or I can't really let go.
40:54
SPEAKER_01: And that also reflects with how you experience an orgasm.
41:00
SPEAKER_01: Some people don't experience a full-bodied orgasm or can't with women.
41:04
SPEAKER_01: We have over 15 plus different kinds of orgasms.
41:06
SPEAKER_01: A lot of people don't know that.
41:07
SPEAKER_01: Oh, I don't know that.
41:08
SPEAKER_01: Can we talk about that more?
41:10
SPEAKER_01: I meant to bring out a chart.
41:13
SPEAKER_02: We can link up like a chart in the show notes.
41:20
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, I mean, what we're mostly used to is the the genital orgasm, like a clitoral, uh, or maybe people are used to a G-spa orgasm, but we can have a U-spa orgasm where the urethral sponge is being penetrated.
41:34
SPEAKER_01: We can have a cervical orgasm, we can have a uterine orgasm, we can have a P-spa orgasm, which is the posterior wall of your vagina.
41:44
SPEAKER_01: You can I didn't know this.
41:46
SPEAKER_01: You can have a orgasm, you can have blended, you can have orgasm just through nipples, you can have orgasm just through kissing, um, you can have like a full-body orgasm.
41:58
SPEAKER_01: So there's so many kinds of perineum, you know, just the penetration of the perineum.
42:04
SPEAKER_01: So just awakening all those different parts, and also on an energetic level, there's these meridians inside our vagina that represents the kidneys, the livers, the spleen, the pancreas, the heart, and the lungs.
42:19
SPEAKER_01: So there's so much in there that we can connect with when we start to pay attention to it and how that reflects with all of our organs.
42:29
SPEAKER_01: So that's why we do the somatic practices so that we become connected to our body and start to understand our own genitalia even more and be like, oh, I can see how this feels now more.
42:42
SPEAKER_01: There's more sensation here, and I can see how that shows up with my voice and in my creativity.
42:48
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
42:49
SPEAKER_02: Can men have different kinds of orgasms?
42:52
SPEAKER_01: Oh, yeah.
42:52
SPEAKER_01: Wow.
42:53
SPEAKER_01: Like 11 plus.
42:54
SPEAKER_02: So wow, that's so interesting.
42:55
SPEAKER_02: I feel like I need to read more about this.
42:58
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
42:59
SPEAKER_02: Because I didn't even really realize that.
43:00
SPEAKER_02: I mean, I realized that they can feel different sometimes, right?
43:05
unknown: Mm-hmm.
43:06
SPEAKER_02: But I didn't know there was different kinds.
43:09
SPEAKER_02: Wow, this is like it's opening up a whole new yeah.
43:13
SPEAKER_01: Men can have different orgasms too.
43:15
SPEAKER_01: And the same with men too, penis owners is that when they've learned to harness their sexual energy, they then are able to expand their orgasmic capacity.
43:28
SPEAKER_01: And so as a result, the same with women is that you're able to experience more different kinds of orgasms.
43:37
SPEAKER_01: If you've had massive trauma in your life or just were raised with a lack of awareness and understanding of your own sexual energy, then yeah, maybe you've only experienced a few orgasms because there hasn't been enough education or just awareness of how else you can expand it.
43:56
SPEAKER_01: So with the different kinds of somatic practices and just embodying.
44:00
SPEAKER_01: Practices and just the awareness itself, you then are more conscious of how you're able to expand your orgasmic capacity and that will allow for a greater experience and play around with that.
44:14
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
44:15
SPEAKER_02: It's so interesting.
44:16
SPEAKER_02: So I'm just kind of thinking about the way this knowledge has been hidden from us, you know, and how obviously this is directly related to our ability to tap into our own power and like who we truly are as human beings.
44:32
SPEAKER_02: So it's not a surprise that this has been hidden from us.
44:37
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
44:37
SPEAKER_01: Right.
44:38
SPEAKER_01: Right.
44:38
SPEAKER_01: And it's like the way that the oppression, like how, and I again, I women in particular, how we have been oppressed on so many levels.
44:48
SPEAKER_01: And even for culturally speaking, like how I was raised, it's it's definitely changing now, especially in India.
44:56
SPEAKER_01: But that was also another reason why why I feel so passionate about this, because the way that I was raised and how I saw so many women in my culture raised was so oppressed.
45:07
SPEAKER_01: And then it just didn't make sense because we came from the land of Kama Sutra, you know, before I was just thinking that.
45:14
SPEAKER_02: I'm like, that's kind of like an oxymoron, isn't it?
45:18
SPEAKER_01: But then India was colonized, right?
45:21
SPEAKER_01: So there's also deep programming around when the British colonized different countries and how that actually has impacted someone's sexual nature.
45:32
SPEAKER_01: You know, I've worked with people too that are either bisexual, non-binary, how they have had so much shame based on their cultural upbringing.
45:43
SPEAKER_01: And then on top of that, based on colonization and how that's impacted them to not feel safe in their bodies, to not feel that they can express themselves.
45:53
SPEAKER_01: So that's what I mean.
45:55
SPEAKER_01: It's like we kind of do need to go back even deeper to really show up differently.
46:01
SPEAKER_01: And talking about being in our power can't just come from this lifetime.
46:06
SPEAKER_01: It definitely, you know, you're gonna notice that you're gonna start peeling layers from other lifetimes, other ancestral stuff.
46:14
SPEAKER_01: And that's the kind of power I'm talking about.
46:15
SPEAKER_01: It's it's this deep wisdom that we have within us.
46:19
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, which, you know, is rarely talked about.
46:23
SPEAKER_02: And just the way that the way that we kind of are raised with sex is don't talk about it.
46:29
SPEAKER_02: Like kind of what you said.
46:30
SPEAKER_02: We're not really gonna talk about it, just don't get pregnant or like get any diseases.
46:36
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
46:38
SPEAKER_02: But we're not really gonna talk about it.
46:39
SPEAKER_02: And even with my generation and with like my own mother, she wanted me to know about it.
46:46
SPEAKER_02: But like her just like having the conversation with me about getting on birth control, like that was like progressive.
46:52
SPEAKER_02: You know what I mean?
46:53
SPEAKER_02: That was like her being understanding, but like I don't think anyone is talking about what is actually available to us through this.
47:03
SPEAKER_02: You know what I mean?
47:04
SPEAKER_02: Like that's not something that is a conversation.
47:08
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
47:08
SPEAKER_02: And maybe that's not something that your parents should talk to you about, but like somebody needs to talk to us about it.
47:15
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
47:16
SPEAKER_01: There's more stuff now where uh parents, there's many parents that I know that are now learning to talk to their kids to not shame them if they feel something, but to communicate, you know, you can go to your bedroom, you know, or just like how do you communicate those things, right?
47:32
SPEAKER_01: Yeah.
47:33
SPEAKER_01: Communicate those things when they reach puberty.
47:35
SPEAKER_01: I know for myself personally, like with my parents, it was traumatizing for them because they were like, our baby girl is no longer a baby girl, she's she's maturing, and I could see in their faces.
47:48
SPEAKER_01: So now more parents are uh I want to say progressive in and learning how to communicate with their children or their teenagers, even around relationships and and sex, or just even like what happens to their bodies and not feel ashamed about it.
48:06
SPEAKER_01: Because one of the major things that I've noticed is uh, you know, especially with penis owners, is that when they haven't had that provided to them, there's so much dysfunctions, like sexual dysfunctions that can show up because there's either shame or guilt attached to it, or they end up being um addicted to pornography or other things that actually doesn't serve them.
48:31
SPEAKER_01: They don't, they were never taught how to cultivate and harness that energy.
48:34
SPEAKER_01: For women as well, like I call them vulva owners, is that we can misuse our sexual energy and either sleep with a lot of men or or just not know how to harness it or be very secretive about it or just not look at it at all.
48:51
SPEAKER_01: There's different dynamics when we're not taught how to connect with it, especially like even a teenager phase, you can see how that shows up in your adult phase, and it's almost like your teenager self, like you're playing out your teenager self that actually needs to heal.
49:08
SPEAKER_01: So that's the other thing that I go back to when you know we're clearing the sexual energy.
49:13
SPEAKER_01: I go back to the age of when they started to play out a pattern.
49:18
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, that makes a lot of sense.
49:20
SPEAKER_02: And I do think too, just related to that, um, when we were talking about the way your parents reacted when you go through puberty or whatever.
49:28
SPEAKER_02: I'm guessing too, because I always see this with people, when we're at a certain age, we're like reflecting back to our parents, whatever they have that's unhealed at that age.
49:37
SPEAKER_02: So their stuff comes up and they project it onto us, and then we move it on, and it's like a whole thing, you know.
49:46
SPEAKER_01: Bless their souls.
49:47
SPEAKER_01: I mean, they're only doing their best, but I know, I know.
49:52
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, well, this has been amazing.
49:54
SPEAKER_02: There's so much more here.
49:56
SPEAKER_02: I feel like we could probably have a whole other conversation continuing about this.
50:02
SPEAKER_02: Um, but I'd love for you to share just how people can connect with you if you have anything exciting going on right now of where people can find you.
50:10
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, you can find me at on my website at uh www.beljeechriot.com.
50:18
SPEAKER_01: And also I'm more active on Instagram, so I am Belgee Triot.
50:23
SPEAKER_01: I'm also on Facebook as well, but more active on uh Instagram, which you'll be able to find my DJ link as well.
50:30
SPEAKER_01: Um, there's also a freebie in there of unlocking your sacral chakra.
50:35
SPEAKER_01: And uh yeah, you can see the services offerings there and connect with me there.
50:41
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, cool.
50:42
SPEAKER_01: I know we didn't even talk about the DJ stuff, which is a whole other oh, that's a whole other thing.
50:46
SPEAKER_00: Yeah, yeah.
50:49
SPEAKER_02: Well, people can connect with you and listen to that as well.
50:53
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
50:53
SPEAKER_02: Cool.
50:54
SPEAKER_02: Thank you for sharing that.
50:55
SPEAKER_02: And then for our last question for you, what is a non-negotiable when it comes to fully reclaiming your consciousness?
51:03
SPEAKER_01: Yes, my non-negotiable is actually setting my intentions, and I usually do that in the mornings.
51:10
SPEAKER_01: It's like my morning routine.
51:12
SPEAKER_01: I notice if I don't set my intentions for the day, it just kind of someone else will set it for me.
51:19
SPEAKER_01: So I find setting intentions are very powerful, and it's definitely like a non-negotiable, and that's part of my morning routine.
51:29
SPEAKER_01: So even a morning routine for me is a non-negotiable.
51:32
SPEAKER_01: I need that quiet time.
51:33
SPEAKER_01: I do a little bit of a workout or have some fruit, have my cellar, like I have a little bit of a routine where I drink a tall glass of water and I just feel good.
51:43
SPEAKER_01: I need that space, so that's definitely a non-negotiable, but that's part of my setting intentions.
51:49
SPEAKER_02: I a hundred percent agree.
51:51
SPEAKER_02: I'm like obsessed with setting intentions.
51:53
SPEAKER_02: I do it with everything just because I feel like it always happens, and you can decide the energy that you're gonna infuse into something and what you're gonna experience.
52:05
SPEAKER_02: And it always happens.
52:06
SPEAKER_02: Yes, it literally always happens.
52:08
SPEAKER_02: Like on every call I get on, on everything, I'm just like, this is gonna be, you know, better than I can imagine, or this is gonna be great forever, or whatever it is that I'm setting the intention on.
52:18
SPEAKER_00: Easy, graceful, yeah.
52:20
SPEAKER_02: And then, like, then when you look back, it's like, oh yeah, it was that.
52:24
SPEAKER_02: You know, like totally it's so easy.
52:28
SPEAKER_01: Yeah, it's so funny with some clients too, where they're like, Oh, you know, my calls just were so shitty.
52:33
SPEAKER_01: And I was like, Did you set your intentions?
52:35
SPEAKER_01: And they're like, No.
52:37
SPEAKER_01: And I was like, Well, yeah, it's like it's like brushing your teeth, just set your intentions, super easy.
52:42
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, exactly.
52:43
SPEAKER_02: It's so easy and it always works out.
52:45
SPEAKER_02: I was just talking to a client earlier about doing that, like when you're creating a program too, because I feel like a lot of, and this is obviously a whole nother topic, people get afraid to like claim and own what's gonna happen in a container.
52:58
SPEAKER_02: And I'm like, if you don't do that though, how are you gonna get how are people gonna get the results?
53:04
SPEAKER_02: Like you have to say, like, this is what's gonna happen.
53:08
SPEAKER_02: Yeah, you know, and there's so much power in that.
53:10
SPEAKER_02: Totally.
53:11
SPEAKER_02: Yeah.
53:12
SPEAKER_02: So I love that.
53:13
SPEAKER_02: Thank you.
53:13
SPEAKER_02: And thank you so much for being here.
53:15
SPEAKER_02: This has been incredibly illuminating, and there's so much that this has sparked for me.
53:20
SPEAKER_02: So thank you so much.
53:22
SPEAKER_02: This was amazing.
53:23
SPEAKER_01: Oh, most welcome, and thank you for having me.
53:26
SPEAKER_01: It's it's always a joy just connecting with you.
53:28
SPEAKER_01: So thank you.
53:29
SPEAKER_01: Yes, you too.
53:30
SPEAKER_01: Thank you.
53:32
SPEAKER_02: Thank you so much for being here.
53:34
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53:42
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54:04
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