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The Twot Seat: Justice Mellencamp · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: Two teas in a pod which Teddy Mellencamp and Cameridge Edge.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of the twat Seat.
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  Speaker 2: A very special guest today who never likes to do
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  Speaker 2: anything publicly. It is my very own little sister, Justice Mellencamp,
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  Speaker 2: who I like to call bird Face in the Hole.
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  Speaker 2: The reason she's been bf ITH since we were little
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  Speaker 2: is because you guys may take notice here. How granted
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  Speaker 2: I get to say this because she's the cuter, tinier
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  Speaker 2: all of the ones, but like, look how her entire
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  Speaker 2: face would fit into that. It's like a little bird
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  Speaker 2: poking its head out of the hole and it's trying
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  Speaker 2: to eat. That's her.
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  Speaker 3: Thanks, what do you call me? Oh? I don't know
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  Speaker 3: nicknames for you?
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  Speaker 2: So many nicknicknames. But Justice and I are four years apart.
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  Speaker 2: We are full siblings.
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  Speaker 3: I know.
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  Speaker 2: You know. The last couple of days have been no
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  Speaker 2: wig days. But of course I had to put a
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  Speaker 2: wig on today because one of our favorite songs to sing.
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  Speaker 2: You may have heard of it. It's from Mary Kate
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  Speaker 2: Nashley Olsen. I am the cute one.
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  Speaker 3: She's just my sister.
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  Speaker 2: And we go back and forth on this and I
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  Speaker 2: knew if it was a bald day for me, then
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  Speaker 2: I wouldn't be able to take either parts, which had
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  Speaker 2: been difficult.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think so. No, I think you can
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  Speaker 3: totally rock the shaved head.
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  Speaker 2: Well, thank you. Bird. Bird's being very very nice to
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  Speaker 2: me because we've been going through all the stuff. She's
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  Speaker 2: been helping taking care of my kids. She's been here
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  Speaker 2: to help me because some days I am you know,
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  Speaker 2: I'm pretty good until about two o'clock. Wouldn't we say
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  Speaker 2: that's when I have the switch off.
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  Speaker 3: Well, it's tiring. It's a lot going on.
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  Speaker 2: It's tiring.
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  Speaker 3: It is you've got way too much going on.
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  Speaker 2: But she is my best friend. I love her to death.
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  Speaker 2: But we You may notice that our voices sound very similar.
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  Speaker 2: I know.
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  Speaker 3: Remember when we would call Dad, like before caller ID
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  Speaker 3: existed and cell phones and all the things, and be
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  Speaker 3: like which.
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  Speaker 2: Kid is this? We just go, hey, hey, Dad.
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  Speaker 3: Which kid is this?
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  Speaker 2: Which one? Which one is this? He had no idea,
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  Speaker 2: and we most most of the time wouldn't tell him,
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  Speaker 2: and then he immediately would start talking shit about whatever
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  Speaker 2: one he thought we weren't. Yeah, but most of the
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  Speaker 2: time he got well, let's start with don't tell your
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  Speaker 2: sister like it's a good thing. He doesn't know what
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  Speaker 2: daughter this is because we're about to get a lot
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  Speaker 2: of information, and that's his favorite thing to do is
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  Speaker 2: to call one of us at We should try to
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  Speaker 2: call him.
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  Speaker 3: Is he on the plane? Y, he's flying already. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: his last text went green, so I know he's a
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  Speaker 3: zero service.
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  Speaker 2: Well, if it was green for any other than being
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  Speaker 2: on a jet, it would really be disturbing, Like, green
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  Speaker 2: texts really upset me.
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  Speaker 3: Well, then I get all nervous that I'm like, what happened?
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  Speaker 3: What happened to the person? Why is it green?
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  Speaker 2: If it's because you don't have any friends that are green? No,
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  Speaker 2: I have no Android friends.
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  Speaker 3: Well only our brother spec.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I know that's upsetting too. Hud had it for
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  Speaker 2: a while. But then Hud is the one that taught
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  Speaker 2: me about the the privacy screen. Privacy screen. Hud got
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  Speaker 2: himself off fancy and got himself an iPhone in a
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  Speaker 2: privacy screen, and now he thinks he's big time and
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  Speaker 2: he was on a television show.
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  Speaker 3: I know. Well, Hud made fun of me because I
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  Speaker 3: also have a privacy screen. But then I text, I'd
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  Speaker 3: voice text and let my Siri type everything out, and
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  Speaker 3: he was like, you've got to be kidding me. You
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  Speaker 3: think you're private, but I can hear everything you just
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  Speaker 3: said on your text.
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  Speaker 2: No, this is my favorite thing about Justice. So recently
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  Speaker 2: it was really hard for me to see text messages.
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  Speaker 2: So I told anybody, anybody who wants to talk to me,
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  Speaker 2: voice note me. So the first voice note I get
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  Speaker 2: from Justice, I can already imagine her like this. She's like, Hi, Teddy, Comma,
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  Speaker 2: it's your sister Justice. Period just wanted to tell you
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  Speaker 2: I love you. Exclamation point. I'm like, are you.
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  Speaker 3: This isn't that's because I normally have Serie type stuff out.
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  Speaker 3: The auto notes were very new to me until this.
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  Speaker 2: But now that I've told everybody this, now no one
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  Speaker 2: can stop. Everybody wants to send audio notes so to
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  Speaker 2: the best, and if you don't do it, ruin your
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  Speaker 2: friend's lives by adding it, because you know what, nothing
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  Speaker 2: anybody wants to hear more than one minute and fifty
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  Speaker 2: five seconds of an auto No. It's for them to
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  Speaker 2: have to take no listen, especially if you work with them.
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  Speaker 3: It's not fun. Half the time, I just click it
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  Speaker 3: so I can just see it. Typed out.
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  Speaker 2: I don't even listen, but I have typos that way,
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  Speaker 2: it doesn't understand what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 3: That's okay, I can get it.
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  Speaker 2: No you can't. Sometimes I see it and it doesn't
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  Speaker 2: even know my name between and not even knowing my
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  Speaker 2: name and face app not even working anymore when I
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  Speaker 2: don't have a wig on and giving me the option
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  Speaker 2: of adding a beard or hood that you hud, what
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  Speaker 2: are you doing? So we use some listener questions. What
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  Speaker 2: were you like as kids growing up together?
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  Speaker 3: Well, I mean I was obsessed with you. I wanted
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  Speaker 3: to do everything with you, but you were way too
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  Speaker 3: cool to hang out. And yeah, I don't know. I think.
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  Speaker 2: Here's the thing. She likes to say that I was
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  Speaker 2: like maybe not the nicest to her, but she would
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  Speaker 2: do crazy ass shit like I would my room. I
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  Speaker 2: had a room that was looked like a horse stall.
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  Speaker 3: Do we have to tell this story?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, we do, because it's my favorite. This is like
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  Speaker 2: the this is the type of psychosis. So when she
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  Speaker 2: when she lives in her mind of I was always
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  Speaker 2: the bad.
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  Speaker 3: Way, can we preface it with that? You would have
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  Speaker 3: friends over and you'd be like, you can sit in
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  Speaker 3: my room, but you cannot talk and you have to
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  Speaker 3: sit in the floor over there, and I would do it.
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  Speaker 3: I was so desperate just to like be a part
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  Speaker 3: of whatever you were doing. I would do it.
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  Speaker 2: So that was well. Anyway, then I got overdoing that,
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  Speaker 2: so I just because then she started telling people what
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  Speaker 2: I was doing in this room. But anyways, my room
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  Speaker 2: was a stall door, so it was like had planks,
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  Speaker 2: and so I tell Justice, I'm like, bird, I think
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  Speaker 2: maybe I had my boyfriend over at the time. His
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  Speaker 2: name was Jamie, do you remember, yes, So I had
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  Speaker 2: Jamie over and so the rule was like I could
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  Speaker 2: keep the bottom thing locked, but I have to leave
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  Speaker 2: one of the parts undone. But I'm like, don't come
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  Speaker 2: in because you know he's here and we're probably gonna
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  Speaker 2: want to make out or whatever it may be. I
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  Speaker 2: give her enough warning, but what do I get. She
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  Speaker 2: starts banging on the door. She's this big, by the.
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  Speaker 3: Way, this I may be five years old by the
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  Speaker 3: way right now, or six, like she.
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  Speaker 2: Her feet aren't even touching the ground in the podcast
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  Speaker 2: room because she's she says she's five foot but she's
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  Speaker 2: one million percent four eleven? Am I lying?
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. We could get a tape. Measure out,
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  Speaker 3: figure it out when we're done.
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  Speaker 2: You could be the judge of this. When you see
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  Speaker 2: us stand next to each other. Cruise is as tall
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  Speaker 2: as a bird face right now. But anyways, I'm just
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  Speaker 2: trying to mind my own business, make out with Jamie,
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  Speaker 2: and I see these little beady eyes poking through and
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, Justice, no, And so then I locked the top.
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  Speaker 2: I locked the entire door, and I use this as
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  Speaker 2: my excuse on why everything could be locked. Justice gets
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  Speaker 2: my fault, totally my fault. Justice goes and gets a
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  Speaker 2: what is it called a crowbar? A crow bar and
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  Speaker 2: starts breaking it down my door like she thinks she's
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  Speaker 2: gonna be able.
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  Speaker 3: To Well, there was a lot leading into it. A
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  Speaker 3: lot of not nice words were being spoken through the
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  Speaker 3: cracks of the door from you to me. You like
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  Speaker 3: triggered me. I went nuts.
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  Speaker 2: She went nuts. So she broke through the door. Me
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  Speaker 2: and Jamie have yes, you do so then me and
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  Speaker 2: Jamie have to jump off my little falcony go running,
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  Speaker 2: and she keeps running after me.
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  Speaker 3: This is this is exaggerated.
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  Speaker 2: Never's not exaggerate. This is the fact.
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  Speaker 3: I never got through the door.
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  Speaker 2: You well, you got through figuring out a way. You
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  Speaker 2: crawled over the outside where the stairs were and got
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  Speaker 2: into the somehow she got to move on.
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  Speaker 3: Let's move on from the story. We don't need to
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  Speaker 3: go any further.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So what other things would you like to talk
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  Speaker 2: about us growing up? If you're going to talk about
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  Speaker 2: me leaving you as an unaccompanied minor.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, well I can do that. That's a good one.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: So when we'd have to travel every other weekend to Indiana,
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  Speaker 3: our parents got divorced when we were I was four.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know how old I was. I was eight,
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  Speaker 3: obviously four years older. So at some point they thought
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  Speaker 3: they'd trust us to fly with a flight attendant, get
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  Speaker 3: a greeter, I guess you'd call them, and because my
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  Speaker 3: mom would have to do the trip with us, and
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  Speaker 3: that got old for her. So finally we got to
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  Speaker 3: the age where they're like, you guys could just go
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  Speaker 3: on your own. It's fine, we'll get a.
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  Speaker 2: Great it seems right.
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  Speaker 3: No, I think we're a little older at this point,
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  Speaker 3: but it was every other weekend. We were so over it.
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  Speaker 2: We didn't want to go because at this point, I mean.
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  Speaker 3: Well, we didn't want to go because we like had
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  Speaker 3: friends and things going on on the weekends, and.
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  Speaker 2: Sometimes Dad would come to hilton Head so we'd get
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  Speaker 2: really excited so we could.
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  Speaker 3: Just hang at our own house. Well, we would always
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  Speaker 3: do hilton Head to Charlotte, Charlotte to Indianapolis, and Teddy
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  Speaker 3: would be less than nice on the travel days and
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  Speaker 3: I would have to just like hold it together, no
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  Speaker 3: crying in public, until the one time she left me
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  Speaker 3: in the bathroom at the Charlotte airport and walked to
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  Speaker 3: the gate, and the flight attendant who was like supposed
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  Speaker 3: to be greeting us, was talked out of greeting us
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  Speaker 3: because at this point, Teddy, you were probably like fourteen,
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  Speaker 3: like you were, well, like you were old enough to
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  Speaker 3: know better to do this to your ten year old sister.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I probably didn't, she'd probably piss me off.
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  Speaker 3: Well, luckily it was the same gate every single time,
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  Speaker 3: flying back and forth, so I knew exactly where to go.
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  Speaker 3: But after that, the flight attendants were back on full schedule.
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  Speaker 3: We had one every single weekend.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. I may have left her, But if you have
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  Speaker 2: a kid that's looking to play a fun game, this
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  Speaker 2: is our favorite game. Okay, put your handshair.
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  Speaker 3: Well we'd have to share the arm rest.
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  Speaker 2: We'd have to share the armrest, but it'd be We
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  Speaker 2: played a game and it's called Don't Touch Me.
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  Speaker 3: Well, Teddy played the game. I just was living my life.
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  Speaker 2: So what you do is you share an arm rest
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  Speaker 2: and that if one person touches you, then you get
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  Speaker 2: to punch them. So she would never touch her, but
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  Speaker 2: I would get dangerously close and then touch her and
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  Speaker 2: then and then she'd cry. So you know what this is.
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  Speaker 2: This is a tip to most. If you live in
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  Speaker 2: a different state than your significant other, your spouse, you
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  Speaker 2: may want to think about living in the same state
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  Speaker 2: because traveling.
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  Speaker 3: Together, or just make sure you always have a greeter,
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  Speaker 3: don't don't send your k A lot have already been there.
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  Speaker 2: We were in our Oh that's true. We're in our
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  Speaker 2: own seats now playing Don't Touch Me.
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  Speaker 3: We weren't playing, you were playing. It's all just because
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  Speaker 3: I wanted to be your best friend.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, you're my best friend now and we're about
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  Speaker 2: to get so we'll get back into the questions that
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  Speaker 2: you guys asked. But since we were younger, we always
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  Speaker 2: wanted this little knife tattoo and justice. How mad were
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  Speaker 2: you when I went and got it by myself.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I mean that was kind of messed up. We've
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  Speaker 3: been talking about it for three years, or you've been
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  Speaker 3: talking about it for three years?
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  Speaker 2: Can you sing the song as I've pad it? So?
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  Speaker 3: No, I want you to sing it. It makes more sense.
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  Speaker 3: But for like three or four family get togethers, Teddy
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  Speaker 3: has tried desperately to get a tattoo artist to come,
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  Speaker 3: and no one will come to the house. Like these
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  Speaker 3: people are like, no, you're insane, Like we're.
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  Speaker 2: Because also, you guys said it had to be.
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  Speaker 3: A thin Oh I wanted a single needle tattoo, correct,
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  Speaker 3: but yeah, we haven't been successful. And then what is
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  Speaker 3: what does she do? She goes and gets it just by.
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  Speaker 2: Her and so it's I think, I like this little knife,
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  Speaker 2: and it's really so like I've already done it to
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  Speaker 2: Justice and she hasn't even realized it. But like it's
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  Speaker 2: when somebody's pissing me off, I just tap it, tap it,
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  Speaker 2: like this is your little before we play don't touch
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  Speaker 2: me cut off. But we're gonna go get one after
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  Speaker 2: this pod today. But Justice says she doesn't want to
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  Speaker 2: get it in that spot. Where else are you going
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  Speaker 2: to be able to tap it that people are going
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  Speaker 2: to see if you try to get this on your
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  Speaker 2: leg or something, you're gonna not like that.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I was kind of just thinking, like here
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  Speaker 3: this little knife right here.
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  Speaker 2: Just a little knife. How would you describe your relationship
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  Speaker 2: back then compared to now?
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  Speaker 3: Well, I mean, obviously, now we're adults, we have so
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  Speaker 3: much more in common. I mean, the four year age
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  Speaker 3: difference when you're a child is huge, right, Like you
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  Speaker 3: were able to drive and do all these things, and
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  Speaker 3: you know, I was like still playing with barbies. So
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  Speaker 3: I feel like now we you know, we're both moms,
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  Speaker 3: we're both working. We have a lot more in common
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  Speaker 3: and a lot more that we can talk about as
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  Speaker 3: far as like getting advice from each other. Right Like
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  Speaker 3: when we were kids, that wasn't really.
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  Speaker 2: And I mean we can say this as much as
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  Speaker 2: we weren't close, Like I still slept Injustice's room every night, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I mean, and like we had this one rule.
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  Speaker 3: She faked not to like me.
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  Speaker 2: I just didn't like her in front of other people.
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  Speaker 2: But we had this one rule. We were allowed to
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  Speaker 2: watch TV going to bed, which guys, don't judge. This
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  Speaker 2: was the eighties.
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  Speaker 3: Well it was the nineties.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, remember old school TVs where you'd see the
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  Speaker 2: little things line up. Yeah, it would go to like
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  Speaker 2: the end of the volume.
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  Speaker 3: The word volume was on the screen and then there
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  Speaker 3: was little dashes underneath, like how loud it can be.
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  Speaker 2: So our rule was at night time it could not
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  Speaker 2: be above the e. And we lived downstairs and my
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  Speaker 2: mom lived upstairs, and so I would go and stay
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  Speaker 2: in Jay's room. She had two beds, you know, I
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  Speaker 2: had a horse room. She had a room that had
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  Speaker 2: all of gymnastics equipment, so there was like a trail
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  Speaker 2: plane and what are those things you walked off balance,
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  Speaker 2: a balance beam. It was all these different colors. But
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  Speaker 2: either way, we'd like go to bed at whatever nine o'clock,
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  Speaker 2: and then we'd hear our mom go, it's above me.
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  Speaker 3: She always knew, like how she know? I have no
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  Speaker 3: idea because it was sometimes above the even sometimes it wasn't,
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  Speaker 3: and she'd still yell and we're like what in the world.
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  Speaker 2: But we watched this, and also our VHS machine was broken,
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  Speaker 2: so we watched the same movie for years.
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  Speaker 3: Well that was later when the TV when it got stuck. Yes,
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  Speaker 3: that we watched the same movie for probably three years
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  Speaker 3: in a row again, still sleeping in my bed. Well
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  Speaker 3: that was when we were teenagers. Yeah, You've Got Mail. Actually,
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  Speaker 3: I mean, but we typically would watch it through the
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  Speaker 3: credits in the first scene and then both be sound asleep.
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  Speaker 3: But we knew every word.
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  Speaker 2: But we'd also have to wait until it got to
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  Speaker 2: the very end so it would rewind itself, so we
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  Speaker 2: could watch it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, if you woke up in the middle of the
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  Speaker 3: night and turn the TV off, you were screwed.
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  Speaker 2: You could watch it, and then you were just stuck
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  Speaker 2: because then you just had to live on repeat. You've
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  Speaker 2: Got Mail still to this day. If we don't watch
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  Speaker 2: it this afternoon, I'm going to be upset about it. Yeah, okay.
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  Speaker 2: Were we ever jealous of each other or our brothers?
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  Speaker 3: No, I don't think so. No, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: We like to all claim that we're the favorite, but
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  Speaker 2: I mean it's clear I am.
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  Speaker 3: Well now, I mean, you had to go and do
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  Speaker 3: all this crazy shit keep favorite. But it was me
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  Speaker 3: for a really long time.
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  Speaker 2: Well you know what, It's always been me. But we'll
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  Speaker 2: we'll let you have it. Sometimes we think it's one
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  Speaker 2: of our brothers and then we get all revved up.
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  Speaker 2: But if we say one thing about our brothers, we
• 16:07
  Speaker 2: get a lashing sea.
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: We're not allowed to talk about them, but we.
• 16:10
  Speaker 2: Are allowed to talk about each other, which may mean
• 16:12
  Speaker 2: we are not the favorites.
• 16:14
  Speaker 3: No, I mean we're clearly the favorites. Just you're in
• 16:17
  Speaker 3: the lead right now.
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: Okay, Well it's because I got some things going on.
• 16:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah, well just wait till you beat it.
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: How do you think we're different different as moms.
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: Well, I'll let you start because I would love to
• 16:31
  Speaker 3: hear your opinion on this.
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: Well, it's a little bit different because my I'm very
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: like type A and particular so's Jay. But she's one
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: of the worst kind where she pretends she's not but
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: she is. But like my kids are pretty like on it,
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: you know, where justice is more of like a free
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: loving like sure you want to do cookies, we'll do
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: it right here, last minute. And so she's like so
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: kind and so but like chaos could be accruing and
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: she doesn't even realize it. Like think about like Thanksgiving
• 17:06
  Speaker 2: dinner with Woods.
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: Listen, Woods, Woods is chaos. That's different. I think also
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: because I had trend when I was twenty, and I
• 17:17
  Speaker 3: think I just kind of let more things go. I
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: was so uptight. I'm trying to keep him this like
• 17:23
  Speaker 3: perfect child and reprimanding him for everything. Well, there's no
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: such thing as perfect, and every kid's different, and I
• 17:30
  Speaker 3: think with each kid you kind of have to parent differently.
• 17:34
  Speaker 3: And Woods is kind of a nightmare. He's the cutest
• 17:37
  Speaker 3: nightmare I've ever seen.
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: But yeah, mile's a ponytail guys, He's three man bun
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: man fun.
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: He calls everybody's hair a man bun. Two, why are
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: you wearing your men bun? I'm like, well, because I've
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: wanted it up today. Okay, he is. So he's the
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: cutest thing.
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: But he like, after three days of him, You're like,
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: you deserve a special metal.
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you've done definitely something.
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: But the next question is what's the best advice we've
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: given each other. I would say we're different in certain ways,
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: Like when I'm upset, I just shut down and kind
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: of disappear, And when Justice is upset, she wants to
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: do it the right way and like talk it through.
• 18:20
  Speaker 3: Well, I definitely don't let anything not get talked about.
• 18:23
  Speaker 3: Like if it's bothering me, I kind of just say
• 18:25
  Speaker 3: it and get it off my chest. And if it's,
• 18:28
  Speaker 3: you know, not the nicest thing. I try to word
• 18:31
  Speaker 3: it better, but I'm gonna go ahead and say it.
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: But what we have learned is if there's certain topics
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: that we know we don't agree on, we're like, we're
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: not going to talk about these things. Yeah, no, this
• 18:41
  Speaker 2: is not good for us. This doesn't you know it does.
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: We'd rather enjoy the fun that we do have, which
• 18:47
  Speaker 2: we laugh a lot, we can get emotional a lot,
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: but like, it's kind of better for us to know
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: our topics that we stay away from.
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: Well, I mean, the one time that I kind of like,
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: was I guess a little mean to you. I was
• 19:02
  Speaker 3: not feeling well. I had no idea you cried for
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: like a year. She secretly went off and forgot.
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: What was I mad at you about?
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: Well, it is so crazy, but made you told the
• 19:12
  Speaker 3: Crowbar story. I mean, so we were at Thanksgiving at
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: our grandfather's who at the time was like ninety two.
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: I'm so sick. It's like COVID already happened. You'd think
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: that they'd be like, no, justice, don't come, like you
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: need to stay home you're sick. Nope, Dad forced us
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: to go. I'm literally coughing on everybody.
• 19:31
  Speaker 2: There's so many two mellencamps there, there's definitely not enough
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: food for all of us to eat.
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I shouldn't have gone. I was really sick. Anyway,
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: we were there and Teddy could tell I wasn't feeling well,
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: and she's trying to be helpful. But Teddy also likes
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: to kind of, you know, take charge, even if you
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: don't ask her to, which is fine. Yeah, sometimes we
• 19:49
  Speaker 3: need it. But I am like sitting on the couch,
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: so ready to go, but I'm not going to ruin
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: anyone's good time. And she goes and tells one of
• 19:57
  Speaker 3: our brothers, like, let Justice take your car and try home. Well,
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: driving home was like an hour and a half. I
• 20:02
  Speaker 3: did not want to do that.
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: But she also has a husband there that could have
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: driven her. Yeah, but there was a good There was
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: a good rationale because the brothers were already saying, no,
• 20:10
  Speaker 2: we're gonna stay later and we're gonna do whatever. And
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: I said, well, then give one of the cars to
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: Justice so her and Michael and the kids can drive home.
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: She's clearly very ill.
• 20:18
  Speaker 3: So she's saying all this and I'm like, no, no,
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: Like the kids are having fun with their cousins they
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: never see, like, we'll stay and she's like, Justice, just
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: take the car and go, and I was like, can
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: you please stop bossing me around? And she clammed up,
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: and I thought, okay, well, conversation's over, and we all
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: stayed till the very end. And little did I know,
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: like two years later, she admits that she went off
• 20:41
  Speaker 3: to the bathroom and cried and I'm like, it was.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: So mean because I was trying to be helpful. I've
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: gotten it all organized in front of everyone. She's like,
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: could I try to control everything? And I was like,
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: but then, don't worry. I didn't speak for the rest
• 20:58
  Speaker 2: of Christmas. So I made a Christmas miracle was that
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: I was silent.
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: What was Thanksgiving? But I was so sick. I didn't
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: even notice you weren't speaking. And it took two years
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: for you to finally tell me.
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: And by the way, I didn't tell you. Dad told you.
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: No, you did because we were on the phone.
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: No, I told Dad, and Dad goes, you either tell her,
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell.
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: Her, well that I don't know about all that, but
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: you told me first, and then I told Dad and
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: he was like, what you made her cry. I'm like, yeah,
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: I didn't even know.
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: It was like, that's why I didn't stay up late
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: that last night we were there. I was pissed.
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: Well, you should have just said something like I do
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: when I'm pissed, and then you just get over it.
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: I was just going to hold a grudge until you
• 21:40
  Speaker 2: realized how you wronged me. Okay, this next one is
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: Teddy's diagnosis. Oh gosh, this should be good for us.
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: What went through your head when I mean, I don't
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: even know who told you? It says when Teddy told
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: you about her diagnosis, I was not in a position
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: to be telling anybody.
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: You didn't tell me so well, I mean obviously for
• 22:11
  Speaker 3: two years prior you had the surgeries and you're you know,
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: we're battling it for a while.
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: But this is when the melanoma was on my back.
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: Yeah, when it was just on your back, So I
• 22:23
  Speaker 3: mean that was obviously scary, and you know, we tried
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: our best to never think it would go to where
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: it did and kind of just pushed it to the back,
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: you know, like, just Okay, she's going every three months,
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: like she's taking care of herself. This is great. We
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: had a couple of trips in between that we had
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: so much fun together. You felt good. I was like, Okay,
• 22:44
  Speaker 3: she's beat this, this is done. But I mean when
• 22:49
  Speaker 3: I found out that it had metastasized, I was well
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: leaving Nightmare Babies swim lesson and he had finally turned
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: a corner and listened to his swim and instructors.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: I'm like, yes, this is why he.
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: Did well for a minute.
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: Yes, I knew you needed a little bit of happiness
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: well before.
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: Yeah. So we're walking out and Dad calls, and typically
• 23:10
  Speaker 3: if you don't answer Dad's call, he keeps calling.
• 23:12
  Speaker 2: And then he writes call me.
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: So that happened like three times because I'm trying to
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: get the kids in the car and the call me
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: right now. I called. I'm like Dad, I'm sorry, I'm
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: trying to like get the kids in the car. What's up?
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: And he's like drop everything, and I'm like, oh god,
• 23:25
  Speaker 3: he's so dramatic with everything. Well, he had a reason
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: this time, obviously, and he told me so. Of course,
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: what I normally do is try to do best case scenario.
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: I'm like, no, no, there's no way, like it's got
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: to be this. It's she you know, maybe she fell
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: and just maybe it's a concussion. She's had a lot
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: of concussions when she was writing when she was younger, like,
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: maybe this is what it is. And unfortunately it was
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: none of that. And yeah, I mean it was tough.
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: We all got on a plane the next day while
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: you were in surgery. Unfortunately my flight got canceled because
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: flying to Hilton Head is always questionable. So I came
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: a day after that and just kind of came to
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: be by your side. You know.
• 24:08
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they were all there. Unfortunately I don't remember any
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: of them being there. I'm glad you don't. But I
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: can say this is going to sound so morbid, but
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: like some of the most fun and hilarious conversations we've
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: all been, including my friends, my family, everybody that we've
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: been able to have post this diagnosis and my surgeries,
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: has been some of the behavior in the ospital.
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: Teddy was just being her true authentic self that she
• 24:42
  Speaker 3: doesn't let anyone normally see because there's just all out there.
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, what medication was it that made me
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: stay well?
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: You were on steroids, well.
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: Steroids, but there was another one that they give you
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: that's a pain killer. There's zero memory.
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: Well, thank god it nice little.
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: Things that would happen, would be when Justice told me
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: she was leaving.
• 25:05
  Speaker 3: Well, no, no, I so right after your surgery, you
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: know you were sleeping when when we were in the
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: rich in.
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: My mind, I didn't sleep any of the sixteen days
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: I was up twenty four.
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: Oh you were sleeping, which you know, you were so peaceful.
• 25:18
  Speaker 3: And we were talking about how beautiful you looked, and
• 25:21
  Speaker 3: she did, I mean you did. You looked beautiful. I
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: mean your skin color was perfect, everything, And I'm like,
• 25:26
  Speaker 3: how does she look this great? After brain surgery, shaved head,
• 25:30
  Speaker 3: Like I look like literally been dragged through the mud.
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: They're traveling nineteen hours to get here with all my
• 25:36
  Speaker 3: delays and canceled flights. But anyway, I'm like, she looks amazing,
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: and so I'm talking about her. Whoever else was in
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: the room, it's.
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: Kyle Tamra, Jen Jen Marcella, like all my best friends
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: out here.
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: So we're all raving about how great she looks, and
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: she like opens her eyes and I'm like, hi, Hi,
• 25:55
  Speaker 3: Like it's the first time she's seen me. I'm like,
• 25:57
  Speaker 3: how are you? I love you so much? Can you
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: see me? And she goes unfortunately, and I'm like, well,
• 26:03
  Speaker 3: there she is, and like you could tell everybody in
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: the room was like, yeah, there she is.
• 26:08
  Speaker 2: Pretty much went downhill from there.
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know. It added some comic relief in
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: a really really shitty situation.
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I as much as things are really hard,
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: like seeing my family come to that hell every day
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: really meant a lot to me. Yeah, but it's we
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: had some highs and lows, Like there's definite moments that
• 26:31
  Speaker 2: I'm so grateful that, like some of my friends caught
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: on video and we get to watch like we still
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: talk about it. The next question is did it make
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: you feel differently about your own health hearing about the
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: stuff with me? Well, for sure.
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: I mean everyone just kind of goes through life living
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: and doing their own thing, and you end up putting
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: a lot on the back burner, your health being one
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: of them. But certainly after your diagnosis with the melanoma
• 26:57
  Speaker 3: on your back, I started going every year for my
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: checks and have had two biopsies. Thank god they've been clear.
• 27:03
  Speaker 3: But I never in a million years would have thought
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: that was something I needed to start doing or even
• 27:08
  Speaker 3: think about. But I mean we were beach baby.
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: Cat scan, so I just put scan.
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah, well, you know, it just it brings a lot,
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: You've brought a lot awareness also, so many people, including
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: you know, my husband for instance, We were just talking
• 27:22
  Speaker 3: about it before I flew out here, like that melanoma
• 27:26
  Speaker 3: is not just skin cancer that it can spread. It
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: you need to be on top of on top of it.
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: It's very surprising to me that I never had gotten
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: a pet scan after having sixteen.
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: Well, yeah, it's insane.
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: It's insane, and I had a lot of anger towards that.
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: But how do you think that this has changed our relationship.
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: I think you have let yourself be a little more
• 27:50
  Speaker 3: like vulnerable about things, you know. You know, you've always
• 27:54
  Speaker 3: tried to be the strong sister who, like we said earlier,
• 27:57
  Speaker 3: like if I was mad, you knew I was mad,
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: you know. Like it's I think you have let yourself
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: kind of express a little bit more with me at least.
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: And I think it's you know, I'm not if you're
• 28:10
  Speaker 2: not in my face, then I'm not the world's best communicator.
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: Like I've really worked harder on it with like my
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: kids and my family, and like when I say family,
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: I mean the people that live in this home, but
• 28:24
  Speaker 2: the people that aren't as geographically close, Yeah, I keep
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: everybody at a little bit of a distance because I
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: don't want to trouble them.
• 28:32
  Speaker 3: Well, it's you're not troubling people.
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: I know, But now it's kind of I've realized, like
• 28:37
  Speaker 2: I don't care. I'm like, if I'm having a hard moment, yeah,
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna call my sister and cry to her, because
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: you know what, Like even yesterday I told her something
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: and I wasn't expecting like the sister reaction. I was
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: expecting like just like, oh, that's all right, and her
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: face she was like I'm gonna have that conversation with
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: this person, you know, like she was pissed, like.
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: To stick up for you. Yeah, I mean I've always
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: been that way, but you maybe not have shared your
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: feelings about something happening with me to the point where
• 29:08
  Speaker 3: I would be like, well let me try to handle
• 29:10
  Speaker 3: this situation.
• 29:11
  Speaker 2: Well, now we get to change this sad topic and
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: go to an even more depressing topic, which is Teddy
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: on Housewives. What did you honestly think when you found
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: out I was going to be.
• 29:25
  Speaker 3: Well, first you called and asked for everyone's advice. That
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: we knew you weren't going to listen to I mean
• 29:29
  Speaker 3: that was a dead giveaway, like she's calling for this
• 29:32
  Speaker 3: advice that she's already made up her mind. Well, I
• 29:35
  Speaker 3: have to say, I've watched Beverly Hills like forever. It
• 29:39
  Speaker 3: was kind of my mindless fun turn it on. I
• 29:41
  Speaker 3: don't know these women like this is something I can
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: watch and it's entertaining and I like it. And then
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: you went on it and I was like, that girl's
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: a bitch. I hate her, Like I was fully investing.
• 29:53
  Speaker 2: You thought I was a bitch from the beginning.
• 29:54
  Speaker 3: Not you. I'm talking about when someone would be mean
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: to you like these women as no, Nope, not gonna
• 30:03
  Speaker 3: do that. But like watching the show prior to you
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: being on it, I didn't care if they were mean
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: to each other. That's what made the show. And then
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: you go on it and ruin it because now I'm
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: like fully invested.
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: Well, I have a question. Yesterday you met both Tamra
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: and Erica. Yes, did you feel like they were different
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: than when you saw them on the show.
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: Well, I think I met Tamara in the hospital. I
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: think Tamra's very well, no, I don't know. I think
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: they're both very nice. I thought that. I, well, let's
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: be honest, you and Erica did not get along your
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: first season, right, and I kind of disliked y'all's relationship then,
• 30:47
  Speaker 3: But she was so lovely yesterday, so nice. You guys
• 30:50
  Speaker 3: have such a great relationship now. But also like, because
• 30:54
  Speaker 3: of you being on the show, I learned it is
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: a show no one wants to see. You guys all
• 30:58
  Speaker 3: like getting along and like having tea together, Like I
• 31:00
  Speaker 3: get it.
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: I hated having to. I hated it, But yeah, I
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: mean and Tam was pretty effortless, like she doesn't care.
• 31:10
  Speaker 2: Like we all sat on the floor of this carpet
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: eating pizza, eating pizzas. I can still see the two
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: grease stains, which I'm trying to get over.
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: But you did drop a little bit of your pizza.
• 31:20
  Speaker 3: That was you too.
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: I know it dripped because I squeezed it in half.
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: That pizza was huge, it was delicious, It was good.
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: What was your favorite part of me being.
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: Well, obviously in Provence when you were like, just I'm sorry,
• 31:37
  Speaker 3: very very overserved at the winery and it was hilarious.
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: When Kyle's not letting me eat your chips, eat my chip, and.
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: Then you wouldn't go to bed. You would not go
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: to bed. I mean I was like howling, dying, laughing,
• 31:50
  Speaker 3: and I kind of knew it was coming because I
• 31:52
  Speaker 3: don't know if you remember you called me that morning.
• 31:54
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I called everyone because I was like so anxious.
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: I may have ruined our lives. I don't know what
• 31:59
  Speaker 3: I said you. I was driving to work because of
• 32:02
  Speaker 3: the time difference. I was like, you know, starting my day,
• 32:05
  Speaker 3: and maybe it wasn't morning for you, maybe it was night.
• 32:08
  Speaker 3: I don't even know, but you were panicked. You're like,
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: I really hope I didn't do anything to embarrass the family.
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: I'm like, well, I hope you did, because I've been
• 32:15
  Speaker 3: waiting for this since you started the show, and but no,
• 32:20
  Speaker 3: I think I really loved like seeing the family on
• 32:22
  Speaker 3: there and your kids, and you know, I I think
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: it was good that you obviously went on this show.
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: But by the time you were, you were leaving. I
• 32:34
  Speaker 3: think all leaving, you're exiting whatever you want to call
• 32:38
  Speaker 3: them of your exit, that you were invited to exit
• 32:41
  Speaker 3: when you weren't invited back. I think we all as
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: a family knew it was time we had seen you
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: go through some tough stuff. You know personally that wasn't
• 32:52
  Speaker 3: actually being shown and and I just thought it was
• 32:54
  Speaker 3: it was good like you you were on the show.
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: You you did your your best when you pregnant, which
• 33:00
  Speaker 3: was I know, not fun.
• 33:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and yeah, now they want to know about your
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: private life, my private life. I love that she checks
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: the notes to see if I'm making it up for
• 33:13
  Speaker 2: people who don't know. Why did you choose not to
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: be in the public eye like me and Hudson?
• 33:21
  Speaker 3: Because I'm very private in a sense where like I'll
• 33:24
  Speaker 3: be open and share my opinion and if you know,
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: you get to know me, you know all about me.
• 33:30
  Speaker 3: But I have had the same group of girlfriends literally
• 33:33
  Speaker 3: since I was a child. I married a guy that
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: I've known since I was four.
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: I've been boyfriend girlfriend since kindergarten.
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: Yeah, so I just I keep my circle very tight
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: and very close. Like any big group situations, I'm like, nah,
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: I'm good. I think I'm going to pass on that.
• 33:51
  Speaker 3: It's just I when you wanted me to do that
• 33:54
  Speaker 3: one interview, zoom interview and then I bailed last minute.
• 33:58
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, there was a show that they wanted the
• 34:01
  Speaker 3: sisters or something. Yeah, there was like a sister show
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: they wanted us to do, and I really wanted I
• 34:06
  Speaker 3: always call her Slight by the way, so if you
• 34:08
  Speaker 3: see me pausing, and because I don't know why, they
• 34:11
  Speaker 3: remind me of each other. But I called Burn and
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: I'm like, would you want to do it? And she's like, yep, sure, yeah,
• 34:17
  Speaker 3: I'll do it. And then well no, I said no,
• 34:20
  Speaker 3: I don't want to be on the show, but I
• 34:21
  Speaker 3: will do this for you.
• 34:23
  Speaker 2: And then the day of she's like, I'm canceling and I'm.
• 34:26
  Speaker 3: Like, bitch, yeah, well, I mean I had some stuff
• 34:29
  Speaker 3: going at home, but I felt like I was gonna
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: throw up the whole day. I was like, there is
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: no way.
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: Did you feel like you were going to throw up
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: before doing this pod? Or you knew I'm just such
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: an effortlessener.
• 34:38
  Speaker 3: Well it helped.
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: Watch.
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: It helps watching and you guys do it yesterday and
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: seeing kind of like how it would go down. But
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: when you initially asked me, Michael could see my face
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: when you asked, and he's like what, and she was like,
• 34:50
  Speaker 3: she wants me to do the pod. He's like, well,
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: did you say no? And I was like, I can't
• 34:54
  Speaker 3: say no. I'm gonna do it.
• 34:56
  Speaker 2: I see you give Michael a little shout out my husband. Yeah, yeah,
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: But also, can we talk about what the things are
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: that Michael's obsessed with really quick, just so they can
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: get a shout out?
• 35:05
  Speaker 3: No, we cannot.
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: Hold on? What are they called? Please tell me what cryptocur? Crypto?
• 35:09
  Speaker 3: We can't because it's actually not allowed to be spoken
• 35:12
  Speaker 3: in my house. Like I'm like, we are not talking
• 35:14
  Speaker 3: about hold on, but what is.
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: The little thing? What? He has his own name?
• 35:18
  Speaker 3: Oh no, he got rid of it. Oh no, don't
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: even he.
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: Had his own Instagram, guys, So if you're into cryptocurrencies,
• 35:25
  Speaker 2: he got.
• 35:25
  Speaker 3: Rid of it.
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: Hold on, but what was the name?
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: I don't even know. I never thought. I don't know.
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: I never followed it.
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: I cannot, guys, find Michael Moore. Oh no, he can't
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: find cryptocurrency.
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: Guys, it's gone. Don't even waste your time. Even if
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: you were like entertaining the idea of trying to find it,
• 35:40
  Speaker 3: you will.
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: I don't even know what it is. But some days
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: we would sit there and I'd be like an hour
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: and a half in and finally I was like, I
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: got to give up on this, buddy.
• 35:48
  Speaker 3: No, I I gave up on it pretty early. But yeah,
• 35:51
  Speaker 3: so he knew by my face that I was like,
• 35:55
  Speaker 3: oh God, like, okay, go talk about myself.
• 35:58
  Speaker 2: Well do you feel so a lot of people and
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: Erica even said something yesterday about how we had a
• 36:03
  Speaker 2: different life growing up because of our dad, and nobody
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: ever believed me when I'm like, we really realize it.
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: We really didn't. Really, I didn't realize it until I
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: moved to La. Well.
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: I mean it's not that we didn't realize it. I
• 36:14
  Speaker 3: think our mom did a really good job on just
• 36:17
  Speaker 3: making sure we had the upbringing we would have if
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: we didn't have a famous dad, you know, like she
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: gave us a great you know life at the beach
• 36:26
  Speaker 3: and did all the things that she could do as
• 36:28
  Speaker 3: a single mom. And I mean we definitely had some
• 36:32
  Speaker 3: really cool experiences, me more than you. I feel like,
• 36:34
  Speaker 3: because you were riding all the time. I didn't have
• 36:37
  Speaker 3: a sport that I was like, so listen, I just
• 36:40
  Speaker 3: got beaten horse with Cruise yesterday. I am not an athlete,
• 36:44
  Speaker 3: but when she's talking about horse the basketball, yeah, I
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: mean I was. I was done for like it was awful,
• 36:51
  Speaker 3: but you were gone a lot where I was kind
• 36:54
  Speaker 3: of like you're you're with dad this week, You're going
• 36:56
  Speaker 3: to go ahead and travel with him. So, I mean
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: we definitely got some really cool experiences. Yeah, I went
• 37:04
  Speaker 3: on tour with Dad for a whole summer. Like there
• 37:06
  Speaker 3: was things that were very different than your quote traditional upbringing.
• 37:11
  Speaker 3: But I think mom for the most part, because we
• 37:14
  Speaker 3: were in hilton Head and Dad lived in Indiana, Like
• 37:16
  Speaker 3: there was no like glamorous stuff like people would assume.
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: I would say the most truly is like when somebody's
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: grandparents would come to one of our like games or something,
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: and they'd be like, oh, is that Johnny Couger.
• 37:31
  Speaker 3: No, I mean yeah, I mean there was just hilton
• 37:35
  Speaker 3: Head was like a very.
• 37:36
  Speaker 2: Very girls girls were into the old the older girls
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: were into Dad.
• 37:41
  Speaker 3: Well yeah, but I think people like respected the privacy
• 37:45
  Speaker 3: of it all too, Like they weren't going to.
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: People because like we graduated from a class of how many.
• 37:53
  Speaker 3: Well I had thirty two in my class. In years
• 37:55
  Speaker 3: it is probably even smaller.
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so like there we weren't filled around tons of
• 37:59
  Speaker 2: new people, like it was always the same.
• 38:02
  Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, and also there was no social media. There
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: was no you know, in my Dad's so private that
• 38:07
  Speaker 3: it wasn't like he was like broadcasting that we were
• 38:10
  Speaker 3: his kids anywhere. You know.
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah, No, it's not like now where everything's in the press.
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: I mean, sorry, dad, Oh, do you feel like you
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: have ownership over your dad's song Justice and Independence?
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: I mean I should, but no I don't. But I
• 38:29
  Speaker 3: the story behind that is the whole time they thought
• 38:31
  Speaker 3: I was a boy and they had a name which
• 38:34
  Speaker 3: was Hud, which is our brother. But they had no
• 38:37
  Speaker 3: idea that I was a girl until I was born,
• 38:39
  Speaker 3: and so no girl name. And I guess they're sitting
• 38:43
  Speaker 3: in the hospital and they were getting ready to go home,
• 38:44
  Speaker 3: and they're like, you gotta name this kid, Like you
• 38:47
  Speaker 3: can't just take it home. You have to name your child.
• 38:49
  Speaker 3: And so dad and mom decided because he had written
• 38:53
  Speaker 3: that song that year, which is an awful song.
• 38:55
  Speaker 2: Guys like it is, no, that's gonna be everywhere now
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: it is not. Okay, So you just screwed yourself. Thank
• 39:03
  Speaker 2: you so much for stepping into my world. And People
• 39:07
  Speaker 2: magazine you better be clocking that one as well, right
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: next to my Mazu league.
• 39:10
  Speaker 3: He would admit the best thing that came out of
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: that song was my name. Let's say that.
• 39:15
  Speaker 2: Well, also showing more that Justice is the favorite. The
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: Big Daddy cover was supposed to be Justice, but she
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: was throwing such a major fit that that's why I
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: am on the cover holding my dad in like a
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: dirty white T shirt.
• 39:32
  Speaker 3: You were not Pictureretti. I, on the other hand, was
• 39:36
  Speaker 3: not having it that day.
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: Ummmm, Okay, if there's one thing you and Teddy could
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: do together, sort of like a bucket list, what is it? Oh?
• 39:47
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 39:48
  Speaker 2: I would say, we've never this is the first time
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: since we've had kids where we've had any kind of
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: like alone time. I'd love to go on a trip
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: with Justice. Yeah, without our seven thousand kids and husbands,
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: and yeah, that would be fun brothers and dad. And
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: because we're always having to take care of everybody, Well.
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it would be fun to take a
• 40:09
  Speaker 3: trip just you and I somewhere.
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: Oh, what's it like having to live in Teddy's shadow? Oh?
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: Well, I didn't know I was in your shadow, but.
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: Well I'm in dad's. Well you're smaller.
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: Well, I'm in everyone's shadow. When you're five feet you're
• 40:25
  Speaker 3: four eleven, whatever, I'm always in the shadow. I didn't
• 40:29
  Speaker 3: know I was, though.
• 40:29
  Speaker 2: But I didn't. I don't think so either, because we
• 40:33
  Speaker 2: watched You've Got Mails so much. How did we feel
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: when Dad started dating may Ryan? I mean obviously we
• 40:42
  Speaker 2: were at sick. We're like, what how we had never
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: been when I walked in.
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: Well, she was the nicest I mean right off the bat,
• 40:51
  Speaker 3: you know.
• 40:51
  Speaker 2: She not nicest. Ever, there's a new night, there's a
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: new nicy, so we don't want to share the old.
• 40:57
  Speaker 3: Well, I just meant compared to some other people Dad dated.
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: Yes, there was one that was.
• 41:04
  Speaker 3: Her pretty relieved that he you know, but I think
• 41:07
  Speaker 3: I told her right away. I was like, just so
• 41:09
  Speaker 3: you know Teddy and I know every line, so you've
• 41:12
  Speaker 3: got mail. And she was so embarrassed that I said that.
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: It's like I was like, no, play it cool, don't
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: be all uncool. And then I was like, we do
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: you want to see us.
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: The whole thing.
• 41:26
  Speaker 2: You've got Mayo?
• 41:28
  Speaker 3: I mean it was it was a great movie.
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: Let's just you know what sometimes what's the little shop
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: in the corner, shop around the corner shop, around the corner.
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: It was one of the greats. No, we love her,
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: and no they they you know, things happened, but things happened.
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: But We were ecstatic and we still are, like, she's
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: such a good person in all of our lives. So yeah,
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: we we appreciate Meg always, and yeah a lot. I
• 41:55
  Speaker 2: love that you had to call out the other chick.
• 41:57
  Speaker 2: Do you think people are going to figure out who
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: the other chick is?
• 42:00
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 42:00
  Speaker 2: She was a famous one and she licked it.
• 42:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that was tough.
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: That was tough.
• 42:07
  Speaker 3: When she showed me away to order room service once,
• 42:10
  Speaker 3: I was like, we are and I was pregnant, so
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: my hormones were not in a good stitch. I was like, yeah,
• 42:16
  Speaker 3: no more.
• 42:17
  Speaker 2: When she got her when we were at Craigs for
• 42:20
  Speaker 2: dinner and we were about to walk out and like
• 42:23
  Speaker 2: we were still going through the back, but she opened
• 42:25
  Speaker 2: up her those called cosmetic mirror, her cosmetic mirror to
• 42:29
  Speaker 2: touch up her lips. I was like, I am actually done.
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah it was a lot, but you know what, I
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: guess a lot of people do the touch ups. But
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: totally She's not Dad's type.
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: And we knew it.
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: We knew it. I was like, Dad is wearing overalls.
• 42:44
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and we're name ones from yesterday.
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: But thank you guys for tuning in to another episode
• 42:52
  Speaker 2: of too cheese and a pod. She is private, so
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: it's gonna be hard to find much on Justice, but
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: you could follow her at Justice Smelling and if she
• 43:01
  Speaker 2: likes your jewelry or whatever it is that you're slanging,
• 43:04
  Speaker 2: she may follow you back. If not, we'll let you
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: know in a couple of years when she comes back
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: on the pod, or I'll just video the crap out
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: of her at Christmas or whatever holiday. She's already trying
• 43:16
  Speaker 2: to plan out Fourth of July. I'm like, Jay, I'm
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: trying to get through this week. Calm your tits. But anyways,
• 43:23
  Speaker 2: thanks for tuning in. Thank you. Her Instagram name is
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: Justice Smellingcamp. She left the bird out, which I thought
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: was rude. Love you, Love you,