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EP 25 - SHOULD HE GO ON A BOYS TRIP? · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming upon relatables.
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  Speaker 2: Men that go on boys trips and they go to
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  Speaker 2: like a fucking city and go night clubbing, and they
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  Speaker 2: all have like girlfriends and wives at home, Like you're.
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  Speaker 1: All fucking trash, Like what the fuck?
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  Speaker 2: Go on a boys trip and hang out with your
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  Speaker 2: mates because you want to go hang out with your mates,
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  Speaker 2: not because you want to go get nagget and be
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  Speaker 2: surrounded by other women.
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  Speaker 1: Like, I just wanted to give everyone.
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  Speaker 3: A daily reminder, Daily reminder, just start the episode, not
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  Speaker 3: a riddle, Nah, I should start with riddles that ideaa
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  Speaker 3: thank you for that.
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  Speaker 1: I shouldn't have said anything.
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  Speaker 2: Daily reminder that no one leaves owning slash running a
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  Speaker 2: successful business to sell online courses teaching someone how to.
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  Speaker 3: Run a successful business. I saw it as a post
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  Speaker 3: the other day, and I thought, that's a valid thing.
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  Speaker 3: The world of online courses. I think I always think
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  Speaker 3: who's buying that shit?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know if it's me being too proud and
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  Speaker 2: maybe egotistical, but like, you wouldn't catch me buying a
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  Speaker 2: course from some random Instagram account on how to run
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  Speaker 2: a business. Like I don't know if that's naive, but
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  Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure it's not naive, like.
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  Speaker 1: You wouldn't catch me doing that.
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  Speaker 3: No, no, no, I just like the whole ecosystem of
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  Speaker 3: online money is crazy to me, and like men especially
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  Speaker 3: have exploited that because Instagram has become a business. Now
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  Speaker 3: we use it in a sense of social media platforms
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  Speaker 3: our podcast.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but like pieces me off, people aren't walking away
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  Speaker 1: from those courses. Think fuck, that was a good thousand dollars.
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  Speaker 2: The thing that I do struggle to comprehend is like
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  Speaker 2: the fact that someone who's like I used to do
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  Speaker 2: what you do, and I did it so well that
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  Speaker 2: I want to teach you how to do it for money,
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  Speaker 2: Like how well was your thing going?
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  Speaker 3: And thinking if I made it and I'm really really
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  Speaker 3: rich at my trade, say it's podcasting and I'm fifty,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm like, I'm fucking done, i would sell it
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  Speaker 3: for free.
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  Speaker 2: I was gonna say, yeah, I would do what bloody
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  Speaker 2: old mate Hormosy does and just make videos for free.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, I.
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  Speaker 3: Would do it for free one hundred percent, because I'm like, well,
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  Speaker 3: I've done my part and I've made millions of dollars.
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  Speaker 3: I'm happy and like I'm passionate about this. And that's
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  Speaker 3: when you know it's coming from the right place, I guess,
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  Speaker 3: but twenty year old.
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  Speaker 1: Little men in their room just want to fucking go.
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  Speaker 1: I could teach you how to be onlin coach, because
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  Speaker 1: I've done it.
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  Speaker 2: I remember we had someone from around our area who
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  Speaker 2: was just like a carpenter, and he randomly started having
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  Speaker 2: these Instagram ads come up on everyone in his instagrams,
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  Speaker 2: and there were ads of like him kind of like
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  Speaker 2: surfing at midday and the ad was like, I want
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  Speaker 2: to teach you how to make money from your phone.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah I hate that, but like that one line, I
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  Speaker 2: think the thing that wigged everyone out was like I
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  Speaker 2: remember thinking to myself, like, wait what, I'm pretty sure
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  Speaker 2: he's a carpenter, like on the tools, Like what's you
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  Speaker 2: doing making money from his phone?
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  Speaker 1: Like has he been doing something I don't know about
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  Speaker 1: or something like that? And I like know this guy.
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  Speaker 1: We all like know this guy.
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  Speaker 2: And it didn't last long. I'm pretty sure he just
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  Speaker 2: was like throwing himself in the deep end and like
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  Speaker 2: actually didn't know how to make money from his phone,
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  Speaker 2: but like his way of making money from his phone
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  Speaker 2: was by trying to teach someone, like by charging someone
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  Speaker 2: them to make money.
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  Speaker 1: From their phone when he didn't. Actually that was his
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  Speaker 1: way of making money from his phone. It's a It
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  Speaker 1: was the most insane thing. I remember it, and he
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  Speaker 1: doesn't do it anymore. If you could sell one thing online,
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  Speaker 1: where would it be? H feet picks the silliest question.
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  Speaker 1: What about courses?
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  Speaker 3: I mean, of course, if you had to teach one
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  Speaker 3: course top of your head, what would it be? Like
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  Speaker 3: I've lost you as a mate and you're like, I'm
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  Speaker 3: making money online, Ordy, I'm selling.
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  Speaker 1: Oh wait, it can't just be like about me. Yeah
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  Speaker 1: it can.
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  Speaker 3: Well if I don't think we would align if you
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  Speaker 3: start fucking selling like online courses for something.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, I would sell this is what I would sell. Hey, guys,
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  Speaker 2: are you stressed? Click the link in the bar and
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  Speaker 2: I'll teach you how to go with the floor.
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  Speaker 1: Oh that's what I would sell. And then and then
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  Speaker 1: i'd change people five grand and every video would be like,
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  Speaker 1: just let it happen, Just go with the flow. You
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  Speaker 1: don't worry about it. Ask me anything. I don't care.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gone with the floor right now, like just go
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  Speaker 1: with the fly. One saying.
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  Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure not to be back like Mel Robbins
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  Speaker 2: guru in the space, but pretty sure they let them.
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  Speaker 1: Theory is just another way of saying like go with
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  Speaker 1: the floor. Yeah, sorry, I love that.
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  Speaker 3: I wish I hope we get called gurus in the
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  Speaker 3: industry one day.
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  Speaker 1: Guru. Did you ever watch The Love Guru as a kid?
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  Speaker 1: Are you serious?
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  Speaker 3: We have to watch that a It's one of the
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  Speaker 3: best shows ever. It's like this crazy guy who like
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  Speaker 3: he kind of like sells How to Fall in Love
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  Speaker 3: kinder going off that.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, have you not watched it? It's the weirdest show ever.
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  Speaker 1: The Love the Related. This podcast is hosted by myself.
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  Speaker 1: What you want to mean Me? You want to mean me?
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  Speaker 1: I knew it. I knew all the intros. We've done
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  Speaker 1: this the first time either one of us has done that.
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  Speaker 1: I knew he idolized me. I'm his love. Sorry.
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  Speaker 4: The Related just by myself, Jake Craig Okay, Daddy.
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  Speaker 3: And my partner and Grime is Clark ak mummy, mummy
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  Speaker 3: and he is mummy because I don't know, selfish, self centered.
• 5:49
  Speaker 1: This is what he does and Jaked and then.
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  Speaker 4: He goes to because everything I've left after him, cops,
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  Speaker 4: shit all it's everyone. He's the dad La la la la.
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  Speaker 4: You guys are the baddies because you're bad as fuck.
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  Speaker 4: Oh that was a great way to start the episode. Honestly,
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  Speaker 4: I'm going to clip that and post it just like
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  Speaker 4: my own enjoyment.
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  Speaker 2: You know, what I want to see is the slow
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  Speaker 2: motion of me saying it and then going and looking
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  Speaker 2: at you, because I was like as soon as I said,
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  Speaker 2: I was like fuck, honestly, and that goes greatly into
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  Speaker 2: what we wanted to start the episode with.
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  Speaker 1: But for Jake, we've got to enter a room once again.
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  Speaker 1: We are now in the why am I like this? Room?
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  Speaker 3: Which is very very fitting with a couple of things
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  Speaker 3: going on in my life. It's a place, it's a
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  Speaker 3: safe place, a place of no judgment, no solutions.
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  Speaker 1: Yep.
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  Speaker 3: I think a lot of people could use a space
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  Speaker 3: like this, And I want to say comment below anything
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  Speaker 3: that you think, why am I like this?
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  Speaker 1: The things you do? Oh, we're all we're all Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: how could we get the baddies involved with Why am
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  Speaker 1: I like this?
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  Speaker 3: I was gonna say, we all have our own problems,
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  Speaker 3: or we all have our own what would you call them?
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  Speaker 1: We all hate ourselves in unique ways.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that let me kick things off all right, Jake,
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  Speaker 3: Why am I like this? Why can't I relax unless
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  Speaker 3: everything's done?
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  Speaker 1: Oh but I don't know. Everything can never be done.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, so you've never relaxed. I'm just out of
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  Speaker 1: your fucking Oh dang.
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  Speaker 2: In what like what amount of things would need to
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  Speaker 2: be done for you to be like, Okay, I can relax.
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  Speaker 3: It's weird though, because like I wish I had an
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  Speaker 3: answer as simple as that.
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  Speaker 1: It's not like that.
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  Speaker 3: It's kind of like my brain can't calm down because
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  Speaker 3: I always know there's one more thing.
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  Speaker 1: Oh classic? Is it kind of like a classic? You
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  Speaker 1: feel guilty for relaxing. I don't know if guilt's the
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  Speaker 1: right word. It's just like I can't physically do it.
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  Speaker 3: Interesting like, for example, Patreon, the episode was wigging out
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  Speaker 3: the other day. I could have just left and uploaded
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  Speaker 3: in the morning. For some reason, it just kept like
• 8:00
  Speaker 3: when I was up leading it, I just had to
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  Speaker 3: keep going back constantly to make sure it worked, even
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  Speaker 3: though like the easy solutions is to post it late
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  Speaker 3: the next day. Yeah, but like it wasn't finished. I
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  Speaker 3: was like I had to keep going back and trying
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  Speaker 3: to make it work.
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  Speaker 1: That's my personality. Yeah, yeah, we're different in that sense. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I know I would join your course if you started it.
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  Speaker 1: I could take you. I could take you through what
• 8:21
  Speaker 1: it's like to go with the float. I feel like
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  Speaker 1: I need a massage once a day. I feel like
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  Speaker 1: that that actually helps. Well, that's why I love BALI.
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  Speaker 1: I need to go get a massage. Yeah, but they're
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  Speaker 1: like a hundred bucks here. I don't know. Maybe I
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  Speaker 1: wonder if for like your wait, no solutions, Yeah, exactly,
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  Speaker 1: no solutions. Man. I felt good though, Yeah, I'm glad.
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  Speaker 1: I'm glad. Okay, Why am I like this.
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  Speaker 2: On a day where I have to be somewhere in
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  Speaker 2: the morning?
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  Speaker 1: Okay?
• 8:54
  Speaker 2: Why do I do the right thing and wake up
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  Speaker 2: like a good hour hour and a half before I
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  Speaker 2: need to leave? Because I like to poop before I leave,
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  Speaker 2: But for some reason, the minute I need to leave,
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  Speaker 2: I have to poop.
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  Speaker 3: Look, I think that's relatable for a lot of men.
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  Speaker 3: The twelve men listening are thinking, Ja Cob with you,
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  Speaker 3: Ja Cob with you too?
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  Speaker 1: Know what it is? Man? Do you actually like that?
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  Speaker 1: I thought you like that about yourself. I don't like it. No,
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  Speaker 1: it's annoying.
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  Speaker 2: Oh okay, I thought you enjoyed your time on that
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  Speaker 2: because like, here's my thing is, I'm convinced that if
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  Speaker 2: I need to pooh and I don't have a toilet near,
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  Speaker 2: like I can hold it for a little while. But
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  Speaker 2: like I'm not the type of person that is like, oh, look,
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  Speaker 2: I need to go so bad, but I'm not going
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  Speaker 2: to poop my pants. I'm the type of person person
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  Speaker 2: that's like, I need to go so bad and I
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  Speaker 2: could pooh my pants.
• 9:47
  Speaker 3: It's funny because it's always like the grass is greener
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  Speaker 3: because in a lot of ways I envy the way
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  Speaker 3: you are. Then I don't want the hat no likeever
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  Speaker 3: own issues.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, true, Like sometimes Beth does envy that I can
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  Speaker 2: that I do pooh so much, but then like sometimes
• 10:03
  Speaker 2: it happened to you, but not to not to throw
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  Speaker 2: shade at anyone or make an embarrassed But her best
• 10:08
  Speaker 2: friend Casey, whenever she comes to visit us, she'll be
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  Speaker 2: like two three days into the trip and she'll be like,
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  Speaker 2: just did my first poop.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm like, you mean, you don't put, you don't
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  Speaker 1: pull every day she's.
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  Speaker 2: Like a full day, I'm like twelve, I'm like this morning,
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  Speaker 2: I did three, Like I did three this morning, separate three,
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  Speaker 2: separate time sessions, Like I'm telling her, Look.
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  Speaker 1: That's just that's just an issue. Why are you getting
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  Speaker 1: more work done the ships you're doing. Oh, that's a
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  Speaker 1: good point.
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  Speaker 3: Exists, Instagram exists, YouTube exists.
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  Speaker 2: Probably A good reason as to why I can relax
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  Speaker 2: is because I relax on the toilet.
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  Speaker 1: All right. Why am I like this?
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  Speaker 3: I feel like this is a relatable one. Why do
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  Speaker 3: I feel the need to take someone back straight away?
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  Speaker 1: Oh? Really? Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: WHOA Why I was going to say, why am I
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  Speaker 2: like this? Why do I see a text message from
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  Speaker 2: someone and then think.
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  Speaker 1: I could leave it for two days? So even you
• 11:15
  Speaker 1: not applying someone annoys me. It's a thread left loose. Yeah,
• 11:22
  Speaker 1: it's a loose thread left. No I will, I'll leave
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  Speaker 1: a text message for days. I'm fine. The thing is
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  Speaker 1: I can do it with people don't care about.
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  Speaker 3: Like like a random yeah, like like say acquaintance.
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  Speaker 1: But like if it's there, it goes again. Guys, there
• 11:40
  Speaker 1: it goes again.
• 11:41
  Speaker 2: This this this studio has got it's got an attitude.
• 11:44
  Speaker 3: Today Samproof has has decided that it is not standing
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  Speaker 3: up this week.
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  Speaker 1: Doesn't that up any week? No?
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  Speaker 3: So like anyone out of my immediate circle or like
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  Speaker 3: to do with me, so business orientated, I have to
• 11:56
  Speaker 3: reply shad away you Cassie. People care about but then
• 12:00
  Speaker 3: like once removed, I can leave it and I forget
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  Speaker 3: about it.
• 12:02
  Speaker 1: Oh and I can be you. I could leave a
• 12:04
  Speaker 1: text from you from yeah, yeah, fucking dog, I know
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  Speaker 1: you can. We'll be like mid conversation and I'll be
• 12:10
  Speaker 1: like can you please, and then he's like yeah, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and then ask him to do something three hours later,
• 12:16
  Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, mate, times times over. I'm not
• 12:18
  Speaker 1: doing it anymore. I'm the classic.
• 12:22
  Speaker 2: I see memes of or videos of people being like
• 12:26
  Speaker 2: when you're getting like how it feels in that ten
• 12:30
  Speaker 2: minute window with the friend that replies for ten minutes
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  Speaker 2: and then goes like I A for two days and
• 12:35
  Speaker 2: it's like that song and it's like and.
• 12:37
  Speaker 1: O, babe, turn the lass and the guy dancing in
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  Speaker 1: the club or whatever.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, And I'm thinking I must be that friend with
• 12:43
  Speaker 3: some people, because sometimes I'll just be like voice message
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  Speaker 3: replies and then I put my phone down and I'm.
• 12:47
  Speaker 1: Like, that's terrifying to pick up.
• 12:50
  Speaker 3: Now You're gonna be the dad, just like your son
• 12:52
  Speaker 3: calls you and then he calls you back immediately and
• 12:54
  Speaker 3: you've strained your phone in the water.
• 12:55
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeahah, you're that guy. I'm literally gonna call I.
• 12:58
  Speaker 2: You know what I might start doing? Am I start
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  Speaker 2: calling my parents? And then when they.
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  Speaker 1: Came back, yes, not answer? Is that you? No? No, no,
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  Speaker 1: I got a couple more. Okay, why am I like this?
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  Speaker 1: This is? This is? This?
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  Speaker 2: One goes for the days where I don't have anything
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  Speaker 2: on in the morning. Okay, how come the night prior,
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  Speaker 2: I'll say to myself, I got nothing on in the morning,
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  Speaker 2: I'll seize the day.
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  Speaker 1: I'll wake up earlier, I'll go to the gym something
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  Speaker 1: like that, you know.
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  Speaker 2: Then my alarm goes off and all I do is
• 13:32
  Speaker 2: I go get Henry and Darcy from their creates, bring
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  Speaker 2: them to bed, and then just like watch YouTube for
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  Speaker 2: an hour.
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  Speaker 1: Really, see, I can't because let's say.
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  Speaker 2: So the night a night before, I'm not doing anything right,
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  Speaker 2: Like there's stuff to do, but like I can start
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  Speaker 2: it at ten or whatever. I'm like, I'm gonna seize
• 13:49
  Speaker 2: the morning. Go I'll go to the gym, I'll come
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  Speaker 2: back the dog's out. Then I'll go to the studio.
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  Speaker 2: You'd be fucked if.
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  Speaker 1: You had to do your nine to five again A completely.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'd be fucked because, like I'd have to
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  Speaker 2: shit before I leave anyway, I my alarm goes off,
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  Speaker 2: and then I think to myself, like, wow, what an.
• 14:08
  Speaker 1: Ambitious I'm surprised, he said in alarm. What an ambitious person?
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  Speaker 1: Do you just get out of your body clock if
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  Speaker 1: you've got nowhere to be well?
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  Speaker 2: Because I wanted to seize the day, and so then
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, no it, Wow.
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  Speaker 1: I thought I was going to do it. I was convinced.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm like, wow, what an ambitious guy? Like?
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  Speaker 2: I get up, I go let dogs out for a week,
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  Speaker 2: and then I just get back into bed.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm like, I didn't actually have to do that.
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  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't have to do it. I don't
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  Speaker 1: have to do anything. I literally don't have to do. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: No, I feel that though I do feel that I
• 14:37
  Speaker 3: missed being eighteen. I used to be able to like
• 14:40
  Speaker 3: wake up, watch one YouTube video on my bed, go upstairs,
• 14:44
  Speaker 3: have breakfast, watch another YouTube video, and then start my day.
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  Speaker 1: If I'm like, I'll have all like Saturdays and Sundays,
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  Speaker 1: I try not to work right, Yeah, and I could
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  Speaker 1: do that on a Saturday or a Sunday.
• 14:54
  Speaker 3: Now I'm lucky to get like fifteen minutes ourday, otherwise
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  Speaker 3: I feel guilty. Sunday I like that, like my reset
• 15:00
  Speaker 3: days for like life. I'll like clean my car, clean
• 15:04
  Speaker 3: the house. I cleaned the house, do all the stuff
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  Speaker 3: that I've been putting off during the week because I've
• 15:08
  Speaker 3: been doing stuff.
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: I read for an hour this morning. If it's because
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: you woke up like five o'clock but I didn't account, yeah, okay, fair, yeah, anyway,
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  Speaker 1: no solutions, all right, Jake, Why am I like this?
• 15:22
  Speaker 3: Tell myself, I'm going to save some money and I
• 15:25
  Speaker 3: buy it as soon as I get paid. Yeah, and
• 15:27
  Speaker 3: then I tell myself I'll start next week.
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  Speaker 2: I have been doing that for two months longer than that,
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: to be fair recycles, And actually that's wrong. I actually
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: have been saving money a little bit with my parents.
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: But then I paid for all my Canada accommodation the
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: other week, and then Audie said he wants to get motorbikes.
• 15:49
  Speaker 2: So I paid for my motorbike, course did some other things,
• 15:52
  Speaker 2: and then to pay for my motorbike around like pay
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: for But what I had to do was because I
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: had to switch over my regio and license to Queensland.
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: That costs a thousand bucks. Did it or just all
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: together like I did, get like new CTP and ship.
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: Did you only do all that because of the motorbike? Course? Yeah?
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: What else?
• 16:12
  Speaker 3: Did I do it?
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: Be living there now two and a half. You're supposed
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: to do it. You're a funny. You're supposed to do
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: your car REGI two weeks after moving, Like, how do
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: they please it? They can't know?
• 16:23
  Speaker 2: And then you go to play license, Yeah, place to
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: get customs. I got some relate on it or something.
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: Got some Queensland plates on the fucking visit guitar relate
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: on the business because I think you have to.
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: I could do it now. Yeah, but when I went
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: and did it, like literally, I drove there with my
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: new Southwest plates.
• 16:42
  Speaker 2: Should you have my fucking screwdriver and goes go get
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: your plates. You have to hand them in hand, recycle
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: them so they can reuse them to put all of
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: it on.
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: That's that's a great business idea. I want to have
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: relied on my bike. You can have you have you have,
• 17:00
  Speaker 3: you have relay and I have two bulls.
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: That's actually pretty cool. That's actually now what can we have? Ah,
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: you have relate? Yeah, I'll have baddies, but with like
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: a couple eights or something that's actually pretty cool bad, yeah, cool,
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: actually kind of baddies. Guys of your bike. No, UNB.
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: If you're on Patreon, you'll know. Patreon members are part
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: of the UNB. All right, And all I have to
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: say is how much is it?
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: Well?
• 17:24
  Speaker 3: And no, they commented what we should be where the
• 17:27
  Speaker 3: high lords of the UNB.
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: That's all you're getting. Yeah, I did see that, all right?
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: Why am I like this?
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: I start cleaning the kitchen, but before I finish, I
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: remember the clothes need to be folded. Then before I
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: finish that, I need to put a load of laundry on.
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: And then I see the shoes are disorganized. So I
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: fixed that. And then I go back and I see
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: I didn't finish the kitchen, so.
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: I go back to that.
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: I know we said no solutions, and nothing ever gets
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: done or it just takes longer.
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: I never I always do this, that's ADHD. It's it's
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: just fucking it happens all the time.
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: I do it too, But like I can, you don't
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: catch yourself out doing that I can, and then like
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: I'm aware that I'm doing it. I'm like, no, I'll
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: finish one thing before I move on. I can catch
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: myself doing it. Yeah, but then sometimes I don't, and
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: then I think, like, what have I been doing?
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah? I sometimes get that too, Hay. Sometimes I get
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: overwhelmed and I think I need a break you down.
• 18:22
  Speaker 3: I feel like this is like pointless sometimes after you've
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: done it, like you're doing one thing and then you
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: go to another thing.
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: This is pointless. Why am I doing it? When I
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: sit down? Why am I doing any of this? That's
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: why I like, I should just do something I enjoy.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: Let's watch let's watch something. Literally, I was like, I'm
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: really gonna read it. I'm gonna watch a show like,
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: clearly I deserve it. I'm too there's too much going
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: on up here. Clearly there's too much going on up
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: my last one.
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: I want to know in the comments if this is
• 18:43
  Speaker 3: relatable for any baddies out there? Why do I always
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: have to optimize my trips when I leave the house?
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: What do you mean? Like? For some reason, I don't
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: know why I do this. It really annoys me. I'm like,
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: if I'm going, if I need to go shopping. I've
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: said it before. I'll have to go a time with
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: my gym shop and then if I got to chemists,
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: I'll do it all on one trip. I'll never just
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: like purely ghost shopping. I'll do everything in one go.
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: Like on the weekend. It was very rare of me.
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: I went to go sit on some motorbikes. Guys. It's
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: pretty cool experience, and it was one of the one
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: times I've just gone purely just to do that. Yeah,
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: I like this, fucking I feel so free. You live
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: in a jail. You live. Your mind is a fucking
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: prison cell. It is. It is telling you. I mean
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: to optimize your trips, live your life. What do you mean?
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: Would we say at the start? No judgment?
• 19:34
  Speaker 5: I'm sorry, yeah did, I'll fucking go out there.
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: I'll go like I'll want to come home in between things.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: I reckon the perfect human actually would be you and
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: me combined.
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: My looks, your athleticism, for both of our illness, for
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: both of our faults.
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: I think we could make the perfect person. You know what,
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: my heart, Yeah, I'll give you that. Your calves, what else?
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: We both have good eyes.
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: You're a bit better blue, but yeah, I don't see
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: people commenting on your eyes out and I've got darker blue.
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: You got baby?
• 20:12
  Speaker 3: Fucking my I reckon what about my facial hair? I
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: don't reckon it be it's good. I feel like it's annoying,
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: Like it's.
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: Good to like have inconvenience. Why look like a man
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: than a baby?
• 20:21
  Speaker 3: If if I was to be living out here in
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: the world, mate, yeah, true, you know what I mean.
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, my hair, but your hairline. Your hairline is a
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: bit better, but my hair. Yeah, I'll give you that
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: because you want my hair. Yeah, you want to get
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: that little soft perm that you were talking about in
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: the vlog. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah whatever whatever. Alright,
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: let's leave, man. I actually feel way better. Hey, I
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: feel like I'm a new person for real. Yeah.
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like I can go, like I can
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: go to the shops. Wait, actually I need to go
• 20:53
  Speaker 3: to the chemist. So after this, you actually need those
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: the digestive pill Yeah, oh it is. Yeah, so I
• 21:05
  Speaker 3: know it so well, I need to go to the chemist.
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: I forgot to go yesterday when we went to Kol's. Yeah,
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: and so I was like, it is what it is,
• 21:13
  Speaker 3: I'll go tomorrow now.
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: I don't want to do that now. I don't want
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: to appearce.
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: What we could do is you could take me to
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: the chemist and then drop me back here and then
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: go to the gym, and then you've split up some
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: trips and you haven't. It hasn't been so like, you know, optimized.
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: How could you optimize? You have to go to the
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: post me to the chemra Why because this.
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: Guy's optimizing my trips, not your trips. I do need
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: to go to the post office. That's right, and I
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: forgot about it.
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you what. I tell you what we
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: can do to optimize that. You walk to Copa. There's
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: a chemist in a post office there. Walked to Coba
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: across the beach. Yeah, I live near a beach, guys,
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: And it's like it's like eight hundred meters.
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: How long would it take me to walk to Copa?
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: Not long. There's a really good bakery. I want you
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: to try some of the cupcakes they got there. Mom
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: does it sometimes and buys me some.
• 21:59
  Speaker 3: So you you walk over there, get some cupcakes for me,
• 22:03
  Speaker 3: go to the post office and the chemist.
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: Optimize. It will take you twenty minutes, max. You know what? Fine?
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: I will do it. I actually will go for a walk. Fine,
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: I'll fucking do it. I don't care. I'll optimize my
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: own trip on foot. No, but I feel bad because
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: I'm looking after you.
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: I don't want to send you on your.
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: I can actually drop you at the lake. That will
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: save you like a solid eight minutes. Oh you really?
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: How does your girlfriend live with you? A What does
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: she optimize trips too?
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: You're nah, nah, but she likes shopping in that like,
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: so like shopping to her is like a good activity,
• 22:41
  Speaker 3: whereas like shopping to me as a chore.
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fair, oddie. I have an announcement to make.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: What is it? I am officially pause for silence, dramatic effect.
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: A Marcher, Babe, Man, I am so glad you said that,
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: because I am too.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: I absolutely love Marcher. It's like a reward. Couldn't agree more,
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: my friend could not agree more. Throughout the day, I
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: do little tasks and I'm like, you know what, I
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: deserve A Marcher.
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: Same and my go to at the moment, Jake, are
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: these perfect head vanilla Marcher late cans?
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: Cans Not only.
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: Do they taste amazing, but it's also a different source
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: of caffeine to coffee.
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: Mate, that's true. And they're so handy, like it's just
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: a cafe quality marcher in a can in your hand. Mate.
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: I am obsessed, and I know the baddies listening. I're
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: gonna be looking for a sign to get a marcher today.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: Here it is so hey, you've heard it here.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: First, don't walk, but run to Cole's dilemmas.
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: Okay, wait to me, Oh, are you gonna say too?
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: What where could I submit a dilemma if mine hasn't
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: been read.
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: Yet on the main episode, Jake, either the link in
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: the bio of this episode or the Lincoln distry.
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: I keep doing that and people don't. Those two losers,
• 24:13
  Speaker 3: Jake and Oddy don't read them.
• 24:15
  Speaker 2: Ah, you mean, where can you get some exclusive dilemmas
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: where there's not that many?
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Patreon, Yeah, I hear. It's quite good over there. Well,
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: I mean it's only what is it's eight ninety nine
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: a month at the UNB. Yeah, it is eight month.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: So if you want to join the UNB for eight
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: ninety nine a month and get all the episodes add free,
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: plus an extra episode every Thursday, plus exclusive dilemmas, then
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: head over there. But if you want to not do that,
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: there is this dilemmas for the main episode. Yeah, and
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: there will be a link in the description for you too.
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: Would you try our best too?
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: One thing I want to say is I was reading
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: back a bit and like a good like six months ago,
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: someone left a dilemma and they said, this isn't a dilemma,
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: this is just like some I had to say. And
• 25:01
  Speaker 2: they said, I've been listening. I went back and listened
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: to the pod and she goes, this is before we
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: said this, by the way, So she goes, I went
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: back and listened, and you guys keep saying that you
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: don't want to tell people to break up with their
• 25:12
  Speaker 2: boyfriends because like they you can't make a decision for them.
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: She was like, you need to start telling.
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: The peo to break up with their boyfriends because of
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: like the route these relationships are going down. And I
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: was like, girl, I wanted to try and find out
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: getting condom with a girl.
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: Just wait till you catch up to we've been fucking
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: breaking up relationship we have? What's that? What was that
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: thing that went viral? Was like like that Sassy's thing?
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: What was that? Remember that?
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: What do you mean it was like a remember went
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: viral in like twenty twelve or something like sassy people
• 25:41
  Speaker 3: used to do it like I'm a boss us.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: Bitch, Now do you remember that? Look? I know that?
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: Like well, but I'm not doing it right, I know
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: what you mean. Well, there was like a thing.
• 25:51
  Speaker 5: Like like how they were kind of be like you
• 25:54
  Speaker 5: know girl word like yes, like that, or they would
• 25:58
  Speaker 5: just be like it would kind of be the worst
• 25:59
  Speaker 5: same way being like I don't know, like what do
• 26:01
  Speaker 5: we say now?
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: People will be like clock it.
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: Yeah that guy, Because what I'm thinking is like when
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: we say break up, be that.
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: That's a pretty cool way. I don't know, man, anyway.
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: The title of this one is is My Life a movie?
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: Hey boys? Mine's not new listener here.
• 26:20
  Speaker 2: And hashtag loving it. So I am twenty single and
• 26:24
  Speaker 2: working a full time job with a men's footy team.
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: I have been single for five months now and I'm
• 26:29
  Speaker 2: ready to start looking for a new man's This might
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: sound like a movie, but I promise it's not, and
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: it's not as fun as it sounds. At my job,
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: I have to work quite closely with the players and
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: have started getting closer to them in a friend way. However,
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: some are closer than others, and one is starting to
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: show interest, like in my stories, staying back late to
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: talk to me while I work, buying me coffee little things.
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: I have previously been told by my bosses that I
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: cannot have a relationship further than friends with the players,
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: as it could consequence in me losing my job. I
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: have always thought, quote, what if it was a secret
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: or what if we kept it a secret? But then
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: I run the risk of him saying it to another
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: player and it's circling around and getting back to my boss.
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: My dilemma is do I stay locked in on my
• 27:13
  Speaker 2: dream career or is this something that could take me places?
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: And sorry not that. Do I stay locked in my
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: dream career as this is something that could take me
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: places and make me super successful, or do I take
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: the risk and shoot my shot with him where he
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: could be my potential long term relationship. Would love to
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: get your thoughts on if he would go and chat
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: about me to the other players, or if you think
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: I should stick to my career stay bad.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: Okay, do you want me to tell you what you
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: want to hear?
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: For the right answer, I think what she wants to
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: hear is go live that movie?
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: Is there a butt coming? Yeah, it's a big butt.
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: But like bu T T But that's a stupid idea.
• 28:05
  Speaker 3: She's obviously a new baddie because you know, one of
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: my favorite sayings.
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: Is, girl, don't see where you eat? Like, could you
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: get a job at another club? Also, like, I don't know,
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: we've had this debate before. It's it's just like a
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: radius thing. They're not that good. It's because you see
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: him every day. Yeah, that's the thing. Though.
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: I still do think like, so you get to know
• 28:31
  Speaker 2: someone like you need to be around them.
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah I do. But like footy boys too.
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: Like like I no offense, surely they're fucking so I
• 28:39
  Speaker 2: think with the.
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: What's it called the stereotype of footy boys, I would say,
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: don't do it. Where is this an NRL AFL? I
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: don't know.
• 28:50
  Speaker 3: I feel like NRL's worse, but I think AFL just
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: like looks better on paper, but they're still both bad.
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: I don't know a thing about AFL. I feel like
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: they'd be just as bad. Yeah, those many steroids but
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: clearly not clearly not anywhaym. I I just think so
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: she's saying.
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: That if she if like, first of all, if you're
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: with someone, do you want to be able? Do you
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: want to have to keep it a secret?
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: No? No, but that's hot for how long? Two weeks? Yeah?
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: Like it's it's it's hot if you're not at all
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: romantically involved and you just sleep together every now and then,
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: like that's.
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: When it's hot. Yeah, but yes, you run the risk
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: of him telling the other guys. Could he lose his
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: job too? He wouldn't true, Nah, patriarchy world, especially that
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: industry is like hella lean towards men.
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: Like he wouldn't lose his job. She would definitely lose
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: her I'm pretty sure, like like maybe a misogynist. I
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: don't know. The job is Baddie has got is pretty
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: hard to get. I'm pretty sure, Like I wouldn't try it,
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: wouldn't I would have. She said it's she could be
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: really successful. Yah, I wouldn't throw that away to have
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: sex with some dumb footed boy. Exactly. It's not going
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: to be that good. Like, let's be real, sex might
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: be all right, but after it he would be like.
• 30:01
  Speaker 2: Like really like sex of a football player genuinely can't
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: be that good.
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: Maybe sween balls, but also.
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: Like I feel like the reason there's a stereotype right
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: with like athletes and then in Australia footy boys, football
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: players or whatever, like the reason there's a stereotype is
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: because so many of them are like fit the stereotype
• 30:25
  Speaker 2: and so like, in my opinion, like he's probably a
• 30:28
  Speaker 2: guy that's just been really good at his footy. His
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: whole life has just kind of like I don't know,
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: I had doors open for him, right, like very little adversity,
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: like not many no's, probably doesn't hear no very often,
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: and like if you have sex with him, like the
• 30:44
  Speaker 2: sex is probably gonna be shit, you know what I mean,
• 30:48
  Speaker 2: It's not gonna be like worth putting your career on
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: the line.
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, not at all.
• 30:51
  Speaker 3: I don't think any sex like realistically is worth putting
• 30:54
  Speaker 3: your career on the line.
• 30:55
  Speaker 2: Point if you love it too, like thirty seconds of
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: players now, yeah.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: I know.
• 30:59
  Speaker 3: And like if you break it down, I think, you know,
• 31:01
  Speaker 3: logically it's a dumb idea. Yeah, but you just need
• 31:03
  Speaker 3: someone else to tell you, I think, I think, But
• 31:06
  Speaker 3: what about another foot if you really want to go
• 31:08
  Speaker 3: down the avenue once, surely if you go to the
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: games fucking.
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: Sharks birth tigers. Your tigers be like over the sharks dudes,
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: and be like I'm sure you.
• 31:14
  Speaker 3: Can fuck one of them. Get you meet somewhere else.
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: Is that a good happnue? That's a great questions?
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: Also, has this guy like you're talking about like risking
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: it all for your career, but like, has he said anything?
• 31:28
  Speaker 2: Like has he been like I want to take you.
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: On a date? Nah? She said, it's all platonic friendly.
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: It's all platonic friendly, right, like doing here. But like so,
• 31:37
  Speaker 2: but like, is you if we said, go ahead, risk
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: it for your career and you're like, cool, I'm going
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: to risk it for my career.
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: Like what happens next?
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: Like has he blatantly said to you like I really
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: like you, I want to take you out, Like I
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: think you're fucking awesome, You're beautiful, you're so smart, whatever,
• 31:53
  Speaker 2: like I want to take you on a date? Like
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: has that happened?
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: No? Yeah?
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: What actually is the go working in the real world?
• 32:01
  Speaker 3: Are you not allowed to date coworkers in most workspaces?
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: Well? The only I don't live in the real world.
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: The only thing I can reference this off right, So,
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: first of all, working in bars, I've worked in a
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: fake all the time and employees just be fucking yeah right,
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: but working in an office, I have no idea, but
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: I have watched The Office the show and Pam and
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: Jim they want to be in a relationship and they
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: have to like sign these like papers to send a
• 32:33
  Speaker 2: HR to disclose their relationship. I don't know if it's
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: like that in all areas.
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: I assume it would be, because there's just like I
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: don't know, but I assume they would be like, we
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: don't want you to date within the company because it
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: could get quite about like a big company we designed
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: for they're huge, like someone from downstairs and upstairs fucking
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: wouldn't matter.
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: So there's absolutely no way that no one has done,
• 32:57
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like it happens secretly all
• 32:59
  Speaker 2: the time.
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: It has to, there's no way.
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: That's what makes it hot though, that it's a secret,
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: and like that's why they like it.
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: Once it's not a secret anymore, they kind of But.
• 33:06
  Speaker 3: I feel like with that that's equal things to lose,
• 33:08
  Speaker 3: whereas this one, the footy player's not gonna lose shit,
• 33:10
  Speaker 3: You're gonna lose everything.
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, So I'm saying, don't do it, Yeah, don't
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: do it don't do it a.
• 33:16
  Speaker 3: Lot alrighty next to Lemma Hey j Knotti. I need
• 33:19
  Speaker 3: a male's perspective on this, because I genuinely can't tell
• 33:22
  Speaker 3: if I'm overthinking it or if this is actually something
• 33:25
  Speaker 3: I should pay attention to. I've been seeing this guy
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: for a couple of months, and overall, he honestly treats
• 33:30
  Speaker 3: me really well. It assures me a lot, communicates consistently,
• 33:34
  Speaker 3: talks about future plans, and makes me feel very emotionally
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: safe when we're together. There are generally so many green flags.
• 33:43
  Speaker 3: But the thing is, I think he's still stuck on
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: his ex. They broke up about a year ago, and
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: from what he told me, the relationship wasn't healthy and
• 33:52
  Speaker 3: they definitely aren't trying to get back together. They still
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: contact because they co parent their dog in brackets, which
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: sounds ridiculous typing it out, by the way, so they
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: still have to communicate here and there. He says they're
• 34:07
  Speaker 3: civil but not friends, and they definitely don't get along.
• 34:11
  Speaker 3: The thing is he brings her up kind of often,
• 34:14
  Speaker 3: not in I miss her kind of way, but more
• 34:16
  Speaker 3: in a resentful kind of way, like he references things
• 34:20
  Speaker 3: she's done where she's treated him, or makes comments that
• 34:23
  Speaker 3: make it obvious there's still frustration there. It's not obsessive,
• 34:27
  Speaker 3: but it's enough for me. Notice at one point I
• 34:30
  Speaker 3: even said to him, quote, don't you think holding onto
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: that much resentment towards an ex can be a red flag?
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: Like maybe there's unfinished business there? End quote? And he
• 34:40
  Speaker 3: basically said that everyone handles breakups differently, and I'm just
• 34:44
  Speaker 3: a nicer person than him. Now I'm confused because I've
• 34:49
  Speaker 3: already spoken about my ex and things that went wrong
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: in my relationship, because I think when you're dating someone
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: new that stuff naturally comes up. But even though my
• 34:58
  Speaker 3: relationship wasn't great, I don't feel the need to consistently
• 35:02
  Speaker 3: speak badly about my ex. So now I can't tell
• 35:05
  Speaker 3: if one this is just a normal guy thing and
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: men process breakups differently, two he's genuinely over her but
• 35:13
  Speaker 3: still angry about how things ended, or three if resentment
• 35:18
  Speaker 3: like that actually does mean there are some unresolved feelings there.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: HM.
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: Can someone fully move on from a relationship whilst still
• 35:26
  Speaker 3: talking about their ex a lot? Or is that usually
• 35:30
  Speaker 3: a sign they're not over it as they think they are.
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: It is a funny one like it's so I think
• 35:42
  Speaker 2: the way I think about it is like if what
• 35:45
  Speaker 2: he's showing is that he is still very resentful of her, right,
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: Like I look, I'm not saying what I that I'm
• 35:56
  Speaker 2: perfect or anything like that, but like when I think
• 35:59
  Speaker 2: about my X, I don't feel a thing. I don't
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: feel resentment. I don't feel like joy, like I don't
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: feel anything. I don't feel love obviously, like I don't
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: feel like I miss anything, Like I don't feel like
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: I want to talk shit, Like I don't feel anything.
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: And so I can see what she means, like and
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: why she thinks he could be a bit hung up
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: on her still, because like if Beth was out here
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: just constantly talking about like if she you know, every
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: like not constantly sorry like every now and then brought
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: up her ex and just like had resentment towards me,
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: I'd be like, why do you still have resentment towards
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: this man?
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I don't know, Okay.
• 36:43
  Speaker 3: I actually think, tell me if this is a big
• 36:47
  Speaker 3: brain play the man you're talking to his toxic ooh,
• 36:54
  Speaker 3: and they broke up because of him and he was
• 36:57
  Speaker 3: doing everything wrong and he's trying to flip it onto
• 36:59
  Speaker 3: her and make him seem seem like the nice guy.
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: Okay, you know what, I feel like I could maybe
• 37:13
  Speaker 2: be on board with that. Reason where my mind goes
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: is if you are the one that want like so,
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: if he if she was so bad to him and
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: he wanted to break up with her, then the resentment,
• 37:30
  Speaker 2: in my opinion, would fade relatively quickly depending on how
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: long it was in between the two relationships.
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: Right, And then the resentment, I could argue, would stay
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: if she called him out on his bullshit and left him,
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: And so that's why he's resenting it.
• 37:49
  Speaker 3: One because if the ex partner was a problem, I
• 37:53
  Speaker 3: wouldn't want to talk about that. I'd be like, I
• 37:55
  Speaker 3: break up up with her, wasn't a good person, Let's
• 37:58
  Speaker 3: move on. I'm getting over that, whereas he's the bad guy.
• 38:02
  Speaker 3: Like I would only speak about it if asked about it.
• 38:05
  Speaker 3: Do you if you want to know what you I
• 38:07
  Speaker 3: can tell you things that were bad, but like I'm
• 38:09
  Speaker 3: over it.
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah here one hundred shit. Yeah so that's not what
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: she asked. Yeah true, Wait what she asked? She said?
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: Is this a normal thing for men to process BREAKUPSM No,
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: I don't think I don't think.
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: I don't know if there's a if no one would
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: be the same. Yeah, and I don't think it's it's
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: not gender related at all. What's the same thing as
• 38:33
  Speaker 1: last week?
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: I think I think last week someone asked about like
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: the porn thing and said, like, is this just a
• 38:38
  Speaker 2: man thing? And you said, if we so with her question,
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: with this bout his question right now. Yeah, if we said, yeah,
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: this is how all men do breakups, like, would you
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: be okay with that? And it's like, you clearly aren't
• 38:48
  Speaker 2: okay with it, so you shouldn't. If we said, even
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: if we said that it's a man thing, then you
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: shouldn't be okay with it.
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 38:52
  Speaker 3: I also think she's getting a little bit blurred vision
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: by the grand.
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: Flags, because you said at the start you had a
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: solid paragraph about how well he treats it blah blah
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: blah blah blah. Yeah, sure, that's great, but also this
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: is massive. It is pretty big, and it's sometimes hard
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: to see the red flag when he's he's just so good,
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: he does all these he does.
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: But then there's also this hey, once again quote unquote
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: good men benefiting by giving the bare minimum because all
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: the bad men exist.
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and then she asked he's genuinely over her and
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: just angry how things ended. No, I don't think so.
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: That's silly. He can't be over her if he's still
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: angry how things and or three resentment like this actually
• 39:32
  Speaker 1: does mean there's unresolved feelings there. I think that's it.
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: I want to say that's it too.
• 39:38
  Speaker 3: I don't even know if it's he likes her still,
• 39:40
  Speaker 3: it's more that like he's been put in his place
• 39:43
  Speaker 3: and can't get over it.
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: That's what it feels like. Yeah, that's what it feels like.
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: Definitely feels like I have something to say. I've recently
• 39:53
  Speaker 2: been thinking about it. And look, I still personally would
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: not do shared custody with a dog.
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: No, but thinking about it, right, I forgot about that
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: and I fuck that.
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: But like, when I really think about it, I don't
• 40:11
  Speaker 2: know if like I would care that much.
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you wouldn't, but your partner in the future would. No.
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: No, I mean like if I if my girlfriend was
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: sharing custody like one week on, one week off or
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: one month on one month off whatever with a dog,
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: like with a dog that she like loves, I don't
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: know if it would really phase me that much. When
• 40:33
  Speaker 2: I really think about.
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: It, I reckon it would really I reckon, Well, I
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: mean me, at least I can't be for you. Dogs
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: live for like fifteen years. Yeah, so if you for
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: the next.
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: Fifteen years, you get married to this girl and then
• 40:45
  Speaker 3: she's just gonna go see a dog, she's custody of
• 40:48
  Speaker 3: a dog one week on, one week off.
• 40:50
  Speaker 2: It's kind of hard because like, who am I Like,
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: It's like who am I have said it's a red.
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: Flag when like she loves the dog.
• 40:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think loving the dog means one person
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: has to take ownership of it and grow some balls,
• 41:00
  Speaker 3: and one person needs to be cut off. I feel
• 41:03
  Speaker 3: like that's what loving a dog means.
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: Really. Yeah.
• 41:07
  Speaker 3: So if you broke up with Beth and she said
• 41:09
  Speaker 3: I want to still see Darcy once a week, you'd say, yeah,
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: I think you would say, now.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: Look, I personally wouldn't like I would. I would be like, oh, look,
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: I would love it if Darcy could see you.
• 41:22
  Speaker 2: But for me, like with the breakup, like Beth, I'm
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: not going to see you, you.
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: Know what I mean? Yeah, but it just makes that
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: anything that makes it techy.
• 41:30
  Speaker 2: Definitely techy. But like I mean it's techy, but it's
• 41:33
  Speaker 2: just like kind of a thing. I can't because like, look,
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: once again, I'm not the type of person to do it.
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: But what I was just thinking about, does that? So
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: if I started dating.
• 41:44
  Speaker 2: A girl and I really liked her and then like
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: she was she had like one month on one month
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: off with this dog that she just really loved, Like,
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: I don't think I would.
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: I don't think I would care that much.
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: Like I would probably be like, look, if it was me,
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: i'd probably just try and keep the dog. Yes you
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: would say that, Yeah, Like if it was me, I
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: just try and keep the dog.
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: But it's just how you guys are doing it. It's
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: how you're doing it.
• 42:10
  Speaker 3: I would I would say it's grossing balls, like have
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: some guts. It shows a bit of a lack of
• 42:15
  Speaker 3: emotional intelligence and like having a hard home conversation because
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: it's like we're connected by his dog. Yes, we had
• 42:22
  Speaker 3: so much good time, but a dog can adapt very quickly.
• 42:24
  Speaker 3: That dog can forget about you after a year.
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: They won't forget.
• 42:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but like if we didn't see you for a year,
• 42:31
  Speaker 3: it will be their well being if it was looked
• 42:34
  Speaker 3: after properly. Yeah, So it's not an it's not a
• 42:36
  Speaker 3: case of like that, it's for the dog like a kid,
• 42:39
  Speaker 3: like a kid needs us both.
• 42:40
  Speaker 2: I don't think that that doing a shade custody for
• 42:43
  Speaker 2: a dog is for the dog.
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: No, that's what I mean. That's why I think the person.
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's the lack of emotional intelligence because it's not
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: healthy and it's not smart because you've broken up for
• 42:51
  Speaker 3: a reason. It's cut tires. I know it's a hard
• 42:53
  Speaker 3: thing to do, but fucking just different.
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: Because because Beth met someone she was she like went
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: she went out with a friend, and then this other
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: this friend has another friend or whatever who has a
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: dog or two dogs or whatever, but does one month
• 43:13
  Speaker 2: on one month off shed custy with her ex. I
• 43:15
  Speaker 2: think it's a dumbestad And I was like originally I
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: was like, how does that work?
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: And Beth was like, I don't know. I guess they
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: just make it work. And I was like, I mean,
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: to be fair, that's not a bad point, Like if
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: they're just making it work, they're just making it work.
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: I feel like I feel like it's an easy choice
• 43:32
  Speaker 3: for me though, because I would be the bigger person
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: and be like, it's not like, I'm giving the dog
• 43:35
  Speaker 3: up to a pound. I know it's going to a
• 43:37
  Speaker 3: great home. I'll be like, I'll take a step back.
• 43:39
  Speaker 3: I know you're going to look after his dog really well.
• 43:41
  Speaker 3: So that's what I love it. Maybe send me a
• 43:43
  Speaker 3: photo on his birthday.
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: That's all I ask. I'd fight for Darcy. Yeah, well
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: that's yours anyway.
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: I know it was best trying to tell me what
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: I was trying to say to me if her and
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: I broke up, she's both she gets both dogs.
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: I was like, Henry, yes, I can admit, there's you.
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: There's you.
• 44:01
  Speaker 3: And I was like, the things first, you didn't even
• 44:05
  Speaker 3: want to adopt Darcy.
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: Ship. I had to convince you to adopt Darcy, all right.
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: She's like, no, but she needs Henry. She needs me,
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: and Henry I was like, no, she does, she needs me,
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: all right, she needs your dog. I couldn't believe she
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: said it. I don't know, I can't believe AnyWho.
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: I've gotten a dilemma from a man, interesting one and
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: very man coded. Hi guys, new to the podcast, Wait.
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: Can you is he wanking too much? Damn it? You're
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: pretty funny.
• 44:40
  Speaker 2: Hi guys, new to the podcast, My girlfriend is worried
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: about me going to Europe. Oh, to be fair, I
• 44:47
  Speaker 2: will be going on three kentikies.
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: What the fuck?
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: Going with the boys in brackets? I really wanted to go,
• 44:55
  Speaker 2: and I think it would be a lifetime holiday. I
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: will be going for a month. We have been together
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: for four years. I would never cheat, but I am
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: going with lifetime friends and brother.
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: I rarely go on holidays and this idea came up
• 45:09
  Speaker 1: very quickly.
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: What are your thoughts? Is this fair enough? And then
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: he says at the end, I do get it.
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: No, that's not fair enough at all if you want to.
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: I think he's saying, like, is it fair enough that
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: she's worried?
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, I thought she meant. I thought he meant.
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: Is it fair that I'm going?
• 45:28
  Speaker 3: I'm like, nah, I feel like if you're going on
• 45:30
  Speaker 3: a trip like that, once in a lifetime trip, isn't
• 45:32
  Speaker 3: that brother?
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: I No, I think, like, I'm pretty sure Kentiky two is.
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: I know there's like a stereotype that people just go
• 45:39
  Speaker 2: there to have sex, but like Kentiki twos are like
• 45:42
  Speaker 2: I have cousins that have been on them and not
• 45:44
  Speaker 2: slept with anyone like that.
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: You are going on that you can, but you're going
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: to at a party. I don't think that Kenticki twos
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: are just parties.
• 45:51
  Speaker 3: I'm pretty confident, like they're ninety percent parties. Eight And
• 45:55
  Speaker 3: you can book they've made a specific almost got a
• 45:58
  Speaker 3: brandy with him, and you can book specific on where
• 46:00
  Speaker 3: it says non drinking. Yeah, because those ones are meant
• 46:04
  Speaker 3: for the people who they because the stereotype behind Kentickies
• 46:08
  Speaker 3: is just partying and fucking right.
• 46:10
  Speaker 2: So like there's like these ones are no alcohol, So
• 46:12
  Speaker 2: booked this if you don't want to.
• 46:13
  Speaker 3: Well, that's hard because maybe my opinion might change if
• 46:15
  Speaker 3: it's like I don't know, you're going to Scotland and
• 46:18
  Speaker 3: fucking gonna see all the castles and shit.
• 46:20
  Speaker 2: Thing is Yeah, So it's like if you're going on
• 46:22
  Speaker 2: a party trip, if you're going on a party boat trip,
• 46:24
  Speaker 2: then like I think it's pretty valid for her to
• 46:26
  Speaker 2: be worried.
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: I would say, like, yeah, invite her. Why why can't
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: you go? True?
• 46:33
  Speaker 3: And you've said it's for the boy boys trip like
• 46:35
  Speaker 3: once in a lifetime trip to me, isn't that it'd
• 46:38
  Speaker 3: be like you and your brother are going to like
• 46:40
  Speaker 3: all of Europe.
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: And maybe a once a lafe and trying trip to him.
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: And if it is, that's a red flag because it's party,
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: it's partying and fucking. That's not a once in a lafetime.
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: That's a quin He said he would he did say
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: he would never cheat. Yeah, yeah, Like here's the thing,
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: is like, okay.
• 46:54
  Speaker 3: No, but the problem with that is and isn't that
• 46:56
  Speaker 3: he would never cheat. It's that he's putting himself in
• 46:58
  Speaker 3: a situation that makes a girlfriend uncomfortable. That's the problem.
• 47:02
  Speaker 3: Like you backpacking around Europe, isn't putting yourself in a
• 47:04
  Speaker 3: situation maybe a safety situation, yeah, but there's no sexual
• 47:08
  Speaker 3: situation there.
• 47:08
  Speaker 2: I'm sure in backpacking it would be plenty surely, not
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: that you could you go anywhere to be fair and
• 47:14
  Speaker 2: put yourself in a situation. What I'm thinking is like,
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: is it so like it's not bad that you want
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: to go on a holiday.
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: No, I don't.
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: That's bad to go on a holiday with your brother
• 47:25
  Speaker 2: like you obviously and then a lifetime friend, Like that's
• 47:28
  Speaker 2: not bad. I think I do think it's valid for
• 47:35
  Speaker 2: your girlfriend to worry because like this trip has come
• 47:37
  Speaker 2: up quickly and you're going for a month and you're
• 47:41
  Speaker 2: going on three Kentikies. I personally wouldn't go together. Yeah,
• 47:50
  Speaker 2: Like if you came to me and another friend of
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: ours came to me and said, like, wait, in a month,
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: we're going to Europe three Kentickies month trip, like fucking
• 48:03
  Speaker 2: holiday of lifetime boys trip, yeah, I'd say no.
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 48:07
  Speaker 2: So I don't like The hard thing is that I
• 48:12
  Speaker 2: was like, I just don't know if like, is he
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: the one of these two in the wrong here? Like
• 48:18
  Speaker 2: is the boyfriend dead in the wrong?
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean? I think if the girlfriend's
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: obviously valid, you well.
• 48:24
  Speaker 3: I think I think where he's gone wrong is bringing
• 48:26
  Speaker 3: this up and how he's brought up. I feel like
• 48:28
  Speaker 3: he's just said, Hey, this opportunity has come up and
• 48:30
  Speaker 3: I want to come. There's no conversation where like, hey,
• 48:35
  Speaker 3: do you want to go to Europe? I'd like to
• 48:36
  Speaker 3: go on these Kentickies at least one of my mates
• 48:38
  Speaker 3: and my brother, but we can go as well. I
• 48:40
  Speaker 3: think the way he's approached it's maybe wrong too. I
• 48:43
  Speaker 3: think approach is bad. I also think you should be
• 48:46
  Speaker 3: involving your girlfriend. Think the only time he shouldn't is
• 48:49
  Speaker 3: like a couple of weeks.
• 48:50
  Speaker 2: So yeah, Like I also I also think that it
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: would be different. So if you're doing this two girlfriend,
• 48:59
  Speaker 2: by the way, you need to stop, right I don't like,
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: don't try and say to her like but this is
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: the trip of a lifetime, like with my brother and
• 49:06
  Speaker 2: my best friend, Like who gives a fuck, dude, Like
• 49:09
  Speaker 2: like I'm sorry to call you out, but like, don't
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: say that to your girlfriend because that's going to guilt her,
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: and like she should, by no means be the one
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: feeling at all guilty in this situ situation. Like if
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: this came up super quickly, then basically I would say
• 49:30
  Speaker 2: that there's a pretty solid argument that you are being
• 49:33
  Speaker 2: a bit of a bad boyfriend right now. I think,
• 49:37
  Speaker 2: so this to come up super quickly going for a
• 49:39
  Speaker 2: full month to Europe on three kentickies, we're assuming that
• 49:45
  Speaker 2: there's our goal involved and they're like the party style, Like, dude,
• 49:50
  Speaker 2: I think that really laying it out like it's not
• 49:54
  Speaker 2: it wouldn't be nice to be your.
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: Girlfriend right now.
• 49:57
  Speaker 3: There's a definition of kentickies, a long standing reputation of
• 50:02
  Speaker 3: eighteen to thirty five year olds who are frequently drinking,
• 50:06
  Speaker 3: night life hookups and then day twos. During the day,
• 50:10
  Speaker 3: it's summer camp for young adult vibes, fast friends, pub nights,
• 50:13
  Speaker 3: lots of solo traveling, romantic sexual tensions happening naturally twenty
• 50:18
  Speaker 3: four to seven. This is that's the definition of it.
• 50:22
  Speaker 3: Even that stereotype, I think would be because like if
• 50:25
  Speaker 3: we were like, fuck, let's we were talking about doing
• 50:27
  Speaker 3: the hunt what's called the hun On Loop in Vietnam.
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, doing a bike trip. Say it took us a month. Yeah.
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: If we went to our partners being like, if we
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: want to go do.
• 50:36
  Speaker 3: This bike tour that's in a tour around Vietnam, it's
• 50:39
  Speaker 3: going to take us a month. Yeah, we really want
• 50:41
  Speaker 3: to do as a backpacking trip, Like it's going to
• 50:43
  Speaker 3: be great. They wouldn't blink, ann, but if you will,
• 50:47
  Speaker 3: you and I went, we want to go back back
• 50:48
  Speaker 3: in around Europe and go on three kentickies. See the
• 50:52
  Speaker 3: problem in that? Yeah, there's growth and then there's.
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: I'm exploring something else.
• 50:59
  Speaker 2: That's pretty good point. Okay, I'm one eighty ing and
• 51:05
  Speaker 2: I've decided that you shouldn't go.
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: If you love your girlfriend, you shouldn't go. I think
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: you can go if you bring her. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: if you bring her.
• 51:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah, if you bring her and then like boys trip,
• 51:18
  Speaker 3: there's two boys there, that's not even a fucking boys trip.
• 51:20
  Speaker 1: Sorry, like that's just the trip.
• 51:24
  Speaker 2: Also, let me just say this, you're going on a
• 51:27
  Speaker 2: boys trip, right, but you're going on kentiquies where there's
• 51:30
  Speaker 2: going to be women.
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: That's not a boys trip. Like it's fair. Your girlfriend's
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: feeling up about it.
• 51:34
  Speaker 3: And then if she says I can't afford it, don't
• 51:36
  Speaker 3: go because that's not fair on her.
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 51:37
  Speaker 2: I think that you shouldn't go to this really thinking
• 51:40
  Speaker 2: about it, you shouldn't go to this if you want to, like, if.
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: You if you love your girlfriend, you shouldn't go to this.
• 51:44
  Speaker 2: This is crazy, Like if this was planned a year
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: in advance and you're going on an actual boys trip, like,
• 51:49
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, if you're in a relationship, you shouldn't be
• 51:51
  Speaker 2: going on kentiky tours with your brother and your fucking friend.
• 51:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah, a boys trip is like you go golfing or
• 51:57
  Speaker 3: you go on fishing.
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: You go gold, you go fishing, surfing, only go camping.
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: Boys want to do?
• 52:04
  Speaker 2: You go do a boy's trip, right, and you do
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: things boys do like people men that go on boys
• 52:09
  Speaker 2: trips and they go to like a fucking city and
• 52:13
  Speaker 2: go night clubbing, and they all have like girlfriends and
• 52:15
  Speaker 2: wives at home, Like you're.
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: All fucking trash, Like what the fuck?
• 52:19
  Speaker 2: Go on a boys trip and hang out with your
• 52:21
  Speaker 2: mates because you want to go hang out with your mates,
• 52:23
  Speaker 2: not because you want to go get naggot and be surrounded.
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: By other women. Like yeah, look, you know what I've one,
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: ady flip.
• 52:30
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I we we love having men listen to
• 52:33
  Speaker 2: our podcast, we really do, but I've got to apologize,
• 52:35
  Speaker 2: like when you lay out everything you've said in that dilemma,
• 52:38
  Speaker 2: like you're being a shitty boyfriend.
• 52:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah, time for comments, baddies. If you want to get
• 52:52
  Speaker 3: a comment read, you know what to do by now
• 52:54
  Speaker 3: simply comment on the episode. I've got Spotify with Kiras
• 52:59
  Speaker 3: stood Art going to say.
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: He said, oh, ew, if you enjoyed.
• 53:03
  Speaker 3: Yellow Stone, the spin off eighteen eighty three is ten
• 53:07
  Speaker 3: times better, I must watch You just said about that
• 53:11
  Speaker 3: set further and further.
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm keen to watch it. I love when they have,
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: like you know, it's a good show. When they got
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: spin offs, Oh yeah, because the first one did so well. Yeah, yeah,
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: the spinoff.
• 53:20
  Speaker 2: So there's eighteen eighty three and then there's another one,
• 53:25
  Speaker 2: and I think eighteen eighty three is the one that
• 53:27
  Speaker 2: has Tim McGraw gra. Tim mcgronnaugh has said that was
• 53:30
  Speaker 2: Australian accent whatever, but the country singer, Oh, Tim McGrath,
• 53:35
  Speaker 2: apparently it's beast bro.
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: I'm keen him and his actual real life wife, the
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: husband and wife. I've got one season left of Yellowstone. Dang,
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: you'd be up to where I'm up to. Oh haven't
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: you finished it? I never finished it. I'm terrible at
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: finishing shows. I'm watching Lost to guys. Lost is so good,
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: you would like Lost. I don't watch TV anymore. I
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: just I just I'm just different. I just different. I
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: just read. I just I don't know about you, guys.
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: I just like to read and stuff, like, you know,
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: really broaden. I read and then do seven different things
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: and then sit.
• 54:01
  Speaker 2: Down literally like what I'm reading there was just I'm
• 54:04
  Speaker 2: reading a book about Okay, I'm reading Crescent City.
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, right, book Club? In coming solo episodes, Jake Craig,
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: Ye City, you don't have to start? What's the one
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: after throwing a glass? Next week? Yeah, I'll keep them going.
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: No time to watch it.
• 54:18
  Speaker 2: All I've been all I've been fucking reading is just
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: about Bryce partying, fucking doing drugs like they fall on.
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: Just do drugs in this fucking book. Dude. It seems
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: like a better start with Jona.
• 54:31
  Speaker 2: They just do like, way better bro the start of
• 54:33
  Speaker 2: Crescent City. I don't know why so many people are
• 54:36
  Speaker 2: like President City is a grind. Crescent City is a grind.
• 54:39
  Speaker 2: I'm ten chapters. I'm less than ten chapters into Crescent City,
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: the first one, and it's like fucking ten times better
• 54:46
  Speaker 2: than the first book of Throwing.
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: We've been let astray so many times. What's would people be?
• 54:50
  Speaker 2: Like?
• 54:50
  Speaker 1: Crescent City is hectic, flame sucked? Someone's like this is
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: the best book I've.
• 54:54
  Speaker 2: Anyway, I've got Blamer's episode age gaps. Yes, no, we
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: mailer Matt gone anyway. Okay, so about the age gap.
• 55:05
  Speaker 2: There will always be a power dynamic that's unhealthy. Where
• 55:09
  Speaker 2: is she in life? Like can she afford rent and stuff?
• 55:11
  Speaker 2: And where is he?
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: Also?
• 55:13
  Speaker 2: We don't have enough money to say if it's completely
• 55:16
  Speaker 2: bonkers or weird.
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: No, not money.
• 55:17
  Speaker 2: We didn't have enough info to say if it's bonkers
• 55:19
  Speaker 2: or weird. In any case, if a twenty year old
• 55:22
  Speaker 2: is attracted to a forty three year old, she probably
• 55:24
  Speaker 2: has some sort of unresolved daddy issues.
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: Well jump to conclusions.
• 55:28
  Speaker 2: Jump on, and if a forty three year old is
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: attracted to a twenty year old, then he definitely has issues.
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: We're growing. Yeah, I think that's fair. I think we
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: went hard on that one.
• 55:38
  Speaker 2: I'm not saying having psycho psychological issues is bad. We
• 55:42
  Speaker 2: all have them, but the baddy needs to be aware
• 55:44
  Speaker 2: of them so that she can make her decision with
• 55:45
  Speaker 2: her eyes open.
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: That's fair.
• 55:48
  Speaker 2: That's a fair point because there was Aboudie that was
• 55:50
  Speaker 2: like twenty with the four We all do.
• 55:52
  Speaker 3: Have our own psychological issues too, though, and likes.
• 55:56
  Speaker 2: Fuck you.
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: Yeeah, whatever I say.
• 56:00
  Speaker 3: I was going to spit some facts to help about it,
• 56:01
  Speaker 3: but not anymore. All right, it's time for one of
• 56:04
  Speaker 3: you to sign off an episode.
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: What are you doing with riddles these days? Mate? Like
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: you're gonna stop? You've got a problem. I'll give one
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: week off the riddles, and then what if she aces it?
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: She could be the one. That's a fair point. I
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: better ask, all right, who were going to call zoeee?
• 56:23
  Speaker 6: Hello?
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: Hello, is this Zoey? Yeah, Zoe's joking out from the relatables?
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: How are you?
• 56:30
  Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, stop it?
• 56:31
  Speaker 1: Oh yes, for real. Well I'm glad you're answered. You
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: sounded so scared. Yeah. Yeah, you sounded like you weren't,
• 56:38
  Speaker 1: but now you are. Who did you think it was? Who?
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: Because you ignored the first one?
• 56:46
  Speaker 6: I know it sounds like, oh like pick up no
• 56:49
  Speaker 6: caller idea, But it's a random number.
• 56:52
  Speaker 1: That's fair.
• 56:53
  Speaker 3: We try to urge everyone to pick up random numbers
• 56:56
  Speaker 3: when they when they apply for the signing off.
• 56:59
  Speaker 6: I knowd that too, and I was like, I'll keep
• 57:02
  Speaker 6: it out for it.
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: No, it's all good, it's all good anyway. Look, so
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: I assume you know why we're calling, yep.
• 57:12
  Speaker 6: And I wasn't prepared. O.
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: No, that's okay, that's okay. Sorry, No, don't be sorry.
• 57:19
  Speaker 1: That's fine. Do you have anything that you like to
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: live by? Like, have you got a favorite riddle? Maybe?
• 57:26
  Speaker 1: Or do you have a favorite quote? Do you have
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: a favorite do you have a favorite out us too?
• 57:33
  Speaker 6: And what was that? Very?
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: Do you have a favorite relatable out of You don't
• 57:37
  Speaker 1: have to answer that, you.
• 57:41
  Speaker 6: Look, I'm not going to cause anything between your guys.
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: No, I want you to.
• 57:50
  Speaker 6: No, I'm here for myself in a bad stop for that.
• 57:57
  Speaker 6: It's super basic. But like everything I've always lived by,
• 58:01
  Speaker 6: you know, everything happened to a region. That's literally Look, it's.
• 58:05
  Speaker 1: A good way to get through life. It's good.
• 58:07
  Speaker 3: It's a good one. Everything does happen said. My one
• 58:09
  Speaker 3: is the world has a funny way of working things out.
• 58:12
  Speaker 3: It's kind of the same thing.
• 58:13
  Speaker 6: Yes, that's a good one.
• 58:15
  Speaker 4: Different let her have, let her have her relate and
• 58:21
  Speaker 4: clearly Jake's the favorite.
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: Trying to want to.
• 58:24
  Speaker 6: Because absolutely nothing help me out.
• 58:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I was trying to relate to him and be like, yeah,
• 58:29
  Speaker 3: I live by the same thing and you're out here
• 58:30
  Speaker 3: being like so basically.
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: No, he likes me more.
• 58:33
  Speaker 6: You know what, Thank you very much. I think you're saying, yeah,
• 58:39
  Speaker 6: I knew it.
• 58:41
  Speaker 5: Rememberlow Baddies, who your favorite is?
• 58:47
  Speaker 3: At the start of this episode, Jake caught himself, so
• 58:49
  Speaker 3: I'm obviously his favorite too.
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: Well, all right, you're gonna ask for a riddle to
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: do you, haven't you?
• 59:00
  Speaker 6: So, Jake, what's your favorite mode?
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: Then? Oh, my favorite motto? I like putting him on
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: the spot. No one does it good? Work. That's a
• 59:06
  Speaker 1: good it's a power moving on because he fucking struggles. Yeah,
• 59:10
  Speaker 1: I'm not going to be what's my favorite motto? Live
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: life close to the toilet. I do live life close
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: to a toilet.
• 59:19
  Speaker 2: But my favorite motto is probably like, I mean, I'm
• 59:23
  Speaker 2: gonna go with the flow. Guy, like I'm not the reason.
• 59:25
  Speaker 2: I feel like we asked about it because I don't
• 59:27
  Speaker 2: have anything.
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: What do you mean I'm having to admit it.
• 59:34
  Speaker 6: I just called the wrong baddie.
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: No, no, you did a great job. Actually one of
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: this has been a good call. Thank you very much
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: and enjoy the rest of your day.
• 59:45
  Speaker 6: I love the podcast. I love you guys, Thank you
• 59:47
  Speaker 6: so much.
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: Thank you, bye bye, Thank you. BADDI. Yes yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.
• 59:57
  Speaker 3: No no, we love your baddies.
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: Stay about it.