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- 0:19Speaker 1: Welcome back, darlings. Today we are welcoming back two of
- 0:23Speaker 1: my favorite investigative producers and investigative minds, Nancy Muscatello and
- 0:28Speaker 1: Scott Eldredge. You know them from the incredible Scamanda Investigation podcast.
- 0:34Speaker 1: And now they are back. They have just dropped their
- 0:38Speaker 1: latest podcast on The Slippery. It's called Lexicon. That is
- 0:42Speaker 1: the latest and greatest scammer that you guys have covered.
- 0:46Speaker 1: And also, we are going to discuss the Jen Shah
- 0:49Speaker 1: investigation that you did. And you dropped that not too
- 0:51Speaker 1: long ago. So welcome back in, Nancy and Scott. How
- 0:55Speaker 1: are you doing?
- 0:56Speaker 2: Thanks for having us.
- 0:57Speaker 3: Oh, yeah. Thanks for having us. And these worlds collide,
- 1:00Speaker 3: funny enough. So just a little bit.
- 1:03Speaker 1: I'd say a lot. I loved your Jen Shaw coverage,
- 1:09Speaker 1: your podcast. I love how you do it. You kind
- 1:10Speaker 1: of break it down where you do the investigation and
- 1:12Speaker 1: then you have a sort of a follow-up episode where
- 1:15Speaker 1: you kind of banter and talk about a little bit
- 1:17Speaker 1: of the, you know, other extracurricular things. Then you tie
- 1:21Speaker 1: it into the next case, sort of. I love the
- 1:23Speaker 1: format of your podcast. And- Boy, you are thorough. It's
- 1:27Speaker 1: like all the stuff that I knew about Jen Shah
- 1:30Speaker 1: and even the deep dives that I went on, just
- 1:32Speaker 1: listening to this coverage that you did, I was like,
- 1:35Speaker 1: holy cow.
- 1:38Speaker 2: Oh, thank you.
- 1:39Speaker 1: Slimy little lady.
- 1:41Speaker 2: She was. She's dirty. Yeah, she knew what she was doing.
- 1:45Speaker 3: I'm going to call and I'm going to start trying
- 1:48Speaker 3: to see what happens when you call and do these things.
- 1:50Speaker 3: I'm like, yeah, go for it. See what happens.
- 1:54Speaker 1: You know, she was given six years and she got
- 1:57Speaker 1: out in two. Do you know why that ends up happening?
- 2:00Speaker 1: I mean, I know kind of like generally, but why
- 2:02Speaker 1: did that happen with her? She did, these were some big,
- 2:05Speaker 1: big charges from the feds.
- 2:08Speaker 4: Typically, if you do federal time, you do 85% of
- 2:11Speaker 4: your time. I can't remember exactly what her, you know,
- 2:15Speaker 4: the months were on hers, but when you calculate in
- 2:18Speaker 4: good behavior, sometimes they have diversion programs as well. It just,
- 2:23Speaker 4: you know, They want you out of prisons. They don't
- 2:25Speaker 4: want you in prisons here. So yeah, it seems it's
- 2:29Speaker 4: a shame. It's a shame though, because everybody, you know,
- 2:32Speaker 4: we did another case, Amy, on Andrew Luster, who just
- 2:35Speaker 4: walked out of prison after 24 years. He was sentenced
- 2:38Speaker 4: to 124 years here in California and walked out. So nobody,
- 2:44Speaker 4: and the people, the victims in that case thought that,
- 2:48Speaker 4: even with good behavior, he wouldn't be out before he's 80.
- 2:51Speaker 2: He's 60 and he walked out.
- 2:52Speaker 4: So the same with Jen Shaw, like all of these
- 2:55Speaker 4: senior citizens who lost their life savings that are literally
- 2:59Speaker 4: living destitute now.
- 3:01Speaker 2: Not she would do six years. She did two years.
- 3:03Speaker 2: I could do two years standing on my head.
- 3:04Speaker 1: Thank you.
- 3:06Speaker 3: You'd say that.
- 3:08Speaker 2: I could.
- 3:09Speaker 4: I could.
- 3:09Speaker 2: I'm tough.
- 3:11Speaker 3: I could do it too. It was the same with
- 3:13Speaker 3: Amanda Riley. Scamanda, she got five and she ultimately did
- 3:18Speaker 3: just under three. So, and that was the same thing.
- 3:22Speaker 3: And this is, this was something that changed on the books, uh,
- 3:26Speaker 3: in 2016 federally that, um, that the first Trump administration
- 3:30Speaker 3: changed things for white collar crime. They changed like a
- 3:33Speaker 3: nuanced wording. So you didn't have to do, it was
- 3:37Speaker 3: more about like when you hit a certain milestone and
- 3:39Speaker 3: then there's a calculation with it. So it was just
- 3:41Speaker 3: something that, that was put into play there to kind
- 3:44Speaker 3: of free up space. I think it was a lot
- 3:45Speaker 3: of it too.
- 3:47Speaker 1: Um, So at the end of the podcast, you talked
- 3:50Speaker 1: about how like this one woman is homeless. They have
- 3:53Speaker 1: so much debt. These people are elderly and these are
- 3:57Speaker 1: not all the victims. You know, these are just ones
- 3:59Speaker 1: that even spoke out just for this case. So will
- 4:02Speaker 1: they be getting any kind of restitution? How will they
- 4:05Speaker 1: be able to survive? Who will pay them back?
- 4:08Speaker 4: She's allegedly, you know, she has restitution to pay whether
- 4:12Speaker 4: she comes up with it or not. typically in these cases,
- 4:16Speaker 4: they don't see a lot of restitution. You don't see,
- 4:18Speaker 4: you see pennies on the dollar. So if those people
- 4:20Speaker 4: get back 30% of what they lost, that would be
- 4:24Speaker 4: a win for them. It's not like, and you know,
- 4:27Speaker 4: everybody who does this, especially Jen, who has, you know,
- 4:30Speaker 4: a lot of experience in running an organization and a scheme,
- 4:35Speaker 4: believe me, trust me, not every dollar that comes into
- 4:38Speaker 4: her account is going straight out to pay her restitution.
- 4:42Speaker 2: Like they're, you know, You bypass, you know.
- 4:46Speaker 1: I absolutely believe that. And, you know, sometimes when things
- 4:49Speaker 1: like this happen, I'm like, oh, they want to do,
- 4:52Speaker 1: you know, they've got their comeback tour and they're doing
- 4:54Speaker 1: interviews now. And I'm like, okay, I kind of want
- 4:59Speaker 1: them to be getting paid for this so that that
- 5:01Speaker 1: money can go towards the victims. That's sort of why,
- 5:04Speaker 1: like with Erica Jane, Erica Girardi on The Real Housewives
- 5:08Speaker 1: of Beverly Hills, you know, everything that happened with Tom Girardi,
- 5:11Speaker 1: you know, part of me that whole time was like,
- 5:13Speaker 1: Let's keep her on the show. Let's have her make
- 5:15Speaker 1: money so that she can pay some of these victims,
- 5:18Speaker 1: that type of thing. So in many ways, I kind
- 5:20Speaker 1: of want that.
- 5:21Speaker 3: If that's what actually happens. There's so many times that
- 5:24Speaker 3: you hear like, well, we're paying an entity or we're
- 5:27Speaker 3: paying this and she's not getting it. But you know
- 5:30Speaker 3: what I mean? Like there's there's ways around that, too.
- 5:32Speaker 3: So there really has to be something structured and put
- 5:35Speaker 3: in place for that to actually happen or it just
- 5:37Speaker 3: doesn't happen.
- 5:38Speaker 2: Wait, Amy, you're an expert in this space.
- 5:40Speaker 4: What did you think of her idea of Real Housewives
- 5:43Speaker 4: of Prison?
- 5:44Speaker 1: I loved it.
- 5:45Speaker 2: I absolutely loved it.
- 5:46Speaker 1: I love the people that you cast on it. I
- 5:48Speaker 1: think you said Anna Delvey. Wait, you didn't mention. Oh, yes, Scamanda,
- 5:53Speaker 1: of course. Elizabeth Holmes. I'm curious.
- 5:58Speaker 3: Yeah, because she was there with Jen Shaw. Right.
- 6:00Speaker 1: Are you guys, have you covered that yet?
- 6:04Speaker 2: No, I mean, I know that you're covering it.
- 6:06Speaker 3: I know you went, it's so good.
- 6:07Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 6:10Speaker 4: Okay.
- 6:10Speaker 1: Um, well, yeah, I'm going to cover it with, uh,
- 6:12Speaker 1: this therapist. Actually, we're going to do a breakdown of
- 6:15Speaker 1: the psychological stuff that we watched in the documentary film.
- 6:18Speaker 1: So that's kind of where we're going with that. Uh,
- 6:21Speaker 1: that's the angle we're taking.
- 6:22Speaker 3: Are you just going to have closeups of your eyes
- 6:24Speaker 3: the whole time?
- 6:26Speaker 1: Exactly. Just like this the whole time. We're just going
- 6:29Speaker 1: to keep going back and forth. Are you for real
- 6:31Speaker 1: right now? Um, So but getting back to Jen Shah,
- 6:36Speaker 1: as Bravo fans, you know, what do we fundamentally miss
- 6:42Speaker 1: about what she did? For those of us who are
- 6:45Speaker 1: not or did not really follow up on the seriousness
- 6:50Speaker 1: of the matter, we just kind of took it for
- 6:51Speaker 1: what it's worth, what we saw in the headlines. What
- 6:54Speaker 1: did we misunderstand, if anything?
- 6:56Speaker 4: Hard to say, but I would say it was much
- 6:59Speaker 4: more calculated than you would think.
- 7:01Speaker 2: I think she played it off.
- 7:02Speaker 4: And probably Bravo as well because you don't want to
- 7:05Speaker 4: go down every rabbit hole. It's just that she was
- 7:09Speaker 4: kind of attached to it. It was her company, but
- 7:12Speaker 4: she wasn't really like calling the shots day to day.
- 7:15Speaker 2: But she was calling the shots. She was directing traffic.
- 7:19Speaker 4: She's the traffic cop that says, okay, so we have
- 7:23Speaker 4: Amy in the house.
- 7:24Speaker 2: She's on the line.
- 7:25Speaker 4: She's with our sales floor, which is basically a telemarketer, right?
- 7:29Speaker 4: And she seems like she has a decent amount of money.
- 7:33Speaker 4: Jen is like, okay, kick her over to the other
- 7:35Speaker 4: sales floor because we can get more money out of her.
- 7:38Speaker 4: And then that sales floor communicates back to Jen, hey,
- 7:42Speaker 4: she still has some more money. We think they're like, okay,
- 7:44Speaker 4: let's go. Jen sends her for the clean out. That's
- 7:48Speaker 4: where they go for like the big $ 30, 000, $ 40, 000 sweep.
- 7:50Speaker 2: So She was very involved with it. She knew what
- 7:54Speaker 2: she was doing.
- 7:55Speaker 4: She tried to claim even in her plea that she
- 7:59Speaker 4: got in business with people that she didn't realize what
- 8:01Speaker 4: was going on.
- 8:02Speaker 2: That is not the case. She knew what was going on.
- 8:04Speaker 2: She was a puppet master.
- 8:07Speaker 1: It was made very clear in your podcast. And Scott,
- 8:11Speaker 1: you really... you got your hands dirty and you went
- 8:15Speaker 1: in there and can you explain like what you did?
- 8:19Speaker 1: I don't want to give everything away, but like, can
- 8:21Speaker 1: you just give a little teaser about how you went
- 8:23Speaker 1: about figuring out what she was doing?
- 8:26Speaker 2: Well, part of this business, right? It's, you know, work
- 8:29Speaker 2: from home.
- 8:29Speaker 4: You get, you start an Amazon store or some sort
- 8:32Speaker 4: of online store and you make money doing that. So
- 8:35Speaker 4: of course we all get those on our phones, right?
- 8:38Speaker 4: And you're scrolling Instagram. So I hit one and I,
- 8:41Speaker 4: contacted and they called me and I went down the
- 8:45Speaker 4: rabbit hole for a couple of hours with them.
- 8:47Speaker 1: Wow.
- 8:48Speaker 2: Yeah. So I would, I played the game. They don't
- 8:51Speaker 2: waste time.
- 8:53Speaker 3: They get right to you. And I mean, Scott was saying,
- 8:57Speaker 3: they were like asking financial questions, like right off the bat.
- 8:59Speaker 3: And what do you do and how you do it?
- 9:01Speaker 3: You know, like trying desperately to get to the credit
- 9:03Speaker 3: card right away. Cause that's like tier one.
- 9:06Speaker 2: That's the big thing.
- 9:08Speaker 4: The big thing is they want you to sign up
- 9:10Speaker 4: for the credit card that they're going to get you.
- 9:13Speaker 4: So it's probably 30% interest, but there's no interest for
- 9:16Speaker 4: the first year.
- 9:17Speaker 2: It doesn't cost you anything, Scott. It's free.
- 9:20Speaker 4: I mean, this is free money. You're not going to
- 9:22Speaker 4: owe anything for this business. By the time you have
- 9:24Speaker 4: to make a payment on this credit card, you're going
- 9:26Speaker 4: to be rolling in cash.
- 9:27Speaker 2: That's the pitch. Over and over.
- 9:29Speaker 1: Is that their credit card? Is that what they set
- 9:32Speaker 1: up as their own credit card?
- 9:35Speaker 2: That is a company that they partner with.
- 9:38Speaker 4: So that company sells you the credit card and then
- 9:41Speaker 4: they get.
- 9:42Speaker 2: A VIG off of that.
- 9:43Speaker 1: Oh my God. So when Jen Shaw went down, obviously
- 9:48Speaker 1: so many other people went down. And so I would
- 9:50Speaker 1: imagine those floors in New York, you know, those, I
- 9:53Speaker 1: don't know what you call them, boiler rooms or whatever.
- 9:55Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 9:56Speaker 2: And then.
- 10:01Speaker 1: And then these credit card people, too. I would imagine
- 10:04Speaker 1: they were taken down.
- 10:05Speaker 4: Yeah. You know, there were several people that were taken
- 10:08Speaker 4: down before Jen. She saw this coming, which is why
- 10:12Speaker 4: she changed the names of her companies.
- 10:14Speaker 1: Oh, my God. That's what blew me away. When you said...
- 10:18Speaker 1: that they were coming for her and she kind of
- 10:21Speaker 1: like skirted out of it. She saw it coming and
- 10:24Speaker 1: then changed the names of her company and doubled down
- 10:27Speaker 1: and kept going. I was like, you've got to be
- 10:30Speaker 1: kidding me. That to me is, you know, you are
- 10:34Speaker 1: completely caught. You deliberately knew what you were doing because
- 10:38Speaker 1: you tried to skirt around it.
- 10:40Speaker 4: Why?
- 10:40Speaker 1: Like, why would you do that?
- 10:42Speaker 4: Well, remember she was, she was, Providing the leads. That
- 10:46Speaker 4: was her main business. I provide leads. You know, I
- 10:50Speaker 4: give you, I give the directory to them of like
- 10:52Speaker 4: basically suckers that will buy your, you know, lousy coaching services.
- 10:57Speaker 4: So the feds caught on to those coaching service firms,
- 11:01Speaker 4: you know, the sales floors, because Jen didn't have a
- 11:04Speaker 4: sales floor originally. She was, you know, just providing the
- 11:07Speaker 4: leads and you get money from the leads. They pay
- 11:09Speaker 4: you a, you know, a commission on those. Okay.
- 11:12Speaker 2: Okay.
- 11:12Speaker 4: So when those people started getting busted, that's when Jen said, Ooh,
- 11:17Speaker 4: they just got busted. There's room for the sales floor.
- 11:20Speaker 4: I could create my own sales floor now. So that's
- 11:22Speaker 4: what she did. She took over the supply and the
- 11:25Speaker 4: demand side of it, both sides of it now.
- 11:27Speaker 2: So she's making money.
- 11:29Speaker 4: And then she changed her, you know, company names because
- 11:32Speaker 4: when the heat, you know, got close to her, she
- 11:35Speaker 4: knew like, I'll just cloak it and nobody will ever know.
- 11:38Speaker 4: I ditched these other two names, but they, you know,
- 11:40Speaker 4: They're smart. Those feds, they'll figure it out.
- 11:42Speaker 1: It's unbelievable that somebody would see other people get busted
- 11:47Speaker 1: for crimes that you are connected to, that you would
- 11:50Speaker 1: be like, ooh, an opportunity. They've been taken down. I'll
- 11:53Speaker 1: step in. And as if you're not going to get busted.
- 11:56Speaker 1: That's what is so mind-blowing to me.
- 12:01Speaker 3: It's a hallmark of a con because they don't think
- 12:04Speaker 3: like you may or I may. It's a different filter,
- 12:07Speaker 3: especially long-term cons. it works a little different.
- 12:11Speaker 1: You mentioned that. And I, can you explain that a
- 12:14Speaker 1: little bit more about like the psychology behind that? I mean,
- 12:16Speaker 1: is that a personality thing where it's like, oh, this
- 12:19Speaker 1: is exciting. There's a red flag in front of me.
- 12:21Speaker 1: I'm going to go ahead and move forward.
- 12:22Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, I was going to say, I'm not,
- 12:25Speaker 3: I'm not a psychologist. Just from the different, you know,
- 12:28Speaker 3: profilers or different people we spoke to, they, they explained
- 12:32Speaker 3: it like that. Like you, where we would be, you know,
- 12:35Speaker 3: pooping our pants that someone's coming after us or, you know,
- 12:38Speaker 3: that would scare us into I better lie low or
- 12:41Speaker 3: I better stop. It's a different mechanism or filter that
- 12:47Speaker 3: it just ignites them a little bit more. And they
- 12:52Speaker 3: don't feel that. They don't feel that fear of what's coming.
- 12:56Speaker 2: I am an amateur psychologist. I will tell you, they
- 12:59Speaker 2: are sociopaths.
- 13:00Speaker 1: I was just going to say, it sounds like a sociopath.
- 13:02Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.
- 13:03Speaker 4: That's why we actually started this show because we've covered
- 13:06Speaker 4: crimes for so long and murderers are interesting.
- 13:11Speaker 2: Obviously, a lot of people tune into them.
- 13:12Speaker 4: It's not what we really wanted to cover because people
- 13:15Speaker 4: who commit scams are in it for the long haul.
- 13:19Speaker 2: They do it for the scams that we cover on
- 13:21Speaker 2: our show. These people are doing it for two years,
- 13:25Speaker 2: five years, 10 years, and then they stop or they
- 13:27Speaker 2: get caught and they go back to scamming. It is
- 13:30Speaker 2: just built into them.
- 13:32Speaker 3: Wow.
- 13:33Speaker 1: I did not. It's because you can't wrap your head
- 13:36Speaker 1: around it, When you're not a scammer, you know, that's
- 13:39Speaker 1: the thing. You're just like, but why wouldn't you stop?
- 13:41Speaker 1: I get it now. You know, you just, it is
- 13:43Speaker 1: programmed in you. That is just part of your, you know,
- 13:47Speaker 1: your unique tapestry, I suppose.
- 13:50Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, yeah.
- 13:51Speaker 3: Look at Sherry Papini. I mean, she finally got caught.
- 13:54Speaker 3: She gets busted. She does time. She admits to it all. Right.
- 14:00Speaker 3: Goes to prison, comes out and then starts raping. all
- 14:04Speaker 3: over like weaving the whole, Oh, Nope. That wasn't the case.
- 14:07Speaker 3: What you saw all my confession. Nope.
- 14:09Speaker 4: Nope.
- 14:09Speaker 3: Somebody put me up and just starts over. I have
- 14:12Speaker 3: a book. I have a, this it's now I'm really
- 14:14Speaker 3: going to tell you what happened. I'm finally freed up
- 14:16Speaker 3: enough to, I mean, like it's.
- 14:18Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 14:19Speaker 4: In case you're, in case you're not aware, Sherry Papini
- 14:21Speaker 4: is out on the, her book tour was lying again,
- 14:26Speaker 4: telling you the same BS story that she told cops, uh,
- 14:30Speaker 4: five years ago, six years, 10 years ago, I guess
- 14:32Speaker 4: it was now.
- 14:33Speaker 3: It's wild.
- 14:33Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 14:34Speaker 3: And she she's out there enough that the two profilers
- 14:41Speaker 3: and folks that worked on the case that had never
- 14:43Speaker 3: talked before did our show because they were like, all right, enough.
- 14:48Speaker 1: Like, OK, we need to talk about this. This is
- 14:50Speaker 1: a safe space, right?
- 14:51Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 14:51Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, the thing I love about your podcast and
- 14:54Speaker 1: what you guys do, you know, broad strokes, is that
- 14:58Speaker 1: you like to cover stories where there's a takedown. where
- 15:03Speaker 1: the criminals get caught, right? Or at least, I mean,
- 15:09Speaker 1: that is pretty much the purpose, correct?
- 15:11Speaker 2: That is satisfying, for sure. Not all of them.
- 15:15Speaker 4: Our current scam does not have a takedown yet, so
- 15:17Speaker 4: we are not... we're not adverse to doing those.
- 15:21Speaker 2: Right.
- 15:22Speaker 1: And that's what, but that's what you're aiming towards. You're
- 15:24Speaker 1: not doing it necessarily just for the purpose of entertainment,
- 15:27Speaker 1: because like at this point, it's such a saturated market
- 15:30Speaker 1: with like true crime and scam stories and things like that.
- 15:33Speaker 1: But I think that your angle is different in that
- 15:36Speaker 1: you are very selective about the things that you cover
- 15:38Speaker 1: and that you get into. And you don't do anything half-assed.
- 15:42Speaker 1: You have, like, all of the information when you go in.
- 15:45Speaker 1: I mean, when you bring it to us. That's what
- 15:48Speaker 1: I really love about what you guys do. I mean,
- 15:50Speaker 1: Case in Point Scamanda, obviously, when I just listened to
- 15:53Speaker 1: this last, Jen Shaw, all of your episodes. And you
- 15:56Speaker 1: have now a new series that you're doing. And it's
- 16:00Speaker 1: called Lexicon, which... I have not listened to yet. I
- 16:03Speaker 1: just have to tell you because I've been inundated. Oh
- 16:07Speaker 1: my God, wait until you dive in. Okay, I've downloaded.
- 16:11Speaker 1: I'm doing that this weekend. So I would love to
- 16:14Speaker 1: hear what brought you to this. Why did you choose this?
- 16:19Speaker 1: And where are you in terms of, has this been solved?
- 16:22Speaker 1: You said it hasn't been, correct?
- 16:24Speaker 4: Let me first, I'll tee up Nancy because Nancy got
- 16:27Speaker 4: the tip on this from Scamanda.
- 16:29Speaker 2: It is called the Lexicon. as in one word, lexicon,
- 16:33Speaker 2: but it's the Lexi.
- 16:34Speaker 4: It's a woman named Lexi Thomas from Maryland.
- 16:38Speaker 2: She is a con artist. Nancy got the tip.
- 16:41Speaker 4: After Scamanda was airing, two nurses from Nashville reached out
- 16:45Speaker 4: to Nancy and said, we think you might have an
- 16:48Speaker 4: East Coast Scamanda. Wow.
- 16:50Speaker 2: Would you mind looking into this? And so Nancy dove in.
- 16:54Speaker 3: Yeah. Joined forces with them as well. They were terrific.
- 16:59Speaker 3: They were super helpful. There was a lot of like
- 17:03Speaker 3: one of them had a connection to the area from
- 17:05Speaker 3: when she was younger. And the other one was just
- 17:07Speaker 3: a friend of hers. They were both nurses. So they
- 17:09Speaker 3: had a lot of medical knowledge, which really got them
- 17:13Speaker 3: thinking after they listened to Scamanda, the one friend said
- 17:17Speaker 3: to the other, huh, I grew up with this girl.
- 17:19Speaker 3: That's been sick for over a decade. Like everyone donates.
- 17:23Speaker 3: She's a, she's a star in this community outside of
- 17:26Speaker 3: still sick. Still sick.
- 17:29Speaker 1: Oh, really?
- 17:29Speaker 3: And she said, now as a, like, she's like, she
- 17:32Speaker 3: always makes me like, now as a grownup nurse, I
- 17:35Speaker 3: am now thinking. And they went and they started looking
- 17:38Speaker 3: back at this huge amount of public stuff. You know,
- 17:45Speaker 3: she had a blog, she had the photos, she had Instagram,
- 17:48Speaker 3: she had Facebook, you name it, she had it. And
- 17:50Speaker 3: it was ongoing. And so we really started picking it
- 17:54Speaker 3: apart and documenting everything we could. And it's a tedious process,
- 17:59Speaker 3: but it's an important one. And, yeah, so it's the
- 18:04Speaker 3: con that chose us for this because we're breaking it.
- 18:08Speaker 3: It comes to you. Yeah, it came to us. It's
- 18:12Speaker 3: been three years in the making, and it's just a process.
- 18:15Speaker 2: Three years.
- 18:16Speaker 3: Three years.
- 18:17Speaker 4: Wow.
- 18:17Speaker 1: Right, because they came to you during, well, when they
- 18:20Speaker 1: were listening to Scamanda.
- 18:21Speaker 2: Right.
- 18:23Speaker 1: Has anyone else covered, like you're the ones who really
- 18:26Speaker 1: are breaking this. I haven't seen this out and about.
- 18:29Speaker 2: Wow. No.
- 18:30Speaker 1: That's exciting.
- 18:30Speaker 2: Nobody knows about it.
- 18:31Speaker 4: And one of the reasons it took so long is
- 18:35Speaker 4: besides the research that Nancy was doing with the nurses,
- 18:38Speaker 4: it's also cultivating the interviews. We can't take it, you know,
- 18:41Speaker 4: you can't do a podcast all by yourself just telling
- 18:44Speaker 4: the story.
- 18:44Speaker 2: You kind of have to have some assets.
- 18:47Speaker 4: And so much of the three years has been cultivating,
- 18:50Speaker 4: making sure that we have enough interviewees from a different
- 18:54Speaker 4: angles because these scammers are really good at only showing
- 18:57Speaker 4: you one side, one side to this group, one side
- 19:00Speaker 4: to that group. So nobody knows where the truth is
- 19:02Speaker 4: because everybody knows.
- 19:03Speaker 2: A different truth.
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- 27:30Speaker 4: We, earlier this year, we confirmed interviews with a couple
- 27:36Speaker 4: of key players, including her sister, the scammer's sister. Oh, snap.
- 27:40Speaker 1: The scammer's sister?
- 27:42Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 27:43Speaker 2: So that was really key.
- 27:45Speaker 3: Yeah, this family's been put through hell by their own
- 27:48Speaker 3: flesh and blood.
- 27:49Speaker 1: Oh, so the family has turned on her.
- 27:53Speaker 2: They've turned on each other. She's turned them on each other.
- 27:55Speaker 2: They've turned on her.
- 27:56Speaker 3: There's a lot.
- 27:57Speaker 2: There's so much. It's really a tragedy. Oh, my God.
- 28:01Speaker 1: You know, in the trailer.
- 28:02Speaker 3: And it takes a lot.
- 28:03Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 28:03Speaker 3: It takes a lot for a family to... I made
- 28:07Speaker 3: that call to them last year. Finally, and had a
- 28:11Speaker 3: heart to heart. And, you know, it could have gone
- 28:13Speaker 3: like when I did it for Scamanda, it was, you know,
- 28:15Speaker 3: F you and nobody would talk to me. And I
- 28:19Speaker 3: was this bad person because she really had a grip
- 28:21Speaker 3: on them. And this this was they're just incredibly rational
- 28:28Speaker 3: and kind people. And so they listened and they I
- 28:32Speaker 3: think there was and we're getting to it in the
- 28:34Speaker 3: episodes coming up, some underlying situations that thought they gave
- 28:37Speaker 3: them pause. and gave them enough pause to work with
- 28:41Speaker 3: me to understand where I was coming from. So you
- 28:45Speaker 3: kind of.
- 28:46Speaker 1: Gave them information where you were.
- 28:48Speaker 3: Oh, my God, no way. Yeah. Yeah. So that's the
- 28:55Speaker 3: story we're telling is, you know, there's obviously the con
- 28:58Speaker 3: and the horrendous thing that she did for all these years,
- 29:02Speaker 3: you know, the faking of disease and cancer eventually and
- 29:05Speaker 3: all of this. But it's really a story about a family.
- 29:09Speaker 3: And it can happen to any family. And I think
- 29:11Speaker 3: that's what we try and show that this, no one
- 29:14Speaker 3: is immune. Everyone thinks, oh, this will never happen to
- 29:17Speaker 3: me or my family, right?
- 29:19Speaker 2: Yeah. And it's such a bonkers story.
- 29:22Speaker 4: And we can tell you because we disclosed this in
- 29:24Speaker 4: the first two minutes of the episode. She claims that
- 29:27Speaker 4: she was being seen by this very renowned doctor, a
- 29:30Speaker 4: hematologist from Duke University that took on her case out
- 29:34Speaker 4: of the blue, called her and said, I wanted to
- 29:36Speaker 4: like help you with the medical issue you had two
- 29:39Speaker 4: years ago.
- 29:40Speaker 2: And it takes off from there.
- 29:43Speaker 4: And very early on, Nancy called the doctor and said,
- 29:47Speaker 4: have you ever heard of this woman?
- 29:48Speaker 2: Are you treating her? Blah, blah, blah.
- 29:49Speaker 4: And the doctor said, I've never heard of her. I
- 29:51Speaker 4: looked through all of my records. I've never treated her.
- 29:55Speaker 4: So this entire blog on This entire story is completely
- 30:00Speaker 4: made up.
- 30:00Speaker 2: And what she did is created her own world, Amy.
- 30:04Speaker 2: So she's got the doctor.
- 30:06Speaker 3: We call it the Lexiverse.
- 30:07Speaker 2: The Lexiverse. That's right.
- 30:09Speaker 4: She's created the nurses, a therapist, a driver who comes
- 30:12Speaker 4: and picks her up.
- 30:14Speaker 2: She's engineering this entire world.
- 30:16Speaker 3: And she goes places. Are these real names?
- 30:18Speaker 1: Are she using real names? I mean, the doctor is real.
- 30:20Speaker 4: The doctor is a real doctor who is stunned. when
- 30:24Speaker 4: he gets a call and he's like, I don't know
- 30:26Speaker 4: who this person is. I've, my nurses have searched every
- 30:29Speaker 4: record in my database.
- 30:31Speaker 2: I sent him pictures.
- 30:32Speaker 3: There were supposed to be pictures of him that she
- 30:34Speaker 3: had like from the side and the back. And I said,
- 30:36Speaker 3: the pictures, I said, let's, do you mind? And he's like, no, sure.
- 30:40Speaker 3: Send me whatever you got. Let's, let's see. So yeah,
- 30:43Speaker 3: I mean, it's elaborate.
- 30:45Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 30:46Speaker 1: How do you maintain a lie like this for so long?
- 30:49Speaker 1: That has got to be exhausting.
- 30:51Speaker 2: It's the big question.
- 30:52Speaker 3: It's the big question.
- 30:57Speaker 4: She not only created doctors, nurses, drivers, she also infiltrated,
- 31:03Speaker 4: which is out on this week's episode, episode three, so
- 31:05Speaker 4: hurry up and catch up. She infiltrated real cancer groups online.
- 31:11Speaker 4: She found the Instagram page for real cancer groups and
- 31:15Speaker 4: then Photoshopped her face into their images and put them
- 31:20Speaker 4: on her own page and passed them off. And then
- 31:23Speaker 4: what she did is she killed them off.
- 31:25Speaker 3: One by one.
- 31:25Speaker 4: So one by one, she kills them off. She's like, oh,
- 31:28Speaker 4: my good friend, Annalise died today.
- 31:31Speaker 2: Blah, blah, blah. Please say a prayer. This is the
- 31:33Speaker 2: second friend I've lost.
- 31:35Speaker 4: Yeah, second friend she's lost in six days. The other
- 31:38Speaker 4: girl died as well. They're both from the same cancer group.
- 31:40Speaker 4: So we, Nancy and I interviewed, Nancy tracked them down
- 31:44Speaker 4: and we got.
- 31:45Speaker 2: Them on Zoom.
- 31:46Speaker 1: Still alive.
- 31:47Speaker 3: Still alive.
- 31:49Speaker 4: And we broke the news. Nancy had already broken the
- 31:51Speaker 4: news that their images had been stolen, but we showed
- 31:54Speaker 4: them their obituaries online in somebody else's feed.
- 31:58Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.
- 32:01Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 32:01Speaker 3: She would change names, you know, so finding all these
- 32:04Speaker 3: people and sourcing everything was took three years. So you
- 32:08Speaker 3: can imagine, but yeah. So that was her MO. It
- 32:12Speaker 3: was taking what she could offline and, And then repurposing
- 32:17Speaker 3: as needed as herself. She stole tons of photos. Exactly.
- 32:22Speaker 3: Tons of photos of a couple of particular cancer fighters
- 32:26Speaker 3: as herself. And she'd crop the heads out, you know, like, yeah.
- 32:30Speaker 1: Did she have like with Scamanda, did she have all
- 32:33Speaker 1: the fake hospital records and things like that?
- 32:38Speaker 3: Oh, no. Well.
- 32:41Speaker 2: Quite the opposite, actually.
- 32:42Speaker 4: Oh, really?
- 32:43Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 32:44Speaker 3: But this is past, what do you call it? Episode three.
- 32:49Speaker 1: Oh, okay.
- 32:49Speaker 3: She goes to a huge gala in New York City
- 32:52Speaker 3: because she is given an award.
- 32:54Speaker 1: Oh, they always get awards. They always get awards.
- 32:59Speaker 3: The whole thing documented.
- 33:03Speaker 4: Really?
- 33:03Speaker 3: In all her glory.
- 33:05Speaker 1: So this took three years, but this leads up until
- 33:09Speaker 1: like right now. I mean, are things still unfolding for
- 33:12Speaker 1: you with this right now?
- 33:14Speaker 3: Yes.
- 33:14Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 33:17Speaker 4: Every day, I mean, even this morning, Nancy texted and
- 33:20Speaker 4: she's like, somebody just came forward with another piece of information.
- 33:23Speaker 4: We're getting this two and three times a day because
- 33:26Speaker 4: everybody's coming out of the woodwork.
- 33:27Speaker 2: And this just dropped a week ago.
- 33:29Speaker 4: There are three episodes up right now. And we are
- 33:32Speaker 4: getting flooded with people that are like, I did this
- 33:35Speaker 4: with her.
- 33:35Speaker 2: I went to school with her. This is what happened here.
- 33:38Speaker 2: I mean, it's emerging still.
- 33:40Speaker 1: So does that.
- 33:41Speaker 3: Mean that you're going to keep- Yeah. And with law enforcement?
- 33:44Speaker 1: Oh, it's with them.
- 33:45Speaker 3: Yeah, they are well aware. I let people know three
- 33:48Speaker 3: years ago once I knew what was going on because
- 33:51Speaker 3: the GoFundMe, which we cover in episodes one and two,
- 33:54Speaker 3: was almost $ 200, 000. Oh, geez. And not to mention restaurants,
- 33:58Speaker 3: the Red Robin restaurant.
- 34:05Speaker 1: Red Robin.
- 34:05Speaker 4: They did two fundraisers because she worked at Red Robin.
- 34:07Speaker 4: So they raised $ 20, 000.
- 34:09Speaker 2: Oh my God.
- 34:11Speaker 3: Are you kidding me?
- 34:13Speaker 4: And we know that a lot of donations were made
- 34:16Speaker 4: offline because people didn't want to pay the GoFundMe fees.
- 34:19Speaker 4: And so they wrote her checks directly. She also had
- 34:22Speaker 4: a network of other people in the community who she'd
- 34:25Speaker 4: befriended that were making monthly contributions or, you know.
- 34:31Speaker 2: uh, regular contributions.
- 34:33Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 34:33Speaker 1: Oh my God. I love Red Robin's gourmet burger, but
- 34:36Speaker 1: that's beside the point. I am astounded. So, okay.
- 34:41Speaker 3: Oh, here's a fun, a fun fact too with Red Robin.
- 34:44Speaker 3: Since you love Red Robin. Um, when all this happened
- 34:48Speaker 3: and we were contacting, they were like, look, the same
- 34:50Speaker 3: thing that Scamanda did, right? The, the restaurant, all the
- 34:53Speaker 3: waiters and waitresses, the tips went to the, went to
- 34:55Speaker 3: her and then whatever. And this was, and this was
- 34:58Speaker 3: in Maryland. Um, and I went, they told me the
- 35:02Speaker 3: locations of the restaurants and I went, Whoa, wait, hang on.
- 35:05Speaker 3: So my nephew worked there. And so I, yep. I
- 35:10Speaker 3: called my nephew and I said, Hey, do you remember
- 35:13Speaker 3: like years ago? Like, was there a young lady that
- 35:17Speaker 3: worked with you that had kids? Cause he goes, Oh yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 35:19Speaker 3: We raised like over 10,000 in our, in our restaurant alone.
- 35:22Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah.
- 35:23Speaker 3: And then he paused and he said, Oh shit. If
- 35:26Speaker 3: you're calling, I cannot believe the chances. And I said,
- 35:31Speaker 3: what are the chances? I said, quiet. You cannot tell
- 35:35Speaker 3: anyone in the community. Like I'm just starting. Right.
- 35:38Speaker 1: Like you have a gag order right now, your family,
- 35:41Speaker 1: but you, you've been gagged. Okay. That is unbelievable. What
- 35:44Speaker 1: are the chances? Wait, where are you from?
- 35:45Speaker 3: What are the chances? No, I'm from New Jersey, but
- 35:48Speaker 3: my sister moved to Maryland. After college and raised her
- 35:52Speaker 3: family there.
- 35:53Speaker 1: I got to ask, wait, what year would this Red
- 35:55Speaker 1: Robin fundraiser, when would that have taken place? Do you
- 35:59Speaker 1: know off the.
- 36:00Speaker 2: Top of your head? She did two. 2014 and 2016.
- 36:04Speaker 1: Okay. I got to ask, well, I mean, a lot
- 36:06Speaker 1: of my listeners, I got a lot of East Coasters
- 36:08Speaker 1: and I have several that are from Maryland. And so,
- 36:11Speaker 1: and Emily, who is one of my co-hosts is from
- 36:13Speaker 1: Maryland herself. So we're going to have to dig into
- 36:17Speaker 1: this and see if anyone is familiar. So has Lexi,
- 36:22Speaker 1: when did it drop in her lap that you guys
- 36:25Speaker 1: were onto her?
- 36:27Speaker 3: Do you know? August 25. Yeah.
- 36:30Speaker 2: Okay.
- 36:30Speaker 1: How did that go? Well, you probably don't want to
- 36:32Speaker 1: say that's in the podcast, right?
- 36:34Speaker 4: Like.
- 36:35Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. Okay.
- 36:36Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 36:36Speaker 2: We've been in communication with a representative. That's all we
- 36:39Speaker 2: can say.
- 36:40Speaker 1: Very interesting. Okay. And the representative is Jen Shah. No,
- 36:44Speaker 1: I'm kidding.
- 36:45Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 36:46Speaker 4: And this, by the way, this podcast doesn't follow our
- 36:49Speaker 4: typical format.
- 36:49Speaker 2: This is a script. I mean, this is a long form.
- 36:52Speaker 4: Podcast like Scamanda where we're weaving in interviews and, you know,
- 36:56Speaker 4: sound from events and that type of thing. And there
- 37:01Speaker 4: are actresses playing parts, you know, for the blog. So
- 37:05Speaker 4: you're getting all parts of it. It's a little departure
- 37:08Speaker 4: for us from the slippery.
- 37:10Speaker 1: Oh, okay. I didn't realize that. So the format is
- 37:13Speaker 1: like Scamanda.
- 37:14Speaker 2: Oh, that's exciting.
- 37:15Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 37:16Speaker 1: How many episodes will it be or do you not
- 37:18Speaker 1: know because it continues on?
- 37:20Speaker 2: We don't know yet. It's at least seven.
- 37:23Speaker 4: Wow. We know that so far, but we don't know
- 37:26Speaker 4: where it's going to end.
- 37:28Speaker 3: And then what we do each week is we do this,
- 37:30Speaker 3: like a debrief, where it's us talking and then we
- 37:32Speaker 3: bring on a guest from the previous episode. Oh, really? Yeah,
- 37:37Speaker 3: we thought we'd have some fun. Why not? That's a
- 37:38Speaker 3: good idea. Do whatever we want.
- 37:40Speaker 1: Especially if they're willing to talk, you know?
- 37:43Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 37:43Speaker 3: So the first, our first debrief is our tipsters. They
- 37:46Speaker 3: came on and talked about, yeah. Why, the how, like,
- 37:51Speaker 3: you know, and, and how it all went down. And
- 37:53Speaker 3: then we dig a little deeper because we have so
- 37:55Speaker 3: much information. We can't, you know, when you're telling a story.
- 37:59Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 37:59Speaker 4: We're telling 30% of this story. That's all we could do.
- 38:03Speaker 4: I mean, if we put all of it out there,
- 38:05Speaker 4: it would just be too, it'd be 30 or 40
- 38:08Speaker 4: parts easily. Yeah. But I mean, that's how detailed this,
- 38:12Speaker 4: this woman was. It was, Think about it every single
- 38:15Speaker 4: day for 10 years that you're posting something or going.
- 38:20Speaker 4: And when I'm saying that she's going somewhere, she's going
- 38:23Speaker 4: to NIH or Johns Hopkins for treatment and she's gone
- 38:28Speaker 4: for two days and then comes home and she's so
- 38:31Speaker 4: weak that she can't walk and people have to bring
- 38:34Speaker 4: her food. And then the next day she's at a
- 38:36Speaker 4: gala or at a conference in Chicago and she's.
- 38:40Speaker 2: Got to go over there. This was her whole life,
- 38:43Speaker 2: this sham.
- 38:44Speaker 3: Wow.
- 38:45Speaker 1: Is she married? Does she have a family? Does she
- 38:47Speaker 1: have kids or anything like that?
- 38:49Speaker 3: Episode four is out next week.
- 38:51Speaker 2: Oh, my God. All we can tell you right now
- 38:56Speaker 2: in this show, she has a boyfriend, a new boyfriend.
- 38:58Speaker 1: Okay.
- 38:59Speaker 3: We're doing it chronologically. So her stuff all started in 2012.
- 39:04Speaker 1: Oh, that's when Jen Shah started. You guys, 2012 was
- 39:10Speaker 1: a tough year. I mean, a great year for scammers.
- 39:12Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 39:13Speaker 1: Depends on how you look at it.
- 39:15Speaker 3: Scamanda too. So yeah, it started, she started feeling ill
- 39:20Speaker 3: in 2012. 2014 is where we pick it up because
- 39:23Speaker 3: that's when she officially started her, foray into blogging and
- 39:29Speaker 3: really putting it out there.
- 39:30Speaker 2: And that's really the trick. In 2012, she really was sick.
- 39:34Speaker 4: She had something called hyper eosinophilia, which is something with
- 39:38Speaker 4: your white blood cells, but it can be triggered by
- 39:40Speaker 4: an allergy or it can be chronic. It's usually associated
- 39:43Speaker 4: with tapeworm or some sort of allergic reaction. Oh. So
- 39:47Speaker 4: she was hospitalized and her family was with her in
- 39:50Speaker 4: the hospital in 2012. But then after that, she just
- 39:54Speaker 4: kind of kept, she told them she kept going. She
- 39:56Speaker 4: wasn't feeling well and she was continuing to go and
- 39:59Speaker 4: seek treatment. Granted, when she was sick in 2012, she
- 40:04Speaker 4: did end up in Johns Hopkins for a week and
- 40:06Speaker 4: then they discharged her. They actually suggested that it was
- 40:10Speaker 4: in her head and she insisted it wasn't. And so-
- 40:15Speaker 4: That's where the story starts. So then when she starts
- 40:17Speaker 4: the blog in 2014, and by the way, we haven't
- 40:20Speaker 4: brought this up, she is a religious girl.
- 40:23Speaker 2: She's brought up in the Catholic Church at St. John the.
- 40:28Speaker 4: Evangelist in Montgomery County, Maryland. So her family had this
- 40:35Speaker 4: great name, right? Everybody trusted them. And so when she
- 40:39Speaker 4: starts saying she's sick and they believe them, They're her advocates, basically.
- 40:43Speaker 4: The whole community rallies around her because it's the Thomas family.
- 40:47Speaker 3: Yeah, her blog is Romans 828. Is that right? Yeah,
- 40:51Speaker 3: Romans 828. Everything's uber religious.
- 40:55Speaker 1: Oh, I didn't know that. Oh, that's interesting.
- 40:58Speaker 3: It's a key prop for these type of things. I
- 41:00Speaker 3: didn't just put it that way. But it's because people
- 41:03Speaker 3: there are so helpful, right? They're good people. That's right.
- 41:06Speaker 3: They're people that want to help.
- 41:08Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
- 41:08Speaker 1: Yeah, they're the perfect victims for situations like this. You're right.
- 41:12Speaker 2: Right. Yeah, because scammers don't choose dumb people. They choose
- 41:15Speaker 2: good people.
- 41:18Speaker 1: Yeah, that's sad. And then they give, you know, good
- 41:21Speaker 1: people a bad name because they're taken advantage of, you know,
- 41:25Speaker 1: and they look, you know, this is like a broad
- 41:28Speaker 1: question in general about scheming, scamming. Do you find that
- 41:33Speaker 1: there are themes or differences between the two genders? Like
- 41:38Speaker 1: are men more prone to do like this type of
- 41:42Speaker 1: scam and women are more prone to do this type
- 41:45Speaker 1: of scam? Have you noticed any kind of categorical way
- 41:49Speaker 1: to see them both as different or are they just
- 41:52Speaker 1: pretty much like have at it? It's anyone's game.
- 41:56Speaker 3: For me, a lot of the young, because Lexi is
- 42:00Speaker 3: a young, white woman. She started this at 20 years old.
- 42:06Speaker 3: And same with Scamanda was in, you know, young white.
- 42:08Speaker 3: There's a, I keep saying they need to study young
- 42:13Speaker 3: white women, usually privileged, you know, growing up.
- 42:16Speaker 2: Narcissistic.
- 42:18Speaker 3: Yeah. Telling a lot of white lies from when they're young.
- 42:22Speaker 3: But anyway, that seems to be something. That's just me
- 42:26Speaker 3: noticing this from a lot of stories over the years. Wow.
- 42:30Speaker 1: Do you think that also, you know, piggybacking on that,
- 42:33Speaker 1: that the world of being an influencer and social media
- 42:37Speaker 1: has a huge part in this?
- 42:40Speaker 4: Well, yeah.
- 42:41Speaker 3: I mean, it makes it easy. I hate to say it. Absolutely.
- 42:44Speaker 2: Absolutely.
- 42:45Speaker 4: And I would say the other trend is there are more,
- 42:48Speaker 4: we've run into more male scammers than we do female scammers.
- 42:51Speaker 2: It's a little more rare to come across a female scammer. Really?
- 42:55Speaker 2: But when you do, it's extreme.
- 42:57Speaker 4: We covered a case a couple of weeks ago that
- 43:00Speaker 4: was in the news a year ago, year and a
- 43:03Speaker 4: half ago. The pharmacist, the wife who was a pharmacist
- 43:06Speaker 4: who then became an entrepreneur and ended up running their
- 43:09Speaker 4: finances into the ground. She was going to be caught
- 43:12Speaker 4: and the husband was onto her as well. And she
- 43:16Speaker 4: poisoned him with insulin. She killed her own husband because
- 43:19Speaker 4: he was onto her Ponzi scheme.
- 43:22Speaker 2: Crazy story. So when you do run into a female scammer,
- 43:25Speaker 2: it is usually- Look out. Yeah. Watch out. Exactly.
- 43:29Speaker 1: Well, you know, we like to, we go big or
- 43:31Speaker 1: we go home.
- 43:32Speaker 2: That's right.
- 43:33Speaker 1: Right, Nancy? Am I right, girl?
- 43:34Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 43:35Speaker 3: Listen, what's the joke of someone who always says, you know,
- 43:41Speaker 3: you say something about the husband or the boyfriend, they're like,
- 43:43Speaker 3: let me get my shovel, you know? Like it takes
- 43:46Speaker 3: it to that. The friends will, will rise. Yeah.
- 43:49Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 43:50Speaker 1: That's what makes it so, I think why it's so
- 43:52Speaker 1: interesting when we do get these stories about women with
- 43:56Speaker 1: these unbelievable scams, because it is so mind blowing. You're like, wow,
- 44:01Speaker 1: they really, really went for it. I mean, talk about
- 44:04Speaker 1: like showing up for work every day.
- 44:07Speaker 2: They are committed.
- 44:08Speaker 4: And I would say most of the comments we're getting
- 44:09Speaker 4: are from females and that new Lexi that are hell
- 44:13Speaker 4: bent on getting their information out there.
- 44:16Speaker 1: They're probably hell bent on getting their money back. You know,
- 44:18Speaker 1: I mean, like that's really tough when you, people don't have,
- 44:22Speaker 1: especially like when you're involved in a church or something
- 44:24Speaker 1: like that, people are really giving, you know, they're like
- 44:27Speaker 1: you said, they're, they're vulnerable people. They're good people. So
- 44:29Speaker 1: they're just going to give. So it's not like they
- 44:31Speaker 1: can necessarily, everybody can afford it. So it'd be nice
- 44:35Speaker 1: to have the money back in your pocket.
- 44:38Speaker 3: Yeah, I think a lot of folks realize with that, like, oh,
- 44:41Speaker 3: I don't know if that's ever going to happen. Like,
- 44:42Speaker 3: you know, Scamanda's got restitution to pay. You can, you know,
- 44:45Speaker 3: pay $ 100 a month, $ 25 a month and meet the requirement.
- 44:49Speaker 3: So I think for them, it's just the betrayal of
- 44:52Speaker 3: it all, you know, from what we're hearing. I mean,
- 44:55Speaker 3: these families, there were divides in multiple families in this story,
- 45:00Speaker 3: like wedges drawn because, you know, you're Team Lexi or
- 45:04Speaker 3: you're not because she's dying. So, you know, there's... a
- 45:08Speaker 3: lot for them to deal with and go through. And
- 45:12Speaker 3: I think they just want justice or accountability. It seems
- 45:15Speaker 3: to be the big want in all of this.
- 45:19Speaker 4: I think the big question that we keep facing in
- 45:21Speaker 4: this as well is, was the family in on it?
- 45:24Speaker 2: And we know that the sisters were not in on it.
- 45:27Speaker 4: One of them was responsible for helping her and her
- 45:31Speaker 4: husband wrote the GoFundMe notes and organized the GoFundMe accounts.
- 45:36Speaker 4: And so people are throwing shade that direction when you
- 45:39Speaker 4: tell you they didn't know they were fooled the parents
- 45:43Speaker 4: we have no idea because it is odd that you
- 45:46Speaker 4: go to 10 years of cancer treatments and mom on
- 45:51Speaker 4: your parents insurance On your parents' insurance for six of
- 45:54Speaker 4: those years.
- 45:54Speaker 3: I'll throw that in.
- 45:55Speaker 2: And mom or dad doesn't ever go with you. I mean,
- 45:57Speaker 2: that's a little odd to me. Oh, God.
- 45:59Speaker 1: Well, that's probably why she wanted attention. Her parents don't
- 46:03Speaker 1: seem to care much.
- 46:04Speaker 2: That's a great point.
- 46:06Speaker 3: That's a good point. No, this was on her insistence
- 46:08Speaker 3: that she wanted to be a normal girl fighting this
- 46:13Speaker 3: and doing it. And be independent. She was going to
- 46:15Speaker 3: be strong and be independent. I see.
- 46:17Speaker 1: Right.
- 46:18Speaker 3: And- The setup.
- 46:20Speaker 4: Right.
- 46:20Speaker 1: That's convenient.
- 46:21Speaker 3: The setup is important. You know, she, this was how
- 46:25Speaker 3: she was taking it on. And people can understand both
- 46:27Speaker 3: sides of that, right? You want.
- 46:29Speaker 1: Absolutely.
- 46:29Speaker 3: Your, your daughter to be independent and strong and tell
- 46:33Speaker 3: me what you need. Bring me in when necessary.
- 46:35Speaker 1: Right. How many siblings does she have? Like you said, sisters.
- 46:39Speaker 4: Two.
- 46:40Speaker 1: Okay. And they're sisters?
- 46:42Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 46:42Speaker 3: Three sisters. She's the baby. Oh, okay.
- 46:45Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 46:45Speaker 1: Well, you know. I'm the baby too. So, I mean, look,
- 46:48Speaker 1: I got my own podcast. At least I'm not running
- 46:51Speaker 1: a scam.
- 46:51Speaker 2: But, you know, right?
- 46:53Speaker 3: Look at us.
- 46:54Speaker 1: We have a little bit in common. But, you know,
- 46:57Speaker 1: this story is so fascinating to me. I think probably
- 47:00Speaker 1: because it's still ongoing now that I know that. And
- 47:05Speaker 1: that people are just coming out of the woodwork. That's
- 47:08Speaker 1: the part that I love about when you hear about
- 47:10Speaker 1: this stuff. Typically, like, you know, when listening to Scamanda,
- 47:13Speaker 1: it was like, and then we heard from this person
- 47:15Speaker 1: and then this person came forward and then this person.
- 47:16Speaker 1: And it's like, oh, my gosh, it just unravels and unravels.
- 47:20Speaker 1: And it's just like this clown car of people who
- 47:24Speaker 1: were fell victim to these scams. And I cannot wait
- 47:29Speaker 1: to listen to this. I am so excited. So can
- 47:33Speaker 1: you tell everybody where they can find your podcast? where
- 47:36Speaker 1: they can find all the good stuff, your website, everything.
- 47:39Speaker 1: And please give them your tip line because, you know,
- 47:43Speaker 1: that's always open.
- 47:44Speaker 3: Well, you can always get us. I get this wrong
- 47:46Speaker 3: all the time. We're the worst at promoting ourselves.
- 47:49Speaker 2: I know. I know. I think I have it memorized.
- 47:53Speaker 4: You can find the lexicon at The Slippery wherever you
- 47:57Speaker 4: get the podcast. I think you can search the lexicon
- 48:01Speaker 4: as well, but search The Slippery.
- 48:04Speaker 2: And we're on Apple and Spotify and YouTube, of course.
- 48:09Speaker 2: It's only audio. The main podcast is only audio.
- 48:13Speaker 4: The debriefs where we show you pictures of Lexi and
- 48:16Speaker 4: like her.
- 48:17Speaker 3: Every Thursday.
- 48:19Speaker 4: Some of her evidence or our evidence is video every Thursday.
- 48:24Speaker 4: So it is worth going to YouTube for that to
- 48:27Speaker 4: see exactly what the scammer looks like and how she's
- 48:29Speaker 4: pulling it off.
- 48:30Speaker 1: Is it called the slippery on your YouTube?
- 48:34Speaker 2: Yeah. The Slippery. Our YouTube is The Slippery.
- 48:37Speaker 4: And then we're across social media, The Slippery Pod at Instagram, Facebook,
- 48:41Speaker 4: and TikTok. And then our website is theslippery.com and everything
- 48:47Speaker 4: is there.
- 48:48Speaker 1: Very impressive. I noticed that you guys are charting. a
- 48:52Speaker 1: lot in true crime category on Apple podcasts.
- 48:55Speaker 2: All right. Yeah.
- 48:57Speaker 1: It's just very exciting. I mean, it's, it's so cool.
- 48:59Speaker 1: Cause you, you guys are the real deal. You know
- 49:02Speaker 1: what you're doing and that's what's so exciting about it.
- 49:05Speaker 1: So when, uh, when we got connected a while back,
- 49:08Speaker 1: I was just so thrilled that you guys are willing
- 49:11Speaker 1: to come on this podcast and I hope that you
- 49:13Speaker 1: will come back again and again.
- 49:15Speaker 2: Of course.
- 49:15Speaker 4: What's been big things to you, like, being on podcasts
- 49:19Speaker 4: that are successful like this only help us.
- 49:21Speaker 2: That's for sure.
- 49:22Speaker 1: Oh my, I'm so glad. Yeah, I love to promote
- 49:25Speaker 1: anybody who's doing anything great. And you guys are, you
- 49:29Speaker 1: are the greats at what you do. And so thank
- 49:31Speaker 1: you for that. And thank you for bringing justice to
- 49:34Speaker 1: all of us.
- 49:36Speaker 3: We try.
- 49:36Speaker 1: All right. Well, Nancy Muscatello, Scott Eldridge, thank you so
- 49:41Speaker 1: much for joining me today on Drama Day.
- 49:49Speaker 2: Drama darling.
- 49:51Speaker 1: Drama darling.
- 49:53Speaker 2: Drama darling.