Latest / Podcasts By Donna Jodhan / Remarkable World Commentary Episode #64: Interview with Alexander Barrasso, Policy Advisor
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- 0:13Podcast Commentator: Greetings. Donna J Jodhan, LLB, ACSP and MBA invites you to listen to
- 0:20her biweekly podcast, Remarkable World Commentary.
- 0:24Here, Donna shares some of her innermost thoughts,
- 0:27insights, perspectives, and more with her listeners.
- 0:31Donna focuses on topics that directly affect the future of kids,
- 0:35especially kids with disabilities.
- 0:38Donna is a blind advocate, author, site loss coach,
- 0:42dinner mystery producer, writer, entrepreneur,
- 0:46law graduate, and podcast commentator.
- 0:49She has decades of lived experiences, knowledge,
- 0:53skills, and expertise in access technology and information as someone who has been
- 0:59internationally recognized for her work and roles,
- 1:02she just wants to make things better than possible.
- 1:07Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Hello everybody, and welcome to another episode of Remarkable World Commentary.
- 1:15I am Donna Jodhan, a lifelong disability advocate and one who sees the world mainly
- 1:23through sound, touch and stubborn optimism.
- 1:28I am a law graduate, accessibility consultant,
- 1:32author, lifelong barrier buster who also happens to be blind.
- 1:38You may know me from a few headline moments, as in November 2010,
- 1:44I won the Landmark Charter case that forced the Canadian government to make its websites
- 1:50accessible to every Canadian, not just the sighted ones.
- 1:56And in July of 2019, I co-led the Accessible Canada Act with more than two dozen
- 2:04disability groups to turn equal access into federal law and most recently,
- 2:12on June 3rd, 2022. I was greatly humbled by Her Late Majesty's Platinum Jubilee Award
- 2:21for tireless commitment to removing barriers.
- 2:26When I'm not in a courtroom or in a committee room or in a pottery studio,
- 2:32you will find me coaching kids with vision loss,
- 2:37producing audio mysteries, or helping tech companies to make their
- 2:42gadgets talk back in plain language.
- 2:47Everything I do circles one goal to turn accessibility from an afterthought into
- 2:54everyday Big brothers, I invite you to think of this show as our
- 2:59shared workbench where policy meets lived experience and lived experience
- 3:08sparks fresh ideas. Now, before we jump into today's conversation,
- 3:15let me shine a spotlight on today's guest, a change maker whose work is as every bit as
- 3:23remarkable as the world that we are trying to build.
- 3:28Alex Barrasso, I'd like to welcome you to my Remarkable World Commentary podcast.
- 3:35So, Alex, I always like to start with roots.
- 3:41Can you take my listeners back to your childhood in New York,
- 3:48growing up as the blind son of an Italian immigrant and share how that early family
- 3:57and cultural environment shaped the way that you see the world today.
- 4:05Alex Barrasso: Sure. Thank you, Donna, for giving me the opportunity to be on your
- 4:10podcast and for the excellent question.
- 4:13So my parents were immigrants from Italy, as you said,
- 4:18and I was born blind. And a couple of years after I was born,
- 4:25we moved from a small apartment into a house surrounded by neighbors.
- 4:33It was an incredibly multicultural street.
- 4:36The the neighbors to our left were from Yugoslavia.
- 4:39The neighbors to our right were from Ireland.
- 4:42The ones across the street were from Norway.
- 4:45It was And they were not all of them had had necessarily been the immigrants,
- 4:50but but their extended family was with them and it was it was just an amazing
- 4:57multicultural environment to grow up in.
- 5:00And I think that has contributed to just my, my openness as a person to people of
- 5:09different cultures, different backgrounds, different faiths.
- 5:14And in terms of my family life my mother in particular really
- 5:23infused me with an incredibly positive attitude.
- 5:28She used to tell me that I'm only limited by what my mind can,
- 5:34can dream of and do. And maybe that's not 100% true,
- 5:39but it certainly made me a very positive person.
- 5:45And a person who tried to live life that way.
- 5:51I remember when I was 6 or 7, my friends were getting bicycles for their
- 5:57birthday and I said, well, I want a bicycle.
- 5:59Of course, I didn't think about how I was going to ride this thing.
- 6:03I was going to learn to ride it.
- 6:04I just I wanted a bicycle, and I know I learned later on that my parents
- 6:09kind of had a conversation, well, do we get him a bicycle or not?
- 6:13And they eventually did.
- 6:14And my father would run with me and teach me how to use the training wheels.
- 6:20And then I graduated to two wheels, but my parents probably didn't know as much
- 6:27is that I would take my bike out and ride down the sidewalk by myself.
- 6:35And I mean, it's probably it's a miracle that nothing really bad happened to me.
- 6:42Except for the one time when I was with a friend and actually tried to keep up with him
- 6:47And fell down, chipped the tooth, bruised all four joints and,
- 6:53you know, whatever. But anyway, that hopefully gives your listeners a
- 6:58snapshot of kind of what, what it was like to grow up for me.
- 7:04And I know that that last incident I just mentioned resulted in my parents not talking
- 7:08to each other for a week, but you know, that's that's that's kind of a
- 7:13little bit about what it was like.
- 7:16Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: I think I will tell you more offline about similarity to my dad,
- 7:21who taught me how to ride a bike.
- 7:23And I had very little vision as a child.
- 7:27So you have been blind since birth.
- 7:30Okay. Yet you chose a career that many people assume demands perfect eyesight.
- 7:40What drew you to the Foreign Service in the first place.
- 7:46And what do you remember about the moment that you decided,
- 7:52quote, I am going to be a diplomat.
- 7:57Alex Barrasso: Sure. So I was a senior in high school and I thought I wanted to study law after
- 8:07university. And at the time, we I was in a program called Washington
- 8:13Seminar on Government in Action, and we split up into groups.
- 8:19We researched a variety of issues and then wrote to officials in Washington involved in
- 8:28working those issues and asked for meetings when we traveled there.
- 8:32Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Right.
- 8:33Alex Barrasso: And one of our stops was at the State Department,
- 8:38and we we were supposed to see someone from African Affairs and what was then Soviet
- 8:43affairs. But before they did that, they put a recruiter in front of us.
- 8:48And I just listened to him and I was just captivated.
- 8:51I said, wait a minute, I can learn languages,
- 8:55travel the world, meet people, experience cultures,
- 9:00represent the United States, and this can be my job.
- 9:02I said, where do I sign up?
- 9:05And from that moment, I knew that I was not going to go to law
- 9:11school. This is what I was going to do.
- 9:14And everything I did from that moment on, at least academically,
- 9:19was was geared towards getting myself ready for the Foreign Service exam.
- 9:24And I had to take it multiple times, which is not uncommon.
- 9:29Okay. Eventually got what is called the Thomas Pickering Fellowship,
- 9:38which through which the State Department covered my last year of grad school,
- 9:44and through which I signed up to spend at least five years in the department.
- 9:53I believe it was five. Maybe it was three that a minimum I had to do. I wasn't worried
- 9:56about the minimum because I knew I was going to do it right.
- 10:00And and that also gave me an internship right after grad school.
- 10:06And I guess I finished grad school in May of 1999,
- 10:11started my internship in June, came back to DC in August,
- 10:15and in September, I was starting entry level training with the State Department.
- 10:22And I didn't know it at the time, but would end up moving to Columbia for my
- 10:29first assignment.
- 10:31Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Holy jeez, I'm just blown away.
- 10:34I think there's something else we do have in common.
- 10:37When we speak offline, I want it to be a foreign diplomat as well.
- 10:41I never got there, so.
- 10:44Wow. So over your 26 year career, you have served in places
- 10:53as varied as Colombia, Singapore, Thailand the Czech Republic,
- 11:03Brunei, Saudi Arabia and finally Dubai with the Iran Regional
- 11:13presence office. When you look back across all of these postings,
- 11:21what are 1 or 2 moments that best capture capture for what it meant for you to
- 11:30represent the United States as a blind diplomat?
- 11:36Alex Barrasso: So Several highlights.
- 11:40Specific to blindness, I think I really enjoyed,
- 11:44for instance, connecting with schools for the blind and blind students in Thailand and in
- 11:54in the Czech Republic in particular in Singapore.
- 11:58I remember when when we got there, my wife and I and our,
- 12:03my guide dog guide dogs were not allowed in.
- 12:08Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Right.
- 12:09Alex Barrasso: On transit or in public spaces.
- 12:11And I was very outspoken not just privately, but publicly about that.
- 12:17Lots of people told me it's it's not going to happen.
- 12:20Singapore is not ready for it.
- 12:21And it certainly didn't happen while I was there.
- 12:24But right five years after I left, I got an email from one of my former
- 12:30colleagues who said they changed the law.
- 12:34Guide dogs are allowed here.
- 12:36And she said to me, your impetus got people thinking.
- 12:44And we did it from within.
- 12:46We didn't. You know, we need outside pressure or want outside pressure,
- 12:49but we did it from within and it's real.
- 12:52And and you know, I certainly didn't go about it diplomatically.
- 12:59But but the result is there.
- 13:03And I talked to students in the Czech Republic about my career,
- 13:09my experiences, my accommodations, got them thinking about possibilities for
- 13:14them. And then in terms of just sort of broad career accomplishments I'll mention two.
- 13:23Don't. Yes. That don't have anything to do with blindness,
- 13:27really. But one was leading an interagency effort to finalize a $13.1
- 13:37billion defense sale and, at least according to Commerce Department
- 13:43statistics, that supported 65,000 U.S.
- 13:47jobs. And then another was negotiating the release of a
- 13:57couple and their three minor kids, and I won't mention the country from from
- 14:02military custody where they had been held for a couple of days and having to do that in a
- 14:12foreign language, assembling a team on, on very,
- 14:16very short notice to go and try to make those arrangements.
- 14:21And we succeeded and getting that family out of custody and back into to their life.
- 14:30So those are just a couple of general career highlights that stand out for me.
- 14:37Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Wow. I am simply blown away here.
- 14:42So I know from my own life that disability often means constantly negotiating
- 14:51attitudes as much as physical barriers.
- 14:57Can you talk about some of the attitudes or institutional barriers that you encountered
- 15:06in inside the diplomatic world, and how you learned to navigate or push
- 15:14through them?
- 15:16Alex Barrasso: Sure. So unfortunately, I think that the greatest attitudinal
- 15:22barriers I faced were from my own colleagues in the US government.
- 15:28That's a sad statement, but I think it's true.
- 15:31Certainly I have my allies.
- 15:34And I think we'll talk about them later, but there were also I think the,
- 15:41the default, really, when it comes to getting assignments in our system is that my
- 15:51blindness is is, well, well known to to State Department officials.
- 16:01Yeah. And there are other blind officers in the institution as well.
- 16:07There have been others before us.
- 16:09And I think the bottom line is when we're competing for assignments,
- 16:15we are often passed over in that process because hiring managers will say,
- 16:21well, why should I hire somebody that I have to ensure has reasonable accommodations when
- 16:28I can hire someone who is equally capable, or maybe not,
- 16:34or maybe more capable and doesn't require those accommodations.
- 16:39So why should I hire the officer with a blindness or another disability?
- 16:48I certainly was was denied certain opportunities.
- 16:54Not just in assignments, but I couldn't go to certain events.
- 16:59Like, for instance there were a couple of fly outs to aircraft carriers,
- 17:03including one when I was head of mission in Brunei.
- 17:07And the Defense Department would not let me go.
- 17:12Out there had the same thing happened in Saudi Arabia.
- 17:17So, so these are just things that happen, and you have to deal with them and push
- 17:21through. I mean, in Brunei, for me, the most important aspect of that was
- 17:28that that the bruneians get to go.
- 17:30So I could have presumably just cancelled the whole thing because I couldn't go,
- 17:37but that that wasn't that wasn't the right thing to do in my estimation.
- 17:41It was important for the bruneians to go and and then we ended up working with them to
- 17:48purchase some some Sikorsky helicopters.
- 17:52And that was not a deal on the same magnitude as the missile defense deal.
- 17:56But it also, it supported over a thousand US jobs.
- 18:00And I'm sure that the the experience on the aircraft carrier had a role to play in that.
- 18:06But you have to just push through these things you know,
- 18:10disappointments and rejections are a part of life,
- 18:14and perhaps more so for those of us with disabilities.
- 18:19And we just but we just have to learn to move on and and move forward.
- 18:28Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: You eventually rose rose to senior leadership roles,
- 18:34including Deputy chief of mission in and oh, I don't know how to pronounce this UN chargé
- 18:43d'affaires in Brunei. How did you approach leadership as a blind officer,
- 18:51and what did you do deliberately to show colleagues and host country officials
- 19:02that disability and authority not only can but do belong together?
- 19:11Alex Barrasso: Sure. So like all leaders, I have made my mistakes.
- 19:18I certainly I recognize that I think most importantly in terms of leadership is is
- 19:27being inclusive, listening to everybody around you because everybody has a different
- 19:34set of not just cultural and ethnic backgrounds and linguistic backgrounds,
- 19:39but everybody has a variety of career experiences.
- 19:44And I remember specifically in, in Saudi Arabia managing that program on
- 19:54critical infrastructure protection and public security. I remember going into meetings
- 19:59thinking, okay, I know how we're going to resolve this problem. I know what the
- 20:02solution is. I know how we're going to move this program forward.
- 20:06And I would listen to everybody around me and I would be the last to speak.
- 20:11And on on several occasions, my team convinced me to adopt a different
- 20:17course of action than the one I had in mind.
- 20:19And I would eventually tell them.
- 20:21I would tell them. Okay. This is. This is what I had planned. But no,
- 20:24you've convinced me otherwise. So here's what we're going to do it your way. And in all of
- 20:31those cases, listening to them was the right thing to do.
- 20:36So I think listening first, speaking later, being inclusive asking people
- 20:45who don't necessarily volunteer, volunteer their views to,
- 20:48to provide them. Right.
- 20:51Those those are some real keys, I think, to just general interpersonal
- 20:59leadership. In terms of my blindness, I have told all of my employees I'm an open
- 21:06book. You've probably never worked with a blind person before.
- 21:10Ask me whatever you want.
- 21:11No question is dumb. I'm not going to chastise anybody for a question they ask.
- 21:17My mother told me that someone asked me in school,
- 21:20how do you eat?
- 21:22Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Yes, I've had that one.
- 21:24Alex Barrasso: With a fork.
- 21:26Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Yeah. Very good. Yeah.
- 21:28Alex Barrasso: You know and I think that that creates just that openness creates trust.
- 21:39It even led one of my subordinates to come to me and say,
- 21:44you know what? My brother just had a he and his wife just had a baby.
- 21:48Born with your same condition.
- 21:50Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Oh, okay.
- 21:51Alex Barrasso: How how do they get started?
- 21:54What do they do? And I directed her to you know,
- 21:58to resources like the lighthouse, the commissions for the blind.
- 22:02But most importantly, I think I said. I said to her, I said, this
- 22:05is going to be okay. Life isn't over.
- 22:09You know, look at me. I'm here.
- 22:12You just have to instill positivity and give give him the tools that he needs to succeed.
- 22:19There's early child development programs. Et cetera. Et cetera.
- 22:23So hopefully that gets at what you were looking for in the question.
- 22:32Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Wow. You know, I had someone ask me the same thing.
- 22:36How do you eat? But I, I was more I probably was shyer than you are.
- 22:41I didn't say I eat with a fork.
- 22:43I just sat there and said, well, I eat the same way that you do,
- 22:47you know? But yeah.
- 22:49Alex Barrasso: That's a perfectly fine answer.
- 22:51Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Yeah, well, I like yours.
- 22:55Now, as a blind host myself, I am particularly interested in the nuts and
- 23:03bolts. What kinds of accommodations or technologies have been most essential for you
- 23:13to do your job as a document and as a program director,
- 23:20where do you still find gaps that needed advocacy?
- 23:27Your creative problem solving?
- 23:32Alex Barrasso: Sure. So there are just several pieces to the accommodations package.
- 23:43Starting starting really at the house just making sure that the appliances are marked
- 23:49and that I can use them, whether it's the microwave or the dishwasher
- 23:54or the dryer, the washer in fact in in Dubai,
- 24:03I even asked my reader assistant to mark the exercise bikes at the gym because self-care
- 24:10is is so important, and and so is exercise, And that was that was really important is
- 24:17really important to me as a person.
- 24:21And so I wanted to make sure that, that I could go to the gym whenever the gym
- 24:25was open, it was right next to my house.
- 24:27I had no excuses and, and and just get on the bike and and do some
- 24:32cardio. So I had her mark, the the bikes, the start button and whatnot.
- 24:43And then in the office.
- 24:45So what I had was jaws.
- 24:50I'm sure most of your listeners are familiar,
- 24:52but for those who are not, you know, a screen reading software for the
- 24:58computer, I had that on all of our computer systems.
- 25:00I had a Braille printer.
- 25:02I also had a note taker.
- 25:05I've gone through several different ones.
- 25:09My my favorite was was the Vario.
- 25:12Varrio, but I. The last one I had was a focus 14.
- 25:19As I said, a Braille embosser and I had a full time reader.
- 25:23Assistant. Also I think in you know, in the State Department in particular,
- 25:32with the number of outside meetings and events,
- 25:36it was really critical to have human assistance for a lot of that.
- 25:43You know, I remember, for instance, in Brunei after events,
- 25:48we would go into the VIP room and all the ministers were there and the military brass
- 25:53were there. And I would literally work with my reader during the day and say,
- 25:58okay, here are the here are the three issues that I want to make some progress on tonight.
- 26:04And here are the people we need to find.
- 26:06And it was it was literally like target practice.
- 26:09You walk into the VIP room, The door closes behind you and you know the
- 26:13readers scanning the room.
- 26:14Well, I see this. This one, this one and that one.
- 26:17Okay. Let's go. You know, and we would resolve people think that those
- 26:25events are just for enjoyment.
- 26:27And some people think that diplomats just drink coffee and alcohol and well,
- 26:32there is coffee and sometimes there's alcohol,
- 26:35but you actually get things done.
- 26:39I remember in, in one event we were having issues with a particular agreement and
- 26:49my reader spotted the foreign, my Foreign ministry counterpart.
- 26:54I walked up to her, talked to her about it.
- 26:56She said, you know, this is really a ministry of communications issue,
- 27:00she said, but my counterpart from that ministry is at my table.
- 27:03Let me talk to him. And 15 minutes later, what we had not been able to resolve with
- 27:09exchanges of emails and paper in three weeks was done.
- 27:16So and the human assistance was just critical to doing that because I would have never
- 27:22found her on my own and never had that conversation.
- 27:27And who knows how much longer it would have taken.
- 27:32So, so that's that that's the the suite of accommodations on the job for the foreign
- 27:38Service exam. What I got was double time and the exam in Braille.
- 27:47Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Oh, great.
- 27:48Alex Barrasso: I think these days I believe it's all computer based.
- 27:52And so I, I mean, I don't know that Braille would would really come into play presumably.
- 28:00And of course, I haven't.
- 28:02It's been years since I took it, but presumably one would use jaws or any
- 28:07other screen reader of choice to process the entrance exam,
- 28:12assuming that it's accessible.
- 28:15So.
- 28:16Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: And I guess a lot of exams are now going more online as well,
- 28:20right? Like, yeah.
- 28:23Alex Barrasso: There are I mean, even my, our daughter's you know,
- 28:26they're taking exams online.
- 28:28They're, they're getting put into browsers that lock down the rest of the computer.
- 28:34So they can't use AI or look at their notes, and they're just in those screens that,
- 28:40that don't allow other programs to run, and they're taking their exams.
- 28:43I wonder if those things work with screen readers.
- 28:47Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: I recently ran into great difficulty taking a cybersecurity exam through Pearson Vue,
- 28:54and I will tell you that my reader could not interpret the diagrams or the images.
- 29:01And so I had to forego the exam.
- 29:03I couldn't take it.
- 29:04Alex Barrasso: Wow. I'm sorry.
- 29:06Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Yeah. And right now, I'm really fighting hard to get Pierson to understand what's going on
- 29:12and comp Tia, who is the creator of this exam,
- 29:16to make their exams more user friendly and accessible to persons with who are blind and
- 29:22sighted. So yeah.
- 29:25Alex Barrasso: No, that's right. That's what has to happen.
- 29:27Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Yeah. So as chair of the State Department's Disability Action Group,
- 29:35you helped transform an employee network into a serious force for change.
- 29:45What were your priorities when you took on that role,
- 29:50and what are you proudest of achieving and your colleagues with disabilities?
- 30:00Alex Barrasso: So I would say it, It had already been a force for change.
- 30:05There's lots of things that we can point to in terms of accomplishments.
- 30:12For instance even prior to to me taking over as chair,
- 30:19you know, for instance getting funding for the State Department to have an accessible
- 30:26Ada compliant residence in its housing pool at every post.
- 30:33That was a huge success.
- 30:35I mean, not not just getting the commitment to it,
- 30:38but we actually got the funding for it.
- 30:41Problem?
- 30:42Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Yeah.
- 30:43Alex Barrasso: And that was not done by me.
- 30:45That was that was my predecessors working really hard and tooth and nail and grinding
- 30:51it out and, and with, you know, with colleagues in the relevant
- 30:56offices who, who believed in it and wanted, wanted it to happen and want it to be
- 31:02helpful. I think for me I had a couple of priorities
- 31:12I wanted. First and foremost, you know, it's a large organization,
- 31:19hundreds of members, and not everybody has the same needs or the same interests.
- 31:28Some folks are interested in getting reciprocity,
- 31:35reciprocal recognition for their handicapped car tags from other states
- 31:45for, for State Department parking.
- 31:47And that's incredibly important to them.
- 31:50Others of us were more interested in working on the the promotion process,
- 31:59And could we for instance, could we stop the State Department from
- 32:04counting in the promotion statistics, people who had temporary disabilities.
- 32:09So someone breaks a leg and needs temporary accommodations,
- 32:14and they're counted as disabled if they get promoted.
- 32:17Well, it's not really accurate.
- 32:21But really just trying to serve the whole membership.
- 32:26And I think what I'm most proud of is we were able to launch the
- 32:37hidden disabilities sunflower right across the the State Department headquarters
- 32:45building. Right. And, you know, for those listeners that aren't
- 32:50familiar with it, it's it's basically a a training.
- 33:01Go ahead. Sorry, I've got a I'm hearing a lot of echo.
- 33:05Yeah. Okay. Yeah. It's a training program on how to assist individuals with non-apparent
- 33:14disabilities. The training is done by videos,
- 33:18and then you go ahead.
- 33:23Either that you are a person with a non-apparent disability by wearing a yellow
- 33:28lanyard, or you wear a white supporting lanyard,
- 33:31which demonstrates that you are willing to assist individuals with non-apparent
- 33:37disabilities. And we trained over 600 people just in
- 33:47the launch. And then, you know, over the next several months
- 33:53trained a total of over 1500 employees, and I heard a number of stories from
- 34:02colleagues about how they would they would see someone with the white lanyard,
- 34:07and they gave them the confidence to go up to them and say,
- 34:10hey, I actually need some assistance.
- 34:14And they got the assistance they needed and really proud of that.
- 34:20And I think also of the work that the organization did to help employees with their
- 34:27reasonable accommodations processes.
- 34:29It's a difficult process to go through.
- 34:32Yeah. And at different points the process can break down.
- 34:38And you have to understand that not everybody's experience is the same.
- 34:43Not everybody's needs are the same.
- 34:44And just trying to help employees kind of navigate that process and giving them ideas
- 34:52on on what they can. You know what some options are for accommodations.
- 35:00Screen Reader: She said.
- 35:01Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: My clock is starting to wind down.
- 35:03But, you know, here comes a very important question for you.
- 35:08I want to talk about the intersection of your diplomatic life and your chess life.
- 35:18You are a six time US blind chess champion, and you represented the United States
- 35:28at the World Blind Championships.
- 35:31Wow. How did chess first enter your life and what kept you committed to it,
- 35:41even while juggling a demanding career and a family?
- 35:49Alex Barrasso: So it started for me when I was 11 or 12.
- 35:53Oh my God, I was at a friend's birthday party.
- 35:56We were outside tossing some basketballs around,
- 36:00and all of a sudden everyone just decided they were going in to play chess.
- 36:04And I had no idea what this game was.
- 36:07I had no idea whatsoever.
- 36:11Chris's father realizing that I was lost, took out a board,
- 36:18took me aside from the rest of the group, and let me feel the pieces.
- 36:22Explain that there were two colors.
- 36:23Explain the way the board is set up.
- 36:26We put the pieces on. He walked me through a mock game,
- 36:30and then he contacted the coach at my middle school and said,
- 36:38look, Alex is interested.
- 36:40Would you be able to find a way to get him an adaptive set and to have him participate in
- 36:46the club, not compete on the team, but in the club?
- 36:51And that coach. Alex? I don't know.
- 36:55I have no idea where he is if he's still around.
- 36:58Hopefully he is. But he did that.
- 37:00He found a place for me to get an adapted set and let me join the club and you know,
- 37:05treated me like any other player.
- 37:09And then I ended up transferring after that year to a school with a nationally recognized
- 37:17program you know, just, just just kept at it.
- 37:24I really enjoyed it. I enjoy the challenge.
- 37:27It's it's almost like solving a puzzle.
- 37:30Yeah. And I have, you know, I've haven't always been able to spend as
- 37:39much time as I want on it, but if I've.
- 37:42If I have free time, that's where I want to spend it.
- 37:46Yes. And and you know, I've been able to play not necessarily
- 37:51competitively, but I've been able to play in every country that have been.
- 37:58Had some some great sparring partners that I learned a lot from.
- 38:02Even even when getting beat.
- 38:06And it's just I don't know, I my wife Brenda sometimes says to me,
- 38:14you work so hard, you really want to spend your weekend?
- 38:18Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Oh, yeah.
- 38:19Alex Barrasso: Squeezing more out of your brain.
- 38:22Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Yeah.
- 38:22Alex Barrasso: And I do, I do. I really, really enjoy it.
- 38:26It's It's a lot. There's there's a lot to learn from it.
- 38:32Discipline, concentration.
- 38:35Yes. So many things. I think we're going to talk about that, but.
- 38:39Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: I wish myself that I could spend more time playing chess.
- 38:44And I know I keep promising myself I'm going to do it.
- 38:46I'm going to do it. So maybe I will be inspired by what you're saying here and get
- 38:52going on it, you know.
- 38:55So yeah, it's I'm sorry.
- 38:57Alex Barrasso: Go ahead.
- 38:57Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Go ahead.
- 38:59Alex Barrasso: No, it's it's just it's just a fantastic game.
- 39:04And it really is accessible to everybody.
- 39:08And there are so many adaptive sets out there.
- 39:13There are organizations and lots of countries.
- 39:15We've got the US Blind Chess Association in the US.
- 39:20I know there's some similar entity in Canada.
- 39:23You've got the UK BCA as well.
- 39:29Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Right, right.
- 39:32Alex Barrasso: And you know, here in the US, we're some of the things that the USBC is
- 39:38doing is trying to get younger players involved.
- 39:41So we're we have a program right now where we're teaching students at the Saint Joseph
- 39:47School for the blind. We're teaching them virtually. We've provided them with some
- 39:50sets. Oh, nice. So it's just it's great to be able to to get other people
- 40:00interested and hopefully they will get as much from it as as as I have.
- 40:08Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Good. I want to squeeze in this question.
- 40:13Many of us who are blind or visually impaired discover that certain activities give us
- 40:21confidence and community.
- 40:25What has chess given you emotionally and socially,
- 40:32and how has it influenced the way you think and make decisions as a diplomat and as a
- 40:41leader?
- 40:44Alex Barrasso: I think one of the keys influences is is on decision making.
- 40:51I mean, whether it's a chess game or professional issue,
- 40:55you know, we can always spend more time making decisions.
- 41:01It doesn't necessarily mean we're going to make a different decision,
- 41:05or maybe not even a better decision.
- 41:08And so at a certain point, you know, you have to be comfortable with
- 41:11ambiguity, right. Because you're never going to almost never going to have all the
- 41:15information you want.
- 41:17Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: To know.
- 41:17Alex Barrasso: Before making a decision.
- 41:19And, and I think as a result of playing chess,
- 41:24I've probably gotten more comfortable with that ambiguity professionally.
- 41:28You just have to make a decision.
- 41:30And, you know, I heard a couple of mentors say,
- 41:34well, don't don't open an email twice.
- 41:36You know, don't spend more, more than this amount of time on this.
- 41:41And I think Yeah, I mean, you just you have to get comfortable with
- 41:51with making decisions when you don't have all the information you want.
- 41:54So that's, that's in terms of contribution to my professional life,
- 42:00I think that's that's the big one.
- 42:03Socially, in terms of community.
- 42:07It's a great conversation starter.
- 42:11You know, we we got in Saudi Arabia, we had pizza nights at the embassy once a
- 42:17week, and we managed to tie chess and pizza night together.
- 42:21And we had you know, we had kids coming in just to,
- 42:25just to play. And maybe they wouldn't sit for more than ten minutes at a time,
- 42:29but they they'd come back in and continue those games.
- 42:35And, you know, we, we got a few sets that we left with the employee association.
- 42:45You know, and I've just I've had a chance to play,
- 42:48as I said, in every country that I've been.
- 42:51And it's you know, it's a great way to meet people.
- 42:55Yes.
- 42:56Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Yes.
- 42:57Alex Barrasso: And just just connect over something that's not professional.
- 43:02I mean and in terms of emotions, I think my mom tells me I used to get very
- 43:12upset about losses, and I would sulk, and I would let the,
- 43:17you know, the loss be a factor in how I played my next game.
- 43:23I don't think I do that quite as much now.
- 43:27You learn to control it.
- 43:28You learn to move on, learn from the mistake,
- 43:32and hopefully don't make the same mistake again.
- 43:38So yeah, I think I think those are a couple of the highlights.
- 43:43Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Now, the clock is telling me that we don't have much time.
- 43:46But, Alex, give us some final words of wisdom before we close our podcast.
- 43:54What can you tell our listeners?
- 43:55What message of inspiration or motivation do you have?
- 44:00Is it reach for the sky?
- 44:02Don't be afraid. Go out there.
- 44:05Tell us what your personal messages.
- 44:10Alex Barrasso: I would say do not be afraid.
- 44:15Pursue your your ambitions.
- 44:19Make sure that you find the allies.
- 44:21Because let me tell you, there are going to be plenty of detractors
- 44:24out there. The allies are also out there, but you've got to find them.
- 44:28They don't necessarily find you.
- 44:30Right. So find them and lean on them and tell them what you need and tell them why you need
- 44:38it. And those who really want to help will listen to that and will act on it.
- 44:46And I would also say take care of yourself physically.
- 44:51Mentally, I'm not doing as much of that as I should right now.
- 44:54But it's incredibly important.
- 44:56Just just find something that you like to do,
- 44:58whether it's swimming, bike riding, going to the gym,
- 45:02whatever. Find that something and do it regularly.
- 45:05Keep yourself in shape.
- 45:08And and just just be vocal, as assertive without being demanding about
- 45:16what it is. You need to succeed in whatever role you're in,
- 45:19whether it's high school, whether it's college,
- 45:22whether it's professional.
- 45:24Otherwise, just speak up.
- 45:27And the and the allies who who want you to succeed will will respond to that.
- 45:32And and in a positive way.
- 45:37Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Alex, I'd like to thank you so much for this interview.
- 45:40I've learned so much about the diplomatic service.
- 45:42I've learned, you know, I think I'm not alone in saying that,
- 45:46you know, we travel the same road.
- 45:48And for a blind or sight impaired person, it's it's not easy,
- 45:55but it's doable. So thank you so much for this interview.
- 46:02Alex Barrasso: Donna, thank you so much. I really appreciate the opportunity.
- 46:05And I hope this was useful for your listeners and look forward to connecting offline.
- 46:11Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: I think it will be useful, inspirational, motivational.
- 46:15And we will connect offline.
- 46:17And I want to thank you again, Alex.
- 46:19Thank you very, very much.
- 46:20Alex Barrasso: Thank you. Take care.
- 46:22Donna J. Jodhan, LLB, ACSP, MBA: Take care now. Bye bye.
- 46:26Podcast Commentator: Donna wants to hear from you and invites you to write to her at Donna at gmail.com.
- 46:32Until next time.