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Black Cat Boyfriends & Hinge Duty Calls · On Air with Ryan Seacrest

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  Speaker 1: From Hollywood.
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  Speaker 2: See you.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you for listening to US.
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  Speaker 1: Air on air with Ryan Seacrest.
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  Speaker 3: On two point seven Kiss FM, Kelly, good morning, How
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  Speaker 3: are you Hi?
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  Speaker 4: I'm good things.
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  Speaker 5: How are you guys?
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  Speaker 3: We are super good. So your friend is eloping because
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  Speaker 3: her fiance wants to, but she doesn't. Is that right?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 6: She sure is.
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  Speaker 3: Uh well, let's start with what you said to her
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  Speaker 3: as a good friend. What'd you tell her?
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  Speaker 4: Well?
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  Speaker 6: I told her, I mean I've known this girl since
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  Speaker 6: we've been best friends since we were kids, and she
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  Speaker 6: would always be the one to play wedding and she
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  Speaker 6: wanted this huge fairy tale wedding, and all of a sudden,
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  Speaker 6: now she wants to elope and I.
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  Speaker 7: It's just it's not her.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, she's made so many decisions based on this guy.
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  Speaker 6: Like she's turned down incredible jobs because of him. She's
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  Speaker 6: kind of stopped paying out with us. Everything is at
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  Speaker 6: his pace where he wants to move, what he wants
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  Speaker 6: to do, and I just I don't really know what
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  Speaker 6: to do. And I told her that and she got defensive,
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  Speaker 6: But I kind of just feel like it's all him,
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  Speaker 6: so like I don't know how much to step in
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  Speaker 6: or if I just stay out of it.
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  Speaker 4: I don't.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it's kind of a lose lose when
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  Speaker 3: you get involved in something like this. I am not
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  Speaker 3: an opponent of eloping, so I might be the wrong
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  Speaker 3: person to ask because I just I've never done it,
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  Speaker 3: but I just have taken so many Now, I've been
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  Speaker 3: to a wedding recently Timey's wedding went to and that
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  Speaker 3: was a great experience. But I also have talked to
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  Speaker 3: a lot of people get so stressed out about the
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  Speaker 3: wedding that they lose sight of the reason they're there,
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  Speaker 3: and so eloping seems like an easy solution.
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  Speaker 1: Look, she could have changed her mind.
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  Speaker 2: People change, and she must love this guy a lot,
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  Speaker 2: as she's like changing so much in her life for him.
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  Speaker 2: But if you don't like to see it, and you've
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  Speaker 2: already said this stuff to her, you have two choices.
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  Speaker 2: You stay and you support her, or you say I
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  Speaker 2: can't watch this and we can't be friends anymore.
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  Speaker 8: Okay, but this could also be like a fleeting thought.
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  Speaker 8: I feel like, if you at some point don't think
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  Speaker 8: about eloping in your engagement, then like I thought about
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  Speaker 8: eloping at one point, my friend that just got married
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  Speaker 8: thought about eloping at one point, I feel like maybe
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  Speaker 8: she's at the point where she's so stressed out that
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  Speaker 8: she's considering it. But like, I think all you can
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  Speaker 8: do is just encourage her to do what she.
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  Speaker 9: Wants to do in her heart.
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  Speaker 8: If it takes a little bit longer to have the
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  Speaker 8: wedding that she wants, that's fine too. I think you
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  Speaker 8: can just encourage her in the direction that you think
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  Speaker 8: she wants to go down.
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  Speaker 6: Right, Yeah, that makes sense.
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  Speaker 3: I think when you get involved with a side, especially
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  Speaker 3: the beginning of a marriage like this, and they're a
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  Speaker 3: couple and they're your friend, you have to be careful.
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  Speaker 1: You're not going to win.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't want to lose her completely.
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  Speaker 3: And then if she decides to go with your advice
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  Speaker 3: and it's wrong, forget about it.
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  Speaker 1: Do you like the guy?
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  Speaker 6: I like him fine enough?
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  Speaker 3: Oh? Does she know that.
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  Speaker 5: I have?
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  Speaker 6: I've mentioned like little bits and pieces for sure, But
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  Speaker 6: it's just kind of been the slow dissolving of like
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  Speaker 6: the girl that I knew, and the ambition and all
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  Speaker 6: of these things. I mean, she's just such a go getter.
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  Speaker 6: And again, like she was the one that I've never
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  Speaker 6: met anyone who wanted a wedding so bad. So like
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  Speaker 6: when I see my friends start to disappear and try
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  Speaker 6: to find herself her away, like, I don't know, it's tough.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're salty about it.
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  Speaker 3: I get it, Kelly, Thank you for calling. There's a
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  Speaker 3: lot here that you need to be careful with.
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  Speaker 5: I appreciate that.
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  Speaker 6: Thank you, guys, you.
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  Speaker 3: Take your care of mine. She does not like him, No,
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  Speaker 3: that's all that's common. That's common. Your friends don't like
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  Speaker 3: who came in and took you from them.
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  Speaker 1: It's not niugh you. He took her from He took
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  Speaker 1: her from herself.
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  Speaker 3: Like, it's just that's a good way of saying it.
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  Speaker 3: You don't want to be the one giving the advice
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  Speaker 3: and then it's the wrong advice in that situation.
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  Speaker 2: Oh no, I have just bit my tongue and just
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  Speaker 2: let them do with it what they want to do.
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  Speaker 3: There we are, it's kiss FM. Thanks for coming. So
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  Speaker 3: apparently we have moved on from just these uh, those
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  Speaker 3: predictable You call them golden retriever boyfriends? Right right, sweet
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  Speaker 3: guys are golden retriever boyfriends?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, always adoring you, giving you that weapon.
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  Speaker 3: What's the problem?
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  Speaker 2: I listen, this is I do not write this article,
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  Speaker 2: but I was intrigued by it.
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  Speaker 3: So now we're saying, what is the issue with Golden Retrievers?
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  Speaker 9: There's no issue.
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  Speaker 3: There is no issue, any issue, any issue with golden
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  Speaker 3: tu boyfriends in the back.
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  Speaker 2: Room, maybe some would say it doesn't excite them enough
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  Speaker 2: to have a Golden Retriever boyfriend, so.
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  Speaker 3: That would be the issue.
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  Speaker 2: They're too sweet, dude, Sure you know it was like
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  Speaker 2: the good guy never wins type of vibe.
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  Speaker 3: I don't believe that.
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  Speaker 1: I don't believe.
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  Speaker 2: I don't believe that, but I'm if you're making me
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  Speaker 2: dig deepest to why people would be against Golden Retriever boyfriends.
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  Speaker 3: So now the new thing we're hearing about is the
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  Speaker 3: black Cat's boyfriend. What is that?
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  Speaker 2: So think about I'm going to put it into characters
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  Speaker 2: so that maybe this will help you out, like Conrad
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  Speaker 2: from the Summer I Turned Pretty, or Felix from Too
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  Speaker 2: Much or even car Me from the Bear. Okay, so
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  Speaker 2: think these types of characters. These guys are not overly affectionate,
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  Speaker 2: they're not gushy. They're more moody, mysterious. They are emotionally intense.
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  Speaker 2: They show love and small but very like meaningful ways.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe they'll give you a quick glance or a rare
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  Speaker 2: compliment from time to time, And for some weird reason,
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  Speaker 2: it feels way more special when these dudes do stuff
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  Speaker 2: like this and then overly romantic guys like Golden Retrievers.
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  Speaker 2: And I don't know what the science behind that in
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  Speaker 2: your head is, but I definitely have been there, Like
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  Speaker 2: I have yearned for that affection when I was younger,
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  Speaker 2: and I would date guys like this. Anytime they would
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  Speaker 2: give me some sort of positive I'd be like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: I feel so good, which is such a crazy way
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  Speaker 2: to think when you put it in that way, you know,
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  Speaker 2: But it's the black cat the black catboyfriend?
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  Speaker 3: Is it because the black cat boyfriend only says it
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  Speaker 3: when they mean it, and the retriever doesn't. They just
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  Speaker 3: always say I don't know. Is it because the black
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  Speaker 3: cat boyfriend is less thoughtful and then thoughtful sometimes like
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  Speaker 3: so hot and cold.
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  Speaker 1: There's an addictiveness to it.
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  Speaker 2: It's almost like, uh, like it's like a.
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  Speaker 1: Slow burn in the love. I don't understand less fireworks,
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  Speaker 1: but deeper connections.
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  Speaker 3: What's confusing Tanya.
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  Speaker 8: It's like the people who were Team Edward Colin in
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  Speaker 8: the Twilight Days, you know, like Jacob obviously loved her more.
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  Speaker 1: It's exactly that.
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  Speaker 3: Well, let's not go back to the shows in two
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  Speaker 3: thousand and four where we were on both teams.
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  Speaker 1: That's why I brought up the summery Tern. But that's
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  Speaker 1: exact same thing.
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  Speaker 8: It's Jeremiah, like he's the Golden Retriever, Conrad's the black Cat.
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  Speaker 3: So do these characters you for two on TV? Are
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  Speaker 3: they created and then we as real people react or
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  Speaker 3: are they created because we as real people act black Cattie.
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  Speaker 2: I think real people act this way. I definitely have
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  Speaker 2: dated a black cat boyfriend before, and I thought and
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  Speaker 2: the whole time it was like I was competing for
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  Speaker 2: his affection or his love and I was yearning for it,
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  Speaker 2: like I wanted it more and that person would never
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  Speaker 2: give me it. But when he did, I felt like
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  Speaker 2: it was so special because he wouldn't give it up
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  Speaker 2: so much not liking that, you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, I do. You My boyfriends have read Halloween cost No,
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  Speaker 3: I was just thinking about Haoween costumes. Black cat boyfriend costume.
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  Speaker 9: Maybe that's actually a great costume, very.
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  Speaker 3: Topical, easy to do. Kiss fm LA is number one
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  Speaker 3: at music station. Angie, thank you for coming. So as
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  Speaker 3: I understand it, here, you saw your friend's husband flirting
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  Speaker 3: aggressively with somebody.
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  Speaker 1: Yep, exactly, and I'm hearing more flirting details.
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  Speaker 7: Okay, So I I was out over the weekend at
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  Speaker 7: a party and I noticed this, and it's just been
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  Speaker 7: stuck in my head ever since I saw my friend's husband.
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  Speaker 7: He was just like getting really close, clearly flirting, leaning
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  Speaker 7: and like touching her arm with springing her ear, like
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  Speaker 7: the kind of flirting you expect from somebody who is single,
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  Speaker 7: not married. I don't really know if it went any
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  Speaker 7: further than that, but all I know is that it
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  Speaker 7: did not sit right was me. And now I just
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  Speaker 7: can't stop thinking about it because I'm close friends with
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  Speaker 7: his wife. So like, what is my responsibility as a friend.
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  Speaker 7: Do I like say something to her because I know
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  Speaker 7: it could break up her marriage, or do I just
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  Speaker 7: stay out of it because it's not really my place.
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  Speaker 1: I'm marinating on this for a second.
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  Speaker 2: There's a way about it where you don'tn't come and
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  Speaker 2: accuse him.
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  Speaker 1: But do you know who the woman was?
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  Speaker 5: He was.
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  Speaker 7: No, she was, She was a rand like I've never
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  Speaker 7: seen her before she was just a mutual friend. I guess.
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  Speaker 2: I mean maybe it's like casual like I saw your
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  Speaker 2: husband over the weekend and he was with some girl, Like,
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  Speaker 2: is that his friend?
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  Speaker 1: Or do you know her?
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  Speaker 3: That's it?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah?
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  Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't think by telling her you're going to
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  Speaker 8: necessarily ruin her marriage.
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  Speaker 1: Because then you leave it on her to go ask
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  Speaker 1: her husband, right.
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  Speaker 3: Like, Hey, that's gonna well it's also going to create
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  Speaker 3: you being pushed away because you're going to bring this
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  Speaker 3: up to your friend. Her husband's gonna be addressed by
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  Speaker 3: your friend, and now the couple might not want to
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  Speaker 3: hang out with you.
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  Speaker 1: Not the couple. The husband will start probably Look.
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  Speaker 3: What if he gets out of it? What if he's
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  Speaker 3: like are you Why would she say that when he
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  Speaker 3: makes some sort of starts gash, you're the bad person?
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  Speaker 1: Is not worth it?
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  Speaker 3: He may he may squirm out of it. And then
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  Speaker 3: she turned on you.
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  Speaker 1: But this is eating Was she alive? Like she knows
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  Speaker 1: what she saw?
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  Speaker 5: Okay?
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  Speaker 2: Well, then if Robbie we were somewhere and I saw
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  Speaker 2: Robbie canoodling with Mikayla, you.
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  Speaker 1: Heard her, and nobody told Tanya and it.
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  Speaker 2: Wasn't anything, but it was like, but it was like, you.
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  Speaker 1: Know that he had his hand on her arm or whatever,
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  Speaker 1: and they were laughing about something.
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  Speaker 2: I would maybe say something to Tanya and be like, hey, your.
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  Speaker 3: Guy was like works here, that's weird.
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  Speaker 1: Well let's pretend that we didn't know him, Kayla.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm just saying, if you saw that and you
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  Speaker 2: didn't tell me, so mad it's I would tell you.
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  Speaker 1: But I wouldn't be like Robbie's cheating on you.
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  Speaker 3: I would just be like, excuse me. What if Robbie said, Darling, honey, Darling,
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  Speaker 3: I was putting neo sporn on her. She had a bite.
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  Speaker 3: Now what do you do you believe?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, yes, you're right now, this is Robbie's eyes.
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  Speaker 2: He's gonna hate me, and time's gonna forgive Robbie, and
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  Speaker 2: then now I can't hang out with.
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  Speaker 3: Him, exactly, Angie, bad eady to bring it up exercise
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  Speaker 3: and role playing.
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  Speaker 2: When you will play it or really puts it in perspective, borned?
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  Speaker 3: Is that time of your bug bites everything?
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  Speaker 8: You know?
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  Speaker 1: What, Angie?
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  Speaker 2: How about like fool me once, shame on you, fool
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  Speaker 2: me twice, shame on me type of things. So like
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  Speaker 2: if he does it again. Then then you say something,
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  Speaker 2: I'm an agreement.
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  Speaker 4: I vibe with that.
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  Speaker 7: I like that.
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  Speaker 3: We have a good conclusion. Good luck, Thanks for calling
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  Speaker 3: Angie light all right, why don't you playing seven kiss?
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  Speaker 3: Thank you for waking up and being with us this morning.
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  Speaker 3: You buy six vegetables, you buy five fruits, you buy
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  Speaker 3: for me, I spread hummus muss and it does the trick. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: over again. For the time we have is short. That
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  Speaker 2: are gonna have a little family meeting.
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  Speaker 3: So Ciciny was caught. Are you caught doing something that
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  Speaker 3: you should probably include your spouse inve.
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  Speaker 2: Listen, we're all adults. Everyone's in charge of their own responsibilities.
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  Speaker 3: What point do you stop doing like these little tasks
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  Speaker 3: as a couple, because odds are you're gonna go somewhere together.
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  Speaker 3: But you were caught getting TSA pre check before even
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  Speaker 3: told your husband about it.
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  Speaker 1: First of all, I haven't had it yet.
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  Speaker 2: I to have the appointment set, but he saw it
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  Speaker 2: in our shared calendar and he's like, wait a minute,
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  Speaker 2: why are you going to get pre TSA checked without me?
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, what do you mean without you?
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  Speaker 1: I didn't think I had to make that appointment with you.
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  Speaker 9: And he makes a point.
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  Speaker 3: But I'm with him on this.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it crossed my mind for a second.
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  Speaker 2: But also Michael lags to do things like this, like
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  Speaker 2: the only reason has a passport is because of me,
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  Speaker 2: Like you know and so, But then you should.
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  Speaker 3: Definitely help him with his TSA PreCheck because I never
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  Speaker 3: get to go with.
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  Speaker 2: It, but we will never find the time to do it.
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  Speaker 2: And this was so convenient. I have clear and clear
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  Speaker 2: sent me a message that basically we can get PRETSA
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  Speaker 2: if we go to a Staples. Like it's so easy now,
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  Speaker 2: And to make the appointment was so easy. I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 2: this was so easy. When he's ready, he can just
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  Speaker 2: make his appointment, No big deal. I have my real ID.
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  Speaker 2: He doesn't have a real ID. Like you need to
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  Speaker 2: have all these things in general, and I don't need
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  Speaker 2: to like hold his hand for everything, you.
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  Speaker 1: Know what I mean.
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  Speaker 3: I mean this is a slippery slope. Are you planning
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  Speaker 3: an escape?
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  Speaker 1: That's what he said. He's like, what are you going
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  Speaker 1: to flee the country with the kids?
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  Speaker 3: And I'm like, no, I mean first this, next you
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  Speaker 3: buying a gondola in Venice.
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  Speaker 2: I travel separately for work and things like that. What
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  Speaker 2: if something comes up and I have to go somewhere
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  Speaker 2: and then now.
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  Speaker 5: I have it.
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  Speaker 3: I just think it's a very courteous thing. We must
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  Speaker 3: not allow me to give some marriage of counseling here, please.
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  Speaker 3: I find that those who have never been through Things
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  Speaker 3: like this are really good sometimes at advice.
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: This isn't a thing.
• 15:53
  Speaker 3: From your point of view, Yeah, there are two people
• 15:56
  Speaker 3: in this marriage. You can't just decide it's not a thing.
• 15:58
  Speaker 3: What it actually is a thing.
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: I think he was like teasing and he's over it
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: and it was not real.
• 16:04
  Speaker 3: Teasing is a massed way of telling the truth. Yes, facts,
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: So I think you have to be careful when you
• 16:10
  Speaker 3: start losing these courtesy moments as a couple. Like you said,
• 16:15
  Speaker 3: he has a weakness, He kicks things, he procrastinates. He
• 16:18
  Speaker 3: didn't want to have his passport without you. He's never
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: going whatever without you.
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: He's not.
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: But he can also still get it without me, and
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: it's easy to do.
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: You know what the philosophers of ancient Greece used to say,
• 16:30
  Speaker 3: what many a truth is said in jest?
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: I don't understand what that means.
• 16:35
  Speaker 3: A lot of truth is said as a joke.
• 16:37
  Speaker 9: Meaning like teasing means. It's like a it's a truth
• 16:40
  Speaker 9: and he's does he masking it?
• 16:42
  Speaker 3: I don't want to start anything. But does he know
• 16:44
  Speaker 3: you're going to the iHeartRadio Music Festival in Vegas?
• 16:46
  Speaker 5: Yeah?
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: He does, and he's not coming because he has to
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: hold it down here and do all the things with
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: the kids.
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: Tanya, this is going to be the tone soon, this
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: is going to be the tone.
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: You have to pick and choose.
• 16:55
  Speaker 9: No, but I understand, I understand.
• 16:58
  Speaker 8: I would be upset if Robbie went to get pre
• 17:01
  Speaker 8: sa whatever tsa pre check without me.
• 17:04
  Speaker 3: I was getting warm on marriage.
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: Now this this is not a big deal. You guys all.
• 17:08
  Speaker 3: Right, we're coming back. It's not a big deal to uses,
• 17:11
  Speaker 3: and you cannot decide for both. I'm a marriage couple counsel.
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: In this break right now, I can also make an
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: appointment today to be with me.
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: Is not a big deal, but it was just more.
• 17:20
  Speaker 3: I don't want to point out your defensiveness. I don't
• 17:24
  Speaker 3: want to point out defensiveness, but we must be truthful.
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: You just got to live my life.
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: Okay, it's a duo.
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: We are. We dodo everything else.
• 17:35
  Speaker 3: What's going to happen.
• 17:36
  Speaker 9: I'm just telling you, no, we did ours together.
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: Just when I was considering you're married for four months
• 17:42
  Speaker 3: five minutes.
• 17:42
  Speaker 9: Excuse me, it's about to be six months.
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: It is kiss FM. Let's jump right into a second
• 17:47
  Speaker 3: date up there. Here's the idea, We're trying to save
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: a relationship. We're trying to create happiness, full stop, bottom line.
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: That's it. You meet somebody, it goes well, that it
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: doesn't go well, you get blown off, you get ghosted.
• 17:57
  Speaker 3: You want peace of mind. Why I thought it was
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: going well? Could you just tell me why? A lot
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: of people like to know. I don't know if I would,
• 18:02
  Speaker 3: A lot of people would. And that's why we're here
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: right now with this second d up there from Julian
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: and Hancock Park and Julian's on the line now, Julian,
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: good morning, seacrestworthy tany in siciny, So, Julian, she jumped
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: into your Uber by mistake.
• 18:17
  Speaker 4: I'm no, I don't even drive Uber. So I pulled
• 18:20
  Speaker 4: over next to a building because my text messages were
• 18:23
  Speaker 4: just blowing up, and I was like, this looks like
• 18:25
  Speaker 4: a problem at work, you know. So I pulled over
• 18:27
  Speaker 4: to deal with it. And suddenly this lady jumps in
• 18:31
  Speaker 4: the back seat of my car and she's like hi,
• 18:33
  Speaker 4: and I'm like, Hi.
• 18:36
  Speaker 3: You were driving. I thought maybe you guys thought you
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: booked the same Uber in the back you what car?
• 18:41
  Speaker 3: You know what car was it?
• 18:44
  Speaker 5: I have?
• 18:45
  Speaker 4: I have a silver Accord which I guess, like maybe
• 18:47
  Speaker 4: that's a common uber car, but.
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: Funny, who are you?
• 18:54
  Speaker 4: I mean, although it was really friendly.
• 18:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah, he's like, this is kind of great. Take the
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: stars about because this is right. So anyway, she jumps
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: in and you had a laugh. I guess about it, right, Yeah.
• 19:05
  Speaker 4: She goes, is this not my Uber? I know, I'm like,
• 19:10
  Speaker 4: this is not your ruber and yeah she got super
• 19:13
  Speaker 4: She's just like cheese turned like beat red. I mean,
• 19:16
  Speaker 4: she was so embarrassed. She jumped out of the car immediately.
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: But before she ran off, I was like, hey, can
• 19:22
  Speaker 4: I get your number? And she like thought about it
• 19:25
  Speaker 4: for a second and then she gave me her number
• 19:27
  Speaker 4: and ran off. So okay, yeah, I didn't even know
• 19:31
  Speaker 4: her name until I called her. But you know, we
• 19:35
  Speaker 4: ended up like connecting and we went out on a
• 19:38
  Speaker 4: date and it was great. We went to like, you know,
• 19:41
  Speaker 4: Bon Shabo for hot pot and it was I mean,
• 19:45
  Speaker 4: it was great. We went to Holy Rolly for dessert.
• 19:47
  Speaker 4: It was like, we just had a really fun first date.
• 19:50
  Speaker 4: So we had been texting and I planned on having
• 19:54
  Speaker 4: a second date with it. We had talked about it,
• 19:56
  Speaker 4: and then right before the second date, she sent me
• 19:58
  Speaker 4: a text. She said, I'm sorry. I thought I could
• 20:00
  Speaker 4: do it, but I can't, and then she just blocks me.
• 20:05
  Speaker 3: No, yeah, I.
• 20:10
  Speaker 4: Don't know. Maybe I thought I could.
• 20:11
  Speaker 5: I can't.
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: Sound so dramatic.
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: Blocks the block. He's dramatic to me for yeah, I
• 20:17
  Speaker 3: can't do it. Schedules change so you can't figure it
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: out'pened seriously, thing, dude, what we're gonna do is put
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: you on hold. Her name is Morgan, right, yes, the
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: back room is working on getting her now to put
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: her on the air. We'll talk to her, we'll find out.
• 20:34
  Speaker 3: You'll listen in and it'll be game one or not.
• 20:37
  Speaker 4: All right?
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: Cool?
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: Second date update next to kiss is the blocking that
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: I'm concerned about. Kiss FM were in it if you
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: just got here. It's a second date update. Quickly to
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: bring up the speed uh, Julian's driving a Honda Cord.
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: Morgan gets in the back thinking he's an uber driver.
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: He's not. They have a laugh about it. She's like
• 20:55
  Speaker 3: my ober. He's like, no, I'm not. No, I'm just driving.
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: Just a guy. And then going on a date because
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: he said she was nice and there he thought they clicked,
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: so they went out on a great first date. He said,
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: and they were texting for about a week and then
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: the nights before, just before date two, she texted him,
• 21:10
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry. I thought I could do it, but I can't,
• 21:12
  Speaker 3: and then blocked him. Why did she do that? And
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: block him? So he's gonna listen, this is Julian. All right, Julian,
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: don't even I mean breathe, but don't breathe loudly because
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: we're gonna have you on the line here and listen
• 21:25
  Speaker 3: to Morgan. We're gonna talk to you. Ready, here we go, Bro,
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: good luck. I'm gonna work it out for you. Bro,
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: I got you. Morgan. Hi, it's Ryan Seacrest. How are
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: you in? Ssany and Tanya? Hi, we're good. Thanks for
• 21:41
  Speaker 3: coming on kiss with us this morning.
• 21:43
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: So we're calling about a guy. This is a great story.
• 21:47
  Speaker 3: He jumped into the back of the car. He thought
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: it was an uber.
• 21:52
  Speaker 7: Yes, yes, the uber guy.
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but he's not the uber guy. What happened? How'd
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: you end up in his car? Julian?
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: Well, I just.
• 22:04
  Speaker 6: I made a mistake and I thought I was getting
• 22:06
  Speaker 6: into my uber but it wasn't.
• 22:08
  Speaker 2: It wasn't.
• 22:09
  Speaker 7: But he was really cute and nice, and he asked
• 22:11
  Speaker 7: my number. So I was like, okay, you.
• 22:13
  Speaker 4: Know, just.
• 22:15
  Speaker 7: You know i've been why not?
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: And did you go on a date? Uh?
• 22:20
  Speaker 4: Yes, we did.
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: How was it?
• 22:24
  Speaker 7: I mean it was great. He's he's funny and cute
• 22:28
  Speaker 7: and he was very respectful and yeah it was awesome.
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: Okay, okay, So do you like him?
• 22:38
  Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, he's a Yeah, he's a he's a
• 22:41
  Speaker 7: nice guy.
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: And yeah, do you want to go out with him again?
• 22:48
  Speaker 5: Oh?
• 22:48
  Speaker 7: No, definitely not.
• 22:50
  Speaker 6: I thought I could do it.
• 22:51
  Speaker 7: I can't, but it's okay, you know, like plenty of
• 22:54
  Speaker 7: seeing this.
• 22:55
  Speaker 3: As an unmarried person here myself. Can you explain to me?
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: So you meet a guy, he's a good guy, nice,
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: you have a great date, and then date two you
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: say no, you can't why?
• 23:07
  Speaker 6: Well, I mean I told him why.
• 23:10
  Speaker 5: I'm sure he understands why.
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: But can you tell me I haven't spent a lot
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: of time with him.
• 23:17
  Speaker 6: Well, his last name is Morgan and my first name
• 23:20
  Speaker 6: is Morgan, and I just I can't be Morgan Morgan
• 23:23
  Speaker 6: for the rest of my life.
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: Well, there's a law firm named Morgan and Margan. Yeah,
• 23:26
  Speaker 3: I was aurytorney in the old Gosh I'm where Yeah,
• 23:31
  Speaker 3: I see its all the time. This guy, Oh this
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: seems petty. I mean, honestly, Morgan, Why, like, what's the
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: dude cares? Yeah?
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: And you can always change your name.
• 23:43
  Speaker 4: I mean, I'm just I'm super traditional.
• 23:46
  Speaker 6: I mean, like my parents would die if I kept
• 23:49
  Speaker 6: my own.
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: Why we're gonna talk about marriage? Go out with the
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: guy dating?
• 23:52
  Speaker 8: Yeah, if you like breath smells and it's like better than.
• 23:58
  Speaker 3: Know him, you might fall people can also, you might
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: fall for him. He also might be better than you think.
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: He might be willing to give up this rule for
• 24:07
  Speaker 3: your parents.
• 24:09
  Speaker 7: I mean, I don't know. I just I am really traditional.
• 24:14
  Speaker 6: I just I don't think I could even date someone
• 24:17
  Speaker 6: that I could not see myself marrying.
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: I get it. Change your name to Sarah.
• 24:23
  Speaker 8: What are we talking about?
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: You know you wouldn't change your name.
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: I'm about to change mind.
• 24:30
  Speaker 9: I'm going to the court after work tomorrow.
• 24:32
  Speaker 3: What's it going to be to you? You got married
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: and you want to Yeah, yeah, you wouldn't change it
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: for him.
• 24:37
  Speaker 9: That's what I'm doing.
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: You're not doing doing it for yourself. Okay, this is
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: not about you. This is about Morgan.
• 24:44
  Speaker 8: For her not to go out with own just because
• 24:45
  Speaker 8: her name would be Morgan, Morgan, something we could get past.
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: Get past it, like, listen, give him a second date
• 24:53
  Speaker 3: at least to see.
• 24:57
  Speaker 7: I mean, I don't know, but we did have fun.
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's my point. Look, Morgan, it's tough out there. Yes,
• 25:06
  Speaker 3: you know, you can't worry about being the name of
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: a law firm. It's fine, all right, So Morgan. Julian
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: is on the phone right now. Julian. Yeah, hey, listen,
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: just ask her all fast, hurry, Hi, listen.
• 25:21
  Speaker 4: We don't have to get married right away.
• 25:23
  Speaker 3: This is we just went on one date.
• 25:25
  Speaker 4: I don't I don't see what the big deal is.
• 25:27
  Speaker 4: I think, you know, like I think we should go
• 25:31
  Speaker 4: out again. But we had a great idea for our
• 25:34
  Speaker 4: second date. I think we should do it.
• 25:36
  Speaker 9: Or he could change his last name.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: I'm just forgetting about my name.
• 25:41
  Speaker 4: Okay, wait, I'll just cross that bridge when we come
• 25:43
  Speaker 4: to it, Okay, Like, don't worry about the names right now.
• 25:47
  Speaker 3: Say yes, okay, yes, Oh wow, guys, this is great success.
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: Go on the second date. Enjoy yourselves. I'll call you
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: M two or Jade to whatever you change your name to.
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: Julian Julian and I don't know what it's going to be.
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: But it's tough out there. Go get to know each other.
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: Maybe you just meet a good friend, you know.
• 26:12
  Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, that's fine, let's do it.
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: Wall second date, all right. She's going from thank you Morgan,
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: thank you Julian, thank you guys. All right, Oh, I
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: want to find out what this second and I still
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: have you what's the second date that you guys talked about?
• 26:31
  Speaker 4: Oh, so what we plan on doing. We talked about,
• 26:35
  Speaker 4: you know, driving around LA and finding all the back
• 26:38
  Speaker 4: to the future shooting locations that we could and then
• 26:41
  Speaker 4: recreating the scenes like for social media.
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: She was down social media on superun Okay, hold on
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: one second.
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: I mean it sounds like you found your person to
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: forget about the name. That's the one.
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: Yes Hollywood on air with Ryan Seacrest, one of two
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: point seven Kiss FM. Every sort of a booty call.
• 27:09
  Speaker 3: We recently started hearing about this foody calls squat with
• 27:12
  Speaker 3: somebody meet a mole for the free meal, just for
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: the yeah, just for the food, just for the moment
• 27:19
  Speaker 3: to not have to pay the bill. Tony met Robbie
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: on Hinge. So Hinge has a special place in our heart.
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: But the latest trend on Hinge is what sicny.
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: A duty call And it's kind of like this Bob
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: the builder trend that's happening on Hinge right now.
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: Women are turning to.
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: The dating app to get free handyman service.
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: And look, I get it.
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: It is it gets pricey to hire a handyman to
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: come and fix a faucet or fix something in your
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: house or build furniture, so instead of their usual dinner
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: and drinks, they'll actually put on their profile I am
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: looking for someone or I'm looking to be won over
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: by someone who is hand who is good with their hands,
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: who can put together some furniture, who can build something,
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: things like that, and that they shared that this their
• 28:08
  Speaker 2: past matches not only helped assemble furniture, but even bought
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: plants to spruce up their places and hung lamps or
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: hung art.
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: And it's a duty call.
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: You you assigned them duties.
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: Okay, let's go. I want you to comment on this
• 28:26
  Speaker 3: because you met Robbie old fashion way.
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: How long did it take Robbie to do a duty
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: for you?
• 28:34
  Speaker 9: A long time into my house until like third date?
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: Is that quick?
• 28:50
  Speaker 8: What? But like I feel like I would never just
• 28:53
  Speaker 8: put it out there and say hey, come help me.
• 28:55
  Speaker 8: I honestly don't even know the first thing he helped
• 28:58
  Speaker 8: me handy in my I'm sure he does.
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: I'm sure there has to there had to have been
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: something specifically, but it was. It was COVID.
• 29:06
  Speaker 8: It was already like we were already in lockdown and
• 29:08
  Speaker 8: I couldn't get someone to come and fix something under
• 29:10
  Speaker 8: my seeing so that we already been dating for like
• 29:12
  Speaker 8: five or six months.
• 29:15
  Speaker 3: So you know, as an unmarried person on the show here,
• 29:20
  Speaker 3: I just wanted to tell you that I am not
• 29:23
  Speaker 3: I would not be a good respondent to the duty call.
• 29:26
  Speaker 3: I'm not good at the duties. I'm not great. I'm waiting,
• 29:30
  Speaker 3: by the way. I get nervous when I try and
• 29:32
  Speaker 3: make a drink and there's a date with me, like
• 29:34
  Speaker 3: you know, what's your drink and I have to like
• 29:36
  Speaker 3: make the drink and I'm trying to talk and mix
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: a drink for it'sug hard. I have a little bit
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: of panic. So I'm not a duty call kind of guy.
• 29:44
  Speaker 3: But you tell me when the logistics call trend comes,
• 29:48
  Speaker 3: because I am logistics to the nines. We want planning.
• 29:53
  Speaker 3: Do you want time? You want the logistics? I mean
• 29:57
  Speaker 3: I should work for FedEx. I know logistics like UPSM FedEx,
• 30:01
  Speaker 3: that's in my hand.
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: Everyone everyone has their qualities, and everyone has their person
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: that will match perfectly with them.
• 30:08
  Speaker 3: You don't find it attractive that a guy can make
• 30:11
  Speaker 3: things happen, plan things organized, and yeah, thank you.
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: Siicity, but bonus points if you can also build stuff
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: with your hands.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: Let's leave the.
• 30:19
  Speaker 9: Dating apps to finding love.
• 30:21
  Speaker 8: Let's not keep using them to build furniture, get free meals,
• 30:26
  Speaker 8: like Let's let the dating apps be what they're supposed
• 30:30
  Speaker 8: to be.
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: So.
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: A sociologist says that this trend taps into a shift
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: after the pandemic. People now value utility and action over
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: just small talk. It's a way for guys to impress
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: with their I don't know with skills. What skills they got,
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: real world problem solve solving skills.
• 30:49
  Speaker 3: I got that. I can work out logistics. I can
• 30:53
  Speaker 3: if you need planning, I could be your guy.
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: I think if a guy came and like did something
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: for you, Yes, if you're using them, that's one thing,
• 31:01
  Speaker 2: But if you're actually genuinely trying to get to know
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: them and they're doing a task for you, it's kind
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: of hot.
• 31:06
  Speaker 8: Like did you imagine a first date, somebody saying, what
• 31:09
  Speaker 8: do you want to do? Can you come over here
• 31:10
  Speaker 8: and fix my coffee table? Leg and they'll go grab
• 31:13
  Speaker 8: a drink hot.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not mad at it.
• 31:16
  Speaker 9: I've never imagined saying that I'm not mad at it.
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: Well, you don't have to imagine anything anymore. You're Marid forever.
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're done, so lay off of them. Why are
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: you owing? It's no, it's like cute. Oh okay. I
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: thought you were like sad that you're not going to date.
• 31:28
  Speaker 9: Any No no, no, no, no no no.
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: But yeah, there's warnings that, like you're letting strangers into
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: your house, so maybe don't do that.
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: This is kiss eight five to a one on two
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: seven into the studio. I'm gonna grab Christy. Christy, you
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: need some help here. You say your mom cheated on
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: your dad?
• 31:51
  Speaker 5: Yes, well, I don't know. I overheard a conversation and
• 31:56
  Speaker 5: it sounds like my mom might have cheated on my dad,
• 31:59
  Speaker 5: and I just I don't really know what I'm supposed to.
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  Speaker 5: My mom was just drunkenly talking with her friend and
• 32:09
  Speaker 5: mentioned something about an interaction she had with a man
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  Speaker 5: last year, and I heard a similar conversation between them before,
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  Speaker 5: and I kind of ignored it, but now that I've
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  Speaker 5: heard it the second time, I feel like it confirms it.
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  Speaker 3: So she doesn't know you've heard something. Obviously your father
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  Speaker 3: doesn't know about this. What could you tell her? Friends? Said? Well,
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  Speaker 3: how did they react?
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  Speaker 5: They seemed very casual about it, which was concerning to me,
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  Speaker 5: like maybe it's an ongoing thing.
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  Speaker 1: Hm, well, talk to your mom.
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  Speaker 3: Do you see it? Do you say to your mom
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  Speaker 3: you overheard this? I mean, or do you keep I.
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  Speaker 1: Would see what she says. How does she clear this up?
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  Speaker 2: How does she defend it or not defend it, or say,
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  Speaker 2: oh my gosh, no that was a misunderstanding that of that,
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  Speaker 2: or maybe it's true.
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  Speaker 5: Do you think there's any world where I could stay
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  Speaker 5: out of it?
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  Speaker 9: Yes?
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  Speaker 2: Yes, but that's gonna eat you alive, and it's going
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: to change your relationship with your mom and your dad.
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  Speaker 2: It's just you're it's going to build and fester and
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  Speaker 2: it's not going to be healthy.
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  Speaker 3: I might maybe you could split the difference here and
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  Speaker 3: give it a week or two and see if there's
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  Speaker 3: any way to bring it up, or if she's not
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  Speaker 3: going to bring it up.
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  Speaker 2: I guess no, and carrying a secret like this, CHRISTI
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  Speaker 2: is just gonna I.
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  Speaker 3: Don't know, great to say something, Christie, it's so hard
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  Speaker 3: to hold on to something like that. Could one of
• 33:43
  Speaker 3: her friends now then they would tell her no, yeah,
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  Speaker 3: and your mom.
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  Speaker 5: What, Well, she's like my best friend, and so I
• 33:51
  Speaker 5: feel like this is going to change our entire relationship.
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  Speaker 1: But it's already changed because you already think this.
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  Speaker 3: And also, if it happened, it's going to change and
• 34:00
  Speaker 3: you need to know. And if it didn't happen, then
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: you need to know. So I don't think there's any
• 34:04
  Speaker 3: downside finding out right. I mean, if it happened, it happened,
• 34:08
  Speaker 3: so we have to deal with it. If it didn't happen,
• 34:10
  Speaker 3: we move on, and that's the good news.
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  Speaker 5: Right. How would you guys go about mom?
• 34:17
  Speaker 3: I just want to say, this is a very difficult conversation.
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  Speaker 3: It hurts me to even say this, but it's been
• 34:22
  Speaker 3: eating me up inside. I overheard this better speak. That's it,
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  Speaker 3: very simple, Christy.
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  Speaker 5: Sorry, processing all sounds good in theory, but you know, scary.
• 34:40
  Speaker 3: Scary, and you only have to do it if you
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: feel like you can do it, and then you want
• 34:44
  Speaker 3: to do it. But I just think there are two paths.
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  Speaker 3: One is that if it didn't happen, you'll know and
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: you want eat you up. And if it did happen,
• 34:49
  Speaker 3: you're going to probably find out anyway.
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: You're right, I'm sorry, sorry, I know, I feel.
• 34:57
  Speaker 3: I can, yeah, I can hear it, feel it, sense it,
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  Speaker 3: and just know that this is not the first time
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  Speaker 3: someone's dealt with this. This is something unfortunately, people have
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: had to deal with before. Definitely, And and then it's
• 35:09
  Speaker 3: just it's on. It's in your world right now, and
• 35:12
  Speaker 3: we'll be thinking about you.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, thank you. I really appreciate you, guys.
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: Good luck to you, Thank you, good luck, thank you.
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: Bye. It breaks my heart so dead about that, such
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: a just but eye butterflies for her.
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but she can't just keep It's not fair for
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: her to have that secret or carry that.
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: What might be years.
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: I know, I know, I know. On two point seven
• 35:42
  Speaker 3: it's kiss FM. Ryan Seacrest here over the weekend, issistantly
• 35:46
  Speaker 3: had a little crisis at the house. You were locked out.
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: Yes, it could intentionally, you know what, I didn't think
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: it was intentionally.
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: Now that you mention it, maybe it was.
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  Speaker 2: But she's so little that I don't think she would
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: think to do it intentionally. Yeah, I'm talking about Saveyah.
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  Speaker 2: She's four years old. So this is what happened. We
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: were in the backyard. Well, we had put the kids
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: to bed, not to bed, they were watching a movie
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: in our bedroom and so they were you know, bathed,
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: brush teeth, already went potty. Like this is a good
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: I'm like, we're basically the plan was for them to
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: fall asleep. This was Sunday night, and and that's fine.
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: And so Michael and I come back downstairs and we're
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: out in the back backyard like the ower back patio,
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: and we're having wine and we're just relaxing and having
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: like a really good just chill mommy daddy time.
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: I'm going to get into the details.
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: And then little Saveah comes out and we're like, it's
• 36:39
  Speaker 2: you need to go to bed, get back inside. And
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: she wanted she asked for something, and I was like, fine,
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: you can have it, go back inside, go back inside.
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: So we shoe her away basically, and she goes back inside,
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: and then we didn't think any of it, continue on
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: with our evening. Then when we're ready to go back inside,
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: the door is locked and it's been at least an
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: hour since she had been there. So now we're panicking,
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: they're asleep, how do we get in? And Michael's like
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: banging on the door. We're yelling Max and because he's
• 37:05
  Speaker 2: always late, the last one to fall asleep, And sure
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: enough Maxim was away.
• 37:09
  Speaker 3: He came down and save the dad.
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: Two girls were asleep and Maxinim comes down.
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  Speaker 3: It was like not an accident, like she was having
• 37:16
  Speaker 3: like a playful moment. Then forgot maybe maybe she was
• 37:19
  Speaker 3: like playing, because I think like maybe she was joking.
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: Then all of a sudden I got distracted and fell
• 37:22
  Speaker 3: a sleep around.
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: I think so too, because it's so easy to lock
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: that door, and it's just and we always teach the
• 37:27
  Speaker 2: kids like lock it, lock it, and so I think
• 37:29
  Speaker 2: maybe it was also probably just like an instinct.
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: But there was a panic where I'm like, oh my.
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: Gosh, my gosh, we can't control that.
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: We're locked down, sleep in the No, you're going to
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: have to break a window and get in.
• 37:40
  Speaker 3: This time with the parents thing like, I mean, a
• 37:44
  Speaker 3: plane flies over and it's distracting me. This is a
• 37:47
  Speaker 3: whole another level of being able to focus.
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: Wait, what do you mean time with the parents.
• 37:52
  Speaker 3: Oh, I thought you guys, you said, I don't want
• 37:53
  Speaker 3: to give you details. I thought you were having a romantic.
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: Sure it was a romantic if you want to.
• 37:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I'm saying like an airplane overhead and I'm
• 38:01
  Speaker 3: you know, I can't think about anything.
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: I mean, it wasn't that romantic. Like we were just
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: having a good.
• 38:09
  Speaker 3: Moment, having not kids in my life. That's what I
• 38:12
  Speaker 3: was focused on. How could you stay so focused? Right? Well,
• 38:15
  Speaker 3: call Michael, give me patial backing for us.
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