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Some Men Don't Give You the Right Advice · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  OK, so some of the advice, and I like a lot of these male
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  coaches. I think some of them, they get
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  it right. OK, but but some of them don't
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  get it right, OK, Because here's the thing.
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  They're mainly basing it on their own perspective.
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  However, the advice I give you guys is not based on my
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  perspective. Gina Hendrix's opinion, It
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  really has nothing to do with it.
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  I base it on the thousands and thousands of men I've worked
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  with and talked to about dating in my lifetime.
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  So that's what my opinions are always based on.
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  All right, A sampling of many, many, many, all kinds of guys.
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  Age ranges, crazy all kinds of age ranges, the graphic
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  backgrounds, ethnicities. So one thing I saw today is the
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  guy was saying that, and this actually happened at most
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  everything I talk about has usually happened in my real
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  world of matchmaking, right? So he's saying to the ladies.
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  He says ladies, ladies, and I like some of his advice.
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  But ladies, listen, if a guy said he's asking you out for
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  Friday and you haven't heard from him all week, you know,
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  should you reach out to him? OK.
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  And he's like, the answer is no, he's not interested.
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  He didn't make a date, blah, blah, blah.
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  All right. But because I've worked with so
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  many different kinds of men over the years who do things all
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  different ways, there isn't isn't one way, ladies.
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  There isn't one way. So I usually tell my ladies, if
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  you're worried about it, if you haven't heard from him and let's
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  say this is now Wednesday or even Thursday and you haven't
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  heard from him, just shoot him a text and say, hey, I just want
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  to make sure that we're still on for Friday night, OK?
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  I had a scenario where I had the woman do that the other day and
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  he said sure, we're on, here's the plan.
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  Da, da, da. And the reason that I knew that
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  she should do that is because of my real world of matchmaking.
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  I had a scenario where and the guy was younger and he had
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  totally set up the whole plan. He made the date, he made the
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  time, he set the reservation. I usually do it, but he did all
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  that stuff. And so the girl reached out to
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  me and she was very upset. I haven't heard from him.
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  I don't know if the dates happening.
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  And she was just all up in arms, OK.
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  And so I go to him and I, you know, I'm like, hey, dude, you
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  know, is this date happening? What's that?
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  He's he's like, it's totally innocent.
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  He's like, yeah, Gina, I mean, I made the reservation.
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  I made the plan. I just, I just thought it was
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  all said I was going to, you know, touch base with her.
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  He's going to touch base the morning of which that's a little
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  late. But he did make the plan.
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  It wasn't. He wasn't interested.
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  His. He made the plan, and then he
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  just got busy doing other things.
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  OK, so there isn't one way to do things.
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  All right, So just it just because.
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  Thank you. Just because you're getting a
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  man's advice doesn't mean he knows everything, all right?
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  The advice I give you comes from many, many, many different men
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  and many, many scenarios. All right.
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  Hope it helps.