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Dirty Little Secret: “Breaking the Seal: When Honesty Outweighs Tradition” · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: Get it off your chest to commise you'll feel better.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome to the dirty Little Secret.
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  Speaker 2: I mix one or two point nine dirty little Secret
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  Speaker 2: with some money coming up one thousand dollars. Next, if
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  Speaker 2: you want some cash, get your share of over two
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  Speaker 2: hundred thousand dollars. Okay, get your money. All right, dirty
• 0:16
  Speaker 2: little Secrets, Let's make it happen. If you got one
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  Speaker 2: eight three three seven eight seven, one oh two nine, Okay,
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  Speaker 2: I don't care what it is, big secret, little secret.
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  Speaker 2: This happens to be a crazy secret. If you ask me,
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  Speaker 2: good morning, how are you.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, I'm doing well. Thing.
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  Speaker 2: We're going to keep it anonymous. I know you're very
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  Speaker 2: serious about that. You said you do not want anybody
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  Speaker 2: to know who you are because it's kind of a
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  Speaker 2: crazy secret. So what's up.
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  Speaker 1: It is a crazy secret, so get ready. Okay, Well,
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  Speaker 1: I used to be a priest. I'm not anymore, and
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  Speaker 1: I don't really like talking about why you used to
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  Speaker 1: be a priest. That's right.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't even know that was something you could get
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  Speaker 2: out of. I guess you could.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know why. I thought it was a gang like.
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  Speaker 2: Not what you ever really thought about it. It is
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  Speaker 2: kind of so you were a priest, you're not in
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  Speaker 2: it anymore. We don't. We won't get into details why,
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  Speaker 2: I guess, unless you want to dive into it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I won't talk about why. But yeah, people always,
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  Speaker 1: you know, they're very interested when I say that I
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  Speaker 1: was a priest, and you know they're waiting for a
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  Speaker 1: scandal or a confession. I don't give it to them.
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  Speaker 1: But you know, honestly, let's just say I don't agree
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  Speaker 1: with a lot of the things the church does anyway.
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  Speaker 1: Fair What I will say is this, I believe deeply
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  Speaker 1: in honesty. But people would obviously confess all kinds of
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  Speaker 1: wild things. But when people came into confession and you know,
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  Speaker 1: told me they cheated, I listened, I prayed with them,
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  Speaker 1: and then more often than not, I I gave them
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  Speaker 1: a choice. I told them that they had a month
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  Speaker 1: to tell the truth themselves, to sit across from the
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  Speaker 1: person you know they claimed to love, and say the
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  Speaker 1: words out loud, and if they didn't, I would really WHOA.
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  Speaker 2: I did not expect.
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  Speaker 1: That they in any handbook, as you can imagine. I
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  Speaker 1: know that, but you know, I also know that you know,
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  Speaker 1: some would say that I that I overstepped that I
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  Speaker 1: that I played God, you know, but I I watched
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  Speaker 1: what secrets did to people outlive, like, you know, hallowed
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  Speaker 1: them out while they still showed up the church every
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  Speaker 1: Sunday pretending to be a whole person. And some people
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  Speaker 1: hated me for it. Some thanked me years later if
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  Speaker 1: you never spoke to me again. So it definitely caused
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  Speaker 1: a law of drama. Yeah, I don't. I don't read it,
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  Speaker 1: not one you don't.
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  Speaker 2: So there was so there were people that came in
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  Speaker 2: to confess and then they said, hey, I cheated or whatever.
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  Speaker 2: You gave them that option, they chose not to be honest,
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  Speaker 2: and then you went to their partner and said, hey,
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  Speaker 2: I'm just letting you know that your husband or wife
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  Speaker 2: cheated on you.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes I did.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, wow, I don't know much about the Catholic religion.
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  Speaker 2: I'll be honest, but I assume that's probably not what
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  Speaker 2: you're supposed to be. Unless I always had the in
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  Speaker 2: my head, and I don't know if this is the
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  Speaker 2: way it is. Unless it was a crime or some
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  Speaker 2: kind of thing that might hurt other people, then you
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  Speaker 2: would keep that confession just to you and the priest.
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  Speaker 2: But anyway, so that that's a huge secret and you
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  Speaker 2: have no regrets on doing any of it.
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  Speaker 1: I don't. Yeah, I wasn't a standard practice practice. But
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  Speaker 1: the truth ruined some relationships. But you know, lives would
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  Speaker 1: have poisoned them slowly anyway. And I left the church,
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  Speaker 1: but I didn't leave that belief behind. You know, I
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  Speaker 1: think honesty saves people, but it doesn't save everyone. Wow, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: that's a big secret.
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  Speaker 2: That is a massive secret. I never We've done a
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  Speaker 2: lot of dirty little secrets, never had one like this,
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  Speaker 2: So thank you for confessing to us. I mean, I
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  Speaker 2: could see why it would be hard not to tell someone. Yeah, though, it's.
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  Speaker 1: Because you know the other person.
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  Speaker 2: It's not like therapy where it's just like there your partners,
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  Speaker 2: some random person in the world. But likeugh, But interestingly enough,
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  Speaker 2: some people you said did end up appreciating it because
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  Speaker 2: it maybe worked out for them and that's was the
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  Speaker 2: best thing they could have done.
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  Speaker 1: It was a weight off for some people.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, well, thank you. Now I feel like I
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  Speaker 2: feel like I should go confess because I feel like
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  Speaker 2: I know a dirty secret now. But this is a
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  Speaker 2: not judgment zone, kind of like heaven. Well, I guess
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  Speaker 2: heaven is kind of a judgment zone. Anyway, sir, thank
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  Speaker 2: you so much. We appreciate you and we appreciate you
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  Speaker 2: telling us your secret.
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  Speaker 1: Very happy truth.
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  Speaker 2: That was a big one never got. Let's take it
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  Speaker 2: to chursh one.
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  Speaker 1: Yes.