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Challenges Won't Stop Me With Melony Brown · She Speaks Life - Christian Women, Strengthen Your Faith, Bible Study, Grow Spiritually In Christ

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Hey there. Welcome back to she speaks life.
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Now today I bring you Melanie Brown, she is the author of
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challenges won't stop me. An interactive guide to
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overcoming and thriving Melanie. And I have a conversation about
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choosing not to have challenges, block, our path and stop us
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where we're heading, and what we need in our backpack.
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That's essential to get through the trains of life, in our
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journey with God. Melanie brings such a unique
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visual of how to be primed and ready for whatever comes our
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way. I am so excited for you to hear
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this conversation. Patient.
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So let's dive in. Here's my guest Melanie Brown.
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Hi, Melanie, welcome to she speaks life.
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I am so excited. You are here with us today.
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I am so excited to be with you too.
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I've been looking forward to this.
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Yeah, I love your story. I got to read your book over the
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last week, and is just absolutely amazing.
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And before we dive into that, I always love to kick us off with
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our conversation. And ask you, do you have a
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favorite scripture verse? Yes, I do.
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And it also is my fight verse. And we'll talk about that later,
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but it is Hebrews 2:13 and it is from the Amplified version.
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And it says, my trust and assured Reliance and confident,
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hope shall be fixed in him and the fixed in him.
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If I can do that part, he shows up In big big ways.
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Yeah, he sure does. And your story is all about
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overcoming and thriving. And, you know, you wrote a book,
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it's called challenges won't stop me and interactive Survival
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Guide for overcoming and thriving.
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And so, before we just dive into how awesome this book is, I
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would love to hear your story of overcoming.
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Coming, what made you write this book?
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Well, my story starts well. Before I was born, I have a
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congenital disease that was formed in my mother's womb.
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I didn't know that until I was 45 years old, but the first
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signs of it started. When I was two, I had a stroke
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that paralyzed my left side. Caused a lot of residual
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struggles but my parents took me home.
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After the doctor said, you know, this is very unusual.
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She's two years old. We usually see patients, who are
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65 or older. You really don't know what to do
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with her. Pretty pretty amazed that my 22
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year old parents did not completely freaked out, but it
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really brought forth this idea of fighting to overcome.
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I don't know if they even knew it was inside of them, but they
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instill it in me. And that's where my Overcomer
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attitude came from. Even though it was a struggle to
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learn how to feed myself. Again, learn how to walk again,
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because it impacted my balance and coordination.
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They continue to encourage. And believe in me, they would
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not. Let me use any of the struggles
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that I had as an excuse. Not to participate.
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It may have been awkward, it may have been He looking and I have
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taken me a lot longer, but I was at least expected to try
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different things, Sports learning how to ride a bike and
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that mentality that positive attitude.
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Not letting the circumstances the challenges that I dealt with
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keep me from enjoying life and participating in life came from
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my parents. Thankfully, I had that so deeply
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ingrained in me that when I started having migraines And
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debilitating migraines in my 20s, that lasted through most of
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my 30s and I still have some occasionally all neurological
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again, I would be in the bed for days on end having to go to the
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emergency room for medicine when nothing else worked.
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The mentality of fighting to overcome and not letting the
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migraines defeat me or stop me from doing what I was called to
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do with. That time, which was teaching in
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the classroom. If you fast forward again, to
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right before my 40th, birthday, I started having many strokes.
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Again, you're a logical. On the fourth mini stroke my, my
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neurologist suggested that I get an angiogram of my brain.
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And that's when it revealed, why I was having all of these
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neurological issues and that is due to a rare cerebrovascular
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disease called Moyamoya. And once I process the news
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because, you know, I 45 and a lifetime of struggles, finally
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getting a name to it while it was a scary name and I didn't
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know anything. Thing about it at least I knew
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what was causing all of the difficulties that I had faced
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throughout my life and I ask the question that then led to
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something that was very scary. I said, What do we do now?
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What kind of treatment do you use for Moyamoya?
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How do you help me to stop having these neurological
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incidences? And my neurosurgeon said well
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brain surgery and that was a little bit to process, but it
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was important because it was an Avenue to, at least alleviate
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the more significant challenges. I still am going to have
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challenges Because while brain surgery was effective and has
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been effective. It only slows it it doesn't stop
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Malia Moya. So I will continue to have
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struggles, that are neurological but again that that mentality of
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fighting to overcome is just part of my DNA now, and God has
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shown up, I can't even begin to tell you how many times and made
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his presence known and has healed me, not completely of
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Moyamoya, but of many other things and so I give him all the
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credits. It's, but that's where my love
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of overcoming comes from. Is that I know what it takes to
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fight to overcome. Yeah, it's just a basing on the
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cover. You've got a girl that looks
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like she's about to go hiking. And so this whole book just
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takes you on this outdoor hike journey and you talk about
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packing the essentials in your backpack which are all these,
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you know metaphors. What we need to not survive but
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Thrive as we're overcoming, right?
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Yeah. Surviving is important.
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Yeah, but surviving is limited to.
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Yes, just the challenge. What are you gonna do
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afterwards? Yeah, I wasn't going to impact
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your life and definitely it will impact the challenges will
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impact you in ways that are, I guess - but it, Can also impact
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you in many, many positive ways. And that's what thrust you into
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that thriving, but it's a choice.
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Yeah, for sure your buck, it's interactive.
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It's engaging. We have areas where we get to
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write down our thoughts that you provide, you tell us to
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underline things. It's learning in a way that's
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better than just reading a book. I mean, you're actually learning
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through this book. It's interesting.
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Active. And so I wanted to start us out
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with its the Rope analogy of mile to inviting God, to be
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braided and twisted in us to give us strength.
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And so throughout this hiking Journey, if you will each
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chapter is called like Mi one my old to but you have like a top
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it next to it and then you have all these items that are
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essential so I love to expand more on the rope and then I'm
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going to take us through some of the highlights of what I love
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the most, when I read this book. So if you could just explain
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more about this rope because I'm not doing it justice at all but
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that's okay. The Rope one is an interesting
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one because the type the title of that Mile and yes I do miles
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instead of chapters because you are on a journey and I asked to
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come alongside you Not as the master Navigator, I point all of
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that to God, I'm just, I'm journeying with you and I'm
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pointing out some things that maybe you already know as a
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Christ follower, but maybe you just need a reminder of about
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how essential some of these things are and in that chapter
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or mile of the Rope it is about, is struggle really necessary.
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Yeah, it really is and Part of the struggle.
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If you think about a rope, there are many different ways that you
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can use a rope but I talked about three of those.
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And what I think is so important to remember is that you can be
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dragged by a rope which of course would be presenting a
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challenge one that you probably wouldn't be agreeable to but
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nonetheless that you can learn from that a rope can also be
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used for resistance and opposition.
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Action, we know all about that. And then the third purpose of a
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rope is for lifting. And there are countless
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scriptures in the Bible that talk about God, lifting us out
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now, does that mean that he's going to yank us out of that
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abusive marriage? Maybe maybe, but he's going to
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lift Us in ways where he is lifting our eyes to him and he
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is pouring into us. So it may not not be a physical
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lifting out, but it may be lifting us to him so that he can
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impart, what we need to know in order to fight to overcome that
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situation. Yeah, that's good.
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I love all of that that was you know because my testimony isn't
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necessarily Health but it's Financial loss.
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And so I was looking back at that struggle at that time and
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it was definitely this dragging. It's not going to lift us out of
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Problem but it was definitely him drawing me closer to him and
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Me growing in my character to the point of praising and
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worshipping him through the struggle, which we're going to
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talk about a little bit because you have a chapter on that which
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is so awesome. And so I wanted to also
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highlight and talk about the Mi 4 and this one That was so cool.
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You talked about the different maps and I think everyone can
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kind of relate or are seeing other people use that type of
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map for their life and you broke it down into three culture map
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substance map and a pride map and go ahead and tell us what
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that chapter was called and break down those.
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Different maps. And what map ultimately do we
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need to use? Well, the whole idea of the maps
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is the fact that we have a map that as Christ followers, we
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need to be following. And yeah, the world is pulling
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us towards other types of maps and you talk about the culture
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and the pride, and the way that we have a map that basically is
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inviting to Nam are Pain or two to take us away from the
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struggle. And the title of that chapter is
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who is guiding your journey. The map that God gives us is his
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word and we have to choose to use that map.
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I would never in a million years want to make the reader feel
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this obligatory. You must go to God's word every
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single day or else you're not going to be seen in God's eyes
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as acceptable or Lovable, or any of those things.
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He's not requiring. This checklist from us at all,
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and none of the things in my book are about a checklist.
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I call them essential year because it's intended.
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As you mentioned, a moment ago about drawing us to him it he's
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pieces of gear. They strengthen us, they equip
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us and they Empower us to deal with whatever challenge dares to
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cross your path. And so the map there's a Nelson
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DeMille quote in that chapter or in that Mi I keep using chapter
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and I am kind of fussing at myself because I've corrected so
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many other people that keep using chapter and here I am
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because I'm saying, no, they're miles there miles, but in that
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mile, I talked about his quote is that there are better maps
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and we have access to the better man.
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Mmm, it's word guides us and teaches us and helps us navigate
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those uncertain times. Those difficult situations and
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the World's Maps and there are far more than those three.
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Yeah. Loneliness is a map because it
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can draw us into things to numb that loneliness or fill that
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void and so we have to make decisions whatever those maps
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are that are guiding us away from God.
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We need to be choosing the better map, which is God's word,
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that is the map. That's going to guide us towards
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him and towards healthy productive thriving living.
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Yeah, I just love that because I mean you broke it down to a
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culture map. It's more of like do.
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What? Feels good.
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You know you get tangled up. Sin.
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It causes Financial struggles, and inflicts pain.
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On others substance map is numbing the pain instead of
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working through it. It's the harder way, right?
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Easier just to numb it out with something, whether its food or
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alcohol or shopping, whatever, but it can lead to addiction,
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and destroy a relationship lead to job loss, and then you said
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the prime map and that's covering up or denying that
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there's a Sin or a struggle. And it pushes people away.
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That care because the sin is viewed as no big deal destroys
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relationships, marriages again loss of job or Ministry or
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reputation. So all of these Maps lead to
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destruction because you're not, you're using the world's method
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and all these Maps lead to sin and sin leads to destruction at
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least two. The Bible says deaf which is you
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know, destroying things. It's dying things out.
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And so anyway, I just love that. You just gave this whole
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analogy. That are our map should be God's
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word and it is. It's our instructional book and
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life. I love also the Mi number five
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and you went into in depth into the purposes of prayer and You
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called this chapter who do you call when you're struggling?
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And so can you just expand more on the purposes of prayer?
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Because, you know, we know prayer is powerful.
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We know that it is something that we should do, but the way
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you broke it down, it just made it so clear as to the why behind
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the what? Well, thank you for your kind
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words. Yeah.
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Prayer is represented in the book by the multi-purpose tool.
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And of course, when I was trying to figure out the connection of
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visual images that would relate to, each of the pieces of
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essential gear, I kept thinking about prayer, and what could I
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even use and then I don't know if I saw a commercial.
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I think I did see a commercial on TV about a camping trip, or a
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hiking trip or something like that.
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And they didn't even mention the multi-purpose tool, but it was
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on the person and they used it and I'm thinking multi-purpose
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multi-purpose. That's what prayer is.
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It's not just one, it doesn't. It's not just, we don't pray for
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just one purpose. There are so many different.
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Ways that we pray and what we pray for and what what it does
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for us and how it brings us to closer to God, I'm just gonna.
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Yeah, so good. Talk about a few of these and
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this this list of 7 is just the 7.
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Biggest 7 that came to my mind. Again multi-purpose means that
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you could easily add to this list because you Listener could
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have discovered a different way. That prayer has connected them
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to God, and that they have learned about God or themselves
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that a prayer has been answered any of those way.
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So this is not an exhaustive list but a couple of those is
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prayer. Connects you with the only one
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who truly knows you. We can talk to our friends.
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We can talk to our dog. Trust me, I talk to my dog a lot
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about things that are concerning me because she's a great
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listener, but she can't do anything about it.
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We can talk to our spouses, our children, our parents, any of
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those people, but we still withhold from them because
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there's parts of ourselves that we don't necessarily want them
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to see and so when we connect with God, he's the one that
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knows us. Us and we can be so authentic
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with him especially when we're struggling.
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Because sometimes it's hard to admit, I feel lonely or I feel
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afraid or I'm just so angry. You might not want to share that
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with your spouse and so this is the person that knows you well
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and knows those things are going on in you.
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Anyway, prayer invites a two-way connection with God, which is
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what we talked about earlier. Prayer, strengthens you?
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I don't know. Jamie, I find that often times
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when I am finished with a prayer and I closed my prayer.
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Then I just feel this this Inner Strength that God has infused in
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me and that gives me courage to keep going.
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Hmm. Yeah.
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Prayer guides our path because we can ask for guidance and he
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provides that fills you with peace.
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That We know from the Bible says, that kind of peace that
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passes human understanding. Now, I have experienced that
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another one would be that, it allows God to impart his wisdom
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inside and understanding. And then the last one that I put
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again, not exhaustive list. But the last one that I put is
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that it gives us an opportunity to express our Thanksgiving to
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God. Now we can do that.
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Anytime we can just say it out loud when we're in the car or
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When you receive something but that's a great time to express
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our Thanksgiving to God. Yeah.
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All those are so good and just truth and one thing I discovered
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and it's not a Prayer by myself but praying with my husband and
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how when we came together this was something that I was
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convicted on years ago because we would have these Financial
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struggles And some hardships but we were praying like on our own
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and so I remember God just putting it on my heart, get
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together with your husband and pray, right?
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And so I went to my husband and I was like you know let's pray
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together like we're always you know, on our separate quiet
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times and which which is great to do but when we're talking
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about something that's going on mutually in our in our Carriage
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and we need to come to God with this and really pray together.
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And I'm hearing things that I normally wouldn't be hearing
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otherwise, because he's talking to the father praying to God and
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stuff that he wouldn't be coming to me about.
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But so at the same time, I'm hearing what's really instilled
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in his heart, what's really going on and vice versa me too.
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And so that's the beauty of Prayer.
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Where it's like it turns everything just so transparent,
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you know? And you're just like, you're
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like, oh wow, like had no idea. That was something you were
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battling with or you know struggling with and how great.
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We just laid it at his feet and said, here it is Lord and so and
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then after that we just started seeing mountains being moved on
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our behalf. And so I wanted to continue on
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to mile number 7 you said who or what is Defied when you see your
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struggles and I believe you use binoculars for this.
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Yes. And this I absolutely love
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because you talk about praising and worshiping God in the
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struggle. You said nobody has to remind us
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to praise God. After the struggle and I think
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that is something we don't do often enough.
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I know, I went through a dark little season.
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Couple years ago and the Lord told me to start reading Psalm
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and David and so I started praising him and worshiping him
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through the. Where are you?
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God moment in my life and I could not believe how much it
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transformed me. I was like, oh no wonder this is
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in the Bible, this is what we should be doing.
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So I'd love for you to just share a little bit more on this.
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I think the Idea of binoculars is perfect for praise and
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worship because it's fixing our eyes on him.
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And we, so often myself included, I'm pointing the
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finger at me as much as I am saying it to anyone else, who is
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listening that we get, so caught up in fixed on.
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Literally, our eyes are focused on our struggles.
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Yeah. And while we are thinking About
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God or praying, maybe praising him or thanking him, or
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worshiping him is so hard. And I think Satan really intends
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for it to be hard. He doesn't want us.
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Praising God. When our life is a mess, Satan
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uses that opportunity to get in there and get our Focus away
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from God. He wants us to focus on our
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struggles, but if we And purposely like you did choose to
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praise during those times. God is going to show up in a
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big, kind of way, he's going to show up anyway, but he's going
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to show up bigger because we are focused on him.
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It shows him that we are trusting him and we have faith
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in that we are believing that he is going to get us through just
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like the Waymaker song talks about.
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We may not see him working but we're going to believe that he
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is and we're going to thank him. Him in advance, I know you're
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working. I know that you are working out
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the situation. Far better than anything I could
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imagine you're going to put the right people in the right places
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and if it's a job situation, maybe he opens that door.
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It's not conditional on our praise and worship whether or
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not he answers our prayers but oh, can't you imagine his heart?
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When he knows we are just falling apart.
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And we are struggling so hard and we choose to look to him.
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Yeah, I just I can see his face and just how much that means to
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him. Yeah, because when we're
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worshiping, we're not worrying. We're all yes.
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You know, when we're praising him, we're not looking at the
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problems like you're saying, and I couldn't help but think about
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okay, Satan was Lucifer. He's a fallen angel and Lucifer
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Were before he wanted to be like, God was a beautiful like
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those worship leader, right? Like he was in charge of worship
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and it just so happens that that is like his number one.
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Like one of the top attacks is preventing us from worshipping
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and praising God because he is not there in heaven anymore.
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You know, he's not an angel anymore, he is Satan and he
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knows his time. Short.
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He knows he's already been conquered and you know the
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victory is is God's and so what can he do?
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He can try to prevent from us worshiping and praising because
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we cannot get sidetracked. We cannot be lacking of having
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faith. When we are praising and
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worshipping God, it's filling us up.
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I just love that. That is a weapon that we can
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use. Is to attack the enemy when he
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comes out us. So very much so very much so
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that it's a weapon. And again, it's such a powerful
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weapon during the challenges because it takes so much more
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out of us to mentally and physically and emotionally do
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that praise and worship that it has to just Glorify God, so much
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to hear us putting that trust in.
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And as you said not worrying, they got that.
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We're not giving time and energy to focusing on our struggle.
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We're focusing on him. Mmm.
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Yeah, it sends us on the right path for healing.
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Yes, worshiping and praising. There's no way.
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We're gonna reach a dead end. We are going to reach.
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That place of healing and abundance and so definitely an
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essential tool there. Okay.
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Mi late. You said how will you remember
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your journey? Okay.
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Hi. I love journaling.
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This is my house. Not everyone journaling.
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I mean is like so huh. Don't know everything to me.
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There's just so much to it that just you know, helps me a life.
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I'm I mean, it's just it's therapeutic and it's the way I
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talk to God. It's the way I hear, God, I'll
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write it down. It's the way all, you know,
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right out of scripture verse and how it applies my life.
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But I just love to talk and write and do all that and record
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his faithfulness. Also, like, this is such a great
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thing because we're forgetful people and we're going to forget
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what God did for us. I mean, you know we could say
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oh, I'll never Her forget that that was just so major, but
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sometimes we do. And so to have it written down
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is so great and to have your like, how are you feeling in
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that moment? Like we don't remember the exact
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details of how we're feeling and so I remember bringing a journal
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like a travel log and I really wish I continued on with it.
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I got busy when we two weeks into our travels but But man,
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when I look back at each day at what God was doing at that time,
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and this is, when he was moving Us from Southern California to
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Austin, and it was just so amazing to have all that written
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down as to how I was feeling and what God was doing and what he
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said. And to see praise report, I'd
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love for you to talk more and expand on journaling with us.
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Well, I too like to journal I often Journal Bible verses or
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what I'm gaining from that that maybe I haven't seen before, but
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I also have journals my journey and it's not every single day.
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It could be gratitude, it could be, here's what led up to my
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brain surgery. That was definitely something
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that I recorded God, showed up in about five specific ways,
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Where it was clear. He was saying, I've got this.
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It just was that clear? And I made sure that I Journal
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that because I didn't want to forget that, and when people
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would ask me, how are you feeling about your upcoming
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surgery? And I would, this is why, I
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would say God's got this. He's told me.
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And I believe him and he has, I have not had any major
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complications in almost, Seven years since my surgery and it
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could have gotten a lot worse. I know of other Moyamoya people
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who have Moyamoya and they have struggled greatly even after
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their surgeries. So it is very important for us
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to do the travel log because it helps us to pay better attention
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about the details of things going on.
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No, you don't need to know precisely what time you ate
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dinner on June 13th. I'm not talking.
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About that kind of detail, right?
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Yeah talking about paying attention to the ways that God
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is working. There was a just as an example
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and I need to journal about this.
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There was a gentleman that was following me.
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I was going to tutoring about two weeks ago and he was just
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behind me and I don't normally notice these kinds of things but
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his vehicle was one of the new Broncos and it was this very
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interesting blue color and it just kind of caught my eye in
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the rearview mirror. Our and I noticed that he was
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continuing to go in the same direction.
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I was, well, just before I was to turn off to where I was
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meeting a student. His car, I saw on the roof, my
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rearview mirror that his car veered off and line drive
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straight into a tree. Oh, wow.
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And All I could think was God. He could have line drive
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straight into me and you protected me and there were so
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many emotions that I had about God's protection and even if I
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had been in an accident because that man hit me from behind I
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believe God would have protected me in other ways.
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I still probably would have had injuries but that's that's a way
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for us to pay better attention. And it can happen when we're in
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the car. It can happen when we're at a
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friend's house. Any kind of way, God is working
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all the time. Some other things that are
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great, we get in cycles of talking negatively.
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When we're going through struggles, we're just
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frustrated. I'm hurting.
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My heart hurts. Nobody is calling to check on
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me. All of these things while it's
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understandable, and I'm not saying we can't have those
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frustrations or be angry. But if we Journal them, then it
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gets it out of our head and it gets it on the paper and then we
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just give it to God. And say I can't I can't do
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anything about these things I need for you to take them off of
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off of my shoulders and help fix the situation in a way that
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brings glory to you and that in that situation.
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I learned something. So it's not that we can't have
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those frustrations but Their negative energy and they're
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they're not good in our minds and so to get them out and
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record them. And then, guess what?
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We can go back later and we can say how God answered that prayer
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after we gave all of that to him.
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And that's a great way to see his work in our lives.
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One of the things that I've also done is to record when friends
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or family have Said, words of encouragement or they've prayed.
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I have a friend that I call her my praying.
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Mama Jama friend, she can throw on some prayers and they are
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just right at the heart of God. And I will come home and record
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phrases that she used. That just really impacted me
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because they encouraged me. Yeah, right?
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Yeah. And another way, I mean, you'd
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forget I mean, you, you do have that, maybe that Laughs, like,
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there was a profound moment there.
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There was impact there but word-for-word what she said
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you'd forget. So I love it.
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And one thing I mentioned about how awesome your book was that
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it has these testimonies intertwined in each chapter.
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And I love hearing obviously testimonies and how individuals
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overcome and so that was another amazing. - in this book that I
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really appreciated. Well let me just tell you one
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thing about the stories that you're mentioning.
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Yeah, I've interviewed over 135 women who have faced challenges
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and have fought to overcome. And of course, I couldn't share
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all of them and in my book, but the ones that are shared are
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intended to go along with each of the pieces of essential gear.
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So that you can see how that person that woman lived out that
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gear. Her life, how it became an
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important part of her journey and so I'm glad to see that that
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that was something that connected with you.
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But as far as a takeaway if you're curious about how you
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face challenges that I have a quick 20 question quiz on my
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website and you can go to it by going to Journey on quiz.com and
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what you will find out after you have taken the quiz is What kind
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of Journey on personality? You have basically what kind of
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personality are you exhibiting? As you are facing that challenge
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and I don't want to give away any of the personalities because
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I don't want any of the listeners to try and figure out
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which one they are. I want them to answer the
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questions honestly but it is very revealing and those who
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have taken it have said, wow. Yeah.
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I think I do I exhibit that personality when I'm facing
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challenges and with any personality, there's always ways
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their strengths and weaknesses and I think it helps us know
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going into a challenge where we need to improve our weaknesses
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and to rely on our strengths. If you are interested in
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checking that out, you can head over to Melanie brown.com.
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I'm going to spell my name. For your listeners because just
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like your name is a little unusually spelled so is mine.
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So it's in el0. NY browna05 calm.
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Thank you. Melanie for coming on here and I
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highly recommend everyone, get grabbing your buck.
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Thank you so much for listening today and I trust that God has
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