Latest / Reformed Thinking / The Intolerance of Grace: Why the Bondwoman Must Go (Genesis 21:8-14)
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- 0:00Welcome back to Reformed Thinking.
- 0:01It is good to be here with you. We are looking at a stack of
- 0:04notes today that centers on one specific, very chaotic day in
- 0:09the life of Abraham. That's a good way to put it,
- 0:11Triotic. We are opening up Genesis
- 0:13chapter 21, specifically verses 8 through 14.
- 0:17And it really is a day that starts with a party and ends
- 0:19with, well, a deportation, a casting out.
- 0:23Yeah, it's wild. And the sources we have today
- 0:26are looking at this through a very specific lens, reformed
- 0:30theology. We're going to see how this one
- 0:32family drama basically sets the stage for some huge concepts
- 0:36like election and grace. It really is a heavy text.
- 0:39I mean, you have to picture the scene.
- 0:40It begins with a feast, the weaning of Isaac, which is a
- 0:43moment of pure joy, right? And it ends with a fracture so
- 0:47severe it splits the household apart forever.
- 0:49It feels like a total roller coaster when you read it.
- 0:52You start with this scene of, you know, celebration, a promise
- 0:54fulfilled, a child growing up, and by the end of the day you
- 0:57have a woman and a boy wandering in the wilderness with almost
- 1:00nothing. Just some bread and a skin
- 1:02water, that's it. And that's the scene.
- 1:05But the point we're going to keep coming back to is that this
- 1:07isn't just a domestic squabble. I think that is the mistake
- 1:11people make when they read Genesis.
- 1:12They see a family drama, you know, like a reality TV show.
- 1:16Yes, but this is the core conflict of the entire Bible
- 1:19playing out in one tent. It is a collision between the
- 1:23flesh and the spirit. Right.
- 1:25The question at stake here isn't just who gets the bigger bedroom
- 1:29or something trivial like that. No, the question is who will
- 1:32inherit the Kingdom of God? And the stakes are just
- 1:35incredibly high. We are going to be talking about
- 1:38some major doctrines today. We're going to see unconditional
- 1:41election in action. We'll see the distinction
- 1:44between the covenant of grace and the covenant of works
- 1:46playing out with real people. And honestly, we're going to see
- 1:50what some might call the necessary intolerance of grace.
- 1:54That phrase might make people uncomfortable, the intolerance
- 1:57of grace, but it is essential. Grace cannot tolerate
- 2:02self-reliance. It just can't coexist with it.
- 2:05And that's what we are going to see in this passage.
- 2:07OK, let's unpack this. We start in verse 8.
- 2:09The child grew and was weaned. Now for us today, weaning is
- 2:14just a thing that happens. Maybe you stop buying formula,
- 2:17you switch to solid food. It's.
- 2:18A quiet transition, mostly. But in the ancient Near East,
- 2:21this was a massive deal, wasn't it?
- 2:22Huge. Absolutely huge.
- 2:24You have to remember the context of infant mortality in the
- 2:28ancient world. It was incredibly high.
- 2:31I mean heartbreakingly high. So just surviving was a big
- 2:34deal. A child surviving to the age of
- 2:36three, which is typically when weaning happened back then, was
- 2:39a major milestone. It meant the child had passed
- 2:42through the most dangerous years of infancy.
- 2:45It was a public confirmation that the air was established.
- 2:48He was going to make it. So when the text says Abraham
- 2:51made a great feast, this wasn't just a birthday party with some
- 2:54cake and balloons. No, this was a covenant
- 2:56celebration. Think about what Abraham has
- 2:58endured up to this point. Years of waiting.
- 3:01Decades of, well, silence from God.
- 3:03At times the barrenness of Sarah, the shame of it.
- 3:07The failed attempts to help God. Right.
- 3:10And now look at the reality. God kept His word.
- 3:13The laughter that we saw back in Genesis 18.
- 3:16Remember when Sarah laughed in skepticism in the tent?
- 3:19Yes, she laughed, because it seemed impossible.
- 3:20That same sound laughter has now been transformed.
- 3:24That skepticism has been turned into fulfilment.
- 3:26I love the connection to the name Isaac.
- 3:28I mean, you kept literally means, he laughs.
- 3:31That is it. That's the whole point.
- 3:33The tent is now filled with laughter, but it's holy laughter
- 3:36now. It's the laughter of relief.
- 3:38It's the laughter of a promise that has actually physically
- 3:42come true. You can just imagine the
- 3:44atmosphere. The servants are celebrating.
- 3:46Sarah's beaming. Abraham is, I imagine, just
- 3:48profoundly relieved. The promise is visible.
- 3:50It's walking around. It's eating solid food.
- 3:53So this isn't just yay, no more breastfeeding.
- 3:55This is a political statement. In a way, it's Abraham telling
- 3:59the whole camp, the whole world. Here is the air.
- 4:02He survived the gauntlet, the line continues.
- 4:05Right. And you have to realize Abraham
- 4:07is over 100 years old. Sarah is 90.
- 4:11He has been living with the anxiety of who takes over when I
- 4:14die for decades. This feast is the exhale.
- 4:18It is the moment he can look around and say God did it.
- 4:21But, and here is where the tension just snaps, this very
- 4:25moment of fulfillment is what unveils the contest.
- 4:28It's like you can't have the promise established without the
- 4:31opposition revealing itself. That is a principle you see all
- 4:34through Scripture. As soon as the promise is
- 4:36visible, the flesh resents it. So let's look at that pivot
- 4:39point. It happens immediately, verse 9.
- 4:41And Sarah saw the son of Hagar the Egyptian, whom she had borne
- 4:45to Abraham, mocking. Right.
- 4:47And notice how the text identifies him.
- 4:48It is so deliberate. It doesn't just call him
- 4:50Ishmael. It says the son of Hagar the
- 4:52Egyptian. The son of Hagar the Egyptian.
- 4:54Why do you think that is? Is that just Sarah being petty?
- 4:57You know, throwing shade. It's more than pettiness.
- 4:59I think the text itself is emphasizing his origin.
- 5:02It's reminding the reader, and probably reminding Sarah of
- 5:05where he came from. It's.
- 5:06From the Plan B. Exactly.
- 5:07Go back to Genesis 16. Hagar was the Plan B.
- 5:11She was the human scheme. Sarah and Abraham got impatient
- 5:15and tried to help God out by natural means.
- 5:18So Ishmael represents the best that human effort can produce.
- 5:21He is the son of the bondwoman. He is, in theological terms, the
- 5:25flesh and. He is mocking.
- 5:28I want to stop here because I feel like the English
- 5:30translation mocking might be a little weak.
- 5:32It sounds like he's just teasing.
- 5:34What is happening in the Hebrew here?
- 5:35Oh, this is one of the most powerful parts of the text.
- 5:38The word is mock, and if your ears are tuned to Hebrew, you
- 5:41hear the root word immediately. It's the same root as yuck
- 5:44Isaac. The root is UC.
- 5:47So wait, you're saying he was Isaac King?
- 5:49Essentially, yes, that's a great way to put it.
- 5:51It's a play on words. Ishmael was Isaac king, but it's
- 5:54in what's called the peel stem in Hebrew.
- 5:56OK, for those of us who skipped Hebrew class, what does the peel
- 5:58stem imply? It implies intensive repeated
- 6:02action. This wasn't just a one time
- 6:04chuckle, and it definitely was an innocent play.
- 6:07Some modern commentators tried to soften this and say oh they
- 6:09were just playing tag, but the grammar doesn't support that and
- 6:13neither does the context. This was counter laughter.
- 6:16Counter laughter. That's a Putin phrase.
- 6:18What does that look like in the tent?
- 6:20What's he doing? Well, think about it.
- 6:22You have Isaac, who embodies the true laughter of God's grace.
- 6:25And then you have Ishmael the mimic.
- 6:27He's about 14 years old at this point.
- 6:29He's a teenager. He's not a little kid.
- 6:30Not at all. And here is this toddler Isaac,
- 6:34maybe 3 years old, getting all the attention as the heir.
- 6:39Ishmael is likely strutting around, maybe pantomiming what
- 6:42it means to be the heir, maybe acting like he's the first born
- 6:45who deserves all this. He is scoffing at the promise.
- 6:48It's a direct challenge. It's rivalry.
- 6:50It is absolute rivalry and we don't have to guess about this
- 6:52because the apostle Paul confirms it in the New
- 6:55Testament. In Galatians 4.29, Paul looks
- 6:58back at this exact event and he doesn't call it teasing, he
- 7:01doesn't call it playing. He calls it persecution.
- 7:03OK, but let's push on that for a second.
- 7:06Calling it persecution feels like a stretch, doesn't it?
- 7:09I mean, he's a teenager making fun of a toddler.
- 7:12Is Paul really being fair in Galatians when he equates
- 7:15mocking with persecution? It does sound extreme to our
- 7:19modern ears. We think of persecution as
- 7:21something physical, you know, being thrown to lions.
- 7:24But you have to look at the power dynamics in the tent.
- 7:27Because Ishmael was the alpha for 14 years.
- 7:30That is correct. For 14 years he was the only
- 7:33son. He was the presumptive heir.
- 7:34Everyone assumed he would inherit Abraham's wealth and
- 7:37position. So he's not just teasing a baby,
- 7:39he's pantomiming the king. He's challenging the legitimacy
- 7:43of the transfer of power. It's political sedition wrapped
- 7:47in a joke. So his whole identity is being
- 7:49threatened by this little kid. His whole identity, he thought
- 7:52his father's effort and his mother's strength had secured
- 7:55the future. And now here comes this miracle
- 7:57baby, born of a dead womb purely by grace.
- 8:00And the flesh cannot stand it. It cannot tolerate grace.
- 8:03So the flesh cannot tolerate the self celebration of the Spirit.
- 8:07Precisely. The legalist always hates the
- 8:10doctrines of grace because grace robs him of his boasting.
- 8:13If Isaac is the heir by promise alone, then Ishmael's strength,
- 8:17his first born status, his 14 years of history, it all means
- 8:21nothing. And that provokes mockery.
- 8:23It provokes persecution. So Sarah sees this.
- 8:25She sees this counter laughter, this isaacing, and her reaction
- 8:29is immediate and severe. Verse 10 So she said to Abraham,
- 8:34cast out the slave woman and her son.
- 8:36She doesn't mince words. There's no negotiation.
- 8:38No. And that verb she uses?
- 8:40Cast out. It's intense, right?
- 8:41It's not. Send them to their room.
- 8:43It is. The Hebrew is garo.
- 8:45It's the same word used for divorce.
- 8:47It's the same word used for driving enemies out of a land
- 8:50during a conquest. It implies a permanent, violent
- 8:53severity. Plea break.
- 8:54Yes. She isn't saying, hey Abraham,
- 8:56maybe Hagar and the boys should go live in the guest tent for a
- 8:58week. She is saying get them out.
- 9:00Sever the tie. Good.
- 9:02And her rationale is what's so interesting.
- 9:03She doesn't say he's being mean to my kid.
- 9:06She says For the son of this slave woman shall not inherit
- 9:08with my son Isaac. Right.
- 9:10Her logic is theological. She cuts right to the heart of
- 9:13the matter. Inheritance cannot be shared.
- 9:15OK, but why not? Why couldn't they just split the
- 9:17land? I mean, Abraham was rich.
- 9:19He had plenty of flocks, plenty of servants.
- 9:22Couldn't he have made it work? Because the inheritance isn't
- 9:24just land. It's not just about flocks and
- 9:26herds. It's the covenant.
- 9:28It's the promise of being the line through which the Messiah,
- 9:32the Savior of the world, comes. It's the promise of being God's
- 9:36peculiar people. You cannot have that shared
- 9:39between the child of the flesh and the child of the promise.
- 9:43Co inheritance would blur the line that God himself drew.
- 9:46You cannot blend promise with pragmatism.
- 9:49This is really the antithesis we talk about so much in reformed
- 9:52theology, The war in the tent. It is the antithesis.
- 9:55It's the impossibility of mixing law, which Hagar and Ishmael
- 9:59represent, and grace, which Sarah and Isaac represent.
- 10:02You see, Sarah is acting as the guardian of the New Covenant
- 10:05principle here. We often look at Sarah in the
- 10:08earlier chapters and we see her lack of faith, her scheming.
- 10:12Yeah, she doesn't come off great.
- 10:13But here, here she is the theologian of the house.
- 10:16She has a moment of absolute clarity.
- 10:19She realizes that if Ishmael stays, the principle of grace is
- 10:22compromised. It's like saying you can be
- 10:24justified 90% by Christ and 10% by your own moral effort.
- 10:28And Sarah says no, absolutely not.
- 10:31The bondwoman must go to protect the freedom of the air.
- 10:34That is the only way. There is no middle.
- 10:36Ground but Abraham core Abraham verse 11 says, and the thing was
- 10:41very grievous in Abraham's sight, and it specifies on
- 10:45account of his son. We have to pause here and feel
- 10:47the human cost of this. Yeah, Abraham isn't a
- 10:50theological robot. He is a father, and he loves
- 10:53Ishmael. He does remember back in Genesis
- 10:5517 when God promised Isaac would be born.
- 10:57Abraham's first response was a prayer for Ishmael.
- 11:00He said, oh, that Ishmael might live before thee.
- 11:02He wanted Ishmael to be the one. He had pinned his hopes on him.
- 11:04He had raised him for 14 years. That's a lot of memories.
- 11:08That's a lot of bonding. He probably taught him to hunt,
- 11:10to manage the flocks. That's his boy.
- 11:12Certainly, and this shows us that covenant administration
- 11:16following God's will often cuts right through our deepest human
- 11:19affections. It's not easy.
- 11:21Repentance isn't easy. Leaving behind the flesh isn't
- 11:24easy. Because we have affection for
- 11:26our own works. We like our Ishmael as we raise
- 11:28them. They're familiar to us.
- 11:30So Abraham is distressed, he is torn, and then God intervenes in
- 11:34verse 12. And honestly, God's response is
- 11:37surprising. You almost expect God to say,
- 11:39Sarah, calm down, let's be reasonable.
- 11:41You do you expect him to mediate?
- 11:43But he says, be not displeased. In all that Sarah has said to
- 11:47you, listen to her voice. Listen to her voice.
- 11:50God validates the demand. He clarifies that while Sarah's
- 11:54tone might have been sharp and calling Hagar, this slave woman
- 11:58is certainly sharp. Her theological instinct was
- 12:00100% correct. The separation must happen.
- 12:03And then God gives the reason. And this is the key dogma, isn't
- 12:06it? For in Isaac shall your scene be
- 12:08called. This is the bedrock of the
- 12:09doctrine of unconditional election.
- 12:11It's stated so clearly. Let's define that.
- 12:13What are we seeing here? What does that mean in this
- 12:15context? We are seeing that biology does
- 12:18not equal inheritance. Abraham has two sons.
- 12:22Both are his biological offspring, but only one is the
- 12:25covenant seed. So it's not about bloodline in a
- 12:28purely physical sense. Not at all.
- 12:30God narrows the line. He bypasses the first born,
- 12:34which by ancient custom is the one who should get the double
- 12:37portion and the leadership, and he chooses the second born.
- 12:41He bypasses natural strength for miraculous promise.
- 12:44It reminds me of Romans 9. Paul just hammers this point
- 12:46home. It is Romans 9.
- 12:48Paul quotes this very verse. He says it is not the children
- 12:51of the flesh who are the children of God, but the
- 12:53children of the promise are counted as the seed.
- 12:56This is crucial for us to understand today.
- 12:59Being born in a Christian family doesn't save you.
- 13:01Being baptized as an infant doesn't automatically save you.
- 13:05Being a nice person doesn't save you.
- 13:06So what does? What determines the inheritance
- 13:09is God's calling in Isaac. Shall your seed be called?
- 13:12It's an act of God's sovereign choice.
- 13:14Why is this doctrine of elections so important for
- 13:17assurance? Because some people find it
- 13:19scary. They think, Oh no, what if not
- 13:21chosen? I understand that fear, but it's
- 13:23actually the only thing that stabilizes faith.
- 13:26If the inheritance depended on my pedigree or my potential or
- 13:29my performance, I would be in constant terror.
- 13:32Because you can always fail. Because my performance
- 13:34fluctuates, I sin. I have doubts.
- 13:37But if the inheritance depends on God's calling, on His
- 13:40promise, then it is stable. It rests on Him, not on me.
- 13:44My assurance is in His faithfulness, not my own.
- 13:47OK, so God closes the door on Ishmael being the covenant air,
- 13:52but then we get to verse 13. God says to Abraham, and I will
- 13:56make a nation of the son of the slave woman also, because he is
- 13:59your offspring. Yes, and this brings us to the
- 14:03important doctrine of God's mercy and what we call common
- 14:05grace. Let's distinguish those graces
- 14:08because I think people get confused.
- 14:10They think if you aren't among the elects then God just hates
- 14:13you and makes your life miserable from start to finish.
- 14:15And that is not what the text says at all.
- 14:18We have to distinguish between special grace or covenant
- 14:20interest, and common grace. Special grace belongs to Isaac.
- 14:24That's redemption. That's the messianic line.
- 14:26That's eternal salvation. That's the inheritance.
- 14:28That's the inheritance. But common grace belongs to
- 14:31Ishmael too. That's temporal survival.
- 14:33That's political nationhood. God promises to make him a great
- 14:37nation. That's earthly blessing,
- 14:39sunshine and rain. So God distinguishes, but he
- 14:43isn't cruel. He is not cruel.
- 14:46Election does not cancel God's benevolence as Creator.
- 14:49Ishmael is Abraham seed and God honors that connection.
- 14:52He cares for the boy. We see that later in this very
- 14:54chapter when God opens Hagar's eyes to the well, he hears the
- 14:57boy crying. But, and this is the hard part
- 15:00for many, Ishmael is cared for, but he is not the heir.
- 15:03It's a theological balance, then.
- 15:04It's not all or nothing in that sense.
- 15:06It is. We have to avoid universalism,
- 15:08which says everyone is an heir and there are no distinctions.
- 15:11That's not true. Isaac is the heir.
- 15:12But we also have to avoid a kind of deterministic cruelty that
- 15:15says God delights in the misery of the non elect.
- 15:19He blesses Ishmael significantly on this earth, but the spiritual
- 15:23eternal inheritance is exclusive to the line of promise.
- 15:26So Abraham hears this word from God.
- 15:28Listen to Sarah send them out. I will take care of Ishmael, but
- 15:32Isaac is the one. And now we get to the obedience
- 15:34of faith. Verse 14.
- 15:35So Abraham rose early in the morning.
- 15:38There is that phrase again. Why Akim Babukar?
- 15:40We see that with the sacrifice of Isaac too, don't we?
- 15:43In chapter 22. Yes, it's a marker in Genesis.
- 15:46It indicates immediate, unquestioning obedience.
- 15:49There is no negotiation here. There's no God.
- 15:53Let me think about it for a few days.
- 15:54No delay. The Puritans used to have a
- 15:56saying. Delayed obedience is
- 15:58disobedience. Abraham acts immediately.
- 16:01But look at the provisions. This part always gets me.
- 16:03It feels so stark. He gives Hagar bread and a skin
- 16:07of water. It is a stark contrast, isn't
- 16:09it? Just hours before, inside the
- 16:11tent there was a great feast. Abundance, wine, meat, laughter,
- 16:15joy. Outside the tent, bread and a
- 16:17skin of water. What's the significance of that
- 16:19meager provision? What's the theology there?
- 16:21It's a picture of what the Law, the Covenant of Works, can offer
- 16:25you. Hagar represents the Law, and
- 16:28the Law can give you the bare resources of survival.
- 16:30It can give you some bread and some water.
- 16:32It can tell you what to do. But it's resources are finite.
- 16:36It runs out. It always runs out.
- 16:37Verse 15 tells us the water was spent in the bottle.
- 16:41The resources of the flesh of your own works always run dry.
- 16:45That is such a powerful image. The water was spent.
- 16:48It always runs out. If you are trying to live by
- 16:50your own resources, by your own moral performance, your bottle
- 16:53will run dry in the wilderness. But the resources of the
- 16:57Father's house, where Isaac is, they're infinite.
- 16:59There's a well that never runs dry.
- 17:01So he puts the burden on Hagar's shoulder.
- 17:04Notice that detail. It's so specific.
- 17:06Ishmael is a teenager. He could have carried it, but
- 17:09the text says he puts it on her shoulder.
- 17:11The the law places burdens on us that we cannot bear, and he
- 17:14sends her away. The Hebrew word is shella.
- 17:17It's a formal dismissal, a final act.
- 17:19And they wander in the wilderness of Beersheba.
- 17:22The name Beersheba means well of the oath.
- 17:24It's deeply ironic. They are wandering near the
- 17:27place of the Covenant oath, near the water, but they can't find
- 17:30it without the promise. The religious person wanders
- 17:33near the well but cannot find it.
- 17:35They are lost in the wilderness of legalism.
- 17:38Wow. OK, this brings us naturally to
- 17:40how the rest of the Bible receives this story, because we
- 17:43aren't just reading this in a vacuum.
- 17:45The Apostle Paul picks this up in Galatians 4 and he runs with
- 17:48it. He does, and he treats it as a
- 17:50full blown gospel allegory. This is fascinating because Paul
- 17:53isn't saying the history didn't happen.
- 17:56He absolutely acknowledges the history.
- 17:58But he says these things contain an allegory.
- 18:00They signify something deeper. So break that down for us.
- 18:04Who is who in Paul's mind? For Paul, Hagar corresponds to
- 18:08Mount Sinai. She represents the earthly
- 18:10Jerusalem, the system of slavery to the law.
- 18:13She's the covenant of works. Sarah, on the other hand,
- 18:16corresponds to the Jerusalem above.
- 18:18She is free. She represents freedom and
- 18:20grace. And the persecution Paul talked
- 18:22about, he connects that directly back to Ishmael.
- 18:25Yes, He who is born according to the flesh persecuted him who was
- 18:29born according to the spirit. That aligns with Ishmael's
- 18:33mocking. Paul is fighting the Judaizers
- 18:35and Galatians. These were people coming into
- 18:38the church and saying, yes, believe in Jesus, but you also
- 18:41have to keep the ceremonial law. You also have to get
- 18:44circumcised. You also have to do these works
- 18:46to be fully saved. Adding to the Gospel.
- 18:48And Paul says that is the spirit of Ishmael.
- 18:51You're trying to bring Hagar back into the tent.
- 18:53That's intense. So adding law keeping to the
- 18:55gospel is, in Paul's mind, literally bringing Hagar back.
- 18:59It is. It's trying to make the child of
- 19:01promise share the inheritance with the child of the flesh, and
- 19:04Paul's command to the Galatian churches is the exact same as
- 19:08Sarah's command to Abraham. Cast out the bondwoman and her
- 19:11son. You cannot have the inheritance
- 19:13if you are trying to keep the law for justification.
- 19:16The tent isn't big enough for both.
- 19:18But there is a twist here, isn't there?
- 19:20When we look at this through the lens of Christology, because we
- 19:23talked about Isaac being the child of promise, but in the
- 19:26Gospel, who actually gets cast out?
- 19:29This is the great exchange. This is where the beauty of the
- 19:32gospel shines through these Old Testament shadows.
- 19:36Jesus is the true Isaac. He is the ultimate child of
- 19:39promise. He is the beloved Son in whom
- 19:41the Father is well pleased. But he wasn't kept safe in the
- 19:44temp. No, Hebrews 13.12 says Jesus
- 19:47suffered outside the gate. He was cast out.
- 19:50He was treated like the slave. He was treated like the exile.
- 19:53He was treated like Ishmael. He was sent into the wilderness.
- 19:56Why? For what purpose?
- 19:58So that we who are naturally spiritual Ishmaels, born of the
- 20:01flesh, mockers of God by nature, so that we could be brought into
- 20:06the tent, He took the place of the exile so we could get the
- 20:09inheritance. He bore the thirst, remember on
- 20:11the cross I thirst. His water was spent so that we
- 20:14could drink living water that never runs out.
- 20:16That changes everything. It means the casting out that
- 20:19Hagar and Ishmael experience was a foreshadowing of what Christ
- 20:23would bear for us. Precisely the intolerance of
- 20:26grace fell on him so that the welcome of grace could fall on
- 20:28us. So what does this mean for the
- 20:30listener today? How do we apply this?
- 20:32Because we don't have bond women in our houses to cast out,
- 20:35obviously. No, but we have Ishmaels in our
- 20:38hearts. What do you mean by that?
- 20:39Our own works. Sins, idols, things we've
- 20:42nurtured, things that are born of the flesh.
- 20:46Maybe it's a specific sin you've been managing instead of
- 20:48killing. Maybe it's a reliance on your
- 20:51own professional success for your identity.
- 20:53Maybe it's a secret bitterness you're holding on to.
- 20:56These are the things we've produced by our own efforts.
- 20:59And we love them, don't we? Just like Abraham loved Ishmael.
- 21:03It's hard to let them go. We do.
- 21:05They are grievous to part with. We say, Lord, I'll serve you,
- 21:09but please just let this Ishmael live before you.
- 21:12Let me keep this one thing, this one habit, this one
- 21:15relationship, but the command is cast out.
- 21:17Mortification of sin. Ruthless mortification.
- 21:20You cannot just manage sin. You have to expel it.
- 21:22You have to cut off the supply lines.
- 21:24You have to send it into the wilderness and let it die there.
- 21:26There is also an application for the church here, isn't there for
- 21:30the institution? Absolutely, the Church must
- 21:33guard the gospel. We have to be like Sarah in this
- 21:36regard, as jarring as that sounds.
- 21:38We cannot allow the mockery of pragmatism or liberalism to
- 21:42share the inheritance with the pure gospel.
- 21:45What does that look like in a practical sense It.
- 21:47Looks like people saying, well, the Bible is great, but we
- 21:49really need modern psychology to fix people.
- 21:52Yeah, or the gospel is nice, but we need political activism to
- 21:56really change the world. That is bringing Hagar into the
- 21:58tent. That is saying the promise isn't
- 22:00enough. We need human effort too.
- 22:02It's Ishmael's logic. It's Ishmael's logic and the
- 22:05church has to say no, cast out the bondwoman.
- 22:08The tent is not big enough for works and grace to be Co heirs.
- 22:12And finally, for personal assurance, I think this is where
- 22:14we land. This is the comfort in this hard
- 22:16story. It is if you are resting on the
- 22:19promise, on Christ alone, you are safe in the tent, you are
- 22:23Isaac, you belong. You don't have to worry about
- 22:25being cast out because Christ was cast out for you.
- 22:28Your place is secure. But if you are resting on your
- 22:30bottle of water, your own performance, your good quiet
- 22:33times, your ministry success, your moral record.
- 22:37It will run dry, it always does, and you will be left thirsty and
- 22:40alone in the wilderness wondering why God, God seems so
- 22:42far away. So the call then is to stop
- 22:45trying to blend the two lines, Stop trying to have it both
- 22:48ways. Stop trying to be justified by
- 22:50your works. Trust solely in the God who
- 22:53calls the things that are not as though they were.
- 22:56Trust in the laughter of Isaac, which is the joy of the finished
- 22:59work of Christ. This has been a deep dive into a
- 23:03text that on the surface looks like a messy, tragic family
- 23:07story, but underneath it's the very structure of our salvation.
- 23:12It is the movement from the feast to the separation, and we
- 23:15have to see that the separation is necessary for the joy of the
- 23:17feast to be preserved. You can't have both.
- 23:20Here is a final thought for you to chew on as you go about your
- 23:22week. We often think of intolerance as
- 23:24a bad word. We want to be inclusive, open
- 23:27and welcoming. And in many ways, we should be.
- 23:30But in the Gospel, the intolerance of grace is actually
- 23:33our salvation. That's right.
- 23:35If God allowed the bondwoman to stay, if he allowed our works to
- 23:39share the inheritance, we would all remain slaves to the law.
- 23:43By insisting on the air, by insisting on the exclusivity of
- 23:46Christ, he secures our freedom. The door is narrow, but inside
- 23:50there is a feast. Thank you for joining us on
- 23:52Reformed Thinking. We'll see you next time.
- 23:54Grace and peace.