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CUCKOLDING, SWINGER, AND A HOT THREE WAY.. MMMMMM · CALL ME MISTRESS

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  Hi, welcome to the latest episode of Call Me Mistress.
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  I'm your Hostess, Mistress Mia, and I've got with me.
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  Badass. Here we go, Madam.
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  You can't say badass and then I say it like that.
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  That was that was that was backwards.
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  I. Didn't expect you to say
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  anything or to introduce yourself, but I wouldn't have
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  did. It for you?
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  I don't know what to do. I always feel awkward when I'm
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  introduced it's. Funny.
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  All right, So how was your week? You had a good weekend.
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  It was a good. Weekend.
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  You had a hot three-way. I mean, we got to bring that up.
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  I mean, yeah, sure, we can bring it out.
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  Yeah, she had a nice tits. She looked like a perfect Barbie
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  doll. She did, didn't she?
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  She had a perfect little body. So nice, nice.
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  She's very nice too. It's like her personality was
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  great, which is what I look for in a in a threesome anyway.
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  So it's a good personality because I feel like I could
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  trust that. But yeah.
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  And she look great. Perfect.
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  And you you told her that your favorite color is purple.
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  Well, we do that as like, so that's to separate the two.
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  I want everything done in purple.
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  The sheets, when another lady's in the bed, the lights are
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  purple, the towels are purple. Lay down the bathroom just to
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  make it feel like, OK, this is separate from our real life.
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  And then she came in dressed all in purple.
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  Her, her, she had little hair extension pieces that were
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  purple, a purple shirt, purple lingerie, purple, purple,
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  purple. I was like, oh, purple.
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  That's awesome. Yeah.
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  And it's just something that we came up with, the color that we
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  came up, we just kind of made. That up, yeah.
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  I think that's really cool though, is that you have that
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  division. Yeah, that's why I wanted was
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  the division so that, you know, I still feel comfortable doing
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  it in the bed, but it's still not like it's different.
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  It's not what we normally sleep with, but it's just purple.
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  You said your boyfriend even came up with the purple lights.
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  Oh yeah, he put purple lights in the lamp and I was like.
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  That's really, that's cool. That's very cool.
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  All of it's cool. I mean to have like your towels
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  and your sheets and everything separated.
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  I thought so too. I was gonna make your little
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  basket. Yeah, that's awesome.
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  A little purple vaginal wipes and purple condom box.
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  I don't know. I think it's very cool and I
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  think it's, you know, it's it's sweet in a way because you're
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  just like, hey, you're my guest, you're my special friend and you
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  know, we're going to get down and dirty.
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  So here's a nice little, you know, hospitality basket, and
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  make sure your pussy's clean. No, it's like she feels like
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  wants to freshen up before we get started or, you know, after.
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  Yeah, because like after I was like, do you want a towel or do
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  you want to take a shower? Do you want a towel?
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  Wipe your pussy, like, because I do that, so I'm sure everybody
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  else does it. Do you want a towel?
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  Yeah, and I would like it to be purple so she can wipe a pussy
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  on the purple towel. Yeah.
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  I think it's nice. Yeah, and then when she leaves,
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  you go over there and smell the towel.
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  Oh my God, we did that with the sheets.
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  My. God, when we were doing the
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  sheets, I. Was joking but hey go.
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  Tell me the sheets off. And then I just got a whiff of
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  it from taking it off and I was like, Oh my God.
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  And I ran to my boyfriend. I was like smell this and he was
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  like what? And then he smells it.
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  I was like, don't it smell like her?
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  Look, it does. That's sweet, that's so sweet.
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  I I just adore that wonderful person that came to visit you
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  all because she. Really was great.
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  She's great. I told you.
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  She's the perfect Unicorn. You know she's personable and
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  fun and respectful. Respectful.
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  You know she respects the boundaries of their of your
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  relationship. She did.
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  And she would test out the wires a little bit.
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  When she realized it wasn't OK, she stepped back.
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  And I really liked that. I noticed that about it.
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  Yeah. And I like that.
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  Yeah, that's awesome. That's cool because it's, you
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  know, it's really a sticky situation.
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  That's why you got to choose somebody that you trust or can
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  trust. You know, our friends have
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  recently had kind of a fallout in having gone into the swinger
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  community a few years back. Yeah, swinger's different
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  because you don't want to see your lady with another man.
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  That's different. I don't think men can handle
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  that the same as women can. I guess it just depends on the
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  person, but you know, in the swingers community there is
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  there's a thing called full swap, meaning they're
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  comfortable and swapping partners.
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  And then there's soft swap, which is you would be OK with
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  him making out with her and vice versa.
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  So it's kind of like over the clothes foreplay kind of deal.
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  OK, But you know every couples different and.
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  What am I considered? Well, you just did full swap
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  because you. I didn't have a guy.
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  No, no. But you just did full swap with
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  the female? Oh yeah.
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  Well, I like. That, yeah, especially.
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  When he got like, really? Into it, Yeah.
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  And you allowed him to do full swap with the female.
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  Yeah. Yeah.
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  Because you like it. I do.
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  Because I don't get to see myself.
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  And now I got to see what he does to me.
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  I'm like, yes, I can. I can imagine it better.
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  Yeah, whenever it's happening to me.
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  It's interesting how our brains work like that, I notice.
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  We got a mirror in here, first of all, so she can see what's
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  happening and so I can see what's happening, yeah.
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  Hey, yeah, more power to you if you can enjoy that and you enjoy
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  it together. That's that's what it's all
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  about. Yeah.
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  You know, and I always said when I see different, like swinger
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  couples, when I'll say, you know, I'm just referring to that
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  because like I said, you did a full swap situation.
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  But I know that you don't want to have sex with other men.
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  It's just all about, you know, having sex with other women.
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  But I noticed with a lot of couples, they, they become
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  swingers or they get into this type of lifestyle because
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  they're missing something. But a lot of them don't want to
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  admit they're missing something in their marriage.
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  Ah. Well, I started before, so I
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  think that was good, yeah. Absolutely.
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  We. Started really early on in our
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  relationship so we can establish, hey, this is what we
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  want, this is what I was missing out of my other relationship, so
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  let's bring it to this relationship.
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  Yeah, yeah. You had mentioned it before on
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  the podcast because you had talked about what it was like
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  having to go through wanting to be with a woman and your
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  ex-husband just not even wanting any part of it.
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  Oh, yeah, it was, you know, you would think that a man would
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  want to. Yeah, but he didn't.
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  I think, I think you, I don't know.
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  I didn't know his thought process.
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  He didn't really express his feelings as well as I thought he
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  did until I moved out of that marriage.
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  And then I was like, oh, he did not express himself very well,
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  so I did not. Know.
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  Yeah, well, you know, what advice do you have?
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  For. For other couples when you're
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  talking about this, this whole swap scenario.
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  Well, you know you chose your partner for a reason.
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  You do. You know, you love each other
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  and you're supposed to pour your full self into them and they're
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  supposed to pour their full self into you.
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  So if you're doing that together, you know they love
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  you. So when they hear these things
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  about you, you know, I guess it is kind of a sticky situation
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  because let's say it's a man that wants to be with another
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  woman and he wants to bring that to his wife.
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  Like how do you do that gently without it making it sound like,
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  hey, I don't want to be with you no more?
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  Because that's not the case. Some people, especially men,
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  have a craving for versity or verse.
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  What's the word? To be versatile.
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  Be versatile, you know, and have, you know, options in
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  sexual stuff, which is fine. Like I think that's great
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  because not I can't supply everything, they can't supply
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  everything. But when we're together, you got
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  one whole thing, you know what I mean?
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  So it's really just bringing it up as early as you can.
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  And if you're already in it this far, they still love you.
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  What are they going to do, leave you because you mentioned that
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  you wanted to have sex with somebody?
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  No, we just have a conversation about it.
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  Hey, I want to have this conversation.
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  It's better to have the conversation rather than to
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  cheat because if you cheat, obviously the relationship's
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  over. But if you have the
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  conversation, at least it's out in the open and they know about
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  it. And I think that's what our
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  other couple ran into. You know she wanted to play.
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  Right, my ugly is out there. So, yeah, just like you say,
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  like I want to have sex with somebody.
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  You're uglies out there. Not You went and had sex with
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  somebody and we're going to talk about it.
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  Yeah, 'cause that's different. That's a whole different thing.
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  And you know, with how open I am, I still would be hurt and
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  upset if he had sex with somebody without me knowing,
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  'cause I mean, that's still cheating.
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  Yeah, 'cause this is like a team thing.
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  Yeah. Walk the line.
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  I don't. Know.
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  It's just it's convert, it's communication.
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  You have to have really strong communication and bring it up
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  very slowly and work with it and don't just jump right in cause
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  bad things can happen. Hurt feelings and not knowing
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  anybody. What's your boundaries in it?
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  What's your boundaries in it? What are you OK with?
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  What are you not OK with? Because I know when I introduced
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  you to her, you immediately said, oh, is she coming today?
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  Well, let me let me contact my boyfriend and I'll ask him.
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  Yeah, if I can touch her, yeah. For the pictures, yes.
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  But then like halfway through, like the the session that she
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  had, I actually liked her personality.
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  And that's why I decided because I I like to keep things very
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  open before I say let's do things.
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  I wanted to see which how she was.
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  Yeah. But you know, if we're going to
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  take pictures, I want to be, I want to be OK can I touch this
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  other person? You know, because I would want
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  him to sit, do the same thing for me.
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  Yeah, absolutely. Asking first.
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  In comparison to what you and your boyfriend do when I've
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  talked to other couples, this is kind of like a stigma,
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  unfortunately in the the swinger community is when you have a
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  bisexual husband because it's kind of like, oh, you know, a
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  lot of people don't want it, you know, but then you have cooks
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  that are, you know, men who obviously want their wives or
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  significant partner to have sex with other men.
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  And so that arises to where they specifically want usually a hung
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  man or black man. And so the stigma is the husband
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  never wants to tell people that he's really bisexual.
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  So a couple of my friends, husband and wife, they went to
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  this little function and it was like a kind of like a low key
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  party where there was other couples.
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  Well, they got into a hot tub and when they got in the hot
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  tub, the the friend of mine who's very straight, he said to
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  one of the guys who got in the hot tub next to him with his
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  wife, he was kind of rubbing up on his leg.
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  And he says, hey, that's my leg. And he's oh, oh, sorry, sorry.
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  And that happened a few more times.
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  And see, you didn't tell me any of this now.
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  Then later on, when they saw each other again, this time they
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  want to come to the dungeon and play.
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  And I said, hey, I separated him from the couple.
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  I said, why? Why are you all playing with the
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  crossdresser? He's like, what do you mean he's
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  not a crossdresser? I'm like, yeah, he is.
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  And I'm like, he's got great hair.
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  He's wearing great shoes. He smells like a French whore,
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  like straight up perfume boom in your face.
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  I said he's dressed very nice, nails manicured like high dollar
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  hoe is what he's going for. But he was dressed in a business
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  attire outfit He had on, you know, dress pants, dress top.
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  And he's like, you really think he's a crossdresser?
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  Say he's a fucking crossdresser sub and he's like, wow, OK then.
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  So he's like, well, I'll tell my wife because she likes to
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  dominate. So he went in and told her, kind
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  of whispered it to her at some point, and his wife started
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  dominating the guy and had him put on her panties.
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  And he's like, he left him breathless.
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  Like, how did you know? Yeah, she's like, Mia told me.
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  It's always great when somebody can see through you.
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  Yeah, where you're like, Oh my God, I get something that yeah,
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  I thought I never could talk about.
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  Exactly. Exactly.
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  And in his situation, I knew that he wanted to be a cup
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  because it was later that my friend said, yeah, he was the
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  one playing with, trying to play with me in the hot tub, trying
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  to touch my Dick. And I told him that was me.
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  He needs to stop. Yeah, crossing boundaries there.
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  Yeah. Yeah.
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  So I think subconsciously he wanted to see his wife with that
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  other husband, right. But I think when he was touching
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  the husband or watching his wife have sex with this man, that
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  he's envisioning himself getting fucked.
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  Yeah. And that's what I think a lot of
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  people don't realize is why do you see, in your situation, you
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  just said, and you've said this before, I like to watch my
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  boyfriend fuck another woman. Why?
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  Because you envision yourself as being her.
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  Yeah, Yeah. So you can imagine what these
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  other husbands, whether they're cook or not or like a cook in
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  the closet, they love to watch their wife get fucked because
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  they want to be their wife getting fucked, you know?
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  And a lot of men don't want to really admit to that.
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  It's really hard for them to admit that, but it is what it
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  is. I guess sometimes I want to be
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  my boyfriend, want to see what it feels like in there.
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  Yeah. So maybe I feel the same way
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  some ways. Yeah.
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  But Charles, I think, is the one that told me that I might be a
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  cup queen. So I was like, OK, that makes
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  sense, you know? So I was like, I'll run with it.
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  OK. All right.
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  You don't know, well, you know, again, the whole concept of cook
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  and cock holdery and all that, you know, a lot of people have
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  their own vision of what they want it to be, but ultimately
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  it's a woman who has sex with other people and the husband's
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  OK with it. And the husband actually a lot
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  of time does clean up after sex and the husband's more
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  submissive, etcetera, etcetera. Like when we met little Tiny Tim
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  with the tiny Peeny. I don't remember Tiny Tim.
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  Him and his wife that came in. Oh yeah, Tiny Tim.
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  Yeah, OK. Yeah, exactly.
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  And you know, that was the same situation.
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  He's like, I'm happy if she's going out and having sex and
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  blah blah blah blah. He.
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  Just wants to hear about. It he wants to he.
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  Wants to be the guy though. He wants to have a bigger Dick,
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  so he wants to envision having sex with her.
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  Yeah, and she wants him to have a bigger Dick.
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  And my thing of it is, hey, commit to doing a surgery, like
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  make something happen. Yeah, I mean, he did have a
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  small Dick. He did, but you know, there's
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  ways around. That and then some people are
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  too fortunate, like why? Why are you?
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  And they usually have like freaking bad freaking
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  personalities. When they got too big of a Dick.
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  I was like got you just shared because you don't deserve all
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  that. No kidding.
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  God, right now I have this one fucking douche bag.
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  He contacts me about his wife, we talk about his wife, blah,
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  blah, blah. But ultimately, you know, he
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  wants this extreme bondage and everything else.
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  He's such a fucking douche because it's all about him.
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  He's like his wife can't satisfy him.
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  His wife doesn't know how to choke him out and blah, blah,
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  blah. And he's got this massive
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  fucking Dick. And then he's like, oh, it's not
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  that big. I'm like, shut the fuck up.
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  You know it's a good. Have I met this person?
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  You haven't met him and you know.
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  I thought Tiny Tim was acting though, but she she couldn't
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  dominate him. Yeah, yeah, he wouldn't play
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  into it. Yeah, he wasn't allowing like,
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  OK, well, we got to start somewhere.
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  Yeah. Even if we start from the
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  bottom, we have to start somewhere.
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  You can't jump in. Yeah, unbelievable.
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  So you know, we're going to end it here.
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  But I will say that men, they need to open up.
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  They need to be honest with themselves.
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  And honest with their favorite person in the whole world,
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  right? That's it.
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  You know why be with somebody you're not completely happy
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  with? Yeah.
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  Then what is marriage? Yeah.
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  What is marriage, exactly? Yeah.
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  You'll see that we're going to be talking to someone sometime
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  this week or next. And he has a fetish for a
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  certain type of shoe, and he likes to cross dress.
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  And I met him years ago when he was in college.
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  And I told him then I'm like, you're gay, you're gay, you're
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  gay, you know, And he finally, it finally resignated with him.
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  He's like, after he left, he had that session.
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  He's going to talk about it. I'm sure he'll tell us all
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  about, you know, his feelings on it.
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  But he went and got married and I'm like, why are you married to
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  a woman? Yes.
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  Oh well. You can get married to a guy.
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  Well, he needs to be with a man to be happy, but he's with a
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  woman and he's not happy, you know, because.
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  He needs both. I don't know, but something we
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  can ask them, we'll figure it out.
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  We'll do an interview with them. Yes.
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  All right, so until then, Liv, this has been the latest episode
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  of. Call me Mistress.