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- 0:00One idea that's really served me well, call it like a 10 year
- 0:02rule. If you're going to start
- 0:03anything, commit 10 years of your life to that thing.
- 0:06Because if you commit 10 years of your life to that particular
- 0:08endeavour, you're going to set the right expectations.
- 0:10You're not looking for overnight success and you adopt that sort
- 0:13of long term view. The chances of you succeeding
- 0:15are almost inevitable because if you stay in the game long
- 0:18enough, there is zero chance that you won't eventually figure
- 0:21it out. Most people just quit too soon.
- 0:23Did you see immediate or rapid growth when you first launched
- 0:26the podcast? Podcast is one of the hardest
- 0:28things I've ever grown. So there was no rapid, there was
- 0:30no like overnight success. There was no like 1 episode that
- 0:34went viral. Did you have a mentor or did you
- 0:36just kind of trial and error? I didn't have one mentor.
- 0:38I study a lot of people like I study people that are growing
- 0:42the fastest, not just have the largest audiences that are
- 0:44growing the fastest on one particular platform.
- 0:47And I learn whatever I can from that particular creator on that
- 0:50platform. These are not people that I
- 0:51know, but that's the beauty of the Internet.
- 0:53You don't need to have direct access where you're sitting down
- 0:56for coffee with these people. You can study the work that
- 0:59you're like they're doing doing, reverse engineer it, and then
- 1:01incorporate those ideas into your own content.
- 1:05Welcome back to the Hannah Hammond Show.
- 1:06I am here today with my friend Scott Clary, who I actually met
- 1:09almost a year over a year and a half ago now.
- 1:12And you were, I was asking you advice when I was about to
- 1:15launch my show. And I mean, Scott has one of the
- 1:18top business podcasts in the world.
- 1:20He's interviewed billionaire founders.
- 1:22You've had almost 30 million or over 30 million downloads.
- 1:25You've got millions of followers and subscribers.
- 1:27And you've just interviewed like the most iconic people out there
- 1:30and the most conducts. A lot of fun.
- 1:31It's a good job to have you. Yeah, yeah.
- 1:34And it's so it's so cool to see what you've built.
- 1:36And you're based in in Miami. And I mean, you're an author,
- 1:39you're a speaker, you're an investor, you're a podcast host
- 1:42and and an entrepreneur. So I'm just excited to to know
- 1:45you and excited to hear your story today.
- 1:47And what kind of got you into the podcasting world and, and
- 1:51personally, selfishly, I want to ask your advice on how you did
- 1:53it and. You do like a podcast master
- 1:55class if you want. You ask me whatever questions
- 1:57you want about podcasting, but I appreciate you for having me on.
- 2:00What got me into the podcasting world was an idea that I think
- 2:05is really helped me in my my whole career.
- 2:07It's future proofing myself. So if I don't know what the next
- 2:11five years of my life is going to look like, because of course,
- 2:14everybody has their objectives and their goals and the North
- 2:16Star they're sort of aiming for in their business.
- 2:18But if there's something that's an uncertain, like a new
- 2:20technology or a new idea, I just dive into it.
- 2:22I learn it. And the podcast built a media, a
- 2:26piece of media. It built an audience that I
- 2:28could use for whatever I wanted to use it for in the future.
- 2:30So when I started the podcast, I didn't know exactly what I was
- 2:34going to use it for, but I was a student of the Gary Vees of the
- 2:37world that built the audience first and then found a way to
- 2:40use that audience to help them with their business later on.
- 2:43When I started the podcast, I was building a business that was
- 2:45about to be acquired at the end of COVID.
- 2:47So I knew that on the other side of that acquisition, I didn't
- 2:49have anything else going for me. I had to figure out what I was
- 2:51going to do next. The podcast was the smartest
- 2:54move to build an audience, build a brand so that whatever I did
- 2:56in the future, you have 500,000 a million people who already
- 3:00know who you are. So it's kind of like a give
- 3:02value and build it before you need it.
- 3:04And then when you do need it, then you can launch a business
- 3:07against it. You can, I mean, you can do
- 3:09whatever you want. You can do coaching, consulting.
- 3:11If you want to start an actual company, you have a whole bunch
- 3:14of you have a whole bunch of people that you can test ideas
- 3:17that with. You can talk to them, see what
- 3:18products they buy from you. Or you can just turn the podcast
- 3:21into a business itself, which is what I've actually done where
- 3:24you have advertisers, you monetize and you build a whole
- 3:27personal brand around the podcast.
- 3:29So it, it was really just future proofing myself.
- 3:32And I've done that like repeatedly, like I all every
- 3:34time I'm like unsure where my career is going to go, I'll try
- 3:38and just look at the thing that I know is going to impact my
- 3:41career in the best possible way and research it, understand it,
- 3:44figure out how it's eventually going to impact me.
- 3:47So at the time, I wanted to build an audience, I wanted to
- 3:49understand how media could impact my career, like
- 3:51positively. Now I learn how AI is going to
- 3:54impact my career and I just dive into that, learn everything I
- 3:57can about it. But yeah, it's always just like
- 3:59sort of looking three steps ahead.
- 4:01Right. What business were you in back
- 4:03and when was this? Software back at the end of
- 4:05COVID. Back at the end of COVID, OK,
- 4:07you built that big of an audience just in what, 5 less
- 4:11than five years? No, the six and a half, six and
- 4:13a half, 6 1/2 years. OK.
- 4:15Yeah, damn, that's crazy. Yeah, I mean, I was just looking
- 4:17to use like almost 2 million followers on Instagram.
- 4:20You. Have yeah, but that's about 40
- 4:21to 50 pieces of content per day. And I didn't learn how to market
- 4:25when I started. So I've been a marketer in my
- 4:27whole career, right? I know how to market.
- 4:29I know how to go to website, I know how to do audio video
- 4:32editing, I know how to write great copy subject lines that
- 4:37gets emails open. Like I know how to do all
- 4:39graphic. There's not really a thing that
- 4:40I don't know how to do. So how you market a product, how
- 4:44you find a piece of content that resonates with an audience, how
- 4:47you AB test you do that for a company, You're doing the exact
- 4:50same thing for a podcast. And when you do that at scale
- 4:54and you have a little bit of experience, you can grow things
- 4:55a lot quicker. Also, the beautiful, like the
- 4:58beautiful thing about a podcast is you can tap into other
- 5:00people's audiences too. So when you sit down with some
- 5:03of the most famous people on earth and you tap into their
- 5:05audience, I mean, that also gives you a huge leg up because
- 5:08it exposes you to a million people would have never known
- 5:10who you are. So it's about consistency.
- 5:14It's about learning, like getting into the weeds, learning
- 5:16the details of the craft. It's about leveraging other
- 5:19people's communities as well. All of it combined over 6-7
- 5:23years if you look for the signs that your content is working,
- 5:27yes, 1,000,000 1/2 is a lot of followers.
- 5:29We have over 50 million downloads across the show.
- 5:31But there's people that look at School of Hard Knocks.
- 5:34So in like 2 years they have an audience of over 11,000,000 and
- 5:39they have billions of views. Yeah, so he interviewed.
- 5:41Me a couple months ago. Yeah, he's really, he's really
- 5:43nice. He's from Dallas too, if I'm not
- 5:45mistaken. He's from Texas.
- 5:46But so yeah, 1,000,000 1/2 is good objectively.
- 5:51I look at like what another person is doing an even shorter
- 5:54period of time and the first thing I think about is, OK, how
- 5:56do I adapt my strategy? Because obviously I'm doing
- 5:59something effective, but not as effective as it could be.
- 6:02I mean, that's just so. I mean, doing well, doing good.
- 6:06It's all very subjective. Right.
- 6:08Well, and it depends on your goal too, right?
- 6:09Like for me, my podcast is business development.
- 6:12And so my main goal with the podcast isn't to monetize the
- 6:16podcast itself. It's to drive revenue to the
- 6:19business, build relationships with potential new clients, and
- 6:22then continue to educate existing clients and things like
- 6:24that. So that's like, that's a trap
- 6:26that people fall into. So when you're when you're when
- 6:28you're building a media asset for a business, you don't need a
- 6:31big audience. Right.
- 6:33Like you need an audience that converts, but everybody gets
- 6:35caught up in vanity metrics and everybody gets caught up in
- 6:37followings. And oh Scott, you have a million
- 6:39followers. I'm like, OK, but I'm not
- 6:41selling a product. Like if I if I was selling a
- 6:43product or service and I had 10,000 people where 30% of them
- 6:47converted into customers, that's much more useful than a million
- 6:49people that just know me for being some cool guy on the
- 6:52Internet, but nobody wants to buy from me.
- 6:54So I mean, like vanity metrics are overrated.
- 6:57I think that once you're in this game long and if you realize
- 6:59that very quickly, that follower count does not equal revenue
- 7:02unless you do it smartly, unless you find a way to convert that
- 7:04audience into people that actually pay for your product or
- 7:06service. But if you are looking to be a
- 7:09content creator, don't look at growing the biggest following.
- 7:12Look at creating content that is the most relevant to the
- 7:15audience that you're trying to solve a pain point for.
- 7:18I think that's how most people should think about content.
- 7:20Like you don't need to just be the biggest influencer out
- 7:22there. It doesn't benefit a lot of
- 7:24people. For example, school of Hard
- 7:26Knocks, they make a lot less and so do I as as a as a content
- 7:31creator, they make a lot less than a lot of small businesses.
- 7:35So would it make more sense for me to have a small business that
- 7:38has a really, really niche audience that I can, you know,
- 7:41target that audience, they turn into customers and that
- 7:43generates 1050 and $20 million of revenue.
- 7:46Or do I just want to have a million followers just for a
- 7:48million followers? It depends on what you need.
- 7:51It depends on what you're doing and what you what your
- 7:53objectives are to your point. But I think that too many people
- 7:55get caught up in follower count and not enough get caught up in
- 7:58like social media is a tool, it's a marketing asset.
- 8:01How does it actually help my business?
- 8:04And if you if you just focus on follower count, you're not
- 8:07creating the same kind of content as content that will
- 8:09actually convert the audience into a paying customer.
- 8:11There's different kinds of content that is highly
- 8:13shareable, it's motivational, whatever.
- 8:16That's great content, but it doesn't always turn somebody
- 8:18into somebody who's going to actually open up their wallet,
- 8:20give you their credit card and sign up for whatever it is
- 8:21you're selling. Yeah.
- 8:23And when you started the podcast, you were future
- 8:25thinking because you were going to sell your company.
- 8:27But were you, did you, at what point did you decide you were
- 8:31going to monetize the podcast? Because how are you monetizing
- 8:35the podcast right now ads. It's an ad play, yeah.
- 8:37So, I mean, there's advertisers that I've worked with for the
- 8:39past like almost five years now, like HubSpot, Indeed, NetSuite.
- 8:43I've worked with a whole bunch of different advertisers, but
- 8:46it's mostly ads. And that's because it's very
- 8:51easy to talk about not succumbing to shiny object
- 8:54syndrome, but it's harder to not succumb to shiny object
- 8:58syndrome. So what I mean by that is while
- 9:00I was building the podcast, I'm an entrepreneur, I love ideas, I
- 9:06love trying and testing new things.
- 9:07I was building the podcast over here and then I'd try and build
- 9:11other businesses that didn't really sync up with the podcast
- 9:13over here. So I've tried to build a variety
- 9:15of different things. I've tried to raise for a
- 9:18private equity fund, I've tried to build a supplement company,
- 9:21I've tried to put together a mastermind group.
- 9:22I tried to do a couple different things that ultimately didn't
- 9:24work out. So I was just diversifying and
- 9:28like my attention was not all focused on the main thing.
- 9:31So the podcast was always a media asset that I was growing.
- 9:35The main goal of it when I first started it was to be leverage
- 9:38for something else. It was meant to be this tool
- 9:41that I could use to market something else.
- 9:44But I wasn't honoring sort of what I set out to create.
- 9:49I wasn't honoring the fact that I wanted to build this podcast
- 9:52that had this incredible reach and entire product to that
- 9:57podcast audience. I I didn't do it because I kept
- 10:00chasing other things. So after a while, when the other
- 10:05businesses that I was building and trying to build, they didn't
- 10:08work and everybody who's built anything knows there's, you
- 10:11know, it doesn't matter how successful you are at one thing,
- 10:14there's a million things that you've tried that have never
- 10:15worked out. I realized that I'm fragmenting
- 10:19my attention. I should do what I originally
- 10:22set out to do and focus on my energy and time and money and
- 10:25effort on the one thing that is actually working and then figure
- 10:28out what kind of product I want to attach on to the back end of
- 10:31a podcast. And that's, that's actually
- 10:33where I'm at right now. I think that also when you think
- 10:37about the things that you can attach onto a, a podcast, like a
- 10:40personal brand, a lot of people do coaching, consulting courses,
- 10:43that kind of thing. I feel like there's too much
- 10:47garbage in the world and I didn't want to just contribute
- 10:50more garbage by putting out a garbage course because there's
- 10:53already so much bullshit online that people are selling.
- 10:56And that's a little bit of like me getting in my own head about
- 10:59it. But that's what really pushed me
- 11:01to sort of not release something right away.
- 11:07There was another coach or, or coursing product, coaching or
- 11:11course products. Excuse me.
- 11:12So yeah. So Fast forward to today, the
- 11:15main focus is the podcast. The main focus is like building
- 11:18the personal brand. And that's why I'm, you know, I
- 11:21sort of invested in the studio, spent more like energy actually,
- 11:27and, you know, putting money, putting money and time and
- 11:29effort into the interviews. And now I'm at the point where
- 11:32I'm no longer going to be building the podcast and like
- 11:35building a product on the side. Everything's going to be like
- 11:37aligned. Right.
- 11:38Yeah. And did you see immediate or
- 11:42rapid growth when you first launched the podcast or what was
- 11:45that trajectory for you? And did you have a mentor or did
- 11:48you just kind of trial and error or what did that look like?
- 11:51There was podcast is one of the hardest things I've ever grown.
- 11:56So there was no rapid growth. There was no like overnight
- 11:59success. There was no like 1 episode that
- 12:02went viral. In terms of mentor, I didn't
- 12:07have one mentor. I study a lot of people so I
- 12:10study one thing that has really worked out well for my content.
- 12:14Like I study people that are growing the fastest, not just
- 12:18have the largest audiences, but are growing the fastest on one
- 12:21particular platform. And I learn whatever I can from
- 12:25that particular creator on that platform.
- 12:27So I have somebody that I study on Twitter, on YouTube, for
- 12:31podcasts, for TikTok, for basically every single platform.
- 12:35The creator that is currently growing the fastest because that
- 12:37means that that creator isn't just big because they've been in
- 12:40the game for 15 years. They're growing very quickly.
- 12:43School of Hard Knocks is one of them.
- 12:45Alex from Moses, the Hill Bloom, Justin Welsh, Like these are all
- 12:48creators that grow, that are growing very quickly.
- 12:49Now, these are not people that I know, but that's the beauty of
- 12:54the Internet. You don't need to have direct
- 12:57access where you're sitting down for coffee with these people.
- 12:59You can study the work that you're like they're doing and
- 13:02reverse engineer it and then incorporate those ideas into
- 13:04your own content. But no, there was no quick
- 13:08growth. It was just, it was mastering
- 13:12the fundamentals. Like any business, you got to
- 13:15figure out, you know, how do you actually, how do you actually
- 13:18create that asset? How do you put it out into the
- 13:20world? How can you tell if it resonates
- 13:23with the audience that you're creating it for?
- 13:24Same as if you were launching a product for a business.
- 13:27And, and you just rinse and repeat and every show you get a
- 13:31little bit better every, you know, every month, you make sure
- 13:34that the numbers are moving in the right direction.
- 13:37You keep studying the people that have done it before you and
- 13:40have done it at a bigger scale and see what's worked for them.
- 13:42And you do that over 5678910 years and you'll find that
- 13:48eventually you'll have some decent success, mostly because
- 13:52the majority of your competition quits with the majority of your
- 13:55competition. Like if you look at the stats,
- 13:58it's something like if you release more than 10 episodes on
- 14:02a podcast, you're in like the top 1% of all podcasters.
- 14:06It's because nobody stays in the game long enough to actually
- 14:09figure it out. So there's no secret, there's no
- 14:13hack to it, but I don't think there's a hack in it.
- 14:14And many businesses, like when we see somebody like I just keep
- 14:20referencing School of Hard Knocks because they nailed it.
- 14:22They like hit it out of the park when it comes to figuring out
- 14:25content like the style, the format.
- 14:29For every creator that grows as quickly and say as quickly as
- 14:32they did, there's 1000 creators that just put in the reps over
- 14:38an extended period of time. That's how that's how most
- 14:41audiences are built. That's how most businesses are
- 14:44built. Very few businesses have like 1
- 14:46huge overnight success. It's like you start your
- 14:49business, you're excited about it, it's difficult.
- 14:53You're like, whatever I like. This is what I've set out to do.
- 14:56You figure out what works, you figure out what doesn't.
- 14:58You optimize, you improve, you hire, you delegate, and then
- 15:02Fast forward over 10 years, it looks like you had some sort of
- 15:05overnight success when really you've just been putting in the
- 15:08reps and figuring it out and just being obsessed with this
- 15:10thing for 10 years. So now there was no quick wins.
- 15:16It was just repetition. It was just putting in the reps.
- 15:19That's the main advice that I can give any creator.
- 15:21Did you ever think about quitting the show?
- 15:24No, no, no, I, I have because I understood what could, what the
- 15:32benefit of it would be on the other side of it being
- 15:34successful. So an audience never leaves you
- 15:38like people who know who you are.
- 15:40Yeah, some of them might find other creators to follow.
- 15:42But ultimately, if you build a good reputation, if you build a
- 15:45strong audience, that's sort of the reason why I started.
- 15:48You can use it for whatever you want in the future.
- 15:52And I just one idea that's really served me well is this
- 15:55idea, I call it like a 10 year rule.
- 15:58Different people have different words for it.
- 15:59But if you're going to start anything, commit 10 years of
- 16:02your life to that thing. Just just say like, listen, I'm
- 16:06going to start a podcast. I want to start writing a
- 16:08newsletter. I want to start a business,
- 16:10whatever it is like psychologically commit 10 years
- 16:13of your life to that thing. Because if you commit 10 years
- 16:15of your life to that particular endeavor, you're you're going to
- 16:20set the right expectations. You're not looking for overnight
- 16:22success, but at the same time, you're setting up the rest of
- 16:26your life so that you can maintain it for the long term.
- 16:28Meaning if you are planning on starting a business or being a
- 16:31podcaster or whatever, say, I assume it's going to take me 10
- 16:35years to be successful, even if it doesn't, but I'm going to
- 16:38make that assumption. That means that I'm not quitting
- 16:40my job with only six months of savings in the bank because I
- 16:43know it's going to take me an extended amount of time to
- 16:45actually make it work. And I think that when you adopt
- 16:47that sort of long term view, the chances of you succeeding are
- 16:52almost inevitable because if you stay in the game long enough, if
- 16:55you find a way to continue figuring it out for 10 plus
- 16:59years, there is zero chance that you won't eventually figure it
- 17:03out. Most people just quit too soon.
- 17:07So you know, you, you said like did I ever want to quit?
- 17:11No, I had no interest in quitting.
- 17:12I just from the gecko. I just figured I'll just stay in
- 17:17this until it works until I figure and it doesn't mean that
- 17:20the thing you're doing Year 5 in your business and your content,
- 17:24it doesn't mean it's going to be the same as what you do when you
- 17:27first start, right? Maybe your content style
- 17:30changes. Maybe the things you speak about
- 17:32change, maybe the the format changes.
- 17:35Maybe I don't love podcasting, so I'm going to scale back the
- 17:39podcasting and I noticed that I'm.
- 17:40Killing it on my sub stack or I'm killing it on TikTok with
- 17:45short term videos. You can still, you can still
- 17:48like evolve and iterate. Doesn't mean that you're like,
- 17:51you're so like set in your ways, but the point is you're still
- 17:54playing that game for an extended period of time.
- 17:56Yeah, you're committed to mastery.
- 17:58You are and mastery takes well, I mean, if you if you follow
- 18:01Malcolm Gladwell 10,000 hours or there's a million other ways to
- 18:03define mastery, but it's not like something that you ever
- 18:06attain overnight. So no, there was no.
- 18:09What? What did your Who is your first?
- 18:12Do you remember your first interview?
- 18:15Yes, I do. His name was, his name was Mark.
- 18:19He was a marketer and it was just when I first started my
- 18:24podcast. It was so interesting.
- 18:28I think that how I started it is how a lot of content creators
- 18:32start. They just speak about things
- 18:34that are going on in their life. And when I first started it, I
- 18:38was running sales and marketing at a startup.
- 18:41That's the company that was eventually acquired.
- 18:42So I was in charge of all the sales and marketing.
- 18:44So I just reached out to a whole bunch of marketers to have
- 18:47conversations about things that I was dealing with in my
- 18:49day-to-day. And that was my first episode.
- 18:53And it was brutal. And I had no idea what I was
- 18:55doing. And I actually filmed it.
- 18:59I was sitting on my laptop at like a makeup table in like a
- 19:04spare room in a condo in Toronto.
- 19:06And that's where I filmed my first episode.
- 19:09But it's so interesting because it sort of like goes back to my
- 19:14point about how as a creator, like you have to evolve over
- 19:17time. So when I first started my show,
- 19:20I'm speaking to, to Mark. And that's like episode #1 I, I
- 19:23think it's him. It's like two or three.
- 19:24I just remember which one. I think it's Mark though.
- 19:26But if, if you go back on YouTube, you'll find it
- 19:29unfortunately. But as a creator, like as you
- 19:34change, as your interests change, I think it's really
- 19:37important that your content evolves as well.
- 19:40So when I first started, I was speaking about mostly software
- 19:43sales and marketing because that's what I cared about.
- 19:45And then I realized that, well, the best type of content you
- 19:50create, especially educational content, is basically for you.
- 19:54Like five years ago or 10 years ago, you created for your
- 19:57younger self. So that, you know, if they were
- 20:01say, say I was creating content for my 20 year old self, what
- 20:04would that person care about? What topics could I cover that
- 20:07would benefit that version of Scott?
- 20:10And as I grew up, I realized that, well, that version of
- 20:13Scott is highly ambitious. And that version of Scott, you
- 20:17know, wants to take on the world.
- 20:19And yes, for sure he wants to have business success, but to be
- 20:23a well-rounded person, there's a lot of other things in his life
- 20:27that he should care about. And this is how the podcast
- 20:29evolved and this is how my content evolved.
- 20:31So then I started speaking about not just like business success
- 20:34and entrepreneur success and financial success, but I would
- 20:37start speaking about like physical and mental health.
- 20:39And if you're a high performer and you're working 8 out 80
- 20:41hours a week, how do you maintain a good relationship
- 20:44with your spouse? And you know, how do you date?
- 20:46How do you marry? How do you, you know, spend time
- 20:50with your kids when all you're focused on is work?
- 20:53Is there spirituality in your life after you've reached a
- 20:55certain point of affluence? Like these are all things that
- 20:58anybody who's a high performer, who's made a lot of money, some
- 21:02of them care about it earlier on, but all of them care about
- 21:05it later on in life. And I see on the other side of
- 21:09exits, people that have sold companies for 9 plus figures.
- 21:13I see people that have like true fulfilment, like true balance.
- 21:17They've made money, they're in good shape physically, mentally.
- 21:21They have a relationship with God, whatever version of God
- 21:24they they choose to subscribe to.
- 21:26They have great relationships with their with their wife,
- 21:28their husband, their kids. I see these people and they are
- 21:31the happiest. I also see people on the other
- 21:34side of an exit that are like everything around them is broken
- 21:39except for their ability to make money.
- 21:42And I realized that I don't think that that is anybody's
- 21:45version of true success, because these people are not happy.
- 21:48They've sort of won the money game.
- 21:50But like 2 ex wives, kids don't talk to them.
- 21:54They're incredibly overweight, just out of shape like their
- 21:57life is falling apart except for their ability to make money.
- 21:59So how my content evolved is I want to make sure that whoever's
- 22:03listening to my show understands how to level up across all
- 22:06aspects of their life, not just in business.
- 22:09So then this is how my content evolved from just sales and
- 22:12marketing conversations to conversations who conversations
- 22:15with people who were very successful, but figured out how
- 22:20to up level and upskill themselves across every single
- 22:23part of their life. And then I brought on people
- 22:25that were like, you know, big into health and Wellness, big
- 22:28people that spoke about spirituality, relationships, all
- 22:31through the lens of like high performing individuals.
- 22:34Yeah, I love that you said that because I'm the same way.
- 22:37You know, it's about my show is about reaching your highest
- 22:39potential in all areas of your life.
- 22:41You know, the finance and business is one piece of that.
- 22:43But health, relationships. Wellness.
- 22:45Mentality like if you just achieved like financial success,
- 22:49you're not successful. Like you really are not
- 22:52successful if you burn everything else down in your
- 22:54life just to make money. Because listen, I'm I live in
- 22:58Miami. I see a lot of guys that make a
- 23:01lot of money that are, you know, when you get into a room with
- 23:05them one-on-one, they are depressed or they're not
- 23:08fulfilled or they divorced their wife because they came into this
- 23:12huge amount of money, this huge sum of money.
- 23:14And now they have trouble connecting with anybody because
- 23:16they're worried that any girl they dates going to be a gold
- 23:18digger. Like, they have a lot of issues
- 23:20if you don't sort of take care of all the other parts of your
- 23:24life on the way to making money. Yeah.
- 23:26And a lot of people that are very driven, I don't know if
- 23:30you've read the book Driven, but a friend of mine wrote it and he
- 23:33talks about that, that gene that we have, that driven gene that,
- 23:36you know, we all find similarities amongst the, the
- 23:39driven and obsessed people. But most of the people that are
- 23:42very, very driven, relentlessly driven, absolutely obsessed,
- 23:44which will get into obsession and how that plays a role in
- 23:47success in all areas of life. But they often come from, you
- 23:52know, some pretty challenging times in their life, whether it
- 23:55was childhood trauma or just difficult backgrounds that have
- 23:59created some sort of chip on their shoulder.
- 24:02Which is what actually LED them to be successful.
- 24:04Exactly. But at the same time, if they
- 24:06don't heal that shit, then that that is sometimes why the rest
- 24:10of their life is not so great. Right.
- 24:12And that's what I realized when I hit the amount of success that
- 24:16I thought would cure my pain, that I thought would make me
- 24:19happy, and I didn't. And then it was like, OK, let me
- 24:22shift this dynamic. I've learned enough about how to
- 24:25make money and how to build wealth.
- 24:26Now let me balance out the other areas of my life.
- 24:29And I do believe that obsession does play a very key role in
- 24:33those who are ultra successful in any area of their life,
- 24:36whether it be business, athletics, relationship,
- 24:38whatever. But at some point, I do believe
- 24:41we can have it all and we can have balance.
- 24:42We can't have it all at once. I think there's going to be an
- 24:45out of balance period in our life because there's chapters
- 24:47and there's parts of our journeys.
- 24:48Like right now, for instance, I have a newer young infant
- 24:52company and I got to be a little obsessed.
- 24:54Like I got to, I got to focus on that baby and, and grow that
- 24:57baby. But you know, later on I can
- 25:00shift that a little bit and start to be more balanced.
- 25:02So like, what has your experience been?
- 25:04What is obsession? What role has obsession played
- 25:06in your pursuit of your highest potential?
- 25:09Well, I think that you actually, I think that you described sort
- 25:13of my definition of obsession as well.
- 25:15It's like there will be periods of your life that are totally
- 25:18unbalanced. I mean, that's, that's how you
- 25:20build anything great. You cannot build anything great
- 25:23with complete balance working, you know, 37 1/2 hours a week.
- 25:27That's not going to build an empire.
- 25:30But understand that there are seasons to your life.
- 25:35And I think that it's also important that, yeah, I'm just
- 25:40thinking about my definition of obsession right now.
- 25:44I am in a season of being obsessed with my work and I'm
- 25:49doing that so that when I have kids, I can be obsessed with my
- 25:54family. I think that too many people
- 25:58look for balance and they never achieve what they actually want
- 26:02to achieve. And then they're kind of like,
- 26:04well, I wish now at a later age, which is why I think that as a,
- 26:09you know, if you're younger, you have such, you have such huge
- 26:12opportunity to just commit yourself to just being so
- 26:16entrepreneurial and trying things and breaking things
- 26:18because you have nobody depending on you.
- 26:21But when you're older, it's, it's harder to make that
- 26:25commitment to being obsessed to something if you don't want the
- 26:28rest of your life to fall apart. Now, it's not to say that you
- 26:32can't do it, but I do believe that, like I said, if you want
- 26:36to build anything incredible, you need obsession over that
- 26:40thing. You need to live and breathe it.
- 26:42There's not a single entrepreneur that I know that
- 26:45accidentally created something great basically for a period of
- 26:50their life, for a season of their life, that's all they did.
- 26:54But they knew that there was a time to shut off too.
- 26:57Like they knew there was a time that they had to focus on
- 27:02marriage, relationship, kids, family, other things outside of
- 27:06their obsession. I also think that.
- 27:10I also think that to define obsession, This is why it's so
- 27:18important. This is why it's so important to
- 27:21like to work on things that you enjoy, because when you're truly
- 27:27obsessed with what you're working on, you don't shut off,
- 27:33but it also doesn't take away from the rest of your life.
- 27:35What I mean by that is like, sometimes when I'm sitting down
- 27:41for dinner with my girlfriend and we're just talking about
- 27:44life, like we'll have a deep conversation about something
- 27:47that can, that can lead to a conversation I have on a podcast
- 27:51with somebody or it can lead to a topic that I want to write
- 27:54about. Like you incorporate the things
- 27:56that you do into your work and you incorporate your work into
- 27:59your life. And there's this beautiful like
- 28:01harmony between them. I also think that that's why if
- 28:05you are, you know, like entrepreneurial, the person you
- 28:11spend your life with, like whoever you're dating or you're
- 28:13married to, that's the most important choice you're going to
- 28:17make. Because the, the, the right
- 28:19person, if you are like a very ambitious person will understand
- 28:23obsession and they'll support it and they'll feed into it and
- 28:26you'll feed into their obsession with whatever it is they're
- 28:28doing. And they'll understand when some
- 28:30weeks you have to work 100 hours.
- 28:33And I think that by being around that right person, I think that
- 28:36can like take your, you know, if you do want to build something
- 28:39great, it can really just help it and take it to the next
- 28:41level. But having that supportive
- 28:42person at home is one of the most important things that I
- 28:46think anybody can can find. Yeah, I think the spouse you
- 28:50choose or the partner, your life partner you choose the most,
- 28:52just like you said, the most important decision that you
- 28:54could possibly make. Well, because if not, say, say
- 28:56you are. And I want to be careful when I
- 29:00say this because it's not like you're going to be obsessed and
- 29:02just building your whole life. But for a period of your life
- 29:05you will be. And I don't think for the period
- 29:07of your life where you are obsessed and you are building,
- 29:10you should not date or you should not be with anybody.
- 29:12I also don't think that's correct.
- 29:13I think you should if you find somebody who you want to share
- 29:16your life with. But what I see hurt people the
- 29:20most is when when the expectations are not aligned.
- 29:25So when you're dating somebody and you want to build something,
- 29:28you want to be entrepreneurial, you're in that season of your
- 29:30life and that that partner is just not on board for that
- 29:36journey. And it's just going to do you
- 29:38more harm than good. But if, again, if you find the
- 29:41right person that's supportive and they are also ambitious or
- 29:45are also entrepreneurial and sort of support everything that
- 29:48you're doing, that is the biggest hack to being
- 29:51successful. Because think about all the
- 29:53times when you're building a company and you're stressed the
- 29:57fuck out. Like that person can help bring
- 29:59you back. Like when you're really, really
- 30:00just spiraling, right? Like these are the reasons why
- 30:03having that supportive person at home is so important.
- 30:07So yes, obsession, unbalanced seasons of life, life.
- 30:11But at the same time, who you surround yourself with is going
- 30:15to make a huge difference and make that season of unbalanced
- 30:18and obsession that much easier. Have you struggled in your
- 30:21relationships throughout your entrepreneurial journey?
- 30:24Yeah, for sure. Me too, 1000%, So bad. 1000%
- 30:29Yeah. I mean, like before Gina, the
- 30:33girl I'm with right now, my ex dumped me because I was working
- 30:37too much. I mean, yeah.
- 30:40So that's not a successful relationship.
- 30:44Yeah, no, it's, it's hard. It's been a challenge for me as
- 30:47well just just because like you said it and I'm struggling with
- 30:50that dynamic right now of I've always instinctively connected
- 30:55with people that were most like me, I guess also very driven,
- 30:59also very entrepreneurial and and all these things.
- 31:02But I'm now I'm like wondering maybe I need somebody that's
- 31:06more of a grounded, supportive type of partner that isn't so
- 31:12obsessive compulsive just like I am.
- 31:14I don't know. I don't know what are your.
- 31:15Thoughts on that? Disagree with that.
- 31:17Gina's super driven. She has her own business.
- 31:19She's very entrepreneurial. So I mean, she just gets it.
- 31:24Like, she just gets it. Like if I have to travel for
- 31:27work again, if I have to put in like, ridiculous weeks, if I
- 31:31have to, you know, for example, huge podcast opportunity, you
- 31:34have to like, go like, like that.
- 31:35She's like, yeah, for sure, yeah.
- 31:37How I? Was just going to say how do you
- 31:40do you struggle to turn off the business hat and turn on the
- 31:47relationship hat? Well, so I struggled to turn off
- 31:54the business hat, but like we have like shared goals and
- 31:58objectives in life. So like when we go like go on a
- 32:06date night, for example, you've got to still make time to like
- 32:08spend time with the person that you're with.
- 32:10But when we go on a date night, like we still enjoy talking
- 32:14about the shit that we're working on.
- 32:16Like it's not like it ruins the night.
- 32:18It's like these are the things that actually bring us closer
- 32:20together because we're like, I'm dealing with whatever.
- 32:23I'm like frustrated because my contents not hitting.
- 32:25She just try. She like missed out on closing a
- 32:28big deal. Whatever it is.
- 32:31These are things that we actually have like knowledge in
- 32:34that we can like support each other with.
- 32:36So it actually brings us closer together.
- 32:37Now you have to have like a life outside of business as well.
- 32:41But I think that I don't think it's smart to completely
- 32:44separate your business and your personal life.
- 32:46I have the most fun with, well, obviously with her, but also
- 32:50with friends who also deal with the same stuff as me.
- 32:53Like I don't want to be, I don't want to not be my myself with
- 32:57the people that I that I'm, I'm hanging out with.
- 33:00Like if I had to like tone down my business and I had to tone
- 33:04down the things that are sort of like going through my head,
- 33:06you're kind of getting like 50% of me.
- 33:09So I rather, I rather be with, you know, a wife, friends, a
- 33:17girlfriend who like kind of just vibes with 100% of who I am then
- 33:23somebody who is completely different.
- 33:25That's just the way it's worked for me.
- 33:27And like, even the friends that I hang out with that I really
- 33:29enjoy chatting with and like, they're people that are also
- 33:32super entrepreneurial and they're people that enjoy
- 33:34building and they're people, they're people that enjoy just,
- 33:37you know, figuring shit out. It's it's just those kinds of
- 33:42people give me energy. Yeah.
- 33:44Me too, I know. And that's what I was talking to
- 33:46someone about that is like people, how many hours a week do
- 33:49you work? I'm like it all blends together
- 33:50just like you said my. It's always, it's always, yeah,
- 33:53I'll, I'll go like hang out with friends.
- 33:55We'll like get drinks or food and yeah, we'll talk about
- 33:58business, talk about life, talk about how their families doing.
- 34:01Like it, it all blends. It all blends.
- 34:05So I mean, like, you know, that's, it's very cliche, but
- 34:07you know, you're the average of the the five people you surround
- 34:10yourself with. How many times do people drop
- 34:12that quote? Right?
- 34:12But it's very, very true. And I think that that's why,
- 34:16like who you bring into your circle and who you spend the
- 34:18most time with is so important because when you can have people
- 34:21who have, you know, fulfilled lives, married, kids, whatever
- 34:27their version of fulfilled is, Plus they're very ambitious.
- 34:30They have great businesses. It's like they're a great role
- 34:34model across the board, right? I think I'd rather spend more
- 34:38time with somebody like say, if, if my goal is to get married and
- 34:41have kids, not everybody's goal, but if it's my goal to get
- 34:43married and have kids, I rather spend more time with somebody
- 34:46who has a great business, who is an entrepreneur, who is married,
- 34:50who has kids. Like there's so many things I
- 34:51can learn from them as well. So I think that if you get a, if
- 34:54you, if you sort of connect with your spouse or your friends on
- 34:58the thing that you care about the most, I think that's a great
- 35:03way to sort of build that rapport.
- 35:04And then all the other stuff comes much easier versus if you
- 35:09just like if you had friends that, you know, always complain
- 35:13that you work too much, all they do is drink or, you know, if
- 35:17they're just like so huge into sports that every time you hang
- 35:20out, all they talk about is sports.
- 35:22Cool. I have no issue with that.
- 35:24But at this stage in my life, I don't really give a shit about
- 35:26sports as much as I used to. I used to play a lot of hockey.
- 35:29I'm Canadian. I never really got into like
- 35:30basketball or football. Like some Americans are super
- 35:33into basketball, football, yeah, it's fun to like watch a game
- 35:37every like couple months, but I don't give a shit about staying
- 35:42in on a Sunday and watching football for like 4 hours and
- 35:45that's not that fun for me. So I think that like, I don't
- 35:49think you should ever have to dim yourself or change yourself
- 35:51for the people that you surround yourself with.
- 35:53Yeah, I agree. Just being around people that
- 35:56make you feel expansive and not. Contracted percent and there and
- 35:59like it doesn't matter how weird you are, there's like enough
- 36:02people out there in this world that will be just as fucking
- 36:04weird as you and will have the same exact hobbies as you.
- 36:08So I think that that's, I think that's very, very wise.
- 36:11And I think also very importantly for like the person
- 36:13you're with, at least what I found is if they're more similar
- 36:18to me in like their ambition and what they do for a living, I
- 36:23just find the dating goes much easier.
- 36:25Yeah, yeah, I find the same, same thing because then you have
- 36:28things to talk about, you've things in common, you
- 36:29understand, you have a level of understanding.
- 36:31But I do think it is still important to, you know, where
- 36:35I've gotten into trouble is becoming business partners with
- 36:39the person I was dating. And I, I no longer do that.
- 36:42We'll do business together, like send each other business or help
- 36:45each other grow business. But I have a rule now like no
- 36:47more business partnerships with anybody that I'm in a
- 36:50relationship with. Although some people do it and
- 36:52they are successful at it. But it is hard look at.
- 36:57Alex and Lila. It's true.
- 36:58There's a lot of good examples, right?
- 37:00Sarah Blakely? Yeah, like there's a lot of.
- 37:05Well, actually though, they weren't in business together,
- 37:07but they're both very cool, like her and Jesse Itzler, right?
- 37:10I think are like very, very. He built his own company
- 37:13separately. I'm trying to think of other
- 37:14people that were like in business together, but.
- 37:18It's hard. I mean it's hard to make a
- 37:20relate a marriage work in general and then it's hard to
- 37:22make a business work in general. And then when you put them both.
- 37:24Yeah, you can make. The same you can make the same
- 37:26argument for family too. It is like, listen, we, Gina and
- 37:32myself, we could have gone into business together, but we
- 37:35actually chose not to for that reason in particular.
- 37:38Like, we help each other. We'll, like, walk through
- 37:40problems that we're dealing with, but we both build our own
- 37:44shit. Yeah.
- 37:46It's nice to have. What are some of the, I mean,
- 37:48I'm fascinated to hear about these people that you've
- 37:50interviewed because you've interviewed, you know,
- 37:52billionaires and very successful.
- 37:53People A. Lot of people, yeah, a lot.
- 37:55What are some of the key traits, I would say, or consistencies
- 38:01among the the most successful people that you've interviewed
- 38:04that have contributed to their growth and their success?
- 38:07I know we talked about obsession.
- 38:09Obsession is one of them. Everybody who has built anything
- 38:11great has been obsessed with that thing while they're
- 38:13building it. I think that's like table
- 38:17stakes. It's just like entrepreneurship
- 38:18is just so fucking hard. Like if you are not obsessed,
- 38:23you will not see the results fast enough for you to continue
- 38:26it unless you are obsessed with that thing.
- 38:28That's why I hate motivation because you can get motivated as
- 38:31hell about something, but I can guarantee you like year three,
- 38:34no revenue, the motivation is gone.
- 38:37So it's like what's keeping you going?
- 38:39It's obsession. It's it's honestly, it's like
- 38:43building systems around you. So like taking action is easier
- 38:46than not taking action. It's making sure that, yeah,
- 38:50maybe it's taking a little bit longer than you thought, but
- 38:52you're still moving in the right direction, that these are all
- 38:54things that will help you continue after the motivation is
- 38:56long gone. But that's why I hate motivation
- 38:58because it is not, it is not a a leading indicator of success.
- 39:03And people that just build businesses based on motivation
- 39:05or even passion, very unlikely for them to succeed because you
- 39:10need more than that. You need more than passion,
- 39:12motivation. You need more than just loving
- 39:13something for it to actually turn into a viable business
- 39:19again, like how 6 1/2 years of podcasting, almost almost seven
- 39:23years, it's doing well, but there's other things that I
- 39:27could do that would have done better in seven years.
- 39:30But I love it. And I also, you know, I
- 39:32mentioned this at the beginning, you're building, you're building
- 39:35media leverage that can be used for any business that you want
- 39:38to launch in the future. So it's a very valuable asset to
- 39:41have, but ultimately it's not the easiest thing to build.
- 39:44And if I was just, you know, psyched about podcasts seven
- 39:49years ago, I would have burnt out and I would have been
- 39:51another statistic. Now, the things that make people
- 39:56successful outside of this obsession, I would say that
- 39:59there's two other very common traits across people that have
- 40:04sold companies for, you know, 8090, A 100,000,500 million,
- 40:09several billionaires. The two traits are a slight
- 40:13amount of delusion. And agency.
- 40:17So delusion because being an entrepreneur in and of itself
- 40:22doesn't make any sense. Like nobody wakes up and says,
- 40:26I'm just going to subject myself to the the most amount of
- 40:30physical and mental pain ever in hopes of building something that
- 40:34could make me more money, but ultimately, if successful, makes
- 40:37me more money than I actually need.
- 40:39Like there's some drive in there that doesn't quite make sense,
- 40:42but that's what makes like, that's what makes entrepreneurs
- 40:45so different. They're not normal.
- 40:47Entrepreneurs by definition are not normal.
- 40:48They're not the norm. In fact, I think if you actually
- 40:51look at stats, some of the most successful entrepreneurs, like a
- 40:55majority of them to some degree are neurodivergent.
- 40:58Like there's something that is driving them that is beyond what
- 41:00the normal person would ever put up with.
- 41:02The amount of risk, the amount of pain, the amount of rejection
- 41:05that it takes to build anything meaningful.
- 41:08So a little bit of delusion and agency.
- 41:12Agency just means that you believe you can do it.
- 41:15You have an absurd amount of self belief.
- 41:20Agency is one of the most important things, and there's
- 41:23other words for it too. So there's a concept called
- 41:27locus of control. Have you heard this before?
- 41:29So agency, what it could also mean is that you have an
- 41:33internal locus of control. Internal locus of control means
- 41:37that you happen to the world. The world doesn't happen to you.
- 41:40If you have an external locus of control, you believe that, well,
- 41:45you know, if something bad happens to me, it wasn't my
- 41:50fault. Like I had, I had no control
- 41:52over it. Like it's just shit luck.
- 41:55That's really what external locus of control means.
- 41:58Internal locus of control. How they would look at that
- 42:00situation, Something bad happens, it'd be like it
- 42:02happened, but I've complete control over the outcome.
- 42:05And ultimately everything good and bad that's happened to me in
- 42:08my life is from in some way my fault.
- 42:12And that if I want anything good to happen, I need to take
- 42:15action. I need to do it myself.
- 42:17No one else is going to do it for me.
- 42:19And that's a very powerful perspective shift because a lot
- 42:22of people feel like they are victims of the world.
- 42:25Entrepreneurs all believe that they have control over their own
- 42:29life, their own destiny, absolute agency.
- 42:31And again, they can they can control the world.
- 42:35They can manipulate the world to their wishes if they put enough
- 42:40energy and time and effort towards it.
- 42:43You know, the venture capital firm Andreessen Horowitz.
- 42:48So Marc Andreessen has a very famous quote.
- 42:50I'm going to paraphrase, but the quote basically goes like this.
- 42:56If you put enough energy and time and effort towards
- 42:59anything, you will start to find that the world is very malleable
- 43:03and it bends to your will. So this is a common, this is a
- 43:07common idea amongst entrepreneurs.
- 43:09Like yes, building a business is hard.
- 43:12Yes, creating something from nothing is hard.
- 43:14But if you put enough time and energy and effort towards it
- 43:18over an extended period of five, 10/15/20 years, you will find
- 43:23that the world will start to bend to whatever it is that you
- 43:26want it to do. And I've seen this time and time
- 43:29again, again, like the most successful entrepreneurs,
- 43:33they're not always the ones and rarely the ones with the best
- 43:36ideas or the ones that are the most hyped about the product
- 43:40that they're launching. They're literally the ones that
- 43:43just stay in the game long enough.
- 43:45And when you stay in the game long enough, like everything
- 43:49eventually starts to work out, not by chance, but because you
- 43:53take enough shots that things start to work and that you're
- 43:57not a stupid person. So you can see what's working
- 44:00and what's not, and you do more of the stuff that's working.
- 44:03And you just do that repeatedly. And it compounds over a period
- 44:06of time to the point where you've actually ended up
- 44:07building a good business. Yeah, I'm I'm rereading Jim
- 44:11Collins great by choice right now.
- 44:13His whole series good to great, great by choice.
- 44:15And I forget the third one is. But anyway, he says that same
- 44:18thing is is I can't I can't remember.
- 44:20Very powerful idea. Very powerful, yeah.
- 44:23And he, he talks about the three points of the triangle are that
- 44:26are the three attributes to 10X companies, companies that 10X
- 44:31all of their competition within a certain era of time.
- 44:35And so he said the same thing, like they all had the same
- 44:37economic circumstances, like everything was the same as far
- 44:40as that goes. But these are the things that
- 44:42were different. And I think, you know, obsession
- 44:43was that concept was one of them.
- 44:45These are not new concepts that I just.
- 44:47Discovered these are just things that if you study enough people,
- 44:50you'll find they all have the same traits.
- 44:52But what's what's beautiful about these ideas is that the
- 45:00reason why I think I love entrepreneurship is because I
- 45:02don't think that the the environment that our parents and
- 45:07grandparents were raised in, it's not the same as what we are
- 45:10raised in right now. Like the nine to five job does
- 45:12not afford us the same cost, the same quality of life as what it
- 45:16afforded my parents and my grandparents.
- 45:19So I think that people have to and entrepreneurship by the way,
- 45:22as a concept was not as popular like 50 years ago or 100 years
- 45:28ago, maybe 1000 years ago actually entrepreneur was very
- 45:31popular. But like in in the last 100
- 45:34years, entrepreneurship is really getting popular now.
- 45:38The reason why is because so many people feel left behind by
- 45:43the system, by the government, by whatever playbook that their
- 45:47parents had in place that allowed them to, you know,
- 45:49afford a detached home, support an entire family on one income
- 45:53with like not even a college education.
- 45:56It doesn't exist for a lot of people.
- 45:57So they're like, how do I, how else do I make money?
- 46:00How else do I escape the matrix? How else do I sort of live a
- 46:03life that doesn't feel like I'm living paycheck to paycheck and
- 46:05drowning all the time? And that's where
- 46:07entrepreneurship is the answer. But I think that also a lot of
- 46:12people, because entrepreneurship is relatively new as a concept
- 46:15for the majority of people. I don't think there's ever been
- 46:17as many entrepreneurs and people that have like leveraged
- 46:21Internet and social media and now AI to sort of build
- 46:23something from scratch like that wasn't it's super easy to do
- 46:27even like 15 years ago. So now it's easy to be an
- 46:29entrepreneur, but they still find it scary and they still
- 46:32find it like venturing into the unknown.
- 46:36But from what we were just speaking about, about like
- 46:40staying in the game long enough and figuring out what works and
- 46:44compound effect of just taking action over a period of time.
- 46:48What that all really means is that building a business, being
- 46:52an entrepreneur, it's, it's not complicated.
- 46:57It's hard work, but it's not complicated.
- 46:59Like everything we've just said is a very complex way of saying
- 47:02just do it for a long enough period of time and you'll figure
- 47:05it out. Like it's not about do it for a
- 47:08long enough period of time and then hopefully you figure it
- 47:11out. It's like, I have a lot of
- 47:13confidence that if you stick with something again for a long
- 47:15period of time, you will figure it out.
- 47:17So it's, it sort of shifts it from hopefully this will be
- 47:21successful one day to, well, if I find a way to play the game
- 47:24long enough, it will be successful.
- 47:26It goes from an unknown to a certainty.
- 47:28And I think that that's how more people should look at
- 47:30entrepreneurship. It's not easy.
- 47:31It's like more work than you'll ever do, but the outcome isn't
- 47:35an unknown if you can stay in the game long enough.
- 47:37That is my absolute belief because that is what I've seen
- 47:41with most people I've brought on my show.
- 47:42Most of my friends that are entrepreneurs, again, they just
- 47:45stay in the game long enough, not doing things that don't
- 47:47work, but progressively moving towards things that work better
- 47:50and better and better and getting rid of the things that
- 47:52don't. And and that's how you end up
- 47:55being an entrepreneur. Yeah, it's a it's a beautiful
- 47:59journey that we're on. It is painful, but it is the
- 48:02most rewarding thing and I would never have it any other way.
- 48:06What is so going back to some of the I know we have, we don't
- 48:10have much time here left. But going back to some of the
- 48:11tactical stuff, how do you, especially when you were getting
- 48:14started and you didn't have a big name yet?
- 48:16Obviously when you have a big name, like it's so easy to, you
- 48:18know, connect with anybody. But when you were getting
- 48:20started and didn't have a big name, how were you getting top
- 48:23people onto your show? One of the most important skills
- 48:26that any entrepreneur can learn in sales and I come from a
- 48:29background in sales and marketing.
- 48:30So when I started my show, I was scraping lists of like top
- 48:36business influencers. I was finding their e-mail and
- 48:42actually no backup before I even did that.
- 48:44When I first started, I realized that to bring people on my.
- 48:46Show it was a sales pitch and in any sales pitch you have to
- 48:50solve like a pain point. That's how you sell anything to
- 48:52anyone, right? So the pain point that a podcast
- 48:56solves is exposure. It's access to an audience, even
- 49:00if it's not a big one, it's a small audience.
- 49:02There's another thing in sales and keep in mind, I was like
- 49:06sort of classically trained in enterprise sales.
- 49:08But there's another thing in sales called intent.
- 49:11And intent in sales means that you are reaching out to somebody
- 49:14that already has intent to buy your product or service versus
- 49:19if you're reaching out to somebody who, for example, well,
- 49:22I, I don't really need to, you know, invest in a new accounting
- 49:26software right now. Ours is good compared to
- 49:28somebody who is, we're actively shopping for new accounting
- 49:31software. Oh, what are you selling?
- 49:33It's much better to hit somebody up when they have intent to buy.
- 49:37How does that translate into podcasts?
- 49:38So you have to find people that are actively looking for media
- 49:41coverage. So when I started, I went on
- 49:43Amazon because a lot of, a lot of authors try and get on
- 49:46podcasts. I went on Amazon, I filtered
- 49:49books by up and coming, new release, bestseller, business
- 49:53category and just looked at the top authors that were writing
- 49:56books that were going to be released in the next 6 months
- 49:58because they were all going on podcast tours already.
- 50:01So all I had to do was say, hey, I know you're already doing 50
- 50:05podcasts for your book that you're going to be putting out,
- 50:09you know, December of this year. I'm a podcast, It's not a lot of
- 50:14work to come on my show. We do it virtual, so we'll just
- 50:17do 30 minutes virtual. I'll clip a whole bunch of
- 50:19little clips. I'll send it to your team.
- 50:20You can post it on social. We have 5000 listeners a month,
- 50:24but it's really only going to take 30 minutes of your time.
- 50:26So Ben, by the way, if you send that to 100 people, two or three
- 50:30will say yes. And you take those two or three
- 50:33and then you include them in the subject line.
- 50:35Do you send to the next 100 people?
- 50:37And now because they're social proof, then even more people
- 50:39will say yes. So in the 1st week, week first,
- 50:44like say like because I was running campaigns for the first
- 50:47week, two weeks, I got Guy Kawasaki because he was
- 50:51launching a podcast. I got Grant Cardone, I got
- 50:56Anthony Scaramucci trying to think who else?
- 51:00Those are like the biggest names early on.
- 51:02And I got Patrick Bet David very early on as well.
- 51:05There was, it was just a little bit of right positioning.
- 51:09What pain am I solving by you know what, what are you
- 51:12launching? Because like Guy Kawasaki was
- 51:14launching a podcast at the time. I think Grant was launching a
- 51:16book. Like it was just like the right
- 51:18time. And you send a really, really
- 51:21concise e-mail to these people. And like I said, if you hit up
- 51:25100 or 200 of these people, a few of them will say yes.
- 51:29And then you just rinse and repeat.
- 51:31How has that shifted since now you're not doing virtual
- 51:33podcasts For the most part, you're in person.
- 51:35Are you reaching out to people and are you traveling to them or
- 51:38are you requesting that they travel to you, or you're doing a
- 51:40combination of both? Obviously, you're here in
- 51:41Arizona right now. But no, but so I'm not recording
- 51:45my stuff here. I'm going on other people's
- 51:47shows, right? So I so now.
- 51:49So on your show you bring them to you on.
- 51:50My show, I bring them to me once in a while.
- 51:53Once in a while I'll travel to like record at wherever they
- 51:57are. But I mean, like, that's also
- 51:59why I moved to Miami. So I was, you know, Miami, LA,
- 52:03New York, everybody comes through at some point.
- 52:05And, and that was that was strategic.
- 52:08Like I, I moved to a city strategically.
- 52:10Like I, I like Miami, but it's like not the only place in the
- 52:13world that I would live. So yeah, I asked people to come
- 52:17come to Miami. And also because the in person
- 52:21stuff does so much better than the virtual stuff unless the
- 52:25person is like. Very famous.
- 52:28I rather do an in person show. And just wait until they can
- 52:33come through my like, I don't care if I have to wait a year.
- 52:37It really makes no difference to me because I know that waiting a
- 52:40year and having them step into my studio and recording and
- 52:43getting some like a much better conversation and getting short
- 52:47clips from that person that's going to outperform anything
- 52:49undo on like Zoom or Riverside or any kind of virtual platform.
- 52:54So yeah, at this point, IDM them, a lot of them DM me as
- 52:59well. But if I ever, if I'm ever
- 53:03bored, once in a while, I'll go on Amazon and I'll see you as
- 53:05writing a new book. And if there's someone
- 53:07interesting that I haven't spoken to that I wanna bring on,
- 53:09it's gonna be the same pitch. Yeah, it still works.
- 53:12I just don't have to do it as much because you build a name
- 53:15and people come to you, but it will always work.
- 53:18And then your newsletter, because you have a newsletter as
- 53:20well, you have over 320,000 subscribers.
- 53:22You send out a weekly newsletter.
- 53:24How did you build your newsletter out?
- 53:26And like, how do you, I actually, I need to subscribe to
- 53:29your newsletter because I, I want to start reading it.
- 53:32And it's, you interview all the people that I'm interested in.
- 53:34But I actually, because I'm not subscribed to it right now.
- 53:36I don't know what, what your structure is, but like, how did
- 53:39you get your newsletter going? And how do you, how did you get
- 53:41so many subscribers to it? Do you, are you putting links in
- 53:43the podcast? Like what platform?
- 53:45Because I've, I started a newsletter recently and I'm, you
- 53:48know, trying to like, learn, go high level and figure out like
- 53:51all these things. And yeah.
- 53:53So what's the newsletter secrets?
- 53:54So the reason why an e-mail list is so important is because you
- 53:59own that list. This is this is marketing one O
- 54:021 right? Like you can publish and post it
- 54:05on social all day. But first of all, when you post
- 54:08something on social, say you have a million followers, maybe
- 54:125 to 10% of those followers actually see when you post,
- 54:15right? It's not 100%.
- 54:17And now actually with algorithm changes, it's even less than
- 54:20that because people platforms are now showing people content
- 54:24based on like their interests versus who they follow.
- 54:29So social is great, but keep in mind it's not your platform.
- 54:34If you ever get banned or suspended or anything like that,
- 54:37you do not get those. You know you don't get those
- 54:39people. You don't have access to your
- 54:40followers. So you always want to build a
- 54:42list. You want to like bring people
- 54:44off of social. You want to bring people onto an
- 54:46e-mail list because when you send an e-mail blast, 100% of
- 54:50the audience gets that e-mail. Well, unless it goes to spam.
- 54:53Unless it goes to spam, but it's still better than it's still
- 54:57better than social. It's still better than social
- 54:59regardless. Like yeah, so I get about a 40
- 55:02to 50% open rate on my e-mail, which is great, but it's not
- 55:05100%. You're right.
- 55:06So, but still, it's better than Instagram anywhere else, right?
- 55:12How do you, how do you build that?
- 55:13A few ways. There's a few ways to build any
- 55:15asset, then market any asset by the way, like there's you can
- 55:20run paid, you can collaborate with other creators and you can
- 55:24basically tap into organic reach.
- 55:26Those are sort of like the three main ways you can grow anything.
- 55:29So paid collaboration and organic is how I've grown the
- 55:34podcast is how I've grown social channels, how I've grown the
- 55:36newsletter. What does this mean?
- 55:40So organic reach for newsletters in particular.
- 55:44Wait, sorry, I blanked out for a second.
- 55:46You said paid is how you've grown, Joel, running paid ads.
- 55:48Paid. Yeah, paid ads, Collaboration
- 55:51with other big creators. Could you tap into their?
- 55:54Audiences and organic. And organic, all three for every
- 55:56single asset I've ever grown. OK, so I mean, I can explain how
- 56:01this works for podcast too, if you want.
- 56:02But for newsletters, let's talk about how to tap into other
- 56:08audiences for newsletters. OK, if you're going to tap into
- 56:11another creator's audience for newsletters, you can do a couple
- 56:14different things. You can either just publish an
- 56:17ad on someone else's newsletter and send it out to their
- 56:19audience with a call to action to subscribe to yours.
- 56:21Or, and you can do like a swap where, and I do a lot of swaps.
- 56:26So somebody will say, hey, Scott, this is my list.
- 56:29This is what I write about. This is your list.
- 56:31This is what you write about. I, I'm going to put an ad for
- 56:34your newsletter in my newsletter and you're going to put an ad in
- 56:38your newsletter for my newsletter.
- 56:39We're going to do, we're going to do a swap.
- 56:42And that's a great way to grow and tap into another person's
- 56:45audience base. Also doesn't really cost you
- 56:48anything because you're both, you're sort of you're just doing
- 56:51a swap. I've done that with podcast too.
- 56:53So for podcasts, there's something called a feed drop
- 56:57where I take a full episode of my podcast and I take a full
- 57:00episode of your podcast and I will upload your podcast into my
- 57:04feed for one episode. And I'll, I'll, I'll introduce
- 57:07it. I'll say, hey, this is this is
- 57:09this is one of my favorite shows.
- 57:11You can download it everywhere. You get your podcast, go to, you
- 57:14know, Hannah's YouTube channel at whatever.
- 57:16And then I'll play and I'll say this is a full episode.
- 57:20If you like it, this is where you go subscribe.
- 57:22You'll post that on your YouTube.
- 57:24I'll post that on my YouTube. I'll post that for my RSS feed,
- 57:27like with my actual, like my actual podcast.
- 57:29And you'll do the same. So my audience will get to
- 57:32listen to a full episode of your podcast.
- 57:34Your audience will get to listen to a full episode of my podcast.
- 57:38And then if they like it, they go subscribe.
- 57:40Now you do this enough, you collect someone else's audience.
- 57:44Right. Do the same thing with a
- 57:46newsletter. Now, one thing that is very
- 57:50important if you're trying to grow a media asset like an
- 57:53Instagram account or a podcast or a newsletter, if you do these
- 57:57kinds of swaps, you can do it on Instagram too.
- 57:59You can say, hey, like do a story with a call to action to
- 58:02follow me. I'll do a story with a call to
- 58:04action to follow you. Like these are very easy swaps.
- 58:07They don't cost you anything. You're just tapping into each
- 58:09other's audiences. So it's like a win win.
- 58:11But when you do these kinds of collaborations, you want to, you
- 58:15want to stick with the same medium.
- 58:16What does that mean if you are advertising a newsletter?
- 58:20I personally would not pay to advertise on someone else's
- 58:23podcast or I would not do a swap between a newsletter and a
- 58:26podcast. Why?
- 58:27Because if somebody is a newsletter reader and that's
- 58:30what they read, you know, every Monday they open a newsletter.
- 58:32They love reading newsletters. I do not want to have to
- 58:35convince them that they should be also into podcasts and then
- 58:39be into my podcast. All I want to convince them is
- 58:42that, hey, you like newsletters? I have a newsletter, Just
- 58:45subscribe to mine. Same with podcasts.
- 58:47I'm not going to advertise my newsletter in someone else's
- 58:50podcast. If I'm trying to advertise,
- 58:52sorry, let me re say that I'm not going to advertise my
- 58:55podcast in someone else's newsletter.
- 58:58I'm going to advertise my podcast on someone else's
- 59:01podcast because all I want the listener to hear is OK, Scott
- 59:06has a podcast. I know you're a podcast listener
- 59:09because you're listening to Hannah's podcast.
- 59:11All I want you to do is listen to mine.
- 59:13Now does that make sense? Yeah.
- 59:15Are you putting your podcast on your newsletters?
- 59:18Like the links to each episode? But yeah, but you're.
- 59:21Not that is different than collaboration, right.
- 59:24So making sure that all of my audience ecosystem knows
- 59:28everything that I'm working on. So yes, on my on my YouTube and
- 59:32on my podcast, there's a call to action to subscribe to my
- 59:35newsletter. So I collect the audience from
- 59:37everywhere, but that's different than tapping into someone else's
- 59:40community. OK, the second thing, so there's
- 59:45paid, there's collaboration, and then there's organic reach.
- 59:49So the reason why YouTube is so important for podcasts is
- 59:55because people can discover your podcast organically.
- 59:59If you just did audio, nobody can discover you.
- 1:00:03So when you upload audio to like Spotify, Apple, a little bit of
- 1:00:07organic but not really much organic reach at all.
- 1:00:11YouTube is the second largest search engine in the world after
- 1:00:13Google, even though they're owned by the same company.
- 1:00:15But that's where people can actually discover your show,
- 1:00:18right? For newsletter, most people
- 1:00:20don't realize this, but Sub Stack has really good organic
- 1:00:25reach. What is that?
- 1:00:26Sub Stack is a newsletter hosting platform.
- 1:00:28Or you can write. You write.
- 1:00:30Yeah, it's like there's a there's a lot of them.
- 1:00:32There's, there's Kit, there's Beehive, there's Medium, there's
- 1:00:36sub Stack, there's probably others.
- 1:00:38There's MailChimp, There's a million different places.
- 1:00:40There's go high level. I've used all of them.
- 1:00:44The reason why and I've listen, I've gone sub stack, Beehive,
- 1:00:49sub Stack Kit. I also know Nathan, I have no
- 1:00:52issue with Kit, but I've gone back to Sub Stack because Sub
- 1:00:55Stack has the most organic reach.
- 1:00:57Meaning when I publish A newsletter, it doesn't just go
- 1:01:01to my audience. My newsletter goes to the
- 1:01:04millions of people potentially go to the millions of people
- 1:01:08that all read newsletters on Sub Stack.
- 1:01:12So there's a suggestion engine built into Sub Stack.
- 1:01:15So if I write about entrepreneurship and say I have
- 1:01:18100,000 people that read about entrepreneurship, great, my list
- 1:01:22gets it. But also Sub Stack is going to
- 1:01:25recommend my newsletter to 5 million people that have never
- 1:01:28heard of me before. Nice.
- 1:01:31So that's what I mean by organic reach.
- 1:01:33That's that is that is a huge secret to growing something
- 1:01:37because outside of collaboration and organic reach, the only
- 1:01:42other way people can discover you is by running paid ads.
- 1:01:47So unless you want to spend a shit ton of money, then you have
- 1:01:50to figure out how to tap into other creators, audiences, or
- 1:01:54you get people to discover you and that's why you do all three.
- 1:01:57You grow successfully and you grow a little bit quicker, but
- 1:02:00organic reach is huge. Collaboration is huge.
- 1:02:04And then of course you can run paid ads for everything.
- 1:02:08You can run paid ads on Spark loop on YouTube.
- 1:02:11You can run paid ads. They have like a built in tool
- 1:02:13to run paid ads as well via like Google Ads, but that's kind of
- 1:02:16like the lazy way to promote something and the expensive way
- 1:02:20and the expensive way. And the one thing that's really
- 1:02:22great about tapping into like a platform's organic reach is
- 1:02:30you'll be able to tell if your content's good.
- 1:02:33Like if, for example, people are subscribing to my YouTube
- 1:02:35channel or subscribing to my newsletter and they're just
- 1:02:40discovering it without me running any ads, that means my
- 1:02:43content is great. If, if, if I'm putting out a
- 1:02:45whole bunch of content on YouTube or on sub stack and
- 1:02:48nobody's subscribing, well, the content's not hitting.
- 1:02:51So if I run paid ads, like I'm going to be burning through a
- 1:02:55lot of money because I'm going to be sort of promoting
- 1:02:58something that isn't that great already.
- 1:03:00So if my organic discovery, if my organic reach is already
- 1:03:04good, if people are already subscribing to my newsletter,
- 1:03:06already subscribing to my YouTube, then putting paid into
- 1:03:09it is like throwing fuel on the fire.
- 1:03:11But at least I know the product is good.
- 1:03:13It's also like one last example. If you're ever running ads for
- 1:03:17your business on Facebook, Google, whatever, you don't just
- 1:03:20run ads on just random ass creative.
- 1:03:23You take your best performing organic posts and you turn that
- 1:03:28into your ad creative because you already know it works.
- 1:03:31Like people are always trying to figure out like how do I make
- 1:03:33sure my ads are going to hit? I'm going to have like a lower
- 1:03:36customer acquisition cost. Like I want to reduce my, I want
- 1:03:39to reduce my expense as much as possible.
- 1:03:44And then they create like 10 different pieces of ad creative
- 1:03:48that have never been tested before.
- 1:03:50Like if you're a business owner, go to your Instagram, see what
- 1:03:54real or what image worked the best on your Instagram, what got
- 1:03:57the most likes, shares, saves, whatever comments.
- 1:04:00That's your ad creative. It already works.
- 1:04:03You know it works, yet you're, you're posting like fire organic
- 1:04:07content over here and then over here you're like doing this dumb
- 1:04:11shit in Canva that's never been tested.
- 1:04:12And you're using that as your ad creative on Facebook ads.
- 1:04:15And you wonder why your ads are so expensive and they suck and
- 1:04:17no one's converting because the content sucks.
- 1:04:19So organic is a great way to attract people, obviously to
- 1:04:23build an audience, but also just a test if what you're putting
- 1:04:25out is good. So yeah, organic collaboration
- 1:04:29and paid. That's how you grow anything.
- 1:04:32OK, Thank you. And then we're going to wrap up
- 1:04:34here. But for a final question, why
- 1:04:37does most people's content suck? And what's the number one piece
- 1:04:40of advice you would give them to make it not suck?
- 1:04:44Their ego. Their ego.
- 1:04:47They think their content is better than it is, and they
- 1:04:49aren't willing to. They aren't willing to learn
- 1:04:52something new or to test new things.
- 1:04:55If you, if you get rid of the ego, if you're like, listen, I
- 1:04:57don't know what I'm doing. I'm just going to look at
- 1:04:59somebody who's growing faster than me and I'm going to figure
- 1:05:02out why their content's hitting. And I'm going to try and as
- 1:05:05like, especially like a first step, just emulate what that
- 1:05:08person's doing. You're going to do, you're going
- 1:05:11to do fine. It's like your own ego gets in
- 1:05:14the way and people have, people will spend years putting out
- 1:05:19garbage content because they think it's good.
- 1:05:22They're like, I know what I'm talking about.
- 1:05:24Why? Like people should love my
- 1:05:26content. It's so professionally produced.
- 1:05:28Like I put so much energy and effort and time and money into
- 1:05:31it. Like your ego's getting in the
- 1:05:34way. You don't understand.
- 1:05:35Like your content isn't for you. It doesn't matter how good you
- 1:05:38think your content is. If it's not hitting, there's
- 1:05:42something wrong with it. So it's not because you're a bad
- 1:05:46creator, it's because you don't test enough.
- 1:05:48So go to somebody that's doing what you're doing that is
- 1:05:51growing faster than you're growing, that's growing faster
- 1:05:53now, not like has grown faster 15 years ago and be like, OK,
- 1:05:58what are they doing that I'm not?
- 1:06:00And also you have to keep in mind that that creator that
- 1:06:03you're looking at and modeling after and researching, like This
- 1:06:08is why it's so important to look at people that are growing fast
- 1:06:10now. Because there's creators that I
- 1:06:13know that were killing it like 5 or 10 years ago and they'll have
- 1:06:17like a huge audience and they'll still get great reach.
- 1:06:21But if they did what they're doing now, starting from
- 1:06:25scratch, they would never grow because there's so much
- 1:06:28competition. So it's important to look at
- 1:06:30like who is growing the fastest now from zero that they just
- 1:06:36seem to have come out of nowhere.
- 1:06:37That's the person you look at, That's the content you model.
- 1:06:40And This is why there's some new creators that has in the past,
- 1:06:45I'm going to reference school of Hard Knocks against.
- 1:06:47He just killed it. But in like two or three years
- 1:06:50built audiences bigger than people that have been doing it
- 1:06:53for 15 years because they figured out what works now.
- 1:06:56Now they will also have to figure out if that will work for
- 1:07:00the next 5 years. But for now they're killing it.
- 1:07:03That's a model. There's lots of models of people
- 1:07:05that are currently growing faster than anyone else.
- 1:07:09So if your contest not hitting, kill the ego and figure out why
- 1:07:15theirs is working and yours isn't and just test more and
- 1:07:17test what someone else is doing and just see if it works.
- 1:07:20And funny enough, like if somebody is, if somebody's
- 1:07:24content is doing very well and you sort of model your own
- 1:07:29content after that it does yours starts to do quite well too.
- 1:07:33So great advice. Well, thank you so much for
- 1:07:35coming on the show. My pleasure.
- 1:07:36I can keep talking to you for 16 more hours, but we'll continue
- 1:07:39the conversation offline. Well, my pleasure.
- 1:07:41Thank you.