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Episode #256: Be At the Head of Your Table · Tea Time w/Amie & Bev

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Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, welcome to tea sign with Amy and Beth.
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Speaker 2: Good day, So good day. How's it going, Let's go.
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Speaker 2: It's fulfilling. I'll take some of your words. Life is fulfilling, right.
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Speaker 2: I've enjoyed being a kid for the last couple of
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Speaker 2: days and need to slow down for a few minutes
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Speaker 2: because I haven't notified the fifty five year old almost
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Speaker 2: fifty five year old carcass that it's fifty five. And
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Speaker 2: it's like, I mean, I can run around, I run,
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Speaker 2: I chase, run behind the kids and everything else. They
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Speaker 2: slam on their brigs. I slam on my brigs, almost
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Speaker 2: killing myself. But it's like, so I have a good time. Nice,
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Speaker 2: that's exact. It is exciting. It's just being a kid, right,
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Speaker 2: because I don't know what that looks like. So if
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Speaker 2: they're always the boss of the games, then I'm like,
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Speaker 2: what are we doing now? We're playing with cars, We're
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Speaker 2: gonna run off and go. Someone's robbing them all. We
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Speaker 2: have to take care of it. Oh, we need to
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Speaker 2: take them to the hospital. Like there's always millions of
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Speaker 2: stays things that are going on. He's the kids are sweet.
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Speaker 1: All the scenarios, all of them.
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Speaker 2: All the way down to the one year old. So
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Speaker 2: the one year old, it looks like he's almost three,
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Speaker 2: and he was running the whole time, you know, during
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Speaker 2: the game last night, and it's with the outside you know,
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Speaker 2: it was a little chilly. So it's just been kind
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Speaker 2: of fun. It's been fulfilling.
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Speaker 1: Good. That's cool.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, how about yours?
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Speaker 1: Fulfilling as always? That is the key word tonight. I suppose. Uh,
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Speaker 1: just still have a lot of moving pieces going on.
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Speaker 1: We're in the middle of about five different events right
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Speaker 1: now at work that we're planning and strategizing and organizing
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Speaker 1: and all the things. And then my own life, my
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Speaker 1: life outside of work. And I thought about it because
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Speaker 1: I think about it often. I think we've talked about
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Speaker 1: this before. If somebody was to ask me if I
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Speaker 1: had a hobby, the answer is no, I don't. I
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Speaker 1: enjoy what I do. So it's when I say it's fulfilling,
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Speaker 1: it's true. In my work, I'm contributing to the community
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Speaker 1: and businesses, providing avenues for businesses and like pop small
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Speaker 1: businesses to participate in the events, promoting businesses, making connections,
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Speaker 1: so it's all community related. And then in my business
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Speaker 1: it's the healing process. It's helping people in a different
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Speaker 1: way more on emotional mental avenue, and it's I enjoy
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Speaker 1: all of it. I have been working since I was six,
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Speaker 1: and I would say every job I've had either didn't
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Speaker 1: like it, or I didn't like it and it was
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Speaker 1: super stressful, or I liked the job, but I didn't
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Speaker 1: like the people right all any and all of that
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Speaker 1: combination in all of these years. I've been at this
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Speaker 1: job for a year and over a little over a
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Speaker 1: year and a half. Wow, I can't say that I've
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Speaker 1: I don't like anybody I work. It's just like that
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Speaker 1: is not something that comes to mind. I go to work.
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Speaker 1: I work all day, very little stress. There's deadlines, there's
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Speaker 1: things we you know, we have to meet. Everybody gets
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Speaker 1: along for the most part. The businesses that we encounter,
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Speaker 1: our good relationship. And when I leave work, I think
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Speaker 1: I feel it more in my body just because I'm
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Speaker 1: sitting at a computer all day, so I'm kind of
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Speaker 1: hunched over a little bit too much for too long.
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Speaker 1: Other than that, it's nothing I do, really, if I
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Speaker 1: really think about it, nothing I do is stressful.
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Speaker 2: Nice, But you created that. This is the world you
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Speaker 2: created it's true one hundred percent.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: But the thing is you had all these experiences that
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Speaker 2: helped you narrow down if I mean, if we're going
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Speaker 2: to work, it might as well be something that you're
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Speaker 2: thriving on and you have passionate about and you loved.
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Speaker 2: I mean, it's the whole organizational thing. And it's like
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Speaker 2: it's such such a benefit to you because we really
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Speaker 2: never ever I mean maybe sometimes we do know what
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Speaker 2: our path our path is, but I think our path
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Speaker 2: is constantly evolving. So there is no way that you're
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Speaker 2: ever going to know because it's like you learn all
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Speaker 2: these skills that you've learned, and you fine tune them,
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Speaker 2: and I mean it's you're helping to do all kinds
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Speaker 2: of things. It's it can be beneficial for you in
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Speaker 2: your personal business in all aspects. I feel like everything
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Speaker 2: that you're doing, I feel like is actually for that.
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Speaker 2: And so it's the opportunities that have been presented to
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Speaker 2: you because these are the things that you wanted and
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Speaker 2: you bravely did it. I can't believe it's been a
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Speaker 2: year and a half.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, over a year and a half, and I think
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Speaker 1: that toom like really, wait, really, it doesn't even it
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Speaker 1: went by so fast. And I have to say the
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Speaker 1: other thing, I have quite a bit of debt, and
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Speaker 1: this was one of the things I wanted to bring
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Speaker 1: up to today because because I think it really hit me.
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Speaker 1: It hit me not as bad as a throat punch,
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Speaker 1: but it really got my attention. When I heard the words,
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Speaker 1: I was guided to a new podcaster. His name's Anthony
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Speaker 1: O'Neill okay, and he talks about finances and his main
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Speaker 1: his main target is the African American genre, right, That's
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Speaker 1: that's his uh, that's who he speaks to. And but
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Speaker 1: listening to him, one of the things he said was
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Speaker 1: if you are in if you're in debt, you are
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Speaker 1: not the one sitting at the head of your table.
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Speaker 1: He said, the people you owe the money to are
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Speaker 1: sitting at the head of your table. And I was like,
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Speaker 1: damn that hearing it in those words. Now, mind you,
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Speaker 1: For a while, I have been diligently focused and doing
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Speaker 1: really well at focusing on getting things paid off and
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Speaker 1: getting the balances and getting the credit rating up and
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Speaker 1: and all the things, and uh, but when I heard
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Speaker 1: him say that, it made me want to get it
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Speaker 1: done even quicker. And then I have to tell myself
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Speaker 1: patience because the money's not in the account yet, so
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Speaker 1: patience to stick with your plan. You're doing good. It's
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Speaker 1: just a validation of where you're headed. And I actually,
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Speaker 1: even with with having all that I owe that I
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Speaker 1: look forward to payday. I'm like, oh, you paid on Friday.
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Speaker 1: I get to sit and do my bills and pay
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Speaker 1: my bet, Like I get excited about.
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Speaker 2: That now exactly. And and I would just remind you,
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Speaker 2: not that you need to be reminded, but your your
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Speaker 2: focus has been on the numbers, and it's good to
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Speaker 2: kind of have an idea because that does that does
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Speaker 2: kind of have like a resonance to it, doesn't it. Yeah,
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Speaker 2: But it also lets you know, this is another place
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Speaker 2: where my energy is going out to because it's it's
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Speaker 2: it's a story for myself too, and it's that's been
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Speaker 2: my goal. Now it's just I'm I'm paying my stuff
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Speaker 2: like it's gonna it's going to be done, period. I
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Speaker 2: know how it got there. I know how I got
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Speaker 2: it there, and it will be taking care of And
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Speaker 2: it's like, so in the meantime, I've been that's what
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Speaker 2: I do. So that's what you know, a lot of
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Speaker 2: the stuff that it comes in is what goes out
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Speaker 2: to the stuff, stuff that I created. And so it's
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Speaker 2: just to be in that space of recognizing I have
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Speaker 2: an opportunity to be taking control of things instead of
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Speaker 2: giving my control away, because I have been giving my
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Speaker 2: control away and and it is so easy to get
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Speaker 2: into that place of well, I'm paying out this because
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Speaker 2: I did this or whatever. But if we get into
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Speaker 2: that place, we're not really We're like, I mean, I
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Speaker 2: can go down the victim place pretty quick and you know,
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Speaker 2: have that whole experience again, which I don't really care for.
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Speaker 2: So it's like, I just keep my head up right,
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Speaker 2: you know, keep floating. And I don't even feel like
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Speaker 2: I'm floating anymore. I feel like I'm coasting a bit
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Speaker 2: more because I noticed kind of like what you've talked
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Speaker 2: about in the past, how you I haven't done the
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Speaker 2: whole number thing, like being a number each each month
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Speaker 2: to kind of look forward to. But I like it,
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Speaker 2: and I just haven't done anything with it. There's a
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Speaker 2: few things I haven't done lately. I just, you know,
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Speaker 2: I have it's so easy to spread yourself a bit
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Speaker 2: thin into all types of Fatht's right. Not having that
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Speaker 2: balance and harmony with everything, and it's it's a certainly
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Speaker 2: as a process. But in the meantime, I'll try I
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Speaker 2: enjoy everything as much as I possibly can. But I
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Speaker 2: do recognize exactly what you said, because it really kind
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Speaker 2: of did hit home that that's where that's just another
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Speaker 2: one of those areas that we give way or power.
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Speaker 2: We don't even realize that we're doing it. Oh, I'm
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Speaker 2: going to go ahead and get this because I know
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Speaker 2: that I can pay it back. Because I do that
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Speaker 2: I've done this, I can I know I can pay
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Speaker 2: it back. I can do it within just a couple
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Speaker 2: of days of a massage. But it's like then things
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Speaker 2: happen and it's like it's like, you know, things that
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Speaker 2: you don't even plan on. Next thing. You know, kids
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Speaker 2: need pictures or they need you know, it's a holiday
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Speaker 2: or it's or whatever. It just seems like there are
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Speaker 2: things that kind of come up like that, and it's like, well,
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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna I'm just going to do this real
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Speaker 2: quick and I'll get it paid off. Well, I see
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Speaker 2: how quick some of my stuff gets paid off. And
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Speaker 2: so it's I can't continue telling me myself that story.
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Speaker 2: So I like that you bring up this other gentleman
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Speaker 2: that's talking about this stuff because it's important. We don't
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Speaker 2: know until we know, We just don't. It's the same
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Speaker 2: thing with the relationships with anything, right, really and everything
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Speaker 2: is these relationships. If we didn't have people that were
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Speaker 2: growing up around us raising us with these ideals, you
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Speaker 2: know where we want to be, so we don't have them,
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Speaker 2: so we have to go searching for it again. I
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Speaker 2: feel like that's still taking our power back because we're
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Speaker 2: recognizing where's our power going to. So it's there's a
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Speaker 2: lot of stuff there.
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Speaker 1: And then of course when when I hear something like that,
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Speaker 1: I go into thought and I start we go into
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Speaker 1: deeper thought about things. And shortly after that, I saw
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Speaker 1: some social media posts about people still they always pointing
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Speaker 1: the finger at the millionaires and billionaires, multi whatever, right,
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Speaker 1: the wealthy, the rich, they need to pay more taxes,
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Speaker 1: they need to pay more tax and it's just a
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Speaker 1: constant focus on that. And there's also been conversations or
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Speaker 1: judgment of when somebody comes into money in whatever way
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Speaker 1: that might be. It could be an inheritance, could be
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Speaker 1: the lottery, who knows, right, but they come into money,
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Speaker 1: they got they gotta figure themselves out when they receive
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Speaker 1: that kind of money. I mean, when you're talking large
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Speaker 1: sums and they're not used to having. They got to
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Speaker 1: kind of figure things out. And but the judgment that
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Speaker 1: other people place on oh they got into money, now
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Speaker 1: they think they're some right, it's just this anyway that
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Speaker 1: my mentor taught me, and we've heard it from Abraham
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Speaker 1: Hicks and other teachers, bless that which you want to receive.
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Speaker 1: So I was taking that and I'm thinking, Okay, we
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Speaker 1: got all these people this population that are moaning and
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Speaker 1: groaning that the rich don't pay enough in taxes. And
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Speaker 1: then you at this other size they bless that which
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Speaker 1: you want to receive. And then I got this other
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Speaker 1: person saying, you ain't at the head of your table.
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Speaker 1: If you any debt, if you are not in charge
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Speaker 1: of your finances, you are not at the head of
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Speaker 1: your table. So now I got these three pieces that
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Speaker 1: I'm molling over, like I don't sit and just be like,
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Speaker 1: oh my god, I got to figure it. I just
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Speaker 1: mol it over. I just let it kind of formulate
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Speaker 1: and come to me. And I'm like, you know, I
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Speaker 1: can sit here being in debt and I can bitch
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Speaker 1: and moan about how the wealthy don't pay enough in taxes.
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Speaker 1: That is not going to change my situation.
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Speaker 2: One hundred percent. I was thinking the same thing, not
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Speaker 2: going to change my.
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Speaker 1: They are living their life. They're living their life. They
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Speaker 1: learned how to do it, or the family members before
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Speaker 1: them learned how to do it, and they got the inheritance.
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Speaker 1: It doesn't matter the fact that somebody figured out how
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Speaker 1: to get large sums of money into their account, whether
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Speaker 1: it's an account in the United States or an offshore
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Speaker 1: account or however there they have their fund. That is
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Speaker 1: none of my business. But the fact that they learned
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Speaker 1: how to do it, good for them, and that's where
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Speaker 1: the blessed that which you want to receive.
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Speaker 2: Good for them.
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Speaker 1: They paid the way. It's no different than us being
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Speaker 1: on a healing journey. We learned what to do. We're
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Speaker 1: in a better space than we were ten, twenty thirty
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Speaker 1: years ago, and now we're sharing that information. And then
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Speaker 1: the people who are in that dark space that we
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Speaker 1: used to be in and they're watching us, like, well,
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Speaker 1: who do they think they are teaching this stuff? Look
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Speaker 1: at that Their life must be all roses and blah blah, blah, same.
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Speaker 1: It's the same. Nothing is going to change till you
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Speaker 1: change it. And you can point your finger and judge
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Speaker 1: people all you want, your situation is going to remain
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Speaker 1: the same. And the fact that you're putting all that
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Speaker 1: time and energy and focus on people that don't even
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Speaker 1: know your name, they don't even know you exist, why
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Speaker 1: don't you turn that time, energy and tension into you
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Speaker 1: and get yourself situated in your finances, in your life,
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Speaker 1: and your health and your relationships and figure it out. Yeah.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, because there's so many people that are out there,
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Speaker 2: just like on YouTube. They can talk to you about money,
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Speaker 2: they can talk to you about relationships. They can tell
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Speaker 2: you what to look like they can or look like,
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Speaker 2: what things could look like. They can tell you how
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Speaker 2: to raise your children or give you different examples, and
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Speaker 2: that's the whole process. It's not that everything that we
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Speaker 2: find on there is one hundred percent we're going to
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Speaker 2: resonate with, But we find so much other information on
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Speaker 2: there that we can take bits and pieces, which is
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Speaker 2: kind of what you're doing with all of this information
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Speaker 2: that you received, and you're processing a little bit. And
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Speaker 2: that's the same thing that we do when we hear
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Speaker 2: someone new that's talking about the best way to raise
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Speaker 2: a child. This is how I talk to them. This
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Speaker 2: is what I do. You know, everything's there, right there,
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Speaker 2: right now. And so if anyone's sitting here watching this
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Speaker 2: right now, they're having any kind of struggle with anything,
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Speaker 2: it's up to you to start looking for more information.
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Speaker 2: And because if that information could be like you might
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Speaker 2: all of a sudden flip a switch in your mind
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Speaker 2: and be like, oh my god, I never thought about
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Speaker 2: this until you start opening up those doors. Because you
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Speaker 2: or you've listened to a lot of people that are
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Speaker 2: our you know, wealthy mindset and a lot of that
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Speaker 2: kind of stuff, and they're teaching because that's what they're
15:47
Speaker 2: experiencing or they have experiencing, have experience, we're experiencing things,
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Speaker 2: and we're just teaching whatever we what's worked for us.
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Speaker 2: And so it's like hopefully someone else is grabbing those
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Speaker 2: bits and pieces and taking and making them whatever it
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Speaker 2: is for them that's going to make their life more
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Speaker 2: in balance and more in harmony.
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Speaker 1: And every one of those people that are teaching, genuinely
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Speaker 1: teaching and showing you a path, it's because they experienced it.
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Speaker 1: It's because they struggled in some form, whether it's relationship, finances, health,
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Speaker 1: or career. They they struggled in some way. For them
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Speaker 1: to figure it out, be well off and whatever that
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Speaker 1: means for them, and then go teach it. It's the
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Speaker 1: same thing we're doing every week that we show up.
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Speaker 1: This is what just what you just said, this is
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Speaker 1: what we've been working on, and we're going to share
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Speaker 1: with you. And if it works with you or resonates
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Speaker 1: with you, great, but don't, that's okay. Yeah, And it's free,
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Speaker 1: like all the information out there is free. If you
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Speaker 1: want to deeper dive like I'm a coach. If you
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Speaker 1: want a deeper die with me, great, let's schedule something
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Speaker 1: and move forward. If you want to work with Bev, great,
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Speaker 1: connect with her and move forward. If you find somebody
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Speaker 1: else that resonates with you and your healing journey, your finances,
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Speaker 1: your career, whatever it might be, great move forward. You
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Speaker 1: can't you can't expect to have something different if you're
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Speaker 1: staying and stirring in the mud and not moving anywhere.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're not gathering any new information, right, no new information,
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Speaker 2: which is so important that we're having this conversation because
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Speaker 2: I have never stopped to look at a lot of
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Speaker 2: these people that how they handle their money. I know
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Speaker 2: a lot of people that have money. They don't think
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Speaker 2: the process. Isn't thinking Okay, I just got to make
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Speaker 2: it through this week. I got just got to make
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Speaker 2: it through the next payday. I just got to make
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Speaker 2: it through this. They don't think that way. That's the
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Speaker 2: way I have thought. Yeah, but that's the way that
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Speaker 2: I was raised. My mom worked three jobs, three part
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Speaker 2: time jobs, race two girls and paying for a home,
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Speaker 2: and you know, I should come home and sell our
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Speaker 2: microwave whatever just to make ends meet. And so that's
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Speaker 2: what I That was my tools that I grew up with,
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Speaker 2: and I have not ever that I can remember, gone
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Speaker 2: and watch somebody else. Besides, like this secret of that
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Speaker 2: kind of stuff, how it kind of planeted some it.
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Speaker 2: The secret did help me a lot. It changed my
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Speaker 2: mindset in a lot of ways. But that's only one
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Speaker 2: piece of it, right. There's there's a lot of factors
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Speaker 2: that go along a lot of a lot of different
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Speaker 2: things that happened. And I can't say that I have
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Speaker 2: never looked up that information, but I haven't looked it
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Speaker 2: up into the process that we're just talking right now.
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Speaker 2: So I love how spirit shows up and it's given
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Speaker 2: me different ideas, which also lets me know that when
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Speaker 2: this kind of information comes forward, it resonates with me
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Speaker 2: one hundred percent, because even what you said, when you
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Speaker 2: come into a lump sum of money, I don't know
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Speaker 2: what's going to happen, but it's part of the process
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Speaker 2: in order for me to be able to feel good
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Speaker 2: about that money that's coming in, because I feel like
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Speaker 2: there I do have some knowings, but not knowing right
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Speaker 2: not knowing when or how it's gonna happen. It just
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Speaker 2: had a raven kind of drop down and fly right
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Speaker 2: from the window almost. But it's like I haven't really
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Speaker 2: explored a lot of that stuff. But it's it's empowering
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Speaker 2: to know that there's information out there. And it's like,
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Speaker 2: I feel like Spirit is always a step ahead of us, always,
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Speaker 2: and we may feel like we get stuck or stagnant
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Speaker 2: on something, or we could talk about the you know,
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Speaker 2: getting our bills paid and all that stuff, but there's
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Speaker 2: such a bigger picture, and it's we're being trained this
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Speaker 2: whole time. We're being trained and shown different things. This
19:40
Speaker 2: whole conversation is so funny how everything's kind of tied together.
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Speaker 2: But like even like you doing all the stuff that
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Speaker 2: you did prior to go into your job, and all
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Speaker 2: that stuff you did prior to going to your job
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Speaker 2: was something that was very useful for your job, but
19:53
Speaker 2: it was also very useful for something else. And now
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Speaker 2: who knows what else it's going to go into. Because
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Speaker 2: as AI changes and as everything else changes, than your
20:01
Speaker 2: formats and the way you do things are going to change.
20:04
Speaker 2: The way I do things that are going to change.
20:06
Speaker 2: So it's just fascinating. But it's to be open and
20:09
Speaker 2: recognized when you're hearing this information. It's not saying that
20:12
Speaker 2: there's something wrong with you. It's just saying the universe
20:14
Speaker 2: is like saying, hey, Amy bed something better is coming
20:18
Speaker 2: your way. But if you go look at this stuff,
20:21
Speaker 2: it's going to help you be able to manage what's
20:23
Speaker 2: coming your way, because otherwise it would be a bit overwhelming,
20:28
Speaker 2: it could be a bit scary. And then I've been
20:30
Speaker 2: the opposite side of that, you know, like very very careful,
20:35
Speaker 2: and then you know careful but not investing. And that's
20:39
Speaker 2: the difference between someone that has money, because they take
20:41
Speaker 2: that money, they're figuring out how is that money going
20:44
Speaker 2: to make them more money. So they're always their processes
20:47
Speaker 2: are differently, seeing differently in their experience differently.
20:51
Speaker 1: It's funny you said that because we do my taxes right,
20:57
Speaker 1: getting the paperwork together, and I'm like, okay, because I
21:00
Speaker 1: saw it, like how much taxes were taken out of
21:04
Speaker 1: our in for through last year for our income. I'm like, man,
21:09
Speaker 1: so this is this is how much I have changed
21:13
Speaker 1: in my mindset. And it cracks me up because I
21:15
Speaker 1: was like, okay, they took several thousands of dollars over
21:20
Speaker 1: the path last year for taxes. So I made a
21:26
Speaker 1: note when I talked to my CPA who does our taxes,
21:30
Speaker 1: to ask him, which I already did and I'll tell
21:32
Speaker 1: you the answer, but I made a note. I'm like, okay,
21:37
Speaker 1: see if you can go tax exempt, invest that money
21:41
Speaker 1: and then when you file your taxes, pay what you owe.
21:45
Speaker 1: That was my note to myself to ask. So so
21:48
Speaker 1: UH got on the phone with him and I asked him.
21:51
Speaker 1: He's like, well, unfortunately no, because they will charge you
21:58
Speaker 1: interest if you don't pay it on a regular basis.
22:02
Speaker 1: I said, okay, well, can we file like the bare minimum?
22:10
Speaker 1: He goes, let me look at your taxes and I'll
22:14
Speaker 1: let you know what you can do. That would not
22:17
Speaker 1: have been even in my set mindset probably five ten
22:20
Speaker 1: years ago that recent Like I'm just looking at things now.
22:24
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, how can I invest? How can I
22:27
Speaker 1: generate the funds so it makes more money I have.
22:30
Speaker 1: My money is accumulating, and then I could take that
22:34
Speaker 1: interest or whatever and pay you know. So, so my
22:38
Speaker 1: brain is now looking at things differently. And this I'm
22:43
Speaker 1: telling you for the audience's knowledge, This was not my mindset.
22:51
Speaker 1: Like I said five ten years ago, I would say
22:55
Speaker 1: not even two years ago. Like I listened to people
22:59
Speaker 1: who have money and what they do and how they
23:02
Speaker 1: how they think about it, and and then also there's
23:05
Speaker 1: the spiritual side. Money's energy. I can attract as much
23:08
Speaker 1: money as I want. Then there's the belief systems that
23:12
Speaker 1: can cause hiccups in receiving the money. Or you might
23:15
Speaker 1: receive it, but you get rid of it right away,
23:17
Speaker 1: which is mymo. Get rid of it right away because
23:20
Speaker 1: I don't know how to handle it. So then when
23:22
Speaker 1: you take it and look at it as what if
23:25
Speaker 1: money was an actual person, and you said, I got
23:29
Speaker 1: to get rid of you because I don't know how
23:31
Speaker 1: to handle you, like exactly. So my brain thinks about
23:35
Speaker 1: all these things that I've been learning, and I'm like, wow,
23:38
Speaker 1: I'm not a very good friend of money, so I
23:41
Speaker 1: need to change that.
23:42
Speaker 2: So it hundred percent.
23:45
Speaker 1: It's a very interesting process, it is.
23:49
Speaker 2: I like it though, and I think everybody else is
23:51
Speaker 2: probably gonna get kick out of it too. I mean,
23:53
Speaker 2: then I'll go back to Kyle Cees again because he's
23:55
Speaker 2: talked about Yeah, say, you know the relationship with money
23:58
Speaker 2: and how we put it on a pedestal. It's like
24:00
Speaker 2: we put it, we almost in a lot of ways
24:03
Speaker 2: the opposite side of things. We almost put it where
24:05
Speaker 2: it's out of reach all the time, yep, and whatever
24:07
Speaker 2: does come into reach' that's what we've allowed to trickle in,
24:10
Speaker 2: to be quite honest with you, and I love how
24:13
Speaker 2: I love how your experiences and everything has changed that
24:17
Speaker 2: it's presenting opportunities for you to think differently and to
24:20
Speaker 2: ask these questions, because even though you've asked your CPA this,
24:24
Speaker 2: it may not be your CPA that gives you the answer.
24:27
Speaker 2: You've put the You've put a question out there basically
24:29
Speaker 2: to the universe through your CPA, and now the universe
24:32
Speaker 2: is going to show you all the different ways of
24:35
Speaker 2: managing it or are creating more from what you have.
24:39
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's beautiful and I just have to say it
24:43
Speaker 1: is a mindset shift. Huge. Mindset is huge. So if
24:48
Speaker 1: you're if you're again going back to if you are
24:51
Speaker 1: focused on what the wealthy is doing, it doesn't do
24:54
Speaker 1: anything for you, does absolutely zero for you. You can
24:59
Speaker 1: sit and watch Tiki Talk or the Facebook or any
25:02
Speaker 1: of them and complain and point the finger and judge
25:07
Speaker 1: and blame and everything, but that person being wealthy has
25:11
Speaker 1: nothing nothing to do with where you're at with your
25:13
Speaker 1: own finances.
25:15
Speaker 2: Yeah, displaced unhappiness on an't know if it's all the right terminology,
25:19
Speaker 2: but that's I mean, you're blaming somebody else for your situation,
25:22
Speaker 2: as if they're paying more, is going to help you, right,
25:25
Speaker 2: help me help you know what I mean?
25:27
Speaker 1: The government gets the money, it's.
25:30
Speaker 2: Just the person's upset, so they want to blame somebody, right,
25:32
Speaker 2: And that's we've seen We've seen that a lot in
25:34
Speaker 2: a lot of things. Someone has to take the fall
25:36
Speaker 2: for this because it wasn't me, right, people, it was
25:39
Speaker 2: freaking me. Yeah, yeah, I mean it is. That's the
25:43
Speaker 2: way that with all of us.
25:44
Speaker 1: And here's so this is this and I like it
25:48
Speaker 1: just dropped into my head just now because I didn't
25:50
Speaker 1: even think about this till till right now. Is for years,
25:55
Speaker 1: as far as I can remember being a little girl,
25:58
Speaker 1: for years, wealthy need to pay more taxes has been
26:03
Speaker 1: the argument, right for decades. Okay now, and I'm not
26:12
Speaker 1: doing this to get political, just so you know, but
26:15
Speaker 1: the fact that now we have somebody who is looking
26:19
Speaker 1: into where the money is going and finding all kinds
26:22
Speaker 1: of avenues of fraud and mismanagement of funds, and we're
26:30
Speaker 1: trillions of dollars in debt. But yet they want the wealthy,
26:34
Speaker 1: the common people want the wealthy to pay more taxes.
26:37
Speaker 1: It ain't gonna matter because it was all fraudulent, like
26:40
Speaker 1: all this money is being wasted, and it wouldn't have
26:43
Speaker 1: mattered how much they paid. And you think that if
26:46
Speaker 1: they paid more, the United States who get out of
26:49
Speaker 1: debt can't get out of debt because it's going to
26:51
Speaker 1: avenues that are fraudulent and money laundering and all the things.
26:57
Speaker 1: It wouldn't have helped anyway. So it's and even that
27:02
Speaker 1: is a mindset of well focusing on they need to
27:07
Speaker 1: pay more. Yeah, so quite interesting.
27:13
Speaker 2: It is. It is and in general when we talk
27:16
Speaker 2: about energy, a lot of times when you think about that,
27:19
Speaker 2: a lot of people don't know how to manage their money.
27:21
Speaker 2: And we're also looking to other people to tell us
27:25
Speaker 2: how to manage their money. But now we're finding out
27:27
Speaker 2: how they've been managing their money. So that energy has
27:30
Speaker 2: been there for a long time, right, right, it really
27:32
Speaker 2: has that it's been It's been a very very very
27:35
Speaker 2: long time. Oh, it's no reason.
27:37
Speaker 1: So this gets me excited now as you said that
27:39
Speaker 1: in that way is look, how much is being taught
27:44
Speaker 1: about financial responsibility? Yeah, so if there is so much
27:51
Speaker 1: attention this this just came to you. If there is
27:54
Speaker 1: so much attention on learning money management and doing better
28:00
Speaker 1: on an individual level, that collectively puts the energy to
28:09
Speaker 1: our government to want to look into us where our
28:16
Speaker 1: our money has been going and to get that in
28:20
Speaker 1: the order of good money management. Yes, so it has,
28:28
Speaker 1: I would have to say. It's it's like starting with
28:32
Speaker 1: us who are tired of being in debt and working
28:35
Speaker 1: paycheck to paycheck and not feeling like we're getting ahead.
28:39
Speaker 1: Now we're looking at what can I do differently because
28:42
Speaker 1: this is exhausting, and I'm you know, whenever retirement for whoever,
28:48
Speaker 1: I think, I'm going to do this till I take
28:50
Speaker 1: my last breath. But anyway, people are looking at retirement
28:54
Speaker 1: realizing they don't what are they going to do? What
28:59
Speaker 1: are they going to do? We're no longer working. They
29:01
Speaker 1: got to keep working, that's what they've been doing. So
29:06
Speaker 1: and then we have all these people who have come forward,
29:10
Speaker 1: who have been in debt, got out of it, now
29:13
Speaker 1: are teaching it. There's thousands of people teaching that, thousands
29:18
Speaker 1: of people teaching how to get out of debt and
29:21
Speaker 1: how to be a good steward of money. And since
29:24
Speaker 1: it's a collective thing and so much attention is on
29:27
Speaker 1: that is shifting the energy which would shift what's happening
29:31
Speaker 1: for our own country.
29:32
Speaker 2: And before we even said the country thing already gave
29:36
Speaker 2: me all that has created the shift. Awesome, so good,
29:43
Speaker 2: it is so good.
29:44
Speaker 1: That wasn't something I just like literally just start that,
29:47
Speaker 1: just like, this is what's creating now in your nation.
29:52
Speaker 2: Yep, we'll go figure again.
29:54
Speaker 1: So in got I'm getting goosebumps today.
29:58
Speaker 2: Tell because so that's my truth, that's my odometer. That's
30:03
Speaker 2: my It tells me that I know when someone says
30:05
Speaker 2: something else that it's it's the truth, that is the
30:09
Speaker 2: way that it is, and that gives me I rely
30:12
Speaker 2: on that more than I'm going to rely on what
30:13
Speaker 2: I hear from the news or what I hear from
30:15
Speaker 2: anything else. I'll take that to the bank.
30:17
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, And that like that gets me excited because
30:21
Speaker 1: when we talk about collective energy, then that's just a
30:24
Speaker 1: prime example of what's happening, and it's happening before our eyes,
30:30
Speaker 1: like it's unfolding right now. The more I think about
30:34
Speaker 1: being a good steward of my money that's coming into
30:36
Speaker 1: me that I'm going to work for or I'm doing
30:39
Speaker 1: coaching sessions for, or I'm teaching classes for, how can
30:42
Speaker 1: I do this better? How can I have a better
30:45
Speaker 1: relationship with money that is contributing to a higher a
30:52
Speaker 1: level of financial abundance, And and so it's not just for me,
30:59
Speaker 1: it's for my neighbor, it's for my co workers, it's
31:02
Speaker 1: for the people in the other state. Like it's energy,
31:05
Speaker 1: and this is what people at some point hopefully will understand.
31:10
Speaker 1: Everything is energy, and we on an individual basis, what
31:15
Speaker 1: we do affects everything collectively, and the.
31:20
Speaker 2: Higher vibring of the higher we fly with that vibrational frequency,
31:24
Speaker 2: the more that we influence.
31:26
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was so good.
31:30
Speaker 2: It was so good.
31:31
Speaker 1: Looks, that was so good. That was a good one.
31:36
Speaker 1: So I go back and listen to this one because
31:38
Speaker 1: this was really good. I think I've been saying that
31:40
Speaker 1: after every video because best the goose bumps. Man, you
31:45
Speaker 1: better go listen to this again.
31:47
Speaker 2: I'm telling you, I'm serious about that stuff. It's just
31:52
Speaker 2: been proven to me way too many times, way too
31:54
Speaker 2: many times. Yeah, I just can't. I can't turn my
31:57
Speaker 2: I listened to the intuition and the body chills or
32:01
Speaker 2: the body bumps or the goosey or whatever you want
32:05
Speaker 2: to freaking call. And they have all kinds of miracle,
32:07
Speaker 2: miraculous names out there for everything.
32:10
Speaker 1: So we could run off with this, but we're gonna
32:14
Speaker 1: end this because go watch the next video because I'm
32:16
Speaker 1: gonna bring up another experience I had. So I'm gonna
32:21
Speaker 1: leave you hang. That's the cliffhanger, that's right. So we
32:27
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32:29
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32:32
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32:34
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32:40
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32:41
Speaker 1: Be sure to be brave and curatious, courageous and have
32:44
Speaker 1: these conversations with your friends, family, coworkers, and the person
32:47
Speaker 1: in the grocery line, because these are becoming common conversations
32:52
Speaker 1: and there are people who could benefit from what you're learning,
32:59
Speaker 1: and it to me it feels good to help others.
33:02
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33:06
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33:09
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33:12
Speaker 1: don't have to go teach, but you can be the
33:14
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33:18
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33:21
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33:25
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