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OFF THE RECORD: It's not my problem! · Flava Breakfast

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  Speaker 1: The Flavor Podcast Network.
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  Speaker 2: You're listening to Stacis Zura and Charlie's Off the Records
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  Speaker 2: your record.
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  Speaker 3: Welcome to Off the Record with a Zorra and Shalie.
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  Speaker 3: This is weird things you know, then don't get talked
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  Speaker 3: about on air. Things get a bit more juicy, get
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  Speaker 3: a bit more No da, I was gonna say naughty,
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  Speaker 3: but I'm like, oh yeah, just say that. It doesn't
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  Speaker 3: need to be like that. No, because this one, you
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  Speaker 3: know what, you're pushing me off.
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  Speaker 1: You I don't care you're putting me off.
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  Speaker 3: No, I I am. I'm a little bit pissed off
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  Speaker 3: because you know, when you try to keep your your
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  Speaker 3: name out of a situation. Oh my gosh, you try
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  Speaker 3: to go I'm gonna do the right thing.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I have been given information, but this is not this
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  Speaker 3: is not my thing. Yeah, the story is not right,
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  Speaker 3: it's not but it's.
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  Speaker 1: Not my story to tell. It's not my story to
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  Speaker 1: be involved with.
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  Speaker 2: But somehow you've been dragged into this.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yea yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah. And
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  Speaker 1: that's happened to me. That's that's happened to me.
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  Speaker 3: It's funny to me to hear stories about myself you know,
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  Speaker 3: because you're hearing about a story and you're like, but
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  Speaker 3: that story never happened, so it's just a story, do
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  Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Like that's a proper story. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: And that happened to me Basically I found something out
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  Speaker 3: and then, you know, I thought, I'm gonna I'm not
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  Speaker 3: sure I'm doing the right thing, but I'm actually gonna
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  Speaker 3: not say anything to this person. Maybe I should have
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  Speaker 3: said something to the person. That's too late now, too
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  Speaker 3: late now maybe decision not too.
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  Speaker 2: So how did you find out this person? How did
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  Speaker 2: you find out your name was? Like draked into this
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  Speaker 2: whole story.
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  Speaker 3: Well, it turned out that I got pulled the person
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  Speaker 3: that I tried to protect slash, you know, not the
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  Speaker 3: person that it was about. Okay, person that it was about.
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  Speaker 3: And I didn't tell them this thing I heard about them.
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  Speaker 3: They found out anyway that I knew and then and
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  Speaker 3: they hit me up. Ah see, bro is, Look, I
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  Speaker 3: can't give details because you know, there's actually laws guys
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  Speaker 3: with with radio where you can't actually say people's names
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  Speaker 3: because it's called deformation. So I cannot say who and
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  Speaker 3: not that.
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  Speaker 2: It had an opportunity to tell this person, right, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: like the first time you heard it, and if you.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not sure what good that would have brought. That's
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  Speaker 1: that's that's that's.
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  Speaker 2: Like backfight.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not sure it was a good deed.
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  Speaker 3: I was really conflicted about what to do with the
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  Speaker 3: information I had learned. And you know, some may argue
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  Speaker 3: that I should have maybe just told the person what
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  Speaker 3: I had.
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  Speaker 1: Heard, but I didn't know if it was true.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't know if there was any truth in what
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  Speaker 3: I had heard. I think I just thought, you know what,
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  Speaker 3: that I I have no idea whether that's true, So
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  Speaker 3: I'm just going to stay out of them.
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  Speaker 2: You always, you always do the right thing. If you
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  Speaker 2: don't know the facts.
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  Speaker 3: Why even why why do something? That's what That's what
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  Speaker 3: I thought. This is where gossip started, exactly. I don't
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  Speaker 3: know the fact.
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  Speaker 2: You didn't see it your own eyes, you didn't hear it,
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  Speaker 2: or you know, I mean, you have please to say.
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  Speaker 1: I hate I hate this sort of stuff as well.
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  Speaker 3: And if you're listening and you're thinking, I'm confused, well
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  Speaker 3: guess what so am I We're all confused. This shit
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  Speaker 3: is missy, like this is why gossip is missy. And
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  Speaker 3: I just think unless you are brave enough to talk
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  Speaker 3: to that person directly about it.
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  Speaker 1: Why are you talking to other people about it? You
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  Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like, it's like when.
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  Speaker 3: People say, oh, you know, she's gone off the rouse
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  Speaker 3: and she's you know, we have a friend that's that's
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  Speaker 3: going through some stuff at the moment.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so we just sit straight to her.
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  Speaker 3: You know, what good is it going to do if
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  Speaker 3: I'm talking about it with everyone else? Exactly, it's just gossiping.
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  Speaker 2: It doesn't hurt to just go up to the person
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  Speaker 2: and tell them, Yeah, you know what I mean, Like,
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  Speaker 2: that's always the right thing to do if you know
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  Speaker 2: this person or and you're calling this person your friend.
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  Speaker 2: I think that's the right thing to do at all times.
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  Speaker 2: Just hit it, tackle it straight on, man.
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  Speaker 3: But it's also moments, you know, it's it's missy moments
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  Speaker 3: in life. Maybe you've heard some gossip about someone or
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  Speaker 3: someone you know, blah blah blah blah. It's always those
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  Speaker 3: missy moments that really show people's true colors too. That's
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  Speaker 3: a big thing that I've taken away from from multiple
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  Speaker 3: situations I've been in over my life, is you know,
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  Speaker 3: you have a choice to be honest, especially when you've
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  Speaker 3: stuffed up, and sometimes just running it straight and admitting
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  Speaker 3: your wrongs is so much better and done so much
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  Speaker 3: better the more that, because the thing is, you lie once,
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  Speaker 3: you lie again, you like, and you dig it deeper
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  Speaker 3: and deeper. You're absolutely righty And I've been there, I've
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  Speaker 3: been on the on the end where I have lied
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  Speaker 3: to protect myself and it just it just gets messy, and.
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  Speaker 1: It does so moral of the story, mind your business,
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  Speaker 1: stay and business.
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  Speaker 3: Thanks for listening to Stay a Zorah and Charlie's Off
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