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Ep 76. Luxury Home Membership: The Simple Banking Hack That Rewires Your Money Mindset · The Manifestation Station

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You're listening to the Manifestation Station podcast.
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I'm your host Holly Edwards and together we can help create your magic.
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Hello and welcome back to another episode of the Manifestation Station.
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I'm your host Holly Edwards. Thank you for tuning back in and if you are with
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me in real time, yes, this podcast is a couple of days later than planned.
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But perhaps it is divine timing. Maybe what we're talking about today is going
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to drop into your lap, into your ears, through your headphones at the exact right moment.
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That's what I'm telling myself anyway. I've been incredibly busy.
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So I hope you're all still here and raring for this episode because I happen
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to believe that this is going to be an absolute corker of an episode.
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Now, the reason being, what do I get asked most as a manifesting coach?
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Well, I tell you what comes up repeatedly with my clients, my one-to-one clients
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on my DMs, people replying about the podcast is how do I manifest more money?
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How do I step into a money manifesting mindset?
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And it's very, it's very, it's a very, I was going to say it's very tricky one.
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That's the wrong terminology. I'm not going to say it's very tricky one.
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It's an interesting one because we talk about stepping into your future self's
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shoes and acting as though you already have the thing you want.
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So when people quite rightly say to me, but I don't have the money to do that
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at the moment, so therefore I can't go out and be my future self and buy all
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of these amazing things and book the holiday because I'm not that person.
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But it's more about rewiring your thoughts and your core beliefs.
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And normally a lot of these are built through your childhood,
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through how you were brought up, about how you were brought up to believe about
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money, if you were told money doesn't grow on trees or that you have to work
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really hard to receive money,
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or people like us just won't be millionaires.
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We won't be business CEOs.
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So it's about unraveling those kind of core beliefs and just rewiring them.
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And that is why today we are talking money we are talking money manifesting
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how do you manifest more money and.
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But what I'm actually calling it is Rich Woman Identity Hack.
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So it's the simple banking trick that changes how you feel about money.
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And I just want you to start tuning in to little reframes that you can make
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around money, which will bring you results, which will change the way that you
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perceive money and how you receive money and how you attract money.
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And there are now i have said this is rich woman identity hack so if there are
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any are if there are any guys listening today apologies this is for you as well
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it just worked well for me
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and my title but this could be which man identity hack which person identity
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tap and identity identity hack there we go,
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but it's it's for everyone this is for everyone now most of my listeners are
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women some are guys and you are most welcome very happy to have you here,
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thank you for coming back so we're talking about hacks.
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Reframes and perceptions around money and the way that we view money is a lot
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of the reason why sometimes we may block money why we may feel we are lacking
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in money or less abundant in money.
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And there are some really simple ways that you can teach your brain to reframe
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the way that you view it. And I promise you, this will give you results.
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This will give you results to help you attract more money in.
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So it's really simple. It's a really simple hack that I'm going to start you
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off with. And I think it's one of the most underrated manifestation tools I've come across recently.
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It's not vision boards. It's not affirmations. It isn't scripting.
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Whilst all of those things are absolute gold dust when we're manifesting,
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this is about your banking app.
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Yep, that is it. The thing that some of us or most of us avoid looking at.
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So you know when you're feeling like you've got bills flying out and you've
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got more leaving your account than you have coming in, this one is for you.
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The people that sometimes fear checking their bank balance or they feel disappointed
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checking their bank balance.
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So the thing that instantly triggers stress, guilt, anxiety,
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money panic, frustration or that sinking feeling in your stomach when you go
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to check your banking app.
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Today I want to show you how to start changing your relationship with money
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by changing the meaning attached to it.
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So what I would love for you to do, and I'm just going to tease you with here,
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you can rename your recurring bills.
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So bear with me, okay? This is the rich women identity hat.
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So instead of rent, so if you have a recurring payment for your rent or your
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mortgage, instead of rent or mortgage, we're,
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going to reframe this and we're going to rename it into something abundant and
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luxurious and lovely instead of calling it rent we are going to call it luxury home membership.
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Luxury home membership. That is what you're going to rename your recurring rent or mortgage bill.
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And you'll see where we're going with this because instead of gym membership,
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call it something like longevity investment, woman investment, personal investment.
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Instead of internet bill, call it business infrastructure.
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Can you see that we're naming them with luxury. We're naming them with power.
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We're naming them with something that is actually benefiting you.
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Not rent, that makes you go, oh, rent money's due. But how about my luxury home membership is due.
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My luxury home that I get to live in every month, that is a membership,
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a membership that you are proud to pay, a membership that you are proud to be
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in, luxury home membership. Okay.
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Your subconscious mind responds to meaning. So when you change the meaning, you change the emotion.
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And when you change the emotion, you change the energy around money.
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And energy matters. Energy matters so much when you're manifesting.
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And I've said this before. If I did a money episode, I actually think it might
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be last year. I'd have to scroll back. I don't know the number of it.
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I'd have to scroll back and have a look. but I did a money episode and I often
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talk about how I thank my bills when they come in.
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So rather than going, even if it's an unexpected car bill, rather than going,
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oh no, I've got a car bill or I've got to pay for new tires. I'm like, thank you.
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Thank you for my bougie car that drives me from A to B, that gets me somewhere
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safely in the warm, in the dry.
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And I really try and reframe my bills, I say thank you for the service that
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it's provided me rather than going, oh, my rent's gone, oh, my car bill's gone.
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It's just reframing. I promise you it will shift the energy in terms of how you think about money.
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So why does it work? Now, I'm going to give you a practical what do you call
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it, task in the minute to complete, but let's talk about something fascinating.
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Now, most of us think that money stress comes from numbers, but often it doesn't.
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It actually comes from the story attached to the numbers.
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So think about this for a minute. So let's say we've got two people and both
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of those people could spend £100.
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One feels excited, but the other one feels sick at the prospect.
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Same amount, different meaning.
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One thinks I've invested in myself and the other thinks I've lost 100 pounds.
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The number hasn't changed, but it's the story that has.
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And your brain is constantly creating the stories.
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You don't actually experience reality. Your experience, bear with me,
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your experience is your interpretation of reality.
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So that is huge because it means that we have more power than we think because
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if it's our brains that are constantly creating stories,
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those two people that had the 100 pounds, one feels excited,
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one feels that I've invested in myself, the other one feels sick and feels that I have lost 100 pounds.
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You're manifesting from a place of lack I have lost 100 pounds the other feels
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that they have put investment into themselves even if they've bought clothes or
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had their nails done or their hair done or bought something for their home they've
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invested in themselves it's a simple reframe but actually both realities are
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the same both have had the same experience of spending 100 pounds,
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but one interpreters one interprets it differently and that has honestly when
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you realize that you realize actually you have the power,
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to decide what stories you are writing or telling yourself or telling your subconscious and.
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And this is what I've noticed, and I call it the rich woman difference.
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Something I've noticed is that wealthy women often describe money differently,
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the way they talk about it, the way they perceive it.
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They don't necessarily spend it differently. I'm sure some do,
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but they think differently.
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So a rich woman, using my examples, they don't see their gym membership as an expense.
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They see it as maintaining their most valuable asset themselves.
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So she doesn't see a business coach as a cost.
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And I hear this a lot, like people say, oh, do you know what?
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I'd love to have some manifesting coaching, but I can't afford it right now.
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But the rich, wealthy mindset doesn't see a business coach as cost.
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They see it as acceleration. They see it as progress. They see it as an investment.
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And she doesn't see quality food as expensive. She sees it as fuel.
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Same money, different meaning, different stories, and meaning creates emotion.
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Emotion creates behavior and behavior creates results.
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And this is why two people can earn exactly the same income and have completely
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different relationships.
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With money one will feel abundant and the other one will feel broke,
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think about that for a minute and think about maybe how you are perceiving money
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or think about the stories that you are telling yourself telling your brain
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telling your subconscious around money think about that for a moment and the ways in which,
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you might operate on your money mindset and then,
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I'd love for us to play a game together so this is what I want you to do.
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I want you to imagine opening your bank app right now.
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So you don't have to do it. I just want you to, I've got the hiccups.
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You don't have to do it right now.
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Just imagine that you are opening your bank account right now.
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You scroll through your direct debits. I want you to visualize what emotions
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are naturally coming up to you.
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Seriously, really think about
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it. Pause and think. How do you normally feel? Do you feel resentment?
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Do you feel stressed, anxious, pressure, annoyance?
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Because these emotions are important clues. Maybe you're opening it feeling
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excited and happy and maybe you're already on that money mindset, which is amazing.
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But these emotions are important clues. They are showing you where your money stories live.
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Now imagine we start rewiring those stories together.
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So you're not pretending, you're not lying, you are just choosing a more powerful interpretation.
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Because here's the thing, right, that the rent payment isn't just rent.
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It is the roof over your head. It is your safe space. It is the warmth. It is the comfort.
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It's the place where your dreams are being built.
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So why not call it luxury home membership or dream home fund or lifestyle investment,
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suddenly it feels different doesn't it,
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so here's some examples I'm going to give you a load of examples feel free to
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steal them to use them honestly if they if they help your money mindset if they
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help you manifest money I am all for it you can steal them all,
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so let's have some fun with this so we'll go back rent or mortgage here are
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some ideas luxury home membership future dream home investment lifestyle upgrade subscription.
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Gym membership could be longevity investment, strong future self-fund,
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confidence contribution.
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I love that. Isn't that amazing though? Gym membership. You know,
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I used to pay my gym membership. I went, oh no, got to pay my gym.
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Oh, if I had called it longevity investment or a strong future self-fund or
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confidence contribution, I just feel like I'd be buzzing.
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Like it's also a visual reminder seeing that that that,
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bill renamed is a visual tool to help you click into that,
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feeling of abundance and to reframe and retell those stories around money I
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just think they instantly sound like great and I think the one that I love the
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most is luxury home membership,
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you have been invited into this exclusive membership club how lucky that you
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get to pay your money for your luxury home membership.
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So how about other things? How about an internet bill could be business infrastructure.
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It could be success support system.
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It could be global connection network.
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How about a phone bill?
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We could rename that as opportunity line. How about this one,
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abundance communication system.
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I love that one. Personal brand infrastructure. These are just luxurious,
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abundant names that just make me want to pay them.
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Yes, please. Let me pay my abundance communication system bill. Thank you very much.
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How about a car payment? Food and vehicle.
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Dreamy. Mobility investment. Life expansion fund. Dreamy.
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How about petrol or fuel? How about freedom fuel?
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Adventure fund. Oh, I love that one. Opportunity energy.
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How about your grocery bill? Actually, let's not call them bills.
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I'm not going to call them bills anymore. Let's just say groceries. Health wealth fund.
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Abundance pantry. I want to pay for an abundance pantry. That sounds absolutely delicious.
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Future self-nutrition.
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God, honestly, I'm just, I'm going to go through my,
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banking app after this and make sure that everything, all of my direct debits
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all of my payments that are regular I'm going to rename them or even you know
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even this even if this isn't in your banking app when you,
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say I've just paid for groceries I've got to go and get groceries just say I'm
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going to get my future self-nutrition oh honestly it can just be in the way
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that you talk the way that you
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think or the way that you name them on your banking app how about therapy,
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I know many people that are like very hesitant to pay for therapy How about
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mental wealth investment instead? Inner peace fund.
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That's fantastic, isn't it? How about emotional mastery program? Love that one as well.
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If you're buying books, we can call them wisdom investment, self expansion fund, growth library.
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Now you can use any of these but you can see that I've just come up with ideas
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that feel kind of suited they feel,
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they feel whimsical and they feel delicious and delightful but you can change
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any of yours now like you can change it to something that resonates with you,
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now nothing has changed financially but can you feel the difference,
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everything has shifted everything has shifted Even as I'm reading them aloud
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and as I was researching some examples of what I could give to you to reframe
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and rename, I was like, I feel lifted.
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I could feel my energy has shifted.
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And this is the story I tell myself. I actually started noticing this years
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ago that whenever I spent money on something exciting, I felt good.
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But whenever I spent money on something practical, I would feel this resistance.
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And then one day I thought, why?
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Why am I feeling resistance? Why does one expense feel exciting and the other
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one is annoying? and the answer was just simply the meaning that was attached to it.
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So I had myself accidentally labelled some things as fun and others as burdens,
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and yet many of the boring or what we would perceive to be boring expenses were
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actually supporting my dream life
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and this is what I've realized more and more and I often use the car
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unexpected car bills or your car MOT or servicing
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often use this as an example I can't tell you how much I have reframed those
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expenses I used to dread them I used to feel resentment around them
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but now I just feel grateful I agree I feel grateful for the service that they're giving me I feel.
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Almost like I've tried to feel very powerful when I'm spending the money and
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but like you know this is for my car if you didn't have a car tomorrow so if
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you are a car owner and you didn't have a car tomorrow,
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or a phone I feel like you'd feel like everything was falling apart so actually
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it's like a constant that is constantly gifting a new life.
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Or what about, for example, you know, when I said these things and I'm using
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these speech marks, as I say, this boring, expensive, boring expenses, rather, you know,
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What about the electricity powering your home, the internet,
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or like now, like the internet allowing me to run my business,
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allowing me to run my one-to-one manifesting sessions, allowing me to record
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this podcast and distribute to all of you lovely people.
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The internet allows me to run my business. The food from my grocery shop nourishes my body.
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The petrol, the fuel getting me where I want to go in life.
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And the things I complained about were actually serving me, maybe even more
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than any other expenses.
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And that reframe, let me tell you how much it has changed my mindset,
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my relationship with money and the way that I attract money.
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And what if every bill was evidence? So instead of seeing bills as proof of
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money leaving, what if they were evidence of a life being lived?
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Again, it's a reframe. So a gym payment means you're healthy enough to move your body.
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Aren't you lucky? Think of these people that maybe are unwell right now or unable to go to the gym.
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Your gym payment means you're healthy enough to move your body.
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A mortgage or rent payment means you have a home, you have a place of safety.
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A phone bill means that you're connected. A water bill means that you get clean
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running water or a lovely hot shower or a hot bath of an evening.
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Your grocery shop means that you have food on the table.
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So imagine if, I always think this, imagine if someone from 100 years ago looked at your banking up,
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they would probably think you were unbelievably wealthy, not because of your
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balance, but because of your access and your opportunities, your resources and your lifestyle.
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You have a car, you have an internet bill, you have fresh running water,
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you lucky thing, you must be wealthy.
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And this is the energy of gratitude, isn't it? So don't switch off right now
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because I'm about to mention gratitude. Now, I know it always comes back to gratitude.
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We've heard it all before, but hear me out. Most people practice gratitude occasionally.
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Rich women, remember we're talking rich woman identity hack.
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Rich women, they practice appreciation daily.
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And since I have practiced gratitude daily my manifesting ability my lifestyle
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has improved dramatically,
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and this is this is the thing imagine opening your bank account and seeing evidence
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of everything supporting your life not the evidence of what is draining it,
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giving the gratitude for those payments which means that your lifestyle is already
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wealthy that changes your emotional frequency immediately and what happens,
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we always talk about your subconscious your subconscious notices your subconscious reacts to that,
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and that is where the switch happens the energy shift happens that's when you
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start manifesting more money a more attractive wealthy lifestyle.
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And something people rarely talk about, and it's a tricky one because I can
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understand why it comes up.
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You may be sitting here thinking, I would love to do this, but I am feeling
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like I'm struggling with money. I am struggling to pay the bills.
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So this is just one simple step that you can do to reframe.
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But I think we rarely talk about the fact that resentment can block receiving.
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So if every payment makes you angry or anxious, if every bill makes you stressed,
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if every transaction you make feels painful,
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what's happening is that you are training your brain to associate money with loss.
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And if money feels painful, what do you think your subconscious does?
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It recreates resistance around it.
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Because humans avoid pain. We do anything we can to avoid pain.
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So that's why some people end up sabotaging opportunities.
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They raise their prices and then panic straight after. They receive money and
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immediately feel guilty.
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They ask for more and then they shrink back. So the issue isn't really around money.
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It's around the emotional association and the story that you are telling yourself about money,
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so becoming the woman who handles wealth well,
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it isn't just about the rich woman identity isn't just about having money it's
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about how you hold money how you think about money how you talk about money.
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And it's the one who trusts themselves with their wealth because that's the
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woman you're really becoming or the man. Apologies.
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Not just someone with a bigger bank account, but it's someone,
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and that's what I want you to remember for the people that are thinking,
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yes, but I don't have the money to pay the bills, Holly.
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A rich person is not just someone with a bigger bank account.
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It is someone with a healthier relationship with abundance. And if we can attack
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that first, then I promise you everything else will unravel.
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So I'm going to give you a little challenge today. After this episode ends I
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want you to do something for me.
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Open your bank account, open your banking app and pick one recurring payment.
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So just one, that's your only task and I want you to rename it.
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So choose a name that feels empowering, a name that reflects what it's actually
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given you, one that resonates with you.
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You can use one of the examples that I've given you, or you can come up with
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your own or speak to chat GBT and say, come up with a really good title that
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makes me feel abundant. And then I want you to notice what happens.
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Notice how it feels next month.
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Notice how it feels when that payment leaves your account and it has this new,
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luxurious, wealthy name.
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Notice if you stop dreading it because manifestation it's not always about giant
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huge milestone breakthroughs.
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Often more often than not is about tiny identity shifts tiny emotional shifts tiny energy shifts,
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and those tiny shifts create a completely different life one of abundance, one of wealth.
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And that is what I want for each and every one of you.
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So I will leave you with a final thought. But before I do that,
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I would love to ask a little favor.
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If you wouldn't mind, if you have enjoyed this episode, to either share it with
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a friend who's maybe struggling with money or paying bills. Like,
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come on, let's all get this together. Every single one of you has the power to manifest money.
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There is more than enough to go around and you can absolutely be successful and wealthy.
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So please share this with someone. I would also love to ask a favour and if
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dm me i'm at the holly edwards or at the dot manifestation station.
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So final thoughts i want to leave you with remember money is constantly moving
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that's what it's designed to do it flows it circulates it supports,
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so the goal isn't to cling to every pound the goal is to become the woman who
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trusts herself with money,
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the woman who sees value the woman who sees possibility the woman who knows
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that wealth begins long before the numbers change it begins with your identity,
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so this week I invite you to a replay to play with me rename a bill,
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rewrite a story shift the meaning watch what happens and I promise you just
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this tiny tiny little act will have huge money ripples in your life,
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and watch what happens guys thank you so much for listening today
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and remember your future rich woman self isn't waiting at the end of the journey
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she's being created in the small moments even in something as ordinary as your banking app,
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and remember as always like I
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always tell you you're exactly where you're meant to be right now goodbye.