Latest / The Dr Louise Newson Podcast / 32 - Tackling myths and misinformation in menopause
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- 0:00Amy Alcon is the guest on my podcast today.
- 0:03She's an author and a scientific writer specializing in applied
- 0:06science. Her most recent book is Going
- 0:10Menopostale, and she's really unpicked a lot of the evidence.
- 0:14She's dispelling a lot of myths about the confusion between
- 0:17natural and synthetic hormones, and she really talks with a very
- 0:21personal experience as well. It's a really great book and
- 0:26it's a brilliant conversation for you to listen to.
- 0:31So Amy, I'm really excited to have you, even though you're
- 0:35over in US. But I've been reading your book
- 0:37the last few days and I just love it.
- 0:41I love the way you think, I love the way you write.
- 0:44I love your inquisitive nature. So just before we talk too much
- 0:49about the book, tell me a bit about you and why you even wrote
- 0:52this book. Well, I have had the luck.
- 0:55I've been an applied behavioral science writer, so my writing, I
- 0:59give advice, but it's informed by science.
- 1:02And in 2007, I met Sandra Greenland, who's one of the top
- 1:05epidemiologist and biostatisticians in the world,
- 1:09and I was just desperate. I'm always desperate to be
- 1:11better at assessing research. And this guy is so generous.
- 1:15He coached me since 2007 and how to read and critically evaluate
- 1:19research, and he goes after methodological error and fraud
- 1:24and abuse in medicine. And so he sent me all these
- 1:27articles and papers about the horrible, horrible effects of
- 1:33care that is not based in good evidence.
- 1:35And because of that, when I have an issue at the doctor, I don't
- 1:40go to the doctor and say, like I with my hot flashes, I'm
- 1:43uncomfortable. What should I do?
- 1:45I go to the research base. I learn what, you know, what the
- 1:49research says. And then I go to the doctor.
- 1:51And that is very protective. And and This is why I wrote the
- 1:54book for other women because most women can't do that.
- 1:58They're not these huge nerds. I read science day and night.
- 2:02And so we all deserve the evidence based care that you you
- 2:06know that that that you are a source of you're my hero.
- 2:08And, you know, you're one of the few people in in this area that
- 2:12I actually just fully respect. Oh, thank you.
- 2:15And it's interesting because I'm not you.
- 2:17I'm very scientific. I love reading papers, you know,
- 2:22quite meaty scientific papers. But I also really like evidence
- 2:25based medicine. And medicine is an art and a
- 2:28science. You know, I feel very strongly
- 2:30that the art form is individualizing care, but it has
- 2:33to be based on evidence. And many years ago, like 22
- 2:38years ago, I wrote a book on evidence based medicine for GPS.
- 2:42Actually it was called Hot Topics for the MRCGP.
- 2:45And the MRCGP is the membership of the Royal College of
- 2:48Physicians. So it's an exam that we take as
- 2:50GPS over here, but I realized that a lot of people are not
- 2:54quite so geeky as me. They have a better social life
- 2:56and they read other things. And so as busy doctors, you
- 3:00often read like the top line of other sort of highlights of
- 3:03guidelines, and you never read the papers.
- 3:05Whereas when I read the papers, I'm not just reading the
- 3:08science, I'm learning about the authors, what conflicts they
- 3:11might have, what other agenda they might have, who's, who's
- 3:14paid them? Is farmer behind them.
- 3:17Like what sort of paper is it? And, and what are the numbers in
- 3:21the studies and all sorts of things, which is really builds
- 3:24up this picture. So I read the first book and
- 3:27then I did three more books after which were just like, you
- 3:30know, 1st edition, second edition, so that when people
- 3:33were like treating someone with diabetes, I would be unpicking
- 3:38all the papers and just just summarizing what they were.
- 3:41And, and I've always worked like that and I really enjoy it.
- 3:43But I realized a lot of people don't.
- 3:45And it's not just the doctors. It's like you say, patients
- 3:48don't either. And then they go to a doctor,
- 3:51they don't know how much science they've read.
- 3:53They don't know how many papers they've read.
- 3:55They know they've got a medical qualification, but it's very
- 3:58difficult to know, isn't it? And so to have access to
- 4:02information as a patient is really crucially important.
- 4:06In our training here, medical education in the US, it sounds
- 4:10like there's training in how to read and critically evaluate
- 4:12studies there. And I write about the three big
- 4:15myths in our medical care. And 1 is that doctors base your
- 4:18treatment according to evidence. And that's not true because here
- 4:22in medical schools, it's it's more a moral failing.
- 4:26They do not teach doctors doctors how to read and evaluate
- 4:30papers. So doctors don't read papers
- 4:32because they don't know how. And then to be fair, at an HMO
- 4:36like mine, they see patients every 20 minutes and so I might
- 4:40read a night. You're a nerd too, but but you
- 4:43people want to go home at night. And I can accept and understand
- 4:46that as much as I think it is a moral failing for doctors to not
- 4:49educate themselves in the ways medical schools have have failed
- 4:53them. Yeah, and it's interesting.
- 4:54So I've, I've worked 25 years ago when I trained as AGPI was
- 4:59in hospital medicine before and I worked full time and I didn't
- 5:02have time to read many papers then.
- 5:04But then I worked part time as AGP so I could be flexible
- 5:07around my children. But when I wasn't working as
- 5:10AGPI was doing medical writing. So I was writing articles that
- 5:15was based on evidence for healthcare professionals, but
- 5:18also for people as well to learn more.
- 5:20So I've had a lot of blue sky thinking time.
- 5:23I've been really privileged with that.
- 5:25And then I, when my, I had my third child, it was only working
- 5:28one day a week as AGP and it was really hard.
- 5:31Like I'd come home after seeing maybe 60 patients and I would
- 5:35literally my children would know not to go near me on a Monday
- 5:37night, you know, I was broken. But then the rest of the days I
- 5:41would be reading articles, guidelines and papers and then I
- 5:44would be summarizing them. And if you're, if you're writing
- 5:46about it, you have to know the evidence.
- 5:48You have to know it inside out, back to front.
- 5:50You can't write something unless you can support it by knowledge.
- 5:54And then I'd go back to the practice the following Monday
- 5:56and I'd say, oh, hi, guys, what have you been doing all week?
- 5:58And they've been just seeing patients.
- 5:59They would be having my Monday every single day.
- 6:02So of course, they're not going to read.
- 6:04But medicine does advance and change.
- 6:07And things that I learned at medical school, very different.
- 6:10The drugs that are available are very different now.
- 6:12You know, I qualified 30 years ago.
- 6:14So things have changed and some doctors just haven't advanced in
- 6:18the same way with their knowledge.
- 6:20I have to tell you, you'll know how horrible this is better than
- 6:22anyone. The head of gynecology at the
- 6:25big, massive West LA facility had an appointment with me about
- 6:29two months ago because my my gynecologist, who's great, is
- 6:33off. She told me the circa 2002
- 6:36advice from the discredited Women's Health Initiative study
- 6:39that I should taper off estrogen at 60 because it causes, and I'm
- 6:4461, it causes breast cancer and Alzheimer's and all this.
- 6:48And I was so shocked. You know, here's this woman.
- 6:51She told me she read the science.
- 6:53Yeah. No, you, you haven't.
- 6:54You not only that, you haven't even read the practice bulletins
- 6:56from the Menopause Society from 2017, 2022 that say we don't
- 7:02have a stopping role. We have what you said,
- 7:04individualized care. So important, you know, we look
- 7:07at a woman's health and then monitor her.
- 7:10And that's why you, you can, if you initiate estrogen right at
- 7:13menopause or within six years, you know, for cardiology, for
- 7:17cardiovascular health, you know, you can take it throughout your
- 7:20lifetime if you remain healthy. And so you have it in your body
- 7:24protecting your bones at 79 when you're likely to fracture.
- 7:28And then you're not left for years, from 60 to 80, without
- 7:32this, while your bones, you know, become more and more
- 7:35fragile. I think, well, I'm going to ask
- 7:38you, it's really important based on your book as well.
- 7:40So I've got teenage children who are girls and I've got an
- 7:44elderly mother and my younger children can get hormones very
- 7:49easily. They can go and ask for
- 7:50contraception whether they need it or not.
- 7:52They might just want it for their skin or their mood or
- 7:55whatever. They can go and ask it and I can
- 7:56pretty much guarantee if they wanted it they'd come out the
- 8:00same day with a prescription of hormones.
- 8:02My elderly mother has been on HRT for about 30 odd years now,
- 8:07maybe a bit longer. She has been phoned up by her GP
- 8:11last week to tell her she needs to stop it now.
- 8:15They're on different hormones, say the hormones of
- 8:18contraception are not the same as the hormones my mother's on.
- 8:21So just just tell me with your knowledge and research which
- 8:24hormones are safer. Oh, OK.
- 8:26So transdermal estradiol, that's basically an estrogen sticker
- 8:32that is the that is the safest form of estrogen to take.
- 8:36And it again, if you you need to initiate it as close to
- 8:40menopause as possible. So menopause being 12 months
- 8:43without a period and, and this is healthier than the oral
- 8:48estradiol and you need less of it.
- 8:50So oral estradiol can do all sorts of bad things like raising
- 8:54clotting factors because it goes straight to your liver.
- 8:57It's called first pass hepatic effect.
- 8:59That's fancy, fancy talk for, you know, you, you take it
- 9:03orally goes to your liver. Your liver is very good at
- 9:06getting rid of stuff from your body.
- 9:08So you need a huge amount and then transdermal estradiol
- 9:11because it goes to your bloodstream, there's a
- 9:13negligible amount amount, trace amount that gets to your liver
- 9:16and so it can't elevate those clotting factors.
- 9:19This is very important and doctors don't know this.
- 9:21I know because in one of the other substitute gynecologist
- 9:24just told me transdermal could cause me to have a heart attack
- 9:28or a stroke. And it OK, that's
- 9:30physiologically implausible to impossible, you know, and you
- 9:34know, and the stroke thing, my blood pressure is 99 / 62.
- 9:37You know, I'm not going to have a stroke.
- 9:39OK, let's look at our whole health.
- 9:40And this is something I appreciate that you do where
- 9:42doctors don't Looking the patient is a system and being
- 9:46the creativity, the art of medicine you're talking about,
- 9:49you need to have the deep trans transdisciplinary knowledge to
- 9:53be able to look at what is the actual underlying effect.
- 9:56And of course, one of the other myths of medicine I bring out is
- 10:00that the doctors are not trained in diagnostic reasoning.
- 10:03So this is a big problem because what they do is that you come in
- 10:07with a symptom. Now, we're empathetic as humans.
- 10:09We evolve that way. And so the doctor wants to ease
- 10:12your suffering. Doctors are not terrible people.
- 10:14There's a sociopath in every profession, but they want to
- 10:17help you. They just don't know how you
- 10:20know. And so if you treat a patient
- 10:23the way doctors do with their fear, their unwarranted fear of
- 10:26hormones, give a patient antidepressants, you know, and
- 10:29there are patients who need that, you know, who, who can't
- 10:32take hormones. If you give the patient
- 10:34antidepressants, what you're doing is leaving their breasts
- 10:37and uterus unprotected, their endometrium, their uterine
- 10:40lining they're being on. They're, they're not being
- 10:43protected against cancer, breast cancer, uterine cancer, They're
- 10:47not having their, their, you know, their bones helped.
- 10:50So you're treating the symptom of hot flashes and these do the
- 10:54antidepressants do, but you're not, you're leaving so much of
- 10:58them not protected did not help. And it's just terrible.
- 11:02And it comes out of the lack of science, you know, in our
- 11:05medical care and the fact that our practice standards, they,
- 11:09they're not science based and doctors don't know.
- 11:12And, and I want to bring out one thing because since you, you're
- 11:14the antithesis of this in America, almost none of the
- 11:19gynecologists have any training whatsoever in menopause and
- 11:24perimenopause. They treat patients anyway,
- 11:26which is a violation of medical ethics.
- 11:29And then there are some experts and they've been trained by the
- 11:31Menopause Society and the training is a joke. 45 hours
- 11:37required of continuing medical Ed in Women's Health in general,
- 11:4115 of which must be in menopause and perimenopause.
- 11:44And then they take an online test and then they're experts.
- 11:47They're absolutely not. And I know this because I'm like
- 11:49a medical lie detector for science.
- 11:51They say things to me in these appointments.
- 11:53All I had 1010 gynecologists deny me that the increased dose
- 11:58of estrogen I needed. And they they just say all these
- 12:02things that are not scientific and I have to not come off like
- 12:04the irritating know it all because that doesn't help you
- 12:06get the drug you need. But it's very difficult, but
- 12:09also like what I was trying to also tease out with my children
- 12:12if they if they did, they don't. But if they did contraceptive,
- 12:16then that's synthetic hormones. It's not even the same as my
- 12:19mother who takes body identical estradiol, progesterone,
- 12:23testosterone are the same structure as the hormones we
- 12:26produce. Whereas in in the book you're
- 12:29very clear, especially talking about the synthetic progestins,
- 12:32but also ethanol, estradiol, the conjugated equine estrogens.
- 12:36So the estrogens have been used in older types of hormones, but
- 12:39they're still used in contraception.
- 12:41So I find it's like double standards.
- 12:44It's fine to have a contraceptive that's synthetic
- 12:47with risks, but people don't talk about those risks.
- 12:50They're younger people. Whereas any type of natural
- 12:54hormone everyone always presumes has got risks associated with
- 12:58even though they haven't. As many of you know, I'm
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- 13:55The irony of this, and this is where the art of medicine comes
- 13:58in. So you have the deep
- 14:00transdisciplinary knowledge and you see that this is ludicrous.
- 14:04You know, I always tell women, you know, that, you know, I had
- 14:06the copper IUD, which is just copper blocking the little sperm
- 14:11from reaching the egg, you know, and, and so, and this is so
- 14:14important because, you know, OK, there can be risk perforation,
- 14:18everything. But those risks, to me, if you
- 14:21look at the actual trade-offs, those risks are preferable to
- 14:25the risks of taking these synthetics.
- 14:28You know, we talked about the Mirena mustache or women who
- 14:30have the Mirena IUD. There are all these viralizing,
- 14:33you know, male side effects that can happen to you.
- 14:36And you know, why would you take something that has health risks
- 14:39when you can use the copper IUD that has no chemicals in it,
- 14:43that just has a reaction that kills the sperm?
- 14:45Yeah, I think because people don't know and often it's the
- 14:48patients don't know, but also the doctors haven't been
- 14:51educated the difference. And and I didn't know for many
- 14:54years because no one sat down and spoke to me.
- 14:56And if you don't really know, you're not really understanding
- 14:59the difference in the chemistry. So I think this is where your
- 15:02book is so good and interesting because it talks about the
- 15:05science, but we've through it. You've got your own personal
- 15:08journey as well. And we all change when we
- 15:11experience something that's definitely for sure, whether
- 15:14we're doctors or patients, we become more knowledgeable and we
- 15:18also know how hard it is sometimes to access the medical
- 15:21system. So your your book does a lot,
- 15:24but it must have taken you a long time to write the book and
- 15:27research, didn't it? Your deep dive.
- 15:29I I did this thing we're not supposed to do.
- 15:31As an author, I live, I'm still living off my savings.
- 15:34I'm running out because this was such a mission.
- 15:36What had happened was I went to my my healthcare provider, to my
- 15:40gynecologist, you know, and I wanted to get oral micronized
- 15:44progesterone for the wonderful work of Geraldine Pryor, MD, the
- 15:48endocrinologist and clinician. And they on the formulary only
- 15:53had Metroxy progesterone acetate, the synthetic knockoff
- 15:57that raises your risk of breast cancer.
- 15:59It is harmful to the brain. It's harmful to the
- 16:01cardiovascular system. And so I fought 3 battles with a
- 16:05woman who's now the associate director of the hospital, former
- 16:08head of gynecology. They treated me with respect
- 16:10instead of blowing bring me off, they listen and they allow the
- 16:13the the progesterone, the dose I want to which they don't give in
- 16:17the US for no scientific reason because we don't know how we
- 16:20metabolize steroid hormones. And so you need to make sure you
- 16:23have enough to protect your uterus and breasts against
- 16:27cancer. And it's also very helpful
- 16:29healthy drug that promotes GABA and sleep and mental Wellness.
- 16:33And so this is not a drug where you're in danger.
- 16:35It goes up 10 times the amount in a menstrual cycle in
- 16:38pregnancy. Women are not dropping dead from
- 16:39progesterone. Quite the.
- 16:42And so when I did this because I'm naive, I'm from the Midwest,
- 16:45and we're kind of like Pollyanna's.
- 16:47And I said, OK, so now I've showed you the science, and now
- 16:50will you put this on the formulary and give this to all
- 16:53women? I think there's almost a laugh.
- 16:55No, they wouldn't. And to me, this was like the
- 16:58equivalent of, you know, I got the care.
- 17:00And it would be like watching a stream of women, an endless
- 17:03stream, walk into an open manhole and saying nothing.
- 17:06And so I did this book. I call it the stupidest, most
- 17:10horrible, and most important thing I've ever done, because my
- 17:13joke is that I forgot to take endocrinology when I forgot to
- 17:16go to Med school. I'd learn all this.
- 17:18But I did this book as a mission because I thought, how dare you
- 17:22leave women unprotected when you know this.
- 17:25You've been trained by Sandra Greenland, You have the capacity
- 17:27to write this book in a way others don't, you know?
- 17:30And I include all this stuff on dietary science and everything.
- 17:33The most efficient and powerful ways to eat and exercise doable
- 17:36by mere mortals. And, and so I put this all
- 17:39together, but it was really, really horrible because you have
- 17:43to do what you're saying. You verify the science.
- 17:45What I love about you is that, you know, you look at you, you
- 17:49look at the, the, our people are, are The Who are the
- 17:52scientists. And I look at that and what I
- 17:54see basically is that every scientist, the ones I respect,
- 17:58there, there's some way in which they are selling their point of
- 18:01view a little too unscientifically.
- 18:03And it is, it depresses me, but I understand that we're human
- 18:06and people do this. But I look for it always and
- 18:09everybody. And I look for also big famous
- 18:12researchers. This woman, J Julie Kim, not to
- 18:14call her out particularly, but she's famous.
- 18:16She has a paper on how progesterone causes breast
- 18:20cancer. What that OK, wait a second.
- 18:23This, this doesn't make physiological sense.
- 18:25So I go and I read her paper and I look, I always look at the
- 18:28citations in the back. So the citations for this, they
- 18:31all say medroxyprogesterone acetate.
- 18:34And that's what those papers are about.
- 18:36And so this gets spread. It's like a game of toxic
- 18:38telephone. So in, in our, when you get a
- 18:40prescription here for progesterone, you'll get this,
- 18:43this scary sheet with it. This going to kill you Here is
- 18:46how, because it's for medroxyprogesterone acetate, not
- 18:49progesterone. That's how big the confusion is
- 18:51and how terrible it is. Yeah.
- 18:53And it is confusing because if you were use the word estrogen,
- 18:57it can include ethanol, estadiol, it can include equine
- 19:01estrogens and estadiol and estriol and estrogen.
- 19:04So there's lots of different types of estrogen under the word
- 19:07estrogen. But the word progesterone is
- 19:10only progesterone. But that's where we're really
- 19:12careful using the word. In the US, it's more progestins.
- 19:16We say progesterdins but it's not progesterone and there is
- 19:19this big confusion and like you say, priors work is amazing
- 19:24because she has worked so hard for so many years and I was
- 19:28reading the other day that she applied for so many
- 19:32universities. I think there was 9 times to try
- 19:34and get into medical school as a woman and like her determination
- 19:38was huge, but she's still people like raise their eyebrows and
- 19:43don't want to think about progesterone.
- 19:45So The Who have got a list of essential medicines and
- 19:49obviously there's antibiotics on there.
- 19:51There's really important drugs, there's insulin.
- 19:53But when you look at hormones, they only list the
- 19:58contraceptives and medioxy progesterone.
- 20:00They don't have progesterone, they don't have estudiol, They
- 20:03certainly don't have testosterone.
- 20:05And, you know, I think this is a real emission because it shows
- 20:08this sort of ignorance between these different hormones.
- 20:11And we've got to understand the difference because some are
- 20:15associated with risks. The synthetic ones, the natural
- 20:19hormones are associated with lots of benefits.
- 20:21And as you say in your book, the benefits to symptom control, but
- 20:25more importantly, the benefits to future health as well.
- 20:28Exactly. And then another thing in my
- 20:30book, I wrote the book and the the longitudinal research was
- 20:33not out on testosterone. I now I'm taking it.
- 20:36I had to write my own prescription in the
- 20:38pharmacokinetics for somebody very high up in gynecology
- 20:43because they don't know this. They have the male, the Androgel
- 20:47on their formulary. And this men have 20 to 25%
- 20:51thicker skin, more sebum. And because I know how to take
- 20:55this, I have, I have to take it twice a day, you know, every 12
- 20:58hours. I have to divide this, get it in
- 21:00a little, get in a little container within 30 seconds
- 21:03because it evaporates and I put it on with the back of it like
- 21:06an eye drop of the individual eye drop thing that I use, you
- 21:10know, and I mean, I'm not, I'm not getting an exact dose.
- 21:13And this is so terrible. And this is the, how deep the
- 21:18lack of evidence in, in our medical care goes where, you
- 21:22know, they don't even know that you need to have cream.
- 21:25You know, they should have cream and they're called oral
- 21:28syringes, which is they're not oral and you don't inject them,
- 21:31but it's a precise dose for women.
- 21:33Cream is better with women's skin.
- 21:34And I know because I've read your research on I've read your
- 21:37papers on testosterone. I was looking at one the other
- 21:40day when I was writing the pharmacokinetics up and, and I
- 21:43mean, this is, this is egregious.
- 21:45We don't even have form approved in, in here in America and you
- 21:49have to have hypoactive sexual desire disorder.
- 21:51And by the way, before I did the medical stuff, I read the papers
- 21:54on this because I'm an evolutionary psychology expert
- 21:58and it doesn't really seem to work for that.
- 22:00But you have to make up this story about your sad sex life in
- 22:03order to get it, you know, because you have to get, you
- 22:06have to look at what is it allowed to be prescribed for by
- 22:08the menopause society. And I, you know, I'm not a
- 22:11dishonest person, but I'm going to lie for my, for the benefit
- 22:14of my health if I have to, to get the prescriptions I need.
- 22:18I have a real issue with HSDD, which is hyperactive sexual
- 22:21desire disorder, because it says that women have to be severely
- 22:25psychologically distressed for at least six months before being
- 22:30able to make that, you know, have that diagnosis.
- 22:33Now, as a doctor, I didn't let my patients become severely
- 22:37psychologically distressed with anything.
- 22:39So and, and our guidelines and a lot of other guidelines say that
- 22:43if women have reduced sexual desire, we can consider
- 22:45testosterone, which is a lot nicer and it's a lot better.
- 22:49But it's not all just about having sex with a partner.
- 22:52So many of my patients are told by doctors, well, you haven't
- 22:54got a partner, therefore you don't need a libido, therefore
- 22:56you don't need testosterone. And I also think as a doctor, I
- 22:59shouldn't be judgmental. If people want to improve their
- 23:03libido, I'm not going to ask them like what what they're
- 23:06doing with their improved sexual desire.
- 23:08It's up to them. It feels really like going back
- 23:11in time to have this very rigid criteria to say whether someone
- 23:16can or cannot have a hormone that affects every cell in our
- 23:19body. It just seems weird.
- 23:21It's. Paternalistic, to use that word.
- 23:23And The thing is the real reason I wanted it.
- 23:25I have attention deficit disorder, which I I hate it.
- 23:29I don't have a deficit of attention.
- 23:30I have too much, you know, all over the place and I need to
- 23:33focus. Adderall helps me with that.
- 23:35But you know, in in menopause, you have a decrease in
- 23:38norepinephrine and dopamine. And these are some of the things
- 23:41that are already, you know, not not in sufficient quantity.
- 23:45And those of us who have this. And so in menopause, I had, you
- 23:49know, really terrible memory problems, other problems and
- 23:52estradiol help, but the testosterone I've just been
- 23:55taking it for maybe it's been 3 weeks.
- 23:58Oh my God, I'm back to being myself again.
- 24:01I saw that and I had to make up the story about how like my sad
- 24:05sex life. And along the lines of what you
- 24:08said, I want to point something out to women.
- 24:10You know, I I have a whole section on vibrators in my book.
- 24:14You know that that women, you know, to to tell them, you know,
- 24:17it is wonderful. Give yourself pleasure.
- 24:20You know that if you have sort of stigma against that in your
- 24:23head here, here's why you might rethink that, you know, and and
- 24:26to to get the pleasure throughout your life that you
- 24:29can have, you know, from the marvelous little couture, we
- 24:33call it, you guys say clitoris, clitoris here.
- 24:37And and, you know, this is stopping women from having the
- 24:40full rich lives they can all this this sort of prejudice
- 24:43against, you know, the, the drugs that comes from a lack of
- 24:46scientific evidence and fear defensive medicine, the practice
- 24:51of medicine to defend a doctor's license, avoid getting
- 24:54complaints, you know, and prioritizing that over the
- 24:57patients. And the reason you have to do
- 24:59that is if you're ignorant, if you know the medicine that you
- 25:01can confidently prescribe for your patient and let them know
- 25:05what the risks are and you know, the risks, if there are risks,
- 25:08that's, that's, that's real, that that's doctoring how it
- 25:11should be. And it's not what we get for the
- 25:13most part. Yeah, for sure.
- 25:15And actually there's a lot of risks in a lot of other
- 25:18medicines that I prescribe as a doctor compared to hormones, you
- 25:21know, and there's not nearly as much discussion out in the
- 25:24public about risks of antidepressants or risk because
- 25:26of antibiotics or risk of blood pressure treatment.
- 25:29It's just mad thing how it's been shown into the space of.
- 25:33Hormones. Yeah, absolutely.
- 25:34So show me your book. I know you've got the blood
- 25:36there. Just hold it up.
- 25:37I forgot. To sell my book, This is going
- 25:41menopausal what you and your doctor need to know about the
- 25:44the real science of menopause and perimenopause.
- 25:47And it's written in this everyday language because I
- 25:50needed to tell women the science without it being in this medical
- 25:53ease that where it's impenetrable.
- 25:56So what what's been happening this this is so I I have joy
- 26:00every time I get these messages. Women are going to their doctors
- 26:04and sometimes screenshotting science in the book and using it
- 26:07to get the evidence based medicine where they're getting
- 26:10the hormones in sufficient amount, the right kind.
- 26:13And that that's just so beautiful.
- 26:15It's so beautiful. I think it's giving people more
- 26:17confidence, actually, because your book is based on evidence
- 26:21as well as opinion. That's really important so
- 26:24people can learn from it and you write in such an easy way for
- 26:27people to understand. So and I always ask for three
- 26:31take home tips, but what 3 reasons are there why people
- 26:35should buy your book? What are the three things you
- 26:37hope that people will learn and be able to act on from your
- 26:40book? Well, I tell.
- 26:41Them you know the the actual science in contrast to what they
- 26:45prescribe here. I also tell you beyond hormones,
- 26:49because I'm transdisciplinary, I know the evidence across many
- 26:53areas from decades since 1995 of reading and dietary science and
- 26:58exercise, the most powerful and efficient ways to exercise.
- 27:02And they are not based on nutrition research, which is the
- 27:04crap fest of research where they ask you, did you have a
- 27:07doughnut? What did you eat last month?
- 27:09I can't tell you what I had yesterday.
- 27:11And so these are doable by mere mortals.
- 27:14I exercise, you can see my muscles.
- 27:16I'm a lazy hedonistic pig. And so I, you know, I exercise
- 27:2016 minutes a week with weights to get like this, you know, and,
- 27:24and so you can do that. I've weights on my floor.
- 27:26I'm not going to go to a gym, you know, regular people, you
- 27:29get a gym membership, you don't go, then you feel bad because
- 27:32you didn't go. Then you eat cookies because you
- 27:33feel bad. So we're not going to have that
- 27:36cycle. And then the other thing that I
- 27:38do in the book is to talk about aging at the very end and how
- 27:43women are stigmatized as we age and how ludicrous this is.
- 27:48We're powerhouses. I'm so much better as a human
- 27:51being at 61 than I ever was. And note that I talk about my
- 27:54age all the time. I will tell you my ages
- 27:57insistently as somebody who went to Harvard will let you know
- 27:59that before you've licked your martini olive at a cocktail
- 28:02party because I don't accept the stigma.
- 28:05And if you're healthy, if you take the right hormones, use the
- 28:08right hormones, eat and exercise this way, protect your bones
- 28:12through eating and exercising this way, you can live, be old
- 28:16and be fabulous and have a new career and a new you.
- 28:20And menopause can be a beginning rather than the sad.
- 28:22Oh, the change. And we're not going to talk
- 28:24about it. And that that's why, by the way,
- 28:26my cover, I designed my cover and the title and everything.
- 28:30This is bold. It's like, we're not going to be
- 28:32all like, ladies bathroom colors here, you know, the pink and the
- 28:35flower or no, no, no, no broken fan.
- 28:38This is about the inexplicable rages women feel in
- 28:40perimenopause when they're not getting progesterone through
- 28:43cycles where they don't ovulate. And it's also about my outrage,
- 28:46the going menopausal at women being denied the care.
- 28:49And so this is all about bold. See, my earrings, these are,
- 28:52they're like $2.00. They're the size of coffee
- 28:54tables. I wear red lipstick.
- 28:56Here. I am.
- 28:57I'm 61. I'm fabulous.
- 28:59You're not going to ignore me. And that's how I'd like to see
- 29:01women go out into the world, you know, because we're all, we're
- 29:05old and powerful and fabulous. And if you have your health,
- 29:08you're more able to do that than anybody.
- 29:10Brilliant. What a great way to end.
- 29:12So thank you so much. It's been really enjoyable.
- 29:15Thank you.