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Episode #155: Learn, Implement, Grow · Tea Time w/Amie & Bev

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Hi, Welcome to tea sign with Amy and BEV. Good morning. How's
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your day going? Oh so far, so good. Stayed up a little
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late last night and and you know, it's like eleven thirty. My husband
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gets up at like four. I'm like, are you going to work tomorrow?
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No, So stayed up a little late and then uh, and then
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I got my wheel spinning because um, we're getting ready to go for vacation
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out of the country, so super excited. So anyway, by the time
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everybody here's this recording, I will have already have come back. So um.
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But that's where I'm at right now. Nice. Nice, that's in
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We we we had a wonderful, wonderful holiday. So just was wonderful with
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the kids and having fun and nice. Yeah, it was a good slow
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that's awesome. It is, um, I don't you know, there's not
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It's been pretty quiet in my world lately. UM. I even did a
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full moon ceremony the other last week, well two weeks ago. By the
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time you see this, and you know, I was talking about what things
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would you you know, want to release and going through that whole process,
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and and I was I'm like, what am I working on? What is
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it's coming up, but like it took me a little bit to get that
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flow. So I was like, wow, I must be doing pretty good
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here. So exciting nice, I was gonna say it. Really, the
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only thing that Stephen came up for me at all is one of the things
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that came up for me last night was I was being told that we drop
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all the labels, all the labels, all the labels, the labels of
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illness when we're searching for something, for an answer why we're having this problem
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or that problem. There is no problem, but we've heard so many things
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and we've said so many things, and when we talk to someone else,
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now we're in their vibrational frequency and we're having an understanding with where they're at.
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Maybe we're like, oh yeah, that really sucks, or you know,
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just going along with the whole conversation. But it's to let go the
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labels because none of it. It's what's created most of our stress. So,
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I mean, it seems like something so big, but this is the
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beginning of where I'm at with that, And we talked about it not that
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long ago, too, is drop at the labels, but now it's even
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becoming more profound. For me in a lot of ways. So I thought
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that was interesting to go that path. And it's you know, that's not
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an easy thing to do. Because there's a tree, there's an angel,
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because I've got lots of angels, statues and stuff. Um, there's a
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there's an Amy, and here's BEV. And it's like, these are all
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labels that are that only encompass a portion. When you say the name Amy,
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it only encompasses a portion of Amy because Amy is so much bigger than
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that, because it's not even amy, it's it's an energy. So it's
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it gets kind of confusing when we're where we're at right now, you know,
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playing this little human role. But if you take that with you know,
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we we have a videos called hurt People. Hurt People. So,
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um, if you look at people, you know, just oh guy,
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they're being an asshole today, You've just led them, right. But the
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fact is no, that person is just got something going on within them that
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is um contributing to them acting out the way they are. And that could
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be something in the moment, or it could be something that happened fifty years
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ago, right, So um, that's still stored in their in their being
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and so Um, you know, that's where I've I've learned because through the
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forgiveness process that I've done that compassion. When I look at people on their
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their behaving in a way that I don't agree with, it's not that I'm
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right and they're wrong. It's that's what they know how to do, and
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until they decide to do something different, that's how they're going to be.
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And it doesn't mean I need to hang out with them and try and change
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them and do all the coaching and you know, whatever I whatever I deem
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necessary. So but you know, just going along in the lines of what
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you're talking about is labeling, and I get it. You know, it's
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the easy stuff, right Amy Bev Tree Angel like, those are really easy
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things. But the bigger things, the jerks, the absolute people that get
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under your skin, the control freaks and the narcissists and all those it's same
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practice. Takes a little bit more on your part, but it's still the
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same practice. If you're labeling them, um, then you're you're putting them
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in this box. And even those people are so much more than what they're
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portraying themselves to be. At that time, I was listening to Matt Cohn
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recently. I don't know if you watched his interview yet with Alex, but
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it was interesting. Got noah, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, this
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is the second one, is the most recent one. Yeah yeah, well
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yeah. They were cracking me up too because how they were talking about,
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you know, just some of the foods. They were talking about ketchup and
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stuff like that, which was hilarious, talking about out you know, home
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home grown tomatoes or tomatoes fallen off the vine and just they were just being
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silly. Yeah. But he was talking about on their boundaries and I hadn't
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heard this before, but did you do you remember him talking about the boundaries
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and we set boundaries because that's that's where our limitations are. We can't that
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just that And he said, we're so afraid to talk about our limitations,
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right, because we're so afraid to be vulnerable. Not all of us,
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and we're certainly all learning. But he talks about we set up boundaries because
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that's our limits. Like I can only handle so much of listening to the
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news, and I've got a limit, right, And why why? Because
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my vibration is not as high. If I'm in a high vibration, I
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won't even notice that news cast even being playing on the TV or wherever.
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I won't even notice it. Yeah, you wouldn't even give it an attention.
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You wouldn't even be drawn to it at all. You wouldn't have the
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inkling to even turn the TV on to watch the news. Yeah, but
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when you're but if you watch back in our videos, you'll see that I've
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set my intentions before I've gone to family functions, and how that's played out.
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It's wonderful, But that's playing out at that level that I was at,
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right, So it doesn't even have to be at that space anymore.
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And it's and I understand this now. When you're trying to explain to someone
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else that's living in that space, they aren't ready to hear it. Typically
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most of them aren't. But you planted a seed and then who knows what
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comes from it? And and and we plan to seed. Doesn't mean there's
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anything wrong, right, there's nothing wrong with the other person. This is
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just where they're at on their journey. This is just where I'm at on
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my journey. Someone's so much more evolved than I am. If you want
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to put it in a if we wanted to label it, or you know,
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put it in some sort of degrees or varying levels. Yeah, but
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it's it's I find all that interesting. I find this whole the journey's changing,
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and I find that interesting. I do because I because I'm recognizing it.
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I'm recognizing like you said, you've had a lot, it's been a
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little bit quieter lately, or I don't know, it's bits I would say
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the same. I wouldn't say I've got two weeks off. Tomorrow will be
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two weeks so, and I've been able to really enjoy myself, really relax,
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enjoy the kids, my grandkids, enjoy the day. The weather doesn't
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matter if it's cool or if it's warm, which today it feels like it's
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going to be a little bit warm. Yesterday it was pretty warm. But
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it's it's just being in that space and enjoying those all those moments. Not
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Also, I think it was Matt con that I was listening to, or
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maybe it was Kyle Cease talking about our breath. Our breath is so important.
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It might have been even somebody else, but our breath is so important.
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You know, everyone's talking about meditation and do this and do that,
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but our breath is important. Our breath is what that's our energy, right,
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that's our life force that's coming in and out of us. So it's
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it's just even taken the time to breathe. I tell people all time,
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we get so stressed out. Oh I got to meditate. That back to
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the labels, right, I got I've got to meditate. And it's something
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that I'm doing instead of just being It's simple, but we make we make
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all these chores because we know, we know how to operate life with chores
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or things to do accomplishments, right, because then that makes us feel important
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and we get accolades and the ATA boys good jobs to help us feel accepted
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and loved. And you know, I don't know. I guess at some
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point we'll probably past that. But I enjoy those. I enjoy when someone
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says, you know, you're really doing a great job. But I'll turn
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around and tell them they're really doing a great job too. You know,
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it feels good. But I do I look forward to it? I think
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sometimes I have. Yeah, I think I have looked forward to it.
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And of course, when you have an attachment to an outcome, it never
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goes the way you expect it to go to or happen. So it's just
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this is just such a learning journey that we're on. And you know you're
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talking about the boundaries. It's and and you talked about setting the intentions before
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going to be at a family gathering. We're always evolving. And I know
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you know this, and I'm just saying this for the audience that if you
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go back and watch our videos almost three years ago, probably way different than
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we are today. So we're always evolving. We learn, we grow,
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we implement, or we learn, we implement, we grow. It's probably
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the process. We learn, we implement, we grow, and we keep
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evolving. And so you know, Bev and I I say this quite often,
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her and I are not immune to life where we still have our experiences
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and we are still evolving as human beings. I think for the most part,
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we're just open to the ideas. We're open to the growth and expansion.
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We're open to the teachings. We're open to learning something new and implementing
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it. I think that's key pieces. Yeah, implement, you have to
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implement everything to change. And so you know, one thing that as as
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my new journey in teaching classes and coaching was ground yourself, Ground you right,
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and just always come up, ground yourself, ground yourself, surround yourself
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with the angels and do this and do that. And then later so I
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did because our human side needs that. Our human side needs to be reminded
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that the angels are with us. God's with us. We're connected to the
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earth, were connected to the heavens or connect your right. We have all
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this stuff, but to remind us is a practice. To do it frequently,
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which is several times a day or once a day or whatever you need.
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But then you know later on the message came through that you really don't
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gotta do it once. I don't have to do it all time. It's
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like wow, really, it's not that I wanted to take that away from
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my plate of something else to do in my day, but it was like,
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huh, it's true. Right, We're always connected to God. We're
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always connected to angels. We're always connected to our loved ones in spirit.
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We're always connected to the ancestors. We're always connected to the earth. Like
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we how we always have all of it. So as as your belief systems
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change, as your practices change, like you will change, you will evolve
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in a way that feels good for you at that time. And that's why
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it's called learning, implementing, and growing, because you until you learn something
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new, you're not gonna do anything different. It's the same thing with I
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was in my mid thirties when I heard somebody, a teacher say, well,
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you know you can change your beliefs, this good thing. I was
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sitting down because I was like, what. I didn't know that till I
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was told that, right, So then I was told I'm like, oh,
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well, there you have it. Shit's gonna change now. So yeah,
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evolution, not only externally but definitely within ourselves, is a constant,
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constens based on all our experiences, all the people that we come into contact
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with. It is a constant for evolution. It is thus the change,
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right, That's where change is important. It's always happening. It's always happening.
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We don't have to do anything with it, just flow with it.
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Great. It's we put up so much resistance and that's out of habit,
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right, And that's the thinking of the doing and all this stuff. And
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I'm not saying that you just sit at home and don't do anything at all.
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I'm just saying, listen to your intuition, listen to what feels right
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for you. Because I did the same thing. I've had new people come
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in and they're so, well, I got to do this, and I've
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got to do this, and I've got to do that, and I'm like,
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okay, But eventually you won't have to. Eventually you'll be vibrating high
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enough or higher that that won't even cross your mind because it's not even necessary
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because there's no separation. How do you know awareness, If you're not paying
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attention to yourself, you're not going to have a clue when you dip down,
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so you can raise your vibration up higher instead of writing that, I
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don't even know what you would want to call it, just like being in
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that space stuck in the mud, although stuck in the mud can give you
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a chance for rest and relaxation too, so it doesn't have to mean that
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you're stuck. Because no matter what, we're constantly evolving, and as the
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world evolved, we're evolving, so our thoughts are going to change. The
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things that we believe are going to change, they are. Nothing's like set
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in stone, no, And that's why people. You know I don't like
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change, Well, if he didn't, if he didn't change, you would
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still be if he is in your mother's you wouldn't be in the human body.
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I mean you just like you could go back so far with that,
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like change, change goes with evolution. Change. We gotta have it,
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thank goodness. Yeah, because people want to go back, right, they
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want to go back to where it felt comfortable to them. Well, I
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would have said the probably the same thing at one time. I wouldn't mind
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to go back being a kid again, But I don't remember being a kid
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against that. Do I really want to go back to being a kid again,
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I don't know. I'm enjoying being a kid with my grandkids. There
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you have it, that's your that's your opportunity to connect to that playful side
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of you because you probably didn't have it. You probably had it, but
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not as much as you were when you were a child. Yeah, same
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for me. So and I Now my sister was born like within two years
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after I mean I think it was nineteen months or something like that, twenty
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months, so not even a whole two years. So that would have changed
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the dynamics of everything too, for you know, giving the one child the
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attention versus now you're giving a baby attention. You don't have a whole lot
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of room to pay attention to the other one because you gotta watch everything.
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You gotta watch them so they don't show if you got to watch them to
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make sure they're really I mean, there's a million things you pay attention to
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just to make sure they're okay, just the concerns of being a parent.
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And then add on top of that all the survival things, right, the
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job, the house keeping, the commitments, all the stuff. Yeahd on
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top of that. Yeah, so we learned how to be busy. That's
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really what that all that taught to us, that we learned how to keep
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ourselves busy, right, stay out. You don't get if you're keeping yourself
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busy if you're out doing the artwork. For me, if I was out
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doing something, that we're going to bother me to do something else because I
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was already doing something right, so they would leave me alone. Yeah,
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well that also comes with I just talked about this the other day. Is
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m if like in my household with my grandparents, you didn't say you were
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bored and you weren't just sitting there doing nothing, which is crazy, right
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because that doesn't allowed that's like heavy right there if they were walking around cleaning,
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you damned a little better be cleaning. You better be doing something.
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Your feet and body better be moving doing something. And that's that way.
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Don't be in there way no, no, exactly, And then that's that's
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a whole different dynamics that creates so much that we've brought forward that we think
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we have to constantly be doing stuff all the time. I still see people
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doing it, and it's like, Okay, I don't know. I don't
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try to offer them anything unless they're asking me for information what I think about
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something, and then I'll give it to them and I'll recognize that they still
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don't want to hear it, but they're you know, they're taking the time
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because they whether they paid me or whatever. Sometimes they just don't want to
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hear what you've what we've got to say. I was the same way sometimes
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you don't want to hear or you might say, oh, I know,
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I know, because I used to do that too, probably have even still
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since then. On occasion, usually I catch myself when I'm saying it,
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what am I saying? I know too? So I can make sure that
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I really do I really know? Hey, So that that comes down with
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the awareness too, because I want to if I don't really know, I
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want enough like show me, show me the way, yep. And that
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goes along with I need to put on this this facade that I'm smart enough,
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I'm good enough, I'm knowledgeable enough, right so that don't look like
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an idiot, so I don't look vulnerable. So so it just is a
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this perpetuating cycle if we don't change our beliefs and get into learning and growing,
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and you don't get to know people when they're like that. Honestly,
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because I've been those one of those persons that you carry a mask with you
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everywhere you go. You carry a mask to church, you carry a mask
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to work, You carry a mask too, when you go out with all
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the girls in the evening, you carry you know, I mean, there's
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always you carry a mask when you're or you wear a mask when you're with
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your kids, or you wear a mask when your kids friends are over,
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or there's just a million different ways. When you walk into the store when
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you're a lot of people do it, and that's just out of fear.
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You're just worried about somebody thinking that you're doing something wrong. And I recognize
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that I recognize that within myself, and I'm still recognizing it that I do
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that within myself. I still do it, not as much, but I
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have an awareness of it and also recognizing when I'm doing something I just don't
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like anymore, like why are you still doing that? So it's really feeling
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that like, well, you don't have to. It's it's just then having
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that inner dialogue with you and your inner child. Yeah, I did.
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I just did that. I committed to something. I did two times in
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a week. I committed to something because I wanted that, well, that
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fixer mode, the people pleasing mode, the wanting to you know, feel
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accepted, all that stuff. Twice in one week, to two different people.
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I made a commitment. And then I got home and I was like,
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why did you? Why did you do that? Why did you you?
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You are like thin on energy and time, and why would you compromise
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yourself and committing to something that's going to really hinder that, especially in my
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time? And I was like, and I sent messages to both of them.
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It was two different occasions, and I just sent I was like,
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listen, I committed this, and I have to apologize, right, I
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apologize, And just I really cannot. I don't actually have the time to
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do this. So anyway, I you know, express myself to them,
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and and then sat with I was like, wow, we're really trying to
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be a people pleaser here, aren't you. I totally hear you get saying
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I would say saying someone else was having a thing. And then I'm thinking
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of all ways, back to the old habit of now my mind's thinking of
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every single possible way how could I possibly help them, And it's they don't
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want to help yet, because that you could hear the conversation. So it's
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not that I was I'm holding back, but I'm trying to find some way
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to the same thing so that they look at me differently, so that they
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appreciate me more. So, whatever the reasons are, same thing, same
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thing, Not even necessary though, But that's that was because of the training
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that we received as children. I feel like, right and and then past
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my old person would have continued through it painfully, stuffer. And then you
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honored yourself, which is awesome. Yeah, so so to be and that
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again, it's part of my evolution to recognize it. I mean, even
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as soon as it came out of my mouth, I was like the girl,
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how do you do it? So then I had to go and sit
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with it and process them, like, okay, what's going on here?
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You're showing up like this, what's going on? Right? And just have
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that inner inquiry. That's us being self curious about myself and then saying I
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do allowing myself, giving myself permission to say I can't do this. Yes,
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I committed to it, but I was out of line by committing and
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I can't do it. So yeah, but from a full from you,
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if you look at it from a bigger picture, now you're helping someone else
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recognize, hey, it's okay, it's okay if I have over committed myself
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for me to go ahead and tell them I can't do it, and you
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also gave them an idea of how to do it. Well, you know,
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the second person that I did it with, I sent her the message
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and she's like, oh, sorry, I wasn't gonna do it anyway.
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Okay, great, because we were going to meet and do something together and
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I'm like, listen, I don't and it was gonna take about two to
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four hours, and I'm just like, now I can't commit. Yeah,
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I got to back out of this one and she's like, oh, sorry,
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I don't feel like doing it anyway, still trying, probably hoping to
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get someone else to be the motivation and to help get her to do the
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thing, whatever the thing was. When it's just she might have felt committed
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to do it because I committed to do it for me, and we both
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would have been miserable. So it's like it worked out, you know.
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Yeah. And it's also to recognize because sometimes I feel like we do things
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like that because they want us to write. So it's if we're not.
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That goes back to the part of the conversation about vibrating at a high vibration
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and then we're not affected by things around us. But sometimes where we're not,
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sometimes we're almost a match to the person across from us, and next
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thing you know, we're saying things or doing things. It's like, God,
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damn it, that's not really what I wanted. So when this some
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of those times this happens to me, I stopped and I'm like, is
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this was this my energy? Or is this energy that I'm feeling from the
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person that's really hopeful that I'm going to do this. I've heard psychics,
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you know, psychic mediums say, I'll give them the information as I'm receiving
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it, not what they want to receive. Yeah, because our wanting it's
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palpable. And when when you're connected like that and you're listening, you're not
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hearing it and you're feeling it and you're in that person's energy at that moment.
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Right, So it's just recognizing, is this's mine and I did I
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go ahead and do that for myself? Am I behaving this way? Just
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like we talked about recently, I go into the gym and all of a
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sudden, I might be a totally different might have a different mask on right,
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I'm just I'm that old mask that I used to wear that I used
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to joke around and everything else, and it's I'm it doesn't resonate with me
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anymore. So now I just noticed that. I'll kind of smile or I'll
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say, you know, I don't really contribute much to the conversation, and
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I don't try to like find always try to find like some guru type of
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answer to have for somebody. But it's just being aware that. It's just
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being aware. It's just what feels good to me and what doesn't feel good
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and getting when you're so aware that you're now you're so in touch with yourself,
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you're learning so much about yourself that when something subtly doesn't feel right to
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you, you're you're already honoring that and you're listening to it, and that's
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how you're moving afford or even navigating. So it's just it's fun. It's
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fun unless we get caught, you know, unless you unless things are going
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like a snowball down the mountain and you just can't slow it down and you're
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just watching ship flying by you like, I don't know how to navigate this,
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what to do? You don't have to navigate anything. Just let go,
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hold your hands in and wait till it hits the bottom. Then you'll
26:22
be okay. Then you can climb out of it or crawl out of it
26:26
and make your way back up. Everything comes to an end at some point.
26:30
It all comes to an end. So well, otherwise we're still being
26:33
non physical. Great if we're if we're in the non physical, then we're
26:37
in a space of joy, and we're in a space of bliss, and
26:40
we're in this great space all the time. Here we have the luxury of
26:44
feeling pain. We have the luxury of filling anxiety, anger, sadness,
26:51
joy, and then we have we have the the awesomeness of being able to
26:55
fill the difference between each one of them, right, and then realize,
27:00
now, this doesn't feel good to me. Although the first part of my
27:03
life, most of most things didn't feel good to me, and I was
27:06
still doing them anyways. I was working in jobs I certainly didn't want to
27:08
be in, but but really I wasn't happy on the inside at all.
27:15
Well, that all contributes to the addiction of the drama, the addiction of
27:19
because we want that. It creates that adrenaline rush when we're in the middle
27:26
of drama and our you know, senses are heightened and we're on high alert,
27:32
and it's it's an addiction to not only the suffering because that's what we
27:38
believe we deserve, but it's also an addiction to what's going on in our
27:44
body with them. Is that the cortisol, the adrenaline like all that's amplified
27:52
when you're stressed out, well, totally affects your blood, sugars and everything
27:57
like that. That's a that's a snowball effect right there. Yeah, and
28:03
then that contributes to the other addiction of smoking and sugar and eating and shopping
28:08
and porn and all the other stuff. So it's like, that's your snowball.
28:12
You're lailing in this snowball as it's rolling and has all this momentum,
28:21
and either you ride out till it stops, or you figure out something to
28:26
do different. Yeah, because that's all distraction, do it. I said,
28:33
that's all distraction. Addictions distraction to me, you're just distracting yourself from
28:37
yourself because sometimes we can't deal with the emotion and little feelings that we have
28:42
withinside. And then it's learning how to just take a little tiny bite at
28:45
it, you know, just a little tiny piece of it, instead of
28:48
trying to overcome everything at one time. Yeah. I've been on this journey
28:55
for twenty years, and every time I say that, I'm just like,
29:00
wow, look at me. Go right, I celebrate it now. In
29:03
the beginning, it was I was hitting walls and tripping over speed bumps and
29:08
all kinds of shit. It was it was you just would have put me
29:12
in bubble wrap because I just felt like everything went sideways and um. But
29:19
the more practice and change and evolve and learn and grow, it's like I
29:26
said, and doing that full moon ceremony, what am I struggling with?
29:32
It had to really dig deep, is it? What am I struggling with
29:34
anything? Right now? Yeah? I imagine it would get to the plane
29:41
of you're like reaching for just things. I just want to remove any blocks,
29:45
any blocks that I might have on my path. I mean, then
29:48
it become so generic, right instead of so but that's where the energy is
29:53
at right now. I feel like it is kind of in that space you're
29:56
you would have to be reaching for. I feel like you would be reaching
30:00
for something because that's how it just feels lately. Well just also affirmed to
30:06
me, I'm not focused on that stuff, true, right, So full
30:11
moon, so the audience knows a full moon during a full moon is a
30:14
time of releasing. So anything you're hanging onto attachments, as far as situations
30:19
and people of the past, they're still causing those uncomfortable emotions within yourself.
30:25
Those are you know, or maybe you're in the middle of something right now,
30:27
maybe you're in a divorce or losing a job or anything that's creating that
30:33
unsettledness within yourself. Those would be the things that we want to bring up
30:38
and out write them. Writing is a great way to do that, and
30:42
then do your own ceremony of releasing it, which I use burning fire to
30:48
burn the paper and I call them my angels and God and ask them to
30:53
help me transmut all that back into love and that I don't need to hang
30:57
onto it. So then with the new moon, new moon is about setting
31:03
your intentions. What do you want to bring to yourself? What do you
31:06
want? And it's so much easier now to do the new moon ceremony than
31:12
it is the full moon ceremony. Now, back in the day twenty years
31:17
plus years ago, the full moon ceremony was way easier for the releasing because
31:23
I knew all kinds of shit I wanted to get rid of. And the
31:26
new moon ceremony I didn't like it because I didn't know what I wanted.
31:30
And now that just shows that in my evolution, that how much I have
31:36
changed polarities. Now I'm more focused on what I want to intend, my
31:41
intentions, my wants, my desires, my goals, and it's like I'm
31:48
not looking back an I'm not say anymore but far less than what I used
31:53
to. So that's great. So when you get to point like that you
32:00
can just look at yourself and go, wow, look at look where I'm
32:02
at, Look where I was. I feel amazing about it, and that,
32:07
you know, just talking about it out loud, because I really hadn't
32:10
talked about it. It's a huge acknowledgement. And we need those everyonce somewhile
32:17
so we can be our own cheerleader, right, because we don't always get
32:21
those accolades that we can cheer ourselves on and be like, dang, look
32:24
at you go, girl, not even you know, you gotta figure out.
32:29
You gotta dig deep into something you're trying to release during a full moon
32:32
ceremony. That is phenomenal. That is so good. It is, it
32:42
is, And it's just like we've talked about so many times, really just
32:45
honoring yourself and looking at all the things you do good in the day.
32:51
I think that we think we do so much bad because I say that because
32:54
I know I have felt this way, that we do so many things that
32:58
are bad and wrong, that we're not worthy of anything. But we don't
33:00
ever stop and look at all the good stuff. And if we started looking
33:04
at all the good stuff, we would find that there was far more of
33:07
the good stuffs than there is of the bad stuff to what we would could
33:08
label as bad that just doesn't feel good. And you know, being your
33:14
cheerleader in those times when you feel like you're stuck, that's the time like
33:17
go back to your notebook and like you kids, you keep a notebook and
33:21
stuff, and go back to a notebook where you've journaled hopefully and written down
33:24
stuff that you've been doing good and you're how much you've evolved and things that
33:28
they've changed, because it is, gosh, it makes you feel unstuck when
33:31
you start looking at all the stuff that you're like, oh my gosh,
33:35
I really have come a long way. And of course, I guess if
33:37
I took my own advice to look listen to our first video or two,
33:40
I'd probably be like, who the hell is that? Man? She used
33:45
to be? She used to believe that shit? Right? I say it
33:49
like that because you go with what we resonate with. And it was just
33:52
like that was a doorway. That was a doorway to get you into paying
33:55
attention to yourself. There was a doorway for us to for our ascentsion the
34:00
smallest little things. And then as time goes over or as time flows,
34:07
we start changing, we start changing and noticing all those things, and that's
34:09
it's a wonderful thing because I'm so glad that I am the person that I
34:13
am today than I was before, because I wasn't. I wasn't even happy
34:19
on the inside. And that's another big thing too. I've heard, you
34:23
know, because we think you think about people ask when you're on your transformation
34:30
journey, when you've kind of gotten on the other side of all the bullshit
34:35
and you're on this more rewarding path, which would I would equate myself too
34:40
right now is is would you go back and change any of it? And
34:45
I have not heard one teacher, one author. I've not heard anybody say
34:52
yes, I would go back and change it. And I've also heard a
34:57
handful of people who were born into families or you know, at least a
35:04
parent or parent that had a meditation practice, that had some kind of not
35:09
religious practice but spiritual practice that and even they were unsettled that they grew up
35:16
having these tools and then when they got to where they were out on their
35:22
own, they went like in a whole different direction with chaos and drama and
35:29
all the stuff, and then came back to the practices that they were born
35:34
into with their family, and it's like, wow, we learn through the
35:40
hardships, We learned through the heart, the difficult moments, the challenges,
35:45
and if it was just easy, breezy piece of cake. Some people do
35:52
have that life. And it's probably because they're very old souls. And I'm
35:55
trying to explain this away right now, so that they're probably very old souls
36:00
and they're here to show us. They're here to be examples of that,
36:05
Yes you can have money, Yes you can, you can love life and
36:08
love people and all the things, like, you can do all that,
36:13
and those people, I feel like they're here to be examples for us,
36:16
and they have an extremely amazing life. And then there's also people like that
36:22
whom they actually had a really really really difficult childhood and when they became old
36:30
enough to discern life, the rest of their life was amazing. Like there's
36:37
those stories as well. So, yeah, even as much as even as
36:43
much as they've sucked, if I hadn't gone through what I went through,
36:50
I wouldn't have taken the path I had taken, and I wouldn't be here.
36:53
I physically would not be on this planet, guaranteed, so it took
37:01
challenges. It took asking the questions, what else is there for life?
37:07
What is life all about? What is what? Why? Why are we
37:14
in these physical bodies? Why do we? Why are we born and we
37:16
die? What's the purpose? Right? And all those questions that come along
37:22
with that. Because I kept asking those questions internally, it wasn't an external
37:27
question. I kept getting the guidance and it was presented to me in a
37:34
way that I could receive it at that time. Now I just mentioned I've
37:37
been doing this journey for like twenty years of transformation, still going through transformation
37:44
process. As I mentioned two people in a week. I overcommitted myself.
37:49
And it's okay. Some people get it easy, peasy. They can make
37:55
a change within a year. Some people are slower on a different journey,
38:00
different path. But we get the information at the time in which we can
38:07
receive it and be ready to make those those are implement it and make those
38:12
changes. And so there's no comparison of the journey. There's no comparison between
38:17
me and Bev and our journeys. We're here. She sees things differently than
38:21
I do sometimes and it brings a word. I'm like Wow, Okay,
38:24
and think about that like that. And I've been on this journey a lot,
38:29
much longer than she has, and we're still helping each other, we're
38:32
still encouraging each other, we're still coming here every week and have these conversations,
38:37
and we still learn from each other. And so it's amazing that we're
38:42
not here to do this by ourselves, absolutely ever, and we're never by
38:47
ourselves. We're just never by ourselves. I guess the more that we can
38:52
start everyone can start seeing, that will be it'll that'll be another huge evolution.
38:58
Yeah. I just listen again again. Alex just released another video of
39:01
this guy who had a near death experience and his explanation of what he experienced
39:07
on the other side and all this stuff, and it was really a great
39:14
listen, you know, it was. It was very good. And what
39:19
I found too, though, some of the things that he said were similar
39:22
to what I read in Sylvia Brown's book, which got me on this journey
39:27
at twenty eight. Gotcha, So it's like interesting, isn't that interesting?
39:34
Here we are twenty years later, well, twenty eight, twenty five years
39:38
later? Holy? How so amazing that I'm hearing the same information again.
39:47
It is, and it's it's being it's ben said for a long time,
39:52
and it continues a million different directions, right, a million different ways.
40:00
So our spears, right, just has the show up. That's all one
40:05
of those ways it has of the show up that we hear it. Can
40:07
we grab a hold of it? Yeah? What what is it we need?
40:12
It's like on the cartoons and stuff when there's there's something go buy and
40:15
they grab onto it and they're just like whip through you know, it's like
40:21
the fast track or something. Yeah, that's that's that's like real stuff right
40:24
there. Yeah, we do grab a hold of something that totally changes the
40:29
way we look at everything. Just just like they're just dropping the labels,
40:32
just looking around, just just looking at the mountains without calling the mountains or
40:38
of a tree or the Spanish daggers or the grass or whatever. The dogs,
40:43
the cats, the critters, and of course me, I'm always walking
40:46
around outside like, oh, keep them all safe. Well, they can't
40:49
all stay safe. Someone's gonna have to die. I mean, that's the
40:52
way it goes, because it's survival, right, It's the circle of life.
41:00
One of the great things to you. I mean, wanted to mention.
41:01
Is this The interview I listened to with Alex says, this guy grew
41:07
up Catholic and his dad was a Marine Corps in the Marine Corps. Now,
41:12
if you know anything about the Marine Corps, they get sitting their ways
41:16
and that's the way it is. And then you add Catholicism on top of
41:21
it. Oh my, and so this guy had quite the upbringing and then
41:29
he has this near death experience, has this incredible experience on the other side,
41:34
and all this information that he was brought forward and now he's just like
41:39
his dad still goes to church and still sitting his ways, and this gentleman
41:47
he's like, yeah, he still encouraged me to go to Catholic church.
41:52
But I'm like, no, I don't think so, because he was opened
42:00
up to something much bigger, something else in those you know, I think
42:05
that you know, like the near death experiences, those people are having those
42:09
experiences so they can come back and share with us for any if anything,
42:15
it brings hope, especially to people. What I find, especially to people
42:21
who have lost children. I think they're the ones that are impacted the most.
42:27
Yes, it's you know, it's it's it can feel hard when you
42:30
lose family members or close friends, but people who have lost children, I
42:39
would I don't know what that's like. I can't even imagine what it's like
42:45
to go through that. And I know that these messages are coming forward to
42:51
help these people. Yeah, and it doesn't matter what age they are,
42:54
no, you know. That was one thing recently I had sent Jim's mom
42:59
and out of a message and I apologize because I didn't contact when when I
43:04
had to found Jim. I didn't contact his parents. I didn't contact anybody.
43:07
The kids came in and they're like, well, who who should we
43:10
call. I'm like, called Julie, which is his sister, called Julie.
43:14
Then she can get ahold of everybody because I know that he had a
43:16
very close relationship. And I'm not saying that he didn't have a close relationship
43:20
with his parents, but he was close with his sister Julie. He has
43:22
another sister named Susie too, but um and I had cent her a thing
43:27
and like, I'm I'm I just want you to know that he cared so
43:30
much about you guys, you know, But I also want you to know
43:31
that I'm sorry. I'm sorry I didn't get ahold of you. That day,
43:35
I was, you know it. I was not expecting any of this
43:38
to happen. This was the last thing that was ever that I expected.
43:43
And she says, well, she says, I was at this grocery store,
43:46
and she says, I was never mad. She says, I was
43:50
just trying to process because me being a mom and I now I've lost my
43:53
son. You know, my son's no longer here. I feel like a
43:57
part of me is missing. But I couldn't have seen that when that first,
44:00
when all this first happened, because I was dealing with my own grief.
44:04
So to listen to her afterwards, and it's like, well, I
44:07
have no clue. I've lost my brother transition, my mom transition, and
44:10
Jim transitions. So it's like, there's I don't have that experience. I
44:16
don't And and it, like I said, it doesn't matter the age,
44:20
because she hears she's old. You know, they're older, and Jim was
44:23
fifty four when he transitions. So it's it's a lot to deal with.
44:29
It's a lot. It's a lot for that emotional but I also know at
44:31
the other side of that, everything happens for our evolution and it's just however
44:37
we want to look at it. We can grow from every single situation everything
44:40
I can find a positive from or like used to always we used to always
44:44
to talk about the gold nugget. There's always a golden nugget. There always
44:47
is there just is there, just is sometimes we have to reach to find
44:53
that. But but it's but it also changes the energy of the situation because
44:59
we don't I have Some people might say, oh, well, that's you
45:01
know, if you if, for an example, if I was going back
45:04
to a timeframe and back to being in the uters, if I wanted to
45:08
go all the way back to that timeframe and imagine how I was being supported
45:12
and loved and felt all that stuff, It doesn't change the experience, but
45:16
it changes the energy of the experience. You're no longer holding onto something so
45:21
that you become more neutral in that space of looking at things. And it
45:25
doesn't really does make a big difference. It really does. But how do
45:30
we know without going through all these things, I wouldn't know. I wouldn't
45:35
know. My mom transitioning and my brother transitioning were one thing. But then
45:38
when Jim transition that like totally threw me off my whole path. My god,
45:44
I had to look at myself because I couldn't, which I'm having a
45:46
realization now, I couldn't look at him and see like, well you're drinking,
45:52
you know what I mean. I had no one to blame any longer
45:54
because that person that that part of the blame was gone. That was it
45:59
was no or happening. It was done. You couldn't blame You could no
46:01
longer blame him for your unhappiness. But in a sense you should because he
46:06
died for a little bit. But then it was like then then it was
46:09
a journey of h This isn't about the transition of Jim. This is about
46:14
the transition of depth, right. But I'm always planned on Yeah, but
46:19
a lot of people do that. Yes, persons alive, so you're blamed
46:22
because of their behavior. You're blaming them for your unhappiness. And then they
46:29
die and I'm using die for a reason. Yeah, they die, and
46:34
now you're blaming them when they're not even on the planet. You're blaming them
46:37
now for your unhappiness because they died. That's all internal work. My friends
46:44
all into the work, and Beverly's talking about she did no longer had somebody
46:50
outside of her to blame for her unhappiness, because nobody can make you happy.
46:55
Nobody on this planet can make you happy or feel joy. That is
47:02
all internal work, it is, and if it happens, it happens in
47:07
blips, right, And then you become like, oh, I want some
47:09
more of that. That's almost like that addiction, looking for that whole,
47:13
like, hey, where is it? Yeah, that's right, it's right.
47:17
And then and the truth was it? What? Like you said,
47:20
it wasn't him that was making me unhappy. It wasn't the drinking that was
47:23
making me unhappy. I was not happy. But you could have told me
47:28
that all day long and I wouldn't have figured it out. It just didn't
47:30
make sense to you. It's like, what the fuck are you talking about?
47:31
I'm living with someone. You know that we've had those conversations, you
47:37
and I. We have had those conversations. We have we have off of
47:40
that, we mad these conversations. Yeah, we have. But it's important.
47:46
I feel like it's important for people to hear that. It's because it's
47:50
not set in stone, and it really was. It was a time for
47:52
me to really look at myself, like how have I been? And it's
47:54
been gm will be this November will be three years because time, that's the
48:01
time here. That's how it's gone for him. It's probably like a blip.
48:05
He's like, I'm still right here. You know, he's been here
48:07
all along. And I get messages from him all the time, which I'll
48:10
I share with the kids and stuff like that. So but it's just and
48:15
you have a better communication with him now because you can feel him, you
48:21
can hear him, you you have this, He's so much more readily available
48:28
to you as well with that connection. Yeah, and he's you know,
48:32
you're on this new journey about learning about channeling and all that, and he's
48:37
there to help and encourage you as well in spirit form, which is funny
48:47
as you're telling me this, he I hear gateway. He's the gateway for
48:51
that. He is the gateway for that for me. Yeah. Yeah,
48:55
So it's just it's a it's an interesting journey. And so for his arns
49:00
for that loss, I prefer to be where I'm at now that I know
49:04
that they're still around. Is there there's times that it's you know, I'm
49:07
around the kids and I feel their energy right and when they're when they're missing
49:12
them. When they're crying about it, I'm I cry with them because it's
49:15
like I missed. I can feel everything that they're how they feel, and
49:21
it's it makes sense when we're looking at this physical. But that's the thing.
49:23
We've been trained to look so physical, right, We've been trained to
49:27
be consumers. We've been trained to be um. Just be good, good
49:31
little boys and girls and go do your job. When we didn't come here,
49:35
we didn't all like say, oh, I'm going to go down there
49:37
play on the planet so I can work eighty hours a week and then complain
49:43
about not having any time for myself and then try to raise kids. And
49:45
then I'll go by, you know, I'll get a few dogs and some
49:49
cats and build a farm, and then I'll wonder where my time all went.
49:52
And now I'm, you know, a thousand and wondering when is this
49:55
going to end? Yeah, I'd rather you're enjoying the whole journey, the
50:00
whole way, and be all of a sudden like blinking air. Girl,
50:05
It's like, what the fuck? Man? I was having a good time,
50:08
right, I wasn't ready yet. Yeah, That's how I would rather
50:14
be that way, instead of being like even at the end of the road,
50:16
like, oh my gosh, I should have done all this stuff,
50:21
should have, could have would a Yeah, it doesn't get you anywhere.
50:25
It keeps you right where you're at. I had you know, you're talking
50:31
about lots of kids. I had a conversation with the lady just the other
50:35
day and she said, she's talking about her two children that she had lost
50:38
in an auto accident eleven years ago, and she's like, I want to
50:44
celebrate them, but I don't know how eleven years later. And I'm like,
50:49
sister, of course I have to ask permission. Are you open to
50:54
hearing ways to do that? You know? So so we sat now that
50:59
conversation and like, eleven years but that that physical, the lack of the
51:07
physical and the trauma of how you know, people transition, just puts us
51:15
in a space where it's not okay for me to celebrate them. It's not
51:20
okay for me to be joyful and acknowledge them. It's not okay for me
51:24
to be laughing on the day that they transition, you know. So we
51:30
put ourselves in that container, that box, that prison, that bondage,
51:35
and and we're not meant to do that. Yeah, it's okay to feel
51:38
the pain and the hurt and the sorrow and the grief, but you're not
51:42
meant to stay in that. No. I even had a client recently because
51:47
her husband had transitioned recently, and she's so afraid that she's going to do
51:52
something wrong, Like I was praying, I just wanted to have a dream
51:57
with it. Is that wrong? Like is that wrong to like so afraid
52:00
that they're doing something wrong? So afraid? And we and I know that
52:04
goes much deeper than that, when all along the this this person would always
52:09
show on the outside they're happy, always on the happy, cracking jokes and
52:15
being silly and smiling, and it's like there's so much more to a person,
52:20
But you don't know until you get to know somebody. Yeah, really
52:23
until you listen. And it's listening with everything, your whole suit, your
52:28
antenna, listening with that, listening with your intuition and listening what are you
52:32
seeing from your third eye? What are you where are you really hearing right
52:36
now? Like really using And that's play to be in that space as a
52:40
play place, because then you start receiving information that's so simple and it's so
52:46
beneficial for yourself and the other person that you're having the conversation with. Yeah,
52:51
for everybody else that's out there listening, I know you do this already.
53:00
It just makes it. It just makes life easier. And then that's
53:02
where we show up for the greater good of all because we're not here to
53:07
fix somebody because they're not broken. But we're here as a guy, just
53:09
like our guides that are not in the non physical right now are here for
53:13
us. They're here encouraging us along the way, and we're doing the same
53:15
thing. We're GUIDs just like our guides. Our guys are helping us because
53:22
we're marchin and then we're because we're we've we're evolving and growing. We're providing
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guidance to other people of where they are now where we used to be.
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Yes. So it's a continuous flow of helping supporting all along the way.
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And guess what, our guides don't sit there and like, oh my god,
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she's doing it again. Yeah, no labels, no judgment. Yeah,
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she asked us for this information and she's not listening. I gave it
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to her fifteen times in the last fifteen seconds, right, and she's still
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okay, never mind I'm done, I'm taking a break for two days.
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I'll be back. Yeah, that doesn't happen like that. It doesn't happen
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like that. But they don't have an expectation of us, right. We
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ask and they give us an answer, and it's up to us at that
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time to make a choice. Yeah, are you up and aware and alert
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and in the present moment to receive the messages? Or are do you have
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your head down in your phone playing a game and oblivious to what's going on
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around you? Distractions the comparison, right, and so so, yeah,
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you're your your guide, your your spirit team. They're not rolling their eyes
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and judging you and can't wait for you to die so that they can get
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a vacation. They're not doing any of that. They're cheering us on and
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supporting us and absolutely there to help us with love. And that's the same.
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That's those are That's a good but you know that's something to pay attention
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to. That's that's how we want to be. Yeah, because it's the
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same. And if they do make a mistake or whatever, it's not I
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told you so, it's just being there and love and support, being neutral,
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but still being love and support. Right, neutral and the meaning of
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not trying the things that you have to go and fix it. And oh
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my god, you did it again. We just had this conversation why are
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you doing this again? So here, you know, when somebody does that,
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when you give him the side eye, you're just like sorry, as
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our guides are just like, really, you're gonna do this again? Really
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you missed that message? Too heavy sigh. Nah, they're on the side.
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They're like, hey, she's doing it again. She'll figure it out
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this time. Okay, still figure it out. I thank god this I
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see. I like to make it all common goal and yeah, because I
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I do by that with myself. Really, you over committed yourself again.
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What did you do that for? Get myself? The side I too funny.
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It's hilarious actually when I think about our spirit teams watching over us and
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guiding us and cheering us on. And oh look she stumbled and fell again.
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She'll get back up. She's gonna get back up. She's gonna keep
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going. That's been my life journey. Keep going with hurricane winds and I'm
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walking against the wind. Yeah, keep going, like you're gonna get through
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this. The storm's gonna pass. Keep going wasn't fun. I'm not claiming
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it was fun. I'm not claiming I loved it in any way, shape
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or form. But it has contributed to where I'm at right now, so
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absolutely. And the opposite of that is to blame all those people who contributed
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to my life experiences that were not fun and no way, shape or form,
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and continue to blame them and continue to hang onto the anger and the
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shame and the guilt and the resentments and continue to live my life in that
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space until I take my last breath. That's the option. That was the
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option, and I didn't like it in my teens and my twenties. And
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so without having that and asking the questions, is there something more to life?
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What's purpose of life? Why are we here? I wouldn't receive the
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information and the guidance that I've received with which Bev and I show up now
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every week and talk about So we talk about our life experiences. That's what's
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going on our life, and how we're processing and how we're looking at it,
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how we could look at it. Right, Yeah, we're just we're
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just freaking showing up and talking about our stuff. Right. Being vulnerable,
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We're practicing being vulnerable on a regular basis and not just with each other.
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Like how many millions of people could watch this like this is out in the
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Eather brand. We're just like here. It is what you do with that
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your business. If you resonate not, that's okay too. Yeah, no,
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biggie, it's not a big deal. It's it's a journey. So
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I hope everyone finds their journey to be pleasant and gravitate towards whatever you hear.
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And any time they hear anything that we say that it gives them something
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that they can work with to evolve. Right, Learn, implement, grow,
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It's all you need to remember. Learn, implement, grow. If
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you want something different in your life, takes you, you as the person
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to make the changes that you want to have a better life. Nobody can
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do that for you. Nobody, And you wouldn't wanted to do it for
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you anyways, wouldn't anyway? You still would, you would grow, You
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would you would get better because then you depending on somebody else to take care
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of it for you. Yeah. Any final words make a magical week?
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Absolutely all right, my friends, that is our conversation for today. I
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hope you got something out of it. Thanks for hanging out with us,
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tea time with Amy and Beth. Share it with your friends. You know
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there's somebody that could benefit from this conversation. So with that, thank you
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for your time and energy, and we'll see you next time. Good Bye,